1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:03,279 Speaker 1: We're talking secret lovers. 2 00:00:04,760 --> 00:00:06,960 Speaker 2: Thirteen twenty four ten is our number? Have you been 3 00:00:07,080 --> 00:00:11,200 Speaker 2: a part of a secret relationship? And for how long? 4 00:00:11,760 --> 00:00:15,120 Speaker 3: Why are we talking about secret lovers? Who's got a 5 00:00:15,120 --> 00:00:16,000 Speaker 3: secret lover in here? 6 00:00:17,760 --> 00:00:18,120 Speaker 1: Quinn? 7 00:00:18,360 --> 00:00:22,600 Speaker 3: You haven't turned his microphone on, Jacks, that was a problem. 8 00:00:23,640 --> 00:00:26,960 Speaker 4: Well, I'm just catching up on the news, so me 9 00:00:27,040 --> 00:00:31,560 Speaker 4: as I read on the run. But a promise ring, 10 00:00:31,960 --> 00:00:35,200 Speaker 4: that's right. A promise ring could prove crucial in what's 11 00:00:35,240 --> 00:00:39,760 Speaker 4: being described as an explosive inheritance battle between the wife 12 00:00:40,280 --> 00:00:44,680 Speaker 4: and alleged lover of a prominent football figure who died 13 00:00:44,720 --> 00:00:46,080 Speaker 4: back in twenty twenty three. 14 00:00:46,200 --> 00:00:47,480 Speaker 1: So basically, instead. 15 00:00:47,200 --> 00:00:48,960 Speaker 3: Of an engagement ring, it's a promise ring. 16 00:00:49,560 --> 00:00:51,479 Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, that's something you'd roll out in high school. 17 00:00:51,920 --> 00:00:57,360 Speaker 4: So they were having a romantic and sexual relationship for 18 00:00:57,560 --> 00:00:59,800 Speaker 4: many years, and now the promise ring is at the 19 00:00:59,800 --> 00:01:01,400 Speaker 4: scene of a dispute. 20 00:01:00,960 --> 00:01:03,040 Speaker 3: Over a football player from a ring will get you out? 21 00:01:03,080 --> 00:01:05,200 Speaker 3: Do we know who was a football identity? Do we 22 00:01:05,280 --> 00:01:05,560 Speaker 3: know who? 23 00:01:06,480 --> 00:01:09,520 Speaker 1: We can't say. Let's go to Grace, Grace. Have you 24 00:01:09,920 --> 00:01:11,080 Speaker 1: had a secret lover? 25 00:01:12,440 --> 00:01:13,160 Speaker 5: I had. 26 00:01:13,280 --> 00:01:17,440 Speaker 6: I was dating my best friend's brother in high school 27 00:01:17,600 --> 00:01:19,840 Speaker 6: and it was the secret for about six months. 28 00:01:21,319 --> 00:01:22,800 Speaker 3: How did your best friend find out? 29 00:01:23,959 --> 00:01:24,600 Speaker 4: I ended up. 30 00:01:24,480 --> 00:01:25,280 Speaker 2: Having to tell him. 31 00:01:25,280 --> 00:01:26,440 Speaker 1: I felt so bad. 32 00:01:26,440 --> 00:01:28,400 Speaker 2: But then again his parents found. 33 00:01:28,160 --> 00:01:31,160 Speaker 6: Out as well as my partner accidentally told him over 34 00:01:31,200 --> 00:01:33,959 Speaker 6: the friend while they were in Bali and they knew me. 35 00:01:34,680 --> 00:01:38,640 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, it's that. It's always that often, not for me. 36 00:01:38,680 --> 00:01:42,840 Speaker 3: I never dated any of my friends brothers, but it 37 00:01:42,959 --> 00:01:45,440 Speaker 3: was my brother's friends that I was always chasing. 38 00:01:45,840 --> 00:01:47,480 Speaker 1: Yes, oh yes. 39 00:01:47,319 --> 00:01:48,480 Speaker 3: Having an older brother. It happened. 40 00:01:48,520 --> 00:01:49,400 Speaker 4: And did it go down alright? 41 00:01:49,560 --> 00:01:50,000 Speaker 1: Or no? 42 00:01:50,160 --> 00:01:50,640 Speaker 3: Not very well? 43 00:01:51,120 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 1: Was Bowen like you leave my group? 44 00:01:53,520 --> 00:01:54,520 Speaker 3: Yeah? 45 00:01:54,920 --> 00:01:56,000 Speaker 4: Was he off you or the friend? 46 00:01:56,600 --> 00:01:59,080 Speaker 3: Both of us mostly me obviously. 47 00:01:58,800 --> 00:02:04,200 Speaker 1: And we're his friends pretty keen? One my friends, no, 48 00:02:04,440 --> 00:02:04,760 Speaker 1: just one. 49 00:02:05,640 --> 00:02:08,519 Speaker 3: It didn't go down well. It was a family meeting. 50 00:02:09,520 --> 00:02:14,560 Speaker 3: One got involved in your family meeting my brother and 51 00:02:14,600 --> 00:02:18,400 Speaker 3: I was really, yeah, you can't tell me what to do. 52 00:02:18,480 --> 00:02:20,480 Speaker 3: Can you imagine my brother trying to tell me. 53 00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:22,040 Speaker 2: What I Even if you weren't interested in the guy, 54 00:02:22,040 --> 00:02:24,160 Speaker 2: you'd back on with him just to annoy but probably. 55 00:02:24,600 --> 00:02:26,480 Speaker 3: But I was off limits for most of his mates. 56 00:02:26,639 --> 00:02:28,680 Speaker 3: But there was fine for him to date my friends 57 00:02:28,760 --> 00:02:31,040 Speaker 3: or no problem, not that any of them wanted to 58 00:02:31,120 --> 00:02:34,639 Speaker 3: date him because he was feral that's all big brothers are. 59 00:02:34,919 --> 00:02:37,080 Speaker 1: God, it still stings. 60 00:02:36,720 --> 00:02:38,760 Speaker 4: A little bit, Yeah, a little bite the one that 61 00:02:38,840 --> 00:02:40,559 Speaker 4: got away, perhaps thirty. 62 00:02:41,280 --> 00:02:44,280 Speaker 1: Already that I'm talking secret. 63 00:02:43,880 --> 00:02:46,959 Speaker 3: Relationship, Nadia, Good morning. Did you have a secret lover? 64 00:02:47,600 --> 00:02:49,160 Speaker 5: Good morning? Yes, I certainly did. 65 00:02:49,600 --> 00:02:50,799 Speaker 3: Oh tell us. 66 00:02:51,600 --> 00:02:52,960 Speaker 5: It was my dad's housemates. 67 00:02:57,480 --> 00:02:58,720 Speaker 3: Was he the same age as your dad? 68 00:03:00,200 --> 00:03:01,440 Speaker 5: Round? The same age as my dad? 69 00:03:01,520 --> 00:03:04,640 Speaker 1: Yet guessing? Guessing? He played the away game and stayed 70 00:03:04,639 --> 00:03:05,079 Speaker 1: at yours? 71 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:08,120 Speaker 5: No, no, no, I would wait for Dad to go. 72 00:03:08,080 --> 00:03:12,200 Speaker 4: Out and speaking, He'd sneak in and out. How long? 73 00:03:12,360 --> 00:03:15,400 Speaker 4: How long are we talking now? 74 00:03:15,560 --> 00:03:17,480 Speaker 3: Did dad find out or did you break up? 75 00:03:18,840 --> 00:03:21,760 Speaker 5: I broke up and they didn't find out till quite 76 00:03:21,760 --> 00:03:22,560 Speaker 5: a few years later. 77 00:03:22,680 --> 00:03:24,000 Speaker 1: And then did he kick him out of the house? 78 00:03:24,639 --> 00:03:28,120 Speaker 5: No, No, he moved out like before that. So it 79 00:03:28,200 --> 00:03:30,119 Speaker 5: was all hash hash and it only sort of came 80 00:03:30,120 --> 00:03:32,119 Speaker 5: out like quite a few years later. 81 00:03:32,240 --> 00:03:35,200 Speaker 3: So was it so lack exhilaration? 82 00:03:36,120 --> 00:03:37,680 Speaker 5: Yeah, one hundred percent. It was my thirst. 83 00:03:37,880 --> 00:03:41,960 Speaker 3: So it was what her first love affair? 84 00:03:42,680 --> 00:03:47,040 Speaker 2: First fling Chantellvision twenty four ten. 85 00:03:47,120 --> 00:03:50,600 Speaker 1: Hello, good morning, good morning, our secret lovers? What do 86 00:03:50,600 --> 00:03:50,920 Speaker 1: you got? 87 00:03:52,440 --> 00:03:57,000 Speaker 6: I had a relationship with the man for that I 88 00:03:57,040 --> 00:04:00,000 Speaker 6: worked with for sixteen years and it was a secret. 89 00:04:00,280 --> 00:04:02,040 Speaker 3: Why was it a secret, Chantelle? 90 00:04:03,280 --> 00:04:08,600 Speaker 6: Our life circumstances. You know, we're both in marriage at. 91 00:04:08,520 --> 00:04:13,320 Speaker 3: The start, you were both married sixteen years? Yeah, hang on, 92 00:04:13,440 --> 00:04:16,840 Speaker 3: so wait you were married, he was married, but you were. 93 00:04:16,960 --> 00:04:17,680 Speaker 3: Were you in love? 94 00:04:18,440 --> 00:04:18,680 Speaker 6: Yep? 95 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:19,640 Speaker 1: Wow? 96 00:04:19,680 --> 00:04:21,680 Speaker 3: How come you didn't leave you? But like, if you 97 00:04:21,720 --> 00:04:22,200 Speaker 3: don't be. 98 00:04:22,160 --> 00:04:26,799 Speaker 6: Asking, I did for a completely different reason. But he didn't. 99 00:04:26,880 --> 00:04:28,719 Speaker 1: And did you ever? 100 00:04:29,120 --> 00:04:30,000 Speaker 3: And it just kept going? 101 00:04:30,400 --> 00:04:32,880 Speaker 1: Chantel? Did you ever slip up? Was there ever any 102 00:04:32,920 --> 00:04:34,400 Speaker 1: sort of close calls? 103 00:04:34,960 --> 00:04:35,520 Speaker 6: Only one? 104 00:04:35,880 --> 00:04:36,520 Speaker 1: What happened? 105 00:04:38,240 --> 00:04:40,680 Speaker 6: Just a message was left out of ours, which was 106 00:04:40,880 --> 00:04:41,880 Speaker 6: kind of against the rule. 107 00:04:42,040 --> 00:04:47,200 Speaker 3: So we had rules. And did any either of your 108 00:04:47,240 --> 00:04:48,360 Speaker 3: partners ever find out? 109 00:04:50,360 --> 00:04:50,600 Speaker 6: Mine? 110 00:04:50,640 --> 00:04:50,960 Speaker 3: Didn't? 111 00:04:51,400 --> 00:04:52,400 Speaker 1: He did? Oh? 112 00:04:52,440 --> 00:04:54,560 Speaker 3: And did they stay together after that? Yep? 113 00:04:54,600 --> 00:04:55,360 Speaker 6: They're still together. 114 00:04:55,480 --> 00:04:56,800 Speaker 3: And was that heartbreaking for you? 115 00:04:57,320 --> 00:04:57,560 Speaker 6: Yeah? 116 00:04:58,360 --> 00:05:01,840 Speaker 3: But I imagine it was more heartbreaking for his wife. 117 00:05:01,720 --> 00:05:04,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, of course. Yeah. 118 00:05:04,480 --> 00:05:05,240 Speaker 3: Do you regret it? 119 00:05:06,080 --> 00:05:06,279 Speaker 6: No? 120 00:05:07,160 --> 00:05:08,560 Speaker 3: Because you're in love? Ye? 121 00:05:09,360 --> 00:05:11,760 Speaker 1: Sorry you were? You don't see this fellow. 122 00:05:12,440 --> 00:05:15,440 Speaker 6: I don't have much contact? 123 00:05:15,520 --> 00:05:17,080 Speaker 1: No, no, but you still do have some? 124 00:05:17,839 --> 00:05:18,080 Speaker 3: Yeah? 125 00:05:18,800 --> 00:05:20,719 Speaker 1: Do we still is it still on? Do we still 126 00:05:20,720 --> 00:05:21,120 Speaker 1: hook up? 127 00:05:22,279 --> 00:05:23,360 Speaker 3: Are you still in love with him? 128 00:05:23,880 --> 00:05:25,120 Speaker 6: Yeah? 129 00:05:24,600 --> 00:05:25,400 Speaker 4: Oh? 130 00:05:26,279 --> 00:05:27,200 Speaker 1: God? What a mess? 131 00:05:27,640 --> 00:05:28,560 Speaker 4: Oh that will help. 132 00:05:28,720 --> 00:05:31,000 Speaker 3: Yeh, sorry, are you single now? 133 00:05:33,120 --> 00:05:33,880 Speaker 1: An animal song? 134 00:05:34,040 --> 00:05:34,679 Speaker 3: My bad? 135 00:05:35,440 --> 00:05:36,039 Speaker 1: There we go. 136 00:05:38,200 --> 00:05:40,960 Speaker 3: My brother's texting, Oh. 137 00:05:40,279 --> 00:05:42,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, here we go. This is where. This is where 138 00:05:42,440 --> 00:05:43,479 Speaker 1: your brother's about to review. 139 00:05:43,720 --> 00:05:49,320 Speaker 3: He just sent me an emoji of him flipping the burd. Now. 140 00:05:49,440 --> 00:05:50,880 Speaker 3: I don't know if that's because I said he was 141 00:05:50,920 --> 00:05:54,279 Speaker 3: feral as a teenager because I dated his mate. 142 00:05:54,520 --> 00:05:56,560 Speaker 1: I reckon, what a course of damage? 143 00:05:56,960 --> 00:05:57,000 Speaker 5: No? 144 00:05:58,480 --> 00:06:08,000 Speaker 3: What yeas and Lauren? Lauren wake up feeling good following 145 00:06:08,040 --> 00:06:09,240 Speaker 3: them on the socials. 146 00:06:09,400 --> 00:06:12,320 Speaker 1: So I