1 00:00:00,800 --> 00:00:03,760 Speaker 1: Our next guest has worked her way into our hearts. 2 00:00:03,920 --> 00:00:06,160 Speaker 1: Is one of our favorite experts. 3 00:00:05,640 --> 00:00:08,039 Speaker 2: On maths, the place where your brain needs to be, 4 00:00:08,440 --> 00:00:13,480 Speaker 2: perhaps shouldn't be between somebody else's legs and body before 5 00:00:13,520 --> 00:00:16,079 Speaker 2: coming into to meet him marry your wife. 6 00:00:16,600 --> 00:00:17,799 Speaker 1: Please, Welcome to the show. 7 00:00:18,000 --> 00:00:21,480 Speaker 3: Sexologist, an intimacy expert for married at first sight. 8 00:00:21,720 --> 00:00:26,880 Speaker 4: Calissandra, she joins us, Now I'm a fun drop in morning. 9 00:00:26,800 --> 00:00:30,000 Speaker 5: Morning, good morning. How is everyone? 10 00:00:30,240 --> 00:00:33,680 Speaker 6: Well? I mean maths is back so great because I 11 00:00:33,760 --> 00:00:34,720 Speaker 6: love maths. 12 00:00:35,600 --> 00:00:38,200 Speaker 4: Yes, And before we get to maths, some big news 13 00:00:38,240 --> 00:00:40,920 Speaker 4: because I know you're always concerned about Clint and whether 14 00:00:40,960 --> 00:00:44,680 Speaker 4: he's finally found a partner. Because your advice, well, your 15 00:00:44,720 --> 00:00:45,840 Speaker 4: advice in the past. 16 00:00:45,720 --> 00:00:47,319 Speaker 5: Was what's some effort into it? 17 00:00:47,400 --> 00:00:51,720 Speaker 7: Okay, a little bit of leg condiment. 18 00:00:51,960 --> 00:00:56,240 Speaker 3: Era, Well, can I get any inspiration from maths this year? 19 00:00:57,720 --> 00:00:57,880 Speaker 8: Oh? 20 00:00:57,960 --> 00:01:05,160 Speaker 5: You still haven't put condiment? No nothing, nothing to report. 21 00:01:04,800 --> 00:01:07,760 Speaker 1: Back on nothing nothing yet. But we need you, We 22 00:01:07,840 --> 00:01:09,320 Speaker 1: need some more, Alesandra. 23 00:01:09,600 --> 00:01:12,319 Speaker 3: The year is young, Okay, there's you know, there's a 24 00:01:12,319 --> 00:01:13,240 Speaker 3: lot of opportunity. 25 00:01:13,640 --> 00:01:16,120 Speaker 1: Is that how I should attack it? I should manifest something? 26 00:01:17,160 --> 00:01:19,240 Speaker 7: I think you need to watch this year with a 27 00:01:19,240 --> 00:01:22,800 Speaker 7: lot of intent. Okay, you're watching to get. 28 00:01:22,600 --> 00:01:24,920 Speaker 5: Information out of everything that's happening. 29 00:01:25,120 --> 00:01:27,560 Speaker 1: But will it make me feel better about dating or 30 00:01:27,560 --> 00:01:28,479 Speaker 1: worse about dating? 31 00:01:29,319 --> 00:01:31,920 Speaker 5: It should make you feel better about yourself in general. 32 00:01:34,280 --> 00:01:34,920 Speaker 1: I mean it does. 33 00:01:35,000 --> 00:01:37,440 Speaker 6: It certainly makes me look at my relationship and I'm like, oh, 34 00:01:37,440 --> 00:01:38,200 Speaker 6: we are flying. 35 00:01:38,319 --> 00:01:40,039 Speaker 7: Yeah, it's like. 36 00:01:40,000 --> 00:01:43,440 Speaker 5: We're doing well based we're not yet. There's something unifying 37 00:01:43,520 --> 00:01:44,039 Speaker 5: about that. 38 00:01:44,200 --> 00:01:47,080 Speaker 7: And I think there's also something interesting about when you 39 00:01:47,120 --> 00:01:49,360 Speaker 7: catch yourself watching and you're like, oh. 40 00:01:49,320 --> 00:01:50,280 Speaker 5: Sometimes I do that. 41 00:01:51,360 --> 00:01:54,240 Speaker 7: Yeah, you know, there's also that part of it of 42 00:01:54,400 --> 00:01:57,080 Speaker 7: really holding up the mirror and really understanding when you 43 00:01:57,080 --> 00:01:58,680 Speaker 7: look at it from a different perspective. 44 00:01:58,880 --> 00:02:00,440 Speaker 4: Can we talk about some of the people that have 45 00:02:00,480 --> 00:02:02,080 Speaker 4: put their hand up to go on the show this year. 46 00:02:03,040 --> 00:02:06,680 Speaker 4: We've got a ex Christian turned. 47 00:02:06,440 --> 00:02:07,480 Speaker 1: Rapper, No. 48 00:02:09,400 --> 00:02:11,880 Speaker 6: Christian, that's David. We met him on Monday Night. 49 00:02:11,960 --> 00:02:12,520 Speaker 1: It's important. 50 00:02:15,280 --> 00:02:20,519 Speaker 7: He grew up in a very religious family, so he's upbringing. 51 00:02:20,560 --> 00:02:23,520 Speaker 5: It's all very it's all very Is. 52 00:02:24,160 --> 00:02:26,360 Speaker 4: He saving himself for his for his wife? 53 00:02:27,120 --> 00:02:30,440 Speaker 5: No he is not. So does he still rap busy? 54 00:02:30,480 --> 00:02:32,600 Speaker 6: Because that like, as a woman on a first day 55 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:35,280 Speaker 6: for man wrapped to me, I'd be like say ya. 56 00:02:36,200 --> 00:02:39,400 Speaker 7: I have to say I personally never heard him rap, 57 00:02:39,600 --> 00:02:42,560 Speaker 7: so I think he compartmentalize as well. 58 00:02:44,360 --> 00:02:46,320 Speaker 6: Then there was a disaster at the wedding last night 59 00:02:46,320 --> 00:02:48,880 Speaker 6: when Luke forgot to take the rings. Just the minor detail. 60 00:02:49,960 --> 00:02:52,960 Speaker 7: Mind detail, yes, but you can understand that people are 61 00:02:53,120 --> 00:02:54,600 Speaker 7: very flustered on our wedding. 62 00:02:54,680 --> 00:02:58,080 Speaker 5: They know there's a lot to remember. Somebody, somebody should 63 00:02:58,080 --> 00:03:00,800 Speaker 5: have been like, look I got you with the rings. 64 00:03:01,120 --> 00:03:02,320 Speaker 6: Yeah, where was the best man? 65 00:03:03,720 --> 00:03:04,000 Speaker 5: Yes? 66 00:03:04,120 --> 00:03:06,799 Speaker 7: I think that that was the best man's responsibility. Where 67 00:03:06,919 --> 00:03:08,560 Speaker 7: was the best man? Did we miss him. 68 00:03:08,400 --> 00:03:11,280 Speaker 5: In the I don't remember from last night. 69 00:03:11,320 --> 00:03:11,720 Speaker 4: It wasn't a. 70 00:03:11,760 --> 00:03:12,880 Speaker 1: Standout, Alesandra. 71 00:03:13,560 --> 00:03:17,600 Speaker 3: In previous years, we've seen we've seen our fast share 72 00:03:17,639 --> 00:03:18,440 Speaker 3: of heartbreak. 73 00:03:18,520 --> 00:03:21,720 Speaker 1: We've sayen you know, some amazing storylines. What do they 74 00:03:21,880 --> 00:03:24,359 Speaker 1: like this year? Generally? Are they Are we going to 75 00:03:24,560 --> 00:03:27,600 Speaker 1: like them or are we going to loathe them? 76 00:03:27,919 --> 00:03:30,040 Speaker 7: I think there's gonna be a little bit of everything 77 00:03:30,639 --> 00:03:32,760 Speaker 7: as it tends to happen. But the interesting part is 78 00:03:32,760 --> 00:03:35,040 Speaker 7: that there's people that in one episode you might feel 79 00:03:35,040 --> 00:03:37,880 Speaker 7: one way about them, and in a different episode you 80 00:03:37,960 --> 00:03:40,960 Speaker 7: might feel very differently about them. So there is also 81 00:03:41,120 --> 00:03:45,640 Speaker 7: that in terms of the the journeys that the participants 82 00:03:45,720 --> 00:03:51,320 Speaker 7: go in sometimes in a way that is very clarifying, 83 00:03:51,400 --> 00:03:53,640 Speaker 7: and sometimes in ways that are very confusing. 84 00:03:54,320 --> 00:03:56,040 Speaker 5: So that that's all going to be there? 85 00:03:56,560 --> 00:03:58,400 Speaker 4: Are they all sleeping with each other? 86 00:03:58,400 --> 00:03:58,640 Speaker 7: Again? 87 00:03:59,320 --> 00:04:00,680 Speaker 1: What get sexy? 88 00:04:01,640 --> 00:04:05,320 Speaker 7: Well, not with each other necessarily. Some people are having 89 00:04:05,360 --> 00:04:07,680 Speaker 7: sex and some people struggle with that. 90 00:04:07,840 --> 00:04:09,320 Speaker 5: So there is also. 91 00:04:12,320 --> 00:04:16,160 Speaker 7: Our partner shopping in particular to my knowledge, not that 92 00:04:16,200 --> 00:04:20,120 Speaker 7: I know, well, there's always one, but you never know. 93 00:04:20,279 --> 00:04:22,560 Speaker 5: Sometimes we don't know things. You guys know more than 94 00:04:22,600 --> 00:04:23,800 Speaker 5: we do half the time. 95 00:04:24,480 --> 00:04:27,080 Speaker 6: There's always one fire cracker. There's always one that's a 96 00:04:27,120 --> 00:04:29,560 Speaker 6: bit nutty. Who should we be looking out for the 97 00:04:29,600 --> 00:04:31,520 Speaker 6: most because they tend to be my favorite. 98 00:04:32,360 --> 00:04:35,320 Speaker 7: There's a lot of people who are gonna be firecrackers 99 00:04:35,360 --> 00:04:37,120 Speaker 7: this season, and I think that's also one of the 100 00:04:37,160 --> 00:04:41,239 Speaker 7: interesting parts. There's been years where there is a standout person. 101 00:04:42,080 --> 00:04:45,440 Speaker 7: I think Olivia her year, or Harry Sharron, or there's 102 00:04:45,480 --> 00:04:49,599 Speaker 7: a few Syrel during her year. I think there's a 103 00:04:49,640 --> 00:04:52,160 Speaker 7: few names that are going to be big standouts, and 104 00:04:52,240 --> 00:04:56,560 Speaker 7: many of those names are female names, which is interesting 105 00:04:56,760 --> 00:05:02,279 Speaker 7: that dynamic that and get quite toxic among the women. 106 00:05:02,640 --> 00:05:05,680 Speaker 3: Have you been to a dinner party ever? Like the 107 00:05:05,680 --> 00:05:09,560 Speaker 3: dinner parties we say on maths, well. 108 00:05:09,800 --> 00:05:14,080 Speaker 7: Yes and no, like not exactly, but I am not dinner, 109 00:05:14,160 --> 00:05:16,919 Speaker 7: so we can get very dramatic and we expressed and 110 00:05:17,040 --> 00:05:20,920 Speaker 7: with a lot of wine involved, like some conversations after 111 00:05:21,000 --> 00:05:25,440 Speaker 7: dinner can get very like, very expressive, but not quite 112 00:05:25,600 --> 00:05:28,520 Speaker 7: with yes, not quite like the ones on mass. 113 00:05:28,560 --> 00:05:31,000 Speaker 6: Has there ever been any discussion about you going to 114 00:05:31,040 --> 00:05:33,159 Speaker 6: one of the dinner parties, because I'd love to see 115 00:05:33,240 --> 00:05:35,159 Speaker 6: your reactions to being there in the flesh. 116 00:05:35,760 --> 00:05:38,240 Speaker 7: Would you go, I mean the flesh in the other 117 00:05:38,360 --> 00:05:43,800 Speaker 7: room watching with Melan John. Yeah, we're just not in them, 118 00:05:43,839 --> 00:05:45,559 Speaker 7: but we're actually right there. 119 00:05:45,960 --> 00:05:48,840 Speaker 5: And no, there's never any talk of me joining them. No, 120 00:05:48,920 --> 00:05:50,279 Speaker 5: you have to do that one. 121 00:05:50,360 --> 00:05:53,160 Speaker 6: I'd love to just say you're getting involved in those conversations. 122 00:05:53,160 --> 00:05:56,640 Speaker 4: I know you're the resident sexologis. Don't marry a person. 123 00:05:56,640 --> 00:05:58,159 Speaker 4: I just get away from the show for a sec. 124 00:05:58,240 --> 00:06:01,120 Speaker 4: The couples that are listening right now, what would be 125 00:06:01,279 --> 00:06:04,520 Speaker 4: your tip asking for a friend to spice up the 126 00:06:04,560 --> 00:06:06,760 Speaker 4: relationship if it's in a bit of a doll pat. 127 00:06:07,480 --> 00:06:09,240 Speaker 1: You need to do that challenge when they line up 128 00:06:09,240 --> 00:06:10,320 Speaker 1: all the photos. 129 00:06:14,839 --> 00:06:16,919 Speaker 5: That that that is a part of the experiment this 130 00:06:17,040 --> 00:06:17,599 Speaker 5: year as well. 131 00:06:19,000 --> 00:06:22,200 Speaker 1: Just dumbas. 132 00:06:22,600 --> 00:06:26,240 Speaker 7: Come on, you would think you think it would be 133 00:06:26,320 --> 00:06:34,760 Speaker 7: that easy, right, Laura, I'll tell you this, like for real, 134 00:06:34,839 --> 00:06:38,960 Speaker 7: I think there's a lot of interest or questions about 135 00:06:39,000 --> 00:06:40,719 Speaker 7: like what can I do to make it better in 136 00:06:40,760 --> 00:06:42,960 Speaker 7: the bedroom, and people think, oh, is it lingerie? 137 00:06:43,120 --> 00:06:45,000 Speaker 5: Is it getting away for a weekend? Like what is 138 00:06:45,040 --> 00:06:48,200 Speaker 5: the sex? Tip? Pay attention to. 139 00:06:48,200 --> 00:06:54,440 Speaker 7: Your partner, like being nice win them like with your vibe, 140 00:06:54,800 --> 00:06:57,640 Speaker 7: like really create a situation where they want to get 141 00:06:57,680 --> 00:07:00,520 Speaker 7: close with you, and then the enthusiasm is different and 142 00:07:00,560 --> 00:07:01,960 Speaker 7: then the sex is always better. 143 00:07:02,000 --> 00:07:06,680 Speaker 8: Oh that's why relationships being nice, Alessandra, I just worked 144 00:07:06,720 --> 00:07:10,920 Speaker 8: out why Clinton is single because, as you said, lingerie, 145 00:07:11,000 --> 00:07:12,400 Speaker 8: I look over at him and he was like a 146 00:07:12,480 --> 00:07:14,480 Speaker 8: sixteen year old school boy looking at me, going. 147 00:07:15,400 --> 00:07:17,200 Speaker 6: I know that that seems like the way to do it, 148 00:07:17,240 --> 00:07:19,120 Speaker 6: but you're telling me the lingree is not going to 149 00:07:19,160 --> 00:07:22,000 Speaker 6: do it. I actually have to be nice, laurenad rather 150 00:07:22,080 --> 00:07:28,320 Speaker 6: just wear is nice to begin with than the has 151 00:07:28,920 --> 00:07:31,280 Speaker 6: Like Lunt, this was your question. 152 00:07:31,680 --> 00:07:33,840 Speaker 1: You need to be nice, not me. You could come 153 00:07:33,840 --> 00:07:35,920 Speaker 1: home to don't you try the launch? 154 00:07:38,680 --> 00:07:40,280 Speaker 4: You could come home to port a track suit and 155 00:07:40,280 --> 00:07:42,200 Speaker 4: so let's watch horse racing and he'd be like. 156 00:07:42,440 --> 00:07:46,200 Speaker 1: Where's oh God, Heaven hell, Alessandra. 157 00:07:46,280 --> 00:07:48,520 Speaker 4: Johnny's on the Ameriti First so I continues tonight at 158 00:07:48,520 --> 00:07:51,320 Speaker 4: seven thirty on Channel nine and nine. Now we love you. 159 00:07:51,400 --> 00:07:53,720 Speaker 4: We're glad you're back on our thanks to joining us. 160 00:07:53,960 --> 00:07:55,520 Speaker 5: Thank you, thank you so much. 161 00:07:55,640 --> 00:07:58,160 Speaker 3: Before you go on, Alessandra, you famously said to me, 162 00:07:58,280 --> 00:08:01,679 Speaker 3: put some effort into it. 163 00:08:00,120 --> 00:08:01,160 Speaker 8: Got here. 164 00:08:01,840 --> 00:08:03,280 Speaker 7: What's some effort into it? 165 00:08:03,360 --> 00:08:03,880 Speaker 5: Okay? 166 00:08:04,480 --> 00:08:06,400 Speaker 7: And I heard you didn't, So what am I going 167 00:08:06,480 --> 00:08:07,640 Speaker 7: to keep giving you advice? 168 00:08:07,880 --> 00:08:09,760 Speaker 3: I just want to I just want one last piece 169 00:08:09,800 --> 00:08:11,760 Speaker 3: of advice. Is there anything else that will see my 170 00:08:11,840 --> 00:08:12,679 Speaker 3: love life flourish? 171 00:08:12,880 --> 00:08:13,600 Speaker 4: Pay for it? 172 00:08:18,760 --> 00:08:23,480 Speaker 1: She's holding off the gun. She's that's a good idea. 173 00:08:23,920 --> 00:08:25,600 Speaker 5: I could not have said it better. 174 00:08:30,600 --> 00:08:34,760 Speaker 6: Lauren, Lauren wake up feeling good following them on the 175 00:08:34,880 --> 00:08:35,480 Speaker 6: socials