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Speaker 1: Coming up on relatables. You could only do two weeks.

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Speaker 2: That's why I don't need more than that. I don't

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Speaker 2: need to be greedy. Yeah, you're a grub, but you

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Speaker 2: don't even change your bed.

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Speaker 1: You could do a year. A year, I do a year.

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Speaker 1: I could do it, genuine I could do it year.

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Speaker 2: You are a disgusting human being.

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Speaker 1: A I could do a year relata relatables podcast it

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Speaker 1: by myself. It's a Jake Craig. Okay, daddy, what are

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Speaker 1: you doing? Mate? I'm hungry.

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Speaker 2: We didn't have time for a lunch break today. And

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Speaker 2: you know what I'm meaning. GYG Baby, when you get

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Speaker 2: that delivered, then let me be in p you actually

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Speaker 2: delivered it. That is no. GYG has a special place

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Speaker 2: in my heart.

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Speaker 1: Even when your GYG talking you think this was an ad,

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Speaker 1: it's not.

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Speaker 2: This is our shout out. I'm annoyed, but this is

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Speaker 2: our call out to GYG sponsor us.

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Speaker 1: Please, I'll talk about you all the time.

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Speaker 2: I reckon. Honestly, I am basically a GYG calorie calculator

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Speaker 2: at this point. Really yeah, I reckon. You could name

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Speaker 2: any dish okay from their restaurant and I will have

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Speaker 2: the calories in my head.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, let's do that. Why not? So you think

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Speaker 1: any dish?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, name one?

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Speaker 1: Go okay, chicken, nacho fries regular.

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Speaker 2: Mate easy start, nine to seventy.

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Speaker 1: Nine to seventy too bad, pretty good. Actually it's got

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Speaker 1: a hearty meal.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Next, pulled pork inchilada easy again. Ten to fifty,

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Speaker 2: like a thousand and fifty, I mean fifty, Oh a

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Speaker 2: big too, they're massive crazy.

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Speaker 1: Okay, what else have we got? Let's go something mini

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Speaker 1: and can get mini burritos. Go chicken again. It's my favorite.

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Speaker 2: I know that one because it's great for cutting four

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Speaker 2: forty brother.

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Speaker 1: For forty yeah, under five hundred. What about protein? Do

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Speaker 1: you know how much proteins cat?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: How much?

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Speaker 2: Recording my calculations, my friend, twenty four grams of protein.

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Speaker 2: That's actually not bad, quite good if you ask me

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Speaker 2: after a session. Anyway, GYG, this, baddies, this is our

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Speaker 2: our audition.

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Speaker 1: Is there our audition? Like we've been trying to get

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Speaker 1: GYG for I think two years?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, two years. Look at my shirt, batties, I want

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Speaker 2: GYG to sponsored me.

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Speaker 1: We actually went and got one time, we went through

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Speaker 1: with GYG.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they're going to send us some free stuff.

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Speaker 1: And it was like some free stuff, and I think

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Speaker 2: We every single work Christmas party, which is just me

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Speaker 2: and Jake at the Relatable Studios, we have GYG.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we've had two Christmas parties. Now, yeah, we have

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Speaker 2: But well, let's enjoy these mini meals and have a

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Speaker 1: Eh, Okay. Before we actually did start recording this episode,

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Speaker 1: I went and I picked up The Goodsman. Yeah, but

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Speaker 2: Okay, interesting, but Sydney the comparison. One thing I love

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Speaker 2: I like feeling special, Like you go to a national

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Speaker 2: There's two ways to look at it, because like I

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Speaker 1: Oh, Sounder fucked me up all the time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Sunder fox me up all the time.

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Speaker 1: That's what that's called. Yeah, I didn't know they had

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Speaker 2: By Sonda the same and like you think, like how big.

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Speaker 1: I can't believe Beth actually just like sees our life

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Speaker 1: Because it's like yellow on your shirt is yellow to you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Is this a stupid thing?

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Speaker 2: I think that more of conversations. So when it's like

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Speaker 1: I don't really get wrigged out by that.

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Speaker 2: I get that, and it's crazy. But like going back

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Speaker 2: But like in this case, I guess ignorance is bliss

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Speaker 2: It's going to have an effect on you in a

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, And it's like because you're back in yourself.

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Speaker 2: But then you're also like, well, fuck, this isn't very nice.

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Speaker 1: I genuinely think something is wrong in my house. My

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Speaker 2: Adulting mate, that's what I like. I reckon a harsh

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Speaker 1: I know, so much work. That's why Actually that's a

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Speaker 2: Like we make a joke that like our parents can't

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Speaker 2: inherit a fucking problem. That's we're not gonna be able

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Speaker 2: We don't have to get creative, start working hard doing

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Speaker 1: No, that's a fair point. I think that the more

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I reckon it depends with like kids though, because

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Speaker 1: You just can't win. No, that's a very good point.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And it's also like round circle. You buy a

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Speaker 2: I don't need all this space.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what are we gonna do with this house? Man? Like, fuck,

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Speaker 1: I just sell it.

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Speaker 2: Make eight billion dollars in fucking twenty to fifty three.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the first billion dollar hours will be sold in

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Speaker 1: the next few year. I'm telling you it's got to

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Speaker 1: How many days do you not shower? And now keep

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Speaker 1: like you can't. Just like you only get the money

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Speaker 2: one hundred thousand dollars.

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Speaker 1: Hundred thousand dollars a day and you but you can't.

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Speaker 1: It's for every day you don't shower.

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Speaker 2: Same, I get sweaty at the gym. We do you

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Speaker 2: have the sex too.

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Speaker 1: There's going to be a certain point in time very quickly.

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Speaker 1: Cassie doesn't want to have sex with you anymore either.

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Speaker 2: One hundred thousand. But then I'd be like, fucking it's

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Speaker 2: a hundred thousand dollars, babe. Yeah, I reckon.

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Speaker 1: I could do two weeks, that's all.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, at one.

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Speaker 1: Point four mil, you could only do two weeks.

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Speaker 2: That's why I don't need more than mate. I don't

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Speaker 2: need to be greedy. Yeah, you're a grub, but you

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Speaker 1: You could do a year. A year, I'd do a year.

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Speaker 1: I could do it with genuine I could do it year.

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Speaker 2: You are a disgusting human being.

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Speaker 1: A Why I could do a year?

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Speaker 2: Really? Yeah you should go one of those mister Beast challenges. A.

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Speaker 1: Oh what do they do it?

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Speaker 2: Like crazy shit like that?

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Speaker 1: Oh, I could do something.

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Speaker 2: Not shower.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to contact with them. I'll do something. I'll

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Speaker 1: make us some money.

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Speaker 2: A year.

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Speaker 1: Really, I could do a year, no problem? Nah or no,

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Speaker 1: not no problem. It would suck, but I could do it.

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Speaker 2: I could see you doing a year.

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Speaker 1: Eight Am I allowed to wash my hands after I

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Speaker 1: eat shortly?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? I can you get Oh yeah, I can even

438
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Speaker 2: wash your hands because like you'll get sick and ship.

439
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Speaker 1: I could definitely do a year.

440
00:18:46,160 --> 00:18:49,399
Speaker 2: We went We went camping together. That's how the podcast

441
00:18:49,440 --> 00:18:52,280
Speaker 2: started up the East Coast of Australia for three months

442
00:18:52,480 --> 00:18:54,720
Speaker 2: Fraser Island. We're there for a week. Yeah, and we're

443
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Speaker 2: at the beach. Didn't shower for a week. I think

444
00:18:56,640 --> 00:18:58,399
Speaker 2: it was just like jumping and the salt water to

445
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Speaker 2: have a shower, and I felt discussing after.

446
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Speaker 1: I definitely remember feeling pretty gross.

447
00:19:03,440 --> 00:19:05,879
Speaker 2: We went to a caravan park after and I was just.

448
00:19:05,760 --> 00:19:11,080
Speaker 1: Like, oh, this is good. The first the first so

449
00:19:11,720 --> 00:19:16,480
Speaker 1: we also the first moment of the tour up the

450
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Speaker 1: east coast. So we stopped at a place called Crescent Head,

451
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Speaker 1: and that was actually I think like five days to

452
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Speaker 1: a week of no hot showers. Yeah, and we had

453
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Speaker 1: cold showers, so we did get clean. But I remember

454
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Speaker 1: we only drove like two hours further north and stopped

455
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Speaker 1: at this place that had hot showers and they were

456
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Speaker 1: timed five minute showers, and so I remember what we

457
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Speaker 1: would do is we were there. We got there late,

458
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Speaker 1: so we were the only ones in the shower block,

459
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Speaker 1: and there was like maybe ten rows of showers, right,

460
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Speaker 1: so it was like ten showers, and we both like

461
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Speaker 1: started on the outside. First out, we turned one on

462
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Speaker 1: and it waited for it to get hot, right, and

463
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Speaker 1: then we go in. And then when when it was

464
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Speaker 1: nearly done, I'd run out turn another one on, and

465
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Speaker 1: then by the time the one I'd started with first

466
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Speaker 1: got cold, I'd go into the one that just got

467
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Speaker 1: hot and just keep up and pattern and had like

468
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Speaker 1: a thirty minutes shower.

469
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Speaker 2: And this is the guy who says you can do

470
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Speaker 2: a year without showers.

471
00:20:04,840 --> 00:20:06,720
Speaker 1: I could do a year without sharing for one hundred

472
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Speaker 1: thousand dollars a day.

473
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Speaker 2: Even just having cold water showers like I recently had

474
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Speaker 2: it going camping with my girlfriend and like, it just

475
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Speaker 2: takes it out of you a little bit.

476
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know how I feel about the cold

477
00:20:15,240 --> 00:20:18,359
Speaker 1: water therapy thing people used to do, used to people

478
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Speaker 1: still do it.

479
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Speaker 2: I'll like to be bigger ice bathing than that.

480
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Speaker 1: I don't know.

481
00:20:22,040 --> 00:20:26,040
Speaker 2: It's great, you feel refreshed, you feel I.

482
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Speaker 1: Said this to I don't know how this came up

483
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Speaker 1: with Bethanar the other day, but she said something and

484
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Speaker 1: I go Also, she said something on the topic of

485
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Speaker 1: like saunas and ice baths, and I said, yeah, I

486
00:20:34,800 --> 00:20:36,640
Speaker 1: don't know how I feel about ice bats and she goes, yeah,

487
00:20:36,640 --> 00:20:37,760
Speaker 1: but you don't like hard things.

488
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Speaker 2: If there was one sentence to describe mister Jake Craig

489
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Speaker 2: over here, it would be I don't like hard things.

490
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Speaker 1: Hey, you know what live and die by that I'll.

491
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Speaker 2: Make that my personal I reckon, you've gotten softer a.

492
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Speaker 1: I don't care I'm changing last like two years. I

493
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Speaker 1: don't care.

494
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Speaker 2: You've got way softer used to love camping.

495
00:21:01,720 --> 00:21:03,920
Speaker 1: Oh, I'll give me that. I have gotten so why

496
00:21:03,960 --> 00:21:04,719
Speaker 1: you don't do it anymore.

497
00:21:04,760 --> 00:21:06,199
Speaker 2: Why it's hard work? It is?

498
00:21:07,359 --> 00:21:10,080
Speaker 1: It is hard. Give me a five. I hate it

499
00:21:10,119 --> 00:21:13,360
Speaker 1: when my feet get dirty. Now you're fucking diva. Two.

500
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Speaker 2: Ay, give me my five star resort.

501
00:21:16,760 --> 00:21:19,520
Speaker 1: Everyone's daddy and Jake needs to touch grass? How about everyone?

502
00:21:19,720 --> 00:21:20,280
Speaker 2: Fuck off?

503
00:21:20,440 --> 00:21:21,920
Speaker 1: I'm living my high rise apartment.

504
00:21:22,400 --> 00:21:27,119
Speaker 2: You got, you'll live in your higher eyes building. Not

505
00:21:27,240 --> 00:21:30,840
Speaker 2: have showers, not have oxygen, no sound up there?

506
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Speaker 1: Everyone common blow? How many days could you go without

507
00:21:33,040 --> 00:21:34,600
Speaker 1: a shower for a hundred thousand dollars a day in

508
00:21:34,680 --> 00:21:38,120
Speaker 1: two weeks? Is heaps? Yeah? But like, yeah, so after

509
00:21:38,160 --> 00:21:40,359
Speaker 1: two weeks, you're gonna have one point four mil. And

510
00:21:40,400 --> 00:21:43,120
Speaker 1: then after my three hundred and six five days, I'm

511
00:21:43,119 --> 00:21:50,240
Speaker 1: gonna have thirty six three hundred thirty six million. Yeah, yeah,

512
00:21:50,359 --> 00:21:51,400
Speaker 1: thirty six point five mil.

513
00:21:51,560 --> 00:21:53,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, And you're going to be.

514
00:21:53,320 --> 00:21:55,679
Speaker 1: Thinking he's stunk for a while there, but I got

515
00:21:55,800 --> 00:21:57,320
Speaker 1: used to it, and now he's got thirty six point

516
00:21:57,320 --> 00:21:59,159
Speaker 1: five million. I'm not giving you any But I'm not

517
00:21:59,160 --> 00:21:59,640
Speaker 1: giving you.

518
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Speaker 2: Any You know how, you're a bit of a diva

519
00:22:01,760 --> 00:22:03,879
Speaker 2: and you've gotten soft. You're also the type of person

520
00:22:03,920 --> 00:22:06,399
Speaker 2: who's like it will start to affect all your relationships

521
00:22:06,400 --> 00:22:07,360
Speaker 2: around you, but you'll be like.

522
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Speaker 1: I don't care.

523
00:22:12,880 --> 00:22:15,040
Speaker 2: It's like when we tried to do the no phone thing,

524
00:22:15,240 --> 00:22:16,960
Speaker 2: yeah and no, you just started to do it at

525
00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:19,240
Speaker 2: the start on your own terms, and we had business

526
00:22:19,280 --> 00:22:21,760
Speaker 2: to do and Jake was just unable to contact because

527
00:22:21,800 --> 00:22:24,080
Speaker 2: you had a fucking phone that he left at his

528
00:22:24,119 --> 00:22:26,400
Speaker 2: house while he did things. All genuinely, though.

529
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Speaker 1: I want to know how people did business back in

530
00:22:28,160 --> 00:22:30,719
Speaker 1: the day, because there's a reason why we're all stressed

531
00:22:30,720 --> 00:22:34,280
Speaker 1: and anxious. And for one, I think definitely the reason

532
00:22:34,280 --> 00:22:35,879
Speaker 1: it's gone up is because people can feel like they

533
00:22:35,920 --> 00:22:37,600
Speaker 1: can talk about it more. But two, it is one

534
00:22:37,680 --> 00:22:42,560
Speaker 1: hundred percent partly because of phones. Because no hate against

535
00:22:42,600 --> 00:22:46,560
Speaker 1: our manager, but like they have such instant access to

536
00:22:46,640 --> 00:22:50,639
Speaker 1: us with just a message, and it's like asking us

537
00:22:50,640 --> 00:22:53,639
Speaker 1: about ideas for sponsorships or this or that on numbers

538
00:22:53,680 --> 00:22:56,760
Speaker 1: for a podcast episode that's the network needs, or all

539
00:22:56,840 --> 00:23:01,120
Speaker 1: these things. Yeah, And I'm thinking, like we actually technically

540
00:23:01,119 --> 00:23:02,919
Speaker 1: work for ourselves and we could just say, like not

541
00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:06,000
Speaker 1: answering texts today, see you tomorrow or whatever, right, And

542
00:23:06,040 --> 00:23:08,280
Speaker 1: so it's like these things stress us se out because

543
00:23:08,280 --> 00:23:11,040
Speaker 1: we felt when need answer them straight away. Imagine working

544
00:23:11,080 --> 00:23:15,280
Speaker 1: for someone and like emails instant, like everything's instant.

545
00:23:15,680 --> 00:23:19,399
Speaker 2: The obligation. Yeah, but you're also really good at not

546
00:23:19,480 --> 00:23:24,479
Speaker 2: replying exactly and you get stressed a little bit. But like, well,

547
00:23:24,520 --> 00:23:25,800
Speaker 2: I have the mindset.

548
00:23:25,320 --> 00:23:28,879
Speaker 1: That like, let me just rub off on you.

549
00:23:29,359 --> 00:23:32,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, but you should also say thank you, because let

550
00:23:32,560 --> 00:23:33,399
Speaker 2: me rub one.

551
00:23:33,280 --> 00:23:35,960
Speaker 1: Off, I still get done. They will just message us again.

552
00:23:36,320 --> 00:23:37,800
Speaker 1: I make it easier for you.

553
00:23:38,080 --> 00:23:41,119
Speaker 2: But my mindset with it is I would prefer not

554
00:23:41,160 --> 00:23:43,960
Speaker 2: to have it on my conscience. And if I just reply,

555
00:23:44,200 --> 00:23:46,239
Speaker 2: I'm on my phone. Like it's not like I'm not

556
00:23:46,280 --> 00:23:48,480
Speaker 2: on my phone. I'm on it anyway, and I'm just

557
00:23:48,480 --> 00:23:52,440
Speaker 2: reply right now. Okay, that's so funny, So let's se okay,

558
00:23:52,480 --> 00:23:54,000
Speaker 2: And I feel like you have the opposite mindset.

559
00:23:54,480 --> 00:23:55,800
Speaker 1: He joined a care I can explain to you how

560
00:23:55,880 --> 00:23:57,880
Speaker 1: my mind works, so your mind works like this. We're

561
00:23:57,880 --> 00:24:00,159
Speaker 1: get a message from our manager and they're like, can

562
00:24:00,160 --> 00:24:03,040
Speaker 1: you answer this by end of day? Yeah? Right, And look,

563
00:24:03,080 --> 00:24:04,639
Speaker 1: if it's not answered by end of day, I'm sure

564
00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:06,520
Speaker 1: it's not the end of the world. But because you

565
00:24:06,560 --> 00:24:08,440
Speaker 1: saw that end of day thing, you're like, I better

566
00:24:08,480 --> 00:24:12,240
Speaker 1: answer it me. I could see that, and I could

567
00:24:12,240 --> 00:24:14,639
Speaker 1: be like, it's like a big of a deal. And

568
00:24:14,680 --> 00:24:16,840
Speaker 1: then the reason that I could actually not answer it

569
00:24:16,960 --> 00:24:21,800
Speaker 1: until the next day is because I genuinely forget. That's

570
00:24:21,800 --> 00:24:24,040
Speaker 1: why it didn't stress me out, because I actually forget.

571
00:24:24,200 --> 00:24:26,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, but that's not the way my brain works. And

572
00:24:26,880 --> 00:24:28,520
Speaker 2: but you don't forget it, clearly, don't forget about I

573
00:24:28,560 --> 00:24:29,200
Speaker 2: don't forget anything.

574
00:24:29,240 --> 00:24:29,440
Speaker 1: Yeah.

575
00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:31,879
Speaker 2: The same with episodes, like scheduling episodes, if it episode

576
00:24:31,920 --> 00:24:32,560
Speaker 2: is ever late.

577
00:24:32,400 --> 00:24:36,639
Speaker 1: Guys because of me. Also, I can guarantee you a

578
00:24:36,680 --> 00:24:38,919
Speaker 1: Monday episode or a Thursday episode has never been late,

579
00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:40,840
Speaker 1: and only the book Club episodes that we aren't doing anymore.

580
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Speaker 1: But the book Club episodes are the only ones that

581
00:24:42,680 --> 00:24:44,000
Speaker 1: were ever late because I forgot.

582
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Speaker 2: Yeah. I'll tell you. What also wigs me out too,

583
00:24:47,200 --> 00:24:50,520
Speaker 2: is like why I feel like I was gonna say,

584
00:24:50,560 --> 00:24:51,920
Speaker 2: is this a morning episode? But also I feel like

585
00:24:51,920 --> 00:24:54,240
Speaker 2: it's relatable. I don't know if you moan why do

586
00:24:54,400 --> 00:24:56,360
Speaker 2: we normalize working eight hours a day?

587
00:24:56,920 --> 00:24:57,160
Speaker 1: Wow?

588
00:24:57,280 --> 00:24:59,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, five days a week? Why is that the normal?

589
00:25:00,280 --> 00:25:02,840
Speaker 2: Why did someone not be like, look, we've got seven

590
00:25:02,920 --> 00:25:03,600
Speaker 2: days in a week.

591
00:25:03,760 --> 00:25:04,960
Speaker 1: I'm going to ask, there's a thing here.

592
00:25:05,040 --> 00:25:09,120
Speaker 2: Go on, let's work about three to four and make

593
00:25:09,560 --> 00:25:13,560
Speaker 2: our world funded to working three to four hours a

594
00:25:13,640 --> 00:25:16,760
Speaker 2: day for five days a week, not fucking eight. Yeah, Okay,

595
00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:19,159
Speaker 2: Like why wouldn't we want to be happy? And everyone's like,

596
00:25:19,200 --> 00:25:21,320
Speaker 2: let's just but I assume someone got greedy started making

597
00:25:21,359 --> 00:25:23,119
Speaker 2: a fun ton of money by working more. Everything that

598
00:25:23,119 --> 00:25:24,800
Speaker 2: went up in prices. Everyone's like, I got to catch up.

599
00:25:24,880 --> 00:25:28,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, So Henry Ford, yeah, is widely credited. So

600
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Speaker 1: Henry Ford is widely credited with popularizing the five day,

601
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Speaker 1: forty hour work week.

602
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Speaker 2: Credited, credited to be fucking could.

603
00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:38,359
Speaker 1: Cooled Yeah in nineteen twenty six by implementing it for

604
00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:41,920
Speaker 1: Ford Motor Company employees. Well, labor movements had long advocated

605
00:25:41,960 --> 00:25:44,720
Speaker 1: for shorter hours. Ford's move was driven by a desire

606
00:25:44,760 --> 00:25:47,560
Speaker 1: to increase productivity and ensure workers had enough leisure time

607
00:25:47,600 --> 00:25:49,840
Speaker 1: to consume goods. Yeah.

608
00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:52,199
Speaker 2: So yeah, that's what I want to do. I'm going

609
00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:53,439
Speaker 2: to be a Google boss.

610
00:25:53,800 --> 00:25:54,959
Speaker 1: A Google boss. Yeah.

611
00:25:55,280 --> 00:25:56,560
Speaker 2: I don't know if they still do it, but like,

612
00:25:56,600 --> 00:25:58,640
Speaker 2: if we ever are in the position to hire someone,

613
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Speaker 2: I'm going to be like, dude, if you get the

614
00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:02,440
Speaker 2: work done, I don't care how long it takes you.

615
00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:03,320
Speaker 1: You can do whatever.

616
00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:04,680
Speaker 2: I'm gonna give you jobs and you do it and

617
00:26:04,720 --> 00:26:05,920
Speaker 2: then after that you can do whatever you want.

618
00:26:05,960 --> 00:26:07,959
Speaker 1: See, I'm like, I actually am the same like I

619
00:26:08,160 --> 00:26:12,199
Speaker 1: would say, like to an employee, I don't want to

620
00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:15,720
Speaker 1: be the boss that's like, and I don't know unless

621
00:26:16,080 --> 00:26:17,880
Speaker 1: this person just is like that, but I don't ever

622
00:26:17,880 --> 00:26:19,919
Speaker 1: want to be the type of person that just expects

623
00:26:20,280 --> 00:26:24,640
Speaker 1: an employee to be just like so go get them

624
00:26:24,800 --> 00:26:27,560
Speaker 1: and just like want to build the company because they

625
00:26:27,640 --> 00:26:29,760
Speaker 1: just love working for us, Because I think that's such

626
00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:32,920
Speaker 1: an unrealistic thing, Like anyone that I've ever worked for,

627
00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:35,800
Speaker 1: the harder I work, the more they get. So it's like,

628
00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:37,800
Speaker 1: why am I going to work more for the same

629
00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:40,200
Speaker 1: amount just to make you more money? Like I don't

630
00:26:40,280 --> 00:26:42,000
Speaker 1: understand that. I don't know if that's a bad mindset

631
00:26:42,080 --> 00:26:43,879
Speaker 1: or not, But if we have a hier employee, I

632
00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:46,000
Speaker 1: just want to give them the stuff that they need

633
00:26:46,040 --> 00:26:48,359
Speaker 1: to do if they get it done. You can work

634
00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:50,560
Speaker 1: twenty hours a week or forty hours a week, but

635
00:26:50,920 --> 00:26:52,520
Speaker 1: if you want to do more, go for it. I'm

636
00:26:52,520 --> 00:26:53,080
Speaker 1: not going to stop you.

637
00:26:53,200 --> 00:26:56,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree too. I've always had like the mindset

638
00:26:56,760 --> 00:27:00,560
Speaker 2: of like it annoyed me, especially like when you it

639
00:27:00,600 --> 00:27:02,880
Speaker 2: depends with certain roles. I guess you have to be there,

640
00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:04,600
Speaker 2: but I've never understood you finished a job and then

641
00:27:04,600 --> 00:27:06,879
Speaker 2: your employer says you got to stay here for the

642
00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:08,720
Speaker 2: extra forty five minutes on your shift, but you're like

643
00:27:08,720 --> 00:27:10,720
Speaker 2: I'm done, yeah, and they're like you just have to

644
00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:13,399
Speaker 2: sit there in your car, and you're like hectic. This

645
00:27:13,440 --> 00:27:15,159
Speaker 2: is the biggest ways of my life ever. And it

646
00:27:15,160 --> 00:27:17,720
Speaker 2: made me feel so stupid, so so valid.

647
00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:20,919
Speaker 1: My dad one time actually had to so I my

648
00:27:21,119 --> 00:27:24,480
Speaker 1: very first like proper job was at Coals and I

649
00:27:24,560 --> 00:27:27,639
Speaker 1: was like trolley guy. And then also like on certain

650
00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:30,119
Speaker 1: shifts they had the team I was a part of

651
00:27:30,160 --> 00:27:31,920
Speaker 1: had to do like some cleaning of like the chicken

652
00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:34,960
Speaker 1: racks and shit or whatever. And I'd always get if

653
00:27:35,000 --> 00:27:36,600
Speaker 1: it was a week they I'd always getrosted on from

654
00:27:36,640 --> 00:27:39,320
Speaker 1: six till nine. Yeah, like three hour shift. And my

655
00:27:39,359 --> 00:27:41,520
Speaker 1: parents had picked me up, and one time I got out,

656
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Speaker 1: I didn't get out until nine thirty, and my dad

657
00:27:44,680 --> 00:27:45,840
Speaker 1: was like where were you when I was like, oh,

658
00:27:46,240 --> 00:27:48,760
Speaker 1: they said I had to finish this thing, and he goes, no,

659
00:27:48,760 --> 00:27:52,119
Speaker 1: They've rostered you on from six until nine, like you

660
00:27:52,320 --> 00:27:55,520
Speaker 1: leave at nine, And I was like, oh that makes

661
00:27:55,520 --> 00:27:57,880
Speaker 1: so much sense. Yeah, I was like, what if I'm

662
00:27:57,880 --> 00:28:00,479
Speaker 1: not done the job. He's like that's fine, and like

663
00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:03,000
Speaker 1: someone takes over after you. This is cold.

664
00:28:03,359 --> 00:28:07,560
Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, it's funny too, because also, I

665
00:28:07,560 --> 00:28:09,320
Speaker 2: don't know, you feel like a little bit of a

666
00:28:09,359 --> 00:28:12,320
Speaker 2: diva soft or whatever because of society's expectations. But I

667
00:28:12,320 --> 00:28:16,679
Speaker 2: remember when I was laboring and stuff, and I remember

668
00:28:16,720 --> 00:28:18,320
Speaker 2: I was I'm into my fitness. I've always been into

669
00:28:18,320 --> 00:28:20,159
Speaker 2: my fitness. And I used to go and have like,

670
00:28:20,640 --> 00:28:23,320
Speaker 2: go make just a little protein shake, have take three

671
00:28:23,320 --> 00:28:25,040
Speaker 2: minutes out of my day and shift. And someone's like,

672
00:28:25,040 --> 00:28:26,680
Speaker 2: don't let the boss see that, he'll get angry. Don't

673
00:28:26,720 --> 00:28:28,800
Speaker 2: let the bos see that he'll get angry. Yeah, that's crazy,

674
00:28:28,800 --> 00:28:32,240
Speaker 2: And I'm like, mate, this literally takes like three minutes

675
00:28:32,400 --> 00:28:34,240
Speaker 2: and I'll be back. Let me stole my protein shake.

676
00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:35,560
Speaker 2: And I was like, I don't give a fuck this

677
00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:37,200
Speaker 2: boss is and if he says something to me, I'm like,

678
00:28:37,240 --> 00:28:39,440
Speaker 2: I'm not coming back. Yeah, at least I was in

679
00:28:39,440 --> 00:28:41,760
Speaker 2: a position to do that, But I'm like, like, operating

680
00:28:41,760 --> 00:28:44,160
Speaker 2: your life like that, especially as a boss like I can.

681
00:28:44,520 --> 00:28:46,400
Speaker 2: I don't know, just something goes wrong with Like I

682
00:28:46,440 --> 00:28:48,120
Speaker 2: suppose they also do it because people take you for

683
00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:50,400
Speaker 2: a ride, because we'd have to be careful. With that mindset,

684
00:28:50,400 --> 00:28:51,680
Speaker 2: people would be like, oh, I don't even have to

685
00:28:51,960 --> 00:28:53,600
Speaker 2: do anything when I work for the boys. Yeah, and

686
00:28:53,600 --> 00:28:55,480
Speaker 2: then they have to have that structure. I guess it's

687
00:28:55,480 --> 00:28:57,760
Speaker 2: the same way with parenting. You can parent in any way,

688
00:28:58,040 --> 00:29:00,840
Speaker 2: and if you have a lackadaisical approach you get to

689
00:29:00,840 --> 00:29:03,280
Speaker 2: taken advantage of. So that's why parents are st strict,

690
00:29:03,320 --> 00:29:06,120
Speaker 2: and that's why bosses are strict. At this point, there's

691
00:29:06,120 --> 00:29:06,680
Speaker 2: just no winning.

692
00:29:06,920 --> 00:29:08,880
Speaker 1: Is there a right answer to anything? Is the question?

693
00:29:09,160 --> 00:29:10,520
Speaker 2: No? No, no.

694
00:29:11,480 --> 00:29:14,400
Speaker 1: I also, for some reason hated when people gloat about

695
00:29:14,680 --> 00:29:21,240
Speaker 1: like just working twelve fifteen hours a day every single day,

696
00:29:21,480 --> 00:29:24,160
Speaker 1: and they're like, I work weekends, wouldn't.

697
00:29:24,400 --> 00:29:29,200
Speaker 2: Yeah. I feel like it's a masculine thing to think

698
00:29:29,280 --> 00:29:31,520
Speaker 2: that the more you work, the more of a man

699
00:29:31,560 --> 00:29:31,760
Speaker 2: you are.

700
00:29:32,520 --> 00:29:35,480
Speaker 1: Whoa, Yeah, it makes you feel like a man.

701
00:29:35,680 --> 00:29:38,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's I guess I think where a lot

702
00:29:38,200 --> 00:29:41,000
Speaker 2: of men go wrong is a sense of masculine and

703
00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:44,560
Speaker 2: feminine energies aren't to deal with gender. They're to deal

704
00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:47,520
Speaker 2: with like the expectations in your head, and a lot

705
00:29:47,560 --> 00:29:50,000
Speaker 2: of men just think they have to try so fucking

706
00:29:50,040 --> 00:29:53,120
Speaker 2: hard to provide and be seen in society's expectations as

707
00:29:53,160 --> 00:29:56,120
Speaker 2: successful in a provider, but they in reality, they just

708
00:29:56,160 --> 00:29:57,720
Speaker 2: don't really know how to balance.

709
00:29:58,400 --> 00:30:02,160
Speaker 1: And whose fault is that? Men's Yeah, toxic mens for

710
00:30:02,240 --> 00:30:03,280
Speaker 1: starting it in the first place.

711
00:30:03,320 --> 00:30:05,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, they started it and then the problem and now

712
00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:07,400
Speaker 2: they're complaining about it or we we're combining about it now.

713
00:30:08,640 --> 00:30:11,920
Speaker 1: AnyWho? Off topic? Sharp left turn?

714
00:30:12,040 --> 00:30:12,880
Speaker 2: I like left turns.

715
00:30:13,200 --> 00:30:17,040
Speaker 1: I am my parents. So I have a mother and

716
00:30:17,040 --> 00:30:20,200
Speaker 1: a father obviously divorced. I have a stepmother and a stepfather.

717
00:30:20,320 --> 00:30:22,000
Speaker 1: I like when you say you're a child of divorce,

718
00:30:22,280 --> 00:30:23,160
Speaker 1: I am a child of divorce.

719
00:30:23,240 --> 00:30:25,160
Speaker 2: Yeah. I feel like that's like not a cool title,

720
00:30:25,160 --> 00:30:26,720
Speaker 2: but like kind of makes it sound.

721
00:30:26,800 --> 00:30:27,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know.

722
00:30:27,600 --> 00:30:29,200
Speaker 2: I feel like being a child of divorce is like

723
00:30:29,480 --> 00:30:31,560
Speaker 2: actually more common than not being a child of divorce,

724
00:30:31,640 --> 00:30:34,160
Speaker 2: So you're the odd one. No, it's a cool title

725
00:30:34,160 --> 00:30:35,360
Speaker 2: to have. It's like a child of divorce.

726
00:30:35,400 --> 00:30:37,520
Speaker 1: Anyway. I just wanted to say, Okay, my dad will

727
00:30:37,520 --> 00:30:39,400
Speaker 1: send funny text messages to me and my sister, but

728
00:30:40,080 --> 00:30:42,040
Speaker 1: he really sent me this funny thing and this is

729
00:30:42,120 --> 00:30:46,120
Speaker 1: just like so I think this is so me coded. Okay,

730
00:30:46,160 --> 00:30:49,280
Speaker 1: this is something I would do, he goes. So he

731
00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:52,560
Speaker 1: sends a couple of messages and then he just gives

732
00:30:52,600 --> 00:30:56,080
Speaker 1: me an update. So I'm moving soon. My dad's bringing

733
00:30:56,080 --> 00:30:58,280
Speaker 1: his trailer here from Queensland and I'm leaving it here

734
00:30:58,280 --> 00:30:59,760
Speaker 1: with me and I'm taking it back up to Queensland

735
00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:03,080
Speaker 1: it to move. He goes, Jakie, I took one of

736
00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:05,640
Speaker 1: the tires off the trailer to a mechanic today because

737
00:31:05,640 --> 00:31:07,720
Speaker 1: it has been going down all the time. And he

738
00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:10,160
Speaker 1: called me after ten minutes and said he just has

739
00:31:10,240 --> 00:31:12,200
Speaker 1: to screw the valve in a bit more. I think

740
00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:14,200
Speaker 1: he felt bad for me, and he didn't charge me.

741
00:31:16,440 --> 00:31:18,640
Speaker 1: Why didn't tell me that? He didn't have to tell

742
00:31:18,640 --> 00:31:20,440
Speaker 1: me that. I know, he just felt like, tell me

743
00:31:20,920 --> 00:31:24,440
Speaker 1: he's like my dad is actually okay, my dad. I'm

744
00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:27,280
Speaker 1: a lot like him. Yeah, pretty chure Lackaday's cal blah

745
00:31:27,280 --> 00:31:30,320
Speaker 1: blah blah blah blah. But also like he is so

746
00:31:31,920 --> 00:31:35,600
Speaker 1: slyly or like you wouldn't guess this about him, but

747
00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:38,480
Speaker 1: like when it comes to the family, he fucking loves

748
00:31:38,480 --> 00:31:39,400
Speaker 1: being the center of attention.

749
00:31:39,600 --> 00:31:44,479
Speaker 2: Really, it's the funniest thing. Main character and he's like

750
00:31:44,720 --> 00:31:45,920
Speaker 2: the most classic.

751
00:31:46,600 --> 00:31:49,840
Speaker 1: If he was to make us laugh right like, he

752
00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:51,680
Speaker 1: makes us say we're out and as a family gathering,

753
00:31:51,720 --> 00:31:54,440
Speaker 1: makes everyone laugh like that's the pinnacle of joy to him.

754
00:31:54,480 --> 00:31:57,480
Speaker 1: And then for like three years he'll say the same

755
00:31:57,560 --> 00:31:59,920
Speaker 1: joke and then we'll all be like, it's getting old,

756
00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:03,440
Speaker 1: but us recognizing that it's getting old makes him really

757
00:32:03,440 --> 00:32:05,400
Speaker 1: happy because again, he's the center of attention.

758
00:32:06,560 --> 00:32:09,800
Speaker 2: My parents are. They're a different bree day. He's the

759
00:32:09,960 --> 00:32:12,840
Speaker 2: funniest we figure out about our parents.

760
00:32:12,880 --> 00:32:13,560
Speaker 1: How do we get too?

761
00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:14,320
Speaker 2: Yeah?

762
00:32:14,400 --> 00:32:14,960
Speaker 1: Do you reckon?

763
00:32:15,080 --> 00:32:17,360
Speaker 2: Who do you reckon? Is the favorite child out of

764
00:32:17,360 --> 00:32:17,840
Speaker 2: your family?

765
00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:20,560
Speaker 1: So for my dad, it's my older sister Joanna. I

766
00:32:20,560 --> 00:32:23,840
Speaker 1: thought you'd be up there, but because I'm not. I'm

767
00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:25,680
Speaker 1: just because I'm easy to forget about.

768
00:32:27,800 --> 00:32:30,160
Speaker 2: Easy to forget about. I think I'm very easy figured

769
00:32:30,200 --> 00:32:33,640
Speaker 2: about it. Successful podcast. Yeah, yeah, Like they're proud of

770
00:32:33,640 --> 00:32:35,680
Speaker 2: me with your best friend. They're proud of me. They're

771
00:32:35,680 --> 00:32:37,040
Speaker 2: definitely proud of me. They've said that before.

772
00:32:37,040 --> 00:32:38,960
Speaker 1: But I'm just the easiest to forget about it. Ever

773
00:32:39,000 --> 00:32:40,360
Speaker 1: since I was young. I think I've been the easiest

774
00:32:40,400 --> 00:32:45,360
Speaker 1: forget about. Jaco. I don't know. I don't ask for much.

775
00:32:45,440 --> 00:32:46,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's fair.

776
00:32:47,280 --> 00:32:49,760
Speaker 1: They've given me a lot and like obviously super grateful

777
00:32:49,760 --> 00:32:50,920
Speaker 1: for it, but yeah, I feel like I just don't

778
00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:54,080
Speaker 1: really ask for too much. And then for my step mom,

779
00:32:55,000 --> 00:32:57,080
Speaker 1: I don't know if it's my younger brother Ethan or

780
00:32:57,120 --> 00:32:59,120
Speaker 1: my sister Hayley, but it's got to be one of them.

781
00:32:59,160 --> 00:33:00,880
Speaker 2: I got to be one of the fuse like full blood,

782
00:33:00,960 --> 00:33:03,000
Speaker 2: it's gotta be. Yeah, you're like a muggle to that.

783
00:33:04,040 --> 00:33:04,920
Speaker 1: I'm a dirty blood.

784
00:33:07,280 --> 00:33:09,880
Speaker 2: I'm dirty blood, not pure bread.

785
00:33:10,880 --> 00:33:16,120
Speaker 1: And then for my mom in Canada, so my biological mom,

786
00:33:16,520 --> 00:33:18,880
Speaker 1: I think my older sister Juanna would say it's me,

787
00:33:19,560 --> 00:33:24,040
Speaker 1: but like it's not because if it was me, she

788
00:33:24,040 --> 00:33:25,479
Speaker 1: would have come and visit me by now. And I've

789
00:33:25,520 --> 00:33:31,479
Speaker 1: lived here for fifteen years, and so I think that.

790
00:33:32,000 --> 00:33:35,280
Speaker 1: With my I think it's my younger brother Cole. He

791
00:33:35,400 --> 00:33:37,520
Speaker 1: was my replacement if I still live there, Probably me though,

792
00:33:37,720 --> 00:33:39,200
Speaker 1: yeah you reckon one hundred percent.

793
00:33:39,280 --> 00:33:40,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh my god. Yeah.

794
00:33:41,320 --> 00:33:44,200
Speaker 1: And the sons, she's like she's a major Mum's in

795
00:33:44,200 --> 00:33:47,360
Speaker 1: their son's top of mom. But so then the reason

796
00:33:47,360 --> 00:33:48,840
Speaker 1: I would have been in Subje because this week I

797
00:33:48,840 --> 00:33:52,000
Speaker 1: got something funny from both my parents. My mum likes

798
00:33:52,000 --> 00:33:54,040
Speaker 1: to send me memes and she sent me this meme

799
00:33:54,080 --> 00:33:56,840
Speaker 1: actually from the Batche and Arthur podcast. It was a

800
00:33:56,920 --> 00:33:58,960
Speaker 1: video from the Batch of Arthur. I might show it

801
00:33:58,960 --> 00:33:59,240
Speaker 1: to you.

802
00:33:59,160 --> 00:34:00,959
Speaker 2: Quickly as forks.

803
00:34:01,440 --> 00:34:05,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, so she yeah, yeah, Like, she sends me this

804
00:34:05,360 --> 00:34:07,440
Speaker 1: thing and it's like a video. We can put it

805
00:34:07,480 --> 00:34:09,719
Speaker 1: up on screen if we can be bossed, and it's

806
00:34:09,800 --> 00:34:13,680
Speaker 1: I'll show the camera anyway. But it's like the background

807
00:34:13,760 --> 00:34:16,160
Speaker 1: is this purple carpet Mike material, and then there's four forks

808
00:34:16,160 --> 00:34:18,360
Speaker 1: there and my mom sends it to me, and I

809
00:34:18,440 --> 00:34:21,080
Speaker 1: watched the whole thing and realized that not everyone sees forks. Yeah,

810
00:34:21,200 --> 00:34:23,719
Speaker 1: but straight away like you, I saw the forks. So

811
00:34:23,760 --> 00:34:25,880
Speaker 1: I said to my mom, I saw the forks straight away. Haha.

812
00:34:26,239 --> 00:34:28,799
Speaker 1: She goes, oh, really, well, you are left handed, so

813
00:34:28,840 --> 00:34:29,520
Speaker 1: that makes sense.

814
00:34:32,120 --> 00:34:35,040
Speaker 2: Is that like, is that a dig you?

815
00:34:35,440 --> 00:34:35,920
Speaker 1: I don't know.

816
00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:37,560
Speaker 2: I'm just like she just always.

817
00:34:37,239 --> 00:34:38,960
Speaker 1: Has an excuse for me to be able to do something.

818
00:34:39,000 --> 00:34:41,000
Speaker 2: Do you reckon left Being left handed was a choice

819
00:34:41,040 --> 00:34:43,920
Speaker 2: when you were a kid? No, I think it comes

820
00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:46,239
Speaker 2: naturally to some people. And then a long time ago,

821
00:34:46,400 --> 00:34:48,160
Speaker 2: back in the day, if someone was starting to write

822
00:34:48,200 --> 00:34:49,759
Speaker 2: left handed, they get like whipped and then they have

823
00:34:49,760 --> 00:34:52,080
Speaker 2: to write right handed. Really yeah, So you can be

824
00:34:52,120 --> 00:34:53,759
Speaker 2: taught to write right handed from young if you're right

825
00:34:53,800 --> 00:34:54,879
Speaker 2: in left hand, it's a great idea.

826
00:34:55,040 --> 00:34:58,240
Speaker 1: Yeah. I worked with a guy a carpet what.

827
00:34:59,120 --> 00:35:01,759
Speaker 2: Disagreed might start bringing a whip the work when you're

828
00:35:01,760 --> 00:35:02,680
Speaker 2: writing on the whiteboard.

829
00:35:02,719 --> 00:35:04,719
Speaker 1: I was like, so involved in my own story that

830
00:35:04,760 --> 00:35:07,320
Speaker 1: what you were saying, just say yes and just keep.

831
00:35:07,200 --> 00:35:08,000
Speaker 2: Going, start writing.

832
00:35:09,520 --> 00:35:11,439
Speaker 1: But I worked with a carpenter who was a left

833
00:35:11,440 --> 00:35:13,920
Speaker 1: handed carpenter, and he said that when he first got

834
00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:16,040
Speaker 1: his apprenticeship, his boss didn't realize he was left handed.

835
00:35:16,400 --> 00:35:18,160
Speaker 1: A couple of months and he realized he was. And

836
00:35:18,200 --> 00:35:20,160
Speaker 1: he goes, if I knew that a start wouldn't hired you,

837
00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:22,480
Speaker 1: like full serious with the hate with the left handers.

838
00:35:22,520 --> 00:35:23,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's something about you guys.

839
00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:25,279
Speaker 1: And then but my mom sent me one more things.

840
00:35:25,280 --> 00:35:30,279
Speaker 1: She goes, next time your mom shows you a meme

841
00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:32,759
Speaker 1: that isn't funny. Remember how excited she was when you

842
00:35:32,800 --> 00:35:34,520
Speaker 1: showed her your Crown drawings as a kid.

843
00:35:34,920 --> 00:35:38,520
Speaker 2: And I was like, whoa, that's a fucking shot fired

844
00:35:38,560 --> 00:35:39,560
Speaker 2: at my Crown.

845
00:35:39,360 --> 00:35:44,719
Speaker 3: Drawings, saying your mom didn't give a single fuck.

846
00:35:45,719 --> 00:35:50,560
Speaker 1: Not clearly, clearly the effort I put in that is

847
00:35:50,640 --> 00:35:54,160
Speaker 1: so hard that's crazy something.

848
00:35:53,960 --> 00:35:55,360
Speaker 2: You just got to keep to yourself.

849
00:35:55,560 --> 00:35:57,360
Speaker 1: I was just gonna say, keep that to yourself.

850
00:35:57,880 --> 00:36:00,120
Speaker 2: I'm looking forward to having kids in there bringing me

851
00:36:00,200 --> 00:36:05,880
Speaker 2: like this piece of shit un't work, and I'm like, dude,

852
00:36:05,960 --> 00:36:09,960
Speaker 2: they fucking see, Yeah that is heck that you could

853
00:36:09,960 --> 00:36:11,360
Speaker 2: be then expert cast over my friends.

854
00:36:11,440 --> 00:36:14,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm gonna full on fucking hype my kids.

855
00:36:16,560 --> 00:36:18,640
Speaker 2: And then a friend that stuff put it on the fridge.

856
00:36:19,200 --> 00:36:20,600
Speaker 2: You got it. You're gonna have a problem as a

857
00:36:20,640 --> 00:36:23,279
Speaker 2: father though you hate clutter. The kid's going to bring

858
00:36:23,320 --> 00:36:26,240
Speaker 2: home some drawings of the family, and then two days later,

859
00:36:26,480 --> 00:36:29,040
Speaker 2: your son's gonna be like, it was the photo made,

860
00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:29,960
Speaker 2: but isn't it on the fridge.

861
00:36:30,040 --> 00:36:34,680
Speaker 3: You're like, I don't know, son, Yeah, Santa took it.

862
00:36:36,040 --> 00:36:38,200
Speaker 3: I send it to Santa. How good of a drawer

863
00:36:38,280 --> 00:36:41,920
Speaker 3: you were, and he's gonna bring you extra. But no,

864
00:36:42,000 --> 00:36:44,239
Speaker 3: for real, are you going to actually keep like, hang up.

865
00:36:44,200 --> 00:36:45,400
Speaker 2: Your kids, I'll make you all of them.

866
00:36:45,400 --> 00:36:45,960
Speaker 1: I reckon, I can.

867
00:36:46,040 --> 00:36:47,360
Speaker 2: I have a box and put it in there and

868
00:36:47,400 --> 00:36:47,959
Speaker 2: file it away.

869
00:36:47,960 --> 00:36:50,160
Speaker 1: Biggest nightmares when my kids start bringing me home drawings.

870
00:36:50,239 --> 00:36:53,000
Speaker 2: Imagine when you're like your kids are twenty and you're

871
00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:55,319
Speaker 2: like sixty or seventy or whatever, and like you just

872
00:36:55,360 --> 00:36:57,000
Speaker 2: bring out this box and then you show them all

873
00:36:57,040 --> 00:36:58,839
Speaker 2: the drawings that they used to do. Okay, that's cool,

874
00:36:58,920 --> 00:37:01,000
Speaker 2: he's got time for My mum kept a diary, which

875
00:37:01,000 --> 00:37:02,560
Speaker 2: I reckon is a really nice little tip of like

876
00:37:02,640 --> 00:37:04,319
Speaker 2: random shit. I used to say, and like my brother

877
00:37:04,400 --> 00:37:05,279
Speaker 2: used to say, that's cool.

878
00:37:05,920 --> 00:37:06,879
Speaker 1: I like it because it's in a book.

879
00:37:06,920 --> 00:37:08,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, whip it out and then she'll read it. And

880
00:37:08,360 --> 00:37:10,799
Speaker 2: then like rememberdie when you said like fucking cows are

881
00:37:10,840 --> 00:37:16,400
Speaker 2: going to fly in twenty thirty, this.

882
00:37:16,400 --> 00:37:19,600
Speaker 1: Book, Yeah, please please please read it?

883
00:37:19,920 --> 00:37:21,240
Speaker 2: Can we get actually yeah, she wouldn't.

884
00:37:21,320 --> 00:37:23,319
Speaker 1: It's like nothing bad in there because you're a kid.

885
00:37:23,480 --> 00:37:25,440
Speaker 2: I was a kid. That's fucking it's me. It's me

886
00:37:25,480 --> 00:37:27,000
Speaker 2: and my brother. I think she's got it somewhere.

887
00:37:27,040 --> 00:37:28,520
Speaker 1: Let's get eating on the pod and read him out.

888
00:37:29,400 --> 00:37:35,160
Speaker 1: You remember this idiot, you idiot?

889
00:37:35,360 --> 00:37:37,560
Speaker 2: I think I think Aiden was a day dreamer, and

890
00:37:37,600 --> 00:37:40,160
Speaker 2: then I was a questioner. I questioned everything. I think.

891
00:37:40,239 --> 00:37:41,800
Speaker 1: Oh my god, if I have a kid that asks

892
00:37:41,800 --> 00:37:43,640
Speaker 1: me a million questions, I'm gonna be like, shut up.

893
00:37:44,880 --> 00:37:46,280
Speaker 2: I don't think we're ready to be parents.

894
00:37:47,040 --> 00:37:51,240
Speaker 1: No, hell no, said no. I sometimes I feel paternal.

895
00:37:52,800 --> 00:37:55,560
Speaker 2: My biggest fear is actually when my kids start bringing

896
00:37:55,600 --> 00:37:57,040
Speaker 2: home drawings, what am I going to do with them?

897
00:37:57,280 --> 00:37:59,920
Speaker 2: He just keep them? Surely you're what Beth will like him?

898
00:38:00,680 --> 00:38:02,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I could put him in a box.

899
00:38:02,719 --> 00:38:04,839
Speaker 2: Then where's the box going to go? And be cluttered somewhere? Mate?

900
00:38:06,040 --> 00:38:10,279
Speaker 1: I find with me like I can declutter in a

901
00:38:10,320 --> 00:38:13,120
Speaker 1: way where if everything's at least just in a pile,

902
00:38:13,480 --> 00:38:14,640
Speaker 1: it doesn't feel cluttery.

903
00:38:14,719 --> 00:38:16,800
Speaker 2: Funny story like Jake saying he's an't aal about cleaning

904
00:38:16,840 --> 00:38:19,359
Speaker 2: and stuff and whatever. Granted you're moving, but we went

905
00:38:19,400 --> 00:38:21,440
Speaker 2: to your house to say goodbye the other day.

906
00:38:21,400 --> 00:38:22,880
Speaker 1: And my house gives me anxiety.

907
00:38:23,239 --> 00:38:25,800
Speaker 2: And I went in his spare bathroom to take a piss,

908
00:38:26,080 --> 00:38:29,760
Speaker 2: and there was like three vacuum cleaners on the ground

909
00:38:30,000 --> 00:38:32,000
Speaker 2: and just random shit anywhere. So I know this guy's

910
00:38:32,040 --> 00:38:33,719
Speaker 2: mindset out of sight, out of mind.

911
00:38:33,920 --> 00:38:34,719
Speaker 1: So that's what it is.

912
00:38:35,000 --> 00:38:37,160
Speaker 2: So as long as where he hangs out is clean,

913
00:38:37,280 --> 00:38:39,040
Speaker 2: then it's good. And then you'll forget about that room

914
00:38:39,040 --> 00:38:40,560
Speaker 2: for like three days. You'll go in there and.

915
00:38:40,600 --> 00:38:44,560
Speaker 1: Be like, oh, when I when I'm older. Actually, if

916
00:38:44,600 --> 00:38:47,280
Speaker 1: I do have a say, maybe it's like a rumpus

917
00:38:47,400 --> 00:38:49,880
Speaker 1: room for my kids. That that room can be as

918
00:38:49,920 --> 00:38:50,640
Speaker 1: messy as they want it.

919
00:38:50,680 --> 00:38:51,120
Speaker 2: I don't care.

920
00:38:51,480 --> 00:38:53,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, so as long as it doesn't like trail

921
00:38:53,680 --> 00:38:56,640
Speaker 1: out into the main living area, then by all means, yeah,

922
00:38:56,680 --> 00:38:57,680
Speaker 1: I give a shit.

923
00:38:57,800 --> 00:38:59,480
Speaker 2: Now I'm looking forward. I reckon, I'm getting a bit

924
00:38:59,520 --> 00:39:01,200
Speaker 2: more paternal as well. The other we're getting what are

925
00:39:01,239 --> 00:39:04,640
Speaker 2: we twenty you're twenty six and twenty five? Yeah, yeah,

926
00:39:04,680 --> 00:39:07,640
Speaker 2: I get old. I reckon. If you had to, we'll

927
00:39:07,640 --> 00:39:09,719
Speaker 2: finish on. If you had to have a kid and

928
00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:11,000
Speaker 2: you got to pick what d you were, what would

929
00:39:11,000 --> 00:39:14,959
Speaker 2: it be? Ideally no other considerations in the world.

930
00:39:15,160 --> 00:39:17,080
Speaker 1: That's funny. I mean I always fucking land on like

931
00:39:17,160 --> 00:39:19,880
Speaker 1: twenty nine thirty. That's why I don't know why.

932
00:39:21,280 --> 00:39:21,600
Speaker 2: Thirty.

933
00:39:21,719 --> 00:39:24,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know if that's the new norm. I

934
00:39:24,320 --> 00:39:26,640
Speaker 1: don't want to Obviously, it's hard to put a number

935
00:39:26,680 --> 00:39:28,440
Speaker 1: on it. I've kind of like spoken to Beath about it,

936
00:39:28,480 --> 00:39:29,719
Speaker 1: and she's like, I don't want to put a number

937
00:39:29,719 --> 00:39:31,680
Speaker 1: on it's because she doesn't want to like either be

938
00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:34,479
Speaker 1: disappointed or anything like that. And I think that's pretty fair.

939
00:39:36,440 --> 00:39:39,279
Speaker 1: But I always lean towards thirty because I think like

940
00:39:39,400 --> 00:39:42,279
Speaker 1: that's when I'll be ready, but I think that we're

941
00:39:42,320 --> 00:39:43,480
Speaker 1: never going to feel fully.

942
00:39:43,560 --> 00:39:46,200
Speaker 2: I don't think we'll ever feel ready. Hey and well,

943
00:39:46,239 --> 00:39:48,200
Speaker 2: one of our friends is having a kid soon, and

944
00:39:48,280 --> 00:39:51,080
Speaker 2: like seeing that has made me more excited too.

945
00:39:51,320 --> 00:39:53,239
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, that's a very good point.

946
00:39:53,320 --> 00:39:56,200
Speaker 2: So exciting and seeing the glow of both people in

947
00:39:56,239 --> 00:39:59,080
Speaker 2: their own ways, the pregnant person and the partner. They

948
00:39:59,080 --> 00:40:01,120
Speaker 2: both blow in different ways, talking different ways. It's really

949
00:40:01,120 --> 00:40:03,080
Speaker 2: cool to see because like for us, I've never been

950
00:40:03,120 --> 00:40:05,200
Speaker 2: exposed to that, especially saying a close friend like that,

951
00:40:05,239 --> 00:40:08,040
Speaker 2: and it's kind of like, oh I really felt before.

952
00:40:08,239 --> 00:40:13,400
Speaker 1: I think for me, I'm also I'm just so for

953
00:40:13,400 --> 00:40:15,640
Speaker 1: some reason, I have this just really like I don't

954
00:40:15,719 --> 00:40:19,919
Speaker 1: like to do hard things, so I don't think having

955
00:40:19,920 --> 00:40:21,719
Speaker 1: a kid is going to be hard. Well, sorry, it

956
00:40:21,719 --> 00:40:23,239
Speaker 1: will be very hard, but that's like a hard thing

957
00:40:23,239 --> 00:40:26,879
Speaker 1: that I want to do. I'm glad I don't actually

958
00:40:26,920 --> 00:40:29,440
Speaker 1: have to have the kid, but once it's born, obviously

959
00:40:29,440 --> 00:40:32,359
Speaker 1: it will be a hard thing. But for me, it's

960
00:40:32,400 --> 00:40:35,960
Speaker 1: like I'm not taking my kid on a plane until

961
00:40:36,880 --> 00:40:40,320
Speaker 1: it knows not to cry, if that makes sense.

962
00:40:40,520 --> 00:40:42,839
Speaker 2: So once I have a child, it's also I feel

963
00:40:42,880 --> 00:40:44,400
Speaker 2: like that's like a naive mindset.

964
00:40:44,680 --> 00:40:46,000
Speaker 1: I'm not taking my kid on a plane.

965
00:40:46,120 --> 00:40:47,400
Speaker 2: What happens if, like, I don't know, I'm having some

966
00:40:47,480 --> 00:40:49,319
Speaker 2: Christmas party and I invite you and you've just had

967
00:40:49,320 --> 00:40:50,440
Speaker 2: a kid and you really want to come.

968
00:40:51,719 --> 00:40:56,160
Speaker 1: Is it in Australia, But if it's overseas, I'm actually

969
00:40:56,400 --> 00:40:59,080
Speaker 1: if I have a newborn kid, I'm not coming, Like

970
00:40:59,200 --> 00:41:01,319
Speaker 1: I can't. I don't want to free my kid on

971
00:41:01,320 --> 00:41:03,000
Speaker 1: a plane. I like some people do it and they

972
00:41:03,040 --> 00:41:04,080
Speaker 1: have to do it, but I don't know. I've just

973
00:41:04,120 --> 00:41:07,799
Speaker 1: never thought like and it's not it's partially for the

974
00:41:07,800 --> 00:41:11,320
Speaker 1: people around me, but mainly for the kid. Just seems

975
00:41:11,360 --> 00:41:14,520
Speaker 1: crying the whole time. Clearly it's uncomfortable on the plane.

976
00:41:14,840 --> 00:41:17,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh yeah, it's also Yeah, it's a tough one though,

977
00:41:17,560 --> 00:41:19,279
Speaker 2: because you just like, I don't know, you need to

978
00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:20,840
Speaker 2: break sometimes. What if you want to go on holiday,

979
00:41:20,880 --> 00:41:21,680
Speaker 2: He's not gone.

980
00:41:21,719 --> 00:41:22,680
Speaker 1: Just stay in Australia.

981
00:41:23,040 --> 00:41:26,239
Speaker 2: Get the It's like, I feel like this episode could

982
00:41:26,280 --> 00:41:29,280
Speaker 2: be like called You're never right.

983
00:41:30,680 --> 00:41:31,839
Speaker 1: But I always feel right.

984
00:41:31,880 --> 00:41:33,000
Speaker 2: But you do always feel right.

985
00:41:33,040 --> 00:41:34,040
Speaker 1: You always feel right.

986
00:41:34,440 --> 00:41:36,560
Speaker 2: I guess what life is about is feeling right to yourself.

987
00:41:36,719 --> 00:41:38,360
Speaker 1: Quite okay, last question, I know you said yeah, did

988
00:41:38,440 --> 00:41:39,719
Speaker 1: last question, But I got last question.

989
00:41:40,120 --> 00:41:42,239
Speaker 2: You just let that have the final say, don't I do?

990
00:41:42,480 --> 00:41:45,040
Speaker 1: Yeah? I really like to be in control such so

991
00:41:45,160 --> 00:41:49,120
Speaker 1: man coated of me. Anyway, Are you gonna let kids

992
00:41:49,120 --> 00:41:49,680
Speaker 1: be at your wedding?

993
00:41:50,800 --> 00:41:55,879
Speaker 2: Depends who I don't know, like yours. Yeah, but if

994
00:41:55,920 --> 00:41:58,239
Speaker 2: like it's just I don't know. To be fair, I'm

995
00:41:58,239 --> 00:42:00,520
Speaker 2: probably only inviting people who I like, so they kids, Yeah,

996
00:42:01,360 --> 00:42:04,080
Speaker 2: depends how old. But like if the kid can't process that,

997
00:42:04,120 --> 00:42:06,799
Speaker 2: it's my wedding, Like there's no point of him being there. Yeah,

998
00:42:06,840 --> 00:42:09,680
Speaker 2: and if I don't have a kid, sounds dumb, but.

999
00:42:09,640 --> 00:42:11,400
Speaker 1: Like I've kind of for some reason. I don't know

1000
00:42:11,400 --> 00:42:12,919
Speaker 1: if my mind will change on this, but I've always

1001
00:42:12,960 --> 00:42:15,120
Speaker 1: thought I want to have a kid. This wedding are

1002
00:42:15,120 --> 00:42:15,600
Speaker 1: going to be good.

1003
00:42:15,640 --> 00:42:17,799
Speaker 2: But what if, like I don't know, what if you

1004
00:42:17,800 --> 00:42:19,759
Speaker 2: have a kid, do you let it come?

1005
00:42:20,280 --> 00:42:23,000
Speaker 1: I ain't have an old bastard kidding, IM don't care

1006
00:42:23,040 --> 00:42:26,799
Speaker 1: if I have a kid, then get married. It's a

1007
00:42:26,840 --> 00:42:28,840
Speaker 1: good question because I feel like I feel like I

1008
00:42:28,880 --> 00:42:30,800
Speaker 1: would want my kid at my wedding. That's a great question.

1009
00:42:30,880 --> 00:42:34,320
Speaker 2: But I can friends, like close friends, You'll probably considered family,

1010
00:42:34,320 --> 00:42:36,359
Speaker 2: but mainly family. If they had kids, I'd say yes,

1011
00:42:36,360 --> 00:42:37,560
Speaker 2: but anyone else I'd probably say no.

1012
00:42:38,160 --> 00:42:43,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a good point. Also, like can we talk

1013
00:42:43,200 --> 00:42:47,000
Speaker 1: about quickly how at like and comment below baddies, who

1014
00:42:47,040 --> 00:42:48,839
Speaker 1: do you cut off from your wedding when you want

1015
00:42:48,840 --> 00:42:50,400
Speaker 1: to have a small wedding but you have a big family,

1016
00:42:50,920 --> 00:42:51,920
Speaker 1: you have a big.

1017
00:42:52,719 --> 00:42:55,480
Speaker 2: An overseas wedding. I've said no, that's the easiest, get

1018
00:42:55,520 --> 00:42:56,080
Speaker 2: our jail free.

1019
00:42:56,080 --> 00:42:57,680
Speaker 1: Cart hates the idea of an overth.

1020
00:42:59,360 --> 00:43:01,160
Speaker 2: Have a boodie want She hates it goes somewhere cool

1021
00:43:01,200 --> 00:43:05,480
Speaker 2: in Australia like idelope, yeah, idlope, which is like I

1022
00:43:05,719 --> 00:43:08,800
Speaker 2: want to have I'm excited for a wedding hate Yeah, yeah,

1023
00:43:08,800 --> 00:43:11,640
Speaker 2: I'm super excited because you're a small fucking family, That's

1024
00:43:11,640 --> 00:43:14,160
Speaker 2: why you're excited. On No, I'm thinking about my special

1025
00:43:14,239 --> 00:43:17,360
Speaker 2: day with cassandra'sself. I reckon it'd be sick to fucking

1026
00:43:18,239 --> 00:43:20,600
Speaker 2: get all dressed up and ship and like I want

1027
00:43:20,600 --> 00:43:22,000
Speaker 2: to still do it in Bali too, So I'm just

1028
00:43:22,000 --> 00:43:23,839
Speaker 2: gonna have the people I really want to be there,

1029
00:43:24,080 --> 00:43:26,560
Speaker 2: depending on seeing if our guard issues can sort out

1030
00:43:26,560 --> 00:43:29,200
Speaker 2: by them, especially Cassie, and then not sweating in a

1031
00:43:29,320 --> 00:43:31,160
Speaker 2: dress and shit, see if we canaclimatize, We've got to

1032
00:43:31,160 --> 00:43:32,640
Speaker 2: figure out a few things. But right now it's a

1033
00:43:32,640 --> 00:43:36,400
Speaker 2: Bali wedding. But yeah, I'm fucking super excited even just

1034
00:43:36,400 --> 00:43:38,719
Speaker 2: to like I'm picturing her walking down the aisle and

1035
00:43:38,760 --> 00:43:41,200
Speaker 2: like I reckon, I will cry, not fully, I can,

1036
00:43:41,239 --> 00:43:44,040
Speaker 2: I just tear up. I'm excited for that.

1037
00:43:44,760 --> 00:43:45,839
Speaker 1: I want to see you sob.

1038
00:43:46,040 --> 00:43:48,239
Speaker 2: I don't reckon I'll sob. I don't think i'll sob

1039
00:43:48,400 --> 00:43:50,640
Speaker 2: because I don't ever sob, like even in like life,

1040
00:43:50,680 --> 00:43:53,000
Speaker 2: I just have a little tear. I've never really like

1041
00:43:53,040 --> 00:43:54,479
Speaker 2: fucking sobbed. I wish I could sob.

1042
00:43:54,520 --> 00:43:55,839
Speaker 1: And if you don't sob for her, then you don't

1043
00:43:55,880 --> 00:43:57,719
Speaker 1: love her.

1044
00:43:58,000 --> 00:43:59,680
Speaker 2: Tears of I've had tears of joy, and that's what

1045
00:43:59,680 --> 00:44:01,600
Speaker 2: it will be. And I'll just be like I don't

1046
00:44:01,600 --> 00:44:03,120
Speaker 2: know what to do with my mouth and then just

1047
00:44:03,200 --> 00:44:04,920
Speaker 2: a little bit of like my eyes wigging out in

1048
00:44:04,920 --> 00:44:05,520
Speaker 2: a little bit of water.

1049
00:44:06,239 --> 00:44:09,680
Speaker 1: I'm getting acting classes, going and get acting classes.

1050
00:44:09,880 --> 00:44:12,440
Speaker 2: I feel like that is so toxic.

1051
00:44:12,719 --> 00:44:13,720
Speaker 1: Why is that toxic?

1052
00:44:13,960 --> 00:44:17,160
Speaker 2: We've said this before. If you can't cry organically, then

1053
00:44:17,200 --> 00:44:19,520
Speaker 2: you don't love it. But if you go and get

1054
00:44:19,920 --> 00:44:21,919
Speaker 2: acting classes so you can cry on cue. I feel

1055
00:44:21,920 --> 00:44:22,680
Speaker 2: like that's cheating.

1056
00:44:23,160 --> 00:44:26,080
Speaker 1: Why that is so cheap? That's not cheating because it's

1057
00:44:26,120 --> 00:44:26,600
Speaker 1: not real.

1058
00:44:26,719 --> 00:44:29,200
Speaker 2: It makes her feel good and it's real if like,

1059
00:44:29,239 --> 00:44:31,080
Speaker 2: it's clearly a real cry, if it's coming out as

1060
00:44:31,080 --> 00:44:33,720
Speaker 2: a cry, even if I'm an actor, because what actors

1061
00:44:33,719 --> 00:44:35,319
Speaker 2: do is they think of something so sad or so

1062
00:44:35,360 --> 00:44:38,160
Speaker 2: happy that it makes them cry. You don't need you

1063
00:44:38,200 --> 00:44:40,799
Speaker 2: don't need the classes there, but would you see you're

1064
00:44:40,840 --> 00:44:43,399
Speaker 2: saying movies are real, then like when they act, and shit,

1065
00:44:43,480 --> 00:44:46,560
Speaker 2: that's real because they are acting. I feel like, I

1066
00:44:46,640 --> 00:44:48,440
Speaker 2: ask your girlfriend, I reckon she wouldn't like that.

1067
00:44:48,640 --> 00:44:48,920
Speaker 1: Really?

1068
00:44:49,000 --> 00:44:49,840
Speaker 2: Have you asked her before?

1069
00:44:49,920 --> 00:44:55,960
Speaker 1: No, but she won't know. I'll clip that and see what.

1070
00:44:55,920 --> 00:45:00,839
Speaker 2: She says, like that best of it different because she's

1071
00:45:00,840 --> 00:45:03,520
Speaker 2: obviously like you, so she probably there's even two responses.

1072
00:45:03,600 --> 00:45:05,279
Speaker 2: She would say, I don't like that or I don't care.

1073
00:45:05,880 --> 00:45:08,160
Speaker 2: True true, I can see best saying I don't really.

1074
00:45:08,040 --> 00:45:08,600
Speaker 1: Care, I don't know.

1075
00:45:08,719 --> 00:45:10,200
Speaker 2: I feel like, if you're scared you're.

1076
00:45:10,040 --> 00:45:11,640
Speaker 1: Not going to cry at your wedding, then get some

1077
00:45:11,680 --> 00:45:13,680
Speaker 1: acting classes and cry at that fucking wedding. If your

1078
00:45:14,200 --> 00:45:18,360
Speaker 1: fiance wants you to cry, I reckon yourself. See what happens. Okay,

1079
00:45:18,360 --> 00:45:20,240
Speaker 1: that's what you should do, because what happens if.

1080
00:45:20,239 --> 00:45:21,840
Speaker 2: And then what if someone takes out What if a

1081
00:45:21,840 --> 00:45:23,520
Speaker 2: man takes that advice and then he doesn't cry at

1082
00:45:23,520 --> 00:45:25,560
Speaker 2: his wedding because he's not a crier, right, and then

1083
00:45:25,680 --> 00:45:27,319
Speaker 2: if fiance wants him to cry and she doesn't see

1084
00:45:27,360 --> 00:45:29,160
Speaker 2: him crying and she turns the fuck around.

1085
00:45:29,239 --> 00:45:32,520
Speaker 1: But no, that's and she has every right to do that.

1086
00:45:32,640 --> 00:45:35,160
Speaker 2: No, but that's who you are. You don't put up

1087
00:45:35,160 --> 00:45:36,799
Speaker 2: a false pretense of who you are when you're on

1088
00:45:36,800 --> 00:45:38,760
Speaker 2: a date just because she wants someone to be confident,

1089
00:45:38,760 --> 00:45:40,640
Speaker 2: people to do and cocky like it's like, I don't

1090
00:45:40,680 --> 00:45:42,359
Speaker 2: know when you first started seeing Beth and she wanted

1091
00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:45,200
Speaker 2: to fucking I don't know, heaps confident? Man, You didn't

1092
00:45:45,239 --> 00:45:48,919
Speaker 2: pretend to be that, you were yourself?

1093
00:45:49,640 --> 00:45:49,920
Speaker 1: True?

1094
00:45:50,000 --> 00:45:52,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think you should think you should just be

1095
00:45:52,239 --> 00:45:53,640
Speaker 2: yourself and then see what happens.

1096
00:45:54,000 --> 00:45:54,480
Speaker 1: And I don't.

1097
00:45:54,760 --> 00:45:56,520
Speaker 2: And I think it's the same with having a kid.

1098
00:45:56,520 --> 00:45:57,960
Speaker 2: It's people say like I want a boy or I

1099
00:45:57,960 --> 00:45:59,400
Speaker 2: want a girl, and then things born You're like, I

1100
00:45:59,440 --> 00:46:01,640
Speaker 2: don't care. It's like, oh, I want my husband to

1101
00:46:01,680 --> 00:46:03,600
Speaker 2: cry when she walks down the aisle. She's not going

1102
00:46:03,680 --> 00:46:06,040
Speaker 2: to care, okon, She's just going to be so in

1103
00:46:07,080 --> 00:46:08,880
Speaker 2: the moment with you and so in love that it's

1104
00:46:08,880 --> 00:46:11,080
Speaker 2: special no matter what true and the same with you,

1105
00:46:11,120 --> 00:46:13,920
Speaker 2: I reckon, even if you did take acting classes, or

1106
00:46:13,960 --> 00:46:15,320
Speaker 2: can you be so in the moment that you forgot

1107
00:46:15,320 --> 00:46:18,760
Speaker 2: to cry if you weren't going to cry?

1108
00:46:19,080 --> 00:46:22,319
Speaker 3: Or yeah, or you would be like start crying before

1109
00:46:22,360 --> 00:46:23,160
Speaker 3: she walks down the aisle.

1110
00:46:23,320 --> 00:46:25,759
Speaker 2: This is your mindset. You'd be like, no one's there. Yeah,

1111
00:46:25,840 --> 00:46:28,120
Speaker 2: And you would be like Tommy, saw.

1112
00:46:29,320 --> 00:46:33,920
Speaker 1: I have to go sh biggest fear of mine the ship.

1113
00:46:34,000 --> 00:46:35,680
Speaker 1: The biggest fear of mine is needing to ship on

1114
00:46:35,719 --> 00:46:38,399
Speaker 1: my wedding day. While I'm standing in front of my wife,

1115
00:46:38,600 --> 00:46:41,960
Speaker 1: I can see that too, Like, we better fucking hurry

1116
00:46:42,000 --> 00:46:43,799
Speaker 1: this up. What do you even do?

1117
00:46:43,880 --> 00:46:45,799
Speaker 2: You'd probably just pause it, give me five seconds. You're

1118
00:46:45,800 --> 00:46:49,280
Speaker 2: the like it's your day too, Yeah, give.

1119
00:46:49,160 --> 00:46:51,200
Speaker 1: You five seconds anyway that.

1120
00:46:52,840 --> 00:47:00,839
Speaker 2: Your wife best like did you run away your cold? Oh?

1121
00:47:01,600 --> 00:47:03,160
Speaker 2: We love your baddy, Stay bad