1 00:00:05,921 --> 00:00:07,281 Speaker 1: Apologie production. 2 00:00:12,241 --> 00:00:17,121 Speaker 2: Rejection is your protection and the biggest redirection. So when 3 00:00:17,161 --> 00:00:19,681 Speaker 2: you get rejected, something doesn't go to plans, something doesn't 4 00:00:19,721 --> 00:00:21,761 Speaker 2: work out the way that you wanted it to. If 5 00:00:21,801 --> 00:00:24,401 Speaker 2: you can trust that it is happening to protect you 6 00:00:24,801 --> 00:00:27,401 Speaker 2: from what is not meant to be yours, not only 7 00:00:27,401 --> 00:00:31,041 Speaker 2: protecting you, but it's redirecting you to where you're meant 8 00:00:31,081 --> 00:00:34,520 Speaker 2: to be going. Yeah, it's so soothing to hear that, 9 00:00:34,601 --> 00:00:37,440 Speaker 2: because sometimes we can get so caught up and I'm like, fuck, 10 00:00:37,441 --> 00:00:39,081 Speaker 2: I really wanted that to happen and it was meant 11 00:00:39,120 --> 00:00:41,081 Speaker 2: to be like this. It's like no, it's actually protecting 12 00:00:41,081 --> 00:00:43,321 Speaker 2: me from something that wasn't meant for me, and it's 13 00:00:43,561 --> 00:00:45,600 Speaker 2: putting me on a path to what is meant for me. 14 00:00:45,641 --> 00:00:47,641 Speaker 3: It's trusting the universe and that it's got your back. 15 00:00:47,721 --> 00:00:50,521 Speaker 2: It's fully surrendering and trusting that life's happening for you. 16 00:00:50,721 --> 00:00:52,721 Speaker 4: So we thought that today we would delve in and 17 00:00:52,760 --> 00:00:55,001 Speaker 4: tell you guys some different situations that we have been 18 00:00:55,081 --> 00:00:58,041 Speaker 4: in where life at the time felt hard and we 19 00:00:58,041 --> 00:01:00,081 Speaker 4: were like why is this happening? And then it has 20 00:01:00,121 --> 00:01:04,441 Speaker 4: redirected us into different situations that honestly we couldn't have 21 00:01:04,481 --> 00:01:08,041 Speaker 4: even a imagined that was so much better long term. 22 00:01:08,121 --> 00:01:09,961 Speaker 2: And I bet you, if you're listening, I'd love you 23 00:01:10,000 --> 00:01:12,440 Speaker 2: to just take a moment to reflect on a situation 24 00:01:12,560 --> 00:01:14,721 Speaker 2: like that. Whether it's you've gone through a breakup, or 25 00:01:14,721 --> 00:01:16,121 Speaker 2: you didn't get a job that you wanted, or just 26 00:01:16,121 --> 00:01:18,000 Speaker 2: something that you were so badly thinking was meant for 27 00:01:18,041 --> 00:01:20,680 Speaker 2: you and it didn't happen. You're like, Oh, if that happened, 28 00:01:20,681 --> 00:01:22,401 Speaker 2: I wouldn't have met this person. If that happened at 29 00:01:22,401 --> 00:01:24,121 Speaker 2: this time, I wouldn't be in this house. I wouldn't 30 00:01:24,121 --> 00:01:26,920 Speaker 2: be over here. Everything happens at the right time for 31 00:01:26,920 --> 00:01:27,801 Speaker 2: the right reason. 32 00:01:27,640 --> 00:01:28,440 Speaker 3: It really does. 33 00:01:28,481 --> 00:01:30,681 Speaker 4: And the more we can lean in and look at 34 00:01:30,681 --> 00:01:32,521 Speaker 4: things that way, too, the more it just makes you 35 00:01:32,560 --> 00:01:35,121 Speaker 4: at peace with life and all the ways that things 36 00:01:35,161 --> 00:01:36,280 Speaker 4: are panning out and happening. 37 00:01:36,560 --> 00:01:40,440 Speaker 2: Definitely, so my first one is getting fired was one 38 00:01:40,441 --> 00:01:42,321 Speaker 2: of the best things. It is the best thing that 39 00:01:42,360 --> 00:01:44,121 Speaker 2: ever happened to me. If I did not get fired 40 00:01:44,121 --> 00:01:46,281 Speaker 2: from Valley Girl, I wouldn't be here talking. 41 00:01:46,081 --> 00:01:48,441 Speaker 1: To you guys today. Naturally, I would not be where 42 00:01:48,441 --> 00:01:48,721 Speaker 1: I am. 43 00:01:48,801 --> 00:01:50,921 Speaker 2: I would have stayed in a job that was safe 44 00:01:50,961 --> 00:01:54,041 Speaker 2: and felt like quote unquote kind of easy. I worked 45 00:01:54,041 --> 00:01:56,241 Speaker 2: at Valley Girl. I can't even remember how old it was. 46 00:01:56,281 --> 00:01:59,201 Speaker 2: It must have been like nineteen and I've been there for. 47 00:01:59,001 --> 00:01:59,800 Speaker 1: Maybe a year or two. 48 00:01:59,881 --> 00:02:02,121 Speaker 2: And I had this beautiful boss. We got along so well, 49 00:02:02,361 --> 00:02:04,241 Speaker 2: and then she left to go have a baby, and 50 00:02:04,281 --> 00:02:05,801 Speaker 2: we got this new boss that came on board, and 51 00:02:05,841 --> 00:02:08,161 Speaker 2: after two weeks she just sat me down and was like, oh, 52 00:02:08,161 --> 00:02:10,721 Speaker 2: we don't have any hours for you. And I was like, ah, 53 00:02:11,041 --> 00:02:13,201 Speaker 2: does that mean I don't have a job anymore. She's like, yeah, 54 00:02:13,240 --> 00:02:15,680 Speaker 2: you're not required anymore. And I was fired overnight, and 55 00:02:15,721 --> 00:02:18,441 Speaker 2: I was like, oh my gosh. And back then like 56 00:02:18,800 --> 00:02:21,481 Speaker 2: so justsregulated, but just went in my car, ball my 57 00:02:21,601 --> 00:02:22,280 Speaker 2: eyes out. 58 00:02:22,201 --> 00:02:24,881 Speaker 1: Went home to Steve, like on the floor, just so dramatic, 59 00:02:24,960 --> 00:02:27,281 Speaker 1: which is like, what am I gonna do? I have 60 00:02:27,441 --> 00:02:29,520 Speaker 1: no money, Like I need a job, like Color is 61 00:02:29,561 --> 00:02:31,081 Speaker 1: hunting to me. And for so. 62 00:02:31,240 --> 00:02:33,361 Speaker 2: Long I had been going to do like his little 63 00:02:33,361 --> 00:02:35,201 Speaker 2: boot camps and like helping him out, and he was 64 00:02:35,240 --> 00:02:37,681 Speaker 2: like trying to get me to do a personal training course, 65 00:02:37,721 --> 00:02:39,401 Speaker 2: but I had a limiting belief that I was too 66 00:02:39,441 --> 00:02:41,240 Speaker 2: dumb and I couldn't pass it. So what's one trying. 67 00:02:41,240 --> 00:02:42,961 Speaker 2: I'm not going to spend money on a course. Then 68 00:02:43,001 --> 00:02:44,801 Speaker 2: I know I'm gonna fail, Like I truly believed it, 69 00:02:44,800 --> 00:02:47,001 Speaker 2: that I wouldn't even try it. And he was kind 70 00:02:47,001 --> 00:02:50,321 Speaker 2: of like, wow, this is dramatic, but I didn't say that. 71 00:02:50,401 --> 00:02:52,641 Speaker 2: But it was a perfect opportunity go and do your 72 00:02:52,680 --> 00:02:54,801 Speaker 2: pet course. You love finness, you love health, and you 73 00:02:54,841 --> 00:02:56,761 Speaker 2: love helping people. This is a perfect job for you. 74 00:02:57,281 --> 00:02:58,401 Speaker 2: I was like, I got do that. 75 00:02:58,481 --> 00:03:00,280 Speaker 1: I'm too dumb, blah blah blah. 76 00:03:00,321 --> 00:03:03,361 Speaker 2: Anyways, in the background, Steve had been applying for because 77 00:03:03,361 --> 00:03:05,281 Speaker 2: we couldn't afford for me to do the course, he'd 78 00:03:05,321 --> 00:03:08,041 Speaker 2: been applying for government grants so that they would like 79 00:03:08,201 --> 00:03:09,801 Speaker 2: cover the fees for me to go and do the course. 80 00:03:10,161 --> 00:03:11,961 Speaker 2: And a couple of days later I got approved. He 81 00:03:12,081 --> 00:03:14,120 Speaker 2: was like, good news, you can go and do this course. 82 00:03:14,161 --> 00:03:15,681 Speaker 2: Now I've got your government grant. It's not going to 83 00:03:15,680 --> 00:03:17,961 Speaker 2: cost you a cent. I was like, fuck, no, I 84 00:03:18,041 --> 00:03:19,241 Speaker 2: have to go do it because what else am I 85 00:03:19,240 --> 00:03:19,560 Speaker 2: going to do? 86 00:03:19,800 --> 00:03:20,000 Speaker 1: Yeah. 87 00:03:20,441 --> 00:03:22,161 Speaker 2: So when I did the course, it actually took me 88 00:03:22,201 --> 00:03:24,641 Speaker 2: three goes for my final assessment to actually pass. And 89 00:03:24,680 --> 00:03:26,281 Speaker 2: can you imagine how hard that was because that was 90 00:03:26,281 --> 00:03:29,641 Speaker 2: confirming that story that you're too dumb. Anyway, finally passed 91 00:03:29,721 --> 00:03:32,680 Speaker 2: and yes, started to become a personal trainer, took on clients, 92 00:03:32,680 --> 00:03:35,440 Speaker 2: I did a lot of free work. But yeah, that's 93 00:03:35,481 --> 00:03:37,601 Speaker 2: how my whole health and fitness career started. And if 94 00:03:37,641 --> 00:03:39,601 Speaker 2: I did not get fired, no way I would have 95 00:03:39,601 --> 00:03:40,281 Speaker 2: gone and done that course. 96 00:03:40,441 --> 00:03:41,801 Speaker 1: N I wouldn't have been I was too scared. 97 00:03:41,921 --> 00:03:44,361 Speaker 2: Getting fired was protecting me from a job that didn't 98 00:03:44,361 --> 00:03:44,881 Speaker 2: feel good for me. 99 00:03:44,921 --> 00:03:45,401 Speaker 1: I hated it. 100 00:03:45,401 --> 00:03:48,121 Speaker 2: I didn't like it no way, and so much more 101 00:03:48,161 --> 00:03:50,161 Speaker 2: than that, and then it redirected me to go and 102 00:03:50,161 --> 00:03:52,481 Speaker 2: do this course and start a career that I truly loved. 103 00:03:52,561 --> 00:03:55,521 Speaker 2: Was so meant for me, so passionate, it was so 104 00:03:55,761 --> 00:03:56,961 Speaker 2: like my purpose to help. 105 00:03:56,801 --> 00:03:57,601 Speaker 3: One hundred percent. 106 00:03:57,641 --> 00:03:59,681 Speaker 4: Like I could never imagine seeing you know, and how 107 00:03:59,681 --> 00:04:03,361 Speaker 4: passionate you are about what you do doing something like that. 108 00:04:03,521 --> 00:04:06,641 Speaker 2: If I had just known that one quote, maybe it 109 00:04:06,641 --> 00:04:08,481 Speaker 2: would have taken away some of the pain and tears 110 00:04:08,481 --> 00:04:11,281 Speaker 2: that I was like putting myself through. Yeah, massive victim 111 00:04:11,321 --> 00:04:12,521 Speaker 2: mentality back then too, But. 112 00:04:12,921 --> 00:04:17,760 Speaker 4: Here I am so my next one. It's like I 113 00:04:17,761 --> 00:04:20,761 Speaker 4: haven't really spoken too much about before, but basically, when 114 00:04:20,801 --> 00:04:22,880 Speaker 4: Kurt and I broke up when we were around eighteen, 115 00:04:23,041 --> 00:04:25,121 Speaker 4: there was this guy that I was seeing at the time, 116 00:04:25,681 --> 00:04:28,321 Speaker 4: and I'm not really somebod who bounces between people when 117 00:04:28,361 --> 00:04:30,961 Speaker 4: I'm like with someone, I'm like pretty much like all 118 00:04:31,001 --> 00:04:33,200 Speaker 4: in with one person at a time kind of thing. 119 00:04:33,521 --> 00:04:36,441 Speaker 4: And this person definitely made it seem as though they 120 00:04:36,481 --> 00:04:40,121 Speaker 4: were reciprocating, but they were not. And then I found 121 00:04:40,481 --> 00:04:42,201 Speaker 4: they were not. I found out they were sleeping around, 122 00:04:42,320 --> 00:04:44,841 Speaker 4: they were bouncing around, and I were bouncing around when 123 00:04:44,880 --> 00:04:45,561 Speaker 4: they were telling. 124 00:04:45,401 --> 00:04:48,440 Speaker 1: Me that they weren't also dishonest, dishonest. 125 00:04:47,961 --> 00:04:49,320 Speaker 3: And it was also with two of like my really 126 00:04:49,320 --> 00:04:49,841 Speaker 3: good friends. 127 00:04:49,961 --> 00:04:51,320 Speaker 1: I am sure I know. 128 00:04:51,641 --> 00:04:56,200 Speaker 4: So I felt so rejections. I felt so rejected. I 129 00:04:56,241 --> 00:04:58,401 Speaker 4: felt rejected from my friends. I had one of them 130 00:04:58,440 --> 00:04:59,961 Speaker 4: that lived with me for a stage of my life 131 00:04:59,961 --> 00:05:01,801 Speaker 4: because she was struggling, so I actually gave her my 132 00:05:01,880 --> 00:05:03,801 Speaker 4: room and I moved in with my sister in her room. 133 00:05:04,121 --> 00:05:08,041 Speaker 4: I felt so rejected, so cut, so hurt. I had 134 00:05:08,121 --> 00:05:10,241 Speaker 4: lost him, that I'd lost the person that I was 135 00:05:10,281 --> 00:05:12,041 Speaker 4: like finally starting to like get a little bit of 136 00:05:12,121 --> 00:05:15,041 Speaker 4: a relationship with. And then I had like lost two 137 00:05:15,041 --> 00:05:17,201 Speaker 4: of my really really close friends at the time. When 138 00:05:17,241 --> 00:05:18,921 Speaker 4: I understand, like things happened and people have their own 139 00:05:18,921 --> 00:05:21,001 Speaker 4: reasons for doing certain things and whatever we were young, 140 00:05:21,041 --> 00:05:23,361 Speaker 4: we were silly, like no hard feelings against anyone in 141 00:05:23,361 --> 00:05:26,080 Speaker 4: the situation because the best outcome came from it. Anyway, 142 00:05:26,521 --> 00:05:30,401 Speaker 4: it redirected me to Curt, like we rekindled our relationship, 143 00:05:30,440 --> 00:05:33,321 Speaker 4: and if I had ended up committing to another person, 144 00:05:33,601 --> 00:05:35,521 Speaker 4: it would have put me in a really difficult situation. 145 00:05:35,561 --> 00:05:37,241 Speaker 4: Whereas for me, when Kurt came back around, it was 146 00:05:37,241 --> 00:05:38,921 Speaker 4: still a hard decision to make, and I definitely made 147 00:05:38,961 --> 00:05:41,280 Speaker 4: him work his way back in. But like, I could 148 00:05:41,440 --> 00:05:45,601 Speaker 4: never imagine my life like not being with him, And 149 00:05:45,601 --> 00:05:47,121 Speaker 4: I think, deep down, I feel like I've always known 150 00:05:47,161 --> 00:05:48,761 Speaker 4: I was gonna marry him. Yeah, I feel like I've 151 00:05:48,801 --> 00:05:51,921 Speaker 4: always just been like I've never felt that instant chemistry connection. 152 00:05:52,201 --> 00:05:54,361 Speaker 2: But if you, like he said around, so, if you 153 00:05:54,401 --> 00:05:56,241 Speaker 2: know the other guys you had committed him, you wouldn't 154 00:05:56,241 --> 00:05:56,921 Speaker 2: have been open to Kurt. 155 00:05:57,121 --> 00:05:58,641 Speaker 4: No, not at that time, because I'm not like that, 156 00:05:58,801 --> 00:06:01,121 Speaker 4: Like I would have closed myself off. Like it's just 157 00:06:01,281 --> 00:06:03,081 Speaker 4: crazy how life works. About that time, I remember I 158 00:06:03,201 --> 00:06:06,361 Speaker 4: just felt so cut, like I was just like out, 159 00:06:06,481 --> 00:06:09,880 Speaker 4: like I felt so worthless and like all those yucky. 160 00:06:09,681 --> 00:06:11,081 Speaker 3: Feelings so valid. 161 00:06:11,201 --> 00:06:14,640 Speaker 4: And then like now looking back, I'm like, holy thanks fuck. Well, A, 162 00:06:15,041 --> 00:06:16,801 Speaker 4: that person probably would have been cheating on me, Like 163 00:06:16,841 --> 00:06:18,001 Speaker 4: you know what I mean if they say that they're 164 00:06:18,001 --> 00:06:20,121 Speaker 4: in a relationship and that's like not a relationship, but 165 00:06:20,161 --> 00:06:22,561 Speaker 4: they're just seeing you and they're not. You deserve better 166 00:06:22,801 --> 00:06:26,321 Speaker 4: and b Yeah, it taught me so many lessons. Yeah, 167 00:06:26,361 --> 00:06:29,841 Speaker 4: so that was the ultimate redirection because it redirected. 168 00:06:29,440 --> 00:06:31,041 Speaker 1: Me back to my up and protected you from being 169 00:06:31,041 --> 00:06:32,520 Speaker 1: with someone that's just going to continue to hurt you 170 00:06:32,521 --> 00:06:33,201 Speaker 1: and not respect you. 171 00:06:33,281 --> 00:06:35,361 Speaker 3: It's not a great start, no, Yeah. 172 00:06:35,521 --> 00:06:38,761 Speaker 1: The protection and the redirection huh so cool. Yeah. 173 00:06:39,681 --> 00:06:42,481 Speaker 2: One more story of mine, which I don't actually know 174 00:06:42,561 --> 00:06:45,001 Speaker 2: the full outcome as to why it didn't happen, but 175 00:06:45,041 --> 00:06:47,200 Speaker 2: I just had to sit and trust and surrender. But 176 00:06:47,361 --> 00:06:50,881 Speaker 2: it was just before the spicy flu hit and I 177 00:06:50,921 --> 00:06:53,321 Speaker 2: got asked to be on Big Brother, But there's quite 178 00:06:53,361 --> 00:06:55,561 Speaker 2: a big process that you go through and Big Brother, 179 00:06:55,721 --> 00:06:57,801 Speaker 2: Dancing with the Stars or some kind of survivor show. 180 00:06:57,841 --> 00:06:59,281 Speaker 2: I would one hundred percent love to go, and I 181 00:06:59,281 --> 00:07:01,681 Speaker 2: think it'd be so fun, such a cool opportunity and 182 00:07:01,721 --> 00:07:04,681 Speaker 2: really push my limits mentally, physically and emotionally, and I 183 00:07:04,721 --> 00:07:06,441 Speaker 2: love it challenge. I feel like you'd really grow from 184 00:07:06,440 --> 00:07:08,880 Speaker 2: being one of those shows. So yeah, I got asked 185 00:07:08,921 --> 00:07:11,241 Speaker 2: and there was quite an intensive interview process. I had 186 00:07:11,241 --> 00:07:15,121 Speaker 2: three really in depth, big interviews, lots and lots of questions. 187 00:07:15,201 --> 00:07:16,201 Speaker 1: I had to know so much. 188 00:07:16,041 --> 00:07:19,081 Speaker 2: About your life, your lifestyle, how everything works, and obviously 189 00:07:19,081 --> 00:07:20,281 Speaker 2: when you go in to be brother, you'd have any 190 00:07:20,281 --> 00:07:22,641 Speaker 2: contact with your family. So after the third one, I 191 00:07:22,721 --> 00:07:24,881 Speaker 2: was like, okay, like hopefully, but I did say to Steve, 192 00:07:24,921 --> 00:07:26,601 Speaker 2: I said, I feel like I'm being a bit difficult. 193 00:07:26,641 --> 00:07:29,041 Speaker 2: Like I was like, I've got this business, we have launches. 194 00:07:29,081 --> 00:07:30,641 Speaker 2: I'm gonna have to know in advance, like I have 195 00:07:30,681 --> 00:07:32,521 Speaker 2: to pre film everything. Can I still upload things to 196 00:07:32,521 --> 00:07:34,881 Speaker 2: my social media? And they pretty much like no, So 197 00:07:34,921 --> 00:07:36,641 Speaker 2: I think I was a bit difficult. But I didn't 198 00:07:36,641 --> 00:07:38,761 Speaker 2: get in, and I was pretty bummed because I think 199 00:07:38,761 --> 00:07:41,761 Speaker 2: it would be so fun. But after I was like, oh, 200 00:07:41,921 --> 00:07:43,521 Speaker 2: I just have to trust it. That wasn't meant for me. 201 00:07:43,561 --> 00:07:45,481 Speaker 2: Maybe something was going to happen in the outside world 202 00:07:45,481 --> 00:07:47,081 Speaker 2: that I needed to be here for, maybe a better 203 00:07:47,121 --> 00:07:50,081 Speaker 2: opportunity to come along, or yeah, maybe it just wasn't 204 00:07:50,081 --> 00:07:52,121 Speaker 2: meant for me. And then like the spicy flu happened, 205 00:07:52,161 --> 00:07:53,881 Speaker 2: and there was all lockdowns and stuff like, imagine if 206 00:07:53,921 --> 00:07:55,281 Speaker 2: I got locked in that house longer than what I 207 00:07:55,321 --> 00:07:57,201 Speaker 2: wanted to. You couldn't fly to Sydney. It was being 208 00:07:57,201 --> 00:07:59,601 Speaker 2: filmed in Sydney. You couldn't fly at that point in time, 209 00:07:59,681 --> 00:08:02,081 Speaker 2: Like there were so many things going on. It's like, yeah, 210 00:08:02,121 --> 00:08:02,681 Speaker 2: you couldn't fly. 211 00:08:02,761 --> 00:08:03,321 Speaker 1: You couldn't do it. 212 00:08:03,481 --> 00:08:05,721 Speaker 2: It would have been stuck there hard enough to be 213 00:08:05,761 --> 00:08:08,281 Speaker 2: raided for my family as it is. So I was like, Oh, 214 00:08:08,441 --> 00:08:10,481 Speaker 2: that happened for a reason, that wasn't meant for me. 215 00:08:11,361 --> 00:08:13,401 Speaker 1: So so true. I still would like to go on 216 00:08:13,481 --> 00:08:15,201 Speaker 1: Dancing with the Stars. Anyone got any connections. 217 00:08:15,761 --> 00:08:16,481 Speaker 3: That'd be so fun. 218 00:08:16,481 --> 00:08:18,841 Speaker 1: Poit me up. It'd be so Actually another show my 219 00:08:18,881 --> 00:08:20,721 Speaker 1: mom put me onto it. I haven't watched the full season. 220 00:08:20,761 --> 00:08:23,281 Speaker 1: I think it's called Million Dollar Island. You heard about it? 221 00:08:23,321 --> 00:08:24,561 Speaker 3: Oh, I think you've told me about it. 222 00:08:24,681 --> 00:08:24,921 Speaker 1: Yeah. 223 00:08:25,081 --> 00:08:27,121 Speaker 2: Mom was like, this is the perfect show for you 224 00:08:27,481 --> 00:08:29,761 Speaker 2: because it's a lot of fitness and like mental battles 225 00:08:29,761 --> 00:08:32,521 Speaker 2: as well, but it's also really big on relationship building. Yeah, 226 00:08:32,521 --> 00:08:34,601 Speaker 2: which I feel like I'm quite a people person. I'd 227 00:08:34,641 --> 00:08:36,921 Speaker 2: love to go on that. Yeah, and it's only. 228 00:08:36,801 --> 00:08:38,121 Speaker 1: A month, it's not twelve weeks. 229 00:08:38,201 --> 00:08:39,881 Speaker 3: Yeah, which is a nice sty Yeah, you're only. 230 00:08:39,721 --> 00:08:40,561 Speaker 1: On the island for a month. 231 00:08:40,801 --> 00:08:42,281 Speaker 2: You have to like live out in the island, build 232 00:08:42,281 --> 00:08:45,281 Speaker 2: relationships and like do challenges and you get voted in 233 00:08:45,321 --> 00:08:47,761 Speaker 2: and out and it looks so fun. That would be 234 00:08:47,761 --> 00:08:49,761 Speaker 2: so then anything with the dark or heights because I 235 00:08:49,761 --> 00:08:52,241 Speaker 2: got asked to be on SAS. I can't legally allowed 236 00:08:52,241 --> 00:08:53,681 Speaker 2: to say how much money was involved, but it was 237 00:08:53,841 --> 00:08:56,801 Speaker 2: huge money. But I was instant no because anything with 238 00:08:56,921 --> 00:08:59,441 Speaker 2: heights are dark, I would have made the biggest fool 239 00:08:59,481 --> 00:09:00,041 Speaker 2: of myself. 240 00:09:00,641 --> 00:09:02,041 Speaker 3: That's what I wanted you as well. 241 00:09:02,121 --> 00:09:04,961 Speaker 2: Yeah, actually click Bait then asked me to jump out 242 00:09:04,961 --> 00:09:07,881 Speaker 2: of helicop dark. Well, there's ones where they like put 243 00:09:07,881 --> 00:09:10,521 Speaker 2: things over your head and then like says they're training 244 00:09:10,561 --> 00:09:13,361 Speaker 2: you for like big shit, put things over your head, 245 00:09:13,361 --> 00:09:15,401 Speaker 2: put in the dark, and like have water thrown at 246 00:09:15,441 --> 00:09:19,001 Speaker 2: you like it's really not and then like crazy obstacle 247 00:09:19,001 --> 00:09:21,281 Speaker 2: courses where you're like in the thick mud, crawling on 248 00:09:21,281 --> 00:09:25,481 Speaker 2: your hands and knees bugs like, oh, it's a low no. 249 00:09:25,561 --> 00:09:27,161 Speaker 2: So it was an instant no for me, even though 250 00:09:27,281 --> 00:09:29,241 Speaker 2: the money was really tempting. I'm like, I will get 251 00:09:29,281 --> 00:09:31,961 Speaker 2: on one episode either cry and scream that I can't 252 00:09:32,001 --> 00:09:33,121 Speaker 2: do something roll break a leg. 253 00:09:33,201 --> 00:09:36,721 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's not worth it, not worth it. Also, no trauma, 254 00:09:36,801 --> 00:09:39,201 Speaker 4: huh yeah for that stuff like Holy. 255 00:09:39,281 --> 00:09:41,281 Speaker 1: Survivor would be really hard as well, I reckon. 256 00:09:41,281 --> 00:09:42,761 Speaker 3: Oh yeah. 257 00:09:42,161 --> 00:09:43,641 Speaker 1: Oh anyway, so that. 258 00:09:43,681 --> 00:09:46,161 Speaker 3: Was my little well, my last one. 259 00:09:46,481 --> 00:09:48,561 Speaker 4: One of the hardest things that I've ever been through 260 00:09:48,761 --> 00:09:51,281 Speaker 4: was obviously the fallout that had happened with my family. 261 00:09:51,601 --> 00:09:54,761 Speaker 4: But now, looking back on reflection, that is what had 262 00:09:54,841 --> 00:09:56,841 Speaker 4: pushed me to do so much inner healing and so 263 00:09:56,921 --> 00:09:58,761 Speaker 4: much inner work that I'd put off for so long, 264 00:09:58,961 --> 00:10:00,841 Speaker 4: and now like, you know, it's all like out the 265 00:10:00,881 --> 00:10:02,601 Speaker 4: other end, and it's all great, and I can kind 266 00:10:02,601 --> 00:10:05,721 Speaker 4: of see like why it happened, and and I would 267 00:10:05,761 --> 00:10:08,041 Speaker 4: not change a thing because I feel like it's really 268 00:10:08,121 --> 00:10:11,401 Speaker 4: pushed me to work on myself. So yeah, I'm really 269 00:10:11,401 --> 00:10:13,481 Speaker 4: really grateful for that, even though it was very, very. 270 00:10:13,441 --> 00:10:16,201 Speaker 2: Difficult, so crazy to reflect on those hard times and 271 00:10:16,281 --> 00:10:18,081 Speaker 2: be like you're so grateful for it. 272 00:10:18,121 --> 00:10:20,961 Speaker 1: At the time, it's so painful in so much you got. 273 00:10:20,801 --> 00:10:23,921 Speaker 2: To feel hard you do. You have to have breakdowns 274 00:10:23,921 --> 00:10:26,801 Speaker 2: to have breakthroughs. Hey, It's crazy because I think back 275 00:10:26,801 --> 00:10:28,881 Speaker 2: of my hardest times too, and I'm like, I wouldn't 276 00:10:28,881 --> 00:10:29,881 Speaker 2: want to go through that again, and. 277 00:10:29,801 --> 00:10:31,681 Speaker 1: I don't want anyone else to have to experience that. 278 00:10:31,761 --> 00:10:33,881 Speaker 2: But man, I wouldn't be who I am without that, 279 00:10:33,921 --> 00:10:37,241 Speaker 2: and it made it forced me like there's no choice 280 00:10:37,561 --> 00:10:39,401 Speaker 2: but to grow and level up because I have to 281 00:10:39,441 --> 00:10:42,361 Speaker 2: get through that. So you can find the gratitude for it. 282 00:10:42,441 --> 00:10:44,481 Speaker 3: But definitely we're going to wrap it up there. 283 00:10:44,481 --> 00:10:48,161 Speaker 2: But yeah, just know that rejection is the biggest protection 284 00:10:48,601 --> 00:10:50,321 Speaker 2: and the ultimate redirection.