WEBVTT - "I Became Best Friends with His Mistress !" || HOTLINE 0:00:05.800 --> 0:00:08.200 Welcome back to the Where's Your Head At? Hotline, our 0:00:08.240 --> 0:00:10.840 weekly show where we catch up with each other and 0:00:10.880 --> 0:00:13.520 connect with you all on our hotline voicemail. 0:00:13.680 --> 0:00:15.560 We want to hear from you, guys, so please send 0:00:15.600 --> 0:00:18.840 your stories, questions, advice or tea to Where's Your head 0:00:18.840 --> 0:00:21.520 at pod at gmail dot com to be featured on 0:00:21.520 --> 0:00:23.800 one of our episodes. I'm Anna and I'm Matt. 0:00:24.200 --> 0:00:24.959 Let's jump in. 0:00:28.400 --> 0:00:33.400 Good morning, Good morning, Anna. Freezing morning, but we're here 0:00:33.560 --> 0:00:34.960 with our coffees warming up. 0:00:35.120 --> 0:00:37.000 You know that we got down to zero degrees this 0:00:37.080 --> 0:00:39.879 morning in Melbourne, really crazy. 0:00:40.200 --> 0:00:43.040 A sheet on. Did you I run hot? 0:00:43.120 --> 0:00:45.720 Yeah, you must run very hot. I'm in three layers 0:00:45.760 --> 0:00:46.240 this morning. 0:00:46.320 --> 0:00:48.800 I'm that cold compared to my one T shirt. 0:00:49.120 --> 0:00:50.800 Yeah, I know. I don't know how you do it. Actually, 0:00:50.800 --> 0:00:52.720 I was driving to the podcast this morning and I 0:00:52.720 --> 0:00:55.560 saw this girl and she's wearing shorts, and I was like, 0:00:56.400 --> 0:00:59.080 you are in the wrong country, Like we are not 0:00:59.240 --> 0:00:59.960 in Queensland. 0:01:00.080 --> 0:01:01.880 I saw a guy on the weekend. Actually it was 0:01:01.920 --> 0:01:03.680 in the cold morning, and he had shorts and a 0:01:03.680 --> 0:01:05.319 T shirt on, and I thought the exact same thing. 0:01:05.400 --> 0:01:07.600 I was like, man, you're lost. And he wasn't even 0:01:07.640 --> 0:01:09.280 like doing like a run or anything. He was literally 0:01:09.319 --> 0:01:11.319 just on like a walk to get like a paper. 0:01:11.680 --> 0:01:13.679 Yeah. I was like, jeez, I mean if you do 0:01:13.800 --> 0:01:15.800 go on a run like you do, tend to warm up. 0:01:15.959 --> 0:01:18.000 But still I feel like, well. 0:01:17.920 --> 0:01:19.840 I've been doing cold showers in the morning, so I 0:01:19.920 --> 0:01:22.039 run my hot shower and then at the end, I 0:01:22.080 --> 0:01:24.280 have like a stand in a cold shower. So I 0:01:24.319 --> 0:01:26.600 think that like maybe my body's like, you can't get 0:01:26.640 --> 0:01:29.840 colder than you were an hour ago, Like it's yeah, 0:01:29.640 --> 0:01:32.440 the whole day, my body's trying to heat itself up. 0:01:32.520 --> 0:01:33.399 So maybe that's why. 0:01:33.520 --> 0:01:35.760 Do you know? What I realized is that I'm really 0:01:35.800 --> 0:01:38.880 good at having cold showers in summer, but when it 0:01:38.920 --> 0:01:42.320 gets to winter and it's freezing outside, the last thing 0:01:42.440 --> 0:01:44.880 I want to do is be having a cold shower 0:01:44.959 --> 0:01:47.400 because it really takes a lot to warm art. 0:01:47.560 --> 0:01:49.480 That's the that's the thing, so you have to like 0:01:49.520 --> 0:01:51.520 get through. That's what I've been really struggling with. So 0:01:51.520 --> 0:01:53.520 I just turn the cold up real hot, and the 0:01:53.560 --> 0:01:55.080 first thing, I just put my stuff around me and 0:01:55.080 --> 0:01:56.840 I run in and get like as warm as I 0:01:56.880 --> 0:01:59.760 came quickly. It's hard. I want to clean out one 0:01:59.800 --> 0:02:02.760 of my my recycling bins at home, like wash it 0:02:02.760 --> 0:02:06.760 out with cold water, go for a run around, and 0:02:06.800 --> 0:02:09.320 then pick up a bag of ice, walk back home, 0:02:09.639 --> 0:02:11.400 put it in the bin so it's full of water, 0:02:11.560 --> 0:02:13.079 and then have like an ice bath in there. 0:02:13.280 --> 0:02:16.600 But when it's dirty, clean clean at first. 0:02:16.639 --> 0:02:17.880 But I haven't got around to cleaning it, so I 0:02:17.880 --> 0:02:18.600 haven't done that yet. 0:02:18.680 --> 0:02:24.280 I thought you meant in the process of cleaning it, they. 0:02:22.600 --> 0:02:24.880 Definitely clean it out first, because I think that like 0:02:25.000 --> 0:02:27.560 I can't fit in my bath. I'm fucking huge, so 0:02:27.600 --> 0:02:28.919 I don't fit in the bath, so I need to 0:02:28.960 --> 0:02:30.840 get like a big bin and then I can just 0:02:30.840 --> 0:02:32.600 like crouch in it and all the ice and I'll 0:02:32.639 --> 0:02:34.600 be real good. So let you know how I go. Actually, 0:02:34.600 --> 0:02:36.200 I'll just do that now that I've now that I'm 0:02:36.200 --> 0:02:38.320 held accountable and talking about it, I have to do it, 0:02:38.360 --> 0:02:38.880 so I will. 0:02:38.919 --> 0:02:40.799 This actually reminds me of what I want to buy 0:02:40.880 --> 0:02:43.880 Michael for his birthday, because Michael is like a health fiend. 0:02:43.919 --> 0:02:45.600 I don't know if I've been spoken about this to 0:02:45.639 --> 0:02:47.880 you guys, but he is like so big on health. 0:02:47.919 --> 0:02:50.799 He loves running, he loves eating healthy, which is great 0:02:50.880 --> 0:02:55.000 because it has encourage you. It encourages me. Heaves like 0:02:55.360 --> 0:02:59.360 I'm you know, I can be quite influenced to eat 0:02:59.440 --> 0:03:03.440 like you know, chili fries, pizza, like all of the 0:03:03.480 --> 0:03:05.400 bad stuff, but the good stuff, you know what I mean. 0:03:05.760 --> 0:03:07.920 But yeah, Michael's a health fi and so I was 0:03:07.960 --> 0:03:10.960 thinking for his birthday. I was actually looking them up 0:03:11.000 --> 0:03:13.120 last night. So it's funny that you say this. I 0:03:13.160 --> 0:03:16.520 was thinking of buying him like these little baths and 0:03:16.560 --> 0:03:18.520 then you can put like the ice in cold water 0:03:18.560 --> 0:03:21.080 in it. They're like three hundred and fifty dollars. 0:03:21.200 --> 0:03:23.000 You can make it. So what people are doing now 0:03:23.200 --> 0:03:25.240 is I looked into the exact same thing. You get 0:03:25.280 --> 0:03:27.280 an old chest freezer, so you buy it our Facebook 0:03:27.280 --> 0:03:32.720 marketplace for gum track the face and then you seal 0:03:32.800 --> 0:03:35.240 it up with like some cealant, and then you put 0:03:35.280 --> 0:03:37.960 like a thing in there, so you've got like a 0:03:38.040 --> 0:03:40.680 suction and like a pool pump sort of thing. Because 0:03:40.760 --> 0:03:42.200 I don't know what I'm doing, I could do it, 0:03:42.480 --> 0:03:44.720 and you have your own like ice bath that constantly 0:03:44.760 --> 0:03:47.040 filters the water. I was thinking about doing the same thing, 0:03:47.080 --> 0:03:48.640 so might I might make one for Michael. 0:03:48.680 --> 0:03:53.160 Then Matt's going again to give the best. 0:03:54.520 --> 0:03:56.040 Or you can buy your mind will be you come 0:03:56.080 --> 0:03:57.920 from the heart. I would have made it from scratch, 0:03:58.120 --> 0:04:00.760 almost put a lot of love work into it. 0:04:00.840 --> 0:04:03.360 Well it's of love. Yeah, Well, I mean three hundred 0:04:03.360 --> 0:04:05.800 and fifty dollars isn't the worst. It's kind of like 0:04:05.880 --> 0:04:10.000 a little like a paddling pool, but like for an adult, is. 0:04:10.000 --> 0:04:12.200 It the same thing what I'm talking about, Like, sorry 0:04:12.440 --> 0:04:14.120 sort of thing? I think. So, so you switch it 0:04:14.160 --> 0:04:16.400 on and what happens is I saw this guy do 0:04:16.440 --> 0:04:19.360 it on our Instagram or TikTok, and it freezes over 0:04:19.400 --> 0:04:21.520 the top, So it doesn't freeze all the water, just 0:04:21.560 --> 0:04:23.520 the layer of ice on the top freezers. And then 0:04:23.640 --> 0:04:26.240 before you go and you smash it. 0:04:27.120 --> 0:04:29.400 I'm getting cold just thinking about this. I think this 0:04:29.520 --> 0:04:32.320 one that I'm talking about, it actually gives you like 0:04:32.360 --> 0:04:35.480 a tray that you can put in any freezer. Then 0:04:35.520 --> 0:04:37.599 you put the ice into the water and it like 0:04:37.640 --> 0:04:42.520 freezes it up. But anyway, we digress, we digress. 0:04:42.680 --> 0:04:43.680 How was your weekend? 0:04:44.040 --> 0:04:47.080 It was good and we went house hunting because I 0:04:47.160 --> 0:04:49.360 just think I've like come to terms with the fact 0:04:49.400 --> 0:04:52.880 that like everything that I like is not in my budget. 0:04:53.920 --> 0:04:55.159 Have you done your pre approval? 0:04:55.720 --> 0:05:00.360 Yeah? Yeah, yeah, we've we hit up the bank, did 0:05:00.400 --> 0:05:03.240 all that fun stuff. But yeah, no, we've been looking 0:05:03.640 --> 0:05:07.040 kind of all over our house. Is it's been fun. Actually, 0:05:07.360 --> 0:05:10.120 my parents joined us and Michael's parents joined us, so 0:05:10.160 --> 0:05:12.640 there was like six of us going into like these 0:05:12.680 --> 0:05:15.280 open in sections. It was actually really cute. Yeah, and 0:05:15.360 --> 0:05:17.480 like seeing our parents get along is just so sweet. 0:05:17.520 --> 0:05:19.680 Like Michael and I were like on cloud nine and 0:05:19.720 --> 0:05:21.520 they were kind of like, I mean I think I 0:05:21.680 --> 0:05:24.279 enjoyed it, but like we were really enjoying it. So yeah, 0:05:24.279 --> 0:05:27.280 it's really nice that they get along. But all weekend, 0:05:27.720 --> 0:05:32.920 I've been having the craziest symptoms, like what just like, okay, 0:05:33.000 --> 0:05:36.000 so yesterday I had a smoke salmon bagel. You know 0:05:36.080 --> 0:05:40.039 how much I love my bagels. I just I hated it. 0:05:40.160 --> 0:05:42.760 And then last night I was like, okay, I'm gonna 0:05:42.800 --> 0:05:45.120 make us cause like Sunday night, you know, we have 0:05:45.160 --> 0:05:47.920 all of our like cheap meals before like Monday, right, 0:05:48.200 --> 0:05:50.440 So I was like, I'm gonna make my like, you know, 0:05:50.520 --> 0:05:52.920 a metric kind of pasta that Michael and I love 0:05:52.960 --> 0:05:57.160 with some garlic bread. Hated it just did not like it, 0:05:57.200 --> 0:05:59.000 like it had like a funny taste to it, and 0:05:59.040 --> 0:06:01.440 I was like, does it tastes sour to you? And 0:06:01.480 --> 0:06:05.080 Michael was like, no, it tastes unreal. And I was like, 0:06:05.720 --> 0:06:08.200 what is wrong with me? And then I was like, fuck, 0:06:08.240 --> 0:06:11.400 I've either got COVID or I'm pregnant. 0:06:11.839 --> 0:06:15.599 Both depends how you look at it. 0:06:15.680 --> 0:06:18.919 So last night I did a COVID test and it 0:06:18.960 --> 0:06:21.880 was negative. So then this morning, on the way to 0:06:21.920 --> 0:06:24.160 the podcast, I took myself to Colds and I got 0:06:24.160 --> 0:06:29.080 a pregnancy test and I did it just cle it, 0:06:29.120 --> 0:06:33.160 called it have it test mad. 0:06:34.400 --> 0:06:41.839 Pregnant, No, congrats, not pregnant. There you go, I did. 0:06:41.880 --> 0:06:45.320 I did so yeah. I mean, I don't know why 0:06:45.480 --> 0:06:49.680 I always think I'm pregnant, thinking it's not wish for 0:06:49.800 --> 0:06:52.960 thinking my food literally tasted disgusting, like I have a 0:06:53.000 --> 0:06:56.280 food a version, which is a sign of either COVID 0:06:56.360 --> 0:06:59.240 or pregnancy unless there's another reason for it. If there is, guys, 0:06:59.480 --> 0:07:01.680 feel free to tell me on our Facebook page. But 0:07:02.680 --> 0:07:05.640 I don't know why, Like I just think maybe me 0:07:05.720 --> 0:07:09.159 not being on like a form of contraception, even though 0:07:09.160 --> 0:07:10.600 I love it and I feel like I know my 0:07:10.640 --> 0:07:13.560 body so well now, I feel like every month I'm 0:07:13.600 --> 0:07:14.760 like traking you in your. 0:07:14.640 --> 0:07:18.040 Own getting stressed out every time. There's some sort of 0:07:18.080 --> 0:07:19.000 symptom about it. 0:07:19.160 --> 0:07:21.080 Yeah, and then I've got my mum being like, don't 0:07:21.080 --> 0:07:23.320 get pregnant before the wedding. You're gonna have like a 0:07:23.360 --> 0:07:26.040 two month old at the wedding. That's gonna be fucked. 0:07:26.160 --> 0:07:27.040 It's pretty cute. 0:07:27.400 --> 0:07:29.320 Yeah, but how am I supposed to take a child 0:07:30.240 --> 0:07:35.000 to Europe? True, that's just I mean, unless you want to, Like, no, 0:07:35.160 --> 0:07:35.520 I'll be. 0:07:35.480 --> 0:07:37.160 Busy, trust me, I'll be busy in Europe. 0:07:38.240 --> 0:07:41.400 But anyway, I'm not pregnant. Thank goodness. 0:07:41.600 --> 0:07:43.640 I've seen the thing. The clear blue says, she's not 0:07:43.760 --> 0:07:46.880 She's fine, she's now. For now, I'm not pregnant. 0:07:46.880 --> 0:07:49.040 I don't know why, Like why is my food taste? 0:07:49.080 --> 0:07:50.880 Like why is my taste buds taste? And I have 0:07:50.920 --> 0:07:53.320 a metallic taste in my mouth and the last time 0:07:53.320 --> 0:07:56.160 I had that. Maybe I do have COVID. Maybe I'm 0:07:56.200 --> 0:08:00.240 early stages and you're about to get it too. WI. 0:08:00.680 --> 0:08:03.600 Actually I've had a crook. I've had some crook stomach 0:08:03.640 --> 0:08:06.160 issues as well. The last couple of the last couple 0:08:06.200 --> 0:08:08.960 of days have well I'm not going to put it 0:08:08.960 --> 0:08:12.560 in fully into detail, but I had can of baked beans. 0:08:14.560 --> 0:08:17.040 Say no more, Say no more? 0:08:18.040 --> 0:08:23.600 Very windy geez baked beans. There what it could for 0:08:23.640 --> 0:08:25.520 your heart? The more you eat, the more you fart. 0:08:26.000 --> 0:08:29.120 Just jesus, it really took it out. You had a 0:08:29.160 --> 0:08:30.320 whole can of them. 0:08:30.480 --> 0:08:32.360 Yeah, I just I sort of hated it up the 0:08:32.400 --> 0:08:34.160 whole can. I dumped it in. I was rushing and 0:08:34.200 --> 0:08:36.800 I couldn't be bothered like cooking something, so just put 0:08:36.880 --> 0:08:38.360 him in the microwave, and I hated it up the 0:08:38.360 --> 0:08:40.439 whole thing. And then I just ended up putting it 0:08:40.480 --> 0:08:41.800 on my toast and just smashed it. 0:08:42.400 --> 0:08:44.560 You know, some people love that, but that is probably 0:08:44.600 --> 0:08:47.199 one of the only things that I would not eat, 0:08:47.480 --> 0:08:48.760 like a can of baked beans. 0:08:48.840 --> 0:08:49.200 Really. 0:08:49.720 --> 0:08:53.440 Yeah, Like I just hate used to well, like this 0:08:53.600 --> 0:08:57.040 spaghetti with that red sauce, Like, oh, I hate that. 0:08:57.200 --> 0:09:01.000 I hate spaghetti because that was my ritual can spaghetti 0:09:01.160 --> 0:09:04.280 on toast before I played football every day for like 0:09:04.360 --> 0:09:06.920 ten years, so now I used By the end, I 0:09:06.920 --> 0:09:08.679 hated playing football, so so. 0:09:08.640 --> 0:09:11.319 Then you've associated it with the food. 0:09:11.120 --> 0:09:13.240 So I can't even look at that or try it. 0:09:13.280 --> 0:09:16.160 I was like, every time I smell it makes me 0:09:16.160 --> 0:09:16.760 feel sick. 0:09:16.960 --> 0:09:19.800 It's so funny how we associate like specific foods or 0:09:19.840 --> 0:09:22.880 smells with like places or times in our life, or music. 0:09:23.320 --> 0:09:24.160 Actually music. 0:09:24.280 --> 0:09:27.199 Sometimes in music, I have like ex boyfriends we would 0:09:27.200 --> 0:09:29.520 have songs together and the songs come on the radio 0:09:29.520 --> 0:09:32.440 and I'm like, next, it's not going to happen today. 0:09:33.080 --> 0:09:35.920 There was. I do smells as well, So I'm wearing 0:09:35.920 --> 0:09:38.199 this role on. It's this one that I swear when 0:09:38.200 --> 0:09:41.040 I used to travel Europe, and I've actually started wearing 0:09:41.080 --> 0:09:42.760 it now full time because I actually know I like 0:09:42.800 --> 0:09:46.120 the smell and yeah, now so I for a bit 0:09:46.160 --> 0:09:47.560 there a couple of months, I was like, oh, I 0:09:47.559 --> 0:09:49.120 want to go back, but now it's just my every 0:09:49.160 --> 0:09:49.880 day smell again. 0:09:50.160 --> 0:09:52.959 It makes you feel like you're like traveling, traveling. 0:09:53.000 --> 0:09:54.560 But now it's just my every day roll on. 0:09:55.040 --> 0:09:57.160 Nice. I love it. How was your weekend? 0:09:57.440 --> 0:10:00.040 It was good. I spent a weekend away, so so 0:10:00.280 --> 0:10:02.600 Jen and I went away to Shepherd and I had 0:10:02.640 --> 0:10:05.480 to quote a couple of jobs up there and just 0:10:05.559 --> 0:10:07.319 made a trip of it. It was good. I didn't 0:10:07.320 --> 0:10:09.480 go on my phone the whole time, so full of to. 0:10:09.600 --> 0:10:12.520 Notice that you were mia. 0:10:11.840 --> 0:10:13.679 Full off the greed. Were you wondering where I was? 0:10:13.880 --> 0:10:16.640 Yeah, I was like what's happened to it? Where's he? Ah? Yeah? 0:10:16.640 --> 0:10:18.160 I just felt like, you know what, I'm just gonna 0:10:18.200 --> 0:10:20.800 live in the moment. But again, like I struggled so 0:10:20.840 --> 0:10:23.720 hard to live in the moment, Like I just struggle, 0:10:23.840 --> 0:10:25.560 like before I know it, I'm always focusing on what 0:10:25.600 --> 0:10:27.520 happens next. Even though I was on my phone, I 0:10:27.520 --> 0:10:29.959 actually was beating myself up at the end, really, which 0:10:30.000 --> 0:10:31.920 I just lived more in the moment. So I'm trying 0:10:31.960 --> 0:10:32.880 the hardest to do that. 0:10:33.280 --> 0:10:36.840 It's actually a lot harder said than done. I think 0:10:37.480 --> 0:10:39.800 a lot of people, do you know what? I even 0:10:39.880 --> 0:10:42.560 did it? Like after my engagement party went like the 0:10:42.600 --> 0:10:44.640 next day, I was like, so what now? And I 0:10:44.720 --> 0:10:47.800 was like, Anna, like come on, like I'm still on 0:10:48.120 --> 0:10:50.360 Maybe it wasn't the Sunday, but definitely on the Tuesday, 0:10:50.400 --> 0:10:52.800 I was like, so what next? You know what I mean? Like, 0:10:53.040 --> 0:10:55.160 sometimes you just have to like live on the high 0:10:55.280 --> 0:10:58.320 or like live in those like amazing moments, because otherwise 0:10:58.320 --> 0:10:59.920 you just wish your life away exactly. 0:11:00.000 --> 0:11:02.160 And it's been a problem like my whole life that 0:11:02.240 --> 0:11:04.080 I've brought up with my mum multiple times, like I 0:11:04.120 --> 0:11:06.439 just can't just focus on the now, like you know, 0:11:06.520 --> 0:11:08.360 I'm even here thinking about like, oh okay, well i 0:11:08.440 --> 0:11:09.920 leave here, I've got to do this and do that. 0:11:09.960 --> 0:11:12.120 Like I've got to like try and train my mind 0:11:12.160 --> 0:11:15.080 to live in this present moment. I think it's easier 0:11:15.080 --> 0:11:17.640 said than done. If anyone's got any tips, yeah, I 0:11:17.679 --> 0:11:20.120 want to know, Yeah, but yeah, we went. 0:11:20.600 --> 0:11:23.440 I think being grateful for the moment is I think 0:11:23.480 --> 0:11:25.679 how I've learned to live better in the moment, just 0:11:25.679 --> 0:11:29.360 being like I'm grateful for being in this studio right now. 0:11:29.840 --> 0:11:31.440 You know, Like, do you have a gratitude. 0:11:31.920 --> 0:11:34.959 I don't, but I do mantras every morning when I 0:11:35.000 --> 0:11:36.920 wake up. It's the first thing I say, like I'll 0:11:36.960 --> 0:11:39.640 be like to Michael, I'm grateful for you. I'm grateful 0:11:39.640 --> 0:11:41.959 for our apartment. I'm grateful for and I kind of 0:11:42.000 --> 0:11:44.680 like list things that I'm grateful for in my life. 0:11:44.880 --> 0:11:47.120 I am, I have one before I go to sleep, 0:11:47.120 --> 0:11:50.120 and I write three every night. And they started, like, 0:11:50.160 --> 0:11:52.080 you know, getting a bit cliche, like I'm grateful for, 0:11:52.520 --> 0:11:54.480 like I am grateful for like running water on my roof, 0:11:54.520 --> 0:11:55.800 over my head, all this sort of stuff. But I 0:11:55.840 --> 0:11:57.600 was like, you know what, I'm going to focus on 0:11:57.679 --> 0:12:00.559 each day and be grateful for those things in that day, 0:12:00.559 --> 0:12:02.480 so I am living in the moment, so I write 0:12:02.480 --> 0:12:06.120 things that are solely about that day. So that's good. 0:12:06.160 --> 0:12:08.200 That's a good way of doing that as well. But 0:12:08.559 --> 0:12:11.520 on the weekend, we went to Cactus Country. We've always 0:12:11.520 --> 0:12:12.480 spoke about going there. 0:12:12.840 --> 0:12:15.679 That's cool there. No, I didn't even know it was 0:12:15.720 --> 0:12:16.840 a thing until you were there. 0:12:17.280 --> 0:12:20.200 So I was saying that they've actually got the cheat code, 0:12:20.600 --> 0:12:22.959 like what they've done there, so they've made like a 0:12:23.000 --> 0:12:26.120 full cactus area. But cactus are the most easiest thing 0:12:26.200 --> 0:12:28.520 to maintain, Like if not, you don't have to maintain them. 0:12:28.520 --> 0:12:30.640 They just grow by themselves. 0:12:30.640 --> 0:12:33.120 True. I mean I did once kill a cactus, but 0:12:33.200 --> 0:12:35.480 I am like, I don't have a green thumb. 0:12:35.960 --> 0:12:36.680 Did you manage that? 0:12:37.679 --> 0:12:41.600 Don't even ask me, But anyway, you shouldn't be able 0:12:41.640 --> 0:12:42.559 to kill a cactus. 0:12:43.080 --> 0:12:45.559 Yes, And they reproduced so easily. You cut them off 0:12:45.559 --> 0:12:48.240 and you just replant them, so you're not spending any money. 0:12:48.280 --> 0:12:50.320 Once you buy a cactus, you can just keep. So 0:12:50.360 --> 0:12:52.480 they found like the cheat code on that. It was 0:12:52.520 --> 0:12:54.839 really cool, like reminded me of like Arizona Desert or 0:12:54.880 --> 0:12:58.400 the cactuses. But I put a story up. I'm smash 0:12:58.520 --> 0:12:59.719 Naked and Afraid. Do you know that? 0:13:00.360 --> 0:13:02.280 I do know that you watch that, but I haven't 0:13:02.280 --> 0:13:03.120 watched it myself. 0:13:03.200 --> 0:13:07.000 So they dumped two people in random wild situations naked 0:13:07.080 --> 0:13:09.720 and give them like a pot of machete and like 0:13:09.760 --> 0:13:12.160 a fire starter, and they have to survive for twenty 0:13:12.200 --> 0:13:14.880 one days. And in this one episode they ate prickly 0:13:14.920 --> 0:13:16.480 pears and I was like, I know what a prickly 0:13:16.520 --> 0:13:18.920 pair is. How can you eat that? So I was like, 0:13:18.920 --> 0:13:20.839 I want to try prickly pair? And then they were 0:13:21.160 --> 0:13:23.920 selling prickly pear stuff there a the caacters. Yeah, I 0:13:23.960 --> 0:13:26.880 got to try a cake, ice cream, and a cider. 0:13:27.280 --> 0:13:29.040 I actually put a story up and I explained the 0:13:29.120 --> 0:13:31.480 naked and afray thing and I tagged Naked and Afraid 0:13:32.160 --> 0:13:35.680 and they've liked my things, so I've got an open 0:13:35.760 --> 0:13:39.840 thread with them now. So I'm thinking about messaging him saying, Hey, 0:13:40.360 --> 0:13:43.320 can I go in and do a twenty one day challenge? 0:13:43.360 --> 0:13:46.840 Would you actually do that? That is my idea of 0:13:47.000 --> 0:13:48.200 fucking torture? 0:13:48.440 --> 0:13:50.079 Well, it is genuinely tat do you reckonize? 0:13:50.120 --> 0:13:53.280 And also your dick is like out for everyone out 0:13:53.320 --> 0:13:56.000 for the world to see, Like I would be watching it, like, 0:13:56.000 --> 0:13:57.000 how would wear it? 0:13:57.880 --> 0:13:59.160 Wear it? 0:13:59.320 --> 0:14:01.199 I'd want to see blurred you know what I mean? 0:14:01.280 --> 0:14:03.520 You wouldn't want to see me cry in fucking in 0:14:03.600 --> 0:14:05.240 some random wild if I. 0:14:05.280 --> 0:14:07.560 Was to do it, give me crying after like ten minutes, 0:14:07.600 --> 0:14:08.640 and there he'd be like. 0:14:08.600 --> 0:14:11.439 Imagine me without my retainer or fucking my toothpaste. 0:14:11.480 --> 0:14:16.760 What about your fucking colsal creepy premium. That will be 0:14:17.080 --> 0:14:20.080 like your whole face will be covered in colesaws by the. 0:14:20.040 --> 0:14:20.480 End of that. 0:14:20.720 --> 0:14:23.840 Why vitamins, No vitamins, no, no food, Like it'd just 0:14:23.880 --> 0:14:25.160 be how long can I. 0:14:25.400 --> 0:14:26.480 Your face moisturizer? 0:14:26.640 --> 0:14:26.840 Yeah? 0:14:27.080 --> 0:14:28.480 No, yeah, face hand. 0:14:28.400 --> 0:14:32.760 Face hand. I'd be fucked. They'd be like wife Matthews 0:14:32.800 --> 0:14:35.080 scurrying off. He's got like a sack of this stuff 0:14:35.120 --> 0:14:36.760 and you're like, no, you don't rip it off me. 0:14:36.920 --> 0:14:38.720 Regon I go two days, Well. 0:14:38.600 --> 0:14:39.160 Don't say that. 0:14:39.840 --> 0:14:44.560 I'd go the whole time. I'd clock it. I'd clock it, 0:14:44.600 --> 0:14:46.160 and I'd make some serious good TV. 0:14:46.280 --> 0:14:48.400 Guys, make some great TV. You just cry for forty 0:14:48.440 --> 0:14:50.880 eight hours straight and they'd be like, I need some 0:14:50.920 --> 0:14:52.200 serious psychiatric help. 0:14:56.120 --> 0:14:57.920 People do it and respect to people that do it. 0:14:57.920 --> 0:15:01.400 I reckon twenty one days out there, no fucking yeah, 0:15:01.560 --> 0:15:04.360 no anything, no TV. You've got to make your own fire. 0:15:05.680 --> 0:15:08.760 I don't even I don't even camp. So like I 0:15:08.800 --> 0:15:10.920 think for me and you too go in and do 0:15:11.040 --> 0:15:13.400 something like that, it's a little far fetch. Like for 0:15:13.520 --> 0:15:15.400 people who live on the lamb. 0:15:15.360 --> 0:15:18.280 Well they do pick survival, yeah. 0:15:17.840 --> 0:15:20.560 Yeah, then of course for them it makes sense. I 0:15:20.600 --> 0:15:23.440 think for you to do it like it's it. 0:15:23.480 --> 0:15:24.760 Just comes straight, you know what I mean. 0:15:24.760 --> 0:15:27.280 There's no like eyebrow tintings or now that you do that. 0:15:27.320 --> 0:15:29.040 But you know what I mean, I'm straight from my 0:15:29.120 --> 0:15:33.640 like my fucking bamboo pillows. It's just nice, like mattress 0:15:33.760 --> 0:15:35.080 to sleeping on the floor. 0:15:35.760 --> 0:15:39.280 I actually have a great recommendation seeking of like sleeping arrangements, 0:15:39.960 --> 0:15:42.440 just to do like a swift left turn from that conversation, 0:15:43.680 --> 0:15:45.200 I bought a mattress topper. 0:15:47.800 --> 0:15:50.680 I've got one. Yeah, okay. 0:15:50.840 --> 0:15:53.600 I was literally on TikTok and I never do this this. 0:15:53.920 --> 0:15:55.800 It was like this girl and she was like, oh 0:15:55.880 --> 0:15:58.960 my god, my sleep has changed. This is incredible, And 0:15:58.960 --> 0:16:01.560 I was like, you know what, I'm just gonna buy 0:16:01.800 --> 0:16:04.000 what she's selling and I'm going to pray to God 0:16:04.040 --> 0:16:06.720 that it works and trust me, when I say I've 0:16:06.720 --> 0:16:09.840 put this mattress topper on our bed, this weekend has 0:16:09.880 --> 0:16:14.280 been the most rested, beautiful sleep I've had in a 0:16:14.360 --> 0:16:14.920 very long time. 0:16:15.040 --> 0:16:16.280 Let me know after is what one you got, and 0:16:16.320 --> 0:16:18.440 I'll see if it's the same as mine. Mine's unreal. 0:16:18.560 --> 0:16:19.680 I swear by it. 0:16:19.680 --> 0:16:21.600 It's like it's like sleeping in a hotel bed. 0:16:21.720 --> 0:16:24.000 Do you have what mattress? Do you have a spring 0:16:24.240 --> 0:16:26.320 or a memory home mattress? 0:16:26.400 --> 0:16:28.360 I'm not sure, but I know it's a good one. 0:16:28.560 --> 0:16:30.480 But it was brought a while ago. It's probably like 0:16:30.520 --> 0:16:32.320 ten years old at this I don't know how long 0:16:32.360 --> 0:16:33.440 the mattresses last. 0:16:33.280 --> 0:16:36.480 Year, probably at any mattress France. 0:16:38.920 --> 0:16:41.440 In my new house, Michael and I have said that 0:16:41.440 --> 0:16:43.080 we want to get a king bed because we're both 0:16:43.200 --> 0:16:46.800 quite tall. Right now, we're rolling a queen and it's 0:16:46.880 --> 0:16:50.520 just not that we don't like being close together, but 0:16:50.520 --> 0:16:52.520 like sometimes it is nice to kind of spread out. 0:16:52.920 --> 0:16:55.000 We just don't have that luxury and like you know, 0:16:55.120 --> 0:16:58.000 Michael six to three, I'm five or eleven, like we 0:16:58.040 --> 0:16:59.840 could use the extra space. 0:17:00.320 --> 0:17:03.240 Looking at bedrooms that can fit a king in there, Yes, yeah, 0:17:03.280 --> 0:17:04.560 I want to get a king as well. For the 0:17:04.560 --> 0:17:06.400 next one, even if it takes up the whole room, 0:17:07.640 --> 0:17:13.840 that's my bed room, that's my bed walk, that's my bedroom. 0:17:14.080 --> 0:17:16.080 That's the thing. Is our room at the moment, it's 0:17:16.119 --> 0:17:18.280 a queen. We have a queen bed and the room 0:17:18.359 --> 0:17:22.680 is like quite tight. So like that's like Michael's main focus. 0:17:23.000 --> 0:17:24.920 My main focus when looking for house is I want 0:17:24.920 --> 0:17:27.680