1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,440 Speaker 1: Coming up on relatable? What actions make you not trust 2 00:00:03,440 --> 00:00:06,640 Speaker 1: the guy? I really like this fun when he. 3 00:00:06,720 --> 00:00:10,000 Speaker 2: Vapes, Yes, that's honestly gross. 4 00:00:10,119 --> 00:00:11,240 Speaker 3: Ye, rogusting. 5 00:00:11,520 --> 00:00:12,960 Speaker 2: We don't know what they do to your body. Not 6 00:00:13,039 --> 00:00:15,240 Speaker 2: care about his lungs? No, not at all. He doesn't 7 00:00:15,240 --> 00:00:17,520 Speaker 2: care about you. That's doing nothing for his stamina in 8 00:00:17,520 --> 00:00:18,040 Speaker 2: the bedroom. 9 00:00:18,160 --> 00:00:20,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, think about the long term. If you guys date 10 00:00:20,720 --> 00:00:22,720 Speaker 1: for a long period of time, he's going to die earlier. 11 00:00:23,360 --> 00:00:24,360 Speaker 1: He hasn't been thinking about you. 12 00:00:25,160 --> 00:00:27,400 Speaker 2: He doesn't care about your children, He doesn't care about 13 00:00:27,440 --> 00:00:30,360 Speaker 2: you your future, doesn't care about your future. No, he's 14 00:00:30,440 --> 00:00:31,760 Speaker 2: just he wants out of here early. 15 00:00:31,760 --> 00:00:36,320 Speaker 1: He's's puffing away, not thinking about anything. 16 00:00:36,320 --> 00:00:41,519 Speaker 2: Thomas the tankings just going pup pup, running trains through 17 00:00:41,560 --> 00:00:43,599 Speaker 2: the town. Yeah, to be cheating on you as well. 18 00:00:43,960 --> 00:00:46,200 Speaker 2: If he vapes, he cheats, I don't even care. 19 00:00:46,600 --> 00:01:01,840 Speaker 1: Honestly relatable, lad of This podcast is hosted by myself 20 00:01:01,840 --> 00:01:04,920 Speaker 1: Whatddy Clark aka Mummy and my partner in crime, mister 21 00:01:05,000 --> 00:01:09,800 Speaker 1: Jake Craig aka Daddy and mister Daddy. 22 00:01:09,800 --> 00:01:11,200 Speaker 2: What what Shoes? 23 00:01:11,280 --> 00:01:14,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, man's a bit of a bargain too. Guess how 24 00:01:14,600 --> 00:01:19,520 Speaker 1: much how much these solomons cost? One hundred eighty from 25 00:01:19,720 --> 00:01:23,399 Speaker 1: Culture Kings. They were one from one to eighty. Oh wow, 26 00:01:23,560 --> 00:01:24,039 Speaker 1: pretty good. 27 00:01:24,080 --> 00:01:25,520 Speaker 2: Eh. I saw him and I was like, I don't 28 00:01:25,560 --> 00:01:26,560 Speaker 2: really need a new pair of. 29 00:01:26,480 --> 00:01:29,520 Speaker 1: Shoes, but it's so hard to pass up a bargain 30 00:01:29,560 --> 00:01:31,520 Speaker 1: when you love the shoe. They were like, I don't 31 00:01:31,520 --> 00:01:33,440 Speaker 1: know what percentage off, like forty percent off, and then 32 00:01:33,480 --> 00:01:35,120 Speaker 1: you had like a discount code at checkout and I 33 00:01:35,120 --> 00:01:36,960 Speaker 1: got like free shipping and another ten percent. 34 00:01:36,760 --> 00:01:39,080 Speaker 2: Off and I was like, mate, just take my money. Yeah, 35 00:01:39,080 --> 00:01:42,319 Speaker 2: it's too Did they make money on that in the end? 36 00:01:42,480 --> 00:01:43,000 Speaker 2: I don't know why. 37 00:01:43,040 --> 00:01:44,680 Speaker 1: I assume this is a style that they needed to 38 00:01:44,680 --> 00:01:46,080 Speaker 1: get rid of. It's old or something like that. 39 00:01:46,319 --> 00:01:47,760 Speaker 2: So they're just like they're like, we just want to 40 00:01:47,760 --> 00:01:49,000 Speaker 2: make our money back. Yeah exactly. 41 00:01:50,040 --> 00:01:51,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, these probably costs, like I don't know, ten dollars 42 00:01:52,000 --> 00:01:54,480 Speaker 1: to make in a little factory overseas. 43 00:01:54,280 --> 00:01:57,160 Speaker 2: Probably who knows what's Solomon like, they're pretty good to 44 00:01:57,160 --> 00:01:59,760 Speaker 2: be fair in terms of ethics, because what I want 45 00:01:59,800 --> 00:02:02,960 Speaker 2: to I did, because what I want to know is 46 00:02:03,640 --> 00:02:05,760 Speaker 2: would you prefer do you reckon? You would get so 47 00:02:05,800 --> 00:02:08,160 Speaker 2: you got you got got right? They got you with 48 00:02:08,240 --> 00:02:11,560 Speaker 2: the discount. I got good. They got you good and 49 00:02:11,600 --> 00:02:16,640 Speaker 2: then you went through you bought it. Would you still 50 00:02:16,680 --> 00:02:21,360 Speaker 2: get got if they were to say instead of plus 51 00:02:21,400 --> 00:02:24,320 Speaker 2: an extra ten at checkout, if they were to say 52 00:02:25,919 --> 00:02:29,600 Speaker 2: selling for stock price. Oh, I don't know. 53 00:02:29,680 --> 00:02:32,280 Speaker 1: I feel like the do reckon the at checkout. Actually 54 00:02:32,280 --> 00:02:33,680 Speaker 1: ten percent off is to get you to go to 55 00:02:33,760 --> 00:02:35,799 Speaker 1: check out, and then once you're already there you buy it. Yeah, 56 00:02:35,800 --> 00:02:37,680 Speaker 1: because I think the conversion rate once you get from 57 00:02:37,720 --> 00:02:39,919 Speaker 1: your cart to actual checkout. 58 00:02:40,000 --> 00:02:43,200 Speaker 2: Gets like the science gone there. I'm not big on 59 00:02:43,320 --> 00:02:46,120 Speaker 2: the whole, not big on that. They don't have like 60 00:02:46,200 --> 00:02:48,119 Speaker 2: a website where we sell things. So I got got 61 00:02:49,360 --> 00:02:50,880 Speaker 2: that I'm going to I get got all the time 62 00:02:51,840 --> 00:02:54,280 Speaker 2: when you say a good deal, Yeah, yeah, you get got. 63 00:02:54,840 --> 00:02:57,840 Speaker 2: You get got on weird things use my. 64 00:03:01,000 --> 00:03:03,800 Speaker 1: Ah but Jake, today, I wanted to start the episode 65 00:03:05,240 --> 00:03:09,520 Speaker 1: a bit lighthearted. Okay, so we would say we're quite 66 00:03:09,560 --> 00:03:13,920 Speaker 1: good friends, right sure, and going broad spectrum, let's make 67 00:03:13,960 --> 00:03:18,799 Speaker 1: it relatable. A very key characteristic of a friendship is 68 00:03:19,840 --> 00:03:21,080 Speaker 1: sharing clothes. 69 00:03:22,240 --> 00:03:25,560 Speaker 2: You would say, whoa for girls? Maybe? 70 00:03:25,639 --> 00:03:27,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, forget I can guys share T shirts and sht 71 00:03:27,600 --> 00:03:28,920 Speaker 1: on like a night out, like before you go out 72 00:03:30,120 --> 00:03:32,400 Speaker 1: for that? Yes, yeah, what do you think I was 73 00:03:32,400 --> 00:03:32,799 Speaker 1: talking about. 74 00:03:32,840 --> 00:03:34,440 Speaker 2: I don't know. I just feel like maybe I just 75 00:03:34,480 --> 00:03:35,960 Speaker 2: haven't been out for so long since, kind. 76 00:03:35,800 --> 00:03:38,280 Speaker 1: Of slipping mind fair, fair, fair. You don't have many friends. 77 00:03:38,680 --> 00:03:40,400 Speaker 1: I'm not a big fan of wearing my friends clothes 78 00:03:40,400 --> 00:03:46,160 Speaker 1: because we're kind of sun all right, negative Nancy, but 79 00:03:46,360 --> 00:03:49,960 Speaker 1: definitely in girls groups, they share clothes all the time, 80 00:03:50,920 --> 00:03:53,720 Speaker 1: and we don't do it too often, but occasionally we'll go, 81 00:03:54,000 --> 00:03:55,600 Speaker 1: he's a shirt pants? 82 00:03:56,200 --> 00:03:59,440 Speaker 2: Do you recall the item of clothing? Yeah, where's my shorts? 83 00:03:59,480 --> 00:04:06,840 Speaker 2: You fuck up? So I wanted to know if this 84 00:04:07,200 --> 00:04:09,160 Speaker 2: is better than giving the shorts back. 85 00:04:09,720 --> 00:04:13,400 Speaker 1: Okay, so no, I just want them. No, No, let 86 00:04:13,480 --> 00:04:16,320 Speaker 1: me land, let me land. So I don't know, probably 87 00:04:16,360 --> 00:04:17,520 Speaker 1: how no longer it's been. 88 00:04:18,360 --> 00:04:19,320 Speaker 2: I actually don't know. 89 00:04:19,720 --> 00:04:23,760 Speaker 1: Maybe like four months, I would say, no longer, Okay, 90 00:04:23,839 --> 00:04:26,200 Speaker 1: let's go six months, Jake, Yeah, probably it's been there 91 00:04:26,200 --> 00:04:29,200 Speaker 1: a while. I've been ages six months ago. Jake lent 92 00:04:29,279 --> 00:04:33,560 Speaker 1: me a pair of five by Flinn pants shorts or something, Yeah, shorts, 93 00:04:33,680 --> 00:04:35,240 Speaker 1: just because I need some shorts on a hot day 94 00:04:35,720 --> 00:04:37,560 Speaker 1: and they were too big and they're too big for 95 00:04:37,600 --> 00:04:37,880 Speaker 1: you too. 96 00:04:37,920 --> 00:04:39,720 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I need to wear a belt with them. Well, well, 97 00:04:39,839 --> 00:04:41,000 Speaker 2: they're not too big lengthwise. 98 00:04:41,120 --> 00:04:42,800 Speaker 1: But I'm going to show you this video and I 99 00:04:42,920 --> 00:04:45,039 Speaker 1: want you to, like tell me if this is better 100 00:04:45,120 --> 00:04:46,600 Speaker 1: than giving him back, all right, give it here. 101 00:04:46,760 --> 00:04:51,080 Speaker 2: So it's that one that's thirty three seconds, everybody, Jake 102 00:04:51,160 --> 00:04:56,360 Speaker 2: gave me these pants to borrow. Quite not third pants 103 00:04:57,040 --> 00:05:00,920 Speaker 2: five by flint. I keep him here alright, safe, keep 104 00:05:00,960 --> 00:05:07,120 Speaker 2: them safe right here. My door still closes sort of. 105 00:05:07,920 --> 00:05:11,200 Speaker 2: And then when I'm going to sleep, I do all 106 00:05:11,320 --> 00:05:14,400 Speaker 2: do this. So thank you, Jake. 107 00:05:16,080 --> 00:05:18,080 Speaker 1: This goes right in there. 108 00:05:21,000 --> 00:05:25,480 Speaker 2: Man, it's good. You are fucked. My pants are being 109 00:05:25,560 --> 00:05:28,520 Speaker 2: held a hostage and just this is like a ransom. 110 00:05:28,560 --> 00:05:29,920 Speaker 2: What do I need to do to get them back? 111 00:05:30,080 --> 00:05:33,120 Speaker 1: So the other day I had the mental debate because actually, 112 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:35,560 Speaker 1: it's good for you. Every time I go to bed, 113 00:05:35,600 --> 00:05:36,120 Speaker 1: I think of you. 114 00:05:36,800 --> 00:05:40,360 Speaker 2: You own so many clothes, and I know you owned 115 00:05:40,360 --> 00:05:42,000 Speaker 2: so many clothes, and I know you don't throw your 116 00:05:42,040 --> 00:05:44,560 Speaker 2: clothes out, and if you do, it's once every ten years, 117 00:05:44,600 --> 00:05:45,479 Speaker 2: and it's been five. 118 00:05:45,360 --> 00:05:47,560 Speaker 1: So you still have all your clothes, switch them out. 119 00:05:47,600 --> 00:05:49,360 Speaker 1: But your pants do such a good job of being 120 00:05:49,360 --> 00:05:50,440 Speaker 1: a doorstop that. 121 00:05:50,400 --> 00:05:52,279 Speaker 2: Also do a good job of being my pants. 122 00:05:53,839 --> 00:05:56,640 Speaker 1: But what I was gonna say, is is it better 123 00:05:56,680 --> 00:06:00,360 Speaker 1: for you, because every time I put that like my door, 124 00:06:00,360 --> 00:06:00,800 Speaker 1: I think of you. 125 00:06:01,000 --> 00:06:02,960 Speaker 2: It's not better for me because I know you think 126 00:06:03,000 --> 00:06:04,560 Speaker 2: of me on the daily when you see the clip 127 00:06:04,640 --> 00:06:07,280 Speaker 2: that we fucking post. I wouldn't, but I don't think 128 00:06:07,320 --> 00:06:08,800 Speaker 2: of you. I don't think about you at night when 129 00:06:08,800 --> 00:06:12,760 Speaker 2: I go to sleep. That's once a day's enough. Once 130 00:06:12,800 --> 00:06:15,920 Speaker 2: today is plenty. I don't mean twice a day. So 131 00:06:16,160 --> 00:06:19,480 Speaker 2: why I recorded that video. I was actually gonna pick. 132 00:06:19,440 --> 00:06:21,920 Speaker 1: Him up and record him and wash him and give 133 00:06:21,960 --> 00:06:23,159 Speaker 1: them back to you on the pod and get your 134 00:06:23,200 --> 00:06:24,279 Speaker 1: live reaction and you'll be stoked. 135 00:06:24,320 --> 00:06:27,800 Speaker 2: And then and then I thought about it. 136 00:06:28,120 --> 00:06:30,240 Speaker 1: I was like, I'll tell you what's funnier is instead 137 00:06:30,279 --> 00:06:33,000 Speaker 1: of me doing that, I tell him how his pants 138 00:06:33,040 --> 00:06:35,000 Speaker 1: are being being used. 139 00:06:36,160 --> 00:06:39,440 Speaker 2: So there you go, mate, Oh my god, you're not 140 00:06:39,480 --> 00:06:44,000 Speaker 2: getting a back, motherfucker. Oh you're lucky they were free. 141 00:06:45,279 --> 00:06:48,040 Speaker 2: I'll put out there to everyone that he's not as 142 00:06:48,120 --> 00:06:50,960 Speaker 2: bad because they were a gifted item. Yeah, but there's 143 00:06:50,960 --> 00:06:54,760 Speaker 2: still my pants. Technically, does that mean technically I own 144 00:06:54,839 --> 00:06:55,680 Speaker 2: half of them? No? 145 00:06:56,000 --> 00:06:56,040 Speaker 4: What? 146 00:06:56,440 --> 00:06:58,720 Speaker 2: Because we got sent stuff. I remember the day it 147 00:06:58,760 --> 00:07:00,520 Speaker 2: got sent to you. I remember you send it photos 148 00:07:00,560 --> 00:07:02,520 Speaker 2: going this is the stuff we got sent if it's 149 00:07:02,520 --> 00:07:04,520 Speaker 2: all right, I want to choose these items, right, And 150 00:07:04,560 --> 00:07:06,480 Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, cool, I'll just take whatever's left over. Yea, 151 00:07:06,720 --> 00:07:09,040 Speaker 2: A right, which is nice of me. And then you 152 00:07:09,240 --> 00:07:11,040 Speaker 2: fucking use my pants once. And now they're just getting 153 00:07:11,080 --> 00:07:14,760 Speaker 2: using their doors from everybody collecting dust. They were quite dusty. Yeah, 154 00:07:19,320 --> 00:07:20,720 Speaker 2: it's a hard job to do when they do a 155 00:07:20,760 --> 00:07:24,520 Speaker 2: good job at it, mate, I might have to. I 156 00:07:26,280 --> 00:07:28,400 Speaker 2: may suffer defeat here. I have to take the last. 157 00:07:28,440 --> 00:07:32,119 Speaker 2: So I don't know. And what's the bet that because 158 00:07:32,120 --> 00:07:34,240 Speaker 2: I don't go to your house often? What's the bet that? 159 00:07:34,680 --> 00:07:38,800 Speaker 2: Or I got a plan? Thanks guys for listening. Just 160 00:07:38,920 --> 00:07:55,880 Speaker 2: gonna end the episode, just moving one. I actually have 161 00:07:55,920 --> 00:08:01,040 Speaker 2: a question for you away today. What actions make you 162 00:08:01,840 --> 00:08:07,440 Speaker 2: not trust a guy or a girl? Okay, so not 163 00:08:07,560 --> 00:08:10,840 Speaker 2: trust anyone? What's an action? 164 00:08:12,760 --> 00:08:17,800 Speaker 1: I feel like, probably I don't trust people who talk 165 00:08:17,840 --> 00:08:21,000 Speaker 1: themselves up too much. Yeah, who like will say all 166 00:08:21,040 --> 00:08:23,000 Speaker 1: their accolades or everything they've achieved. 167 00:08:23,320 --> 00:08:26,200 Speaker 2: Ye like, yeah, just do it. I don't want to 168 00:08:26,320 --> 00:08:27,760 Speaker 2: hear about it, just do it. And I don't really 169 00:08:27,760 --> 00:08:30,680 Speaker 2: trust them. I don't trust people that just started a business. 170 00:08:31,320 --> 00:08:34,599 Speaker 2: Let's say they're pro Oh oh no, I got a 171 00:08:34,640 --> 00:08:36,960 Speaker 2: better I got a better one. I got I got 172 00:08:37,000 --> 00:08:37,480 Speaker 2: a better one. 173 00:08:39,600 --> 00:08:42,920 Speaker 1: I don't trust an only fan model that says she's 174 00:08:43,000 --> 00:08:46,319 Speaker 1: zero points zero zero, zero point one top percent. 175 00:08:46,120 --> 00:08:47,720 Speaker 2: Of the world because they all are. Yes. 176 00:08:48,040 --> 00:08:50,560 Speaker 1: Fact, I always see that on like stories or share 177 00:08:50,640 --> 00:08:53,560 Speaker 1: or whatever, and I'm just like, how is every single 178 00:08:53,640 --> 00:08:56,079 Speaker 1: one zero point zero zero one top percent? 179 00:08:56,400 --> 00:08:58,360 Speaker 2: Why are those stories are even say that you're looking at? 180 00:08:59,440 --> 00:09:02,200 Speaker 2: I just know you mean they just pop up everywhere? 181 00:09:02,679 --> 00:09:03,120 Speaker 3: Know what you mean? 182 00:09:04,280 --> 00:09:08,520 Speaker 2: I don't trust Addie fucking Clark. Give I thought we 183 00:09:08,640 --> 00:09:12,880 Speaker 2: left that in the last segment. But ig question this week, 184 00:09:12,920 --> 00:09:16,480 Speaker 2: Ottie is what actions make you not trust a guy? 185 00:09:17,360 --> 00:09:21,280 Speaker 2: Got some good answers, Mate, You could say anything, I will. 186 00:09:21,679 --> 00:09:24,880 Speaker 2: I will start and I will start off with what 187 00:09:25,040 --> 00:09:27,400 Speaker 2: actions make you not trust a guy? This one says, 188 00:09:27,960 --> 00:09:30,720 Speaker 2: I always say never trust a man with legs or arms. 189 00:09:32,800 --> 00:09:33,679 Speaker 2: We're the same person. 190 00:09:34,000 --> 00:09:36,440 Speaker 1: What actions make you not trust the guy being a guy? 191 00:09:38,520 --> 00:09:42,920 Speaker 1: The fact that he is a having nuts and ballsack? Hey, 192 00:09:43,120 --> 00:09:46,079 Speaker 1: I say, fuck, I second that. Yeah, say mate, what 193 00:09:46,240 --> 00:09:49,319 Speaker 1: actions make you not trust a guy when he's. 194 00:09:49,240 --> 00:09:54,280 Speaker 2: Mean to his mom? That's the worst thing to see 195 00:09:54,320 --> 00:09:56,240 Speaker 2: as a friend or a partner or anything like that. 196 00:09:56,480 --> 00:09:58,880 Speaker 2: No respect for the person that's like the most important 197 00:09:58,880 --> 00:10:01,400 Speaker 2: in your life, the person that do you facts. Yeah, 198 00:10:01,640 --> 00:10:04,199 Speaker 2: carried you for nine months. Yeah, you gave her a 199 00:10:04,280 --> 00:10:07,720 Speaker 2: stretch mark, your chubby little one more in more than 200 00:10:07,800 --> 00:10:12,839 Speaker 2: one place. Yeah, when you're deeper like that, it's so 201 00:10:12,960 --> 00:10:15,240 Speaker 2: disrespect How can you be disrespectful to the one whose 202 00:10:15,400 --> 00:10:16,200 Speaker 2: boobs you sucked? 203 00:10:18,840 --> 00:10:22,800 Speaker 1: Well, if you go down that avenue exactly technically, well, 204 00:10:22,840 --> 00:10:25,280 Speaker 1: you obviously shouldn't be disrespectful to your partner, but that 205 00:10:25,640 --> 00:10:26,880 Speaker 1: they're in that category two. 206 00:10:27,600 --> 00:10:30,480 Speaker 4: I would assume that the booms have also been Yeah, 207 00:10:33,760 --> 00:10:39,440 Speaker 4: coming from what speaking from experience, you've been mommy, give 208 00:10:39,480 --> 00:10:39,960 Speaker 4: me some meal. 209 00:10:42,440 --> 00:10:44,199 Speaker 2: We've been getting better at dirty talk to even do 210 00:10:44,360 --> 00:10:47,480 Speaker 2: some dirty talk stuff you and me on the pod. 211 00:10:47,600 --> 00:10:51,760 Speaker 2: We were doing it. You women getting good? 212 00:10:51,840 --> 00:10:57,320 Speaker 1: Man, What actions make you not trust the guy? Hair 213 00:10:57,440 --> 00:11:00,440 Speaker 1: tie in the car? Of course a different one then 214 00:11:00,480 --> 00:11:04,840 Speaker 1: I wear damn that one's Actually that's probably the best 215 00:11:04,960 --> 00:11:05,720 Speaker 1: response I saw. 216 00:11:05,960 --> 00:11:07,400 Speaker 2: That is so fair. 217 00:11:07,600 --> 00:11:12,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, wow, I hope she doesn't confuse my I sometimes 218 00:11:12,160 --> 00:11:14,199 Speaker 1: I've been getting sushi a little bit recently, and I 219 00:11:14,320 --> 00:11:16,640 Speaker 1: put the elastic band. It comes on an elastic band. 220 00:11:16,640 --> 00:11:19,920 Speaker 1: I put it over my manual thing you've been getting 221 00:11:19,920 --> 00:11:22,040 Speaker 1: sushi just like the chicken one occasionally, do you not 222 00:11:22,160 --> 00:11:23,839 Speaker 1: mind it? I don't mind the chicken one, that's about it, 223 00:11:24,840 --> 00:11:26,400 Speaker 1: because it's quick and easy. I don't have to wait 224 00:11:26,480 --> 00:11:27,280 Speaker 1: and then like I'll just get one. 225 00:11:27,440 --> 00:11:29,920 Speaker 2: What about the seaweed, I don't. I don't think you 226 00:11:30,040 --> 00:11:31,559 Speaker 2: just you just it's something to put down. 227 00:11:31,640 --> 00:11:34,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, well it's rice chicken like it's it's still semi good. Yeah, 228 00:11:34,840 --> 00:11:36,360 Speaker 1: it's not like overly processed. 229 00:11:36,480 --> 00:11:39,720 Speaker 2: Proud man. You could go to sushi with Cassie now, yeah, 230 00:11:39,880 --> 00:11:41,360 Speaker 2: but just get a simple role and she can get 231 00:11:41,400 --> 00:11:44,439 Speaker 2: You don't have to get the fancy like Nigeri and stuff. Yeah. 232 00:11:44,480 --> 00:11:45,959 Speaker 2: I don't even know that. I don't even know what 233 00:11:45,960 --> 00:11:51,040 Speaker 2: that means, like raw fish but no facts. A fuck, 234 00:11:51,120 --> 00:11:53,240 Speaker 2: that's so true. I saw a funny thing and it 235 00:11:53,400 --> 00:11:57,680 Speaker 2: was a guy with like have you seen the trend 236 00:11:57,760 --> 00:12:01,280 Speaker 2: of the goblin and the goblin sound on TikTok. It's 237 00:12:01,360 --> 00:12:03,559 Speaker 2: kind of just like a mischievous sound and like a 238 00:12:03,640 --> 00:12:09,360 Speaker 2: mischievous looking goblin. And it's like me when I throw 239 00:12:10,400 --> 00:12:13,040 Speaker 2: like a random scrunchy that I bought into my friend's 240 00:12:13,120 --> 00:12:16,839 Speaker 2: car three weeks before the lad's holidays. I was like, 241 00:12:17,240 --> 00:12:20,320 Speaker 2: come on, oh, that's a stitch a babe. 242 00:12:20,480 --> 00:12:23,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, thinking about it, you should do that to your mate, Say, 243 00:12:23,240 --> 00:12:25,520 Speaker 1: any boys listening, just a couple of hair. 244 00:12:25,520 --> 00:12:29,360 Speaker 2: Tyes something you could do if you need them to 245 00:12:29,400 --> 00:12:29,800 Speaker 2: break up. 246 00:12:30,640 --> 00:12:32,920 Speaker 1: No, I meant like your friend doesn't have a girlfriend, 247 00:12:33,679 --> 00:12:36,320 Speaker 1: and like just to pretend like he's got Yeah. 248 00:12:36,720 --> 00:12:38,760 Speaker 2: And then like you go to get in you've chucked 249 00:12:38,800 --> 00:12:40,560 Speaker 2: the haird time and you go what's this way? 250 00:12:41,040 --> 00:12:41,480 Speaker 3: What's this? 251 00:12:41,720 --> 00:12:43,719 Speaker 2: And he's like what do you mean? And then you're like, 252 00:12:43,960 --> 00:12:47,160 Speaker 2: who's been in here? And then yeah, and they're gonna 253 00:12:47,160 --> 00:12:50,240 Speaker 2: be like genuinely no one, Yeah, I'm telling you, And 254 00:12:50,280 --> 00:12:51,560 Speaker 2: they're like, hey, don't you don't. 255 00:12:51,440 --> 00:12:52,000 Speaker 3: Have to lie to what? 256 00:12:52,400 --> 00:12:56,040 Speaker 2: You can fuck with it? Literally? Holy shit? What's something 257 00:12:56,080 --> 00:12:57,880 Speaker 2: of a guy that could be left in a girl's car? 258 00:12:58,760 --> 00:13:02,200 Speaker 2: When do we hold socks? I was thinking socks too? Maybe, 259 00:13:02,320 --> 00:13:04,920 Speaker 2: like I do know some lint pockets. I feel like 260 00:13:04,920 --> 00:13:07,280 Speaker 2: I always have lint in my pocket. Some spare change, 261 00:13:08,640 --> 00:13:12,800 Speaker 2: get a receipt from like Autobar or something, put it in. 262 00:13:15,160 --> 00:13:18,320 Speaker 1: No, go buy something, go full depth, go to mobile, 263 00:13:18,720 --> 00:13:21,000 Speaker 1: you can do that. Yeah, go to like some like 264 00:13:21,120 --> 00:13:24,040 Speaker 1: manly shop at fishing shop, like Freddie's Fishing World or 265 00:13:24,120 --> 00:13:26,400 Speaker 1: like an adventure shop, and then sign up for the program. 266 00:13:26,520 --> 00:13:28,920 Speaker 1: So on the receipt it says a guy's name. Yes, 267 00:13:30,360 --> 00:13:32,000 Speaker 1: so it will say Jake, And then get the receipt 268 00:13:32,040 --> 00:13:33,959 Speaker 1: and put it in your girlfriend's color single that is 269 00:13:34,240 --> 00:13:36,400 Speaker 1: so good, and then stitch her up with the girls? 270 00:13:38,280 --> 00:13:41,560 Speaker 2: What are we talking about that? It's pretty funny if 271 00:13:41,559 --> 00:13:47,360 Speaker 2: she singles like don't stitch up? Yeah, okay ship? What 272 00:13:47,559 --> 00:13:50,840 Speaker 2: actions make you not trust a guy when he calls 273 00:13:51,040 --> 00:13:55,599 Speaker 2: every girl from his past crazy? Yeah? Common, that's a 274 00:13:55,640 --> 00:13:58,880 Speaker 2: red flag. Red flag, just like you don't need to 275 00:13:59,040 --> 00:14:01,920 Speaker 2: like save face of what it was. No, just so 276 00:14:02,000 --> 00:14:04,120 Speaker 2: if you made a mistake in the past relationship own it. 277 00:14:04,360 --> 00:14:06,320 Speaker 1: Just be nice too, Like they don't know your ex. 278 00:14:06,760 --> 00:14:08,480 Speaker 1: Just be like, oh yeah it didn't work it Yeah. 279 00:14:08,320 --> 00:14:10,319 Speaker 2: Simple as that. But she's a fucking bitch. She's a 280 00:14:10,400 --> 00:14:11,800 Speaker 2: crazy bitch, insane. 281 00:14:11,960 --> 00:14:14,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, I reckon that many dudes. To be fair, equally, 282 00:14:15,000 --> 00:14:17,800 Speaker 1: I think male and female would talk shit about their 283 00:14:18,200 --> 00:14:19,800 Speaker 1: previous previous true. 284 00:14:19,920 --> 00:14:22,200 Speaker 2: I always I kind of try and steer clear. I 285 00:14:22,320 --> 00:14:25,040 Speaker 2: think I don't like talking about him in general. 286 00:14:25,200 --> 00:14:25,720 Speaker 3: No, me neither. 287 00:14:25,840 --> 00:14:29,400 Speaker 2: Yeah. I actually I had I actually had a really 288 00:14:29,480 --> 00:14:32,320 Speaker 2: crazy x so it is unfortunate for people that do 289 00:14:32,440 --> 00:14:34,800 Speaker 2: have that. True if you were to bring it up, 290 00:14:34,960 --> 00:14:38,080 Speaker 2: like what's your past, like yours is justified, mine's just 291 00:14:38,120 --> 00:14:40,960 Speaker 2: fighting ways. But it's also kind of like what if you. 292 00:14:41,000 --> 00:14:42,840 Speaker 1: Say, like she was crazy and then one of the 293 00:14:42,880 --> 00:14:44,000 Speaker 1: actions she did, I. 294 00:14:44,000 --> 00:14:46,480 Speaker 2: Could definitely yeah, he's actually he's the thing. It's like 295 00:14:46,720 --> 00:14:49,200 Speaker 2: I could say, oh, I had this one crazy accent. 296 00:14:49,240 --> 00:14:50,320 Speaker 2: If they were to go or would you do? I 297 00:14:50,360 --> 00:14:52,400 Speaker 2: could be like, oh, have you got time? Yeah? I 298 00:14:52,440 --> 00:14:54,520 Speaker 2: could list stuff off if they can't list stuff off. Yeah. 299 00:14:54,600 --> 00:14:54,800 Speaker 5: True. 300 00:14:54,880 --> 00:14:56,600 Speaker 2: If it's like she didn't really go out with the bulls, 301 00:14:58,520 --> 00:14:59,200 Speaker 2: I don't think. 302 00:14:59,080 --> 00:15:05,120 Speaker 1: That's a valid Yeah, poor Jake, what actions make you 303 00:15:05,240 --> 00:15:08,040 Speaker 1: not trust a guy? Him being nonchalant? 304 00:15:09,920 --> 00:15:14,760 Speaker 2: Again? What fuck? We have said this before. Don't be nonchalant, 305 00:15:14,840 --> 00:15:20,160 Speaker 2: be shaloon. Most people naturally aren't nonchalant. No, people, if 306 00:15:20,200 --> 00:15:23,640 Speaker 2: you are naturally nonchalant, first off, you're kind of cool, 307 00:15:24,280 --> 00:15:27,600 Speaker 2: envious of you. But also I have a quarrying question 308 00:15:27,720 --> 00:15:32,400 Speaker 2: for you. Is chalon is that word? Friends? Chalo? I 309 00:15:32,440 --> 00:15:35,840 Speaker 2: feel like no, yeah, there's no way that stuff. I 310 00:15:35,960 --> 00:15:40,280 Speaker 2: tell you what this works with? Upper up? Wait, maybe 311 00:15:40,320 --> 00:15:44,160 Speaker 2: that's where Schalan upper land. We have that debate on Patreon. 312 00:15:44,480 --> 00:15:46,720 Speaker 1: I don't know what you use the word after I 313 00:15:46,840 --> 00:15:50,320 Speaker 1: used the word upper chulant to describe something that was good, AND's. 314 00:15:49,880 --> 00:15:53,160 Speaker 2: Like what that might name like stop sucking some big ways. 315 00:15:53,280 --> 00:15:54,880 Speaker 2: And the other day on the phone even you've finished 316 00:15:54,880 --> 00:15:56,320 Speaker 2: in practicing, we were we had a phone call the 317 00:15:56,360 --> 00:15:58,240 Speaker 2: other day and you were like, I said something, you go, 318 00:15:58,400 --> 00:16:02,440 Speaker 2: they probably mitigates what I'm about to say. I was driving, 319 00:16:02,800 --> 00:16:06,640 Speaker 2: so I couldn't say anything I like, and it did 320 00:16:07,720 --> 00:16:09,920 Speaker 2: that the right de is that like what is mitigate? Me? 321 00:16:10,080 --> 00:16:12,400 Speaker 2: Like disregarded what I was about to say? Right, okay, okay, 322 00:16:12,520 --> 00:16:15,240 Speaker 2: fair because you said like first said something yeah, and 323 00:16:15,320 --> 00:16:17,800 Speaker 2: then you're basically means, oh, I was going to ask this, 324 00:16:17,880 --> 00:16:20,440 Speaker 2: but I don't even need to ask it. Yeah, you answer, 325 00:16:20,880 --> 00:16:23,600 Speaker 2: you asked me, You answered my question for it, Okay, mitigate. 326 00:16:23,640 --> 00:16:24,440 Speaker 2: I'm a genius man. 327 00:16:26,000 --> 00:16:30,440 Speaker 1: Occasionally I'll get the word right. Yeah, I'm just throwing throwing. 328 00:16:30,160 --> 00:16:32,280 Speaker 2: Things at the wall. You're like a guy that messages 329 00:16:32,360 --> 00:16:34,640 Speaker 2: like ten girls a day and every now and then 330 00:16:34,800 --> 00:16:36,440 Speaker 2: I don't like none of them replies. 331 00:16:37,680 --> 00:16:39,600 Speaker 1: I like the analogy of throwing something at the wall, 332 00:16:39,640 --> 00:16:42,360 Speaker 1: and like I reckon, like six out of ten hitting yeah, okay, 333 00:16:42,440 --> 00:16:43,520 Speaker 1: like sometimes it's sticks. 334 00:16:43,560 --> 00:16:44,520 Speaker 2: The other day I called a. 335 00:16:46,080 --> 00:16:54,920 Speaker 1: Pregnancy doctor an orthodontist. That one didn't stick. No, that's 336 00:16:54,960 --> 00:16:58,760 Speaker 1: just that's so far wrong. Okay, you gotta try, but 337 00:17:00,320 --> 00:17:04,280 Speaker 1: to be fair, the attempts are noble. Yeah, noble attempts. 338 00:17:05,359 --> 00:17:08,720 Speaker 2: What actions make you not trust a guy? Snapchat is 339 00:17:08,800 --> 00:17:10,240 Speaker 2: his main form of communication? 340 00:17:10,440 --> 00:17:14,879 Speaker 1: Oh? Yeah, facts, unless you're like eighteen still, yeah I can. 341 00:17:15,200 --> 00:17:17,800 Speaker 1: The only good thing about Snapchat is like group chat 342 00:17:17,840 --> 00:17:20,560 Speaker 1: for the boys, like sharing videos and the girls sharing 343 00:17:20,640 --> 00:17:23,240 Speaker 1: videos our main form. No, no, no, Like if I 344 00:17:24,040 --> 00:17:25,400 Speaker 1: was talking to a girl, I wouldn't be like, let's 345 00:17:25,440 --> 00:17:28,560 Speaker 1: go on Snapchat? Yeah no unless like, yeah, I feel 346 00:17:28,560 --> 00:17:30,879 Speaker 1: like it's icky fair, very ikey. 347 00:17:30,920 --> 00:17:33,600 Speaker 2: I have another Snapchat one, I'll go again. What actions 348 00:17:33,640 --> 00:17:36,840 Speaker 2: make you not trust a guy when his snap score 349 00:17:37,200 --> 00:17:42,000 Speaker 2: is over one million? How's that possible? Like? I want 350 00:17:42,000 --> 00:17:44,600 Speaker 2: to find we've had Snapchat since? When did it come out? Mate? 351 00:17:44,640 --> 00:17:47,560 Speaker 2: I have had Snapchat since year seven at least. I 352 00:17:47,640 --> 00:17:50,520 Speaker 2: remember people had a meal when we were in high school. No, yeah, 353 00:17:50,640 --> 00:17:52,480 Speaker 2: how do I check my snapschoore? I have four hundred 354 00:17:52,520 --> 00:17:55,080 Speaker 2: and eighteen thousand? I have two hundred and seventy two thousand, 355 00:17:55,240 --> 00:17:56,400 Speaker 2: nearly two hundred and seventy three. 356 00:17:56,400 --> 00:17:58,920 Speaker 1: To be fair, you have notifications turned off for Snapchat. Yeah, 357 00:17:58,920 --> 00:18:00,600 Speaker 1: so you don't even go on that sorely go on it. 358 00:18:00,720 --> 00:18:02,280 Speaker 1: The only reason I like use it is me and 359 00:18:02,400 --> 00:18:04,480 Speaker 1: my girlfriend have a five hundred and twenty seven days streak. 360 00:18:04,720 --> 00:18:06,240 Speaker 2: Oh shit, there you go, and we got it the 361 00:18:06,240 --> 00:18:08,000 Speaker 2: first day where to sleep ever, Well, there you go. 362 00:18:08,160 --> 00:18:09,639 Speaker 2: See it's kind of a good reason to have it. 363 00:18:09,720 --> 00:18:12,000 Speaker 2: You wasn't your main form of communication before her. We 364 00:18:12,040 --> 00:18:13,520 Speaker 2: don't even talk on that. We literally just send a. 365 00:18:15,240 --> 00:18:17,199 Speaker 1: She will send me like videos of like her day 366 00:18:17,240 --> 00:18:18,920 Speaker 1: that she sends all the girls, And I'm like, don't 367 00:18:18,960 --> 00:18:22,280 Speaker 1: send me there, Like you. 368 00:18:22,280 --> 00:18:24,040 Speaker 2: Think I have time to watch it? Just call me? Yeah, 369 00:18:25,440 --> 00:18:27,919 Speaker 2: Like I want individual ones. You're gonna do hear tr 370 00:18:28,080 --> 00:18:28,880 Speaker 2: Yeah make me feel space? 371 00:18:29,080 --> 00:18:29,680 Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah. 372 00:18:29,880 --> 00:18:32,919 Speaker 1: So she says all these references that like if they 373 00:18:32,960 --> 00:18:34,960 Speaker 1: were for me, I would know them, but she's saying 374 00:18:34,960 --> 00:18:36,440 Speaker 1: it in broad spectrum for all the girls groups. 375 00:18:36,560 --> 00:18:39,920 Speaker 2: I'm like, I know this about you, like, yeah, things 376 00:18:40,000 --> 00:18:41,680 Speaker 2: need Yeah, there's things she doesn't need to say because 377 00:18:41,680 --> 00:18:44,840 Speaker 2: you would know it, yeah, exactly, And she doesn't notice 378 00:18:44,840 --> 00:18:45,600 Speaker 2: the haircut. Yeah. 379 00:18:46,760 --> 00:18:49,879 Speaker 1: In my bad books lately, in my bad books, what 380 00:18:50,080 --> 00:18:53,240 Speaker 1: actions make you not trust? A guy takes his phone 381 00:18:53,400 --> 00:18:56,800 Speaker 1: everywhere with him and when he's with me lays the 382 00:18:56,840 --> 00:18:57,800 Speaker 1: screen down. 383 00:18:58,320 --> 00:18:58,720 Speaker 3: Facts. 384 00:18:59,200 --> 00:19:01,200 Speaker 2: I had one that was what actually makes you not 385 00:19:01,400 --> 00:19:05,400 Speaker 2: trust a guy when he has the privacy screen protector? 386 00:19:06,160 --> 00:19:07,520 Speaker 2: Or that's where you like when you can't see it 387 00:19:07,560 --> 00:19:10,760 Speaker 2: from the side, like why was that invented? Like what 388 00:19:10,840 --> 00:19:12,440 Speaker 2: are you looking at? Because people want to cheat, like 389 00:19:12,520 --> 00:19:14,600 Speaker 2: what are you looking at? But like at work, you're 390 00:19:14,640 --> 00:19:17,840 Speaker 2: just like, oh, yeah, that's what's important. You've got your 391 00:19:17,880 --> 00:19:20,159 Speaker 2: screen protector onto the bodies, Like yeah, just do it 392 00:19:20,240 --> 00:19:22,520 Speaker 2: to work mate. You know what's funny is I have 393 00:19:22,800 --> 00:19:27,200 Speaker 2: nothing bad on my phone right neither. I have nothing 394 00:19:27,240 --> 00:19:29,560 Speaker 2: bad on my phone. Probably some memes that shouldn't be seen, 395 00:19:29,680 --> 00:19:32,200 Speaker 2: yeah's true. Probably have some memes that like my sister 396 00:19:32,280 --> 00:19:36,480 Speaker 2: has sent me the shouldn't be looking at Instagram algorithm bad. 397 00:19:37,200 --> 00:19:41,199 Speaker 2: But I and and SO say I'm in the car 398 00:19:41,280 --> 00:19:44,119 Speaker 2: I'm driving, and Beth, I don't know once you go 399 00:19:44,280 --> 00:19:47,760 Speaker 2: change the song. Yeah, I have nothing on my phone. 400 00:19:48,119 --> 00:19:49,600 Speaker 2: I could give her my phone for two weeks, I 401 00:19:49,600 --> 00:19:50,399 Speaker 2: don't care. She'd go through it. 402 00:19:50,480 --> 00:19:50,679 Speaker 3: She did. 403 00:19:50,760 --> 00:19:53,120 Speaker 2: She never does, she never has, she probably never will. Yeah, 404 00:19:53,320 --> 00:19:54,920 Speaker 2: but but that's trust, that's trust. 405 00:19:55,040 --> 00:19:55,200 Speaker 1: Yeah. 406 00:19:56,160 --> 00:19:58,560 Speaker 2: But still when she goes on my phone, I'm kind 407 00:19:58,600 --> 00:20:01,159 Speaker 2: of like, what does she like? What if I accidentally 408 00:20:01,560 --> 00:20:02,119 Speaker 2: did something? 409 00:20:02,200 --> 00:20:03,800 Speaker 1: What if I To be fair, I'm kind of like, 410 00:20:03,880 --> 00:20:07,040 Speaker 1: oh shit, what if I Actually I'm kind of scared. Still, 411 00:20:07,160 --> 00:20:09,080 Speaker 1: there's something in your gut. To be fair, I don't 412 00:20:09,119 --> 00:20:12,600 Speaker 1: know every single photo in my photo, Like there's swimming, 413 00:20:12,760 --> 00:20:15,160 Speaker 1: there's like ten thousand photos there, and I'm like, I don't. 414 00:20:14,960 --> 00:20:18,760 Speaker 2: Know what's in there. Yeah, I mean, to be fair, 415 00:20:19,080 --> 00:20:22,200 Speaker 2: I'm pretty I think it's risk free for me because 416 00:20:22,200 --> 00:20:25,879 Speaker 2: I've never never done the nudes thing or No, I 417 00:20:25,960 --> 00:20:27,440 Speaker 2: don't have any nudes from people that are going to 418 00:20:27,440 --> 00:20:30,960 Speaker 2: be an unexpected pop up in a memory or anything. No, never, neither. 419 00:20:31,680 --> 00:20:34,680 Speaker 1: But I think it's more for like in that talking 420 00:20:34,800 --> 00:20:37,880 Speaker 1: stage when people will like have something on their phone 421 00:20:37,920 --> 00:20:40,160 Speaker 1: that they probably shouldn't from a past relationship. 422 00:20:40,440 --> 00:20:42,399 Speaker 2: They haven't done the clean out or anything like that. 423 00:20:42,520 --> 00:20:44,399 Speaker 2: I wouldn't even be worried if I forgot to delete 424 00:20:44,400 --> 00:20:47,159 Speaker 2: a photo of a past girlfriend, because it's part of 425 00:20:47,200 --> 00:20:48,600 Speaker 2: your life. I think that's something you love about it 426 00:20:48,760 --> 00:20:50,920 Speaker 2: if I saw it I'd be like, oh yeah, to 427 00:20:50,920 --> 00:20:51,760 Speaker 2: get that one. Yeah. 428 00:20:53,080 --> 00:20:56,000 Speaker 1: I have a problem with the taking phone everywhere and 429 00:20:56,480 --> 00:20:59,360 Speaker 1: screen down. I do that unconsciously sometimes, like I put 430 00:20:59,400 --> 00:21:02,080 Speaker 1: my screen down so I don't get disturbed. Yeah, because 431 00:21:02,119 --> 00:21:03,520 Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't want anyone to message me. And 432 00:21:03,520 --> 00:21:04,800 Speaker 1: if I put on my phone down, it's like maybe 433 00:21:04,840 --> 00:21:06,600 Speaker 1: that's what toxic people say there. I don't want to 434 00:21:06,600 --> 00:21:10,399 Speaker 1: get disturbed. I don't have nothing to hide because our 435 00:21:10,480 --> 00:21:12,359 Speaker 1: job all is like twenty four to seven. On this phone, 436 00:21:12,880 --> 00:21:15,160 Speaker 1: something's always going on, So I'm just like, phone down. 437 00:21:15,080 --> 00:21:16,679 Speaker 2: Do not disturb. I try to shut off. 438 00:21:16,760 --> 00:21:18,639 Speaker 1: Sometimes this is your girlfriend always do this too, Like 439 00:21:18,960 --> 00:21:20,520 Speaker 1: you're on the couch or something and you're like in 440 00:21:20,600 --> 00:21:22,560 Speaker 1: a position that like you're facing the opposite when you're 441 00:21:22,560 --> 00:21:23,760 Speaker 1: on your phone, like yeah, and she's like, what are 442 00:21:23,760 --> 00:21:27,359 Speaker 1: you hiding? I'm like, what do you I'm looking at 443 00:21:27,400 --> 00:21:33,360 Speaker 1: fucking car parks. I yeah, no, I'm trying to think 444 00:21:33,440 --> 00:21:36,360 Speaker 1: I'm pretty. It's definitely annoying. 445 00:21:36,800 --> 00:21:38,720 Speaker 2: I saw one that said when he takes his phone 446 00:21:38,760 --> 00:21:40,639 Speaker 2: to the bathroom, and I was like, first of all, 447 00:21:40,640 --> 00:21:43,200 Speaker 2: if he's shitting, obviously he's taking his phone to the bathroom. Yeah, 448 00:21:43,320 --> 00:21:45,800 Speaker 2: And second of all, I'm not gonna lie. My brain's 449 00:21:45,800 --> 00:21:48,200 Speaker 2: so rotten that i'll scroll TikTok one pisson. Oh, I'll 450 00:21:48,280 --> 00:21:50,200 Speaker 2: risk it. I'll risk that shit and just let it go, 451 00:21:50,280 --> 00:21:52,480 Speaker 2: and I'll scroll TikTok one pisson my own house or 452 00:21:52,480 --> 00:21:53,520 Speaker 2: a public place. 453 00:21:53,520 --> 00:21:55,560 Speaker 1: They're going to a toilet one hundred percent. Yea, I've 454 00:21:55,560 --> 00:21:57,760 Speaker 1: told you about the time. This isn't bad at all. 455 00:21:57,800 --> 00:21:59,840 Speaker 1: But when I was single, when I went out and 456 00:21:59,880 --> 00:22:02,040 Speaker 1: I had porn on my phone, when he went to 457 00:22:02,080 --> 00:22:04,760 Speaker 1: look something up, yea, because you didn't delete it, Like, yeah, 458 00:22:05,000 --> 00:22:07,080 Speaker 1: we're having like a debate and we're like, let's look 459 00:22:07,080 --> 00:22:09,239 Speaker 1: it up. I think it was even me And then 460 00:22:09,280 --> 00:22:11,240 Speaker 1: I went to pull up Safari and then there was 461 00:22:11,240 --> 00:22:13,399 Speaker 1: a straight porn on that and we were like we 462 00:22:13,520 --> 00:22:15,440 Speaker 1: laughed about it. I was like, I was like everyone 463 00:22:15,520 --> 00:22:15,760 Speaker 1: does it? 464 00:22:17,840 --> 00:22:23,280 Speaker 2: Is it? Yeah? Okay? What actions make you not trust 465 00:22:23,320 --> 00:22:27,440 Speaker 2: a guy? Guys who want to compare hand size instantly? 466 00:22:28,000 --> 00:22:31,080 Speaker 2: Oh really? I kind of thought that was like a cute, 467 00:22:31,080 --> 00:22:31,920 Speaker 2: little flirty thing. Yeah. 468 00:22:31,920 --> 00:22:33,200 Speaker 1: I thought that was like a flirty thing to like 469 00:22:33,359 --> 00:22:36,840 Speaker 1: get you touching early. Yeah, does he know what he's 470 00:22:36,880 --> 00:22:37,440 Speaker 1: doing too much? 471 00:22:37,600 --> 00:22:39,119 Speaker 2: Well? Yeah, we do it for a reason. Yeah, But 472 00:22:39,200 --> 00:22:42,520 Speaker 2: does he know too much? Like when he's like too confident, 473 00:22:42,560 --> 00:22:45,240 Speaker 2: I don't trust him. The thing it's like a classically 474 00:22:45,359 --> 00:22:48,240 Speaker 2: you go hand size and then you just got the interlock. 475 00:22:49,840 --> 00:22:51,520 Speaker 2: Yeah I can see that. Yeah, he knows too much. 476 00:22:51,560 --> 00:22:53,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, I can see the Like why that makes sense? 477 00:22:53,920 --> 00:22:56,879 Speaker 1: What actions make you not trust the guy saying sorry 478 00:22:56,920 --> 00:22:58,960 Speaker 1: but not changing facts? 479 00:23:00,640 --> 00:23:04,160 Speaker 2: Common? By the way, Yeah, the word sorry means nothing 480 00:23:04,240 --> 00:23:07,720 Speaker 2: unless there's actually like something behind it. I tell you 481 00:23:07,840 --> 00:23:08,239 Speaker 2: a good one. 482 00:23:08,280 --> 00:23:11,080 Speaker 1: Actually, What actions make you not trust the guy flowers 483 00:23:11,119 --> 00:23:12,080 Speaker 1: when they've done something wrong? 484 00:23:12,880 --> 00:23:16,560 Speaker 2: Oh? Yeah, Like I don't think that should be the 485 00:23:16,560 --> 00:23:18,640 Speaker 2: reason why you feel obliged to buy our girl flowers? 486 00:23:18,840 --> 00:23:22,800 Speaker 2: True change, Yeah, you should change, be sorry and change 487 00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:25,600 Speaker 2: what you did. You don't have to be proving that 488 00:23:25,680 --> 00:23:29,600 Speaker 2: you're sorry straight away. You need to prove it over time. Yes, 489 00:23:30,240 --> 00:23:31,879 Speaker 2: buy flowers because you want to buy flowers because you 490 00:23:31,920 --> 00:23:33,680 Speaker 2: want to get out of the bad books exactly? And 491 00:23:33,880 --> 00:23:37,359 Speaker 2: like does that work? Surely not? I don't know. Maybe 492 00:23:37,680 --> 00:23:39,520 Speaker 2: mentally it's kind of like, well, you're gonna be flowers, 493 00:23:39,520 --> 00:23:44,080 Speaker 2: maybe like an expensive back by true ye blabe b yeah, 494 00:23:44,480 --> 00:23:47,080 Speaker 2: something that that would get true if you're gonna do it, 495 00:23:47,520 --> 00:23:49,720 Speaker 2: if you're going to buy something as a sorry, it 496 00:23:49,840 --> 00:23:55,320 Speaker 2: needs to hurt the bank. Yeah, fifty dollars of flowers. Nah, 497 00:23:55,520 --> 00:23:59,320 Speaker 2: can't be flowers because I reckon twenty dollars flowers randomly 498 00:23:59,680 --> 00:24:01,760 Speaker 2: mean more than one hundred dollars flowers as a sorry. 499 00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:05,280 Speaker 1: Yes, the surprise and like doing it on good terms 500 00:24:05,359 --> 00:24:06,480 Speaker 1: is what's valuable one hundred percent. 501 00:24:06,480 --> 00:24:10,359 Speaker 2: They would appreciate that way more. What actions make you 502 00:24:10,520 --> 00:24:16,360 Speaker 2: not trust a guy saying quote, she's just my friend, Ah, 503 00:24:17,640 --> 00:24:18,200 Speaker 2: I have one. 504 00:24:18,320 --> 00:24:20,600 Speaker 1: What actions make you not trust the guy having a 505 00:24:20,760 --> 00:24:28,000 Speaker 1: girl best friend period facts? Yeah, that's when you ghost. 506 00:24:28,920 --> 00:24:31,360 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, run girl, she's just my girl best friend. Yeah, 507 00:24:31,400 --> 00:24:33,240 Speaker 1: no red flag we had sex. You just don't know 508 00:24:33,280 --> 00:24:33,600 Speaker 1: about it. 509 00:24:34,240 --> 00:24:36,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, they're never going to tell you. Yeah, I don't 510 00:24:36,480 --> 00:24:38,719 Speaker 2: want to lose their friend. That's the rebound. That the minimum. 511 00:24:38,840 --> 00:24:42,040 Speaker 2: We've hooked up, Yeah, all the time. Hook up for 512 00:24:42,119 --> 00:24:44,240 Speaker 2: some people mean sex and we need to clarify it's 513 00:24:44,240 --> 00:24:46,400 Speaker 2: just like make out tongue on tongue action. Yeah. Yeah, 514 00:24:46,640 --> 00:24:49,320 Speaker 2: as Jake would say, what do you say, no the 515 00:24:49,480 --> 00:24:54,159 Speaker 2: tontal hockey? Yeah hockey, yeah, ton hockey mate? What actions 516 00:24:54,200 --> 00:24:57,160 Speaker 2: make you not trust a guy? His Instagram following, Oh, 517 00:24:58,000 --> 00:25:05,040 Speaker 2: like what's it all girls school? Looks like he went 518 00:25:05,080 --> 00:25:05,920 Speaker 2: to an old girl school. 519 00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:11,680 Speaker 1: I had following Instagram models. Yeah, what actions make you 520 00:25:11,800 --> 00:25:15,480 Speaker 1: not trust the guy? I really like this funt when he. 521 00:25:15,560 --> 00:25:20,760 Speaker 2: Vapes, Yes, that's honestly gross. Yeah, disgusting. We don't know 522 00:25:20,800 --> 00:25:22,960 Speaker 2: what they do to your body. Not care about his lungs, No, 523 00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:25,280 Speaker 2: not at all. He doesn't care about you. That's doing 524 00:25:25,359 --> 00:25:26,840 Speaker 2: nothing for his stamina in the bedroom. 525 00:25:27,000 --> 00:25:29,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, think about the long term. If you guys date 526 00:25:29,560 --> 00:25:31,520 Speaker 1: for a long period of time, he's going to die earlier. 527 00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:34,439 Speaker 2: Fair. He hasn't been thinking about you. He doesn't care 528 00:25:34,440 --> 00:25:36,920 Speaker 2: about your children, He doesn't care about you your future, 529 00:25:36,920 --> 00:25:39,880 Speaker 2: doesn't care about your future. No, he's just he wants 530 00:25:39,920 --> 00:25:42,600 Speaker 2: out of here early. She's puffing away, not thinking about anything. 531 00:25:45,160 --> 00:25:50,159 Speaker 2: Thomas the tank engine, just going puff puff, running trains 532 00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:52,399 Speaker 2: through the town. Yeah, to be cheating on you as well. 533 00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:55,000 Speaker 2: If he vapes, he cheats, I don't even care. 534 00:25:55,480 --> 00:26:01,120 Speaker 1: Honestly, we have a friend. I'm pretty sure who has 535 00:26:02,000 --> 00:26:03,960 Speaker 1: puffed on a vape mid sex. 536 00:26:04,960 --> 00:26:07,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, stop it. I'm pretty sure he told me he did. 537 00:26:07,800 --> 00:26:09,720 Speaker 2: You know what, I think I actually remember this day, 538 00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:11,800 Speaker 2: and I think I remember being just as shock. 539 00:26:15,960 --> 00:26:20,040 Speaker 1: Imagine that, Like, imagine being in the bedroom and being like, like, 540 00:26:20,119 --> 00:26:21,520 Speaker 1: I've got a surprise that do you think of, Like, oh, 541 00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:23,639 Speaker 1: maybe like a sexty, like a dildo or like a 542 00:26:24,119 --> 00:26:25,000 Speaker 1: vibraider or something. 543 00:26:25,240 --> 00:26:28,600 Speaker 2: She's like, yeah, freaky loop, I don't know. And then 544 00:26:28,640 --> 00:26:33,800 Speaker 2: he goes blows it in her face and it would 545 00:26:33,800 --> 00:26:35,280 Speaker 2: be hot if I blew it into your mouth and 546 00:26:35,359 --> 00:26:36,000 Speaker 2: you sucked it up. 547 00:26:37,200 --> 00:26:37,800 Speaker 3: Does that work? 548 00:26:38,480 --> 00:26:39,720 Speaker 2: No, you can do it. You can do like you 549 00:26:39,760 --> 00:26:43,119 Speaker 2: can hit the vape and then blow it off, and 550 00:26:43,200 --> 00:26:44,480 Speaker 2: they go, what about if. 551 00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:46,720 Speaker 1: He'd been practicing, like he's an avid vapor and he goes, 552 00:26:46,720 --> 00:26:48,440 Speaker 1: I've got something to show up, pulls out the vape, 553 00:26:49,119 --> 00:26:51,320 Speaker 1: puffs it in a perfect circle. 554 00:26:51,040 --> 00:26:59,760 Speaker 2: Over his doodle. Okay, okay, I'd be. 555 00:26:59,800 --> 00:27:07,520 Speaker 5: In if Yeah, that would actually be impressive. It's like 556 00:27:07,600 --> 00:27:11,800 Speaker 5: that ring toss game actually true. He's like, yeah, you 557 00:27:11,880 --> 00:27:15,000 Speaker 5: try it, because you try it. If you can get 558 00:27:15,040 --> 00:27:17,320 Speaker 5: it on there, it's like, I just got to stay hard. 559 00:27:18,800 --> 00:27:20,360 Speaker 5: That's the only part of the game. He's just gonna 560 00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:21,400 Speaker 5: stay make me stay hard. 561 00:27:21,800 --> 00:27:26,080 Speaker 2: Who stop? Okay? What actions make you not trust a 562 00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:30,040 Speaker 2: guy when his name starts with a j ah? Facts 563 00:27:30,160 --> 00:27:33,440 Speaker 2: that's common. Everyone says that, yeah, they don't trust jays. Yeah, 564 00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:37,600 Speaker 2: never do I or you need to. 565 00:27:38,320 --> 00:27:41,240 Speaker 1: You're taking a risk if I'm always watching my back. 566 00:27:43,359 --> 00:27:46,520 Speaker 1: What actions make you not trust a guy when he 567 00:27:46,680 --> 00:27:47,840 Speaker 1: always has his phone on? 568 00:27:47,960 --> 00:27:53,280 Speaker 2: Do not disturb? Oh okay, no fair. 569 00:27:53,560 --> 00:27:55,640 Speaker 1: So I know people would do this just because they're 570 00:27:55,720 --> 00:27:59,840 Speaker 1: like business minded, Yeah, and they want to stay locked in. Yeah, 571 00:28:00,320 --> 00:28:02,600 Speaker 1: but I'm like, E, like, just look at it and 572 00:28:02,640 --> 00:28:05,879 Speaker 1: then don't have the like restrictions not to do it, 573 00:28:06,280 --> 00:28:07,359 Speaker 1: the restraints not to do it. 574 00:28:07,600 --> 00:28:09,200 Speaker 2: Well, yeah, but what if they got a bunch of 575 00:28:09,280 --> 00:28:11,119 Speaker 2: phone calls? Would it be annoying? Is it kind of 576 00:28:11,160 --> 00:28:13,080 Speaker 2: like it's doing it stove for a good reason, But 577 00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:16,240 Speaker 2: why would justifying their actions? That's a good point. I 578 00:28:16,280 --> 00:28:19,280 Speaker 2: have one that says, not answering calls when you're there 579 00:28:21,320 --> 00:28:23,840 Speaker 2: sometimes it's kind of rude to it be constantly answering 580 00:28:23,920 --> 00:28:26,320 Speaker 2: the phone. I saw one that said, picks up the 581 00:28:26,359 --> 00:28:28,000 Speaker 2: phone and leaves the room to talk, which is you 582 00:28:28,160 --> 00:28:30,080 Speaker 2: to a t I always leave them, which is what 583 00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:32,040 Speaker 2: you do because I but I think it's rude. I 584 00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:36,359 Speaker 2: trust you. I think it's rude to have the conversation. 585 00:28:36,640 --> 00:28:38,760 Speaker 2: Like so if I'm having a conversation with you, and 586 00:28:38,880 --> 00:28:40,600 Speaker 2: then I get a phone call. I'm sorry, I got 587 00:28:40,680 --> 00:28:42,400 Speaker 2: to take this. I don't want to just be having 588 00:28:42,440 --> 00:28:44,600 Speaker 2: another conversation in front of the person. I just that 589 00:28:44,920 --> 00:28:47,240 Speaker 2: I just interrupted, So I feel like it's better to 590 00:28:47,320 --> 00:28:49,480 Speaker 2: just walk out. More excuses. I want to hear and 591 00:28:49,560 --> 00:28:52,560 Speaker 2: know you're not doing any bad things. Start businesses with 592 00:28:52,640 --> 00:28:58,200 Speaker 2: other people, and make sure he's not cheating. Okay, I 593 00:28:58,280 --> 00:29:01,520 Speaker 2: think I have two more. I got what actions make 594 00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:07,880 Speaker 2: you not trust a guy sitting down while peeing. I 595 00:29:07,960 --> 00:29:09,960 Speaker 2: could never be a girl and walk in on my 596 00:29:10,120 --> 00:29:12,840 Speaker 2: boy just taking a piss nah and sitting down. Yeah. 597 00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:16,200 Speaker 2: She imagine if you walk in and you're oh sorry, 598 00:29:16,200 --> 00:29:18,360 Speaker 2: because you're gonna be like thinking he's taking a ship. Yeah, 599 00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:20,160 Speaker 2: oh sorry, and he goes. I don't worry. I'm just 600 00:29:20,240 --> 00:29:24,800 Speaker 2: being should be saying, that's even what to be fair. 601 00:29:24,880 --> 00:29:26,520 Speaker 1: Thinking about some of our friends, I reckon that'd sit 602 00:29:26,600 --> 00:29:29,840 Speaker 1: down because they're lazy. Yeah, get tired of stand it up? 603 00:29:29,880 --> 00:29:35,880 Speaker 1: TikTok bait. Yeah, you're my last one. What actions make 604 00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:42,760 Speaker 1: you not trust a guy? Four head kisses without commitments. 605 00:29:44,040 --> 00:29:46,200 Speaker 2: I saw one and it said fore head kisses. Early on. 606 00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:49,640 Speaker 1: I feel like men are out here he's going all 607 00:29:49,680 --> 00:29:53,800 Speaker 1: over the place after having sex once. That is actually crazy. 608 00:29:54,480 --> 00:29:57,680 Speaker 1: They're trying to Wow, that's crazy. I hope I haven't 609 00:29:57,720 --> 00:29:59,520 Speaker 1: done that. I not remember. 610 00:29:59,680 --> 00:30:00,960 Speaker 2: I just I hate forehead kisses. 611 00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:02,520 Speaker 1: Before I like fell in love with my girlfriend, I 612 00:30:02,560 --> 00:30:05,800 Speaker 1: think four head kisses are intimate. Yeah, and I'd never 613 00:30:05,880 --> 00:30:07,800 Speaker 1: felt such a connection before. I didn't feel the need 614 00:30:07,880 --> 00:30:09,520 Speaker 1: to forehead kiss a girl I've just slept. 615 00:30:09,320 --> 00:30:15,360 Speaker 2: With, weaving like I'm leaving a mark. Yeah. My lips 616 00:30:15,400 --> 00:30:19,240 Speaker 2: are there forever for real breath Yeah, the oils, Yeah, 617 00:30:19,560 --> 00:30:23,200 Speaker 2: they're gonna ingrain my dry lips, my butthole lips. 618 00:30:27,240 --> 00:30:30,080 Speaker 1: Oh shit, I've ever tried like kissing intimately in the 619 00:30:30,160 --> 00:30:31,640 Speaker 1: morning and then you got no saliva. 620 00:30:32,200 --> 00:30:35,560 Speaker 2: Oh, I hate. I don't even like pecking in the morning. 621 00:30:35,720 --> 00:30:38,920 Speaker 2: First thing, I need to brush my teeth. Yeah. And 622 00:30:39,040 --> 00:30:41,200 Speaker 2: it's not even because I think Beth has bad breath. 623 00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:43,400 Speaker 2: Usually because your mouth's closed, you can't smell it. But 624 00:30:44,160 --> 00:30:47,520 Speaker 2: I'm like, I can taste my morning breath. Everything's just congested. 625 00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:50,680 Speaker 2: You know, you can't. It's not sexy. Yeah, it is 626 00:30:50,760 --> 00:30:52,200 Speaker 2: not sexy, but every now and then you kind of 627 00:30:52,280 --> 00:30:55,440 Speaker 2: just have like white ship. Yeah, And I'm like excuse 628 00:30:55,440 --> 00:30:57,320 Speaker 2: me in the shower. I feel like terrible. My gums bleed. 629 00:30:57,360 --> 00:31:04,920 Speaker 2: It can't be attractive. It's a bigger issue. Yeah, okay, 630 00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:09,560 Speaker 2: what actions make you not trust a guy using a 631 00:31:09,720 --> 00:31:11,400 Speaker 2: reverse camera to reverse park? 632 00:31:12,320 --> 00:31:15,440 Speaker 1: Oh that's a really, really good one. I've been relying 633 00:31:15,440 --> 00:31:18,160 Speaker 1: on it too much, have you? Yeah, you can't fucking 634 00:31:18,200 --> 00:31:21,000 Speaker 1: say anything, mate, your car you can reverse that anywhere. 635 00:31:21,440 --> 00:31:22,920 Speaker 1: That's like the size of half a car. 636 00:31:26,320 --> 00:31:26,560 Speaker 2: Yeah. 637 00:31:26,840 --> 00:31:28,720 Speaker 1: So I've got a mental debate at the moment because 638 00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:30,560 Speaker 1: I want a dog box or it cannot be in 639 00:31:30,560 --> 00:31:32,720 Speaker 1: the back of my car. But one reason I don't 640 00:31:32,720 --> 00:31:34,080 Speaker 1: want it is because I have to only use the 641 00:31:34,160 --> 00:31:36,480 Speaker 1: reverse camera. If I get that, I mean, if you 642 00:31:36,560 --> 00:31:37,960 Speaker 1: have it, just use it. Yeah, but then no one's 643 00:31:37,960 --> 00:31:38,600 Speaker 1: gonna be trusting me. 644 00:31:40,200 --> 00:31:40,680 Speaker 2: Who cares. 645 00:31:45,560 --> 00:31:47,680 Speaker 1: But looking other end of the spectrum, wouldn't have a 646 00:31:47,720 --> 00:31:50,520 Speaker 1: reverse camera be good because it means he's boogie. 647 00:31:50,200 --> 00:31:53,760 Speaker 2: A little bit? Yeah, bank balance looking good? Or is 648 00:31:53,800 --> 00:31:56,400 Speaker 2: like most people got that these days? I think most 649 00:31:56,440 --> 00:31:59,040 Speaker 2: cars actually do have a reverse camera these days. Yeah, 650 00:32:00,160 --> 00:32:03,800 Speaker 2: in the minority. I'm just a man. Yeah right, you 651 00:32:03,880 --> 00:32:07,080 Speaker 2: can't be you can't be trusted, Jake, You start with ja, 652 00:32:07,520 --> 00:32:10,400 Speaker 2: I know, Yeah, what is with the whole, like if 653 00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:12,360 Speaker 2: his name starts with the J, I stand by it. 654 00:32:14,120 --> 00:32:20,959 Speaker 2: What I've seen a specific one one time on TikTok 655 00:32:21,000 --> 00:32:22,920 Speaker 2: and it's just said if his name starts with the 656 00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:25,120 Speaker 2: J and ends with a knee, And I was thinking, 657 00:32:26,120 --> 00:32:28,720 Speaker 2: is there any other name then Jake that starts with 658 00:32:28,840 --> 00:32:32,880 Speaker 2: jane ends with a knee. That's very pacific. You did that. 659 00:32:33,640 --> 00:32:39,560 Speaker 2: That's crazy that I saw the cogs turning as you 660 00:32:39,640 --> 00:32:40,720 Speaker 2: said specific. 661 00:32:41,320 --> 00:32:53,840 Speaker 3: That's crazy, Adie. 662 00:32:54,760 --> 00:32:58,520 Speaker 2: I have something that I would like to bring up. 663 00:32:59,120 --> 00:33:04,920 Speaker 2: Please be pacific in uh to make your pacific. I 664 00:33:07,280 --> 00:33:11,440 Speaker 2: stood up for myself, stood up for yourself. Ye quite often. 665 00:33:11,480 --> 00:33:15,040 Speaker 2: I wouldn't do that. I would. I'm a big on 666 00:33:15,080 --> 00:33:18,000 Speaker 2: the high road. Yeah, okay, ship, let me tell you 667 00:33:18,160 --> 00:33:22,720 Speaker 2: so as so I guess. Yeah. A couple weeks ago, 668 00:33:22,800 --> 00:33:24,960 Speaker 2: Beth and I moved into a new place, and so 669 00:33:25,120 --> 00:33:28,800 Speaker 2: she had to organize getting her old place cleaned properly 670 00:33:28,920 --> 00:33:32,040 Speaker 2: because of getting bonded back and everything right, and so 671 00:33:32,360 --> 00:33:34,800 Speaker 2: the real estate she was with that's crazy to me. 672 00:33:34,920 --> 00:33:41,880 Speaker 2: I think the owner should do that. They've been being 673 00:33:42,000 --> 00:33:44,800 Speaker 2: robbed for fucking yeah, we've been giving you money every 674 00:33:44,840 --> 00:33:48,400 Speaker 2: week for two years. So Beth was, and now I'm 675 00:33:48,400 --> 00:33:51,400 Speaker 2: going to clean the place your house. I was paying 676 00:33:51,440 --> 00:33:56,040 Speaker 2: your mortgage. Facts weird thing. Have you got to leave it? 677 00:33:56,120 --> 00:33:59,840 Speaker 2: How you left it? Five hundred bucks to get it cleaned? Okay? Basically, 678 00:34:00,240 --> 00:34:02,560 Speaker 2: the real estate she was with had they have a 679 00:34:02,640 --> 00:34:04,520 Speaker 2: kind of a list of cleaner is that they trust, 680 00:34:04,760 --> 00:34:06,840 Speaker 2: and they recommend using them because if you use someone 681 00:34:06,880 --> 00:34:09,320 Speaker 2: else that's cheaper, the real estate could then say this 682 00:34:09,440 --> 00:34:11,279 Speaker 2: isn't good enough, and then you have to pay a 683 00:34:11,360 --> 00:34:12,520 Speaker 2: bit more. So it's kind of just like you may 684 00:34:12,520 --> 00:34:14,400 Speaker 2: as well go with them because they kind of guarantee 685 00:34:14,600 --> 00:34:18,120 Speaker 2: they won't say this isn't good enough. Yeah, and so 686 00:34:18,600 --> 00:34:23,040 Speaker 2: Beth she got two quotes and there were very similar prices, 687 00:34:23,200 --> 00:34:26,719 Speaker 2: short with a cheaper one, right, and so there was 688 00:34:27,120 --> 00:34:28,839 Speaker 2: On the day that they were supposed to be coming, 689 00:34:29,600 --> 00:34:31,320 Speaker 2: Beth and I went to her whole place and we 690 00:34:31,400 --> 00:34:33,520 Speaker 2: were supposed to meet the cleaner there at two pm. 691 00:34:34,800 --> 00:34:36,200 Speaker 2: She died to clean this whole house. She was like, 692 00:34:36,360 --> 00:34:38,160 Speaker 2: I'll have this done today. She got she was going 693 00:34:38,200 --> 00:34:39,520 Speaker 2: to get at two pm. Right. We were there for 694 00:34:39,560 --> 00:34:44,040 Speaker 2: thirty minutes and she doesn't get there, and she messages 695 00:34:44,120 --> 00:34:46,040 Speaker 2: us and says, oh, something's happened. At another job, I 696 00:34:46,280 --> 00:34:48,719 Speaker 2: won't get there till three. Yeah, so like, okay, cool 697 00:34:49,000 --> 00:34:52,319 Speaker 2: didn't really phase me at this point. Left came back 698 00:34:52,360 --> 00:34:56,440 Speaker 2: at three, letter in and then let her in. At 699 00:34:56,480 --> 00:34:58,000 Speaker 2: three she was on her own. She said she had 700 00:34:58,040 --> 00:35:02,480 Speaker 2: two other people coming and then and a couple hours later. 701 00:35:02,600 --> 00:35:06,719 Speaker 2: I wasn't until like six thirty seven pm that night, 702 00:35:06,840 --> 00:35:10,200 Speaker 2: so she's been cleaning for hours. Yeah. She sends Beth 703 00:35:10,760 --> 00:35:14,959 Speaker 2: a message and says, after I've already give her, given 704 00:35:14,960 --> 00:35:18,160 Speaker 2: her a quote and then everything. She says, I'm gonna 705 00:35:18,239 --> 00:35:21,360 Speaker 2: have to charge you another one hundred and twenty dollars 706 00:35:22,680 --> 00:35:27,279 Speaker 2: because the bathrooms need a really good scrub. And Beth 707 00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:29,680 Speaker 2: came in and she read me the message and I 708 00:35:29,840 --> 00:35:32,840 Speaker 2: was kind of like, it is what it is, you know, 709 00:35:34,080 --> 00:35:35,960 Speaker 2: And she was a bit upset about it, and I 710 00:35:36,040 --> 00:35:37,920 Speaker 2: did say, I said, like it is bullshit. You know. 711 00:35:38,080 --> 00:35:40,760 Speaker 2: She can't because Beth was like, she's quoted it. How 712 00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:43,480 Speaker 2: can she go back on a quote? And I was like, chare. 713 00:35:43,560 --> 00:35:45,400 Speaker 2: She was like she could have come and looked at it. Anything, 714 00:35:45,480 --> 00:35:47,200 Speaker 2: She's seen photos, she knows how big it was. All 715 00:35:47,239 --> 00:35:49,920 Speaker 2: this stuff. Quote can't change. And I was like, like, 716 00:35:50,000 --> 00:35:53,560 Speaker 2: depending on the job, fair, but I mean she quoted 717 00:35:53,600 --> 00:35:56,080 Speaker 2: it and she was like, yeah, this is how much 718 00:35:56,120 --> 00:35:57,560 Speaker 2: is going to cost for that job. You should be 719 00:35:57,600 --> 00:36:00,440 Speaker 2: pretty accurate. Yeah, but a quote came to hard. I mean, 720 00:36:00,440 --> 00:36:03,480 Speaker 2: a quote can change, but yeah, it shouldn't. It's like 721 00:36:03,520 --> 00:36:05,360 Speaker 2: a ballpark, that's what a quote is. 722 00:36:06,680 --> 00:36:08,640 Speaker 1: But she she should say in like fine print after 723 00:36:08,680 --> 00:36:10,839 Speaker 1: it's done, like give or take two hundred bucks or something. 724 00:36:10,960 --> 00:36:13,239 Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't think quotes are supposed to 725 00:36:13,320 --> 00:36:15,480 Speaker 2: change a Yeah, there are. That's what a quote is. 726 00:36:15,520 --> 00:36:18,160 Speaker 2: It's just like ballpark. That's a legitlary. 727 00:36:18,239 --> 00:36:21,600 Speaker 1: Like I'm not even being like trying to start an argument. Really, 728 00:36:21,719 --> 00:36:23,360 Speaker 1: if you quote a job like you should give or 729 00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:26,879 Speaker 1: take about a couple hundred bucks for that job, maybe 730 00:36:26,920 --> 00:36:27,839 Speaker 1: fifty dollars either side. 731 00:36:29,560 --> 00:36:35,799 Speaker 2: Wait, so if you I thought that, that's not how 732 00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:39,000 Speaker 2: quotes worked. I thought a quote was like I'm gonna 733 00:36:39,480 --> 00:36:42,399 Speaker 2: price a job to build you a wall or something. 734 00:36:43,360 --> 00:36:45,320 Speaker 2: So it's like, okay, I know how big it is. 735 00:36:45,400 --> 00:36:46,840 Speaker 2: I know I know how big the wall is going 736 00:36:46,880 --> 00:36:48,160 Speaker 2: to be, so I know how much the price is 737 00:36:48,239 --> 00:36:49,560 Speaker 2: going to cost, and this is how long it will 738 00:36:49,560 --> 00:36:52,560 Speaker 2: take me. So when you do a quote, if it's 739 00:36:52,600 --> 00:36:54,960 Speaker 2: going to take me two days longer. I don't think 740 00:36:55,000 --> 00:36:56,560 Speaker 2: you get to charge for two days more labor. I 741 00:36:56,600 --> 00:36:58,360 Speaker 2: don't think that's how it works. No, you're not that 742 00:36:58,520 --> 00:36:58,920 Speaker 2: type thing. 743 00:36:58,960 --> 00:37:00,680 Speaker 1: It's like if you dig the whole and then you 744 00:37:00,800 --> 00:37:03,560 Speaker 1: for some reason discovered there's a pipe there, right, then 745 00:37:03,640 --> 00:37:06,080 Speaker 1: you charge more where she quoted you, and then discovered 746 00:37:06,080 --> 00:37:06,479 Speaker 1: how dirty. 747 00:37:06,520 --> 00:37:08,239 Speaker 2: Well you're not supposed to. You can't know if there's 748 00:37:08,239 --> 00:37:08,560 Speaker 2: a pipe. 749 00:37:08,680 --> 00:37:11,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, But then the same thing happened with your bathroom. 750 00:37:11,880 --> 00:37:13,880 Speaker 1: She realized after going in there and digging in the 751 00:37:13,960 --> 00:37:16,759 Speaker 1: drain that it's disgusting that she charged needed another hour 752 00:37:16,840 --> 00:37:18,200 Speaker 1: to clean it or something like that. 753 00:37:19,840 --> 00:37:22,279 Speaker 2: But for the cleaning one, it's like all you have 754 00:37:22,360 --> 00:37:24,480 Speaker 2: to do is come ask for photos that it should 755 00:37:24,480 --> 00:37:27,080 Speaker 2: be pretty look, should be pretty accurate for that. Yeah. 756 00:37:27,520 --> 00:37:30,440 Speaker 2: So basically she continued, charge one hundred and twenty more. 757 00:37:30,719 --> 00:37:32,560 Speaker 2: And so I said to Beth, and so what But 758 00:37:32,640 --> 00:37:34,120 Speaker 2: what it did was it kind of gave you like 759 00:37:34,239 --> 00:37:36,040 Speaker 2: she was she was hours into it, right, it gave 760 00:37:36,080 --> 00:37:37,360 Speaker 2: you a bad taste in your mouth. Well, she was 761 00:37:37,400 --> 00:37:40,000 Speaker 2: hours into it. And then with the one twenty, you 762 00:37:40,160 --> 00:37:44,240 Speaker 2: can't really say no no, because you can't then organize 763 00:37:44,239 --> 00:37:46,480 Speaker 2: another cleaner because there's two days left on the lease, 764 00:37:46,560 --> 00:37:49,239 Speaker 2: and this is you know we've organized it for this day, right, Yeah, 765 00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:54,719 Speaker 2: And so I just said, look, it is just we're 766 00:37:54,760 --> 00:37:56,880 Speaker 2: just gonna have to pay it whatever. Yea cool. And 767 00:37:57,040 --> 00:38:00,440 Speaker 2: then the next way, are you paying it? No, I'm 768 00:38:00,880 --> 00:38:03,560 Speaker 2: just for the sake of the conversation, like, ye I'm 769 00:38:03,600 --> 00:38:06,080 Speaker 2: just gonna have to pay it. It is what it is. 770 00:38:06,880 --> 00:38:11,080 Speaker 2: And then the next day Beth had a message from her, 771 00:38:11,960 --> 00:38:16,200 Speaker 2: and then the message was, oh, I had to like 772 00:38:16,480 --> 00:38:19,879 Speaker 2: I didn't leave until two thirty am, that the cleaner 773 00:38:19,920 --> 00:38:23,359 Speaker 2: didn't leave till two thirty am. She said, I didn't 774 00:38:23,400 --> 00:38:25,400 Speaker 2: get everything finished. I had to send the other two 775 00:38:25,520 --> 00:38:29,839 Speaker 2: workers home at eight and so I need to come back. 776 00:38:30,080 --> 00:38:32,920 Speaker 2: What a weird business model? And so I was like 777 00:38:33,360 --> 00:38:37,600 Speaker 2: what and then she said and so Beth was like, okay, 778 00:38:37,800 --> 00:38:40,520 Speaker 2: well there's the guy's coming to clean the carpets today. 779 00:38:41,080 --> 00:38:42,760 Speaker 2: You can be there at the same time. It's sweet. 780 00:38:43,520 --> 00:38:45,880 Speaker 2: And she goes, oh, I'm busy with other jobs today. 781 00:38:46,760 --> 00:38:50,000 Speaker 2: This is on Friday. How much is this quote? It 782 00:38:50,200 --> 00:38:53,520 Speaker 2: was originally like six point fifty. Yeah, so with the 783 00:38:53,600 --> 00:38:56,240 Speaker 2: extra one twenty it's gone up to like seven ninety 784 00:38:56,320 --> 00:38:58,680 Speaker 2: or whatever. Who wants to work it, and so Rea 785 00:38:58,760 --> 00:39:03,680 Speaker 2: til two am. So then she goes, Okay, I'm busy today. 786 00:39:03,680 --> 00:39:06,880 Speaker 2: I can't go back today, but I would like to 787 00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:11,440 Speaker 2: go back at six am on Saturday morning. And so 788 00:39:11,600 --> 00:39:14,640 Speaker 2: we have to go give her the keys, yeah, and 789 00:39:14,760 --> 00:39:16,480 Speaker 2: let her in, right, And so I said to Beth, 790 00:39:16,520 --> 00:39:18,919 Speaker 2: I was like, oh, I'll go. I was like, I'll 791 00:39:19,000 --> 00:39:21,839 Speaker 2: just wake up early and go and then I'm going 792 00:39:21,880 --> 00:39:23,160 Speaker 2: to go to the coast that day. So maybe I'll 793 00:39:23,200 --> 00:39:24,600 Speaker 2: just go to the coast earlier. Who knows. We'll see 794 00:39:24,600 --> 00:39:27,880 Speaker 2: what happens, right, Yeah, So I set my alarm like 795 00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:30,800 Speaker 2: five forty five because it's close. Luckily, still, she was 796 00:39:30,920 --> 00:39:35,080 Speaker 2: l five forty five on a Saturday morning. Yeah, I 797 00:39:35,120 --> 00:39:36,560 Speaker 2: get up, I check a shirt on, I'm still in 798 00:39:36,560 --> 00:39:38,880 Speaker 2: my pajamas because I was just going to go let 799 00:39:38,880 --> 00:39:40,160 Speaker 2: her in quickly and go back and try and fall 800 00:39:40,200 --> 00:39:43,640 Speaker 2: back asleep. Yeah. And so I get there, I'm just 801 00:39:43,680 --> 00:39:46,359 Speaker 2: like waiting. I got there like at five fifty seven, okay, 802 00:39:46,360 --> 00:39:48,960 Speaker 2: and I was like, look, i'll give her obviously, it's 803 00:39:49,000 --> 00:39:50,520 Speaker 2: like she'll be here at six o five. Yeah. I 804 00:39:50,600 --> 00:39:52,200 Speaker 2: was like, I'm expecting to wait a couple of minutes. 805 00:39:53,280 --> 00:39:54,840 Speaker 2: Gets a six o five and I'm just kind of 806 00:39:54,880 --> 00:39:57,680 Speaker 2: still standing there. And then it gets to six' ten 807 00:39:57,760 --> 00:39:59,840 Speaker 2: AND i find something to sit on AND i was 808 00:39:59,840 --> 00:40:03,080 Speaker 2: just it's, like, fuck where is? She and THEN i was, 809 00:40:03,160 --> 00:40:06,040 Speaker 2: like where CAN i leave THE i can't even leave 810 00:40:06,080 --> 00:40:08,480 Speaker 2: the fucking. KEYS i was, like irresponsible to leave the keys. 811 00:40:08,480 --> 00:40:10,040 Speaker 2: OUT i was, like what CAN i? Do SO i 812 00:40:10,160 --> 00:40:14,479 Speaker 2: got to six twenty six, Thirty so it's six. THIRTY 813 00:40:14,520 --> 00:40:17,680 Speaker 2: i Called, beth, yeah AND i woke her up AND i, 814 00:40:17,760 --> 00:40:20,400 Speaker 2: said do you, Mind just Because beth had her, NUMBER i, 815 00:40:20,440 --> 00:40:21,919 Speaker 2: said do you mind just texting this lady to see 816 00:40:21,920 --> 00:40:24,880 Speaker 2: where she. Is she's she's thirty minutes. Late she texted. 817 00:40:24,920 --> 00:40:27,640 Speaker 2: Her she gets a, reply she, said, Oh i'm so. 818 00:40:27,719 --> 00:40:30,080 Speaker 2: SORRY i slept through my. Alarm oh my, God i'll 819 00:40:30,120 --> 00:40:34,360 Speaker 2: be there at. Seven SO i was like. FUCK i was, like, 820 00:40:34,480 --> 00:40:37,239 Speaker 2: Okay i'm kind of LIKE i wasn't EVEN i wasn't 821 00:40:37,320 --> 00:40:39,120 Speaker 2: upset until this. Point i'd be so off THIS i. 822 00:40:39,239 --> 00:40:41,080 Speaker 2: WAS i, WAS i was off this by. Now it's 823 00:40:41,680 --> 00:40:44,960 Speaker 2: very very off this by, now, right BECAUSE i understand 824 00:40:45,000 --> 00:40:46,799 Speaker 2: a quote can, change right if you're digging a hole 825 00:40:46,800 --> 00:40:48,440 Speaker 2: and you find something that makes it. Worse but for, 826 00:40:48,719 --> 00:40:50,839 Speaker 2: this all she had to do was come look at 827 00:40:50,880 --> 00:40:53,400 Speaker 2: it and she could have quoted it very. Accurate oh 828 00:40:53,440 --> 00:40:55,440 Speaker 2: by now like this quote can't. CHANGE i don't like. 829 00:40:55,520 --> 00:40:57,600 Speaker 2: Her and so, NO i don't like her at. All 830 00:40:57,760 --> 00:40:59,960 Speaker 2: SO i go back And i've been up for fuck 831 00:41:00,200 --> 00:41:03,359 Speaker 2: forty five minutes not. Gone actually, Yeah SO i get. 832 00:41:03,400 --> 00:41:05,080 Speaker 2: Home Even beth she said THAT i don't. KNOW i 833 00:41:05,120 --> 00:41:06,680 Speaker 2: think she woke up Because henry had a coffin fit 834 00:41:06,760 --> 00:41:08,160 Speaker 2: or some. Shit so she just like stayed. Away she was, 835 00:41:08,160 --> 00:41:09,680 Speaker 2: Like i'm. Awake so we were awake AND i was 836 00:41:09,680 --> 00:41:12,160 Speaker 2: talking to her about, it AND i, said this is. 837 00:41:12,320 --> 00:41:15,040 Speaker 2: Fucked LIKE i THINK i THINK i would never normally say, 838 00:41:15,080 --> 00:41:16,799 Speaker 2: something BUT i THINK i need to say, something Oh. 839 00:41:16,960 --> 00:41:19,400 Speaker 2: Jake and Then beth is, going but. 840 00:41:19,480 --> 00:41:19,960 Speaker 3: Will you do? 841 00:41:20,080 --> 00:41:28,400 Speaker 2: It AND i was, like AND i, said that's a fair, question, 842 00:41:28,600 --> 00:41:31,320 Speaker 2: yeah Because i'm pretty good at saying it's in the. 843 00:41:31,400 --> 00:41:35,120 Speaker 2: Past it is what it. Is and so she was, saying, 844 00:41:35,160 --> 00:41:37,000 Speaker 2: well do you want me to go BECAUSE i will say? 845 00:41:37,080 --> 00:41:38,400 Speaker 2: Something AND i said, NO i REALLY i THINK i 846 00:41:38,480 --> 00:41:40,120 Speaker 2: need to do. THIS i need to more confrontation in. 847 00:41:40,239 --> 00:41:42,560 Speaker 2: It and SO i was thinking about WHAT i need to, 848 00:41:42,600 --> 00:41:46,279 Speaker 2: say and then so she said she'd be there at 849 00:41:46,280 --> 00:41:48,279 Speaker 2: seven by the, way the quarter past, Seven, well get 850 00:41:48,320 --> 00:41:50,400 Speaker 2: a message that she's five minutes. Away. Again god a 851 00:41:50,440 --> 00:41:52,920 Speaker 2: little bit, Later, yeah whatever it, is what? Is and 852 00:41:53,080 --> 00:41:55,640 Speaker 2: SO i guess she's. There and when she Said i'm 853 00:41:55,680 --> 00:41:58,800 Speaker 2: five minutes, AWAY i waited ten to. Leave. Ye so 854 00:41:59,040 --> 00:42:00,919 Speaker 2: WHEN i was, there she was. There AND i didn't 855 00:42:00,960 --> 00:42:04,400 Speaker 2: know her name at this. Point but WHEN i went, 856 00:42:04,480 --> 00:42:06,279 Speaker 2: OVER i was walking over with the, keys and she 857 00:42:06,400 --> 00:42:10,239 Speaker 2: was already like, apologizing and SO i, SAID i haven't 858 00:42:10,280 --> 00:42:12,400 Speaker 2: caught your. Name she gave me her name AND i, 859 00:42:12,440 --> 00:42:14,799 Speaker 2: Said I'm. JAKE i shook her, hand AND i, said, 860 00:42:14,840 --> 00:42:16,680 Speaker 2: LOOK i need to tell you this has been a bad. 861 00:42:16,760 --> 00:42:21,200 Speaker 2: Experience you, know it's the first. Day you were an hour. 862 00:42:21,320 --> 00:42:23,880 Speaker 2: Late you had a, reason all. RIGHT i didn't SAY i. 863 00:42:24,000 --> 00:42:25,840 Speaker 2: UNDERSTAND i was, like you had a, reason AND i 864 00:42:25,920 --> 00:42:27,560 Speaker 2: left it, there, yeah just to let her know THAT 865 00:42:27,600 --> 00:42:29,920 Speaker 2: i wasn't happy about, that all. Right and THEN i, 866 00:42:29,960 --> 00:42:35,560 Speaker 2: said and then you changed your quote another one hundred 867 00:42:35,560 --> 00:42:39,480 Speaker 2: and twenty. Dollars people have. BUDGETS i left it at 868 00:42:39,520 --> 00:42:41,719 Speaker 2: that as, well and THEN i was, like and THEN 869 00:42:41,760 --> 00:42:43,320 Speaker 2: i was On saturday. MORNING i was waiting here for 870 00:42:43,400 --> 00:42:46,400 Speaker 2: thirty minutes outside on A saturday, morning and she just 871 00:42:46,520 --> 00:42:49,680 Speaker 2: basically all she was doing was just, apologizing, apologizing and 872 00:42:49,800 --> 00:42:52,360 Speaker 2: SO i kind of just ended it with a disappointing, 873 00:42:52,400 --> 00:42:54,800 Speaker 2: look gave her the. KEYS i, said let us know 874 00:42:54,840 --> 00:42:57,239 Speaker 2: when you're. Done, yeah leave the keys in, there AND 875 00:42:57,320 --> 00:42:59,200 Speaker 2: i went. Back and SO i was thinking about it 876 00:42:59,239 --> 00:43:00,719 Speaker 2: WHEN i was, done AND i was like fucking proud 877 00:43:00,719 --> 00:43:04,680 Speaker 2: of myself for actually doing. It good. Job, Yeah AND 878 00:43:04,800 --> 00:43:06,399 Speaker 2: i was thinking about, it and WHEN i was driving, 879 00:43:06,440 --> 00:43:09,440 Speaker 2: AWAY i was THINKING i could have said, more But 880 00:43:09,560 --> 00:43:13,600 Speaker 2: i'm Actually I'M i Think i'm happy with HOW i 881 00:43:13,760 --> 00:43:17,279 Speaker 2: fully went because so she owns a. Business, yeah it 882 00:43:17,440 --> 00:43:20,680 Speaker 2: is what it, is she's quoted under, quoted she needed 883 00:43:20,920 --> 00:43:23,360 Speaker 2: she took her long and needed more. Money. Fair, OKAY 884 00:43:24,560 --> 00:43:26,400 Speaker 2: i was fully kind of like fair up until that. 885 00:43:26,440 --> 00:43:29,200 Speaker 2: Point then the six am thing pissed. Me and so 886 00:43:30,400 --> 00:43:32,879 Speaker 2: BASICALLY i was THINKING i could have gone further into, 887 00:43:32,920 --> 00:43:36,120 Speaker 2: it but she probably already feels guilty about, it you, 888 00:43:36,200 --> 00:43:38,719 Speaker 2: Know AND i was THINKING i don't need to make 889 00:43:38,760 --> 00:43:42,320 Speaker 2: her feel more. Guilty but she owns a. Business we're a. 890 00:43:42,400 --> 00:43:45,120 Speaker 2: Customer she knows that we're not a happy. Customer that's 891 00:43:45,120 --> 00:43:46,719 Speaker 2: all she needs to. Know so, YEAH i was just 892 00:43:46,800 --> 00:43:48,560 Speaker 2: kind of, like, NO i think that's a very. MICH 893 00:43:48,600 --> 00:43:50,440 Speaker 2: i would do a wad to handle things very. Normally 894 00:43:51,400 --> 00:43:53,960 Speaker 2: just let it, go very, normally just let it. Go 895 00:43:54,120 --> 00:43:55,680 Speaker 2: did she still charge you the extra one? Twenty? 896 00:43:55,760 --> 00:43:57,680 Speaker 1: YEAH i thought the happy ending was going to be, like, 897 00:43:57,760 --> 00:43:59,520 Speaker 1: oh she, said she felt bad she didn't charge your. 898 00:43:59,520 --> 00:44:03,040 Speaker 2: One what happened Was beth paid the one twenty the 899 00:44:03,120 --> 00:44:05,600 Speaker 2: day that she the day, prior or two days prior 900 00:44:05,800 --> 00:44:09,560 Speaker 2: the day she. Said and in, hindsight maybe she should have, 901 00:44:09,560 --> 00:44:11,000 Speaker 2: Said i'll give you the one twenty when it's all. 902 00:44:11,040 --> 00:44:13,680 Speaker 2: Done it would be something like, that or LIKE i don't, 903 00:44:13,680 --> 00:44:16,840 Speaker 2: know i'll clean something that your. House, yeah but it 904 00:44:16,960 --> 00:44:19,120 Speaker 2: is what it. Is she was honestly a nice. Lady 905 00:44:19,239 --> 00:44:24,320 Speaker 2: she just mid. Forties oh really, yeah, YEAH i was 906 00:44:24,360 --> 00:44:26,120 Speaker 2: thinking she might be really, young and, like yeah she. 907 00:44:26,280 --> 00:44:29,120 Speaker 2: Was she was mid. FORTIES i just was, thinking come, on, 908 00:44:29,440 --> 00:44:31,440 Speaker 2: yeah and BUT i JUST i just wanted to say 909 00:44:31,440 --> 00:44:34,319 Speaker 2: it BECAUSE i would never ever good, job every say 910 00:44:34,440 --> 00:44:36,200 Speaker 2: something and you didn't Even, beth and do. It she 911 00:44:36,400 --> 00:44:37,759 Speaker 2: will use. It you did it in a good way. 912 00:44:37,840 --> 00:44:39,719 Speaker 2: Too it was like. Mature didn't make her feel. Bad 913 00:44:39,800 --> 00:44:42,359 Speaker 2: it was just telling her the experience you've. Had, Yeah 914 00:44:42,480 --> 00:44:43,800 Speaker 2: AND i was anxious and my heart was. 915 00:44:43,880 --> 00:44:44,200 Speaker 3: Beating. 916 00:44:44,280 --> 00:44:46,040 Speaker 1: BRO i was, like holy, fuck AM i going to do? 917 00:44:46,120 --> 00:44:47,719 Speaker 1: It and you didn't like bring her down because a 918 00:44:47,760 --> 00:44:50,320 Speaker 1: lot of people when they have, confrontation they go you. 919 00:44:51,360 --> 00:44:54,719 Speaker 1: YEAH i just was, thinking you ruined my. Saturday, yeah 920 00:44:54,719 --> 00:44:57,000 Speaker 1: fucking you didn't do a good job cleaning your charges too, 921 00:44:57,080 --> 00:45:00,800 Speaker 1: much whereas you were more calm, composed told her what 922 00:45:01,000 --> 00:45:03,239 Speaker 1: it is and hopefully she can improve for the next. 923 00:45:03,160 --> 00:45:05,440 Speaker 2: Person Because i've been on the receiving end of confrontation 924 00:45:05,560 --> 00:45:09,399 Speaker 2: plenty of times working at a. Restaurant, yeah and, dude 925 00:45:09,400 --> 00:45:12,480 Speaker 2: people aren't afraid of. Confrontation oh, YEAH i hate. IT 926 00:45:12,600 --> 00:45:15,440 Speaker 2: i had it. TOO i hate. IT i hate talking to. 927 00:45:15,480 --> 00:45:16,640 Speaker 3: Me, YEAH i. 928 00:45:16,719 --> 00:45:18,640 Speaker 2: WENT i walked back inside after doing, it AND i 929 00:45:18,640 --> 00:45:21,160 Speaker 2: said To, BETHEL i did. It she, Goes i'm. Proudy, 930 00:45:21,280 --> 00:45:22,840 Speaker 2: YEAH i, SAID i THINK i need, it just a 931 00:45:22,880 --> 00:45:25,080 Speaker 2: little bit more confrontation in my. Life before you were 932 00:45:25,080 --> 00:45:26,879 Speaker 2: going to SAY i needed like a sweet. Tree, yeah 933 00:45:28,440 --> 00:45:31,160 Speaker 2: well it was only seven. THIRTY i DIDN'T i hadn't 934 00:45:31,160 --> 00:45:34,520 Speaker 2: even had breakfast yet. Started there was a minia yeah, 935 00:45:35,280 --> 00:45:37,080 Speaker 2: ship BUT i would just. REMEMBER i said to. HER 936 00:45:37,120 --> 00:45:38,839 Speaker 2: i was, LIKE i THINK i just need a little 937 00:45:38,880 --> 00:45:41,839 Speaker 2: more confrontation in my. Life, yeah you do me. Wrong, 938 00:45:41,960 --> 00:45:43,360 Speaker 2: YEAH i need to stop letting it. 939 00:45:43,440 --> 00:45:45,800 Speaker 3: Go bring it. 940 00:45:45,920 --> 00:45:47,640 Speaker 2: Up good, job, man good. 941 00:45:47,719 --> 00:45:55,960 Speaker 1: Job alrighty up next to the, dilemmas you know what to. 942 00:45:56,040 --> 00:45:59,640 Speaker 1: Do it's pinned at the top of this description and 943 00:45:59,840 --> 00:46:02,480 Speaker 1: also On. Instagram go down to the bottom of the 944 00:46:02,520 --> 00:46:05,200 Speaker 1: link tree and there it is so. Dilemmas, hey. Boys 945 00:46:05,320 --> 00:46:06,839 Speaker 1: to start, off just want to let you know how 946 00:46:06,920 --> 00:46:09,320 Speaker 1: MUCH i love the. Pod i'll try to make this 947 00:46:09,680 --> 00:46:13,880 Speaker 1: as short as. POSSIBLE i moved out at eighteen Move 948 00:46:13,960 --> 00:46:16,560 Speaker 1: states FOR, uni And i'm now twenty three and have 949 00:46:16,719 --> 00:46:19,719 Speaker 1: recently moved back to my hometown and have moved back 950 00:46:19,760 --> 00:46:22,000 Speaker 1: in with my. MUM i have been single for a 951 00:46:22,080 --> 00:46:24,920 Speaker 1: bit over three years, now and after my ex AND 952 00:46:24,960 --> 00:46:27,960 Speaker 1: i broke, UP i had a friends with benefit at 953 00:46:28,000 --> 00:46:31,480 Speaker 1: my hometown WHO i would see a couple times every 954 00:46:31,480 --> 00:46:33,680 Speaker 1: TIME i went to visit my family and he lives 955 00:46:33,680 --> 00:46:35,719 Speaker 1: in a. SHAREHOUSE i have known him since we were 956 00:46:35,800 --> 00:46:39,359 Speaker 1: fourteen and we have always been on good. Terms now 957 00:46:39,440 --> 00:46:42,279 Speaker 1: That i'm back in my, HOMETOWN i have no restrictions 958 00:46:42,320 --> 00:46:44,480 Speaker 1: on seeing him and we have been chatting here and 959 00:46:44,560 --> 00:46:47,880 Speaker 1: there about, it but haven't made any plans so to the. 960 00:46:48,000 --> 00:46:52,359 Speaker 1: DILEMMA i haven't so much as kissed someone in two, 961 00:46:52,880 --> 00:46:58,160 Speaker 1: years even THOUGH i know the chemistry is there with this, 962 00:46:58,280 --> 00:47:01,600 Speaker 1: GUY i haven't had sex in. AGES i know it sounds, 963 00:47:01,640 --> 00:47:04,120 Speaker 1: dumb But i'm scared That i've forgotten what to. Do 964 00:47:06,400 --> 00:47:09,600 Speaker 1: i'm worried that because of my serious dry, spell that 965 00:47:09,640 --> 00:47:11,319 Speaker 1: it will be really bad or even. 966 00:47:11,400 --> 00:47:12,960 Speaker 2: Awkward how DO i approach this with? 967 00:47:13,080 --> 00:47:15,480 Speaker 1: Him SHOULD i mention THAT i haven't been with anyone 968 00:47:15,560 --> 00:47:17,560 Speaker 1: for a, while or just leave it and hope it goes. 969 00:47:17,640 --> 00:47:20,600 Speaker 1: Unnoticed thanks, again, boys your advice is always. GREAT i 970 00:47:20,680 --> 00:47:23,040 Speaker 1: love to see the difference you're making by being yourself 971 00:47:23,120 --> 00:47:23,680 Speaker 1: and spreading. 972 00:47:23,760 --> 00:47:31,080 Speaker 2: Love thank you very. Much depending on what age you 973 00:47:31,120 --> 00:47:34,280 Speaker 2: lost your, Virginity i'm going to say, seventeen, seventeen, eighteen 974 00:47:35,520 --> 00:47:38,759 Speaker 2: go you did eighteen? Years, yeah but you're not thinking about. 975 00:47:38,760 --> 00:47:43,240 Speaker 2: It you did eighteen. Years you can do. Too you were, Questioned, 976 00:47:43,400 --> 00:47:49,600 Speaker 2: okay what's your longest dry spell from starting so from losing? Virginity, yeah, yeah, yeah, 977 00:47:49,800 --> 00:47:55,680 Speaker 2: okay lost? It then sixteen, ooh we play and then 978 00:47:56,640 --> 00:47:58,759 Speaker 2: it was with it was. GIRLFRIEND i was with that, 979 00:47:58,840 --> 00:48:02,720 Speaker 2: girlfriend broke up a couple months, later got with. Someone 980 00:48:03,239 --> 00:48:08,120 Speaker 2: bodycounts two already might have been my next. Girlfriend, actually 981 00:48:08,880 --> 00:48:11,879 Speaker 2: here we go tracking now it might have been back 982 00:48:11,920 --> 00:48:15,680 Speaker 2: tracking and then after me and that girlfriend broke. Up, 983 00:48:16,000 --> 00:48:19,360 Speaker 2: god it's gotta be a year long. Time, like, yeah easier. 984 00:48:19,440 --> 00:48:23,320 Speaker 2: Year everyone has dry. Spells yeah that's. Relatable oh, yeah easier. 985 00:48:23,400 --> 00:48:25,680 Speaker 2: Year AND i didn't stress about not knowing what to. 986 00:48:25,719 --> 00:48:27,279 Speaker 2: DO i just was stressing about you know. 987 00:48:27,360 --> 00:48:29,759 Speaker 1: What, yeah we stressed about different things, Though so you 988 00:48:29,800 --> 00:48:32,080 Speaker 1: were stressing about not lasting, long AND i was stressing 989 00:48:32,160 --> 00:48:35,520 Speaker 1: about like knowing what to. Do, yeah to be fair 990 00:48:35,560 --> 00:48:38,160 Speaker 1: to daunting thing when you. HAVEN'T i was done the tangle. 991 00:48:37,920 --> 00:48:40,640 Speaker 2: And correct you WHAT i was stressing about lasting too. 992 00:48:40,680 --> 00:48:49,920 Speaker 2: Long that's why you can't be. Trusted, no who's to 993 00:48:50,000 --> 00:48:51,640 Speaker 2: say this guy has has. 994 00:48:51,840 --> 00:48:54,040 Speaker 1: Been GOING i am you, know there's probably easy to. 995 00:48:54,120 --> 00:48:56,719 Speaker 1: Do he probably hasn't had sex since. You, YEAH i 996 00:48:56,880 --> 00:49:00,160 Speaker 1: reckon one hundred. Percent don't tell him that you've had two. 997 00:49:00,280 --> 00:49:07,239 Speaker 1: Years when it comes to sex at the, START i 998 00:49:07,320 --> 00:49:09,560 Speaker 1: reckon faking it till you make it is really. Good, 999 00:49:09,920 --> 00:49:12,560 Speaker 1: yeah like when you're, comfortable you can joke about, it 1000 00:49:12,680 --> 00:49:13,920 Speaker 1: like you don't haven't had sex for like two? 1001 00:49:13,960 --> 00:49:16,600 Speaker 2: Years you can if you want, to by all, means 1002 00:49:16,680 --> 00:49:18,560 Speaker 2: but like because you've done it and you like you 1003 00:49:18,640 --> 00:49:21,400 Speaker 2: know what goes, where you know exactly how it, works and, 1004 00:49:21,480 --> 00:49:23,400 Speaker 2: you like you, said the chemistry is. There it's all 1005 00:49:23,440 --> 00:49:26,120 Speaker 2: good to be anxious one. Percent you're nervous. Anxious it's LIKE. 1006 00:49:26,280 --> 00:49:28,719 Speaker 1: I feel like sex is like natural instinct. Too once 1007 00:49:28,760 --> 00:49:31,439 Speaker 1: you get into the, action your body just takes. Over it, Does, 1008 00:49:31,560 --> 00:49:34,520 Speaker 1: yeah for, real it does like something like along our 1009 00:49:34,600 --> 00:49:37,080 Speaker 1: biology takes over because we've done it for millions of 1010 00:49:37,200 --> 00:49:39,040 Speaker 1: years and you're just, Like i'm ready to. 1011 00:49:39,080 --> 00:49:45,840 Speaker 2: GO i, think how do we reassure, yeah it's drinking 1012 00:49:45,880 --> 00:49:49,719 Speaker 2: baby steps are good or just go bas deep literally, yeah, 1013 00:49:52,440 --> 00:49:54,759 Speaker 2: AH i think, THIS i. 1014 00:49:54,840 --> 00:49:58,879 Speaker 1: Reckon the reassurance you need is so you're scared that's 1015 00:49:58,880 --> 00:50:00,279 Speaker 1: going to be awkward or you're gonna make a fool. 1016 00:50:00,280 --> 00:50:03,080 Speaker 1: Yourself the reassurance is that he wants, it or the 1017 00:50:03,120 --> 00:50:04,719 Speaker 1: reassurance is that he wants. It BUT i was even 1018 00:50:04,719 --> 00:50:07,960 Speaker 1: going to say that if you make a, mistake lean into. 1019 00:50:08,040 --> 00:50:11,239 Speaker 2: It. Laugh. Yeah i've had. Plenty i've made. 1020 00:50:11,239 --> 00:50:13,279 Speaker 1: Mistakes girls have made, mistakes and you just laugh about 1021 00:50:13,280 --> 00:50:14,040 Speaker 1: it and keep going and it's. 1022 00:50:14,080 --> 00:50:16,880 Speaker 2: Fun. Yeah, yeah don't be like hella awkward about. It 1023 00:50:16,960 --> 00:50:17,439 Speaker 2: just lean into. 1024 00:50:17,440 --> 00:50:20,719 Speaker 1: It oh, shit, yeah let's keep going like everyone makes. 1025 00:50:20,760 --> 00:50:24,080 Speaker 1: Mistakes that's so. Relatable and then also he doesn't give a. 1026 00:50:24,120 --> 00:50:27,320 Speaker 1: Fuck he wants to have. Sex he does not. Care so, 1027 00:50:27,520 --> 00:50:30,440 Speaker 1: fun he's probably only ever had sex with you when 1028 00:50:30,480 --> 00:50:33,040 Speaker 1: you come back FROM, uni probably knowing most. 1029 00:50:33,080 --> 00:50:36,560 Speaker 2: Guys Probably, YEAH i. Reckon, yeah so have some. 1030 00:50:36,680 --> 00:50:39,880 Speaker 1: Fun lean into being, awkward and it's going to be 1031 00:50:39,920 --> 00:50:43,120 Speaker 1: fun no matter. What who knows you might fall in? 1032 00:50:43,200 --> 00:50:51,719 Speaker 2: Love, okay my turn dilemma? Title AM i? Nitpicking i've 1033 00:50:51,760 --> 00:50:54,360 Speaker 2: been dating this guy for three months and it's slowly 1034 00:50:54,400 --> 00:50:57,879 Speaker 2: progressing towards a. Relationship it's. Great we really like each. 1035 00:50:57,880 --> 00:51:00,279 Speaker 2: Other it's been some time Since i've been in a, 1036 00:51:00,360 --> 00:51:03,279 Speaker 2: relationship AND i think he's in the same. Situation we 1037 00:51:03,400 --> 00:51:05,360 Speaker 2: have been on the same page about the fact that 1038 00:51:05,480 --> 00:51:08,680 Speaker 2: we don't like. TEXTING i do hear from him every, 1039 00:51:08,760 --> 00:51:10,840 Speaker 2: day but it's not like we're texting every second of 1040 00:51:10,920 --> 00:51:13,960 Speaker 2: the day about what we're. Doing it's mainly to plan 1041 00:51:14,040 --> 00:51:16,080 Speaker 2: the next time we see each. OTHER i think this 1042 00:51:16,239 --> 00:51:20,200 Speaker 2: is really. Healthy, HOWEVER i realized that SOMETIMES i don't 1043 00:51:20,239 --> 00:51:23,200 Speaker 2: know what he's been up, to simply BECAUSE i didn't 1044 00:51:23,239 --> 00:51:26,200 Speaker 2: ask or he didn't tell. Me SHOULD i bring this. 1045 00:51:26,360 --> 00:51:29,440 Speaker 2: Up it's not out of toxicity THAT i want to. 1046 00:51:29,560 --> 00:51:31,800 Speaker 2: Know i'm just curious about what he's up to BECAUSE 1047 00:51:31,800 --> 00:51:34,720 Speaker 2: i care about. Him for, example he went out recently 1048 00:51:34,960 --> 00:51:36,920 Speaker 2: AND i didn't, know BUT i would have loved to 1049 00:51:37,000 --> 00:51:39,239 Speaker 2: know that he got home safe and. Everything IF i 1050 00:51:39,320 --> 00:51:41,120 Speaker 2: do bring this, up how DO i bring it up 1051 00:51:41,120 --> 00:51:43,239 Speaker 2: without making it seem Like i'm crazy and need to 1052 00:51:43,320 --> 00:51:47,320 Speaker 2: know everything he's? Doing or AM i? Nitpicking AND i 1053 00:51:47,360 --> 00:51:50,120 Speaker 2: shouldn't need to know or bring this up nitpicking in 1054 00:51:50,200 --> 00:51:51,880 Speaker 2: the sense that there is no issue or dilemma. Here 1055 00:51:51,960 --> 00:51:54,120 Speaker 2: SO i don't love the. Pod you guys absolutely. Slay 1056 00:51:55,000 --> 00:51:59,560 Speaker 2: ooh kind of, interesting very interesting seeing how she thinks 1057 00:52:01,160 --> 00:52:04,560 Speaker 2: to be. Fair an easy answer is just start asking 1058 00:52:04,680 --> 00:52:06,880 Speaker 2: what he was doing. TODAY i was going to do 1059 00:52:07,040 --> 00:52:07,120 Speaker 2: to you. 1060 00:52:07,200 --> 00:52:10,719 Speaker 1: TONIGHT i think she's just overthinking what she's. Doing and 1061 00:52:10,840 --> 00:52:13,080 Speaker 1: you have a right to, know not a, right but like, 1062 00:52:14,160 --> 00:52:18,560 Speaker 1: you asking what he's doing isn't going to be bad at. 1063 00:52:18,600 --> 00:52:20,360 Speaker 1: All he's not going to think anything. 1064 00:52:20,160 --> 00:52:22,360 Speaker 2: Of, it and so you're not. Nitpicking, yeah you're not, 1065 00:52:22,520 --> 00:52:23,960 Speaker 2: nitpicking and you send me have a right to, know 1066 00:52:25,360 --> 00:52:28,520 Speaker 2: JUST i, reckon you don't even you don't need to 1067 00:52:28,560 --> 00:52:30,400 Speaker 2: bring it up with him EVEN i don't think say 1068 00:52:30,480 --> 00:52:33,239 Speaker 2: anything about being, like OH i felt weird not. Knowing 1069 00:52:33,600 --> 00:52:37,000 Speaker 2: just just start saying how is your? Day, yeah and 1070 00:52:37,160 --> 00:52:39,399 Speaker 2: start texting him of a, morning what are. 1071 00:52:39,360 --> 00:52:39,680 Speaker 3: You up to? 1072 00:52:39,800 --> 00:52:42,279 Speaker 2: Today it's a nice. Action if he leaves out things 1073 00:52:42,320 --> 00:52:44,359 Speaker 2: and you, think, oh he's purpose living out, things then 1074 00:52:44,440 --> 00:52:46,960 Speaker 2: you can talk about. It, yeah because it's like you've 1075 00:52:46,960 --> 00:52:49,000 Speaker 2: been talking for three, months it's getting a bit more. 1076 00:52:49,080 --> 00:52:52,520 Speaker 2: Serious it's you, know but it's a good time to 1077 00:52:52,640 --> 00:52:53,480 Speaker 2: up the communication. 1078 00:52:53,600 --> 00:52:56,200 Speaker 1: Skills, YEAH i think you somewhat have a right to, 1079 00:52:56,280 --> 00:52:58,480 Speaker 1: know like what he's doing it, Definitely, yeah and just 1080 00:52:58,880 --> 00:53:02,160 Speaker 1: like start doing little baby steps like before and just 1081 00:53:02,320 --> 00:53:03,840 Speaker 1: get into it, Slowly hey how are you? Going and 1082 00:53:03,880 --> 00:53:06,799 Speaker 1: see if he reciprocates and go from. There but, yeah 1083 00:53:06,960 --> 00:53:10,359 Speaker 1: you're not doing anything. Wrong classic overthinking thing like every 1084 00:53:10,400 --> 00:53:12,760 Speaker 1: run overthinks the hoist. Relationship, yeah you're. 1085 00:53:12,640 --> 00:53:16,600 Speaker 2: Just like they're fully dating or just LIKE i think she, 1086 00:53:16,640 --> 00:53:19,160 Speaker 2: Said i've been seeing this. Guy i've been dating this 1087 00:53:19,200 --> 00:53:20,840 Speaker 2: guy for three. Months if they're, dating she has a 1088 00:53:20,960 --> 00:53:23,320 Speaker 2: right to, Know, well, yeah you boyfriend and. Girlfriend if they're, boyfriend, 1089 00:53:23,320 --> 00:53:24,520 Speaker 2: government you have a right to. KNOW i thought they 1090 00:53:24,520 --> 00:53:26,640 Speaker 2: were like talking talking like just like if you guys 1091 00:53:26,680 --> 00:53:28,840 Speaker 2: are just in a talking. Stage, yeah but you're calling it, 1092 00:53:28,920 --> 00:53:31,719 Speaker 2: dating which is. Fair, yeah you still ever right to. 1093 00:53:31,760 --> 00:53:33,440 Speaker 2: Know you have a right to. Know, yeah but if 1094 00:53:33,440 --> 00:53:36,320 Speaker 2: your boyfriend and girlfriend and you had no idea that 1095 00:53:36,680 --> 00:53:40,680 Speaker 2: he went, Out, yeah start asking questions the question. 1096 00:53:41,960 --> 00:53:44,239 Speaker 1: AND i think it's like find the line of where 1097 00:53:44,280 --> 00:53:46,480 Speaker 1: you you both were, comfortable because obviously he might be 1098 00:53:46,520 --> 00:53:49,480 Speaker 1: comfortable now but you're. Not so start like treading that 1099 00:53:49,560 --> 00:53:52,000 Speaker 1: line a little bit further so you get comfortable because 1100 00:53:52,000 --> 00:53:54,160 Speaker 1: obviously you need a little bit more of reassurance than he. 1101 00:53:54,239 --> 00:54:05,720 Speaker 2: Does, yeah which is. Fine, ah thank you everybody for. Listening, 1102 00:54:05,840 --> 00:54:09,680 Speaker 2: jake you know WHAT i? Did? What, yes we're all 1103 00:54:09,760 --> 00:54:10,360 Speaker 2: my shorts with. 1104 00:54:10,480 --> 00:54:10,840 Speaker 5: You, no. 1105 00:54:12,640 --> 00:54:16,040 Speaker 1: Don't get ahead of. YOU i added the sign off 1106 00:54:16,080 --> 00:54:18,600 Speaker 1: the episode to the link in The. Instagram let's. Go 1107 00:54:19,840 --> 00:54:22,279 Speaker 1: she's doing my part. Man, yes that's why people trust. 1108 00:54:22,320 --> 00:54:25,880 Speaker 1: Me so if you want to sign off an, episode 1109 00:54:25,920 --> 00:54:28,080 Speaker 1: it is now in The instagram linked. Buyer but also 1110 00:54:28,160 --> 00:54:30,200 Speaker 1: the description of this, video there's a funct on links 1111 00:54:30,239 --> 00:54:31,920 Speaker 1: there go do. All, yeah, yeah let's go look at 1112 00:54:31,960 --> 00:54:32,279 Speaker 1: all Links. 1113 00:54:34,640 --> 00:54:38,120 Speaker 2: Patreon patreon's. There but today we're going to be Calling. 1114 00:54:38,360 --> 00:54:43,880 Speaker 2: Morgan you're going to say you're gonna talk if she picks. Up. 1115 00:54:46,400 --> 00:54:50,680 Speaker 2: Hello hello is That? Morgan It's audio And jake from 1116 00:54:50,680 --> 00:54:54,120 Speaker 2: The relatables. Podcast how are you? Going oh my, God i'm, 1117 00:54:54,160 --> 00:54:56,759 Speaker 2: good very. 1118 00:54:56,840 --> 00:55:01,759 Speaker 1: Good thanks for picking up on this Fine. Sunday we 1119 00:55:01,880 --> 00:55:03,520 Speaker 1: had a. Question if that's all, right we would like 1120 00:55:03,600 --> 00:55:05,719 Speaker 1: you to sign off the. Episode you can give some, 1121 00:55:05,840 --> 00:55:08,040 Speaker 1: advice you can say a, quote you can do whatever you. 1122 00:55:08,280 --> 00:55:18,160 Speaker 2: Like i'm too hung over for. This oh, no we 1123 00:55:18,200 --> 00:55:23,960 Speaker 2: can use that great like, that, Right, Thanks, morgan have 1124 00:55:24,000 --> 00:55:26,439 Speaker 2: a Good. Sunday good bye. 1125 00:55:26,680 --> 00:55:29,759 Speaker 3: Bye hilarious. 1126 00:55:30,719 --> 00:55:31,359 Speaker 2: That he's been. 1127 00:55:31,480 --> 00:55:32,759 Speaker 3: Hungover that's. 1128 00:55:32,920 --> 00:55:35,040 Speaker 2: Funny that's what you get for a. Comment she was, 1129 00:55:35,160 --> 00:55:37,759 Speaker 2: like so ue, interested and she was, like oh my, 1130 00:55:37,960 --> 00:55:44,399 Speaker 2: god we'll do. Energize, yeah we're way too. Energized thanks 1131 00:55:44,440 --> 00:55:58,200 Speaker 2: everybody for. Listening stay bad see. Ya coming up On 1132 00:55:58,320 --> 00:56:01,200 Speaker 2: relatable With patreon this. Week AND i Aagine pinocchio roasting 1133 00:56:01,239 --> 00:56:04,360 Speaker 2: you for five minutes and his nose hasn't moved an. 1134 00:56:04,400 --> 00:56:09,160 Speaker 2: Inch oh so he's not. Lying husbands be, like where's 1135 00:56:09,200 --> 00:56:10,960 Speaker 2: that THING i left out for forty five days that 1136 00:56:11,000 --> 00:56:13,600 Speaker 2: you finally put? Away exactly where it? Goes why are 1137 00:56:13,600 --> 00:56:14,320 Speaker 2: you always moving my? 1138 00:56:14,440 --> 00:56:14,720 Speaker 3: Stuff? 1139 00:56:14,800 --> 00:56:19,120 Speaker 1: Oh, LITERALLY i SWEAR i leave something somewhere for, ages 1140 00:56:19,160 --> 00:56:20,960 Speaker 1: and it's always, there and as soon AS i want, 1141 00:56:21,000 --> 00:56:22,600 Speaker 1: it my parents have moved. 1142 00:56:22,440 --> 00:56:24,759 Speaker 2: IT i, know and you're, like what the. Fuck also 1143 00:56:24,840 --> 00:56:27,160 Speaker 2: another thing that pisses me off right is IF i 1144 00:56:27,400 --> 00:56:30,080 Speaker 2: finally get fed up with my own mess AND i 1145 00:56:30,320 --> 00:56:33,000 Speaker 2: clean everything up AND i put stuff in random places 1146 00:56:33,000 --> 00:56:34,440 Speaker 2: Because i'm, LIKE i just want it off the, counter 1147 00:56:34,840 --> 00:56:36,839 Speaker 2: and then the next DAY i need the thing WHERE 1148 00:56:36,880 --> 00:56:39,520 Speaker 2: i knew where where it, is and NOW i can't find. 1149 00:56:39,600 --> 00:56:42,640 Speaker 2: IT i love kindness unless it's a person at a 1150 00:56:42,760 --> 00:56:46,400 Speaker 2: four way stop or a chicane waving for me to 1151 00:56:46,520 --> 00:56:49,640 Speaker 2: go when it's obviously why what is with? That like 1152 00:56:49,840 --> 00:56:52,600 Speaker 2: road rules, exist my, MAN i know you were there. 1153 00:56:52,680 --> 00:56:54,360 Speaker 2: First it kills. 1154 00:56:54,480 --> 00:56:57,239 Speaker 1: Me it's like you're both in a walkway and neither 1155 00:56:57,239 --> 00:57:00,040 Speaker 1: of you were, Going, like, honestly it's just. AWKWARD i 1156 00:57:00,120 --> 00:57:02,360 Speaker 1: fucking hate, it AND i. Reckon one worst thing is 1157 00:57:02,400 --> 00:57:05,279 Speaker 1: when like you let them go and then they don't wave, 1158 00:57:05,320 --> 00:57:06,919 Speaker 1: You like how bad is your day that you don't 1159 00:57:06,920 --> 00:57:07,359 Speaker 1: have to wave? 1160 00:57:07,440 --> 00:57:10,839 Speaker 2: Me IF i would to not get away, Someone i'm, 1161 00:57:10,880 --> 00:57:12,960 Speaker 2: like fuck, off you fuck it in my. CAR i 1162 00:57:13,000 --> 00:57:15,560 Speaker 2: think it actually ruins my. Day oh it does. Too 1163 00:57:15,719 --> 00:57:18,320 Speaker 2: the rest of my. Drive i'm pissed me being invited to. 1164 00:57:18,440 --> 00:57:21,400 Speaker 2: Nothing i'm ever so, lonely and nobody cares about me at, 1165 00:57:21,440 --> 00:57:24,520 Speaker 2: All me being invited to one. Thing oh my, god 1166 00:57:24,600 --> 00:57:27,920 Speaker 2: it never stops with these. People, YEAH i GUESS i 1167 00:57:28,080 --> 00:57:32,360 Speaker 2: missed the popular what's the cheapest thing you've ever? Done one? 1168 00:57:32,480 --> 00:57:34,760 Speaker 2: TIME i went and got a rental car of my 1169 00:57:34,920 --> 00:57:38,480 Speaker 2: exact making, model manually swapped all four tires from my 1170 00:57:38,680 --> 00:57:41,120 Speaker 2: car to the rental, car then took it, back had 1171 00:57:41,160 --> 00:57:43,160 Speaker 2: a whole new set of tires for seventy five. Dollars, 1172 00:57:43,320 --> 00:57:47,120 Speaker 2: oh that's, genius kind of. Genius there's no way they're 1173 00:57:47,120 --> 00:57:47,600 Speaker 2: picking up on. 1174 00:57:47,680 --> 00:57:49,760 Speaker 1: That the guy getting paid thirty dollars an hour to 1175 00:57:49,960 --> 00:57:52,000 Speaker 1: check it when you come, back he's no way is 1176 00:57:52,080 --> 00:57:54,640 Speaker 1: checking the tread of the. TIRE i, know do you 1177 00:57:54,680 --> 00:57:58,400 Speaker 1: reckon like tire companies like illegally obliged to not do, 1178 00:57:58,520 --> 00:58:00,600 Speaker 1: that or they don't give a fuck with this money he. 1179 00:58:00,680 --> 00:58:02,840 Speaker 2: Did, himself did, himself so he doesn't give a. Shit. 1180 00:58:02,960 --> 00:58:04,160 Speaker 2: Fuck get a, job. 1181 00:58:05,840 --> 00:58:06,160 Speaker 3: He had a. 1182 00:58:06,240 --> 00:58:08,120 Speaker 2: Job you could afford to get new. Tire it takes 1183 00:58:08,200 --> 00:58:10,800 Speaker 2: time to do four tires without you're not changing in the, 1184 00:58:10,800 --> 00:58:12,080 Speaker 2: wheels you're changing everything. 1185 00:58:11,920 --> 00:58:13,720 Speaker 1: Yeah with that one of those machines that picks the 1186 00:58:13,760 --> 00:58:16,760 Speaker 1: whole car up like that takes some. Time i've never 1187 00:58:16,840 --> 00:58:18,320 Speaker 1: changed a, tire AND i HOPE i never have. 1188 00:58:18,440 --> 00:58:21,520 Speaker 2: To i've only had to do it. Once millennials quit. 1189 00:58:21,600 --> 00:58:24,280 Speaker 2: WHINING i paid off one hundred and fifty thousand dollars 1190 00:58:24,320 --> 00:58:27,919 Speaker 2: student loan AND i own a four hundred thousand dollar 1191 00:58:28,000 --> 00:58:31,920 Speaker 2: home BECAUSE i. Save it's not that. HARD i make 1192 00:58:32,040 --> 00:58:35,000 Speaker 2: coffee at home bus instead Of Uber shop all the. 1193 00:58:35,080 --> 00:58:37,120 Speaker 2: Sales had my parents pay off my loans and buy 1194 00:58:37,160 --> 00:58:39,080 Speaker 2: me a house Because i'm daddy special little, boy AND 1195 00:58:39,200 --> 00:58:44,360 Speaker 2: i Got hulu with. ADS i was about to, SAY 1196 00:58:46,000 --> 00:58:48,240 Speaker 2: i just want to be rich enough THAT i don't 1197 00:58:48,320 --> 00:58:51,200 Speaker 2: have to WATCH diy videos on YouTube every time something 1198 00:58:51,240 --> 00:58:53,200 Speaker 2: in my house. Breaks oh you know, What. 1199 00:58:53,400 --> 00:58:55,880 Speaker 1: I'm kind of looking forward, to like having my own 1200 00:58:55,920 --> 00:58:58,160 Speaker 1: house and doing it. Myself really, Yeah LIKE i don't 1201 00:58:58,160 --> 00:58:59,840 Speaker 1: want to be one of those guys like my dad 1202 00:58:59,920 --> 00:59:01,480 Speaker 1: is one of those people who just pays someone to do. 1203 00:59:01,560 --> 00:59:03,280 Speaker 1: Everything that's gonna be me like other than, so my 1204 00:59:03,360 --> 00:59:04,920 Speaker 1: dad's really good in the, garden but as soon as 1205 00:59:04,960 --> 00:59:06,640 Speaker 1: it comes with like the actual, house he's, Like i'll 1206 00:59:06,680 --> 00:59:08,400 Speaker 1: just pay for someone someone to do. IT i want 1207 00:59:08,400 --> 00:59:10,080 Speaker 1: to be that guy like fucking has a. Crack yeah, 1208 00:59:10,160 --> 00:59:11,479 Speaker 1: yeah it's your, house it's my little. 1209 00:59:11,520 --> 00:59:13,840 Speaker 2: BABY i have the skills to have a, crack AND 1210 00:59:13,880 --> 00:59:15,640 Speaker 2: i don't want to do. IT i actually want to 1211 00:59:15,640 --> 00:59:16,680 Speaker 2: because my grandpa built his. 1212 00:59:16,760 --> 00:59:18,760 Speaker 1: House dad built our house while he was the owner, 1213 00:59:18,760 --> 00:59:20,080 Speaker 1: builder but like he paid someone to do it and 1214 00:59:20,160 --> 00:59:21,960 Speaker 1: designed it and. SHIP i want to build like my 1215 00:59:22,000 --> 00:59:25,000 Speaker 1: own house and, shit oh you want to actually like 1216 00:59:25,120 --> 00:59:27,520 Speaker 1: go to like get a builder to do, it but be. Involved, 1217 00:59:27,560 --> 00:59:29,240 Speaker 1: yeah but like go to an architecture, place pick out 1218 00:59:29,240 --> 00:59:30,440 Speaker 1: bigger on the rooms and ship and like. 1219 00:59:30,440 --> 00:59:31,920 Speaker 2: Oh yeah that's. THAT i want to do that, too 1220 00:59:32,000 --> 00:59:33,800 Speaker 2: do all that. Stuff. YEAH i want to go like 1221 00:59:33,960 --> 00:59:36,000 Speaker 2: with a general idea and then they send something back and, 1222 00:59:36,080 --> 00:59:36,840 Speaker 2: safweak and. 1223 00:59:36,840 --> 00:59:38,200 Speaker 1: THEN i want to do something like, crazy like have 1224 00:59:38,280 --> 00:59:39,800 Speaker 1: some six shiity of a little slide in, it like 1225 00:59:39,880 --> 00:59:41,160 Speaker 1: something sick like, That like why? 1226 00:59:41,200 --> 00:59:44,600 Speaker 2: Not why don't people do that more? Often does it 1227 00:59:44,680 --> 00:59:45,320 Speaker 2: cost more money