1 00:00:00,280 --> 00:00:03,200 Speaker 1: This is the Fitting In with Kate Richie podcast. 2 00:00:03,400 --> 00:00:06,720 Speaker 2: This is an unbelievable study that's been done. Research has 3 00:00:06,720 --> 00:00:10,600 Speaker 2: looked at ten point eight million words udded by almost 4 00:00:10,640 --> 00:00:15,080 Speaker 2: seven hundred participants. They recorded themselves having daily conversations, and 5 00:00:15,200 --> 00:00:18,960 Speaker 2: as it turns out, men are more polite than women. 6 00:00:19,960 --> 00:00:22,520 Speaker 3: Couldn't agree more. This is a huge call. I mean, 7 00:00:22,560 --> 00:00:23,720 Speaker 3: how do you determine that? 8 00:00:23,800 --> 00:00:24,320 Speaker 2: Do you know why? 9 00:00:25,079 --> 00:00:25,200 Speaker 4: Oh? 10 00:00:25,520 --> 00:00:28,960 Speaker 3: Women don't like women? Women are nasty to other women. 11 00:00:29,480 --> 00:00:29,680 Speaker 1: Oh? 12 00:00:29,880 --> 00:00:35,360 Speaker 2: Right, as sisterhood can get nasty where guys don't care. Off, 13 00:00:35,720 --> 00:00:37,800 Speaker 2: you were telling me there's three girls in particular at 14 00:00:37,880 --> 00:00:40,640 Speaker 2: sales in Nova that you will not talk to. 15 00:00:41,360 --> 00:00:44,760 Speaker 1: Look, I often came meltressin A's car. But that's a 16 00:00:44,960 --> 00:00:45,720 Speaker 1: whole separate. 17 00:00:45,840 --> 00:00:47,519 Speaker 3: He deserves the issue, you know. 18 00:00:49,120 --> 00:00:52,360 Speaker 4: I thought women's relationships with each other would be way 19 00:00:52,400 --> 00:00:53,640 Speaker 4: more precious than men's. 20 00:00:54,360 --> 00:00:55,480 Speaker 3: Very precious. 21 00:00:55,480 --> 00:00:56,520 Speaker 2: Do you mean sensitive? 22 00:00:57,120 --> 00:01:02,840 Speaker 4: Well, not as stronger. I think the bond would be stronger, 23 00:01:02,840 --> 00:01:03,279 Speaker 4: willn't they? 24 00:01:03,520 --> 00:01:07,160 Speaker 1: Nah? But if I compare like my husband's group chat 25 00:01:07,200 --> 00:01:09,959 Speaker 1: with his mates versus the group chat I have with 26 00:01:10,040 --> 00:01:15,200 Speaker 1: my girlfriends, the guys are brutal to each Other's your friend. 27 00:01:15,080 --> 00:01:18,480 Speaker 3: But that's bad overall. 28 00:01:18,600 --> 00:01:19,800 Speaker 1: We're more polite. 29 00:01:20,520 --> 00:01:22,280 Speaker 3: That's form. That's a form of love. 30 00:01:23,080 --> 00:01:25,520 Speaker 4: Ash Well, that's what you've got to understand. The more 31 00:01:25,560 --> 00:01:27,319 Speaker 4: that you get stuck into a mate, the more that 32 00:01:27,360 --> 00:01:28,000 Speaker 4: you love them. 33 00:01:28,040 --> 00:01:29,080 Speaker 3: He's a bit of a breakdown. 34 00:01:29,080 --> 00:01:33,360 Speaker 2: And the study you've handed me, Tom the team analyzed 35 00:01:33,480 --> 00:01:37,200 Speaker 2: which sex express their kindness more through words, such as 36 00:01:37,280 --> 00:01:39,759 Speaker 2: using words like mate and powell and love and pet 37 00:01:40,640 --> 00:01:43,160 Speaker 2: and the findings found that men say made approximately seven 38 00:01:43,200 --> 00:01:47,120 Speaker 2: hundred times in one million words. However, women on this 39 00:01:47,360 --> 00:01:51,800 Speaker 2: one hundred and twenty No, of course blogs say mate 40 00:01:51,880 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 2: a lot more than women. 41 00:01:53,040 --> 00:01:56,720 Speaker 3: Oh, naturally, is it is? Is? 42 00:01:56,720 --> 00:02:00,560 Speaker 4: Is mate more uniquely Australian than any other country in 43 00:02:00,600 --> 00:02:01,000 Speaker 4: the world. 44 00:02:02,440 --> 00:02:05,600 Speaker 3: The UK say mate a lot. The US do it too. 45 00:02:05,760 --> 00:02:06,800 Speaker 2: You hear it every now and then. 46 00:02:07,520 --> 00:02:10,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, but I don't think they like the word mate. 47 00:02:10,440 --> 00:02:12,720 Speaker 3: They don't use mate too much in the US. 48 00:02:13,680 --> 00:02:16,480 Speaker 1: Do you think if I throughout mate it would sound condescending? 49 00:02:17,080 --> 00:02:19,799 Speaker 2: All girls refer to Tommy as mate. I've noticed that. 50 00:02:21,320 --> 00:02:23,919 Speaker 3: To me from a girl is. 51 00:02:25,480 --> 00:02:26,320 Speaker 2: A clear line. 52 00:02:26,400 --> 00:02:28,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, very much friend zoned there. 53 00:02:28,760 --> 00:02:30,440 Speaker 2: Even if you're not looking to. 54 00:02:30,400 --> 00:02:34,880 Speaker 3: It, of course he is. Yeah, but BJ says it 55 00:02:34,880 --> 00:02:36,840 Speaker 3: to me condescending when she goes. 56 00:02:36,680 --> 00:02:43,079 Speaker 4: All right, mate, okay, well you didn't like dinner, ik mate. 57 00:02:41,520 --> 00:02:43,560 Speaker 2: Tommy, your wife says it to you a bit. Yeah, 58 00:02:43,680 --> 00:02:46,600 Speaker 2: okay mate, see you later, buddy. 59 00:02:46,680 --> 00:02:48,720 Speaker 3: You know that kind of stuff. It's a kick in 60 00:02:48,760 --> 00:02:49,320 Speaker 3: the pants. 61 00:02:49,720 --> 00:02:50,720 Speaker 2: If Lisa calls me. 62 00:02:50,720 --> 00:02:57,640 Speaker 3: Mate, he says to Tommy in the bedroom world unhamp but. 63 00:02:57,760 --> 00:03:00,000 Speaker 2: On Tiger still got his. 64 00:03:01,520 --> 00:03:05,000 Speaker 4: You guys have me a field day on me today. 65 00:03:05,160 --> 00:03:11,280 Speaker 3: Sorry, Tom? All right mate? What about pos It's my 66 00:03:11,360 --> 00:03:12,239 Speaker 3: favorite Dogford. 67 00:03:13,320 --> 00:03:15,320 Speaker 2: What about when people don't know your name and you 68 00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:22,160 Speaker 2: just hear them say there is no good stranger? 69 00:03:22,240 --> 00:03:27,000 Speaker 3: What happens? There is someone named there is someone has 70 00:03:27,040 --> 00:03:28,160 Speaker 3: the name there doesn't. 71 00:03:27,880 --> 00:03:28,640 Speaker 2: Make any sense? 72 00:03:28,960 --> 00:03:30,679 Speaker 3: There is doesn't make sense, mate. 73 00:03:30,760 --> 00:03:31,799 Speaker 1: It's Whipper with Kate. 74 00:03:31,880 --> 00:03:35,000 Speaker 2: Ritchie is a Nova podcast walk great shows like this. 75 00:03:35,320 --> 00:03:38,840 Speaker 2: Download the Nova player, fire, the app Store, or Google Playing.