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Speaker 1: Appogiae production.

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Speaker 2: We begin today by acknowledging the traditional custodians of the

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Speaker 2: land on which we gather today and pay our respects

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Speaker 2: to their elders past and present. We extend that respect

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Speaker 2: to Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people's here today. Welcome

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Speaker 2: to the Grow and Glow Podcast. I'm Ashy, I'm Kiara.

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Speaker 2: This is a podcast where we learn, laugh, and level

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Speaker 2: up together.

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Speaker 1: Let's go deep, let the emotions flow, and find the

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Speaker 1: lessons to Grow and Glow. Nothing is off the table

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Speaker 1: with Grow and Glow, and we're here to be your expander.

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Speaker 2: Hello, guys, Hello, welcome back to Growing Glow far Out.

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Speaker 1: We've got a funny episode today.

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Speaker 2: I'm a little bit nervous you'll be in. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I haven't read them all, but it's going to be funny.

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Speaker 2: It's going to be fine assumptions about us and you

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Speaker 2: guys wrote these in yeah, and they won't try No.

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Speaker 1: But before we get into it, we'll do a share

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Speaker 1: of the week. I've put a new audiobook that I'm

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Speaker 1: listening to and it's called Love and Respect and it's

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Speaker 1: about like intimate relationship. Now it is if you're not religious.

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Speaker 1: He does refer to God quite a lot and the

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Speaker 1: Bible and Jesus. But I just think even if you're

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Speaker 1: not religious, you just lean into that being the universe

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Speaker 1: or you know, outside of yourself, just love in general.

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Speaker 1: But it's just a messaging. It's basically around how men

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Speaker 1: deeply desire and need respect, but how women deeply desire

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Speaker 1: to be loved, and a lot of the time in relationships,

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Speaker 1: women will be like, oh no, he has to earn

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Speaker 1: my respect before I give love, and vice versa, and

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Speaker 1: how so many couples get into this trap where they're

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Speaker 1: not loving on each other and they're not respecting each other,

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Speaker 1: but both need to be unconditional. But yeah, it's just

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Speaker 1: so interesting the way that he breaks it all down.

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Speaker 1: He talks a lot about his own relationship. I just

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Speaker 1: love when people are vulnerable to share their experience the

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Speaker 1: shit they're mess you know, because we're all messy humans.

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Speaker 1: So I just really like and the author reads the book,

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Speaker 1: which I really admire.

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Speaker 2: There's nothing worse when there's like some rowbody you feel

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Speaker 1: Yeah, hundred percent. So I really recommend this to any couple.

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Speaker 1: Steve's gonna read it soon as well, would like listen

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Speaker 1: to it. But love and respect It's awesome?

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Speaker 2: Is it?

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Speaker 1: By Dr Emerson?

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Speaker 1: Respect he desperately needs the love she most desires love

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Speaker 1: and respect, and also just helps me to be more

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Speaker 1: aware of the language I use the Steve like, respect

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Speaker 1: isn't a word that I say. I do respect him

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Speaker 1: so much, but it's not something I communicate with and

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Speaker 1: will communicate in words that I would like to hear. Yeah, unconsciously, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I love you so much blah blah blah. But to

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Speaker 1: say to a man like I really respect you, I

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Speaker 1: really respect your hustle, and really respect how you take

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Speaker 1: care of us like that for them was just like melt.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: He's saying, you'll feel the shift in your men, how

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Speaker 1: much more like softer they are with you, and how

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Speaker 1: just feels them right up.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I feel like whenever I say like proud to Kurt,

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Speaker 2: he really loves that too, yes, And I say like, wow,

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Speaker 2: I'm so proud of all you should be so proud

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Speaker 2: of yourself with like doing that the words yeah he is. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: but I don't feel like I say respect.

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Speaker 1: I don't. And women need it as well. He's saying,

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Speaker 2: Makes so much sense.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's really interesting.

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Speaker 1: But if you're not really just like he does refer

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Speaker 2: same thing. I just yeah, you know, make it out.

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Speaker 1: What I would make it good for you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, I am going to share this new lipstick

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Speaker 1: We've figured out though, because normally when we come to

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Speaker 1: always like, how do you still have lipliner and lipstick on?

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Speaker 2: so good. All right, let's get into these assumptions.

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Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, there's gonna be some that are true

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Speaker 1: So the first assumption someone said, without getting to know Ashi,

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Speaker 1: I was like, in my young twenties, your body and

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Speaker 2: Yeah. This one random assumption, but I always thought you

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Speaker 2: through phases in my life where I have gone to

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm just so different, that's it. Like there's not

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Speaker 2: but everyone you just do you. We are so happy for.

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Speaker 1: You, depending on your upbringing, where you've come from, your

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Speaker 2: Definitely, you have the most relaxed lifestyle, slow walks on

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Speaker 2: like my lifestyle is a lot more relaxed than it

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Speaker 1: swapped and changed friends. But I'm also very open to

435
00:17:26,481 --> 00:17:28,441
Speaker 1: new friendships like I was seven years ago with you,

436
00:17:28,561 --> 00:17:30,721
Speaker 1: But I've got my solid girls that I've been friends

437
00:17:30,721 --> 00:17:31,640
Speaker 1: with since I was like twelve.

438
00:17:31,640 --> 00:17:34,120
Speaker 2: I don't think it's also a bad thing. Am I

439
00:17:34,241 --> 00:17:36,801
Speaker 2: bad for saying that? I think that even if you

440
00:17:37,521 --> 00:17:39,680
Speaker 2: had friendships from when you were younger or older, wherever

441
00:17:39,721 --> 00:17:42,080
Speaker 2: you pick up friends, if they don't align or things

442
00:17:42,400 --> 00:17:45,640
Speaker 2: you're growing, you're changing, you're not doing things at the

443
00:17:45,640 --> 00:17:48,481
Speaker 2: same pace anymore. Like why I surround yourself with people

444
00:17:48,561 --> 00:17:52,601
Speaker 2: just because the bravery and the boundaries and the standards

445
00:17:52,681 --> 00:17:54,920
Speaker 2: that Like, if they're not aligned and not feeling good anymore,

446
00:17:54,961 --> 00:17:56,880
Speaker 2: that's okay too. I'll put it in her words, jump

447
00:17:57,080 --> 00:18:01,080
Speaker 2: through friendships. Yeah, yeah, you shouldn't have it on that's beautiful. Yeah,

448
00:18:01,080 --> 00:18:02,921
Speaker 2: if you can do that, you're not wasting their time,

449
00:18:03,080 --> 00:18:04,001
Speaker 2: not wasting your time.

450
00:18:04,120 --> 00:18:06,360
Speaker 1: Like that's the same as inter relationships. You wouldn't stay

451
00:18:06,360 --> 00:18:09,480
Speaker 1: with someone just because I really don't like it on

452
00:18:09,481 --> 00:18:12,160
Speaker 1: social media when I see people put down women for

453
00:18:12,640 --> 00:18:15,160
Speaker 1: like dating or you know, having different engagements, I'm like,

454
00:18:15,840 --> 00:18:18,281
Speaker 1: that's okay, Like it doesn't harm you if that person's

455
00:18:18,321 --> 00:18:20,241
Speaker 1: been engaged once or twice or they're getting married again

456
00:18:20,360 --> 00:18:22,360
Speaker 1: or having a second chance at love. Is that not

457
00:18:22,400 --> 00:18:25,360
Speaker 1: a beautiful thing that she decided that relationship didn't serve

458
00:18:25,400 --> 00:18:27,640
Speaker 1: her or her family or her life and shed No,

459
00:18:27,721 --> 00:18:30,641
Speaker 1: I want more, I want different, God on you. Definitely

460
00:18:30,721 --> 00:18:32,920
Speaker 1: the same with friendships. Yeah, but I honestly I do

461
00:18:33,001 --> 00:18:34,321
Speaker 1: have the same core friends that I've had for a

462
00:18:34,441 --> 00:18:36,281
Speaker 1: very long time. There's just been other ones that have

463
00:18:36,360 --> 00:18:38,281
Speaker 1: come in and out twenty and more season. I'm in Yeah,

464
00:18:38,281 --> 00:18:40,840
Speaker 1: that's it, which is cool. Yeah, you don't put petrol

465
00:18:40,880 --> 00:18:41,680
Speaker 1: in your own car?

466
00:18:42,481 --> 00:18:44,161
Speaker 2: I mean there are plenty of times when she has

467
00:18:44,321 --> 00:18:45,080
Speaker 2: I can do it.

468
00:18:45,761 --> 00:18:46,440
Speaker 1: I'm not doing it.

469
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Speaker 2: Who's doing it?

470
00:18:48,481 --> 00:18:51,561
Speaker 1: Someone have that as a service. I mean maybe one day.

471
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Speaker 2: Honestly, if there's someone at the pump that's willing to

472
00:18:53,321 --> 00:18:55,200
Speaker 2: do it for me, like, I'll take you up on

473
00:18:55,241 --> 00:18:56,360
Speaker 2: the off one hundred percent.

474
00:18:56,400 --> 00:18:58,441
Speaker 1: But no, I definitely perpetual on my own car.

475
00:18:58,640 --> 00:19:00,361
Speaker 2: Who sawd the stories when we were trying to get

476
00:19:00,360 --> 00:19:01,841
Speaker 2: the oil for action car?

477
00:19:02,160 --> 00:19:02,840
Speaker 1: Fut?

478
00:19:03,521 --> 00:19:06,880
Speaker 2: Yeah you were always pop at school? Isn't it so

479
00:19:07,001 --> 00:19:10,041
Speaker 2: funny of a thing as well? No? I feel like

480
00:19:10,080 --> 00:19:14,360
Speaker 2: I was super super shy, very not confident, would not

481
00:19:14,441 --> 00:19:17,521
Speaker 2: put myself out there all throughout school, very reserved. I

482
00:19:17,600 --> 00:19:19,680
Speaker 2: hung out the boys more than the girls. But I

483
00:19:19,761 --> 00:19:21,481
Speaker 2: definitely would not have called myself popular.

484
00:19:21,801 --> 00:19:27,321
Speaker 1: Yeah, not at all. Yeah. Yeah, you have a daily cleaner. No,

485
00:19:28,521 --> 00:19:32,441
Speaker 1: her name's actually literally I'm the cleaner. I'm the chef. No.

486
00:19:32,561 --> 00:19:34,640
Speaker 1: I have a cleaner though, and she's incredible. She's been

487
00:19:34,640 --> 00:19:36,881
Speaker 1: with us for like five years, but like even if

488
00:19:36,880 --> 00:19:38,881
Speaker 1: you have a cleaner once a week, say it's clean

489
00:19:38,921 --> 00:19:41,561
Speaker 1: for that day. When you have children, it is dirty

490
00:19:41,721 --> 00:19:44,201
Speaker 1: the next day it is. There's always new dishes, there's

491
00:19:44,201 --> 00:19:47,161
Speaker 1: always new to washing. Like we have animals, it's fur everywhere.

492
00:19:47,160 --> 00:19:49,720
Speaker 1: There's mess everywhere. Cleaner once a week is more for

493
00:19:49,761 --> 00:19:52,241
Speaker 1: those like deep cleans. Yes, it's like the day to

494
00:19:52,321 --> 00:19:53,441
Speaker 1: day never stops.

495
00:19:53,561 --> 00:19:56,041
Speaker 2: Our house for sand is did your old house used

496
00:19:56,041 --> 00:19:57,041
Speaker 2: to have that? Oh?

497
00:19:57,241 --> 00:19:57,961
Speaker 1: The sand.

498
00:19:58,360 --> 00:20:00,801
Speaker 2: It's like a daily thing that we have to vacuum. Yeah,

499
00:20:00,961 --> 00:20:01,880
Speaker 2: sand everywhere.

500
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Speaker 1: Oh funny, Okay.

501
00:20:03,921 --> 00:20:08,080
Speaker 2: This one it's giggling at. I assume you both smell

502
00:20:08,160 --> 00:20:10,120
Speaker 2: so nice all the time, not in a creepy way,

503
00:20:10,160 --> 00:20:13,521
Speaker 2: I swear, I said to Ashy. The worst we ever smell,

504
00:20:13,801 --> 00:20:16,080
Speaker 2: both of us is right here right now, Like whenever

505
00:20:16,160 --> 00:20:18,840
Speaker 2: we come to the podcast, it's so hot. We've got

506
00:20:18,840 --> 00:20:21,561
Speaker 2: like our big jackets on the lights on us. I've

507
00:20:21,561 --> 00:20:23,161
Speaker 2: like done a fresh tan a couple of days ago.

508
00:20:23,600 --> 00:20:26,120
Speaker 2: I'm a stinky girl. When we're at the poddy.

509
00:20:26,281 --> 00:20:28,881
Speaker 1: It's not super bad, but it just smells like sweat. Yes,

510
00:20:29,001 --> 00:20:31,521
Speaker 1: like it's not boh, it's sweat. If I lift my armor,

511
00:20:31,521 --> 00:20:32,881
Speaker 1: it just smells like I've been sweating.

512
00:20:32,921 --> 00:20:34,720
Speaker 2: But then like day to day at home, this doesn't

513
00:20:34,761 --> 00:20:36,121
Speaker 2: obviously I.

514
00:20:36,080 --> 00:20:37,600
Speaker 1: Got confidence on how nice I smell.

515
00:20:37,640 --> 00:20:40,520
Speaker 2: All I do do know well, then I use hardaway

516
00:20:40,521 --> 00:20:42,401
Speaker 2: as well, but you know, I use like my heart

517
00:20:42,441 --> 00:20:46,521
Speaker 2: away perfumes, the custard custard. I also wash my hair

518
00:20:46,521 --> 00:20:48,200
Speaker 2: every day, so I feel like Kurt always says me's like,

519
00:20:48,241 --> 00:20:51,041
Speaker 2: your hair always smells so good because I freshly wash

520
00:20:51,120 --> 00:20:53,641
Speaker 2: my hair. It's not the best thing to do, but yeah,

521
00:20:53,721 --> 00:20:55,481
Speaker 2: I feel like when I'm up here, though I'm a

522
00:20:55,640 --> 00:21:00,400
Speaker 2: stinky girl, I never smelling. I never noticed she's smelling,

523
00:21:00,441 --> 00:21:01,840
Speaker 2: but but I notice myself.

524
00:21:01,481 --> 00:21:03,600
Speaker 1: If I lift my arm up, I'm like, yeah, she's sweaty.

525
00:21:03,721 --> 00:21:06,400
Speaker 1: The next one is you. And still even never ever fight,

526
00:21:06,721 --> 00:21:10,361
Speaker 1: I really feel like there's a difference between fight, argument

527
00:21:10,481 --> 00:21:14,121
Speaker 1: and disagreement and even heat. Sometimes I'm like, oh, things

528
00:21:14,160 --> 00:21:16,120
Speaker 1: are a bit heated at the moment, or we're a

529
00:21:16,120 --> 00:21:19,360
Speaker 1: pretty ikey discussion, but as in fighting and screaming and

530
00:21:19,441 --> 00:21:22,801
Speaker 1: yelling at each other. No, back in the day, yeah

531
00:21:22,921 --> 00:21:25,801
Speaker 1: I had fire off for sure, but no, we don't fight.

532
00:21:26,241 --> 00:21:29,120
Speaker 1: But there can be ikey disagreements or they can just

533
00:21:29,160 --> 00:21:31,760
Speaker 1: feel like heat and just feel that energy of like

534
00:21:31,840 --> 00:21:34,160
Speaker 1: you struggling to like come in the middle.

535
00:21:33,921 --> 00:21:35,360
Speaker 2: And you can't understand each other.

536
00:21:35,721 --> 00:21:38,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, or you're feeling upset or resentful of something. But

537
00:21:38,441 --> 00:21:40,481
Speaker 1: it's just more conversations. I feel like I just need

538
00:21:40,521 --> 00:21:43,880
Speaker 1: time to like process it and chill out and like

539
00:21:44,120 --> 00:21:45,721
Speaker 1: just regather my thoughts and then I can have a

540
00:21:45,761 --> 00:21:48,680
Speaker 1: proper conversation. But I wouldn't use the word fight.

541
00:21:49,360 --> 00:21:50,840
Speaker 2: You never get angry at your kids.

542
00:21:50,880 --> 00:21:52,360
Speaker 1: I just had that one too, did you that you

543
00:21:52,400 --> 00:21:53,920
Speaker 1: don't get angry your kids or husband?

544
00:21:54,321 --> 00:21:57,961
Speaker 2: Yeah? So I had this conversation actually the other day

545
00:21:58,001 --> 00:21:59,720
Speaker 2: because I was chatting to Miline. I said, do you

546
00:21:59,721 --> 00:22:01,801
Speaker 2: feel like like I yell at you? And she says,

547
00:22:02,201 --> 00:22:03,960
Speaker 2: you speak in a different way.

548
00:22:03,961 --> 00:22:04,880
Speaker 1: So it's of different tones.

549
00:22:05,120 --> 00:22:07,080
Speaker 2: Yes. So I definitely do that when I'm disciplaining, when

550
00:22:07,080 --> 00:22:08,840
Speaker 2: I'm geting aunt happy, like hey babe, you're not allowed

551
00:22:08,880 --> 00:22:10,720
Speaker 2: to do that. We can't do this because blah blah blah.

552
00:22:10,761 --> 00:22:12,880
Speaker 2: But I really don't feel like a yell anymore. But

553
00:22:12,921 --> 00:22:15,600
Speaker 2: that's just being well regulated. Like that's literally all that

554
00:22:15,600 --> 00:22:16,561
Speaker 2: comes back to for me.

555
00:22:17,041 --> 00:22:20,801
Speaker 1: I think if any parent is yelling, smacking anything, it's because.

556
00:22:20,521 --> 00:22:22,001
Speaker 2: They're stretched one hundred percent.

557
00:22:22,120 --> 00:22:25,041
Speaker 1: They are not regulated. They are at full capacity. They're

558
00:22:25,041 --> 00:22:27,761
Speaker 1: not handling themselves alone a little human. That's where the

559
00:22:27,761 --> 00:22:30,321
Speaker 1: compassion comes in. I've got a girlfriend who she smacks

560
00:22:30,321 --> 00:22:32,400
Speaker 1: her a little one quite often, and no judgment. I

561
00:22:32,441 --> 00:22:35,160
Speaker 1: don't smack my kids. But all me and Steve see

562
00:22:35,201 --> 00:22:38,480
Speaker 1: is she's stretched. She has no help, she's so tired

563
00:22:38,640 --> 00:22:40,721
Speaker 1: all the time, and I feel so sad for her.

564
00:22:41,001 --> 00:22:43,241
Speaker 1: So no, it's not the way that she wants to parent. Yeah,

565
00:22:43,281 --> 00:22:45,201
Speaker 1: and she feels guilt and shame around it. But I'm

566
00:22:45,241 --> 00:22:47,161
Speaker 1: just like, you're just so stretched, Like it's the only

567
00:22:47,201 --> 00:22:49,641
Speaker 1: way that you feel you can get control and get

568
00:22:49,681 --> 00:22:51,080
Speaker 1: your child to do what you want to do is

569
00:22:51,120 --> 00:22:53,920
Speaker 1: by doing that. Any responds to it now, Yeah, So

570
00:22:54,160 --> 00:22:56,001
Speaker 1: it's no judgment, it's just yeah.

571
00:22:55,921 --> 00:22:57,441
Speaker 2: That's all you've got. The capacity for.

572
00:22:57,481 --> 00:23:01,161
Speaker 1: More parenting is your own nervous and regulation. My more

573
00:23:01,201 --> 00:23:03,080
Speaker 1: regulation should be the better parent you can be.

574
00:23:03,281 --> 00:23:04,481
Speaker 2: I could not agree with that. More.

575
00:23:05,160 --> 00:23:07,921
Speaker 1: You regret the diet culture that you used to endorse?

576
00:23:08,441 --> 00:23:12,761
Speaker 1: How interesting? You know what? No, I don't, because at

577
00:23:12,761 --> 00:23:15,200
Speaker 1: that point in my life, just like I am now,

578
00:23:15,521 --> 00:23:19,801
Speaker 1: I was one hundred percent authentic. My whole career started

579
00:23:19,840 --> 00:23:23,600
Speaker 1: from me sharing what I was doing eating, training, how

580
00:23:23,640 --> 00:23:26,481
Speaker 1: I was living stories and like being on camera was

581
00:23:26,521 --> 00:23:28,160
Speaker 1: not a thing back then. Like I wouldn't say one

582
00:23:28,281 --> 00:23:29,561
Speaker 1: I was one of the first, but I kind of

583
00:23:29,561 --> 00:23:31,240
Speaker 1: feel like I was. I've been sharing my life for

584
00:23:31,281 --> 00:23:34,840
Speaker 1: a long time and I literally just openly shared because

585
00:23:34,880 --> 00:23:36,640
Speaker 1: I was getting asked all the time. That's how it

586
00:23:36,681 --> 00:23:40,240
Speaker 1: all started. And in that season of my life, I

587
00:23:40,241 --> 00:23:41,921
Speaker 1: wanted to look good in a bikini. I was doing

588
00:23:41,961 --> 00:23:44,440
Speaker 1: bikini competitions. I wanted to be the leanest, the strongest.

589
00:23:44,481 --> 00:23:46,201
Speaker 1: I wanted to push my bodies to the limit because

590
00:23:46,241 --> 00:23:48,440
Speaker 1: I was so passionate about that and that I had

591
00:23:48,481 --> 00:23:50,801
Speaker 1: a competitive nature. I grew up doing a lot of sports.

592
00:23:51,160 --> 00:23:53,921
Speaker 1: I loved that season of my life. It's not how

593
00:23:53,921 --> 00:23:56,041
Speaker 1: I live now, But I can't say I live and

594
00:23:56,080 --> 00:23:58,440
Speaker 1: regret for sharing my life and being authentic and honest.

595
00:23:58,681 --> 00:24:00,401
Speaker 1: I wouldn't want to jump on there and say I'm

596
00:24:00,441 --> 00:24:02,921
Speaker 1: eating something or doing something, but doing the complete opposite

597
00:24:02,921 --> 00:24:06,680
Speaker 1: behind closed doors. That's how I was living. And for sure,

598
00:24:06,921 --> 00:24:09,720
Speaker 1: having a platform, you have a sense of responsibility, but

599
00:24:09,761 --> 00:24:12,480
Speaker 1: I also think the consumer and the watcher has a

600
00:24:12,521 --> 00:24:14,640
Speaker 1: responsibility to make sure they are following people that is

601
00:24:14,681 --> 00:24:16,960
Speaker 1: aligned with them. At their stage in their life and

602
00:24:17,001 --> 00:24:19,641
Speaker 1: what feels good for them. You need to take responsibility

603
00:24:19,640 --> 00:24:22,481
Speaker 1: for who you're watching, what you're consuming, and go on

604
00:24:22,481 --> 00:24:24,160
Speaker 1: a journey with your body and see what feels good

605
00:24:24,160 --> 00:24:26,480
Speaker 1: for you. How I train might not feel good for you,

606
00:24:26,961 --> 00:24:28,721
Speaker 1: or your body might not respond like some girls that

607
00:24:28,801 --> 00:24:31,200
Speaker 1: train hit seven days a week. I'm like, amazing, go you.

608
00:24:31,321 --> 00:24:33,521
Speaker 1: My body can't handle that anymore. So I don't follow

609
00:24:33,561 --> 00:24:35,521
Speaker 1: girls at train hit. I follow girls to do pilates

610
00:24:35,561 --> 00:24:39,440
Speaker 1: and yoga and waits. So I don't regret it because

611
00:24:39,441 --> 00:24:41,801
Speaker 1: I just I've always promised myself I'll be authentic and honest,

612
00:24:41,840 --> 00:24:42,761
Speaker 1: and I always have been.

613
00:24:43,321 --> 00:24:45,961
Speaker 2: Yep, you live in a big house and come from

614
00:24:45,961 --> 00:24:50,281
Speaker 2: a wealthy background. I love these ones my parents, honestly,

615
00:24:50,321 --> 00:24:53,241
Speaker 2: they've done such an incredible job. But when we were

616
00:24:53,281 --> 00:24:55,080
Speaker 2: really little, there was all of us living in a

617
00:24:55,080 --> 00:24:57,641
Speaker 2: one bedroom apartment. Then we also lived in the back

618
00:24:57,681 --> 00:25:00,241
Speaker 2: of my nun's house in a caravan. Through stages of

619
00:25:00,241 --> 00:25:01,480
Speaker 2: my life, I think I was about eight when we

620
00:25:01,481 --> 00:25:02,920
Speaker 2: were living with me and I she spoke about this

621
00:25:02,921 --> 00:25:05,360
Speaker 2: before living in caravans and now my mum and dad.

622
00:25:05,360 --> 00:25:08,080
Speaker 2: They have done very well for themselves, but everything that

623
00:25:08,120 --> 00:25:10,921
Speaker 2: I have got is from what I have done. Yeah,

624
00:25:11,120 --> 00:25:12,960
Speaker 2: I've got a couple like that, like saying like your

625
00:25:12,961 --> 00:25:14,880
Speaker 2: parents bought your house, your parents helped you with the renovation,

626
00:25:14,961 --> 00:25:16,761
Speaker 2: or Kurt's parents help with you know, the renovation in

627
00:25:16,801 --> 00:25:18,880
Speaker 2: this Yeah, I mean Kurt worked his butt off as well,

628
00:25:18,880 --> 00:25:19,840
Speaker 2: and he was in a very great.

629
00:25:19,721 --> 00:25:22,240
Speaker 1: And you guys position and then money since you were

630
00:25:22,281 --> 00:25:23,961
Speaker 1: like twenty, you didn't spend all.

631
00:25:23,840 --> 00:25:27,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, well we invested in the house, yeah, block of land.

632
00:25:27,001 --> 00:25:29,400
Speaker 1: And travel, didn't do things. It was all to your home.

633
00:25:29,681 --> 00:25:33,240
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah. So yeah, no, so it definitely did not

634
00:25:33,321 --> 00:25:37,201
Speaker 2: come from when I was younger a wealthy household. But

635
00:25:37,241 --> 00:25:39,160
Speaker 2: my mom and dad have done some smart decisions, and

636
00:25:39,201 --> 00:25:41,321
Speaker 2: so have Kurt's mom and dad. Like they've both done like,

637
00:25:41,360 --> 00:25:44,041
Speaker 2: you know, businesses and been really business savvy, which has

638
00:25:44,041 --> 00:25:45,960
Speaker 2: been amazing. So I think feel like that's probably inspired

639
00:25:46,041 --> 00:25:48,840
Speaker 2: me for sure, seeing them do those things. But you know,

640
00:25:49,041 --> 00:25:51,840
Speaker 2: everything we have done, we have done ourselves.

641
00:25:51,441 --> 00:25:54,281
Speaker 1: So good to be so proud of that. You're very

642
00:25:54,360 --> 00:25:59,640
Speaker 1: sexually out there and into kinky stuff with Steve. Steve

643
00:25:59,801 --> 00:26:01,881
Speaker 1: is such a private person. He would just I don't

644
00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:03,600
Speaker 1: think he listens to all these episodes. He would die

645
00:26:03,721 --> 00:26:06,521
Speaker 1: at how open I am going to tell himself? And

646
00:26:06,561 --> 00:26:09,281
Speaker 1: he's like, you actually share that because he's just so private,

647
00:26:09,321 --> 00:26:10,481
Speaker 1: Like if he could not be on camera for the

648
00:26:10,521 --> 00:26:12,321
Speaker 1: rest of his life, he would choose that. He's a

649
00:26:12,441 --> 00:26:15,001
Speaker 1: very private person. I mean, what do you compare it to,

650
00:26:15,201 --> 00:26:17,600
Speaker 1: like this girl that's commented that, like, what is her

651
00:26:17,721 --> 00:26:21,360
Speaker 1: version in her head of someone very sexual and very kinky.

652
00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:23,481
Speaker 1: I actually asked Steve this though, because when I read

653
00:26:23,481 --> 00:26:25,641
Speaker 1: this out, I said, would you describe me as very

654
00:26:25,681 --> 00:26:28,680
Speaker 1: sexual and kinky? He's like, You're very sexual, but I

655
00:26:28,721 --> 00:26:31,080
Speaker 1: wouldn't say kinky. Yeah, And I was like, what is

656
00:26:31,160 --> 00:26:33,561
Speaker 1: kinky to you? And he's like, oh, I don't know.

657
00:26:33,600 --> 00:26:35,681
Speaker 1: I suppose just doing things really out there and using

658
00:26:35,721 --> 00:26:39,521
Speaker 1: like whips and masks and like collars and choke holds

659
00:26:39,561 --> 00:26:41,041
Speaker 1: and just like kinkier stuff.

660
00:26:41,201 --> 00:26:45,281
Speaker 2: Yeah, a chain Kinky's just doing things that are out

661
00:26:45,281 --> 00:26:46,880
Speaker 2: of the normal for you. I feel like I would

662
00:26:46,880 --> 00:26:48,680
Speaker 2: be the same. Yeah, I feel like I'm not super

663
00:26:48,721 --> 00:26:51,481
Speaker 2: like kinky. I feel like going through phases where I've

664
00:26:51,481 --> 00:26:52,840
Speaker 2: been a bit more experimental.

665
00:26:53,041 --> 00:26:55,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, for sure, but I wouldn't say that. You probably

666
00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:57,720
Speaker 1: wouldn't see me like tied up with the chains with

667
00:26:57,761 --> 00:27:00,640
Speaker 1: a mask on getting whipped. That's not going to do

668
00:27:00,640 --> 00:27:00,960
Speaker 1: it for me.

669
00:27:01,160 --> 00:27:03,360
Speaker 2: No, But what about like tied up and stuff? I

670
00:27:03,360 --> 00:27:06,721
Speaker 2: don't mind himah they like I see some people probably

671
00:27:06,721 --> 00:27:07,281
Speaker 2: think that's kinky.

672
00:27:07,321 --> 00:27:09,080
Speaker 1: When was the last news handcuffs?

673
00:27:09,120 --> 00:27:09,200
Speaker 2: Like?

674
00:27:09,281 --> 00:27:11,681
Speaker 1: Never, long time before kids?

675
00:27:11,721 --> 00:27:14,360
Speaker 2: Probably Okay, maybe we're a little bit more kinky than

676
00:27:16,481 --> 00:27:16,801
Speaker 2: I know.

677
00:27:17,481 --> 00:27:18,360
Speaker 1: It is so different.

678
00:27:18,400 --> 00:27:20,521
Speaker 2: I feel like we're somewhere in the middle, you know

679
00:27:20,561 --> 00:27:23,160
Speaker 2: what I mean. I think so you are always so happy,

680
00:27:23,241 --> 00:27:26,681
Speaker 2: positive and giggly. I'm definitely not always so happy, positive

681
00:27:26,681 --> 00:27:28,920
Speaker 2: and giggly. But I feel like when I'm having those days,

682
00:27:28,921 --> 00:27:31,761
Speaker 2: I really go internal now, so you won't see me

683
00:27:31,840 --> 00:27:34,240
Speaker 2: online as much. I won't even talk to like my

684
00:27:34,321 --> 00:27:36,720
Speaker 2: friends as much because I know that I've got this energy.

685
00:27:36,721 --> 00:27:38,561
Speaker 2: So I'm like just trying to go internal. I know

686
00:27:38,561 --> 00:27:41,720
Speaker 2: that I'm more reactive. I listen to that, but I

687
00:27:41,761 --> 00:27:44,561
Speaker 2: feel like I am happy, positive and giggly most of

688
00:27:44,640 --> 00:27:45,001
Speaker 2: the time.

689
00:27:45,360 --> 00:27:45,920
Speaker 1: Yeah.

690
00:27:46,001 --> 00:27:48,041
Speaker 2: Yeah, how about you just mixed?

691
00:27:48,041 --> 00:27:50,001
Speaker 1: Depends on the day, depends on the season, depends what

692
00:27:50,001 --> 00:27:52,361
Speaker 1: I'm going through. Overall, I try to be a high

693
00:27:52,441 --> 00:27:55,680
Speaker 1: vibration though, like I consciously choose that each day, but

694
00:27:55,721 --> 00:27:57,440
Speaker 1: I also allow that if I'm having a bad day

695
00:27:57,481 --> 00:27:59,720
Speaker 1: or I'm going through something stressful, I fully allow myself

696
00:27:59,721 --> 00:28:01,881
Speaker 1: to sit in that and feel that. I definitely lean

697
00:28:01,921 --> 00:28:04,321
Speaker 1: on people around me more though. Yeah, like I definitely

698
00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:06,880
Speaker 1: lean on my friends, lean on Steve, lean on myself

699
00:28:06,921 --> 00:28:09,681
Speaker 1: as well. But I really love my support systems.

700
00:28:10,721 --> 00:28:13,561
Speaker 2: I'm a journaling Like, when I am feeling those feelings,

701
00:28:13,561 --> 00:28:15,400
Speaker 2: I kind of go more. You probably notice, Yeah, I

702
00:28:15,481 --> 00:28:17,561
Speaker 2: kind of retract and I like go internal.

703
00:28:17,600 --> 00:28:19,481
Speaker 1: Do My journey is sometimes you come to me.

704
00:28:19,801 --> 00:28:21,881
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, sometimes I go to you. But if I'm

705
00:28:21,921 --> 00:28:24,120
Speaker 2: feeling like I'm in a really triggered state, sometimes I

706
00:28:24,120 --> 00:28:25,801
Speaker 2: try to wait till I'm like cool down and then

707
00:28:25,801 --> 00:28:26,321
Speaker 2: I'll go to you.

708
00:28:26,400 --> 00:28:28,440
Speaker 1: It's an important skill to have to be able to

709
00:28:28,481 --> 00:28:31,120
Speaker 1: go internal, like we all should be able to self

710
00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:34,360
Speaker 1: sue like do it ourselves for sure, and I can.

711
00:28:34,441 --> 00:28:36,681
Speaker 1: But I also love the loving support that I feel

712
00:28:36,721 --> 00:28:38,720
Speaker 1: for my friends. And depending on what it is, depends

713
00:28:38,721 --> 00:28:39,641
Speaker 1: on which friend I go to.

714
00:28:39,881 --> 00:28:40,161
Speaker 2: Yeah.

715
00:28:40,281 --> 00:28:42,161
Speaker 1: I always go to Steve for everything. He knows anything

716
00:28:42,201 --> 00:28:44,081
Speaker 1: and everything. But I feel like different friends have different

717
00:28:44,121 --> 00:28:47,081
Speaker 1: advice or different things. So true, So it's nice to

718
00:28:47,081 --> 00:28:50,001
Speaker 1: have that that you nail Taj's lunch box, and you

719
00:28:50,001 --> 00:28:52,881
Speaker 1: don't have to think about what you put in each day.

720
00:28:53,641 --> 00:28:56,401
Speaker 1: You're talking to a healthy mum. I did a video

721
00:28:56,441 --> 00:28:58,121
Speaker 1: on TikTok the other day, and it's not that trend

722
00:28:58,121 --> 00:28:59,960
Speaker 1: where you leave them in the room and they have

723
00:29:00,001 --> 00:29:01,480
Speaker 1: to say to the camera what it's like having you

724
00:29:01,521 --> 00:29:04,201
Speaker 1: as a mum. And at the end he's like, she's healthy.

725
00:29:04,521 --> 00:29:08,441
Speaker 2: So he said about you and that, so he likes

726
00:29:08,441 --> 00:29:09,041
Speaker 2: what he likes.

727
00:29:09,041 --> 00:29:11,281
Speaker 1: He's not a very experimental eater, so it kind of

728
00:29:11,321 --> 00:29:12,200
Speaker 1: makes it easy for me.

729
00:29:12,361 --> 00:29:12,761
Speaker 2: So good.

730
00:29:13,001 --> 00:29:15,241
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like he has this couple of snacks, two serves

731
00:29:15,241 --> 00:29:17,961
Speaker 1: of fruit, he has a sandwich. It is very same,

732
00:29:18,001 --> 00:29:20,041
Speaker 1: same each day. I've tried to like put different things

733
00:29:20,081 --> 00:29:21,681
Speaker 1: in there, but it always comes home not eating. So

734
00:29:21,721 --> 00:29:24,161
Speaker 1: I'd rather him eat and have what he likes. And

735
00:29:24,161 --> 00:29:25,321
Speaker 1: I always say to him, like, do you like what

736
00:29:25,321 --> 00:29:27,521
Speaker 1: mommy's putting your lunch box? I do it, so he

737
00:29:27,561 --> 00:29:29,521
Speaker 1: doesn't do it the time, un less Steves do it.

738
00:29:29,561 --> 00:29:32,561
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, just chucks it in. It's like not

739
00:29:32,641 --> 00:29:34,721
Speaker 1: cut up, the apple's not peeled. I'm like, no, it's

740
00:29:34,721 --> 00:29:35,240
Speaker 1: done like this.

741
00:29:35,601 --> 00:29:38,161
Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean it's a bit like that too, Like

742
00:29:38,201 --> 00:29:40,521
Speaker 2: she will keep her lunch box pretty well the same. Yeah,

743
00:29:40,681 --> 00:29:42,721
Speaker 2: creatures have habit, even like carrote she's a full carrot

744
00:29:42,721 --> 00:29:45,041
Speaker 2: every day. Yeah, Like it's just always her, like things

745
00:29:45,801 --> 00:29:47,721
Speaker 2: make an apple and like sometimes she might experiment and

746
00:29:47,761 --> 00:29:49,441
Speaker 2: have like a little bit of apple for a while, but.

747
00:29:49,361 --> 00:29:50,440
Speaker 1: Then back to the carriage.

748
00:29:50,481 --> 00:29:51,281
Speaker 2: So funny. Yeah.

749
00:29:51,361 --> 00:29:53,801
Speaker 1: Yeah, creatures of habit. It's easier for you as a

750
00:29:53,881 --> 00:29:55,801
Speaker 1: mom too, Like I just lay out all the night before,

751
00:29:56,001 --> 00:29:57,240
Speaker 1: so in the morning sort of chop it up and

752
00:29:57,241 --> 00:29:59,001
Speaker 1: do it. I don't have to think so much. Easy

753
00:29:59,041 --> 00:30:00,641
Speaker 1: like having a uniform, you have to think just pop

754
00:30:00,721 --> 00:30:01,881
Speaker 1: it on. Yeah, that's brain.

755
00:30:02,401 --> 00:30:05,200
Speaker 2: Our three kids are all like different things. Reagan a

756
00:30:05,401 --> 00:30:08,881
Speaker 2: challenge when she goes to school. She's our fussy eater.

757
00:30:09,961 --> 00:30:12,081
Speaker 2: One thing though she loves is like you know those rice crackers,

758
00:30:12,081 --> 00:30:15,281
Speaker 2: like the round rice crackers. Yes, oh, so we put

759
00:30:15,321 --> 00:30:17,921
Speaker 2: them in. She just changes all the time. Like one

760
00:30:17,921 --> 00:30:20,161
Speaker 2: week she'll just eat a whole punt of strawberries and like,

761
00:30:20,161 --> 00:30:22,480
Speaker 2: oh my gosh, amazing, chuck all the strawberries in this,

762
00:30:22,601 --> 00:30:24,281
Speaker 2: that the other thing, And then the next week not

763
00:30:24,361 --> 00:30:26,401
Speaker 2: one eating and I'm like, oh my gosh, Like I

764
00:30:26,401 --> 00:30:30,801
Speaker 2: can't keep up with her eating. Yes, the struggle, the

765
00:30:30,841 --> 00:30:34,401
Speaker 2: lunch struggle. You and Kurt never fight. You're very easy going,

766
00:30:34,481 --> 00:30:35,801
Speaker 2: kind of sim toils and Steve, I feel like we

767
00:30:35,841 --> 00:30:40,001
Speaker 2: definitely have disagreements, have disagreements things are we butt heads

768
00:30:40,001 --> 00:30:41,601
Speaker 2: on things we need to chat about.

769
00:30:41,761 --> 00:30:45,441
Speaker 1: As you're changing evolving too, like yeah, new conversations arise.

770
00:30:45,801 --> 00:30:48,921
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I feel like we can really communicate with

771
00:30:48,961 --> 00:30:51,281
Speaker 2: each other calmly. Yeah, which is nice.

772
00:30:51,401 --> 00:30:55,681
Speaker 1: You don't return your shopping trolley, you know what. I'm

773
00:30:55,721 --> 00:30:57,601
Speaker 1: fifty to fifty here and I will by hand up

774
00:30:57,641 --> 00:31:01,281
Speaker 1: and say guilty if I'm by myself always, I'm with

775
00:31:01,321 --> 00:31:04,361
Speaker 1: Steve always, if I've just got me and the kids.

776
00:31:04,801 --> 00:31:08,641
Speaker 1: So times not because if she's being chaotic and I'm

777
00:31:08,641 --> 00:31:10,321
Speaker 1: like put all the groceries and shoes on my hip

778
00:31:10,561 --> 00:31:12,761
Speaker 1: and there's heaps are traffic and I can't steer the trolley,

779
00:31:12,761 --> 00:31:14,841
Speaker 1: probably I've either got to leave from the car by myself,

780
00:31:14,841 --> 00:31:15,441
Speaker 1: which I'm not doing.

781
00:31:15,561 --> 00:31:17,720
Speaker 2: I put it in the trolley. See, I put our

782
00:31:17,801 --> 00:31:19,401
Speaker 2: kids in the trolley, like I put them all in

783
00:31:19,441 --> 00:31:19,761
Speaker 2: the trolley.

784
00:31:20,961 --> 00:31:25,161
Speaker 1: There's way carry me. So if I'm carrying her across

785
00:31:25,161 --> 00:31:27,480
Speaker 1: the road whilst trying to like navigate a trolley to

786
00:31:27,521 --> 00:31:29,601
Speaker 1: get to the trolley spot. I won't risk it because

787
00:31:29,961 --> 00:31:32,041
Speaker 1: it's just too dangerous and if not ever drop of

788
00:31:32,081 --> 00:31:34,240
Speaker 1: water if she was squirming and then ran on the road, like,

789
00:31:34,641 --> 00:31:36,081
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm not risking that just to put a

790
00:31:36,081 --> 00:31:39,041
Speaker 1: trolley away. If I'm with Steven by myself always. If

791
00:31:39,081 --> 00:31:41,121
Speaker 1: I'm with Tyler and she's been difficult.

792
00:31:41,161 --> 00:31:43,321
Speaker 2: Kurt's fifty to fifty as well, kurts like, sometimes it will,

793
00:31:43,361 --> 00:31:45,681
Speaker 2: sometimes won't. I'm a goodie two issues. That's me. He

794
00:31:45,761 --> 00:31:47,960
Speaker 2: doesn't sit in there and make it sits ya so

795
00:31:48,081 --> 00:31:49,521
Speaker 2: like it's actually more annoying if I have to pull

796
00:31:49,561 --> 00:31:51,440
Speaker 2: her out, so I may just empty it.

797
00:31:51,761 --> 00:31:56,081
Speaker 1: Why she won't sit in there? Yeah, just sit there girlfriend. Yeah,

798
00:31:56,521 --> 00:31:58,361
Speaker 1: she's like Tyler Walk Tyler Walk.

799
00:31:58,561 --> 00:32:00,681
Speaker 2: Oh. I remember that phase though, where they just always

800
00:32:00,681 --> 00:32:03,201
Speaker 2: want to be out about amongst it.

801
00:32:03,561 --> 00:32:06,681
Speaker 1: Someone said totally not that it's not true. However, from

802
00:32:06,801 --> 00:32:10,481
Speaker 1: outside you're always so put together in mum life and business, etc.

803
00:32:11,081 --> 00:32:15,001
Speaker 1: That's so interesting because I definitely don't portray that online,

804
00:32:15,161 --> 00:32:17,121
Speaker 1: Like I'm one of the people that doesn't use filters.

805
00:32:17,161 --> 00:32:20,041
Speaker 1: I'll show it without makeup. I'm never jumping on to

806
00:32:20,041 --> 00:32:23,161
Speaker 1: be perfect. I'm quite routined and structured though, Like I

807
00:32:23,161 --> 00:32:24,761
Speaker 1: feel like I have my things in place and have

808
00:32:24,801 --> 00:32:26,561
Speaker 1: my things booked in because I know what I enjoy,

809
00:32:26,601 --> 00:32:28,121
Speaker 1: I know what I value, and I make sure that

810
00:32:28,121 --> 00:32:31,001
Speaker 1: that happens. But yeah, put together all the time, I

811
00:32:31,001 --> 00:32:31,521
Speaker 1: don't think so.

812
00:32:32,201 --> 00:32:34,841
Speaker 2: I actually had one here too. Can't leave your house

813
00:32:34,881 --> 00:32:39,561
Speaker 2: without makeup? Comfy down bottom, professional up top. Well, I

814
00:32:39,601 --> 00:32:41,161
Speaker 2: can leave my house that makeup, and I've done it

815
00:32:41,201 --> 00:32:42,881
Speaker 2: plenty of times, like running down to calls at night

816
00:32:42,921 --> 00:32:45,561
Speaker 2: when you need milk and bread or you know, morning walks.

817
00:32:45,641 --> 00:32:48,001
Speaker 2: I'll go down and do no makeup for a morning walk.

818
00:32:48,241 --> 00:32:52,000
Speaker 2: But I do love having my makeup done. I just

819
00:32:52,161 --> 00:32:55,241
Speaker 2: find it so relaxing. I listen to an audio book

820
00:32:55,521 --> 00:32:58,321
Speaker 2: or a podcast makes me feel amazing for the rest

821
00:32:58,321 --> 00:32:59,721
Speaker 2: of the day. It's like if I take ten minutes

822
00:32:59,721 --> 00:33:01,561
Speaker 2: to just do my makeup in the morning, I feel

823
00:33:01,641 --> 00:33:04,161
Speaker 2: so much more ready for my day. I'm more productive,

824
00:33:04,321 --> 00:33:06,801
Speaker 2: I get more done, And yeah, I do like being

825
00:33:06,801 --> 00:33:08,361
Speaker 2: comfy down bottom, Like when it comes to the end

826
00:33:08,361 --> 00:33:10,321
Speaker 2: of the day, my TRACKI docs and my ugs are me.

827
00:33:10,321 --> 00:33:12,441
Speaker 1: And you were the same, like early shower dressing gown,

828
00:33:12,521 --> 00:33:15,401
Speaker 1: Oh things was better? Someone said you were the mean

829
00:33:15,401 --> 00:33:17,720
Speaker 1: girl at school and Jadan was actually reading this yesterday.

830
00:33:17,721 --> 00:33:19,881
Speaker 1: I popped in to see her. She was like, oh

831
00:33:19,921 --> 00:33:21,721
Speaker 1: my god, these people do not know you at all.

832
00:33:22,041 --> 00:33:23,601
Speaker 1: I was the opposite. I was the girl that was

833
00:33:23,641 --> 00:33:26,281
Speaker 1: friends with everyone. I was the ugly duckling. I was

834
00:33:26,321 --> 00:33:29,720
Speaker 1: not like the popular, attractive, cool girl, but I was

835
00:33:29,761 --> 00:33:31,921
Speaker 1: friends with everyone. I was far from the mean girl.

836
00:33:32,361 --> 00:33:35,401
Speaker 1: I like. I honestly had like my sporty crew, my

837
00:33:35,481 --> 00:33:38,201
Speaker 1: popular crew, my nerdy crew, the boys like I would

838
00:33:38,321 --> 00:33:40,281
Speaker 1: like pop around and see everyone. I was super social,

839
00:33:40,761 --> 00:33:42,761
Speaker 1: but I was definitely not a mean girl. I was

840
00:33:42,801 --> 00:33:43,561
Speaker 1: everyone's friend.

841
00:33:44,201 --> 00:33:46,200
Speaker 2: You are a go getter. Nothing can stand in your

842
00:33:46,241 --> 00:33:48,161
Speaker 2: way once you set your mind to whatever you want

843
00:33:48,201 --> 00:33:51,681
Speaker 2: to achieve. I feel like fifty to fifty definitely, if

844
00:33:51,681 --> 00:33:53,521
Speaker 2: I really want to do something, I will make it

845
00:33:53,561 --> 00:33:55,681
Speaker 2: happen and I will do it. But then also, I

846
00:33:55,681 --> 00:33:57,881
Speaker 2: feel like with this more slow living, I'm pulling back

847
00:33:57,921 --> 00:33:59,480
Speaker 2: a bit more because we're trying to live a bit

848
00:33:59,521 --> 00:34:01,161
Speaker 2: more intentional and a bit more slow. So I'm not

849
00:34:01,241 --> 00:34:02,641
Speaker 2: going for as many things.

850
00:34:02,761 --> 00:34:03,041
Speaker 1: Yeah.

851
00:34:03,201 --> 00:34:05,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, so it's only when it's really well aligned. I

852
00:34:05,201 --> 00:34:07,361
Speaker 2: feel like if something's really well aligned, then yeah, I

853
00:34:07,401 --> 00:34:10,601
Speaker 2: feel like I will figure it out. Yeah, nice.

854
00:34:10,761 --> 00:34:12,681
Speaker 1: Someone said, you miss your long, bitchy blonde hair. I

855
00:34:12,681 --> 00:34:15,001
Speaker 1: don't miss the blonde, not one bit. I love my

856
00:34:15,081 --> 00:34:17,361
Speaker 1: darker hair. I love it too, I go in and out.

857
00:34:17,361 --> 00:34:20,361
Speaker 1: I think I like my hair shorter when it's out.

858
00:34:20,761 --> 00:34:24,161
Speaker 1: But styling short hair is really hard. Even I put

859
00:34:24,201 --> 00:34:25,801
Speaker 1: it in a clip, it's got this spout thing at

860
00:34:25,801 --> 00:34:28,641
Speaker 1: the top. It just is not cute. So it's easier

861
00:34:28,681 --> 00:34:31,480
Speaker 1: to style longer hair, like just put in a pony

862
00:34:31,481 --> 00:34:33,721
Speaker 1: and it looks nice. So I don't know. I'm really

863
00:34:33,721 --> 00:34:35,561
Speaker 1: in between if I want to grow shorter or grow it.

864
00:34:35,641 --> 00:34:37,480
Speaker 2: I actually really like the length it is right now.

865
00:34:37,481 --> 00:34:39,001
Speaker 1: I feel like it's awkward at the moment. Yeah, that

866
00:34:39,121 --> 00:34:41,681
Speaker 1: in between ish, but it's so healthy and so healthy.

867
00:34:41,721 --> 00:34:44,001
Speaker 1: I think I will grow it while it's so healthy.

868
00:34:44,001 --> 00:34:45,921
Speaker 1: If it ever gets thin and ratty, I'll just cut

869
00:34:45,921 --> 00:34:46,281
Speaker 1: it again.

870
00:34:46,601 --> 00:34:50,001
Speaker 2: When you have long hair, it's so much easier to do,

871
00:34:50,121 --> 00:34:51,561
Speaker 2: Like you put it in a pony and it looks

872
00:34:51,561 --> 00:34:53,361
Speaker 2: so cute, looks so done.

873
00:34:53,761 --> 00:34:55,841
Speaker 1: Someone said you don't like making new friends and want

874
00:34:55,841 --> 00:34:59,001
Speaker 1: to keep your friend's circle as is a couple of

875
00:34:59,041 --> 00:35:01,201
Speaker 1: months ago, I thought about this, and I'm very content

876
00:35:01,761 --> 00:35:03,841
Speaker 1: with my friendship groups and I don't see them as

877
00:35:03,881 --> 00:35:05,561
Speaker 1: much as what I would like to. I would love

878
00:35:05,561 --> 00:35:08,481
Speaker 1: to see my friends more. But then Tiana came along

879
00:35:08,881 --> 00:35:11,801
Speaker 1: and I was like, oh cool, but I felt like

880
00:35:11,841 --> 00:35:14,561
Speaker 1: a big pool towards her. I just really feel into energy,

881
00:35:14,801 --> 00:35:16,241
Speaker 1: Like I don't think I just hang out with people

882
00:35:16,241 --> 00:35:18,721
Speaker 1: for the sake of hanging out with them, because anytime

883
00:35:18,761 --> 00:35:20,401
Speaker 1: I'm not with my family, it has to be really

884
00:35:20,401 --> 00:35:22,201
Speaker 1: worth it because I want most of my time to

885
00:35:22,201 --> 00:35:22,881
Speaker 1: be with my family.

886
00:35:23,161 --> 00:35:23,561
Speaker 2: Yeah.

887
00:35:23,601 --> 00:35:26,841
Speaker 1: So that's why I just really like my core girlyfriends

888
00:35:26,841 --> 00:35:28,401
Speaker 1: that I have really strong bonds with.

889
00:35:28,601 --> 00:35:28,801
Speaker 2: Yeah.

890
00:35:29,201 --> 00:35:33,081
Speaker 1: Yes, someone said you seem so balanced with a lot

891
00:35:33,121 --> 00:35:35,361
Speaker 1: on your plate, but you always bring good vibes even

892
00:35:35,441 --> 00:35:39,361
Speaker 1: in the heat, I think, so. Yeah, really try definitely

893
00:35:39,401 --> 00:35:41,761
Speaker 1: be moments I'm sure where I haven't been a good vibe,

894
00:35:42,401 --> 00:35:44,001
Speaker 1: but overall I really try to.

895
00:35:44,201 --> 00:35:44,841
Speaker 2: You definitely do.

896
00:35:44,961 --> 00:35:46,761
Speaker 1: I think I get better and better as I get older.

897
00:35:47,121 --> 00:35:48,841
Speaker 1: A few years ago, not so much, but I think

898
00:35:48,841 --> 00:35:49,601
Speaker 1: I'm getting.

899
00:35:49,321 --> 00:35:50,281
Speaker 2: Better as I get older.

900
00:35:50,401 --> 00:35:52,561
Speaker 1: I'll always intentionally try and bring a good vibe.

901
00:35:52,841 --> 00:35:53,961
Speaker 2: Yeah.

902
00:35:54,041 --> 00:35:57,041
Speaker 1: You and Kiara feel guilty about not showing up online daily.

903
00:35:57,401 --> 00:36:00,561
Speaker 2: I definitely feel like for a whole day I would

904
00:36:00,641 --> 00:36:04,321
Speaker 2: rather show up, especially being in our business. I think,

905
00:36:04,321 --> 00:36:05,881
Speaker 2: you know, like selling products and stuff like that, you

906
00:36:05,921 --> 00:36:09,081
Speaker 2: want to also give value value, so you want to

907
00:36:09,081 --> 00:36:10,961
Speaker 2: be on there and also you know, like have a

908
00:36:10,961 --> 00:36:12,841
Speaker 2: few days where you just like catching up, hanging out

909
00:36:12,921 --> 00:36:14,641
Speaker 2: and you know, keeping that connection.

910
00:36:14,841 --> 00:36:17,361
Speaker 1: I guess yeah, I feel like since Eden, you and

911
00:36:17,401 --> 00:36:19,721
Speaker 1: I haven't been on as much. Yeah, and now I

912
00:36:19,721 --> 00:36:22,041
Speaker 1: don't have baseline. I've just been trying to just be

913
00:36:22,121 --> 00:36:25,001
Speaker 1: more present in my everyday life. But it is a

914
00:36:25,001 --> 00:36:27,201
Speaker 1: fine balance of like, I love the community, I love

915
00:36:27,241 --> 00:36:30,961
Speaker 1: staying connected, I love sharing, But I think, yeah, lesson

916
00:36:31,001 --> 00:36:33,681
Speaker 1: is feeling nicer for me. Yeah, that's yeah nice because

917
00:36:33,721 --> 00:36:36,001
Speaker 1: I definitely used to feel guilty for not being online,

918
00:36:36,681 --> 00:36:38,401
Speaker 1: and sometimes if I haven't been on in two days,

919
00:36:38,441 --> 00:36:42,281
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, it feels weird. But I don't feel

920
00:36:42,281 --> 00:36:43,721
Speaker 1: that guilt anymore like I used to.

921
00:36:44,521 --> 00:36:47,161
Speaker 2: It's not as much pressure. Maybe I'd just.

922
00:36:47,161 --> 00:36:49,801
Speaker 1: Rather show up more intentionally when I've got value to give. Yeah,

923
00:36:49,881 --> 00:36:51,401
Speaker 1: or I feel like having a chat even it could

924
00:36:51,401 --> 00:36:52,881
Speaker 1: just be like something to give someone a lot. I

925
00:36:52,881 --> 00:36:56,801
Speaker 1: feel like a funny experience, you know, relatable. Yeah, Yeah,

926
00:36:56,841 --> 00:36:58,841
Speaker 1: you don't eat bad foods and I don't know how

927
00:36:58,921 --> 00:37:03,001
Speaker 1: you don't, but go you I'm very eighty twenty. Like,

928
00:37:03,041 --> 00:37:05,681
Speaker 1: I definitely treat myself. But what do you considered bad?

929
00:37:05,721 --> 00:37:08,281
Speaker 1: Like I don't do recreational drugs. I don't eat a

930
00:37:08,321 --> 00:37:11,001
Speaker 1: lot of take away. I don't drink our whole. I

931
00:37:11,001 --> 00:37:13,361
Speaker 1: don't eat a lot of processed foods. But like I

932
00:37:13,401 --> 00:37:15,601
Speaker 1: love having an ice cream. I love going out for

933
00:37:15,641 --> 00:37:18,921
Speaker 1: dinners which is probably cooked and seed oils and has

934
00:37:19,081 --> 00:37:22,441
Speaker 1: MSG in it when I eat you know, modernas or whatever. Overall,

935
00:37:22,521 --> 00:37:26,041
Speaker 1: my diet is like pretty consistently, very well balanced, yeah,

936
00:37:26,081 --> 00:37:28,921
Speaker 1: because I feel better. Yeah, but if anything, I'll get

937
00:37:28,921 --> 00:37:31,561
Speaker 1: into like a habit of having lollies. Yeah, like too

938
00:37:31,561 --> 00:37:35,001
Speaker 1: many lollies. Yeah, it's totally my downfall. Yeah, oh my god.

939
00:37:35,001 --> 00:37:40,361
Speaker 1: These chips though the gusmind gyg gyg. So I have

940
00:37:40,481 --> 00:37:43,081
Speaker 1: only recently had these chippies. I went up and visitors

941
00:37:43,161 --> 00:37:44,841
Speaker 1: ches just for like twenty four hours. She lives at

942
00:37:44,841 --> 00:37:47,001
Speaker 1: the Sunny Coast. We had a little boy and we're like, oh,

943
00:37:47,001 --> 00:37:48,481
Speaker 1: what do we do for dinner? And we just throw

944
00:37:48,521 --> 00:37:49,841
Speaker 1: past it. She's like, oh, do you want to get that?

945
00:37:49,881 --> 00:37:51,641
Speaker 1: And I was like, oh, it's not the same as dembreros,

946
00:37:51,681 --> 00:37:53,961
Speaker 1: but yeah, I'd give it a go. Got the chippies.

947
00:37:54,481 --> 00:37:57,681
Speaker 1: Oh my god, they are the yummiest hot chips I

948
00:37:57,721 --> 00:37:59,841
Speaker 1: have ever had in my whole entire life.

949
00:37:59,921 --> 00:38:01,161
Speaker 2: They are incredible.

950
00:38:01,281 --> 00:38:05,081
Speaker 1: So I've been having them quite regularly lately. Yeah, I

951
00:38:06,201 --> 00:38:07,761
Speaker 1: could have them every day. They're so good.

952
00:38:07,801 --> 00:38:11,081
Speaker 2: They're so delicious, so so good. They's like Kurt's are

953
00:38:11,201 --> 00:38:14,681
Speaker 2: chip fiend, like he's like being anything his favorite.

954
00:38:14,361 --> 00:38:16,281
Speaker 1: So like a little bit of a kick. But they're

955
00:38:16,281 --> 00:38:17,361
Speaker 1: sweet and they're salty.

956
00:38:17,441 --> 00:38:20,281
Speaker 2: It's beautiful. Whatever the combination is, they've nailed it.

957
00:38:20,281 --> 00:38:23,241
Speaker 1: Absolutely nailed. I have tried them. I recommend you don't

958
00:38:23,281 --> 00:38:24,161
Speaker 1: because you become a dick.

959
00:38:24,641 --> 00:38:26,121
Speaker 2: It's so true.

960
00:38:26,761 --> 00:38:29,521
Speaker 1: You have a live in nanny? No, oh my god,

961
00:38:29,681 --> 00:38:32,641
Speaker 1: so funny, so funny. Never have had a live in nanny? No,

962
00:38:32,681 --> 00:38:34,561
Speaker 1: you haven't nanny, but not a live in She has

963
00:38:34,561 --> 00:38:36,441
Speaker 1: her hours and then she goes home and lives her life.

964
00:38:36,521 --> 00:38:36,761
Speaker 2: Yeah.

965
00:38:37,521 --> 00:38:39,801
Speaker 1: I don't know how i'd feel about a living nanny

966
00:38:40,201 --> 00:38:41,921
Speaker 1: just being in your space all the time.

967
00:38:42,121 --> 00:38:42,721
Speaker 2: Yes, I don't know.

968
00:38:42,761 --> 00:38:45,881
Speaker 1: I just love my family time. Yeah, but yeah we

969
00:38:45,961 --> 00:38:48,881
Speaker 1: have help because Tyler doesn't go to daycare. But no,

970
00:38:48,881 --> 00:38:50,521
Speaker 1: no living nanny. I don't know anyone that has a

971
00:38:50,521 --> 00:38:51,041
Speaker 1: live in nanny.

972
00:38:51,121 --> 00:38:52,561
Speaker 2: Neither do I no no.

973
00:38:53,161 --> 00:38:57,641
Speaker 1: PS. Fine people with green flags. Green flag people celebrate

974
00:38:57,641 --> 00:39:00,641
Speaker 1: your wins. They remember the small things about you. They

975
00:39:00,681 --> 00:39:04,440
Speaker 1: respect your boundaries. You feel energized after seeing them. They

976
00:39:04,521 --> 00:39:07,441
Speaker 1: listen with out being defensive. They allow you to be

977
00:39:07,521 --> 00:39:10,881
Speaker 1: your full self. They make you feel safe, you don't

978
00:39:10,921 --> 00:39:12,881
Speaker 1: have to watch what you say, and they support and

979
00:39:12,961 --> 00:39:14,441
Speaker 1: encourage all of your goals.

980
00:39:15,041 --> 00:39:20,281
Speaker 2: Oh that's so nice. Ps. Things you do have your words,

981
00:39:20,841 --> 00:39:24,801
Speaker 2: the power to grow, the capacity to care, the ability

982
00:39:24,841 --> 00:39:28,641
Speaker 2: to change, the insight to self reflect, the integrity to

983
00:39:28,641 --> 00:39:31,521
Speaker 2: stay true to yourself, the ability to go at your

984
00:39:31,521 --> 00:39:34,480
Speaker 2: own pace, the clarity to do what's best for you,

985
00:39:34,921 --> 00:39:38,641
Speaker 2: the kindness to uplift yourself, the ability to connect with others,

986
00:39:38,841 --> 00:39:40,841
Speaker 2: the space to create the life you want.

987
00:39:41,081 --> 00:39:44,480
Speaker 1: Oh it's beautiful, so nice. Well thanks for joining us, guys.

988
00:39:44,561 --> 00:39:46,521
Speaker 2: Yeah, we'll see you on Wednesday. Hi,