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Speaker 1: This is the Fits In with Her with Kate Richie podcast.

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Speaker 2: I want you to get involved this morning. If you

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Speaker 2: went on a date with somebody who pretended to be

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Speaker 2: someone else completely okay, I mean maybe you didn't even

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Speaker 2: get to the date, but you're at a bar, or

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Speaker 2: you're out and about and mingling, and somebody told you

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Speaker 2: that there was something far more impressive, impressive.

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Speaker 1: Than they actually were. Well, but in.

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Speaker 2: Saying that you don't need to make up stories, I

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Speaker 2: think let's be honest.

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Speaker 1: The best thing you can be is yourself. That's really boring.

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Speaker 1: I was over seas and I was single at the

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Speaker 1: time with a mate, and he went to a group

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Speaker 1: of no ways, I couldn't.

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Speaker 2: Thought that he was single, and he sold the We

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Speaker 2: called him a mate, the mate called him something else.

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Speaker 1: And he sold into a group of girls that I

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Speaker 1: was like Steve, but instead ran a dolphin sanctuary for

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Speaker 1: baby dolphins and looked after wildlife.

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Speaker 2: Which country were you in We're.

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Speaker 1: In the US. And it worked a treat.

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Speaker 2: And they thought you were a dolphin wrangler.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, that's exactly right, Jess.

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Speaker 2: Maybe does it confuse and he just was saying that

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Speaker 2: you acted like a dolphin one of those really pesty

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Speaker 2: dollars other dolphins that they should.

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Speaker 1: No, I wasn't one of those pisty dolphins.

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Speaker 3: Is it okay to put up a photo of yourself

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Speaker 3: ten years earlier?

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Speaker 1: Nope?

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Speaker 2: I think it is if it's a mistake and you

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Speaker 2: haven't got around to updating your photo, or.

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Speaker 3: Come on these other radio shows around here that you

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Speaker 3: remember they used photos from.

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Speaker 1: Twenty years ago. That's ridiculous when you see those.

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Speaker 3: Pictures in a dating profile. There's always one photo in

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Speaker 3: your photos on your phone that.

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Speaker 1: You really rate yourself out.

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Speaker 3: You go, geez, the light's really good on that line.

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Speaker 3: You know what, who cares if it's two and four.

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Speaker 1: I'm putting it out there. I mean, I'm not fat

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Speaker 1: with a red face now, But it doesn't matter.

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Speaker 2: And it's always the photo. You know when your friend

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Speaker 2: thinks that they look good in a photo, because quite

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Speaker 2: often you've taken it on your phone and they keep

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Speaker 2: messaging you to send it. You know those photos we

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Speaker 2: took down in front of the you know, the story

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Speaker 2: of the Harbor Bridge was up.

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Speaker 1: They couldn't flip did you send it?

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Speaker 2: And then when you don't, they like, hey, can you

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Speaker 2: send that photo?

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Speaker 1: Just a reminder when you see people on Instagram and

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Speaker 1: they have like a smile that they only do for Instagram.

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Speaker 1: The girl that used to work here, she did this

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Speaker 1: thing with her face which looked nothing like her, and

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Speaker 1: it looked better than she actually doesn't realize. Oh so

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Speaker 1: she mastered what she mastered what her look was, and

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Speaker 1: then on Instagram because to her she looked nothing like

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Speaker 1: that mask on No. Can I get this right?

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Speaker 3: If you actually go if you do you google certain

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Speaker 3: celebrities on red carpets, you know that there is a

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Speaker 3: position that they go to. And I'd love to ask you, Kate,

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Speaker 3: do you sort of turn to the left a little bit?

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Speaker 3: Where do you put the front foot forward? What do

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Speaker 3: you do when if there's one shot that you need

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Speaker 3: to do?

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Speaker 2: I mean, look, Fitzy, you know that it's the walk forward,

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Speaker 2: isn't it. I mean I look great from every angle,

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Speaker 2: particularly below. No, I mean from there. This whole conversation

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Speaker 2: and this story came off the back of an interview

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Speaker 2: that Drew Barrymore, who I absolutely like adoor it happened

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Speaker 2: to her. I mean they're calling it catfish, but basically,

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Speaker 2: someone just pretended to be someone they weren't this is her.

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Speaker 4: This guy on my dating app set. He was the

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Speaker 4: quarterback for the Los Angeles Rounds. So I wrote to

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Speaker 4: him and I was like, oh my god. I went

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Speaker 4: to the first practice game. I was so frustrated being

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Speaker 4: a girl from Los Angeles who loves football, and like

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Speaker 4: we didn't have any teams, and then we got two

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Speaker 4: teams and it's nice to meet you.

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Speaker 1: My name is Drew.

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Speaker 4: He was not the quarterback for the La Rams. He's

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Speaker 4: a musician that thought he was being cute. I was

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Speaker 4: excited to talk about that. I had been at the

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Speaker 4: coliseum and then the guy was like, hey, Drew Ski,

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Speaker 4: and I was like.

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Speaker 1: I hate you, Drewsky. He lied to me and then

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Speaker 1: called me, Drewski, I'm not into you.

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Speaker 3: So he was a musician because she's been out with musicians.

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Speaker 3: She went out with the drama of the Strokes.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, well that's the thing.

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Speaker 2: It's not that she doesn't like musicians.

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Speaker 1: It's just this just a line.

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Speaker 2: Well that's not what he said, and you can't I

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Speaker 2: don't think you can use it as an excuse. Oh,

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Speaker 2: I thought I was being cute when basically you were

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Speaker 2: lying to get.

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Speaker 1: The girl to the day, Like he used to lie

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Speaker 1: and he would say. He'd be at a bar, a nightclub,

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Speaker 1: and he'd say, why don't we all go back to

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Speaker 1: my place for a spa? Right, I've got a score,

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Speaker 1: right line, I've got a spa on the rooftop at home.

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Speaker 1: Why don't we all go back to my place for

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Speaker 1: a drink? Yeah, he didn't have a spa or a rooftop.

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Speaker 1: Not a rooftop either.

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Speaker 2: Did he have an apartment, Yeah he.

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Speaker 1: Did, but they'd all go back there and go all, right,

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Speaker 1: where's the spa? Oh god, no, I did not so spa.

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Speaker 1: I'm so s sorry.

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Speaker 2: Don't you think that if somebody is don't come back.

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Speaker 1: For a spa, that's a weird in itself. That's a

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Speaker 1: red flag for Tom. Right, he'd be single and I

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Speaker 1: would go up. Tom would be meeting a girl and

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Speaker 1: then I would turn up and say the drinks and

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Speaker 1: I'd say that, I'd say, so she could hear. Hey mate,

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Speaker 1: good to see you. How was the charity work you

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Speaker 1: did today that would help you?

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Speaker 3: Man?

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Speaker 1: I'd go, oh, that's so kind that, Oh you did

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Speaker 1: that today after the big donation you made last month.

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Speaker 2: You know what's really funny when you tell these stories

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Speaker 2: about Tommy is that you act as though he needs

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Speaker 2: all the help he did, and all of the other

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Speaker 2: people out in the world know that it's that you're

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Speaker 2: the the sad friend.

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Speaker 1: Not really the sad friend. I mean I would talk

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Speaker 1: tom up like there was no one else on the

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Speaker 1: planet like it. And he is now happily married thanks

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Speaker 1: to me. And what a hero, What.

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Speaker 3: An absolute hero.

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