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Speaker 2: that's like a violation, that's very muggy. I'm not gonna

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Speaker 1: Have you just tember? Can we play some Christmas music?

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Speaker 2: Mistletoe is my personal favorite Christmas songs.

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Speaker 1: Play something in the back.

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Speaker 2: What's your favorite Christmas song?

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Speaker 1: Snowman by Sea?

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Speaker 2: You do love that?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? I love it. Missletoe is forever going to be like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: Just a little bit of chest it's stinging. And what's

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Speaker 2: that one? I don't know, No, I keep saying all

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Speaker 1: All right, easy, How do you truly feel about this

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Speaker 1: Completely. I think people like always just like get way

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Speaker 2: This is one I've always personally loved listening to. I

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they're always a good We.

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Speaker 2: Got hundreds of submissions for this one, guys, so we

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Speaker 2: So story one, my friend has incontinents slash bowel issues

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Speaker 1: She's sister, you.

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Speaker 2: No, but like I kind of like usher them off

438
00:19:22,400 --> 00:19:24,240
Speaker 2: and take them back to their room. I wouldn't be like,

439
00:19:24,280 --> 00:19:25,840
Speaker 2: all right, I'm just going to continue to read, So

440
00:19:25,920 --> 00:19:28,800
Speaker 2: go you babe. After about five or so minutes, I

441
00:19:28,840 --> 00:19:31,480
Speaker 2: smell something putrid and then I felt moisture on my

442
00:19:31,560 --> 00:19:36,240
Speaker 2: pj's Oh my god, I lift me and try waking

443
00:19:36,240 --> 00:19:38,679
Speaker 2: her up. As she stands, I see she has shouted

444
00:19:39,200 --> 00:19:42,440
Speaker 2: all over me, thinking I was a fucking toilet.

445
00:19:45,080 --> 00:19:46,040
Speaker 1: That's horrendous.

446
00:19:46,040 --> 00:19:47,480
Speaker 2: I moved out the day after.

447
00:19:48,080 --> 00:19:49,800
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Oh my friends with her.

448
00:19:50,960 --> 00:19:53,760
Speaker 2: I need to know, you would be I would move out,

449
00:19:53,800 --> 00:19:56,560
Speaker 2: though she wouldn't know you want that to happen again.

450
00:19:57,280 --> 00:19:59,240
Speaker 1: No, I wouldn't move out with someone because they shout

451
00:19:59,320 --> 00:19:59,520
Speaker 1: on me.

452
00:19:59,560 --> 00:20:01,680
Speaker 2: It wasn't a intentional I know, but I would worry

453
00:20:01,680 --> 00:20:03,440
Speaker 2: that it would occur again.

454
00:20:03,240 --> 00:20:05,840
Speaker 1: I think maybe the second time. I probably would be like.

455
00:20:05,800 --> 00:20:09,560
Speaker 2: Hey, i' no, you've pood on me. I wouldn't allow

456
00:20:09,640 --> 00:20:13,400
Speaker 2: that to be a second time. I understand this, love ya,

457
00:20:13,440 --> 00:20:14,760
Speaker 2: but not gonna happen again.

458
00:20:15,400 --> 00:20:20,200
Speaker 1: Wow, that's funny. I'm just like, I just think, because

459
00:20:20,480 --> 00:20:23,600
Speaker 1: obviously I have housemates I think of like every time,

460
00:20:23,640 --> 00:20:25,960
Speaker 1: I'm just like putting myself in this situation. Yeah, Like

461
00:20:26,320 --> 00:20:30,440
Speaker 1: if Lily shadow on me, I wouldn't move out. Yeah,

462
00:20:30,680 --> 00:20:32,200
Speaker 1: but I turned it into a bit of a meme.

463
00:20:32,960 --> 00:20:35,000
Speaker 1: Shadow me, bitch, fucking.

464
00:20:35,240 --> 00:20:38,600
Speaker 2: You owe me? You clean the house next year, all right?

465
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Speaker 1: Story number two. When I lived in staff accommodation on

466
00:20:42,119 --> 00:20:44,720
Speaker 1: a working holiday, I shared a room with another girl.

467
00:20:45,200 --> 00:20:47,840
Speaker 1: One night, I was preeing at another friend's place to

468
00:20:47,920 --> 00:20:50,159
Speaker 1: all go to the staff bar and ended up tripping over,

469
00:20:50,440 --> 00:20:53,280
Speaker 1: slamming my head into the coffee table, and concussing myself.

470
00:20:53,880 --> 00:20:57,320
Speaker 1: Oh that's horrible. I got carried back to my room

471
00:20:57,400 --> 00:20:59,720
Speaker 1: and left to sleep. I'm not sure if that was

472
00:20:59,720 --> 00:21:01,960
Speaker 1: a good idea. I ended up throwing up all over

473
00:21:02,000 --> 00:21:04,560
Speaker 1: my single bed, and when my friends came back to

474
00:21:04,640 --> 00:21:07,080
Speaker 1: check on me, they pulled the vomit covered douvet off

475
00:21:07,160 --> 00:21:09,360
Speaker 1: me and onto the floor. My roumor had a boy

476
00:21:09,400 --> 00:21:11,840
Speaker 1: at the time who would let himself in and stay

477
00:21:12,240 --> 00:21:14,840
Speaker 1: in her bed or both of them together. On this night,

478
00:21:14,880 --> 00:21:17,480
Speaker 1: he'd come over drunk before she got home, passed out

479
00:21:17,520 --> 00:21:18,080
Speaker 1: in her bed.

480
00:21:18,359 --> 00:21:19,040
Speaker 2: But took my.

481
00:21:19,080 --> 00:21:23,840
Speaker 1: Vomit, Oh no, but took my vomit covered douvet to

482
00:21:24,320 --> 00:21:27,240
Speaker 1: cuddle up with for the night. Between the concussion for

483
00:21:27,359 --> 00:21:30,320
Speaker 1: me and the hangover him, the aroma voments spread across

484
00:21:30,320 --> 00:21:34,120
Speaker 1: the tiny room. It was certainly a hallish mourning for myself,

485
00:21:34,200 --> 00:21:36,679
Speaker 1: my roommate, and this poor boy now covet in vomit.

486
00:21:38,840 --> 00:21:41,920
Speaker 2: Vomit has such a The smell of vomit is honestly

487
00:21:42,359 --> 00:21:43,720
Speaker 2: like she is.

488
00:21:43,760 --> 00:21:46,160
Speaker 1: Like the way he would have woken up was because

489
00:21:46,200 --> 00:21:49,400
Speaker 1: like your senses come to life before you become consciously.

490
00:21:49,000 --> 00:21:50,880
Speaker 2: Over head's probably in agony.

491
00:21:51,359 --> 00:21:53,840
Speaker 1: He would have smelt it, opened up his eyes and

492
00:21:53,960 --> 00:21:56,560
Speaker 1: realize he's covered in vomit. Well, not your vomit, not

493
00:21:56,640 --> 00:21:58,119
Speaker 1: his vomit, somebody else's, Like.

494
00:21:58,119 --> 00:22:00,399
Speaker 2: Even if it was my vomit. It's discussing, would you

495
00:22:00,520 --> 00:22:02,600
Speaker 2: rather someone vomit on your shit?

496
00:22:02,680 --> 00:22:07,879
Speaker 1: On you vomit? Yeah, vomit on hundred percent, because that's

497
00:22:07,960 --> 00:22:12,119
Speaker 1: only been Like the woo is like digested, it's gone

498
00:22:12,160 --> 00:22:14,560
Speaker 1: through your body and it's come out the other side.

499
00:22:15,160 --> 00:22:16,840
Speaker 1: Vomit is like I feel a bit sick. I just

500
00:22:16,880 --> 00:22:17,800
Speaker 1: need to get something.

501
00:22:17,600 --> 00:22:20,520
Speaker 2: Out of my body, and it's like it honestly does.

502
00:22:20,600 --> 00:22:23,040
Speaker 1: Sometimes it depends what he did. But I think if

503
00:22:23,040 --> 00:22:23,840
Speaker 1: it's just alcohol.

504
00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:28,800
Speaker 2: It's just like this, she was concussed. This was not alcohol,

505
00:22:29,800 --> 00:22:30,720
Speaker 2: This was like yeah.

506
00:22:30,760 --> 00:22:33,119
Speaker 1: But she was young as well, so just she just

507
00:22:33,160 --> 00:22:36,240
Speaker 1: would have been vomiting up alcohol, probably some chicky nuggies

508
00:22:36,280 --> 00:22:39,880
Speaker 1: that she had. Imagine it being CHUNKYO.

509
00:22:41,840 --> 00:22:44,040
Speaker 2: So this is story Namethian. This one's a long one.

510
00:22:44,440 --> 00:22:46,520
Speaker 2: We love the long ones, guys. Yeah.

511
00:22:46,640 --> 00:22:48,200
Speaker 1: I don't know if you guys know, but I can't

512
00:22:48,240 --> 00:22:50,800
Speaker 1: read long stories because I actually think I have dis sexia.

513
00:22:51,040 --> 00:22:52,400
Speaker 2: So I always take the long easy.

514
00:22:52,400 --> 00:22:53,600
Speaker 1: It has to take the long one. So I just

515
00:22:53,640 --> 00:22:56,040
Speaker 1: get to sit back and listen because I read out loud.

516
00:22:56,119 --> 00:22:56,800
Speaker 2: I love reading.

517
00:22:57,119 --> 00:22:59,639
Speaker 1: Yeah, I can't read out loud. So if any of

518
00:22:59,640 --> 00:23:02,760
Speaker 1: you guys struggle listening to me, really, she's yeah, I

519
00:23:02,800 --> 00:23:05,080
Speaker 1: struggled to listen to myself read to be honest.

520
00:23:05,400 --> 00:23:07,600
Speaker 2: That's right. I got you girl, all right. So story

521
00:23:07,680 --> 00:23:10,639
Speaker 2: number three. When I moved to Dallas, I rented a

522
00:23:10,640 --> 00:23:13,439
Speaker 2: small studio apartment in a quiet building near the cafe

523
00:23:13,480 --> 00:23:16,359
Speaker 2: where I worked. My neighbor Jason, lived in the unit

524
00:23:16,400 --> 00:23:22,359
Speaker 2: across the hall. He Jesuson. He was polite, a bit awkward,

525
00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:25,040
Speaker 2: but friendly enough. He'd say hi in the hallway ask

526
00:23:25,080 --> 00:23:27,720
Speaker 2: about my day and sometimes offer to carry my groceries.

527
00:23:28,160 --> 00:23:29,760
Speaker 2: I don't know how old this guy is.

528
00:23:30,560 --> 00:23:31,920
Speaker 1: I'd say he'd be like thirty four.

529
00:23:32,080 --> 00:23:32,359
Speaker 3: Yeah.

530
00:23:32,480 --> 00:23:34,720
Speaker 2: At first I thought he was just being kind. He

531
00:23:34,760 --> 00:23:36,800
Speaker 2: mentioned he worked from home as a graphic designer and

532
00:23:36,800 --> 00:23:38,879
Speaker 2: didn't get out much, so I forgured he was just lonely.

533
00:23:39,480 --> 00:23:41,920
Speaker 2: But his interest in my life soon became very obsessive.

534
00:23:42,680 --> 00:23:45,560
Speaker 2: Oh I love this hit. Jason started showing up at

535
00:23:45,560 --> 00:23:47,639
Speaker 2: the cafe where I worked. At the beginning, he'd just

536
00:23:47,680 --> 00:23:49,840
Speaker 2: grab a coffee and sit in the corner with his laptop,

537
00:23:50,119 --> 00:23:52,280
Speaker 2: But soon he was coming in every day, staying for

538
00:23:52,400 --> 00:23:54,800
Speaker 2: hours and trying to talk to me, even when I

539
00:23:54,880 --> 00:23:55,960
Speaker 2: was busy with customers.

540
00:23:55,960 --> 00:23:57,920
Speaker 1: So that'd be freaky even if he was just coming

541
00:23:57,920 --> 00:23:59,680
Speaker 1: into the cafe. But he also knows where you live.

542
00:24:00,600 --> 00:24:04,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, like Jason freaking me up. Jason's lives in the

543
00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:07,440
Speaker 2: unit across the hall. Yeah, Jason could knock on your door. Yeah.

544
00:24:07,480 --> 00:24:09,840
Speaker 2: He always knew my schedule even when it changed, and

545
00:24:09,880 --> 00:24:12,640
Speaker 2: would comment on it late shift today, Huh, you must

546
00:24:12,640 --> 00:24:16,120
Speaker 2: be so tired. Fuck that would Yeah, it would piss

547
00:24:16,160 --> 00:24:18,000
Speaker 2: me off. One night, as I was walking home with

548
00:24:18,040 --> 00:24:20,600
Speaker 2: my boyfriend and Jason was sitting on the steps outside

549
00:24:20,640 --> 00:24:21,080
Speaker 2: the building.

550
00:24:21,400 --> 00:24:22,520
Speaker 1: He was waiting for you to come home.

551
00:24:22,720 --> 00:24:25,560
Speaker 2: Yeah. He gave him a long, cold look, but didn't

552
00:24:25,560 --> 00:24:29,080
Speaker 2: say anything. After that, he started asking me questions about

553
00:24:29,280 --> 00:24:31,919
Speaker 2: my boyfriend whenever we ran into each other. It was

554
00:24:31,960 --> 00:24:34,800
Speaker 2: so fucking weird, like is he treating you well? Does

555
00:24:34,840 --> 00:24:37,720
Speaker 2: he stay over a lot? You could do better? You

556
00:24:37,760 --> 00:24:39,840
Speaker 2: know that kind of shit. I laughed it off, but

557
00:24:39,920 --> 00:24:43,359
Speaker 2: Jason's behavior got worse. He began leaving strange gifts at

558
00:24:43,400 --> 00:24:45,720
Speaker 2: my door, like a single red rose or a book

559
00:24:45,720 --> 00:24:48,480
Speaker 2: I'd mentioned in a conversation. It's giving you.

560
00:24:49,160 --> 00:24:51,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, and the fact thing there is where you live.

561
00:24:51,520 --> 00:24:52,960
Speaker 1: Like I would just say to my boyfriend, you have

562
00:24:53,040 --> 00:24:55,680
Speaker 1: to stay over tonight? Well every night he lives across

563
00:24:55,680 --> 00:24:58,160
Speaker 1: the hall. Yeah, fucking and move.

564
00:24:58,520 --> 00:25:00,439
Speaker 2: The turning point came when my boyfriend and told me

565
00:25:00,440 --> 00:25:04,080
Speaker 2: he'd seen Jason following him. He worked in marketing, and

566
00:25:04,119 --> 00:25:06,439
Speaker 2: one day Jason showed up at his office pretending to

567
00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:09,840
Speaker 2: be a prospective client. My boyfriend confronted him, but Jason

568
00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:13,280
Speaker 2: denied everything, claiming it was just a misunderstanding. That night,

569
00:25:13,320 --> 00:25:15,400
Speaker 2: I came home to find a note slipped under my door.

570
00:25:16,080 --> 00:25:18,399
Speaker 2: It said He's not good for you. I see the

571
00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:20,320
Speaker 2: way he looks at other women. You deserve better?

572
00:25:22,280 --> 00:25:23,719
Speaker 1: Is really giving you it is?

573
00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:26,320
Speaker 2: I was freaked the fuck out, so I called the police,

574
00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:28,080
Speaker 2: but they said there wasn't much they could do unless

575
00:25:28,160 --> 00:25:32,119
Speaker 2: Jason directly threatened me. That whole thing fucks with me.

576
00:25:32,280 --> 00:25:35,480
Speaker 2: It's like you got a talker. But unless they physically

577
00:25:35,520 --> 00:25:37,959
Speaker 2: like hurt you, we can't do anything. It's like, well,

578
00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:39,640
Speaker 2: then you were waiting till it gets there.

579
00:25:40,320 --> 00:25:42,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, don't you want to avoid it?

580
00:25:42,840 --> 00:25:47,200
Speaker 2: Yeah. Jason's obsession escalated. He hacked into my social media accounts,

581
00:25:47,480 --> 00:25:49,600
Speaker 2: posting cryptic messages to make it look like I was

582
00:25:49,640 --> 00:25:53,080
Speaker 2: unhappy with my boyfriend. He followed us to restaurants, sitting

583
00:25:53,119 --> 00:25:56,320
Speaker 2: at nearby tables and glaring at him. One night, as

584
00:25:56,320 --> 00:25:58,760
Speaker 2: we were leaving the movies, Jason appeared out of nowhere

585
00:25:58,800 --> 00:26:01,280
Speaker 2: and grabbed my arm. He doesn't love you the way

586
00:26:01,320 --> 00:26:07,000
Speaker 2: I do. This is a movie. My boyfriend shoved him away,

587
00:26:07,080 --> 00:26:10,000
Speaker 2: and Jason just ran off. I filed for a restraining

588
00:26:10,080 --> 00:26:11,919
Speaker 2: order the next day, but Jason was gone by the

589
00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:14,560
Speaker 2: time the police came to check his apartment. His unit

590
00:26:14,600 --> 00:26:17,600
Speaker 2: was completely empty, as if he'd never lived there. This

591
00:26:17,760 --> 00:26:21,480
Speaker 2: is fucking scary, broom. A few weeks later, I moved

592
00:26:21,520 --> 00:26:24,200
Speaker 2: into a new apartment in a different neighborhood. My boyfriend

593
00:26:24,240 --> 00:26:26,200
Speaker 2: and I were careful not to post anything online about

594
00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:28,679
Speaker 2: where we lived. For a while, I felt safe. Jason

595
00:26:28,720 --> 00:26:31,600
Speaker 2: didn't try and contact me again. Now this is where

596
00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:34,120
Speaker 2: it gets fucked. It's not already.

597
00:26:34,320 --> 00:26:36,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was about to say, surely we could start that.

598
00:26:37,280 --> 00:26:39,520
Speaker 2: So years later, I had almost forgotten about him. My

599
00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:41,840
Speaker 2: boyfriend and I had moved on with our lives, even

600
00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:44,800
Speaker 2: gotten married. Then one evening, while swelling through the news,

601
00:26:44,800 --> 00:26:46,880
Speaker 2: I saw something that made me sick to my stomach.

602
00:26:48,080 --> 00:26:53,240
Speaker 2: You ready. Dallas man arrested for stalking and murdering local woman.

603
00:26:53,840 --> 00:26:56,760
Speaker 2: The article showed a photo of Jason. He had been

604
00:26:56,800 --> 00:26:59,200
Speaker 2: caught after breaking into the homes of a young woman

605
00:26:59,280 --> 00:27:02,320
Speaker 2: he'd been stalking for months. According to police, she had

606
00:27:02,359 --> 00:27:05,000
Speaker 2: reported him several times, with Jason slipped through the cracks

607
00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:06,000
Speaker 2: until it was too late.

608
00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:08,720
Speaker 1: See this is what we say about the police.

609
00:27:09,680 --> 00:27:11,600
Speaker 2: Like does it have to get to that before anyone

610
00:27:11,680 --> 00:27:14,639
Speaker 2: does anything. Now he'll be in jail. But imagine if

611
00:27:14,640 --> 00:27:17,960
Speaker 2: he did it to this girl. That is so fucking scary.

612
00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:21,680
Speaker 1: I hate that that's made me a bit sick.

613
00:27:22,800 --> 00:27:24,880
Speaker 2: Oh girl, I feel like you would have a hard

614
00:27:24,920 --> 00:27:27,760
Speaker 2: time feeling safe again after something like that.

615
00:27:28,359 --> 00:27:30,600
Speaker 1: Well, you just like put yourself in that situation. You're like,

616
00:27:30,640 --> 00:27:33,120
Speaker 1: if I wasn't so hyper aware about that, that could have.

617
00:27:33,040 --> 00:27:35,199
Speaker 2: Been me, and if I didn't have maybe my boyfriend

618
00:27:35,400 --> 00:27:39,720
Speaker 2: or yeah, wow, that would have made me feel sick.

619
00:27:39,840 --> 00:27:45,080
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry that happened to you. Story number four.

620
00:27:45,440 --> 00:27:47,760
Speaker 1: I used to live with a gay couple, one very

621
00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:51,240
Speaker 1: extraverted one and one introverted. They'd been together for ten

622
00:27:51,359 --> 00:27:54,040
Speaker 1: years and we're in an open relationship. Oh my god,

623
00:27:54,119 --> 00:27:55,920
Speaker 1: leaving with him would have been a fucking field day.

624
00:27:57,000 --> 00:27:59,679
Speaker 1: Like you're in an open relationship, like he's gonna come over tonight,

625
00:27:59,760 --> 00:28:02,280
Speaker 1: and you just would have been like if you are, yeah,

626
00:28:02,400 --> 00:28:03,520
Speaker 1: just been like I'm gonna go.

627
00:28:03,440 --> 00:28:06,119
Speaker 2: To my room, just like almost having single people. But

628
00:28:06,119 --> 00:28:07,520
Speaker 2: they also happened to do you know what I mean?

629
00:28:07,760 --> 00:28:11,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, the extroverted one would daily have straight guys come

630
00:28:11,480 --> 00:28:14,399
Speaker 1: around who were married, had families, and would do sexual

631
00:28:14,400 --> 00:28:19,240
Speaker 1: favors for them for money. Oh as in so the

632
00:28:19,320 --> 00:28:20,440
Speaker 1: extroverted one.

633
00:28:20,359 --> 00:28:23,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, as he was he's like sucking straight guys

634
00:28:23,280 --> 00:28:25,119
Speaker 2: dicks and the straight. Guys are paying him for that.

635
00:28:26,080 --> 00:28:29,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, Jesus, Most days without fail, I would have text

636
00:28:29,920 --> 00:28:31,800
Speaker 1: in the morning saying don't come into a room. I

637
00:28:31,840 --> 00:28:34,000
Speaker 1: have a guy coming. I'm a chill dude. So I

638
00:28:34,000 --> 00:28:35,640
Speaker 1: would just go back to sleep and not a guy.

639
00:28:36,080 --> 00:28:41,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh that's so fun. We never get guys submission.

640
00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:42,880
Speaker 2: Thank you so much for here.

641
00:28:42,960 --> 00:28:43,959
Speaker 1: We really appreciate you.

642
00:28:46,600 --> 00:28:49,640
Speaker 2: Look at us. We're trying to open up more. So

643
00:28:49,760 --> 00:28:52,400
Speaker 2: guys for like they can send us these submissions, so

644
00:28:52,760 --> 00:28:55,960
Speaker 2: please do. If there's you've warmed our heart, You've made

645
00:28:55,960 --> 00:29:02,920
Speaker 2: our thank you Merry Christmas. Ha ha, she's giddy.

646
00:29:09,560 --> 00:29:12,440
Speaker 1: Be weirds. We have all the interactions with men recently.

647
00:29:16,040 --> 00:29:16,480
Speaker 2: Look at this.

648
00:29:18,960 --> 00:29:20,800
Speaker 1: So I would just go back to sleep to then

649
00:29:20,840 --> 00:29:23,960
Speaker 1: be awoken by my flatmates standing above me trying to

650
00:29:24,120 --> 00:29:29,160
Speaker 1: wipe another man's semen on me what his face and

651
00:29:29,200 --> 00:29:32,080
Speaker 1: clothes would be covered in Colm and he's.

652
00:29:31,840 --> 00:29:34,640
Speaker 2: Like going, ha ha, let me wipe this. Come on,

653
00:29:34,760 --> 00:29:37,400
Speaker 2: you look at this. That's disgusting.

654
00:29:40,440 --> 00:29:42,240
Speaker 1: He had a bath towel with a hole in the

655
00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:45,000
Speaker 1: middle and nailed to the door and had it nailed

656
00:29:45,040 --> 00:29:47,520
Speaker 1: to the door frame, so he would film it all

657
00:29:47,560 --> 00:29:52,000
Speaker 1: and try to show me. My boss at work found

658
00:29:52,040 --> 00:29:53,840
Speaker 1: out that I went through this most days and it

659
00:29:53,920 --> 00:29:55,840
Speaker 1: was not said it was not okay to live like that.

660
00:29:55,880 --> 00:29:58,360
Speaker 1: So I moved out a week later and moved into

661
00:29:58,360 --> 00:30:00,240
Speaker 1: my boss's spare room for a while until I found

662
00:30:00,240 --> 00:30:00,880
Speaker 1: a new apartment.

663
00:30:00,960 --> 00:30:04,200
Speaker 2: That is actually so lovely of the boss to be like, yeah, mate,

664
00:30:04,280 --> 00:30:06,120
Speaker 2: like you can't live like that, Like that's a movement

665
00:30:06,160 --> 00:30:09,520
Speaker 2: with me, and it's not because if they're feeling unsafe,

666
00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:12,280
Speaker 2: especially like look someone having someone try and rub someone

667
00:30:12,280 --> 00:30:14,440
Speaker 2: else that's FEMA on you is like sexual assault.

668
00:30:15,240 --> 00:30:16,560
Speaker 1: Yeah that's a violation.

669
00:30:16,760 --> 00:30:19,960
Speaker 2: Yeah for sure, a violation. Very muggy. What is it?

670
00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:21,080
Speaker 2: What's up?

671
00:30:21,880 --> 00:30:24,280
Speaker 1: That's like a violation, that's very muggy.

672
00:30:25,040 --> 00:30:26,400
Speaker 2: But I'm not gonna let you take me for a

673
00:30:26,480 --> 00:30:30,680
Speaker 2: mug nor we no week that's disgusting, but welcome.

674
00:30:30,760 --> 00:30:33,720
Speaker 1: Like I always like, I have never had a guy

675
00:30:33,960 --> 00:30:38,520
Speaker 1: over to our place when Lily and Ellie there, I

676
00:30:38,640 --> 00:30:41,200
Speaker 1: just couldn't do it. I literally couldn't do it. It's

677
00:30:41,240 --> 00:30:45,120
Speaker 1: like my parents are home, especially when Bailey's there, Lily's boyfriend,

678
00:30:45,160 --> 00:30:47,600
Speaker 1: I'm like, hell no, like you're meeting my mom and

679
00:30:47,680 --> 00:30:48,560
Speaker 1: dad like that. He's not a thing.

680
00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:50,720
Speaker 2: So sorry, don't know how about it's going to be

681
00:30:50,720 --> 00:30:52,520
Speaker 2: for me. I live. I'm about to move in with

682
00:30:52,520 --> 00:30:56,400
Speaker 2: my sister. Yeah, what the fuck am I going to do?

683
00:30:56,520 --> 00:30:57,520
Speaker 2: But your sister's chill?

684
00:30:57,640 --> 00:30:57,760
Speaker 1: You know?

685
00:30:58,200 --> 00:31:01,040
Speaker 2: But she so Riley obviously has a boyfriend. No, that's

686
00:31:01,040 --> 00:31:04,080
Speaker 2: not obviously, but she does have a boyfriend. Our rooms

687
00:31:04,120 --> 00:31:07,040
Speaker 2: are stuck on top of each other. I'm like, am

688
00:31:07,120 --> 00:31:09,360
Speaker 2: I just never gonna have a guy over for them?

689
00:31:09,440 --> 00:31:13,440
Speaker 2: It's even better sharing a wall, sharing a roof.

690
00:31:13,800 --> 00:31:17,160
Speaker 1: Nah, you're fine, you're chill, and its carpets, You're fine.

691
00:31:17,640 --> 00:31:23,440
Speaker 2: I just it's even like it's even just like the

692
00:31:23,440 --> 00:31:25,720
Speaker 2: the noise of like talking and stuff. I just thought,

693
00:31:26,680 --> 00:31:28,080
Speaker 2: family member, do you know what I mean?

694
00:31:28,280 --> 00:31:30,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, you think you're like you could hear it, but

695
00:31:30,800 --> 00:31:34,640
Speaker 1: you don't. You don't. I'm not gonna leak other people's

696
00:31:34,640 --> 00:31:37,680
Speaker 1: business on my podcast, but I don't hear my house.

697
00:31:38,040 --> 00:31:41,520
Speaker 2: I just feel like it's like.

698
00:31:40,560 --> 00:31:43,000
Speaker 1: Like Lily is Bailey, like play movies and I don't

699
00:31:43,040 --> 00:31:43,480
Speaker 1: even hear it.

700
00:31:43,600 --> 00:31:46,200
Speaker 2: Yeah. My sister has some super sonic herring though, so

701
00:31:46,440 --> 00:31:49,280
Speaker 2: as in like she's very she always picks up talking,

702
00:31:49,360 --> 00:31:52,280
Speaker 2: get up the man, turn the TV down. It's gonna

703
00:31:52,280 --> 00:31:52,760
Speaker 2: be really fun.

704
00:31:53,360 --> 00:31:56,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, good luck, yeah, just like carty boy. And it's

705
00:31:56,880 --> 00:31:59,320
Speaker 1: also like you might have to meet my but.

706
00:31:59,280 --> 00:32:02,080
Speaker 2: It's like, I think everyone has roommates, so it's more

707
00:32:02,080 --> 00:32:04,080
Speaker 2: common than not for people to have roommates, or like

708
00:32:05,040 --> 00:32:07,360
Speaker 2: it's like better than having your fucking parents there at least,

709
00:32:07,400 --> 00:32:10,360
Speaker 2: you know, I could never do that, all right. Story

710
00:32:10,440 --> 00:32:15,160
Speaker 2: number five moved in with my godfather who's sixty two

711
00:32:15,680 --> 00:32:17,920
Speaker 2: and his twenty four year old boyfriend, who was a

712
00:32:17,960 --> 00:32:22,600
Speaker 2: meth addict, unemployed and has borderline personality disorder perfect. He

713
00:32:22,640 --> 00:32:24,680
Speaker 2: would get into rages and scream in the middle of

714
00:32:24,680 --> 00:32:27,400
Speaker 2: the night and punch walls. When my boyfriend first started

715
00:32:27,440 --> 00:32:30,160
Speaker 2: saying over, he'd wake up to the screaming. And when

716
00:32:30,160 --> 00:32:32,760
Speaker 2: we would have sex, the twenty four year old boyfriend,

717
00:32:32,920 --> 00:32:37,360
Speaker 2: so the godfather's drugged it to boyfriend would listen while

718
00:32:37,400 --> 00:32:39,920
Speaker 2: walking to the balcony and then give me feedback saying,

719
00:32:40,800 --> 00:32:46,760
Speaker 2: sounds have become more alpha. Oh my god. He once

720
00:32:46,920 --> 00:32:52,600
Speaker 2: also slammed his cockring used cock ring on the kitchen

721
00:32:52,640 --> 00:32:55,760
Speaker 2: table in a rage, right next to my ring. It's

722
00:32:55,840 --> 00:32:59,520
Speaker 2: like a pocket. No, it like goes around like your

723
00:32:59,600 --> 00:33:03,600
Speaker 2: decking vibrates or something. I don't know, is that correct? Okay? Okay.

724
00:33:04,240 --> 00:33:07,120
Speaker 2: He slammed the used cockering on the kitchen table in

725
00:33:07,160 --> 00:33:09,040
Speaker 2: a rage, right next to my plate while I was

726
00:33:09,080 --> 00:33:16,120
Speaker 2: eating breakfast delicious extra flavor. That's disgusting, salty, eh, I'd

727
00:33:16,160 --> 00:33:16,800
Speaker 2: be moving out.

728
00:33:17,520 --> 00:33:17,720
Speaker 3: Yeah?

729
00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:18,280
Speaker 2: Who?

730
00:33:21,320 --> 00:33:24,320
Speaker 1: So picture this twenty year old me at the time,

731
00:33:24,520 --> 00:33:27,040
Speaker 1: living my best life with a twenty nine year old housemate.

732
00:33:27,360 --> 00:33:29,880
Speaker 1: We both had dogs, we were single. Started off as

733
00:33:29,880 --> 00:33:32,600
Speaker 1: a dream scenario. I met her on Facebook when she

734
00:33:32,720 --> 00:33:35,840
Speaker 1: was renting your room and things were smooth sailing at first.

735
00:33:36,280 --> 00:33:39,480
Speaker 1: Expensive rent, sure, but worth it for peace and quiet. Also,

736
00:33:39,600 --> 00:33:42,760
Speaker 1: I thought fast forward a few months suddenly this woman

737
00:33:42,800 --> 00:33:45,920
Speaker 1: decides her life is an episode of Skins Parties until

738
00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:49,840
Speaker 1: three am, random kick ons, strangers everywhere. The first couple

739
00:33:49,800 --> 00:33:51,600
Speaker 1: of times I was like, okay, I'll let her live.

740
00:33:51,680 --> 00:33:54,200
Speaker 1: But by the third time, at two am, I texted

741
00:33:54,240 --> 00:33:56,840
Speaker 1: something super polite like, hey, sorry to bother, but can

742
00:33:56,880 --> 00:33:59,080
Speaker 1: you maybe not ruin my life tonight?

743
00:33:59,160 --> 00:34:02,920
Speaker 2: Spoiler? She did care you maybe not ruin my life tonight.

744
00:34:03,400 --> 00:34:06,479
Speaker 1: That's fert It is, especially when you're like living it

745
00:34:06,560 --> 00:34:08,840
Speaker 1: with people, like you have to be considerate of other people,

746
00:34:08,920 --> 00:34:11,959
Speaker 1: like you can't come storming home and like fucking life's

747
00:34:12,200 --> 00:34:12,960
Speaker 1: a bunch of kick ons.

748
00:34:13,080 --> 00:34:16,000
Speaker 2: I feel like kick ons. Unless everyone in the house

749
00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:18,359
Speaker 2: is present and willing and wanting that kick ons to happen,

750
00:34:18,400 --> 00:34:21,120
Speaker 2: you can't do it. Like, yeah, I will never have

751
00:34:21,239 --> 00:34:23,200
Speaker 2: kick ons at my new apartment because me and my

752
00:34:23,239 --> 00:34:26,560
Speaker 2: sister are both so fucking anxious and fucked that we

753
00:34:26,680 --> 00:34:30,319
Speaker 2: like want to keep that space a place. You don't

754
00:34:30,320 --> 00:34:32,040
Speaker 2: want to have that place your apartment and be the

755
00:34:32,040 --> 00:34:33,680
Speaker 2: scene of the crime. Do you know what I mean?

756
00:34:33,719 --> 00:34:35,480
Speaker 2: If you stay up to like four am with a

757
00:34:35,480 --> 00:34:37,719
Speaker 2: bunch of people drinking around, even once it's cleaned up,

758
00:34:37,880 --> 00:34:39,480
Speaker 2: you want to go sit and watch TV on the couts,

759
00:34:39,520 --> 00:34:42,279
Speaker 2: You're like, like, I had kick on t you last side,

760
00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:42,919
Speaker 2: you know what I mean?

761
00:34:43,320 --> 00:34:46,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, And like I'm because I lived alone and I'm

762
00:34:46,600 --> 00:34:49,000
Speaker 1: like one of the first friends from school that started

763
00:34:49,000 --> 00:34:51,279
Speaker 1: the year when I first became single, I had kick

764
00:34:51,320 --> 00:34:52,480
Speaker 1: ons a few times at my house and.

765
00:34:52,440 --> 00:34:53,719
Speaker 2: I hated it. I hated it.

766
00:34:53,719 --> 00:34:54,600
Speaker 1: I'll never do it again.

767
00:34:54,800 --> 00:34:56,759
Speaker 2: It just ruins the whole vibe of the space. But

768
00:34:57,040 --> 00:34:59,919
Speaker 2: even though it's like, if you're not a willing partic

769
00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:02,120
Speaker 2: spending kick ons and have housemates bringing a bunch of

770
00:35:02,120 --> 00:35:04,000
Speaker 2: people over, it's incredibly fucking annoying.

771
00:35:04,080 --> 00:35:08,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, completely. Then came to her thirtieth birthday party. I thought,

772
00:35:08,360 --> 00:35:10,440
Speaker 1: you know what, I'll take my dog and crash out

773
00:35:10,480 --> 00:35:12,160
Speaker 1: a guy I was seeing at the time to avoid

774
00:35:12,160 --> 00:35:15,400
Speaker 1: the chaos. Great plan, right wrong. I came back the

775
00:35:15,440 --> 00:35:17,440
Speaker 1: next day with the guy and walked into what I

776
00:35:17,480 --> 00:35:20,520
Speaker 1: can describe only as a crime scene. My bedroom door

777
00:35:20,680 --> 00:35:24,600
Speaker 1: wide open. See that is annoying. Do whatever you want,

778
00:35:24,719 --> 00:35:26,680
Speaker 1: but my room is my room. Don't go into my room.

779
00:35:26,680 --> 00:35:28,719
Speaker 1: Don't let people go into my room like I've once

780
00:35:28,760 --> 00:35:30,520
Speaker 1: had kick ons, And I said, like, whatever you do,

781
00:35:30,520 --> 00:35:32,799
Speaker 1: do not go into the second room. That's my housemates room.

782
00:35:32,920 --> 00:35:34,319
Speaker 1: Don't like that's hers. Yeah.

783
00:35:34,840 --> 00:35:37,320
Speaker 2: The also issue was like that is it's like that

784
00:35:37,600 --> 00:35:39,600
Speaker 2: thirty old might be like, oh, you can just crash

785
00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:42,440
Speaker 2: in my roommate's room, like yeah, oh my fucking god.

786
00:35:42,360 --> 00:35:46,239
Speaker 1: No, well no, and human shit on my bath mat.

787
00:35:47,360 --> 00:35:49,920
Speaker 1: I stood there frozen, like this can't be real life.

788
00:35:50,080 --> 00:35:53,040
Speaker 1: The guy was equally horrified. He's advice to pack your

789
00:35:53,040 --> 00:35:55,439
Speaker 1: stuff and run, and you bet I did. I told

790
00:35:55,480 --> 00:35:58,920
Speaker 1: her how unbelievably disrespectful she was and let that circus asap.

791
00:35:59,120 --> 00:36:02,400
Speaker 1: But seriously, a human shit on my bath mate. Some

792
00:36:02,440 --> 00:36:04,520
Speaker 1: people should not be able to live outside a zoo.

793
00:36:04,719 --> 00:36:08,640
Speaker 1: Lessons learn always vet your housemaids or better live alone.

794
00:36:08,880 --> 00:36:10,799
Speaker 2: I think it would actually be really challenging to vet

795
00:36:10,840 --> 00:36:12,719
Speaker 2: a random house. How do you know that that's not

796
00:36:12,719 --> 00:36:15,839
Speaker 2: going to that's not going to be line like.

797
00:36:15,800 --> 00:36:18,719
Speaker 1: My hat goes off to people who like find a

798
00:36:18,800 --> 00:36:21,719
Speaker 1: room off like Ferry Flass, I couldn't do it because

799
00:36:21,719 --> 00:36:23,520
Speaker 1: it's like I'm living with a stranger low Ki.

800
00:36:23,920 --> 00:36:26,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think some people need to like that's the

801
00:36:26,880 --> 00:36:29,960
Speaker 2: only option, so like go them. Yeah, I like, seriously

802
00:36:30,239 --> 00:36:32,200
Speaker 2: prayers out to all of you that you get a

803
00:36:32,200 --> 00:36:33,960
Speaker 2: goody yeah.

804
00:36:33,560 --> 00:36:36,879
Speaker 1: Because you don't know, like some like the first couple

805
00:36:36,920 --> 00:36:38,480
Speaker 1: of months of when you live with people, like it's

806
00:36:38,480 --> 00:36:40,680
Speaker 1: a honeymoon phase and then that just wears off and

807
00:36:40,719 --> 00:36:42,840
Speaker 1: then they're real color show. It's like being in a relationship,

808
00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:45,840
Speaker 1: So seriously, having housemates is like being in a relationship

809
00:36:45,840 --> 00:36:46,160
Speaker 1: with them.

810
00:36:46,520 --> 00:36:53,200
Speaker 2: Number seven. Firstly, Jador the Pod Thanks my Wildest Housemates.

811
00:36:53,200 --> 00:36:55,319
Speaker 2: Sorry to date. To set the scene, I used to

812
00:36:55,320 --> 00:36:57,880
Speaker 2: live with my ex boyfriend and his best friend let's

813
00:36:57,880 --> 00:37:00,520
Speaker 2: call him Todd. My boyfriend at the time worked in

814
00:37:00,560 --> 00:37:02,920
Speaker 2: FIFO five O five O.

815
00:37:04,239 --> 00:37:06,040
Speaker 1: What is that it's like when you go work on

816
00:37:06,080 --> 00:37:07,799
Speaker 1: the mines and stuff. You work it like two weeks

817
00:37:07,840 --> 00:37:09,120
Speaker 1: at a time, and then they fly you out and

818
00:37:09,160 --> 00:37:11,200
Speaker 1: then you can go back home. You go to Bali.

819
00:37:11,560 --> 00:37:12,760
Speaker 1: You're like working in mining.

820
00:37:13,719 --> 00:37:15,320
Speaker 2: Oh in like interesting?

821
00:37:15,480 --> 00:37:17,560
Speaker 1: Yeah? You get paid a lot?

822
00:37:17,600 --> 00:37:18,040
Speaker 2: Is that it?

823
00:37:18,280 --> 00:37:18,520
Speaker 1: Yeah?

824
00:37:19,239 --> 00:37:22,919
Speaker 2: So he wasn't always home. Sometimes, while my boyfriend was away,

825
00:37:22,960 --> 00:37:25,600
Speaker 2: I would go back home and stay one week I

826
00:37:25,680 --> 00:37:28,239
Speaker 2: did this, but popped over to their house to pick

827
00:37:28,320 --> 00:37:30,319
Speaker 2: some things up. I had left my key there, so

828
00:37:30,360 --> 00:37:32,560
Speaker 2: I messaged Todd that I would be there in five

829
00:37:32,560 --> 00:37:34,680
Speaker 2: minutes and to make sure he was home. When I

830
00:37:34,719 --> 00:37:36,720
Speaker 2: got there, I went through the side door, which opened

831
00:37:36,760 --> 00:37:39,160
Speaker 2: into the lund room. This was normal, as we don't

832
00:37:39,200 --> 00:37:43,719
Speaker 2: really use the front door. To my shock, Todd was

833
00:37:43,760 --> 00:37:49,560
Speaker 2: on the couch, fully naked, tugging away. Do that in

834
00:37:49,600 --> 00:37:52,040
Speaker 2: your bedroom, that's what Well, he thought he was home alone.

835
00:37:52,640 --> 00:37:53,320
Speaker 2: It doesn't matter.

836
00:37:53,440 --> 00:37:55,400
Speaker 1: It doesn't matter he was home alone. He thought he

837
00:37:55,440 --> 00:37:56,680
Speaker 1: had his other people live.

838
00:37:56,600 --> 00:37:58,600
Speaker 2: In that house. You're defending Todd.

839
00:37:58,680 --> 00:38:00,959
Speaker 1: Hey, I'm just defending Todd because he's allowed to wank

840
00:38:01,000 --> 00:38:04,080
Speaker 1: in his fucking living room if he thinks he's home alone.

841
00:38:04,600 --> 00:38:05,800
Speaker 1: Not saying that I'd.

842
00:38:05,640 --> 00:38:08,000
Speaker 2: Do that, but I'm just saying Sam has been caught

843
00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:14,080
Speaker 2: one in a living room before. Okay, Sam, why am

844
00:38:14,120 --> 00:38:16,839
Speaker 2: I defending a fucking stroke? I know, I'm like chill

845
00:38:17,080 --> 00:38:21,440
Speaker 2: ow all right. This was strange, as I had told

846
00:38:21,480 --> 00:38:23,759
Speaker 2: him I would be over shortly. A few months later,

847
00:38:23,800 --> 00:38:26,279
Speaker 2: my boyfriend broke up with me. I was heartbroken and

848
00:38:26,320 --> 00:38:28,880
Speaker 2: my ex was pulling me along on a thread and

849
00:38:28,880 --> 00:38:31,840
Speaker 2: it became very toxic. Todd would occasionally message me to

850
00:38:31,920 --> 00:38:34,359
Speaker 2: check in. I was in a dark place by this point,

851
00:38:34,440 --> 00:38:36,160
Speaker 2: so as a revenge on my ex, I ended up

852
00:38:36,160 --> 00:38:39,319
Speaker 2: going home with Todd after a night out. Oh but

853
00:38:39,560 --> 00:38:42,799
Speaker 2: I was blind. He was sober. We slept together. My

854
00:38:42,880 --> 00:38:45,120
Speaker 2: ex is away, so he wasn't home the next day.

855
00:38:45,120 --> 00:38:47,400
Speaker 2: I felt extremely guilty, and we agreed this would have

856
00:38:47,440 --> 00:38:49,399
Speaker 2: to go to the grave with us, as it would

857
00:38:49,480 --> 00:38:50,560
Speaker 2: ruin his whole friendship group.

858
00:38:50,680 --> 00:38:51,799
Speaker 1: Stuff never goes to the grave.

859
00:38:51,840 --> 00:38:54,759
Speaker 2: Babe, they're still best friends and live together, but no

860
00:38:54,760 --> 00:38:59,280
Speaker 2: one knows about us. Cheers. I love how the naked

861
00:38:59,280 --> 00:39:01,080
Speaker 2: part that we argue about for like five minutes is

862
00:39:01,120 --> 00:39:02,600
Speaker 2: totally irrelevant to the Actually.

863
00:39:05,320 --> 00:39:08,080
Speaker 1: Fuck see, I think it's gonna come out one day.

864
00:39:09,120 --> 00:39:13,759
Speaker 2: Don't tell her that. I think. Look everything that like

865
00:39:14,080 --> 00:39:17,839
Speaker 2: my previous friendship group. Everyone like fucking fucked everyone over.

866
00:39:19,200 --> 00:39:22,560
Speaker 2: Everything has come out in the following years, but then again,

867
00:39:22,640 --> 00:39:25,960
Speaker 2: it's like, do we know that there are things that

868
00:39:25,960 --> 00:39:26,640
Speaker 2: are still secret?

869
00:39:26,760 --> 00:39:26,960
Speaker 1: Yes?

870
00:39:27,000 --> 00:39:32,800
Speaker 2: Probably Yeah, something only came out like a couple months ago. Yeah,

871
00:39:32,840 --> 00:39:36,640
Speaker 2: fucking loyalty brother. Honestly, it's crazy how people do that

872
00:39:36,680 --> 00:39:39,840
Speaker 2: sort of stuff all the time. It's so common. Yeah.

873
00:39:39,920 --> 00:39:43,560
Speaker 2: Number eight the final story. My boyfriend stayed over after

874
00:39:43,600 --> 00:39:46,360
Speaker 2: a night out and my roommate, who is also my

875
00:39:46,440 --> 00:39:48,719
Speaker 2: best friend, had a guy come over who's she'd been

876
00:39:48,760 --> 00:39:50,560
Speaker 2: talking to for a bit, but this was their first

877
00:39:50,560 --> 00:39:53,719
Speaker 2: time actually meeting. I had noticed a weird vibe from

878
00:39:53,719 --> 00:39:56,440
Speaker 2: this guy, but where polar opposites in our taste in partners,

879
00:39:56,440 --> 00:39:58,080
Speaker 2: so I just chalked it down to him just not

880
00:39:58,160 --> 00:40:01,720
Speaker 2: being my cup of tea. Later that night, my boyfriend

881
00:40:01,760 --> 00:40:06,120
Speaker 2: and I were doing the horizontal hokey pokey such like

882
00:40:06,160 --> 00:40:09,880
Speaker 2: a child thing, it's so cute, and I noticed the

883
00:40:09,920 --> 00:40:12,800
Speaker 2: door was cracked open slightly, where I could have sworn

884
00:40:12,920 --> 00:40:15,680
Speaker 2: it was definitely closed. I decided to just believe the

885
00:40:15,719 --> 00:40:19,239
Speaker 2: door hadn't closed properly and ignored it. It wasn't dula.

886
00:40:19,239 --> 00:40:21,279
Speaker 2: I hed my best friend screaming, what the fuck are

887
00:40:21,360 --> 00:40:23,799
Speaker 2: you doing that? We now realized the guy she had

888
00:40:23,800 --> 00:40:25,800
Speaker 2: brought home was watching my boyfriend and I through the

889
00:40:25,840 --> 00:40:31,520
Speaker 2: cracked open door. That's weird, that's disgusting, that's invasive. The

890
00:40:31,560 --> 00:40:33,160
Speaker 2: guy had legged it out the front door with his

891
00:40:33,200 --> 00:40:37,759
Speaker 2: pants partially down yuck, and my boyfriend chasing him out

892
00:40:37,800 --> 00:40:40,879
Speaker 2: covered in a fluffy throw blanket. Turns out this guy

893
00:40:40,960 --> 00:40:43,799
Speaker 2: had been making really weird comments about me all night

894
00:40:43,880 --> 00:40:47,279
Speaker 2: and even complimented my ass to my best friend, then

895
00:40:47,360 --> 00:40:50,640
Speaker 2: joked about having a threesome while she's still amitted him over.

896
00:40:50,760 --> 00:40:54,239
Speaker 2: I'll never know. I feel sick to this day not

897
00:40:54,360 --> 00:40:57,200
Speaker 2: knowing how long this random guy had been watching. I

898
00:40:57,239 --> 00:41:00,200
Speaker 2: pray he hadn't recorded anything. My best friend and it

899
00:41:00,239 --> 00:41:03,080
Speaker 2: has to have any men who come over vetted by myself,

900
00:41:03,120 --> 00:41:05,680
Speaker 2: because we can obviously not trust her taste in men.

901
00:41:06,239 --> 00:41:08,759
Speaker 2: Side note, my boyfriend blamed it on the dress I

902
00:41:08,840 --> 00:41:11,000
Speaker 2: was wearing that night, and this was the start of

903
00:41:11,040 --> 00:41:12,239
Speaker 2: the end of that relationship.

904
00:41:12,320 --> 00:41:15,839
Speaker 1: Oh well, fucking first, Yeah, the fact that he had

905
00:41:15,880 --> 00:41:18,880
Speaker 1: his pants down, Yeah, he would have been watching for

906
00:41:19,000 --> 00:41:20,480
Speaker 1: enough time to get his pants down, and he was

907
00:41:20,520 --> 00:41:21,040
Speaker 1: jack tug.

908
00:41:21,360 --> 00:41:29,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's disgusting boys men who So that was your

909
00:41:29,360 --> 00:41:32,680
Speaker 2: roommate horror stories. I love doing these ones because you

910
00:41:32,760 --> 00:41:34,839
Speaker 2: never know what you're going to fucking get bad.

911
00:41:35,280 --> 00:41:37,640
Speaker 3: We have those fucking experiences like your house is meant

912
00:41:37,640 --> 00:41:40,440
Speaker 3: to be your safe space, and you're just like seeing

913
00:41:40,440 --> 00:41:43,719
Speaker 3: this guy in an open relationship and I having come

914
00:41:43,760 --> 00:41:47,120
Speaker 3: on you and being shut on, like I'm shit on

915
00:41:47,160 --> 00:41:49,640
Speaker 3: your human bathrobe, Like it's horrible.

916
00:41:49,680 --> 00:41:55,120
Speaker 2: It is horrible. So I'm sorry that we're laughing about it.

917
00:41:55,520 --> 00:41:57,279
Speaker 1: But I am glad that you convent to us and

918
00:41:57,280 --> 00:41:58,040
Speaker 1: we can cheek and.

919
00:41:58,000 --> 00:42:00,719
Speaker 2: Most of these situations are over now. I'm glad to

920
00:42:00,719 --> 00:42:02,560
Speaker 2: hear it. But we're going to do a part two

921
00:42:02,600 --> 00:42:05,440
Speaker 2: of this down the line, because yeah, it's honestly one

922
00:42:05,440 --> 00:42:08,520
Speaker 2: of my favorites. But thank you guys for listening, and

923
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Speaker 2: we will chat to you on Thursday. Bye bye,