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Speaker 1: This is the Fitty and Whipper with Kate Richie podcast

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Speaker 1: Whipper and Cambridge's singles Farting The Jackson, Sydney's ultimate super

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Speaker 1: yacht for exclusive events, parties and private shart is on

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Speaker 1: the world's best harm us.

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Speaker 2: I'm thinking about wearing a top hat and.

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Speaker 3: Dumber style and nothing else.

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Speaker 1: One right, wow, top hat, bottom swinger. That would be

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Speaker 1: one hell of an entry. Whoa, I have a look

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Speaker 1: at that Jackson. Oh my god, on the Jackson Jackson,

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, if if if the slow dance gets

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Speaker 1: too intimate, You've always got somewhere to put your hair.

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Speaker 3: You know, this weekend is going to be absolutely chocol

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Speaker 3: block full of eyebrow appointments, lash pointirline. Oh man, every

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Speaker 3: follicle is going to be torn from bodies, and not

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Speaker 3: just the women, Not just the women.

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Speaker 2: Bejo's asked me to get onto the old tinted moisturizer

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Speaker 2: with a bit of sunscreen as well, just as she says,

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Speaker 2: she said, you're looking a bit pale lately.

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Speaker 1: You're looking a bit ghostly. If you guys ever heard

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Speaker 1: of this. As we talk about how to meet the

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Speaker 1: right person, and you can still register at the overplayer guys,

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Speaker 1: we want you on the boat. Have you ever heard

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Speaker 1: of dark psychology to trig somebody into loving you and

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Speaker 1: falling for you.

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Speaker 2: It sounds illegal.

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Speaker 1: It's not illegal, so it sounds like, yes, it is.

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Speaker 1: This is at the start of the relationship. There are

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Speaker 1: little things to do because sometimes you need the other

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Speaker 1: person to understand that you're making moves, because the danger

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Speaker 1: of that is if they don't realize that you're putting

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Speaker 1: in the hard yards and you're keen on them, he

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Speaker 1: could fall into the friend zone. And you don't want

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Speaker 1: to do that.

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Speaker 2: It meant to be reciprocated made.

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Speaker 1: And I told you about a maid of mine who

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Speaker 1: was keen on a girl, and he would invited to

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Speaker 1: different things, and they were very much in the friend zone.

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Speaker 1: She didn't look at him like that at all. And

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Speaker 1: then one day it was her birthday and he made this,

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Speaker 1: let's call it a hamper style thing made of things

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Speaker 1: that she was interested in, and she said, oh, how

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Speaker 1: kind is this? And then a work colleague turned her

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Speaker 1: and said, you realize that guy's in love with you.

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Speaker 1: What are you talking about? And she said, no, one

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Speaker 1: goes to that effort and all that detail if they're

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Speaker 1: not completely in love with you, and that was the

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Speaker 1: moment she went right, Okay, well maybe I should think

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Speaker 1: about this.

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Speaker 3: Well, the issue there is clearly with her. If someone's

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Speaker 3: making her.

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Speaker 1: Bespoke, yeah, bespoke.

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Speaker 3: Hamper still can't see to share a cat.

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Speaker 1: You know, she had another boyfriend at the time.

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Speaker 2: If she's taken him a huge BATOCKI hand and.

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Speaker 1: He wasn't paying five ninety nine and the lead up

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Speaker 1: to Christmas mode, it wasn't that type of hamper. So

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Speaker 1: let's talk about this dark psychology. One of the first

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Speaker 1: techniques you can use is called the mirror trick. So

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Speaker 1: that way, this way, you just mirror the other person's actions.

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Speaker 1: If they tuck their hair behind their ear, then you

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Speaker 1: run your fingers past your ear. They take a sip

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Speaker 1: out of the drink, you take a sip out of

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Speaker 1: your drink. If they cross their arms, cross your arms,

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Speaker 1: well it just looks like you're copying.

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Speaker 2: Then that is so crime.

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Speaker 1: But it says here that we like people who remind

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Speaker 1: us of ourselves. If it feels familiar, safe and intimate,

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Speaker 1: then we're more likely to open up, which strengthens the bond.

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Speaker 1: When they're having a shower, you jump in the shower.

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Speaker 3: Then that annoying game. It sounds like that annoying game

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Speaker 3: that your siblings used to annoy you within you were little,

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Speaker 3: like just saying everything you say after you say it,

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Speaker 3: after you say it.

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Speaker 1: Well, this is after you say it. This is the

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Speaker 1: adult version, Swani.

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Speaker 2: This is what Wip does really on the show I do.

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Speaker 1: It's so annoying. What about this one? The magic favor

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Speaker 1: where you give the other person the opportunity to prove themselves.

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Speaker 1: So you might start a conversation by saying, you know

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Speaker 1: what really annoys me that wobbly shelf over there. Then

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Speaker 1: he goes, oh, hang on a minute, I could fix

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Speaker 1: that wobbly shelf. All of a sudden, he feels like

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Speaker 1: he's doing something great for her, and she then pays

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Speaker 1: it back by maybe cooking him dinner, and the two

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Speaker 1: of them find themselves in a nice little routine working together.

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Speaker 3: That would work for me.

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Speaker 1: There there you go. You want the wobbley shelf favor?

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Speaker 1: I like, okay, what about this one? The jealousy nudge?

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Speaker 1: Now this one does work. Tommy, You've used this a lot.

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Speaker 1: Have a filthy animal? So what you do you touch

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Speaker 1: from Haydad? You know nothing to do with nudge from Haydad.

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Speaker 1: Mister Kelly, there is Nudge's probably imprisoned with mister Kelly.

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Speaker 1: This one is where you take a friendship to a

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Speaker 1: point where you're spending so much time with that person

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Speaker 1: and then you go out, say on a night out,

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Speaker 1: but then you post on social media a photo with

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Speaker 1: another girl which makes you feel like, oh, I should

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Speaker 1: be there. Hang on a minute, why's he got his

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Speaker 1: arm around her? I thought? We Oh, I think I

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Speaker 1: like him. It's so much you awakening? Okay? Can we

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Speaker 1: set awakening? Dylan is like such hard work?

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Speaker 2: We Chad to Dylan in Pittown. Good morning deal, Hey mate,

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Speaker 2: how are you single?

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Speaker 1: I am Dylan.

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Speaker 2: Have you registered for our singles party? Because apparently you

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Speaker 2: if you are single, we'd love to have you a

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Speaker 2: long deal.

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Speaker 3: I have registered online last week.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this is great news. Tell me put Dylan's name

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Speaker 1: on the list. He's going to find love next Tuesday night.

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Speaker 1: What did you put for your bio deal?

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Speaker 2: What did you tell us a bit about yourself?

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Speaker 1: What do you do for work?

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Speaker 2: And how old you are?

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Speaker 3: And it's twenty eight yep, I'm a building site manager.

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Speaker 3: Actually it's just the work this morning.

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Speaker 1: Really hot deal. What about your quiet time? Or you've

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Speaker 1: got an exploring what you're into buddy?

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Speaker 3: Or I follow a lot of sport, love a bit

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Speaker 3: of water, skiing on the gold a little bit.

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Speaker 1: Can you barefoot? Deal?

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Speaker 3: I can't barefoot? No, Dylan, you sound like a very

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Speaker 3: accomplished man. Did you hear us talking about the invisible favor?

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Speaker 3: I reckon that would be your yes?

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Speaker 1: Sorte?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 1: What nothing? Dylan?

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Speaker 3: So like if if someone that you're sort of seeing goes, oh,

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Speaker 3: you know what my letterbox is on a lean, you

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Speaker 3: go right, I can fix that. Yeah, I'm the one.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Dylan's letterbox fixer.

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Speaker 2: Well he's a handyman.

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Speaker 1: Hey, Dyl, We would love to offer to you as

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Speaker 1: well three hundred dollars to spend at MJ bail. Go

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Speaker 1: and get yourself suited up buddy for the night.

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Speaker 3: Thank you for that.

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Speaker 1: Let's get you looking sharp, deal and we'll see you

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Speaker 1: Tuesday night. Thanks Gods, I'll see that Dylan looking for love.

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Speaker 1: He'll fin Dylan before you go as well.

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Speaker 2: Now that you're registered in your coming along ago to

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Speaker 2: meet your match dot com dot au and you can

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Speaker 2: see some of the other lay that will be coming

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Speaker 2: along on the night and you can maybe find your

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Speaker 2: match on the website.

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Speaker 3: Deal, no worries. I'll jump on there the starfternoon after

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Speaker 3: work and go I don't get it.

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Speaker 1: I'll be fine, Grab yourself a B and make you

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