1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:01,640 Speaker 1: Coming up on relatables. 2 00:00:02,160 --> 00:00:04,840 Speaker 2: Well, luckily he only told them about the time I 3 00:00:04,880 --> 00:00:06,680 Speaker 2: ship myself on the mountains, not. 4 00:00:06,760 --> 00:00:10,680 Speaker 3: In the woods, and I told them my bride. 5 00:00:11,840 --> 00:00:29,120 Speaker 4: He was like, yeah, oh, Relatable. 6 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:26,800 Speaker 1: Relatables podcast. 7 00:00:26,840 --> 00:00:30,760 Speaker 5: It's hosted by myself, Jake Craig aka Daddy, and my 8 00:00:30,840 --> 00:00:35,760 Speaker 5: partnering crime, Oddie Clark aka Mummy. And Oddie is Mummy 9 00:00:35,800 --> 00:00:37,559 Speaker 5: because he's the one you go to when you want to. 10 00:00:37,520 --> 00:00:40,480 Speaker 1: Talk about your feelings, and Jake is Daddy because here's 11 00:00:40,479 --> 00:00:42,280 Speaker 1: the one you go to because you can't say no 12 00:00:42,400 --> 00:00:43,159 Speaker 1: to the baddies. 13 00:00:43,360 --> 00:00:45,919 Speaker 5: And you guys listening, ah, our baddies. 14 00:00:46,080 --> 00:00:48,839 Speaker 1: Welcome, welcome, welcome back, Welcome back, guys. We don't want to. 15 00:00:48,840 --> 00:00:52,640 Speaker 5: Waste any time when this start of this episode. Okay, 16 00:00:52,840 --> 00:00:54,960 Speaker 5: we have a confession session for you, and it is 17 00:00:55,000 --> 00:00:58,760 Speaker 5: a hot contender for the worst when you've got to 18 00:00:58,760 --> 00:00:59,640 Speaker 5: go or is it best? 19 00:01:00,040 --> 00:01:01,959 Speaker 1: Worst or best? I don't know the thing that you. 20 00:01:01,880 --> 00:01:03,680 Speaker 5: Would want to happen to you the absolute least in 21 00:01:03,680 --> 00:01:05,040 Speaker 5: the whole wide world when you got to go, you 22 00:01:05,120 --> 00:01:05,400 Speaker 5: got to go. 23 00:01:05,440 --> 00:01:08,160 Speaker 1: Confession session and me and Jake disagree at the end, 24 00:01:09,560 --> 00:01:12,160 Speaker 1: so we know what happens. We were calling this after 25 00:01:12,280 --> 00:01:16,119 Speaker 1: it's kind of it's juicy. I think, although we disagreed, 26 00:01:16,480 --> 00:01:18,160 Speaker 1: this might be my favorite caller. 27 00:01:18,280 --> 00:01:24,560 Speaker 5: Oh, you guys will see why. Strong accent, but very 28 00:01:24,760 --> 00:01:28,000 Speaker 5: very well spoken. You can understand it every word. 29 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:30,520 Speaker 1: Except for one word. But we get it. We get 30 00:01:30,520 --> 00:01:33,320 Speaker 1: that definition on it. Woozy no, I think, she said. 31 00:01:36,760 --> 00:01:43,479 Speaker 5: Anyways in joy, Hello and welcome to Confession Sessions. First 32 00:01:43,480 --> 00:01:45,959 Speaker 5: things first, would you like to be anonymous? 33 00:01:47,920 --> 00:01:53,200 Speaker 1: Okay? All right, that's okay, that's okay. That means it's 34 00:01:53,200 --> 00:01:56,760 Speaker 1: a good story. That's that's all I'm hearing. So is 35 00:01:56,800 --> 00:01:58,080 Speaker 1: there a name that you've always wanted to. 36 00:01:58,080 --> 00:02:01,000 Speaker 5: Be called that obviously isn't your name? Or would you 37 00:02:01,040 --> 00:02:02,080 Speaker 5: like us to choose one for you? 38 00:02:03,320 --> 00:02:03,520 Speaker 2: Yong? 39 00:02:03,720 --> 00:02:08,400 Speaker 1: Choose one? Okay, we're here. Yeah. We had someone say 40 00:02:08,480 --> 00:02:10,440 Speaker 1: y'all before, and we love it. We need put that 41 00:02:10,520 --> 00:02:15,680 Speaker 1: in our vocabulary. Yo, okay, okay, what's like is it? 42 00:02:15,720 --> 00:02:21,160 Speaker 1: What's the twang? What's a twangy name name? Yeah? I'm 43 00:02:21,200 --> 00:02:23,480 Speaker 1: kind of feeling just like an Emma. I was thinking Ariella. 44 00:02:23,560 --> 00:02:28,120 Speaker 1: Which do you like? Ariella? Yeah? Ship? What do you 45 00:02:28,160 --> 00:02:28,720 Speaker 1: think is better? 46 00:02:29,600 --> 00:02:30,080 Speaker 3: I don't know? 47 00:02:32,560 --> 00:02:35,280 Speaker 1: Okay, we'll go with Ariel. Ariella. You have it? 48 00:02:35,360 --> 00:02:38,960 Speaker 5: When you gotta go, you gotta go, and you wrote 49 00:02:39,040 --> 00:02:42,480 Speaker 5: in saying that you were given a nudge to write 50 00:02:42,480 --> 00:02:47,840 Speaker 5: it in that it can trump the Manhattan Bridge story. 51 00:02:48,280 --> 00:02:51,200 Speaker 5: So I want you to go from the very tippy 52 00:02:51,240 --> 00:02:54,200 Speaker 5: top and make your way down with all the details 53 00:02:54,240 --> 00:02:56,400 Speaker 5: to the very end, and we are going to listen 54 00:02:56,760 --> 00:03:01,720 Speaker 5: and probably react a bit and yeah, just take it away. 55 00:03:02,240 --> 00:03:05,120 Speaker 2: Oh god, Okay. So I never thought I'd be sharing 56 00:03:05,160 --> 00:03:13,480 Speaker 2: this horrifying experience, but here we are. So this happened 57 00:03:13,480 --> 00:03:17,160 Speaker 2: a little over three years ago. I was sixteen, and 58 00:03:17,200 --> 00:03:19,359 Speaker 2: I had a little bit of anxiety, like I never 59 00:03:19,360 --> 00:03:23,639 Speaker 2: went on trips with strangers fair but my dad had 60 00:03:23,639 --> 00:03:26,800 Speaker 2: a friend in town and the friend was like, oh, 61 00:03:26,880 --> 00:03:29,519 Speaker 2: we have an extra seat on this little travel bus 62 00:03:29,520 --> 00:03:34,760 Speaker 2: that they bought to go on Skia trips. And my 63 00:03:34,840 --> 00:03:37,000 Speaker 2: dad was like, oh, my daughter would love. 64 00:03:36,920 --> 00:03:40,240 Speaker 1: To gos awesome. Just make a decision for you. 65 00:03:42,200 --> 00:03:44,200 Speaker 2: And it was on a Wednesday and they were leaving 66 00:03:44,200 --> 00:03:44,800 Speaker 2: on Friday. 67 00:03:45,400 --> 00:03:45,720 Speaker 1: Nice. 68 00:03:46,120 --> 00:03:48,960 Speaker 2: So my dad was like, pack your bags, you're going. 69 00:03:50,560 --> 00:03:55,200 Speaker 1: I am covering coming from Australians. 70 00:03:55,280 --> 00:04:00,160 Speaker 5: This is Australians say Wednesday and that that was very 71 00:04:00,480 --> 00:04:01,640 Speaker 5: that was not foreign to us. 72 00:04:03,960 --> 00:04:06,280 Speaker 2: So I was already dreading it, but I just like 73 00:04:06,480 --> 00:04:08,720 Speaker 2: was like, oh, well, it's fine, we'll make the best 74 00:04:08,720 --> 00:04:13,240 Speaker 2: of it. So I am crammed onto this little bus 75 00:04:13,240 --> 00:04:18,440 Speaker 2: with all these people i'd met like three times, and 76 00:04:18,640 --> 00:04:20,800 Speaker 2: we finally get there and my dad was like, oh, 77 00:04:20,880 --> 00:04:22,840 Speaker 2: it'll be fine. You'll have your own room and your 78 00:04:22,880 --> 00:04:24,360 Speaker 2: own bathroom and it'll be great. 79 00:04:25,240 --> 00:04:25,600 Speaker 1: Sweet. 80 00:04:26,760 --> 00:04:30,400 Speaker 2: We get to the cabin. It is a two bedroom, 81 00:04:30,560 --> 00:04:31,599 Speaker 2: one bathroom cabin. 82 00:04:32,000 --> 00:04:32,960 Speaker 1: How many people is the. 83 00:04:37,320 --> 00:04:37,599 Speaker 4: Nine? 84 00:04:38,080 --> 00:04:44,080 Speaker 1: One? All right? So yeah, okay, it sounds like your 85 00:04:44,120 --> 00:04:45,679 Speaker 1: own room is a bit of fu fetched. 86 00:04:46,760 --> 00:04:51,040 Speaker 2: No, So the two married couples took the rooms yep, 87 00:04:51,279 --> 00:04:55,240 Speaker 2: and left two of the daughters on a pullout couch. 88 00:04:56,360 --> 00:04:58,520 Speaker 2: The two boys got an air mattress and I got 89 00:04:58,600 --> 00:04:59,000 Speaker 2: a cot. 90 00:04:59,400 --> 00:05:01,719 Speaker 1: Okay, wait like a baby in the living room? 91 00:05:02,400 --> 00:05:03,800 Speaker 5: No, I think it cuts kind of like a bed 92 00:05:03,839 --> 00:05:05,039 Speaker 5: that's like a little bit off the ground. 93 00:05:05,080 --> 00:05:07,080 Speaker 1: Okay, okay, yeah, yeah. 94 00:05:07,120 --> 00:05:18,040 Speaker 2: It was terrible. Oh and so the only reason I 95 00:05:18,080 --> 00:05:21,640 Speaker 2: got on this bus trip was because my dad's friend's son, 96 00:05:22,960 --> 00:05:26,440 Speaker 2: we'll call him Travis. He had a job interview on 97 00:05:26,480 --> 00:05:28,760 Speaker 2: Sunday and the bus wouldn't be back on time. So 98 00:05:28,760 --> 00:05:33,520 Speaker 2: they were like, you can drive separate. Cool, So Travis 99 00:05:33,520 --> 00:05:35,400 Speaker 2: gets there and they're all like, oh, we want to 100 00:05:35,400 --> 00:05:39,440 Speaker 2: go night skin. Why never ski a day in my life. 101 00:05:39,720 --> 00:05:42,760 Speaker 2: So I was like, oh, I'll just hang here, you know, 102 00:05:42,839 --> 00:05:47,880 Speaker 2: watch a movie and whatever. So they all leave and 103 00:05:47,960 --> 00:05:50,200 Speaker 2: I'm sitting on the couch and all of a sudden, 104 00:05:50,440 --> 00:05:54,080 Speaker 2: I get these like gut wrench and stomach cramps. Nice, 105 00:05:54,320 --> 00:05:57,120 Speaker 2: They're like the urgent oh no kind of situation. 106 00:05:57,279 --> 00:05:59,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, I've had that. Oh no, it is right. 107 00:06:01,760 --> 00:06:06,760 Speaker 2: And being sixteen and stupid, I panicked because I didn't 108 00:06:06,760 --> 00:06:08,960 Speaker 2: want to blow up the only bathroom and these people 109 00:06:08,960 --> 00:06:10,719 Speaker 2: come back to like a smelly bathroom. 110 00:06:11,520 --> 00:06:13,159 Speaker 1: Such a girl problem by that. 111 00:06:16,400 --> 00:06:18,680 Speaker 2: So I did what I thought was best. I grabbed 112 00:06:18,680 --> 00:06:21,240 Speaker 2: paper towels from the kitchen and ran outside to the 113 00:06:21,240 --> 00:06:22,760 Speaker 2: woods that were by these cabins. 114 00:06:24,400 --> 00:06:27,680 Speaker 1: You had a fully operating toilet right there, and you 115 00:06:27,760 --> 00:06:31,600 Speaker 1: are overload. Okay, okay, no, no, no, I'm here, I'm here, 116 00:06:31,640 --> 00:06:33,640 Speaker 1: I'm here. We've got and trying to get we'll get 117 00:06:33,640 --> 00:06:35,800 Speaker 1: in the same minds. Yeah, that was the right decision. 118 00:06:35,800 --> 00:06:39,480 Speaker 1: You're protecting the peace of the cabin. Yeah. 119 00:06:39,520 --> 00:06:43,120 Speaker 2: So it was so bad. I gagged so many times. 120 00:06:43,160 --> 00:06:47,640 Speaker 2: It was so bad, But in my head I was thinking, hey, 121 00:06:47,680 --> 00:06:49,360 Speaker 2: you know what, the bathroom doesn't smell. 122 00:06:49,640 --> 00:06:52,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, optimism. 123 00:06:54,120 --> 00:06:56,960 Speaker 2: So I go back inside and I finished the movie 124 00:06:57,000 --> 00:06:59,400 Speaker 2: and everyone comes back. They shower, and we all went 125 00:06:59,440 --> 00:07:02,720 Speaker 2: sleep around the midnight okay, and I'm on this uncomfied, 126 00:07:02,800 --> 00:07:05,520 Speaker 2: glorified lawn chair. When I wake up at four am 127 00:07:05,600 --> 00:07:06,360 Speaker 2: with the same paint. 128 00:07:06,720 --> 00:07:12,400 Speaker 3: Oh no, so again, I just go to the woods. 129 00:07:14,520 --> 00:07:17,240 Speaker 1: You're like, I've done this before. I know what needs 130 00:07:17,280 --> 00:07:18,840 Speaker 1: to be done. Is it is it like hates the 131 00:07:18,920 --> 00:07:21,920 Speaker 1: snow out in the woods too, Yes. 132 00:07:21,720 --> 00:07:24,200 Speaker 3: It's like midwinter. It's usha. 133 00:07:24,400 --> 00:07:25,160 Speaker 2: It's not good. 134 00:07:25,400 --> 00:07:27,240 Speaker 1: Oh my god, it's what it's. 135 00:07:29,400 --> 00:07:31,080 Speaker 3: Ushi. 136 00:07:31,760 --> 00:07:32,880 Speaker 1: We don't know that means. 137 00:07:33,000 --> 00:07:34,000 Speaker 2: It means it's cold. 138 00:07:35,960 --> 00:07:41,360 Speaker 5: Yeah, you idiot, Obviously it's freezing in the middle of 139 00:07:41,400 --> 00:07:43,160 Speaker 5: Winterow this heaps snow and you're shitting in the woods. 140 00:07:43,240 --> 00:07:43,560 Speaker 1: Let's go. 141 00:07:47,320 --> 00:07:48,960 Speaker 2: And I didn't want anyone to know it was me, 142 00:07:49,080 --> 00:07:51,080 Speaker 2: so I was like, oh, yeah, second time in the woods. 143 00:07:51,080 --> 00:07:51,720 Speaker 2: Who cares? 144 00:07:51,880 --> 00:07:52,080 Speaker 1: Yeah? 145 00:07:52,120 --> 00:07:53,920 Speaker 5: Yeah. 146 00:07:54,000 --> 00:07:56,080 Speaker 2: So I come back inside and I go to bed, 147 00:07:56,520 --> 00:07:59,080 Speaker 2: and the next morning, or I guess the same morning, 148 00:08:00,120 --> 00:08:02,560 Speaker 2: we all get up and they're like, oh, Traps is 149 00:08:02,560 --> 00:08:04,160 Speaker 2: going to teach you how to ski, since he's the 150 00:08:04,160 --> 00:08:05,240 Speaker 2: best out of all of us. 151 00:08:05,600 --> 00:08:07,960 Speaker 1: What a nice guy. 152 00:08:08,440 --> 00:08:10,840 Speaker 2: So we get all our gear on and we go 153 00:08:10,920 --> 00:08:15,080 Speaker 2: to like the bunny slopes first, and it's going all right. 154 00:08:15,240 --> 00:08:16,440 Speaker 2: The only thing I don't know. 155 00:08:16,400 --> 00:08:19,760 Speaker 1: How to do is how to stop, yes fah. 156 00:08:19,800 --> 00:08:22,679 Speaker 2: But then since we were sixteen and seventeen and dumb, 157 00:08:22,880 --> 00:08:25,280 Speaker 2: we were like, oh, it's fine, I'll figure it out. 158 00:08:26,160 --> 00:08:27,440 Speaker 1: Hey, yeah, you can break. 159 00:08:28,920 --> 00:08:29,200 Speaker 4: Why not? 160 00:08:31,360 --> 00:08:35,480 Speaker 2: So we go on like a harder slope and halfway down, 161 00:08:35,800 --> 00:08:39,480 Speaker 2: disaster shocks again. It's that same awful feeling. 162 00:08:39,840 --> 00:08:42,120 Speaker 1: Oh you know what you ate at this point like 163 00:08:42,120 --> 00:08:43,119 Speaker 1: the day's prior. 164 00:08:44,240 --> 00:08:48,840 Speaker 2: Literally nothing, I don't know what it was, damn. And 165 00:08:48,920 --> 00:08:51,000 Speaker 2: it was like the first time I'd ever had stomach 166 00:08:51,040 --> 00:08:51,640 Speaker 2: issues like. 167 00:08:51,640 --> 00:08:54,440 Speaker 1: This, okay weed someone's case. 168 00:08:54,320 --> 00:08:56,200 Speaker 2: And it was just bad. It was just bad. 169 00:08:56,720 --> 00:08:57,439 Speaker 1: Yeah. Wow. 170 00:08:58,520 --> 00:09:01,360 Speaker 2: So here i am halfway out on the mountain and 171 00:09:01,440 --> 00:09:06,280 Speaker 2: I'm clenching like my life depends on it. So at 172 00:09:06,320 --> 00:09:08,880 Speaker 2: the bottom, since I don't know how to stop, I crashed, 173 00:09:09,160 --> 00:09:14,520 Speaker 2: fully crashed, and it was like the floodgates oken up. 174 00:09:14,640 --> 00:09:21,960 Speaker 2: It went all down my legs. 175 00:09:18,440 --> 00:09:23,599 Speaker 1: Like crashing, did you like it? Come out? At the 176 00:09:23,640 --> 00:09:24,199 Speaker 1: same time? 177 00:09:25,320 --> 00:09:34,720 Speaker 3: It was so bad, so and I landed like kind 178 00:09:34,720 --> 00:09:36,840 Speaker 3: of on my butt, so it like set into my 179 00:09:36,880 --> 00:09:37,520 Speaker 3: ski pants. 180 00:09:40,200 --> 00:09:42,560 Speaker 2: So Travis comes down and he helps me up, and 181 00:09:42,600 --> 00:09:45,719 Speaker 2: he like definitely smells it. There's no not smelling it, 182 00:09:46,679 --> 00:09:50,080 Speaker 2: damn it. But I'll play it off. And I'm like, 183 00:09:50,240 --> 00:09:51,920 Speaker 2: and I kind of blame it on someone else. 184 00:09:53,800 --> 00:09:57,240 Speaker 1: I don't know what that smell. That's that kid over there. 185 00:10:00,120 --> 00:10:02,080 Speaker 2: So I pretend to be hurt and I'm like, oh 186 00:10:02,120 --> 00:10:06,000 Speaker 2: my god, my hips, just so I can get away 187 00:10:06,000 --> 00:10:06,640 Speaker 2: from this man. 188 00:10:06,960 --> 00:10:09,679 Speaker 1: Fair fair, fair fair, And I was. 189 00:10:09,640 --> 00:10:11,640 Speaker 2: Like, oh, I'll just go back and ice it. You can, 190 00:10:12,000 --> 00:10:16,160 Speaker 2: you can go ski with your family. And so I 191 00:10:16,280 --> 00:10:18,559 Speaker 2: make it back to the cabin and as I'm on 192 00:10:18,600 --> 00:10:20,800 Speaker 2: my way to the bathroom, I'm like thanking all my 193 00:10:20,880 --> 00:10:23,920 Speaker 2: lucky stars that everyone was still skiing and the whole 194 00:10:23,960 --> 00:10:24,800 Speaker 2: place was empty. 195 00:10:25,320 --> 00:10:27,120 Speaker 5: Yeah, lucky, very So. 196 00:10:29,120 --> 00:10:32,280 Speaker 2: I peel off everything and start renting it in the shower, 197 00:10:33,400 --> 00:10:35,920 Speaker 2: and luckily it had a handheld line, which made it 198 00:10:36,000 --> 00:10:40,120 Speaker 2: like ten times easier. Yep, but I'm Midshire and I 199 00:10:40,200 --> 00:10:47,640 Speaker 2: feel it again when so the logical thing would have 200 00:10:47,679 --> 00:10:49,319 Speaker 2: just been to go to the toilet because I'm already 201 00:10:49,320 --> 00:10:50,720 Speaker 2: in the shower, but no. 202 00:10:51,320 --> 00:10:53,240 Speaker 1: Please don't tell me you went outside. 203 00:10:54,360 --> 00:10:59,160 Speaker 2: I wrapped myself in a pew, grab a worst cloth 204 00:10:59,320 --> 00:11:05,640 Speaker 2: off the shelf, and book it outside barefoot. 205 00:11:07,400 --> 00:11:11,000 Speaker 1: You you were in the bodroom washing ship. It already 206 00:11:11,000 --> 00:11:12,559 Speaker 1: smelled like it's already fad. 207 00:11:16,000 --> 00:11:18,400 Speaker 2: So you know what, I'm just thinking to myself, all right, 208 00:11:18,480 --> 00:11:22,400 Speaker 2: third times it's harm and y'all. It was like the 209 00:11:22,480 --> 00:11:24,040 Speaker 2: grand finale to a fireworks show. 210 00:11:29,720 --> 00:11:30,920 Speaker 3: It was so bad. 211 00:11:31,240 --> 00:11:33,040 Speaker 1: What on earth did you eat? 212 00:11:33,520 --> 00:11:33,800 Speaker 5: Well? 213 00:11:34,760 --> 00:11:42,440 Speaker 2: I have no idea, well, God, and so I clean 214 00:11:42,520 --> 00:11:44,440 Speaker 2: up as best as I can, and I take this 215 00:11:44,600 --> 00:11:46,559 Speaker 2: worst cloth and I just throw it as far as 216 00:11:46,559 --> 00:11:47,480 Speaker 2: I can into the woods. 217 00:11:47,640 --> 00:11:49,600 Speaker 1: Yeah. Fair, I would have buried it in the snow way. 218 00:11:52,559 --> 00:11:55,959 Speaker 2: So I go back inside and I'm freezing my ass off. 219 00:11:56,120 --> 00:11:59,400 Speaker 2: So I get back in the shower and like rents 220 00:11:59,400 --> 00:12:04,320 Speaker 2: off again. I get out, get dressed, and stuff these wet, 221 00:12:05,240 --> 00:12:09,280 Speaker 2: nasty snowpants into a plastic bag and sit on the 222 00:12:09,320 --> 00:12:12,120 Speaker 2: couch and just try not to cry and replay what 223 00:12:12,280 --> 00:12:14,640 Speaker 2: the hell has happened in the last twenty four hours. 224 00:12:15,000 --> 00:12:16,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, So I start. 225 00:12:16,679 --> 00:12:20,000 Speaker 2: Crying and I call my dad and I tell him everything. 226 00:12:20,760 --> 00:12:22,719 Speaker 1: Shit, did you blame him? I would say, this is 227 00:12:22,760 --> 00:12:23,360 Speaker 1: your fan. 228 00:12:24,360 --> 00:12:25,040 Speaker 3: Yes I did. 229 00:12:25,160 --> 00:12:28,280 Speaker 2: I was like, Dad, this is all your cull. Yeah, 230 00:12:28,640 --> 00:12:31,200 Speaker 2: I didn't get my own room, definitely didn't get my 231 00:12:31,240 --> 00:12:36,640 Speaker 2: own bathrooms. And I was like, what do I do? 232 00:12:36,880 --> 00:12:42,800 Speaker 2: And the man starts laughing at me, and he's like, 233 00:12:42,880 --> 00:12:45,319 Speaker 2: all right, all right, I'll make up an excuse so 234 00:12:45,400 --> 00:12:47,440 Speaker 2: you can go home later that night with Travis, who 235 00:12:47,480 --> 00:12:48,760 Speaker 2: was leaving for the job interview. 236 00:12:49,080 --> 00:12:50,880 Speaker 1: Oh yeah. 237 00:12:50,920 --> 00:12:54,880 Speaker 2: And so that night everyone comes back like around the 238 00:12:54,920 --> 00:12:58,200 Speaker 2: same time, and they start cooking dinner and one of 239 00:12:58,200 --> 00:13:00,920 Speaker 2: the wives is like, hey, come here first second. So 240 00:13:01,000 --> 00:13:03,440 Speaker 2: she pulls me on to the front porch and just 241 00:13:03,480 --> 00:13:05,839 Speaker 2: straight up asks why I didn't tell someone I had 242 00:13:05,840 --> 00:13:11,160 Speaker 2: an accident. She immersed into tears immediately. 243 00:13:11,440 --> 00:13:14,920 Speaker 1: Is she referencing the crash or the accident like the poop? 244 00:13:16,960 --> 00:13:19,680 Speaker 2: Well, luckily he'd only told them about the time I 245 00:13:19,720 --> 00:13:21,760 Speaker 2: ship myself on the mountain and not in. 246 00:13:21,760 --> 00:13:30,760 Speaker 4: The woods, because I told them my daddy. He was like, yeah, 247 00:13:30,800 --> 00:13:31,640 Speaker 4: what a dog. 248 00:13:33,440 --> 00:13:36,440 Speaker 2: So now the entire group knows I shipped myself on 249 00:13:36,480 --> 00:13:36,920 Speaker 2: the mountain. 250 00:13:37,200 --> 00:13:39,800 Speaker 1: Ah. 251 00:13:39,880 --> 00:13:43,319 Speaker 2: So I'm like whipping my tears or whatever, and Travis 252 00:13:43,360 --> 00:13:45,600 Speaker 2: comes outside with his bag and he's like, oh, I'm 253 00:13:45,640 --> 00:13:52,560 Speaker 2: ready to go home. Yeah, So I go back inside 254 00:13:52,600 --> 00:13:54,839 Speaker 2: and I'll pack up my bags and make the most 255 00:13:54,960 --> 00:14:01,720 Speaker 2: awkward exit ever with my step had some hands and 256 00:14:01,760 --> 00:14:04,320 Speaker 2: my duffel in the other It was so awkward. 257 00:14:04,800 --> 00:14:06,959 Speaker 5: Was it kind of freeing that you didn't have to 258 00:14:07,040 --> 00:14:08,600 Speaker 5: hide it though anymore everyone new? 259 00:14:10,559 --> 00:14:12,920 Speaker 2: Kind of but not really, because I was like, oh 260 00:14:13,000 --> 00:14:15,760 Speaker 2: my god, I. 261 00:14:15,760 --> 00:14:18,400 Speaker 1: Would have been thinking you'd never see his face again. Yeah. 262 00:14:21,800 --> 00:14:25,560 Speaker 2: So we're about halfway home and I just break down 263 00:14:25,600 --> 00:14:30,600 Speaker 2: crime and I tell Travis everything. Yeah, and he laughed, 264 00:14:30,640 --> 00:14:32,600 Speaker 2: but it wasn't in like a mean way, but he 265 00:14:32,680 --> 00:14:34,640 Speaker 2: was kind of like, oh my god, that's something that 266 00:14:34,640 --> 00:14:35,360 Speaker 2: would happen to me. 267 00:14:35,840 --> 00:14:37,400 Speaker 1: Oh, which made me feel a. 268 00:14:37,320 --> 00:14:40,840 Speaker 2: Little better, you know. I was like, oh good, what 269 00:14:40,920 --> 00:14:44,720 Speaker 2: a nice guy. So we finally get to my house 270 00:14:44,840 --> 00:14:47,440 Speaker 2: and I'm like halfway out of the truck when he 271 00:14:47,560 --> 00:14:49,600 Speaker 2: turns to me and he goes, can I have your number? 272 00:14:54,160 --> 00:14:56,040 Speaker 2: I just told you about how I ship in the 273 00:14:56,080 --> 00:14:59,080 Speaker 2: woods three times and then ship my pants and you 274 00:14:59,120 --> 00:14:59,800 Speaker 2: want my number? 275 00:15:00,480 --> 00:15:04,160 Speaker 1: Is that what you said? Yes? What did he say? 276 00:15:04,160 --> 00:15:07,560 Speaker 2: It was like, yeah, he was like, I think it's 277 00:15:07,640 --> 00:15:08,200 Speaker 2: kind of funny. 278 00:15:08,280 --> 00:15:12,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I look for, and A go, that's 279 00:15:12,800 --> 00:15:13,640 Speaker 1: a good man about that. 280 00:15:13,960 --> 00:15:19,400 Speaker 2: Oh my god. So fast forward to now three years later, 281 00:15:19,560 --> 00:15:20,720 Speaker 2: Travis and I are Dayton. 282 00:15:22,920 --> 00:15:26,000 Speaker 6: It's a make chance, God make you so when you 283 00:15:26,000 --> 00:15:27,120 Speaker 6: gotta go to yard. 284 00:15:27,000 --> 00:15:28,040 Speaker 1: I had to make you. 285 00:15:28,280 --> 00:15:34,760 Speaker 2: In one story, it gets worse because now whenever we 286 00:15:34,800 --> 00:15:38,000 Speaker 2: see woods, it doesn't matter for driving, walking, whatever. And 287 00:15:38,040 --> 00:15:40,120 Speaker 2: I live on the middle of nowhere, Merlin. 288 00:15:40,040 --> 00:15:40,200 Speaker 4: So. 289 00:15:41,920 --> 00:15:43,080 Speaker 2: We see a lot of woods. 290 00:15:43,440 --> 00:15:44,440 Speaker 3: So he'll lean down and. 291 00:15:44,360 --> 00:15:46,640 Speaker 2: He'll whisper in my ear. You gotta go to the bathroom, 292 00:15:52,080 --> 00:15:56,280 Speaker 2: and then, oh my god, and then I just relived 293 00:15:56,280 --> 00:15:57,400 Speaker 2: the whole weekend. 294 00:15:57,880 --> 00:16:00,960 Speaker 1: Over my head this onesday. He's a cave. Yeah, he's 295 00:16:00,960 --> 00:16:03,360 Speaker 1: a key far you can see the funny side of it. 296 00:16:05,960 --> 00:16:09,160 Speaker 1: Damn Well, is that? Does it get any worse? Or 297 00:16:09,200 --> 00:16:11,240 Speaker 1: are we good? Are we finally? Are we done? 298 00:16:13,040 --> 00:16:15,240 Speaker 2: I think so? Yeah, I think I got all of it. 299 00:16:15,640 --> 00:16:16,400 Speaker 5: We've done well. 300 00:16:16,560 --> 00:16:16,800 Speaker 4: Well. 301 00:16:17,360 --> 00:16:20,880 Speaker 1: Hopefully you end up marrying this man. Yeah, and instead 302 00:16:20,920 --> 00:16:23,520 Speaker 1: of being angry at your dad, you can thank him 303 00:16:23,560 --> 00:16:26,320 Speaker 1: because without him, you guys would have never connected. Literally, 304 00:16:28,280 --> 00:16:28,640 Speaker 1: I don't know. 305 00:16:28,680 --> 00:16:30,760 Speaker 2: If he brings up the story one more time, it's 306 00:16:30,800 --> 00:16:31,760 Speaker 2: not looking too good. 307 00:16:33,520 --> 00:16:35,280 Speaker 1: Oh, this is a story that's getting brought up at 308 00:16:35,320 --> 00:16:38,200 Speaker 1: your wedding. I'm telling you that right now. Can you 309 00:16:38,240 --> 00:16:41,280 Speaker 1: please email us when you get married. We'll call you 310 00:16:41,360 --> 00:16:43,240 Speaker 1: up again. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, I want to hear 311 00:16:43,280 --> 00:16:43,640 Speaker 1: it live. 312 00:16:47,480 --> 00:16:50,520 Speaker 5: Well, thank you so so much for calling in and 313 00:16:50,560 --> 00:16:53,640 Speaker 5: telling us that story. I really appreciate it. You're welcome, 314 00:16:53,840 --> 00:16:56,080 Speaker 5: and I know it's getting pretty late where you are, 315 00:16:56,160 --> 00:16:58,480 Speaker 5: so I hope you have a good night. And yeah, 316 00:16:58,520 --> 00:16:59,120 Speaker 5: thank you again. 317 00:16:59,560 --> 00:17:01,920 Speaker 2: Thanks, haven't they good night? 318 00:17:02,080 --> 00:17:02,840 Speaker 1: Bye? 319 00:17:03,640 --> 00:17:03,920 Speaker 7: Bute? 320 00:17:06,560 --> 00:17:16,440 Speaker 5: Wow, Okay, time to make a decision. Does that what 321 00:17:16,520 --> 00:17:17,919 Speaker 5: would you prefer happen to you? 322 00:17:18,000 --> 00:17:20,760 Speaker 1: We have a problem here though, Manhattan Bridge, all that, 323 00:17:21,320 --> 00:17:23,920 Speaker 1: how we've been ranking it is what we would prefer. 324 00:17:24,920 --> 00:17:27,359 Speaker 1: She fell in love at the end, man, take that 325 00:17:27,400 --> 00:17:30,000 Speaker 1: out of it. No, take that out of it. I'm 326 00:17:30,000 --> 00:17:31,960 Speaker 1: just talking about that ship. This This was a when 327 00:17:32,080 --> 00:17:35,600 Speaker 1: you gotta go, you gotta go love store. You can't 328 00:17:35,640 --> 00:17:40,720 Speaker 1: take that out of it. This one was also self inflicted, 329 00:17:41,280 --> 00:17:43,600 Speaker 1: not the crash, but the two prior. Like there's a 330 00:17:43,600 --> 00:17:47,720 Speaker 1: toilet right there, hey, mate at home. Decisions were made 331 00:17:47,760 --> 00:17:51,160 Speaker 1: in the in the process, I think, to be fair, 332 00:17:51,240 --> 00:17:53,400 Speaker 1: a couple of the decisions of the Manhattan Bridge were 333 00:17:54,160 --> 00:17:59,000 Speaker 1: I don't know, here you go, oh, I don't know. 334 00:17:59,520 --> 00:18:03,000 Speaker 1: The ski crash, but it's also cold, so like it's 335 00:18:03,080 --> 00:18:07,560 Speaker 1: not that bad. What do you think it's cold. Yeah, 336 00:18:07,560 --> 00:18:09,880 Speaker 1: I'm thinking not that bad. Yeah, thinking, well, she's got 337 00:18:10,040 --> 00:18:14,359 Speaker 1: big layers on, like thick clothes too, keep all the 338 00:18:14,400 --> 00:18:14,880 Speaker 1: shit in. 339 00:18:16,000 --> 00:18:17,399 Speaker 5: I was thinking, that's nearly why. 340 00:18:17,440 --> 00:18:19,639 Speaker 1: I'm thinking this one. I'm saying this one is the 341 00:18:19,640 --> 00:18:21,920 Speaker 1: best one I've ever had because I had a happy ending. 342 00:18:22,080 --> 00:18:23,840 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, well yeah. 343 00:18:23,880 --> 00:18:28,280 Speaker 5: Properly thinking about it because of the situation. Right, So 344 00:18:28,320 --> 00:18:33,200 Speaker 5: she's with Manhattan Bridge, so she had a dog and 345 00:18:33,240 --> 00:18:35,240 Speaker 5: she did to be fair shit herself in the middle 346 00:18:35,240 --> 00:18:40,320 Speaker 5: of the road on Manhattan and then the only thing though, 347 00:18:40,480 --> 00:18:42,800 Speaker 5: is that they were both out in a public place, 348 00:18:44,200 --> 00:18:47,840 Speaker 5: and I'm just thinking I would prefer doing it on 349 00:18:47,840 --> 00:18:51,280 Speaker 5: the Manhattan Bridge because really no one knows, or no 350 00:18:51,280 --> 00:18:52,480 Speaker 5: one that I know. 351 00:18:52,160 --> 00:18:53,920 Speaker 1: Knows, but everyone knows here. 352 00:18:53,960 --> 00:18:59,800 Speaker 5: But with the skiing one, everyone knows and I know them. 353 00:19:00,000 --> 00:19:01,960 Speaker 5: The reason this is the contender is because she's also 354 00:19:02,280 --> 00:19:06,280 Speaker 5: was sixteen. She was young too, mortifying for a sixteen 355 00:19:06,359 --> 00:19:08,640 Speaker 5: year old, and her now boyfriend is only one year 356 00:19:08,640 --> 00:19:09,399 Speaker 5: older and he was seventeen. 357 00:19:09,480 --> 00:19:13,160 Speaker 1: He was helping her. Oh, I think we might disagree. 358 00:19:13,200 --> 00:19:18,879 Speaker 1: I'm thinking the Manhattan Day, the Manhattan one Wednesday. Really yeah, fuck. 359 00:19:19,359 --> 00:19:21,640 Speaker 5: We might have to get the baddies in here to 360 00:19:21,680 --> 00:19:24,359 Speaker 5: yeah comment comment, I just think I can't overlook the 361 00:19:24,400 --> 00:19:28,080 Speaker 5: love story. It's literally the easiest thing ever to just say, 362 00:19:28,359 --> 00:19:29,280 Speaker 5: just take out the love bit. 363 00:19:30,000 --> 00:19:32,600 Speaker 1: The easiest thing to do is take out the love. 364 00:19:32,920 --> 00:19:33,720 Speaker 1: Just think about the ship. 365 00:19:33,800 --> 00:19:37,800 Speaker 5: I'm saying Manhattan, Okay, I'm saying I would prefer Manhattan 366 00:19:37,880 --> 00:19:38,320 Speaker 5: over this. 367 00:19:38,440 --> 00:19:41,080 Speaker 1: So you would prefer the ski thing to happen to 368 00:19:41,160 --> 00:19:41,840 Speaker 1: you prefer. 369 00:19:41,800 --> 00:19:44,720 Speaker 5: Manhattan, Okay, I'd prefer Manhattan to happen to be in 370 00:19:44,720 --> 00:19:47,199 Speaker 5: the ski. So, guys, I guess world, it could be 371 00:19:47,200 --> 00:19:49,560 Speaker 5: a tie. Yeah, I guess these are both the worst. 372 00:19:50,040 --> 00:19:52,840 Speaker 1: But let us know. Yeah, let us know what you think. 373 00:19:52,920 --> 00:19:57,040 Speaker 5: And again, email us relatable sixty nine at gmail dot com. 374 00:19:57,080 --> 00:19:59,480 Speaker 5: When you've got to go, you gotta go as the subject, 375 00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:01,520 Speaker 5: and if you think you have a better story than 376 00:20:01,520 --> 00:20:06,359 Speaker 5: either Manhattan or this one. And also we've been getting 377 00:20:06,359 --> 00:20:09,800 Speaker 5: a fair few. I've noticed daily there's like two emails. 378 00:20:09,840 --> 00:20:13,720 Speaker 5: I'm waking up to multiple emails with the cheating ones. 379 00:20:14,200 --> 00:20:16,280 Speaker 5: And so we've kind of now done this thing where 380 00:20:16,320 --> 00:20:17,680 Speaker 5: I only read the one You've got to go, You've 381 00:20:17,640 --> 00:20:19,720 Speaker 5: got to go, and Audie reads the cheating ones, and 382 00:20:19,720 --> 00:20:21,080 Speaker 5: we said, is there any good ones? 383 00:20:21,119 --> 00:20:25,080 Speaker 1: Yes, there's a few good ones. Cheating is dangerous, like 384 00:20:25,760 --> 00:20:26,720 Speaker 1: there's some sketchy shit. 385 00:20:27,000 --> 00:20:30,359 Speaker 5: Yeah, it's dangerous, but it could be fucking It's not 386 00:20:30,400 --> 00:20:32,600 Speaker 5: about the last it's more about the suspense. 387 00:20:32,760 --> 00:20:34,920 Speaker 1: It is funny on our side of things, like each 388 00:20:34,960 --> 00:20:37,600 Speaker 1: morning we do wake up and then just the email 389 00:20:37,680 --> 00:20:41,120 Speaker 1: topic sentence is just when you've got to go. It's 390 00:20:41,119 --> 00:20:52,840 Speaker 1: so normal. I've got the best job ever. Okay, alrighty guys, 391 00:20:52,880 --> 00:20:55,800 Speaker 1: it's that time of the episode where we give you 392 00:20:55,840 --> 00:20:59,080 Speaker 1: an update on if we have been able to get 393 00:20:59,119 --> 00:21:01,800 Speaker 1: one of our songs on the radio and how have 394 00:21:01,880 --> 00:21:05,600 Speaker 1: we gone. Well, if you're joining us for the first time, 395 00:21:05,840 --> 00:21:08,960 Speaker 1: this has been about. This is the week three three week, 396 00:21:09,080 --> 00:21:11,760 Speaker 1: three week journey of us trying to get one of 397 00:21:11,760 --> 00:21:13,920 Speaker 1: our songs on the radio. Here is a little snippet 398 00:21:14,000 --> 00:21:19,960 Speaker 1: of the song Chalant. 399 00:21:18,359 --> 00:21:24,919 Speaker 5: The sweet Illusion, Your Confusion, don't. 400 00:21:26,320 --> 00:21:34,600 Speaker 1: Don't need to be again banger in my opinion, I 401 00:21:34,640 --> 00:21:35,720 Speaker 1: mean to be fair, I don't. 402 00:21:35,840 --> 00:21:37,480 Speaker 5: That's not the one that's gonna get on the radio though, 403 00:21:37,520 --> 00:21:40,600 Speaker 5: if any who knows it might mix responses just want 404 00:21:41,200 --> 00:21:41,920 Speaker 5: like different ones. 405 00:21:42,119 --> 00:21:43,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a three song EP. 406 00:21:43,640 --> 00:21:47,000 Speaker 5: Yeah, and we're just one of them. 407 00:21:47,440 --> 00:21:50,520 Speaker 1: And where we left you. Last week was we DMD 408 00:21:50,640 --> 00:21:54,439 Speaker 1: quite a few radio stations and only really Jimmy and 409 00:21:54,560 --> 00:21:58,280 Speaker 1: nath got back to us. We have a few more updates, 410 00:21:58,320 --> 00:22:01,160 Speaker 1: but also a few new avenue is where we might 411 00:22:01,160 --> 00:22:02,600 Speaker 1: be able to get we All we need to do 412 00:22:02,720 --> 00:22:04,800 Speaker 1: is get our foot in the door. Yeah, and then 413 00:22:04,840 --> 00:22:07,080 Speaker 1: as soon as we're in there, we're not We're not 414 00:22:07,320 --> 00:22:08,440 Speaker 1: letting him close the door. 415 00:22:09,760 --> 00:22:12,120 Speaker 5: It's like in a movie when there's a guy at 416 00:22:12,119 --> 00:22:14,240 Speaker 5: the door that's like trying to apologize to his girl 417 00:22:15,000 --> 00:22:16,359 Speaker 5: and she goes to close it and he puts his 418 00:22:16,359 --> 00:22:16,679 Speaker 5: foot in. 419 00:22:16,720 --> 00:22:21,680 Speaker 1: It just doesn't Yeah, that's the radio station. But Jake 420 00:22:21,880 --> 00:22:26,440 Speaker 1: actually got a bit creative with his methods randomly got 421 00:22:26,440 --> 00:22:27,080 Speaker 1: a bit creative. 422 00:22:27,160 --> 00:22:29,359 Speaker 5: Yeah, you can run us through that first. I was 423 00:22:29,640 --> 00:22:33,919 Speaker 5: so last week. I was scrolling on TikTok after we 424 00:22:34,000 --> 00:22:39,800 Speaker 5: recorded last week and I came across a live stream. 425 00:22:39,840 --> 00:22:43,280 Speaker 5: Also like Stars Aligned, I never come across live streams. 426 00:22:43,280 --> 00:22:45,120 Speaker 5: They used to push him to my account all the time, 427 00:22:45,119 --> 00:22:47,520 Speaker 5: and then they stopped for some reason. They feel like 428 00:22:47,560 --> 00:22:52,320 Speaker 5: they stopped as soon as Jason Nash got maybe the 429 00:22:52,400 --> 00:22:55,440 Speaker 5: monetization went down. They got the podcast back with David 430 00:22:55,440 --> 00:22:57,560 Speaker 5: Dobrick because they were pushing him to me all the time, 431 00:22:58,000 --> 00:23:00,520 Speaker 5: so annoying. He just as soon as David Dover goes, yeah, 432 00:23:00,560 --> 00:23:02,440 Speaker 5: we're doing views again, just and now she just goes 433 00:23:02,480 --> 00:23:04,679 Speaker 5: fuck you, TikTok, and TikTok is like, well, shit, now 434 00:23:04,680 --> 00:23:07,120 Speaker 5: we don't have a live thing to do, but okay. Basically, 435 00:23:07,119 --> 00:23:08,800 Speaker 5: this live stream got pushed to me and it was 436 00:23:08,840 --> 00:23:13,200 Speaker 5: a Triple J radio host doing the evening seven till 437 00:23:13,600 --> 00:23:17,000 Speaker 5: nine pm or something, and there was about one hundred 438 00:23:17,040 --> 00:23:20,639 Speaker 5: and twenty people in the live pretty good, and I thought, shit, 439 00:23:21,240 --> 00:23:24,280 Speaker 5: that's just low enough where I could get a few 440 00:23:24,320 --> 00:23:27,399 Speaker 5: comments in and she'll probably read them. 441 00:23:27,480 --> 00:23:29,080 Speaker 1: So that's what I did. 442 00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:33,240 Speaker 5: I screen recorded it and I've air dropped into on 443 00:23:33,320 --> 00:23:35,560 Speaker 5: his phone and he's going to play it for us. 444 00:23:35,880 --> 00:23:40,040 Speaker 5: And she did acknowledge, but yeah, you'll see what she says. 445 00:23:41,320 --> 00:23:42,000 Speaker 1: It's after this. 446 00:23:44,000 --> 00:23:44,760 Speaker 2: All right. 447 00:23:46,960 --> 00:23:49,240 Speaker 7: Today is a bit of a like I don't give 448 00:23:49,240 --> 00:23:50,040 Speaker 7: a fuck day. 449 00:23:49,840 --> 00:23:55,920 Speaker 1: I think, and I'm just like Offe, I think, what 450 00:23:56,080 --> 00:23:58,840 Speaker 1: was it? Tom? I have had a good day. 451 00:23:59,160 --> 00:24:00,120 Speaker 7: It's been fun. 452 00:24:01,760 --> 00:24:02,400 Speaker 1: The hardest. 453 00:24:02,920 --> 00:24:05,000 Speaker 7: Hago was home to see with Rufus. Yeah, they have 454 00:24:05,080 --> 00:24:10,880 Speaker 7: some good, good picks. They played a CDC, which means 455 00:24:10,880 --> 00:24:17,119 Speaker 7: that we can't play a c DC Tonight TV Missy 456 00:24:17,280 --> 00:24:22,560 Speaker 7: and Delta. Oh godati Fred again or some King Stingray. 457 00:24:22,600 --> 00:24:24,200 Speaker 7: I can do King Stingray, but I can't do Fred 458 00:24:24,200 --> 00:24:27,000 Speaker 7: again unless we're doing with the Bread again, Angie mcmind 459 00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:31,159 Speaker 7: collab because I can only play Australians yep, Mac, or 460 00:24:31,200 --> 00:24:36,159 Speaker 7: I am ripping Cohnes back here? Alright, just release an 461 00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:40,639 Speaker 7: EP relatable podcast. Well, I'll be damned. I need to 462 00:24:40,640 --> 00:24:42,560 Speaker 7: have a listen to it. Riley, what's up? 463 00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:49,240 Speaker 1: How's the message? Said? So her name is Ash. I 464 00:24:49,280 --> 00:24:50,960 Speaker 1: think I remember typing it out and I copy and 465 00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:51,399 Speaker 1: paste and I. 466 00:24:51,400 --> 00:24:53,720 Speaker 6: Said, Ash, we are the Relatables podcast. 467 00:24:53,760 --> 00:24:56,040 Speaker 5: We just released our first EP and we need your 468 00:24:56,040 --> 00:24:58,119 Speaker 5: help to get it on the radio. And she just 469 00:24:58,280 --> 00:25:01,760 Speaker 5: disregarded the radio bit and she just said I'll have 470 00:25:01,920 --> 00:25:02,680 Speaker 5: to listen to that. 471 00:25:02,680 --> 00:25:04,680 Speaker 1: That means she's not gonna listen to it, the bitch. 472 00:25:04,800 --> 00:25:08,719 Speaker 1: To be fair, to be fair, our foot has just 473 00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:13,679 Speaker 1: got in the door. A radio station host just said, 474 00:25:14,119 --> 00:25:19,879 Speaker 1: relatable ZP, I dare say that we have a hair 475 00:25:19,920 --> 00:25:24,960 Speaker 1: in the door. Yeah, a little pinky tongue. I'm getting there. 476 00:25:25,119 --> 00:25:26,960 Speaker 1: I like the attempt though, very creative. So that was 477 00:25:27,000 --> 00:25:33,480 Speaker 1: my work for a week my work, there's two updates. 478 00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:36,760 Speaker 1: One DM got back to us. Oh really, yeah, it 479 00:25:36,840 --> 00:25:39,919 Speaker 1: was actually the radio station that is close to us, 480 00:25:39,960 --> 00:25:42,600 Speaker 1: Star one A four point five. Let's go that. We 481 00:25:42,760 --> 00:25:46,600 Speaker 1: just go in there. Yeah, but the it's not really 482 00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:49,719 Speaker 1: a good response, she said. All they said, Star one 483 00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:52,600 Speaker 1: A four point five said, hi, team, thanks for reaching out. 484 00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:55,280 Speaker 1: This has been shared with our music programming department. 485 00:25:56,520 --> 00:25:59,520 Speaker 5: Oh so hey, that means there could be there could 486 00:25:59,520 --> 00:25:59,960 Speaker 5: be an updates. 487 00:26:00,280 --> 00:26:01,920 Speaker 1: I thought that was good, but also does that mean 488 00:26:01,960 --> 00:26:03,479 Speaker 1: it could get played and we don't even know? 489 00:26:03,800 --> 00:26:07,760 Speaker 5: Like, well, I feel as though we need to have 490 00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:09,840 Speaker 5: a meeting with the team of I feel what. 491 00:26:09,880 --> 00:26:12,199 Speaker 1: We're going to get. Yeah. I don't just want our 492 00:26:12,320 --> 00:26:14,560 Speaker 1: music share. I feel like we assume people are like 493 00:26:14,560 --> 00:26:18,400 Speaker 1: an upcoming artist. Maybe our plans got a few flaws 494 00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:18,560 Speaker 1: in it. 495 00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:23,720 Speaker 5: I think we need to set up meetings. Yes, okay, 496 00:26:23,720 --> 00:26:26,600 Speaker 5: but this is where maybe the best lead is. Okay, okay, 497 00:26:27,080 --> 00:26:31,119 Speaker 5: well fuck this, let's go straight to the big dogs, Spotify. 498 00:26:31,320 --> 00:26:35,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, we have a contact at Spotify. Yeah. So basically 499 00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:39,040 Speaker 1: we emailed Spotify and told them the whole play campaign, 500 00:26:39,160 --> 00:26:43,159 Speaker 1: everything the three songs, asked them to listen, and they 501 00:26:43,200 --> 00:26:46,600 Speaker 1: were actually quite impressed. I think more with the campaign 502 00:26:46,600 --> 00:26:48,680 Speaker 1: because we explained the podcast started Think yeah, yeah, yeah, 503 00:26:48,880 --> 00:26:51,840 Speaker 1: and they said it was a really good campaign idea. Yes, 504 00:26:52,400 --> 00:26:54,639 Speaker 1: And they said I can try and help get it 505 00:26:54,680 --> 00:26:57,600 Speaker 1: on the radio through connections because we work with major 506 00:26:57,640 --> 00:27:04,560 Speaker 1: networks mostly Listener, AI N and ABC ABC that's tibile J. Yeah. 507 00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:08,360 Speaker 1: So we said absolutely, I said, I actually even said, 508 00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:09,639 Speaker 1: all we need to do is get our foot in 509 00:27:09,680 --> 00:27:11,200 Speaker 1: the door. Then I think we can make this happen. 510 00:27:11,840 --> 00:27:15,480 Speaker 1: So now you guys are up to date. Okay, okay, okay, okay, 511 00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:17,480 Speaker 1: So we've got a little bit of a connection. Spotify 512 00:27:17,560 --> 00:27:19,480 Speaker 1: is going to do a bit of groundwork for us, 513 00:27:19,680 --> 00:27:21,960 Speaker 1: which I think coming from them is better rather than 514 00:27:21,960 --> 00:27:23,480 Speaker 1: these two. We should have gone straight to the big 515 00:27:23,520 --> 00:27:27,120 Speaker 1: dog up and coming ours see stone A four point 516 00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:28,240 Speaker 1: five didn't take us seriously. 517 00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:30,359 Speaker 5: We should have gone straight to the big dogs and 518 00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:32,960 Speaker 5: stopped being like us in the d MS of the 519 00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:35,720 Speaker 5: radio stations. Even though we have a fair few follow 520 00:27:35,800 --> 00:27:36,320 Speaker 5: it seems. 521 00:27:36,160 --> 00:27:39,920 Speaker 1: Needy, We doesn't seem need Yeah, and like we're begging, yeah, 522 00:27:40,040 --> 00:27:43,359 Speaker 1: straight to Spotify vouching for us. Yeah, these stations are 523 00:27:43,359 --> 00:27:46,400 Speaker 1: going to go obviously. Yeah, So I got high hopes 524 00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:48,160 Speaker 1: that the journey we're learning how to get. 525 00:27:48,720 --> 00:27:52,120 Speaker 5: Yeah, I hope I'm putting out here right now. If 526 00:27:52,160 --> 00:27:54,840 Speaker 5: this round of songs, if this EP does not make 527 00:27:54,880 --> 00:27:56,640 Speaker 5: it on the radio, if we fail, how many weeks 528 00:27:56,640 --> 00:27:57,600 Speaker 5: are we giving ourselves? 529 00:27:57,720 --> 00:27:58,400 Speaker 1: Right? Week three? 530 00:27:59,720 --> 00:28:02,560 Speaker 5: Because it could go forever five or six six, We'll 531 00:28:02,560 --> 00:28:04,119 Speaker 5: go six six, We'll go to six weeks. 532 00:28:05,119 --> 00:28:05,439 Speaker 1: Okay. 533 00:28:05,920 --> 00:28:09,440 Speaker 5: If it fails, we put our heads together, we write 534 00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:13,240 Speaker 5: another song. Yeah, speaking of one song, yeah, okay, but 535 00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:20,000 Speaker 5: we put you we need to write the next big 536 00:28:20,320 --> 00:28:24,840 Speaker 5: TikTok blow up pop yeah, think of bencing boom, all 537 00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:28,360 Speaker 5: that type of stuff. Okay, so that's what we'll do 538 00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:29,760 Speaker 5: and we'll have another crack at it. 539 00:28:29,800 --> 00:28:31,879 Speaker 1: I reckon Uzy Woozy could be in there or something. 540 00:28:33,560 --> 00:28:35,240 Speaker 1: Radio stations making me feel oozy? 541 00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:39,480 Speaker 5: Mate, will we We got ideas, Yeah, we've got ideas. 542 00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:41,280 Speaker 1: So that'll be the next thing. But we don't fail. 543 00:28:41,400 --> 00:28:42,000 Speaker 1: We digress. 544 00:28:42,080 --> 00:28:44,080 Speaker 5: We've got six weeks. We shouldn't think about failure. Yeah, 545 00:28:44,600 --> 00:28:45,280 Speaker 5: that's not gonna happen. 546 00:28:45,360 --> 00:28:54,080 Speaker 1: Not going to need to have optimism, Yeah yeah, yeah, Jake, 547 00:28:54,080 --> 00:28:56,200 Speaker 1: We're in a very lucky position where we get a 548 00:28:56,360 --> 00:29:01,120 Speaker 1: unique insight to see how men are I don't know, 549 00:29:01,200 --> 00:29:04,520 Speaker 1: portrayed in society. And if you could use one word 550 00:29:04,560 --> 00:29:08,680 Speaker 1: to describe men in this modern age, what would it be? 551 00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:14,040 Speaker 5: What I get one word to describe men in the 552 00:29:14,080 --> 00:29:19,320 Speaker 5: modern age. I'm gonna take a second and think about 553 00:29:19,320 --> 00:29:19,640 Speaker 5: this one. 554 00:29:19,720 --> 00:29:20,120 Speaker 7: Hmmm. 555 00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:22,200 Speaker 5: I know what word you want me to say? 556 00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:22,560 Speaker 2: Hmm. 557 00:29:23,040 --> 00:29:27,400 Speaker 5: I'm trying to think of a better one. I'm gonna 558 00:29:27,400 --> 00:29:28,160 Speaker 5: have to say immature. 559 00:29:30,760 --> 00:29:33,680 Speaker 1: We have a connection there, man. It is time for 560 00:29:33,880 --> 00:29:36,640 Speaker 1: I g question of the week, think of another between 561 00:29:36,640 --> 00:29:37,920 Speaker 1: one and ten seven. 562 00:29:38,120 --> 00:29:42,040 Speaker 6: Oh, I got scared, bro, I was like, what are 563 00:29:42,080 --> 00:29:42,480 Speaker 6: you doing? 564 00:29:44,080 --> 00:29:47,480 Speaker 1: The ig question of the week is what do immature 565 00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:53,040 Speaker 1: men say when they're scared of commitment? So we are 566 00:29:53,280 --> 00:29:55,800 Speaker 1: about to learn a thing or two, but also hopefully 567 00:29:56,160 --> 00:29:59,440 Speaker 1: put men in their place and stop these When I 568 00:29:59,480 --> 00:30:02,160 Speaker 1: was getting these these are terrible. Stop these things being said. 569 00:30:02,240 --> 00:30:05,000 Speaker 1: A few classics in there, a lot of classics. Yeah. 570 00:30:05,200 --> 00:30:10,640 Speaker 1: I think as time has progressed, men have communicated what 571 00:30:10,800 --> 00:30:13,240 Speaker 1: has worked and what hasn't worked. Is it kind of 572 00:30:13,240 --> 00:30:15,800 Speaker 1: just like bullshit things men say to get out of 573 00:30:15,880 --> 00:30:19,000 Speaker 1: any type of commitment, or like as soon as guys 574 00:30:19,000 --> 00:30:20,800 Speaker 1: just get scared, as soon as they're about to like 575 00:30:20,880 --> 00:30:22,640 Speaker 1: date or have any type of commitment eighty. 576 00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:24,400 Speaker 5: I can't argue with that. 577 00:30:25,160 --> 00:30:27,560 Speaker 1: I've been there, I'm gonna start yeah, same, but I've 578 00:30:27,560 --> 00:30:30,840 Speaker 1: been immature. Yeah, we just got that frontal lobe development. 579 00:30:31,440 --> 00:30:36,200 Speaker 1: You're nearly there, don't. Well, lucky, I'm developing now, Lucky. 580 00:30:36,240 --> 00:30:38,560 Speaker 1: Some men never get it. Some men never get it. 581 00:30:38,600 --> 00:30:44,960 Speaker 5: What's it is it called? You're is the saying sexy? Yeah? 582 00:30:45,360 --> 00:30:50,600 Speaker 1: Beautiful? A man of a man before many talents before 583 00:30:50,640 --> 00:30:52,600 Speaker 1: his years or something? Is that? Maybe? 584 00:30:53,360 --> 00:30:55,840 Speaker 5: So maybe a front of load is developed a man 585 00:30:55,880 --> 00:30:58,040 Speaker 5: before his years many talents? 586 00:30:58,120 --> 00:31:04,160 Speaker 1: Yeah? Many? Oh honey? So what do immature men say 587 00:31:04,200 --> 00:31:07,320 Speaker 1: when they're scared of commitment? Let's not ruin this with 588 00:31:07,400 --> 00:31:17,040 Speaker 1: a title? OI, okay, labels are so outdated. Out date label. 589 00:31:17,520 --> 00:31:20,400 Speaker 5: I have another one that's to do with titles. Titles 590 00:31:20,400 --> 00:31:22,680 Speaker 5: don't matter if we know how we feel about each other. 591 00:31:24,960 --> 00:31:28,480 Speaker 1: It's just so much bullshit. It's terrible. Oh my god. 592 00:31:29,200 --> 00:31:35,480 Speaker 5: So the last girlfriend I had before beth Ah I 593 00:31:35,760 --> 00:31:39,840 Speaker 5: was so I started dating her. We started seeing each 594 00:31:39,840 --> 00:31:44,280 Speaker 5: other only probably like three months before the girlfriend I 595 00:31:44,320 --> 00:31:45,280 Speaker 5: had before that. 596 00:31:46,040 --> 00:31:46,600 Speaker 1: Was it that quick? 597 00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:48,680 Speaker 5: I think it was only about three minutes and. 598 00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:51,320 Speaker 1: Time after that first one? Yeah, it was. 599 00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:53,600 Speaker 5: It was three months and maybe four It wasn't long, 600 00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:59,200 Speaker 5: basically three four months, same thing, and I knew I 601 00:31:59,280 --> 00:32:02,840 Speaker 5: want I I just, you know, in my head was 602 00:32:02,880 --> 00:32:04,000 Speaker 5: saying that she's my girlfriend. 603 00:32:05,160 --> 00:32:06,200 Speaker 1: And then I was at a party. 604 00:32:06,320 --> 00:32:08,959 Speaker 5: I think I've said this on the podcast and one 605 00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:10,480 Speaker 5: of her friends asked when I was going to ask 606 00:32:10,520 --> 00:32:12,960 Speaker 5: her out? And I said, do I do I need. 607 00:32:12,840 --> 00:32:13,200 Speaker 6: To do that? 608 00:32:13,280 --> 00:32:16,440 Speaker 1: I was like, do I need to do that? And 609 00:32:16,480 --> 00:32:17,880 Speaker 1: then I said. 610 00:32:17,720 --> 00:32:20,040 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, And so I did 611 00:32:20,040 --> 00:32:23,960 Speaker 5: it in the shittest way. And then growing up and 612 00:32:24,280 --> 00:32:26,480 Speaker 5: I guess maturing a bit and thinking it's not that 613 00:32:26,560 --> 00:32:28,640 Speaker 5: hard to say, will you be my girlfriend? I just 614 00:32:28,680 --> 00:32:30,120 Speaker 5: can't look back and think, yeah, that's true. 615 00:32:30,240 --> 00:32:30,920 Speaker 1: What did you do again? 616 00:32:31,600 --> 00:32:34,560 Speaker 5: I just I think I just asked her. I said, 617 00:32:36,440 --> 00:32:39,600 Speaker 5: would you like to like have a date? That would 618 00:32:39,640 --> 00:32:44,240 Speaker 5: be our anniversary? So and she goes like, sorry, you 619 00:32:44,280 --> 00:32:45,160 Speaker 5: asked me to be a girlfriend. 620 00:32:45,200 --> 00:32:49,920 Speaker 1: I guess how old was I? I would have been 621 00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:53,720 Speaker 1: about nineteen taking all the best things about. 622 00:32:54,600 --> 00:32:56,760 Speaker 5: Yeah, I think I was nineteen. 623 00:32:57,240 --> 00:32:59,000 Speaker 1: Will you hanging out of us yet? Not really? Or 624 00:32:59,040 --> 00:33:00,800 Speaker 1: you were just a little bit a little bit? Yeah, 625 00:33:00,800 --> 00:33:02,000 Speaker 1: you still have that other friendship group? 626 00:33:02,040 --> 00:33:04,920 Speaker 5: I was still Yeah, JJ was I was still just 627 00:33:04,920 --> 00:33:08,719 Speaker 5: like good friends with JJ and the mutual between our 628 00:33:08,760 --> 00:33:12,160 Speaker 5: friendly mutual between everyone, Yeah, the mutual between for some reason, 629 00:33:12,240 --> 00:33:14,000 Speaker 5: every single person on the planet. 630 00:33:14,840 --> 00:33:20,200 Speaker 1: What the fuck? Okay, So what do immature men say 631 00:33:20,240 --> 00:33:22,240 Speaker 1: when they're scared of commitment? I thought we were just 632 00:33:22,280 --> 00:33:27,080 Speaker 1: having fun? That is a common one, relatable. 633 00:33:28,560 --> 00:33:30,400 Speaker 5: Yeah, I thought we were just having fun. 634 00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:32,400 Speaker 1: I'm going to change this too. 635 00:33:33,200 --> 00:33:35,680 Speaker 5: What what do men say when they're trying to crush 636 00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:36,440 Speaker 5: your dreams? 637 00:33:38,600 --> 00:33:41,920 Speaker 1: Can we just see what happens? I'm actually I've figured 638 00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:44,480 Speaker 1: out what all these mean. They're all like things to 639 00:33:44,600 --> 00:33:48,880 Speaker 1: try and keep having sex. Yeah, but not have any commitment. 640 00:33:48,960 --> 00:33:51,640 Speaker 1: That's all it is. Yeah, they just want sex is 641 00:33:51,720 --> 00:33:55,680 Speaker 1: having fun. In fact, what do immature men say when 642 00:33:55,680 --> 00:33:58,360 Speaker 1: they're scared of commitment? We should just see where life 643 00:33:58,360 --> 00:34:01,520 Speaker 1: takes us. That's like saying let's go with the flow. Yeah, 644 00:34:01,720 --> 00:34:07,120 Speaker 1: I have one that says, let's just go with terrible. 645 00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:11,359 Speaker 5: Okay, honestly, I've got some just shiit ones. Okay, this 646 00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:18,000 Speaker 5: one's a what would you call it? Not victim blaming? 647 00:34:18,960 --> 00:34:21,200 Speaker 5: Oh no, just playing the victim? Just be called just 648 00:34:21,200 --> 00:34:24,480 Speaker 5: playing the victim. What do immature men say when they're 649 00:34:24,480 --> 00:34:27,960 Speaker 5: scared of commitment. I've been hurt before. Oh. 650 00:34:28,000 --> 00:34:31,240 Speaker 1: I saw a few of them talk about playing the victim. 651 00:34:31,640 --> 00:34:34,879 Speaker 1: One of the girl gave a response like in her 652 00:34:35,000 --> 00:34:38,600 Speaker 1: question and it was sorry for the language, fuck off, cunt. 653 00:34:42,520 --> 00:34:45,280 Speaker 1: I saw one that I didn't choose. I should have chosen. 654 00:34:45,280 --> 00:34:47,000 Speaker 1: It's funny and it was. 655 00:34:48,600 --> 00:34:51,640 Speaker 5: So like the guy said to her, you deserve better, 656 00:34:52,120 --> 00:34:54,040 Speaker 5: and so she said to him, be better then. 657 00:34:55,600 --> 00:34:57,839 Speaker 1: Literally, it's like something I don't want to try. Yeah, 658 00:34:57,920 --> 00:35:00,799 Speaker 1: legit is, it's I don't want to try. Yeah, oh 659 00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:04,440 Speaker 1: my god, all right, what do immature men say that? 660 00:35:04,520 --> 00:35:07,560 Speaker 1: A scared commitment? I see a future with you, just 661 00:35:07,560 --> 00:35:15,960 Speaker 1: not right now. Again, that's insane. It kind of doesn't 662 00:35:15,960 --> 00:35:16,879 Speaker 1: mean anything. 663 00:35:16,600 --> 00:35:22,200 Speaker 5: That you're That is the definition of Is that bread crumbing? 664 00:35:22,280 --> 00:35:23,840 Speaker 5: That's that's the definition of bread crumbing? 665 00:35:24,000 --> 00:35:27,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, giving it just enough so they stay around. 666 00:35:27,200 --> 00:35:29,319 Speaker 5: Yeah, it's like, oh he he says, he sees it. 667 00:35:29,360 --> 00:35:31,279 Speaker 1: The dilemma last week was we didn't say it. I 668 00:35:31,280 --> 00:35:34,719 Speaker 1: love you, but I'm not in loving bread crumbing. We 669 00:35:34,800 --> 00:35:40,640 Speaker 1: need to use that. Definitely. Girls are duck just. 670 00:35:40,600 --> 00:35:47,239 Speaker 6: Because they got fat asses. I'm telling the baddies. I 671 00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:48,200 Speaker 6: know the baddies are. 672 00:35:48,080 --> 00:35:54,520 Speaker 8: Fucking yeah, dumped up, dumped up, bro, dump trot the 673 00:35:54,600 --> 00:35:56,040 Speaker 8: men too, if there is anything. 674 00:35:59,640 --> 00:36:05,239 Speaker 5: Okay, what do immature men say when they're scared of commitment? 675 00:36:08,760 --> 00:36:12,640 Speaker 5: Jesus is calling me to a season of singleness. 676 00:36:12,719 --> 00:36:19,480 Speaker 1: Jesus, don't bring him into this talking about shifting, blame, 677 00:36:20,320 --> 00:36:24,560 Speaker 1: shifting blame. You know, you know in Monopoly, when you 678 00:36:24,640 --> 00:36:26,120 Speaker 1: get like you got to go to jail for like 679 00:36:26,160 --> 00:36:27,879 Speaker 1: three rounds and then you have a card and it's 680 00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:30,399 Speaker 1: like get out of jail free card. That's what these 681 00:36:30,440 --> 00:36:32,960 Speaker 1: men think they're playing. Yeah, it's not working. 682 00:36:33,200 --> 00:36:35,120 Speaker 5: Men are out here just playing monopoly. 683 00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:38,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, they're not very good at it though. They've got 684 00:36:38,040 --> 00:36:40,080 Speaker 1: all like the brown ones at the start, which are 685 00:36:40,080 --> 00:36:43,400 Speaker 1: like basically free. None of this mayfair bullshit. That's when girls. 686 00:36:43,440 --> 00:36:45,520 Speaker 5: Aren't building hotels men. 687 00:36:45,520 --> 00:36:48,839 Speaker 1: I'm building hotels. They're just paying rent, that's what they're doing. 688 00:36:50,920 --> 00:36:52,640 Speaker 1: There was a lot of these ones, and I think 689 00:36:52,920 --> 00:36:56,360 Speaker 1: these ones boil the blood the most. What do immature 690 00:36:56,400 --> 00:36:58,279 Speaker 1: men say when they're scared of commitment? I got a 691 00:36:58,280 --> 00:37:02,239 Speaker 1: lot going on at the moment. Yeah, just busy. I'm 692 00:37:02,280 --> 00:37:03,200 Speaker 1: just busy. Busy. 693 00:37:03,640 --> 00:37:05,960 Speaker 5: What I got work, that's forty hours? 694 00:37:06,320 --> 00:37:09,759 Speaker 1: Yeah, I got mates that works my gym too. 695 00:37:12,600 --> 00:37:15,160 Speaker 5: I got well, I saw so many that said, I'm 696 00:37:15,160 --> 00:37:16,080 Speaker 5: just too busy right now. 697 00:37:16,080 --> 00:37:18,319 Speaker 1: I've got work that's thirty eight forty hours, I've. 698 00:37:18,200 --> 00:37:19,440 Speaker 5: Got my mates, and I got footy. 699 00:37:19,480 --> 00:37:20,759 Speaker 1: I just don't know when I'm going to have time 700 00:37:22,000 --> 00:37:25,359 Speaker 1: what I think. 701 00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:30,359 Speaker 5: It's also just a thing of men again don't want 702 00:37:30,400 --> 00:37:33,719 Speaker 5: to be so that they want this reason right, so 703 00:37:33,760 --> 00:37:37,680 Speaker 5: they want this thing where they need to be able 704 00:37:37,719 --> 00:37:41,200 Speaker 5: to say something that makes it so. It's just all 705 00:37:41,239 --> 00:37:44,879 Speaker 5: good in the sense of, oh, I didn't just tell 706 00:37:44,920 --> 00:37:48,000 Speaker 5: her I don't actually want to be with her. I 707 00:37:48,080 --> 00:37:50,359 Speaker 5: could never say that I have one. 708 00:37:50,400 --> 00:37:52,520 Speaker 1: At the end, it's I can't type out all the 709 00:37:52,520 --> 00:37:55,200 Speaker 1: bs I've been told. Real men have no problems saying 710 00:37:55,400 --> 00:37:58,400 Speaker 1: they're not interested exactly. That's all you have to do. 711 00:37:59,640 --> 00:38:04,799 Speaker 1: I'm soorry, I'm just not interested. It's admirable to say 712 00:38:04,800 --> 00:38:05,200 Speaker 1: that too. 713 00:38:06,040 --> 00:38:08,960 Speaker 5: I mean, yeah, fuck, it's just it's. 714 00:38:08,440 --> 00:38:11,880 Speaker 1: An interesting thing. It's like, yeah, we these filler words 715 00:38:11,880 --> 00:38:14,560 Speaker 1: because we're trying to like protect their feelings, when in 716 00:38:14,680 --> 00:38:18,160 Speaker 1: reality it is breadcrumbing them and leading them on just 717 00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:20,760 Speaker 1: so you have that little little bit of a connection still, 718 00:38:20,800 --> 00:38:22,160 Speaker 1: so you can call them up and say you want 719 00:38:22,160 --> 00:38:22,359 Speaker 1: to have. 720 00:38:22,320 --> 00:38:26,200 Speaker 5: Sex, legit, And again it's just things like you know 721 00:38:26,480 --> 00:38:27,680 Speaker 5: you're too good for me. 722 00:38:28,160 --> 00:38:33,000 Speaker 1: Or I got one here. Ah, I'm really enjoying getting 723 00:38:33,040 --> 00:38:33,560 Speaker 1: to know you. 724 00:38:34,719 --> 00:38:38,759 Speaker 5: That's like what someone would say when say she says 725 00:38:38,800 --> 00:38:40,640 Speaker 5: to him, you know, what are we? 726 00:38:41,800 --> 00:38:42,800 Speaker 1: Where do you see this going? 727 00:38:43,400 --> 00:38:46,000 Speaker 5: Get out Jeffrey times, Oh, I'm really enjoying getting to 728 00:38:46,040 --> 00:38:46,560 Speaker 5: know you. 729 00:38:46,640 --> 00:38:49,280 Speaker 6: What That doesn't answer my question in the slightest. 730 00:38:49,440 --> 00:38:56,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, and the man's probably said that six months in facts, 731 00:38:58,440 --> 00:39:03,680 Speaker 1: it's been a year, but it's been a year. 732 00:39:05,719 --> 00:39:07,680 Speaker 5: You gave me a key to your house once. 733 00:39:09,960 --> 00:39:12,480 Speaker 1: What do immature men say that are scared a commitment? 734 00:39:13,000 --> 00:39:15,719 Speaker 1: I need to concentrate on me and have some alone time. 735 00:39:16,040 --> 00:39:20,400 Speaker 5: Fuck, bro, that is the worst thing because it's again, 736 00:39:20,960 --> 00:39:24,480 Speaker 5: how dare you then say like you can't be like, 737 00:39:24,520 --> 00:39:26,640 Speaker 5: oh my god, you led me on, you breadcrumbed me 738 00:39:26,960 --> 00:39:28,640 Speaker 5: because it's Hey, I'm trying to work on me. 739 00:39:29,239 --> 00:39:30,960 Speaker 1: You can't get mad at me for working on me. 740 00:39:31,120 --> 00:39:34,200 Speaker 1: That's insane. You should have figured that out before you 741 00:39:34,400 --> 00:39:36,520 Speaker 1: DM me and us to go on a date. Facts. 742 00:39:36,600 --> 00:39:40,480 Speaker 5: Yeah, simple, he's the one that's kind of like that. 743 00:39:40,520 --> 00:39:42,560 Speaker 5: I'm in a stage of self discovery. 744 00:39:42,960 --> 00:39:45,200 Speaker 1: I got my life is a mess right now. 745 00:39:51,200 --> 00:39:57,759 Speaker 5: It's just always gonna be. Oh, this one's fucked. What 746 00:39:57,840 --> 00:40:00,560 Speaker 5: two immature men say when they're scared of commitment. You 747 00:40:00,719 --> 00:40:03,040 Speaker 5: needing surgery is just really hard for me right now? 748 00:40:03,760 --> 00:40:07,719 Speaker 1: Wait what Wait? He's just gonna go so soon as. 749 00:40:07,440 --> 00:40:10,560 Speaker 5: You needing surgery is just really hard for me right now. 750 00:40:12,560 --> 00:40:15,440 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, that one is so dumb. I've heard 751 00:40:15,520 --> 00:40:18,560 Speaker 1: stories like that before. As soon as like they need 752 00:40:18,560 --> 00:40:20,919 Speaker 1: that little bit of like someone to lean on when 753 00:40:20,960 --> 00:40:24,319 Speaker 1: they're going through fucking surgery. They disappeared about this one. 754 00:40:24,400 --> 00:40:26,440 Speaker 5: So I'm gonna go again. Can't we just live our 755 00:40:26,480 --> 00:40:28,080 Speaker 5: own lives and be happy when we're together? 756 00:40:32,239 --> 00:40:33,880 Speaker 1: Bread coming, bread comminge? 757 00:40:35,040 --> 00:40:37,319 Speaker 5: When I decide that we get to see each other, 758 00:40:37,360 --> 00:40:40,000 Speaker 5: can't we just be happier? Then that's audacity, and then 759 00:40:40,040 --> 00:40:42,880 Speaker 5: just live our own lives. Otherwise that's a definition of audacity. 760 00:40:42,920 --> 00:40:46,520 Speaker 5: A where do men find the audacity? I have a 761 00:40:46,520 --> 00:40:50,040 Speaker 5: funny story about audacity. Actually, I went and watched my 762 00:40:50,080 --> 00:40:53,239 Speaker 5: cousin's high Rocks on the weekend, like mental we were 763 00:40:53,320 --> 00:40:57,200 Speaker 5: leaving it though, and a guy I did see one 764 00:40:57,200 --> 00:41:00,040 Speaker 5: couple recognized me that and they were super nice, and 765 00:41:00,160 --> 00:41:02,799 Speaker 5: I was leaving and this guy looks at me and 766 00:41:02,800 --> 00:41:06,200 Speaker 5: he goes, bro, why do I recognize you? 767 00:41:06,680 --> 00:41:09,200 Speaker 1: It's like what He's like, why do I? And I was, 768 00:41:09,400 --> 00:41:10,319 Speaker 1: and I kind of was. 769 00:41:10,840 --> 00:41:12,120 Speaker 5: I was like, dude, you're asking me. 770 00:41:12,440 --> 00:41:13,719 Speaker 1: I didn't. I was I don't want to feed it 771 00:41:13,760 --> 00:41:13,920 Speaker 1: to you. 772 00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:15,879 Speaker 5: But I was like, maybe TikTok and he goes, yeah, 773 00:41:15,960 --> 00:41:17,920 Speaker 5: yeah yeah. And then I get home and I had 774 00:41:17,960 --> 00:41:20,479 Speaker 5: a message in my request on Instagram and he goes, 775 00:41:20,520 --> 00:41:22,440 Speaker 5: oh my god, I can't believe I just said you today. 776 00:41:22,520 --> 00:41:23,600 Speaker 1: Why do I know you? 777 00:41:23,840 --> 00:41:25,840 Speaker 5: And he goes, I don't know where I had the audacity, 778 00:41:25,840 --> 00:41:26,839 Speaker 5: but I hope you had a good day. 779 00:41:26,880 --> 00:41:30,319 Speaker 6: And I was like, hey, this guy is unaccountable, okay, 780 00:41:32,560 --> 00:41:34,080 Speaker 6: And it's funny because he goes, I don't know where 781 00:41:34,120 --> 00:41:35,120 Speaker 6: I have found. 782 00:41:36,200 --> 00:41:38,560 Speaker 1: That is funny. I thought I was going to go 783 00:41:38,600 --> 00:41:42,640 Speaker 1: the other way. Yeah, but he goes, why do I 784 00:41:42,680 --> 00:41:47,120 Speaker 1: know you? You just I don't know that's happened before. 785 00:41:47,120 --> 00:41:49,120 Speaker 1: It's tired, because it's not like we want to go 786 00:41:50,040 --> 00:41:53,960 Speaker 1: a podcast. Yeah I know have a podcast. I actually 787 00:41:54,040 --> 00:41:58,600 Speaker 1: have a podcast. You've probably seen my podcast. Oh you've 788 00:41:58,600 --> 00:42:05,560 Speaker 1: probably seen me on the interwere you should you should 789 00:42:05,600 --> 00:42:07,839 Speaker 1: be one of those dudes with audacity and be like, oh, 790 00:42:07,880 --> 00:42:11,359 Speaker 1: it's probably from my nine hundred thousand followers. Yeah, yeah, 791 00:42:11,400 --> 00:42:15,640 Speaker 1: and show him probably from this man. You know, it's 792 00:42:15,680 --> 00:42:19,319 Speaker 1: a full time gig, full buy a badge, pull up 793 00:42:19,320 --> 00:42:22,160 Speaker 1: your portfolio. It's probably one of these things. I'm gonna 794 00:42:22,160 --> 00:42:23,440 Speaker 1: I'm gonna buy a hat that says, yes I am 795 00:42:23,480 --> 00:42:31,200 Speaker 1: that guy. Come stay high, Come say I got one more? 796 00:42:31,400 --> 00:42:33,560 Speaker 1: What do immature men say that a scared of commitment? 797 00:42:34,200 --> 00:42:35,680 Speaker 1: Let's keep this on the DL. 798 00:42:37,320 --> 00:42:40,400 Speaker 5: That's crazy, Let's keep us on the download because I'm embarrassed. 799 00:42:40,760 --> 00:42:44,399 Speaker 1: Yeah. I've always said, like, for some reason when we're 800 00:42:44,440 --> 00:42:46,640 Speaker 1: growing up, people used to say, who had sex? Let 801 00:42:46,680 --> 00:42:48,560 Speaker 1: let's just keep this between us. Let's keep this on 802 00:42:48,600 --> 00:42:52,240 Speaker 1: the d L. What's for the don't kiss and tell thing? Yeah, 803 00:42:52,280 --> 00:42:55,040 Speaker 1: And if you want to have sex with someone and 804 00:42:55,080 --> 00:42:57,399 Speaker 1: say that, don't have fucking sex with them, own it. 805 00:42:57,960 --> 00:42:59,920 Speaker 5: Yeah. I'm just trying to think of me proud if 806 00:43:00,120 --> 00:43:05,399 Speaker 5: I had a one night stand with a someone of 807 00:43:05,440 --> 00:43:08,920 Speaker 5: the female agenda and the next morning they said, hohld, look, 808 00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:11,720 Speaker 5: can we just keep some down like I'd. 809 00:43:11,800 --> 00:43:16,799 Speaker 1: Like, I'm sure, but also am I that? Yeah? That's 810 00:43:16,800 --> 00:43:19,560 Speaker 1: for the people who think with their downstairs, I reckon yeah, 811 00:43:19,719 --> 00:43:21,400 Speaker 1: and then the next morning they're regretting it. 812 00:43:21,600 --> 00:43:21,839 Speaker 2: Yeah. 813 00:43:21,880 --> 00:43:25,080 Speaker 5: I don't think i've actually I haven't said to someone. 814 00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:26,719 Speaker 1: Can we keep something down? Why I haven't. I've always 815 00:43:26,760 --> 00:43:29,680 Speaker 1: thought that was weird. Yeah, it's like I'm a shamed 816 00:43:29,680 --> 00:43:32,000 Speaker 1: that of what I just did. Like gus, I got lucky, 817 00:43:32,080 --> 00:43:34,920 Speaker 1: let's go. Yeah, like obviously don't go and kiss and 818 00:43:34,920 --> 00:43:37,320 Speaker 1: tell everyone I like walking back, Yeah I just smashed 819 00:43:37,320 --> 00:43:39,479 Speaker 1: some and so yeah yeah yeah, yeah, but your mates 820 00:43:40,040 --> 00:43:41,080 Speaker 1: just be like, yeah. 821 00:43:41,360 --> 00:43:43,600 Speaker 5: Yeah, what's wrong with doing something that you made a 822 00:43:43,680 --> 00:43:45,320 Speaker 5: choice to do it? And then when someone asks you 823 00:43:45,360 --> 00:43:46,640 Speaker 5: say no, no, no, no, I won't kiss. 824 00:43:47,000 --> 00:43:53,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's no confusing. Yeah, it's kind of like it's 825 00:43:53,719 --> 00:43:54,800 Speaker 1: almost like you cheated. 826 00:43:56,280 --> 00:43:59,359 Speaker 5: It gets reminiscent of someone that would ask let's keep 827 00:43:59,400 --> 00:44:01,160 Speaker 5: us on the d L. Is someone that is cheating 828 00:44:01,160 --> 00:44:03,719 Speaker 5: on a girlfriend or a boyfriend. Yeah, but that's what 829 00:44:03,719 --> 00:44:07,759 Speaker 5: I would think of when when you're fully single and 830 00:44:08,320 --> 00:44:10,880 Speaker 5: just out having fun and you ask someone to keep 831 00:44:10,920 --> 00:44:11,480 Speaker 5: it on the d L. 832 00:44:12,280 --> 00:44:15,359 Speaker 1: Why. We have one mate who used to always do it. 833 00:44:15,520 --> 00:44:17,440 Speaker 1: Yeah it was because he did it though, because he 834 00:44:17,520 --> 00:44:21,000 Speaker 1: was like talking to a girl. I don't think she 835 00:44:21,080 --> 00:44:25,879 Speaker 1: really knew they were talking, so he would tell me 836 00:44:25,960 --> 00:44:29,920 Speaker 1: that they're talking and then don't tell anyone, but because 837 00:44:29,960 --> 00:44:33,279 Speaker 1: if it got back to her, she'd probably run. Yeah. 838 00:44:33,800 --> 00:44:36,920 Speaker 5: Also, what was with when we were a bit younger 839 00:44:37,040 --> 00:44:41,920 Speaker 5: and we would start talking to someone in a so 840 00:44:42,160 --> 00:44:43,960 Speaker 5: we're talking about the other week? How we call it tuning, 841 00:44:44,280 --> 00:44:46,759 Speaker 5: But now it's just you know, we're talking. When you 842 00:44:46,800 --> 00:44:48,799 Speaker 5: start talking to someone where you know, it's a bit 843 00:44:48,800 --> 00:44:50,600 Speaker 5: of romance involved in the sense that you have feelings 844 00:44:50,600 --> 00:44:51,799 Speaker 5: for them, you have a little crush, you want take 845 00:44:51,800 --> 00:44:54,120 Speaker 5: them on a date. I remember when we were younger 846 00:44:55,560 --> 00:44:57,000 Speaker 5: at school, maybe you'd bring your. 847 00:44:57,040 --> 00:44:59,439 Speaker 1: Best mate aside. You know, I'm talking to blah blah blah. 848 00:44:59,440 --> 00:45:03,320 Speaker 1: But gep on, why why I keep it from DL 849 00:45:03,680 --> 00:45:06,680 Speaker 1: In that whole era, I had a girlfriend and I 850 00:45:06,719 --> 00:45:09,200 Speaker 1: couldn't even talk to at lunch because I was too scarce. 851 00:45:12,440 --> 00:45:15,040 Speaker 1: I remember having a girlfriend in year six. 852 00:45:16,440 --> 00:45:19,799 Speaker 6: And before we before I asked her to be my girlfriend, 853 00:45:20,239 --> 00:45:25,680 Speaker 6: I was we would message on kick kick, we'd message 854 00:45:25,719 --> 00:45:30,040 Speaker 6: on kick and then I don't know, and then we 855 00:45:31,000 --> 00:45:33,719 Speaker 6: at school would always talk and then. 856 00:45:33,920 --> 00:45:36,839 Speaker 5: One day ask her to be my girlfriend. Didn't say 857 00:45:36,840 --> 00:45:40,080 Speaker 5: a word to her in person since for three months. 858 00:45:40,120 --> 00:45:41,640 Speaker 5: I didn't say a word to her in person. 859 00:45:41,719 --> 00:45:45,040 Speaker 1: I remember my year six girlfriend, I didn't talk to 860 00:45:45,080 --> 00:45:48,640 Speaker 1: her either, and it was Easter and I bought her 861 00:45:48,680 --> 00:45:50,880 Speaker 1: an Easter bunny, but I didn't have the balls to 862 00:45:50,920 --> 00:45:52,640 Speaker 1: talk to her, so I just dropped it on her 863 00:45:52,680 --> 00:45:59,160 Speaker 1: bag and then ran away. What time the girlfriend had 864 00:45:59,239 --> 00:46:01,480 Speaker 1: your six? One time we. 865 00:46:00,880 --> 00:46:03,319 Speaker 5: Both went out to check out backpack or something for 866 00:46:03,480 --> 00:46:05,920 Speaker 5: a book maybe, and so there's no one else out 867 00:46:05,920 --> 00:46:08,440 Speaker 5: in the hall, and it was it was a situation 868 00:46:08,520 --> 00:46:13,160 Speaker 5: where you know, we're boyfriend and girlfriend, boyfriend and girlfriend 869 00:46:13,480 --> 00:46:18,840 Speaker 5: in quotations, but we looked at each other and just thought, fuck, 870 00:46:18,880 --> 00:46:22,360 Speaker 5: we actually have to talk right now. So I just 871 00:46:22,440 --> 00:46:25,000 Speaker 5: remember she just goes, oh, hey, and I was like hey, 872 00:46:25,080 --> 00:46:26,800 Speaker 5: and then she just walked back into class and I 873 00:46:26,880 --> 00:46:31,279 Speaker 5: was like, this is the best day ever. And then 874 00:46:31,360 --> 00:46:35,239 Speaker 5: one time, I remember in year six, there was a 875 00:46:35,280 --> 00:46:39,520 Speaker 5: couple couple, a couple couples, and a couple of them 876 00:46:39,560 --> 00:46:42,000 Speaker 5: would have a cheeky little first kiss, like a little 877 00:46:42,040 --> 00:46:42,799 Speaker 5: pack and. 878 00:46:42,719 --> 00:46:45,640 Speaker 1: There was a whole crowd around here. Yeah, at like lunch. 879 00:46:46,520 --> 00:46:49,560 Speaker 5: And then one time me and my girlfriend were in 880 00:46:49,600 --> 00:46:53,480 Speaker 5: the same area and someone goes like, why don't you 881 00:46:53,520 --> 00:46:55,440 Speaker 5: guys do it and someone goes, why don't you just 882 00:46:55,480 --> 00:46:56,160 Speaker 5: at least hug? 883 00:46:57,400 --> 00:47:00,160 Speaker 1: I was like, what the fuck is going on? And 884 00:47:00,200 --> 00:47:02,080 Speaker 1: she goes, oh, yeah, I could give them my hugs. 885 00:47:02,080 --> 00:47:03,600 Speaker 5: You came out, gave me a hug, just like walked 886 00:47:03,600 --> 00:47:05,640 Speaker 5: back to the other side of the circle. 887 00:47:05,680 --> 00:47:07,120 Speaker 1: I was like, what's going on right now? 888 00:47:07,200 --> 00:47:07,359 Speaker 2: Bro? 889 00:47:07,719 --> 00:47:09,640 Speaker 5: Thinking back on it is hilarious. 890 00:47:09,680 --> 00:47:11,879 Speaker 1: I remember in year seven I had that scenario too, 891 00:47:11,920 --> 00:47:15,840 Speaker 1: where I was dating a girl. Everyone's like kiss. Yeah, 892 00:47:17,400 --> 00:47:21,000 Speaker 1: like we're in a fight. But what in the world 893 00:47:21,160 --> 00:47:23,319 Speaker 1: do you go through? You know what it's like. Now 894 00:47:24,239 --> 00:47:26,279 Speaker 1: they probably just like message each other. They probably don't 895 00:47:26,280 --> 00:47:30,440 Speaker 1: even like communicate at lunch, but we I didn't, who knows, 896 00:47:30,920 --> 00:47:31,600 Speaker 1: who knows? 897 00:47:32,160 --> 00:47:34,200 Speaker 5: Very funny, it's probably so different. 898 00:47:34,320 --> 00:47:44,320 Speaker 1: What a time to be alive. I feel old batties. 899 00:47:44,400 --> 00:47:46,560 Speaker 5: Before we get into dilemmas. 900 00:47:46,840 --> 00:47:47,799 Speaker 1: I just have something to say. 901 00:47:49,120 --> 00:47:51,279 Speaker 5: We're looking pretty bloody close to doing a live show 902 00:47:51,360 --> 00:47:52,040 Speaker 5: right about now. 903 00:47:52,120 --> 00:47:54,319 Speaker 1: Yeah, you guys are kind of like turning up too much. 904 00:47:54,440 --> 00:47:57,280 Speaker 5: Yeah, you guys are trying to go quicker than we anticipated. 905 00:47:57,480 --> 00:47:58,400 Speaker 1: Chill out a little bit. 906 00:47:59,080 --> 00:48:01,640 Speaker 5: No, no, no, make it quicker, is what I'm trying 907 00:48:01,680 --> 00:48:05,920 Speaker 5: to say. So Patreon forward slash relatables dot com. 908 00:48:05,960 --> 00:48:07,279 Speaker 1: I assume takes you there. 909 00:48:07,680 --> 00:48:10,560 Speaker 5: I don't know, maybe hopefully anyway, the description links in 910 00:48:10,560 --> 00:48:13,520 Speaker 5: the description. If you want an extra episode every Thursday, 911 00:48:13,600 --> 00:48:15,680 Speaker 5: and if you want the book Club episode five days 912 00:48:15,680 --> 00:48:18,319 Speaker 5: early on a Monday, then go. Sign up is five 913 00:48:18,360 --> 00:48:20,759 Speaker 5: dollars a month, super cheap. Sign up through the website 914 00:48:20,920 --> 00:48:22,520 Speaker 5: because if you sign up, if you get the app 915 00:48:22,560 --> 00:48:24,120 Speaker 5: and make an account and sign up through the app, 916 00:48:24,520 --> 00:48:29,919 Speaker 5: then Apple takes a cut from you, they charge you more. 917 00:48:30,600 --> 00:48:31,800 Speaker 5: So if you go do it all through the website, 918 00:48:31,800 --> 00:48:33,640 Speaker 5: then you pay a little less, which is good. And 919 00:48:34,000 --> 00:48:35,560 Speaker 5: if you've got a thousand paid members by the end 920 00:48:35,560 --> 00:48:37,319 Speaker 5: of the year or just whenever we get it, we're 921 00:48:37,320 --> 00:48:39,920 Speaker 5: doing a live show, but the free version if you're 922 00:48:39,920 --> 00:48:42,880 Speaker 5: a little tight on coin. If we get ten thousand 923 00:48:42,960 --> 00:48:46,040 Speaker 5: reviews on Spotify, hope preferably five stars. 924 00:48:46,120 --> 00:48:48,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, whatever you If you feel like the show doesn't 925 00:48:48,440 --> 00:48:50,800 Speaker 1: deserve it, then whatever, say it with full chest. I 926 00:48:50,800 --> 00:48:51,600 Speaker 1: don't want to hear it. 927 00:48:52,520 --> 00:48:54,239 Speaker 5: But if we get ten thousand reviews, we'll also do 928 00:48:54,280 --> 00:48:55,920 Speaker 5: a live show so which everyone comes. 929 00:48:55,760 --> 00:48:59,120 Speaker 1: First care and the thousand members looks like it might 930 00:48:59,160 --> 00:49:01,839 Speaker 1: become Well, yesterday we had I think seven hundred and 931 00:49:01,840 --> 00:49:03,960 Speaker 1: thirty paid members, and then this morning Oddie sent me 932 00:49:03,960 --> 00:49:06,600 Speaker 1: a thing with seven hundred and eighty eights. It's pretty quick. 933 00:49:06,640 --> 00:49:12,200 Speaker 1: We might have to start planning. That's crazy, yer, But also, 934 00:49:12,320 --> 00:49:13,400 Speaker 1: we love you all. We love you. 935 00:49:13,560 --> 00:49:16,840 Speaker 5: Okay, time for dilemmas. This is titled should I confess 936 00:49:16,920 --> 00:49:18,440 Speaker 5: my feelings to my guy? Best friend? 937 00:49:20,480 --> 00:49:21,080 Speaker 1: I've known him? 938 00:49:21,120 --> 00:49:24,960 Speaker 5: No, I've known him for close to two years. We 939 00:49:25,000 --> 00:49:27,880 Speaker 5: met a friend, so we met at a friend's dinner 940 00:49:27,920 --> 00:49:30,279 Speaker 5: party where I got really sick and ended up in 941 00:49:30,320 --> 00:49:32,720 Speaker 5: the er, and he stayed with me the entire time. 942 00:49:33,320 --> 00:49:36,000 Speaker 5: We became instant friends, but initially hung out as a trio. 943 00:49:36,960 --> 00:49:40,120 Speaker 5: Eventually we started hanging out alone. He'd picked me up 944 00:49:40,160 --> 00:49:43,200 Speaker 5: from my apartment every day and we'd walk to university together, 945 00:49:43,560 --> 00:49:45,960 Speaker 5: go on nightly strolls that would last hours, and just 946 00:49:46,000 --> 00:49:49,000 Speaker 5: hang out. At this point, I didn't like him, and 947 00:49:49,040 --> 00:49:52,120 Speaker 5: I didn't think he liked me. His ex girlfriend, who 948 00:49:52,160 --> 00:49:54,800 Speaker 5: cheated on him, was close with some of my friends. 949 00:49:55,000 --> 00:49:58,839 Speaker 5: He was quite messed up from that entire experience. Four 950 00:49:58,840 --> 00:50:02,920 Speaker 5: months ago, out of nowhere, he ghosts our entire friend group. 951 00:50:03,680 --> 00:50:07,160 Speaker 5: To say I was devastated was an understatement. I cried 952 00:50:07,200 --> 00:50:11,520 Speaker 5: for days, but eventually got over it. At this point, 953 00:50:11,719 --> 00:50:14,360 Speaker 5: I realized that I liked him and just buried the 954 00:50:14,400 --> 00:50:17,840 Speaker 5: feelings because I was so hurt over how he basically 955 00:50:17,880 --> 00:50:20,959 Speaker 5: just blocked me everywhere. My friends and I started calling 956 00:50:21,080 --> 00:50:25,040 Speaker 5: him worm Tail because well, he's a traitor like Peter Pettigrew. 957 00:50:26,440 --> 00:50:29,280 Speaker 5: About a month ago, I found out from our mutual 958 00:50:29,360 --> 00:50:31,839 Speaker 5: friend that he asked her if I had feelings for him, 959 00:50:31,880 --> 00:50:35,920 Speaker 5: and she told him no without even asking me. I 960 00:50:36,000 --> 00:50:40,480 Speaker 5: was upset all over again, and I'm considering confessing because 961 00:50:40,480 --> 00:50:44,600 Speaker 5: another guy friend of mine made me realize that our 962 00:50:44,640 --> 00:50:48,719 Speaker 5: relationship was never platonic. He said, no guy wakes up 963 00:50:48,760 --> 00:50:52,320 Speaker 5: an hour early to walk to UNI with just anyone 964 00:50:52,640 --> 00:50:55,840 Speaker 5: nor reads one hundred and fifty thousand words of Draco 965 00:50:55,880 --> 00:50:58,640 Speaker 5: and Malfoy slash Hermione fan fiction for their girl best 966 00:50:58,680 --> 00:51:04,680 Speaker 5: friend facts. Wait, why is Draco and I guess it's. 967 00:51:04,560 --> 00:51:05,720 Speaker 1: A fan fiction? Who cares? 968 00:51:06,200 --> 00:51:10,319 Speaker 5: Draco and Hermione wouldn't never have sex our schedule it's 969 00:51:10,360 --> 00:51:15,000 Speaker 5: too hot ones. Our schedule changed, and now we have 970 00:51:15,120 --> 00:51:19,239 Speaker 5: rotations together. We're both third year med students, and I'm 971 00:51:19,280 --> 00:51:22,200 Speaker 5: spending hours with him every day and he's acting like 972 00:51:22,280 --> 00:51:24,800 Speaker 5: he didn't ghost me for four months and nothing happened. 973 00:51:25,360 --> 00:51:28,040 Speaker 5: He wants to go on walks again and talk about sopranos, 974 00:51:28,280 --> 00:51:31,279 Speaker 5: like nothing happened. Should I confess I like him? And 975 00:51:31,320 --> 00:51:33,880 Speaker 5: if so, how do I do that? Because I've only 976 00:51:33,920 --> 00:51:36,880 Speaker 5: ever had men approach me, not the other way around. 977 00:51:37,360 --> 00:51:39,920 Speaker 5: Sorry for the rant, but this is legit driving me 978 00:51:39,920 --> 00:51:42,120 Speaker 5: crazy and I can't focus on my exams. I love 979 00:51:42,160 --> 00:51:47,680 Speaker 5: the pod and we'd love to hear guy's opinion. We 980 00:51:47,719 --> 00:51:50,960 Speaker 5: love a confession. Little do you guys know that was 981 00:51:51,000 --> 00:51:52,880 Speaker 5: not just a dilemma but also a confession. 982 00:51:54,520 --> 00:51:59,040 Speaker 1: Girls and guys can never just be best friends. Yeah. Ever, 983 00:52:00,120 --> 00:52:04,760 Speaker 1: and this guy has ghosted you because I bet he 984 00:52:04,880 --> 00:52:07,680 Speaker 1: was falling more and more in love with you but 985 00:52:08,080 --> 00:52:10,319 Speaker 1: didn't feel like you felt the same way. So the 986 00:52:10,320 --> 00:52:12,200 Speaker 1: best thing for him to do was take a step away. 987 00:52:12,400 --> 00:52:15,280 Speaker 1: He was too scared, and you were also too scared 988 00:52:15,280 --> 00:52:17,000 Speaker 1: to say anything, so you're in the same boat. The 989 00:52:17,040 --> 00:52:19,360 Speaker 1: answer is simple, Tell this man that you want to 990 00:52:19,400 --> 00:52:22,359 Speaker 1: fall deeply in love with him, Go and make it 991 00:52:22,480 --> 00:52:26,320 Speaker 1: like a movie. Yeah, it's right there for you both 992 00:52:26,360 --> 00:52:29,520 Speaker 1: to take. It will be the best story ever. It happened. 993 00:52:29,719 --> 00:52:31,279 Speaker 1: She said, like, how do I do it. You should 994 00:52:31,320 --> 00:52:33,400 Speaker 1: go up to him. Yeah, okay, we're in med schools 995 00:52:33,440 --> 00:52:34,879 Speaker 1: were he's smart, lab coats on. 996 00:52:35,760 --> 00:52:38,000 Speaker 5: Graz a grazing out of me hard. I never really 997 00:52:38,000 --> 00:52:40,120 Speaker 5: watched that show, but I know it's just doctors doing 998 00:52:40,200 --> 00:52:42,960 Speaker 5: surgery and then fucking yeah, do something great out of me. 999 00:52:43,040 --> 00:52:45,359 Speaker 1: You're just in the lab with him, dissecting a rat 1000 00:52:45,440 --> 00:52:48,720 Speaker 1: or whatever you do, and then you walk out, grab 1001 00:52:48,760 --> 00:52:52,439 Speaker 1: his hand, pull him around and be like, James, I've 1002 00:52:52,560 --> 00:52:55,040 Speaker 1: liked you this whole time. And she'll be like, no 1003 00:52:55,080 --> 00:52:57,200 Speaker 1: one's going to do this. What was this crazy? So 1004 00:52:57,440 --> 00:53:00,000 Speaker 1: like a fucking movie that wouldn't even happen in a movie. 1005 00:53:00,120 --> 00:53:02,359 Speaker 5: You can go to like his apartment especial rocks at 1006 00:53:02,360 --> 00:53:04,680 Speaker 5: the window or some shit, and with like with a 1007 00:53:04,719 --> 00:53:05,640 Speaker 5: speaker over your head. 1008 00:53:05,760 --> 00:53:08,040 Speaker 1: I was going to say, he was going to say, 1009 00:53:08,239 --> 00:53:10,040 Speaker 1: in front of everyone, just fucking grab his hand and 1010 00:53:10,040 --> 00:53:13,520 Speaker 1: spin him around while they're horny. After dissecting the rats, 1011 00:53:14,239 --> 00:53:16,800 Speaker 1: you said, I'm just connecting all the dots. You said, 1012 00:53:17,000 --> 00:53:19,920 Speaker 1: Gray's anatomy, They fucking do some surgeries, and then they 1013 00:53:19,960 --> 00:53:22,799 Speaker 1: have sex. I just said those three things, and now 1014 00:53:22,840 --> 00:53:27,920 Speaker 1: you're saying what you were meant to go with me, 1015 00:53:28,360 --> 00:53:30,640 Speaker 1: James was gonna say, I should have called him Draco, 1016 00:53:30,680 --> 00:53:33,000 Speaker 1: but let's call him Draco. Was going to be like, 1017 00:53:33,120 --> 00:53:35,680 Speaker 1: she just grabbed his hand in back, Commione, I like 1018 00:53:35,760 --> 00:53:38,080 Speaker 1: you do. Let's do something with Harry Potter. 1019 00:53:38,239 --> 00:53:40,279 Speaker 5: Well, he's the one that read you one hundred and 1020 00:53:40,320 --> 00:53:42,040 Speaker 5: fifty thousand words thing crazy. By the way, it's a 1021 00:53:42,080 --> 00:53:44,360 Speaker 5: lot of words. One hundred and fifty thousand words of 1022 00:53:44,480 --> 00:53:48,120 Speaker 5: Draco and Hermione fan fiction. How do you loop this in? 1023 00:53:50,400 --> 00:53:53,879 Speaker 1: What a spell? Or look up if he knows look 1024 00:53:53,960 --> 00:53:56,239 Speaker 1: up for spell? Then make someone fall in love with 1025 00:53:56,280 --> 00:53:58,440 Speaker 1: you on Harry Potter and then say it to him 1026 00:53:58,480 --> 00:54:01,400 Speaker 1: with a Wand that's funny. 1027 00:54:02,280 --> 00:54:06,080 Speaker 5: My next thing is how far is his apartment from 1028 00:54:06,080 --> 00:54:12,080 Speaker 5: your apartment? If it's not far, all right, fat, shut 1029 00:54:12,160 --> 00:54:13,160 Speaker 5: the fucker. 1030 00:54:14,800 --> 00:54:17,719 Speaker 1: I'm saying, is what you do? Okay? This could be 1031 00:54:17,840 --> 00:54:20,760 Speaker 1: absolutely insane, but it's funny. 1032 00:54:22,280 --> 00:54:28,520 Speaker 5: You go, Okay, he's just walking at this point in time. 1033 00:54:28,680 --> 00:54:30,680 Speaker 5: I'm going to tell it in this order, so so 1034 00:54:30,680 --> 00:54:32,759 Speaker 5: I don't give it away to you either. So you're 1035 00:54:32,760 --> 00:54:35,040 Speaker 5: at home right now, Okay. So he walks in his 1036 00:54:35,080 --> 00:54:37,799 Speaker 5: door and he sees on his bed. I don't know 1037 00:54:37,800 --> 00:54:39,200 Speaker 5: how you got it in there. Figure it out. 1038 00:54:39,440 --> 00:54:40,680 Speaker 1: You got to get it into his room. 1039 00:54:40,680 --> 00:54:47,680 Speaker 5: Basically, he sees a note and a Draco Malfoy costume. Okay, 1040 00:54:48,080 --> 00:54:51,600 Speaker 5: and the note says, I don't know, come get hermione, 1041 00:54:51,600 --> 00:54:55,200 Speaker 5: big boy, and then your address and he knows you're 1042 00:54:55,320 --> 00:54:56,160 Speaker 5: just anyway, but whatever. 1043 00:54:56,360 --> 00:54:58,280 Speaker 8: And then you're at your house dressed up as hermione 1044 00:54:58,400 --> 00:55:01,239 Speaker 8: and he just comes indoor AM's open, bro. 1045 00:55:04,040 --> 00:55:05,760 Speaker 1: And you, guys, we don't have to tell you the spells. 1046 00:55:06,760 --> 00:55:08,320 Speaker 1: He's got one. He says some spell like get on 1047 00:55:08,320 --> 00:55:10,319 Speaker 1: your knees or something I don't know. And then and 1048 00:55:10,360 --> 00:55:13,800 Speaker 1: then if he doesn't come, go back to his house. 1049 00:55:14,800 --> 00:55:21,080 Speaker 1: Expelling dead. Yeah, almost the kill one too. 1050 00:55:21,200 --> 00:55:24,240 Speaker 5: I think expelling armis is just like disarm your opponent. 1051 00:55:25,000 --> 00:55:36,960 Speaker 1: I'm sure disarm the close. But basically tell him without scenarios, 1052 00:55:37,000 --> 00:55:39,720 Speaker 1: you could say absolutely anything and it will work, because 1053 00:55:40,160 --> 00:55:40,839 Speaker 1: he's in love with. 1054 00:55:40,800 --> 00:55:45,040 Speaker 5: You, girl, and he has the fact that he is 1055 00:55:45,200 --> 00:55:48,160 Speaker 5: just so he ghosted you because it was too hard 1056 00:55:48,200 --> 00:55:49,640 Speaker 5: to talk to you and he was too much of 1057 00:55:49,640 --> 00:55:50,960 Speaker 5: a baby to tell you his feelings. 1058 00:55:51,040 --> 00:55:53,799 Speaker 1: Right. Well, he didn't think that she liked him back. 1059 00:55:53,840 --> 00:55:57,360 Speaker 5: Yeah, no exactly, But now that you have these classes together, 1060 00:55:57,800 --> 00:56:01,400 Speaker 5: it's just all come flooding back, and he wants it. 1061 00:56:01,520 --> 00:56:04,480 Speaker 1: He can't help the emotions. He wants it to go. 1062 00:56:04,560 --> 00:56:08,200 Speaker 1: Get it all right, guys. Next dilemma. Hey guys, I 1063 00:56:08,280 --> 00:56:09,840 Speaker 1: just want to say I love the pod and the 1064 00:56:09,880 --> 00:56:14,360 Speaker 1: Baddies book Club. You guys are amazing. Thank you very much. Anyways, 1065 00:56:14,360 --> 00:56:17,200 Speaker 1: here's my dilemma. I have been with my boyfriend for 1066 00:56:17,239 --> 00:56:20,279 Speaker 1: almost two years in August. I absolutely love him and 1067 00:56:20,320 --> 00:56:24,320 Speaker 1: want to marry him. He's really the guy of my dreams. However, 1068 00:56:24,719 --> 00:56:29,279 Speaker 1: didn't use it butt however. Smart About a few months ago, 1069 00:56:29,360 --> 00:56:32,440 Speaker 1: he told me he wanted to stop having sex with me. 1070 00:56:33,280 --> 00:56:35,920 Speaker 1: I was super confused because he never really had any 1071 00:56:36,000 --> 00:56:38,400 Speaker 1: issues with it before for the entire year and a 1072 00:56:38,440 --> 00:56:40,799 Speaker 1: half we'd been with each other, and he hasn't been 1073 00:56:40,840 --> 00:56:43,640 Speaker 1: acting any different or acting like he doesn't want to 1074 00:56:43,680 --> 00:56:46,439 Speaker 1: be with me. We are planning on moving in soon, too, 1075 00:56:46,560 --> 00:56:48,520 Speaker 1: so I asked him why this was the case, and 1076 00:56:48,560 --> 00:56:50,840 Speaker 1: he just said he was scared of me being pregnant 1077 00:56:51,120 --> 00:56:54,920 Speaker 1: and if we live together it would be different. Months 1078 00:56:54,920 --> 00:56:57,719 Speaker 1: go by, and we still do other things together like 1079 00:56:57,960 --> 00:57:01,279 Speaker 1: oral for play and all that other st just not penetration. 1080 00:57:01,960 --> 00:57:04,239 Speaker 1: Any who. A few weeks ago, he comes to me 1081 00:57:04,320 --> 00:57:06,040 Speaker 1: and tells me he no longer wants to do other 1082 00:57:06,080 --> 00:57:08,600 Speaker 1: stuff with me. He only wants to kiss me, but 1083 00:57:08,680 --> 00:57:11,640 Speaker 1: he doesn't want to do anything sexual at all. He's 1084 00:57:11,680 --> 00:57:13,759 Speaker 1: even hesitated to touch me in any way that is 1085 00:57:13,760 --> 00:57:16,640 Speaker 1: in my hands or my waist. And he tells me 1086 00:57:16,720 --> 00:57:19,480 Speaker 1: the reason is because he wants to strengthen his relationship 1087 00:57:19,520 --> 00:57:22,960 Speaker 1: with God, and he feels guilty when he does things 1088 00:57:22,960 --> 00:57:25,960 Speaker 1: with me. He's never been a super godly type person, 1089 00:57:26,040 --> 00:57:28,600 Speaker 1: so I don't understand where this is coming from. Only 1090 00:57:28,640 --> 00:57:31,160 Speaker 1: thing we do is like go to church. We aren't 1091 00:57:31,200 --> 00:57:36,360 Speaker 1: super religiously motivated at all. Full stop? Am I an 1092 00:57:36,400 --> 00:57:39,200 Speaker 1: asshole for wanting to sleep with my boyfriend and holding 1093 00:57:39,280 --> 00:57:44,120 Speaker 1: him from, in quotes, strengthening his relationship with God? He 1094 00:57:44,160 --> 00:57:46,560 Speaker 1: told me he wanted to read the Bible and pray more, 1095 00:57:46,920 --> 00:57:48,480 Speaker 1: and I have yet to see him pick up the 1096 00:57:48,520 --> 00:57:51,600 Speaker 1: Bible even just once. What should I do? Thanks so much? 1097 00:57:51,640 --> 00:57:55,520 Speaker 1: I hope to hear from you guys. Tough one. 1098 00:57:55,600 --> 00:57:59,760 Speaker 5: It's a little hard a because I, I mean, yeah, 1099 00:58:00,080 --> 00:58:02,400 Speaker 5: religious at all, so I don't really know what it's. 1100 00:58:02,400 --> 00:58:06,520 Speaker 1: Like answer coming from two completely non religious dudes. 1101 00:58:07,000 --> 00:58:09,320 Speaker 5: Are we considered atheists? 1102 00:58:11,000 --> 00:58:13,760 Speaker 1: I guess so I don't actually one. I'm not baptized. 1103 00:58:13,960 --> 00:58:17,120 Speaker 1: I'm not bad my brother is. I'm not. Damn, you're filthy, 1104 00:58:18,280 --> 00:58:21,320 Speaker 1: dirty guy. I'm a Muggle. I muggle. 1105 00:58:21,480 --> 00:58:26,000 Speaker 5: Yeah, that would mean you're also half wizard. No, muggles 1106 00:58:26,040 --> 00:58:26,920 Speaker 5: are just humans. 1107 00:58:26,920 --> 00:58:29,040 Speaker 1: I thought all my terminologies were wrong. Yeah, muggles are 1108 00:58:29,040 --> 00:58:31,960 Speaker 1: just humans. Yeah muggle right, yeah you are just We're 1109 00:58:31,960 --> 00:58:34,080 Speaker 1: both just two muggles about to help this baddie out. 1110 00:58:34,280 --> 00:58:37,840 Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't actually know. Okay, side note, this is 1111 00:58:37,960 --> 00:58:41,000 Speaker 5: not I hope there's nothing to do. No similarities in 1112 00:58:41,080 --> 00:58:43,400 Speaker 5: your story. Basically, we have a friend that went through 1113 00:58:43,400 --> 00:58:47,000 Speaker 5: something semi similar where the whole his whole relationship, his 1114 00:58:47,080 --> 00:58:50,320 Speaker 5: girlfriend was part of a religion but didn't practice it 1115 00:58:50,440 --> 00:58:53,880 Speaker 5: strictly right, and then randomly she started talking about wanting 1116 00:58:53,880 --> 00:58:56,320 Speaker 5: to start practicing it more strictly, which would mean no 1117 00:58:56,360 --> 00:58:59,080 Speaker 5: more sex, you know, waiting till marriage and type stuff 1118 00:58:59,120 --> 00:58:59,400 Speaker 5: like that. 1119 00:58:59,720 --> 00:59:01,720 Speaker 1: Turn Out she was cheating on him the whole time. 1120 00:59:03,000 --> 00:59:06,520 Speaker 5: It's fucking heavy. Yeah, I I hope that it's doesn't. 1121 00:59:06,560 --> 00:59:09,600 Speaker 5: That's not what's happening, obviously, But because you know, you 1122 00:59:09,640 --> 00:59:12,120 Speaker 5: know your boyfriend better than we do, because we don't 1123 00:59:12,120 --> 00:59:12,800 Speaker 5: know him at all. 1124 00:59:12,880 --> 00:59:16,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, I want to say there's something in he hasn't 1125 00:59:16,880 --> 00:59:20,240 Speaker 1: picked up the Bible, Like why go to the fullest 1126 00:59:20,240 --> 00:59:22,520 Speaker 1: extent and say no more sex but he won't even 1127 00:59:22,960 --> 00:59:25,920 Speaker 1: read a few verses every night or something. It is interesting. 1128 00:59:26,000 --> 00:59:28,560 Speaker 5: Yeah, I'd say that this is a situation of how 1129 00:59:28,560 --> 00:59:31,600 Speaker 5: you were saying, you know you love him, you want 1130 00:59:31,760 --> 00:59:33,120 Speaker 5: you want this to be the man you marry. 1131 00:59:34,480 --> 00:59:35,560 Speaker 1: I think you just have to sit down and have 1132 00:59:35,560 --> 00:59:37,880 Speaker 1: a chat with him, like, okay, start of the relationship, 1133 00:59:37,920 --> 00:59:38,520 Speaker 1: this was the case. 1134 00:59:38,720 --> 00:59:43,160 Speaker 5: Yeah, And to be fair, you probably didn't if you 1135 00:59:43,160 --> 00:59:44,560 Speaker 5: didn't know at the time that you want to strengthen 1136 00:59:44,640 --> 00:59:47,000 Speaker 5: your relationship with God. That's cool. Now we need to 1137 00:59:47,000 --> 00:59:48,760 Speaker 5: have a serious chat about this, all right, because this 1138 00:59:48,800 --> 00:59:51,480 Speaker 5: is a massive change. There's going to be sacrifices that 1139 00:59:51,520 --> 00:59:53,800 Speaker 5: need to be made or we're gonna have to fucking 1140 00:59:53,840 --> 00:59:55,360 Speaker 5: go our separate ways exactly. 1141 00:59:55,800 --> 00:59:59,640 Speaker 1: And for you, like, you can respect his decision, but 1142 00:59:59,720 --> 01:00:03,440 Speaker 1: also it's completely fair that you leave because of this. 1143 01:00:03,480 --> 01:00:05,560 Speaker 1: If you want to, you're gonna put yourself first. Yeah, 1144 01:00:05,600 --> 01:00:07,800 Speaker 1: And like it's completely up to him what he does 1145 01:00:07,960 --> 01:00:11,720 Speaker 1: and honorable what he's doing. But also people are allowed 1146 01:00:11,720 --> 01:00:13,680 Speaker 1: to change, so what he's doing is completely fine. I 1147 01:00:13,680 --> 01:00:16,240 Speaker 1: guess this needs to be more of a more communication 1148 01:00:16,360 --> 01:00:18,200 Speaker 1: and sit down and make the decision. Then you also 1149 01:00:18,240 --> 01:00:19,960 Speaker 1: have to make the decision do you want to be 1150 01:00:20,120 --> 01:00:24,280 Speaker 1: celibate until marriage? Completely fine? If you don't, it's not 1151 01:00:24,360 --> 01:00:27,600 Speaker 1: your decision to be re You're not your relationship with 1152 01:00:27,640 --> 01:00:30,840 Speaker 1: God exactly. It's his journey. And like you went into 1153 01:00:30,880 --> 01:00:32,680 Speaker 1: it together having sex, so that's what you thought you 1154 01:00:32,720 --> 01:00:34,320 Speaker 1: were going to get out of it. And it's weird 1155 01:00:34,320 --> 01:00:36,520 Speaker 1: when you add sex into this situation. It sort of 1156 01:00:36,640 --> 01:00:40,200 Speaker 1: sounds slightly shallow, I guess, But also who cares? Sex 1157 01:00:40,280 --> 01:00:42,840 Speaker 1: is fine, it's the fundamentals of a relationship. 1158 01:00:42,880 --> 01:00:44,439 Speaker 5: I don't think it's shallow when you go from having 1159 01:00:44,480 --> 01:00:45,880 Speaker 5: sex to someone saying I don't want to do it 1160 01:00:45,960 --> 01:00:48,120 Speaker 5: toil marriage now, sorry, I want to strengthen my relationship 1161 01:00:48,160 --> 01:00:48,439 Speaker 5: with God. 1162 01:00:48,480 --> 01:00:50,919 Speaker 1: Also strengthening your relationship with God. 1163 01:00:51,360 --> 01:00:53,840 Speaker 5: All the stories that I've heard about God is that 1164 01:00:53,880 --> 01:00:56,520 Speaker 5: he seems to be pretty unforgiving for some reason, and 1165 01:00:56,560 --> 01:01:00,480 Speaker 5: I don't know why, but I could be wrong again 1166 01:01:01,000 --> 01:01:03,040 Speaker 5: and not really just but for some reason. The vibe 1167 01:01:03,040 --> 01:01:05,520 Speaker 5: I get is that he is unforgiving and that all 1168 01:01:05,560 --> 01:01:08,240 Speaker 5: of his priests are also unforgiving. So if you've had 1169 01:01:08,280 --> 01:01:10,200 Speaker 5: sex now, you're. 1170 01:01:10,080 --> 01:01:13,000 Speaker 1: Too far gone. True. I could be wrong again, but 1171 01:01:13,640 --> 01:01:16,360 Speaker 1: that's the vibe I get. Also, send me bad talking 1172 01:01:16,360 --> 01:01:18,840 Speaker 1: about vibes, send me bad vibe. He firstly said, I 1173 01:01:18,880 --> 01:01:24,480 Speaker 1: don't want to impregnate you. Pregnate, impregnate you, impregnate, impregnate you. 1174 01:01:25,440 --> 01:01:28,360 Speaker 1: And then he said the god thing, is there something 1175 01:01:28,360 --> 01:01:30,880 Speaker 1: else going on? I don't know something's going on. Yeah, 1176 01:01:30,880 --> 01:01:33,520 Speaker 1: you just need to get the truth out of him. Simply. 1177 01:01:33,560 --> 01:01:36,880 Speaker 1: The answer is have the conversation. You can respect what 1178 01:01:36,920 --> 01:01:38,480 Speaker 1: he's doing move on, or respect what you're doing and 1179 01:01:38,480 --> 01:01:41,320 Speaker 1: be by his side. Both are solutions that no one 1180 01:01:41,320 --> 01:01:42,000 Speaker 1: would judge you for. 1181 01:01:42,080 --> 01:01:42,120 Speaker 6: No. 1182 01:01:42,240 --> 01:01:44,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, I just put yourself first. Yeah, I'll forget that, 1183 01:01:50,760 --> 01:01:54,000 Speaker 1: all right, baddies. Before we end the episode, we both 1184 01:01:54,040 --> 01:01:56,920 Speaker 1: really just want to thank everyone for the support recently. 1185 01:01:57,320 --> 01:02:01,840 Speaker 1: It's been going amazingly. It's been awesome, absolutely awesome. And 1186 01:02:01,960 --> 01:02:03,720 Speaker 1: right now we're going to read out some comments. So 1187 01:02:03,760 --> 01:02:05,080 Speaker 1: if you want to get your comment read, all you 1188 01:02:05,080 --> 01:02:06,440 Speaker 1: have to do is comment below, and we picked them 1189 01:02:06,480 --> 01:02:10,680 Speaker 1: randomly every single week. I've got one from Clara. You 1190 01:02:10,760 --> 01:02:14,920 Speaker 1: guys are awesome. As an American, I love hearing about 1191 01:02:15,040 --> 01:02:18,600 Speaker 1: your life in Australia. I discovered you a week ago, 1192 01:02:18,840 --> 01:02:20,920 Speaker 1: go and have binged twenty episodes already. 1193 01:02:21,000 --> 01:02:21,240 Speaker 4: Damn. 1194 01:02:21,440 --> 01:02:23,280 Speaker 1: I hope you get this song on the radio. Let's go, 1195 01:02:23,720 --> 01:02:27,520 Speaker 1: thank you. I'll got one from Serene's Life. 1196 01:02:28,760 --> 01:02:31,520 Speaker 5: They gave a time stamp thirty four sorry, thirty two 1197 01:02:31,560 --> 01:02:34,000 Speaker 5: minutes forty seconds. And that was when I said Hill 1198 01:02:34,040 --> 01:02:37,640 Speaker 5: was willing to die on people that say expresso instead 1199 01:02:37,640 --> 01:02:43,400 Speaker 5: of espresso. They said, people who say et cetera instead 1200 01:02:43,440 --> 01:02:46,680 Speaker 5: of etcetera, and then Audi two minutes later said etc. 1201 01:02:47,160 --> 01:02:52,720 Speaker 1: Can you say it's etcetera? Say buried the way you 1202 01:02:52,760 --> 01:02:54,240 Speaker 1: just said it? No, you said how you'd say it. 1203 01:02:56,440 --> 01:02:58,040 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go out and I'm going to bury. 1204 01:02:58,800 --> 01:02:59,040 Speaker 4: Yeah. 1205 01:02:59,080 --> 01:03:02,200 Speaker 1: You say you say Berry a very name. 1206 01:03:02,440 --> 01:03:02,560 Speaker 7: Yea. 1207 01:03:03,800 --> 01:03:05,800 Speaker 1: I swear you just said it like that though. 1208 01:03:06,200 --> 01:03:10,640 Speaker 5: Okay, I got another good one here, Hill, I'm willing 1209 01:03:10,680 --> 01:03:13,800 Speaker 5: to die on. This is someone commenting from Kiara. By 1210 01:03:13,800 --> 01:03:15,400 Speaker 5: the way, Kiara burn Hill. 1211 01:03:15,240 --> 01:03:16,040 Speaker 1: I'm willing to die on. 1212 01:03:16,440 --> 01:03:21,720 Speaker 5: It's Rice and not Reese for Resand she says riceand 1213 01:03:22,160 --> 01:03:24,800 Speaker 5: not resand someone goes, must be a lonely Hill because 1214 01:03:24,800 --> 01:03:26,280 Speaker 5: it's definitely Resand. 1215 01:03:28,560 --> 01:03:31,920 Speaker 1: Sorry, girl, I got one from Emma. I've been listening 1216 01:03:31,920 --> 01:03:34,840 Speaker 1: to your songs multiple times a day since they were released. 1217 01:03:35,000 --> 01:03:37,000 Speaker 1: No Way, let's go. 1218 01:03:37,600 --> 01:03:41,360 Speaker 5: Last one from Martha Marcha is grinded up tea leaves 1219 01:03:41,360 --> 01:03:43,120 Speaker 5: for the most part. Ask them to sweeten it with honey. 1220 01:03:43,120 --> 01:03:45,760 Speaker 5: If it's not pre sweetened, how about no. 1221 01:03:48,080 --> 01:03:50,920 Speaker 1: Basically tip but still taste with some money in it. 1222 01:03:51,160 --> 01:03:53,520 Speaker 1: I had one here. No Marcha is so healthy and young. 1223 01:03:53,800 --> 01:03:59,600 Speaker 1: Nor it's time to call one of the badies. If 1224 01:03:59,600 --> 01:04:01,520 Speaker 1: you want to sign off one of these episodes, all 1225 01:04:01,560 --> 01:04:03,560 Speaker 1: you have to do is it's pinned in the description, 1226 01:04:03,920 --> 01:04:06,240 Speaker 1: fill it out, and we call one of you randomly. 1227 01:04:06,520 --> 01:04:12,240 Speaker 1: Today we're calling Violet. Let's go be on a break 1228 01:04:12,280 --> 01:04:18,680 Speaker 1: your violets. Hi, Hi, Violet, it's already And Jake from 1229 01:04:18,680 --> 01:04:20,120 Speaker 1: the Rolados podcast, how are you going? 1230 01:04:21,360 --> 01:04:26,040 Speaker 6: Oh my god, let's go, Violet. 1231 01:04:27,120 --> 01:04:29,280 Speaker 3: I have been waiting for this. 1232 01:04:29,760 --> 01:04:32,320 Speaker 1: Have you been sitting next to the phone since you've submitted? 1233 01:04:36,360 --> 01:04:39,160 Speaker 1: You actually got in because you've done it as double submit. 1234 01:04:39,240 --> 01:04:40,640 Speaker 1: I don't know if you did that on purpose, but 1235 01:04:40,680 --> 01:04:42,840 Speaker 1: it's planned to your advance. I was like, she's keen, 1236 01:04:42,960 --> 01:04:47,400 Speaker 1: she's going to pick up. Oh my god, But Violet, 1237 01:04:47,400 --> 01:04:49,400 Speaker 1: we would like to ask if you could please sign 1238 01:04:49,520 --> 01:04:52,000 Speaker 1: off the episode. You can do it in any way 1239 01:04:52,040 --> 01:04:54,800 Speaker 1: you see fit. You can say stay bad, some advice, 1240 01:04:54,960 --> 01:04:57,360 Speaker 1: you can roast Jake, roast me, whatever you want to do. 1241 01:04:57,720 --> 01:04:58,640 Speaker 1: The floor is yours. 1242 01:05:00,840 --> 01:05:03,320 Speaker 3: I'm signing off. Can I say, like a song. 1243 01:05:03,080 --> 01:05:04,439 Speaker 1: That everyone should listen to after? 1244 01:05:04,680 --> 01:05:08,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, everyone needs to listen to I love it. 1245 01:05:08,640 --> 01:05:10,800 Speaker 1: It's the song of the week. It's so good bye 1246 01:05:11,960 --> 01:05:15,520 Speaker 1: Charli x x X. I wish you could play it 1247 01:05:15,520 --> 01:05:17,320 Speaker 1: on him, but we're not allowed. We'll play it on Patriot. 1248 01:05:19,320 --> 01:05:20,280 Speaker 1: Thanks so much, Violet. 1249 01:05:20,360 --> 01:05:21,200 Speaker 6: Have a good day. 1250 01:05:21,440 --> 01:05:22,760 Speaker 2: Oh my god, thank you guys. 1251 01:05:23,000 --> 01:05:27,520 Speaker 1: Bye bye, but stay back. Guys. We love you.