WEBVTT - "His Mum Joined Us on Our First Date!" || HOTLINE 0:00:05.800 --> 0:00:08.200 Welcome back to the Where's Your Head At? Hotline, our 0:00:08.240 --> 0:00:10.840 weekly show where we catch up with each other and 0:00:10.880 --> 0:00:13.560 connect with you all on our hotline voicemail. 0:00:13.680 --> 0:00:15.560 We want to hear from you, guys, so please send 0:00:15.600 --> 0:00:18.840 your stories, questions, advice or tea to Where's Your head 0:00:18.840 --> 0:00:21.520 at pod at gmail dot com to be featured on 0:00:21.520 --> 0:00:22.440 one of our episodes. 0:00:22.600 --> 0:00:30.680 I'm Anna and I'm Matt. Let's jump in. Good morning, Good. 0:00:30.600 --> 0:00:33.160 Morning, Good morning Anna. How are you feeling today? 0:00:33.320 --> 0:00:35.760 I'm thirty one, having fun. 0:00:36.760 --> 0:00:39.040 Don't look at day over thirty big day. 0:00:41.159 --> 0:00:44.920 We celebrated my birthday on the weekend. Yes, well, we 0:00:44.960 --> 0:00:45.959 all went to Redhill. 0:00:46.200 --> 0:00:48.159 Yes, it was nice winery down there when we went 0:00:48.200 --> 0:00:49.680 to two wineries. Actually did? 0:00:49.720 --> 0:00:53.320 We went to Montalto and we went to Point Leo Estate, 0:00:53.400 --> 0:00:54.440 both incredible. 0:00:54.720 --> 0:00:57.400 Yes, so much fun. You stayed down there as well 0:00:57.440 --> 0:00:58.080 with Michael. 0:00:58.200 --> 0:01:00.640 I did. We stayed at the Lamps More in Red 0:01:00.680 --> 0:01:03.240 Hill and we had like the most amazing experience there. 0:01:03.280 --> 0:01:06.440 It was so nice, the grounds are amazing. It was 0:01:06.480 --> 0:01:08.680 just very romantic. I just was like, you know, when 0:01:08.680 --> 0:01:11.320 you romanticize your life, you know how they say, like 0:01:11.720 --> 0:01:14.399 on those TikTok videos, like romanticize your life and it 0:01:14.440 --> 0:01:16.399 was just like it was so nice. They had a 0:01:16.400 --> 0:01:19.800 cellar door at the hotel and they were playing like 0:01:20.200 --> 0:01:22.440 I don't know the type of music that I like, 0:01:22.440 --> 0:01:26.480 like jack Bots or like Ziggy Albert's type of slow 0:01:27.040 --> 0:01:31.160 I don't know vibe. We like walked over there and 0:01:31.200 --> 0:01:33.039 it was just like so chill, and I was like, 0:01:33.120 --> 0:01:35.240 this is heaven, Like this is gorgeous. 0:01:35.440 --> 0:01:37.120 You had some wines while you're down there and. 0:01:37.080 --> 0:01:39.880 Had some venos. We kind of were getting into a 0:01:39.920 --> 0:01:42.319 bit more like winter fashion as well. Had like a 0:01:42.319 --> 0:01:46.840 big jacket on. Sounds great by the fire. 0:01:48.560 --> 0:01:51.040 How good is the staycation with your partner doing that stuff? 0:01:51.080 --> 0:01:52.640 I love it when you're talking about it the other day, 0:01:52.640 --> 0:01:54.800 I was like, oh, that sounds so good. Yeah. 0:01:54.840 --> 0:01:57.400 I literally got home back to Melbourne and my dad 0:01:57.480 --> 0:01:59.760 was like, where were you staying? I want to stay there? 0:02:00.000 --> 0:02:02.600 Literally booked the same place because he was like, was 0:02:02.600 --> 0:02:04.440 it actually good? And I was like it was incredible. 0:02:04.600 --> 0:02:08.760 Definitely go there. So my parents have already booked. 0:02:08.880 --> 0:02:11.120 The same swart id a romantic get away do that? 0:02:11.560 --> 0:02:14.960 Yeah? Yeah, but anyway, I'm thirty one, Yeah, so how 0:02:15.000 --> 0:02:16.079 does it feeling thirty one? 0:02:16.120 --> 0:02:16.320 Now? 0:02:17.040 --> 0:02:20.359 You know what I was actually like completely fine with it. 0:02:20.600 --> 0:02:22.680 And you know how I said, like my friend Ciro 0:02:22.840 --> 0:02:24.919 had a bit of a wobble with turning thirty one 0:02:24.960 --> 0:02:27.600 because like she was kind of like, well, turning thirty, 0:02:27.720 --> 0:02:31.000 like you know, there's all of the you know, bars 0:02:31.000 --> 0:02:33.520 and excitement and the parties and like you kind of 0:02:33.680 --> 0:02:37.320 get lost in like the excitement of it all, and 0:02:37.360 --> 0:02:39.400 then she was a bit like worried about turning thirty one. 0:02:39.480 --> 0:02:43.480 From me, I didn't feel it until the very night before, 0:02:44.200 --> 0:02:47.280 so the last night of being thirty, and then I 0:02:47.400 --> 0:02:50.840 was like, shit, this is the last time I'm going 0:02:50.880 --> 0:02:53.440 to be able to say I'm thirty. So I made 0:02:53.600 --> 0:02:57.560 Michael ask me like ten times that night. I made 0:02:57.600 --> 0:02:59.880 him ask me how old I am, so he'd be 0:02:59.880 --> 0:03:01.320 like how old are you? And I was like, I'm thirty. 0:03:03.240 --> 0:03:05.520 And I literally did it like ten times because I 0:03:05.560 --> 0:03:07.080 was like, I just want to get it in like 0:03:07.120 --> 0:03:08.000 one last time. 0:03:08.240 --> 0:03:11.320 So there was no real like anxiety like around. It 0:03:11.360 --> 0:03:14.200 was just like turning another year older, the normal anxiety 0:03:14.240 --> 0:03:16.240 you get like every year when you're like, fuck, what 0:03:16.360 --> 0:03:17.840 happened to the last year of my life? 0:03:18.720 --> 0:03:18.960 Yeah? 0:03:18.960 --> 0:03:19.400 Did that go? 0:03:19.680 --> 0:03:21.240 But that's what I said to Michael. I'm like, what 0:03:21.280 --> 0:03:23.359 have I done when I'm thirty? Like, what what have 0:03:23.440 --> 0:03:25.840 I achieved? Like we have men, you like, we put 0:03:25.840 --> 0:03:28.079 a lot of pressure on ourselves to keep like pushing 0:03:28.080 --> 0:03:30.200 forward and doing all this stuff. And he's like, Babe, 0:03:30.200 --> 0:03:34.000 you've done so much, Like the podcast is doing amazing. 0:03:34.160 --> 0:03:37.840 You've almost hit two million listens, which we're gonna celebrate soon. 0:03:38.320 --> 0:03:40.440 You know. He's like, you got engaged at thirty. I 0:03:40.480 --> 0:03:41.680 was like, oh, yeah, I did too. 0:03:42.840 --> 0:03:44.760 I actually saw a TikTok the other day and it 0:03:44.840 --> 0:03:47.040 was do you watch Friends? 0:03:47.360 --> 0:03:49.160 Yeah, I've watched it here and there, but I wouldn't 0:03:49.160 --> 0:03:49.720 be able to like. 0:03:49.720 --> 0:03:52.760 Quote yeah, I loved it growing up and like watch 0:03:52.800 --> 0:03:54.600 it all the time. But it was saying how they 0:03:55.080 --> 0:03:58.320 the show started in they were like twenty five, yeah, 0:03:58.360 --> 0:04:00.600 and then so it finishes when they're thirty. So it's 0:04:00.640 --> 0:04:04.320 just real like perception of or like you, how your 0:04:04.360 --> 0:04:06.440 life isn't like growing up to your thirties and how 0:04:06.480 --> 0:04:09.080 where they starts where they finish and finish saying like 0:04:09.120 --> 0:04:11.600 you don't need to stress shit like their life starts 0:04:11.600 --> 0:04:13.800 to come at the end and it's still not this 0:04:13.920 --> 0:04:16.520 shit isn't sort of out and there like thirty five. Yeah, 0:04:16.600 --> 0:04:18.520 so you know what I mean? Yeah, So there's no 0:04:18.560 --> 0:04:21.160 real like saying don't stress about your age and where 0:04:21.200 --> 0:04:23.240 your life Isn't that? So that was a good TikTok. 0:04:23.279 --> 0:04:24.760 I was like, ah, maybe I should. 0:04:25.400 --> 0:04:29.839 I'm twenty seven something. A quote that I love about 0:04:29.880 --> 0:04:34.240 aging the most is that quote where it says You're 0:04:34.279 --> 0:04:36.480 never going to be as young as you are today. 0:04:36.839 --> 0:04:40.000 I love that because I'm like, yeah, maybe thirty one 0:04:40.160 --> 0:04:42.719 to some people does sound old, right, and that's fine. 0:04:43.120 --> 0:04:45.680 I can handle that, but to me, this is the 0:04:45.760 --> 0:04:48.840 youngest I'm ever going to be, and like, I love that. 0:04:49.400 --> 0:04:52.719 Speaking of that, actually, my sister said on the weekend, 0:04:52.960 --> 0:04:55.800 my dad was telling a story how I accidentally introduced 0:04:55.839 --> 0:04:58.440 my younger brother to someone as Matthew, and Lara's like, 0:04:58.440 --> 0:05:00.119 how'd you get an eight year old mixed up with 0:05:00.200 --> 0:05:03.080 Matthew who's nearly thirty, And I was like, fuck, I'm 0:05:03.080 --> 0:05:05.400 nearly thirty. So I had that like thing, do you 0:05:05.400 --> 0:05:05.800 know what I mean? 0:05:06.000 --> 0:05:06.080 That? 0:05:06.200 --> 0:05:09.760 Like that realization that I'm nearly thirty, But I'm fine, 0:05:10.040 --> 0:05:11.080 it's two years off. 0:05:12.760 --> 0:05:16.440 When do you turn twenty eight? Again? That's right? 0:05:16.480 --> 0:05:18.440 So a couple of months off that as well. 0:05:18.600 --> 0:05:22.200 Yeah, it's exciting. There's nothing to be anxious about when 0:05:22.240 --> 0:05:24.000 it comes to birthday. It's like I just think, like 0:05:24.080 --> 0:05:28.159 embrace it, Like what's the point of being stressed out. 0:05:28.240 --> 0:05:31.640 Michael's mum told me a really good It's like a 0:05:31.720 --> 0:05:34.280 quote and she was like, why worry about something twice? 0:05:34.960 --> 0:05:37.599 And that's like the thing about anxiety, right, Why worry 0:05:37.600 --> 0:05:39.760 about it twice if it's actually gonna happen in the 0:05:39.880 --> 0:05:41.400 end and you're gonna have all the stress of. 0:05:41.400 --> 0:05:43.440 It, should I tell you my recommendation? Now, I was 0:05:43.480 --> 0:05:46.000 going to save it, go for it, Okay. So it's 0:05:46.040 --> 0:05:48.400 so funny you say that, and this is not planned, guys. 0:05:48.800 --> 0:05:52.400 My recommendation is. I saw this TikTok and the expression 0:05:52.640 --> 0:05:56.760 it was eat the frog in the like, yeah, so 0:05:57.120 --> 0:06:01.600 it means that every day you pretend you have to 0:06:01.640 --> 0:06:03.560 eat a frog and that's the task that you don't 0:06:03.600 --> 0:06:05.440 want to do. So you know you don't want to 0:06:05.440 --> 0:06:07.159 eat a frog. Who wants to eat frogs? You know, 0:06:07.320 --> 0:06:09.960 no one wants to. So it was like, like, do 0:06:10.440 --> 0:06:12.760 that task that you don't want to do first thing 0:06:12.800 --> 0:06:15.680 in the morning because or first thing when you wake off, 0:06:16.040 --> 0:06:19.400 because then you do it that's shit. But if you say, 0:06:19.560 --> 0:06:23.000 like you wait to do it, then like stressing yourself 0:06:23.040 --> 0:06:25.279 out and punishing yourself all day till you do it. 0:06:26.360 --> 0:06:27.400 I really like that. 0:06:27.520 --> 0:06:29.760 So you're worrying about it twice. So like the expression 0:06:29.839 --> 0:06:31.480 was like eat the frog first thing in the morning. 0:06:31.680 --> 0:06:33.640 So that's what I've been doing, like going on runs 0:06:33.680 --> 0:06:34.880 and shit that I don't want to do as soon 0:06:34.920 --> 0:06:36.359 as I wake up because I'm getting it out of 0:06:36.360 --> 0:06:36.600 the way. 0:06:36.760 --> 0:06:39.040 Matt and I on Thursday are going to be at 0:06:39.080 --> 0:06:45.360 Federation Square in Australia's tiniest bar serving drinks, and well, 0:06:45.400 --> 0:06:49.520 I'm just thinking personally we have to both do an RSA, 0:06:49.600 --> 0:06:51.640 And I was thinking about the RSA whilst you were 0:06:51.680 --> 0:06:53.279 saying that. I'm like, Oka, I should have done it 0:06:53.279 --> 0:06:55.240 before I got here, because I really don't want to 0:06:55.279 --> 0:06:55.920 do it today. 0:06:56.080 --> 0:06:57.919 So now if you've done it first thing in the morning, 0:06:57.960 --> 0:07:00.480 it would be out. So you've punished yourself once by 0:07:00.520 --> 0:07:03.320 doing that, and then you don't. Now you're punishing yourself 0:07:03.360 --> 0:07:04.640 all day stressing about it. 0:07:04.720 --> 0:07:05.360 I really am. 0:07:05.680 --> 0:07:08.400 Yeah, good luck of the RSA. 0:07:08.480 --> 0:07:11.280 Were talking about it before Matt did it, said it 0:07:11.320 --> 0:07:12.400 was I that frog. 0:07:12.760 --> 0:07:14.480 I ha the frog and the Frog. 0:07:14.560 --> 0:07:16.800 Matt's leading by example over here, and we're loving it 0:07:16.880 --> 0:07:20.400 for a for bright and early to our morning. 0:07:20.360 --> 0:07:23.320 Great in by Matt here. So that's that's my recommendation 0:07:23.800 --> 0:07:25.680 is eat the frog first thing in the morning. 0:07:26.160 --> 0:07:30.800 Well, anyway, it's engagement party week. It's been a big 0:07:30.840 --> 0:07:32.800 build up. It's been a really big build up. I 0:07:32.800 --> 0:07:35.000 feel like I started with the build up on my 0:07:35.080 --> 0:07:37.200 socials too early because now I'm just like, I just 0:07:37.240 --> 0:07:38.160 wanted to be here. 0:07:38.600 --> 0:07:40.840 But yeah, everything organized. 0:07:40.600 --> 0:07:44.720 Everything's organized. I have DJ booked in. We have a 0:07:44.760 --> 0:07:49.000 sax player from like ten to twelve. We have the Yeah, 0:07:49.040 --> 0:07:52.120 we have the bongoes from the DJ. If you listened last. 0:07:51.920 --> 0:07:53.960 Week, you had a three sixty camera. 0:07:54.160 --> 0:07:58.000 We have a three sixty camera, which is very exciting. 0:07:58.200 --> 0:07:58.760 I've done that. 0:07:58.920 --> 0:08:00.360 Well, we anone. 0:08:01.320 --> 0:08:03.720 Yeah, I've never done it. Is it like it spins 0:08:03.720 --> 0:08:05.840 pretty fast. I've watched people do it. 0:08:05.520 --> 0:08:07.840 Doesn't it And then yeah, yeah, yeah, so you have 0:08:07.880 --> 0:08:10.000 to like to practice in the mirror just so it's 0:08:10.080 --> 0:08:12.400 like on point. I'm sure you'll have your Zoolander on 0:08:13.280 --> 0:08:16.400 the three sixty camera. But yeah, I'm just super excited. 0:08:16.440 --> 0:08:18.200 I think my parents are going to say a little 0:08:18.240 --> 0:08:20.400 something Michael's parents are going to say something, and then 0:08:20.560 --> 0:08:23.000 me and Michael will say something, which I'm a little 0:08:23.040 --> 0:08:30.240 bit stressed about because like eat the frog, do it first. 0:08:30.280 --> 0:08:30.840 You get there. 0:08:31.880 --> 0:08:35.240 So, like we're gonna say a few words each. Michael 0:08:35.280 --> 0:08:37.760 wants us to like prepare them separately and then say 0:08:37.760 --> 0:08:39.160 them together, but I was like, what. 0:08:39.200 --> 0:08:41.439 Happens if, like you repeat yourself, we. 0:08:41.440 --> 0:08:43.600 Both say the same thing, which we have a very 0:08:43.600 --> 0:08:47.080 similar personality, so we definitely could do that. I don't know, 0:08:47.160 --> 0:08:49.439 I'm just like a little bit nervous about it because obviously, 0:08:49.440 --> 0:08:51.080 like I said a bit of a speech at my 0:08:51.120 --> 0:08:54.480 birthday from my thirtieth and that was fine because it 0:08:54.559 --> 0:08:56.920 is what it is. But when you're like declaring your 0:08:56.960 --> 0:08:58.120 love in front of. 0:08:58.080 --> 0:09:01.280 All the people, you're declaring your you're we're not. 0:09:01.240 --> 0:09:03.720 Declaring our love, but we're going to say something like 0:09:03.840 --> 0:09:05.240 kind of nice about each other. 0:09:05.400 --> 0:09:07.679 I was expecting it more to be like around everyone else, 0:09:07.720 --> 0:09:09.120 beding there and all that sort stuff. But if you're 0:09:09.120 --> 0:09:11.120 doing it to each other, that's intense. 0:09:11.520 --> 0:09:13.760 No. No, no, like we will like thank you everyone 0:09:13.760 --> 0:09:15.680 for coming, blah blah blah. 0:09:15.880 --> 0:09:16.439 Vows. 0:09:16.800 --> 0:09:18.720 No, it's not going to be vows. I'm just going 0:09:18.800 --> 0:09:21.320 to be I'm just going to say, like, you know, 0:09:22.000 --> 0:09:24.079 Michael is the love of my life, you know, all 0:09:24.120 --> 0:09:24.800 of that kind. 0:09:24.679 --> 0:09:27.600 Of thing, to spend the rest of my life with you. Yeah, 0:09:27.679 --> 0:09:29.280 you're a year of getting married, don't you. 0:09:29.400 --> 0:09:30.880 I am thirteen months of. 0:09:30.920 --> 0:09:32.640 Oh okay, sorry, I thought it was this time of year. 0:09:33.280 --> 0:09:34.120 Let's not go to that. 0:09:36.080 --> 0:09:36.560 First. 0:09:36.760 --> 0:09:40.200 Yeah. And also, my dresses will be going on sale 0:09:40.280 --> 0:09:43.760 on Sunday with my collaboration that I've done with Helen O'Connor, 0:09:44.160 --> 0:09:47.360 which I'm all excited about. I've seen all of them 0:09:47.400 --> 0:09:49.040 now and they look insane. 0:09:49.200 --> 0:09:50.760 Sent me a video of one of them from the back. 0:09:50.840 --> 0:09:51.680 It looked pretty good. 0:09:51.880 --> 0:09:53.240 It's pretty epic, is that one. 0:09:53.160 --> 0:09:54.960 You're wearing on the day? Yeah, So how many you 0:09:54.960 --> 0:09:55.640 decide to wear? 0:09:56.240 --> 0:09:59.240 I think three, but like two at the party and 0:09:59.240 --> 0:10:01.920 one for the aftern party type of vibe don't last 0:10:01.920 --> 0:10:05.320 I go all for. I know they're all amazing, So 0:10:05.400 --> 0:10:08.680 I still haven't decided which one I won't wear. But yeah, 0:10:09.000 --> 0:10:11.280 very excited about those dresses. Keep an eye out on 0:10:11.320 --> 0:10:13.880 my socials if you don't follow me, and make sure 0:10:13.880 --> 0:10:15.360 you do so that you can see those. 0:10:15.600 --> 0:10:18.240 Yes, very keen for your engagement. Party this weekend. I 0:10:18.280 --> 0:10:20.240 was thinking about having a weekend sober, but. 0:10:22.120 --> 0:10:24.040 I'm paying her heads, so I'm going to have. 0:10:24.080 --> 0:10:26.480 To drink those after alls. Well it was that, and 0:10:26.480 --> 0:10:28.520 then I was like, then I've got like a Footy 0:10:29.000 --> 0:10:30.960 ten year reunion the next week. Then I've got another 0:10:31.000 --> 0:10:33.400 engagement party for my mates. Just it's never ending, is 0:10:33.440 --> 0:10:34.240 it this time of year. 0:10:34.520 --> 0:10:37.880 I'm very sorry that I'm interfering with your life to 0:10:37.920 --> 0:10:39.920 invite you to my engagement party. 0:10:41.480 --> 0:10:44.080 Oh no, no, no, I like I said, I'm excited. 0:10:44.160 --> 0:10:47.640 I'm like what I was trying to say was I'm excited. 0:10:47.840 --> 0:10:50.320 Let's not pass out on a park bench this time. 0:10:50.760 --> 0:10:54.520 I have a question for you, WHOA Because obviously after 0:10:54.760 --> 0:10:57.040 my thirtieth where you passed out in a park bend, 0:10:57.080 --> 0:11:00.480 she would have had a lot of anxiety. And on 0:11:00.520 --> 0:11:04.839 the weekend, on the weekend that has just gone for 0:11:04.960 --> 0:11:07.800 my thirty first birthday, there was a lot of alcohol intake. 0:11:08.080 --> 0:11:09.800 Did you have any anxiety? 0:11:10.280 --> 0:11:14.520 I actually wasn't too bad. I told you when you 0:11:14.520 --> 0:11:16.840 guys were pouring me a wine at the start, I 0:11:16.840 --> 0:11:19.360 was like, I'm not going to drink wine. Wine makes 0:11:19.360 --> 0:11:23.600 me loopy drunk, Yeah, not like find like crazy white 0:11:23.600 --> 0:11:25.839 girl who drunk. So I was like, maybe not. So 0:11:25.840 --> 0:11:27.080 I had a couple of beers, but then we did 0:11:27.080 --> 0:11:29.719 the wine tasting. Yeah, and then we went on to 0:11:30.480 --> 0:11:33.319 the next winery where I had maybe two a couple 0:11:33.360 --> 0:11:35.560 of something. So I wasn't too bad with you. 0:11:35.600 --> 0:11:40.840 Anxiety, I was a little bit, but like not too much. 0:11:41.120 --> 0:11:43.080 But I was talking to Michael, I was like, why 0:11:43.160 --> 0:11:45.560 do we get anxiety? Like what is it? And I 0:11:45.600 --> 0:11:49.840 think the reason we get anxiety vibes after drinking is 0:11:49.840 --> 0:11:53.640 because we're in iram sleep, so our in the rapid 0:11:53.720 --> 0:11:56.600 eye movement sleep, so you don't actually get a proper 0:11:57.280 --> 0:11:59.719 good night sleep. So have you ever woken up from 0:12:00.160 --> 0:12:03.080 king and you're just like so exhausted and you're like, 0:12:03.120 --> 0:12:05.600 I've had eight hours, Like why am I? Why am 0:12:05.640 --> 0:12:09.439 I sleeping? And I think that's why. So anyway, I'll 0:12:09.440 --> 0:12:14.240 probably be an iram sleep next Sunday after my gage. 0:12:14.679 --> 0:12:17.080 Hey, I got one for you. Yeah, what hangover? Would 0:12:17.080 --> 0:12:19.680 you rather? Anxiety or vomiting all day? 0:12:23.880 --> 0:12:28.559 I'm gonna say anxiety. I'll take some ash Gander stress 0:12:28.559 --> 0:12:29.559 relief tablets. 0:12:30.720 --> 0:12:35.920 Fair enough, Anxiety or that headache that lingers all day 0:12:35.960 --> 0:12:36.800 in the back of your. 0:12:36.640 --> 0:12:41.360 Head, anxiety. Okay, no, actually I'd take I'd take the headache, but. 0:12:41.320 --> 0:12:43.120 Like you can't get rid of it, and you can't 0:12:43.120 --> 0:12:43.520 get rid of. 0:12:43.520 --> 0:12:47.920 It anxiety anxiety, but you can take as stress relief 0:12:47.960 --> 0:12:50.839 medication for the anxiety, like you don't have. 0:12:50.840 --> 0:12:53.040 Toure them hate that headache called. 0:12:53.080 --> 0:12:56.120 I hate that headache. I had a migraine actually, speaking 0:12:56.200 --> 0:12:59.800 of I haven't even touched on this. So on my birthday, 0:13:00.120 --> 0:13:03.679 my actual birthday, I got to migrain So literally my 0:13:03.720 --> 0:13:06.280 whole thirty first birthday I spent in bed. I went 0:13:06.320 --> 0:13:09.040 to my hair dresser's, got my hair blowwave for me 0:13:09.080 --> 0:13:12.600 to then lie in bed. And then the next day 0:13:13.160 --> 0:13:16.640 I woke up and I had a UTI, So I 0:13:16.640 --> 0:13:19.520 don't know what is going on with my body. I 0:13:19.559 --> 0:13:21.200 spoke to you guys about how I was on this 0:13:21.240 --> 0:13:24.160 like health journey. I literally didn't have a UTI for 0:13:24.200 --> 0:13:26.920 the whole year, and then all of a sudden, I 0:13:27.000 --> 0:13:29.520 go to Hamilton Island get one UTI, and since then 0:13:29.559 --> 0:13:33.319 it's been downhill, downhill, Like what is wrong with my body? 0:13:33.360 --> 0:13:35.880 It actually concerns me, Like I think about it and I'm. 0:13:35.679 --> 0:13:38.040 Like fuck, like do you reckon me to get that surgery? 0:13:38.800 --> 0:13:41.760 What the wee whole opening surgery maybe, I mean, fuck, 0:13:41.840 --> 0:13:46.960 I will take anything. At this point, that's like like seriously, 0:13:47.000 --> 0:13:48.800 like it actually is a concern of mine. I'm like, 0:13:48.840 --> 0:13:50.720 imagine if I was to one day get pregnant and 0:13:50.760 --> 0:13:51.760 I just have all these. 0:13:51.600 --> 0:13:53.680 Like would you get UTIs while being pregnant? 0:13:53.960 --> 0:13:55.960 Well, I mean if I did, are you allowed to 0:13:56.000 --> 0:13:59.360 take antibiotics? Like you know, there's lots of there's lots 0:13:59.400 --> 0:14:02.280 of questions question marks around that. It's just it's it 0:14:02.360 --> 0:14:04.000 does give me a lot of anxiety. 0:14:04.520 --> 0:14:07.040 I said that it might be the underwear you're wearing. 0:14:07.320 --> 0:14:09.599 Like yeah, Matt said that to me, and I was like, 0:14:09.840 --> 0:14:15.199 he's no, what did I say? It goes? Maybe you 0:14:15.200 --> 0:14:19.240 should change your underwear And I was like, excuse, that's right, 0:14:19.480 --> 0:14:21.640 Like you think I don't change my underwear. 0:14:21.680 --> 0:14:25.120 He then then I had to recorrect myself and I 0:14:25.160 --> 0:14:27.640 was like, no, change like the material or like the 0:14:27.680 --> 0:14:29.760 way maybe the G strings. I don't know. 0:14:29.960 --> 0:14:32.360 Yeah, So we were thinking, like and when I say 0:14:32.440 --> 0:14:34.560 we were thinking, Matt said it and I was like, 0:14:34.600 --> 0:14:37.440 maybe I should go from G string because I'm a 0:14:37.520 --> 0:14:40.320 G string. Were like, I don't wear anything else. If 0:14:40.360 --> 0:14:43.440 I move into like nanny underwear, not nanny underwear, but 0:14:43.440 --> 0:14:47.600 what would you call it, like a full brief underwear? Well, yeah, like. 0:14:47.880 --> 0:14:54.560 Underwear and stirring orton need proper. Yeah, maybe it's the 0:14:55.320 --> 0:14:57.240 fabric software or something using as well. 0:14:57.600 --> 0:14:59.880 I just feel like more like and this is like 0:14:59.880 --> 0:15:02.240 a random chat, like I feel more comfortable in a 0:15:02.280 --> 0:15:02.800 G string. 0:15:02.920 --> 0:15:06.200 Like it's just like I don't know any girl that 0:15:06.280 --> 0:15:10.160 really isn't well that I've known that just always wear 0:15:10.200 --> 0:15:10.840 g strings. 0:15:10.920 --> 0:15:13.760 And then it's like so annoying, like wearing nanny underwear 0:15:13.840 --> 0:15:15.880 not nanny. I'm gonna start stop calling them nanny is 0:15:15.880 --> 0:15:18.880 I call them back like what I call them pid 0:15:18.920 --> 0:15:21.720 like nanny underwear for like when I'm on my period, 0:15:21.760 --> 0:15:24.760 I'll wear them because like obviously you know, yeah, if 0:15:24.800 --> 0:15:26.560 I decide to wear a pat at night or something, 0:15:27.240 --> 0:15:27.680 I'll just. 0:15:27.640 --> 0:15:28.960 Call it normal underwear brief. 0:15:29.120 --> 0:15:34.000 So yeah, like just no, not trunks. 0:15:32.760 --> 0:15:39.600 Not tidy whities anyway, anyway, I maybe that there is 0:15:39.640 --> 0:15:41.920 something in that, and like at this point, like I'll 0:15:41.920 --> 0:15:43.880 do anything like I said, could be the fabric, softignre 0:15:43.920 --> 0:15:46.480 or something you're using as well, that's not it's sucking 0:15:46.560 --> 0:15:48.880 up your pH Is that what causes them? 0:15:49.280 --> 0:15:51.880 No, it's about it's about like bacteria getting into your 0:15:51.960 --> 0:15:54.960 week hole than we like that. I don't know which 0:15:55.000 --> 0:15:57.760 can happen during sex, but I wee straight after sex. 0:15:57.800 --> 0:16:00.400 I even shower after sex because the doctor said that 0:16:00.400 --> 0:16:03.200 that's like the best way to make sure that you 0:16:03.240 --> 0:16:04.880 don't get a UTI, even if it's. 0:16:04.760 --> 0:16:07.680 Like the middle of the night, sort of like tough 0:16:07.720 --> 0:16:10.120 on the shoulder, hoke in the back, you get up 0:16:10.160 --> 0:16:12.200 and you get up and shower after. 0:16:12.000 --> 0:16:14.760 Them, hoak in the back, You sicker? What is wrong 0:16:14.800 --> 0:16:15.080 with you? 0:16:16.120 --> 0:16:17.920 You initiate it when you're both asleep. 0:16:18.880 --> 0:16:22.760 I mean having like doing like having sex during like 0:16:22.800 --> 0:16:24.840 your sleep is actually like kind of fun. 0:16:24.920 --> 0:16:26.400 It's the best. It's one of the best. 0:16:26.560 --> 0:16:28.680 It's not one of the best, but it's like it's good. 0:16:29.040 --> 0:16:30.240 And then you're like, did that happen? 0:16:30.480 --> 0:16:32.840 Well, Hotel sex is probably up there. 0:16:32.920 --> 0:16:34.880 Yeah, Hotel sex is the vibe. 0:16:34.640 --> 0:16:36.960 And it's the best. You know that you're just those 0:16:37.000 --> 0:16:38.920 four walls don't have to have to see you again. 0:16:39.760 --> 0:16:42.320 You can let them see things, and they're probably seeing 0:16:42.360 --> 0:16:47.800 worse to be fair, what you're about to you just 0:16:47.840 --> 0:16:48.680 like go for goal. 0:16:48.840 --> 0:16:51.640 You're just loud as they come in a hotel room. 0:16:51.720 --> 0:16:54.360 Yeah, hotel. Sex is different, gravy. 0:16:54.560 --> 0:16:56.520 I think you've heard me having sex before? 0:16:57.120 --> 0:17:05.760 When Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, that's right. Did I say something? Yeah? Yeah, place. Look, 0:17:05.880 --> 0:17:10.160 this is a weird chat speaking of anxiety. I actually 0:17:10.200 --> 0:17:13.119 on the weekend. I actually got up early because I 0:17:13.240 --> 0:17:15.480 had my brother's first game of football. 0:17:15.640 --> 0:17:16.240 How was that? 0:17:18.480 --> 0:17:26.760 Look? Look, I love good quality football, hundred ninees play. 0:17:27.080 --> 0:17:29.200 It's not the best. There was some good passages of play, 0:17:29.280 --> 0:17:30.000 Don't get me wrong. 0:17:30.400 --> 0:17:31.280 How did your brother do? 0:17:31.600 --> 0:17:33.879 It was great? It was his first game, so he 0:17:34.040 --> 0:17:34.880 was a bit like. 0:17:36.440 --> 0:17:37.880 Say, he was good, right now? 0:17:38.400 --> 0:17:40.200 He was good for his first game. He was good. 0:17:40.240 --> 0:17:41.720 I mean he could have gone in harder to get 0:17:41.760 --> 0:17:44.000 the ball. He had a good kick on him. 0:17:44.400 --> 0:17:46.400 Did you give him this feedback after the game? 0:17:46.480 --> 0:17:50.639 Oh no, no, I'll save it for when he's not 0:17:50.840 --> 0:17:53.639 and I'll let him just run around here. But I 0:17:53.680 --> 0:17:56.000 would like to jump on this platform and use this 0:17:56.160 --> 0:17:58.920 to have a formal apology. I got a bit carried 0:17:58.960 --> 0:18:00.800 away in the heat of the moment of the game 0:18:01.160 --> 0:18:05.760 with who the opposition the umpires. But I would like 0:18:05.840 --> 0:18:09.520 to start by apologizing to number thirty three from the 0:18:09.520 --> 0:18:12.119