WEBVTT - AM I DELULU OR AN A**HOLE?

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<v Speaker 1>I want the fairy tale. I want the prince charming.

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<v Speaker 2>She how do I put this? Isn't a fan of

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<v Speaker 2>my kissing style with.

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<v Speaker 1>A boyfriend and girlfriend for about twelve hours. He's in

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<v Speaker 1>a trash bit. He's non recyclable, catching hemmer.

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<v Speaker 2>I love being love, I love love, Matt.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you ever caught yourself in a little bit delulu?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you mean delusional? I do all the time.

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<v Speaker 3>Where's Your Head At is a podcast that talks all

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<v Speaker 3>things relationships, breakups, reality TV, trending shows, and everything in between.

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<v Speaker 2>This is your new go to destination for laughs, gossip,

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<v Speaker 2>intimate details, advice, and much more. Hello, Hello Anna, and

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<v Speaker 2>welcome to another episode of Where's Your head Ast.

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<v Speaker 3>We're back with a bang. We've got new artwork. Matt's

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<v Speaker 3>just flown in from the Gold Coast.

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<v Speaker 2>I haven't seemed to be the reg at the moment,

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<v Speaker 2>you know. I actually I was looking at my calendar

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<v Speaker 2>the last eight weeks. Every week, every week I've been

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<v Speaker 2>on a flight.

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<v Speaker 1>It's kind of fun though, right, like that's a bit

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<v Speaker 1>of fun, or you say.

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<v Speaker 2>The person that's not on the flight and at the airport.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's so good to see Tammy. We're obviously long distance,

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<v Speaker 2>so I mean I'd push a mountain to go see her,

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<v Speaker 2>or just climb a mountain to go see I do whatever,

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<v Speaker 2>I do whatever I could to go see her. So

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<v Speaker 2>it's not that bad top on a two hour flight,

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<v Speaker 2>I can't complain.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you guys are very cute.

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<v Speaker 3>Like I saw a TikTok that she posted the other

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<v Speaker 3>day and it was a David Beckham trend, which everyone

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<v Speaker 3>is loving at the moment, and a lot of the

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<v Speaker 3>comments were saying, just how much you guys suit each other.

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<v Speaker 3>And it's so true, Like when I first met her

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<v Speaker 3>and saw you guys together, your energy together is just electric.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, you guys are very cute.

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<v Speaker 2>I think the right word is energy, so like, and

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<v Speaker 2>people were commenting that we just click in that way.

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<v Speaker 2>So like when we first started dating, you know how

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<v Speaker 2>you talk to You're like, well, you know all those

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<v Speaker 2>conversations you have in the first like couple of times

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<v Speaker 2>of hanging out, You're like, well, what are you looking

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<v Speaker 2>for in your partner? All that sort of stuff. And

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<v Speaker 2>she asked me, and I didn't want to say like

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<v Speaker 2>the cliche usual thing, you know. I want someone that's loyal, kind, thoughtful,

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<v Speaker 2>has good banter, is confident, you know, all those things.

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<v Speaker 2>Because I was like, well, if I want to be

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<v Speaker 2>with someone that's me essentially, so I want them to

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<v Speaker 2>be like me. So I was like, I want someone that,

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, it makes sense what I'm trying to say.

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<v Speaker 2>I want someone that understands me and gets me and

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<v Speaker 2>clicks with me. Yeah, And I've never found something like

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<v Speaker 2>this where it's just we get each other so well

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<v Speaker 2>and click and I feel like I get her and

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<v Speaker 2>she gets me, and it's like it's just so easy.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just a breeze.

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<v Speaker 3>That's something you've been searching for for a while and

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<v Speaker 3>you haven't found. And it's honestly so nice to hear

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<v Speaker 3>that you have found that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Like she gets my whole like yeah, humor, that's

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<v Speaker 2>so big. She gets that I stuff off the calf

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<v Speaker 2>and like stupid, stupid, dumb and stuff like at the

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<v Speaker 2>wrong times in front of the wrong people. And she

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<v Speaker 2>just doesn't get angry at me. She sort of understands.

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<v Speaker 2>And I like that, like I've never had that before.

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<v Speaker 1>She's more chill, like she's not like jumping down.

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<v Speaker 2>In previous relationships, I'd say something and I wouldn't hear

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<v Speaker 2>the end of it. For like, you know, however, long

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<v Speaker 2>like I say dumb shit, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Do really say a lot of dumb shit.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I just say what comes to my mind, and

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<v Speaker 2>then she just understands that. And also, I can't regulate

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<v Speaker 2>my emotions of my ADHD. I've been open about that

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<v Speaker 2>on the podcast, and like she is very understanding and

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<v Speaker 2>can get that. Like if I'm on a down or

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<v Speaker 2>if I'm having a goosey upmod she gets in it

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<v Speaker 2>with me and it's it's fun. It's just easy breezy.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, what's your turn on and ech of the week?

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<v Speaker 2>Matt? Okay, what do you want me to start with

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<v Speaker 2>my dessert or my veggies?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know what that means.

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<v Speaker 2>Dessert would be my turn on. It could be bad.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's go with your turn on.

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<v Speaker 2>I start with dessert. Yeah, so my turn on for

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<v Speaker 2>this week is everyone knows on this podcast. If you

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<v Speaker 2>see me on TikTok, I am a hoarder. I come

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<v Speaker 2>from a family of hoarders.

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<v Speaker 1>You are a hoarder.

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<v Speaker 2>I am a hoarder. I find the most sentimental things

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<v Speaker 2>in the most silly stuff, and I go, oh no,

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<v Speaker 2>that I've wore that there or that reminds me of this.

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, but my sister Emma, and I'm obviously I'm

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<v Speaker 2>back at my mum's if she was like, look, this

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<v Speaker 2>is enough, is enough, Let's clean out the garage, let's

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<v Speaker 2>clean out everything. So my turn off for the week

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<v Speaker 2>is spring cleaning, guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Ring cleaning.

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<v Speaker 3>I've never thought I would hear the day from you literally.

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<v Speaker 2>Ordered the hard rubbish, had a pile of stuff. So

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<v Speaker 2>much was going to the sailbows. I've gotten rid of

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<v Speaker 2>so much and I feel so much better. You feel lighter,

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<v Speaker 2>I feel lighter. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>But you didn't even sell it.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I just sell it. In the end, I was

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<v Speaker 2>so over that I've done the horror stories and I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, no way, I'm doing this anymore.

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<v Speaker 3>You've done enough marketplace for probably everyone in the Wars

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<v Speaker 3>your head out fam.

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<v Speaker 2>To be honest, Look, guys, I might sell something here

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<v Speaker 2>and there and just to the story, but I was

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<v Speaker 2>like throwing stuff. I could sell this and I'm like

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<v Speaker 2>no more, Matthew, no more. And I was just putting

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<v Speaker 2>it in the cell boats. What's your turn on for

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<v Speaker 2>the week?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, my turn on for the week is that one

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<v Speaker 3>of my best friends in the world got engaged Maddie

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<v Speaker 3>and her fiance Al.

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<v Speaker 2>Congratulations to Maddie.

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<v Speaker 1>And our Yeah, congrats it was.

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<v Speaker 3>It happened this weekend and I got the FaceTime call

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<v Speaker 3>with like the ring, the hand and the ring, and

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<v Speaker 3>I've never had a phone call like that before, and

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<v Speaker 3>it was honestly so special. I was the most excited

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<v Speaker 3>person in the world. And I know that when I

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<v Speaker 3>got engaged, all of my friends were there and they

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<v Speaker 3>were all super excited.

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<v Speaker 1>But to be on the other side of it and.

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<v Speaker 3>Get to see one of your best friends in the world.

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<v Speaker 1>So happy, it was a really nice moment.

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<v Speaker 2>So did you see it coming? All life? Was there?

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<v Speaker 3>Me and her kind of guessed it, like there was

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<v Speaker 3>a couple of little like you still never know that

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<v Speaker 3>dodgy things, Yeah, you never know, but there was a

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<v Speaker 3>couple of little dodgy things that were happening, plans that

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<v Speaker 3>we could see that were being made, and.

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<v Speaker 1>We kind of put two in two together, so we

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<v Speaker 1>kind of worked out. Me and her went and got

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<v Speaker 1>her our.

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<v Speaker 3>Nails done together just in case, and you know, the

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<v Speaker 3>manicure paid off, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>What I reckon?

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<v Speaker 3>Like people who say that they can't see it coming

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<v Speaker 3>are lying. I reckon, if you know someone really fucking well,

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<v Speaker 3>you can see that shit.

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<v Speaker 1>Coming a mile away.

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<v Speaker 2>I agree, I agree.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I remember when.

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<v Speaker 3>I got engaged to Michael. I even said, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I was about to say I haven't proposed or been

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<v Speaker 2>engaged to, but I reckon, people see it coming, you're coming.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, And like I remember thinking, I have said to him,

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<v Speaker 3>I want to get proposed to on holiday. So any

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<v Speaker 3>holiday I go on, even if he's not there, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>gonna be alert, like I'm fucking alert.

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<v Speaker 1>True, true, So yeah, turn on of the week.

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<v Speaker 3>What's your veggies of the week or your inch of

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<v Speaker 3>the week?

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<v Speaker 1>Shall we say?

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<v Speaker 2>Think of the week? Is like I touched on before.

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<v Speaker 2>I've been flying a lot and I'm sitting here now

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<v Speaker 2>and nothing pisces me off more than getting off a

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<v Speaker 2>plane and not having a shower and going and doing something.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know about you. I hate it. I feel clammy.

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<v Speaker 2>I just feel dirty. I feel like planes are dirty environments,

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<v Speaker 2>do you know what I mean? And I'm sitting here

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<v Speaker 2>and it just gives myself the ick. You're giving yourself

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<v Speaker 2>the Yeah, I sprayed myself with a bunch of after

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<v Speaker 2>shave before. I don't I never smell the best of times,

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<v Speaker 2>but I just feel like dirty off a plane. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know why. I don't know what it is about planes.

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<v Speaker 3>Thanks for the clarification that you don't sell Matt is

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<v Speaker 3>so o CD, I swear to God, like he can't

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<v Speaker 3>have a coffee and not brush his teeth.

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<v Speaker 2>I just ran to the car before and brushed him.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you take like three showers a day, Like, that's

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<v Speaker 3>why I use such a clean free.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know it's hygienie. I like to be hygenie, hygienic, sorry, hygiene.

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<v Speaker 2>I like to hygienic. And it's so like when I

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<v Speaker 2>hop at the plane, first thing, I want to have

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<v Speaker 2>a shower. And I've been obviously on the plane a lot,

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<v Speaker 2>like I said, so, there's been times where i haven't

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<v Speaker 2>been able to have a shower, and I've just been like,

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<v Speaker 2>do you have.

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<v Speaker 1>Some childhood trauma around being like the stinky kid or something.

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<v Speaker 2>I've never smelled. My bo doesn't smell. I'm privily.

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<v Speaker 1>I just don't get why you have to be so like.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know what it is. I don't know what

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<v Speaker 2>it is. What's your for the week? Anna?

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<v Speaker 3>My Ech of the Week, which has now done a

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<v Speaker 3>bit of a turnaround. Was my sex life with Michael. Now, wait, no,

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<v Speaker 3>Michael's not giving me.

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<v Speaker 2>That forever in a day is going to be long.

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<v Speaker 2>He's giving you the ear till death to you.

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<v Speaker 3>Part our sex life was giving me the egg because

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<v Speaker 3>we just literally hadn't had sex. So obviously when we

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<v Speaker 3>were in I think it was our Brisbane Live show,

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<v Speaker 3>I spoke about how I me and Michael hadn't had

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<v Speaker 3>sex prages and that was because I had bronchitis. Then

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<v Speaker 3>I obviously had my UTI and got sepsis and all

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<v Speaker 3>of that, and honestly, I've just been a little bit

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<v Speaker 3>scared to have sex as.

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<v Speaker 2>Your libido being low.

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<v Speaker 1>Though yeah, okay, my libido has been.

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<v Speaker 2>Low, so it's mental as well as well.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I think of it this way. Uties can be caused.

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<v Speaker 1>From sex, isn't it sex? I don't know if it's not.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that a made up stuff that's out here making

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<v Speaker 1>out some just random stats.

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<v Speaker 2>But no, but don't repeat that anyone. It's not true.

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<v Speaker 3>No, But like you know, UTIs are sometimes caused from

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<v Speaker 3>having sex. I think I've like somehow associated having sex

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<v Speaker 3>with like getting sexist and almost dying, which is not

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<v Speaker 3>a good association to make.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been like really not up for it, which I actually.

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<v Speaker 3>Feel bad about, but not that Michael's been like really trying.

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<v Speaker 3>He's kind of just like understanding, which is really nice.

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<v Speaker 3>But like, our sex life has been horrible. Like in

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<v Speaker 3>the past six weeks, We've had sex probably like once

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<v Speaker 3>or twice.

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<v Speaker 2>It was a good sex, though not.

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<v Speaker 1>Really because I was a bit anxious. I was the

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<v Speaker 1>whole time. I'm like you, Ti, Ti, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually cautious go of shower and pee afterwards, Yes.

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<v Speaker 3>Definitely, but I mean I've always done that because I've

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<v Speaker 3>had chronic gutis. But anyway, this weekend of the week

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<v Speaker 3>has now turned around. We had sex for the first

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<v Speaker 3>time where I wasn't thinking about it and it was

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<v Speaker 3>actually really hot sex.

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<v Speaker 2>So like what happened? You know what? Nobody else knows?

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<v Speaker 2>Blake's curious?

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<v Speaker 1>Who's Blake? Should we introduce Blake? While we're hearing?

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<v Speaker 2>By the way, what a pivot there?

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<v Speaker 1>So Blake is our producer.

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<v Speaker 3>He is sitting in on all of our episodes from

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<v Speaker 3>now on, and he's going to chime in here and there.

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<v Speaker 1>So Hi Blake, Hello.

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<v Speaker 4>Hello, which is so nice.

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<v Speaker 2>To be here. Did you want to tell us a

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<v Speaker 2>little bit about yourself, Blake and our audience?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, what do you want to know?

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<v Speaker 2>Start about how old you are and what your hobbies are?

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<v Speaker 2>Good place.

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<v Speaker 4>Mouths, hobbies, love a good night out, love a dance.

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<v Speaker 2>Wine he does. He's always telling us about the party

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<v Speaker 2>that he gets up to on the weekend. We have

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<v Speaker 2>to come party with you.

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<v Speaker 1>It would be a rager of a night.

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<v Speaker 2>I can sell you some tricks, I know, Blake, trust me,

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<v Speaker 2>I could show you some tricks. I was partying. Well,

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<v Speaker 2>you were sivil? What's right? Yeah, well you're probably you

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<v Speaker 2>don't see that much younger than me, though I don't.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, speaking of partying, I'm actually off alcohol.

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<v Speaker 2>I've heard this one before, haven't we.

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<v Speaker 3>Six weeks now? So it was four weeks of antibiotics.

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<v Speaker 3>The doctors have now just up to my antibiotics because

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<v Speaker 3>my infection levels haven't gone down quick enough. So I'm

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<v Speaker 3>now doing six weeks of antabotics. So it's bleak times

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<v Speaker 3>for me.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why you didn't drink on the weekend.

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<v Speaker 3>Then.

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't been drinking all.

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<v Speaker 3>I've been on the lemonon lime bidders and you know

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<v Speaker 3>what's so annoying is I?

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<v Speaker 1>I think?

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<v Speaker 3>I said on my Instagram story like lemonon line Bidters

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<v Speaker 3>is a new alcohol.

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<v Speaker 2>Some caren that said there is alcohol in it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, and I was like, oh my god, let me live,

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<v Speaker 3>give me a little drop of it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like a midile school of alcohol. It's not even don.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, should we jump into our episode.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's do it.

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<v Speaker 3>All right?

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<v Speaker 2>I know. I came across this article this week on

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<v Speaker 2>MMA MIA and it was about a guy who proposed

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<v Speaker 2>to his girlfriend, then he changed his mind, so she

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<v Speaker 2>sued him for fifty thousand dollars.

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<v Speaker 1>What that's insane?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, fifty grand Well, I know that if you if

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<v Speaker 2>the guy changes his mind, the girl gets to keep

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<v Speaker 2>the ring. But if the girl changes or breaks up,

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<v Speaker 2>say with the guy, she has to give the ring back.

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<v Speaker 1>Where did you hear this from? That's very interesting information?

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<v Speaker 2>Can we can we fact check that play? He's fitting

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<v Speaker 2>all these.

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<v Speaker 3>Facts, hitting all these random fags, and I'm not sure

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<v Speaker 3>if any of them were true.

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<v Speaker 2>My best one of my family friend's best friends, she

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<v Speaker 2>told me that because he broke up with her when

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<v Speaker 2>they were engaged. And she and I said, well what

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<v Speaker 2>happens with the ring, And she told me that, and

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<v Speaker 2>she's a smart girl, so I'm assuming it's true.

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<v Speaker 4>So I'm having a look. Now everything seems a little

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<v Speaker 4>bit gray, but I'm reading this article and I want

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<v Speaker 4>to paint the picture for you guys, just so you

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<v Speaker 4>get a bit more of a clearer of an understanding.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>So man meets woman in two thousand, sparks fly, they

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<v Speaker 4>move in together. Man buys woman ten thousand ring and proposes.

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<v Speaker 4>In two thousand and four, Woman stops working to look

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<v Speaker 4>after the child they have together, as well as a

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<v Speaker 4>child she has from a previous relationship. Man cheats on woman,

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<v Speaker 4>she finds out, stays, Man cheats on woman again. In

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<v Speaker 4>twenty eleven, she finds out gets mad. Man says he

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<v Speaker 4>wants her to move out, take the kids, and that

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<v Speaker 4>the engagement is off a pig, so she sued him

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<v Speaker 4>for fifty grand.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what, I'm kind of on her side now.

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<v Speaker 3>Initially when you read the headline out to me, I

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<v Speaker 3>was a bit off it, But now I can totally understand.

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<v Speaker 1>She's given off her career, she's.

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<v Speaker 2>Looking after the kids at home kids, and well look

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<v Speaker 2>what a dog she gave him. A chance, and then

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<v Speaker 2>he went and did it again.

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<v Speaker 1>I think she.

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<v Speaker 3>Deserves one hundred k's to be honest, up the fifty,

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<v Speaker 3>up the fifty.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I would like to see what her argument was

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<v Speaker 2>in court, like what does she swinging for?

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<v Speaker 1>Loss of loss of income, loss of how you.

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<v Speaker 2>Could also get him as well if they put down

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<v Speaker 2>deposits down on the wedding, she could probably be saying, well,

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<v Speaker 2>you owe me ex amount for the venue.

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<v Speaker 1>He'd be paying for it because he's the one working.

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<v Speaker 2>Wellre you about to get married? Isn't yours? Isn't? What

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<v Speaker 2>is his is yours? And what is hers is hers?

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<v Speaker 1>True? Don't you think it's strange over her head?

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<v Speaker 3>What?

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<v Speaker 2>What is his is hers? And what is hers is hers?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, sorry, I'm like, no, Matt, have you ever come

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<v Speaker 3>across the term delulu?

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<v Speaker 2>No? Delulu?

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<v Speaker 1>Delulu?

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<v Speaker 2>Is it a bird?

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<v Speaker 1>Don't even act like you don't know what it is?

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<v Speaker 3>So everyone's talking about things being delulu blake, have you.

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<v Speaker 1>Heard about it?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Delusional?

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<v Speaker 1>Delusional?

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<v Speaker 2>Is this what the kids are saying about delusion?

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<v Speaker 1>All the state kids who say.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so like on TikTok at the moment, I don't

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<v Speaker 3>know if you've ever heard tarot card readings on TikTok, But.

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<v Speaker 1>The algorithm just teases them so closely to your life.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how it knows.

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<v Speaker 2>I've had a couple come up, but I skip past it.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't so you don't interact with it?

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, I can't.

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<v Speaker 3>It doesn't say like you're going to come into a

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<v Speaker 3>lot of money if you double tap and.

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<v Speaker 1>Give us a heart?

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<v Speaker 2>Have you done that?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes? Why would I not?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you get them as welllife?

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<v Speaker 1>No, it's not as delulious.

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<v Speaker 4>I've got a few lives like tarot card reading lives,

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<v Speaker 4>but I always open up to a really tragic moment,

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<v Speaker 4>so I'm like.

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<v Speaker 2>Tarot talk and good for you.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm very much on Tarot card talk at the moment,

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<v Speaker 3>and it's kind of like consuming my life. It's mainly

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<v Speaker 3>just like positive things that are going to happen to me,

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<v Speaker 3>and I just interact with it.

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<v Speaker 2>Has any of them actually come true? You've gone okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I saw that on my four you page three days ago,

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<v Speaker 2>and now it's happening.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to say yeah. I'm going to say.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, when good things happen, I'm like, oh, that was

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<v Speaker 3>a tarot card reading. Two weeks ago, and then I've

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<v Speaker 3>saved it, and then I'll go back to it and

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<v Speaker 3>I'll be like, Yep, good things are happening.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if a Tarot card tells you what

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<v Speaker 2>to do. I think I do believe that every decision

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<v Speaker 2>that you make, like as when we had the Psychic

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<v Speaker 2>on and she said all that stuff, like, I just

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<v Speaker 2>don't like believing that somebody can see the future. Which

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<v Speaker 2>hero cards that you pull out from a deck, and

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<v Speaker 2>this one's talking to me. I don't believe it.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sorry that when they say good things to you,

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<v Speaker 3>you love it, Like I can see your face lighting up.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't have to lie to everyone, and to be honest,

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<v Speaker 1>now that I'm thinking about it.

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<v Speaker 3>The psychic that we had on this podcast, you guys

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<v Speaker 3>can go back and listen to that episode. Literally everything

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<v Speaker 3>that she said came true. Literally everything she threw a lot.

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<v Speaker 3>She said, you're going to break up with your X.

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<v Speaker 3>She said, I was getting engaged in six months. I

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<v Speaker 3>literally got engaged in six months.

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<v Speaker 2>She did say you'd live by water.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, she did too. I mean, and I

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<v Speaker 1>literally bought a house beside water.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, Melbourne's very around the bay.

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<v Speaker 3>I think we need to bring her back on the

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<v Speaker 3>podcast and get a full new reading. Imagine if she's

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<v Speaker 3>like noat you're getting engaged at it, you're broken up.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll be like, no, then she's not true? Is she

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<v Speaker 2>She's not real?

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<v Speaker 1>There, I'd be blessed inclined to believe it. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>just look.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think that someone can see what's going to happen.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that everything is. Every decision you make affects

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<v Speaker 2>your future, even if it's from like the littlest one

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<v Speaker 2>you do, from something you say in a different situation.

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<v Speaker 2>I believe that dictates your future.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you know when I get a psychic reading normally

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<v Speaker 3>if I'm going through like a really tough time in

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<v Speaker 3>my life, like you know, if someone I knows like unwell,

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<v Speaker 3>or if I break up with a partner and I

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<v Speaker 3>need like clarity on like my future, and genuinely it

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<v Speaker 3>does make me feel better.

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<v Speaker 1>So like, if I'm being a little bit Delulu, let

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<v Speaker 1>me live.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you think you're a little bit Delulu when they

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<v Speaker 3>say things that you want them to say.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like I'm with the tarot card readings as

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<v Speaker 2>well that you see on the four you page that

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<v Speaker 2>you can spin it any way you want. I genuinely

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<v Speaker 2>think in your mind you can go Okay, that's a

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<v Speaker 2>good thing that's going to happen. They're talking about this thing,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what I mean. They're so vague sometimes that

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<v Speaker 2>you can spin it anyway you want.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Well, do you want to be a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>Delulu with me? Right now?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm delusional at the best of time, So I'll be

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<v Speaker 2>to Lulu.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I've done.

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<v Speaker 3>I've made three little notes and this is going to

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<v Speaker 3>be your future for the week, and you get.

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<v Speaker 1>To pick one of them. Give me your hat.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you? Oh no, Matt without a cap.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to put them.

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<v Speaker 3>In the hat and you can pick one and then

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<v Speaker 3>give it to me, and I'm going to read.

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<v Speaker 1>Out your future for the week.

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<v Speaker 2>All right. This one is talking to me. It's jumped

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<v Speaker 2>out of the hat at me. It wants to be read.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's do it. Money is coming your way.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't argue with that. I'm Delulu and we love

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<v Speaker 2>doing this. We're gonna ask the audience and ask ourselves.

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<v Speaker 2>Am I the asshole?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you the asshole? Maw have you been an asshole

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<v Speaker 1>this week? I love how you have to think about that.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, no, I don't think I have. Have you been

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<v Speaker 2>the asshole this week?

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<v Speaker 3>I haven't been an asshole this week. No, I've just

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<v Speaker 3>been a saint, blake.

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<v Speaker 2>Have you been an asshole this week?

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<v Speaker 4>I like instantly the answer was yes. I'm just trying

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<v Speaker 4>to think of how I've been really six I've been

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<v Speaker 4>like fucking throwing orders and whatnot at my boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 2>But I've been lapping it up and.

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<v Speaker 1>Loving you got to do it that, you gotta do it.

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<v Speaker 2>Does he work like take the orders? Well? Or does he?

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<v Speaker 4>I would say so because I do the heavy lifting

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<v Speaker 4>and a lot of the cooking, et cetera, et cetera.

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<v Speaker 4>So when these things arise, he's got to fucking lean

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<v Speaker 4>in and.

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<v Speaker 2>Do what he's to do.

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<v Speaker 1>You got to milk that ship.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, I just realized I was an asshole on

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<v Speaker 2>Zoom for the pre record meeting.

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<v Speaker 1>And I let you know about that, didn't I.

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<v Speaker 2>Let me know? So apologies Blake for that. I was

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<v Speaker 2>going through some things.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just come back to has PTSD.

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<v Speaker 3>So we had a meeting for the podcast and that

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<v Speaker 3>was just in a bad mood and we got off

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<v Speaker 3>the phone with.

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<v Speaker 2>A bad I was being an asshole to people.

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<v Speaker 1>I just wearing a bad mood.

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<v Speaker 3>Nice. You weren't being nice, and I make you an

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<v Speaker 3>asshole and we got off the corner. I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>I called that, and I was like, you were just

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<v Speaker 3>a fucking asshole.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I wasn't bringing anything to the meeting.

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<v Speaker 1>I was very sorry bringing negative energy to the.

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<v Speaker 2>Meeting, Like I wasn't saying anything.

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<v Speaker 3>But we're big energy people. Now, we talk about this

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<v Speaker 3>all the time. You can't bring negative energy from your

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<v Speaker 3>own personal life into work. And that's just like a

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<v Speaker 3>good lesson for us.

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<v Speaker 1>All to learn.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, which is very true.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I haven't am I the asshole this week. This

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<v Speaker 3>one is in the wedding theme and I thought this was.

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<v Speaker 1>Just so hilarious. So it goes a little something like this.

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<v Speaker 3>I met my friend Charlotte when I moved into my

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<v Speaker 3>college dorm in August twenty twenty. Charlotte has spent the

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<v Speaker 3>last eighteen months planning her wedding down to the last detail.

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<v Speaker 3>I won't say she's obsessive, but it's been in tens

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<v Speaker 3>and I've tried to help her as best I can

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<v Speaker 3>with making appointments, managing stress, et cetera. A month before

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<v Speaker 3>the wedding, I was still trying to decide exactly what

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<v Speaker 3>to wear. I knew Charlotte had a vision for her wedding,

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<v Speaker 3>so I asked her which dress out of the three

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<v Speaker 3>i'd narrowed it down to, that I should wear.

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<v Speaker 1>She ended up narrowing it down to.

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<v Speaker 3>One of my picks, along with a dress I had

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<v Speaker 3>firmly put in the no pile for being white. It

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<v Speaker 3>was a wedding, after all. She told me both dresses

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<v Speaker 3>were lovely, but that she'd prefer the white one. I

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<v Speaker 3>asked if she was sure, and she said yes. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>I can just see where this is going. Fast forward

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<v Speaker 3>to last week. I showed up in the dress about

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<v Speaker 3>half an hour before the ceremony. She pulls me aside

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<v Speaker 3>and starts going off on me immediately about wearing the

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<v Speaker 3>dress to her wedding.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm stunned.

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<v Speaker 3>I asked her what the problem is, because she picked

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<v Speaker 3>the dress out, and she told me it was a

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<v Speaker 3>friendship test and that if we were real friends, that

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<v Speaker 3>I wouldn't have worn a white dress to her wedding.

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<v Speaker 3>My phone has been flooded with texts, voicemails, and social

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<v Speaker 3>media notifications from her, her friends. And her family about

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<v Speaker 3>how I am an asshole? Am I really the asshole here?

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<v Speaker 2>Look, I don't know much about dressing and what dresses

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<v Speaker 2>to wear. I mean, Tammy literally asks me what she

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<v Speaker 2>should wear. And it's an ongoing joke now that whatever

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<v Speaker 2>when I pick, she wears the opposite.

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<v Speaker 3>So so that's how little we trust you.

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<v Speaker 2>But I know it is law. You do not wear

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<v Speaker 2>a white dress to a wedding.

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<v Speaker 1>I know it's a law.

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<v Speaker 3>And little PSA to anyone who's thinking about wearing white

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<v Speaker 3>to my wedding, don't do it because I'm gonna be pissed.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna have to change my suit.

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<v Speaker 1>Then yeah, definitely change that suit.

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<v Speaker 3>But what I will say is if the bride has

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<v Speaker 3>specifically picked that outfit for you, I don't think that

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<v Speaker 3>she is an asshole.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't friendship test someone.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't test people.

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<v Speaker 1>You shouldn't be testing.

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<v Speaker 2>You shouldn't be that's a lesson for aim. You shouldn't

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<v Speaker 2>test people. It's just not how like you don't do that?

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<v Speaker 3>Are you? Like?

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<v Speaker 1>Eighteen?

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<v Speaker 3>Like you know what I mean? Like?

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<v Speaker 1>Why are we doing friendship tests.

0:23:50.000 --> 0:23:52.399
<v Speaker 2>Or even relationship tests? You should never test someone.

0:23:52.600 --> 0:23:54.320
<v Speaker 1>You should not test someone should just tell.

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<v Speaker 2>Them what you want to do, be clear and mature

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<v Speaker 2>and talent and.

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<v Speaker 1>Just say, don't wear a fucking white dress to my wedding.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm going to jump in here, and I'm a little

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<v Speaker 4>bit scared. I don't get the white wedding dress law,

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<v Speaker 4>don't know much about it.

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<v Speaker 3>Hit me, okay, I'm just gonna say that, like on

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<v Speaker 3>your wedding day, it's the one day where the day

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<v Speaker 3>is all about you and your partner, right, And so

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<v Speaker 3>I think the whole vibe about getting to be the

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<v Speaker 3>only person in white is that you stand out and

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<v Speaker 3>it's your day.

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<v Speaker 1>Blah blah blah.

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<v Speaker 3>If there's someone else in the ceremony who's wearing white,

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<v Speaker 3>then you're not standing out. It's not all about you.

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<v Speaker 1>I get it that. It's a bit like, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Know, it's a bit old fashioned, because.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a bit old fashioned, and it's a bit like nitpicky,

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<v Speaker 3>and it's a bit silly really, But I just think

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<v Speaker 3>let the person have their day, Like, let's not try

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<v Speaker 3>to upstage someone on their special day.

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<v Speaker 2>Is it upstaging if you just like wear a plain

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<v Speaker 2>white dress.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, I'm gonna say yes.

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<v Speaker 3>Because the bride's supposed to be the only person in white,

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<v Speaker 3>and potentially the groom can be in white. I mean

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<v Speaker 3>to be honest, I went to my cousin's wedding and

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<v Speaker 3>I wore red, Like I wore this beautiful red dress

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<v Speaker 3>and I was the only person who wore red, and

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<v Speaker 3>I kind of was like, fuck, like I felt a

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<v Speaker 3>bit bad about that.

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<v Speaker 1>I've never said that out loud, So if she's.

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<v Speaker 3>Listening, I'm sorry, did you feel like I wasn't feeling

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<v Speaker 3>like I was upstaging, but it was like a quite

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<v Speaker 3>like a you know, bright red dress, and I felt

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<v Speaker 3>like everyone was kind of like in like more blacks

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<v Speaker 3>and browns and more neutral kind of.

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<v Speaker 2>Tone as a woman, Is it like an unspoken law

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<v Speaker 2>that you don't get too overdressed for a wedding For

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<v Speaker 2>that reason, I'm going to say, no, you don't want

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<v Speaker 2>to upstage the bride.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think so.

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<v Speaker 3>I think weddings are all about, like, you know, going

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<v Speaker 3>all out and getting dressed up.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think it's about that.

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<v Speaker 3>I just think like, you wouldn't want to wear a

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<v Speaker 3>white dress on someone's wedding day.

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<v Speaker 4>And to just go back to the issue at hand, yes,

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<v Speaker 4>obviously she's not the asshole. One thing, one piece of

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<v Speaker 4>feedback I will give her. She is an asshole for

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<v Speaker 4>seeking validation for a question that I think had a quiet,

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<v Speaker 4>clear answer to it.

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<v Speaker 2>That's true as well, that's true.

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<v Speaker 4>That's me being nitpicky. Now I'm becoming the friend.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, so you think the bride is the sohole?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh for sure, she's Bridezilla.

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<v Speaker 2>At this point, we're going to put.

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<v Speaker 3>It to you guys, who's the asshole in this situation?

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, bridezilla vibes through and through.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you think you'll be a bridezilla?

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<v Speaker 1>I actually don't think so.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, I'm seven months out from my wedding, I've based

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<v Speaker 3>because you.

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<v Speaker 2>Haven't done any planning yet. She has stress so when

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<v Speaker 2>it comes closer, she definitely will be stressed.

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<v Speaker 3>But like, if I was going to be a bridezilla,

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<v Speaker 3>let's be real, I would have been doing like I

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<v Speaker 3>would have been doing this two years ago. Well actually

0:26:53.359 --> 0:26:55.600
<v Speaker 3>I wasn't engaged to you, that would be impossible, but

0:26:55.600 --> 0:26:58.359
<v Speaker 3>I'd be doing this from moment one that I got engaged.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, I don't think that has the but I'm like

0:27:02.200 --> 0:27:04.000
<v Speaker 1>not that, it's just not me.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't think that's a qualification surprises though. I

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<v Speaker 2>think it's like when you're getting to the wedding and

0:27:08.680 --> 0:27:11.960
<v Speaker 2>you get stressed out because nothing's organized and you're really

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<v Speaker 2>peaking with anxiety. Am I Am I hitting any nerves yet?

0:27:16.480 --> 0:27:18.280
<v Speaker 3>No? I don't think so, Like as long as like

0:27:18.280 --> 0:27:20.400
<v Speaker 3>my dress is amazing, which I know it will be

0:27:20.400 --> 0:27:23.720
<v Speaker 3>because a Lynn Lacale is designing my dress.

0:27:24.320 --> 0:27:26.560
<v Speaker 2>She's literally designing me a white suit as well.

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<v Speaker 1>Who you said she it's a heeze. I don't think

0:27:31.600 --> 0:27:32.040
<v Speaker 1>he is.

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<v Speaker 2>Damn it. I tried to get.

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<v Speaker 3>It that really, I mean to be honest with my

0:27:39.760 --> 0:27:42.040
<v Speaker 3>brain fuzz at the moment that probably would have landed

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<v Speaker 3>if you didn't say she, Matt, you absolutely love your TikTok?

0:27:50.480 --> 0:27:52.520
<v Speaker 2>I do? Are you referring to all the tiktoks I

0:27:52.560 --> 0:27:53.920
<v Speaker 2>send you on a daily basis?

0:27:54.160 --> 0:27:57.080
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, there's at least like ten. And also your algorithm

0:27:57.119 --> 0:28:00.840
<v Speaker 3>is so twisted sometimes I'm like, how was this video

0:28:00.960 --> 0:28:01.960
<v Speaker 3>even getting to you?

0:28:02.160 --> 0:28:06.080
<v Speaker 2>Well, it's a preface. It's just funny stuff that just wild,

0:28:06.280 --> 0:28:10.200
<v Speaker 2>just wild funny stuff like just six sense my sense

0:28:10.200 --> 0:28:11.880
<v Speaker 2>of humor, you know, just like.

0:28:11.840 --> 0:28:13.800
<v Speaker 3>The things that shouldn't be said. Then you're getting it

0:28:13.800 --> 0:28:16.320
<v Speaker 3>in video format. And then you still say like fucked

0:28:16.400 --> 0:28:18.040
<v Speaker 3>up shit, and I'm like, oh yeah, that's why.

0:28:18.320 --> 0:28:20.240
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so funny, funny.

0:28:20.560 --> 0:28:24.800
<v Speaker 3>Okay, Well there's this new TikTok trend. It's called my

0:28:25.000 --> 0:28:27.840
<v Speaker 3>boyfriend has two girlfriends? Have you heard of that?

0:28:29.200 --> 0:28:31.399
<v Speaker 2>Well? No, I haven't. Is he like cheating on her?

0:28:31.400 --> 0:28:32.560
<v Speaker 2>What's to do? No?

0:28:32.680 --> 0:28:36.560
<v Speaker 3>So basically it starts with a video of the girlfriend

0:28:36.640 --> 0:28:40.960
<v Speaker 3>in question either being crazy or silly or emotional, or

0:28:40.960 --> 0:28:43.280
<v Speaker 3>maybe dressed in a tracksuit with their hair up in

0:28:43.320 --> 0:28:46.760
<v Speaker 3>a top knot, and then the second video is like

0:28:46.800 --> 0:28:49.760
<v Speaker 3>their girlfriend looking like a Glamazon or glam So it's

0:28:49.800 --> 0:28:53.840
<v Speaker 3>basically saying like, you just have two different versions of

0:28:54.360 --> 0:28:57.680
<v Speaker 3>your partner essentially, which I think we can all somewhat

0:28:57.680 --> 0:28:58.040
<v Speaker 3>relate to.

0:28:58.080 --> 0:29:01.000
<v Speaker 2>I don't have to say I think everyone on totally

0:29:01.160 --> 0:29:01.959
<v Speaker 2>can relate to that.

0:29:02.240 --> 0:29:05.800
<v Speaker 3>Michael did the trend and he said that I'm either

0:29:05.880 --> 0:29:09.400
<v Speaker 3>like very dressed up or in my pajamas out of

0:29:09.440 --> 0:29:10.760
<v Speaker 3>the house.

0:29:11.320 --> 0:29:11.720
<v Speaker 2>I saw that.

0:29:12.400 --> 0:29:14.800
<v Speaker 3>I saw that, So I'm just like if I'm not

0:29:14.920 --> 0:29:17.120
<v Speaker 3>dressed up, like I'm not really like getting out of

0:29:17.120 --> 0:29:19.080
<v Speaker 3>my pajamas, or I'm in trackies, or I'm just like

0:29:19.280 --> 0:29:20.640
<v Speaker 3>so casual.

0:29:20.680 --> 0:29:22.000
<v Speaker 1>So I'm just like one or the other.

0:29:22.720 --> 0:29:25.800
<v Speaker 3>And then obviously there's my you know, dual personality, which

0:29:25.960 --> 0:29:26.160
<v Speaker 3>you know.

0:29:27.320 --> 0:29:28.600
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I feel like we can all relate.

0:29:28.760 --> 0:29:35.760
<v Speaker 2>I was about to say the actual personality wise where surpressed, surpress, surpresse.

0:29:37.840 --> 0:29:41.120
<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, there's like the sweet, kind loving adda, and

0:29:41.120 --> 0:29:44.920
<v Speaker 3>then there's the an gets disrespected, the horns.

0:29:44.560 --> 0:29:46.400
<v Speaker 2>Come out, the taurus.

0:29:46.560 --> 0:29:49.560
<v Speaker 3>You probably you probably know the two versions of me

0:29:49.600 --> 0:29:53.320
<v Speaker 3>as well too, well, I don't probably like the five

0:29:53.520 --> 0:29:56.560
<v Speaker 3>versions of you. I showed you the six others.

0:29:56.560 --> 0:30:00.440
<v Speaker 1>Then well, look, you're in a new relation and ship

0:30:00.680 --> 0:30:01.360
<v Speaker 1>with Tammy.

0:30:02.560 --> 0:30:05.520
<v Speaker 3>Have you guys gotten to the point of meeting each

0:30:05.520 --> 0:30:09.000
<v Speaker 3>other's second third whatever personalities?

0:30:09.320 --> 0:30:12.280
<v Speaker 2>I'd like to say so yes, unless it says I'm

0:30:12.280 --> 0:30:15.440
<v Speaker 2>probably hiding the six others like you said, I'm probably

0:30:15.520 --> 0:30:17.520
<v Speaker 2>hiding him. But I feel like, yeah, we've gone. I've

0:30:17.560 --> 0:30:20.360
<v Speaker 2>seen all different sides of her, and every side is beautiful.

0:30:20.720 --> 0:30:22.280
<v Speaker 1>Huh that's cute.

0:30:22.440 --> 0:30:24.640
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't think like if you're in trackies or

0:30:24.640 --> 0:30:26.560
<v Speaker 2>if you're in active war, or if you're dressed up.

0:30:26.960 --> 0:30:29.240
<v Speaker 2>I think I think she's naturally beautiful. And I've said

0:30:29.240 --> 0:30:36.480
<v Speaker 2>that to her, like shit fucking stunning, Yeah, like naturally beautiful.

0:30:36.680 --> 0:30:38.680
<v Speaker 1>I love seeing you in love. It's so sweet.

0:30:39.040 --> 0:30:41.640
<v Speaker 4>Now I don't want Matt to miss out from being

0:30:41.840 --> 0:30:42.800
<v Speaker 4>on the hot sea.

0:30:43.240 --> 0:30:43.480
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:30:43.520 --> 0:30:45.080
<v Speaker 4>Absolutely, what side?

0:30:45.120 --> 0:30:49.320
<v Speaker 2>This is tammy scene of you. I did show her

0:30:49.440 --> 0:30:54.680
<v Speaker 2>my irritable side, did you. Yeah? She was okay, she understood,

0:30:54.720 --> 0:30:55.280
<v Speaker 2>understood me.

0:30:55.440 --> 0:30:57.760
<v Speaker 1>God irritated.

0:30:58.160 --> 0:31:01.400
<v Speaker 2>Why was I irritated? It didn't have to do with her,

0:31:01.640 --> 0:31:04.960
<v Speaker 2>but something I can't remember triggered Something had triggered me,

0:31:05.000 --> 0:31:07.600
<v Speaker 2>and I was getting irritable about it, and she, just,

0:31:07.840 --> 0:31:09.760
<v Speaker 2>like I said, talk to me off a legend, understood

0:31:09.800 --> 0:31:11.080
<v Speaker 2>me what I've always wanted.

0:31:11.480 --> 0:31:14.240
<v Speaker 3>I mean, well, Michael always says to me that he'll

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<v Speaker 3>never get bored because I have thirteen different personalities and

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<v Speaker 3>each day he doesn't know what he's going to get.

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<v Speaker 2>How early into the relationship, did you stop catfishing Michael

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<v Speaker 2>and show him the rest of your personalities?

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<v Speaker 1>So don't even ask. I would never catfish anyone with

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<v Speaker 1>my personality.

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<v Speaker 2>I've been told that. I think that. You know.

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<v Speaker 3>I think like when you get to know someone slowly,

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<v Speaker 3>like little different parts of your personality does come out,

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<v Speaker 3>and that's just the evolution of relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you can't just continue hiding those irritable things when

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<v Speaker 2>you're like and you get like really agitated. You and

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<v Speaker 2>me both get very agitated real quickly.

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<v Speaker 4>Now to round this out, I just want to throw

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<v Speaker 4>a few things that you receive. Any of this lands for.

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<v Speaker 2>Either of you. Zoomis do you both do it?

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<v Speaker 4>Do you both know what it is?

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<v Speaker 3>So zoomies, I think is when you get like super

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<v Speaker 3>excited at night and like run around the house.

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<v Speaker 2>Of relating it to a dog running around.

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<v Speaker 1>Doing zoo Yeah, like a Golden Retriever.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, a sausage dog.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, sausage dog from Matt Golden retrie For me.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I get well, I would explain it. It's like

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<v Speaker 2>getting really hypogenic and really goofy and like hypogenic hyperactive

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<v Speaker 2>and like really goofy and doing silly stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>And my next one. Have you ever sent a message

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<v Speaker 4>saying would you still love me if I were a

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<v Speaker 4>let's say, worm?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I have. I've sent stuff like that before. I

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<v Speaker 2>said stuff, yeah, not a worm. Maybe, like you know,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe if I wasn't as funny.

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<v Speaker 3>Would you I wasn't as good looking.

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<v Speaker 2>If I wasn't good looking, but they don't have my personality,

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<v Speaker 2>so I'd be okay, but you.

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<v Speaker 3>Wouldn't be It's funny is your personality?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm saying if I wasn't as good looking, I'd still

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<v Speaker 2>have my personality.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, guys, that's all we have time for. We want

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<v Speaker 3>to hear your thoughts on today's episode. We want to

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<v Speaker 3>hear how de Lulu you are, and we want to

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<v Speaker 3>know about all of your different types of personalities.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't we match?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, so bring all twenty thousand of those personalities to

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<v Speaker 2>our Facebook page. We want to hear also how long

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<v Speaker 2>it took you to show your second person l fifth

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<v Speaker 2>or fourth or eighteenth personality to your partner, because I'm

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<v Speaker 2>really interested on how long they can keep it small

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<v Speaker 2>lit or hidden from their partner for until it bursts

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<v Speaker 2>out and they show them.

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<v Speaker 1>Until you stop catfishing your partner.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, guys, until next time, Bye bye