WEBVTT - Bonus: MAFS Expert Has Some Dating Advice For Clint

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<v Speaker 1>Our next guest has worked her way into our hearts.

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<v Speaker 1>Is one of our favorite experts.

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<v Speaker 2>On maths, the place where your brain needs to be,

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<v Speaker 2>perhaps shouldn't be between somebody else's legs and body before

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<v Speaker 2>coming into to meet him marry your wife.

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<v Speaker 1>Please, Welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 3>Sexologist, an intimacy expert for married at first sight.

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<v Speaker 4>Calissandra, she joins us, Now I'm a fun drop in morning.

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<v Speaker 5>Morning, good morning. How is everyone?

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<v Speaker 6>Well? I mean maths is back so great because I

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<v Speaker 6>love maths.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, And before we get to maths, some big news

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<v Speaker 4>because I know you're always concerned about Clint and whether

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<v Speaker 4>he's finally found a partner. Because your advice, well, your

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<v Speaker 4>advice in the past.

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<v Speaker 5>Was what's some effort into it?

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, a little bit of leg condiment.

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<v Speaker 3>Era, Well, can I get any inspiration from maths this year?

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<v Speaker 8>Oh?

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<v Speaker 5>You still haven't put condiment? No nothing, nothing to report.

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<v Speaker 1>Back on nothing nothing yet. But we need you, We

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<v Speaker 1>need some more, Alesandra.

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<v Speaker 3>The year is young, Okay, there's you know, there's a

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<v Speaker 3>lot of opportunity.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that how I should attack it? I should manifest something?

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<v Speaker 7>I think you need to watch this year with a

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<v Speaker 7>lot of intent. Okay, you're watching to get.

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<v Speaker 5>Information out of everything that's happening.

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<v Speaker 1>But will it make me feel better about dating or

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<v Speaker 1>worse about dating?

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<v Speaker 5>It should make you feel better about yourself in general.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it does.

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<v Speaker 6>It certainly makes me look at my relationship and I'm like, oh,

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<v Speaker 6>we are flying.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, it's like.

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<v Speaker 5>We're doing well based we're not yet. There's something unifying

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<v Speaker 5>about that.

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<v Speaker 7>And I think there's also something interesting about when you

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<v Speaker 7>catch yourself watching and you're like, oh.

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<v Speaker 5>Sometimes I do that.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, you know, there's also that part of it of

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<v Speaker 7>really holding up the mirror and really understanding when you

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<v Speaker 7>look at it from a different perspective.

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<v Speaker 4>Can we talk about some of the people that have

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<v Speaker 4>put their hand up to go on the show this year.

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<v Speaker 4>We've got a ex Christian turned.

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<v Speaker 1>Rapper, No.

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<v Speaker 6>Christian, that's David. We met him on Monday Night.

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<v Speaker 1>It's important.

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<v Speaker 7>He grew up in a very religious family, so he's upbringing.

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<v Speaker 5>It's all very it's all very Is.

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<v Speaker 4>He saving himself for his for his wife?

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<v Speaker 5>No he is not. So does he still rap busy?

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<v Speaker 6>Because that like, as a woman on a first day

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<v Speaker 6>for man wrapped to me, I'd be like say ya.

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<v Speaker 7>I have to say I personally never heard him rap,

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<v Speaker 7>so I think he compartmentalize as well.

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<v Speaker 6>Then there was a disaster at the wedding last night

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<v Speaker 6>when Luke forgot to take the rings. Just the minor detail.

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<v Speaker 7>Mind detail, yes, but you can understand that people are

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<v Speaker 7>very flustered on our wedding.

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<v Speaker 5>They know there's a lot to remember. Somebody, somebody should

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<v Speaker 5>have been like, look I got you with the rings.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, where was the best man?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes?

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<v Speaker 7>I think that that was the best man's responsibility. Where

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<v Speaker 7>was the best man? Did we miss him.

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<v Speaker 5>In the I don't remember from last night.

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<v Speaker 4>It wasn't a.

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<v Speaker 1>Standout, Alesandra.

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<v Speaker 3>In previous years, we've seen we've seen our fast share

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<v Speaker 3>of heartbreak.

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<v Speaker 1>We've sayen you know, some amazing storylines. What do they

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<v Speaker 1>like this year? Generally? Are they Are we going to

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<v Speaker 1>like them or are we going to loathe them?

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<v Speaker 7>I think there's gonna be a little bit of everything

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<v Speaker 7>as it tends to happen. But the interesting part is

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<v Speaker 7>that there's people that in one episode you might feel

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<v Speaker 7>one way about them, and in a different episode you

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<v Speaker 7>might feel very differently about them. So there is also

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<v Speaker 7>that in terms of the the journeys that the participants

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<v Speaker 7>go in sometimes in a way that is very clarifying,

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<v Speaker 7>and sometimes in ways that are very confusing.

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<v Speaker 5>So that that's all going to be there?

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<v Speaker 4>Are they all sleeping with each other?

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<v Speaker 7>Again?

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<v Speaker 1>What get sexy?

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<v Speaker 7>Well, not with each other necessarily. Some people are having

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<v Speaker 7>sex and some people struggle with that.

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<v Speaker 5>So there is also.

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<v Speaker 7>Our partner shopping in particular to my knowledge, not that

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<v Speaker 7>I know, well, there's always one, but you never know.

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<v Speaker 5>Sometimes we don't know things. You guys know more than

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<v Speaker 5>we do half the time.

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<v Speaker 6>There's always one fire cracker. There's always one that's a

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<v Speaker 6>bit nutty. Who should we be looking out for the

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<v Speaker 6>most because they tend to be my favorite.

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<v Speaker 7>There's a lot of people who are gonna be firecrackers

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<v Speaker 7>this season, and I think that's also one of the

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<v Speaker 7>interesting parts. There's been years where there is a standout person.

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<v Speaker 7>I think Olivia her year, or Harry Sharron, or there's

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<v Speaker 7>a few Syrel during her year. I think there's a

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<v Speaker 7>few names that are going to be big standouts, and

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<v Speaker 7>many of those names are female names, which is interesting

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<v Speaker 7>that dynamic that and get quite toxic among the women.

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<v Speaker 3>Have you been to a dinner party ever? Like the

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<v Speaker 3>dinner parties we say on maths, well.

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<v Speaker 7>Yes and no, like not exactly, but I am not dinner,

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<v Speaker 7>so we can get very dramatic and we expressed and

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<v Speaker 7>with a lot of wine involved, like some conversations after

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<v Speaker 7>dinner can get very like, very expressive, but not quite

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<v Speaker 7>with yes, not quite like the ones on mass.

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<v Speaker 6>Has there ever been any discussion about you going to

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<v Speaker 6>one of the dinner parties, because I'd love to see

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<v Speaker 6>your reactions to being there in the flesh.

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<v Speaker 7>Would you go, I mean the flesh in the other

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<v Speaker 7>room watching with Melan John. Yeah, we're just not in them,

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<v Speaker 7>but we're actually right there.

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<v Speaker 5>And no, there's never any talk of me joining them. No,

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<v Speaker 5>you have to do that one.

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<v Speaker 6>I'd love to just say you're getting involved in those conversations.

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<v Speaker 4>I know you're the resident sexologis. Don't marry a person.

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<v Speaker 4>I just get away from the show for a sec.

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<v Speaker 4>The couples that are listening right now, what would be

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<v Speaker 4>your tip asking for a friend to spice up the

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<v Speaker 4>relationship if it's in a bit of a doll pat.

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<v Speaker 1>You need to do that challenge when they line up

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<v Speaker 1>all the photos.

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<v Speaker 5>That that that is a part of the experiment this

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<v Speaker 5>year as well.

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<v Speaker 1>Just dumbas.

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<v Speaker 7>Come on, you would think you think it would be

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<v Speaker 7>that easy, right, Laura, I'll tell you this, like for real,

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<v Speaker 7>I think there's a lot of interest or questions about

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<v Speaker 7>like what can I do to make it better in

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<v Speaker 7>the bedroom, and people think, oh, is it lingerie?

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<v Speaker 5>Is it getting away for a weekend? Like what is

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<v Speaker 5>the sex? Tip? Pay attention to.

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<v Speaker 7>Your partner, like being nice win them like with your vibe,

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<v Speaker 7>like really create a situation where they want to get

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<v Speaker 7>close with you, and then the enthusiasm is different and

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<v Speaker 7>then the sex is always better.

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<v Speaker 8>Oh that's why relationships being nice, Alessandra, I just worked

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<v Speaker 8>out why Clinton is single because, as you said, lingerie,

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<v Speaker 8>I look over at him and he was like a

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<v Speaker 8>sixteen year old school boy looking at me, going.

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<v Speaker 6>I know that that seems like the way to do it,

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<v Speaker 6>but you're telling me the lingree is not going to

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<v Speaker 6>do it. I actually have to be nice, laurenad rather

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<v Speaker 6>just wear is nice to begin with than the has

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<v Speaker 6>Like Lunt, this was your question.

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<v Speaker 1>You need to be nice, not me. You could come

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<v Speaker 1>home to don't you try the launch?

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<v Speaker 4>You could come home to port a track suit and

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<v Speaker 4>so let's watch horse racing and he'd be like.

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<v Speaker 1>Where's oh God, Heaven hell, Alessandra.

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<v Speaker 4>Johnny's on the Ameriti First so I continues tonight at

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<v Speaker 4>seven thirty on Channel nine and nine. Now we love you.

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<v Speaker 4>We're glad you're back on our thanks to joining us.

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<v Speaker 5>Thank you, thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 3>Before you go on, Alessandra, you famously said to me,

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<v Speaker 3>put some effort into it.

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<v Speaker 8>Got here.

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<v Speaker 7>What's some effort into it?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay?

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<v Speaker 7>And I heard you didn't, So what am I going

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<v Speaker 7>to keep giving you advice?

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<v Speaker 3>I just want to I just want one last piece

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<v Speaker 3>of advice. Is there anything else that will see my

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<v Speaker 3>love life flourish?

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<v Speaker 4>Pay for it?

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<v Speaker 1>She's holding off the gun. She's that's a good idea.

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<v Speaker 5>I could not have said it better.

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<v Speaker 6>Lauren, Lauren wake up feeling good following them on the

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<v Speaker 6>socials