1 00:00:00,280 --> 00:00:03,920 Speaker 1: This podcast is recorded on gaddigal Land Always was, always 2 00:00:03,920 --> 00:00:14,120 Speaker 1: will be Aboriginal Land. Hey chicks, I'm sal and I'm 3 00:00:14,120 --> 00:00:15,720 Speaker 1: out and this is two broke chicks to show that 4 00:00:15,720 --> 00:00:18,079 Speaker 1: shares life lessons and tips to help make you rich 5 00:00:18,200 --> 00:00:18,920 Speaker 1: in life. 6 00:00:19,239 --> 00:00:20,360 Speaker 2: And today we're in. 7 00:00:20,440 --> 00:00:23,919 Speaker 3: For a bloody treat chickies, because we've got Riley Hampson 8 00:00:24,079 --> 00:00:27,680 Speaker 3: back on the pod, content creator, founder of fashion brand 9 00:00:27,760 --> 00:00:29,520 Speaker 3: Remy By Riley, and Georgia. 10 00:00:29,160 --> 00:00:32,200 Speaker 2: And Joseph and all round style icon. 11 00:00:32,360 --> 00:00:36,680 Speaker 3: We're going to be talking all things confidence, hacks, tips. 12 00:00:36,520 --> 00:00:38,280 Speaker 4: True confidence one I want. 13 00:00:38,400 --> 00:00:40,200 Speaker 5: I don't think there's a better guess we could get 14 00:00:40,320 --> 00:00:44,280 Speaker 5: to have this episode with because not only is she queen, which. 15 00:00:44,120 --> 00:00:44,840 Speaker 4: Is a funny bitch. 16 00:00:46,720 --> 00:00:49,640 Speaker 2: Let's get her in here. Let's do it. Welcome Riley. 17 00:00:50,320 --> 00:00:56,279 Speaker 3: That's cute, too long, fuck ages because we did it 18 00:00:56,320 --> 00:00:57,760 Speaker 3: over zoom. 19 00:00:57,880 --> 00:00:59,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, because we've been in person. 20 00:01:00,440 --> 00:01:07,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, but were so excited to have you on and 21 00:01:07,560 --> 00:01:10,080 Speaker 3: get into the chat. But before we do get started, 22 00:01:10,080 --> 00:01:11,759 Speaker 3: we like to start with a life lesson of the week. 23 00:01:11,840 --> 00:01:12,960 Speaker 2: So what have you got for us? 24 00:01:13,120 --> 00:01:17,320 Speaker 6: Okay, my life listen of the week is Okay, I 25 00:01:17,440 --> 00:01:20,560 Speaker 6: have to do a bit of context here. I was 26 00:01:20,600 --> 00:01:23,160 Speaker 6: on a run and the car was really close and 27 00:01:23,200 --> 00:01:26,960 Speaker 6: my I was doing like timing runs, so I had 28 00:01:27,000 --> 00:01:28,200 Speaker 6: like ten seconds lift. 29 00:01:28,040 --> 00:01:29,440 Speaker 2: And I was like, I can make it back to 30 00:01:29,480 --> 00:01:29,880 Speaker 2: the car. 31 00:01:30,360 --> 00:01:32,520 Speaker 6: And I was about twenty seconds, twenty secondsleef make it 32 00:01:32,560 --> 00:01:34,440 Speaker 6: back to the car, and I started gunning for it, 33 00:01:34,440 --> 00:01:36,960 Speaker 6: and then I was like, nah, it's too far. Pull back, 34 00:01:37,680 --> 00:01:39,880 Speaker 6: pull back, And then I started going again, and I 35 00:01:39,920 --> 00:01:41,760 Speaker 6: fully could have made it if I just keep going. 36 00:01:43,200 --> 00:01:45,280 Speaker 6: Week it's just like, just don't give up. 37 00:01:45,800 --> 00:01:50,160 Speaker 2: Actually push in that little bit, yeah, because you actually 38 00:01:50,200 --> 00:01:50,840 Speaker 2: can do it. 39 00:01:51,000 --> 00:01:53,800 Speaker 3: It's just getting into that little window of discomfort. 40 00:01:53,960 --> 00:01:59,760 Speaker 4: That's just the GST. Yeah. Yeah, I love that. What's yours? 41 00:02:00,240 --> 00:02:00,520 Speaker 2: Okay? 42 00:02:00,600 --> 00:02:00,919 Speaker 4: Mine? 43 00:02:01,120 --> 00:02:03,400 Speaker 2: Is a wholesome little quote that I heard. 44 00:02:03,280 --> 00:02:06,440 Speaker 3: On a podcast this week, and it's that if let's 45 00:02:06,480 --> 00:02:09,560 Speaker 3: say that you're bad at maths but you're good at art, 46 00:02:10,400 --> 00:02:14,799 Speaker 3: don't get a maths tutor, enroll in art lessons, so 47 00:02:15,200 --> 00:02:18,480 Speaker 3: nurture the things that you were naturally good at, rather 48 00:02:18,520 --> 00:02:22,240 Speaker 3: than trying to force yourself into things that maybe don't 49 00:02:22,240 --> 00:02:24,919 Speaker 3: come naturally to you but you feel like you have 50 00:02:25,000 --> 00:02:25,560 Speaker 3: to be good at. 51 00:02:26,840 --> 00:02:27,080 Speaker 5: Yeah. 52 00:02:27,240 --> 00:02:29,600 Speaker 2: I love that. I actually heard recently. 53 00:02:29,639 --> 00:02:32,440 Speaker 6: I was on set for something and a one of 54 00:02:32,480 --> 00:02:34,600 Speaker 6: the hairstyles was talking to me because she was tutoring 55 00:02:34,639 --> 00:02:38,440 Speaker 6: some like younger like first entry level here like that 56 00:02:38,560 --> 00:02:41,760 Speaker 6: was super like super young success or. And she said, 57 00:02:42,560 --> 00:02:46,040 Speaker 6: I said, does everyone that enroll do they all have 58 00:02:46,200 --> 00:02:47,799 Speaker 6: like a bit of a natural knack for it, you 59 00:02:47,880 --> 00:02:50,000 Speaker 6: know how? Like some people just grew up like braiding 60 00:02:50,000 --> 00:02:52,760 Speaker 6: this it's just here And she was like no, and 61 00:02:52,800 --> 00:02:55,360 Speaker 6: then there's some people that just like stick at it 62 00:02:55,400 --> 00:02:57,280 Speaker 6: for years and then it takes them so long to 63 00:02:57,280 --> 00:02:59,720 Speaker 6: get like the most simple task just because it's not 64 00:03:00,040 --> 00:03:01,200 Speaker 6: the natural. 65 00:03:01,480 --> 00:03:02,200 Speaker 2: Thing that they can do. 66 00:03:02,280 --> 00:03:04,679 Speaker 6: So it's that and she just wishes she could say, 67 00:03:04,720 --> 00:03:06,600 Speaker 6: like pick something else, because you're going to be. 68 00:03:06,560 --> 00:03:09,480 Speaker 2: So good at something else. Honestly, what's your life lesson? 69 00:03:09,720 --> 00:03:13,080 Speaker 5: My life lesson of the week is to watch the 70 00:03:13,120 --> 00:03:16,560 Speaker 5: show that everyone tells you you need to watch, because 71 00:03:16,639 --> 00:03:18,920 Speaker 5: I'm so ashamed to say that I've gotten to my 72 00:03:18,960 --> 00:03:21,560 Speaker 5: twenty ninth year of life and I'd only just watch 73 00:03:21,639 --> 00:03:24,079 Speaker 5: Kath and Kim. 74 00:03:24,320 --> 00:03:27,520 Speaker 6: Yeah are yeah, I grew up because it was on 75 00:03:27,600 --> 00:03:30,200 Speaker 6: TV right, so it was just like on all the time. 76 00:03:31,440 --> 00:03:34,280 Speaker 4: Never watched it, not even one episode. 77 00:03:33,840 --> 00:03:35,880 Speaker 2: So you wouldn't have like understood any of the little 78 00:03:35,920 --> 00:03:37,160 Speaker 2: memes and all the rest. 79 00:03:38,440 --> 00:03:41,080 Speaker 5: I would get some of it because I feel like 80 00:03:41,320 --> 00:03:43,880 Speaker 5: they've been viral, like little bits and bobs that you 81 00:03:43,960 --> 00:03:45,400 Speaker 5: just get it. Like if someone's like, oh, you know 82 00:03:45,440 --> 00:03:47,720 Speaker 5: it's it's unusual, you'd be like, yeah, it'skathin Kim or whatever. 83 00:03:48,440 --> 00:03:50,640 Speaker 5: Look more like you just knew that was Kath and Kim. 84 00:03:50,880 --> 00:03:54,920 Speaker 5: But I never understood the heart felt link us Australians 85 00:03:54,960 --> 00:03:58,280 Speaker 5: have Kath and Kim and anyway, so I watched all 86 00:03:58,320 --> 00:04:01,680 Speaker 5: four seasons and I'm in mourning because I miss them, 87 00:04:02,040 --> 00:04:05,960 Speaker 5: and it truly was an educational experience of my life. 88 00:04:06,160 --> 00:04:07,480 Speaker 4: So my life lesson is. 89 00:04:07,400 --> 00:04:10,800 Speaker 5: To watch the show that everyone says to watch because 90 00:04:11,240 --> 00:04:12,120 Speaker 5: it's worth watching. 91 00:04:12,320 --> 00:04:15,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, honestly, especially. 92 00:04:21,520 --> 00:04:22,440 Speaker 2: So Riley. 93 00:04:22,720 --> 00:04:27,360 Speaker 3: You absolutely radiate confidence online but also in person, and 94 00:04:27,400 --> 00:04:29,560 Speaker 3: that is something that we definitely look up to you for. 95 00:04:30,040 --> 00:04:31,880 Speaker 2: But what is that journey being like for you? 96 00:04:31,880 --> 00:04:33,400 Speaker 3: Can you give us a bit of a behind the 97 00:04:33,440 --> 00:04:35,080 Speaker 3: scenes of how you got there? 98 00:04:35,600 --> 00:04:36,000 Speaker 2: Yeah. 99 00:04:36,200 --> 00:04:39,360 Speaker 6: I was talking to someone recently about this actually, and 100 00:04:40,320 --> 00:04:43,400 Speaker 6: I feel like, obviously throughout my life, I have days 101 00:04:43,400 --> 00:04:45,880 Speaker 6: where I feel this confident and like moments or things 102 00:04:45,880 --> 00:04:48,360 Speaker 6: will happen and I you know, that knocks my confidence back, 103 00:04:48,400 --> 00:04:51,039 Speaker 6: whether it's body confidence or just confidence. And you know, 104 00:04:51,080 --> 00:04:53,400 Speaker 6: like I studied paramedicine doing that, like I failed a 105 00:04:53,440 --> 00:04:57,000 Speaker 6: paper once like that. Not my confidence back, I definitely 106 00:04:57,040 --> 00:04:59,840 Speaker 6: like it comes and goes depending on the vibes at 107 00:04:59,839 --> 00:05:02,920 Speaker 6: the ti time. But like in terms of body confidence, 108 00:05:03,520 --> 00:05:08,000 Speaker 6: I've kind of just like always had it there, but 109 00:05:08,080 --> 00:05:10,400 Speaker 6: I knew that there was always that pressure to like, 110 00:05:10,600 --> 00:05:12,840 Speaker 6: you know, lose weight or look a certain way and 111 00:05:13,000 --> 00:05:15,080 Speaker 6: be this way because then boys will like you and 112 00:05:15,760 --> 00:05:18,720 Speaker 6: you'll be successful if you look like this. I always 113 00:05:18,720 --> 00:05:21,640 Speaker 6: had that pressure and so I was aware of that 114 00:05:21,720 --> 00:05:25,240 Speaker 6: all the time. But I think my whole life, I've 115 00:05:25,279 --> 00:05:28,880 Speaker 6: never let my confidence or like my body stop me 116 00:05:29,200 --> 00:05:31,320 Speaker 6: from doing the things I want to do. And I 117 00:05:31,360 --> 00:05:32,960 Speaker 6: think that's the key, Like I'm never going to get 118 00:05:32,960 --> 00:05:34,760 Speaker 6: to a point where I'm like, I'm going to be 119 00:05:34,760 --> 00:05:37,640 Speaker 6: confident every single day forever and ever done. 120 00:05:37,760 --> 00:05:40,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I've done that on to the next thing. 121 00:05:40,240 --> 00:05:44,000 Speaker 6: Yeah, Like it's not like that, but I just I 122 00:05:44,040 --> 00:05:46,960 Speaker 6: promise myself that I'm just never gonna let that stop 123 00:05:47,000 --> 00:05:50,120 Speaker 6: me from doing something, whether it's I don't know, taking 124 00:05:50,120 --> 00:05:51,560 Speaker 6: the photo on the day where you feel like shit 125 00:05:51,640 --> 00:05:52,760 Speaker 6: and then you look back on it in like a 126 00:05:52,800 --> 00:05:53,600 Speaker 6: year's time and you. 127 00:05:53,480 --> 00:05:56,600 Speaker 2: Looks like it's wild. 128 00:05:57,120 --> 00:06:00,200 Speaker 6: So yeah, I think especially with age, like I'm I 129 00:06:00,279 --> 00:06:02,480 Speaker 6: just turned twenty nine almost, I'm like. 130 00:06:02,480 --> 00:06:03,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, terrifying. 131 00:06:04,839 --> 00:06:08,200 Speaker 6: I just feel like I look back on memories often 132 00:06:08,279 --> 00:06:10,560 Speaker 6: and I'm just like, oh, imagine if I hadn't have 133 00:06:10,640 --> 00:06:12,120 Speaker 6: done that or whatever. 134 00:06:12,279 --> 00:06:12,520 Speaker 2: Yeah. 135 00:06:12,760 --> 00:06:15,880 Speaker 6: I think confidence will always come and go, but you've 136 00:06:15,880 --> 00:06:18,120 Speaker 6: just got to like stick with it and know that 137 00:06:18,160 --> 00:06:21,360 Speaker 6: you have won life and don't let anything stops you 138 00:06:21,400 --> 00:06:22,080 Speaker 6: and what you want to do. 139 00:06:22,240 --> 00:06:23,560 Speaker 5: I think that's a good way to look at it 140 00:06:23,600 --> 00:06:26,280 Speaker 5: as well, because you know how there's like the positive 141 00:06:26,320 --> 00:06:28,760 Speaker 5: way of being. Like you know when you've got a 142 00:06:28,800 --> 00:06:31,240 Speaker 5: really fucking good outfit and you're like, yeah, this hits 143 00:06:31,400 --> 00:06:34,720 Speaker 5: this slabs and you're walking around like on water cookie 144 00:06:34,800 --> 00:06:36,680 Speaker 5: it do or off its hinges. But you know, when 145 00:06:36,680 --> 00:06:38,880 Speaker 5: you plan the outfit in your head and it's supposed 146 00:06:38,880 --> 00:06:39,960 Speaker 5: to look really good and then you put it on, 147 00:06:40,000 --> 00:06:42,680 Speaker 5: you're like fuck yeah, And I feel like nothing knocks 148 00:06:42,680 --> 00:06:44,960 Speaker 5: your confidence more than that when the outfit you're planned 149 00:06:44,960 --> 00:06:49,080 Speaker 5: in your head doesn't line up to like the mysim's version, yeah, 150 00:06:49,080 --> 00:06:49,600 Speaker 5: and you're like. 151 00:06:49,640 --> 00:06:53,400 Speaker 6: You're standing in your room, yeah yeah, and as much 152 00:06:53,400 --> 00:06:56,000 Speaker 6: as we want to say how we look doesn't tap 153 00:06:56,040 --> 00:06:56,799 Speaker 6: into our confidence. 154 00:06:56,839 --> 00:06:59,120 Speaker 4: Like when that happens, it feels like self sabotage. 155 00:06:59,560 --> 00:07:02,440 Speaker 5: How do you like pull your brain out of that 156 00:07:02,520 --> 00:07:05,000 Speaker 5: and be like, fuck this, I'm gonna be confident. 157 00:07:05,480 --> 00:07:08,160 Speaker 6: Well, I think, first of all, confidence does come from within, 158 00:07:08,400 --> 00:07:12,120 Speaker 6: because like on that note, it's all like relative to 159 00:07:12,400 --> 00:07:14,880 Speaker 6: how you think. Right, someone else could see that outfit 160 00:07:14,880 --> 00:07:16,920 Speaker 6: and be like that is the fucking coolest outfit I've 161 00:07:16,960 --> 00:07:19,760 Speaker 6: ever seen, and like, who are you doing it for? 162 00:07:19,840 --> 00:07:23,200 Speaker 2: Like other people or you? So I think like you 163 00:07:23,240 --> 00:07:24,120 Speaker 2: can look. 164 00:07:23,880 --> 00:07:28,120 Speaker 6: Confident at confident and feel confident and show that and 165 00:07:28,160 --> 00:07:30,440 Speaker 6: push through that like feeling of oh my god, I 166 00:07:30,440 --> 00:07:31,720 Speaker 6: look like shit, do you? 167 00:07:32,000 --> 00:07:33,240 Speaker 2: Or like is that all in your head? 168 00:07:33,400 --> 00:07:33,600 Speaker 3: Do you? 169 00:07:33,640 --> 00:07:34,720 Speaker 2: Yeah? 170 00:07:34,760 --> 00:07:37,680 Speaker 6: And also I think like at that moment, let's see, 171 00:07:37,680 --> 00:07:39,440 Speaker 6: you're standing in front of your mirror, you feel like shit, 172 00:07:39,480 --> 00:07:42,440 Speaker 6: outfit hasn't worked whatever it is. You have two choices, right, 173 00:07:42,920 --> 00:07:45,240 Speaker 6: I mean three, find a different outfit and look better, 174 00:07:48,160 --> 00:07:50,480 Speaker 6: or if you have to stand this outfit, you either 175 00:07:50,520 --> 00:07:54,080 Speaker 6: have a shit time and then you're actually like self sabotaging. 176 00:07:53,560 --> 00:07:55,920 Speaker 2: And ruining even more. You're the only one who. 177 00:07:55,920 --> 00:07:58,640 Speaker 6: Is like going to be affected by it or yeah, 178 00:07:58,720 --> 00:08:00,600 Speaker 6: you just get on with it and have night and then, 179 00:08:00,640 --> 00:08:02,280 Speaker 6: like I said, you're gonna look back at it in 180 00:08:02,280 --> 00:08:06,600 Speaker 6: a year's time and think you look fucking good, Like realistically. 181 00:08:05,960 --> 00:08:08,840 Speaker 5: Yeah, you're My favorite thing is I was watching I 182 00:08:08,880 --> 00:08:10,440 Speaker 5: think it was like a hale. You were showing some 183 00:08:10,520 --> 00:08:12,760 Speaker 5: outfits and in it you're like, you're gonna hate this. 184 00:08:13,480 --> 00:08:15,640 Speaker 2: You like to the game and you're like, you're not. 185 00:08:15,560 --> 00:08:16,160 Speaker 5: Gonna like it. 186 00:08:16,400 --> 00:08:19,640 Speaker 4: I guess what I really do, and that's what matters. 187 00:08:20,520 --> 00:08:23,840 Speaker 6: I'm just like, especially some of my fashion choices, like 188 00:08:23,880 --> 00:08:26,680 Speaker 6: I like to experiment, and I think that's why fashion 189 00:08:26,720 --> 00:08:29,160 Speaker 6: is so fun, because like you put the funny shoes 190 00:08:29,160 --> 00:08:30,640 Speaker 6: on that everyone hates, and at the end of the day, 191 00:08:30,640 --> 00:08:32,040 Speaker 6: he said, what they come off and we've all got 192 00:08:32,040 --> 00:08:32,720 Speaker 6: bare feet. 193 00:08:32,559 --> 00:08:34,280 Speaker 2: Or sock some bit, do you know what I mean? Like, 194 00:08:34,760 --> 00:08:36,240 Speaker 2: it's it's just clothes. 195 00:08:36,400 --> 00:08:39,160 Speaker 6: Like if you want to try something, just do it. 196 00:08:39,160 --> 00:08:41,280 Speaker 6: It's coming off, and like whatever, if you decide you 197 00:08:41,280 --> 00:08:43,200 Speaker 6: don't like it after wear it once, I mean, not 198 00:08:43,240 --> 00:08:44,960 Speaker 6: great for the environment, and we don't con in doing that, 199 00:08:45,000 --> 00:08:46,959 Speaker 6: but then wear something else. 200 00:08:46,760 --> 00:08:49,920 Speaker 2: Like you give it a shot. It's it's just clothes. 201 00:08:49,960 --> 00:08:50,960 Speaker 2: It's not that serious. 202 00:08:51,040 --> 00:08:53,760 Speaker 6: And so when I decide to, you know, like pick 203 00:08:53,840 --> 00:08:56,400 Speaker 6: something up or show it in a hall on TikTok, 204 00:08:56,440 --> 00:08:59,240 Speaker 6: like I already know the people that get it and 205 00:08:59,280 --> 00:09:01,400 Speaker 6: the people that don't and the people. 206 00:09:01,160 --> 00:09:01,880 Speaker 4: That don't care. 207 00:09:02,240 --> 00:09:06,520 Speaker 5: Yeah, like it might like I get it, yeah exactly, 208 00:09:06,600 --> 00:09:09,439 Speaker 5: but I might not wear it, but I love That 209 00:09:09,600 --> 00:09:10,600 Speaker 5: sounds so condescending. 210 00:09:11,160 --> 00:09:13,160 Speaker 2: I might not, but I love that you do. 211 00:09:14,840 --> 00:09:22,520 Speaker 5: So yeah, I have been like they understand free will. Yeah, 212 00:09:22,760 --> 00:09:26,120 Speaker 5: and that's like where confidence comes from, especially I think 213 00:09:26,160 --> 00:09:28,360 Speaker 5: with fashion and playing around free will. 214 00:09:28,640 --> 00:09:31,160 Speaker 3: Yeah. Honestly, have you always been like that or do 215 00:09:31,160 --> 00:09:34,120 Speaker 3: you feel like that's taken time to have that confidence 216 00:09:34,120 --> 00:09:34,960 Speaker 3: and self assurance? 217 00:09:35,000 --> 00:09:36,880 Speaker 2: Like, well fuck it if nobody else likes. 218 00:09:36,760 --> 00:09:39,199 Speaker 4: It, I like it, and I'm comfortable because. 219 00:09:38,920 --> 00:09:41,520 Speaker 2: You have some iconic looks. Rightly, Oh thank you. 220 00:09:41,679 --> 00:09:44,280 Speaker 6: I feel like I've always had it, like, especially growing 221 00:09:44,360 --> 00:09:47,160 Speaker 6: up being the bigger friend. I would always have to 222 00:09:47,520 --> 00:09:49,520 Speaker 6: like have Mum like sew me up something for an 223 00:09:49,559 --> 00:09:51,079 Speaker 6: of vin or like I was wearing like a skirt 224 00:09:51,080 --> 00:09:53,240 Speaker 6: as a top, Like I was always doing different things, 225 00:09:53,440 --> 00:09:56,880 Speaker 6: and I always remember like I have never liked to 226 00:09:56,880 --> 00:09:59,320 Speaker 6: blend in like on mufty days at school, like I 227 00:09:59,360 --> 00:10:01,920 Speaker 6: will be playing my foot and I'll make sure it's 228 00:10:01,920 --> 00:10:04,280 Speaker 6: like something different, like I don't want to blend them. 229 00:10:04,760 --> 00:10:07,280 Speaker 6: So I think that's kind of been something that has 230 00:10:07,720 --> 00:10:11,040 Speaker 6: repeated itself throughout my life. But I do think that 231 00:10:11,080 --> 00:10:13,280 Speaker 6: in the last couple of years, I can look back 232 00:10:13,480 --> 00:10:18,040 Speaker 6: on things like a year ago and be like, I'd 233 00:10:18,040 --> 00:10:20,240 Speaker 6: still wear that, whereas when I was younger, like I'll 234 00:10:20,240 --> 00:10:24,439 Speaker 6: look back on things and be like, oh, she gave 235 00:10:24,480 --> 00:10:24,760 Speaker 6: it a go. 236 00:10:25,160 --> 00:10:29,320 Speaker 5: Yeah. When I look back though on things that I'm like, oh, 237 00:10:30,000 --> 00:10:32,720 Speaker 5: I can always like, nine times out of ten, I 238 00:10:32,720 --> 00:10:34,920 Speaker 5: think I was wearing that for someone else. Like if 239 00:10:34,960 --> 00:10:38,319 Speaker 5: I look back on something that I'm like, that's the choice. 240 00:10:38,720 --> 00:10:41,160 Speaker 5: I think it's because I was following what was cool 241 00:10:41,520 --> 00:10:44,640 Speaker 5: a yeah, or what I thought like I should wear, 242 00:10:44,800 --> 00:10:47,560 Speaker 5: or I was dressing for other people to get to 243 00:10:47,559 --> 00:10:50,640 Speaker 5: get confidence, which is like low quality confidence yeah right, 244 00:10:51,120 --> 00:10:52,960 Speaker 5: rather than for my own. 245 00:10:53,320 --> 00:10:55,360 Speaker 4: Whereas now I think and you guys will get this. 246 00:10:55,320 --> 00:10:58,400 Speaker 5: As we get older, we experiment and we play with 247 00:10:58,520 --> 00:11:01,079 Speaker 5: more that I'm like, if I'm reaping cowboy boots, no 248 00:11:01,160 --> 00:11:03,600 Speaker 5: one can touch me and untouchable. 249 00:11:03,160 --> 00:11:05,840 Speaker 6: You're just more like self assured, hey, like you know 250 00:11:05,880 --> 00:11:08,520 Speaker 6: who you are and like, yeah, if someone doesn't like 251 00:11:08,600 --> 00:11:10,679 Speaker 6: what you're wearing, You're like, well, I'm still me, and 252 00:11:10,720 --> 00:11:17,000 Speaker 6: like you can hate my boots, but you can't not 253 00:11:17,040 --> 00:11:24,120 Speaker 6: the cowboy birds allegal cowboy bears, not like cowboy boots honestly. 254 00:11:25,559 --> 00:11:28,040 Speaker 2: So we've kind of already touched on it lightly. 255 00:11:28,160 --> 00:11:31,800 Speaker 5: But you've been very open about your journey with body image. 256 00:11:31,800 --> 00:11:36,120 Speaker 5: What pivotal moments help you shift from focusing about changing 257 00:11:36,160 --> 00:11:38,679 Speaker 5: the way you look or losing weight to self worth. 258 00:11:38,840 --> 00:11:42,360 Speaker 6: I think there was definitely a moment there where I 259 00:11:42,360 --> 00:11:44,440 Speaker 6: had my Instagram going and I lost a bunch of weight, 260 00:11:44,480 --> 00:11:46,600 Speaker 6: and I kind of got to a point where I mean, 261 00:11:46,640 --> 00:11:48,400 Speaker 6: I don't think I've ever been skinny in my life, 262 00:11:48,480 --> 00:11:50,640 Speaker 6: Like I literally have been like a bigger girl my 263 00:11:50,760 --> 00:11:52,160 Speaker 6: entire life, so I don't actually know what it's like 264 00:11:52,200 --> 00:11:54,160 Speaker 6: to be skinny, but I was definitely skinny for me, 265 00:11:55,000 --> 00:11:56,520 Speaker 6: and I kind of got to that point and I 266 00:11:56,559 --> 00:11:58,440 Speaker 6: remember like looking at photos and being like, oh, like 267 00:11:58,679 --> 00:11:59,199 Speaker 6: why did I. 268 00:11:59,120 --> 00:12:01,000 Speaker 2: Think my entire life going to change when I like 269 00:12:01,040 --> 00:12:01,680 Speaker 2: look different? 270 00:12:02,559 --> 00:12:05,040 Speaker 6: So I think that was definitely a moment, But my 271 00:12:05,120 --> 00:12:07,280 Speaker 6: whole life I've just kind of like been you know, 272 00:12:07,360 --> 00:12:10,120 Speaker 6: I'll jump on that weight loss thing and growing up 273 00:12:10,160 --> 00:12:13,640 Speaker 6: that was just the vibe. I feel like it wasn't 274 00:12:13,720 --> 00:12:16,160 Speaker 6: until that point when I did that whole like you know, 275 00:12:16,360 --> 00:12:19,400 Speaker 6: get to that point where finally, I guess like if 276 00:12:19,400 --> 00:12:21,000 Speaker 6: you can relate to that and you've like tried to 277 00:12:21,120 --> 00:12:22,760 Speaker 6: kind of yo yo diet your whole life and like 278 00:12:23,040 --> 00:12:26,080 Speaker 6: finally lose weight, that that was a point where I 279 00:12:26,120 --> 00:12:31,280 Speaker 6: was like, oh hmm, okay, like still me, life is life, 280 00:12:31,440 --> 00:12:33,640 Speaker 6: and like I'm just gonna kind of look after my 281 00:12:33,679 --> 00:12:35,800 Speaker 6: body no matter what I look like, and it's not 282 00:12:35,840 --> 00:12:39,160 Speaker 6: about what I look like, but also like I can 283 00:12:39,280 --> 00:12:41,880 Speaker 6: look good at any size. I think like that was 284 00:12:41,920 --> 00:12:45,560 Speaker 6: for It's not so much about like going you know, 285 00:12:45,600 --> 00:12:47,760 Speaker 6: I'm just gonna like I don't have to look like 286 00:12:48,160 --> 00:12:49,199 Speaker 6: I don't have to look a certain way. 287 00:12:49,360 --> 00:12:51,880 Speaker 2: I can look whatever. Like I can also look great 288 00:12:52,200 --> 00:12:53,079 Speaker 2: at a size. 289 00:12:52,840 --> 00:12:55,480 Speaker 6: Eighteen and whatever size I was when I lost the weight, 290 00:12:55,559 --> 00:12:59,000 Speaker 6: And it's just that era of your life. Like often 291 00:12:59,040 --> 00:13:02,000 Speaker 6: people all in love with like you know, pilates and 292 00:13:02,360 --> 00:13:04,920 Speaker 6: get into that and they might tone up or lose 293 00:13:04,960 --> 00:13:07,520 Speaker 6: weight without actually trying to and that's just the error 294 00:13:07,559 --> 00:13:09,840 Speaker 6: of their life. And then find a new partner. You 295 00:13:09,920 --> 00:13:11,880 Speaker 6: do the you know, going out for dinner dates all 296 00:13:11,880 --> 00:13:13,520 Speaker 6: the time, and it's just that eerror of your life 297 00:13:13,520 --> 00:13:15,240 Speaker 6: where you might put on a bit more weight. And 298 00:13:15,280 --> 00:13:17,760 Speaker 6: I just think, like, if we focus so much on 299 00:13:17,880 --> 00:13:21,080 Speaker 6: how our body looks all the time, it's exhausting, Like 300 00:13:21,120 --> 00:13:24,120 Speaker 6: it literally is so exhausting. So yeah, I think there's 301 00:13:24,120 --> 00:13:27,280 Speaker 6: definitely points in my life where I've gone like, oh, 302 00:13:27,400 --> 00:13:31,320 Speaker 6: like little light bulb moments. But I think I'm always 303 00:13:31,360 --> 00:13:34,240 Speaker 6: going to have that in my brain. I'm never going 304 00:13:34,280 --> 00:13:36,000 Speaker 6: to get to a point where I'm not like, oh, 305 00:13:36,200 --> 00:13:38,920 Speaker 6: you know, I don't look at my body a certain 306 00:13:38,960 --> 00:13:41,079 Speaker 6: way or it's just as what it is. I'm a 307 00:13:41,120 --> 00:13:43,400 Speaker 6: bigger girl. Of course society is gonna look at me 308 00:13:43,480 --> 00:13:46,480 Speaker 6: some type of way. But yeah, I just I don't know. 309 00:13:46,640 --> 00:13:49,240 Speaker 6: I think I'm just like, fuck it, I've. 310 00:13:49,080 --> 00:13:52,280 Speaker 2: Got one life, one life. 311 00:13:52,440 --> 00:13:55,160 Speaker 6: I'm not gonna not do stuff because of the way 312 00:13:55,160 --> 00:13:58,319 Speaker 6: that society thinks I should should and shouldn't look. 313 00:13:58,320 --> 00:14:01,920 Speaker 3: Exactly, And especially as we're and like I'm already in 314 00:14:01,960 --> 00:14:04,000 Speaker 3: my thirties, you guys are in your late twenties. Like 315 00:14:04,120 --> 00:14:06,840 Speaker 3: that pressure to look a certain way only gets more 316 00:14:06,880 --> 00:14:09,679 Speaker 3: and more difficult to reckon with as you grow older. 317 00:14:09,760 --> 00:14:13,400 Speaker 5: I think it's a slippery slope, like a bit different. 318 00:14:13,440 --> 00:14:15,439 Speaker 5: But like I started getting lip filler when I was 319 00:14:15,440 --> 00:14:18,960 Speaker 5: like eighteen and one, Like I've spoken about this before, 320 00:14:19,000 --> 00:14:20,560 Speaker 5: and I'm like, eighteen year old. 321 00:14:20,440 --> 00:14:22,720 Speaker 2: Should absolutely not be able to get lip filler. 322 00:14:22,760 --> 00:14:26,360 Speaker 5: Because I just went down like the biggest train of 323 00:14:26,400 --> 00:14:28,560 Speaker 5: like that's not enough. Now I've got to get this, 324 00:14:29,360 --> 00:14:31,200 Speaker 5: and I'm now going to get this. I looked like 325 00:14:31,240 --> 00:14:32,240 Speaker 5: handsome squid. 326 00:14:31,920 --> 00:14:37,480 Speaker 4: Word like it was a couple of months was fucked. 327 00:14:37,800 --> 00:14:41,160 Speaker 5: I had pointy cheeks, bro Like I looked like malefison 328 00:14:41,240 --> 00:14:45,800 Speaker 5: and not in a cundy way, like it was like 329 00:14:46,240 --> 00:14:52,200 Speaker 5: an angel, but like it was scary, and like what's 330 00:14:52,360 --> 00:14:54,880 Speaker 5: worse is that I look at those photos. 331 00:14:54,400 --> 00:14:57,600 Speaker 4: And I'm like who is that? Like who is that? 332 00:14:57,680 --> 00:15:03,280 Speaker 5: Because genuinely, you just stop seeing yourself, like it's like 333 00:15:03,320 --> 00:15:04,600 Speaker 5: you're hiding behind this thing. 334 00:15:04,720 --> 00:15:08,600 Speaker 4: And I truly thought once I was. 335 00:15:08,640 --> 00:15:11,440 Speaker 5: Pretty, I would be confident, and it was like this 336 00:15:11,520 --> 00:15:15,800 Speaker 5: thing that I never ever got confident until I dissolved 337 00:15:15,880 --> 00:15:18,000 Speaker 5: all of it and I was like, oh, I'm good, 338 00:15:18,440 --> 00:15:20,760 Speaker 5: and like now I have like I have botox and 339 00:15:20,800 --> 00:15:22,720 Speaker 5: a little bit of it filler now and stuff like that. 340 00:15:23,040 --> 00:15:27,000 Speaker 5: But going down and having that journey, which I think 341 00:15:27,480 --> 00:15:30,320 Speaker 5: when you said the light bulb moments, I just related 342 00:15:30,320 --> 00:15:32,040 Speaker 5: to you, and you still have moments like I'll still the 343 00:15:32,080 --> 00:15:34,240 Speaker 5: moments where I'm like, I. 344 00:15:35,760 --> 00:15:38,320 Speaker 6: See she was so many Like we're constantly consuming hey, 345 00:15:38,400 --> 00:15:43,560 Speaker 6: like scroll got like something done? 346 00:15:43,120 --> 00:15:51,400 Speaker 5: No? Maybe, like I always constantly have to check myself 347 00:15:51,440 --> 00:15:52,640 Speaker 5: with stuff like that. 348 00:15:52,760 --> 00:15:54,880 Speaker 4: And I kind of like what you're saying. I don't 349 00:15:54,920 --> 00:15:58,080 Speaker 4: ever think it's like, oh, done, because the world would 350 00:15:58,160 --> 00:15:58,800 Speaker 4: go into. 351 00:15:58,640 --> 00:16:00,680 Speaker 5: The pits because I'd be like, how will we get 352 00:16:00,720 --> 00:16:02,080 Speaker 5: women to shop here. 353 00:16:02,200 --> 00:16:03,160 Speaker 2: If they're confident? 354 00:16:03,520 --> 00:16:03,720 Speaker 1: Yeah? 355 00:16:05,960 --> 00:16:06,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, so true. 356 00:16:06,840 --> 00:16:08,680 Speaker 3: But I think knowing that and almost using that as 357 00:16:08,720 --> 00:16:11,000 Speaker 3: a form of rebellion, yeah, because that can give you 358 00:16:11,040 --> 00:16:12,640 Speaker 3: the fire to be like, fuck you, I'm just going 359 00:16:12,720 --> 00:16:13,800 Speaker 3: to do whatever I want. 360 00:16:13,840 --> 00:16:15,400 Speaker 2: And something that I absolutely love. 361 00:16:15,320 --> 00:16:18,000 Speaker 3: That you said is that you can look beautiful and 362 00:16:18,080 --> 00:16:21,360 Speaker 3: cool no matter what size you are or no matter 363 00:16:21,480 --> 00:16:24,920 Speaker 3: how you look, really, and it is about that confidence 364 00:16:25,040 --> 00:16:27,760 Speaker 3: and giving yourself permission and the free will to play 365 00:16:27,760 --> 00:16:31,520 Speaker 3: with style. Do you have any tips for anybody out there, 366 00:16:31,680 --> 00:16:33,920 Speaker 3: regardless of what they look like, but who thinks like 367 00:16:34,680 --> 00:16:37,360 Speaker 3: I can't wear that until I look like this, but 368 00:16:37,400 --> 00:16:39,560 Speaker 3: they want to play with their style? 369 00:16:39,920 --> 00:16:44,000 Speaker 6: Yeah, I think you obviously, like in order to feel confident, 370 00:16:44,040 --> 00:16:46,920 Speaker 6: you also have to look good to you, Like what 371 00:16:46,920 --> 00:16:48,800 Speaker 6: we're saying, on those days where you put an outfit on, 372 00:16:48,840 --> 00:16:52,040 Speaker 6: you're just like I actually can't even bear this. Then 373 00:16:52,760 --> 00:16:55,720 Speaker 6: you're gonna have to really like push yourself through that. 374 00:16:56,120 --> 00:16:59,880 Speaker 6: So I think, like find that comfort zone and just 375 00:17:00,000 --> 00:17:01,960 Speaker 6: push that little bit outside of it. Like I know 376 00:17:02,000 --> 00:17:05,879 Speaker 6: some people, I see tiktoks all the time about you know, 377 00:17:05,920 --> 00:17:08,480 Speaker 6: outfits to hide your arms, Like lots of people have 378 00:17:09,240 --> 00:17:11,960 Speaker 6: insecurities about their arms, and people come up with great 379 00:17:11,960 --> 00:17:13,960 Speaker 6: ideas to like ease people, and like, you know, you 380 00:17:13,960 --> 00:17:16,399 Speaker 6: can wear like those little I mean, I've got a 381 00:17:16,440 --> 00:17:21,479 Speaker 6: cardi on today, Like there's ways just push outside your 382 00:17:21,480 --> 00:17:24,760 Speaker 6: comfort zone. But then just remember, like you're gonna you 383 00:17:24,760 --> 00:17:27,200 Speaker 6: can wear something else tomorrow that makes you feel more confident, 384 00:17:27,280 --> 00:17:27,720 Speaker 6: Like just. 385 00:17:28,280 --> 00:17:31,080 Speaker 2: Do it, try and push through the day, see how 386 00:17:31,119 --> 00:17:31,520 Speaker 2: you feel. 387 00:17:31,760 --> 00:17:34,000 Speaker 6: Another thing is like being around people that are supportive 388 00:17:34,040 --> 00:17:36,119 Speaker 6: and like choose your moment. If you want to experiment 389 00:17:36,400 --> 00:17:38,439 Speaker 6: when you're going out with the friends that make you 390 00:17:38,480 --> 00:17:41,280 Speaker 6: feel the best, do it there, yeah, or like wear 391 00:17:41,280 --> 00:17:43,680 Speaker 6: it around the house, like take pics in the mirror, 392 00:17:44,160 --> 00:17:46,040 Speaker 6: practice your poses at home before you go out and 393 00:17:46,080 --> 00:17:46,760 Speaker 6: take pecks like. 394 00:17:46,760 --> 00:17:49,120 Speaker 4: I do that. Yeah, you have to come in the left. 395 00:17:49,119 --> 00:17:51,720 Speaker 2: I'll be like, that's the one I say. Just give 396 00:17:51,760 --> 00:17:53,440 Speaker 2: it a go, push it outside that little comfort zone. 397 00:17:53,640 --> 00:17:56,480 Speaker 6: It's just clothes, it's just make up, it's just fashion. Whatever, 398 00:17:57,000 --> 00:17:58,040 Speaker 6: take it off at the end of the day. 399 00:17:58,200 --> 00:17:58,560 Speaker 4: Yeah. 400 00:17:58,600 --> 00:18:00,800 Speaker 5: And I also read this once and it was like, 401 00:18:00,840 --> 00:18:03,960 Speaker 5: you're not a bad feminist, but not feeling confident either. 402 00:18:04,280 --> 00:18:07,200 Speaker 4: Like sometimes I think we get in our heads because 403 00:18:07,240 --> 00:18:08,640 Speaker 4: we are so supportive. 404 00:18:08,200 --> 00:18:10,800 Speaker 5: Of other women that when we're applying it to ourselves, 405 00:18:10,840 --> 00:18:12,880 Speaker 5: we're like, fucking my failure. Like if you feel self 406 00:18:12,920 --> 00:18:15,320 Speaker 5: conscious about wearing your arms out and you're like, but 407 00:18:15,359 --> 00:18:17,280 Speaker 5: you would never see that on someone else, you can 408 00:18:17,359 --> 00:18:18,919 Speaker 5: kind of internalize that a bit and be like, oh, 409 00:18:18,920 --> 00:18:20,920 Speaker 5: I'm a bad feminist or I'm not body positive. 410 00:18:20,680 --> 00:18:21,360 Speaker 4: Or anything like that. 411 00:18:21,720 --> 00:18:23,760 Speaker 5: I like that tip because it's like it's okay, you 412 00:18:23,800 --> 00:18:26,480 Speaker 5: don't have to be at the end results straight away. 413 00:18:26,760 --> 00:18:29,040 Speaker 6: No, and like you can beat the end result on 414 00:18:29,040 --> 00:18:30,880 Speaker 6: one day and then the next day you're not going to. 415 00:18:30,800 --> 00:18:33,520 Speaker 2: Be like it's yeah, it's a whole thing. 416 00:18:33,600 --> 00:18:37,119 Speaker 6: And I also think so many of us think people 417 00:18:37,320 --> 00:18:39,679 Speaker 6: think things about us when they don't. Like it's like 418 00:18:39,680 --> 00:18:41,719 Speaker 6: when you think, oh my god, that person's looking at 419 00:18:41,720 --> 00:18:44,160 Speaker 6: me this way. Like I have a real like anxiety 420 00:18:44,200 --> 00:18:46,959 Speaker 6: with the gym, Like I don't like going by myself, 421 00:18:47,000 --> 00:18:48,680 Speaker 6: like I liked it once I'm in there, I'm fine, 422 00:18:48,680 --> 00:18:49,720 Speaker 6: but it's just like getting in. 423 00:18:49,720 --> 00:18:51,720 Speaker 2: Getting it and I can't do it, but I'd rather go. 424 00:18:53,200 --> 00:18:56,000 Speaker 6: And so I I always like the other day I 425 00:18:56,000 --> 00:18:59,040 Speaker 6: see to him. I was like, like, the big gimman 426 00:18:59,119 --> 00:19:02,119 Speaker 6: are gonna think I'm fair and ugly? And he was like, 427 00:19:02,560 --> 00:19:04,639 Speaker 6: they haven't said there and they're probably not even thinking it, 428 00:19:04,720 --> 00:19:06,560 Speaker 6: like you have made that up about them. So like 429 00:19:06,600 --> 00:19:08,840 Speaker 6: obviously I was having like a you know, low body 430 00:19:08,880 --> 00:19:12,160 Speaker 6: confidence day or whatever it is, and I was like, wait, yeah, 431 00:19:12,200 --> 00:19:14,679 Speaker 6: like I've literally made that up, like I am the 432 00:19:14,760 --> 00:19:18,320 Speaker 6: problem here. Yeah, Like it's actually not someone else saying it. 433 00:19:18,560 --> 00:19:20,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, so no one cares as much as you do. 434 00:19:20,960 --> 00:19:24,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, And you did touch on it briefly before, But 435 00:19:24,200 --> 00:19:28,560 Speaker 3: you transition from being working as a paramedic into doing 436 00:19:28,600 --> 00:19:32,200 Speaker 3: content creation full time and then launching several successful small 437 00:19:32,200 --> 00:19:33,640 Speaker 3: businesses off of the back of that. 438 00:19:33,880 --> 00:19:35,159 Speaker 2: How did you get through that? 439 00:19:35,359 --> 00:19:38,080 Speaker 3: Firstly, because I'm sure that would have been you would 440 00:19:38,080 --> 00:19:40,439 Speaker 3: have had a lot of like conversation with yourself, like, well, 441 00:19:40,480 --> 00:19:43,320 Speaker 3: I've spent all this time studying, Like it's a big risk. 442 00:19:43,480 --> 00:19:45,600 Speaker 3: So do you have any advice for anybody else who 443 00:19:45,640 --> 00:19:48,359 Speaker 3: was thinking of like making the jump between careers and 444 00:19:48,359 --> 00:19:49,320 Speaker 3: how did you get through that? 445 00:19:49,760 --> 00:19:50,119 Speaker 2: Yeah? 446 00:19:50,200 --> 00:19:53,639 Speaker 6: I think for me, I sat on it for a 447 00:19:53,640 --> 00:19:57,840 Speaker 6: long time. I also spoke to like my colleagues, my friends. 448 00:19:58,359 --> 00:19:59,840 Speaker 6: I didn't speak to my parents straight away because I 449 00:19:59,880 --> 00:20:01,920 Speaker 6: kne that they would be like, what are you doing? 450 00:20:02,840 --> 00:20:07,320 Speaker 6: So I got lots of different opinions. I looked forward 451 00:20:07,359 --> 00:20:10,520 Speaker 6: into the future and thought like will I regreat if 452 00:20:10,560 --> 00:20:12,240 Speaker 6: I make this decision, or will I regret for making 453 00:20:12,280 --> 00:20:12,880 Speaker 6: this decision. 454 00:20:13,320 --> 00:20:16,240 Speaker 2: I also it was obviously a risk to. 455 00:20:16,280 --> 00:20:18,920 Speaker 6: Leave, you know, a job, which like when you get 456 00:20:18,920 --> 00:20:22,160 Speaker 6: into paramedism where I was working, it's like you kind 457 00:20:22,160 --> 00:20:23,760 Speaker 6: of just stay in it your whole life, Like it's 458 00:20:23,760 --> 00:20:26,359 Speaker 6: hard to get the job and then you just people 459 00:20:26,400 --> 00:20:29,600 Speaker 6: stay there till they retire. Yeah, So I knew that 460 00:20:29,600 --> 00:20:33,200 Speaker 6: that like that would be my life or I you know, I. 461 00:20:33,119 --> 00:20:37,359 Speaker 2: Was so young, I was what twenty three, right, twenty two? 462 00:20:37,640 --> 00:20:40,840 Speaker 6: Yeah, and I was just like I just I'm getting 463 00:20:40,880 --> 00:20:43,200 Speaker 6: like offered to go overseas on these trips and like 464 00:20:43,200 --> 00:20:43,960 Speaker 6: I've always want to do that. 465 00:20:44,000 --> 00:20:45,320 Speaker 2: I was like, oh my god, if I don't do this, 466 00:20:45,359 --> 00:20:46,159 Speaker 2: I'm going to regret it. 467 00:20:46,800 --> 00:20:49,920 Speaker 6: I made sure that I had like contracts lined up 468 00:20:50,040 --> 00:20:54,400 Speaker 6: before I left, so I had myself in that way. 469 00:20:54,480 --> 00:20:56,960 Speaker 6: But I also think, like you just have to make 470 00:20:57,040 --> 00:21:00,800 Speaker 6: like a calculated jump, like a calculated risk, and like, Okay, 471 00:21:01,359 --> 00:21:03,280 Speaker 6: can I get back into you know, what I was 472 00:21:03,320 --> 00:21:05,680 Speaker 6: doing before if I really want to, Yeah, it'll be hard, 473 00:21:05,680 --> 00:21:08,640 Speaker 6: but like I've got my degree, so I can get 474 00:21:08,680 --> 00:21:10,439 Speaker 6: back into it, but I'd have to stay for a 475 00:21:10,520 --> 00:21:12,000 Speaker 6: very long time to pick all of that back up. 476 00:21:12,040 --> 00:21:14,520 Speaker 5: Did you ever have like an identity crisis with leaving 477 00:21:14,520 --> 00:21:16,880 Speaker 5: that job? You know how some people like can feel 478 00:21:17,520 --> 00:21:20,080 Speaker 5: like their identity is really tied to what they do, 479 00:21:20,760 --> 00:21:21,920 Speaker 5: and you can say no, like. 480 00:21:21,920 --> 00:21:24,080 Speaker 2: No, I was so young, and I don't think I 481 00:21:24,119 --> 00:21:25,040 Speaker 2: was doing it long enough. 482 00:21:25,080 --> 00:21:28,200 Speaker 6: Like I studied for four years and then I yeah, 483 00:21:28,320 --> 00:21:31,879 Speaker 6: went into my internship and I was working full time 484 00:21:31,960 --> 00:21:34,760 Speaker 6: like when I got the job for six months, so like. 485 00:21:34,760 --> 00:21:36,639 Speaker 2: I early in my career. 486 00:21:36,720 --> 00:21:40,480 Speaker 6: Really yeah, But I think, like it's so weird because 487 00:21:40,600 --> 00:21:42,400 Speaker 6: never in a million years would I even think this 488 00:21:42,440 --> 00:21:45,960 Speaker 6: would even be a job that I do or like 489 00:21:46,440 --> 00:21:48,280 Speaker 6: a job that I could do let alone, like a 490 00:21:48,359 --> 00:21:50,880 Speaker 6: job that actually exists ever, because like it wasn't when 491 00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:54,600 Speaker 6: I started doing Instagram. But when I look back into 492 00:21:54,720 --> 00:21:58,640 Speaker 6: my interests when I was in school, like I finished 493 00:21:58,760 --> 00:22:01,560 Speaker 6: art a year early because I was really like creative 494 00:22:01,600 --> 00:22:04,000 Speaker 6: and that side of things, and then my top subjects 495 00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:07,400 Speaker 6: were like pe and drama. So like, as much as 496 00:22:07,400 --> 00:22:09,840 Speaker 6: it's like wild every single opportunity I even get, I'm 497 00:22:09,840 --> 00:22:11,120 Speaker 6: still just like how is this real? 498 00:22:11,280 --> 00:22:13,679 Speaker 2: Am I in a simulation? Right now? It also just 499 00:22:13,760 --> 00:22:16,040 Speaker 2: feels really right, do you know what I mean? 500 00:22:16,080 --> 00:22:18,760 Speaker 6: So like I feel like maybe parimieds and like, yes, 501 00:22:18,800 --> 00:22:21,160 Speaker 6: I love the job, and you know, I went and 502 00:22:21,200 --> 00:22:22,879 Speaker 6: like obviously had to figure out what I wanted to 503 00:22:22,920 --> 00:22:24,720 Speaker 6: do and like did ride alongs and I studied for 504 00:22:24,760 --> 00:22:26,840 Speaker 6: so long and did lots of placements and chefs. 505 00:22:26,520 --> 00:22:28,960 Speaker 2: And I loved it and I loved aspects of it. 506 00:22:29,000 --> 00:22:31,919 Speaker 6: But like what I'm doing now is me Like it 507 00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:35,640 Speaker 6: really feels right. So yeah, I feel like I didn't 508 00:22:35,680 --> 00:22:36,800 Speaker 6: have an identity crisis. 509 00:22:36,840 --> 00:22:40,760 Speaker 5: I was a baby imposter syndrome gets thrown around so much, 510 00:22:41,000 --> 00:22:44,240 Speaker 5: but like you work so fucking hard and you do 511 00:22:44,280 --> 00:22:48,000 Speaker 5: a very great and good job of making it look 512 00:22:48,320 --> 00:22:51,280 Speaker 5: very natural and very and I'm sure it is like 513 00:22:51,320 --> 00:22:52,960 Speaker 5: I'm sure a lot of this comes to you very natural, 514 00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:55,800 Speaker 5: but you do work incredibly hard that I think that 515 00:22:55,960 --> 00:22:59,760 Speaker 5: is a great way to counter the imposter syndrome with confidence, 516 00:23:00,280 --> 00:23:02,919 Speaker 5: like yes, like these opportunities are here, but it's not 517 00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:06,000 Speaker 5: by accident, like I show up every single day and 518 00:23:06,160 --> 00:23:08,560 Speaker 5: like do what I do. And speaking of that, we 519 00:23:08,680 --> 00:23:11,520 Speaker 5: have to talk about Remy by Riley, because. 520 00:23:11,240 --> 00:23:15,119 Speaker 4: Like that obsessed like every other change. 521 00:23:15,560 --> 00:23:19,359 Speaker 5: Actually, I'm like, this is like the most iconic trio. 522 00:23:19,840 --> 00:23:22,600 Speaker 5: It's like you guys have to do fun, like some 523 00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:26,480 Speaker 5: absolutely diabolical Halloween fits this year or something like that. 524 00:23:26,960 --> 00:23:28,879 Speaker 6: We lift a ways to last minute last year, but 525 00:23:29,000 --> 00:23:30,520 Speaker 6: I feel like we need to like a Halloween party 526 00:23:30,600 --> 00:23:31,000 Speaker 6: or something. 527 00:23:32,600 --> 00:23:33,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, we have so much fun. 528 00:23:33,880 --> 00:23:35,920 Speaker 6: And obviously I started, well, not obviously, I started the 529 00:23:35,920 --> 00:23:38,360 Speaker 6: brand twenty twenty and it was started as active wear 530 00:23:38,359 --> 00:23:40,000 Speaker 6: and then it kind of went more into swimwear and 531 00:23:40,000 --> 00:23:43,359 Speaker 6: now we do swim and like our comfy tracksuits and 532 00:23:43,400 --> 00:23:43,920 Speaker 6: all the things. 533 00:23:44,160 --> 00:23:46,920 Speaker 2: But a result were and I were actually well got. 534 00:23:46,840 --> 00:23:51,080 Speaker 3: A list club with the accessories. 535 00:23:51,320 --> 00:23:55,159 Speaker 2: Don't for years the Jewelry, High Tide, Shout Out Jazz. 536 00:23:56,520 --> 00:23:56,760 Speaker 4: Yeah. 537 00:23:56,800 --> 00:23:59,679 Speaker 6: No, it's like obviously a really creative outlet for me, 538 00:23:59,800 --> 00:24:02,399 Speaker 6: and I started it because I didn't have my sizes 539 00:24:02,440 --> 00:24:03,640 Speaker 6: and the clothes that I wanted to wear. 540 00:24:03,680 --> 00:24:05,040 Speaker 2: So there's always that story there. 541 00:24:05,040 --> 00:24:07,439 Speaker 6: But the community that we've been able to build, like 542 00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:09,720 Speaker 6: over the last year has just been so fun, Like 543 00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:11,439 Speaker 6: all the little events that we do when we get 544 00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:13,639 Speaker 6: to Media Roun, like we just did the cafe pop up. 545 00:24:13,720 --> 00:24:15,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, I was like, E run's so funny. 546 00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:18,439 Speaker 6: Hey, Like I actually like they're all our friends essentially 547 00:24:18,440 --> 00:24:19,800 Speaker 6: at the end of the day, Like they watch us 548 00:24:19,880 --> 00:24:22,480 Speaker 6: and they think we're funny, and then like we're the 549 00:24:22,520 --> 00:24:23,280 Speaker 6: same humor. 550 00:24:23,960 --> 00:24:25,399 Speaker 2: And it's just yeah, it's really cool. 551 00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:28,720 Speaker 5: How have you like, would you have any tips for people, 552 00:24:28,760 --> 00:24:30,680 Speaker 5: because I feel like you guys have kind of set 553 00:24:30,720 --> 00:24:33,280 Speaker 5: a tone within the industry now, like when you see 554 00:24:33,320 --> 00:24:35,840 Speaker 5: people are hiring, they're like, we want like the Remy 555 00:24:35,880 --> 00:24:36,760 Speaker 5: by Riley. 556 00:24:36,520 --> 00:24:39,480 Speaker 4: The Fate, the like the EGC content vibes. 557 00:24:39,880 --> 00:24:43,199 Speaker 5: Do you have any tips for small business owners or 558 00:24:43,200 --> 00:24:45,399 Speaker 5: people who want to get into being a creator on 559 00:24:45,480 --> 00:24:48,600 Speaker 5: how they can tap into authenticity online? 560 00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:49,400 Speaker 2: Yeah. 561 00:24:49,560 --> 00:24:54,640 Speaker 6: I think obviously social media is amazing because it's free advertising, right, 562 00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:58,080 Speaker 6: Like every video that you put out, there's the potential 563 00:24:58,119 --> 00:25:00,760 Speaker 6: for it to go viral and completely chain your brand's 564 00:25:01,280 --> 00:25:03,800 Speaker 6: life and your life, like you see sixty stories like 565 00:25:03,800 --> 00:25:05,879 Speaker 6: that happen all the time. But in saying that, like 566 00:25:05,920 --> 00:25:07,840 Speaker 6: it doesn't always happen overnight, and you do have to 567 00:25:07,880 --> 00:25:11,480 Speaker 6: put that effort in. I think when you said authenticity, 568 00:25:11,520 --> 00:25:13,720 Speaker 6: like that is the main thing. I feel like you 569 00:25:13,720 --> 00:25:16,399 Speaker 6: can see straight through when like, of course everyone jumps 570 00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:18,600 Speaker 6: on trends, and that's like the whole thing about social media, right, 571 00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:21,360 Speaker 6: especially TikTok, Like you'll see the same video a. 572 00:25:21,320 --> 00:25:24,200 Speaker 2: Million times off. 573 00:25:24,320 --> 00:25:27,520 Speaker 6: Yeah, So I think having that authenticity to jump on 574 00:25:27,600 --> 00:25:31,119 Speaker 6: trends because they are like what your vibe is. 575 00:25:32,119 --> 00:25:36,399 Speaker 2: Obviously find it fun, yes, and it's still showing your personality. 576 00:25:36,480 --> 00:25:38,560 Speaker 6: Like if you're just jumping on a trend and it's 577 00:25:38,640 --> 00:25:41,040 Speaker 6: just the trend, like you're very rarely going to get 578 00:25:41,040 --> 00:25:43,520 Speaker 6: good views because it's not like there's got. 579 00:25:43,400 --> 00:25:44,240 Speaker 2: To be something else. 580 00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:47,440 Speaker 6: Yes, But I also think just like having a really 581 00:25:47,480 --> 00:25:51,439 Speaker 6: great team, like if you all get along generally and 582 00:25:51,480 --> 00:25:53,680 Speaker 6: it's like so funny and it's the like riffing in 583 00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:56,240 Speaker 6: the band, like most of our skits. We literally just 584 00:25:56,359 --> 00:25:59,040 Speaker 6: come up with them on like will be talking and 585 00:25:59,240 --> 00:26:00,840 Speaker 6: we'll say something, I'll be like, wait, we need a 586 00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:05,320 Speaker 6: film that Like, So it's it's that authenticity and I 587 00:26:05,359 --> 00:26:08,200 Speaker 6: think just have fun with it, like it's not that serious. 588 00:26:08,200 --> 00:26:09,000 Speaker 6: It's TikTok video. 589 00:26:09,240 --> 00:26:10,840 Speaker 2: Put it up. You might get tim views, you might 590 00:26:10,880 --> 00:26:12,360 Speaker 2: get tim million females. 591 00:26:12,440 --> 00:26:15,479 Speaker 5: The key is like you can kind of get a 592 00:26:15,480 --> 00:26:17,719 Speaker 5: bit like in your head being like what happens if 593 00:26:17,760 --> 00:26:20,720 Speaker 5: you get two hundred views, It's fine, it doesn't matter, like, 594 00:26:20,880 --> 00:26:22,040 Speaker 5: just keep going with it. 595 00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:23,920 Speaker 4: Has there ever because you guys do pranks? 596 00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:25,800 Speaker 2: He yes, has there. 597 00:26:25,680 --> 00:26:29,040 Speaker 4: Ever been a prank those girls that was like that? 598 00:26:29,080 --> 00:26:31,639 Speaker 5: You were like that was diabolical and I'm actually a 599 00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:33,040 Speaker 5: little bit pissed off about it. 600 00:26:33,119 --> 00:26:36,679 Speaker 6: Well, Maddie just literally FaceTime me, Oh my god, I 601 00:26:36,680 --> 00:26:39,399 Speaker 6: was on my way here. She said that all the 602 00:26:39,480 --> 00:26:45,199 Speaker 6: la boobuos that we run with lafufus, and I like 603 00:26:45,280 --> 00:26:47,560 Speaker 6: that because we like so much money on those. I 604 00:26:47,600 --> 00:26:50,400 Speaker 6: was like, have you seen any out like measure someone 605 00:26:50,440 --> 00:26:51,240 Speaker 6: gets lafufu. 606 00:26:51,520 --> 00:26:54,199 Speaker 2: I was like, that is like brand damaging, like two 607 00:26:54,080 --> 00:26:56,280 Speaker 2: point h Yeah, that stressed me out. I was like, 608 00:26:56,320 --> 00:26:57,320 Speaker 2: that's actually not funny. 609 00:26:57,560 --> 00:27:02,040 Speaker 6: So yeah, she was FaceTime and she ticks because she 610 00:27:02,080 --> 00:27:03,720 Speaker 6: tried to call me and I was like doing my bags. 611 00:27:03,720 --> 00:27:05,800 Speaker 6: I was like I'm not now yeah, and she was 612 00:27:05,840 --> 00:27:06,360 Speaker 6: like no, like. 613 00:27:06,359 --> 00:27:09,119 Speaker 2: It's not good. I was like, oh my god. 614 00:27:09,359 --> 00:27:12,240 Speaker 5: I just like actually have a serious conversation like when 615 00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:16,480 Speaker 5: because naturally something has to go wrong sometimes and I'm 616 00:27:16,520 --> 00:27:20,639 Speaker 5: like when, like maybe an order shipping is actually two weeks, 617 00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:23,240 Speaker 5: like like does it take two hours to get to 618 00:27:23,240 --> 00:27:23,840 Speaker 5: the point and being. 619 00:27:23,760 --> 00:27:27,040 Speaker 2: Like no, no, no, it's I know. 620 00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:29,919 Speaker 6: And even sometimes when I was like is this a prank? No, no, no, 621 00:27:29,960 --> 00:27:33,240 Speaker 6: and then it is a prank, you guys, But yeah, 622 00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:35,800 Speaker 6: we do have trustices. But I feel like when like 623 00:27:35,880 --> 00:27:38,040 Speaker 6: it gets down to it, my sister's one that's organized. 624 00:27:38,080 --> 00:27:40,760 Speaker 6: Vida is also like very like he's the one that 625 00:27:41,000 --> 00:27:42,560 Speaker 6: brings us all back down to earth and like the 626 00:27:42,640 --> 00:27:45,640 Speaker 6: jobs we have to do. But yeah, when we make 627 00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:48,040 Speaker 6: our tiktoks and like when we're just like fucking about, 628 00:27:48,119 --> 00:27:51,720 Speaker 6: it's hilarious. Like it's yeah, we almost need like headen 629 00:27:51,760 --> 00:27:53,320 Speaker 6: cameras because I feel like the content would be like 630 00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:56,919 Speaker 6: way funnier. We actually had like properly someone just filming 631 00:27:56,920 --> 00:28:00,879 Speaker 6: our day, like I feel like, yeah, I agree with 632 00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:01,479 Speaker 6: one listening. 633 00:28:01,600 --> 00:28:03,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, hello, hullo. 634 00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:05,359 Speaker 4: We've got three more questions. 635 00:28:05,400 --> 00:28:07,399 Speaker 5: And I really want to include this because I think 636 00:28:07,440 --> 00:28:10,000 Speaker 5: it's one of your most iconic series, and it's the 637 00:28:10,119 --> 00:28:12,639 Speaker 5: unrealistic Running Diaries. 638 00:28:12,520 --> 00:28:13,399 Speaker 4: Asking for a friend. 639 00:28:14,440 --> 00:28:15,080 Speaker 2: How do you. 640 00:28:15,880 --> 00:28:18,840 Speaker 5: Keep doing something or even start something that in your 641 00:28:18,880 --> 00:28:21,280 Speaker 5: head you're like, I hate, I don't want to do this. 642 00:28:21,600 --> 00:28:21,840 Speaker 4: Yeah. 643 00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:26,959 Speaker 6: I think for me, like the dopamine pairing of like 644 00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:29,600 Speaker 6: filming it and it's funny. That was what made me 645 00:28:29,640 --> 00:28:32,240 Speaker 6: sort of like start it and stay with it for 646 00:28:32,280 --> 00:28:34,160 Speaker 6: that first bit, Like when I first was like, oh, 647 00:28:34,240 --> 00:28:37,280 Speaker 6: like I don't like this, but also I think making 648 00:28:37,320 --> 00:28:41,000 Speaker 6: it enjoyable, like running and enjoyable, and my brain was 649 00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:43,400 Speaker 6: like that can't be a thing, like I'm sorry, Like 650 00:28:43,520 --> 00:28:46,120 Speaker 6: I can't even do it for thirty seconds without wanting 651 00:28:46,160 --> 00:28:49,360 Speaker 6: to completely like never actually step foot in the Running 652 00:28:49,360 --> 00:28:53,120 Speaker 6: show again. But I think I thought I knew all 653 00:28:53,120 --> 00:28:54,800 Speaker 6: these things about running and you had to go really 654 00:28:54,840 --> 00:28:56,840 Speaker 6: fast from the get go and all of that, and 655 00:28:56,880 --> 00:28:59,440 Speaker 6: I forgot all about it and I started super so 656 00:28:59,640 --> 00:29:01,840 Speaker 6: I still run super slow, like my pace is so slow, 657 00:29:02,320 --> 00:29:05,600 Speaker 6: but I just keep going. And so I think it's 658 00:29:05,720 --> 00:29:08,400 Speaker 6: a bit of a thing today, but pushing just that 659 00:29:08,520 --> 00:29:11,800 Speaker 6: little bit outside your comfort zone and you can slowly 660 00:29:11,800 --> 00:29:14,960 Speaker 6: build on it and you'll get better. And I feel 661 00:29:15,040 --> 00:29:17,080 Speaker 6: like running has actually done a lot for my self 662 00:29:17,120 --> 00:29:19,680 Speaker 6: confidence in terms of like what I can actually achieve 663 00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:21,000 Speaker 6: if I push myself. 664 00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:22,600 Speaker 2: Like that Nike run that I did in. 665 00:29:22,560 --> 00:29:25,080 Speaker 6: Greece, when I had to do that, Yeah, I so 666 00:29:25,160 --> 00:29:26,920 Speaker 6: that was my longest run at the time, and I 667 00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:30,120 Speaker 6: also had they didn't realize my league of the race 668 00:29:30,200 --> 00:29:31,480 Speaker 6: was like not really steep. 669 00:29:31,560 --> 00:29:34,280 Speaker 2: Some people did proper hills, but mine was an incline 670 00:29:34,360 --> 00:29:35,960 Speaker 2: and there was a bus following behind. 671 00:29:36,040 --> 00:29:37,760 Speaker 6: Videos on the bus and he was just like, dude, like, 672 00:29:37,840 --> 00:29:40,320 Speaker 6: you're she's gonna stop, Like she can't do it. And 673 00:29:40,360 --> 00:29:43,479 Speaker 6: I had run six k's it was so hot, and 674 00:29:43,560 --> 00:29:46,120 Speaker 6: I was I genuinely was like, I think I need 675 00:29:46,200 --> 00:29:47,920 Speaker 6: to stop or I can just keep going and then 676 00:29:48,040 --> 00:29:48,600 Speaker 6: pass out. 677 00:29:48,880 --> 00:29:50,760 Speaker 2: And so maybe that's probably better if I just keep 678 00:29:50,800 --> 00:29:52,400 Speaker 2: going and give. 679 00:29:52,320 --> 00:29:56,160 Speaker 6: It up technically, But yeah, finishing that, I was like, 680 00:29:56,240 --> 00:29:59,040 Speaker 6: holy shit, like I can actually do some really fucking 681 00:29:59,080 --> 00:30:01,560 Speaker 6: hard things if I put myself. So, yeah, running has 682 00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:05,640 Speaker 6: really helped my confidence just in all the things that 683 00:30:05,920 --> 00:30:06,720 Speaker 6: I find hard. 684 00:30:07,120 --> 00:30:09,760 Speaker 2: But yeah, I think running can be for everyone, Like. 685 00:30:09,800 --> 00:30:12,960 Speaker 6: Just go so make it fun, talk about other things 686 00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:14,360 Speaker 6: that like take your mind off it if you need 687 00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:16,520 Speaker 6: to listen to your music list podcast. 688 00:30:16,640 --> 00:30:18,240 Speaker 2: Hey, And again. 689 00:30:18,160 --> 00:30:19,320 Speaker 4: No one cares. 690 00:30:19,320 --> 00:30:22,080 Speaker 5: Like it was the same, and I would think that 691 00:30:22,120 --> 00:30:24,440 Speaker 5: you had to run so much faster than you would 692 00:30:24,640 --> 00:30:25,240 Speaker 5: have to run. 693 00:30:25,640 --> 00:30:27,920 Speaker 4: And my boyfriend also. 694 00:30:27,840 --> 00:30:30,840 Speaker 5: Was like the parallel play of his so you do it, 695 00:30:31,120 --> 00:30:32,960 Speaker 5: And he taught me this thing called the rob shuffle 696 00:30:33,240 --> 00:30:35,120 Speaker 5: and it's basically way you just shoffle feet on the 697 00:30:35,160 --> 00:30:36,840 Speaker 5: ground and that's your running and you just kind of 698 00:30:36,840 --> 00:30:37,880 Speaker 5: put a bit of a hop in it. 699 00:30:38,280 --> 00:30:43,320 Speaker 2: And I call it the triple tip moving forward your feet. 700 00:30:43,760 --> 00:30:46,120 Speaker 4: Basically just going up and down. You go a little 701 00:30:46,160 --> 00:30:46,440 Speaker 4: bit for it. 702 00:30:47,040 --> 00:30:55,920 Speaker 6: Time people walk past me sometimes likes that's very humbling. 703 00:30:55,960 --> 00:30:59,160 Speaker 5: Exactly. Yeah, you're like as well live in Bondie, so 704 00:30:59,240 --> 00:31:01,640 Speaker 5: like everyone's a fucking half marathon and I'm they're doing 705 00:31:01,680 --> 00:31:02,320 Speaker 5: the rob shuffle. 706 00:31:02,720 --> 00:31:05,120 Speaker 4: But again, no one fucking cares. 707 00:31:05,560 --> 00:31:08,920 Speaker 5: And you think that it's gonna knock your confidence, that 708 00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:11,680 Speaker 5: you're going slow or that you're not very good, but 709 00:31:11,760 --> 00:31:15,280 Speaker 5: when you finish because you did something, you're like, I 710 00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:16,360 Speaker 5: am the king of the world. 711 00:31:16,560 --> 00:31:17,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, I am allowed. 712 00:31:18,160 --> 00:31:20,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm better than everyone else. 713 00:31:20,120 --> 00:31:22,680 Speaker 2: I could sign up for the Olympic. Yeah, literally, is 714 00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:23,080 Speaker 2: that a door? 715 00:31:23,120 --> 00:31:26,040 Speaker 5: I'm gonna kick it off its hinges, like but seriously, 716 00:31:26,200 --> 00:31:29,240 Speaker 5: like six months later, you could be in Greece doing 717 00:31:29,240 --> 00:31:33,440 Speaker 5: a run with fucking Nike. Okay, to wrap up this episode, 718 00:31:33,760 --> 00:31:36,920 Speaker 5: quick fire question, what is the quickest way to kill 719 00:31:36,920 --> 00:31:37,600 Speaker 5: your confidence? 720 00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:40,080 Speaker 2: What's the cookest way to kill my confidence? 721 00:31:42,200 --> 00:31:44,840 Speaker 6: I reckon like a stab to like, if no one 722 00:31:44,920 --> 00:31:48,720 Speaker 6: laughs at my joke, that's done. I reckon to say 723 00:31:48,760 --> 00:31:51,200 Speaker 6: something that you thinks you're a funny and just cricket 724 00:31:51,720 --> 00:31:55,000 Speaker 6: tough crowd, like, yeah, that's urckon. 725 00:31:55,200 --> 00:31:59,440 Speaker 5: I love I was like fully expecting like a comparison. 726 00:32:01,360 --> 00:32:08,360 Speaker 2: My joke, you funny, we have a problem. Yeah, I 727 00:32:08,400 --> 00:32:10,360 Speaker 2: love that. And what's the quickest way to give it 728 00:32:10,360 --> 00:32:10,840 Speaker 2: a boost? 729 00:32:14,440 --> 00:32:15,240 Speaker 5: I love that? 730 00:32:15,480 --> 00:32:17,280 Speaker 2: Thank you so much. I'm so glad we got to 731 00:32:17,280 --> 00:32:18,040 Speaker 2: do this in person. 732 00:32:19,000 --> 00:32:20,880 Speaker 3: Thank you so much for fitting us in your busy, 733 00:32:20,920 --> 00:32:23,520 Speaker 3: busy schedule, because we know that you are a busy 734 00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:27,040 Speaker 3: business bitch. And for any of the chicks who aren't already, 735 00:32:27,080 --> 00:32:27,959 Speaker 3: where can they follow you? 736 00:32:28,000 --> 00:32:29,680 Speaker 2: And what do we need to keep an eye out for? 737 00:32:29,800 --> 00:32:34,480 Speaker 6: Oh, you can follow me at what's my handle Raley 738 00:32:34,600 --> 00:32:37,280 Speaker 6: j Instagram and I think it's Riley Heaps on Tiktic. 739 00:32:39,120 --> 00:32:41,000 Speaker 2: And I'm getting married next year. We just locked on 740 00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:41,360 Speaker 2: a date. 741 00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:44,280 Speaker 5: We're going to have to have you back on for 742 00:32:44,440 --> 00:32:46,120 Speaker 5: like a wedding episode vibes. 743 00:32:46,360 --> 00:32:50,800 Speaker 3: Yes, congratulations, thank you. 744 00:32:51,120 --> 00:32:54,080 Speaker 4: I can't going to be like, that's going to be 745 00:32:54,080 --> 00:32:54,800 Speaker 4: my royal wedding. 746 00:32:55,360 --> 00:33:01,360 Speaker 2: It's giving, giving Vogue. It's going to be the best 747 00:33:01,440 --> 00:33:01,840 Speaker 2: day ever. 748 00:33:02,040 --> 00:33:04,280 Speaker 3: But thank you so much for coming on again. 749 00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:06,520 Speaker 2: We really appreciate it. And thanks to your chicks for 750 00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:08,240 Speaker 2: having us in the ear holes we'd love to be. 751 00:33:08,200 --> 00:33:09,400 Speaker 3: Here, and to m I K. 752 00:33:09,560 --> 00:33:11,080 Speaker 1: Mate for making today's episode happened. 753 00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:18,600 Speaker 4: Bye chee, Bye Chicks.