WEBVTT - ALL THE THINGS YOU DIDN'T KNOW: ANNA & MICHAEL'S WEDDING PART 1 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:03.279 Life is so good with you, and I'm just so grateful. 0:00:03.440 --> 0:00:06.199 I feel the same. Yeah, I love your wife. 0:00:06.160 --> 0:00:06.840 Love you Husby. 0:00:07.200 --> 0:00:10.760 Sorry, Matte. 0:00:13.720 --> 0:00:16.160 Where's Your Head At is a podcast that talks all 0:00:16.239 --> 0:00:21.560 things relationships, breakups, reality TV, trending shows, and everything in between. 0:00:21.840 --> 0:00:24.520 This is your new go to destination for laughs, gossip, 0:00:24.720 --> 0:00:29.000 intimate details, advice and much more. 0:00:31.840 --> 0:00:37.199 Hello, we are back. Michael is beside me. 0:00:37.479 --> 0:00:38.400 It's good to be back. 0:00:38.640 --> 0:00:42.599 And Matt is in Queensland, cold cost. 0:00:42.600 --> 0:00:45.080 Yes, I'm on the Gold Coast and we are joined 0:00:45.280 --> 0:00:50.680 by the missus and mister Staples. Welcome on to the podcast, everybody. 0:00:50.880 --> 0:00:54.720 One of your poorest intros Matte, Well, I did it. 0:00:54.680 --> 0:00:55.880 Before we went on the air, and I got it 0:00:55.920 --> 0:00:57.640 the wrong way around, so I was really trying to 0:00:58.600 --> 0:00:59.120 around there. 0:00:59.120 --> 0:01:02.000 Said the stut in Missus Davils. You could just hear. 0:01:02.920 --> 0:01:04.600 I liked it. I appreciate you intro. 0:01:05.880 --> 0:01:08.119 Yes, this is the second time welcoming you guys. 0:01:08.160 --> 0:01:09.080 How are you good? 0:01:10.240 --> 0:01:12.759 You know what I was talking to? Michael he's been 0:01:12.800 --> 0:01:15.560 on the podcast. This is his third time on the pods. 0:01:16.040 --> 0:01:19.160 Long time caller, third time speaker. 0:01:21.000 --> 0:01:23.160 Are you're our most most appearing guests? 0:01:23.400 --> 0:01:25.839 I must be I don't know why you keep having 0:01:25.880 --> 0:01:27.200 me back, but I appreciate it. 0:01:27.480 --> 0:01:30.440 He was like, I haven't been back for like eighteen months. 0:01:30.440 --> 0:01:31.600 Did I do something wrong? 0:01:31.680 --> 0:01:35.160 Yeah, I was starting. You guys are never going to 0:01:35.200 --> 0:01:36.839 have me back after the last time. 0:01:37.560 --> 0:01:40.080 Well, you do something dramatic and you got married, so 0:01:40.120 --> 0:01:41.560 we're like, we're going to have to bring you back. 0:01:41.600 --> 0:01:43.320 I don't know, and talk about it. 0:01:43.319 --> 0:01:45.640 It's lovely to have your back, husband. 0:01:45.480 --> 0:01:47.160 It's good to be here. Wife. 0:01:47.480 --> 0:01:49.640 We call each other husband and wife now all the time. 0:01:49.680 --> 0:01:52.400 It's so funny. But just like I like. 0:01:52.400 --> 0:01:54.720 To call him husby. I'm trying to make husby a thing, 0:01:54.760 --> 0:01:56.480 but I don't know if it's becoming a thing yet. 0:01:57.160 --> 0:01:58.680 I prefer you call it wifey. 0:01:58.840 --> 0:02:02.960 I can't like wow maybe behind closed doors, but I 0:02:03.040 --> 0:02:05.800 quite like the flex of saying wife, Like I feel 0:02:05.840 --> 0:02:08.520 like it's a strong term, like this is my wife. 0:02:08.160 --> 0:02:10.600 It is? Do you know what we were saying as well? 0:02:10.639 --> 0:02:13.280 We were like, we don't actually know anyone who's not 0:02:13.400 --> 0:02:16.200 our parents' age, Like, well, we do, we know a couple, 0:02:16.280 --> 0:02:19.480 but like, basically, no one we know like my closest friends, 0:02:19.520 --> 0:02:20.919 no one is husband and wife. 0:02:21.000 --> 0:02:24.080 It feels so old, but yet we're so young. 0:02:25.120 --> 0:02:27.880 Well, like we said before on the podcast, like you said, 0:02:27.960 --> 0:02:30.880 it's not me, it's not us to get married, Like 0:02:30.919 --> 0:02:32.840 that's not you know what I mean. That's it's weird, 0:02:32.919 --> 0:02:34.200 isn't it. It does it feel weird? 0:02:34.480 --> 0:02:37.679 It does, actually, but we've like fully sunk into it now. 0:02:38.000 --> 0:02:39.760 I don't think it feels I don't think it feels 0:02:39.840 --> 0:02:43.359 much much different, just like the flex, the flex of 0:02:43.440 --> 0:02:44.200 the terminology. 0:02:44.440 --> 0:02:47.360 But after the Registree wedding, we were like, this is weird. 0:02:48.000 --> 0:02:50.440 Yeah, it's I mean, it's nice to come home and 0:02:50.480 --> 0:02:52.400 stay like honey, I'm home to my wife. 0:02:52.400 --> 0:02:52.880 I like that. 0:02:53.240 --> 0:02:55.760 But it's good to be back the three of us 0:02:56.040 --> 0:02:56.680 all together. 0:02:57.360 --> 0:03:00.440 Maybe when you're married, we should get my husband and 0:03:00.480 --> 0:03:02.679 your wife on and we could do like a four 0:03:02.720 --> 0:03:04.040 way podcast one time. 0:03:04.320 --> 0:03:06.560 Yeah, that sounds fun and we could chat about marriage, 0:03:06.639 --> 0:03:10.280 married life and how how it's different, how it's not different, 0:03:10.320 --> 0:03:13.720 and all that sort of stuff. Let's start from the start. 0:03:13.760 --> 0:03:15.480 I was actually want to talk about the registry wedding 0:03:15.480 --> 0:03:16.120 with you, Michael. 0:03:16.200 --> 0:03:16.680 How was that. 0:03:16.720 --> 0:03:19.040 We've gotten Anna's take on it, Do you want to 0:03:19.520 --> 0:03:20.680 share your thoughts on it? 0:03:20.840 --> 0:03:21.280 Yeah? 0:03:21.320 --> 0:03:24.960 So like it was it was more than I expected, 0:03:25.120 --> 0:03:27.320 Like it was quite like a like I think we 0:03:27.400 --> 0:03:29.040 kind of just expected we're going to go there and 0:03:29.040 --> 0:03:31.880 sign documents, and then before we knew it, we were 0:03:31.919 --> 0:03:35.120 like quoting back like the I guess the traditional things 0:03:35.120 --> 0:03:36.880 that you quote in a wedding. So it was like 0:03:36.960 --> 0:03:40.280 quite an intense experience but also like so beautiful, Like 0:03:40.320 --> 0:03:43.320 we just had our parents there, like they were sitting there. 0:03:43.800 --> 0:03:46.240 Then afterwards we were all like dancing together, which is 0:03:46.280 --> 0:03:49.080 a little bit weird. Perhaps it was like just like 0:03:49.200 --> 0:03:52.360 the celebrant was kind of like, okay, guys, I'll I'll 0:03:52.440 --> 0:03:52.960 leave you to it. 0:03:53.000 --> 0:03:56.680 At this point we had like the six of us 0:03:56.800 --> 0:03:57.320 just kind. 0:03:57.120 --> 0:03:59.320 Of dancing, and then we just had like the most 0:03:59.360 --> 0:04:02.920 amazing lunch with our parents and they were like reminiscing 0:04:02.960 --> 0:04:06.040 on their weddings and like what life had been like 0:04:06.120 --> 0:04:08.040 for them, And yeah, I think it was like a 0:04:08.080 --> 0:04:09.760 really really beautiful experience. 0:04:10.200 --> 0:04:12.160 Yeah, how long have you're whiskey drunk? 0:04:12.200 --> 0:04:14.320 Weren't they a few whiskies at the end? 0:04:14.480 --> 0:04:16.599 Yes? How long have they both been married for? Like 0:04:16.760 --> 0:04:22.440 Michael parents, My parents must be like close to like 0:04:22.560 --> 0:04:27.520 forty years married. Yeah, really get less for murdered more more. 0:04:27.560 --> 0:04:29.719 I'm like doing quick math in my head, they're over 0:04:29.760 --> 0:04:32.679 forty years married, like maybe forty two, forty three years married. 0:04:33.240 --> 0:04:36.559 I think my parents are like thirty two he was married. 0:04:36.600 --> 0:04:39.160 I can't be sure. I'll double check along with the pod. 0:04:39.440 --> 0:04:42.640 Well, you've got like the perfect example right there, both 0:04:42.640 --> 0:04:44.760 to your parents and how to keep a marriage going. 0:04:44.800 --> 0:04:48.159 I spoke to Brian, your dad about it the recovery, 0:04:48.160 --> 0:04:50.640 had a long chat about how to keep a marriage going. 0:04:50.720 --> 0:04:53.039 In that was his pointers. 0:04:53.800 --> 0:04:56.479 He pretty much just said, you're going to argue. Yeah, 0:04:57.200 --> 0:04:59.599 you're going to disagree on stuff, and he's like, we 0:04:59.680 --> 0:05:02.560 always but the main thing is to recover from it 0:05:02.680 --> 0:05:06.040 and not go to bed angry at each other. I'm 0:05:06.040 --> 0:05:09.320 not gonna lie. And I fucking loved your parents had 0:05:09.360 --> 0:05:10.960 so much funey. Then we had dinner time and I 0:05:10.960 --> 0:05:13.000 had dinner and we love, we love your parents. 0:05:13.240 --> 0:05:14.839 Yeah, they're the best. 0:05:15.480 --> 0:05:18.920 And also during the wedding week they were just I mean, 0:05:18.960 --> 0:05:21.479 it's so funny. Everyone was just having what fell like 0:05:21.520 --> 0:05:24.640 the best week of their lives. Like my dad and 0:05:24.680 --> 0:05:26.599 I know we're going to get into the wedding later, 0:05:26.720 --> 0:05:29.960 but when my dad got to the estate, the Corty 0:05:30.040 --> 0:05:33.760 estate where we got married, he was so cute. He 0:05:33.920 --> 0:05:36.800 was like, I'm in heaven. This is heaven. And then 0:05:36.839 --> 0:05:38.920 he went into the kitchen and it was like all 0:05:38.960 --> 0:05:41.680 the wine was filled up because we'd like pre like 0:05:41.800 --> 0:05:44.680 got everything, and there was a full fridge of food 0:05:44.800 --> 0:05:46.880 and he was like, I'm in heaven. I've died and 0:05:46.920 --> 0:05:49.440 gone to heaven. Like it was so cute. So it 0:05:49.480 --> 0:05:50.240 was awesome. 0:05:50.760 --> 0:05:52.480 I have a memory with your mum in the kitchen 0:05:52.800 --> 0:05:54.960 one of the days, Michael, your mom thought I was 0:05:55.240 --> 0:05:57.200 you because she didn't have her glasses on, and she 0:05:57.240 --> 0:06:00.720 started talking to me from across the kitchen talkingly. 0:06:00.839 --> 0:06:02.960 She doesn't need her glasses, but clearly she didn't. 0:06:02.760 --> 0:06:04.960 Know fully talking to me like she was you. And 0:06:05.000 --> 0:06:06.680 I was like, I'm sorry, I have no idea what 0:06:06.680 --> 0:06:08.680 you're talking about. And then she like got closer and 0:06:08.720 --> 0:06:11.880 she's like, oh, Matt, sorry. I was like she told 0:06:11.920 --> 0:06:13.520 me she thought, but what I was going to ask 0:06:13.560 --> 0:06:16.920 about the registry before we move on, Michael, is Anna 0:06:17.200 --> 0:06:19.520 said a strong word about it that it gave her 0:06:19.560 --> 0:06:20.000 the ick. 0:06:20.880 --> 0:06:22.520 I knew you were going to bring this. 0:06:22.440 --> 0:06:25.960 Up, I think, and as a married woman now like 0:06:26.040 --> 0:06:28.279 words like the ick, like surely that's got to be 0:06:28.320 --> 0:06:32.960 left in the past. That's like typical Anna, like dramatizing 0:06:32.960 --> 0:06:35.800 a particular feeling and making it sound like a negative 0:06:35.839 --> 0:06:38.440 one because we reflected on that day as like such 0:06:38.440 --> 0:06:41.479 a positive experience. But I can pinpoint the moment she's 0:06:41.520 --> 0:06:44.919 talking about. It was like you're having this like really 0:06:44.960 --> 0:06:48.919 intense like moment together and then like at the corner 0:06:48.920 --> 0:06:50.120 of your eights. 0:06:49.720 --> 0:06:52.239 Just it's just like your parents. 0:06:52.279 --> 0:06:54.960 So just four people, like when we had that the 0:06:55.000 --> 0:06:57.279 wedding in front of a bigger crowd, you can't like 0:06:57.640 --> 0:07:00.560 it's maybe like less intimate. So I can stand like 0:07:00.600 --> 0:07:03.480 it was like it was kind of like a overwhelming 0:07:03.760 --> 0:07:06.360 feeling to be having this intense moment just in front 0:07:06.360 --> 0:07:08.479 of four people sat in a chair like a meter 0:07:08.600 --> 0:07:09.960 away from you, and am. 0:07:10.200 --> 0:07:11.840 What word would you use instead of ick? 0:07:12.640 --> 0:07:14.200 I would probably use. 0:07:15.560 --> 0:07:16.280 Uncomfortable. 0:07:17.160 --> 0:07:19.679 I would I would probably use the word like maybe 0:07:19.720 --> 0:07:22.320 just like slightly overwhelming. But yeah, I would never use 0:07:22.360 --> 0:07:27.240 the word ick because a grown man, because I've made 0:07:27.320 --> 0:07:32.600 like I'm a thirty five year old man, I don't 0:07:32.680 --> 0:07:33.280 use the word dick. 0:07:33.600 --> 0:07:36.960 It's not like I got the ick over Michael. At 0:07:37.000 --> 0:07:38.000 the registry wedding. 0:07:38.160 --> 0:07:40.760 We both felt uncomfortable and we both spoke about it 0:07:40.760 --> 0:07:42.880 and we were like, that was a bit like awkward, 0:07:43.240 --> 0:07:46.880 and like Michael said, the actual wedding in Corfu, Greece, 0:07:47.320 --> 0:07:49.920 it was way more comfortable than just having the four 0:07:50.000 --> 0:07:51.000 parents staring at us. 0:07:51.080 --> 0:07:53.320 Yeah, but I would if there was a percentage scale, 0:07:53.400 --> 0:07:58.280 I would say five percent uncomfortable, fifty percent grateful. 0:07:57.840 --> 0:08:00.600 Like yeah, exciting side. 0:08:01.120 --> 0:08:02.880 Like the bottom of the pile would be like a 0:08:02.880 --> 0:08:07.680 negative emotion, like I. 0:08:05.960 --> 0:08:07.440 Do you know what it was as well? I think 0:08:07.680 --> 0:08:10.920 with a with a registry wedding, you don't plan it. 0:08:11.000 --> 0:08:14.120 Like we literally in our minds went there. I put 0:08:14.120 --> 0:08:15.640 a little cute outfit on because I was like, I 0:08:15.760 --> 0:08:17.640 wear a little white outfit so that we can go 0:08:17.680 --> 0:08:21.400 to dinner, you know after. But we literally thought we 0:08:21.400 --> 0:08:24.480 would get there, sign the documents, our witnesses would sign 0:08:24.480 --> 0:08:26.440 the documents. But it was a full ceremony, like we 0:08:26.440 --> 0:08:29.800 were standing up in front of people, like, I don't 0:08:29.840 --> 0:08:30.560 know it. 0:08:30.440 --> 0:08:32.680 Was what I said, was. 0:08:32.679 --> 0:08:33.880 It a positive experience? 0:08:34.040 --> 0:08:35.559 Totally positive? Amazing? 0:08:35.840 --> 0:08:39.280 Loved it in hindsight. Did it give you the ick? 0:08:39.840 --> 0:08:44.240 Yes, she's standing strong, give her that she's stubborn. 0:08:44.320 --> 0:08:46.560 Yeah, she's definitely, she's definitely. 0:08:47.280 --> 0:08:50.360 But I wouldn't. I wouldn't change my wife in any way. 0:08:50.520 --> 0:08:56.400 She's perfect the way she is. Or no, yick, she's 0:08:56.400 --> 0:08:57.680 got the I from you, Michael. 0:08:57.760 --> 0:09:00.840 Apparently it's not from Michael, just the situation. 0:09:01.240 --> 0:09:05.040 All right, Well, let's move on to the actual wedding, 0:09:05.480 --> 0:09:09.920 not the whatever. What do you call it? The actual wedding. 0:09:09.960 --> 0:09:12.160 What do you get our actual wedding, the wedding, that's 0:09:12.200 --> 0:09:14.400 what I in my mind, that's our wedding. 0:09:14.720 --> 0:09:18.000 Yeah, so you're not saying that Register one is the 0:09:18.040 --> 0:09:19.760 wedding date or anything like that. 0:09:19.920 --> 0:09:20.960 It was our first wedding. 0:09:21.920 --> 0:09:22.960 We've been married twice. 0:09:23.240 --> 0:09:25.559 No, I genuinely feel like the core fee wedding is 0:09:25.600 --> 0:09:28.680 our actual wedding, and I to be honest, I haven't 0:09:28.720 --> 0:09:29.679 forgot about. 0:09:29.400 --> 0:09:32.240 The actually did as well until until. 0:09:32.360 --> 0:09:33.440 Until brought it up. 0:09:34.600 --> 0:09:36.600 Well, let's let's talk about the real wedding. And I 0:09:36.640 --> 0:09:39.360 just want to say, honestly, your wedding was amazing. It 0:09:39.440 --> 0:09:43.079 was beautiful. Like I don't think much about weddings, as 0:09:43.120 --> 0:09:46.200 you know, but like that was really like a really 0:09:46.200 --> 0:09:48.040 good wedding. Is that the word you use? 0:09:48.160 --> 0:09:48.400 Good? 0:09:49.080 --> 0:09:54.720 Unbelievable, wonderful, your words, Matt, you can use. 0:09:57.160 --> 0:10:00.800 You Well, it was beautiful. It was a good wedding, 0:10:00.840 --> 0:10:03.319 like it was. I thought it was perfect. Yeah, it 0:10:03.360 --> 0:10:05.640 was like everything you had from the Greek dancers. 0:10:06.240 --> 0:10:07.559 Yeah, yeah, we'll get into that. 0:10:07.600 --> 0:10:08.360 We'll get into that first. 0:10:08.640 --> 0:10:10.920 That's not even gone on social so like no one knows. 0:10:11.280 --> 0:10:14.760 Basically, it's so weird because like when you see other 0:10:14.760 --> 0:10:16.320 people's weddings, obviously they. 0:10:16.200 --> 0:10:18.600 Put out content, and I've put out a lot of content. 0:10:18.360 --> 0:10:21.560 But there's also so much that people don't know about 0:10:21.559 --> 0:10:24.560 our wedding, like so much, and like you said, there 0:10:24.600 --> 0:10:25.280 was Greek dancer. 0:10:25.280 --> 0:10:26.120 It was like, no one knows that. 0:10:26.200 --> 0:10:29.200 It was funny because I like, you don't think about 0:10:29.200 --> 0:10:31.280 how it's actually going to be in real life, and 0:10:31.320 --> 0:10:34.520 then on the day it's like just things just kept happening. 0:10:35.679 --> 0:10:38.600 Well that's the run sheet, Like it was like this 0:10:38.679 --> 0:10:42.480 continuous thing until about eleven. It was just like something 0:10:42.480 --> 0:10:44.880 going on constantly in the best possible way. 0:10:44.960 --> 0:10:47.360 So let's talk about it. So you jet said it 0:10:47.400 --> 0:10:51.000 off to Istanbul. I was confused, why you fly in there? 0:10:51.120 --> 0:10:53.960 Because we were honeymooning there, so like it just made 0:10:54.000 --> 0:10:56.920 sense to have a flight in and out of one city. 0:10:57.240 --> 0:10:59.720 So we're going to come home from Istanbul. 0:11:00.120 --> 0:11:02.200 Yeah, yeah, so Istanbul. 0:11:02.360 --> 0:11:05.360 And also little Hack, if you're going to Europe, we 0:11:05.440 --> 0:11:10.440 got seventeen hundred return flights Issembul, so it's actually cheaper 0:11:10.520 --> 0:11:12.960 to flight in and out of Issembul. And then on 0:11:13.040 --> 0:11:16.640 top of that, Issembul is literally such an incredible city. 0:11:17.120 --> 0:11:19.160 Yep, like so incredible. 0:11:19.840 --> 0:11:21.840 Tammy was asking me. She's like, quiet, they there isn't 0:11:21.840 --> 0:11:23.480 that way they're having their honeymoon blah blah blah. And 0:11:23.520 --> 0:11:25.680 I was like, literally, I have no idea. I'm sure 0:11:25.720 --> 0:11:26.600 Anna's told. 0:11:26.360 --> 0:11:28.439 Me this, but I don't listen. 0:11:29.240 --> 0:11:31.120 Yeah, in one ear out the other. That was a 0:11:31.160 --> 0:11:34.080 whole the whole week. Tammy was asking questions and I 0:11:34.120 --> 0:11:35.920 was like, I'm sure I know the answer to this, but. 0:11:36.000 --> 0:11:38.840 And I feel like recently you actually have been messaging 0:11:38.880 --> 0:11:42.680 me asking questions about just like random things that you 0:11:42.840 --> 0:11:45.000 never normally would And I'm like, Matt's all of a 0:11:45.040 --> 0:11:47.600 sudden like taking a little bit of an interest in 0:11:47.600 --> 0:11:49.679 my life that he never has before. 0:11:49.679 --> 0:11:51.240 What did I asked you something? The other day? 0:11:51.400 --> 0:11:54.400 You were like, did you get Michael's sister has a 0:11:54.400 --> 0:11:55.679 little boy called Sterling? 0:11:55.720 --> 0:11:57.640 And he's like, did you get Sterling? In birthday present? 0:11:57.679 --> 0:12:00.000 I was like, said, says Matthew Zukowski. 0:12:00.160 --> 0:12:04.839 Never, we're all you know what I mean? 0:12:05.040 --> 0:12:06.880 Yeah, we're growing, we're evolving. 0:12:07.200 --> 0:12:07.600 Yeah. 0:12:08.040 --> 0:12:11.200 Little thing before we actually left for assemble, before we 0:12:11.240 --> 0:12:15.400 get into Issemble is there was three bad things that 0:12:15.559 --> 0:12:17.840 happened before we left. 0:12:18.600 --> 0:12:21.560 Yeah, And I was like, is the travel cursed back? 0:12:22.360 --> 0:12:25.320 I don't believe this because I have no memory of 0:12:25.400 --> 0:12:28.440 anything bad happening before we left. But Ada obviously sees 0:12:28.440 --> 0:12:29.559 the world a little bit differently. 0:12:29.600 --> 0:12:32.120 Tie no dramatized what happened. 0:12:32.160 --> 0:12:34.640 Okay, Well, you guys can decide for yourself to give 0:12:34.640 --> 0:12:35.080 you the ick. 0:12:35.400 --> 0:12:36.840 It didn't give me the honey. 0:12:37.000 --> 0:12:38.880 You don't give me the He's so true by this, 0:12:40.880 --> 0:12:42.040 there's nothing about it. 0:12:42.040 --> 0:12:44.280 It's a wild word to you. It's a wild word, 0:12:44.320 --> 0:12:44.679 isn't it? 0:12:44.720 --> 0:12:47.320 Matte toxic together. 0:12:49.000 --> 0:12:52.240 Okay, So the first bad thing that happened before we 0:12:52.320 --> 0:12:55.760 left for the wedding was that our videoographer got a hernia. 0:12:56.600 --> 0:13:01.520 Pretty bad, Yeah, pretty bad. Michael have remember he's recovered, well, 0:13:01.760 --> 0:13:02.520 he has recovered. 0:13:02.559 --> 0:13:04.160 Well, so he wasn't there. 0:13:04.640 --> 0:13:06.319 He was going to be there. There was going to be. 0:13:06.240 --> 0:13:08.839 Two videographers at the wedding, and then he got a 0:13:08.880 --> 0:13:10.600 hernia so I couldn't come, but we still had a 0:13:10.720 --> 0:13:15.280 videographer there, so it didn't matter. But obviously unlucky for 0:13:15.400 --> 0:13:18.840 him and like not ideal. The second thing that happened 0:13:19.280 --> 0:13:23.079 that I found to be unlucky was that our flower 0:13:23.160 --> 0:13:27.040 girl broke her arm. 0:13:25.440 --> 0:13:31.560 Oh she's so cute. 0:13:31.640 --> 0:13:32.600 She's so cute. 0:13:32.640 --> 0:13:34.880 So I remember when you told me that I'm like her. 0:13:34.960 --> 0:13:37.120 One thing that she needs to do is have a 0:13:37.280 --> 0:13:38.280 fully functioning r. 0:13:38.720 --> 0:13:41.320 To throw that do a job. 0:13:42.280 --> 0:13:44.080 No, it was honestly so cute. 0:13:44.120 --> 0:13:47.040 So she had her little As people know who followed 0:13:47.080 --> 0:13:50.600 my socials, My color that I picked was past or blue, 0:13:50.800 --> 0:13:53.160 and that's because the estate was pink and they had 0:13:53.200 --> 0:13:55.880 blue doors. So I was like trying to tidle in 0:13:56.240 --> 0:13:57.839 and she had her little blue dress and. 0:13:57.800 --> 0:14:01.080 She had her little cast. She had to have an operation. 0:14:01.280 --> 0:14:03.160 Like at one point we thought that we were going 0:14:03.200 --> 0:14:06.400 to lose her, and I'm so so glad. 0:14:06.520 --> 0:14:08.400 I think you could lose. 0:14:08.160 --> 0:14:12.560 Her, No, like lose her for the wedding, lose she 0:14:13.640 --> 0:14:16.120 but no, but my cousin was like really worried because 0:14:16.120 --> 0:14:19.000 she had to grace. Our flower girl had to go 0:14:19.080 --> 0:14:21.080 in for an operation, and she was like, oh my god, 0:14:21.160 --> 0:14:22.760 I really want to come to the wedding. I'm very 0:14:22.760 --> 0:14:26.120 close with my cousin, Sarah, her mum. And yeah, anyway, 0:14:26.240 --> 0:14:27.000 it all worked out. 0:14:27.400 --> 0:14:29.320 And so what was a third because you said it 0:14:29.360 --> 0:14:31.840 came in a third thing that happened. 0:14:31.960 --> 0:14:34.880 Okay, so there was like a third fourth. But the 0:14:34.960 --> 0:14:38.520 third bad thing that happened was my other cousin from 0:14:38.560 --> 0:14:40.320 the other side of the family. 0:14:40.600 --> 0:14:42.680 Her son broke his finger. 0:14:43.440 --> 0:14:47.560 So I was like, and it's this ongoing thing on 0:14:47.600 --> 0:14:50.560 social media that Michael and I have a travel curse 0:14:50.640 --> 0:14:54.040 because you know, we got locked up in a hotel 0:14:54.120 --> 0:14:57.480 quarantine in Thailand and all of this bad kind of 0:14:57.520 --> 0:14:59.840 not bad stuff, like we have amazing holidays. 0:15:00.760 --> 0:15:02.760 It's just like things that happen are. 0:15:02.720 --> 0:15:07.280 Just unlucky inconvenience, inconveniences that's probably a better word, inconvenient. 0:15:07.400 --> 0:15:10.560 Yes, So anyway, those three things happened, and I was like, okay, 0:15:11.360 --> 0:15:14.280 three is a charm. I don't think anything bad else, Like, 0:15:14.400 --> 0:15:16.880 nothing else is going to happen. I think like, we 0:15:17.000 --> 0:15:18.680 got all the stuff out of the way and it's 0:15:18.680 --> 0:15:20.720 going to be a smooth, happy wedding. 0:15:20.840 --> 0:15:22.880 Anyway, we get to Istanbul. 0:15:23.720 --> 0:15:29.000 Istanbul is amazing, and then Michael starts complaining of a 0:15:29.160 --> 0:15:34.560 saul leg and I was like, oh, no, have you 0:15:34.640 --> 0:15:36.000 forgotten about all of this money? 0:15:36.400 --> 0:15:40.040 Yeah, I forget the bad stuff or the inconvenience memories. 0:15:40.120 --> 0:15:40.320 Yeah. 0:15:40.440 --> 0:15:42.880 I mean my leg wasn't It wasn't ideal. It started 0:15:42.880 --> 0:15:44.440 it started hurting a little bit at the end of 0:15:44.440 --> 0:15:47.600 the flight, and like, obviously the first thing you think 0:15:47.640 --> 0:15:51.880 of is like, it's potentially a blood clot thing, right, 0:15:52.040 --> 0:15:59.760 like a circulation issue. It wasn't at that stage. At first, 0:15:59.760 --> 0:16:02.080 I was like, oh, yeah, my leg's a little sore. 0:16:02.600 --> 0:16:04.920 But then we're like, oh, let's just walk it off. 0:16:04.960 --> 0:16:09.000 So we walked like twenty k's exploring Istanbul and then 0:16:09.520 --> 0:16:11.640 well when we got back to the hotel, it like 0:16:11.760 --> 0:16:16.160 it was like red and inflamed and like tingly, which isn't, 0:16:16.280 --> 0:16:18.200 like I guess, a normal feeling, is it? 0:16:18.480 --> 0:16:18.760 No? 0:16:19.280 --> 0:16:21.720 And then I was google doctoring it and being like 0:16:22.200 --> 0:16:23.800 looking at the thing and it's like. 0:16:24.520 --> 0:16:25.480 You're going to lose your leg. 0:16:25.640 --> 0:16:27.160 He's like he had all. 0:16:27.000 --> 0:16:29.200 The symptoms except shortness of breath, and if he had 0:16:29.240 --> 0:16:31.680 shortness of breath, they will like immediately take him to 0:16:31.720 --> 0:16:32.360 the hospital. 0:16:33.600 --> 0:16:35.040 Like the bank could explode. 0:16:35.080 --> 0:16:37.160 And I was like, oh no, The funny thing was, 0:16:37.240 --> 0:16:40.760 I was I was in bed watching the Turkish Basketball League, 0:16:40.800 --> 0:16:44.040 eating back la Va, just pretty pretty relaxed. I'm like, oh, 0:16:44.040 --> 0:16:46.480 I guess my leg will feel better tomorrow, maybe hopefully. 0:16:47.080 --> 0:16:49.840 And then naturally point Ada is like, yeah, Google searching 0:16:49.840 --> 0:16:51.080 a bunch of different things, and then. 0:16:50.960 --> 0:16:52.240 She started looking quite worried. 0:16:52.400 --> 0:16:53.240 So what was it. 0:16:53.280 --> 0:16:55.880 Well, then Anna called a doctor to the room because 0:16:55.880 --> 0:17:00.560 she was very concerned. Five hundred dollars later, and it 0:17:00.680 --> 0:17:04.760 like it turns out that well, at first he's like, 0:17:05.000 --> 0:17:06.440 he's like steaming in with. 0:17:06.400 --> 0:17:08.399 Like two other doctors. Yeah, we have guys, this is 0:17:08.400 --> 0:17:09.080 a bit dramatic. 0:17:09.080 --> 0:17:10.560 Okay, I just need to need context. 0:17:11.080 --> 0:17:13.240 It's my leg's a little sore, No. 0:17:13.080 --> 0:17:17.439 Honey, don't underplay you were worried, guys, context to this 0:17:17.480 --> 0:17:20.600 whole situation. So Michael and I, it's our first night 0:17:20.720 --> 0:17:24.800 in Istanbul. We are extremely jetlagged. We have pushed through 0:17:24.960 --> 0:17:27.959 to the point of no return. So like at seven pm, 0:17:28.160 --> 0:17:31.280 I was exhausted, like I wanted to have a twenty. 0:17:31.080 --> 0:17:33.160 Four hour sleep. That's how exhausted we both were. 0:17:33.760 --> 0:17:36.520 And we've pushed through until nine o'clock and at nine 0:17:36.560 --> 0:17:40.639 o'clock we've realized, holy shit, Michael's leg situation could be 0:17:40.680 --> 0:17:44.280 something serious after traveling for like twenty four hours, twenty 0:17:44.280 --> 0:17:47.880 two hours, so we called the doctor on call. This 0:17:47.960 --> 0:17:51.520 guy comes into the room. He's like a nutty professor. 0:17:51.600 --> 0:17:54.359 That's the only way I can describe him. He's got white, 0:17:54.400 --> 0:17:56.639 shaggy long he was, he was quirky. 0:17:57.400 --> 0:17:58.240 He came very queck. 0:17:58.359 --> 0:18:00.320 He came in hot. And then he there was two 0:18:00.359 --> 0:18:02.800 other guys. I'm like, guys, this is dramatic. And then 0:18:02.800 --> 0:18:04.959 he sat down and the basketle was on, and then 0:18:05.000 --> 0:18:06.920