Speaker 1: I want the fairy tale. I want the prince charming.
Speaker 2: She how do I put this? Isn't a fan of
Speaker 2: my kissing style with.
Speaker 1: A boyfriend and girlfriend for about twelve hours. He's in
Speaker 1: a trash bit. He's non recyclable, catching hemmer.
Speaker 2: I love being love, I love love, Matt.
Speaker 1: Have you ever caught yourself in a little bit delulu?
Speaker 2: Do you mean delusional? I do all the time.
Speaker 3: Where's Your Head At is a podcast that talks all
Speaker 3: things relationships, breakups, reality TV, trending shows, and everything in between.
Speaker 2: This is your new go to destination for laughs, gossip,
Speaker 2: intimate details, advice, and much more. Hello, Hello Anna, and
Speaker 2: welcome to another episode of Where's Your head Ast.
Speaker 3: We're back with a bang. We've got new artwork. Matt's
Speaker 3: just flown in from the Gold Coast.
Speaker 2: I haven't seemed to be the reg at the moment,
Speaker 2: you know. I actually I was looking at my calendar
Speaker 2: the last eight weeks. Every week, every week I've been
Speaker 2: on a flight.
Speaker 1: It's kind of fun though, right, like that's a bit
Speaker 1: of fun, or you say.
Speaker 2: The person that's not on the flight and at the airport.
Speaker 2: But it's so good to see Tammy. We're obviously long distance,
Speaker 2: so I mean I'd push a mountain to go see her,
Speaker 2: or just climb a mountain to go see I do whatever,
Speaker 2: I do whatever I could to go see her. So
Speaker 2: it's not that bad top on a two hour flight,
Speaker 2: I can't complain.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you guys are very cute.
Speaker 3: Like I saw a TikTok that she posted the other
Speaker 3: day and it was a David Beckham trend, which everyone
Speaker 3: is loving at the moment, and a lot of the
Speaker 3: comments were saying, just how much you guys suit each other.
Speaker 3: And it's so true, Like when I first met her
Speaker 3: and saw you guys together, your energy together is just electric.
Speaker 1: Like, you guys are very cute.
Speaker 2: I think the right word is energy, so like, and
Speaker 2: people were commenting that we just click in that way.
Speaker 2: So like when we first started dating, you know how
Speaker 2: you talk to You're like, well, you know all those
Speaker 2: conversations you have in the first like couple of times
Speaker 2: of hanging out, You're like, well, what are you looking
Speaker 2: for in your partner? All that sort of stuff. And
Speaker 2: she asked me, and I didn't want to say like
Speaker 2: the cliche usual thing, you know. I want someone that's loyal, kind, thoughtful,
Speaker 2: has good banter, is confident, you know, all those things.
Speaker 2: Because I was like, well, if I want to be
Speaker 2: with someone that's me essentially, so I want them to
Speaker 2: be like me. So I was like, I want someone that,
Speaker 2: Oh my god, it makes sense what I'm trying to say.
Speaker 2: I want someone that understands me and gets me and
Speaker 2: clicks with me. Yeah, And I've never found something like
Speaker 2: this where it's just we get each other so well
Speaker 2: and click and I feel like I get her and
Speaker 2: she gets me, and it's like it's just so easy.
Speaker 2: It's just a breeze.
Speaker 3: That's something you've been searching for for a while and
Speaker 3: you haven't found. And it's honestly so nice to hear
Speaker 3: that you have found that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like she gets my whole like yeah, humor, that's
Speaker 2: so big. She gets that I stuff off the calf
Speaker 2: and like stupid, stupid, dumb and stuff like at the
Speaker 2: wrong times in front of the wrong people. And she
Speaker 2: just doesn't get angry at me. She sort of understands.
Speaker 2: And I like that, like I've never had that before.
Speaker 1: She's more chill, like she's not like jumping down.
Speaker 2: In previous relationships, I'd say something and I wouldn't hear
Speaker 2: the end of it. For like, you know, however, long
Speaker 2: like I say dumb shit, you.
Speaker 1: Do really say a lot of dumb shit.
Speaker 2: Like I just say what comes to my mind, and
Speaker 2: then she just understands that. And also, I can't regulate
Speaker 2: my emotions of my ADHD. I've been open about that
Speaker 2: on the podcast, and like she is very understanding and
Speaker 2: can get that. Like if I'm on a down or
Speaker 2: if I'm having a goosey upmod she gets in it
Speaker 2: with me and it's it's fun. It's just easy breezy.
Speaker 1: Okay, what's your turn on and ech of the week?
Speaker 2: Matt? Okay, what do you want me to start with
Speaker 2: my dessert or my veggies?
Speaker 1: I don't even know what that means.
Speaker 2: Dessert would be my turn on. It could be bad.
Speaker 1: Let's go with your turn on.
Speaker 2: I start with dessert. Yeah, so my turn on for
Speaker 2: this week is everyone knows on this podcast. If you
Speaker 2: see me on TikTok, I am a hoarder. I come
Speaker 2: from a family of hoarders.
Speaker 1: You are a hoarder.
Speaker 2: I am a hoarder. I find the most sentimental things
Speaker 2: in the most silly stuff, and I go, oh no,
Speaker 2: that I've wore that there or that reminds me of this.
Speaker 2: So yeah, but my sister Emma, and I'm obviously I'm
Speaker 2: back at my mum's if she was like, look, this
Speaker 2: is enough, is enough, Let's clean out the garage, let's
Speaker 2: clean out everything. So my turn off for the week
Speaker 2: is spring cleaning, guys.
Speaker 1: Ring cleaning.
Speaker 3: I've never thought I would hear the day from you literally.
Speaker 2: Ordered the hard rubbish, had a pile of stuff. So
Speaker 2: much was going to the sailbows. I've gotten rid of
Speaker 2: so much and I feel so much better. You feel lighter,
Speaker 2: I feel lighter. Yeah.
Speaker 1: But you didn't even sell it.
Speaker 2: No, I just sell it. In the end, I was
Speaker 2: so over that I've done the horror stories and I
Speaker 2: was like, no way, I'm doing this anymore.
Speaker 3: You've done enough marketplace for probably everyone in the Wars
Speaker 3: your head out fam.
Speaker 2: To be honest, Look, guys, I might sell something here
Speaker 2: and there and just to the story, but I was
Speaker 2: like throwing stuff. I could sell this and I'm like
Speaker 2: no more, Matthew, no more. And I was just putting
Speaker 2: it in the cell boats. What's your turn on for
Speaker 2: the week?
Speaker 3: Okay, my turn on for the week is that one
Speaker 3: of my best friends in the world got engaged Maddie
Speaker 3: and her fiance Al.
Speaker 2: Congratulations to Maddie.
Speaker 1: And our Yeah, congrats it was.
Speaker 3: It happened this weekend and I got the FaceTime call
Speaker 3: with like the ring, the hand and the ring, and
Speaker 3: I've never had a phone call like that before, and
Speaker 3: it was honestly so special. I was the most excited
Speaker 3: person in the world. And I know that when I
Speaker 3: got engaged, all of my friends were there and they
Speaker 3: were all super excited.
Speaker 1: But to be on the other side of it and.
Speaker 3: Get to see one of your best friends in the world.
Speaker 1: So happy, it was a really nice moment.
Speaker 2: So did you see it coming? All life? Was there?
Speaker 3: Me and her kind of guessed it, like there was
Speaker 3: a couple of little like you still never know that
Speaker 3: dodgy things, Yeah, you never know, but there was a
Speaker 3: couple of little dodgy things that were happening, plans that
Speaker 3: we could see that were being made, and.
Speaker 1: We kind of put two in two together, so we
Speaker 1: kind of worked out. Me and her went and got
Speaker 1: her our.
Speaker 3: Nails done together just in case, and you know, the
Speaker 3: manicure paid off, you know.
Speaker 1: What I reckon?
Speaker 3: Like people who say that they can't see it coming
Speaker 3: are lying. I reckon, if you know someone really fucking well,
Speaker 3: you can see that shit.
Speaker 1: Coming a mile away.
Speaker 2: I agree, I agree.
Speaker 1: Like I remember when.
Speaker 3: I got engaged to Michael. I even said, yeah.
Speaker 2: I was about to say I haven't proposed or been
Speaker 2: engaged to, but I reckon, people see it coming, you're coming.
Speaker 3: Yeah, And like I remember thinking, I have said to him,
Speaker 3: I want to get proposed to on holiday. So any
Speaker 3: holiday I go on, even if he's not there, I'm
Speaker 3: gonna be alert, like I'm fucking alert.
Speaker 1: True, true, So yeah, turn on of the week.
Speaker 3: What's your veggies of the week or your inch of
Speaker 3: the week?
Speaker 1: Shall we say?
Speaker 2: Think of the week? Is like I touched on before.
Speaker 2: I've been flying a lot and I'm sitting here now
Speaker 2: and nothing pisces me off more than getting off a
Speaker 2: plane and not having a shower and going and doing something.
Speaker 2: I don't know about you. I hate it. I feel clammy.
Speaker 2: I just feel dirty. I feel like planes are dirty environments,
Speaker 2: do you know what I mean? And I'm sitting here
Speaker 2: and it just gives myself the ick. You're giving yourself
Speaker 2: the Yeah, I sprayed myself with a bunch of after
Speaker 2: shave before. I don't I never smell the best of times,
Speaker 2: but I just feel like dirty off a plane. I
Speaker 2: don't know why. I don't know what it is about planes.
Speaker 3: Thanks for the clarification that you don't sell Matt is
Speaker 3: so o CD, I swear to God, like he can't
Speaker 3: have a coffee and not brush his teeth.
Speaker 2: I just ran to the car before and brushed him.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you take like three showers a day, Like, that's
Speaker 3: why I use such a clean free.
Speaker 2: I don't know it's hygienie. I like to be hygenie, hygienic, sorry, hygiene.
Speaker 2: I like to hygienic. And it's so like when I
Speaker 2: hop at the plane, first thing, I want to have
Speaker 2: a shower. And I've been obviously on the plane a lot,
Speaker 2: like I said, so, there's been times where i haven't
Speaker 2: been able to have a shower, and I've just been like,
Speaker 2: do you have.
Speaker 1: Some childhood trauma around being like the stinky kid or something.
Speaker 2: I've never smelled. My bo doesn't smell. I'm privily.
Speaker 1: I just don't get why you have to be so like.
Speaker 2: I don't know what it is. I don't know what
Speaker 2: it is. What's your for the week? Anna?
Speaker 3: My Ech of the Week, which has now done a
Speaker 3: bit of a turnaround. Was my sex life with Michael. Now, wait, no,
Speaker 3: Michael's not giving me.
Speaker 2: That forever in a day is going to be long.
Speaker 2: He's giving you the ear till death to you.
Speaker 3: Part our sex life was giving me the egg because
Speaker 3: we just literally hadn't had sex. So obviously when we
Speaker 3: were in I think it was our Brisbane Live show,
Speaker 3: I spoke about how I me and Michael hadn't had
Speaker 3: sex prages and that was because I had bronchitis. Then
Speaker 3: I obviously had my UTI and got sepsis and all
Speaker 3: of that, and honestly, I've just been a little bit
Speaker 3: scared to have sex as.
Speaker 2: Your libido being low.
Speaker 1: Though yeah, okay, my libido has been.
Speaker 2: Low, so it's mental as well as well.
Speaker 3: Okay, I think of it this way. Uties can be caused.
Speaker 1: From sex, isn't it sex? I don't know if it's not.
Speaker 1: Is that a made up stuff that's out here making
Speaker 1: out some just random stats.
Speaker 2: But no, but don't repeat that anyone. It's not true.
Speaker 3: No, But like you know, UTIs are sometimes caused from
Speaker 3: having sex. I think I've like somehow associated having sex
Speaker 3: with like getting sexist and almost dying, which is not
Speaker 3: a good association to make.
Speaker 1: I've been like really not up for it, which I actually.
Speaker 3: Feel bad about, but not that Michael's been like really trying.
Speaker 3: He's kind of just like understanding, which is really nice.
Speaker 3: But like, our sex life has been horrible. Like in
Speaker 3: the past six weeks, We've had sex probably like once
Speaker 3: or twice.
Speaker 2: It was a good sex, though not.
Speaker 1: Really because I was a bit anxious. I was the
Speaker 1: whole time. I'm like you, Ti, Ti, I.
Speaker 2: Actually cautious go of shower and pee afterwards, Yes.
Speaker 3: Definitely, but I mean I've always done that because I've
Speaker 3: had chronic gutis. But anyway, this weekend of the week
Speaker 3: has now turned around. We had sex for the first
Speaker 3: time where I wasn't thinking about it and it was
Speaker 3: actually really hot sex.
Speaker 2: So like what happened? You know what? Nobody else knows?
Speaker 2: Blake's curious?
Speaker 1: Who's Blake? Should we introduce Blake? While we're hearing?
Speaker 2: By the way, what a pivot there?
Speaker 1: So Blake is our producer.
Speaker 3: He is sitting in on all of our episodes from
Speaker 3: now on, and he's going to chime in here and there.
Speaker 1: So Hi Blake, Hello.
Speaker 4: Hello, which is so nice.
Speaker 2: To be here. Did you want to tell us a
Speaker 2: little bit about yourself, Blake and our audience?
Speaker 4: Oh my god, what do you want to know?
Speaker 2: Start about how old you are and what your hobbies are?
Speaker 2: Good place.
Speaker 4: Mouths, hobbies, love a good night out, love a dance.
Speaker 2: Wine he does. He's always telling us about the party
Speaker 2: that he gets up to on the weekend. We have
Speaker 2: to come party with you.
Speaker 1: It would be a rager of a night.
Speaker 2: I can sell you some tricks, I know, Blake, trust me,
Speaker 2: I could show you some tricks. I was partying. Well,
Speaker 2: you were sivil? What's right? Yeah, well you're probably you
Speaker 2: don't see that much younger than me, though I don't.
Speaker 3: Well, speaking of partying, I'm actually off alcohol.
Speaker 2: I've heard this one before, haven't we.
Speaker 3: Six weeks now? So it was four weeks of antibiotics.
Speaker 3: The doctors have now just up to my antibiotics because
Speaker 3: my infection levels haven't gone down quick enough. So I'm
Speaker 3: now doing six weeks of antabotics. So it's bleak times
Speaker 3: for me.
Speaker 2: That's why you didn't drink on the weekend.
Speaker 3: Then.
Speaker 1: I haven't been drinking all.
Speaker 3: I've been on the lemonon lime bidders and you know
Speaker 3: what's so annoying is I?
Speaker 1: I think?
Speaker 3: I said on my Instagram story like lemonon line Bidters
Speaker 3: is a new alcohol.
Speaker 2: Some caren that said there is alcohol in it.
Speaker 3: Yes, and I was like, oh my god, let me live,
Speaker 3: give me a little drop of it.
Speaker 2: It's like a midile school of alcohol. It's not even don.
Speaker 1: Okay, should we jump into our episode.
Speaker 2: Let's do it.
Speaker 3: All right?
Speaker 2: I know. I came across this article this week on
Speaker 2: MMA MIA and it was about a guy who proposed
Speaker 2: to his girlfriend, then he changed his mind, so she
Speaker 2: sued him for fifty thousand dollars.
Speaker 1: What that's insane?
Speaker 2: Yes, fifty grand Well, I know that if you if
Speaker 2: the guy changes his mind, the girl gets to keep
Speaker 2: the ring. But if the girl changes or breaks up,
Speaker 2: say with the guy, she has to give the ring back.
Speaker 1: Where did you hear this from? That's very interesting information?
Speaker 2: Can we can we fact check that play? He's fitting
Speaker 2: all these.
Speaker 3: Facts, hitting all these random fags, and I'm not sure
Speaker 3: if any of them were true.
Speaker 2: My best one of my family friend's best friends, she
Speaker 2: told me that because he broke up with her when
Speaker 2: they were engaged. And she and I said, well what
Speaker 2: happens with the ring, And she told me that, and
Speaker 2: she's a smart girl, so I'm assuming it's true.
Speaker 4: So I'm having a look. Now everything seems a little
Speaker 4: bit gray, but I'm reading this article and I want
Speaker 4: to paint the picture for you guys, just so you
Speaker 4: get a bit more of a clearer of an understanding.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 4: So man meets woman in two thousand, sparks fly, they
Speaker 4: move in together. Man buys woman ten thousand ring and proposes.
Speaker 4: In two thousand and four, Woman stops working to look
Speaker 4: after the child they have together, as well as a
Speaker 4: child she has from a previous relationship. Man cheats on woman,
Speaker 4: she finds out, stays, Man cheats on woman again. In
Speaker 4: twenty eleven, she finds out gets mad. Man says he
Speaker 4: wants her to move out, take the kids, and that
Speaker 4: the engagement is off a pig, so she sued him
Speaker 4: for fifty grand.
Speaker 1: You know what, I'm kind of on her side now.
Speaker 3: Initially when you read the headline out to me, I
Speaker 3: was a bit off it, But now I can totally understand.
Speaker 1: She's given off her career, she's.
Speaker 2: Looking after the kids at home kids, and well look
Speaker 2: what a dog she gave him. A chance, and then
Speaker 2: he went and did it again.
Speaker 1: I think she.
Speaker 3: Deserves one hundred k's to be honest, up the fifty,
Speaker 3: up the fifty.
Speaker 2: Well, I would like to see what her argument was
Speaker 2: in court, like what does she swinging for?
Speaker 1: Loss of loss of income, loss of how you.
Speaker 2: Could also get him as well if they put down
Speaker 2: deposits down on the wedding, she could probably be saying, well,
Speaker 2: you owe me ex amount for the venue.
Speaker 1: He'd be paying for it because he's the one working.
Speaker 2: Wellre you about to get married? Isn't yours? Isn't? What
Speaker 2: is his is yours? And what is hers is hers?
Speaker 1: True? Don't you think it's strange over her head?
Speaker 3: What?
Speaker 2: What is his is hers? And what is hers is hers?
Speaker 1: Oh?
Speaker 3: Yeah, sorry, I'm like, no, Matt, have you ever come
Speaker 3: across the term delulu?
Speaker 2: No? Delulu?
Speaker 1: Delulu?
Speaker 2: Is it a bird?
Speaker 1: Don't even act like you don't know what it is?
Speaker 3: So everyone's talking about things being delulu blake, have you.
Speaker 1: Heard about it?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Delusional?
Speaker 1: Delusional?
Speaker 2: Is this what the kids are saying about delusion?
Speaker 1: All the state kids who say.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so like on TikTok at the moment, I don't
Speaker 3: know if you've ever heard tarot card readings on TikTok, But.
Speaker 1: The algorithm just teases them so closely to your life.
Speaker 1: I don't know how it knows.
Speaker 2: I've had a couple come up, but I skip past it.
Speaker 1: I don't so you don't interact with it?
Speaker 2: No, no, I can't.
Speaker 3: It doesn't say like you're going to come into a
Speaker 3: lot of money if you double tap and.
Speaker 1: Give us a heart?
Speaker 2: Have you done that?
Speaker 1: Yes? Why would I not?
Speaker 2: Do you get them as welllife?
Speaker 1: No, it's not as delulious.
Speaker 4: I've got a few lives like tarot card reading lives,
Speaker 4: but I always open up to a really tragic moment,
Speaker 4: so I'm like.
Speaker 2: Tarot talk and good for you.
Speaker 3: I'm very much on Tarot card talk at the moment,
Speaker 3: and it's kind of like consuming my life. It's mainly
Speaker 3: just like positive things that are going to happen to me,
Speaker 3: and I just interact with it.
Speaker 2: Has any of them actually come true? You've gone okay,
Speaker 2: I saw that on my four you page three days ago,
Speaker 2: and now it's happening.
Speaker 1: I'm going to say yeah. I'm going to say.
Speaker 3: Yeah, when good things happen, I'm like, oh, that was
Speaker 3: a tarot card reading. Two weeks ago, and then I've
Speaker 3: saved it, and then I'll go back to it and
Speaker 3: I'll be like, Yep, good things are happening.
Speaker 2: I don't know if a Tarot card tells you what
Speaker 2: to do. I think I do believe that every decision
Speaker 2: that you make, like as when we had the Psychic
Speaker 2: on and she said all that stuff, like, I just
Speaker 2: don't like believing that somebody can see the future. Which
Speaker 2: hero cards that you pull out from a deck, and
Speaker 2: this one's talking to me. I don't believe it.
Speaker 3: I'm sorry that when they say good things to you,
Speaker 3: you love it, Like I can see your face lighting up.
Speaker 1: You don't have to lie to everyone, and to be honest,
Speaker 1: now that I'm thinking about it.
Speaker 3: The psychic that we had on this podcast, you guys
Speaker 3: can go back and listen to that episode. Literally everything
Speaker 3: that she said came true. Literally everything she threw a lot.
Speaker 3: She said, you're going to break up with your X.
Speaker 3: She said, I was getting engaged in six months. I
Speaker 3: literally got engaged in six months.
Speaker 2: She did say you'd live by water.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, she did too. I mean, and I
Speaker 1: literally bought a house beside water.
Speaker 2: I mean, Melbourne's very around the bay.
Speaker 3: I think we need to bring her back on the
Speaker 3: podcast and get a full new reading. Imagine if she's
Speaker 3: like noat you're getting engaged at it, you're broken up.
Speaker 2: I'll be like, no, then she's not true? Is she
Speaker 2: She's not real?
Speaker 1: There, I'd be blessed inclined to believe it. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: just look.
Speaker 2: I don't think that someone can see what's going to happen.
Speaker 2: I think that everything is. Every decision you make affects
Speaker 2: your future, even if it's from like the littlest one
Speaker 2: you do, from something you say in a different situation.
Speaker 2: I believe that dictates your future.
Speaker 3: Do you know when I get a psychic reading normally
Speaker 3: if I'm going through like a really tough time in
Speaker 3: my life, like you know, if someone I knows like unwell,
Speaker 3: or if I break up with a partner and I
Speaker 3: need like clarity on like my future, and genuinely it
Speaker 3: does make me feel better.
Speaker 1: So like, if I'm being a little bit Delulu, let
Speaker 1: me live.
Speaker 3: Do you think you're a little bit Delulu when they
Speaker 3: say things that you want them to say.
Speaker 2: I feel like I'm with the tarot card readings as
Speaker 2: well that you see on the four you page that
Speaker 2: you can spin it any way you want. I genuinely
Speaker 2: think in your mind you can go Okay, that's a
Speaker 2: good thing that's going to happen. They're talking about this thing,
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. They're so vague sometimes that
Speaker 2: you can spin it anyway you want.
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, do you want to be a little bit
Speaker 1: Delulu with me? Right now?
Speaker 2: I'm delusional at the best of time, So I'll be
Speaker 2: to Lulu.
Speaker 1: Okay, I've done.
Speaker 3: I've made three little notes and this is going to
Speaker 3: be your future for the week, and you get.
Speaker 1: To pick one of them. Give me your hat.
Speaker 2: Thank you? Oh no, Matt without a cap.
Speaker 1: I'm going to put them.
Speaker 3: In the hat and you can pick one and then
Speaker 3: give it to me, and I'm going to read.
Speaker 1: Out your future for the week.
Speaker 2: All right. This one is talking to me. It's jumped
Speaker 2: out of the hat at me. It wants to be read.
Speaker 1: Let's do it. Money is coming your way.
Speaker 2: I can't argue with that. I'm Delulu and we love
Speaker 2: doing this. We're gonna ask the audience and ask ourselves.
Speaker 2: Am I the asshole?
Speaker 1: Are you the asshole? Maw have you been an asshole
Speaker 1: this week? I love how you have to think about that.
Speaker 2: Well, no, I don't think I have. Have you been
Speaker 2: the asshole this week?
Speaker 3: I haven't been an asshole this week. No, I've just
Speaker 3: been a saint, blake.
Speaker 2: Have you been an asshole this week?
Speaker 4: I like instantly the answer was yes. I'm just trying
Speaker 4: to think of how I've been really six I've been
Speaker 4: like fucking throwing orders and whatnot at my boyfriend.
Speaker 2: But I've been lapping it up and.
Speaker 1: Loving you got to do it that, you gotta do it.
Speaker 2: Does he work like take the orders? Well? Or does he?
Speaker 4: I would say so because I do the heavy lifting
Speaker 4: and a lot of the cooking, et cetera, et cetera.
Speaker 4: So when these things arise, he's got to fucking lean
Speaker 4: in and.
Speaker 2: Do what he's to do.
Speaker 1: You got to milk that ship.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I just realized I was an asshole on
Speaker 2: Zoom for the pre record meeting.
Speaker 1: And I let you know about that, didn't I.
Speaker 2: Let me know? So apologies Blake for that. I was
Speaker 2: going through some things.
Speaker 1: It's just come back to has PTSD.
Speaker 3: So we had a meeting for the podcast and that
Speaker 3: was just in a bad mood and we got off
Speaker 3: the phone with.
Speaker 2: A bad I was being an asshole to people.
Speaker 1: I just wearing a bad mood.
Speaker 3: Nice. You weren't being nice, and I make you an
Speaker 3: asshole and we got off the corner. I was like,
Speaker 3: I called that, and I was like, you were just
Speaker 3: a fucking asshole.
Speaker 2: Well, I wasn't bringing anything to the meeting.
Speaker 1: I was very sorry bringing negative energy to the.
Speaker 2: Meeting, Like I wasn't saying anything.
Speaker 3: But we're big energy people. Now, we talk about this
Speaker 3: all the time. You can't bring negative energy from your
Speaker 3: own personal life into work. And that's just like a
Speaker 3: good lesson for us.
Speaker 1: All to learn.
Speaker 2: Yes, which is very true.
Speaker 3: Okay, I haven't am I the asshole this week. This
Speaker 3: one is in the wedding theme and I thought this was.
Speaker 1: Just so hilarious. So it goes a little something like this.
Speaker 3: I met my friend Charlotte when I moved into my
Speaker 3: college dorm in August twenty twenty. Charlotte has spent the
Speaker 3: last eighteen months planning her wedding down to the last detail.
Speaker 3: I won't say she's obsessive, but it's been in tens
Speaker 3: and I've tried to help her as best I can
Speaker 3: with making appointments, managing stress, et cetera. A month before
Speaker 3: the wedding, I was still trying to decide exactly what
Speaker 3: to wear. I knew Charlotte had a vision for her wedding,
Speaker 3: so I asked her which dress out of the three
Speaker 3: i'd narrowed it down to, that I should wear.
Speaker 1: She ended up narrowing it down to.
Speaker 3: One of my picks, along with a dress I had
Speaker 3: firmly put in the no pile for being white. It
Speaker 3: was a wedding, after all. She told me both dresses
Speaker 3: were lovely, but that she'd prefer the white one. I
Speaker 3: asked if she was sure, and she said yes. Okay,
Speaker 3: I can just see where this is going. Fast forward
Speaker 3: to last week. I showed up in the dress about
Speaker 3: half an hour before the ceremony. She pulls me aside
Speaker 3: and starts going off on me immediately about wearing the
Speaker 3: dress to her wedding.
Speaker 1: I'm stunned.
Speaker 3: I asked her what the problem is, because she picked
Speaker 3: the dress out, and she told me it was a
Speaker 3: friendship test and that if we were real friends, that
Speaker 3: I wouldn't have worn a white dress to her wedding.
Speaker 3: My phone has been flooded with texts, voicemails, and social
Speaker 3: media notifications from her, her friends. And her family about
Speaker 3: how I am an asshole? Am I really the asshole here?
Speaker 2: Look, I don't know much about dressing and what dresses
Speaker 2: to wear. I mean, Tammy literally asks me what she
Speaker 2: should wear. And it's an ongoing joke now that whatever
Speaker 2: when I pick, she wears the opposite.
Speaker 3: So so that's how little we trust you.
Speaker 2: But I know it is law. You do not wear
Speaker 2: a white dress to a wedding.
Speaker 1: I know it's a law.
Speaker 3: And little PSA to anyone who's thinking about wearing white
Speaker 3: to my wedding, don't do it because I'm gonna be pissed.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna have to change my suit.
Speaker 1: Then yeah, definitely change that suit.
Speaker 3: But what I will say is if the bride has
Speaker 3: specifically picked that outfit for you, I don't think that
Speaker 3: she is an asshole.
Speaker 1: You can't friendship test someone.
Speaker 2: I can't test people.
Speaker 1: You shouldn't be testing.
Speaker 2: You shouldn't be that's a lesson for aim. You shouldn't
Speaker 2: test people. It's just not how like you don't do that?
Speaker 3: Are you? Like?
Speaker 1: Eighteen?
Speaker 3: Like you know what I mean? Like?
Speaker 1: Why are we doing friendship tests.
Speaker 2: Or even relationship tests? You should never test someone.
Speaker 1: You should not test someone should just tell.
Speaker 2: Them what you want to do, be clear and mature
Speaker 2: and talent and.
Speaker 1: Just say, don't wear a fucking white dress to my wedding.
Speaker 4: I'm going to jump in here, and I'm a little
Speaker 4: bit scared. I don't get the white wedding dress law,
Speaker 4: don't know much about it.
Speaker 3: Hit me, okay, I'm just gonna say that, like on
Speaker 3: your wedding day, it's the one day where the day
Speaker 3: is all about you and your partner, right, And so
Speaker 3: I think the whole vibe about getting to be the
Speaker 3: only person in white is that you stand out and
Speaker 3: it's your day.
Speaker 1: Blah blah blah.
Speaker 3: If there's someone else in the ceremony who's wearing white,
Speaker 3: then you're not standing out. It's not all about you.
Speaker 1: I get it that. It's a bit like, you.
Speaker 2: Know, it's a bit old fashioned, because.
Speaker 3: It's a bit old fashioned, and it's a bit like nitpicky,
Speaker 3: and it's a bit silly really, But I just think
Speaker 3: let the person have their day, Like, let's not try
Speaker 3: to upstage someone on their special day.
Speaker 2: Is it upstaging if you just like wear a plain
Speaker 2: white dress.
Speaker 1: Yes, I'm gonna say yes.
Speaker 3: Because the bride's supposed to be the only person in white,
Speaker 3: and potentially the groom can be in white. I mean
Speaker 3: to be honest, I went to my cousin's wedding and
Speaker 3: I wore red, Like I wore this beautiful red dress
Speaker 3: and I was the only person who wore red, and
Speaker 3: I kind of was like, fuck, like I felt a
Speaker 3: bit bad about that.
Speaker 1: I've never said that out loud, So if she's.
Speaker 3: Listening, I'm sorry, did you feel like I wasn't feeling
Speaker 3: like I was upstaging, but it was like a quite
Speaker 3: like a you know, bright red dress, and I felt
Speaker 3: like everyone was kind of like in like more blacks
Speaker 3: and browns and more neutral kind of.
Speaker 2: Tone as a woman, Is it like an unspoken law
Speaker 2: that you don't get too overdressed for a wedding For
Speaker 2: that reason, I'm going to say, no, you don't want
Speaker 2: to upstage the bride.
Speaker 1: I don't think so.
Speaker 3: I think weddings are all about, like, you know, going
Speaker 3: all out and getting dressed up.
Speaker 1: I don't think it's about that.
Speaker 3: I just think like, you wouldn't want to wear a
Speaker 3: white dress on someone's wedding day.
Speaker 4: And to just go back to the issue at hand, yes,
Speaker 4: obviously she's not the asshole. One thing, one piece of
Speaker 4: feedback I will give her. She is an asshole for
Speaker 4: seeking validation for a question that I think had a quiet,
Speaker 4: clear answer to it.
Speaker 2: That's true as well, that's true.
Speaker 4: That's me being nitpicky. Now I'm becoming the friend.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Wait, so you think the bride is the sohole?
Speaker 4: Oh for sure, she's Bridezilla.
Speaker 2: At this point, we're going to put.
Speaker 3: It to you guys, who's the asshole in this situation?
Speaker 3: But yeah, bridezilla vibes through and through.
Speaker 2: Do you think you'll be a bridezilla?
Speaker 1: I actually don't think so.
Speaker 3: Like, I'm seven months out from my wedding, I've based
Speaker 3: because you.
Speaker 2: Haven't done any planning yet. She has stress so when
Speaker 2: it comes closer, she definitely will be stressed.
Speaker 3: But like, if I was going to be a bridezilla,
Speaker 3: let's be real, I would have been doing like I
Speaker 3: would have been doing this two years ago. Well actually
Speaker 3: I wasn't engaged to you, that would be impossible, but
Speaker 3: I'd be doing this from moment one that I got engaged.
Speaker 1: Right, I don't think that has the but I'm like
Speaker 1: not that, it's just not me.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think that's a qualification surprises though. I
Speaker 2: think it's like when you're getting to the wedding and
Speaker 2: you get stressed out because nothing's organized and you're really
Speaker 2: peaking with anxiety. Am I Am I hitting any nerves yet?
Speaker 3: No? I don't think so, Like as long as like
Speaker 3: my dress is amazing, which I know it will be
Speaker 3: because a Lynn Lacale is designing my dress.
Speaker 2: She's literally designing me a white suit as well.
Speaker 1: Who you said she it's a heeze. I don't think
Speaker 1: he is.
Speaker 2: Damn it. I tried to get.
Speaker 3: It that really, I mean to be honest with my
Speaker 3: brain fuzz at the moment that probably would have landed
Speaker 3: if you didn't say she, Matt, you absolutely love your TikTok?
Speaker 2: I do? Are you referring to all the tiktoks I
Speaker 2: send you on a daily basis?
Speaker 3: Yeah, there's at least like ten. And also your algorithm
Speaker 3: is so twisted sometimes I'm like, how was this video
Speaker 3: even getting to you?
Speaker 2: Well, it's a preface. It's just funny stuff that just wild,
Speaker 2: just wild funny stuff like just six sense my sense
Speaker 2: of humor, you know, just like.
Speaker 3: The things that shouldn't be said. Then you're getting it
Speaker 3: in video format. And then you still say like fucked
Speaker 3: up shit, and I'm like, oh yeah, that's why.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so funny, funny.
Speaker 3: Okay, Well there's this new TikTok trend. It's called my
Speaker 3: boyfriend has two girlfriends? Have you heard of that?
Speaker 2: Well? No, I haven't. Is he like cheating on her?
Speaker 2: What's to do? No?
Speaker 3: So basically it starts with a video of the girlfriend
Speaker 3: in question either being crazy or silly or emotional, or
Speaker 3: maybe dressed in a tracksuit with their hair up in
Speaker 3: a top knot, and then the second video is like
Speaker 3: their girlfriend looking like a Glamazon or glam So it's
Speaker 3: basically saying like, you just have two different versions of
Speaker 3: your partner essentially, which I think we can all somewhat
Speaker 3: relate to.
Speaker 2: I don't have to say I think everyone on totally
Speaker 2: can relate to that.
Speaker 3: Michael did the trend and he said that I'm either
Speaker 3: like very dressed up or in my pajamas out of
Speaker 3: the house.
Speaker 2: I saw that.
Speaker 3: I saw that, So I'm just like if I'm not
Speaker 3: dressed up, like I'm not really like getting out of
Speaker 3: my pajamas, or I'm in trackies, or I'm just like
Speaker 3: so casual.
Speaker 1: So I'm just like one or the other.
Speaker 3: And then obviously there's my you know, dual personality, which
Speaker 3: you know.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like we can all relate.
Speaker 2: I was about to say the actual personality wise where surpressed, surpress, surpresse.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, there's like the sweet, kind loving adda, and
Speaker 3: then there's the an gets disrespected, the horns.
Speaker 2: Come out, the taurus.
Speaker 3: You probably you probably know the two versions of me
Speaker 3: as well too, well, I don't probably like the five
Speaker 3: versions of you. I showed you the six others.
Speaker 1: Then well, look, you're in a new relation and ship
Speaker 1: with Tammy.
Speaker 3: Have you guys gotten to the point of meeting each
Speaker 3: other's second third whatever personalities?
Speaker 2: I'd like to say so yes, unless it says I'm
Speaker 2: probably hiding the six others like you said, I'm probably
Speaker 2: hiding him. But I feel like, yeah, we've gone. I've
Speaker 2: seen all different sides of her, and every side is beautiful.
Speaker 1: Huh that's cute.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think like if you're in trackies or
Speaker 2: if you're in active war, or if you're dressed up.
Speaker 2: I think I think she's naturally beautiful. And I've said
Speaker 2: that to her, like shit fucking stunning, Yeah, like naturally beautiful.
Speaker 1: I love seeing you in love. It's so sweet.
Speaker 4: Now I don't want Matt to miss out from being
Speaker 4: on the hot sea.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Absolutely, what side?
Speaker 2: This is tammy scene of you. I did show her
Speaker 2: my irritable side, did you. Yeah? She was okay, she understood,
Speaker 2: understood me.
Speaker 1: God irritated.
Speaker 2: Why was I irritated? It didn't have to do with her,
Speaker 2: but something I can't remember triggered Something had triggered me,
Speaker 2: and I was getting irritable about it, and she, just,
Speaker 2: like I said, talk to me off a legend, understood
Speaker 2: me what I've always wanted.
Speaker 3: I mean, well, Michael always says to me that he'll
Speaker 3: never get bored because I have thirteen different personalities and
Speaker 3: each day he doesn't know what he's going to get.
Speaker 2: How early into the relationship, did you stop catfishing Michael
Speaker 2: and show him the rest of your personalities?
Speaker 1: So don't even ask. I would never catfish anyone with
Speaker 1: my personality.
Speaker 2: I've been told that. I think that. You know.
Speaker 3: I think like when you get to know someone slowly,
Speaker 3: like little different parts of your personality does come out,
Speaker 3: and that's just the evolution of relationship.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you can't just continue hiding those irritable things when
Speaker 2: you're like and you get like really agitated. You and
Speaker 2: me both get very agitated real quickly.
Speaker 4: Now to round this out, I just want to throw
Speaker 4: a few things that you receive. Any of this lands for.
Speaker 2: Either of you. Zoomis do you both do it?
Speaker 4: Do you both know what it is?
Speaker 3: So zoomies, I think is when you get like super
Speaker 3: excited at night and like run around the house.
Speaker 2: Of relating it to a dog running around.
Speaker 1: Doing zoo Yeah, like a Golden Retriever.
Speaker 2: Yes, a sausage dog.
Speaker 1: Yes, sausage dog from Matt Golden retrie For me.
Speaker 2: Yes, I get well, I would explain it. It's like
Speaker 2: getting really hypogenic and really goofy and like hypogenic hyperactive
Speaker 2: and like really goofy and doing silly stuff.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 4: And my next one. Have you ever sent a message
Speaker 4: saying would you still love me if I were a
Speaker 4: let's say, worm?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I have. I've sent stuff like that before. I
Speaker 2: said stuff, yeah, not a worm. Maybe, like you know,
Speaker 2: maybe if I wasn't as funny.
Speaker 3: Would you I wasn't as good looking.
Speaker 2: If I wasn't good looking, but they don't have my personality,
Speaker 2: so I'd be okay, but you.
Speaker 3: Wouldn't be It's funny is your personality?
Speaker 2: I'm saying if I wasn't as good looking, I'd still
Speaker 2: have my personality.
Speaker 3: Okay, guys, that's all we have time for. We want
Speaker 3: to hear your thoughts on today's episode. We want to
Speaker 3: hear how de Lulu you are, and we want to
Speaker 3: know about all of your different types of personalities.
Speaker 1: Don't we match?
Speaker 2: Yes, so bring all twenty thousand of those personalities to
Speaker 2: our Facebook page. We want to hear also how long
Speaker 2: it took you to show your second person l fifth
Speaker 2: or fourth or eighteenth personality to your partner, because I'm
Speaker 2: really interested on how long they can keep it small
Speaker 2: lit or hidden from their partner for until it bursts
Speaker 2: out and they show them.
Speaker 1: Until you stop catfishing your partner.
Speaker 3: Okay, guys, until next time, Bye bye