1 00:00:00,480 --> 00:00:02,360 Speaker 1: I'll get a teen before we get under way today, 2 00:00:02,360 --> 00:00:05,960 Speaker 1: a blatant plug for me. Upcome a new mentoring program. 3 00:00:06,040 --> 00:00:08,559 Speaker 1: As you know, I do me best to keep the 4 00:00:08,600 --> 00:00:11,000 Speaker 1: advertising for my own programs to a minimum on this 5 00:00:11,080 --> 00:00:13,920 Speaker 1: show because I think it's kind of annoying. But fuck it, 6 00:00:13,960 --> 00:00:17,560 Speaker 1: today I'm breaking my own rule. So on July thirty, 7 00:00:17,960 --> 00:00:23,600 Speaker 1: my new eight week online mentoring Extravaganza kicks off. And 8 00:00:23,840 --> 00:00:25,880 Speaker 1: I've created this program for people who want to get 9 00:00:25,920 --> 00:00:31,400 Speaker 1: more out of their time, talent, genetics, potential, skills, career 10 00:00:32,120 --> 00:00:35,720 Speaker 1: and resources what they've got at their disposal. People who 11 00:00:35,720 --> 00:00:39,159 Speaker 1: want to move above and beyond the groundhog danus of 12 00:00:39,320 --> 00:00:45,440 Speaker 1: unconscious repetition, of frustration, of self sabotage and overthinking and underdoing, 13 00:00:45,479 --> 00:00:49,360 Speaker 1: and the destructive habits and rituals, and the crappy results 14 00:00:49,400 --> 00:00:53,240 Speaker 1: and the perpetual waiting for the right time that never comes. 15 00:00:53,960 --> 00:00:59,960 Speaker 1: We'll be unpacking the human experience from a psychological, emotional, sociological, physiological, 16 00:01:00,040 --> 00:01:03,480 Speaker 1: call your body and behavioral perspective, and there'll be lots 17 00:01:03,520 --> 00:01:07,319 Speaker 1: of room and time for interaction, conversation, and Q and A. So, 18 00:01:08,160 --> 00:01:10,679 Speaker 1: if that doesn't sound terrible and you'd like to find 19 00:01:10,720 --> 00:01:14,680 Speaker 1: out a little bit more about the program. Go to 20 00:01:14,720 --> 00:01:17,800 Speaker 1: me website, me website and take a peek at the 21 00:01:17,959 --> 00:01:21,440 Speaker 1: very detailed eight week overview. So just go to me 22 00:01:21,560 --> 00:01:25,000 Speaker 1: dot com. Well, no it's not really, it's actually Craigharper 23 00:01:25,080 --> 00:01:29,520 Speaker 1: one word dot net, click on education and see what's up. Alrighty, 24 00:01:29,640 --> 00:01:33,119 Speaker 1: I'm with the show. I get a team. It's Harps 25 00:01:33,120 --> 00:01:36,160 Speaker 1: and Tiff and Steve and it's the You Project. It's 26 00:01:36,319 --> 00:01:39,440 Speaker 1: early in the am here in the thriving metropolis of Melbourne. 27 00:01:39,480 --> 00:01:42,200 Speaker 1: It's four minutes past eight o'clock as we hit the 28 00:01:42,240 --> 00:01:45,880 Speaker 1: go button. Hi, Tiff, how excited are you? I'm very excited. 29 00:01:45,920 --> 00:01:48,640 Speaker 1: Craig Ethy Harper. You have a bit of a crush 30 00:01:48,760 --> 00:01:51,520 Speaker 1: on our guests, and you've had him on your show 31 00:01:51,560 --> 00:01:54,960 Speaker 1: a couple of times and you do rave Yeah, I do, yep, 32 00:01:55,280 --> 00:01:58,160 Speaker 1: especially because he brought up the dogg os last time. Yeah, 33 00:01:58,160 --> 00:02:01,120 Speaker 1: that's right, we're going to talk about it. So I 34 00:02:01,160 --> 00:02:03,000 Speaker 1: feel like you have a crush on a couple of 35 00:02:03,040 --> 00:02:07,800 Speaker 1: married men. I'm not sure that seems to be a thing. 36 00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:11,680 Speaker 1: I don't I don't know. I think married inaccessible. Yeah, 37 00:02:11,840 --> 00:02:16,280 Speaker 1: that's how I like them. That is that your strategy? 38 00:02:16,400 --> 00:02:20,040 Speaker 1: It keeps me safe. It keeps you avoiding any kind 39 00:02:20,080 --> 00:02:24,359 Speaker 1: of commitment or actual relationships. Yes, yep, I've been following 40 00:02:24,480 --> 00:02:26,600 Speaker 1: much the same protocol for years, and you and I 41 00:02:26,639 --> 00:02:29,680 Speaker 1: have successfully ducked and with any form of commitment or 42 00:02:29,680 --> 00:02:34,560 Speaker 1: marriage or grown upness for a long time. Coler, how 43 00:02:34,600 --> 00:02:38,639 Speaker 1: long have you been married? He doesn't know? 44 00:02:39,960 --> 00:02:42,119 Speaker 2: Teen years, fourteen years, fifteen years? 45 00:02:42,440 --> 00:02:42,840 Speaker 1: I can't. 46 00:02:43,280 --> 00:02:45,519 Speaker 2: You got to do better than that and seven? 47 00:02:45,720 --> 00:02:49,960 Speaker 1: Are you interested? But it feels I'm sure it feels 48 00:02:49,960 --> 00:02:53,280 Speaker 1: so fresh and new. You know, he's done one million interviews. 49 00:02:53,360 --> 00:02:55,720 Speaker 1: No one has ever asked him off the top. 50 00:02:55,760 --> 00:02:58,200 Speaker 2: I have to understand that the way we sustained our 51 00:02:58,240 --> 00:03:01,440 Speaker 2: marriage for fifteen years is we too subscribe to they 52 00:03:01,440 --> 00:03:05,960 Speaker 2: have a continent between you and your crush. Yeah, yeah, 53 00:03:06,120 --> 00:03:09,120 Speaker 2: Now I read the book, Craig. You know it was 54 00:03:09,120 --> 00:03:11,120 Speaker 2: a good how too, and we listened. 55 00:03:12,360 --> 00:03:15,079 Speaker 1: You're welcome. You're welcome. Well, thanks for coming on the 56 00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:19,080 Speaker 1: You project. You and I started a minor dialogue before 57 00:03:19,120 --> 00:03:22,079 Speaker 1: we press the record button. But I love the stuff 58 00:03:22,120 --> 00:03:25,639 Speaker 1: you do. I'm fascinated with your research and your writing 59 00:03:25,880 --> 00:03:31,400 Speaker 1: and what what lit the fire for you in terms 60 00:03:31,480 --> 00:03:37,440 Speaker 1: of being so interested in and obsessed maybe with human performance, 61 00:03:37,600 --> 00:03:40,160 Speaker 1: was there an event. Was there something that happened or 62 00:03:40,240 --> 00:03:42,040 Speaker 1: was it just part of who you are? 63 00:03:44,720 --> 00:03:47,320 Speaker 2: We're a bunch of things that happened. It is definitely 64 00:03:47,480 --> 00:03:50,800 Speaker 2: part of who I am. But the real like that 65 00:03:52,040 --> 00:03:55,120 Speaker 2: the first time it went from you know me trying 66 00:03:55,160 --> 00:03:58,120 Speaker 2: to like fix me and make life work a little 67 00:03:58,200 --> 00:04:01,600 Speaker 2: better too. Oh, there's an interesting there's something going on 68 00:04:01,680 --> 00:04:05,200 Speaker 2: here that I need to pay attention to. I started 69 00:04:05,200 --> 00:04:09,000 Speaker 2: my career as a journalist and in the early nineteen nineties, 70 00:04:09,120 --> 00:04:12,800 Speaker 2: and journalism is a fabulous career where they pay you 71 00:04:13,360 --> 00:04:17,400 Speaker 2: to go learn about things you're curious about, and super 72 00:04:17,480 --> 00:04:21,400 Speaker 2: curious about neuroscience, especially in the early nineties, because that 73 00:04:21,560 --> 00:04:25,000 Speaker 2: was behavioral neuroscience, Like we were first starting to figure 74 00:04:25,000 --> 00:04:28,039 Speaker 2: out how do people work, how do emotions work? Is 75 00:04:28,120 --> 00:04:30,640 Speaker 2: consciousness something we can actually talk about out loud as 76 00:04:30,640 --> 00:04:33,080 Speaker 2: a serious topic of science, all those kinds of questions. 77 00:04:33,320 --> 00:04:37,760 Speaker 2: It was fascinated with those things simultaneously. On total opposite 78 00:04:37,800 --> 00:04:40,719 Speaker 2: side of the coin, I was obsessed with action sports 79 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:43,880 Speaker 2: and so surfing, skiing, rock climbing, snowboarding and the like, 80 00:04:44,400 --> 00:04:47,359 Speaker 2: and I spent the better portion of a decade chasing 81 00:04:47,400 --> 00:04:51,400 Speaker 2: professional athletes around mountains and across oceans, and if you 82 00:04:51,600 --> 00:04:54,599 Speaker 2: know much about action sports in the nineteen nineties, it's 83 00:04:54,640 --> 00:04:57,240 Speaker 2: often referred to as the so called era of impossible. 84 00:04:57,279 --> 00:05:00,760 Speaker 2: We're more impossible, never been done, never going to be done. 85 00:05:00,920 --> 00:05:05,680 Speaker 2: Feats than ever before got accomplished. And you know, it's 86 00:05:05,760 --> 00:05:10,320 Speaker 2: one thing, I think to see a laired Hamilton serve 87 00:05:10,400 --> 00:05:13,599 Speaker 2: one hundred foot wave on a screen, and you know, 88 00:05:13,640 --> 00:05:16,920 Speaker 2: it's quite another when, like you go drinking with your 89 00:05:16,960 --> 00:05:20,000 Speaker 2: friends on a Friday night and then on Saturday morning, 90 00:05:20,000 --> 00:05:22,400 Speaker 2: I reason hungover and you go into the mountains and 91 00:05:22,440 --> 00:05:24,640 Speaker 2: one of your friends does something that for all of 92 00:05:24,720 --> 00:05:27,680 Speaker 2: recorded history, nobody's ever done and is not supposed to 93 00:05:27,720 --> 00:05:31,479 Speaker 2: be done. It's a very different thing. And on top 94 00:05:31,560 --> 00:05:34,159 Speaker 2: of that, and you know this from your high performance background, 95 00:05:34,720 --> 00:05:38,520 Speaker 2: this is not rocket science. But all the people I knew, 96 00:05:39,000 --> 00:05:41,800 Speaker 2: especially in the early nineties when action sports just getting going, 97 00:05:41,839 --> 00:05:44,840 Speaker 2: it was really a punk rock subculture. Especially I was 98 00:05:44,880 --> 00:05:47,800 Speaker 2: in Tahoe, so that was really a mecca that most 99 00:05:47,839 --> 00:05:50,760 Speaker 2: of the folks I knew didn't have a lot of education. 100 00:05:51,240 --> 00:05:55,080 Speaker 2: I have a lot of money. They had really rough childhoods. 101 00:05:55,080 --> 00:05:56,400 Speaker 2: A lot of the people I knew it came from 102 00:05:56,440 --> 00:06:01,320 Speaker 2: really difficult broken home scenarios. They had no money, no education, 103 00:06:01,560 --> 00:06:05,200 Speaker 2: broken homes, lots of risk taking, lots of substance abuse. Normally, 104 00:06:05,320 --> 00:06:08,479 Speaker 2: put these things together in a community and people die 105 00:06:08,560 --> 00:06:10,880 Speaker 2: young or they go to jail. What they don't do 106 00:06:11,040 --> 00:06:15,840 Speaker 2: is reinvent what's possible for the species. So seeing all 107 00:06:15,839 --> 00:06:18,719 Speaker 2: that up front, you know, first question what the hell 108 00:06:18,839 --> 00:06:22,240 Speaker 2: is going on? So it really it went from personal 109 00:06:22,360 --> 00:06:25,599 Speaker 2: interest to oh wow, this is a this is a phenomenon. 110 00:06:26,320 --> 00:06:29,680 Speaker 2: And as journalists, you know, it took a while to notice. Yeah, 111 00:06:29,720 --> 00:06:31,680 Speaker 2: but the journalists would get together there over a couple 112 00:06:31,720 --> 00:06:34,480 Speaker 2: of years, we sit down and talk, and every conversation 113 00:06:34,839 --> 00:06:37,080 Speaker 2: was we've hit the ceiling. It's not going to be 114 00:06:37,320 --> 00:06:39,719 Speaker 2: there's no way people are going to start dying in 115 00:06:39,800 --> 00:06:42,240 Speaker 2: droves that we can't go any farther this is. And 116 00:06:42,279 --> 00:06:45,000 Speaker 2: it kept going and going and going, and eventually, you know, 117 00:06:45,040 --> 00:06:47,200 Speaker 2: after four or five of those conversations, you start to 118 00:06:47,240 --> 00:06:50,479 Speaker 2: realize it's not going to stop, and something really unusual 119 00:06:50,600 --> 00:06:52,560 Speaker 2: is happening. And that's where it started for me. 120 00:06:53,200 --> 00:06:56,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like I love that. I feel like 121 00:06:56,839 --> 00:07:00,400 Speaker 1: psychology gets in the way of physiological potentials so much. 122 00:07:00,440 --> 00:07:02,279 Speaker 1: In other words, our mind gets in the way of 123 00:07:02,320 --> 00:07:06,040 Speaker 1: our possibilities, you know. And I've worked with athletes who 124 00:07:06,040 --> 00:07:09,760 Speaker 1: are incredibly fucking gifted, and I've got more confidence and 125 00:07:10,280 --> 00:07:13,440 Speaker 1: faith in their ability than they have. And some of 126 00:07:13,480 --> 00:07:15,520 Speaker 1: them have gone on to tap into that, but some 127 00:07:15,560 --> 00:07:18,480 Speaker 1: of them haven't. And then I've worked with other people, 128 00:07:18,560 --> 00:07:23,440 Speaker 1: like I trained a lady for five Olympic Games. Her 129 00:07:23,480 --> 00:07:27,440 Speaker 1: name is Jackie Cooper, and she's an aerial ski jumper, 130 00:07:27,520 --> 00:07:30,640 Speaker 1: five time world champion, and she would tell you herself 131 00:07:30,720 --> 00:07:35,280 Speaker 1: not wildly gifted, but the most fucking incredible mindset ever. 132 00:07:36,120 --> 00:07:38,600 Speaker 1: And you know, she went on to be the first 133 00:07:38,600 --> 00:07:41,360 Speaker 1: woman to do a triple twisting triple back some assault 134 00:07:41,400 --> 00:07:46,360 Speaker 1: in the world. And I heard from her six weeks 135 00:07:46,360 --> 00:07:48,520 Speaker 1: ago and she's training for something I can't say a 136 00:07:48,520 --> 00:07:51,160 Speaker 1: lot about because it's a tell TV thing over here. 137 00:07:52,120 --> 00:07:54,960 Speaker 1: But she's forty nine and she hasn't trained thirteen years. 138 00:07:55,560 --> 00:07:58,600 Speaker 1: And I started training her six weeks ago and she's 139 00:07:59,480 --> 00:08:02,000 Speaker 1: she wouldn't mind me saying this, but she's a fucking savage, 140 00:08:02,400 --> 00:08:06,200 Speaker 1: and like it's still there. She's a fucking savage, and 141 00:08:07,560 --> 00:08:12,640 Speaker 1: like it's like some flame just got reignited, you know. 142 00:08:12,760 --> 00:08:15,200 Speaker 1: And here's this woman who hadn't trained since she was 143 00:08:15,240 --> 00:08:18,680 Speaker 1: thirty six, she's now forty nine, and in six weeks 144 00:08:18,720 --> 00:08:22,440 Speaker 1: her body has transformed, and I have to constantly hold 145 00:08:22,480 --> 00:08:25,920 Speaker 1: her back like most people. I have to coax and 146 00:08:25,960 --> 00:08:29,160 Speaker 1: prod and push or a lot of people. But I 147 00:08:29,280 --> 00:08:34,960 Speaker 1: need to make sure she doesn't kill herself in the process. Wow, incredible, 148 00:08:35,480 --> 00:08:39,520 Speaker 1: it's incredible. But I feel like that's of course, that's 149 00:08:39,559 --> 00:08:45,760 Speaker 1: the anomaly. But you know, I know for myself, Stephen, 150 00:08:45,840 --> 00:08:49,000 Speaker 1: like I'm fifty nine, I grew up not great genetics, 151 00:08:49,040 --> 00:08:52,080 Speaker 1: not great potential, not good, not athletically gifted, none of 152 00:08:52,080 --> 00:08:55,199 Speaker 1: that stuff. And so for me that's the catalyst because 153 00:08:56,040 --> 00:09:00,600 Speaker 1: like I was over two hundred pounds in in year 154 00:09:00,640 --> 00:09:03,480 Speaker 1: eight at school and not not at all kids, and 155 00:09:03,520 --> 00:09:05,640 Speaker 1: my name at school was Jumbo. And then I lost 156 00:09:05,679 --> 00:09:07,880 Speaker 1: all of this weight and I went from last in 157 00:09:07,920 --> 00:09:12,960 Speaker 1: every event to quite okay. So not a bad athlete, 158 00:09:12,960 --> 00:09:16,000 Speaker 1: but not because of genetics, just because of work. And 159 00:09:16,080 --> 00:09:18,240 Speaker 1: for me, that opened the door on, oh wow, if 160 00:09:18,280 --> 00:09:20,319 Speaker 1: I can do this with my body, what else can 161 00:09:20,360 --> 00:09:20,640 Speaker 1: I do? 162 00:09:21,360 --> 00:09:21,480 Speaker 2: Like? 163 00:09:21,520 --> 00:09:25,360 Speaker 1: What else is? Like I went to a boys private boys' school, 164 00:09:25,360 --> 00:09:28,320 Speaker 1: and we had to do compulsory cross country runs every week, 165 00:09:28,360 --> 00:09:30,360 Speaker 1: and I came one hundred and thirtieth out of one 166 00:09:30,440 --> 00:09:33,160 Speaker 1: hundred and thirty bois you didn't know that? Tif? Did you? 167 00:09:33,880 --> 00:09:36,920 Speaker 1: Well done one hundred and thirtieth because I couldn't run, 168 00:09:37,000 --> 00:09:40,920 Speaker 1: so I walked coming last. What's that you came first? 169 00:09:41,559 --> 00:09:45,280 Speaker 1: I was excellent at coming last. But I trained and 170 00:09:45,320 --> 00:09:47,520 Speaker 1: all of that stuff, and anyone can train. But yeah, 171 00:09:47,559 --> 00:09:50,120 Speaker 1: that just opened the door on this curiosity for me 172 00:09:50,200 --> 00:09:55,560 Speaker 1: around what is possible for us? So tell us a 173 00:09:55,559 --> 00:09:57,840 Speaker 1: little bit about your latest book. Your latest book is 174 00:09:57,840 --> 00:10:01,160 Speaker 1: called Na Country. I'm excited about that. It's about you 175 00:10:01,640 --> 00:10:06,160 Speaker 1: exploring your add limits, your physiological and I guess psychological 176 00:10:06,200 --> 00:10:09,319 Speaker 1: limits as a as a fifty three year old trying 177 00:10:09,320 --> 00:10:11,720 Speaker 1: to become in a late scale. 178 00:10:12,559 --> 00:10:15,440 Speaker 2: So yeah, in sort of a fit of madness for 179 00:10:15,480 --> 00:10:18,280 Speaker 2: a bunch of really strange reasons that we don't have 180 00:10:18,360 --> 00:10:22,040 Speaker 2: to go into at age fifty three, I took a 181 00:10:22,160 --> 00:10:28,160 Speaker 2: bunch of sort of new theories from embodied cognition, flow science, 182 00:10:28,200 --> 00:10:34,920 Speaker 2: and network neuroscience or neurodynamics, right and mashed them together. 183 00:10:35,360 --> 00:10:38,439 Speaker 2: And most of these things are true in the lab. 184 00:10:39,000 --> 00:10:41,880 Speaker 2: Are they true in the real world? Interesting question? But 185 00:10:41,960 --> 00:10:46,719 Speaker 2: if they are, it should be possible for older athletes 186 00:10:46,760 --> 00:10:50,160 Speaker 2: to progress in seemingly impossible activities like park skin. Right. 187 00:10:50,679 --> 00:10:54,559 Speaker 2: So I blended this together and I ran a really 188 00:10:54,559 --> 00:10:57,600 Speaker 2: fun experiment where I basically tried to go from zero 189 00:10:57,760 --> 00:11:00,760 Speaker 2: experience park skiin never you know, never really been in 190 00:11:00,760 --> 00:11:03,280 Speaker 2: a train park before, can ski, but never really been 191 00:11:03,280 --> 00:11:06,520 Speaker 2: in a train park before. Too intermediate in a single season, 192 00:11:06,679 --> 00:11:10,240 Speaker 2: which is would be challenging for anybody, but for somebody 193 00:11:10,280 --> 00:11:15,000 Speaker 2: the age fifty three. You know, most of the belief 194 00:11:15,040 --> 00:11:17,320 Speaker 2: is that most of our physical skills decline over time. 195 00:11:17,360 --> 00:11:19,600 Speaker 2: There's nothing we can do to slop the slide. There's 196 00:11:20,160 --> 00:11:23,280 Speaker 2: church says no, that's not true. But you know, open question. 197 00:11:23,840 --> 00:11:28,160 Speaker 2: The motor were window motor learning, window slam shut in, 198 00:11:28,320 --> 00:11:31,600 Speaker 2: you know, around twenty five, things like that. All the 199 00:11:31,640 --> 00:11:35,760 Speaker 2: new sciences hold on maybe not so fast, but so 200 00:11:35,800 --> 00:11:38,000 Speaker 2: we put it to the test and I ran an 201 00:11:38,040 --> 00:11:43,120 Speaker 2: experiment where took all these ideas, blended them together, you know, 202 00:11:43,400 --> 00:11:48,240 Speaker 2: and had an incredibly successful season. Turned out I was 203 00:11:48,840 --> 00:11:52,160 Speaker 2: my ski partner was using all the same stuff he 204 00:11:53,000 --> 00:11:55,720 Speaker 2: got just as far as I got. And that caught 205 00:11:55,760 --> 00:11:58,120 Speaker 2: our attention. I mean, two people as the smallest pilot 206 00:11:58,160 --> 00:12:01,439 Speaker 2: studying history, but it caught our because both of us 207 00:12:01,480 --> 00:12:06,120 Speaker 2: made like enormous progress in a single season. So last year, 208 00:12:06,160 --> 00:12:09,080 Speaker 2: Winner of twenty twenty one, we took a group of 209 00:12:09,480 --> 00:12:13,240 Speaker 2: seventeen older adults which is thirty to sixty eight, took 210 00:12:13,360 --> 00:12:17,439 Speaker 2: the same core principles we used and in four days. 211 00:12:19,600 --> 00:12:22,160 Speaker 2: This is a slight exaggeration. I can go into more detail, 212 00:12:22,320 --> 00:12:23,679 Speaker 2: but we can. Four days. We taught them out of 213 00:12:23,679 --> 00:12:29,880 Speaker 2: parkski and everybody got so much farther than we thought 214 00:12:29,880 --> 00:12:33,320 Speaker 2: they were going to get. And so this is long 215 00:12:33,559 --> 00:12:37,000 Speaker 2: led into a whole kind of peak performance aging research 216 00:12:37,080 --> 00:12:40,080 Speaker 2: initiative and things like that. But the story of the 217 00:12:40,120 --> 00:12:42,680 Speaker 2: ski experiments is told in Our Country, which is a 218 00:12:42,679 --> 00:12:44,280 Speaker 2: book that comes out in February. 219 00:12:45,559 --> 00:12:49,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's it's I'm looking forward to have just started 220 00:12:49,720 --> 00:12:52,040 Speaker 1: because I got a preview copy. Thank you for that. 221 00:12:52,120 --> 00:12:55,400 Speaker 1: And I love the fact that you are both the 222 00:12:55,440 --> 00:12:59,400 Speaker 1: researcher and the researched. You are you're the project later 223 00:12:59,520 --> 00:13:03,840 Speaker 1: and you the you're the subject. I love that. But 224 00:13:03,840 --> 00:13:06,640 Speaker 1: but that's a good way to learn experientially but also 225 00:13:06,760 --> 00:13:08,640 Speaker 1: to be able to collect daughter and do all the 226 00:13:08,679 --> 00:13:12,080 Speaker 1: observational stuff along the way. Did you did you think 227 00:13:12,120 --> 00:13:14,320 Speaker 1: that you would progress the why that you did? Like 228 00:13:14,360 --> 00:13:16,439 Speaker 1: you must have had a level you got. 229 00:13:16,559 --> 00:13:18,400 Speaker 2: You got to understand that. Like when I I saw 230 00:13:18,440 --> 00:13:20,439 Speaker 2: how I did it is I started the season, I 231 00:13:20,520 --> 00:13:22,920 Speaker 2: made a list of twenty tricks, and I said, okay, 232 00:13:22,920 --> 00:13:25,439 Speaker 2: if you can learn these tricks of zero to intermediate, 233 00:13:25,480 --> 00:13:27,760 Speaker 2: and then I wanted to be able to ski a 234 00:13:27,800 --> 00:13:31,800 Speaker 2: fluid line through a kitty small and medium terrain park, 235 00:13:32,160 --> 00:13:34,079 Speaker 2: be able to like on all the features, be able 236 00:13:34,120 --> 00:13:37,720 Speaker 2: to do something cool and interesting off each of the features, 237 00:13:37,760 --> 00:13:40,080 Speaker 2: and that and that to me was and I really 238 00:13:40,080 --> 00:13:43,800 Speaker 2: when I like criticalists back in my head, I thought, okay, 239 00:13:43,840 --> 00:13:46,679 Speaker 2: if this takes five years to accomplish, that's going to 240 00:13:46,720 --> 00:13:49,439 Speaker 2: be a win. The thinking is this, Greg, so I 241 00:13:49,440 --> 00:13:51,600 Speaker 2: should give you a little bit of Maybe I'll give 242 00:13:51,600 --> 00:13:53,719 Speaker 2: you a little bit more backstory. You might have to 243 00:13:53,760 --> 00:13:54,520 Speaker 2: tell you a story. 244 00:13:54,760 --> 00:13:56,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, all right. 245 00:13:56,240 --> 00:14:00,080 Speaker 2: So problem, as you know, at the center of my 246 00:14:00,160 --> 00:14:05,559 Speaker 2: work is flow right, and the godfather of flow psychology, 247 00:14:05,600 --> 00:14:09,080 Speaker 2: as me hih Chick, sent me high and passed away 248 00:14:09,160 --> 00:14:14,320 Speaker 2: last October. We've known each other over a lot of years, 249 00:14:14,920 --> 00:14:17,640 Speaker 2: not super well, but he's been incredibly gracious to me. 250 00:14:17,840 --> 00:14:19,960 Speaker 2: Every time I had a question called him up, he's 251 00:14:20,000 --> 00:14:24,200 Speaker 2: answered the phone and been really great and answer my questions. 252 00:14:24,360 --> 00:14:31,280 Speaker 2: And right before COVID, I had heard he had a 253 00:14:31,360 --> 00:14:33,560 Speaker 2: stroke and I wanted to see if he was okay. 254 00:14:34,160 --> 00:14:37,640 Speaker 2: And I had also they had just published a number 255 00:14:37,640 --> 00:14:40,600 Speaker 2: of sent me high textbooks on flow and adult development, 256 00:14:40,600 --> 00:14:42,360 Speaker 2: a couple of things like that. I've been reading them, 257 00:14:43,040 --> 00:14:46,800 Speaker 2: and I knew he was an avid outdoorsman. He has 258 00:14:47,200 --> 00:14:50,040 Speaker 2: lives in Montana, hikes a lot. I knew he did 259 00:14:50,080 --> 00:14:53,160 Speaker 2: early flow research on rock climbers and did some mountaineering, 260 00:14:53,160 --> 00:14:56,200 Speaker 2: and I knew a bunch of his students would tell 261 00:14:56,320 --> 00:14:59,320 Speaker 2: stories about how he'd come back from weekend adventures with 262 00:14:59,400 --> 00:15:02,040 Speaker 2: like bruises on his face from like climbing accidents and 263 00:15:02,080 --> 00:15:05,640 Speaker 2: things like that. And I'm reading a bunch of material 264 00:15:05,720 --> 00:15:08,320 Speaker 2: that was first translated out of Battalion's never appeared in 265 00:15:08,360 --> 00:15:10,680 Speaker 2: English before, and it started to down him. And this 266 00:15:10,720 --> 00:15:13,280 Speaker 2: guy was a much more serious action sport athlete than 267 00:15:13,280 --> 00:15:15,560 Speaker 2: he ever let on, and I started to wonder. I 268 00:15:15,600 --> 00:15:17,720 Speaker 2: was like, if you listen to his ted talk, he 269 00:15:17,920 --> 00:15:21,360 Speaker 2: discovered flow while in a concentration camp during the war 270 00:15:22,000 --> 00:15:24,520 Speaker 2: and then did all this early work on artists, and 271 00:15:24,520 --> 00:15:27,080 Speaker 2: that's the story he tells. And I started to wonder, 272 00:15:27,720 --> 00:15:30,120 Speaker 2: is that really the truth. I started to wonder, did 273 00:15:30,120 --> 00:15:32,320 Speaker 2: you not start going into the mountains and having these 274 00:15:32,360 --> 00:15:36,360 Speaker 2: really radically weird experiences like most actions sport athletes myself included, 275 00:15:36,680 --> 00:15:38,840 Speaker 2: But back in the sixties and seventies, there was no 276 00:15:38,960 --> 00:15:41,600 Speaker 2: possible way and even to take you seriously if you 277 00:15:41,600 --> 00:15:44,360 Speaker 2: were talking about like flow and rock climbers and things 278 00:15:44,400 --> 00:15:46,480 Speaker 2: like that, and that was So I called him up 279 00:15:46,480 --> 00:15:49,560 Speaker 2: to ask him this question, right, basically like, hey, where 280 00:15:49,560 --> 00:15:51,600 Speaker 2: you lying in your ted talk and this other stuff 281 00:15:51,600 --> 00:15:54,400 Speaker 2: and is this the right? So I asked him my question, 282 00:15:54,560 --> 00:15:58,120 Speaker 2: and there's this enormous pause, like a minute goes by 283 00:15:58,320 --> 00:16:00,400 Speaker 2: and two minutes go by, and I'm like, oh my god, 284 00:16:00,480 --> 00:16:04,800 Speaker 2: did I just mortally offend like the Godfather was like 285 00:16:04,840 --> 00:16:08,040 Speaker 2: ology in my hair on my frown. Shit, And suddenly 286 00:16:08,040 --> 00:16:12,280 Speaker 2: IDA know he says, you got to be careful. And 287 00:16:12,360 --> 00:16:14,760 Speaker 2: at this point I'm thinking, oh shit, what happened to 288 00:16:14,840 --> 00:16:17,640 Speaker 2: his brain? Right, chick Cepty has lost the plot, like 289 00:16:17,680 --> 00:16:19,320 Speaker 2: he doesn't even know what's going Oh shit, what am 290 00:16:19,360 --> 00:16:21,680 Speaker 2: I going to do? And I sort of pause and 291 00:16:21,760 --> 00:16:24,400 Speaker 2: after be like thirty forty seconds, I'm like, well, Mike, 292 00:16:25,840 --> 00:16:28,720 Speaker 2: what do you mean? I gotta be careful? He's like, 293 00:16:29,320 --> 00:16:33,680 Speaker 2: you do something your whole life or flow, then you 294 00:16:33,720 --> 00:16:36,640 Speaker 2: get to be my age and forget about climbing mountains. 295 00:16:36,800 --> 00:16:39,040 Speaker 2: I can barely get out of bed. You need a 296 00:16:39,040 --> 00:16:43,200 Speaker 2: backup plan. You got to be careful. And it like 297 00:16:43,240 --> 00:16:45,200 Speaker 2: it blew my mind. It was first of all, I 298 00:16:45,240 --> 00:16:47,440 Speaker 2: thought it was incredibly kyd right. It was literally like 299 00:16:47,680 --> 00:16:50,520 Speaker 2: one flow junkie to another, like have a backup plan, 300 00:16:51,120 --> 00:16:54,600 Speaker 2: and it really resonated. I've been studying peak performance, aging 301 00:16:54,640 --> 00:16:58,400 Speaker 2: and all these other things for a while and I've 302 00:16:58,440 --> 00:17:00,640 Speaker 2: done a lot of work in and around these fields, 303 00:17:00,640 --> 00:17:03,440 Speaker 2: but it never coalesced. And I was like, Okay, I 304 00:17:03,560 --> 00:17:05,639 Speaker 2: need a backup plane. And my skin is my favorite 305 00:17:05,640 --> 00:17:08,639 Speaker 2: activity on a planet. But I'm a big mountain skier. 306 00:17:08,800 --> 00:17:11,919 Speaker 2: I go really fast down gnarly stuff and that's what 307 00:17:12,000 --> 00:17:15,760 Speaker 2: drops men to flow, and that's not that may not 308 00:17:15,920 --> 00:17:18,520 Speaker 2: be sustainable. And I figured if I could learn how 309 00:17:18,560 --> 00:17:21,680 Speaker 2: to park ski. It wasn't interested in being like Alex 310 00:17:21,720 --> 00:17:23,560 Speaker 2: Hall and winning in the Olympics or anything like that. 311 00:17:23,880 --> 00:17:27,080 Speaker 2: I wanted to explore a whole new catalog possible motions 312 00:17:27,440 --> 00:17:31,840 Speaker 2: because creativity, novelty, unpredictability, and risk these are all flow triggers. 313 00:17:32,160 --> 00:17:35,800 Speaker 2: So if I could develop a skill set zero to 314 00:17:35,840 --> 00:17:39,080 Speaker 2: intermediate and intermediate like, you can sort of decrease some 315 00:17:39,200 --> 00:17:42,080 Speaker 2: of the danger because the random shit stops starts going wrong, 316 00:17:42,240 --> 00:17:44,560 Speaker 2: and I would just have a million more entrances and 317 00:17:44,640 --> 00:17:47,040 Speaker 2: to flow in my favorite activity in the world. That 318 00:17:47,200 --> 00:17:49,399 Speaker 2: was my idea of a backup line. That was my goal. 319 00:17:49,920 --> 00:17:52,480 Speaker 2: And I figured if it took five years, what it mattered. 320 00:17:52,440 --> 00:17:54,760 Speaker 2: I'd be sixty years old, but this would be this 321 00:17:54,800 --> 00:17:58,080 Speaker 2: would still work for me. I made so much progress 322 00:17:58,080 --> 00:18:00,600 Speaker 2: in this season. It was jaw dropping, Like I tipped 323 00:18:00,600 --> 00:18:03,199 Speaker 2: off all the tricks on my trip list went farther 324 00:18:03,359 --> 00:18:08,520 Speaker 2: than that had never progressed. I'm not a naturally gifted athlete. 325 00:18:08,600 --> 00:18:12,080 Speaker 2: I had an incredibly business schedule. I've got a very 326 00:18:12,160 --> 00:18:15,600 Speaker 2: broken body. I've broken almost eighty over eighty bones along 327 00:18:15,640 --> 00:18:15,960 Speaker 2: the way. 328 00:18:16,680 --> 00:18:19,080 Speaker 1: I had bones. What have you been doing? 329 00:18:19,200 --> 00:18:22,600 Speaker 2: I chased professional athletes around because I'm a writer. I'm 330 00:18:22,600 --> 00:18:30,480 Speaker 2: a writer. Let's get clear. Yeah, I broke my life 331 00:18:30,480 --> 00:18:31,320 Speaker 2: phone along the way. 332 00:18:32,240 --> 00:18:36,400 Speaker 1: There's not a lot left, dude, It's true. 333 00:18:38,680 --> 00:18:42,680 Speaker 2: After so, I mean, but my point was I started 334 00:18:42,720 --> 00:18:45,680 Speaker 2: pretty far behind the curve, right, Yeah, A lot didn't 335 00:18:45,680 --> 00:18:48,320 Speaker 2: want any more surgery, like it was really like yeah, 336 00:18:48,359 --> 00:18:52,080 Speaker 2: and it was shocking how far I got and it 337 00:18:52,200 --> 00:18:57,280 Speaker 2: was only watching my ski partner Ryan make the same progress. 338 00:18:57,520 --> 00:19:00,960 Speaker 2: I was like, it was really noticeable and him, yeah, 339 00:19:01,400 --> 00:19:04,240 Speaker 2: it's like this doesn't, this doesn't. This is really accelerated. 340 00:19:04,280 --> 00:19:07,159 Speaker 2: In fact, I learned something that I didn't actually know 341 00:19:07,200 --> 00:19:12,280 Speaker 2: about performance, which is I was doing really terrifying scary stuff. 342 00:19:12,320 --> 00:19:14,880 Speaker 2: It was all very successful, right, there was nagging injuries 343 00:19:14,880 --> 00:19:18,840 Speaker 2: and fallows and whatever. But I ended up with PTSD 344 00:19:19,240 --> 00:19:22,359 Speaker 2: from the success so many scary things, like I was 345 00:19:22,400 --> 00:19:25,760 Speaker 2: pushing above my comfort zone time after time after time. 346 00:19:26,040 --> 00:19:28,560 Speaker 2: At a certain point, there was so much a cumulative 347 00:19:28,600 --> 00:19:32,440 Speaker 2: residual like it started, you know, start response got jacked 348 00:19:32,480 --> 00:19:36,320 Speaker 2: up to eleven night sweats, all of it like full 349 00:19:36,359 --> 00:19:38,800 Speaker 2: blown PTSD, and it was from success. I didn't even 350 00:19:38,920 --> 00:19:42,720 Speaker 2: know that was possible. I literally uh. I called Laired Hamilton, 351 00:19:42,760 --> 00:19:45,280 Speaker 2: the big wave Surfer, and I was Lair, this is 352 00:19:45,280 --> 00:19:47,280 Speaker 2: what's happening to me? Does this happen? He's like, oh, yeah, 353 00:19:47,320 --> 00:19:49,720 Speaker 2: that that actually happens. You could go out have a 354 00:19:49,760 --> 00:19:52,240 Speaker 2: great day at Chopu and come back and have a 355 00:19:52,280 --> 00:19:55,440 Speaker 2: low grade PTSD even if you surfed every way. It's 356 00:19:55,480 --> 00:19:57,080 Speaker 2: actually I had no idea. 357 00:19:59,119 --> 00:20:04,240 Speaker 1: Were they people were the external experts observing you. There 358 00:20:04,240 --> 00:20:08,280 Speaker 1: are people that you were talking to, Well, well, was 359 00:20:08,320 --> 00:20:12,440 Speaker 1: anyone going make you're fifty three? I'd be ridiculous. Yeah, 360 00:20:12,480 --> 00:20:14,760 Speaker 1: I mean, come on, sensible. 361 00:20:14,880 --> 00:20:19,320 Speaker 2: Every you know, depending on who you asked, right, like, 362 00:20:19,520 --> 00:20:23,159 Speaker 2: it was either one of the strangest midlife crisis or 363 00:20:24,160 --> 00:20:28,000 Speaker 2: you get yourself totally like lost my mind. Yeah, everybody, 364 00:20:28,040 --> 00:20:30,360 Speaker 2: I mean every people were like nuts. My friends who 365 00:20:30,359 --> 00:20:32,080 Speaker 2: had known me a really long time. I mean the 366 00:20:32,119 --> 00:20:34,040 Speaker 2: first question I had so many people's mouths were how 367 00:20:34,040 --> 00:20:36,719 Speaker 2: many bones have you broken so far? Like over and 368 00:20:36,760 --> 00:20:40,960 Speaker 2: over and over again. And it was only that was 369 00:20:40,960 --> 00:20:43,239 Speaker 2: one of the reasons we ran the experiment with like 370 00:20:43,359 --> 00:20:45,359 Speaker 2: you know, seventy and older adults who made a video 371 00:20:45,600 --> 00:20:47,919 Speaker 2: of it. We've got, you know, all all kinds of 372 00:20:47,960 --> 00:20:52,880 Speaker 2: stuff because it was kind of shocking and in fact, 373 00:20:53,520 --> 00:20:55,480 Speaker 2: this is in the book, but like two thirds of 374 00:20:55,480 --> 00:21:01,199 Speaker 2: the way through my adventure, I I literally I brought 375 00:21:01,280 --> 00:21:05,320 Speaker 2: in like a top level ski instructor to skw with 376 00:21:05,400 --> 00:21:07,399 Speaker 2: me and see how I was doing, because I you know, 377 00:21:07,640 --> 00:21:10,840 Speaker 2: I couldn't rate my abilities. I didn't trust my ski partner, 378 00:21:10,880 --> 00:21:14,119 Speaker 2: and you know, I wanted an outside person, and you know, 379 00:21:14,240 --> 00:21:17,480 Speaker 2: he basically confirmed our conclusions and always spawned the videos 380 00:21:17,480 --> 00:21:20,720 Speaker 2: and everything else, which like, you know, it still looks 381 00:21:20,720 --> 00:21:23,160 Speaker 2: like I'm a beginner, per skier, you know what I mean, 382 00:21:23,280 --> 00:21:25,960 Speaker 2: Or like it doesn't look fancy, it doesn't look like 383 00:21:26,040 --> 00:21:29,600 Speaker 2: anything you would say on the videos. But I got 384 00:21:29,640 --> 00:21:31,640 Speaker 2: pretty far, and I got a lot farther than any 385 00:21:31,640 --> 00:21:33,440 Speaker 2: of you thought somebody my age was supposed to get. 386 00:21:33,520 --> 00:21:35,600 Speaker 2: And you know, again, like in our study, I saw 387 00:21:35,680 --> 00:21:37,600 Speaker 2: sixty five year olds and sixty eight people who were 388 00:21:37,600 --> 00:21:41,439 Speaker 2: a decade to more older than me, make you know, 389 00:21:41,560 --> 00:21:44,160 Speaker 2: the same progress. My feeling actually in this I think 390 00:21:44,240 --> 00:21:47,600 Speaker 2: was proved out in our experiment was I'm actually such 391 00:21:47,640 --> 00:21:50,760 Speaker 2: a bad athlete that I figured if my progression was 392 00:21:50,800 --> 00:21:54,520 Speaker 2: this fast, if other people took these concepts and applied them, 393 00:21:54,560 --> 00:21:56,840 Speaker 2: they were actually going to go farther faster, which is 394 00:21:56,960 --> 00:21:58,399 Speaker 2: sort of turned out to be the case. 395 00:22:00,520 --> 00:22:03,760 Speaker 1: Well, me, I think a lot of the problem around 396 00:22:03,960 --> 00:22:07,639 Speaker 1: aging and the way that people age in terms of 397 00:22:07,880 --> 00:22:12,480 Speaker 1: you know, their physiology, function, performance, even you know, immune 398 00:22:12,480 --> 00:22:16,240 Speaker 1: system and health state overall is more about the expectation, 399 00:22:16,600 --> 00:22:20,080 Speaker 1: you know, in that like this, I don't know, I'm 400 00:22:20,080 --> 00:22:23,520 Speaker 1: sure The same term exists in America, but in Australia 401 00:22:23,560 --> 00:22:27,160 Speaker 1: there's this term age appropriate behavior. I'm like, fuck your 402 00:22:27,200 --> 00:22:31,240 Speaker 1: age appropriate, right, stick your age appropriate up your ass. 403 00:22:31,440 --> 00:22:34,400 Speaker 1: It's like, you know, and so we get we get 404 00:22:34,400 --> 00:22:37,879 Speaker 1: to a point where some people start to rationalize what 405 00:22:37,920 --> 00:22:41,560 Speaker 1: they're doing or what they think they should do, based 406 00:22:41,640 --> 00:22:45,360 Speaker 1: purely on a fucking number on a calendar, rather than 407 00:22:45,440 --> 00:22:47,080 Speaker 1: how do you feel? What do you want to do? 408 00:22:48,560 --> 00:22:51,240 Speaker 2: It's you know, if you go into the research, and 409 00:22:51,280 --> 00:22:53,600 Speaker 2: I'm sure you're familiar with some of this, but I mean, 410 00:22:53,720 --> 00:22:57,640 Speaker 2: for example, Harvard psychologist Ellen Langer spent most of her 411 00:22:57,720 --> 00:23:02,560 Speaker 2: career working on mind set and aging, you know, and 412 00:23:02,640 --> 00:23:06,520 Speaker 2: the link between mind, body and physiology. But her results 413 00:23:06,359 --> 00:23:09,840 Speaker 2: have been backed up. In fact, the craziest study it's 414 00:23:09,920 --> 00:23:17,160 Speaker 2: the Ohio Longitudinal Study of Retirement and Agent twenty year 415 00:23:17,359 --> 00:23:22,040 Speaker 2: study and on the impact on mindset on aging and 416 00:23:22,160 --> 00:23:24,840 Speaker 2: the power of mindset and having what's the impact of 417 00:23:24,880 --> 00:23:27,960 Speaker 2: having a positive attitude towards aging meaning I believe that 418 00:23:28,040 --> 00:23:29,600 Speaker 2: the second half of my life is going to be 419 00:23:29,600 --> 00:23:33,240 Speaker 2: filled with you know, exciting possibilities and thrilling et cetera, 420 00:23:33,280 --> 00:23:37,240 Speaker 2: et cetera. It results in an on average, an extra 421 00:23:37,440 --> 00:23:41,560 Speaker 2: seven and a half years of longevity and significant health 422 00:23:41,640 --> 00:23:44,600 Speaker 2: uptick along the way. And this is not surprising if 423 00:23:44,640 --> 00:23:46,280 Speaker 2: you look at the data that comes out of flows 424 00:23:46,359 --> 00:23:49,479 Speaker 2: science and out of some of some of the just 425 00:23:49,520 --> 00:23:53,640 Speaker 2: like pre performance science, a passion, purpose and flow. If 426 00:23:53,680 --> 00:23:56,439 Speaker 2: you if you live with passion, purpose and regular access 427 00:23:56,480 --> 00:24:01,560 Speaker 2: to flow, that also puts another seven years on your life. Now, 428 00:24:01,560 --> 00:24:04,560 Speaker 2: what I don't know is can these be cumulative or 429 00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:07,680 Speaker 2: is like mindset and passion, purpose and flow? Are we 430 00:24:07,720 --> 00:24:10,480 Speaker 2: looking at something that is being sandwiched together? Are these 431 00:24:10,520 --> 00:24:14,199 Speaker 2: different phenomenon that I mean? And can you get fourteen years? That? 432 00:24:14,320 --> 00:24:18,679 Speaker 2: I don't know? But and the studies are real, you know, 433 00:24:18,720 --> 00:24:21,600 Speaker 2: and there, as you probably know from your work in 434 00:24:21,680 --> 00:24:26,520 Speaker 2: neuroscience neuromminology with the mind body connection lengths at this 435 00:24:26,560 --> 00:24:29,280 Speaker 2: point are really starting to figure out, you know, how 436 00:24:29,320 --> 00:24:32,280 Speaker 2: that's working and where that's coming from. And you know 437 00:24:32,280 --> 00:24:36,119 Speaker 2: Ellen Langer's point and the way she phrases it is 438 00:24:37,160 --> 00:24:40,320 Speaker 2: what people don't realize is that aging is at least 439 00:24:40,400 --> 00:24:45,439 Speaker 2: partially a mental event that is reversible, right, And that 440 00:24:45,600 --> 00:24:47,600 Speaker 2: was a lot of what she discovered is a shift 441 00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:52,199 Speaker 2: in mindset. It's like you know, as you probably know, 442 00:24:52,280 --> 00:24:55,679 Speaker 2: from the background of physiology in the twentieth century, we 443 00:24:55,880 --> 00:24:59,320 Speaker 2: thought every single physical and mental skill went off the cliff. 444 00:24:59,320 --> 00:25:02,840 Speaker 2: It's the like long slow rot area of aging. Right, 445 00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:07,359 Speaker 2: and between ninety five and we discovered sort of cognitive 446 00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:10,480 Speaker 2: reserve and the union if you had Alzheimer's and dementia, 447 00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:14,240 Speaker 2: if you have a healthy cognitive reserve, you can function normally, 448 00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:16,919 Speaker 2: you know, up until death. Right. So that was the 449 00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:19,280 Speaker 2: first chack of the honor. But now it's every one 450 00:25:19,280 --> 00:25:22,040 Speaker 2: of these skills is a user to lose its skill. Right. 451 00:25:22,040 --> 00:25:24,320 Speaker 2: We used to think went away for a VO two 452 00:25:24,400 --> 00:25:27,320 Speaker 2: max is the great example, right forever it was falls 453 00:25:27,320 --> 00:25:29,720 Speaker 2: off a fricking cliff. There's nothing you can do about it. 454 00:25:29,920 --> 00:25:33,680 Speaker 2: And now we've got octogenarian you know, triathletes with the 455 00:25:33,760 --> 00:25:35,680 Speaker 2: VO two max of thirty five year olds. And the 456 00:25:35,760 --> 00:25:38,360 Speaker 2: data is that it's been well measured and well documented 457 00:25:38,400 --> 00:25:40,399 Speaker 2: and you know, things like that, and they're you know, 458 00:25:40,520 --> 00:25:42,560 Speaker 2: I don't know if you've seen this or not. Some 459 00:25:42,600 --> 00:25:46,200 Speaker 2: of the triathlete results, especially in the distance runners. They're 460 00:25:46,240 --> 00:25:49,760 Speaker 2: now seeing people over fifty and over sixty start to 461 00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:53,600 Speaker 2: coming radically outperform the younger folks and they're not even 462 00:25:53,640 --> 00:25:58,480 Speaker 2: exactly sure why it's happening, but that's really interesting. And 463 00:25:58,600 --> 00:26:00,919 Speaker 2: certainly last thing I'll say is, I don't know if 464 00:26:00,960 --> 00:26:05,399 Speaker 2: you're familiar with the work of geriatric psychologist Gene Coney, 465 00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:09,120 Speaker 2: sort of the godfather peak performance aging. He basically discovered 466 00:26:09,160 --> 00:26:11,359 Speaker 2: as we come into our fifties and sixties, we gain 467 00:26:11,440 --> 00:26:15,879 Speaker 2: access to legitimate cognitive superpowers, whole new levels of thinking, 468 00:26:16,040 --> 00:26:19,920 Speaker 2: open up different thinking styles again, empathy and wisdom, and 469 00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:24,399 Speaker 2: a whole bunch of other really useful greats come on, 470 00:26:24,560 --> 00:26:27,199 Speaker 2: like really don't even come on mindfully until our fifties 471 00:26:27,280 --> 00:26:30,560 Speaker 2: or sixties. So it's getting me. I think it's getting 472 00:26:30,600 --> 00:26:32,159 Speaker 2: really interesting in the field. 473 00:26:34,000 --> 00:26:36,680 Speaker 1: I love this message, and not just because because I'm old. 474 00:26:36,840 --> 00:26:39,919 Speaker 1: But you know, I've said this before to people. I 475 00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:43,679 Speaker 1: feel like, at fifty nine, my brain is better than 476 00:26:43,720 --> 00:26:48,240 Speaker 1: when my cognitive function, memory, my ability to you know, 477 00:26:48,320 --> 00:26:53,960 Speaker 1: resolve conflict, create, you know, pay attention, be focused, be disciplined, 478 00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:55,800 Speaker 1: b in the moment, it's better than when I was 479 00:26:55,840 --> 00:26:59,240 Speaker 1: twenty nine. And I think, you know, part of that's 480 00:26:59,240 --> 00:27:01,280 Speaker 1: because I've kind of been a lifelong learner and I 481 00:27:01,280 --> 00:27:04,679 Speaker 1: don't keep pushing. But you know, one of the things 482 00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:10,000 Speaker 1: that irks me, is you know this arbitrary kind of 483 00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:15,320 Speaker 1: voice that gets pumped out that, oh well, from twenty 484 00:27:15,359 --> 00:27:19,440 Speaker 1: five years of age, this starts to decline one percent 485 00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:22,800 Speaker 1: per year. You're losing muscle mass and bone densities and 486 00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:26,680 Speaker 1: all of these things that just gets spoken as gospel 487 00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:32,200 Speaker 1: while not actually saying. For many people typically if they 488 00:27:32,280 --> 00:27:37,119 Speaker 1: don't do anything, this is what happens. However, if you 489 00:27:37,240 --> 00:27:40,000 Speaker 1: live weights, if you run, if you stimulate your brain, 490 00:27:40,080 --> 00:27:43,000 Speaker 1: if you fucking think, if you study, if you have 491 00:27:43,080 --> 00:27:45,760 Speaker 1: an active lifestyle, if you eat less shit, if you 492 00:27:45,920 --> 00:27:48,720 Speaker 1: move more, if you don't have thirty beers that you know, 493 00:27:48,760 --> 00:27:52,080 Speaker 1: there are so many things that we can do, but 494 00:27:52,280 --> 00:27:54,440 Speaker 1: that doesn't get mentioned well. 495 00:27:54,600 --> 00:27:57,240 Speaker 2: And I mean it's what's funny is a bunch of things. 496 00:27:57,280 --> 00:28:00,000 Speaker 2: The proof more and more Kelly slip right, he's winning 497 00:28:00,240 --> 00:28:04,720 Speaker 2: surf titles, Tom Brady, et cetera. So the examples are 498 00:28:04,840 --> 00:28:07,840 Speaker 2: way more visible. But I'll tell you a funny story. 499 00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:12,119 Speaker 2: One of the first one of the first questions that 500 00:28:12,280 --> 00:28:14,320 Speaker 2: performed for me around peak performance agent because I was 501 00:28:14,320 --> 00:28:16,679 Speaker 2: studying peak performance and flow and that was my work 502 00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:23,520 Speaker 2: and I twenty five years ago I was going to 503 00:28:23,560 --> 00:28:25,480 Speaker 2: write I write novels every now and again. I wanted 504 00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:28,240 Speaker 2: to write a story about a cat burglar. There's this 505 00:28:28,359 --> 00:28:31,800 Speaker 2: really cool so chicks at Me High in some flow 506 00:28:31,840 --> 00:28:34,199 Speaker 2: research that nobody's ever seen, but it's really cool. Him 507 00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:36,560 Speaker 2: and a guy named Kevin Murthoon. They figured out that 508 00:28:36,960 --> 00:28:42,280 Speaker 2: most of the standard things that juvenile delinquents do, fightings, graffiti, chocolate, 509 00:28:42,320 --> 00:28:45,960 Speaker 2: those sorts of things aren't really about moral transgressions. They're 510 00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:50,000 Speaker 2: about kids trying to tune the challenge skills, balance and 511 00:28:50,120 --> 00:28:53,600 Speaker 2: use risk and thrill to drop into flow. And it's 512 00:28:53,680 --> 00:28:57,320 Speaker 2: really about finding their way into flow and much much 513 00:28:57,360 --> 00:28:59,680 Speaker 2: more than like moral transgressions. And I thought that was 514 00:28:59,720 --> 00:29:01,680 Speaker 2: a really neat theory and I'd have a grown up 515 00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:04,640 Speaker 2: version cat burglar whatever. And my cat burglar had to 516 00:29:04,640 --> 00:29:06,959 Speaker 2: steal something, so I was like, well what should she steal? 517 00:29:07,440 --> 00:29:09,920 Speaker 2: And I started kind of figure out what's cool, what 518 00:29:10,000 --> 00:29:11,920 Speaker 2: hasn't showed up in a lot of books before. And 519 00:29:12,080 --> 00:29:15,000 Speaker 2: musical instruments, rare musical instruments is what I settled on. 520 00:29:15,440 --> 00:29:18,680 Speaker 2: And I was like, okay, who made the rarest musical 521 00:29:18,760 --> 00:29:22,200 Speaker 2: instruments in history? Where you know, got into the tables 522 00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:25,720 Speaker 2: and found out strata varius do my mind had made 523 00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:28,120 Speaker 2: fifty percent of all the rarest musical instruments in history, 524 00:29:28,160 --> 00:29:31,880 Speaker 2: like one, dude, fifty percent. That's like one painter, and 525 00:29:31,920 --> 00:29:34,080 Speaker 2: it's fifty percent of the most expensive painting. It's a 526 00:29:34,120 --> 00:29:36,880 Speaker 2: really strange thing. And I started, I was like, Okay, 527 00:29:36,920 --> 00:29:39,240 Speaker 2: this is fascinating. Forget the cat burglar, let me learn 528 00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:42,040 Speaker 2: more about strata areas. And then I learned that he 529 00:29:42,120 --> 00:29:44,880 Speaker 2: made two of the most famous and priceless musical instruments 530 00:29:44,880 --> 00:29:48,000 Speaker 2: in history when he was ninety two years old, and 531 00:29:48,040 --> 00:29:51,160 Speaker 2: I went, wait a minute. Everything I was told to 532 00:29:51,240 --> 00:29:55,560 Speaker 2: climbs fast, which muscle response, fine, motor decks, all this stuff. 533 00:29:56,240 --> 00:30:01,240 Speaker 2: There's no way in seventeen thirty six, a ninety two 534 00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:03,080 Speaker 2: year old guy makes two of the rarest and most 535 00:30:03,080 --> 00:30:06,200 Speaker 2: of the music leaderships in history. Unless something's wrong right, 536 00:30:06,280 --> 00:30:10,200 Speaker 2: unless he's a total exception to every rule, something's got 537 00:30:10,200 --> 00:30:12,520 Speaker 2: to be wrong with what we know about people performance agent. 538 00:30:12,520 --> 00:30:15,600 Speaker 2: It was one of the first times or agents that 539 00:30:15,640 --> 00:30:17,680 Speaker 2: I started to look at that go wait a minute, 540 00:30:17,720 --> 00:30:20,440 Speaker 2: this data doesn't like that doesn't make any sense. What's 541 00:30:20,480 --> 00:30:20,960 Speaker 2: going on. 542 00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:25,640 Speaker 1: I think there's a big gap between what is typical 543 00:30:26,560 --> 00:30:29,600 Speaker 1: and what is possible and that's what you're fascinating. That's 544 00:30:29,600 --> 00:30:32,600 Speaker 1: what I'm fascinated with. That's what our listeners are fascinated with. 545 00:30:32,800 --> 00:30:35,480 Speaker 1: Is Yeah, I know most people do this and most 546 00:30:35,560 --> 00:30:40,640 Speaker 1: people live this way. I followed Tony Hawk on Instagram 547 00:30:40,760 --> 00:30:44,960 Speaker 1: because I'm basically twelve, and he broke his You know 548 00:30:45,040 --> 00:30:46,520 Speaker 1: who he is, of course, tif do you know who 549 00:30:46,560 --> 00:30:49,880 Speaker 1: Tony Hawk is? You're you're not meant to. He's the 550 00:30:49,920 --> 00:30:51,680 Speaker 1: greatest skateboarder. 551 00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:55,280 Speaker 2: Is tell you a very funny Tony story and I'm 552 00:30:55,280 --> 00:30:56,160 Speaker 2: going to let me continue. 553 00:30:56,440 --> 00:30:58,479 Speaker 1: No, no, you tell your holy turn thirty. 554 00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:02,560 Speaker 2: Yeah it's thirty. The same year Laird Hamilton, big Waves Sover, 555 00:31:02,680 --> 00:31:06,280 Speaker 2: turned thirty and Sean Palmer, one of the early pro snowboarders, 556 00:31:06,320 --> 00:31:11,200 Speaker 2: turned thirty one. ESPN sent me to do a story 557 00:31:11,440 --> 00:31:15,000 Speaker 2: on all three guys and they called it Grandpa's over 558 00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:19,280 Speaker 2: the Hills, like literally, like I still have the story. 559 00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:22,120 Speaker 2: It's called Grapas. Mind you, Tony has yet to throw 560 00:31:22,160 --> 00:31:25,480 Speaker 2: the nine hundred, so that's still the calm. He's also 561 00:31:25,520 --> 00:31:28,320 Speaker 2: has yet to found a billion dollar video game empire. 562 00:31:29,280 --> 00:31:32,040 Speaker 2: Laird hasn't surfed the millennium waves, so still in his teacher, 563 00:31:32,040 --> 00:31:34,880 Speaker 2: who's going to change the entire history of surfing, right. 564 00:31:35,720 --> 00:31:37,480 Speaker 2: It's just I look back on it and it just 565 00:31:37,840 --> 00:31:41,600 Speaker 2: cracks me up because they're all, as you know, still active, 566 00:31:41,600 --> 00:31:44,160 Speaker 2: they're all older than me, and they're all still kicking ass. 567 00:31:44,400 --> 00:31:49,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, they're amazing. And well, anyway, as you know Tony 568 00:31:49,560 --> 00:31:52,320 Speaker 1: Broke's leg about I don't know, it would be about 569 00:31:52,360 --> 00:31:56,720 Speaker 1: sixteen weeks ago or something now. And it was interesting 570 00:31:56,800 --> 00:32:00,719 Speaker 1: because I saw that, I saw that kind of report 571 00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:03,400 Speaker 1: and I went, oh, I wonder, I wonder what he'll 572 00:32:03,400 --> 00:32:05,920 Speaker 1: do now, Like, I know he won't stop skating, but 573 00:32:06,840 --> 00:32:10,360 Speaker 1: you know, I'm like, well, I hope he looks after himself, 574 00:32:10,400 --> 00:32:13,600 Speaker 1: and I hope he recovers and rehabs, you know, And 575 00:32:14,560 --> 00:32:18,320 Speaker 1: he was skating with a broken leg, I mean just 576 00:32:18,320 --> 00:32:21,480 Speaker 1: just kind of pushed himself along literally like a week later, 577 00:32:21,760 --> 00:32:24,920 Speaker 1: and he's sixteen weeks later now he's back doing tricks 578 00:32:24,960 --> 00:32:27,840 Speaker 1: and you know, he's still recovering and he's still rehabbing. 579 00:32:27,880 --> 00:32:32,240 Speaker 1: But the human body is incredible. And you know, when 580 00:32:33,640 --> 00:32:37,440 Speaker 1: I think, is it for you and for most people 581 00:32:37,440 --> 00:32:40,080 Speaker 1: in terms of exploring our outer limits, in terms of 582 00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:43,920 Speaker 1: what's possible for us physically, is it more of a 583 00:32:44,080 --> 00:32:52,360 Speaker 1: psychological or physiological process. It feels largely psychological with a 584 00:32:52,360 --> 00:32:53,880 Speaker 1: physiological outcome. 585 00:32:55,040 --> 00:33:00,800 Speaker 2: I yeah, I think it's I mean, don't could me wrong? 586 00:33:00,840 --> 00:33:03,720 Speaker 2: You got to train like mad and you know what 587 00:33:03,720 --> 00:33:07,840 Speaker 2: I'm mean to do some of this stuff, But no, 588 00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:12,320 Speaker 2: it's all psychological, or most of it is psychological, even 589 00:33:12,440 --> 00:33:14,880 Speaker 2: some stuff. I'll here's one of the things that I 590 00:33:15,000 --> 00:33:18,400 Speaker 2: learned along the way, just to give you a random example. 591 00:33:20,160 --> 00:33:23,960 Speaker 2: So short version is, I learned that a lot of 592 00:33:24,000 --> 00:33:27,440 Speaker 2: the feeling like I'd wake up mid season and I'd 593 00:33:27,440 --> 00:33:30,280 Speaker 2: be like, feel wrecked. Just oh my god, I can 594 00:33:30,280 --> 00:33:32,440 Speaker 2: barely move. I don't want to go to the mountain anything, 595 00:33:32,800 --> 00:33:35,520 Speaker 2: but like, gott to hike my dog. So I ticked 596 00:33:35,520 --> 00:33:37,760 Speaker 2: the dog for a walk in through the mountains, and 597 00:33:37,800 --> 00:33:40,560 Speaker 2: you know, forty five minutes later, come back. Why not 598 00:33:40,680 --> 00:33:42,560 Speaker 2: stretch a little bit, feel a little bit better, go 599 00:33:42,600 --> 00:33:48,920 Speaker 2: to the mountains and start skiing, start pushing, and something 600 00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:51,440 Speaker 2: everything melts away. And I started to realize that a 601 00:33:51,520 --> 00:33:55,960 Speaker 2: lot of the so called feelings, body aches, that sort 602 00:33:56,000 --> 00:33:58,640 Speaker 2: of stuff that we associated with feeling our age are 603 00:33:58,720 --> 00:34:02,560 Speaker 2: really literally a performing anxiety. And once I sort of 604 00:34:02,560 --> 00:34:05,440 Speaker 2: pushed myself and pushed through that performance anxiety, my body 605 00:34:05,720 --> 00:34:08,239 Speaker 2: may comeback. And so many of the most spectaculary days 606 00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:10,800 Speaker 2: of my season, days where I would accomplish two or 607 00:34:10,840 --> 00:34:13,120 Speaker 2: three tricks on a trick list or really push things, 608 00:34:13,600 --> 00:34:16,600 Speaker 2: started out where I woke up feeling like, oh my god, 609 00:34:16,600 --> 00:34:19,360 Speaker 2: I can barely move, I'm old. I feel old, and like, 610 00:34:20,280 --> 00:34:24,200 Speaker 2: I mean, like so wrong planet thing. And you know, 611 00:34:24,280 --> 00:34:29,040 Speaker 2: I found that really interesting along the way, And certainly 612 00:34:29,360 --> 00:34:33,680 Speaker 2: one of the best parts about it is certainly flow 613 00:34:33,719 --> 00:34:35,560 Speaker 2: helps with that one, right, because a bunch of the 614 00:34:35,640 --> 00:34:37,920 Speaker 2: neurochomicals that und up in the state are really potent 615 00:34:37,960 --> 00:34:40,880 Speaker 2: pain or lievers, and they also reduce a lot of inflammation. 616 00:34:41,640 --> 00:34:44,640 Speaker 2: And one thing for sure, most of the cause, if 617 00:34:44,680 --> 00:34:48,200 Speaker 2: not all, the causes of agent are linked to information body, 618 00:34:48,600 --> 00:34:52,839 Speaker 2: so by its nature, you know, flow is useful in 619 00:34:52,880 --> 00:34:53,840 Speaker 2: that way as well. 620 00:34:54,440 --> 00:34:57,080 Speaker 1: M I think, what a lot of what you do, 621 00:34:57,280 --> 00:35:04,840 Speaker 1: maybe without even in tending it is it's this metacognitive challenge. 622 00:35:05,120 --> 00:35:09,200 Speaker 1: Is I think you challenge people to think about how 623 00:35:09,239 --> 00:35:13,480 Speaker 1: they think, like their existing cognitive default setting, like the 624 00:35:13,520 --> 00:35:16,080 Speaker 1: way that we think about the world and ourselves in 625 00:35:16,120 --> 00:35:18,680 Speaker 1: the world, and what is normal and what is good 626 00:35:18,680 --> 00:35:22,600 Speaker 1: and what is possible? And I think that you know, 627 00:35:24,360 --> 00:35:28,840 Speaker 1: because there isn't an inevitability for most people of thinking 628 00:35:28,880 --> 00:35:32,640 Speaker 1: a certain way as they age. So my question is 629 00:35:33,600 --> 00:35:36,759 Speaker 1: how do we I mean, you can't will yourself to 630 00:35:36,840 --> 00:35:40,960 Speaker 1: think differently, You can't sit on the couch just changing 631 00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:43,560 Speaker 1: the way that we think and our beliefs and our 632 00:35:43,680 --> 00:35:47,360 Speaker 1: expectations of ourself. Do you think that's a byproduct of 633 00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:50,640 Speaker 1: just doing shit that we haven't done and trying stuff 634 00:35:50,680 --> 00:35:52,240 Speaker 1: and falling down and getting up. 635 00:35:54,840 --> 00:35:56,319 Speaker 2: Versus so. 636 00:35:58,080 --> 00:36:01,719 Speaker 1: Versus, you know, just yeah, I mean I always say, like, 637 00:36:01,840 --> 00:36:05,120 Speaker 1: reading your book is good, Reading your book is good, 638 00:36:05,160 --> 00:36:07,840 Speaker 1: and it's going to blow people's mind and open doors 639 00:36:07,880 --> 00:36:10,839 Speaker 1: and but but what's on top of that? Yeah? 640 00:36:10,840 --> 00:36:15,399 Speaker 2: I mean, first of all, yeah, I think you if 641 00:36:15,440 --> 00:36:19,440 Speaker 2: you're wired at all like me, Like I'm cynical and skeptical. 642 00:36:19,640 --> 00:36:22,920 Speaker 2: I'm a journalist and a scientist, you know what I mean, 643 00:36:23,080 --> 00:36:26,759 Speaker 2: Like I aid to doubt everything in a sense, and 644 00:36:27,640 --> 00:36:30,399 Speaker 2: I always tell people like, don't take my work for it, 645 00:36:30,760 --> 00:36:33,080 Speaker 2: you know what I mean? Like I I always say, 646 00:36:33,120 --> 00:36:35,279 Speaker 2: peak performance is nothing more or less than getting our 647 00:36:35,280 --> 00:36:38,360 Speaker 2: biology to work for us rather than against us. And 648 00:36:38,400 --> 00:36:41,240 Speaker 2: it's that we like to see the flow research collective 649 00:36:41,239 --> 00:36:43,800 Speaker 2: of our work is on the neurobiology of peak performance, 650 00:36:44,320 --> 00:36:47,800 Speaker 2: because psychology is squishy and it's individual shaped by genetics 651 00:36:47,840 --> 00:36:50,759 Speaker 2: and early childood experiments. But the neurobiology is shaped by 652 00:36:50,800 --> 00:36:54,600 Speaker 2: evolution and shared by all of us, and we all 653 00:36:54,640 --> 00:36:57,319 Speaker 2: have it. And so there are you know, there are 654 00:36:57,400 --> 00:37:00,839 Speaker 2: on the couch tools reframing right of reframing is an 655 00:37:00,840 --> 00:37:05,640 Speaker 2: incredibly powerful pig performance tool that you know, you can 656 00:37:05,680 --> 00:37:08,200 Speaker 2: start using before you're running the experiments in your own life. 657 00:37:08,239 --> 00:37:11,640 Speaker 2: But I think the whole point is to take this 658 00:37:11,760 --> 00:37:15,920 Speaker 2: information it's based on science that works for all of us, 659 00:37:15,960 --> 00:37:18,080 Speaker 2: and go out and run the experiment in your own life. 660 00:37:19,080 --> 00:37:21,759 Speaker 2: You know, see what's actually possible. That's when it gets 661 00:37:21,760 --> 00:37:23,719 Speaker 2: That's when you're really going to believe it. You'll I 662 00:37:23,760 --> 00:37:26,200 Speaker 2: always say, you know, at the flow reas of collective 663 00:37:26,280 --> 00:37:31,000 Speaker 2: we hin a ton of people, right, tens of thousands 664 00:37:31,040 --> 00:37:32,920 Speaker 2: of thousands of people in one hundred and thirty countries, 665 00:37:33,040 --> 00:37:37,160 Speaker 2: and the hardest thing there are two things that are 666 00:37:37,280 --> 00:37:40,640 Speaker 2: really difficult. And it's one of the reasons actually, as 667 00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:42,880 Speaker 2: you'll notice in our country is sort of written as 668 00:37:42,920 --> 00:37:45,600 Speaker 2: a performance diary, and one of the reason it goes 669 00:37:45,640 --> 00:37:48,080 Speaker 2: day by day to the season, and this is one 670 00:37:48,080 --> 00:37:50,560 Speaker 2: of the reasons. This is exactly the reason. The two 671 00:37:50,680 --> 00:37:54,120 Speaker 2: lessons that are the hardest for me to get anybody 672 00:37:54,160 --> 00:37:57,160 Speaker 2: to understand that you have to discover for yourself. One, 673 00:37:57,880 --> 00:38:02,160 Speaker 2: hard work works right, and most people I don't even 674 00:38:02,239 --> 00:38:04,600 Speaker 2: know if they most people are willing to work hard, 675 00:38:04,840 --> 00:38:07,040 Speaker 2: they don't actually know what it looks like, what like 676 00:38:07,120 --> 00:38:10,240 Speaker 2: smart hard work really looks like. I've noticed. The second 677 00:38:10,239 --> 00:38:12,160 Speaker 2: thing that I've found is really difficult for people to 678 00:38:12,200 --> 00:38:16,480 Speaker 2: understand until they've had the experience, is that peak performance 679 00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:20,520 Speaker 2: you know, leaning on in our biology, performance always works 680 00:38:20,640 --> 00:38:23,719 Speaker 2: like compound interest, and until you know a little bit today, 681 00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:25,480 Speaker 2: a little bit tomorrow, a little bit the next day, 682 00:38:25,600 --> 00:38:29,239 Speaker 2: and the real result, I mean, you'll get spectacular interesting 683 00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:33,279 Speaker 2: results soon. But like the mind blowing I can't believe 684 00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:35,920 Speaker 2: where I am, Like what the hell happened in my life? 685 00:38:36,080 --> 00:38:37,839 Speaker 2: That's a year or two, you know what I mean. 686 00:38:37,840 --> 00:38:41,000 Speaker 2: You've got to stick with it, but it gets exponential. 687 00:38:41,440 --> 00:38:44,239 Speaker 2: It's really hard if you're at the front end of 688 00:38:44,239 --> 00:38:46,560 Speaker 2: that and haven't had that experience, especially if you don't 689 00:38:46,600 --> 00:38:49,440 Speaker 2: have flows sort of turbo boosting performance and learning and 690 00:38:49,440 --> 00:38:52,400 Speaker 2: all that stuff on a regular basis. It's hard to 691 00:38:52,520 --> 00:38:55,520 Speaker 2: understand that. So one of the goals of the book 692 00:38:55,600 --> 00:38:57,520 Speaker 2: was just to try to show people what that looks 693 00:38:57,560 --> 00:39:01,040 Speaker 2: like rather than just try to talk about it because 694 00:39:01,040 --> 00:39:04,279 Speaker 2: it doesn't you know, So. 695 00:39:04,160 --> 00:39:07,160 Speaker 1: Did you get any architecture, sorry, Stave? Did you get 696 00:39:07,160 --> 00:39:11,439 Speaker 1: any feedback from people you know in the space who 697 00:39:11,960 --> 00:39:14,440 Speaker 1: more advanced than you and more experienced than you that 698 00:39:14,600 --> 00:39:17,640 Speaker 1: kind of saw what you did and went, that's fucking impressive. 699 00:39:18,440 --> 00:39:22,120 Speaker 2: So here's what I did because I had to, like, 700 00:39:22,160 --> 00:39:24,399 Speaker 2: this was the fairest thing I could do. So there 701 00:39:24,480 --> 00:39:29,680 Speaker 2: is a park free style skiing commentator. His name is Nick. 702 00:39:29,680 --> 00:39:32,560 Speaker 2: He goes by steep Steep on YouTube. He does now 703 00:39:32,560 --> 00:39:35,480 Speaker 2: he commentates for red Bull and you know other stuff. 704 00:39:35,520 --> 00:39:38,240 Speaker 2: He does mountain biking too, but skiing and park skiing 705 00:39:38,320 --> 00:39:42,000 Speaker 2: is his thing. And he was he was on the 706 00:39:42,040 --> 00:39:44,520 Speaker 2: Canadian Free Scout team and broke his back and when 707 00:39:44,560 --> 00:39:46,680 Speaker 2: he was recovering from the broken back that he launched 708 00:39:46,680 --> 00:39:49,839 Speaker 2: this channel and you know, it blew up and now 709 00:39:49,840 --> 00:39:54,040 Speaker 2: he's all over the place. So halfway through my experiment, 710 00:39:55,200 --> 00:39:57,440 Speaker 2: I didn't know him, but I took all the footage 711 00:39:57,440 --> 00:39:59,280 Speaker 2: that we had. We had shot a bunch of footage 712 00:39:59,280 --> 00:40:01,160 Speaker 2: you may, and I called them up and I said look, 713 00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:05,360 Speaker 2: I said, I need somebody to explain what freestyle skiing 714 00:40:05,400 --> 00:40:08,319 Speaker 2: and park skiing is to my readers, right, and I 715 00:40:08,360 --> 00:40:12,359 Speaker 2: also need somebody to put what I'm doing in context. 716 00:40:12,400 --> 00:40:15,080 Speaker 2: I was like, this is the footage, make a video. 717 00:40:15,239 --> 00:40:17,360 Speaker 2: I need you to explain what freestyle skiing is and 718 00:40:17,520 --> 00:40:20,080 Speaker 2: put what I'm doing in context and tell the fucking truth. 719 00:40:20,120 --> 00:40:21,919 Speaker 2: If you need to make fun of me, make fun 720 00:40:21,920 --> 00:40:25,040 Speaker 2: of me. I don't like whatever. You know, have that. 721 00:40:25,400 --> 00:40:28,800 Speaker 2: So we made that. That's getting released on the website 722 00:40:28,800 --> 00:40:30,800 Speaker 2: for the book. At the same time the book comes out, 723 00:40:31,600 --> 00:40:35,440 Speaker 2: there's also you know, there's video of me skiing, you know, 724 00:40:35,520 --> 00:40:37,680 Speaker 2: so you can see it in there's video of the experiments. 725 00:40:37,719 --> 00:40:42,279 Speaker 2: You can see what it looks like. And so yeah, 726 00:40:42,440 --> 00:40:45,200 Speaker 2: we you know, we we did. You know, we checked 727 00:40:45,239 --> 00:40:47,920 Speaker 2: ourselves that way as much as possible. 728 00:40:48,920 --> 00:40:51,600 Speaker 1: What was his critique, If you can tell us what 729 00:40:51,640 --> 00:40:52,000 Speaker 1: do we need? 730 00:40:52,320 --> 00:40:56,160 Speaker 2: I mean, he he uh, he actually couldn't believe how 731 00:40:56,160 --> 00:40:58,800 Speaker 2: far I got and he couldn't like, he couldn't believe 732 00:40:58,840 --> 00:41:02,960 Speaker 2: I was doing it at fifty three and uh, because 733 00:41:03,080 --> 00:41:09,400 Speaker 2: the thing about park skiing is every inch churps. It's 734 00:41:09,440 --> 00:41:12,240 Speaker 2: just like like you hit the ground, you hit metal 735 00:41:12,239 --> 00:41:15,839 Speaker 2: objects you hit like it's just every inch it can 736 00:41:15,920 --> 00:41:19,840 Speaker 2: be really difficult. And he I think he recognized that, 737 00:41:19,920 --> 00:41:22,920 Speaker 2: but no, he was. He was people folks have been impressed. 738 00:41:23,000 --> 00:41:25,200 Speaker 2: I'm not impressed by the way. Let me be clear, 739 00:41:25,360 --> 00:41:27,600 Speaker 2: I'm not where I want to be at all. Like 740 00:41:28,120 --> 00:41:30,640 Speaker 2: the videos and like the things of me screaming, I'm 741 00:41:30,880 --> 00:41:33,719 Speaker 2: I have a problem with it. It's like I want to, 742 00:41:33,760 --> 00:41:35,960 Speaker 2: you know, I want to compare myself to Alex Hall 743 00:41:36,080 --> 00:41:38,839 Speaker 2: or you know, top Parks, Gears or whatever. Like I'm 744 00:41:38,920 --> 00:41:41,520 Speaker 2: unwilling to accept that I'm an intermediate on the learning 745 00:41:41,600 --> 00:41:45,840 Speaker 2: curve and not you know. So it's very It's really 746 00:41:46,080 --> 00:41:49,560 Speaker 2: it's funny because everybody loves the videos and I I'm like, okay, 747 00:41:50,080 --> 00:41:52,719 Speaker 2: you know all right, like I did it, and like 748 00:41:52,800 --> 00:41:55,680 Speaker 2: it's fair and it's honest, it's truthful. But like god, 749 00:41:55,760 --> 00:41:58,080 Speaker 2: I wish it looked like this instead of like what 750 00:41:58,480 --> 00:41:58,719 Speaker 2: you know? 751 00:41:59,120 --> 00:42:02,439 Speaker 1: Of course, do you think that I've asked a couple 752 00:42:02,520 --> 00:42:05,080 Speaker 1: of people this question. I wonder what your answer is. 753 00:42:05,120 --> 00:42:08,120 Speaker 1: Do you think that ambition and drive can coexist with 754 00:42:09,320 --> 00:42:10,799 Speaker 1: contentment and satisfaction? 755 00:42:12,360 --> 00:42:17,279 Speaker 2: Yes, but I did not until three or four years ago. 756 00:42:17,719 --> 00:42:18,480 Speaker 1: Right what happened? 757 00:42:18,480 --> 00:42:22,160 Speaker 2: I did not. It took me a really long time, 758 00:42:22,320 --> 00:42:28,080 Speaker 2: and it really I mean, this is a sort of awful, 759 00:42:28,120 --> 00:42:30,600 Speaker 2: wonderful thing to say out loud, and I'm deeply grateful. 760 00:42:30,600 --> 00:42:33,480 Speaker 2: But I like I worked. I was very very poor 761 00:42:33,719 --> 00:42:35,880 Speaker 2: for a very very long time. You know, I do 762 00:42:35,920 --> 00:42:39,719 Speaker 2: work very very hard. But I'm finally doing exactly what 763 00:42:39,800 --> 00:42:42,759 Speaker 2: I want to do in the world all day long, right, 764 00:42:42,880 --> 00:42:45,680 Speaker 2: I'm doing the research I want to, you know. But yes, 765 00:42:45,680 --> 00:42:48,359 Speaker 2: there's some you know, altruistic causes. I wish I could 766 00:42:48,400 --> 00:42:50,680 Speaker 2: advance a lot farther and faster than I am. But 767 00:42:50,719 --> 00:42:53,200 Speaker 2: as a general rule, like my days are spent doing 768 00:42:53,239 --> 00:42:57,400 Speaker 2: exactly what I feel most useful I'm built for, and 769 00:42:57,520 --> 00:43:00,440 Speaker 2: that is and in what it allows me. It doesn't. 770 00:43:00,480 --> 00:43:02,719 Speaker 2: It never got I don't know if you've discovered this. 771 00:43:03,239 --> 00:43:06,000 Speaker 2: I think one of the things that was hardest for 772 00:43:06,040 --> 00:43:09,280 Speaker 2: me to learn is it doesn't get easier. I somehow 773 00:43:09,360 --> 00:43:11,000 Speaker 2: thought it was going to get easier, you know what 774 00:43:11,080 --> 00:43:15,880 Speaker 2: I mean. You get better at it, for sure, and 775 00:43:16,239 --> 00:43:21,120 Speaker 2: it's much more fulfilling and meaningful, but it is no easier. 776 00:43:21,239 --> 00:43:24,399 Speaker 2: In fact, it's probably harder. And I was shocked by that. 777 00:43:24,800 --> 00:43:27,120 Speaker 2: I was shocked. I was like, are you kidding me. 778 00:43:27,760 --> 00:43:32,120 Speaker 2: I want my money back, seriously, I want to talk 779 00:43:32,200 --> 00:43:38,920 Speaker 2: to management. But it turns out, you know, life, satisfaction 780 00:43:39,080 --> 00:43:42,680 Speaker 2: and meaning, those those things start rising in a way 781 00:43:42,719 --> 00:43:46,520 Speaker 2: that I did not expect, and that's that's kind of 782 00:43:46,520 --> 00:43:47,360 Speaker 2: fun and interesting. 783 00:43:47,360 --> 00:43:50,680 Speaker 1: Did I stay hard because you keep turning up the 784 00:43:50,760 --> 00:43:55,919 Speaker 1: volume on the skill level or yes, you know, yeah, 785 00:43:56,160 --> 00:43:59,439 Speaker 1: it's it's hard because you might get hot. 786 00:44:00,120 --> 00:44:04,359 Speaker 2: Well, So one flows data triggers right preconditions the lead 787 00:44:04,400 --> 00:44:06,960 Speaker 2: to flow, and the most famous is the Challenge Skills Balance. 788 00:44:07,040 --> 00:44:09,920 Speaker 2: It says, if you want to drop into flow the 789 00:44:10,000 --> 00:44:12,800 Speaker 2: easiest way and the challenge that hask needs to slightly 790 00:44:12,800 --> 00:44:15,440 Speaker 2: exceed your skill sets, you want to stretch but not snap. 791 00:44:15,760 --> 00:44:18,560 Speaker 2: Chickst me high, by the way, has argued. People are 792 00:44:18,600 --> 00:44:21,080 Speaker 2: aware of this. He does it really eloquently in a 793 00:44:21,080 --> 00:44:24,120 Speaker 2: couple different books. His book Optal Experience is the one 794 00:44:24,160 --> 00:44:27,640 Speaker 2: where he's clearest about this. He believes flow is literally 795 00:44:27,680 --> 00:44:31,239 Speaker 2: the mechanism of the adult development. It is what propels 796 00:44:31,320 --> 00:44:34,799 Speaker 2: us forward because we are pushed on our skills and 797 00:44:34,840 --> 00:44:38,759 Speaker 2: on the other end of it, that's expertise, that's wisdom, 798 00:44:39,320 --> 00:44:42,080 Speaker 2: and it makes us more adaptive as organisms. And it's 799 00:44:42,120 --> 00:44:45,440 Speaker 2: this cycle that we build upon continuously. He makes a 800 00:44:45,680 --> 00:44:48,520 Speaker 2: very elegant argument, and there's a bunch of sort of 801 00:44:48,560 --> 00:44:51,920 Speaker 2: different research coming out of different aspects of neurobiology that 802 00:44:52,239 --> 00:44:54,680 Speaker 2: back his argument up. And I think we're trying to 803 00:44:54,680 --> 00:44:57,200 Speaker 2: do some research on it at the Flow Research Collective too, 804 00:44:57,440 --> 00:45:01,919 Speaker 2: because we think he's right. But it definitely like, I'm 805 00:45:01,920 --> 00:45:03,920 Speaker 2: a flow junkie. So I'm going to keep you know, 806 00:45:04,000 --> 00:45:07,120 Speaker 2: I'm going to keep pushing, and you know I do it, 807 00:45:07,160 --> 00:45:09,280 Speaker 2: and even you know, I always say in my books 808 00:45:09,920 --> 00:45:12,680 Speaker 2: there's always a communication challenge, right, like the thing I 809 00:45:12,719 --> 00:45:17,799 Speaker 2: want to tell you, but I always there's always some 810 00:45:17,880 --> 00:45:20,799 Speaker 2: other challenge that I set for myself because I like 811 00:45:20,880 --> 00:45:22,640 Speaker 2: it when I have to like this. I need my 812 00:45:22,680 --> 00:45:24,320 Speaker 2: books to scare me a little bit, you know what 813 00:45:24,400 --> 00:45:27,000 Speaker 2: I mean. It helps hold my attention, and I want 814 00:45:27,000 --> 00:45:30,240 Speaker 2: to push on myself. And so every book I write, 815 00:45:30,800 --> 00:45:32,960 Speaker 2: I'll push on the writing style or I'll push on 816 00:45:33,000 --> 00:45:36,320 Speaker 2: the something or other, and you know, just just stretch myself. 817 00:45:36,760 --> 00:45:39,239 Speaker 2: And you know, I sort of I do that, do 818 00:45:39,320 --> 00:45:45,120 Speaker 2: that and everything. I just but to me, I just 819 00:45:45,160 --> 00:45:47,640 Speaker 2: feel like I've got a lot of unfinished business. So 820 00:45:47,800 --> 00:45:50,560 Speaker 2: until it starts to feel finished, you know what, I mean, 821 00:45:50,600 --> 00:45:52,520 Speaker 2: I can't stop pushing because I'm not done. 822 00:45:53,040 --> 00:45:54,720 Speaker 1: Does your work feel like work? 823 00:45:55,480 --> 00:45:59,239 Speaker 2: No, it's never felt like work. I mean it's you know, 824 00:45:59,400 --> 00:46:02,520 Speaker 2: I it. It took me a while to realize that. 825 00:46:02,840 --> 00:46:04,840 Speaker 2: I say this when I when I train other writers 826 00:46:04,920 --> 00:46:06,920 Speaker 2: or other creators, it took me a while they realize 827 00:46:06,920 --> 00:46:09,840 Speaker 2: that you're always going to be somebody's bitch. There's always 828 00:46:09,920 --> 00:46:13,440 Speaker 2: it doesn't matter. It doesn't matter how big you get, 829 00:46:13,560 --> 00:46:15,600 Speaker 2: where you are, how much moscle you have, how much 830 00:46:15,960 --> 00:46:18,719 Speaker 2: you were, You're gonna work for somebody sooner later. And 831 00:46:18,760 --> 00:46:21,200 Speaker 2: the truth of the matter is the funniest thing is 832 00:46:21,320 --> 00:46:23,160 Speaker 2: even in like the parts of my life where like 833 00:46:23,200 --> 00:46:26,560 Speaker 2: I've been very successful my writing, you get to the top, 834 00:46:27,000 --> 00:46:30,000 Speaker 2: and one trust me when I tell you published doesn't 835 00:46:30,000 --> 00:46:31,960 Speaker 2: really care, like they got they got a dozen to me. 836 00:46:32,440 --> 00:46:35,360 Speaker 2: But like then you end up with a fan base 837 00:46:36,000 --> 00:46:40,040 Speaker 2: and holy shit, are they tough right, Like they like 838 00:46:40,080 --> 00:46:41,440 Speaker 2: what you do and they don't love it when you 839 00:46:41,600 --> 00:46:43,799 Speaker 2: debates too far for you know what I mean. And 840 00:46:43,840 --> 00:46:46,200 Speaker 2: for a guy who's always wants to push in new directions, 841 00:46:46,480 --> 00:46:48,520 Speaker 2: that's an interesting thing. But it took me a little 842 00:46:48,520 --> 00:46:52,480 Speaker 2: while to figure out like that equation A little bit. 843 00:46:53,600 --> 00:46:56,960 Speaker 2: It took me so like I'm trained as a poet. 844 00:46:57,000 --> 00:46:59,480 Speaker 2: I'm an old school punk rocker. I didn't know I 845 00:46:59,520 --> 00:47:02,759 Speaker 2: had to taught in business, you know, the whole way up. 846 00:47:03,640 --> 00:47:05,920 Speaker 2: And I've just I was involved in like twenty seven 847 00:47:05,960 --> 00:47:08,840 Speaker 2: startups along the way, so I like, I saw a 848 00:47:08,920 --> 00:47:10,840 Speaker 2: lot of what didn't work. I saw a lot of 849 00:47:10,880 --> 00:47:13,319 Speaker 2: what you know, that sort of stuff. It took a 850 00:47:13,400 --> 00:47:15,680 Speaker 2: while to figure that stuff out. And so you know 851 00:47:15,760 --> 00:47:18,520 Speaker 2: now still even in business, the challenges are really interesting, 852 00:47:18,560 --> 00:47:21,399 Speaker 2: and I'm like, Okay, you know, what else can we do? 853 00:47:21,880 --> 00:47:25,240 Speaker 2: My company just got named one of the two hundreds 854 00:47:25,239 --> 00:47:28,759 Speaker 2: of or one of the fastest growing companies in America. Great, check, 855 00:47:28,800 --> 00:47:30,359 Speaker 2: what else can we do? Let's keep going? 856 00:47:31,080 --> 00:47:34,080 Speaker 1: That's amazing. I have a random question. Then, this is 857 00:47:34,080 --> 00:47:38,480 Speaker 1: the exercise physiologist in me, and I could I would 858 00:47:38,480 --> 00:47:41,439 Speaker 1: not ask a lighty this, but I'll ask you what's 859 00:47:41,480 --> 00:47:42,879 Speaker 1: your hot and white. 860 00:47:45,840 --> 00:47:52,240 Speaker 2: When now five one hundred and fifty one pounds? 861 00:47:52,560 --> 00:47:56,799 Speaker 1: Oh wow? So what's that six seventy sixty guys? Oh, 862 00:47:56,840 --> 00:47:59,960 Speaker 1: you're a lot. You're an athlete, you're an endurance athlete. 863 00:48:00,840 --> 00:48:05,080 Speaker 2: I'm really not boom you could be, but I really, 864 00:48:05,160 --> 00:48:07,640 Speaker 2: I'm really actually not. People look at me. It's funny 865 00:48:07,680 --> 00:48:10,320 Speaker 2: because I can. I'm an extreme actomorph. So the hardest 866 00:48:10,320 --> 00:48:12,160 Speaker 2: thing for me to do is gain weight, and I 867 00:48:12,200 --> 00:48:15,920 Speaker 2: will lose like ski sees now lose ten to twelve pounds. 868 00:48:17,040 --> 00:48:19,239 Speaker 2: And by the end of ski season, when I like 869 00:48:19,320 --> 00:48:22,120 Speaker 2: go give speeches or things like that, you always people 870 00:48:22,120 --> 00:48:24,759 Speaker 2: are very polite about that. Come up you like, so 871 00:48:25,400 --> 00:48:28,120 Speaker 2: you're a runner. 872 00:48:30,160 --> 00:48:34,160 Speaker 1: You know, I'm a pal lift dude. What I will 873 00:48:34,200 --> 00:48:34,440 Speaker 1: tell you. 874 00:48:34,840 --> 00:48:38,400 Speaker 2: The true story, true story. When I graduated high school, 875 00:48:38,400 --> 00:48:41,240 Speaker 2: I was nineteen years old or I was one hundred 876 00:48:41,239 --> 00:48:43,640 Speaker 2: and thirty eight pounds in the same height as I 877 00:48:43,680 --> 00:48:48,400 Speaker 2: am now. And one of the one of the you know, 878 00:48:48,600 --> 00:48:50,759 Speaker 2: one of the great things for me is it took 879 00:48:50,800 --> 00:48:54,280 Speaker 2: me like ten years to actually like put on muscle 880 00:48:54,320 --> 00:48:55,839 Speaker 2: and get I worked from one hundred and thirty nine 881 00:48:55,920 --> 00:48:59,120 Speaker 2: up to one hundred and seventy through weightlifting. But I 882 00:48:59,160 --> 00:49:02,960 Speaker 2: remember maybe Tiffany I mentioned that. I think I said 883 00:49:03,000 --> 00:49:05,520 Speaker 2: this to you when we were talking, right, I was 884 00:49:05,640 --> 00:49:08,200 Speaker 2: five years into lifting weights. I was working out in 885 00:49:08,239 --> 00:49:11,600 Speaker 2: my gym in San Francisco and this big dude walk Saturday. 886 00:49:11,640 --> 00:49:13,440 Speaker 2: It just like sort of punches me and the children's 887 00:49:13,520 --> 00:49:17,120 Speaker 2: like stick with it, buddy, You'll get there. Eventually. We 888 00:49:17,160 --> 00:49:21,239 Speaker 2: all put on muscle. Though I was I was so enraged, Like, dude, 889 00:49:21,800 --> 00:49:26,600 Speaker 2: five years there, You're like five fucking years I've been 890 00:49:26,640 --> 00:49:27,080 Speaker 2: doing this. 891 00:49:28,440 --> 00:49:30,399 Speaker 1: That that is hilarious when you. 892 00:49:30,400 --> 00:49:32,400 Speaker 2: Tell me the story about the woman who like just 893 00:49:32,680 --> 00:49:36,560 Speaker 2: got to beast mode in six weeks. Yeah, lucky her. 894 00:49:38,960 --> 00:49:40,879 Speaker 1: A bit. There's a bit of genetics and that. Now 895 00:49:42,080 --> 00:49:44,960 Speaker 1: there's a bit of This is a hard question and 896 00:49:45,280 --> 00:49:48,239 Speaker 1: silly question. I'm just interested because it's luck asking a 897 00:49:48,280 --> 00:49:52,960 Speaker 1: parent which of their kids is their favorite, but not 898 00:49:53,040 --> 00:49:57,480 Speaker 1: necessarily what is apart from your new book, which is 899 00:49:57,520 --> 00:50:01,880 Speaker 1: called Knock Country everyone add in February next year. Apart 900 00:50:01,920 --> 00:50:05,680 Speaker 1: from that, not what is the best book, but what 901 00:50:05,840 --> 00:50:09,000 Speaker 1: is your favorite book that you've written, and why if 902 00:50:09,000 --> 00:50:13,520 Speaker 1: there is one, Like just on a personal level, what's 903 00:50:13,560 --> 00:50:15,719 Speaker 1: the book that either you're most proud of, or you 904 00:50:15,840 --> 00:50:18,400 Speaker 1: learned the most in, or you have the deepest connection with. 905 00:50:23,080 --> 00:50:26,440 Speaker 2: It's interesting that both Tomorrowland and are Impossible are like 906 00:50:26,480 --> 00:50:29,560 Speaker 2: there's like thirty years of research either, but they neither. 907 00:50:29,920 --> 00:50:32,560 Speaker 2: It's either Rise of Superman, which is the book I 908 00:50:32,560 --> 00:50:36,879 Speaker 2: wrote about action sports, and it's the reason is I 909 00:50:36,920 --> 00:50:40,080 Speaker 2: think it's got the best writing. Yeah, it's the best 910 00:50:40,160 --> 00:50:43,480 Speaker 2: example of art. And what I mean by that is literally, 911 00:50:43,640 --> 00:50:46,080 Speaker 2: I can It's hard to read your old books, but 912 00:50:46,120 --> 00:50:48,000 Speaker 2: I can make up Rise of Superman and I can 913 00:50:48,000 --> 00:50:50,400 Speaker 2: get through like eighty or ninety or one hundred pages 914 00:50:50,840 --> 00:50:53,200 Speaker 2: and sort of like before something catches me and I 915 00:50:53,239 --> 00:50:55,080 Speaker 2: go off, Fuck, what what I do with that paragraph? 916 00:50:55,080 --> 00:50:55,600 Speaker 2: You know what I mean? 917 00:50:55,960 --> 00:50:56,600 Speaker 1: Yeah? 918 00:50:56,640 --> 00:50:59,839 Speaker 2: And that's that is amazing. And the tip of them 919 00:51:00,320 --> 00:51:02,720 Speaker 2: is I think the book I'm proud of Steff because 920 00:51:02,719 --> 00:51:06,839 Speaker 2: it required a lot of bravery that's totally invisible now 921 00:51:06,880 --> 00:51:10,360 Speaker 2: and you can't see it. But West did Jesus, which 922 00:51:10,400 --> 00:51:12,280 Speaker 2: was a book. It was one of my first books. 923 00:51:12,320 --> 00:51:13,920 Speaker 2: It was my first book on these topics. It was 924 00:51:14,000 --> 00:51:18,680 Speaker 2: really about the intersection of surfing as a trigger for flow, 925 00:51:18,760 --> 00:51:25,399 Speaker 2: really the neurobiology of spirituality, uh and in neuroscience so like, 926 00:51:25,719 --> 00:51:29,640 Speaker 2: but I wrote it so early, there was nobody was 927 00:51:29,680 --> 00:51:32,279 Speaker 2: doing this work right. Nobody would like it was ridiculous. 928 00:51:32,320 --> 00:51:34,760 Speaker 2: This was, you know, trying to write about the science 929 00:51:34,800 --> 00:51:38,080 Speaker 2: of spirituality could have been a career, and trying to 930 00:51:38,080 --> 00:51:42,400 Speaker 2: write about like spiritual experiences and surfing with the neurobiology, 931 00:51:42,440 --> 00:51:44,960 Speaker 2: like I thought to myself of this goes fucking wrong, 932 00:51:45,360 --> 00:51:48,320 Speaker 2: I'm gonna be like I'm going to write Jonathan Livingston's 933 00:51:48,560 --> 00:51:51,040 Speaker 2: Seagull for you know, like it's the poor man's Jonathan 934 00:51:51,080 --> 00:51:53,680 Speaker 2: living signal I to be done as a serious journalist, 935 00:51:53,880 --> 00:51:59,200 Speaker 2: as a science writer, like I don't great. It was 936 00:51:59,360 --> 00:52:03,280 Speaker 2: gradually greatly over excenterated, like my impact on the world 937 00:52:03,360 --> 00:52:05,759 Speaker 2: in terms of like what he cared about what that 938 00:52:05,800 --> 00:52:09,520 Speaker 2: book did. But at the time for me, as a 939 00:52:09,560 --> 00:52:12,840 Speaker 2: guy like especially coming up as first a journalist and 940 00:52:12,880 --> 00:52:16,120 Speaker 2: then a science journalist and really a self taught science journalist, 941 00:52:17,600 --> 00:52:22,040 Speaker 2: to write a book about neuroscience with like you know, 942 00:52:22,280 --> 00:52:25,360 Speaker 2: not with new ideas, but it was a big that 943 00:52:25,480 --> 00:52:28,600 Speaker 2: was a hard leap for me. I was as a journalist, 944 00:52:28,680 --> 00:52:31,759 Speaker 2: I was taught to stay in the sidelines right like 945 00:52:31,840 --> 00:52:34,600 Speaker 2: I don't have an opinion, I covered the opinion right 946 00:52:34,680 --> 00:52:36,920 Speaker 2: like it was. So I had to switch roles. I 947 00:52:36,920 --> 00:52:39,400 Speaker 2: had to make myself more visible and part of the story. 948 00:52:39,440 --> 00:52:42,000 Speaker 2: I'd do a bunch of stuff, And I also had 949 00:52:42,000 --> 00:52:45,520 Speaker 2: to solve a bunch of writing problems that I never 950 00:52:45,640 --> 00:52:48,040 Speaker 2: in the first decade of my career as a novelist, 951 00:52:48,280 --> 00:52:51,040 Speaker 2: I couldn't solve or as a journalist for that point, 952 00:52:51,320 --> 00:52:54,040 Speaker 2: so like the writing was a big step forward. It's 953 00:52:54,120 --> 00:52:59,120 Speaker 2: really fun to this day. I think there's probably a 954 00:52:59,160 --> 00:53:02,560 Speaker 2: copy of West to Jesus in almost every surf shack 955 00:53:02,680 --> 00:53:06,520 Speaker 2: in the world, and for some people they might want 956 00:53:06,560 --> 00:53:09,120 Speaker 2: different kinds of like that's what I need, Like if 957 00:53:09,120 --> 00:53:11,480 Speaker 2: there's a copy of like my books that again, like 958 00:53:11,520 --> 00:53:13,879 Speaker 2: most of the surf shacks in the world, I sort 959 00:53:13,920 --> 00:53:18,480 Speaker 2: of did my job. I'm glad. So that's it's one 960 00:53:18,520 --> 00:53:18,960 Speaker 2: of the two. 961 00:53:19,760 --> 00:53:22,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, I love it. Rise of Superman was brilliant. You 962 00:53:22,719 --> 00:53:25,120 Speaker 1: know who loves that book and talks about it quite 963 00:53:25,120 --> 00:53:28,240 Speaker 1: a lot is only the biggest podcaster on the planet 964 00:53:28,280 --> 00:53:31,160 Speaker 1: is Rogan. He loves that book. He's spoken about it 965 00:53:31,160 --> 00:53:32,160 Speaker 1: many times. 966 00:53:32,640 --> 00:53:36,319 Speaker 2: Yeah, he's Joe's Joe's been really nice. He's great. By 967 00:53:36,320 --> 00:53:38,239 Speaker 2: the way, that that man you want to talk about 968 00:53:38,239 --> 00:53:41,520 Speaker 2: an intense podcast, he does not. He may be a comedian, 969 00:53:41,600 --> 00:53:45,319 Speaker 2: he does not suffer fools. Gladly, no step it into 970 00:53:45,360 --> 00:53:48,880 Speaker 2: the rig. Yeah, if you watch the podcast they did 971 00:53:48,920 --> 00:53:51,280 Speaker 2: with Joe, there's a point about an hour and fifteen 972 00:53:51,320 --> 00:53:55,720 Speaker 2: minutes in where he stops and looks at me and goes, oh, wow, 973 00:53:55,920 --> 00:53:58,880 Speaker 2: you're an interesting dude, you've done some stuff and it 974 00:53:58,960 --> 00:54:01,960 Speaker 2: was really the first white and like where something. He's like, Oh, 975 00:54:02,000 --> 00:54:04,719 Speaker 2: I'm going to take you seriously down. You're right, and 976 00:54:04,760 --> 00:54:09,920 Speaker 2: I was like, it's a it was a dead area. 977 00:54:10,400 --> 00:54:15,360 Speaker 1: Did you did you Did you do any prep for that? Nothing? 978 00:54:15,440 --> 00:54:15,920 Speaker 1: I don't know what. 979 00:54:16,640 --> 00:54:21,160 Speaker 2: Okay, So here's this horrible storied. I apologies to Edward involved. 980 00:54:22,840 --> 00:54:26,280 Speaker 2: I don't watch podcast don't listen to podcasts. Like if 981 00:54:26,320 --> 00:54:29,399 Speaker 2: I got free time, I read neuroscience text. So I 982 00:54:29,440 --> 00:54:36,000 Speaker 2: had no idea who Joe Rogan was. So as we 983 00:54:36,040 --> 00:54:36,880 Speaker 2: were going there. 984 00:54:37,000 --> 00:54:38,480 Speaker 1: You've been living under a rock, bro. 985 00:54:38,680 --> 00:54:41,120 Speaker 2: But my good friend Michael Ward, who's my editor, came 986 00:54:41,200 --> 00:54:44,239 Speaker 2: with me and on the way he's like, you know, 987 00:54:44,440 --> 00:54:46,400 Speaker 2: he's a big deal. And I was like what do 988 00:54:46,400 --> 00:54:48,120 Speaker 2: you mean. He's like, oh yeah, I want to sit 989 00:54:48,200 --> 00:54:50,319 Speaker 2: in like he's that And I was like, you want 990 00:54:50,480 --> 00:54:53,279 Speaker 2: like Michael knows everybody, you know what I mean? You 991 00:54:53,280 --> 00:54:55,319 Speaker 2: know you can pause that. It was like you want 992 00:54:55,320 --> 00:54:57,440 Speaker 2: to sit in? That was the first A league. I 993 00:54:57,480 --> 00:55:01,320 Speaker 2: was like, where the hell am I going? What is this? Yeah? 994 00:55:01,880 --> 00:55:05,600 Speaker 2: I literally apologized to Joe and his crew. I had 995 00:55:05,719 --> 00:55:10,239 Speaker 2: no idea. I walked into Joe Brogan totally blind. I 996 00:55:10,280 --> 00:55:11,880 Speaker 2: didn't realize it was gonna be a four and a 997 00:55:11,920 --> 00:55:14,799 Speaker 2: half hour marathon where you don't go to the bathroom 998 00:55:14,840 --> 00:55:15,120 Speaker 2: and you. 999 00:55:15,280 --> 00:55:20,400 Speaker 1: Like, you know, yeah, speaking of endurance events, going on 1000 00:55:20,520 --> 00:55:23,560 Speaker 1: Joe Rogan is without doubt one of the greatest bloody 1001 00:55:24,320 --> 00:55:29,920 Speaker 1: interview endurance events of all time. Stephen, I really appreciate 1002 00:55:29,960 --> 00:55:31,759 Speaker 1: talking to you. I would love to get you back. 1003 00:55:31,800 --> 00:55:33,799 Speaker 1: I've got so many more things I want to ask you, 1004 00:55:33,840 --> 00:55:37,839 Speaker 1: but we appreciate you having a chat with us. Good 1005 00:55:37,960 --> 00:55:40,280 Speaker 1: luck with the new book. There's so many books everyone 1006 00:55:40,360 --> 00:55:42,239 Speaker 1: go and check go and check them all out. But 1007 00:55:42,239 --> 00:55:45,440 Speaker 1: the new one is out soon. Nah Country, I'm excited 1008 00:55:45,440 --> 00:55:49,439 Speaker 1: to read it. Stay there. We'll say goodbye off air, 1009 00:55:49,520 --> 00:55:51,480 Speaker 1: but for the moment, thanks so much for being on 1010 00:55:51,520 --> 00:55:52,120 Speaker 1: the You project. 1011 00:55:52,160 --> 00:55:54,480 Speaker 2: We appreciate you my pleasure. 1012 00:55:54,640 --> 00:55:57,919 Speaker 1: Thank you, Craig, Thank you Tiffany, Thanks Steven, Thanks tiff 1013 00:55:58,200 --> 00:55:58,960 Speaker 1: Thanks guys,