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Speaker 2: I know this is a really serious cheers.

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Speaker 1: Then that you're so far away, I know.

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Speaker 2: All right, ready, I'm ready when you are, queen. Good morning, divas.

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Speaker 2: We come to you today, actually the day before this

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Speaker 2: episode goes live, so you're getting a real life update.

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Speaker 2: And obviously you got Bill on board.

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Speaker 1: What else would it be?

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Speaker 2: You know, I saw this thing that shake Jane, shake Jane, Jake,

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Speaker 2: Jane didn't he did a prayer?

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Speaker 1: It was so funny.

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Speaker 2: So we're going to start this episode of this very

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Speaker 2: serious episode today with a prayer. Yes, do you want

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Speaker 2: to take it away as you're the guest?

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Speaker 1: Okay, our father, dear a godly father.

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Speaker 3: I pray that today goes well, that Sam is in

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Speaker 3: a good mood, that no man messes with her dopamine

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Speaker 3: levels today, and that the phone that she buys today

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Speaker 3: has the gigabyte color and everything she wants because she

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Speaker 3: fucking needs it.

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Speaker 2: And what about you? Why are you praying for me?

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Speaker 1: I'm good, I'm sweet, I'm sweet. Let do something about me.

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Speaker 2: You do something a little bit about you, and hands

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Speaker 2: like this you tweet this is why God doesn't like you.

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Speaker 1: I'm actually not catholic. Focusing, and I pray that.

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Speaker 3: I can be the best person for all my friends

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Speaker 2: He needs it.

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Speaker 1: Amen, Amen for you.

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Speaker 2: Yes, Dear God, thank you for blessing me with another

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Speaker 2: day of low dopamine levels. They're really low today, so

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Speaker 2: I don't have to spend too much money at Chadston

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Speaker 2: Although I love my mother dearly, but I don't really

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Speaker 2: want to spend that much money. I also pray that

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Speaker 2: I don't speak to you often, God because quite honestly,

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Speaker 2: I don't think I really believe in you, but I'm

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Speaker 2: please forgive me for the time that I ate bread

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Speaker 2: and I haven't got my communion. And I'm really sorry.

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Speaker 2: I was just really hungry. I'm so sorry. I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 2: I just wanted to taste it once. Oh yeah that's yeah, amen,

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Speaker 2: Sure that made me feel better.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like affirmations like I do that, just like

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Speaker 2: But I had of myself really bad. Well what I

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Speaker 1: That's a great that is true.

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Speaker 2: No, I'm handling myself woman. Okay, So we do this thing.

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Speaker 2: Well we've only just introduced it, but it's got a

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Speaker 2: hot topic in our life right now. This is Blake, Blake,

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Speaker 2: said producer. He has this is a really good question,

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Speaker 2: this up. The hot topic of this week is are

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Speaker 1: Wow? Blake, you've read our Bible? Yes, yes, straight men

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Speaker 2: Would you say, I'm emotionally closer to you than the

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Speaker 3: Yes, I think you come to me for emotional reassurance

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but that's just like what a best friend does.

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Speaker 2: I think it's really hard because Bill and I are

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Speaker 3: For you, I feel like you like come to me

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, fuck. It's like you the other day, Should

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Speaker 1: I end it? Or should I not? Should I end it?

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Speaker 1: So you want me to end it?

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Speaker 2: So you're implying I should end No, I'm not doing that.

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Speaker 2: So you're telling me that I should.

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Speaker 1: No, I'm not telling you to do that. You're a

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Speaker 3: So a straight man can't give you that, not one

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Speaker 2: Anyway. On today's episode, we are doing what would Bill

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Speaker 2: guys about giving us little life dilemmas that you guys

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Speaker 3: Okay, I find I'm thrown into actual the whole deep

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Speaker 1: I've no idea what's coming.

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Speaker 2: Submission number one, Hey, Bill and Sam, I've been seeing

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Speaker 2: on our way to being exclusive. He's consistent, plan states

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Speaker 1: On good terms projecting.

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Speaker 2: And now I feel embarrassed for even caring. Should I

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Speaker 3: I personally would just be like I couldn't give like

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Speaker 2: But I mean, I guess it's hard for you if

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Speaker 2: like everything, like he hasn't liked every photo and everything

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Speaker 3: Think he's a problem to ever just bring it up

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Speaker 3: But that reaction I think is a lot more concerning

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Speaker 3: why are you so scared to just instantly cut this off?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Then if for me, I just follow the X and

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Speaker 2: I always like, also do the thing of like put

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Speaker 3: I think it just comes down to like communication.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so what would you do?

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Speaker 1: I would follow the girl and like, no.

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Speaker 3: Say, oh, I just thought we'd all being good turns.

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Speaker 3: Then leave them alone, set someone up to be there

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Speaker 2: Okay, this is just not gonna happen. This girl literally

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Speaker 3: The fucking plot. Come back, tell them that your arm

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Speaker 2: To make sure you were in black bands.

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Speaker 3: So then they called off guard sus how it is,

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Speaker 2: I would bring it up one more time, being like,

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Speaker 2: it's not that I don't trust you. I just find

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Speaker 2: so open to like liking her photos, like, what does

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Speaker 2: that say about you and how you feel about her?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I think I do. I either do like what I

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Speaker 2: Yeah, me too.

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Speaker 1: Ignorance is bliss. Yeah, cheat on me though. Fuck?

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Speaker 2: Oh all right, Bill is reading submisson number two.

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Speaker 1: Hey Sam, Hey, love you and the.

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Speaker 2: Fight, love you, hoping you help me here.

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Speaker 3: Okay, my oldest sister and I have always been super close,

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Speaker 3: but lately she's been making constant comments about my life choices,

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Speaker 3: I care about you.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, so you're Bill, what fucking Barker. This is

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Speaker 3: To me, but bruh, it feels so judgmental and she

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Speaker 3: So maybe just like take it on board might help

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Speaker 3: don't take your personal Sarah, I wouldn't.

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Speaker 3: My family does it to me or mine, they're like, Bill,

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Speaker 3: why did you post that? Why you put your life

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Speaker 3: Please just let me be.

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Speaker 2: Okay. Submission number three. I need your brutal opinion help.

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Speaker 2: I'm twenty five and single, happily living in Melbourne around

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Speaker 2: my family and best girlfriends, and I've recently been offered

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Speaker 2: I'm so fucking stressed. Bill and I are going to

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Speaker 2: say on three two one what to do. Three to one,

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Speaker 2: it doesn't, regret it. If it does, yeah, you're gonna

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Speaker 2: in the long run, because you didn't have this opportunity.

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Speaker 2: You've been wanting to do this thing for years. Move Overseas,

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Speaker 2: great money and the ability to live another life, experience

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Speaker 2: he's meant to be your person, he'll find you. Guys

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Speaker 2: will find your way back to each other. Like it's

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Speaker 2: twelve months. If you guys still say in contact, you

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Speaker 2: can end up going over there. Realize this man's not

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Speaker 3: Man, I know where you're moving, girl, But have you

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Speaker 3: ever had the dick in Spain?

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Speaker 1: Because it is a lot than here. Let me tell

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Speaker 1: you that, Like.

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Speaker 2: You just don't know, Like don't you've just started speaking

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Speaker 2: to him. It's not like you've dated him for four

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what's to say, it'll be Yeah, you're so young.

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Speaker 2: You just have to trust the universe in that. And

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Speaker 2: if you don't take that, I'll be really matter And I.

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Speaker 3: Promise you're having sex. Looks a whole lot better in

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Speaker 3: where you can get it, and it's.

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Speaker 2: Everywhere in European man, if you're moving to Europe or

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Speaker 2: London or something like that, that you'll.

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Speaker 1: Find them in Toky. That will fly you anywhere, trust.

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Speaker 2: Me, Bill fucking Barker.

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Speaker 1: You can get a boob job. You can get a

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Speaker 1: snow bag and a knife feed after. I promise you

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Speaker 1: I didn't get a boob job, but Turkey's plastic surtry.

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Speaker 1: It's going to be a lot better over there for you.

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Speaker 1: Trust me. The standard is going to be raised.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, move Overseas. I get that fucking schnell bag.

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Speaker 1: Get that.

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Speaker 2: Go the Scorpios, Please, go the fucking Scorpios. I'm telling

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Speaker 2: y'all you won't miss out.

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Speaker 1: Hey, Sam, love the party.

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Speaker 2: Thanks.

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Speaker 1: So. I broke up with my ex about a.

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Speaker 3: later he posted a picture with a new girl. My

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Speaker 3: saying how happy she was for him and was so

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Speaker 3: good he had found someone else. Oh no, sorry, I

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Speaker 3: that's pretty shitty. What should I do as I don't

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Speaker 2: But if you replied to the imagine fucking girl, imagine

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Speaker 2: bliply these names up bake. Imagine if I saw post

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Speaker 2: I replied back saying, I'm so happy for you.

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Speaker 3: Fuck you like, oh, actually that did happen to me

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Speaker 2: I'm just like, that's so blind siding. I'm like, what

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Speaker 2: the fuck? Like if you or Lily did that, it

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Speaker 2: you and Lily or Lily replied back to that story

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Speaker 2: and said that that is like ultimate level of betrayal,

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Speaker 2: Like she's not your best friend.

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Speaker 1: I'm so sorry, Devil's Advocate.

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Speaker 3: Maybe just maybe you know they're in a toxic relationship.

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Speaker 1: It was really bad.

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Speaker 3: The best friend just really wanted them not to speak

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Speaker 3: together because worse when they was together than when they

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Speaker 3: you made the right.

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Speaker 1: Choice so she doesn't have to deal with it later.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, but still like, I don't think that's

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Speaker 2: best friend shit. I wouldn't do that.

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Speaker 1: To my dot need to even fucking swipe out you're freak.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I just don't like got the vibe is

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Speaker 2: like every time like my friend's ex boyfriends like posted poder,

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Speaker 2: be like, dude, this is like so funny, like taking

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Speaker 3: I'm they're fucking reporting it, Like get this shit taken

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Speaker 3: down and get this cap band.

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Speaker 2: Like anytime Lily's extill will do something, I'm just like, well,

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Speaker 2: like it make her feel better about it.

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Speaker 3: If my best friend isn't replying to my ex partner's

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Speaker 3: most nastiest shit, that's not my fucking best friend.

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Speaker 1: That's not that person wants to be me, that's what

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Speaker 1: they want to do.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know, And like when you're saying like

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Speaker 2: Like I wouldn't tell her anything you're getting up to you.

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Speaker 2: I don't think. I don't think she's your best friend.

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Speaker 2: If I'm going to be completely honest, because my best

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Speaker 3: She wants to be you, she wants him, and she

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Speaker 3: wants to beat you. Sorry, fuck her off.

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Speaker 2: Hey, Sam, love the pod. Thank you. So here's the thing.

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Speaker 2: In twenty twenty four, I moved into state and broke

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Speaker 2: up with my boyfriend of two and a half years

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00:19:51,960 --> 00:19:54,560
Speaker 2: before leaving as I felt like I had outgrown the

442
00:19:54,560 --> 00:19:58,000
Speaker 2: relationship and wanted to grow an experience more life is

443
00:19:58,040 --> 00:20:01,280
Speaker 2: this blue belt me? We stayed friendly, but he always

444
00:20:01,880 --> 00:20:04,199
Speaker 2: oh my god, this please about me. We stayed friendly,

445
00:20:04,240 --> 00:20:06,360
Speaker 2: but he always thought we might get back together. When

446
00:20:06,359 --> 00:20:09,000
Speaker 2: I came home while I was away, I thrived and

447
00:20:09,080 --> 00:20:12,480
Speaker 2: realized I didn't actually miss the relationship. Now I'm back home,

448
00:20:12,720 --> 00:20:14,720
Speaker 2: small town problems and I see him all the time

449
00:20:14,720 --> 00:20:17,760
Speaker 2: through mutual friends. After a recent party he stayed over.

450
00:20:17,920 --> 00:20:21,920
Speaker 2: Nothing happened, just a little kissing right and the next

451
00:20:21,920 --> 00:20:23,600
Speaker 2: morning he told me he still loves me and wants

452
00:20:23,600 --> 00:20:25,600
Speaker 2: to try again. I care about him a lot, but

453
00:20:25,640 --> 00:20:28,000
Speaker 2: I don't want the relationship right now, and honestly don't

454
00:20:28,000 --> 00:20:30,720
Speaker 2: think it's a forever match. I just also can't cut

455
00:20:30,800 --> 00:20:33,560
Speaker 2: him off because our lives overlapped so much. How do

456
00:20:33,600 --> 00:20:35,640
Speaker 2: I not lead him on or hurt him while still

457
00:20:35,640 --> 00:20:37,719
Speaker 2: being around him all the time? Well, first of all,

458
00:20:37,760 --> 00:20:39,960
Speaker 2: probably don't have sleepovers with him and kiss him and

459
00:20:40,000 --> 00:20:41,600
Speaker 2: stuff like that, because that's giving him a little bit

460
00:20:41,640 --> 00:20:44,080
Speaker 2: of hope. Like I know that you probably love the

461
00:20:44,119 --> 00:20:48,000
Speaker 2: attention and like you love like the feeling, and it

462
00:20:48,080 --> 00:20:50,360
Speaker 2: is a really good feeling. Guess it's really toxic and

463
00:20:51,000 --> 00:20:54,360
Speaker 2: fucked up that like you love knowing that like your

464
00:20:54,359 --> 00:20:57,800
Speaker 2: ex still loves you, Like I I ate, Yeah, I

465
00:20:58,000 --> 00:21:00,440
Speaker 2: ate that shit up. Like when that happened, I was like, yeah,

466
00:21:00,480 --> 00:21:03,439
Speaker 2: like it's just a good feeling, like and you can't

467
00:21:03,480 --> 00:21:06,119
Speaker 2: deny that and like then getting the validation. But like

468
00:21:06,160 --> 00:21:08,879
Speaker 2: at the end of the day, you can't be selfish

469
00:21:08,880 --> 00:21:10,600
Speaker 2: and like have your cake and eat it too if

470
00:21:10,640 --> 00:21:13,280
Speaker 2: you know that he's not your lifelong partner, and like

471
00:21:13,359 --> 00:21:15,880
Speaker 2: you can't leave him on, like that, because then that's

472
00:21:15,920 --> 00:21:18,919
Speaker 2: eventually like halting him from healing on and healing and

473
00:21:18,960 --> 00:21:21,360
Speaker 2: moving on. If you don't think he's your life partner.

474
00:21:21,160 --> 00:21:25,159
Speaker 3: I feel like it's his boundaries. You can love someone

475
00:21:25,560 --> 00:21:30,400
Speaker 3: and still know that they're not and it's just giving

476
00:21:30,440 --> 00:21:33,440
Speaker 3: into those urges. But like sometimes it's so good.

477
00:21:33,600 --> 00:21:38,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, breakup sex is like honestly, yeah, honestly.

478
00:21:38,960 --> 00:21:40,000
Speaker 1: Don't even play around.

479
00:21:40,200 --> 00:21:42,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, but like get pregnant.

480
00:21:43,000 --> 00:21:45,520
Speaker 1: Bill, get some chance.

481
00:21:47,960 --> 00:21:51,640
Speaker 2: No, I think you should just go like like let

482
00:21:51,680 --> 00:21:54,080
Speaker 2: him know honestly and just be like, hey, like obviously

483
00:21:54,119 --> 00:21:56,199
Speaker 2: I still love you so much as a person, but

484
00:21:56,240 --> 00:21:58,199
Speaker 2: like you're not my end up, Like you're not my

485
00:21:58,240 --> 00:22:00,159
Speaker 2: life person, and I don't want to lead you on.

486
00:22:00,240 --> 00:22:01,880
Speaker 2: Like obviously I love hanging out with you, I love

487
00:22:01,920 --> 00:22:04,680
Speaker 2: being around you, but like I need you to heal,

488
00:22:04,880 --> 00:22:07,480
Speaker 2: and if that means like we can't be around each other.

489
00:22:07,359 --> 00:22:09,720
Speaker 1: For a bit, and yeah, you can't be friends, you.

490
00:22:09,680 --> 00:22:12,119
Speaker 2: Can't be friends. You can obviously be nice, but like

491
00:22:12,200 --> 00:22:14,239
Speaker 2: he obviously is in a different part of healing, and

492
00:22:14,280 --> 00:22:16,280
Speaker 2: he's kind of thought that you guys will always get

493
00:22:16,280 --> 00:22:17,879
Speaker 2: back together and you're not at that stage, and you

494
00:22:17,920 --> 00:22:20,160
Speaker 2: just need to be honest with him. But be like, hey,

495
00:22:20,200 --> 00:22:23,280
Speaker 2: if you want to have sex like or good, but

496
00:22:23,400 --> 00:22:24,800
Speaker 2: like just know that I don't want that. So if

497
00:22:24,800 --> 00:22:28,760
Speaker 2: you're going to damage yourself from that, yeah, because like

498
00:22:28,800 --> 00:22:30,120
Speaker 2: sometimes break up sex is good.

499
00:22:30,760 --> 00:22:31,159
Speaker 1: It is.

500
00:22:31,960 --> 00:22:35,280
Speaker 3: It is really fucking good. I'm just date dreaming right now.

501
00:22:38,640 --> 00:22:39,840
Speaker 1: It is so good.

502
00:22:40,040 --> 00:22:41,760
Speaker 3: But I've seen like a TikTok the other week, and

503
00:22:41,760 --> 00:22:44,360
Speaker 3: it was like when I'm texting four guys at once

504
00:22:44,400 --> 00:22:46,879
Speaker 3: while also still manipulating my ex into chasing me, and

505
00:22:46,920 --> 00:22:48,600
Speaker 3: I generally genuinely reach a.

506
00:22:48,560 --> 00:22:51,000
Speaker 1: Flow state Like that was fucking me, bro.

507
00:22:51,400 --> 00:22:55,160
Speaker 3: That is like, honestly, I wish I could go back

508
00:22:55,160 --> 00:22:57,480
Speaker 3: to those times, like feel so fucking lucky girl that

509
00:22:57,520 --> 00:23:00,679
Speaker 3: you're that you have an ex that's still in a

510
00:23:00,800 --> 00:23:02,919
Speaker 3: distance that is still wanting to chase you, and then

511
00:23:02,960 --> 00:23:05,680
Speaker 3: you can just like lead them on and get that

512
00:23:05,800 --> 00:23:11,119
Speaker 3: validation while still getting attention from other men. Yeah, but

513
00:23:11,280 --> 00:23:14,560
Speaker 3: just no dilemma really, to be honest, you're in flow state.

514
00:23:15,200 --> 00:23:17,200
Speaker 3: You're living girl, This is what laughs about.

515
00:23:17,400 --> 00:23:19,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's gonna fucking backfire in our ves.

516
00:23:20,920 --> 00:23:22,320
Speaker 1: That's just learning, right.

517
00:23:22,240 --> 00:23:23,960
Speaker 2: It's gonna come crashing and burning.

518
00:23:24,160 --> 00:23:27,800
Speaker 3: As Samantha Guggenheimer says, you cannot tell someone what to do.

519
00:23:27,880 --> 00:23:30,760
Speaker 3: Let they make their own mistake and do what they want,

520
00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:32,880
Speaker 3: and sometimes your opinion's not needed and.

521
00:23:32,800 --> 00:23:34,320
Speaker 1: They need to learn that mistake themselves.

522
00:23:34,400 --> 00:23:36,679
Speaker 3: Yeah, so why don't you just go keep sucking your

523
00:23:36,680 --> 00:23:38,240
Speaker 3: acts and deal with it however you want.

524
00:23:38,320 --> 00:23:41,440
Speaker 2: You're giving the worst advice because you're trying to fucking

525
00:23:41,480 --> 00:23:45,480
Speaker 2: be funny and you're trying to be fucking toxic, because

526
00:23:45,560 --> 00:23:48,560
Speaker 2: it's just Bill goes before that. I can't wait to

527
00:23:48,600 --> 00:23:51,080
Speaker 2: be stupid on your podcast because I'm far too serious

528
00:23:51,080 --> 00:23:51,560
Speaker 2: of mine.

529
00:23:51,640 --> 00:23:56,520
Speaker 1: I am, I'm too serious. Which one do you like? Comment?

530
00:23:56,840 --> 00:23:58,440
Speaker 1: Laughing or serious emoji?

531
00:23:58,480 --> 00:24:02,399
Speaker 3: If you really like the serial not so serious advice,

532
00:24:02,640 --> 00:24:08,840
Speaker 3: the really good advice. I've been on two dates with

533
00:24:08,920 --> 00:24:12,480
Speaker 3: a guy. Everything is going so well, great conversation and dates,

534
00:24:12,480 --> 00:24:15,320
Speaker 3: and I feel really comfortable around him. I met his

535
00:24:15,359 --> 00:24:16,480
Speaker 3: friends who were great as well.

536
00:24:18,680 --> 00:24:20,600
Speaker 1: This is going The.

537
00:24:20,440 --> 00:24:22,480
Speaker 3: Only thing is at the end of our last date,

538
00:24:22,560 --> 00:24:24,600
Speaker 3: we kissed, and let's say, not great.

539
00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:26,280
Speaker 2: No, they can go.

540
00:24:27,640 --> 00:24:32,639
Speaker 3: It's not the worst, but a bit stiff, probably not

541
00:24:32,720 --> 00:24:34,440
Speaker 3: the only stiff thing in that man's kiss.

542
00:24:34,480 --> 00:24:40,359
Speaker 2: So just what that man's kiss? Don't kiss with your dick, can't.

543
00:24:40,440 --> 00:24:42,920
Speaker 3: No, I'm saying, hew, the stiffy is yeah, well as

544
00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:44,000
Speaker 3: having a stiff kiss.

545
00:24:44,240 --> 00:24:46,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, but you can't kiss with the stiff like you can't.

546
00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:48,200
Speaker 2: You said that that's not the only thing in that

547
00:24:48,320 --> 00:24:51,399
Speaker 2: stiff kiss for him. Yeah, but he's not kissing with

548
00:24:51,480 --> 00:24:52,120
Speaker 2: his dig.

549
00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:54,800
Speaker 1: No, but he's got the stiffy at the time. It

550
00:24:54,920 --> 00:24:56,760
Speaker 1: definitely stiffy is a hard penis.

551
00:24:56,920 --> 00:24:57,199
Speaker 2: I know.

552
00:24:57,400 --> 00:25:01,439
Speaker 1: Okay, just so you know, just a great kiss. Do

553
00:25:01,440 --> 00:25:02,080
Speaker 1: you really like him?

554
00:25:02,080 --> 00:25:03,520
Speaker 3: And I want to see him again, but I'm scared

555
00:25:03,520 --> 00:25:07,360
Speaker 3: the physical intimacy won't improve it. I know it's extremely

556
00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:09,960
Speaker 3: early days. Do you think it's something that can get better.

557
00:25:11,560 --> 00:25:14,560
Speaker 2: A hundred Yeah, You've just like you've got a factor

558
00:25:14,600 --> 00:25:19,480
Speaker 2: in nerves. It takes anxiety. Sometimes you have to learn

559
00:25:19,520 --> 00:25:25,840
Speaker 2: what each other like exactly. Physical intimacy can get better

560
00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:28,880
Speaker 2: over time once you learn about each other. Like relationships,

561
00:25:29,119 --> 00:25:30,719
Speaker 2: sex is always going to be so much better than

562
00:25:30,720 --> 00:25:32,800
Speaker 2: a one night standards because you're learning what each other

563
00:25:32,920 --> 00:25:35,760
Speaker 2: like over time. He just might not know what you like.

564
00:25:36,440 --> 00:25:39,200
Speaker 2: And it's a kiss. I had to teach my ex

565
00:25:39,240 --> 00:25:42,000
Speaker 2: boyfriend how to kiss because he didn't know fucking how exactly.

566
00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:43,560
Speaker 3: It's like something you just have to learn and Also

567
00:25:43,600 --> 00:25:45,840
Speaker 3: everyone has like different movements. Some people like a little

568
00:25:45,840 --> 00:25:46,679
Speaker 3: bit dunge, some.

569
00:25:46,720 --> 00:25:49,040
Speaker 2: Dome, some a bit rush, some are slower.

570
00:25:49,240 --> 00:25:51,280
Speaker 1: Like you have to learn that about someone.

571
00:25:51,359 --> 00:25:53,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that's the great thing about love is

572
00:25:53,480 --> 00:25:57,879
Speaker 3: like you become like just like intimately more literate on

573
00:25:58,000 --> 00:26:00,959
Speaker 3: like what they do like and yeah, what they don't like,

574
00:26:01,000 --> 00:26:02,600
Speaker 3: and just how to satisfy them. And that's not the

575
00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:04,760
Speaker 3: best thing. Yeah, just learn those things and that you

576
00:26:04,800 --> 00:26:07,040
Speaker 3: can make them come into minutes. That's the best thing.

577
00:26:07,440 --> 00:26:11,440
Speaker 2: And as you grow with like intimacy and everything like that,

578
00:26:11,480 --> 00:26:14,520
Speaker 2: and like grow more comfortable with them and everything like that,

579
00:26:14,600 --> 00:26:16,639
Speaker 2: Like you can start to talk about what you like

580
00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:20,320
Speaker 2: and it's not like a taboo awkward conversation, like even

581
00:26:20,359 --> 00:26:22,919
Speaker 2: like I know you're not even having sex with them,

582
00:26:23,080 --> 00:26:25,480
Speaker 2: but like you can literally just say, like, if he's

583
00:26:25,560 --> 00:26:28,640
Speaker 2: doing something that you like and it makes you feel good,

584
00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:30,600
Speaker 2: I get so awkward talking about that, you need to

585
00:26:30,680 --> 00:26:33,200
Speaker 2: like validate him while he's doing that.

586
00:26:33,480 --> 00:26:45,919
Speaker 3: For pill, I just gave out.

587
00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:46,960
Speaker 1: How actually going to validate and that just came out.

588
00:26:47,040 --> 00:26:49,800
Speaker 2: No, you can like, like if you like something like

589
00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:52,159
Speaker 2: a whisper in his ear and go like that feels

590
00:26:52,200 --> 00:26:54,720
Speaker 2: really good or like I really like that, or like

591
00:26:55,640 --> 00:27:01,680
Speaker 2: you say their name, you say their name, you like

592
00:27:01,760 --> 00:27:03,680
Speaker 2: whisper their name or something like that, and then that

593
00:27:03,840 --> 00:27:07,479
Speaker 2: validates them in an indirect way that they like you

594
00:27:07,600 --> 00:27:15,760
Speaker 2: like that. Bill had sex on the couch the other

595
00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:18,040
Speaker 2: night and I had a jelly cat sitting there. I

596
00:27:18,080 --> 00:27:19,760
Speaker 2: walked in the door and he goes, I'm so sorry

597
00:27:19,760 --> 00:27:23,000
Speaker 2: to your jelly cat. What And then I go I

598
00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:25,800
Speaker 2: looked at the guy and Bill, I go, he fucking

599
00:27:25,840 --> 00:27:28,280
Speaker 2: watched it, and they go, yeah, it was right in it.

600
00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:30,520
Speaker 1: I didn't realize.

601
00:27:30,520 --> 00:27:32,119
Speaker 3: I was like, what underneath my back and it's this

602
00:27:32,200 --> 00:27:34,159
Speaker 3: fucking jelly cat with a rose? And I was like,

603
00:27:34,240 --> 00:27:38,360
Speaker 3: well makes sense. Oh well I asked my back enough too.

604
00:27:42,960 --> 00:27:46,280
Speaker 2: But I think have you ever heard me have sex?

605
00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:49,560
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't think so have you ever

606
00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:50,399
Speaker 1: heard you ever heard me?

607
00:27:50,800 --> 00:27:52,639
Speaker 2: I don't ever want to hear you have sex?

608
00:27:53,400 --> 00:27:53,760
Speaker 1: Okay?

609
00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:57,479
Speaker 3: For me personally, I don't fuck with the long sex

610
00:27:57,520 --> 00:28:01,000
Speaker 3: like get over done with the faster I come the better.

611
00:28:01,400 --> 00:28:03,960
Speaker 1: Okay, that's that's a goal.

612
00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:07,160
Speaker 3: So if you can like learn that about me, fine,

613
00:28:07,720 --> 00:28:09,040
Speaker 3: the faster we can happen.

614
00:28:09,240 --> 00:28:11,920
Speaker 2: The better we're really fucking to hear. Mind I'm a

615
00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:16,560
Speaker 2: short person, so and I have uh. I don't know

616
00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:19,359
Speaker 2: this in a way though, if my mum listens, I

617
00:28:19,400 --> 00:28:22,000
Speaker 2: don't like short men. I don't think I've ever had

618
00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:26,080
Speaker 2: sex with someone that's under six foot two. Never. Oh yeah,

619
00:28:26,119 --> 00:28:28,119
Speaker 2: I just like a lot of positions don't work.

620
00:28:29,480 --> 00:28:31,400
Speaker 1: Really well.

621
00:28:31,440 --> 00:28:32,080
Speaker 2: Think about it.

622
00:28:32,359 --> 00:28:34,800
Speaker 3: So your knees hurt when you get on top when

623
00:28:34,800 --> 00:28:39,120
Speaker 3: they're better, like my mom be able to pop sometimes, nah.

624
00:28:38,680 --> 00:28:42,440
Speaker 2: My hips crack, though I love being on top.

625
00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:44,560
Speaker 1: Wa'ts your thoughts on shower sex.

626
00:28:45,040 --> 00:28:47,080
Speaker 2: I can't do it because I'm too small. Like when

627
00:28:47,120 --> 00:28:49,560
Speaker 2: you're lying down you're kind of the same height. It

628
00:28:49,640 --> 00:28:54,160
Speaker 2: works shower sex, no, bro. First of all, fucking drowning.

629
00:28:54,400 --> 00:28:56,600
Speaker 2: Second of all, I'm so nervous about my weight. I'm like,

630
00:28:56,640 --> 00:28:58,400
Speaker 2: oh my god, I'm sitting there like they're fucking shaking.

631
00:28:58,440 --> 00:29:00,640
Speaker 2: They can't hold me. So then I'm thinking about that

632
00:29:00,680 --> 00:29:04,360
Speaker 2: the whole time. And then I'm just like slippery, gross,

633
00:29:04,400 --> 00:29:07,920
Speaker 2: like just don't like. I love a little make out

634
00:29:07,960 --> 00:29:10,760
Speaker 2: and shower But then again, say not same height, it

635
00:29:10,800 --> 00:29:14,480
Speaker 2: doesn't work when neck cuts. Yeah, there's too many logistics

636
00:29:14,520 --> 00:29:16,080
Speaker 2: behind it. It's not that enjoyable.

637
00:29:16,160 --> 00:29:17,800
Speaker 1: Do you think you enjoy four play or actual.

638
00:29:17,800 --> 00:29:19,560
Speaker 2: Not four play hate sex, Like I'm like the.

639
00:29:19,520 --> 00:29:22,600
Speaker 3: Type of person like, let's watch mass and just like

640
00:29:22,640 --> 00:29:24,640
Speaker 3: on every ad break, just let me like a dicker

641
00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:27,240
Speaker 3: a little bit and then get just chilling, like like

642
00:29:27,280 --> 00:29:27,920
Speaker 3: you just didn't.

643
00:29:27,800 --> 00:29:30,240
Speaker 2: Just like tease each other and then.

644
00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:31,959
Speaker 3: It comes back on, Oh my god, bit a popcorn

645
00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:35,800
Speaker 3: in my mouth, back to it, like I love going

646
00:29:35,880 --> 00:29:36,640
Speaker 3: back in in, but.

647
00:29:36,680 --> 00:29:40,120
Speaker 1: Like I can't do that with sex. Yeah, no, I

648
00:29:40,120 --> 00:29:43,800
Speaker 1: don't know how people do like six rounds never in

649
00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:44,160
Speaker 1: my life.

650
00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:45,560
Speaker 2: I love a bit of four player, but yeah, I

651
00:29:45,560 --> 00:29:46,480
Speaker 2: don't like anything else.

652
00:29:46,800 --> 00:29:47,080
Speaker 1: No.

653
00:29:47,800 --> 00:29:51,600
Speaker 3: Well, but I think girl, you can definitely moan about

654
00:29:51,600 --> 00:29:56,640
Speaker 3: someone's intimacy pleasures a lot better and become more informed

655
00:29:56,680 --> 00:29:58,040
Speaker 3: on what they like. And I think that's when it

656
00:29:58,120 --> 00:30:00,680
Speaker 3: kind of gets better when you come with each other,

657
00:30:00,720 --> 00:30:01,280
Speaker 3: like if it's.

658
00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:03,160
Speaker 2: Just talk about it.

659
00:30:02,360 --> 00:30:05,080
Speaker 3: Yea, his first few dates give him a bit of

660
00:30:05,080 --> 00:30:08,600
Speaker 3: a chance, and the beauty in that year he obviously

661
00:30:08,640 --> 00:30:11,200
Speaker 3: doesn't know yet, so you can really like teach him

662
00:30:11,200 --> 00:30:13,600
Speaker 3: and yeah.

663
00:30:13,160 --> 00:30:15,640
Speaker 2: Yeah again, just like Igno, he does something, you like,

664
00:30:16,240 --> 00:30:16,920
Speaker 2: praise it.

665
00:30:18,000 --> 00:30:20,560
Speaker 3: Or let it be bad, so then you know later

666
00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:23,440
Speaker 3: on this man's never gonna get another girl, and you

667
00:30:23,440 --> 00:30:25,520
Speaker 3: can just keep them to yourself and just know that

668
00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:26,960
Speaker 3: this man is shire true.

669
00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:29,480
Speaker 1: What's it called when you.

670
00:30:31,440 --> 00:30:36,440
Speaker 3: Not sacrifice fuck up someone's future endeavors?

671
00:30:37,120 --> 00:30:37,880
Speaker 1: Sabotage?

672
00:30:38,840 --> 00:30:44,160
Speaker 3: Sacrifice, sabotage.

673
00:30:45,000 --> 00:30:45,600
Speaker 1: Please help.

674
00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:48,600
Speaker 3: Every single one of my friends is in a relationship,

675
00:30:48,640 --> 00:30:50,800
Speaker 3: whils I'm the only single one. We have a group

676
00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:54,240
Speaker 3: trip coming up soon, and they are three couples, one

677
00:30:54,280 --> 00:30:56,000
Speaker 3: ex couple, and then meat, do.

678
00:30:56,040 --> 00:30:57,480
Speaker 1: I go or give it a miss?

679
00:30:57,880 --> 00:31:01,760
Speaker 3: Fucking go, fucking absolutely go, Like.

680
00:31:01,760 --> 00:31:04,600
Speaker 2: One of my favorite things is going away with couples

681
00:31:04,640 --> 00:31:07,480
Speaker 2: sometimes and then be grateful I'm not in a relationship

682
00:31:07,480 --> 00:31:09,920
Speaker 2: because it's always glitz and glam until you're away with

683
00:31:09,960 --> 00:31:11,960
Speaker 2: them and then you realize you're like, sometimes this is good.

684
00:31:12,120 --> 00:31:16,640
Speaker 3: I'm going to give you a scenario. Imagine your whole

685
00:31:16,680 --> 00:31:19,360
Speaker 3: group of friends. What there's three couples, that's six people

686
00:31:19,640 --> 00:31:21,760
Speaker 3: plus an x eight people plus.

687
00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:22,320
Speaker 1: You, that's nine.

688
00:31:22,880 --> 00:31:25,120
Speaker 3: Imagine there's nine of you that were fucking single. You

689
00:31:25,160 --> 00:31:28,880
Speaker 3: go to the bar, there's only one hot guy one

690
00:31:28,920 --> 00:31:32,920
Speaker 3: of them. You're fighting for that one person with maybe

691
00:31:33,040 --> 00:31:34,720
Speaker 3: like half of them because they're probably not gay like me,

692
00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:37,840
Speaker 3: But that's like six people that you're fighting for.

693
00:31:37,880 --> 00:31:38,440
Speaker 1: That man for.

694
00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:42,480
Speaker 3: They're all in a couple, so they've got no unless

695
00:31:42,480 --> 00:31:44,040
Speaker 3: you have a friend that wants to steal every man

696
00:31:44,240 --> 00:31:46,000
Speaker 3: and they're in a relationship and that's just a really

697
00:31:46,040 --> 00:31:46,800
Speaker 3: shitty person.

698
00:31:47,360 --> 00:31:51,920
Speaker 2: Then yeah, I sometimes like love hanging out with my

699
00:31:51,920 --> 00:31:54,560
Speaker 2: friends that are in a relationship because it's like sometimes

700
00:31:54,560 --> 00:31:57,320
Speaker 2: speaking about boys and like, I'm not really one to

701
00:31:57,400 --> 00:31:59,640
Speaker 2: like hunt after boys on a night out. So like

702
00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:02,120
Speaker 2: going away with your friends and are in a relationship,

703
00:32:02,200 --> 00:32:03,840
Speaker 2: you know that that's not their intention, so you can

704
00:32:03,880 --> 00:32:05,920
Speaker 2: actually enjoy quality time with all your mates and you

705
00:32:05,920 --> 00:32:08,200
Speaker 2: can all have fun. And then like when your friends

706
00:32:08,280 --> 00:32:10,240
Speaker 2: get in an argument with their boyfriend, you can just

707
00:32:10,280 --> 00:32:12,800
Speaker 2: sit back and be like, hey, yo, thank fuck, I

708
00:32:12,840 --> 00:32:13,680
Speaker 2: don't have to deal with this.

709
00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:18,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, one time I got my I went on the

710
00:32:18,160 --> 00:32:19,640
Speaker 3: trip and the couple got an argument.

711
00:32:20,440 --> 00:32:22,400
Speaker 1: It's just a bit awkward, and then.

712
00:32:22,760 --> 00:32:24,160
Speaker 3: They asked me to sleep in the same bed and

713
00:32:24,160 --> 00:32:26,160
Speaker 3: then the partner ended up.

714
00:32:28,640 --> 00:32:29,560
Speaker 2: Fucking you.

715
00:32:29,600 --> 00:32:32,400
Speaker 1: Almost Yeah, maybe don't.

716
00:32:32,200 --> 00:32:34,480
Speaker 2: Do that, well, don't do what Bill does.

717
00:32:35,040 --> 00:32:39,840
Speaker 3: I was nineteen and it wasn't good. But anyway, I

718
00:32:39,840 --> 00:32:41,360
Speaker 3: thought that was in an open relationship, so it was

719
00:32:41,640 --> 00:32:44,280
Speaker 3: like a whole different story. But it can get messy

720
00:32:44,320 --> 00:32:46,560
Speaker 3: as well, so be careful of that.

721
00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:48,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, I just think, don't one, don't show I say

722
00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:51,040
Speaker 2: you're not a relationship. You're twenty one. I'm pretty sure

723
00:32:51,040 --> 00:32:51,320
Speaker 2: you said.

724
00:32:51,320 --> 00:32:51,680
Speaker 1: We'll take it.

725
00:32:51,760 --> 00:32:54,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, take like it's fun, like just like enjoy it

726
00:32:54,640 --> 00:32:57,880
Speaker 2: like it's a stage of your life, like who cares?

727
00:32:58,080 --> 00:32:59,880
Speaker 1: Or take like someone that you're talking to.

728
00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:02,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then just be like, yo, you want to

729
00:33:02,480 --> 00:33:05,160
Speaker 2: come away for a weekend, like we're having fun.

730
00:33:04,960 --> 00:33:07,600
Speaker 3: Like it's and then you can, like if you find

731
00:33:07,640 --> 00:33:09,240
Speaker 3: someone hotter, we'll be like, oh, you can sleep on

732
00:33:09,280 --> 00:33:09,600
Speaker 3: the couch.

733
00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:10,240
Speaker 1: We're not together.

734
00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:12,440
Speaker 2: Okay, maybe don't do that.

735
00:33:12,520 --> 00:33:15,600
Speaker 1: But so honestly, I can take something.

736
00:33:15,640 --> 00:33:16,600
Speaker 2: I think it's a really fun thing.

737
00:33:16,840 --> 00:33:17,560
Speaker 1: Take somebody that.

738
00:33:17,520 --> 00:33:20,080
Speaker 3: You don't really want to like pursue something with, and

739
00:33:20,240 --> 00:33:22,400
Speaker 3: don't mind just like treating.

740
00:33:22,080 --> 00:33:25,280
Speaker 1: Like shit, and that could be treat people like shit.

741
00:33:25,560 --> 00:33:26,560
Speaker 1: That could be really fun.

742
00:33:26,600 --> 00:33:26,880
Speaker 3: Trip.

743
00:33:27,120 --> 00:33:30,600
Speaker 2: Don't treat people like shit. And sometimes I wonder why

744
00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:34,000
Speaker 2: I'm getting canceled on the internet because.

745
00:33:33,800 --> 00:33:35,560
Speaker 3: I'm clearly fucking taking the beers.

746
00:33:35,960 --> 00:33:41,320
Speaker 2: No, you would do that. You would so do that. Bro,

747
00:33:41,520 --> 00:33:43,800
Speaker 2: You're literally with a dude all Saturday night and then

748
00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:46,000
Speaker 2: he calls the other guy that he likes more and

749
00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:49,920
Speaker 2: he's on FaceTime with him, and then no on Saturday night.

750
00:33:49,960 --> 00:33:52,680
Speaker 2: This is fucked guys. So there was this guy and

751
00:33:52,720 --> 00:33:55,280
Speaker 2: he was all over Bill, like he was all over

752
00:33:55,360 --> 00:33:57,640
Speaker 2: Bill all night, wanted to talk to Bill like yaday

753
00:33:57,680 --> 00:33:59,800
Speaker 2: YadA YadA, and I thought, like, cool, they're getting along

754
00:33:59,840 --> 00:34:01,840
Speaker 2: so well. So like when someone's speaking to one of

755
00:34:01,880 --> 00:34:03,920
Speaker 2: my friends, I'm obviously going to be so friendly and

756
00:34:03,960 --> 00:34:06,920
Speaker 2: like make sure you're okay as well, like YadA YadA YadA,

757
00:34:06,960 --> 00:34:09,399
Speaker 2: like I thought you were there for Bill, like, so chill.

758
00:34:10,600 --> 00:34:13,480
Speaker 2: We go to leave and I'm standing outside ordering the

759
00:34:13,600 --> 00:34:16,160
Speaker 2: uber and he goes, I'll walk you home. I go,

760
00:34:16,960 --> 00:34:18,839
Speaker 2: I live too far away from here, like I'm getting

761
00:34:18,880 --> 00:34:21,120
Speaker 2: an uber and I'm all Bill was saying at my house.

762
00:34:21,200 --> 00:34:22,840
Speaker 2: Danny was saying, I have my house, and Lily like

763
00:34:22,880 --> 00:34:24,400
Speaker 2: Lily of course, so there's four of us. We're all

764
00:34:24,480 --> 00:34:27,040
Speaker 2: going home together. And then he goes, I'll walk you home,

765
00:34:27,120 --> 00:34:28,759
Speaker 2: and I go, no, I'm going home with them, and

766
00:34:28,800 --> 00:34:30,800
Speaker 2: like I'm way too far away. I'm not fucking walking

767
00:34:30,800 --> 00:34:32,640
Speaker 2: home and he goes, no, nah, I'll walk you and

768
00:34:32,640 --> 00:34:34,279
Speaker 2: I go, I'm going home with them, and he goes

769
00:34:34,360 --> 00:34:36,439
Speaker 2: I'll walk all of you. And I go, you don't

770
00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:38,200
Speaker 2: need to walk all of us, like it's fine. He goes,

771
00:34:38,480 --> 00:34:39,960
Speaker 2: can I have your number? Like can I take you

772
00:34:40,000 --> 00:34:43,520
Speaker 2: on a date? And I was like huh, and then

773
00:34:43,560 --> 00:34:45,479
Speaker 2: messages me the next day he goes, you're so cute,

774
00:34:45,520 --> 00:34:46,719
Speaker 2: like I want to take you on a day. I go,

775
00:34:47,360 --> 00:34:50,040
Speaker 2: you would Bill all night the fuck, like are you

776
00:34:50,040 --> 00:34:51,759
Speaker 2: trying to use me to cover up the fact that

777
00:34:51,760 --> 00:34:55,719
Speaker 2: like you were into Bill? Like what? And then I

778
00:34:55,760 --> 00:34:58,040
Speaker 2: go oh, like no, sorry, like I'm seeing someone as well,

779
00:34:58,080 --> 00:34:59,520
Speaker 2: like I'm not giving you my number. And then he

780
00:34:59,560 --> 00:35:01,719
Speaker 2: goes show me a photo. I bet I'm holder than him.

781
00:35:01,760 --> 00:35:05,600
Speaker 2: I'll go, you're under six foot?

782
00:35:06,239 --> 00:35:06,800
Speaker 1: Fuck off?

783
00:35:08,600 --> 00:35:10,120
Speaker 2: No, and I'm like, don't use me.

784
00:35:10,480 --> 00:35:12,319
Speaker 1: He kept coming to me. I was like he was

785
00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:13,279
Speaker 1: all over.

786
00:35:13,120 --> 00:35:16,040
Speaker 2: You, bro, And I was like he was all over you.

787
00:35:16,400 --> 00:35:18,120
Speaker 3: And then he was messaging me like come sit with me.

788
00:35:18,480 --> 00:35:21,279
Speaker 3: I was like, no, you come to me, and then

789
00:35:21,160 --> 00:35:24,600
Speaker 3: then he just wouldn't leave. After that, no, wouldn't go.

790
00:35:24,719 --> 00:35:26,920
Speaker 2: I was like, what the hell is this? It was

791
00:35:26,960 --> 00:35:27,640
Speaker 2: really confusing.

792
00:35:27,760 --> 00:35:30,680
Speaker 3: He messaged me asking he said, can I take you

793
00:35:30,719 --> 00:35:33,920
Speaker 3: and sand to dinner? And I said the heir, I

794
00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:37,440
Speaker 3: said in what fucking well, you freak. And then I

795
00:35:37,560 --> 00:35:38,799
Speaker 3: like just went off and I was like, you're not

796
00:35:38,880 --> 00:35:40,720
Speaker 3: using me to get to my friends, You're fucking freaking

797
00:35:40,840 --> 00:35:42,560
Speaker 3: You've got other demons you need to work on.

798
00:35:42,760 --> 00:35:44,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, if any guy ever tries to go through Bill

799
00:35:44,960 --> 00:35:47,600
Speaker 2: to get me, like, good fucking life. What was that DM?

800
00:35:47,680 --> 00:35:50,120
Speaker 2: Those Instagram dms that you was messaging that guy the

801
00:35:50,160 --> 00:35:52,680
Speaker 2: other night when he replied to your story of me?

802
00:35:53,600 --> 00:35:54,560
Speaker 1: Oh, do read them?

803
00:35:54,960 --> 00:35:55,880
Speaker 2: Yeah?

804
00:35:56,520 --> 00:35:59,520
Speaker 3: This is I am a man hater, so like, I

805
00:35:59,560 --> 00:36:02,719
Speaker 3: don't give a fuck about no man, so I can't

806
00:36:02,719 --> 00:36:06,640
Speaker 3: really get canceled for it. But this guy replied to

807
00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:09,120
Speaker 3: my story of me and Sam, and he goes, thanks

808
00:36:09,160 --> 00:36:13,480
Speaker 3: for the new warpaper. For one, why the fuck are

809
00:36:13,520 --> 00:36:17,120
Speaker 3: you using photos of us as warpaper? I said, what

810
00:36:17,160 --> 00:36:19,400
Speaker 3: an odd thing to say, and he goes, sorry, my

811
00:36:19,400 --> 00:36:22,720
Speaker 3: cat ran across my phone. I'm stone, this is hilarious.

812
00:36:24,120 --> 00:36:24,719
Speaker 1: One didn't ask.

813
00:36:24,800 --> 00:36:28,719
Speaker 3: Two don't fucking care, so shut the fuck up. And

814
00:36:28,840 --> 00:36:30,160
Speaker 3: I said, is this for me or Sam? He goes,

815
00:36:30,200 --> 00:36:33,439
Speaker 3: the cowgirl has got it. I said, message her then

816
00:36:34,200 --> 00:36:36,480
Speaker 3: his name, and he goes, surely I can be more

817
00:36:36,520 --> 00:36:39,840
Speaker 3: creative than that. I said, don't come through me and

818
00:36:39,880 --> 00:36:41,520
Speaker 3: then he goes, Okay, okay, I just have to run

819
00:36:41,520 --> 00:36:42,920
Speaker 3: into her in a bookstore or something.

820
00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:50,719
Speaker 2: Well, the fucking weird hunt funding we hit a bookstore, babe.

821
00:36:50,560 --> 00:36:54,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, come on, we can not finish books.

822
00:36:55,600 --> 00:36:57,719
Speaker 2: I read a full book through three seed nine.

823
00:36:59,440 --> 00:37:02,440
Speaker 1: Good luck, but yeah, good luck mate. But that happens

824
00:37:02,480 --> 00:37:03,040
Speaker 1: all the time.

825
00:37:03,640 --> 00:37:06,640
Speaker 2: Or that other guy remember on Snapchat and like you

826
00:37:06,680 --> 00:37:09,399
Speaker 2: had sucked his dick and then he replied to your

827
00:37:09,440 --> 00:37:12,560
Speaker 2: story about me and you were like ruh.

828
00:37:12,800 --> 00:37:15,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, it happened so many times, and so many guys

829
00:37:15,239 --> 00:37:17,920
Speaker 3: that have gotten with I'm sounding like a fucking slut.

830
00:37:18,120 --> 00:37:20,400
Speaker 3: I only slept with two people in the last two years. Okay,

831
00:37:21,040 --> 00:37:21,880
Speaker 3: let's just preface that.

832
00:37:22,640 --> 00:37:25,439
Speaker 2: But you sucked a little dick.

833
00:37:29,760 --> 00:37:31,960
Speaker 3: No, I didn't do that.

834
00:37:32,360 --> 00:37:35,600
Speaker 2: But I've actually only slept with two people for the

835
00:37:35,680 --> 00:37:36,880
Speaker 2: last Yeah.

836
00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:42,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, But I think like it happens so much, and

837
00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:46,160
Speaker 3: I'm just like guys that I've been speaking to that

838
00:37:46,520 --> 00:37:49,040
Speaker 3: will do this, I'm like, this is so fucking icky.

839
00:37:50,080 --> 00:37:53,160
Speaker 2: Yeah. I just don't like it when they play both things.

840
00:37:53,400 --> 00:37:57,360
Speaker 2: I'm like, eh, which one do you want?

841
00:37:57,840 --> 00:37:59,920
Speaker 3: Well, I can ever end up in like a threason

842
00:38:00,040 --> 00:38:01,600
Speaker 3: get actually both interested in the same guy.

843
00:38:01,800 --> 00:38:07,560
Speaker 2: No, that could be so fun because I really like, like, how.

844
00:38:07,520 --> 00:38:12,400
Speaker 1: Would you like to like this guy over it?

845
00:38:13,440 --> 00:38:15,399
Speaker 2: What you're over?

846
00:38:15,480 --> 00:38:15,520
Speaker 3: What?

847
00:38:15,760 --> 00:38:16,440
Speaker 2: Who?

848
00:38:18,360 --> 00:38:18,880
Speaker 1: Who is she?

849
00:38:20,200 --> 00:38:20,719
Speaker 2: What are you over?

850
00:38:21,680 --> 00:38:23,400
Speaker 1: Over? Men? In general?

851
00:38:23,520 --> 00:38:24,680
Speaker 3: But like.

852
00:38:26,400 --> 00:38:28,200
Speaker 2: Bill just really doesn't like the guy I'm seeing.

853
00:38:28,400 --> 00:38:31,160
Speaker 1: I do, mate, He's just.

854
00:38:33,080 --> 00:38:36,279
Speaker 3: Intellectually compromised chow.

855
00:38:36,480 --> 00:38:40,080
Speaker 2: Anyway, So thank you guys so much for this tuning in.

856
00:38:40,840 --> 00:38:42,680
Speaker 2: I think we spoke a little bit too much about sex.

857
00:38:42,719 --> 00:38:43,600
Speaker 2: I hope you don't mind.

858
00:38:44,880 --> 00:38:47,160
Speaker 3: Sex is what makes the world go around.

859
00:38:47,040 --> 00:38:49,520
Speaker 2: It is, and we need to break them.

860
00:38:49,719 --> 00:38:51,440
Speaker 1: Do you think it's likely a former payment?

861
00:38:53,080 --> 00:38:57,120
Speaker 3: Well yeah, the people literally well like but like people

862
00:38:57,239 --> 00:38:58,399
Speaker 3: like use people for.

863
00:38:58,400 --> 00:39:01,000
Speaker 2: Sex to get something, Yes, all the time.

864
00:39:01,960 --> 00:39:03,719
Speaker 3: I need to start doing business a lot better.

865
00:39:04,440 --> 00:39:06,080
Speaker 2: May you literally quit your only fans?

866
00:39:06,760 --> 00:39:10,480
Speaker 3: I know, but I'm just mean, like, maybe I need

867
00:39:10,480 --> 00:39:14,480
Speaker 3: to start fucking some politicians, maybe some some business people.

868
00:39:14,520 --> 00:39:16,120
Speaker 1: I need the sugar. I need the sugar daddy.

869
00:39:16,600 --> 00:39:20,040
Speaker 2: Okay, well you get that for us, Yeah, okay, yeah,

870
00:39:20,120 --> 00:39:20,640
Speaker 2: split it.

871
00:39:20,640 --> 00:39:23,240
Speaker 1: I'll be Yeah, you need to be on the PJ

872
00:39:24,160 --> 00:39:25,720
Speaker 1: you making those yeah.

873
00:39:25,680 --> 00:39:27,560
Speaker 2: Guys, say it, don't question it, Okay, just no bills,

874
00:39:27,600 --> 00:39:28,200
Speaker 2: sucking them.

875
00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:30,319
Speaker 1: Yeah. I need to know how these influence of girls

876
00:39:30,360 --> 00:39:31,319
Speaker 1: do it because.

877
00:39:31,280 --> 00:39:35,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, start to pay your duties. Mate, It's about time

878
00:39:35,520 --> 00:39:40,799
Speaker 2: you pay. Oh all right, Love you guys so much,

879
00:39:40,880 --> 00:39:41,719
Speaker 2: Thank you for tuning in.

880
00:39:41,800 --> 00:39:42,440
Speaker 1: Thank you so much.

881
00:39:42,640 --> 00:39:44,800
Speaker 2: Thanks for Bill coming on to play Devil's Advocate.

882
00:39:45,080 --> 00:39:47,520
Speaker 1: That's okay. I love you if you like my advice.

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Speaker 2: Love you guys,