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Speaker 1: And with Kate podcast.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to the Fit with Kate Richie podcast. Very special

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Speaker 2: intro to the pod today because it's not the boys

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Speaker 2: doing it.

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Speaker 3: What's your name? Young Man?

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Speaker 1: Producer Tom slash Tim slash tongue.

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Speaker 3: Fantastic, what's yours?

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Speaker 4: Excellent?

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Speaker 2: What's your name?

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Speaker 3: Producing Maddie?

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Speaker 2: Sure, it's not busy?

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Speaker 3: Got it? Primer chick Baby.

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Speaker 2: To introduce the podcast. And it's a good one because

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Speaker 2: we have two callers on today for pros and cons,

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Speaker 2: and their lists are quite amazing. One of the best

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Speaker 2: con I've ever heard. I don't want to go too

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Speaker 2: far into it's going to hear it all in the podcast,

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Speaker 2: but you definitely don't want to miss it.

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Speaker 4: It gets really saucy this one, doesn't it. Guys?

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Speaker 2: Yes, they absolutely were. Make sure you check out the

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Speaker 2: pod and hey, well when you're done with this one,

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Speaker 2: produces pot. We've done one today, haven't we?

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Speaker 3: Guys that up?

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Speaker 2: Check it out. Lots of love will catch you when

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Speaker 2: the boys aren't in one.

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Speaker 4: Two three, everyone say bye.

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Speaker 2: Two three bye.

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Speaker 5: See next time.

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Speaker 2: This is the Fitzi and Whipper with Cape Ritchie podcast.

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Speaker 1: Let's move on to the theme of music as we continue.

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Speaker 1: Here's what I didn't even think about, Ryan James. They

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Speaker 1: talk about why music that you remember from your childhood

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Speaker 1: seems to stick with you so much more than music now,

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Speaker 1: and it's nothing to do with the actual music itself.

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Speaker 1: It's to do with what you were doing when you

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Speaker 1: listen to the music.

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Speaker 5: This is really interesting because my boys asked me the

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Speaker 5: other day how I know so much old music, and

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Speaker 5: it's like I didn't have an answer.

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Speaker 4: It was like, I think it was just listening to

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Speaker 4: it in the car with Mum and dad.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I can explain it for you now because normally

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Speaker 1: it evokes other memories, so it has other details attached

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Speaker 1: to it of when you knew the music. That's why

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Speaker 1: things like Christmas carols or soundtracks from movies they have

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Speaker 1: other stories attached to them. So if it can transport

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Speaker 1: you back to a place where you were when you

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Speaker 1: knew that song or it, but it's pictures that then

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Speaker 1: enriches and thicken the memory so it never leaves your brain.

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Speaker 5: Tommy, you said blinded, but blinded Baas.

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Speaker 4: Because you have wrapped up like a douche there. You

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Speaker 4: said that that's how you remembered the song.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, absolutely, it's and big shout out to everyone

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Speaker 1: involved in the making of Memory and movie. I'm glad

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Speaker 1: they did nor film it. But if you remember like

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Speaker 1: Peter and the Wolf, like, does anyone remember Peter and

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Speaker 1: the Wolf?

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Speaker 4: Not at all?

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Speaker 1: Does anyone remember come all year, faithful Christmas Carol? You

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Speaker 1: know I have very very fond memories.

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Speaker 4: Faithful. I don't know, certainly wasn't your wife.

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Speaker 6: I can picture our family sitting down in front of

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Speaker 6: for Santa Claus and the Reindeers.

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Speaker 1: Finally, Tom just done the same joke about my wife

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Speaker 1: two minutes earlier. But you don't need to lay her

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Speaker 1: to suggest everybody in my family's rooting around to mate

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Speaker 1: that sits in with her. With Cape Ridgie podcast.

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Speaker 4: A Northern Rivers woman has well, she's got back at

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Speaker 4: her ex.

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Speaker 1: Okay's her stories.

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Speaker 5: She's raised her ex's phone data, locked him out of

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Speaker 5: his Facebook and transferred his car regio to her and

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Speaker 5: then reported at stolen's Sad said to the police, you

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Speaker 5: know what, I'm just really good with technology. So what

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Speaker 5: she did obviously didn't end too well. Tarren Wilson, twenty

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Speaker 5: seven years of age from Lismore. She broke up with

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Speaker 5: her boyfriend Michael Dakin and wasn't too happy with how

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Speaker 5: getting to it, so into his social media and do.

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Speaker 4: You know what, I had the password of an ex

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Speaker 5: She was from America, and I remember I was hugging

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Speaker 4: She went to go right in the password.

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Speaker 1: And I went on in hot pans.

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Speaker 4: Now that was just Australia. Yep, that's all it was.

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Speaker 5: And I thought I shouldn't have looked at that, but

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Speaker 5: going wrong in the relationship, I may did you go

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: And she was getting emails from other men, about ten

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Speaker 5: Taran's gone into Michael's Facebook page and changed his bio

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Speaker 5: to I'm an e fing tossa.

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Speaker 1: Updated.

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Speaker 5: It was a bit of a giveaway that she was

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Speaker 4: The other one as well.

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Speaker 5: Like to go to the effort to transfer his car

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Speaker 5: ridge over to her and then call the cops and

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Speaker 1: Yeah, a lot of work.

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Speaker 5: So then he's driving around in his own car and

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Speaker 5: the cops are pulling him over going get.

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Speaker 1: Out of the car it's stolen.

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Speaker 4: Awesome that it's a lot of effort.

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Speaker 1: Pretty good revenge.

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Speaker 5: Michael asked her, how did you factory data reset my phone?

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Speaker 4: She said to the cops. I'm just really good at it.

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Speaker 4: I'm really good with technology.

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Speaker 1: I mean, the next level would be engaging. Remember Anonymous,

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Speaker 1: we haven't heard from them for a while, and it's

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Speaker 1: not one person and anonymous, it's a group of people

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Speaker 1: that will decide that they've declared war on an organization. Yes,

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Speaker 1: so I remember there was one business they didn't like,

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Speaker 1: and they do funny stuff, mate, So they hacked into

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Speaker 1: the computer system that runs the photocopier at work, and

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Speaker 1: they just printed out black paper. So they just continue

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Speaker 1: to drain the ink sheet after sheet after just to

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Speaker 1: annoy the business. And they do things like they took

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Speaker 5: hackers in the world. Like I know, you're sitting in

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Speaker 5: front of a screen the whole time, but just to

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Speaker 5: get into different systems would be unbelievable.

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Speaker 1: Magine if you could crack into the over playlist and

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Speaker 1: just put I don't know more Marley Cyrus or that's

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Speaker 1: what we've got next.

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Speaker 3: This is the f with Cape Ritchie podcast two years ago.

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Speaker 7: I was at the wharf at Manly's there a pub.

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Speaker 4: You are, Wolfie? Were you what you were unloading a

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Speaker 4: ship or what were.

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 7: No, I was at a pub there, nice Calamari from

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Speaker 7: a memory and.

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Speaker 3: Do you know who I was with?

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Speaker 7: Go on the entire cast of the two thousand and

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Speaker 7: three version series of Big Brother.

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Speaker 5: I haven't spoken to you about this because you clashed

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Speaker 5: with a couple of people on that show as well.

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Speaker 3: Was it only one only clashed with one? Ben?

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Speaker 8: Ben?

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Speaker 4: That was Ben there?

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Speaker 1: He was?

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Speaker 3: Yes, all there.

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Speaker 7: In fact, no, there was only one person that wasn't there.

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Speaker 7: I can't remember who she. I can't remember who it was,

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Speaker 7: much like the Australian public. Anyway, they were all there.

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Speaker 7: Reggie was there, Dan from Adelaide was there. I mean

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Speaker 3: But yes, Ben the Copper was there.

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Speaker 7: He looks exactly the same as he always did.

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Speaker 3: And even Big Brother was there.

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Speaker 7: Peter Abbott, the original voice of.

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Speaker 3: Of Big Brother Saxon, was there, Remember sucking?

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Speaker 7: I remember, yes, yes, Well he's actually my best friend

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Speaker 7: from that series, my actual friend.

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Speaker 3: He's my only real you know takeaway.

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Speaker 5: And Reggie's been doing it pretty tough, hasn't she. She's

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Speaker 7: Is that? Yes?

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Speaker 3: She has, she has, but she came. She wouldn't miss

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Speaker 7: But it just got and it was actually the best

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Speaker 7: reunion I've ever been to, because you know, there's school

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Speaker 7: to get excited about school reunions. I've been out of

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Speaker 7: school for about two thousand years, but the first school reunion,

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Speaker 7: I was really excited. I reckon, they have them after

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Speaker 3: And how many am I going to go to from

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Speaker 4: How many more?

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Speaker 4: Okay? So what happens? Sony? Was there anything?

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Speaker 7: I was excited the first time, and then I was

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Speaker 7: And she was hissing rose breath at me, you know,

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Speaker 7: talking about memories that I had nothing of it. I

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Speaker 7: can you Anyway? I decided then that I wouldn't go

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Speaker 7: to them ever ever again, because I looked around and

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Speaker 7: the people that I talked to.

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Speaker 3: Are the people that I want to see. Yeah.

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Speaker 7: So, like, I've got really three close friends from school.

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Speaker 7: We met in grade five. We see each other all

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Speaker 7: the time. We're actually about to meet up in Bali.

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Speaker 7: We're proper friends. I was at this reunion. I was

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Speaker 7: talking to those three girls, What am I doing?

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Speaker 3: What am I doing here? Like?

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Speaker 7: If I I really cared what you know, what Marissa

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Speaker 7: you'd been doing, I would have at least friended you

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Speaker 7: on Facebook.

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Speaker 3: Let's get real, So.

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Speaker 5: Old flames, no old Flames or anyone that you liked,

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Speaker 5: any crushes.

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Speaker 3: At an all girls.

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Speaker 1: Always hard to catch up with the old flame at

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Speaker 1: an old girls school, especially when you've got a bub

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Speaker 1: on your boob.

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Speaker 7: I'm sure, I'm sure there is that sort of unrequired

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Speaker 7: love situation, but not for me.

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Speaker 3: And with Kate, which podcast good news.

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Speaker 1: We're ready to riddle Riddle time for your Friday morning

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Speaker 1: the weekend to see you when you hear that music?

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Speaker 1: Aren't we ready to riddle?

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Speaker 8: Well?

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Speaker 1: Listen?

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Speaker 3: Can I just interrupt for a second.

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Speaker 7: This is not my first, my first foray into riddle time.

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Speaker 1: Because you can't get away from the riddles.

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Speaker 7: I went to get a coffee and there was a

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Speaker 4: But no, perhaps a balloon, a helium ball.

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Speaker 1: Any idea Ryan James, you are hole in the bucket.

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Speaker 1: Well suck it. There's a hole in the bucket.

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Speaker 7: So now all weekend I'm going to be seeing there's

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Speaker 1: That's why we do this. What about this one? Until

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Speaker 1: Chrissy, she can there, she cannot.

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Speaker 3: Let's play more Mike's post. Now, now this is good?

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Speaker 1: What about this? I'm lighter than a dumb bell, but

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Speaker 4: What am I lighter than a dumb bell.

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Speaker 4: Can't lift me?

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Speaker 1: It will?

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Speaker 5: It can't be a battle bubble because you can lift

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Speaker 4: It is a.

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Speaker 1: Bubble if you try, if you will pop it. Oh,

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Speaker 1: Mandy and mascot.

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Speaker 3: To you, to you a Monday.

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Speaker 9: I've certainly got a riddle. Ready, you see me in water,

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Speaker 8: What exactly am I?

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Speaker 1: You see me in water, but I am not wearing

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Speaker 1: your reflection?

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Speaker 2: Than if this is the fits and Whipper with Richie podcast.

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Speaker 1: Pros and Cons like third, Well, she's no good in bed.

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Speaker 5: I like them.

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Speaker 1: We step of pros and cons.

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Speaker 3: As soon as I hit the pillow asleep, because you

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Speaker 3: know what, there's.

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Speaker 4: The honeymoon period in a relationship. Yeah, you know it

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Speaker 1: Pro?

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Speaker 4: That's a pro.

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Speaker 3: I think I'm good at it.

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Speaker 4: Yes, thurteen and twenty fourteen.

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Speaker 5: If you're in a relationship and you want us to

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Speaker 4: You have your honeymoon period, and then you have that

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Speaker 4: question of do I really want to continue this?

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Speaker 5: Go through the pros and cons. We make the decision

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Speaker 5: for you. We've got Selena and Pecs on the line.

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Speaker 4: Hi, Selena, Hey guys, Selena.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to pros and Cons. This is a safe space

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Speaker 1: for you to share openly and honestly. Who is the partner?

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Speaker 1: Tell us about them.

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Speaker 8: His name is Nick.

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Speaker 9: We've been together for about eleven months now, so almost

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Speaker 9: a year and we just met on a dating Okay.

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Speaker 4: He sounds amazing. Hinge. Tell us about the things about Nick.

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Speaker 9: Well, some really sweet things that he does is every

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Speaker 9: month on a Sunday, we'll pick one he takes me

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Speaker 9: for a nice brunch and we go on a little

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Speaker 9: bookshop crawl. I love reading and I love books, and

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Speaker 9: he just buys me books. What are the books I want?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's awesome.

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Speaker 4: That look she needs love a book man.

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Speaker 1: Okay, what else? What else do we love about Nick?

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Speaker 9: And just keeping with the book theme, he'll put like

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Speaker 7: Really cute. I want you to dump him now, put

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Speaker 1: Terrible, this is exciting?

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Speaker 5: Anymore?

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Speaker 4: You want any more? Price?

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Speaker 9: Well, I'm really unwell, just feeling a little bit sick.

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Speaker 9: He puts together a little care package for me, so

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Speaker 9: he'll pop some like medicine in there, some of my

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Speaker 9: favorite snacks, like a candle, and some Tis shoes snique.

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Speaker 1: That is it sounds like he has a very very

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Speaker 4: That's amazing, But we have to go from sicknique to pricknique.

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Speaker 9: Things that do give me pick what is it? So

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Speaker 9: one of the things, he's very into running and he

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Speaker 4: You've got them individual toe It's.

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Speaker 7: Like a.

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Speaker 3: Terrible like Aquaman.

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Speaker 1: Do we like?

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Speaker 8: So?

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Speaker 9: I know if you guys know that, it's a British

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Speaker 9: kids TV show called in the Night.

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Speaker 7: Garden Sleep every Night with Eagle Piggle, I sleep every night.

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Speaker 9: He watches an episode of that every night. It's just

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Speaker 9: I don't know why. He says it just like calms him.

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Speaker 9: But I'm like, surely there's another thing.

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Speaker 7: I feel like, I feel like we've stumbled across my

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Speaker 4: Anymore? Any more any more? Con Selena and.

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Speaker 9: This last night, it's so disgusting. He cuts his toeails

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Speaker 1: So, I mean, he's going to so much effort with

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Speaker 1: in your book. I don't know it's a serial killer.

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Speaker 4: Selena, do you know what? Why don't we leave this

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Speaker 4: up to Christy?

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Speaker 5: Christy, you need me, need to make a decision here,

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Speaker 5: because there's some great pros some awful cons.

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Speaker 4: What should Selena do?

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Speaker 1: Well?

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Speaker 7: See, I think the only con there is the toe

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Speaker 7: that he wears toe shoes. I get that they're not

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Speaker 7: your thing. However, the fact that he's running and looking

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Speaker 7: also means that you know he's got things that he

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Speaker 7: wants to do independently of you. He's his own person.

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Speaker 7: So look, I think he's a real keeper. He's singing,

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Speaker 7: very caring, He pays attention to your needs and wants.

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Speaker 7: He sounds like the perfect partner in that he's a

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Speaker 1: I think we've sorted it out for you, Selena. Hang

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Speaker 1: on to your best friend.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, I think that's fair.

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Speaker 4: She's good.

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Speaker 1: I like him, but he's good. Should should we ste.

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Speaker 9: All?

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Speaker 1: Right? Claire is in Zeppelin? Claire are you twenty four

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Speaker 1: years old? Is that right?

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Speaker 8: A'm twenty five?

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Speaker 1: Now twenty five?

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Speaker 4: It's not clear, Danes, you're not bringing up about Ben Lear.

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Speaker 7: You no water late night, He's Perry Water Parry.

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Speaker 5: That was one of the best. Hey, how long have

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Speaker 5: you been with him? What's his name?

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Speaker 8: His name's Sam. We've been together about a year.

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Speaker 4: What are the good things about the old Sammy?

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Speaker 8: I'd say he's very funny, so like he'll just come

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Speaker 8: out with a little bit of a dance in a

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Speaker 4: Yeah, find and you'll still.

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Speaker 8: Love You're want to hear the song? Yeah, song he

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Speaker 8: sings every time he likes the candle, which is every night.

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Speaker 8: He's gotta like mckendell, gotta like mcndale, marry him.

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Speaker 1: Gotta gotta lap my gonna lap my candle.

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Speaker 3: Personality. Personality is a rare thing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, clear, this is a good start. What are the

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Speaker 1: pros if you got.

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Speaker 8: Well, this one's nice and basic. But he's really good

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Speaker 8: with kids, and I love kids. My jobs with kids,

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Speaker 1: What does he do for work?

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Speaker 8: He's just in trades at the moment, in the trade.

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Speaker 4: That all right? What are the cons sam?

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Speaker 8: So he has this funny thing despite him being a

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Speaker 8: trade he when he touches something a little bit gross

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Speaker 8: and will kind of like hold them slightly, like hovering

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Speaker 8: to go.

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Speaker 1: Fine does it?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Weed reactions?

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Speaker 8: What else is he doing in relation to that one? Then?

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Speaker 8: Like we were out the other day walking at the

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Speaker 8: where'd you go? And he goes, well, he went over

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Speaker 8: to pat the and how many people have touched that

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Speaker 8: Golden retriever's head and it's so spurry, so I don't

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Speaker 8: want to hold your hand anymore?

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Speaker 1: Oh okay right?

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Speaker 8: And I was like, yeah, okay's fair. I should have

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Speaker 3: Right so quirky. I love it.

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Speaker 8: Like earlier in our relationship days when he would come

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Speaker 8: my friend's tracker up on your phone to see like, oh,

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Speaker 8: he's maybe twenty minutes away or like five minutes. I

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Speaker 8: and because you can see your little face on fire

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Speaker 8: my friends. One night, apparently my face was bobbling around

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Speaker 8: and he's like watching it, being like, what's she doing?

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Speaker 8: Apparently she's at home, but it's kind of bobbling around.

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Speaker 8: And then he ended up calling me like an hour later,

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Speaker 8: being like, hey, what was up, Like, you know, it

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Speaker 8: just facetimed me. And he goes off being like, yeah,

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Speaker 7: And that the only red flag I can see is

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Speaker 7: the fine my friends thing that sounds controlling and keeping

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Speaker 7: tabs on you hard. The weird reactions is good. Funny

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Speaker 7: dances good if someone's checking up on you hard past.

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Speaker 1: But you know what, for being part of pros and Cons,

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Speaker 1: We're going to send you to Ato on Wallamelo Wolf

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Speaker 1: Date with John WAW's well done.

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Speaker 3: We're going to be at the next table watching you

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Speaker 3: confront him.

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Speaker 8: Get excuse me? Can I get another napkin?

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Speaker 1: the app store or Google Playing