1 00:00:02,120 --> 00:00:04,040 Speaker 1: And with Cape Rickie Podcast. 2 00:00:05,519 --> 00:00:07,880 Speaker 2: Welcome to the podcasts. I don't know if I've mentioned it, 3 00:00:07,920 --> 00:00:09,680 Speaker 2: but I've been doing polarates. 4 00:00:09,520 --> 00:00:12,479 Speaker 3: I heard and this is the seventh time you've mentioned 5 00:00:12,520 --> 00:00:13,080 Speaker 3: it on the show. 6 00:00:13,119 --> 00:00:15,280 Speaker 4: You keep asking me questions about it. How's the parties going? 7 00:00:15,440 --> 00:00:16,280 Speaker 5: You keep bringing it up? 8 00:00:16,320 --> 00:00:18,320 Speaker 4: Mate, I'm going to do down at Peachs. 9 00:00:18,800 --> 00:00:20,560 Speaker 3: It's another break just to tell us that you're the 10 00:00:20,600 --> 00:00:21,800 Speaker 3: only bloke in the class. 11 00:00:21,960 --> 00:00:24,440 Speaker 2: No, not, you know, there's more information. It's an update 12 00:00:24,480 --> 00:00:26,160 Speaker 2: on how I'm going in the class and a little 13 00:00:26,160 --> 00:00:28,120 Speaker 2: bit of what should I wear in the class? Asked 14 00:00:28,160 --> 00:00:30,200 Speaker 2: for an update me and my sisters. There's so many. 15 00:00:30,280 --> 00:00:31,840 Speaker 2: Look at all these emails that have come through. 16 00:00:31,880 --> 00:00:34,000 Speaker 4: Hey we've got one. Sounds awesome. You're doing parlarties. 17 00:00:34,080 --> 00:00:35,080 Speaker 5: We don't take emails. 18 00:00:35,120 --> 00:00:36,440 Speaker 4: Are you on the Reformer or the map? 19 00:00:36,840 --> 00:00:39,440 Speaker 2: Getting heaps of heaps of questions? Can you give us 20 00:00:39,440 --> 00:00:41,800 Speaker 2: an update where that's from Trevor in Canberra? 21 00:00:42,640 --> 00:00:45,360 Speaker 4: Okay? Sure on the podcast if you've been update on polarts. 22 00:00:45,640 --> 00:00:46,199 Speaker 6: This is the. 23 00:00:46,159 --> 00:00:50,319 Speaker 3: FITZI and Whipper with Cape Richie Podcast. Ivan Brezik has 24 00:00:50,320 --> 00:00:52,800 Speaker 3: given us another video whip. Ivan Brezik is the guy 25 00:00:52,840 --> 00:00:55,760 Speaker 3: from Bresik Whitney real estate agent. He was the one 26 00:00:55,800 --> 00:00:59,000 Speaker 3: we've spoken about him before. He just it just doesn't 27 00:00:59,080 --> 00:01:02,200 Speaker 3: understand why people I have a dislike for real estate agents. 28 00:01:02,680 --> 00:01:05,040 Speaker 7: You know, this is just to all the real estate 29 00:01:05,080 --> 00:01:06,200 Speaker 7: agent haters out there. 30 00:01:07,120 --> 00:01:09,240 Speaker 8: You don't know us. It's the simple that you think 31 00:01:09,240 --> 00:01:10,200 Speaker 8: we're overpaid. 32 00:01:10,440 --> 00:01:10,800 Speaker 5: We're not. 33 00:01:11,360 --> 00:01:13,319 Speaker 8: We are the hardest working industry. 34 00:01:13,720 --> 00:01:16,120 Speaker 7: Show me an industry that are committed at us, who 35 00:01:16,360 --> 00:01:19,160 Speaker 7: still love their health and fitness and generally motivate and 36 00:01:19,160 --> 00:01:20,120 Speaker 7: inspired people. 37 00:01:20,560 --> 00:01:21,839 Speaker 8: So you know, to. 38 00:01:22,000 --> 00:01:24,959 Speaker 7: Anyone who slags the real estate industry, you simply don't 39 00:01:25,000 --> 00:01:25,440 Speaker 7: know us. 40 00:01:26,160 --> 00:01:28,840 Speaker 8: And if you think we're overpaid, you come and try it. 41 00:01:28,920 --> 00:01:31,400 Speaker 3: Ivans I think he sold out of Bresik Whitney. You 42 00:01:31,520 --> 00:01:32,320 Speaker 3: ain't a lot of money. 43 00:01:32,400 --> 00:01:35,360 Speaker 2: Well, now he's got a social media career. Well, this 44 00:01:35,520 --> 00:01:37,800 Speaker 2: is a lot of chats with the camera these days. 45 00:01:37,840 --> 00:01:39,640 Speaker 5: And he's gone on a bit of a trip over 46 00:01:39,680 --> 00:01:40,280 Speaker 5: to the States. 47 00:01:40,480 --> 00:01:44,560 Speaker 3: Has yeah okay, and he noticed something over in the States. 48 00:01:44,959 --> 00:01:46,679 Speaker 8: Everyone, someone please help me. 49 00:01:46,760 --> 00:01:49,440 Speaker 7: I've been back in America for about a month and 50 00:01:49,480 --> 00:01:51,680 Speaker 7: everyone I speak to you who sort of follows me 51 00:01:51,720 --> 00:01:54,440 Speaker 7: and whatever, they can't believe the amount of hate that 52 00:01:54,520 --> 00:01:57,040 Speaker 7: there is towards real estate agents in Australia. 53 00:01:57,840 --> 00:01:59,160 Speaker 8: It's wild. I don't understand. 54 00:01:59,240 --> 00:02:03,760 Speaker 7: So like here, there's not like, there's very little, you know, 55 00:02:04,040 --> 00:02:06,720 Speaker 7: animosity towards reali state agents. And the funny thing is 56 00:02:07,080 --> 00:02:10,760 Speaker 7: they charge between four and six percent per transaction. They're 57 00:02:10,840 --> 00:02:13,720 Speaker 7: less committed, mostly than Australian agents had. 58 00:02:14,200 --> 00:02:15,960 Speaker 8: It's hard to get hold of them a lot of 59 00:02:15,960 --> 00:02:16,400 Speaker 8: the time. 60 00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:22,240 Speaker 7: Australia's got a transparent system. They're always available typically they 61 00:02:22,240 --> 00:02:25,160 Speaker 7: should be. And yet there's so much Is this an 62 00:02:25,160 --> 00:02:26,840 Speaker 7: Australian thing? Is this an American thing? 63 00:02:26,840 --> 00:02:28,960 Speaker 8: I don't know. Is Americans just nicer? Maybe I'm in the. 64 00:02:29,000 --> 00:02:32,320 Speaker 7: Right country, but someone please help me understand. Why is 65 00:02:32,320 --> 00:02:35,080 Speaker 7: there so much hatred to the real state agents in Australia? 66 00:02:35,520 --> 00:02:36,400 Speaker 4: Comment below you. 67 00:02:36,360 --> 00:02:38,560 Speaker 3: Know, yeah, and that's where I'll read out a few 68 00:02:38,560 --> 00:02:39,240 Speaker 3: of the comments. 69 00:02:39,240 --> 00:02:42,839 Speaker 4: Oh you got most people care more than they do. 70 00:02:42,919 --> 00:02:46,959 Speaker 3: So someone called Richard said, since you've asked Ian, it's 71 00:02:47,000 --> 00:02:50,720 Speaker 3: it's because your profession in Australia feels the egotistical need 72 00:02:50,800 --> 00:02:53,760 Speaker 3: to talk about yourselves. My lawyer doesn't do that, my 73 00:02:53,760 --> 00:02:56,440 Speaker 3: accountant doesn't do that, my hairdraser doesn't do that, and 74 00:02:56,480 --> 00:02:58,040 Speaker 3: my local shopkeeper doesn't do that. 75 00:02:58,160 --> 00:02:59,520 Speaker 5: So to answer your question, I haven't. 76 00:02:59,520 --> 00:03:02,040 Speaker 3: As a star point, my recommendation would be to ease 77 00:03:02,040 --> 00:03:04,280 Speaker 3: off the self love and introspection. 78 00:03:05,000 --> 00:03:08,560 Speaker 5: He's written back, fair enough, but agents carry. 79 00:03:08,280 --> 00:03:10,720 Speaker 3: On similar here in the US, but don't experience the 80 00:03:10,760 --> 00:03:14,800 Speaker 3: same resentment as agents in Australia. And then someone's replied 81 00:03:14,800 --> 00:03:17,280 Speaker 3: to that it's because they've got Trump as president. 82 00:03:17,360 --> 00:03:19,359 Speaker 5: They love an egotistical twat. 83 00:03:23,160 --> 00:03:25,640 Speaker 2: I'm confused to why he started here. And you know what, 84 00:03:25,680 --> 00:03:27,880 Speaker 2: I don't know who said real estate agents make too 85 00:03:27,960 --> 00:03:30,040 Speaker 2: much money. Who came out and said these guys are 86 00:03:30,040 --> 00:03:31,160 Speaker 2: making too much cash? 87 00:03:31,760 --> 00:03:33,880 Speaker 5: Nobody, No one said. 88 00:03:33,840 --> 00:03:35,680 Speaker 4: I don't understand how this all started. 89 00:03:36,760 --> 00:03:38,640 Speaker 3: It's and you know what, this is the other thing 90 00:03:38,720 --> 00:03:41,920 Speaker 3: as well, because we spoke about the new South of Alists. 91 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:45,120 Speaker 3: Government is actively reforming under quoting laws here as well, 92 00:03:45,160 --> 00:03:47,520 Speaker 3: because it happens quite about in the real estate in jury. 93 00:03:47,880 --> 00:03:51,200 Speaker 3: I just I don't He obviously has had a great career, 94 00:03:51,240 --> 00:03:55,120 Speaker 3: but he hasn't seen some of the absolute disasters that 95 00:03:55,120 --> 00:03:57,160 Speaker 3: that every day Ozsie is going. 96 00:03:57,360 --> 00:03:59,120 Speaker 2: But I think the other thing is the fact that 97 00:03:59,120 --> 00:04:01,480 Speaker 2: he's gone on a whole lot to the US and 98 00:04:01,480 --> 00:04:03,840 Speaker 2: he's gone out of his way to say Hey, agents, 99 00:04:03,840 --> 00:04:05,280 Speaker 2: how are you fucking things over here? 100 00:04:05,360 --> 00:04:08,120 Speaker 4: You know what we're getting shot at back home? Man, 101 00:04:08,320 --> 00:04:10,280 Speaker 4: tell me what percent you're making cool. I'm going to 102 00:04:10,320 --> 00:04:12,320 Speaker 4: take this to the people. Hey, guys, kind of below. 103 00:04:12,400 --> 00:04:15,320 Speaker 3: What do you think what they applaud you after you 104 00:04:15,320 --> 00:04:18,120 Speaker 3: get an auction? That's an umble that we don't get 105 00:04:18,120 --> 00:04:19,920 Speaker 3: that in Australia For some reason. 106 00:04:19,680 --> 00:04:22,120 Speaker 4: They don't like that. Please discuss love to hear more 107 00:04:22,160 --> 00:04:22,640 Speaker 4: from you, guys. 108 00:04:23,160 --> 00:04:26,479 Speaker 3: He's the original lord of properties, and there's lords of 109 00:04:26,560 --> 00:04:28,080 Speaker 3: property the Lord. 110 00:04:28,920 --> 00:04:32,000 Speaker 9: This is the Fits and Whipper with Cape Ritchie podcast. 111 00:04:32,200 --> 00:04:35,440 Speaker 5: Let's talk about Barrio bas Our Barrel. 112 00:04:35,520 --> 00:04:38,479 Speaker 3: Do you remember Barry was premier when we first got 113 00:04:38,520 --> 00:04:39,039 Speaker 3: this job. 114 00:04:39,800 --> 00:04:43,400 Speaker 4: Do you remember he would have been because with him 115 00:04:44,120 --> 00:04:44,960 Speaker 4: we hugged him. 116 00:04:45,600 --> 00:04:48,400 Speaker 5: Yeah, you're in his office almost draped over his desk. 117 00:04:48,800 --> 00:04:51,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a bit of head on shoulder. He was 118 00:04:51,520 --> 00:04:53,360 Speaker 2: trying to offer us a glass of grange. 119 00:04:53,800 --> 00:04:56,120 Speaker 3: He was lovely. Well, that's right. He lost his job 120 00:04:56,200 --> 00:04:58,480 Speaker 3: as premiere. But because he accepted in a gift and 121 00:04:58,600 --> 00:05:00,040 Speaker 3: I didn't know this, because. 122 00:05:00,080 --> 00:05:01,800 Speaker 4: Generous of you to give a lot of grund, there'd 123 00:05:01,800 --> 00:05:02,080 Speaker 4: be a. 124 00:05:02,040 --> 00:05:04,120 Speaker 3: Lot of there would be a lot of people out 125 00:05:04,120 --> 00:05:06,239 Speaker 3: there that you know, if they get a favor from 126 00:05:06,320 --> 00:05:09,320 Speaker 3: a politician, you can buy them a bottle. 127 00:05:09,080 --> 00:05:09,880 Speaker 5: Of booze, can't you. 128 00:05:10,120 --> 00:05:11,039 Speaker 4: That's what I would have thought. 129 00:05:11,800 --> 00:05:15,400 Speaker 3: It's not range. Is what's grange up to these days? 130 00:05:15,400 --> 00:05:16,200 Speaker 3: A thousand bucks? 131 00:05:16,320 --> 00:05:17,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, a thousand bucks. 132 00:05:17,520 --> 00:05:19,159 Speaker 5: So anyway, he had to leave because of that. 133 00:05:19,320 --> 00:05:22,240 Speaker 3: He's been booted off the West Tigers board. 134 00:05:22,320 --> 00:05:24,640 Speaker 4: Now what for another bottle of grunt? 135 00:05:24,760 --> 00:05:27,599 Speaker 3: Well, so he was on the board at the West 136 00:05:27,640 --> 00:05:31,440 Speaker 3: Tigers and there's been a few things going wrong. 137 00:05:31,560 --> 00:05:34,960 Speaker 5: Communication is one of them, right, I don't know. 138 00:05:35,800 --> 00:05:39,000 Speaker 3: So he's part of a group that's communicated with someone 139 00:05:39,040 --> 00:05:43,320 Speaker 3: and they've put together the twenty twenty six West Tiger's jersey. 140 00:05:44,600 --> 00:05:48,839 Speaker 3: It's deemed to be too gold and not orange enough. 141 00:05:51,320 --> 00:05:53,919 Speaker 2: Maybe that's maybe that's a nice look, Maybe that's a 142 00:05:53,920 --> 00:05:54,599 Speaker 2: good change. 143 00:05:54,880 --> 00:05:58,120 Speaker 4: So he's on color. Is he burying our barrel's job 144 00:05:58,200 --> 00:05:58,560 Speaker 4: was color? 145 00:05:58,760 --> 00:06:01,320 Speaker 3: Well, they've said that the new structure had not been 146 00:06:01,360 --> 00:06:05,839 Speaker 3: effective and was marked by poor communication, including the wrong 147 00:06:05,960 --> 00:06:09,120 Speaker 3: color for the jersey in twenty twenty six. So you've 148 00:06:09,120 --> 00:06:11,440 Speaker 3: done a dusted bas you're out and the rest of 149 00:06:11,480 --> 00:06:12,279 Speaker 3: the board as well. 150 00:06:12,320 --> 00:06:12,640 Speaker 4: Barry. 151 00:06:12,880 --> 00:06:16,920 Speaker 2: You said you were across the pantone chart now, I 152 00:06:17,000 --> 00:06:18,760 Speaker 2: can't believe you've got the color wrong. 153 00:06:19,000 --> 00:06:22,560 Speaker 3: Do you know what I I When I left AFL, 154 00:06:22,839 --> 00:06:25,840 Speaker 3: I went and worked at South Adelaide Football Club, which 155 00:06:25,920 --> 00:06:28,560 Speaker 3: was my localist NFL club over in Adelaide. 156 00:06:28,600 --> 00:06:29,360 Speaker 4: Were you want colors? 157 00:06:29,440 --> 00:06:30,120 Speaker 5: What was your job? 158 00:06:30,760 --> 00:06:32,880 Speaker 3: I said to them, why don't we change up the 159 00:06:32,920 --> 00:06:35,719 Speaker 3: panther a little bit? Because they were the South Adelaide Panthers. 160 00:06:35,920 --> 00:06:36,760 Speaker 4: Lord, do you want to see? 161 00:06:36,839 --> 00:06:39,560 Speaker 3: And I just founded a design off the internet. I 162 00:06:39,560 --> 00:06:42,159 Speaker 3: think it was the Carolina Panthers, which was in the NFL, 163 00:06:42,160 --> 00:06:45,560 Speaker 3: and how good's this panther? And there was a moment 164 00:06:45,600 --> 00:06:48,120 Speaker 3: where I really pushed to change the panther and. 165 00:06:48,080 --> 00:06:50,080 Speaker 5: The logo of the club, And there was. 166 00:06:50,480 --> 00:06:53,160 Speaker 3: A meeting that was had and everyone had to set 167 00:06:53,160 --> 00:06:56,960 Speaker 3: on me down and said, FITZI, it's tradition, mate. You 168 00:06:57,000 --> 00:06:59,799 Speaker 3: don't understand. You don't change the panther. You never changed 169 00:06:59,800 --> 00:07:02,560 Speaker 3: the had the same panther for such a long time. 170 00:07:03,320 --> 00:07:04,719 Speaker 3: And I was like, Okay, this. 171 00:07:04,600 --> 00:07:05,200 Speaker 6: Is not for me. 172 00:07:05,440 --> 00:07:06,719 Speaker 5: I'm going to go somewhere else. 173 00:07:06,800 --> 00:07:09,040 Speaker 4: Do you remember that friend of ours that worked for. 174 00:07:10,520 --> 00:07:13,400 Speaker 2: Channel nine and he was in a meeting at the 175 00:07:13,440 --> 00:07:17,200 Speaker 2: time when Kerry Packer was there, might have been James. 176 00:07:17,720 --> 00:07:20,480 Speaker 2: He said, I think we should take the nine off 177 00:07:21,320 --> 00:07:23,200 Speaker 2: of the nine MSN was it called? 178 00:07:23,680 --> 00:07:26,120 Speaker 5: What was for that? 179 00:07:26,360 --> 00:07:29,320 Speaker 2: In the my boardroom and there was if you can picture, 180 00:07:29,760 --> 00:07:31,520 Speaker 2: he was like he was on one side of the desk, 181 00:07:31,720 --> 00:07:33,440 Speaker 2: there was about ten people on the other side of 182 00:07:33,440 --> 00:07:37,240 Speaker 2: the desk, and let's go with Kerry Packer. Kerry sitting 183 00:07:37,680 --> 00:07:39,920 Speaker 2: the other way facing out the window. So he's got 184 00:07:40,000 --> 00:07:42,480 Speaker 2: him back to us, back to him. So he then 185 00:07:42,560 --> 00:07:46,360 Speaker 2: turns around and says, mate, do you have any idea 186 00:07:46,440 --> 00:07:50,040 Speaker 2: what that number means to my family? And then he 187 00:07:50,320 --> 00:07:53,080 Speaker 2: just picked up not Carrie the guy, We picked up 188 00:07:53,120 --> 00:07:54,280 Speaker 2: his stuff and just left the room. 189 00:07:54,920 --> 00:07:55,960 Speaker 5: Marketing that guy. 190 00:07:56,640 --> 00:08:00,480 Speaker 3: What was his big win was when he was working 191 00:08:00,520 --> 00:08:04,360 Speaker 3: at Pepsi. You make a big decision. 192 00:08:03,920 --> 00:08:05,000 Speaker 5: And he's isn't it. 193 00:08:05,160 --> 00:08:08,800 Speaker 3: I love when you hear about these moments in someone's 194 00:08:08,840 --> 00:08:13,600 Speaker 3: career where they actually do something right and it changes 195 00:08:13,640 --> 00:08:15,040 Speaker 3: the trajectory of their career. 196 00:08:15,280 --> 00:08:17,600 Speaker 4: Yeah. I can't remember what the Pepsi story was. 197 00:08:17,840 --> 00:08:21,239 Speaker 3: He came up with this amazing marketing plan for Pepsi 198 00:08:21,280 --> 00:08:24,120 Speaker 3: in Australia. It wasn't the Sunny built Sunny Bill Williams. 199 00:08:24,760 --> 00:08:26,679 Speaker 2: I think it was to hand out icy cold cans 200 00:08:26,680 --> 00:08:29,400 Speaker 2: of pepsi for all the radio stations. 201 00:08:29,440 --> 00:08:31,800 Speaker 3: Anyway, he was just sort of working at a marketing 202 00:08:31,800 --> 00:08:33,320 Speaker 3: company and then all of a sudden, because of this 203 00:08:33,360 --> 00:08:36,880 Speaker 3: one idea, next thing, you know, he's head of marketing. 204 00:08:36,400 --> 00:08:38,719 Speaker 2: Here at Nova and Kerry Pack was telling him to 205 00:08:39,559 --> 00:08:42,160 Speaker 2: and you know, and then he said to us, hey, guys, 206 00:08:42,240 --> 00:08:43,360 Speaker 2: don't think just Nova. 207 00:08:43,880 --> 00:08:45,560 Speaker 4: And they went, let's put that on a billboard and 208 00:08:45,600 --> 00:08:46,120 Speaker 4: it works. 209 00:08:46,360 --> 00:08:49,280 Speaker 1: This is the Fits In with Kate Richie podcast. 210 00:08:49,679 --> 00:08:50,280 Speaker 5: He fits I. 211 00:08:52,120 --> 00:08:55,920 Speaker 4: Started doing pilates. Have I mentioned the teachers of it? 212 00:08:57,200 --> 00:08:59,040 Speaker 5: You're the only guy in the class. 213 00:08:59,160 --> 00:08:59,840 Speaker 4: Oh you've seen me? 214 00:09:00,080 --> 00:09:00,280 Speaker 3: Yeah? 215 00:09:00,360 --> 00:09:03,360 Speaker 5: No, No, you talk about it on the show How 216 00:09:03,440 --> 00:09:08,080 Speaker 5: goods Pilarates? Your another party story of it? I think 217 00:09:08,240 --> 00:09:11,120 Speaker 5: I swear he's only going there for the content he is. 218 00:09:12,160 --> 00:09:15,840 Speaker 5: He's never been in a gym and yet he's doing pilata. 219 00:09:15,880 --> 00:09:16,520 Speaker 4: It's just weird. 220 00:09:16,720 --> 00:09:18,400 Speaker 2: You and I we work out all the time, man, 221 00:09:18,679 --> 00:09:20,240 Speaker 2: Like you might be the gym and I might be 222 00:09:20,280 --> 00:09:23,800 Speaker 2: with my sisters at pilarates, but you know we're still 223 00:09:23,800 --> 00:09:24,400 Speaker 2: working out. 224 00:09:24,840 --> 00:09:25,560 Speaker 4: I mean it's good. 225 00:09:25,600 --> 00:09:26,280 Speaker 8: I'm on the mat. 226 00:09:26,360 --> 00:09:27,840 Speaker 4: I'm not on the reformer yet. 227 00:09:28,679 --> 00:09:30,199 Speaker 2: Is that something you go up to You've done a 228 00:09:30,240 --> 00:09:32,800 Speaker 2: bit of reformer, like do you start on Matt and 229 00:09:32,800 --> 00:09:33,360 Speaker 2: go to a reformer? 230 00:09:33,440 --> 00:09:36,439 Speaker 3: Orthough, just two different things. We've only got We've got 231 00:09:36,440 --> 00:09:39,400 Speaker 3: a reformer at home. We got sucked in and bought 232 00:09:39,400 --> 00:09:42,720 Speaker 3: one during the pandemic year when I cost a fortune. 233 00:09:42,800 --> 00:09:44,200 Speaker 3: Now you can get him a bit cheaper. 234 00:09:44,440 --> 00:09:44,680 Speaker 5: Ash. 235 00:09:44,679 --> 00:09:47,600 Speaker 2: What do you do your reformer or you matte pilarates? Like, seriously, 236 00:09:47,600 --> 00:09:48,280 Speaker 2: where you at? 237 00:09:48,720 --> 00:09:50,040 Speaker 10: I've done a little bit of both. 238 00:09:50,080 --> 00:09:51,880 Speaker 11: The word reformer at the moment, though. 239 00:09:51,840 --> 00:09:56,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, Matt's harder than reformer. I would think I'm just 240 00:09:56,720 --> 00:10:00,040 Speaker 2: toning for summer as well. I mentioned last time I 241 00:10:00,160 --> 00:10:02,200 Speaker 2: was at pilarates there was a bit of an issue 242 00:10:02,240 --> 00:10:03,840 Speaker 2: because you know, when you lie down and they go 243 00:10:03,840 --> 00:10:07,160 Speaker 2: all right, roll your legs one way and your head 244 00:10:07,240 --> 00:10:10,160 Speaker 2: the other way, so you're stretching, and I went the 245 00:10:10,200 --> 00:10:13,839 Speaker 2: wrong way and my legs, my big hairy sausage legs, 246 00:10:13,960 --> 00:10:16,280 Speaker 2: ended up on the poor girl that was next to 247 00:10:16,320 --> 00:10:16,600 Speaker 2: me on. 248 00:10:16,559 --> 00:10:18,480 Speaker 4: The mat at the clash of the legs. 249 00:10:19,120 --> 00:10:21,960 Speaker 2: Now, there's another thing you do in pilarates where you 250 00:10:21,960 --> 00:10:22,760 Speaker 2: get a ball. 251 00:10:24,640 --> 00:10:26,120 Speaker 4: You get a ball, you light out on the mat. 252 00:10:26,160 --> 00:10:27,520 Speaker 2: You get a ball when you put it under your 253 00:10:27,520 --> 00:10:29,880 Speaker 2: waist and then you do sit ups based on the ball. 254 00:10:31,559 --> 00:10:35,959 Speaker 4: Not a great moment for me. Yesterday when the ball popped. 255 00:10:37,920 --> 00:10:39,040 Speaker 5: What was it a Swiss ball? 256 00:10:39,679 --> 00:10:44,160 Speaker 2: No, it's a small, gray, blown up ball. No, it's 257 00:10:44,200 --> 00:10:46,040 Speaker 2: the size of like a soccer. 258 00:10:45,679 --> 00:10:48,120 Speaker 5: Ball, but it's thick. 259 00:10:49,520 --> 00:10:52,400 Speaker 4: Yep, and the white nozzle bit flew out of it. 260 00:10:52,640 --> 00:10:55,960 Speaker 4: Oh god, I'm the only guy in the class. 261 00:10:56,920 --> 00:11:01,080 Speaker 2: And then the teacher says to the girl next to 262 00:11:01,120 --> 00:11:04,120 Speaker 2: the rack of other balls, can you grab grab me 263 00:11:04,160 --> 00:11:04,800 Speaker 2: another one. 264 00:11:05,320 --> 00:11:08,520 Speaker 4: We've got a flatty. I heard fatty. 265 00:11:08,960 --> 00:11:09,680 Speaker 12: Yeah. 266 00:11:10,120 --> 00:11:12,760 Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know if I'm sensitive, but I heard. 267 00:11:13,320 --> 00:11:17,040 Speaker 2: I heard get me another ball. We've got a faty. 268 00:11:18,240 --> 00:11:20,160 Speaker 4: So I'm like, oh my god. 269 00:11:20,679 --> 00:11:25,280 Speaker 2: So she then had to She dragged a deflated soft 270 00:11:25,480 --> 00:11:28,040 Speaker 2: sack ball to the front of the class and said 271 00:11:28,160 --> 00:11:30,480 Speaker 2: that the other why I. 272 00:11:30,600 --> 00:11:33,800 Speaker 4: Was there as a floody, not a fatty. I was 273 00:11:33,840 --> 00:11:34,319 Speaker 4: a flatody. 274 00:11:34,360 --> 00:11:36,079 Speaker 3: They're trying to get rid of you, and obviously you're 275 00:11:36,080 --> 00:11:38,199 Speaker 3: probably forking out out in twenty bucks of sash. 276 00:11:38,440 --> 00:11:40,080 Speaker 5: It's a good it's a good get for them. 277 00:11:40,200 --> 00:11:42,480 Speaker 1: But yeah, but that's to cover the damage to equipment. 278 00:11:42,640 --> 00:11:43,400 Speaker 5: Yeah, that's right. 279 00:11:43,559 --> 00:11:47,080 Speaker 4: As what do your thoughts on guys and leggings. 280 00:11:46,720 --> 00:11:49,160 Speaker 5: For active way guys in leggings. 281 00:11:49,200 --> 00:11:55,079 Speaker 2: Yeah, sometimes you'll see like football, I'm thinking about wearing skins. 282 00:11:56,120 --> 00:12:00,040 Speaker 5: I'd wear shorts. 283 00:11:58,360 --> 00:12:01,960 Speaker 2: Just for flexibility, keep your body toned. No, this is 284 00:12:01,960 --> 00:12:04,640 Speaker 2: for pilates class. That's a girdle, not a girdle. 285 00:12:05,760 --> 00:12:08,480 Speaker 4: It's so funny. I don't need a girdle. 286 00:12:08,520 --> 00:12:10,360 Speaker 2: I don't need to strap it in. I'm just thinking, 287 00:12:10,559 --> 00:12:13,560 Speaker 2: you know, they're almost like compression pants where you wrap 288 00:12:13,600 --> 00:12:15,880 Speaker 2: it all in. But it'll keep me really flexible and taught. 289 00:12:15,880 --> 00:12:17,360 Speaker 2: In there, I might cover up. 290 00:12:17,400 --> 00:12:20,880 Speaker 3: Your legs are ridiculous at the moment, like we were. 291 00:12:21,760 --> 00:12:24,440 Speaker 3: And Kate for braiding her own hair the other day 292 00:12:24,480 --> 00:12:26,240 Speaker 3: and how she can do it from behind. You can 293 00:12:26,280 --> 00:12:29,080 Speaker 3: do your legs at the moment like it's the hair 294 00:12:29,120 --> 00:12:32,560 Speaker 3: medication has gone too far and now it's it's so 295 00:12:32,720 --> 00:12:33,720 Speaker 3: thick on your body. 296 00:12:33,840 --> 00:12:35,840 Speaker 2: I spoke to another friend last night who said he's 297 00:12:36,320 --> 00:12:39,680 Speaker 2: a real issue with the fact that he is getting 298 00:12:39,679 --> 00:12:41,880 Speaker 2: his back lazer but taking hair medication. 299 00:12:42,600 --> 00:12:44,040 Speaker 5: Well, what when he. 300 00:12:44,040 --> 00:12:45,719 Speaker 4: Wants it on top but doesn't want it on the back, 301 00:12:45,760 --> 00:12:46,080 Speaker 4: What are you. 302 00:12:46,080 --> 00:12:49,240 Speaker 5: Meant to do? What is going on with Tommy? 303 00:12:49,280 --> 00:12:51,760 Speaker 4: Your hair has been thinning a bit. Have you noticed that. 304 00:12:51,840 --> 00:12:54,600 Speaker 5: Yeah, but my back is fine, you know, and that's 305 00:12:54,600 --> 00:12:57,000 Speaker 5: the thing. But I should maybe I'll shave it like 306 00:12:57,080 --> 00:12:59,880 Speaker 5: you what your back? No, you shave. 307 00:13:00,000 --> 00:13:01,880 Speaker 4: I love to see you with a shaved Here. 308 00:13:01,920 --> 00:13:04,120 Speaker 3: We've got our primo shots today. We've got a big 309 00:13:04,120 --> 00:13:07,160 Speaker 3: photo session. We're not very good at this because it's 310 00:13:07,200 --> 00:13:08,960 Speaker 3: the classic cameraman game. 311 00:13:09,120 --> 00:13:11,800 Speaker 5: Yeah, do something funny with you guys? Are the funny show? 312 00:13:11,880 --> 00:13:14,360 Speaker 6: Do something with your hands, funny. 313 00:13:14,120 --> 00:13:14,440 Speaker 4: With your hair? 314 00:13:14,520 --> 00:13:18,280 Speaker 5: No, no, don't think that fiddle middle finger at me. 315 00:13:19,200 --> 00:13:21,400 Speaker 2: What upset me is in the meeting when we thought 316 00:13:21,400 --> 00:13:23,840 Speaker 2: about planning this photo shirt, they said to me, we 317 00:13:23,920 --> 00:13:25,520 Speaker 2: might use one of your old headshots. 318 00:13:27,840 --> 00:13:28,880 Speaker 4: See what's wrong with last thing? 319 00:13:28,920 --> 00:13:32,600 Speaker 5: From two thousand and four? Look twenty what. 320 00:13:32,600 --> 00:13:34,400 Speaker 4: Are you Cobly? What's happening? 321 00:13:34,600 --> 00:13:38,960 Speaker 1: This is the Fitsy and Whipper with Kate Richie podcast. 322 00:13:39,840 --> 00:13:41,719 Speaker 5: We're on. 323 00:13:41,840 --> 00:13:46,640 Speaker 2: It's time for sixty second starts Hate Ritchie time still 324 00:13:47,040 --> 00:13:48,559 Speaker 2: standing now. 325 00:13:49,480 --> 00:13:52,880 Speaker 1: So ready sat Devil event She's on now It's Sydney 326 00:13:52,960 --> 00:13:57,439 Speaker 1: City Kia? Is it Sidney City Kia? In a Redon Street, Alexandria. 327 00:13:57,720 --> 00:13:59,640 Speaker 3: Just over a week away before we give away the 328 00:13:59,720 --> 00:14:02,199 Speaker 3: key K four twenty twenty five Sedan you need to 329 00:14:02,200 --> 00:14:04,280 Speaker 3: get on. I'm still standing to be in the running 330 00:14:04,320 --> 00:14:06,040 Speaker 3: for it thanks to Sydney City. 331 00:14:06,200 --> 00:14:06,360 Speaker 4: Key. 332 00:14:06,400 --> 00:14:08,440 Speaker 3: Yep, we've got one hundred dollars cash as well today 333 00:14:08,559 --> 00:14:11,080 Speaker 3: and one hundred and fifty dollars to spend at El 334 00:14:11,160 --> 00:14:12,600 Speaker 3: Janna Ols. 335 00:14:12,880 --> 00:14:14,560 Speaker 4: What is that and about where are you a big guy? 336 00:14:15,520 --> 00:14:15,800 Speaker 10: Morning? 337 00:14:15,840 --> 00:14:16,000 Speaker 13: Guys. 338 00:14:16,080 --> 00:14:18,800 Speaker 10: Yeah. We're on the corner of Burwood Road and Railway 339 00:14:18,840 --> 00:14:21,520 Speaker 10: Parade in Burwood this morning. It's all happening. We've got 340 00:14:21,520 --> 00:14:24,400 Speaker 10: trains going above us. Christmas Tree has been erected next 341 00:14:24,400 --> 00:14:27,360 Speaker 10: to me. There the Spirits High We are next to 342 00:14:27,400 --> 00:14:31,720 Speaker 10: the mural where it says ac DC Welcome home from Burward. 343 00:14:31,320 --> 00:14:31,760 Speaker 5: To the world. 344 00:14:31,960 --> 00:14:34,360 Speaker 10: So learning everyone that this is where the ac DC 345 00:14:34,480 --> 00:14:35,240 Speaker 10: story begins. 346 00:14:35,320 --> 00:14:38,080 Speaker 3: That's that's anguson Malcolm there. That's where they grew up, 347 00:14:38,200 --> 00:14:38,560 Speaker 3: wasn't it. 348 00:14:38,720 --> 00:14:39,000 Speaker 4: No? 349 00:14:39,120 --> 00:14:41,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I think that's Bill who's about to play. 350 00:14:41,320 --> 00:14:42,080 Speaker 2: I'm still standing. 351 00:14:42,240 --> 00:14:45,520 Speaker 10: Ah right, Yeah, I've tracked down a teacher. He's missed 352 00:14:45,560 --> 00:14:49,000 Speaker 10: his Busljana, So I got Philip here with me, ready 353 00:14:49,080 --> 00:14:49,280 Speaker 10: to win. 354 00:14:49,840 --> 00:14:52,600 Speaker 2: Phil Sorry you missed your bus, buddy, I'm so sorry 355 00:14:52,760 --> 00:14:56,080 Speaker 2: that happens. Hey, I believe you've got a girlfriend who 356 00:14:56,120 --> 00:14:57,120 Speaker 2: might be listening right now? 357 00:14:57,160 --> 00:14:57,680 Speaker 4: Is that correct? 358 00:14:57,800 --> 00:14:58,320 Speaker 6: Yeah? 359 00:14:58,080 --> 00:15:02,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, what's her name? Shout out Laura? Why don't you 360 00:15:02,240 --> 00:15:04,160 Speaker 4: say a couple of sweet words about Laura? Why do 361 00:15:04,280 --> 00:15:06,080 Speaker 4: you say you live on the radio. 362 00:15:08,080 --> 00:15:10,560 Speaker 13: She's always sticking there by me, even though I might 363 00:15:10,640 --> 00:15:14,280 Speaker 13: be okay, you know, I can't swear, but I'm a 364 00:15:14,280 --> 00:15:18,280 Speaker 13: bit of a link and poop. But she's always there 365 00:15:19,560 --> 00:15:22,120 Speaker 13: taking care of me, making unsure my head's straight and 366 00:15:22,160 --> 00:15:22,480 Speaker 13: all that. 367 00:15:22,640 --> 00:15:23,880 Speaker 5: So yeah, you know. 368 00:15:23,880 --> 00:15:27,440 Speaker 3: What, philm you're her InCom poop and you know that's 369 00:15:27,440 --> 00:15:28,600 Speaker 3: what she loves about you. 370 00:15:28,640 --> 00:15:29,920 Speaker 4: And do you love her film? 371 00:15:30,440 --> 00:15:34,960 Speaker 5: Absolutely too far? Okay, Phil, you're going first, get my wrong? 372 00:15:35,000 --> 00:15:37,040 Speaker 3: Power goes over to whip whoever has the power at 373 00:15:37,080 --> 00:15:40,360 Speaker 3: the end of sixty seconds. It's all those great prizes, Phil, 374 00:15:40,400 --> 00:15:45,560 Speaker 3: Here we go. Your sixty second starts now. New Deli 375 00:15:45,760 --> 00:15:50,920 Speaker 3: is the capital of What Feel India? Correct TV series? 376 00:15:51,000 --> 00:15:53,960 Speaker 3: The Crown centers around what Phil. 377 00:15:56,080 --> 00:15:58,920 Speaker 5: The royal family? That is correct? Guess what color is 378 00:15:58,960 --> 00:16:02,400 Speaker 5: a power raid? And blast flavor blue? 379 00:16:02,560 --> 00:16:02,800 Speaker 4: Yes? 380 00:16:03,320 --> 00:16:06,760 Speaker 5: Who did Will Smith famously slat Chris Rock? 381 00:16:06,880 --> 00:16:07,440 Speaker 4: That's right? 382 00:16:07,880 --> 00:16:10,680 Speaker 5: The Louver Museum is in which city? 383 00:16:11,200 --> 00:16:11,640 Speaker 13: Paris? 384 00:16:11,800 --> 00:16:12,240 Speaker 5: Correct? 385 00:16:12,600 --> 00:16:16,160 Speaker 3: What came first? Catman? Do or Mac Pack? The brand 386 00:16:16,840 --> 00:16:18,480 Speaker 3: Macpack Macpack is correct? 387 00:16:19,360 --> 00:16:22,920 Speaker 5: What sport uses the term home run film? 388 00:16:23,040 --> 00:16:27,200 Speaker 3: Yes? Which brand makes the popular five thirty and seven 389 00:16:27,360 --> 00:16:28,160 Speaker 3: forty sneaks? 390 00:16:28,760 --> 00:16:29,040 Speaker 12: Yes? 391 00:16:29,800 --> 00:16:36,920 Speaker 5: Who is Benji Madden married too? Blond actress Cameron Cameron Dia? Yes? 392 00:16:37,440 --> 00:16:41,680 Speaker 3: What color of the Australian post Boxers rad Yes? Which 393 00:16:41,760 --> 00:16:44,880 Speaker 3: singer calls her fans gold Diggers. 394 00:16:45,080 --> 00:16:51,560 Speaker 13: Ellie Gold, sweet filthy from Burwood. 395 00:16:52,360 --> 00:16:55,000 Speaker 2: Oh my god, Laura is going to be so proud 396 00:16:54,960 --> 00:16:56,400 Speaker 2: of you, mate, your little ninco and poop. 397 00:16:56,800 --> 00:17:00,000 Speaker 10: We've just got some ibises nesting in the tree above us. 398 00:17:00,000 --> 00:17:01,880 Speaker 5: So much about to piling him for some good luck 399 00:17:01,920 --> 00:17:02,200 Speaker 5: I hope? 400 00:17:02,240 --> 00:17:04,280 Speaker 4: Okay, Well he doesn't need any good luck, Olie. 401 00:17:04,280 --> 00:17:06,639 Speaker 2: He's nailed one hundred and fifty dollars spended El Jahre 402 00:17:06,760 --> 00:17:09,400 Speaker 2: and you're in the running for the brand new car film. 403 00:17:09,920 --> 00:17:11,760 Speaker 4: Excellent. Then you won't need to miss your bus. 404 00:17:11,840 --> 00:17:14,760 Speaker 5: Love Phil, Thank you well and Laura as well. 405 00:17:14,920 --> 00:17:18,359 Speaker 1: This is the Fitsy and Whipper with Kate Richie podcast. 406 00:17:18,040 --> 00:17:21,080 Speaker 3: Were joined by the Assistant Police Commissioner Peter McKenna. He's 407 00:17:21,119 --> 00:17:25,000 Speaker 3: here for the sixteen Days of Active Activism campaign. It's 408 00:17:25,040 --> 00:17:28,720 Speaker 3: an annual global campaign focusing on raising awareness and calling 409 00:17:28,720 --> 00:17:31,919 Speaker 3: for an end to domestic and family violence, and we 410 00:17:32,000 --> 00:17:35,960 Speaker 3: know it is prevalent here in Australia. We appreciate your time, mate, 411 00:17:35,960 --> 00:17:37,200 Speaker 3: Thanks for coming in pet. 412 00:17:37,040 --> 00:17:38,560 Speaker 6: Here, Thanks fellows, thanks for having me ple. 413 00:17:38,720 --> 00:17:41,040 Speaker 2: You were here this time last year as the campaign 414 00:17:41,119 --> 00:17:43,520 Speaker 2: kicked off. How's the past twelve months been. 415 00:17:44,080 --> 00:17:46,320 Speaker 14: It's been pretty steady, mate. But the thing is that 416 00:17:46,400 --> 00:17:48,760 Speaker 14: we can never stop talking about this. It's something that 417 00:17:48,880 --> 00:17:52,040 Speaker 14: is so prevalent, as you said, and it's about stepping out, 418 00:17:52,119 --> 00:17:54,879 Speaker 14: speaking up. It's about saying it's never acceptable to have 419 00:17:54,960 --> 00:17:58,000 Speaker 14: domestic violence in our community. It's about letting those victims 420 00:17:58,040 --> 00:18:00,440 Speaker 14: out there know that we are there, ready and willing 421 00:18:00,440 --> 00:18:03,720 Speaker 14: to help them. And if people are seeing or hearing 422 00:18:03,760 --> 00:18:06,840 Speaker 14: anything about this type of behavior, please let us know 423 00:18:07,119 --> 00:18:08,440 Speaker 14: so we can do something about it. 424 00:18:08,720 --> 00:18:11,720 Speaker 3: Can you talk about the younger generation in regards to 425 00:18:11,800 --> 00:18:14,760 Speaker 3: domestic violence. Is it something that they see growing up, 426 00:18:14,800 --> 00:18:17,200 Speaker 3: pet or do you see this happening to the younger 427 00:18:17,240 --> 00:18:18,600 Speaker 3: community here in Sydney. 428 00:18:18,760 --> 00:18:19,720 Speaker 5: First of all, it. 429 00:18:19,680 --> 00:18:24,359 Speaker 14: Goes across all demographics, all generations. You know, it's funny 430 00:18:24,400 --> 00:18:27,800 Speaker 14: the young ones now they talk about red flags and 431 00:18:28,160 --> 00:18:32,280 Speaker 14: you know we're now got that new legislation of coercive control. 432 00:18:32,480 --> 00:18:35,120 Speaker 14: And that really does correlate really well with that red 433 00:18:35,160 --> 00:18:38,600 Speaker 14: flag type of thinking because that's about looking at behaviors. 434 00:18:38,800 --> 00:18:41,600 Speaker 14: It's about controlling behaviors. It's about power imbalance. 435 00:18:42,200 --> 00:18:43,879 Speaker 6: And you know, people might. 436 00:18:43,800 --> 00:18:46,159 Speaker 14: Say that someone's a little bit over the type, or 437 00:18:46,200 --> 00:18:49,720 Speaker 14: you know, they're the jealous type, but they're really concerning behaviors. 438 00:18:49,760 --> 00:18:51,800 Speaker 14: If you put them all together, and I'm talking about 439 00:18:51,960 --> 00:18:56,160 Speaker 14: you know, someone that's stalking someone on social media, maybe 440 00:18:56,320 --> 00:19:00,879 Speaker 14: controlling the social media, controlling what they wear their friends with, 441 00:19:01,200 --> 00:19:05,040 Speaker 14: controlling finances. You put all these together and that is 442 00:19:05,080 --> 00:19:08,960 Speaker 14: a coercive, controlling behavior. That's not a healthy relationship. If 443 00:19:08,960 --> 00:19:12,920 Speaker 14: we look back at some of the DV homicides, they've 444 00:19:13,000 --> 00:19:15,399 Speaker 14: all had those coercive, controlling behaviors in them. 445 00:19:15,520 --> 00:19:16,600 Speaker 4: That's interesting, isn't it. 446 00:19:16,960 --> 00:19:19,200 Speaker 2: So there, I mean, it's important to have those red 447 00:19:19,200 --> 00:19:21,600 Speaker 2: flags so you're right when you add them all together. 448 00:19:22,720 --> 00:19:24,160 Speaker 4: The result can be devastating. 449 00:19:24,320 --> 00:19:27,080 Speaker 2: What does somebody do if they're in a situation where 450 00:19:27,080 --> 00:19:28,640 Speaker 2: they're starting to see some. 451 00:19:28,600 --> 00:19:30,120 Speaker 4: Red flags here? 452 00:19:30,200 --> 00:19:33,119 Speaker 14: So it's about understanding, you know, am I in a 453 00:19:33,160 --> 00:19:36,280 Speaker 14: relationship where I've got free choices? And if you ask 454 00:19:36,320 --> 00:19:39,600 Speaker 14: yourself that question and you're starting to say, well, well 455 00:19:39,640 --> 00:19:42,880 Speaker 14: no I am being controlled. There is that power and balance. 456 00:19:42,920 --> 00:19:46,119 Speaker 14: Well you need to speak out. We've actually developed our 457 00:19:46,119 --> 00:19:48,520 Speaker 14: own app in the New South Wales Police. 458 00:19:48,280 --> 00:19:49,480 Speaker 5: O good idea. 459 00:19:49,520 --> 00:19:52,800 Speaker 14: Yeah yeah, and so the particular app that you can 460 00:19:52,840 --> 00:19:56,800 Speaker 14: get on your phone you can record these type of 461 00:19:56,840 --> 00:20:00,520 Speaker 14: behaviors right, and you can also send it to a friend. 462 00:20:01,200 --> 00:20:03,440 Speaker 14: You can just start building it up just for the 463 00:20:03,600 --> 00:20:06,840 Speaker 14: point where you are ready to say that I want 464 00:20:06,840 --> 00:20:09,480 Speaker 14: to leave this relationship. It's called the empower You app 465 00:20:09,720 --> 00:20:12,119 Speaker 14: and it can be hidden on your phone. There's ways 466 00:20:12,119 --> 00:20:14,320 Speaker 14: around it. You can google it, look it up. We've 467 00:20:14,320 --> 00:20:18,240 Speaker 14: had over forty thousand downloads in the play so you 468 00:20:18,280 --> 00:20:20,320 Speaker 14: know that's something that we are doing that is working. 469 00:20:21,359 --> 00:20:24,199 Speaker 3: What about as a friend, Pete, what do we do 470 00:20:24,400 --> 00:20:27,840 Speaker 3: because we see you know, I've seen mates before in 471 00:20:27,880 --> 00:20:32,359 Speaker 3: relationships and you know, like it's really hard because you 472 00:20:32,400 --> 00:20:34,480 Speaker 3: say to yourself, I don't want to get involved here 473 00:20:34,520 --> 00:20:37,680 Speaker 3: to inflame it even more. Do we come to you 474 00:20:37,880 --> 00:20:40,199 Speaker 3: as friends? What's the best way to approach it? If 475 00:20:40,240 --> 00:20:42,879 Speaker 3: you see a very good friend in the inner situation. 476 00:20:42,560 --> 00:20:44,080 Speaker 6: Like this, or you've got to speak up. 477 00:20:44,200 --> 00:20:47,000 Speaker 14: You just you have to understand that when you're hearing 478 00:20:47,040 --> 00:20:50,200 Speaker 14: people talk a certain way. You need to call out 479 00:20:50,240 --> 00:20:52,879 Speaker 14: behaviors for startus. That's the very first thing. But if 480 00:20:52,920 --> 00:20:55,920 Speaker 14: you've got any concerns, then yes, absolutely come to us. 481 00:20:56,160 --> 00:20:59,040 Speaker 14: Doesn't mean we're going to go running in guns blazing. 482 00:20:59,280 --> 00:21:01,440 Speaker 14: We're very new Conston how we do this. We've got 483 00:21:01,480 --> 00:21:05,679 Speaker 14: specialists in every police command, got domestic violence teams. You 484 00:21:05,720 --> 00:21:07,280 Speaker 14: can ring up and just ask for a little bit 485 00:21:07,280 --> 00:21:10,760 Speaker 14: of advice around that space. We may well refer people 486 00:21:10,760 --> 00:21:13,879 Speaker 14: to outside of the police, to counselors or to someone 487 00:21:13,880 --> 00:21:17,560 Speaker 14: else who experts in this field, but certainly you need 488 00:21:17,600 --> 00:21:19,840 Speaker 14: to talk to us so that we can buy in 489 00:21:19,920 --> 00:21:21,200 Speaker 14: and try and help these people. 490 00:21:21,560 --> 00:21:25,040 Speaker 2: But I think my eyes were opened during the Lint 491 00:21:25,160 --> 00:21:28,760 Speaker 2: Siege cafe and there was a lot of conversation about 492 00:21:28,880 --> 00:21:33,000 Speaker 2: how we can better watch out for loan wolfs in 493 00:21:33,119 --> 00:21:36,480 Speaker 2: situations like this, But the conversation very quickly went to 494 00:21:36,520 --> 00:21:38,840 Speaker 2: how much it would cost to do that, and then 495 00:21:38,960 --> 00:21:40,680 Speaker 2: I think it was someone from the police force and 496 00:21:40,720 --> 00:21:42,959 Speaker 2: the radio interview I was listening to, said well, what 497 00:21:42,960 --> 00:21:45,200 Speaker 2: do you want to do look for a lone wolf 498 00:21:45,240 --> 00:21:47,440 Speaker 2: and spend a billion dollars or do you want to 499 00:21:47,440 --> 00:21:50,600 Speaker 2: help the domestic violence issue we have here in Australia 500 00:21:50,640 --> 00:21:53,760 Speaker 2: where one woman is killed every week. Is that still 501 00:21:53,800 --> 00:21:54,560 Speaker 2: the statistic? 502 00:21:56,160 --> 00:21:58,240 Speaker 14: Well, they go up and down a little bit, mate, 503 00:21:58,280 --> 00:22:01,920 Speaker 14: but generally speaking, we go to about one hundred and 504 00:22:01,960 --> 00:22:05,640 Speaker 14: sixty thousand calls for domestic violence every year, so we're 505 00:22:05,640 --> 00:22:09,600 Speaker 14: going to one about every three minutes, so it is 506 00:22:09,680 --> 00:22:15,680 Speaker 14: really concerning the homicide rate changes. Thankfully, we haven't had 507 00:22:16,160 --> 00:22:20,040 Speaker 14: a significant number of intimate partner homicides this year. One's 508 00:22:20,119 --> 00:22:25,400 Speaker 14: too many, obviously, but the fact is that we've got 509 00:22:25,440 --> 00:22:28,280 Speaker 14: to intervene early. We've got to tell people that there 510 00:22:28,440 --> 00:22:30,880 Speaker 14: is a way out of this, we can break the cycle. 511 00:22:31,320 --> 00:22:33,960 Speaker 14: This year's theme for sixteen Days of Activism is about 512 00:22:33,960 --> 00:22:37,280 Speaker 14: young people and because we know that how people act 513 00:22:37,600 --> 00:22:40,239 Speaker 14: in later life often reflects what they've been brought up 514 00:22:40,280 --> 00:22:44,000 Speaker 14: with in earlier life. And it's about letting those young 515 00:22:44,040 --> 00:22:47,720 Speaker 14: people know, those young boys in particular, that certain behaviors 516 00:22:47,800 --> 00:22:51,920 Speaker 14: aren't normal and even if they are being victims of 517 00:22:51,960 --> 00:22:55,040 Speaker 14: domestic violence, if they can reach out, they can call us, 518 00:22:55,080 --> 00:22:56,639 Speaker 14: we will do something, we will help. 519 00:22:56,840 --> 00:22:57,600 Speaker 5: So just give me. 520 00:22:57,720 --> 00:22:59,640 Speaker 3: Give us that app again as well for anyone that's 521 00:22:59,680 --> 00:23:01,840 Speaker 3: listening out there, even if it's if you're in a 522 00:23:01,880 --> 00:23:04,640 Speaker 3: situation like this yourself, where you see someone. 523 00:23:04,400 --> 00:23:07,720 Speaker 5: Close around you. Pete, what's that app again? And what 524 00:23:07,760 --> 00:23:08,280 Speaker 5: should we do? 525 00:23:08,440 --> 00:23:09,640 Speaker 6: It's called empower you. 526 00:23:09,840 --> 00:23:13,480 Speaker 14: It can be downloaded over any type of device, doesn't 527 00:23:13,520 --> 00:23:17,920 Speaker 14: matter the brand or style, and it's just about taking records, 528 00:23:17,960 --> 00:23:20,399 Speaker 14: recording things as you're going and you can send it 529 00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:25,280 Speaker 14: to a close friend, someone who you trust, and it 530 00:23:26,080 --> 00:23:29,760 Speaker 14: might be helping you build up the strength to say 531 00:23:29,880 --> 00:23:32,159 Speaker 14: I'm ready to make that move, because we still know 532 00:23:32,200 --> 00:23:35,080 Speaker 14: it's one of the most underreported crimes. We believe that 533 00:23:35,960 --> 00:23:40,360 Speaker 14: victims generally suffer domestic violence incidents up to twenty five 534 00:23:40,480 --> 00:23:42,800 Speaker 14: twenty six times before they finally. 535 00:23:42,720 --> 00:23:43,719 Speaker 6: Report with the police. 536 00:23:43,920 --> 00:23:48,160 Speaker 2: Man must be unbelievable, Pete, such great work, but it's 537 00:23:48,200 --> 00:23:50,639 Speaker 2: so important across the community and the message you're sharing 538 00:23:50,640 --> 00:23:52,080 Speaker 2: here for this sixteen days. 539 00:23:52,520 --> 00:23:55,120 Speaker 14: Really appreciate your help with this getting this message out. 540 00:23:55,119 --> 00:23:56,960 Speaker 14: We have to keep talking about it or we won't 541 00:23:56,960 --> 00:23:57,560 Speaker 14: make a difference. 542 00:23:57,680 --> 00:23:59,399 Speaker 5: Thank's Assistant Commissioner, appreciate it. 543 00:23:59,520 --> 00:23:59,680 Speaker 4: Thanks. 544 00:24:00,280 --> 00:24:04,080 Speaker 9: This is the Fitzy and Whibber with Cape Ritchie podcast. 545 00:24:05,440 --> 00:24:09,040 Speaker 4: One of the chances. All right, let's do it, guys, 546 00:24:09,080 --> 00:24:12,760 Speaker 4: Stories of chance and coincidence. We need your stories. Antoinette, Hello, 547 00:24:13,640 --> 00:24:14,200 Speaker 4: good morning. 548 00:24:14,720 --> 00:24:15,479 Speaker 5: What's your story? 549 00:24:16,280 --> 00:24:19,399 Speaker 15: Okay, this is of recently. So I'm atween and in 550 00:24:19,480 --> 00:24:21,440 Speaker 15: forty two years and my twin and I have never 551 00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:25,720 Speaker 15: ever broken a bone, and she broke her foot left 552 00:24:25,760 --> 00:24:28,280 Speaker 15: book later, I broke the exact same thought. 553 00:24:28,440 --> 00:24:33,639 Speaker 3: That's weird you didn't you went and kicked something just 554 00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:36,200 Speaker 3: to make sure that you both had the broken bone? 555 00:24:36,240 --> 00:24:37,200 Speaker 5: Is that what you did, Antoine? 556 00:24:37,440 --> 00:24:37,760 Speaker 4: Or well? 557 00:24:38,160 --> 00:24:40,080 Speaker 15: I had some one offer and I actually had to 558 00:24:40,119 --> 00:24:40,720 Speaker 15: have an operation. 559 00:24:42,240 --> 00:24:44,520 Speaker 5: How did you do it? Can I ask? Antoinette? 560 00:24:45,280 --> 00:24:47,439 Speaker 15: So she fell off the ladder, and I took my 561 00:24:47,560 --> 00:24:50,560 Speaker 15: kids to one of those ninja places and ninja courses, 562 00:24:50,600 --> 00:24:53,359 Speaker 15: and I just I fell off one of those for 563 00:24:53,400 --> 00:24:53,880 Speaker 15: the give. 564 00:24:53,720 --> 00:24:57,280 Speaker 4: And the kids. That is well done story. 565 00:24:57,320 --> 00:25:00,320 Speaker 5: Thank you Emma and Penrith. What are the chances is. 566 00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:03,520 Speaker 15: M my best? You and I were best primary teachers 567 00:25:03,560 --> 00:25:05,920 Speaker 15: on the sixth class. We have daughters that were born 568 00:25:05,960 --> 00:25:08,600 Speaker 15: the same day, and we're both too with boys in 569 00:25:08,680 --> 00:25:09,840 Speaker 15: January the same day. 570 00:25:10,080 --> 00:25:15,200 Speaker 4: No, oh, my god, you're married to different people. Sum, Yeah, 571 00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:17,280 Speaker 4: she's not just doubling up. 572 00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:19,640 Speaker 5: I dare say that's going to happen again. And that's 573 00:25:19,680 --> 00:25:20,440 Speaker 5: a double up for. 574 00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:23,080 Speaker 4: Sure, absolutely great story and thank. 575 00:25:22,880 --> 00:25:27,200 Speaker 5: You Maria and Gladesville. What are the chances, Maria, Yeah, 576 00:25:27,280 --> 00:25:27,680 Speaker 5: I was. 577 00:25:27,640 --> 00:25:30,760 Speaker 12: Doing some shopping at the shopping center, had just you know, 578 00:25:30,920 --> 00:25:34,919 Speaker 12: kind a trolley. Had had my reading glasses open in 579 00:25:35,000 --> 00:25:36,960 Speaker 12: the case in the trolley, just so that I could 580 00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:38,879 Speaker 12: pick them up when I needed to read something with 581 00:25:38,920 --> 00:25:42,720 Speaker 12: small writing. Anyway, as I was leaving the shop, you know, 582 00:25:43,119 --> 00:25:46,840 Speaker 12: putting my stuff in the boot, the cloth had fallen out, 583 00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:49,439 Speaker 12: the little cloth that you wipe your glasses. Yea, though 584 00:25:50,119 --> 00:25:51,800 Speaker 12: I won't worry about it because I was just tired 585 00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:53,080 Speaker 12: from putting bags in the boot. 586 00:25:53,480 --> 00:25:55,120 Speaker 15: I thought I've got spare ones at home. 587 00:25:55,520 --> 00:25:58,679 Speaker 12: Anyway, next day, went back to the shopping center, parked 588 00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:02,680 Speaker 12: on a different level, went to get a trolley and 589 00:26:03,400 --> 00:26:06,240 Speaker 12: it had it had the cloth from the previous time. 590 00:26:07,880 --> 00:26:11,120 Speaker 4: What are the chances of being the same trolley? 591 00:26:11,200 --> 00:26:16,200 Speaker 3: Well, it's similar to similar to that. So Beastie took 592 00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:17,919 Speaker 3: him for a walk the other day and then he 593 00:26:18,160 --> 00:26:19,840 Speaker 3: you know, I just love how. 594 00:26:19,760 --> 00:26:21,760 Speaker 5: Dogs look at you and they're backing the. 595 00:26:21,720 --> 00:26:24,160 Speaker 3: One out like it's just like as if I'm dude, 596 00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:25,679 Speaker 3: I don't want to look at you while you're doing it. 597 00:26:25,680 --> 00:26:27,040 Speaker 5: Anyway, I went to my pocket. 598 00:26:27,359 --> 00:26:31,480 Speaker 3: No bag whip, look down to the left of me 599 00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:34,760 Speaker 3: on the side of the road. Just an empty bag 600 00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:37,880 Speaker 3: that happened to be there where he was doing it, 601 00:26:40,440 --> 00:26:41,320 Speaker 3: just on the ground. 602 00:26:41,520 --> 00:26:45,000 Speaker 2: You have just won a family pastor gold class to 603 00:26:45,080 --> 00:26:48,000 Speaker 2: the congratulations running man. 604 00:26:48,280 --> 00:26:53,919 Speaker 1: This is the Fitting In with Her with Kate Richie podcast. 605 00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:58,919 Speaker 4: Not a little lot of it, doesn't. 606 00:27:01,040 --> 00:27:05,159 Speaker 3: This song to be I must admit this album blew 607 00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:09,679 Speaker 3: everybody away. In nineteen ninety nine, the album was play 608 00:27:09,960 --> 00:27:12,919 Speaker 3: by an artist by the name of Moby, and Moby's 609 00:27:13,040 --> 00:27:18,960 Speaker 3: hit song Porcelain was an unbelievable This is an unbelievable song. 610 00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:21,840 Speaker 4: Was this the one with the big guy on the 611 00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:22,400 Speaker 4: front cover? 612 00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:24,600 Speaker 7: No? 613 00:27:24,720 --> 00:27:26,560 Speaker 5: That was the fact, boys, It was. 614 00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:32,800 Speaker 4: Around the same time. Is that I've confused of the 615 00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:34,560 Speaker 4: Big Unit and the Brown t Show. 616 00:27:34,640 --> 00:27:38,280 Speaker 3: You may know this song from the movie The Beach DiCaprio, 617 00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:40,479 Speaker 3: and you know what, Whenever I hear this song, it 618 00:27:40,560 --> 00:27:41,679 Speaker 3: reminds me of that. 619 00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:45,000 Speaker 5: Gorgeous beach with crystal clear water and white sand. 620 00:27:45,160 --> 00:27:47,119 Speaker 4: Didn't he write some of the music for the movie? 621 00:27:47,520 --> 00:27:51,639 Speaker 3: No No from the top, guys. 622 00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:53,639 Speaker 5: That's why I'm doing a song to be No. 623 00:27:53,840 --> 00:27:57,600 Speaker 3: But this is an amazing song, and Moby talks about 624 00:27:57,600 --> 00:27:59,520 Speaker 3: the inspiration that he got for the song. 625 00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:04,399 Speaker 11: I originally wrote Porcelain in New York in nineteen ninety eight. 626 00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:09,440 Speaker 11: It was at the end of a really sad relationship. 627 00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:14,359 Speaker 11: Not a bad relationship, not a tragic relationship, nothing too dramatic, 628 00:28:14,440 --> 00:28:17,920 Speaker 11: but just one of those relationships that has a sort 629 00:28:17,960 --> 00:28:20,840 Speaker 11: of like almost like an ineffable sadness to it. 630 00:28:21,160 --> 00:28:23,359 Speaker 3: There is a sadness to the song, but how do 631 00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:26,800 Speaker 3: you start? It's an amazing melody. But he started on 632 00:28:26,840 --> 00:28:29,639 Speaker 3: the guitar and the piano, and this is how he 633 00:28:29,800 --> 00:28:30,800 Speaker 3: started Porcelain. 634 00:28:31,480 --> 00:28:34,440 Speaker 11: And originally it was very simple. It was just three 635 00:28:34,520 --> 00:28:36,879 Speaker 11: chords on acoustic guitar. 636 00:28:36,920 --> 00:28:37,119 Speaker 6: You know. 637 00:28:37,160 --> 00:28:41,120 Speaker 11: The main verse was just a major to E minor 638 00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:44,040 Speaker 11: and then like a middle eight section in B minor. 639 00:28:55,360 --> 00:28:58,800 Speaker 11: And then I played it on piano and added the 640 00:28:58,880 --> 00:29:24,200 Speaker 11: sort of simple melodic piano line on top of it. 641 00:29:24,160 --> 00:29:27,760 Speaker 3: It's just so basic, but that's just the first idea 642 00:29:27,840 --> 00:29:31,120 Speaker 3: of it. This is where it gets really interesting because 643 00:29:31,160 --> 00:29:35,160 Speaker 3: he found some samples. I love stuff like this, and 644 00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:38,200 Speaker 3: you know what, when you're a genius like Moby. So 645 00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:42,120 Speaker 3: there was a sample from a vinyl called Fight for 646 00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:45,920 Speaker 3: Survival by Ernest Young. It was in nineteen sixty one 647 00:29:46,800 --> 00:29:49,440 Speaker 3: and he listened to it and for some reason he 648 00:29:49,480 --> 00:29:52,800 Speaker 3: felt like I have to reverse it. Have a listen 649 00:29:52,880 --> 00:30:08,680 Speaker 3: how he did it. So then he reverses that this 650 00:30:08,760 --> 00:30:20,520 Speaker 3: is what it sounds like. That doesn't stick your chills, 651 00:30:20,560 --> 00:30:23,360 Speaker 3: because that's the whole song. There's the song right there. 652 00:30:23,720 --> 00:30:28,520 Speaker 3: Then he found another vinyl of an African choir they 653 00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:35,280 Speaker 3: would called the es Hawaianini Choir in Africa, and that's 654 00:30:35,280 --> 00:30:37,880 Speaker 3: what he uses at the start of the song. 655 00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:55,960 Speaker 16: This song don atanda No, So he grabbed that little 656 00:30:55,960 --> 00:30:56,600 Speaker 16: bit from there. 657 00:30:56,960 --> 00:31:00,760 Speaker 3: Then with the beat, he found another one, Destiny the 658 00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:04,320 Speaker 3: remix by Lectur in nineteen eighty nine, so he put 659 00:31:04,320 --> 00:31:06,959 Speaker 3: it with that original reverse that he did and then 660 00:31:07,000 --> 00:31:25,120 Speaker 3: put the beat in. So then it's all coming together, right, 661 00:31:33,400 --> 00:31:37,240 Speaker 3: it's all coming together. But Modey's voice was a very 662 00:31:37,320 --> 00:31:39,960 Speaker 3: strong whip, so he needed someone to come and help 663 00:31:40,040 --> 00:31:42,840 Speaker 3: him out, so he just used a mate from another band. 664 00:31:43,360 --> 00:31:46,000 Speaker 11: If I reached out to my friend Jim James. We 665 00:31:46,040 --> 00:31:49,840 Speaker 11: had met years ago at a David Lynch event, Jim 666 00:31:49,920 --> 00:31:53,880 Speaker 11: James from My Morning Jacket, and I asked Jim if 667 00:31:53,880 --> 00:31:56,360 Speaker 11: he wanted to do a duet with me on Porcelain, 668 00:31:57,360 --> 00:32:01,240 Speaker 11: and because he's a nice, generous person, he said yes, 669 00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:05,120 Speaker 11: and I sent him the rough version I was working on, 670 00:32:05,520 --> 00:32:08,320 Speaker 11: and about a day later he sent me back his parts. 671 00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:16,880 Speaker 5: To love. 672 00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:23,840 Speaker 11: Is good. 673 00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:29,760 Speaker 8: That's maybe there, that's the breakup, because this is goodb. 674 00:32:32,280 --> 00:32:32,840 Speaker 6: It's good. 675 00:32:33,280 --> 00:32:35,960 Speaker 3: Love the layers and you put the layers then week 676 00:32:36,840 --> 00:32:39,280 Speaker 3: when you put them all together, you think of the beach. 677 00:32:39,400 --> 00:32:42,760 Speaker 3: Leonardo DiCaprio, this is a great song, maybe porcelain. 678 00:32:43,120 --> 00:32:46,160 Speaker 9: This is the Fitzi and Whipper with Cape Ritchie podcast. 679 00:32:46,360 --> 00:32:47,080 Speaker 4: What have you found? 680 00:32:47,320 --> 00:32:48,280 Speaker 5: Unfortunate name? 681 00:32:48,440 --> 00:32:51,080 Speaker 3: That's what I've founds on the Stag Show over in 682 00:32:51,120 --> 00:32:53,160 Speaker 3: the States. And you know what, if you've got an 683 00:32:53,200 --> 00:32:56,120 Speaker 3: unfortunate name thirteen twenty four to ten, please give us 684 00:32:56,120 --> 00:32:58,000 Speaker 3: a call. And you know, a very good friend of mine, 685 00:32:58,040 --> 00:33:00,840 Speaker 3: poor Shane Treblecock, over the years to live with three 686 00:33:00,840 --> 00:33:03,400 Speaker 3: Willies is a nickname. Has They're always been tough for him? 687 00:33:03,640 --> 00:33:05,800 Speaker 4: Is he all right? Must be hard at the urinal 688 00:33:06,840 --> 00:33:07,400 Speaker 4: straight ahead? 689 00:33:07,840 --> 00:33:12,440 Speaker 3: But this is They were introducing a Greek chef onto 690 00:33:12,520 --> 00:33:17,200 Speaker 3: The Today Show and unfortunately the host struggled with his name. 691 00:33:17,840 --> 00:33:21,840 Speaker 11: Morning, We're joined by renowned Greek chef Harry para testes, 692 00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:23,040 Speaker 11: para testers. 693 00:33:24,200 --> 00:33:26,200 Speaker 15: He's here to show us a fresh tea on suwuky. 694 00:33:26,360 --> 00:33:28,320 Speaker 4: I'm sorry, pair of testes. 695 00:33:29,560 --> 00:33:31,360 Speaker 5: Do you know what? You need a pair of testes 696 00:33:31,440 --> 00:33:33,239 Speaker 5: to go on that show? This is pretty for long. 697 00:33:33,360 --> 00:33:35,080 Speaker 2: He's got an awkward look on his face and he's 698 00:33:35,120 --> 00:33:37,920 Speaker 2: probably thinking, I was I first heard that in grade 699 00:33:37,960 --> 00:33:39,680 Speaker 2: two and I've been picked on ever since, and now 700 00:33:39,680 --> 00:33:44,040 Speaker 2: I've come on live TV, National live TV and You've 701 00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:45,120 Speaker 2: called me pair of testings. 702 00:33:45,560 --> 00:33:47,680 Speaker 5: Just you know what? He took it so well. He 703 00:33:47,800 --> 00:33:50,680 Speaker 5: just kept looking down the barrel of the camera, smiling. 704 00:33:51,480 --> 00:33:52,600 Speaker 5: I've heard it before. 705 00:33:52,840 --> 00:33:54,880 Speaker 4: The only other thing to do was to prove it. 706 00:33:55,200 --> 00:33:55,680 Speaker 4: Here you go. 707 00:33:55,840 --> 00:33:58,080 Speaker 2: Since in Whipper was Kate Ritchie is a note for 708 00:33:58,160 --> 00:34:02,400 Speaker 2: podcast right shows like download the Nova player via the 709 00:34:02,440 --> 00:34:03,920 Speaker 2: app store or Google Play. 710 00:34:04,080 --> 00:34:05,040 Speaker 1: The Nova player