WEBVTT - DO YOU F**K ON YOUR PERIOD?

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<v Speaker 1>I want the fairy tale. I want the prince charming

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<v Speaker 1>she how do.

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<v Speaker 2>I put this? Isn't a fan of my kissing style with.

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<v Speaker 1>A boyfriend and girlfriend for about twelve hours. He's in

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<v Speaker 1>a trash bin. He's non recyclable, catching them up.

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<v Speaker 2>I love being love. I love love.

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<v Speaker 3>On today's episode of Where's Your Head At, we are

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<v Speaker 3>getting into the nitty gritty topic of if you should

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<v Speaker 3>or shouldn't have sex when you're on your period. We'll

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<v Speaker 3>be discussing all things communication and comfortability.

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<v Speaker 2>Stay tuned to hear what guys really think about this.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Matt has just rolled into the studio with the

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<v Speaker 3>biggest pawn star mustar.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I've ever seen you rock before. What's going on?

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<v Speaker 2>Mat?

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<v Speaker 1>Talk me through this?

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<v Speaker 3>All right?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you think I'm pulling it off? Though?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, yeah, I think you're pulling it off, But

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<v Speaker 3>I need to know the backstory.

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<v Speaker 1>What's going on?

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<v Speaker 2>All right? Well, I'm obviously getting a head start and

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<v Speaker 2>everyone for November. I need to start growing it now

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<v Speaker 2>so it's luscious by the time November hits.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a real head starting.

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<v Speaker 3>Nah.

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<v Speaker 2>I honestly, I've been so flat stick this weekend moving

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't even get time to shave my whole face.

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<v Speaker 2>I had to call it quits when I got to

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<v Speaker 2>my mo.

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<v Speaker 3>That's right, So you just moved in with Jen? How's

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<v Speaker 3>that all going?

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<v Speaker 2>Look, the weekend was hectic. It's probably going to be

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<v Speaker 2>the last time I ever moved by myself. I'm definitely

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<v Speaker 2>hiring people next time. It's literally one of the most

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<v Speaker 2>painful things you can do, I reckon. Yeah, it's nuts.

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<v Speaker 3>They say it's one of the most stressful things like moving, wedding,

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<v Speaker 3>what else?

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<v Speaker 1>Breakup it on?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah they all sound stressful compared to moving, but it

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<v Speaker 2>is stressful enough. But it doesn't help when your partner,

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<v Speaker 2>God love her, this isn't a good start forget the

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<v Speaker 2>key to her storage unit, not for the first time,

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<v Speaker 2>but the second time. So when we're moving everything into

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<v Speaker 2>the storage unit, bless her soult Jen lost the key

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<v Speaker 2>to the storage unit and we had to get a

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<v Speaker 2>locksmith in get them. Obviously, they didn't know how to

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<v Speaker 2>unlock it. It was a special locker. I don't know all that.

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<v Speaker 2>Shenanigans ended up up charging us. But she did it

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<v Speaker 2>again when we were unpacking her storage unit. She had

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<v Speaker 2>the wrong key, didn't even fit in the hole. It

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<v Speaker 2>just completely was different. I don't know how she managed it,

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<v Speaker 2>but it did add an extra three hours to the moving.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's a full added layer of extra stress.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you guys have a big fight?

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<v Speaker 2>You know what? We were with her sister's boyfriend, Murph,

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<v Speaker 2>and he said it himself. He said, if you don't laugh,

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<v Speaker 2>you'll cry.

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<v Speaker 1>So you chose laughter.

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<v Speaker 2>So he chose to laugh about it. We went to

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<v Speaker 2>the pub, had a couple of beers and just waited

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<v Speaker 2>for the locksmith, who ended up being her mum in

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<v Speaker 2>the end, got there quicker. God, thank you Paula for

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<v Speaker 2>getting there. She brought the spare key that Jen had

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<v Speaker 2>given her just in case this happened.

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<v Speaker 1>Again, and that's why we do this.

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<v Speaker 2>So her mum came speed bolting in, gave us a key,

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<v Speaker 2>helped us load the truck back up with all her stuff,

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<v Speaker 2>and then we're now I moved in. Everything's in the house.

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<v Speaker 2>There's a couple of miscellaneous boxes here and there. Niki

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<v Speaker 2>and Jen they're twins, so you could imagine how much

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<v Speaker 2>of fucking cookery they have or whatever you call it,

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<v Speaker 2>cutlery and home wears. We've boxed up reboxed literally four

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<v Speaker 2>big boxes of double up stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's good for you because then you don't have

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<v Speaker 1>to buy it. You have to look at the silver lining.

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<v Speaker 2>Mat I do, and I am, And I'll tell you

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<v Speaker 2>what's funny. I've been joking. I went from a frat

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<v Speaker 2>house with my boys where it literally was try pick

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<v Speaker 2>which saucepan is less dirty, Literally an endless supply of

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<v Speaker 2>cookery utensils.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're living like, you know, first class.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm living like a king now. Thank you Nicki and

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<v Speaker 2>Jen for all your purchases over the years. I will

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<v Speaker 2>definitely take advantage of that. All right, So but enough

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<v Speaker 2>about my weekend of moving in Anna. It's good to

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<v Speaker 2>see you actually in Melbourne for once. You've seen never

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<v Speaker 2>jet seto. You're just in Adelaide.

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<v Speaker 3>I know I've gone from BALI had a week in Melbourne,

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<v Speaker 3>which I feel like was just like an admin week,

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<v Speaker 3>and then we've gone to Adelaide because Michael's family lives

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<v Speaker 3>in Adelaide, and we wanted to spend some time with them,

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<v Speaker 3>so that was really nice.

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<v Speaker 2>So you did all the family stuff and then I'm

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<v Speaker 2>obviously guessing you guys had some quality couple time while

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<v Speaker 2>you're in Adelaide. Near that you guys have become codependent.

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<v Speaker 2>If you go back and work for our last episode,

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<v Speaker 2>do you know about that?

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<v Speaker 3>We're interdependent. That's what we learned from that episode.

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<v Speaker 2>You can put whatever spin you want on it.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't. You're the most codependent person.

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<v Speaker 2>I know. That's why it takes one to know one.

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<v Speaker 1>It does.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we had some family time and then we had

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<v Speaker 3>some kind of like couples time as well. We said,

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<v Speaker 3>in a really beautiful hotel in Adelaide, and I don't know,

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<v Speaker 3>there's just something about being in a hotel room with

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<v Speaker 3>your partner that's just really hot.

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<v Speaker 2>I know what you mean. When Jen and I go

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<v Speaker 2>away we're in the hotel rooms, the level of sexual tension,

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<v Speaker 2>may I say, it definitely flares up a lot more.

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<v Speaker 2>I reckon. You know, you got this whole new space

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<v Speaker 2>to yourself, freshyet yeah, fresh angles, extra mirrors, your extra mirrors.

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<v Speaker 2>I make sure that Jen brings a titling number with her.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you bring any titling numbers with you?

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I feel like it was that time of

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<v Speaker 3>the month, so I feel like when it's that time

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<v Speaker 3>of the month, I'm not like putting on exciting new costumes.

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<v Speaker 2>Lentree role playing. Do you role play to a role play?

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<v Speaker 3>I know you did, if I'm going down your contail

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<v Speaker 3>with me, No, But I think there is something really

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<v Speaker 3>sexy about being in a hotel room with your partner. Obviously,

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<v Speaker 3>you know I was on my period, so we made

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<v Speaker 3>good use.

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<v Speaker 1>Of the shower.

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<v Speaker 2>Big shower obviously in a hotel shower, lots of room

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<v Speaker 2>for activities in there.

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<v Speaker 3>And then Michael had ordered room service without me knowing,

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<v Speaker 3>and we got interrupted and it was all over red Rover.

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<v Speaker 2>So wait, before you've had sex, Michael's gone and going

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<v Speaker 2>all right, I'm going to order some champagne to the room,

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<v Speaker 2>get it to live it after, you know, set a hone.

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<v Speaker 2>But obviously Anna couldn't wait for the champagne to come.

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<v Speaker 3>It wasn't champagne. He got like two big boss pass

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<v Speaker 3>so it was just like, you know, it is what

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<v Speaker 3>it is.

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<v Speaker 2>For some extra calves after the.

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<v Speaker 1>Damce pro sex calves.

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<v Speaker 2>As far as planning goes, I'm going to give michael

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<v Speaker 2>An a plus for that. He's done, well, he's gone.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, We're going to do the two step dance

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<v Speaker 2>and then I'm gonna have some calves afterwards. Can't go wrong,

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<v Speaker 2>you can't.

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<v Speaker 3>But look, we really want to talk about having sex

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<v Speaker 3>on your period in this episode, so let's just jump

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<v Speaker 3>straight into this map.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, let's do it.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Map.

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<v Speaker 3>I have a few questions for you because I just

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<v Speaker 3>want to gauge your knowledge on periods, because you know,

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<v Speaker 3>women have periods once a month.

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<v Speaker 1>It's pretty normal.

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<v Speaker 3>It's part of your life, it's part of my life,

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<v Speaker 3>it's part of everyone's life. And it's really weird to

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<v Speaker 3>me that it's not spoken about that much, like it's

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<v Speaker 3>kind of this taboo thing.

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<v Speaker 1>But then it's not, but it is.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know why it's taboo. I disagree with it

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<v Speaker 2>being taboo. I grew up in a house obviously with

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<v Speaker 2>three women, so for me, talking about a period was

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<v Speaker 2>literally like normal. We would always speak about it. There's

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<v Speaker 2>a cupboard in my hallway. You open and it is

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<v Speaker 2>literally full of tampons and pads.

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<v Speaker 1>Love that Like I.

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<v Speaker 2>Opened it one time to find toilet roll and I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, Jesus, what the just closed it? You know

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<v Speaker 2>what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>Supply Central, Yeah, we love the supply.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like three women with it. I never really thought

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<v Speaker 2>of it as a taboo topic. So we're also completely open.

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<v Speaker 2>So let's see what I know about it, which I

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<v Speaker 2>should know, but I'm a little bit nervous about this. Anda.

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<v Speaker 2>It's got the question. She has not written any answers

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<v Speaker 2>down on my script. So let's see how I go

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<v Speaker 2>with this.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Matt, So the first question is how long does

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<v Speaker 3>a period last?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, it's once a month and it lasts for a week,

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<v Speaker 2>but then there's always like that PMS stage, isn't there?

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<v Speaker 2>And how long does that last for?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so, on average, a woman's period lasts two to

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<v Speaker 3>seven days.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you know that?

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<v Speaker 2>What exactly are they classifying by that? Just the actual

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<v Speaker 2>flow of the bleeding? Yeah, the bleeding the more you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know, So is that new information to you?

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<v Speaker 2>I knew it was a week, but I knew that, like,

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<v Speaker 2>there's a heavy couple of days at the start, and

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<v Speaker 2>then it should probably die down and it's just a

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<v Speaker 2>little bit by the end.

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<v Speaker 3>Everyone's different. Yeah, So like some people can have a

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<v Speaker 3>two day period. Some people have a heavy flow, light flow.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure you've heard of the terms and thrown around

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<v Speaker 1>heavy flow.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, definitely, that's the mean girls quote.

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<v Speaker 1>Heavy flow and you're going to say that. Okay, how

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<v Speaker 1>long is a mentoral cycle?

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<v Speaker 2>Man? A month?

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<v Speaker 1>Jesus do you want to think about that?

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<v Speaker 2>Am I right? Or am I wrong?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay?

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<v Speaker 3>So a mental flow occurs every twenty one to thirty

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<v Speaker 3>five days, and as you get older it becomes more regular.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay. So I know my girlfriend Jenen has a flow

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<v Speaker 2>app and she logs it in there so she knows

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<v Speaker 2>when she's due for her next.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, experienced, so she's fully on top of it.

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<v Speaker 3>I need to do that. Actually, I know a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of people use the flow app. Every time I go together.

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<v Speaker 3>It it like tries to charge me like sixty dollars

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<v Speaker 3>through the year, and I'm like, nah, no, I'm.

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<v Speaker 2>Not going to do that. Well, I said to her,

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<v Speaker 2>it'd be cool if we could, like literally, I could

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<v Speaker 2>have it as well on my phone so I'm notified

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<v Speaker 2>as well, so I know when she's due her period.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, Like the thing is is, when you're in a relationship,

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<v Speaker 3>it's kind of like a wee thing. Like it's not

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<v Speaker 3>a gen thing or a me thing. It's essentially it

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<v Speaker 3>affects both of you, definitely does How do you know

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<v Speaker 3>when Jen's on her period?

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<v Speaker 1>Is there something that kind of stands out to you?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? So I normally get a knock on the door

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<v Speaker 2>from an old priest and a young priest and they're

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<v Speaker 2>ready to perform an exorcism.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, you're gonna get so much trouble.

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<v Speaker 1>That's feeling extra balls today.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, I'm kidding, No, no, as far no, how

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<v Speaker 2>do I word this nicely? Then the tension picks up

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<v Speaker 2>in the room, So like some stuff that two weeks

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<v Speaker 2>prior that might not have been an issue become an issue.

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<v Speaker 2>And I will then look at the date, because I'm

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<v Speaker 2>obviously in tune with her flow app and I'll be like, ah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I see what's going on here.

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<v Speaker 3>I asked Michael this question before I left the house

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<v Speaker 3>this morning, and he was like, I know, because you

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<v Speaker 3>get really annoyed at things that normally you wouldn't And

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<v Speaker 3>that's exactly what you just said. So, for instance, we

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<v Speaker 3>were in Col's like two weeks ago, and I was

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<v Speaker 3>standing at the checkout and we forgot bacon. And I

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<v Speaker 3>love having bacon on a Sunday morning, like bacon and eggs,

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<v Speaker 3>Like it's anyway. So I'm like checking out everything. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 3>oh shit, I forgot the bacon. Michael's like, I'll go

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<v Speaker 3>get it. So he goes to get the bacon.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm still like, you know, scanning things away. I'm all good.

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<v Speaker 3>He comes back. He says, I can't find the bacon,

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<v Speaker 3>and I was like, go find it. It's in the

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<v Speaker 3>deli section.

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<v Speaker 1>Like have a look.

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<v Speaker 3>So then I'm like finished scanning everything at this point. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>now waiting for him.

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<v Speaker 2>Poor Michael.

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<v Speaker 3>He comes back five minutes later, has just been like,

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<v Speaker 3>oh I just met this guy over there.

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<v Speaker 1>We just had a chat.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, did you get the bacon. He's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>I forgot the bacon, and we had a full blown

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<v Speaker 3>like not domestic, but I wasn't happy, let's put it

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<v Speaker 3>that way, because it was a Saturday and on the

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<v Speaker 3>next morning I really wanted to have bacon and eggs.

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<v Speaker 1>And he'd gone away twice and hadn't got the bacon.

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<v Speaker 3>Like it is kind of annoying, but my period was due,

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<v Speaker 3>so like the couple of days before my period, I

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<v Speaker 3>get extra sensitive and moody. Anyway, I lost it about

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<v Speaker 3>the bacon. I was like, how can you not find

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<v Speaker 3>the bacon? Like it's a simple task.

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<v Speaker 1>What is wrong with you?

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<v Speaker 3>Do I need to draw you up a map to

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<v Speaker 3>the bacon next time. Anyway, the next day I got

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<v Speaker 3>my period and he was like, uh huh.

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<v Speaker 2>That makes sense about the bacon. Now, I've got a

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<v Speaker 2>couple of questions. If you weren't during your period the

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<v Speaker 2>next day, do you think you would have been as

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<v Speaker 2>irritable about the.

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<v Speaker 3>Bacon, Like it's still annoying, but I probably would have

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<v Speaker 3>not been as quick to fly off the handle. So

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<v Speaker 3>my reaction when he didn't come back with the bacon

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<v Speaker 3>was like, no, I don't get to have bacon and

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<v Speaker 3>eggs for my breakfast. But I think if I wasn't

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<v Speaker 3>really pmsy in that PMS stage, I would have just

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<v Speaker 3>been like, Okay, you stay here, I'll go get the bacon,

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<v Speaker 3>like more rational.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I've known girls that have been at one level

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<v Speaker 2>and pmsing like completely Like I mean one I would

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<v Speaker 2>turn off a light before I get into bed and

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<v Speaker 2>they would go off, you know what I mean? And

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<v Speaker 2>then the next night I wouldn't turn off the light

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<v Speaker 2>and they would get angry like that sort of thing.

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<v Speaker 2>And then I've had people in my life that are

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<v Speaker 2>the complete opposite and like you wouldn't even know that

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<v Speaker 2>they were pmssing. So I think it changes from every girl.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, like everyone experiences pms differently. Everyone has.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, we're very hormonal, like when you get your period,

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<v Speaker 3>and I think it's important to have people around you

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<v Speaker 3>who can be sensitive to that. And that's not saying

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<v Speaker 3>like women are these like irrational, crazy, totally erratic people.

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<v Speaker 3>Like we're very capable, but at the same time, like

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<v Speaker 3>we do have moments of explosion naturally.

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<v Speaker 2>I sometimes have my own when I get really irritable,

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<v Speaker 2>when I'm really tired, angry or haven't even had my nap.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, mad, if you've not had your nap, it's

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<v Speaker 1>not good.

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<v Speaker 2>So I can relate to that. Well, and I'm telling

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<v Speaker 2>you about the first time you had your period.

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<v Speaker 3>Then yeah, well okay, So I was in year n

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<v Speaker 3>when I got my period, which is actually really late,

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<v Speaker 3>so yeah, that's quite late, Like I think people get

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<v Speaker 3>it year seven eight ish anyway, So everyone else in

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<v Speaker 3>my whole U level had got it, and I was

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<v Speaker 3>the last one, and I used to like, I'm not

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<v Speaker 3>even religious, but I would like go to bed at

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<v Speaker 3>night and be like, please God, let me get my period.

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<v Speaker 2>No, No, I can relate. I was quite late to

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<v Speaker 2>the table as well with that sort of stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was late blue.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I was desperate to get it as well.

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<v Speaker 1>Get what puberty?

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<v Speaker 2>Not my period?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but yeah, I was very late. And I remember

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<v Speaker 1>I went to the toilet at school.

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<v Speaker 3>I literally like got my period and I had I

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<v Speaker 3>remember sitting on the toilet with like the biggest smile

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<v Speaker 3>on my face ever, Like I was like, yes, I've

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<v Speaker 3>become a woman. The day has come at last. I

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<v Speaker 3>told my whole class, told the.

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<v Speaker 2>Teacher just walked in and announced it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, like told everyone was just like I'm stoked. I

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<v Speaker 3>was ecstatic, guys, announcement, announcement.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, it was like it was a very big

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<v Speaker 1>moment for me.

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<v Speaker 3>I felt like I had finally caught out to my peers,

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<v Speaker 3>and like, you know, I was excited.

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<v Speaker 2>Little did you know that that was the first day

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<v Speaker 2>of the rest of your life.

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<v Speaker 3>No, but yeah, it was exciting for me. Have you

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<v Speaker 3>asked Jen about the first time she got her period?

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<v Speaker 2>No, I haven't. I definitely will after this and see

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<v Speaker 2>if she has her first period story. I I don't know, no.

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<v Speaker 1>But well, it's interesting because, like Michael's never asked me.

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<v Speaker 1>Why don't we ask I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>That's probably one of the reasons why we just think

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<v Speaker 2>this is like an off limit sort of topic. It's

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<v Speaker 2>pretty weird story because you always talk about like when

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<v Speaker 2>it was the first time you masturbated, when was the

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<v Speaker 2>first time you had sex. I don't know what conversations

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<v Speaker 2>you're like, you asked this sort of stuff, but you

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<v Speaker 2>never asked one.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it's interesting because, like it is a funny story.

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<v Speaker 3>I would have loved to have told Michael that, but

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<v Speaker 3>it's just a topic that's never really come up.

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<v Speaker 1>But he's also super normal with periods.

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<v Speaker 3>I openly talked to him about my period from like

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<v Speaker 3>day one.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you talk about my period?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, He'll be like Matt will literally say to

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<v Speaker 3>me like, oh, when's your period, like because he needs

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<v Speaker 3>to like mentally prepare, or like when we bicker. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>sometimes I like take things better than others.

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<v Speaker 1>Like the other day, Matt and I had this big

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<v Speaker 1>interview trying to tell this story.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, let me tell it. So we had this interview

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<v Speaker 2>and Anna before we went on, I said something and

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<v Speaker 2>Anna took it the wrong way completely and then like

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<v Speaker 2>hung up on me. So I called back and I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, are you due for your period? Like, what's

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<v Speaker 2>going on?

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I was like the audacity to ask me

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<v Speaker 1>if it's my period? And yes it is.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm so fucking annoyed that you just asked that it was.

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<v Speaker 2>I could trust me. I know you Anna very well,

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<v Speaker 2>and I knew that there was something after either way

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<v Speaker 2>reply from my question.

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<v Speaker 1>Now that has to keep.

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<v Speaker 3>Track of his girlfriends, had my period cycles and his

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<v Speaker 3>co host period cycles because they both affect him greatly.

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<v Speaker 2>I've got I should get the af and load your

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<v Speaker 2>boat in there.

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<v Speaker 1>Me and Gen need a sync up.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that would actually be very handy.

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<v Speaker 1>You heard of that, the sink up thing?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, yeah, my sisters and my mum would all have

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<v Speaker 2>that growing up. They would be all set the thing. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>they were living together.

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<v Speaker 3>You know what, Matt though, Like, I always thought that

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<v Speaker 3>women's periods sinking up was a real thing, Like I've

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<v Speaker 3>had best friends and we seem to sync up with periods.

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<v Speaker 3>But apparently, according to studies by Oxford University, who tracked

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<v Speaker 3>periods from fifteen hundred people. They said that it was

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<v Speaker 3>actually unlikely that women can disrupt each other's menstrual cycles

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<v Speaker 3>by being in close proximity to one another.

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<v Speaker 1>So apparently that's a myth.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's probably just coincidence that they run at the

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<v Speaker 2>same time.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I still feel like it's a thing, but I don't

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<v Speaker 3>know who knows. I'm sure as the youth progress will

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<v Speaker 3>find out. But as it stands, they're saying it's a myth.

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<v Speaker 2>So obviously Michael doesn't get weirded out when you've got

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<v Speaker 2>your period, and he's happy to have sex. Obviously, in Adelaide,

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<v Speaker 2>you guys had sex while you're on your period in

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<v Speaker 2>the shower.

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<v Speaker 3>In regards to having sex on your period, I have

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<v Speaker 3>no problem with it if I feel comfortable or if

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<v Speaker 3>I'm made to feel comfortable by my partner.

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<v Speaker 1>I think if someone straight.

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<v Speaker 3>Up is like, oh, that's disgusting, yuck, then I would

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<v Speaker 3>probably just go with the flow, like not the literal flow,

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<v Speaker 3>but just the flow of being like yeah, I'm cool

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<v Speaker 3>to like, not great fun, but like yeah, I think

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<v Speaker 3>if someone is comfortable with it and it doesn't really

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<v Speaker 3>phase them. Then it kind of puts me into a

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<v Speaker 3>space of feeling comfortable, and then I'm kind of like, well, yeah, sure,

0:18:55.480 --> 0:18:58.879
<v Speaker 3>like sex is messy anyway, Like it's not like you

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<v Speaker 3>come out on scaredaed and dry, like.

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<v Speaker 2>If you're not having if you're not messy after sex,

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<v Speaker 2>I reckon you're doing it a little bit wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think? What's your take on having sex.

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<v Speaker 2>On a period, Matt, I have literally not a single

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<v Speaker 2>qualm like period's natural. I've grown up with that sort

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<v Speaker 2>of conversation of it. To me, you either do it

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<v Speaker 2>in the shower, or you can put a tower down,

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<v Speaker 2>whatever makes you feel comfortable. I've spoken to a couple

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<v Speaker 2>of mates and they're like, no, it's gonna get messy,

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<v Speaker 2>And I almost thought that's almost like an immature way

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<v Speaker 2>of looking at it, Like, yeah, I guess at the start,

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<v Speaker 2>when it's very heavy flow, probably stay away from it.

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<v Speaker 2>If the girl's in a bit of like strife, like

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<v Speaker 2>she's feeling uncomfortable in pain from cramps, yeah let's don't

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<v Speaker 2>do it then. But if she's willing to like clean

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<v Speaker 2>up the mess afterwards, or you find an option around it, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's more happy to.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean, I guess it's definitely personal preference. Like

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<v Speaker 3>I wouldn't say it's immature or mature. I think like

0:19:52.840 --> 0:19:56.120
<v Speaker 3>some people might before, some people might be against and

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<v Speaker 3>like whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>But I just feel like saying that to a girl

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<v Speaker 2>is there's no need to.

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<v Speaker 3>You definitely, Yeah, you're right, you definitely don't want to

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<v Speaker 3>make someone feel uncomfortable about having a period.

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<v Speaker 2>With something they're naturally going to have. There no point

0:20:08.359 --> 0:20:10.920
<v Speaker 2>making him feel uncomfortable and insecure about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Couldn't agree more?

0:20:11.920 --> 0:20:14.520
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, like, yeah, like, I think it's important to make

0:20:14.560 --> 0:20:17.840
<v Speaker 3>someone feel comfortable. But if for some reason you're a

0:20:17.880 --> 0:20:20.560
<v Speaker 3>bit squeamish or like whatever it is, or if it's

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<v Speaker 3>just too uncomfortable for you, that's also fine.

0:20:23.400 --> 0:20:26.000
<v Speaker 1>To put up those boundaries and kind of work around.

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<v Speaker 2>Them and communicate that with your partner so they know

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<v Speaker 2>and they know it's not a personal thing against them.

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<v Speaker 2>You actually have an issue, You might be actually have

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<v Speaker 2>a phobia of.

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<v Speaker 3>Blood to him, right, Yeah, I mean, yeah, there's lots

0:20:36.000 --> 0:20:37.919
<v Speaker 3>of different like things that could be happening.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but just don't make your partner feel like it's them.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, No, for sure, And like you know, there's a

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<v Speaker 3>lot of positives about having sex on your period, Matt,

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<v Speaker 3>so we're going to talk about them next. Okay, Matt,

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<v Speaker 3>did you know that having sex or an orgasm on

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<v Speaker 3>your period can actually reduce menstrual crams?

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<v Speaker 2>I actually did not know that, Anna Genevieve, if you're listening,

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<v Speaker 2>there you go.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a good little stat to know.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, I suffer from quite bad period pain. That's actually

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<v Speaker 3>one of the reasons that I went on the Marina

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<v Speaker 3>as a contraception, because the Marina is the number one

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<v Speaker 3>contraception that actually minimizes really bad menstrual cramps.

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<v Speaker 2>I obviously have never experienced these pains. I actually told

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<v Speaker 2>Jen I'm willing to get hooked up to one of

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<v Speaker 2>those machines that stimulates that pain, just so I can

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<v Speaker 2>understand what pain she's going through.

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<v Speaker 3>Does that stimulate period pain or is that for birth

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<v Speaker 3>or is it both?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm pretty sure there's one for both. And I said,

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<v Speaker 2>because one time she was in a lot of pain

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<v Speaker 2>and she was like, you don't understand, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm willing to go through that so I can't understand

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<v Speaker 2>and have a better understanding of what you're going through.

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<v Speaker 3>Should maybe we should take you and Michael to one

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<v Speaker 3>of these and just give you a little taste. It's

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<v Speaker 3>actually funny because when me and Michael were in Bali

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<v Speaker 3>and he had like very severe balley belly, Like he's

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<v Speaker 3>never in his life experienced stomach cramps until he got

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<v Speaker 3>Ballei belly.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, So was that the closest thing. I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 2>say it was the same, but he'd probably be one

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<v Speaker 2>of the closest things to period cramps.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, And so like when he was in the hotel

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<v Speaker 3>room at the peak of his Barlei belly, like he's

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<v Speaker 3>not in a good way. He was like crunched over,

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<v Speaker 3>His stomach was in knots.

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<v Speaker 1>He literally sounded like he was giving birth.

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<v Speaker 3>Like the sounds that were coming out of his mouth

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<v Speaker 3>were like no sounds I've heard from him before.

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<v Speaker 1>And I remember in that moment, he goes, I now.

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<v Speaker 3>Know what it feels like to have period, and I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, I feel like you're in a little bit

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<v Speaker 3>more pain than I normally am.

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<v Speaker 1>But let's go with that.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, that triggers a memory of my own. Actually, I

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<v Speaker 2>remember one Christmas, I ate too many prawns and I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know, so random I know, and I remember sitting.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like sitting on my couch and I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean like having the worst cramps in my stomach. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and my sisters just walked past and they're like, he

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<v Speaker 2>just walked off.

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<v Speaker 1>They're like, no sympathy matters for me.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know about Jen, but on my period, I

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<v Speaker 3>feel like my sex drive actually increases, So I'm actually

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<v Speaker 3>more inclined to have sex on my period rather than

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<v Speaker 3>not to.

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<v Speaker 2>All Right, So if someone is feeling obviously a little

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<v Speaker 2>bit more horny while they're on their period and they

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<v Speaker 2>want to have sex, do we have any tips on

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<v Speaker 2>how they can go about it?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Look, the first one is just to be open

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<v Speaker 3>and honest with your partner, tell them about how you're

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<v Speaker 3>feeling if you have anxiety around it. But sex on

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<v Speaker 3>your period is natural, and if you have any sort

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<v Speaker 3>of hesitation, the best thing to do is just be

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<v Speaker 3>open and communicate.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, very good point. Also one is to go in

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<v Speaker 2>the shower or in the bath. I find that can

0:23:51.520 --> 0:23:54.440
<v Speaker 2>like clean up the mess real quickly. But another way

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<v Speaker 2>is to put down a towe on the bed. So

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<v Speaker 2>I suggest using like a dark towel so it doesn't

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<v Speaker 2>stay or yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just so funny hearing you say, but you've said

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<v Speaker 3>it so many times before, you're like, oh, I just

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<v Speaker 3>put down a towel.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, just no big deal, no big deal, Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 2>just yeah. So another one that I recommend is to

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<v Speaker 2>keep wet ones by the bed, so wet wipe so

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<v Speaker 2>you can just have a quick cleanup if you don't

0:24:18.280 --> 0:24:20.760
<v Speaker 2>want to see the mess or anything like that.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. And I think the final one, which I think

0:24:23.760 --> 0:24:25.919
<v Speaker 3>is really simple. This is the first time Michael and

0:24:25.920 --> 0:24:29.480
<v Speaker 3>I did it when I had my period. We just

0:24:29.520 --> 0:24:32.320
<v Speaker 3>put the lights off, like you really need to be

0:24:32.480 --> 0:24:33.840
<v Speaker 3>like looking at it.

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<v Speaker 1>You can just be in the darkness, imagine something else.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't need to be actually fully aware of the situation,

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<v Speaker 3>and then just go clean up after.

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<v Speaker 2>Yep, I agree. All right, guys, it is that time

0:24:50.359 --> 0:24:52.760
<v Speaker 2>of the show now where we ask you to ask

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<v Speaker 2>us where our head's at. So we've got a couple

0:24:55.400 --> 0:24:59.080
<v Speaker 2>of questions from our amazing where as you head at? Fam?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, The first one reads, help, I'm going to have

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<v Speaker 3>my period on my anniversary and we are going away

0:25:06.359 --> 0:25:09.879
<v Speaker 3>for a couple of nights to a hotel. Do I

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<v Speaker 3>bring up that I will have my period and see

0:25:12.880 --> 0:25:16.240
<v Speaker 3>if he wants to try having sex. I'm worried he

0:25:16.480 --> 0:25:20.280
<v Speaker 3>will be weirded out. We never have sex when I'm

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<v Speaker 3>on my period. On a side note, any tips for

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<v Speaker 3>shower sex.

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<v Speaker 1>It's getting saucy, all right.

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<v Speaker 2>I think communication is key, obviously, ask him if he

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<v Speaker 2>would like to have sex y and bring up that

0:25:32.840 --> 0:25:34.520
<v Speaker 2>you do have your period, and ask him if he's

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<v Speaker 2>willing to do it. I mean, like I said earlier,

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<v Speaker 2>it's not a big deal, is it. I just don't

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<v Speaker 2>see it as a massive deal. I honestly, Like, I

0:25:43.640 --> 0:25:46.880
<v Speaker 2>just don't know why you would. It's a natural thing obviously,

0:25:46.960 --> 0:25:49.399
<v Speaker 2>Like she's willing to have sex while she's on a period.

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<v Speaker 2>I think maybe just like.

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<v Speaker 1>That's like you're lucky, bro.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah yeah, yeah, I mean, don't turn down sex when

0:25:55.520 --> 0:25:56.119
<v Speaker 2>it's coming to you.

0:25:56.440 --> 0:25:56.640
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, look, obviously it's your anniversary. You want it to

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<v Speaker 3>be special and nice.

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<v Speaker 2>And like we said earlier, it's in a hotel room,

0:26:02.920 --> 0:26:04.800
<v Speaker 2>you know how get extra horny.

0:26:05.840 --> 0:26:06.080
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Like I think, as Matt said, be open, be honest,

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<v Speaker 3>communicate that you do have your period, so there's not

0:26:12.760 --> 0:26:17.720
<v Speaker 3>false expectations for that weekend. But yeah, like, have some

0:26:17.760 --> 0:26:21.360
<v Speaker 3>shower sex. Put a towel down. Tips for shower.

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<v Speaker 2>Sex, Matt, go, Look, one of you is always going

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<v Speaker 2>to be cold. The shower is never to cover both.

0:26:28.359 --> 0:26:30.120
<v Speaker 1>Of you unless it's a double shore.

0:26:30.160 --> 0:26:31.919
<v Speaker 2>Unless it's a double shower, then you're onto something.

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<v Speaker 1>What's your top tip for shower sex?

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<v Speaker 2>Just go with it. Realize that, like you're both naked

0:26:37.040 --> 0:26:40.000
<v Speaker 2>in a shower, there's water going everywhere. See what happens.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't be shy to try new things while you're in there.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, So our next listener has said, how do

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<v Speaker 2>I explain to my boyfriend that I do not want

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<v Speaker 2>to have sex on my period? I always have so

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<v Speaker 2>much pain and discomfort. My periods are also extremely heavy,

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<v Speaker 2>and I think he does not understand that I always

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<v Speaker 2>feel like shit during my time of the month.

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<v Speaker 3>Look, I think that your boyfriend needs to be more

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<v Speaker 3>compassionate and understanding if you don't want to have sex,

0:27:04.560 --> 0:27:06.840
<v Speaker 3>he has to respect that. And I think there's other

0:27:06.920 --> 0:27:09.240
<v Speaker 3>things that you can do instead of having sex.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I was going to say to other things, but

0:27:11.400 --> 0:27:13.320
<v Speaker 2>obviously she's in pain and discomfort.

0:27:13.600 --> 0:27:17.639
<v Speaker 3>So then again, like having orgasms during your mental cycle

0:27:17.720 --> 0:27:18.800
<v Speaker 3>is supposed to relieve that.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe maybe try that and see how that goes.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, guys, thank you so much for listening to this episode.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope this episode.

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<v Speaker 3>Gave you a little more insight into having sex on

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<v Speaker 3>your period.

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<v Speaker 1>Matt. I think you've learned a lot.

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<v Speaker 3>I have.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I learned how long a cycle runs for.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm definitely more in tune with a mental cycle.

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<v Speaker 1>Now that much you are.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to undersend you my dates, Matt, so that

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<v Speaker 3>you're in tune with my Okay, guys, until next time.

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<v Speaker 2>Bye, thank you, Bye,