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Speaker 2: On today's episode of Where's Your Head At, we will
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Speaker 1: It official, and we'll be looking at the different types
Speaker 1: of love languages. So get excited. It's going to be juicy.
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Speaker 2: are an episode six. How's it going?
Speaker 1: You're intro is so wild? Look, Matt, last time we
Speaker 1: were speaking, we all got the really, really bad news
Speaker 1: that you were a bad kisser.
Speaker 2: Whoa whoa, whoa. Okay, let's just stop there.
Speaker 1: Hooray.
Speaker 2: I'm not a bad kisser. My kissing technique just doesn't
Speaker 2: match up to the new girl I'm with.
Speaker 1: It doesn't align the last two girls. It hasn't aligned
Speaker 1: with for the first time ever.
Speaker 2: Well, I only thought there was one kissing technique, which
Speaker 2: is mine.
Speaker 1: So basically you expect them to follow your lead, is
Speaker 1: what you're saying.
Speaker 2: Yes, I mean there's only one dance, isn't there.
Speaker 1: But I'd say like, a good kisser is someone who.
Speaker 2: Can adapt on the fly, can adapt.
Speaker 1: Like someone who's like this person's gone a bit rogue.
Speaker 1: But I'm going to go with her because we're going
Speaker 1: to somehow try and make this a decent kiss. Okay, So,
Speaker 1: how's kissing school going? Then? With the Magical date girl?
Speaker 1: Shall we call her? I feel like that's her name
Speaker 1: now because you always say this. The first day was
Speaker 1: magical Magical date Girl.
Speaker 2: So yeah, So I've checked into school with her.
Speaker 1: Enrolled.
Speaker 2: I've en rolled to school the right word. Yes, I've
Speaker 2: been rolling to school and I think it's going well.
Speaker 2: She says she actually enjoys kissing me.
Speaker 1: Okay, so you've improved it went from like an F
Speaker 1: minus to maybe like a d plass.
Speaker 2: The other night, we're having a couple of cocktails and
Speaker 2: I was just I hit it. It was really good
Speaker 2: at kissing, and she was like that, you have.
Speaker 1: To say that is blowing my fucking.
Speaker 2: She was like, where's this, matt Bean, how's it?
Speaker 1: Like?
Speaker 2: What's going on? And she was just in doing it?
Speaker 2: I learned. But then the next day, let's keep it.
Speaker 2: And then the next day I forgot what I did.
Speaker 1: So you improved and then you declined.
Speaker 2: I don't know what happened. And maybe the cocktail has
Speaker 2: too many whisky. Sy hours got to me and I
Speaker 2: knew what I was doing, but yeah, I really shit. Yeah,
Speaker 2: So I'll go back to school. I've got class after this,
Speaker 2: so let's keep this going.
Speaker 1: Good luck in school. I hope you can pass you here.
Speaker 2: But Anna, yes, what is going on? You've come out
Speaker 2: of a twelve hour relationship? Have you picked yourself back up?
Speaker 2: I think you've got some exciting news. You said you're
Speaker 2: going to wait to share. What tell me what's going on?
Speaker 1: So after my twelve hour relationship and my breakup.
Speaker 2: You're right after that as well.
Speaker 1: I've moved on no to be honest, I do have
Speaker 1: some really exciting news. Do I just flat out say it?
Speaker 2: Like I beat around the bush?
Speaker 1: I have a boyfriend?
Speaker 2: Congratulations? Anna? So how long's it beening now?
Speaker 1: Then it's been a couple of days.
Speaker 2: Fourteen hours?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean we've got past the twelve hour mark,
Speaker 1: which is a start, which I'm excited about. We both
Speaker 1: woke up the next day and didn't decide that it
Speaker 1: wasn't a good idea. We both had to chat and
Speaker 1: we were like, I think we should continue on this
Speaker 1: boyfriend and girlfriend.
Speaker 2: Ruthe So did he ask you out when he was
Speaker 2: drunk again or how did it happen this time?
Speaker 1: Okay, So basically he came over to my apartment and
Speaker 1: we had a little picnic. We set up a little
Speaker 1: picnic in my living room. We ordered some Chinese food.
Speaker 1: It was really cute. We were having a really nice time.
Speaker 1: We had a little candle on, but it was still
Speaker 1: pretty low key. And then he just kept looking at me.
Speaker 1: You know that feeling when someone's eyes were just on
Speaker 1: you and you're like, I feel like you have something
Speaker 1: to say, but you're not really saying it. And I
Speaker 1: think we'd had like one glass of wine, and yeah,
Speaker 1: he just basically looked at me and was like, do
Speaker 1: you want to be my girlfriend? And then myrasse being me,
Speaker 1: was like are you sure? Because last time we weren't sure,
Speaker 1: so I just had to clarify. So I was like
Speaker 1: are you sure? And he's like, yeah, I would love
Speaker 1: for you to be my girlfriend. And then I was
Speaker 1: like okay, and I was like the happiest person alive.
Speaker 1: I still am, like I feel like I'm beaming.
Speaker 2: I can see you're radiating smiles.
Speaker 1: You're just she's glowing.
Speaker 2: She's taken now and she's happy with her man.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so I have a boyfriend. And it's really funny
Speaker 1: because he said to me, he was like I think
Speaker 1: I was like he'd been at my apartment for about
Speaker 1: four or five hours, and he was like, I have
Speaker 1: been trying to ask you to be my girlfriend for
Speaker 1: about a week, and every time I tried to do.
Speaker 2: It, I don't know this.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he was like I panicked and didn't ask, or
Speaker 1: not even panicked, but just like just felt like it
Speaker 1: wasn't the right time or yeah, he just like pulled
Speaker 1: the pin last minute. And then he had said to
Speaker 1: himself that night like I'm one hundred percent and ask
Speaker 1: her and apparently it had been like four hours that
Speaker 1: he had been at my apartment and he still hadn't
Speaker 1: done it, and he was like, come on, like I've
Speaker 1: got to do it, and then yeah, he finally did it.
Speaker 2: That's awesome. Congratulations, Anna, thank you.
Speaker 1: But yeah, I've never really thought about how difficult and
Speaker 1: stressful it must be to have to ask someone that question,
Speaker 1: which takes us into today's episode. When is the right
Speaker 1: time to make it official? Let's get into it, all right.
Speaker 2: So do you think your lad asked you at the
Speaker 2: right time?
Speaker 1: Can we call on my boyfriend now so we don't
Speaker 1: have this miscellaneous was flying around?
Speaker 2: This is true. Let you go again. So do you
Speaker 2: think that your boyfriend asked you at the right time
Speaker 2: to be your boyfriend? I was going to say, man,
Speaker 2: then again, but.
Speaker 1: Look, I think that he asked me at the perfect time.
Speaker 1: I think we were both ready for it. We had
Speaker 1: been seeing each other for about seven and a half weeks,
Speaker 1: and I guess they say that the two month rule
Speaker 1: is the perfect time. So this sweet spot is two
Speaker 1: months of dating and there's been a bit of exclusivity
Speaker 1: in there, and then that's like the perfect time.
Speaker 2: It gives you enough time to sussy out what the
Speaker 2: other person's like, to really nut out any of those
Speaker 2: red flags we speak of that yeah, that we ignore anyway.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so, I mean I think the optimum time is
Speaker 1: two months, and so with us that kind of just
Speaker 1: before but was just before. But yeah, pretty much the
Speaker 1: right time. But I mean, what about you, Matt, how
Speaker 1: long would you wait to make the girl that you're seeing?
Speaker 2: So as you as you know, I've gone anywhere between
Speaker 2: four years to two months.
Speaker 1: It's a very big spectrum of time.
Speaker 2: Yeah, very big. So I've gone anywhere between there to
Speaker 2: ask them to be my girlfriends. So I don't really
Speaker 2: put a time on it. I feel like you're restricting
Speaker 2: yourself that way. I more feel off how I'm feeling,
Speaker 2: and I say, okay, like this has been going good,
Speaker 2: let's let's take it to the next step, or wow,
Speaker 2: we've been doing this for a long time. You can
Speaker 2: only grow probably should step up. Yeah, I should probably
Speaker 2: grow some balls and ask you or end it. And
Speaker 2: I didn't want to end it at the time, so
Speaker 2: I was like being my girlfriend. So I feel like
Speaker 2: it's just a case by case and you should really
Speaker 2: feel out on how you're feeling, and where their head's at.
Speaker 1: That loves fliding out that little sentence.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so you should suss it out where their heads
Speaker 2: at and where your heads are and ask them to
Speaker 2: go from there.
Speaker 1: Okay, Matt, So you've had two serious relationships. What makes
Speaker 1: you want to make someone your girlfriends? Like? What qualities
Speaker 1: do they have to have?
Speaker 2: All?
Speaker 1: Right?
Speaker 2: So there's a lot that I look for, But the
Speaker 2: main one that I look for is if I enjoy
Speaker 2: their company. Yes, that's a massive thing. I feel like
Speaker 2: I'm massive on spending time with my partner. So if
Speaker 2: I'm not enjoying their company, why would I want to
Speaker 2: be their partner? Why would I want to date them?
Speaker 2: So I look a lot into that. If I enjoy
Speaker 2: their company, how about yourself?
Speaker 1: I mean, I just think overall, compatibility is super important.
Speaker 1: Being on the same level intellectually, being able to have
Speaker 1: good conversations, wanting to do the same things, having similar
Speaker 1: interests like travel or you know, whether you want to
Speaker 1: go hiking with that person. I think your lives have
Speaker 1: to be able to intertwine in a really nice way.
Speaker 1: And that doesn't mean that everything has to align. Sometimes
Speaker 1: it's nice for other the people to have their own
Speaker 1: hobbies and yeah, of course, like definitely having your own life,
Speaker 1: but different hobbies and yeah, and just like being able
Speaker 1: to integrate well with their friends and family, because.
Speaker 2: I guess massive, that's massive.
Speaker 1: I think all of those things are really important. But
Speaker 1: I think love languages are also super important for having
Speaker 1: a healthy relationship. So we're going to talk about that next. Okay, Matt,
Speaker 1: So there's five love languages. What are they?
Speaker 2: So? There is words of affirmation, which.
Speaker 1: Is basically like sending an unexpected note or a text
Speaker 1: or genuinely encouraging your partner.
Speaker 2: There is quality time.
Speaker 1: Quality time is creating special moments together, are really nice memories,
Speaker 1: taking walks, doing small things with your partner, maybe like
Speaker 1: a weekend getaway or a little holiday.
Speaker 2: Where it's just the two of you, spending one on
Speaker 2: one time. Acts of service.
Speaker 1: Okay, So acts of service is like bringing your partner
Speaker 1: breakfast in bed or going out and getting them a coffee,
Speaker 1: so basically going out of your way to help them
Speaker 1: with a task or helping alleviate their daily workload.
Speaker 2: And there's also gift giving.
Speaker 1: Yep, So gift giving is buying thoughtful gifts, making nice gestures,
Speaker 1: basically doing small things that matter to that person in
Speaker 1: a really big way and expressing your gratitude for them
Speaker 1: through the act of giving gifts.
Speaker 2: All right, and the last one is touch.
Speaker 1: Okay, So physical touch is giving a kiss, a hug,
Speaker 1: holding hands, showing little signs of physical affection and make
Speaker 1: affection and making your intimacy a priority. And what one
Speaker 1: would you say is your love language?
Speaker 2: I would definitely say it would be between quality time
Speaker 2: and physical touch. Yeah, what about yourself?
Speaker 1: I think I'm the same. But do you know what's
Speaker 1: funny is I don't want to be greedy, but I
Speaker 1: feel like they're all really important.
Speaker 2: Well yeah, because I was going to say, you are
Speaker 2: big on acts of service.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I like it when my partner does like
Speaker 1: little things here and there, like it makes me feel
Speaker 1: like they really care. But if I had to list
Speaker 1: them in order, I feel like physical touch and words
Speaker 1: of affirmation would have to be at the top.
Speaker 2: People would reckon I'm words of affirmation, but I don't really,
Speaker 2: I don't. It's funny how you can think of like
Speaker 2: something so important and the other ones, like acts of
Speaker 2: service I couldn't really care for.
Speaker 1: But then like quality time is such a big one.
Speaker 1: But I just take that for granted because I probably
Speaker 1: wouldn't be with someone who didn't want to spend quality
Speaker 1: time with me. So it's really it's a difficult one
Speaker 1: and you definitely have to navigate through. I mean, there's
Speaker 1: a test that you can do online that picks out
Speaker 1: which one you are, and I actually took this test
Speaker 1: recently and it said that I was thirty percent physical touch,
Speaker 1: and it said then it was twenty seven percent words
Speaker 1: of affirmation and twenty seven percent quality time, So they're
Speaker 1: all very much up there. But yeah, I think.
Speaker 2: We're similar that because fancy this. I did the test
Speaker 2: as well and mine came back thirty seven percent quality time.
Speaker 1: Wow, that's quite a lot.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's why I am twenty seven percent words of affirmation,
Speaker 2: which I think surprising. I don't I don't.
Speaker 1: You love a compliment? When are you talking?
Speaker 2: Well, the test doesn't lie, does it. Had The numbers
Speaker 2: don't lie. I'm twenty three percent physical touch, seven percent
Speaker 2: acts of service, and seven percent gifts.
Speaker 1: Wow. So yeah, our bottom two are the same and
Speaker 1: our top three are the same, So I think we
Speaker 1: are very similar in that way. And then my boyfriend
Speaker 1: sounds so strange to say he had exactly the same
Speaker 1: as me.
Speaker 2: So then you guys are compatible.
Speaker 1: Very compatible. Yeah, that's good, which is good to know.
Speaker 1: That is good to know because I think, like in
Speaker 1: past relationships, when your love languages are off, it can
Speaker 1: actually make a bit of a difference. And I think
Speaker 1: sometimes what you want to receive is different, like you
Speaker 1: were saying.
Speaker 2: So, I think you express love in one way through
Speaker 2: one love language, and you receive love through another way.
Speaker 1: So totally.
Speaker 2: So I feel like I might receive it through quality time,
Speaker 2: but I give it through words of affirmation. Yea. With
Speaker 2: my partner, I like to tell them all the time
Speaker 2: how beautiful they're looking in how much I love them?
Speaker 2: If you if I do, yeah, if I love to
Speaker 2: do that. But my ex used to express her love
Speaker 2: through gifts, and you saw there seven percent. I do not.
Speaker 1: That's not how you like to.
Speaker 2: I do not like take love like that. So she'd
Speaker 2: be wanting, she'd be giving a gift gift after gift,
Speaker 2: and I'd just be like cool, like this, doesn't you
Speaker 2: know what I mean? And if anything, I hate receiving gifts.
Speaker 2: I feel uncomfortable. So with button heads on that a
Speaker 2: lot and I'd want quality time. So quality time to
Speaker 2: me is us laying there watching a movie or having
Speaker 2: a conversation, looking at each other in the eye. And
Speaker 2: she wouldn't get off her phone. The whole time was
Speaker 2: glued to her phone, So it would take away from
Speaker 2: quality time because she was engulfed in her phone, and
Speaker 2: I felt.
Speaker 1: Because you need that presence.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So I would feel really lonely and really like
Speaker 2: in that relationship because I wasn't getting what I needed
Speaker 2: to feel loved. So, like you're saying, it's very important
Speaker 2: that these love languages connect and they link up and
Speaker 2: are compatible.
Speaker 1: I think something that's really important to remember as well
Speaker 1: is that sometimes we don't get to tell people what
Speaker 1: we're going to give them. Sometimes, as a partner, you
Speaker 1: have to take a step back and be like, my
Speaker 1: partner's love language is this, and so therefore I'm going
Speaker 1: to make a huge effort to give them that, so
Speaker 1: that this work. Sometimes we need to get out of
Speaker 1: our comfort zone and not just give people what's comfortable
Speaker 1: for us, but what they actually need.
Speaker 2: So we would have arguments about this, I would say
Speaker 2: I'm more than happy, even though I feel so uncomfortable
Speaker 2: to accept your gifts, like it's getting gifts. It's at
Speaker 2: the end of the world about it. I'm like, I understand,
Speaker 2: that's how you're telling me you love me. So I
Speaker 2: would take him. I was like, but can you meet
Speaker 2: me halfway and once or twice a week? Can we
Speaker 2: just have some quality time and watch a movie?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: And she couldn't give that to me.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: And it was a massive obstacle in our relationship, which
Speaker 2: obviously led to the demise of it.
Speaker 1: And you know what, there's this study that talks about
Speaker 1: how if your love languages do not align, it's really
Speaker 1: hard to make a relationship work. And a lot of
Speaker 1: the time that is the downfall of the relationship because
Speaker 1: when those things don't.
Speaker 2: Align, it doesn't work. No one's feeling loved, no one's
Speaker 2: feeling wanted, and you're just budding heads.
Speaker 1: Correct. Okay, So let's talk about knowing your partner's love language. So,
Speaker 1: I mean it promotes selflessness to start with, because you're
Speaker 1: not just thinking about yourself and what you want to
Speaker 1: give them. When you are committed to learning someone else's
Speaker 1: love language, you'll focus on their needs rather than your own.
Speaker 2: Yep.
Speaker 1: Ideally, both people will want to express love in the
Speaker 1: same way. But obviously that's not always the case, and
Speaker 1: sometimes there has to be some sort of compromise.
Speaker 2: And any good relationship has compromise. You have to meet
Speaker 2: your partner halfway, and.
Speaker 1: When you do that, it helps to maintain intimacy and
Speaker 1: helps to bring you closer. So it's definitely worth putting
Speaker 1: in that extra effort and putting your time and energy
Speaker 1: into that.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 1: So interestingly, words of affirmation was the most popular love language,
Speaker 1: which I mean, I think is really like it's interesting
Speaker 1: because I think we all need reassurance, age someone to
Speaker 1: say you're doing great, you're amazing, I appreciate you. All
Speaker 1: of those things make a huge difference to our self esteem,
Speaker 1: our outlook in life, and I think that's such an
Speaker 1: important thing that a partner can bring to the table.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I understond agree that reassures you that they do
Speaker 2: they do indeed love you, and they want to be
Speaker 2: with you.
Speaker 1: I think interestingly, as well, physical touch was more important
Speaker 1: for men and people in cities love quality time.
Speaker 2: Well, that makes sense. You're in the hustle and bustle
Speaker 2: of the city doing your work, so you don't get
Speaker 2: to spend much quality time with your partner, so they
Speaker 2: must love it when they do. Yeah, all right, so
Speaker 2: love language is a very important relationship for them to
Speaker 2: work out. We'd love to hear some of your love languages.
Speaker 2: So head over to Where's your Head at Pod.
Speaker 1: We're gonna leave the quiz there. You can do the
Speaker 1: quiz and then we will leave a box on our
Speaker 1: Instagram story and you can share your results with us. Okay, Matt.
Speaker 1: So there's a theory that throughout our lifetime we fall
Speaker 1: in love three times at three different stages in our life.
Speaker 1: Have you heard of this before?
Speaker 2: I actually have, and I agree with it a lot.
Speaker 2: I'm yet to find out the last one, but the
Speaker 2: first two I agree with. Yes, okay.
Speaker 1: So the first one is your first love. It feels
Speaker 1: like a fairy tale. You're normally pretty young when it happens.
Speaker 1: You get head over heels in love and you think
Speaker 1: that you're going to spend the rest of your life
Speaker 1: with this person. So it's kind of like puppy love.
Speaker 2: Yeap, where you're young, so not much matters. So it's
Speaker 2: just due two in each other's lives and you've got
Speaker 2: each other and you're so absorbed with each other that
Speaker 2: it's all that. Really your life is consumed with.
Speaker 1: One hundred percent and then normally these relationships will end
Speaker 1: because you just grow apart. It's nothing really bad happens.
Speaker 1: There's still a lot of love for each other. But
Speaker 1: I guess you're just.
Speaker 2: Kind of too young, yep, and you've still life to
Speaker 2: life to live, life to take on.
Speaker 1: The second love is your intense love. So that's usually
Speaker 1: the one that kind of turned your world upside down.
Speaker 1: It's very intense. Is usually pretty toxic.
Speaker 2: I was going to say, is the word you're looking for. Toxic?
Speaker 1: Is very toxic. We see all of our insecurities through
Speaker 1: that person. There's a lot of jealousy, fear, self doubt,
Speaker 1: abandonment issues come to the surface, and it can really
Speaker 1: leave you with massive highs and extreme lows.
Speaker 2: This one is obviously like a roller coaster. You're going
Speaker 2: through all these different kinds of emotions and will end
Speaker 2: in heartbreak and with one or not both of you
Speaker 2: getting heartbroken and having quite a messy breakup. So yeah,
Speaker 2: but we go through these two relationships. I feel if
Speaker 2: this theory is true, so we can grow and develop
Speaker 2: as a human and come full into ourselves and realize
Speaker 2: what we do and don't look for in a relationship,
Speaker 2: which then we go into the third one, which.
Speaker 1: Is unconditional love. So yeah, after our puppy love and
Speaker 1: our intense love, we've evolved, we know exactly what we want,
Speaker 1: what we absolutely don't want, and we get to our
Speaker 1: final love. Also, the theory goes, which is our unconditional love.
Speaker 1: So we've finally recovered from that heartbreak from our intense love.
Speaker 1: And I think this love just comes at you left field.
Speaker 1: You're not looking for it, it comes out of nowhere.
Speaker 2: So Anna, if this theory is true, and I know
Speaker 2: you quite well, You've had one love which I would
Speaker 2: say was like your six year old yeah, and was
Speaker 2: your first love.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Then you had another boyfriend, which you go on record
Speaker 2: for saying was an intense love and quite toxic Josh.
Speaker 1: Yes.
Speaker 2: And then you have a boyfriend which you alluded to
Speaker 2: at the start of this episode as your third one.
Speaker 2: So if the big fella's listening, Oh, you threw me
Speaker 2: under the last time, I'm saying, is this the one?
Speaker 2: So now it's my too? Is this the one?
Speaker 1: Look? I don't want to make any huge statements right now,
Speaker 1: but it did really kind of shock me. Like, I
Speaker 1: wasn't expecting it at all. It came from left field.
Speaker 1: It's a really healthy relationship.
Speaker 2: How about you just quote what I said.
Speaker 1: We don't fight. It definitely feels like a safe relationship.
Speaker 1: But is this my unconditional love? I'm not sure, Like hopefully,
Speaker 1: but you never know.
Speaker 2: It's way too early.
Speaker 1: But it's way too early. We've literally been in a
Speaker 1: relationship for about three days.
Speaker 2: It's longer than twelve hours long.
Speaker 1: It's longer than our twelve hour stint. So we're getting somewhere.
Speaker 1: But yeah, I mean, unconditional love is supposedly your third
Speaker 1: and final life, and that's your forever love.
Speaker 2: So on saying that, hopefully my next girlfriend is mine
Speaker 2: forever one.
Speaker 1: Maybe the girl who you went on a magical first
Speaker 1: date with is your unconditional love.
Speaker 2: I could see that.
Speaker 1: But I mean, I've spoken to heaps of people, like
Speaker 1: I've spoken to my parents about this. My dad and
Speaker 1: my mum both reckon that they've had their three main
Speaker 1: loves in their life.
Speaker 2: Well that's it. You have other partners in there, but
Speaker 2: there's the three that you get so infatuated with and
Speaker 2: so intensely in love with. So that's what we're saying
Speaker 2: with these three.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I think if you look at your relationship history,
Speaker 1: you can normally peak which one's a puppy love, which
Speaker 1: one was your intense love, and then unconditional love if
Speaker 1: you've gotten to that stat to find one. Yeah, if
Speaker 1: you're lucky enough to find one. But yeah, a lot
Speaker 1: of people believe in this theory, including me. I definitely
Speaker 1: believe in it. And I mean, I think it's cool
Speaker 1: to know that we all have three loves.
Speaker 2: And my parents are the exact same. My mum used
Speaker 2: to always say it to me this series. Yeah, so
Speaker 2: I've got hope that it's true.
Speaker 1: We've all got a bit of her. Okay, guys, this
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Speaker 1: thank you for listening. Until next time, we'll see you later.
Speaker 2: See you guys. Bye,