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Speaker 1: This podcast is recorded on gadigal Land Always was, always

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Speaker 1: will be Aboriginal Land. Harry Jigs, I'm out and and

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Speaker 1: this is two broad chicks to show that shares life

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Speaker 1: lessons to be rich in the rich.

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Speaker 2: It's actually an assault to the sense is that noise?

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Speaker 2: I know, so that we need to make a public apology.

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Speaker 3: When we open like that.

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Speaker 2: It'll just feel so good. It feels so good. I

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Speaker 2: encourage everyone to do it.

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Speaker 1: Actually, Yeah, and we are in for a little Sydney

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Speaker 1: yap this and yap this and yap let's get yappin'.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, my yap's good and babies go brazy.

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Speaker 1: So basically we put up a little story box on

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Speaker 1: i G as we do every week as a let's

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Speaker 1: catch up, and we just got so many questions, questions

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Speaker 1: that people wanted to know about us.

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Speaker 5: I know, chicks, I am so sweet of you.

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Speaker 4: And then just some life advice.

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Speaker 2: So we thought we were kind of due for an

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Speaker 2: advice with the chicks and yeah, that's what we're here for.

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Speaker 6: Yep.

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Speaker 4: Some of these are jew seed, Yeah they are.

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Speaker 5: There was some rogue questions rolling in.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I appreciate it, I like it, I respect it.

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Speaker 4: I'm like tea.

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Speaker 2: But before we get into the episode, we got to

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Speaker 2: go through our.

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Speaker 4: Obsession cut the music obsession.

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Speaker 1: My obsession is the chick that wrote in last week

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Speaker 1: that said my favorite part of the episode was two

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Speaker 1: minutes in Alice going fuck me.

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Speaker 3: With the background noise of her.

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Speaker 2: Eyes last in the background, and nothing has ever been

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Speaker 2: so real. So I would also like to open this

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Speaker 2: episode with a fuck.

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Speaker 1: Me and a.

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Speaker 6: That one's just for you cheer.

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Speaker 3: All right, what are you obsessed with? Okay?

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Speaker 1: This week my obsession a bit of a bougie purchase,

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Speaker 1: but I think it's worth the bang.

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Speaker 5: Bang for Bark gives the bank for Bark. And we

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Speaker 1: Nifty gifties from crop Shop Boutique, which was very sweet

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Speaker 1: of them to send some stuff to us, and we

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Speaker 1: got to select a few picks and I picked these

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Speaker 1: petite boot leg.

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Speaker 5: Leggings. And I really struggle.

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Speaker 1: With any sort of flare or boot cut, like a

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Speaker 1: very short, and so usually they end up dragging on

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Speaker 1: the ground. Typically I would get something like that altered,

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Speaker 1: but I don't know when it comes to active where

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Speaker 5: And because these are a petit style.

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Speaker 1: They're made for short girlies, and they're so flattering, they're

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Speaker 1: but not suffocated, not suffocating, and it's not it's not

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Speaker 5: It's just like I don't I don't want.

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Speaker 1: To active way, it's kind of hugging you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because then it looks like an anxiety weighted blanket.

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Speaker 4: It's like anxiety active wear.

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Speaker 6: Hold me tender.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I like that because then it also means

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Speaker 6: It's definitely more expensive for a pair of leggings.

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Speaker 5: But the quality is amazing.

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Speaker 1: And because of that bootcut style, I've actually worn them

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like a lot of active where is

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Speaker 2: And I'm like, oh, what's your obsession? My obsession is

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Speaker 1: Because I've been obsessing over what I would pick.

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Speaker 2: So if you could change the price of something to

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Speaker 2: one dollar for twenty four hours, what would you change?

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Speaker 1: Okay, I would do a quick Google and find a

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Speaker 6: If I could furnish it and do all of that.

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Speaker 5: But imagine that if you could just buy, but you can't.

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Speaker 1: Even bloody get a parking ticket for that much these days,

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Speaker 5: That's what I would be doing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what about you see, that's what I thought originally, right,

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Speaker 1: and then after gold give me dead golden geese, given

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Speaker 5: Right anyway, magic beans? Can I say mine? I have

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Speaker 1: She's an ideas man, So I thought that. At first,

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Speaker 1: I was like cliff house beach vibes, like live in a.

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Speaker 2: Right then I was like, then we're back to reality,

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Speaker 2: right back to the same paycheck around cho So I'm like, okay,

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Speaker 3: Well, probably it wouldn't be that, but.

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Speaker 1: Then like the upkeep or paying for I don't know

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Speaker 3: I just going to live in an empty house?

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Speaker 1: This also only sets me up for one thing.

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Speaker 3: So I was thinking.

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Speaker 4: Apple shares or Google shares.

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Speaker 1: I'm not picking one thing, and I realize I'm cheating,

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Speaker 1: But this is this I understand.

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Speaker 4: I would pick something that I'm like, Okay, I'm set,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I would choose Henry Cavill for one dollar?

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Speaker 5: Why not? Only why not?

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Speaker 1: Appropriate, Well, don't wear leather pants in the Witch then okay. Anyway,

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Speaker 1: I'm going to rend it in button apples in season

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Speaker 1: Like what company would we buy? Ooh?

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Speaker 3: Probably Google?

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Speaker 4: But I don't want to work.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like I want to be like a ghost CEO

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Speaker 2: But yeah, what's the one thing that you would change

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Speaker 1: Let us know in the comments? Yes, please, I want

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Speaker 3: Crazy anyway, that's my obsession.

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Speaker 5: I love it.

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Speaker 3: All right, let's get into a little captup.

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Speaker 2: Is it normal to feel scared in a new talking

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Speaker 2: stage relationship due to past relationship trauma.

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Speaker 1: I think if you have passed trauma and bad experiences

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Speaker 1: that you would have insecurities or be scared when you're

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Speaker 1: Like there might be some people that you talk to

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's normal to have apprehension due to

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Speaker 2: like past experiences totally, Like if anything, that's just like

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Speaker 2: you're not necessarily what's the word I'm looking for.

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Speaker 5: Like you're a little less naive.

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Speaker 2: Yes, that's exactly the word that I'm looking for. Like

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Speaker 6: Same, yeah, dipping your toes back in the water. I like,

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Speaker 1: It kind of sounds sexual as well, put your toe.

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Speaker 1: I can take your toe just going.

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Speaker 5: Just one, just your big toe.

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Speaker 4: Okay. But what I think holds you back, and I definitely.

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Speaker 1: Did this as well when I was trying to jump

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Speaker 1: is that you're going to hold yourself back if you

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Speaker 1: do expect every situation to be like that, if you think,

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Speaker 1: I'm not going to say how I feel or what

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Speaker 1: I want because it shows that I care, and that

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Speaker 1: like that ends up shooting yourself in the foot to use.

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Speaker 5: The correct term.

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Speaker 3: Wait, is that wrong?

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Speaker 6: I just love that we keep coming back to the

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Speaker 6: foot metaphors.

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Speaker 5: Do I have a fetish?

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Speaker 4: But that's what I mean. I think you like a setting.

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Speaker 2: Yourself up for failure if you expect everyone to behave

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Speaker 2: like the shittest people you've ever met, because not everyone

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Speaker 3: We would just stop it.

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Speaker 3: I really The answer who is quite simple?

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Speaker 5: Move on?

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Speaker 1: Okay, what do I want for my thirtieth as a

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Speaker 6: Exactly, Like an experience of some sort that like.

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Speaker 1: And yeah, you put your fingerprint like in a mold

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Speaker 1: and you send it back and then they make it

449
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Speaker 1: of you know that person that I just think that's

450
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Speaker 1: the kyotest like president in the world because it's.

451
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Speaker 3: So personalized and love shit like that. Yeah, that's so beautiful.

452
00:22:39,240 --> 00:22:43,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, something that is meaningful if you got this is like,

453
00:22:43,560 --> 00:22:46,280
Speaker 1: this is a make believe universe. Okay, let's say you

454
00:22:46,400 --> 00:22:50,040
Speaker 1: got given your partner, your make be partner gave you

455
00:22:50,400 --> 00:22:52,080
Speaker 1: Chris not Chris, not Chris not Chris.

456
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Speaker 3: Let's go with Let's go Nikki six.

457
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Speaker 2: Nix like an eighteen carrot gold ring with his fingerprint

458
00:23:02,960 --> 00:23:06,280
Speaker 2: in it. Right, it's like three thousand dollars his fingerprint.

459
00:23:06,320 --> 00:23:07,000
Speaker 5: He can afford it.

460
00:23:07,760 --> 00:23:07,920
Speaker 1: Right.

461
00:23:08,119 --> 00:23:11,560
Speaker 3: Let's he's not famous anyway. Okay, Let's pretend.

462
00:23:11,280 --> 00:23:13,800
Speaker 2: They're not famous and they give you a fingerprint ring,

463
00:23:14,680 --> 00:23:15,520
Speaker 2: but you break up.

464
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Speaker 4: It's a really, really bad breakup.

465
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Speaker 3: Do you keep the ring?

466
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Speaker 5: If I had their fingerprint in it, I wouldn't.

467
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Speaker 1: Day it was just a piece of jewelry that they'd

468
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Speaker 1: given me, and I still really loved it. I probably

469
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Speaker 1: would keep it, you know, unless I had like their

470
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Speaker 1: name or something in it.

471
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Speaker 3: But yeah, no, I wouldn't.

472
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Speaker 1: On Facebook, marketplaces, engagement, yeah, people send their engagement rings,

473
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Speaker 1: but they've got the whole backstory in it.

474
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Speaker 3: Oh my god, Sow, I've got to show you them.

475
00:23:46,240 --> 00:23:47,040
Speaker 3: They're so good.

476
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Speaker 5: Oh my god.

477
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Speaker 1: You would have to take that down to the sea

478
00:23:49,400 --> 00:23:51,360
Speaker 1: and like cleanse them under the full moove.

479
00:23:51,440 --> 00:23:53,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's like that would be like anyone want

480
00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:58,879
Speaker 2: a ex carrot engagement ring from a cheating bustard.

481
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Speaker 4: Like get it pay and yes I do.

482
00:24:00,880 --> 00:24:03,440
Speaker 3: I was like, I'll take it for fifty Yeah. Yeah,

483
00:24:03,480 --> 00:24:04,320
Speaker 3: it's so good.

484
00:24:04,840 --> 00:24:11,080
Speaker 1: Okay, next one, when is the Rack collab dropping?

485
00:24:11,400 --> 00:24:16,400
Speaker 4: I need so if you.

486
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Speaker 2: Miss the memo, Sala and I announced last week that

487
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Speaker 2: we will be doing a collab with Rack Apparel.

488
00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:26,640
Speaker 4: If you haven't heard.

489
00:24:26,480 --> 00:24:30,160
Speaker 1: Of Rack, they are literally the perfect swim where brand

490
00:24:30,720 --> 00:24:34,119
Speaker 1: for the people where they're big oh Racks, They're for

491
00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:39,119
Speaker 1: the tig ol bitty committee yep, the big busty babes. Yeah.

492
00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:43,040
Speaker 2: And we've been wearing Rack for years, so this is

493
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Speaker 2: something that we're really excited about. When we are first

494
00:24:47,560 --> 00:24:51,800
Speaker 2: like signed with a management, which was maybe like a

495
00:24:51,880 --> 00:24:54,880
Speaker 2: year ago now, which was at the time also Cristi.

496
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Speaker 4: They were like, what's like your what's your goal?

497
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Speaker 1: You really and.

498
00:25:00,480 --> 00:25:02,320
Speaker 4: We're like a Rack a power of collapse.

499
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Speaker 1: Yeah, like they're like that's niche, and we're like, that's

500
00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:08,680
Speaker 1: what we want. Yeah, So that was like one.

501
00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:11,040
Speaker 4: Of our goals for this year. So it's so wild

502
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Speaker 4: that it's actually happening.

503
00:25:12,760 --> 00:25:16,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, because yeah, I think a lot of people that

504
00:25:16,800 --> 00:25:21,080
Speaker 2: have similar bus sizes to us could relate to the

505
00:25:21,160 --> 00:25:25,040
Speaker 2: highs and lowers of high school football and having really

506
00:25:25,200 --> 00:25:29,480
Speaker 2: really big breasts that you know, walking into swimwhere stores

507
00:25:30,240 --> 00:25:32,879
Speaker 2: it's not the greatest of experiences. Yeah, it's such a

508
00:25:32,920 --> 00:25:39,119
Speaker 2: struggle finding something that is supportive but also cute and

509
00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:41,879
Speaker 2: good quality that you can wear swimming into the beach

510
00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:45,000
Speaker 2: because yeah, like Al said, you can't just walk into

511
00:25:45,160 --> 00:25:48,159
Speaker 2: any store and buy swimmers when you have a D

512
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Speaker 2: cup or larger.

513
00:25:50,080 --> 00:25:54,000
Speaker 1: So ones that don't fall apart after that one summer exactly,

514
00:25:54,119 --> 00:25:54,720
Speaker 1: and you want to.

515
00:25:54,640 --> 00:25:56,960
Speaker 6: Feel confident and supported.

516
00:25:56,600 --> 00:25:58,640
Speaker 1: And like your nipple isn't going to fall out when

517
00:25:58,640 --> 00:26:03,320
Speaker 1: you're playing Mermaids. Yeah, so, and we know that that

518
00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:05,480
Speaker 1: can be a real struggle and a real nock to

519
00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:08,679
Speaker 1: your confidence when you're going swimwear shopping or when you're

520
00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:11,240
Speaker 1: at the beach and you don't feel comfortable. So we

521
00:26:11,240 --> 00:26:15,480
Speaker 1: were so excited for this collaboration because it is honestly

522
00:26:15,800 --> 00:26:19,760
Speaker 1: the cutest swimwear dream bikinis.

523
00:26:19,520 --> 00:26:20,320
Speaker 5: We've ever seen.

524
00:26:20,359 --> 00:26:22,480
Speaker 1: And I know we may be biased, but also based

525
00:26:22,520 --> 00:26:24,520
Speaker 1: on your chicks reactions, like.

526
00:26:25,240 --> 00:26:26,800
Speaker 3: I think that they might be the cutest.

527
00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:28,680
Speaker 4: I I'm so excited.

528
00:26:28,720 --> 00:26:31,720
Speaker 1: So we can't say the exact date, but we can

529
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Speaker 1: say it will be the first week of October, so.

530
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Speaker 6: Market calendars, market cows.

531
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Speaker 1: It'll be the first week of October.

532
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Speaker 2: But we will have a lot more info coming very

533
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Speaker 2: soon and we'll have like a bit of a try

534
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Speaker 2: on hale.

535
00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:46,320
Speaker 1: We'll show you how you can tie the multi way top.

536
00:26:46,359 --> 00:26:47,720
Speaker 1: There's like four different.

537
00:26:47,400 --> 00:26:49,480
Speaker 2: Ways you can style these, so you're kind of getting

538
00:26:49,520 --> 00:26:52,840
Speaker 2: like four bikinis in one. It's a sligh it's bang

539
00:26:52,920 --> 00:26:54,919
Speaker 2: for your buck and I'm just so happy.

540
00:26:54,960 --> 00:26:56,280
Speaker 4: People are really.

541
00:26:56,000 --> 00:26:57,600
Speaker 3: Excited and they really like it.

542
00:26:57,800 --> 00:26:58,959
Speaker 6: Yeah, we hope you love it.

543
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Speaker 2: Samesi's okay breakup advice suddenly single at thirty three. Sal

544
00:27:04,440 --> 00:27:07,199
Speaker 2: and I've been talking about this recently. We're going through

545
00:27:07,200 --> 00:27:09,359
Speaker 2: a bit of a breakup season at the moment. Yeah,

546
00:27:09,400 --> 00:27:11,560
Speaker 2: we've been getting a lot of dms from.

547
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Speaker 1: People saying that they that they're going through a breakup,

548
00:27:15,480 --> 00:27:19,000
Speaker 1: which I thought Breakup Day was on December eleventh, let's

549
00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:19,600
Speaker 1: come early.

550
00:27:19,800 --> 00:27:22,399
Speaker 2: I think there is always like two rounds of black

551
00:27:22,600 --> 00:27:25,720
Speaker 2: breakup seasons. Yeah, it's always halfway through the year and

552
00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:27,680
Speaker 2: then at the end of the year, start of the year.

553
00:27:28,320 --> 00:27:31,919
Speaker 2: And I honestly think the best thing you can do

554
00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:35,119
Speaker 2: is like give yourself the space to grieve. Yeah, Like,

555
00:27:35,480 --> 00:27:38,800
Speaker 2: breakups are one of the roguest things that can happen

556
00:27:38,840 --> 00:27:41,160
Speaker 2: to you at any point in time. Like, I think

557
00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:44,199
Speaker 2: we think about breakups as being like such an exclusive

558
00:27:44,240 --> 00:27:48,240
Speaker 2: thing to your twenties, but you experienced multiple breakups with

559
00:27:48,400 --> 00:27:52,040
Speaker 2: multiple people throughout your entire life, whether it's romantic, whether

560
00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:54,200
Speaker 2: it's with friends. The best thing that you can do

561
00:27:54,560 --> 00:27:58,080
Speaker 2: is give yourself space and time and do the things

562
00:27:58,200 --> 00:27:59,560
Speaker 2: that you genuinely enjoy doing.

563
00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:02,040
Speaker 3: Pull your self back to what's really helpful is.

564
00:28:01,960 --> 00:28:03,919
Speaker 2: The things that you enjoyed doing when you were younger,

565
00:28:04,560 --> 00:28:08,280
Speaker 2: Like what movies did you enjoy watching? Put on Miscongeniality

566
00:28:08,960 --> 00:28:12,639
Speaker 2: and practical magic like watch Sex in the City. Really

567
00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:15,840
Speaker 2: reintroduce yourself to the things that made you an individual.

568
00:28:15,960 --> 00:28:19,560
Speaker 2: I think it's really really easy to lose yourself in

569
00:28:19,600 --> 00:28:23,040
Speaker 2: relationships and your entire life becomes a partnership that when

570
00:28:23,040 --> 00:28:26,200
Speaker 2: you go through a breakup, you lose a part of yourself,

571
00:28:26,240 --> 00:28:30,320
Speaker 2: which is true, but it's about refeeling that cup.

572
00:28:30,359 --> 00:28:33,600
Speaker 1: It's about refieling that other half and finding what that is.

573
00:28:34,080 --> 00:28:35,240
Speaker 3: I think as well.

574
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Speaker 1: There are some really really exciting parts of breakups that

575
00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:42,040
Speaker 1: we don't think about, that we don't celebrate, right, Like

576
00:28:42,240 --> 00:28:45,760
Speaker 1: when you go through a breakup, you can watch whatever

577
00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:48,200
Speaker 1: movie you want to watch, you can.

578
00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:49,760
Speaker 3: Order whatever takeaway.

579
00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:53,880
Speaker 2: It is like this really the truest phase of independence

580
00:28:54,560 --> 00:28:56,600
Speaker 2: that I think lean into, that being like I can

581
00:28:56,680 --> 00:28:58,840
Speaker 2: do whatever the fuck I want, which you should be

582
00:28:58,840 --> 00:28:59,120
Speaker 2: able to.

583
00:28:59,120 --> 00:29:00,960
Speaker 4: Do in a healthy, reallyfationship anyway.

584
00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:05,520
Speaker 1: But all relationships also include compromise exactly, So even if

585
00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:07,040
Speaker 1: like you should be able to do that, but you

586
00:29:07,120 --> 00:29:07,880
Speaker 1: also do have.

587
00:29:07,800 --> 00:29:09,600
Speaker 2: To compromise, Like you can't decide what you want to

588
00:29:09,640 --> 00:29:12,080
Speaker 2: watch every night, like sometimes you watch what your partner

589
00:29:12,120 --> 00:29:14,480
Speaker 2: wants to watch even though you don't want to. Whereas

590
00:29:14,520 --> 00:29:16,239
Speaker 2: now you don't have to do that. You don't have

591
00:29:16,320 --> 00:29:18,480
Speaker 2: to watch The Wolf of Wall Street or the Godfather

592
00:29:18,760 --> 00:29:20,520
Speaker 2: or American Psycho anymore.

593
00:29:20,920 --> 00:29:23,480
Speaker 5: That is like worth celebrating in itself, right.

594
00:29:23,640 --> 00:29:26,640
Speaker 1: I also love when you see like the girlies who've

595
00:29:26,680 --> 00:29:29,280
Speaker 1: just gone through a breakup and all of a sudden,

596
00:29:29,600 --> 00:29:31,200
Speaker 1: like their Instagram.

597
00:29:30,760 --> 00:29:34,160
Speaker 6: Is popping the fuck off, like the selfies.

598
00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:36,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, they finally tell Yeah.

599
00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:40,040
Speaker 1: You can tell you should be studied. Yeah, the instagram

600
00:29:40,240 --> 00:29:43,920
Speaker 1: of like a post breakup. I might wait, you're slaying

601
00:29:43,920 --> 00:29:46,960
Speaker 1: a bit too close to the sun. Yeah, you single,

602
00:29:47,920 --> 00:29:50,120
Speaker 1: and you're like I know that, Like you're my ex

603
00:29:50,200 --> 00:29:52,840
Speaker 1: colleaguess cousin who I met one time at their twenty

604
00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:55,840
Speaker 1: fifth Yeah, but I can tell you've got a new

605
00:29:55,920 --> 00:29:56,720
Speaker 1: spine now too.

606
00:29:57,080 --> 00:29:57,760
Speaker 4: I think this is.

607
00:29:57,720 --> 00:30:00,880
Speaker 1: Actually one of my LinkedIn skills. How many times have

608
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Speaker 1: I messaged you, yeah, at like eleven thirty at night

609
00:30:03,880 --> 00:30:05,880
Speaker 1: about someone we met six months ago once and I'm

610
00:30:05,920 --> 00:30:07,360
Speaker 1: like X and X broke up and you're like, how

611
00:30:07,360 --> 00:30:10,600
Speaker 1: do you know what? I'm like yeah, and then scroll

612
00:30:10,640 --> 00:30:12,480
Speaker 1: through it all will bump into them and I remember

613
00:30:12,600 --> 00:30:14,040
Speaker 1: it happened one time and I was like, I think

614
00:30:14,080 --> 00:30:15,640
Speaker 1: this person, this person broke up.

615
00:30:15,600 --> 00:30:18,360
Speaker 2: And you're like, no matter, and then you saw them

616
00:30:18,480 --> 00:30:20,239
Speaker 2: and you're like they did and I was like, oh,

617
00:30:20,240 --> 00:30:20,640
Speaker 2: I know it.

618
00:30:20,840 --> 00:30:21,920
Speaker 5: Yeah I knew it.

619
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Speaker 3: But anyway, sorry, back to the cue.

620
00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:28,440
Speaker 1: But yeah, I also think don't jump into like dating

621
00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:29,400
Speaker 1: dating too quickly.

622
00:30:29,760 --> 00:30:31,160
Speaker 3: I think jump into flirting.

623
00:30:31,720 --> 00:30:33,720
Speaker 5: Yeah, I think you have.

624
00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:36,120
Speaker 1: A flirt if you want to download an app and

625
00:30:36,160 --> 00:30:39,600
Speaker 1: like have a little have a little vindication through that, yeah,

626
00:30:39,720 --> 00:30:40,600
Speaker 1: gell little ego boots.

627
00:30:40,640 --> 00:30:41,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, ye, little ego boosts.

628
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Speaker 4: But I think definitely have a little bit of a.

629
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Speaker 3: Rest and recover.

630
00:30:44,960 --> 00:30:47,680
Speaker 2: That's not to say people can't move on within a

631
00:30:47,680 --> 00:30:50,400
Speaker 2: certain timeframe. I'm like, that is so open to whatever

632
00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:51,160
Speaker 2: people want to do.

633
00:30:51,560 --> 00:30:53,520
Speaker 5: So like, listen to your heart and follow your gut

634
00:30:53,520 --> 00:30:53,800
Speaker 5: with that.

635
00:30:54,120 --> 00:30:55,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, what do you think about?

636
00:30:55,840 --> 00:30:59,440
Speaker 2: Have you ever heard the theory of the bad pancake?

637
00:31:01,480 --> 00:31:03,520
Speaker 6: Do you want to walk the chicks through it? If

638
00:31:03,520 --> 00:31:04,640
Speaker 6: they haven't heard it, I wonder.

639
00:31:04,760 --> 00:31:09,040
Speaker 1: I don't know if this is true, but the theory

640
00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:14,320
Speaker 1: of the bad pancake is or the first pancake. Maybe

641
00:31:14,360 --> 00:31:17,400
Speaker 1: I'm remembering wrong, whatever, the theory of the first pancake

642
00:31:17,640 --> 00:31:21,240
Speaker 1: is that the first person you date after a breakup

643
00:31:21,920 --> 00:31:23,040
Speaker 1: is the bad pancake.

644
00:31:23,120 --> 00:31:24,400
Speaker 6: Yeah, because you test it.

645
00:31:24,560 --> 00:31:27,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, the first pancake you make when you're making pancakes

646
00:31:27,800 --> 00:31:28,920
Speaker 1: is always a bit of a write off.

647
00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:29,800
Speaker 3: You're like, oh, it's the.

648
00:31:29,720 --> 00:31:34,280
Speaker 1: First pancakes, a bit weird shaped, it doesn't quite Yeah,

649
00:31:34,440 --> 00:31:35,719
Speaker 1: it's got heaps of bubbles in it.

650
00:31:35,720 --> 00:31:38,880
Speaker 4: It's not quite right. Yeah, it's still tastes good.

651
00:31:39,080 --> 00:31:41,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's just not it's just not it.

652
00:31:41,480 --> 00:31:42,479
Speaker 5: It's not the best you can do.

653
00:31:42,600 --> 00:31:45,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's your first pancake. So it's your first try

654
00:31:45,280 --> 00:31:46,760
Speaker 4: and you're like, you know what I can do better,

655
00:31:46,920 --> 00:31:50,080
Speaker 4: and you get to the next pancake. I don't know

656
00:31:50,120 --> 00:31:51,160
Speaker 4: if that theory is true.

657
00:31:51,280 --> 00:31:53,640
Speaker 2: I think there's some instances in my life that there's been,

658
00:31:53,680 --> 00:31:55,920
Speaker 2: you know, the first pancake, and then there's been others

659
00:31:55,920 --> 00:31:56,360
Speaker 2: that haven't.

660
00:31:56,520 --> 00:31:58,320
Speaker 6: Yeah, but I think there's some truth to it.

661
00:31:58,400 --> 00:31:59,960
Speaker 2: I think there's definitely a bit of truth to it,

662
00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:02,240
Speaker 2: because sometimes you rush into things.

663
00:32:02,080 --> 00:32:04,320
Speaker 4: And then you're like, oh wait, actually I'm not ready.

664
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Speaker 1: And I think something that I'll add as well is

665
00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:09,800
Speaker 1: that the chick who wrote this in said that she's

666
00:32:09,840 --> 00:32:13,920
Speaker 1: thirty three, and I think that for women especially, there

667
00:32:14,080 --> 00:32:18,000
Speaker 1: is a lot of pressure just due to the conversations

668
00:32:18,040 --> 00:32:20,000
Speaker 1: around you know, the sorts of milestones that we should

669
00:32:20,000 --> 00:32:23,520
Speaker 1: be hitting by a certain age. Unfortunately, you know, the

670
00:32:23,560 --> 00:32:26,520
Speaker 1: biological clock is a real thing and something that a

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Speaker 1: lot of women feel a lot of pressure by. But

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Speaker 1: I just want you to maybe release yourself from a

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Speaker 1: bit of that pressure. It's something that's completely warranted to

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Speaker 1: be thinking about and be concerned by. But from my

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Speaker 1: experiences and conversations with you know, my friends or people

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Speaker 1: who i've you know, known in my life who are

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Speaker 1: in their thirties now, I sometimes think like, are you

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Speaker 1: rushing into this because you feel like you don't have

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Speaker 1: any time left? And I don't want to downplay that

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Speaker 1: concern because it's a serious. But in your thirties, you

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Speaker 1: still have so much life left to live, and I

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Speaker 1: don't want you to throw it away on the bad

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Speaker 1: pancake because of societal pressures. I think it's okay to

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Speaker 1: have it in the back of your mind, but give yourself,

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Speaker 1: you know, you still have time, give yourself time to

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Speaker 1: get to know yourself, like al was saying, and to

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Speaker 1: give yourself the space to meet the right person. Because

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Speaker 1: I also think of, you know, like all the people

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Speaker 1: who would be in their fifties and sixties who get divorced.

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Speaker 4: And then they find the love of their life.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Like, it's never too late to find that person.

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Speaker 1: So I think, also remember that you still have plenty

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Speaker 1: of time and concentrate on getting yourself back to the

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Speaker 1: best version of yourself before you go into a partnership

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Speaker 1: with somebody else.

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Speaker 3: Exactly. That's such a good point.

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Speaker 1: Ah Lie, let you kiss, Let's put back in the

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Speaker 1: put your toe back.

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Speaker 4: In the pond. That's sticking it is. I'm gonna put

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Speaker 4: that in a shirt on a shirt.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll produce the message us the other week and said,

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Speaker 1: I think it's time to put that ship on a

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Speaker 1: shirt on a shirt.

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Speaker 2: And I agree with her and I agree well on

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Speaker 2: that note, chicks, thank you so much for having us

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Speaker 2: in your ear holes.

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Speaker 1: We love to be here. We love it, love being

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Speaker 1: in your holes. We do so every time.

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Speaker 5: She's what the fruit in me?

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Speaker 4: What prude?

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Speaker 3: I don't know?

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Speaker 5: I know you, I know I'm a layered woman.

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Speaker 2: She's a lady in the streets and a prude in

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Speaker 2: the sheets.

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Speaker 4: Go with that.

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Speaker 1: And thanks to you, am I came maid for making

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Speaker 1: this episode of Cheeks happening bad.

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Speaker 4: You can do