Speaker 1: Welcome back to the Where's Your Head At?
Speaker 2: Hotline, our weekly show where we catch up with each
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Speaker 3: one of our episodes. I'm Anna and I'm Matt.
Speaker 2: Let's jump in. Hello everyone, Hello Matthew.
Speaker 3: Hello Anna. What's going on? And something exciting I feels
Speaker 3: in the air today.
Speaker 1: It is a huge day for us.
Speaker 2: I was awake at five am because, as you know,
Speaker 2: today we drop our merch.
Speaker 3: How good is this? Anna? I'm going to say, look,
Speaker 3: I'm not sexually attracted to you, but in that top
Speaker 3: you are doing some things. It looks unreal. Have a
Speaker 3: look at it. This is the this is the gray
Speaker 3: one that we're both running at the moment.
Speaker 1: It was twinning this morning. I know we didn't know
Speaker 1: which one.
Speaker 2: I thought Matt might have chosen the black, so I
Speaker 2: was like, I'll go to the opposing I'll go the
Speaker 2: gray mile.
Speaker 1: But we've both rolled.
Speaker 2: In looking at like twins, which I'm not mad about.
Speaker 2: How excited are you? To be dropping merch? Is this crazy?
Speaker 3: I know, it's been a long time in the making.
Speaker 3: We've been going back and forth on this for ages
Speaker 3: we were coming and our ring. It's just been a
Speaker 3: real process. But we've got there and now we're here
Speaker 3: and we can't wait to share it with everyone.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like everyone's always saying to us, why haven't you
Speaker 2: dropped merch? Like are you guys going to do merch?
Speaker 2: And the real reason why we didn't drop merch earlier
Speaker 2: is because we actually set ourselves some goals that we
Speaker 2: had to accomplish before we felt like almost like we
Speaker 2: were deserving to kind of sell merched.
Speaker 1: Don't you reckon?
Speaker 3: Yeah, well that was a conversation we had. We're like,
Speaker 3: all right, well, we don't want to just come out,
Speaker 3: you know, l like everyone else stars have a podcast
Speaker 3: and then just drop merch.
Speaker 1: Don't throw shame.
Speaker 3: I was throwing shade. I'm not throwing shape. But it's
Speaker 3: what a lot of podcasts do. They start a podcasting,
Speaker 3: let's sell merch straight away, you know what I mean?
Speaker 3: Like it's hot. We're like, no, let's set some goals
Speaker 3: for us that we can do then, so we do it.
Speaker 3: So what were some of those goals in okay.
Speaker 2: So the first goal we set for ourselves as we
Speaker 2: wanted to hit a million listens, which, to be honest,
Speaker 2: when we set that goal, we didn't know if that
Speaker 2: was an achievable goal, Like that seemed like a bit
Speaker 2: far fetch.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 3: No, I did I think a lot. As I read
Speaker 3: back on the goals that we have here that we wrote,
Speaker 3: I think a lot of them. I was like, hah,
Speaker 3: all right, let's do this, Let's see how we go.
Speaker 3: But we got them all done.
Speaker 2: Like we were like, reach for the stars, let's make
Speaker 2: them big ones. So the next one we did is
Speaker 2: was just really simple. We wanted to have the podcast
Speaker 2: for at least a year. We ticked that box. Our podcast,
Speaker 2: they feel like has just kept growing, like we did
Speaker 2: two episodes a week now, so a year done. Next
Speaker 2: one was we wanted to do a live show.
Speaker 3: Done.
Speaker 1: A lot of our team we're like, oh, you should.
Speaker 2: Do merch for the live show, but we were like, no,
Speaker 2: we want to just like see see if.
Speaker 4: We're good.
Speaker 3: Selling tickets first, let's.
Speaker 2: Get able to come to the show. Let's try and
Speaker 2: do our best, let's not fuck it up and we'll.
Speaker 4: Do that, I know.
Speaker 3: Another one was get over a million views on a
Speaker 3: TikTok oh.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and we did that at the end of last year.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so that was one, and that was we were like, yes,
Speaker 3: we've got ticked another box.
Speaker 1: What did that TikTok get?
Speaker 3: I think it's on six point one million views, which
Speaker 3: is crazy, still moving.
Speaker 1: And the last one was.
Speaker 2: Which you wouldn't believe that this was on the list
Speaker 2: and was probably one of the hardest things that we
Speaker 2: had to achieve, But it was just to not fight
Speaker 2: for two months, to not bicker.
Speaker 3: We've done well. Actually, we've done very well coming out
Speaker 3: of that December month as well.
Speaker 2: I mean we did have like a two week break,
Speaker 2: so it made it mildly easier to not fight for
Speaker 2: two months, but we did it nonetheless. So we have
Speaker 2: merch guys that we have three pieces that we're starting with.
Speaker 1: So we have the gray mild tea that.
Speaker 2: Says Wyha and then Est twenty and twenty one.
Speaker 3: I personally love this this color gray. Literally, I reckon
Speaker 3: it's my favorite color shirt. It's like that real like
Speaker 3: vintage sort of look. It looks like like what we're
Speaker 3: going for.
Speaker 1: The college tea sort of college style.
Speaker 3: Yeah, because I love my vintage teas. We know that,
Speaker 3: and this one will fit handsomely into my wardrobe, into
Speaker 3: my collection.
Speaker 2: Now we have the black tea it says where's your
Speaker 2: header esty twenty one because we started the podcast in
Speaker 2: twenty twenty one. And then we have a tote because
Speaker 2: I just feel like we love a tote.
Speaker 1: We both use them.
Speaker 3: I can see myself walking down to South Melbourne Market
Speaker 3: getting all my fresh products, fresh fruit, fresh.
Speaker 1: Vegetables, seeing fresh fresh produce.
Speaker 3: My fresh produce with this or my fresh fruit, my
Speaker 3: fresh vegetables, putting it into my tope bag, and walking home.
Speaker 1: We're hipstars, very hell.
Speaker 3: As you walk into our house, we have these hooks
Speaker 3: and they've got tope bags hanging there. So we've got like,
Speaker 3: I think, country road one. I can't like a moa one.
Speaker 3: And then I got one from Taco Bill when I
Speaker 3: went there and had a big night there. They gave
Speaker 3: me one for some reason. So I've got that hanging there,
Speaker 3: and then this one will fit perfectly on that rack.
Speaker 1: Or do we just clear the shelf?
Speaker 3: Where's your head? So you grab them as you go shopping? Yeah?
Speaker 2: Well, anyway, guys, we really hope that you love the merch.
Speaker 2: We spent a lot of time designing it, back and forth.
Speaker 3: We nearly had arguments on designing it.
Speaker 2: So know, Matt and I sometimes don't see eye So
Speaker 2: for us to pick three products that we both love,
Speaker 2: we hope that you guys love them.
Speaker 3: Too as much as we do. And for our first
Speaker 3: hundred customers, we have a little surprise in there, don't
Speaker 3: we know we do well. I love being sentimental. We
Speaker 3: know that my gifts are sentimental, so I thought it'd
Speaker 3: be nice for us to do a little sentimental gift.
Speaker 3: So I've printed off a photo of Anna and myself
Speaker 3: and we will give you a personal message on the back.
Speaker 1: Very HiPE Matt. And speaking of sentiment, you know how
Speaker 1: at the end.
Speaker 2: Of last year, I gave you your Birthday present like
Speaker 2: six to eight months late, probably more like eight months,
Speaker 2: but that's okay, And then you ended up giving me
Speaker 2: a little Christmas present. Well, since you're so sentimental, I
Speaker 2: found I reckon the most sentimental gift that you could
Speaker 2: ever receive.
Speaker 3: Oh my head's sticking over.
Speaker 2: I guess, like, what's something that you love more than
Speaker 2: anything in the world?
Speaker 3: Coffee? And I got you a thank you. I don't
Speaker 3: know you tell me.
Speaker 1: Okay, close your eyes.
Speaker 2: Oh no, I'm actually so excited to give that this
Speaker 2: gift open.
Speaker 3: Don't put my hand out.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, do not explain what it is.
Speaker 3: So Anna has got me, which is very cute and
Speaker 3: very funny, but I've got story behind this, very sentimental.
Speaker 3: She's got me my own little sausage dogs. Where do
Speaker 3: you find this?
Speaker 2: It was in a little gift shop and there was
Speaker 2: this like girling guy. It was the last one. There
Speaker 2: was this girling guy.
Speaker 1: Being like, this is so cute. This person would like it,
Speaker 1: and I was like, do not buy that. I was
Speaker 1: like had my eyes glued to it.
Speaker 2: And they put it down and I literally snatched it
Speaker 2: up and went straight to the counter. It's like a
Speaker 2: little sausage dog, and it's like stretchy. It's kind of
Speaker 2: like a stress ball.
Speaker 3: It's like a stressful Yeah, it's the same stress ball.
Speaker 2: Well yeah, and I feel like you've had quite a
Speaker 2: stressful couple of months, and I'm like, let's get mad
Speaker 2: a stress ball in the form of a sausage dog.
Speaker 1: What better gift?
Speaker 3: Thank you? I've got to be honest with you now,
Speaker 3: Oh god, what Jenny and I have one of these.
Speaker 3: So I've got so but but yes, so've We've got
Speaker 3: a brown one and this blonde one, and there are
Speaker 3: so like we want a brown sausage dog called Ready
Speaker 3: and a blonde one called Sage. Yeah, but she gets
Speaker 3: to keep Sage, so this will be my Sage that
Speaker 3: I keep. So I'll keep this on my bedside tape.
Speaker 2: So I'm like sitting here thinking I've just got that
Speaker 2: best gift ever.
Speaker 1: And he has it.
Speaker 3: Well, we found him in Hamilton Island, in a gift
Speaker 3: shop in Hamilton Island. Yeah, random matts. So that's that's
Speaker 3: very cute, very thoughtful. Give you a hug. I don't
Speaker 3: think I wasn't expecting that.
Speaker 2: I didn't give you a proper hug because I didn't
Speaker 2: want to get makeup on your merch.
Speaker 1: I was like, I want that to look Christine.
Speaker 3: For the video, thank you, Thank you for that. Anna.
Speaker 3: I yeah, I really appreciate that. That will go on my
Speaker 3: bedside table.
Speaker 1: That's all good.
Speaker 2: Well, look, guys, there is a link in our description
Speaker 2: if you'd like to get the merch and let's get
Speaker 2: into today's hotline.
Speaker 1: Hello, you've reached Anna and Nutt.
Speaker 3: We can't get to the phone right now, but.
Speaker 2: Please leave us a message on our hotline after the beep.
Speaker 1: Okay, Matt.
Speaker 2: So, this week we had a bunch of absolute gold
Speaker 2: in our voicemail, and our producer Alex has chosen a
Speaker 2: few for us to listen to.
Speaker 3: Okay, So, the first one comes from Harry.
Speaker 5: I guess I didn't tell you, guys, but I think
Speaker 5: your podcast is one of the best podcasts I've ever done.
Speaker 4: This is good questions.
Speaker 5: How good you guys bounce off each other, like.
Speaker 2: Genuinely, like.
Speaker 5: You guys had really really good questions And I felt
Speaker 5: I left that podcast really really good. So if no
Speaker 5: one's told you you guys that, I think you guys
Speaker 5: should be really proud of yourselves.
Speaker 3: And you got something something special. That's really sweet of him.
Speaker 1: Man, doesn't that warm your heart?
Speaker 3: Does? Are you tearing up?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 3: No? Yeah, that's really nice of him because obviously he
Speaker 3: has his own podcast. We know that he does the Rounds,
Speaker 3: he goes on a lot of podcasts, a lot of
Speaker 3: radio shows. For him to say that that's really nice,
Speaker 3: that's really sweet and just shows and gives us that confidence, yeah,
Speaker 3: and recognition for something that we've done. And I really
Speaker 3: like to hear that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that was really sweet. He didn't have to do that.
Speaker 2: As you said, He's been on a lot of podcasts
Speaker 2: and has been interviewed by a lot of people around
Speaker 2: the world, so for him to kind of like make
Speaker 2: a comment like that about our podcast, I mean, I'm
Speaker 2: just like very proud of us.
Speaker 3: So yeah, it's a.
Speaker 2: Very like heartwarming, like start to the day selling Mesh.
Speaker 1: We got we got the nice little compliment from.
Speaker 3: Harry, and we're about to hear what the other people
Speaker 3: have in the hot line, so hopefully they don't lower
Speaker 3: their tone. This one comes from Victoria.
Speaker 4: Okay, hey guys, I'm Victoria.
Speaker 6: I went on a date with this guy last year
Speaker 6: and he was just not it, you know. So I
Speaker 6: met up with him and he was kind of worse
Speaker 6: than his pictures, Like his pictures were like a five
Speaker 6: and then he.
Speaker 3: Was like a four.
Speaker 4: Anyway, we were talking and I felt like.
Speaker 6: An interview and he knew, like I told him that
Speaker 6: I had ADHD and he was like, oh, yeah, I've
Speaker 6: got a stepsister like that, so I know all about it.
Speaker 6: And then he turned around and said, I don't see
Speaker 6: ADHD as a disability now, I have ADHD and I
Speaker 6: work in a support so like I know all about it,
Speaker 6: you know.
Speaker 4: And anyways, I was like okay. Then we were talking.
Speaker 6: He turned around and asked with his like, so, what
Speaker 6: do you like when you're frustrated?
Speaker 4: And I was like, well, tind of a question is that?
Speaker 4: I what do you mean? And he goes, I just
Speaker 4: want to know what I'm getting myself into.
Speaker 6: Talking some more and he's like, so would you do,
Speaker 6: like any heavy work and I was like, yeah, Like
Speaker 6: what do you mean. He goes pick up a shovel
Speaker 6: and he's like I was like yeah, and he goes,
Speaker 6: I just noticed that get nails done.
Speaker 4: Oh I haven't broken now as well. I was like, needing.
Speaker 6: I was getting my nails done the next day. I
Speaker 6: don't need to have my nails done to not do
Speaker 6: heavy work.
Speaker 4: You know, or pick up a shovel.
Speaker 6: As he said, Anyways, we're talking some more and he
Speaker 6: I was like, oh, yeah, so what did you do
Speaker 6: after high school? I noticed that you like, we're in
Speaker 6: the army and he's like, oh, yeah, I was in
Speaker 6: the army for a year. And I was like, oh,
Speaker 6: I have a mate whose fiancee at the time was
Speaker 6: in the Navy and.
Speaker 4: He goes, no, they're completely different.
Speaker 6: I was like, I'm sorry, I'm not the one that's
Speaker 6: dating the guy Navy, Like I know one's a water
Speaker 6: and one's a dot, but I don't know what the
Speaker 6: difference was.
Speaker 4: And then he said that he was in it for
Speaker 4: a year.
Speaker 6: Now, that's a massive red flag if you're in the
Speaker 6: Navy for a year.
Speaker 4: And so I called my friend after and.
Speaker 6: She told him, and he said, you can only be
Speaker 6: in the military for a minimum of four years. And
Speaker 6: he goes, there's no way you could leave the military
Speaker 6: after a year unless you've been psyched out or got
Speaker 6: a criminal record, like there's no other way sort of thing.
Speaker 6: I was like, oh shit, what a massive red flag, right,
Speaker 6: what is he not telling me? And then later on
Speaker 6: we were talking about what we look.
Speaker 4: For in people and all that, and I.
Speaker 6: Said, oh, yeah, I look for honesty because in my
Speaker 6: last relationship situationship, the guy that broke up with me,
Speaker 6: he told me that he wasn't ready for one for
Speaker 6: a couple of months and then he got with some
Speaker 6: chip the next day, so that was great. So I said, oh, yeah,
Speaker 6: me too, like I like honesty too, And then he's like, well,
Speaker 6: I'm honest because I'm a dick, and you're honest because
Speaker 6: you can't help it.
Speaker 4: And I'm like, well thanks.
Speaker 6: And it turns out it was his first Tinder date
Speaker 6: or first day in general, because he had a lassical X.
Speaker 6: We were talking about communication and he would only message
Speaker 6: me in twenty minute increment sort of thing, and he
Speaker 6: was like, oh, yeah, I'm not on my phone a
Speaker 6: lot sort of thing. He goes like, I'd see your message,
Speaker 6: but like I would just reply to it later.
Speaker 2: And all that.
Speaker 4: And I was like, well, if you really like someone,
Speaker 4: you make the time to message them, you know.
Speaker 6: So then after the date, I like said thank you
Speaker 6: for the day and then blocked him because like, I'm
Speaker 6: not wasting my time on that.
Speaker 4: It's just not worth it.
Speaker 3: Okay, So first of all, a.
Speaker 1: Lot there is a lot to unpack the.
Speaker 3: Yes, Victoria Vicky. There is a lot of red flags
Speaker 3: with this guy. He could have just like, can't you
Speaker 3: design the army as well? You like ditch who knows?
Speaker 2: But that was just so much like I had heaps
Speaker 2: of shit to say after the first point she made,
Speaker 2: never mind ten points later. I mean, there's a lot
Speaker 2: of red flags with this guy. Why is he saying like, Oh,
Speaker 2: I don't see ADHD as a disability.
Speaker 1: That's a weird thing to say.
Speaker 3: Sounds very ignorant, Yeah, very stupid.
Speaker 1: And like like I feel like I need to re listen. Yeah,
Speaker 1: to like listen, we need to real listen. Okay.
Speaker 2: So firstly she's she's given this guy a five out
Speaker 2: of just from pictures, but then the guy the poor
Speaker 2: guys have rocked half and she's like, nah, he's a four. Okay,
Speaker 2: there's obviously nothing worse than going on a first day
Speaker 2: and someone's interviewing me. I mean, the guy kind of
Speaker 2: sounds a little bit.
Speaker 1: Like a no it all. What did she say that?
Speaker 2: She was like, oh, I have eighty HG and has
Speaker 2: kind of like opened up to him about that. And
Speaker 2: then his first response is, oh, I know everything about
Speaker 2: that because when my step say start, it's.
Speaker 3: Like no, no, you're not the one living with it
Speaker 3: every day.
Speaker 2: And also like everyone's different, Like one person's experience is
Speaker 2: not the same as like someone else's.
Speaker 1: I don't like think that you know me because you don't,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean.
Speaker 3: Yeah, he does sound like a know it all, know
Speaker 3: it all, and that's a turn off. As well. Isn't
Speaker 3: it when you go on a date with someone in
Speaker 3: there and know it all? They're like, oh, I know this,
Speaker 3: and then they start you know what I mean?
Speaker 2: Like, like, I think it's a worse combination, like an
Speaker 2: interview style interview mixed with a know it all attitude,
Speaker 2: Like that has to be the worst first date kind
Speaker 2: of little mix there is.
Speaker 3: To be fair, I would have already called them in
Speaker 3: on this date if I was Vicky by now, I.
Speaker 1: Reckon absolutely Okay, let's hear more.
Speaker 3: I think a lot of my exes would have saved
Speaker 3: themselves a lot of time if they'd ask me that
Speaker 3: on the first day. Yeah, what do you like when
Speaker 3: you're frustrated? I get fucking frustrated and really irritable.
Speaker 1: I'm a fucking nightmare, nightmare to deal with.
Speaker 2: It's just such a stupid question to ask someone like
Speaker 2: on a first day, on a first day, like who
Speaker 2: is going to be? Like I'm an absolute nightmare run like,
Speaker 2: you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Like, you have to get to know people.
Speaker 2: And also in saying that, I feel like different personalities
Speaker 2: affect how you are in you know, conflict situations. For instance,
Speaker 2: me with my ex boyfriend, you could probably classify me
Speaker 2: as a nightmare. Me with Michael, I'm pretty understanding. I'm
Speaker 2: pretty level headed. I definitely don't bite it at him.
Speaker 2: I'm very like cool, come conflected, I think things through.
Speaker 1: I don't really yell. So like different people are different.
Speaker 3: To say that, with my ex, it was like we
Speaker 3: were both just two ones that would just go at
Speaker 3: it and like it would be no if we're frustrated,
Speaker 3: there was no no resolution to the conflict. We'd just
Speaker 3: go going at it NonStop. Yeah, it just depends who
Speaker 3: you're with, I guess.
Speaker 1: So it's a weird question to ask.
Speaker 3: It sounds like this guy would be the worst guy
Speaker 3: to have it be frustrated with. He sounds like he
Speaker 3: would be you know it all and.
Speaker 2: You know what, it sounds like. It sounds like he's
Speaker 2: not a very level headed guy. So he's like trying
Speaker 2: to check her frustration levels to see if she can
Speaker 2: deal with him.
Speaker 3: Maybe maybe if we listen, well then give it to him.
Speaker 3: That's pretty smart. Okay, So if a guy asked you Anna,
Speaker 3: if you do any heavy lifting, I would.
Speaker 1: Say absolutely not. Go fuck yourself. What type of question
Speaker 1: is that on a first date?
Speaker 2: Would you do any heavy work, And it's almost as
Speaker 2: if if she does say no, it's like he's.
Speaker 1: Like judging her.
Speaker 3: I just reckon he out of it a landscaping to
Speaker 3: do in the backyard to give him, he had to
Speaker 3: move all the crusted rock to think she's.
Speaker 1: On a first day.
Speaker 2: He's doing a job interview for the garden work. Also,
Speaker 2: it's so rude that he's like pointed out that she
Speaker 2: has a broken nail. If I had a broken oil
Speaker 2: and someone pointed it out, I would be like, that
Speaker 2: is literally grounds for dismissal.
Speaker 3: I would ghost to be fair, Yeah, I wouldn't even
Speaker 3: notice that on a girl I was on a day
Speaker 3: broken nail.
Speaker 2: He should be like, yeah, I'm so irritated with this guy,
Speaker 2: Like I'm off him. Babe, you don't need to do
Speaker 2: heavy work like he can do the heavy work. I
Speaker 2: don't feel like you need to like go help him
Speaker 2: with the help him Like that's a hymn problem, not
Speaker 2: a year problem.
Speaker 3: I mean, it could be nice for a couple to
Speaker 3: do some gardening together.
Speaker 1: I mean, if that's up your alley, it's not up mine.
Speaker 3: I mean he could make that time to look very
Speaker 3: masculine and do the digging for it.
Speaker 1: Could turn her on, like get laid.
Speaker 3: This guy's not getting laid, absolutely not. I don't know
Speaker 3: enough about military and army rules to really comment on that,
Speaker 3: but if they're saying that you could either be psyched
Speaker 3: out or have a criminal record to leave, I think
Speaker 3: that's saying enough.
Speaker 2: If what they're saying is true, then that is like
Speaker 2: a really big red flag.
Speaker 3: This guy's a walking red flag, isn't he.
Speaker 2: I Mean she did say that it's his like first
Speaker 2: hinder day in forever. So maybe he's just like a
Speaker 2: little bit musty. He's kind of like not really experienced.
Speaker 2: He's just putting his foot in it left, right and center.
Speaker 2: And maybe look, maybe this guy could have gone away
Speaker 2: from that date and thought I absolutely watched the fuck
Speaker 2: out of that date and I'm not getting a callback,
Speaker 2: which he didn't.
Speaker 1: Maybe he's self aware. Is that likely from the sound.
Speaker 3: He's gone on multiple dates like that and he's just like,
Speaker 3: why isn't this working?
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I'm actually scared of this guy, Like
Speaker 2: I have a sense of like panish.
Speaker 1: It's just like scary.
Speaker 3: Should we move on to the next hot line?
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's do it. That was a long one for us.
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay. So the next one comes in from Jill.
Speaker 7: Okay, Hi man Anna, this is Ireland.
Speaker 1: Hey, okay, thanks.
Speaker 7: So I have a really crazy story about this Army.
Speaker 3: Guy that I used to date again Army guys.
Speaker 7: We're hooking up one night and we were using a
Speaker 7: condom and I not on the pill. I wasn't at
Speaker 7: the time either, So then he went home and he
Speaker 7: messaged me the following morning, I think.
Speaker 4: Asking if I would.
Speaker 7: Be able to take the morning after pill, and I said, oh, why,
Speaker 7: because we did use the condom, and you know, I
Speaker 7: didn't think that anything had happened in terms of it
Speaker 7: like ripping or slipping off, and he was like, oh, actually,
Speaker 7: I'm not sure if it was on correctly. I think
Speaker 7: it might have slipped off properly. And I was like, okay,
Speaker 7: but why didn't you say anything at the time, So
Speaker 7: it read your message to me the day after telling
Speaker 7: me you think the condom was non properly. So then
Speaker 7: I started thinking maybe he took it off while I
Speaker 7: wasn't looking, or I didn't realize why would he be messaging.
Speaker 1: Me saying this.
Speaker 7: It was just didn't make any sense to me that
Speaker 7: he didn't say anything in the moment. So then then
Speaker 7: confronted him. I was like, be honest, like did you
Speaker 7: take off the condom? And he was like no, no, oh,
Speaker 7: of course not.
Speaker 4: I would never do that.
Speaker 7: I'm just really paranoid because if I were to go
Speaker 7: back to the Army, I wouldn't want to have a
Speaker 7: baby on the way. And I was like, what, like
Speaker 7: that wouldn't even happen. Like he was really really paranoid.
Speaker 7: He really wanted me to take the morning after, but
Speaker 7: I told him, look, I'm not gonna do because I.
Speaker 4: Don't think there's a need.
Speaker 7: So he was like, all right, but you know, if
Speaker 7: you don't get your period or whatever, let me know.
Speaker 7: So then I actually didn't get my period when I
Speaker 7: was supposed to, is fine because I usually don't get
Speaker 7: it on time, so I didn't really worry about that.
Speaker 7: Then he like really really really wanted me to take
Speaker 7: a pregnancy test, and I was like, look, I just
Speaker 7: wait another week, like usually my career comes like this.
Speaker 7: He was like, no, you need to take a pregnancy
Speaker 7: test right now.
Speaker 4: And he's super.
Speaker 7: Super paranoid, and I think I was on holiday at
Speaker 7: the time, so he was actually like really annoying me
Speaker 7: with this because I knew I wasn't pregnant because like
Speaker 7: nothing had happened, right, So then he sent me the
Speaker 7: money for the pregnancy test and I bought shots for
Speaker 7: me and my friends and.
Speaker 4: Ended up not being pregnant.
Speaker 1: So yeah, thank god.
Speaker 4: Very paranoid.
Speaker 7: Fun fact, I did meet up with him again because
Speaker 7: it was really good. I did realize that he was
Speaker 7: really really paranoid because sex again, he kept changing the
Speaker 7: condom like every two minutes. We spent six condoms for
Speaker 7: sex alass so maybe fifteen minutes because he was so
Speaker 7: paranorim he kept thinking that the condoms would like be
Speaker 7: leaking or broken or whatnot.
Speaker 4: I don't even know.
Speaker 7: But it was the strangest thing ever. And I'm never
Speaker 7: meeting up with an every guy.
Speaker 2: Do you know what it sounds like, Matt. It sounds
Speaker 2: like this guy has got someone pregnant.
Speaker 3: I was going to say that I was.
Speaker 2: He's like paranoid about another pregnancy, because maybe it's like traumatized.
Speaker 3: I was literally I was seeing the exact same thing
Speaker 3: from a from a bloke's point of view. It sounds
Speaker 3: like he has like knocked someone up before in like
Speaker 3: by accident, and they're like, you know, what I mean,
Speaker 3: and he does want it again. But if he's having
Speaker 3: sex that first time and he's so paranoid, why wasn't
Speaker 3: he Like you would know if a condom comes off
Speaker 3: or it's not put on properly.
Speaker 1: Like so you think that maybe he took it off.
Speaker 3: No, I don't think he took it off. But like
Speaker 3: I just feel like I do not notice.
Speaker 2: I think he's just OCD and just paranoid. And maybe
Speaker 2: he didn't change the condom. They only used.
Speaker 3: One, so he's shit.
Speaker 1: It might have broke.
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, double check, Like he seems to be racking
Speaker 2: up a huge condom bill like that. That's that's a
Speaker 2: lot of condoms during one sexual encounter.
Speaker 3: Well, we always promote safe sex here it where's your
Speaker 3: head at? So no stress with using the con on.
Speaker 3: But I think that like.
Speaker 1: One once will suffice if it's put.
Speaker 3: On properly, I think that one will do the job.
Speaker 2: Also, I do want to say that at the start
Speaker 2: of that story, it kind of sounded like he had
Speaker 2: taken the condom off during sex, and just a little
Speaker 2: bit of education for anyone listening.
Speaker 1: He might not know this.
Speaker 2: If someone does take a condom off during sex without
Speaker 2: telling you that is sexual assault.
Speaker 3: Of course, one hundred percent. It's not on Like, if
Speaker 3: a girl asked you to wear a condom, you wear
Speaker 3: a condom. You respect it. Yeah, definitely respect their request
Speaker 3: and their wishes. What a ship bloke if he did that?
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, look, I'm glad the jill went back for seconds.
Speaker 2: I'm glad that although although this guy is very OCD
Speaker 2: and over the top with the condoms, at least he's
Speaker 2: good in bed.
Speaker 3: Well that's what Yeah, okay, yeah, at least.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not all bad news.
Speaker 3: When you said she went back, I was like, what
Speaker 3: the fuck? And then she was like it was good sex,
Speaker 3: And I'm like, we've all been there. We've all gone
Speaker 3: back if someone is crazy because the sex is good.
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