1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,960 Speaker 1: We've got a very special game coming up that's a 2 00:00:02,960 --> 00:00:04,400 Speaker 1: lot more than a game this weekend. 3 00:00:05,840 --> 00:00:08,239 Speaker 2: I'm very young and proud to be Captain Rubb and 4 00:00:09,280 --> 00:00:11,160 Speaker 2: hopefully I can lead by example out in the ground, 5 00:00:11,360 --> 00:00:13,560 Speaker 2: get out there and then talk to someone about it. 6 00:00:13,680 --> 00:00:14,360 Speaker 2: I was stubborn. 7 00:00:15,560 --> 00:00:18,639 Speaker 3: Danny Frowley was a friend to many, including myself in 8 00:00:18,680 --> 00:00:21,639 Speaker 3: the media through the work that he did. A colleague. 9 00:00:22,520 --> 00:00:25,400 Speaker 3: He was also still is very much an inspiration to 10 00:00:25,440 --> 00:00:29,680 Speaker 3: so many more Victorians, Australians, many players at the Kilda 11 00:00:29,720 --> 00:00:33,560 Speaker 3: Footy Club. He was also a husband, a father and 12 00:00:33,640 --> 00:00:36,280 Speaker 3: a bloody great bloke. Anita Frawley, welcome to the show. 13 00:00:36,600 --> 00:00:37,839 Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you for having me. 14 00:00:38,479 --> 00:00:39,360 Speaker 1: You're more than welcome. 15 00:00:39,440 --> 00:00:41,920 Speaker 2: Yes, good morning, very early and I'm glad to be here. 16 00:00:42,000 --> 00:00:45,080 Speaker 2: So I really appreciate you having this and for all 17 00:00:45,120 --> 00:00:46,800 Speaker 2: your kindness and generosity so far. 18 00:00:47,159 --> 00:00:51,080 Speaker 1: I always wonder it must be hard for families who 19 00:00:51,120 --> 00:00:54,240 Speaker 1: lose someone who was in the media, because there's highlights, 20 00:00:54,280 --> 00:00:58,200 Speaker 1: there's replays on TV. Just just hearing Danny's voice then. 21 00:01:00,200 --> 00:01:04,479 Speaker 2: Instantly it's just it's just the way it is and 22 00:01:05,200 --> 00:01:08,039 Speaker 2: probably makes it all more worthwhile. And when you hear 23 00:01:08,120 --> 00:01:10,600 Speaker 2: that voice in the background, and he's still so relevant 24 00:01:10,640 --> 00:01:13,400 Speaker 2: and still has such a purpose that it's it's pretty 25 00:01:13,400 --> 00:01:16,319 Speaker 2: special and I kind of, you know, really lean into 26 00:01:16,319 --> 00:01:19,119 Speaker 2: what my girls must feel when they hear and see 27 00:01:19,160 --> 00:01:19,880 Speaker 2: him all the time. 28 00:01:20,000 --> 00:01:22,720 Speaker 4: Well, he was such an icon in footy as well, 29 00:01:22,840 --> 00:01:25,440 Speaker 4: and your girl shared him with so many people who 30 00:01:25,520 --> 00:01:28,679 Speaker 4: loved who loved Spuds so much. So while it must 31 00:01:28,760 --> 00:01:31,119 Speaker 4: be a huge honor, that must be overwhelming as well. 32 00:01:31,400 --> 00:01:34,480 Speaker 2: I think it can be overwhelming, but that's probably the 33 00:01:34,480 --> 00:01:37,039 Speaker 2: whole purpose that we try and put that then towards 34 00:01:37,040 --> 00:01:40,360 Speaker 2: something like you know, what we're doing, so it makes 35 00:01:40,360 --> 00:01:42,600 Speaker 2: it worthwhile and it helps them. 36 00:01:43,200 --> 00:01:46,160 Speaker 3: So Spuds Match is what we're here to talk about. 37 00:01:46,920 --> 00:01:50,320 Speaker 3: What would Danny think of Spuds Spud's game. 38 00:01:50,480 --> 00:01:53,680 Speaker 2: Oh, he'd be loving it. He'd be just thinking how 39 00:01:53,680 --> 00:01:55,720 Speaker 2: good is this? And it's been you know, a battle 40 00:01:55,760 --> 00:01:57,800 Speaker 2: to get it there, and really grateful for the AFL 41 00:01:57,840 --> 00:02:01,160 Speaker 2: and Carlton and Sint Kilda obviously turning this on because 42 00:02:01,160 --> 00:02:03,520 Speaker 2: it's pretty special and we hope everyone gets there. 43 00:02:03,600 --> 00:02:05,480 Speaker 4: So tell us what it's all about for those who 44 00:02:05,560 --> 00:02:08,120 Speaker 4: might not be familiar with what Spuds Match is all about. 45 00:02:08,240 --> 00:02:11,480 Speaker 2: So Spuds Match is really getting the voice out there 46 00:02:11,560 --> 00:02:14,280 Speaker 2: on what we're trying to put out. So this year 47 00:02:14,320 --> 00:02:16,880 Speaker 2: it's don't carry it alone. So you know, if you 48 00:02:16,960 --> 00:02:19,639 Speaker 2: are struggling, if you need some help, just have the 49 00:02:19,680 --> 00:02:21,760 Speaker 2: courage and the strength to reach out to one of 50 00:02:21,760 --> 00:02:24,960 Speaker 2: your mates or someone close to you, because it really 51 00:02:24,960 --> 00:02:27,880 Speaker 2: does make a huge difference and it's putting a voice 52 00:02:27,919 --> 00:02:30,799 Speaker 2: to you know, it is a huge issue. In Australia. 53 00:02:30,840 --> 00:02:33,840 Speaker 2: One in five will suffer some sort of anxiety or 54 00:02:33,840 --> 00:02:37,440 Speaker 2: mental health issue and so that's four point three million Australians. 55 00:02:37,440 --> 00:02:41,400 Speaker 2: And I know for me personally, just over the last week, 56 00:02:41,440 --> 00:02:44,880 Speaker 2: I've had three friends reach out. Wow, I think it's 57 00:02:44,880 --> 00:02:46,240 Speaker 2: actually more problem. 58 00:02:46,120 --> 00:02:48,880 Speaker 4: And Bloats are notoriously worse with this stuff, aren't they. 59 00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:51,720 Speaker 2: Well that was his passion, you know, He's one of 60 00:02:51,720 --> 00:02:54,040 Speaker 2: his sayings was just look over the gate to your mate. 61 00:02:54,160 --> 00:02:58,160 Speaker 2: And you know he was especially farmers, those in the country, 62 00:02:58,200 --> 00:03:01,440 Speaker 2: getting them to speak. And I'm not sure we're there yet, 63 00:03:01,560 --> 00:03:03,679 Speaker 2: but we're getting better. 64 00:03:03,840 --> 00:03:06,600 Speaker 3: A long way to go, and important awareness through games 65 00:03:06,720 --> 00:03:09,200 Speaker 3: like yes moments like. 66 00:03:09,280 --> 00:03:12,480 Speaker 2: Those moments, Yeah, the two minute moments always pretty special 67 00:03:12,480 --> 00:03:15,360 Speaker 2: and it really does put a highlight on that just 68 00:03:15,400 --> 00:03:17,840 Speaker 2: that silence and that what we're there for. 69 00:03:18,040 --> 00:03:21,639 Speaker 4: So now it was Danny called Spud because he was 70 00:03:21,680 --> 00:03:23,360 Speaker 4: once upon a time a potato farmer. 71 00:03:23,520 --> 00:03:26,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, definitely. He had a few nicknames, bomb Head and 72 00:03:26,360 --> 00:03:28,360 Speaker 2: a couple of others. What were the other. 73 00:03:30,680 --> 00:03:32,280 Speaker 4: Did he grow up on a potato farm? 74 00:03:32,360 --> 00:03:35,720 Speaker 2: Yes, he did. His family came out from Ireland and 75 00:03:36,520 --> 00:03:39,360 Speaker 2: landed in Bungaree and were potato farmers. Danny was a 76 00:03:39,360 --> 00:03:42,720 Speaker 2: potato farmer when I met him and when he first 77 00:03:42,760 --> 00:03:44,920 Speaker 2: started his career. We lived when we got married in 78 00:03:44,960 --> 00:03:48,440 Speaker 2: Balaratte for three or four months, like over the off season, 79 00:03:48,480 --> 00:03:51,119 Speaker 2: and then moved to Melbourne and it was just also. 80 00:03:51,080 --> 00:03:53,000 Speaker 4: Foot and then potato farming in between. 81 00:03:54,440 --> 00:03:56,760 Speaker 2: Remember him, he did his achilles and it was in 82 00:03:56,800 --> 00:03:59,600 Speaker 2: a plaster and he's gone out to the paddock, you know, 83 00:03:59,640 --> 00:04:01,800 Speaker 2: through all the red dirt and it was just it 84 00:04:01,840 --> 00:04:02,400 Speaker 2: wasn't it wasn't. 85 00:04:02,600 --> 00:04:04,320 Speaker 4: Not a good sept But they must be some of 86 00:04:04,360 --> 00:04:08,040 Speaker 4: your favorite memories, right because everyone knows Danny Frawley for 87 00:04:08,680 --> 00:04:11,440 Speaker 4: his work in footy, but all those little private moments 88 00:04:11,440 --> 00:04:13,400 Speaker 4: that people didn't get to see you must be so special. 89 00:04:13,480 --> 00:04:15,880 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, he was a lot of laughs and a 90 00:04:15,920 --> 00:04:18,719 Speaker 2: lot of fun. Especially. Yeah, he was Alarican, a real 91 00:04:18,760 --> 00:04:20,080 Speaker 2: country country. 92 00:04:20,160 --> 00:04:21,880 Speaker 1: We're only chatting about him a couple of weeks back 93 00:04:21,920 --> 00:04:23,960 Speaker 1: because you guys came up with the great initiative this 94 00:04:24,040 --> 00:04:27,040 Speaker 1: year about how people could donate and get their name 95 00:04:27,320 --> 00:04:28,000 Speaker 1: on the jumper. 96 00:04:28,279 --> 00:04:31,000 Speaker 2: Yes, and thank you to you guys. I've bought the 97 00:04:31,080 --> 00:04:32,800 Speaker 2: jumper in We've got your name on it. 98 00:04:34,400 --> 00:04:35,120 Speaker 3: Oh, look at it? 99 00:04:35,200 --> 00:04:37,159 Speaker 4: So is this? What are the players wearing this on 100 00:04:37,200 --> 00:04:37,640 Speaker 4: the weekend? 101 00:04:38,360 --> 00:04:42,359 Speaker 2: I'm not sure. I'm not sure. I think they would be. Yeah, 102 00:04:42,640 --> 00:04:46,520 Speaker 2: no doubt that looks so. Yes, people could donate three 103 00:04:46,600 --> 00:04:48,960 Speaker 2: hundred dollars to get a significant name on the jumper, 104 00:04:48,960 --> 00:04:51,200 Speaker 2: and there was a thousand jumpers and yeah, it's. 105 00:04:51,200 --> 00:04:53,880 Speaker 4: Jam packed full of names. You must be like slightly 106 00:04:53,920 --> 00:04:55,279 Speaker 4: overwhelm when you see how many. 107 00:04:55,120 --> 00:04:59,000 Speaker 2: People there's been beautiful letters come through to Chelsea that 108 00:04:59,080 --> 00:05:03,080 Speaker 2: she shared with the girls and I and it's triggering, 109 00:05:03,120 --> 00:05:06,880 Speaker 2: but oh boy, it's to read people's stories is pretty 110 00:05:06,960 --> 00:05:11,520 Speaker 2: incredible and pretty overwhelming. But yeah, it kind of makes 111 00:05:11,560 --> 00:05:12,320 Speaker 2: it all worthwhile. 112 00:05:12,400 --> 00:05:15,040 Speaker 4: He's left such an amazing legacy, not just in footy 113 00:05:15,160 --> 00:05:17,599 Speaker 4: and in and in Spud's game, but in you and 114 00:05:17,640 --> 00:05:19,040 Speaker 4: his beautiful girls as well. 115 00:05:19,800 --> 00:05:19,880 Speaker 2: You. 116 00:05:20,040 --> 00:05:21,719 Speaker 4: He'd be so proud of all the work you guys 117 00:05:21,760 --> 00:05:22,360 Speaker 4: are doing. 118 00:05:22,400 --> 00:05:24,400 Speaker 2: Yes well where you know, we've got a long long 119 00:05:24,440 --> 00:05:26,280 Speaker 2: way to go, So we need people at the game 120 00:05:26,320 --> 00:05:29,440 Speaker 2: on Friday night and we need people donating on the 121 00:05:29,440 --> 00:05:30,919 Speaker 2: Saint Kilda website. 122 00:05:30,800 --> 00:05:33,440 Speaker 1: The Spuds the boys are going to be wearing the 123 00:05:33,480 --> 00:05:35,479 Speaker 1: jumper on Friday night so you'd be able to see 124 00:05:35,520 --> 00:05:36,360 Speaker 1: it in action. 125 00:05:36,880 --> 00:05:39,880 Speaker 4: Spud's game is So Kilda Verse Carlton at the MCG 126 00:05:40,200 --> 00:05:44,479 Speaker 4: this Friday at seven forty pm and if you'd like 127 00:05:44,520 --> 00:05:46,600 Speaker 4: to donate, you can jump on at Saints dot com 128 00:05:46,640 --> 00:05:49,040 Speaker 4: dot au. Don't carry it alone, share the message and 129 00:05:49,120 --> 00:05:51,560 Speaker 4: check in on a mate. Is the key to this weekend, 130 00:05:51,600 --> 00:05:52,159 Speaker 4: isn't it? 131 00:05:52,240 --> 00:05:55,680 Speaker 2: That certainly is And if everyone can just reach out 132 00:05:55,720 --> 00:05:57,600 Speaker 2: and do that to someone that they know, that would 133 00:05:57,600 --> 00:05:59,320 Speaker 2: make a huge difference to people's lives. 134 00:05:59,360 --> 00:06:02,840 Speaker 3: All that's left is for a Sint Kilda win exactly. 135 00:06:02,880 --> 00:06:04,360 Speaker 1: Look they're just on top eight. 136 00:06:04,520 --> 00:06:08,000 Speaker 3: He did love his Saints. He's a sink Kilda icon. 137 00:06:09,760 --> 00:06:12,600 Speaker 3: M hirl the girls. 138 00:06:13,880 --> 00:06:18,520 Speaker 2: Chelsea is definitely obviously mad football. Daniel obviously not so 139 00:06:18,640 --> 00:06:23,320 Speaker 2: much anymore. Kearley, Yeah, she's Saints me. Don't ask me 140 00:06:23,320 --> 00:06:29,560 Speaker 2: too much about it. You're busy, very passionate SKA, but 141 00:06:29,800 --> 00:06:33,600 Speaker 2: don't keep too much on other things. 142 00:06:33,640 --> 00:06:38,280 Speaker 1: To please pass our best on the family and congratulations 143 00:06:38,320 --> 00:06:40,000 Speaker 1: on the work you guys are doing. Like Laurence said, 144 00:06:40,040 --> 00:06:42,680 Speaker 1: Spud left an amazing legacy that you guys are hugely 145 00:06:42,720 --> 00:06:43,320 Speaker 1: contributing to. 146 00:06:43,560 --> 00:06:45,360 Speaker 2: Thank you very much, and again thank you for your 147 00:06:45,400 --> 00:06:47,960 Speaker 2: kind donation and and what you're doing to help us. 148 00:06:48,000 --> 00:06:48,719 Speaker 2: Really appreciated. 149 00:06:48,760 --> 00:06:50,760 Speaker 1: And come on the Saints. 150 00:06:50,760 --> 00:06:52,680 Speaker 4: It doesn't matter if you're Saints or a Carltons fan. 151 00:06:52,839 --> 00:06:54,720 Speaker 4: Get out and support Spud's game this weekend. 152 00:06:54,760 --> 00:06:56,520 Speaker 1: I need to join us on the air this morning. 153 00:06:56,560 --> 00:06:57,880 Speaker 1: It has just got on fort nine. 154 00:07:00,040 --> 00:07:04,360 Speaker 4: He's in Lauren, Lauren, wake up feeling good following them 155 00:07:04,360 --> 00:07:08,400 Speaker 4: on the socials. Yeah. I