1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:03,120 Speaker 1: This is the fitting in with her with Cake Richie podcast. 2 00:00:03,320 --> 00:00:07,280 Speaker 2: Let's talk about broken heart syndrome. Do you believe in? 3 00:00:07,760 --> 00:00:08,520 Speaker 2: Do you believe in? 4 00:00:08,560 --> 00:00:12,000 Speaker 3: This is true because they're doing trials at the moment 5 00:00:12,039 --> 00:00:15,400 Speaker 3: researchers at Aberdeen University seventy six patients who have been 6 00:00:15,440 --> 00:00:18,480 Speaker 3: diagnosed with broken heart syndrome that you know what, they've 7 00:00:18,520 --> 00:00:21,159 Speaker 3: lost someone very very close in their lives, and you 8 00:00:21,200 --> 00:00:24,280 Speaker 3: know what, it's yet another story with promoting the benefits 9 00:00:24,280 --> 00:00:25,000 Speaker 3: of exercise. 10 00:00:25,360 --> 00:00:26,080 Speaker 2: Because do you. 11 00:00:26,079 --> 00:00:29,400 Speaker 1: Mean are we talking about a broken heart from love 12 00:00:29,520 --> 00:00:31,480 Speaker 1: or we talking about grief from death? 13 00:00:31,920 --> 00:00:34,000 Speaker 2: It could be love, it could be death. 14 00:00:34,240 --> 00:00:37,520 Speaker 3: I would say mainly a majority of it would be 15 00:00:38,080 --> 00:00:43,080 Speaker 3: grief from death. Okay, Because you know Shnado o' connor 16 00:00:43,120 --> 00:00:46,400 Speaker 3: is a perfect example. She passed away eighteen months after 17 00:00:46,440 --> 00:00:49,240 Speaker 3: the suicide of her seventeen year old son Shane. 18 00:00:49,560 --> 00:00:51,400 Speaker 2: She died of natural causes. 19 00:00:52,760 --> 00:00:56,280 Speaker 3: So how do you explain that that's Shnado O'Connor. Johnny 20 00:00:56,360 --> 00:00:59,040 Speaker 3: Cash suffered the same fate in two thousand and three, 21 00:00:59,080 --> 00:01:02,000 Speaker 3: when the singer's health decline following the death of his 22 00:01:02,040 --> 00:01:04,080 Speaker 3: wife June four months earlier. 23 00:01:04,160 --> 00:01:07,440 Speaker 1: I think that's different. I think that's when you mentally 24 00:01:07,480 --> 00:01:09,679 Speaker 1: switch off. And you see that in. 25 00:01:09,720 --> 00:01:11,000 Speaker 2: A broken heart syndrome. 26 00:01:11,040 --> 00:01:12,680 Speaker 1: Is that what they're calling broken heart. 27 00:01:12,720 --> 00:01:14,200 Speaker 2: That's broken out syndrome. 28 00:01:14,240 --> 00:01:17,280 Speaker 1: It's quite beautiful in a sense. It happened to a 29 00:01:17,319 --> 00:01:20,920 Speaker 1: friend of mine and her grandfather passed away, and three 30 00:01:20,959 --> 00:01:24,920 Speaker 1: weeks later grandma just decided that's it. She switched off 31 00:01:24,920 --> 00:01:27,400 Speaker 1: her will to live and she died as well. 32 00:01:27,600 --> 00:01:31,199 Speaker 3: Well, there's some amazing stories. I mean, one guy wrote, 33 00:01:31,400 --> 00:01:34,840 Speaker 3: we were always told my grandfather died of a broken heart. 34 00:01:34,880 --> 00:01:37,640 Speaker 3: He died on Valentine's Day after his wife had died 35 00:01:37,680 --> 00:01:41,760 Speaker 3: the previous September. Married for forty years, that's the day 36 00:01:41,880 --> 00:01:43,759 Speaker 3: he would have been doing it tough that day. 37 00:01:44,080 --> 00:01:46,960 Speaker 2: Died of natural causes. How's this one? 38 00:01:47,080 --> 00:01:50,880 Speaker 3: My great aunt Annie and her coal miner husband Parley 39 00:01:50,960 --> 00:01:54,240 Speaker 3: were married for fifty years. They had fourteen children together 40 00:01:54,280 --> 00:01:58,240 Speaker 3: and countless grandchildren. Parley was a heavy smoker and drinker 41 00:01:58,280 --> 00:02:01,680 Speaker 3: and died suddenly at the age of seven. They held 42 00:02:01,720 --> 00:02:04,600 Speaker 3: the funeral on hundreds attended at the wake that evening 43 00:02:04,720 --> 00:02:07,760 Speaker 3: at their home in Westport, New Zealand, and he went 44 00:02:07,760 --> 00:02:10,280 Speaker 3: to bed and was dead two hours later, leaving a 45 00:02:10,320 --> 00:02:13,120 Speaker 3: note that she said she could not live without Parley died. 46 00:02:12,960 --> 00:02:16,720 Speaker 2: Of natural causes. God, that's broken hearts. That's broken heart 47 00:02:16,840 --> 00:02:17,320 Speaker 2: right there. 48 00:02:17,760 --> 00:02:19,519 Speaker 1: Because you know, if you've ever been through a bad 49 00:02:19,600 --> 00:02:22,560 Speaker 1: breakup with a loved one, you can actually feel pain 50 00:02:22,639 --> 00:02:23,680 Speaker 1: in your chest. 51 00:02:23,600 --> 00:02:25,240 Speaker 2: Well, pain in your heart. 52 00:02:25,760 --> 00:02:30,160 Speaker 3: They say that people think that they're having a heart attack. 53 00:02:30,320 --> 00:02:33,519 Speaker 1: Yep, I bet, and you think, why is this hurting 54 00:02:33,600 --> 00:02:36,080 Speaker 1: so much? And it's broken heart syndrome. 55 00:02:36,280 --> 00:02:38,760 Speaker 3: Well it's It's the same as love. I mean, if 56 00:02:38,840 --> 00:02:41,160 Speaker 3: you're in love with someone and they leave you or 57 00:02:41,160 --> 00:02:43,720 Speaker 3: they fall in out of love of you, that you do, 58 00:02:43,800 --> 00:02:46,080 Speaker 3: you get, you get that real pain in your chest. 59 00:02:46,440 --> 00:02:49,079 Speaker 2: It's the cost of love. Iok. 60 00:02:49,320 --> 00:02:52,160 Speaker 3: I remember last week, you know, Maddie's thirtieth last week, 61 00:02:52,160 --> 00:02:54,400 Speaker 3: and the doughnuts came in and then someone took them 62 00:02:54,440 --> 00:02:56,600 Speaker 3: out and I could see I thought you were having 63 00:02:56,600 --> 00:02:57,200 Speaker 3: a heart attack. 64 00:02:57,240 --> 00:02:59,359 Speaker 2: Whip. Yeah, well I'd had three. It was that broken heart. 65 00:02:59,400 --> 00:03:00,440 Speaker 2: That was broken heart. 66 00:03:00,520 --> 00:03:04,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's often caused by lack of donuts. Katrina 67 00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:07,160 Speaker 1: and winsor hello Hello. How do you know someone that 68 00:03:07,280 --> 00:03:08,480 Speaker 1: died of a broken heart? 69 00:03:09,280 --> 00:03:14,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, my great unwors my great uncle. He was arranged 70 00:03:14,520 --> 00:03:19,000 Speaker 4: marriage from seventeen to his wife and she died and 71 00:03:19,200 --> 00:03:22,560 Speaker 4: two weeks later he died natural bauses broken heart. 72 00:03:22,960 --> 00:03:24,760 Speaker 1: How old were they Katrina. 73 00:03:25,480 --> 00:03:28,320 Speaker 4: Well he he was actually in his book. He was 74 00:03:28,360 --> 00:03:32,280 Speaker 4: younger than her, so he was in his plate l right, 75 00:03:33,200 --> 00:03:35,880 Speaker 4: But yeah, no, he just didn't want to be about 76 00:03:35,920 --> 00:03:36,800 Speaker 4: it like you. 77 00:03:36,760 --> 00:03:37,200 Speaker 2: Want it to. 78 00:03:38,080 --> 00:03:40,600 Speaker 3: I'm just saying that when you go to bed that night, 79 00:03:40,800 --> 00:03:43,440 Speaker 3: it's like, you know, when Parley passed away and we're 80 00:03:43,480 --> 00:03:46,680 Speaker 3: talking about Aunt Annie. You know, after the wake of 81 00:03:46,720 --> 00:03:49,000 Speaker 3: the funeral, does she go to bed and go I just, 82 00:03:49,720 --> 00:03:52,280 Speaker 3: I just I'm going to dream of him tonight. But 83 00:03:52,320 --> 00:03:54,400 Speaker 3: I can't do this anymore, don't want to do it anymore. 84 00:03:54,440 --> 00:03:56,920 Speaker 3: How does the body just then go because you mentally 85 00:03:56,960 --> 00:03:58,720 Speaker 3: switch off? You've done your done? 86 00:03:58,720 --> 00:03:59,000 Speaker 2: Annie? 87 00:03:59,200 --> 00:04:03,160 Speaker 1: The him is massive, But that's why I mean you 88 00:04:03,160 --> 00:04:06,480 Speaker 1: He occasionally hear a story of this where it comes up, 89 00:04:06,520 --> 00:04:08,320 Speaker 1: but I reckon we'll start to hear more and more 90 00:04:08,320 --> 00:04:11,320 Speaker 1: of them fits where it's a youth and as asia 91 00:04:11,360 --> 00:04:14,680 Speaker 1: decision and you lie next to your loved one. 92 00:04:15,000 --> 00:04:18,440 Speaker 2: What a little tube running into the vein, just hard wire. 93 00:04:18,160 --> 00:04:21,400 Speaker 1: It hit the button and we both fall asleep, beautifully, 94 00:04:21,440 --> 00:04:24,200 Speaker 1: holding hands together. So I'd like to go with you, Tom. 95 00:04:24,200 --> 00:04:25,840 Speaker 2: Very Romeo isn't it. 96 00:04:26,120 --> 00:04:29,680 Speaker 3: That's what Romeo didn't He just he couldn't bear it 97 00:04:29,720 --> 00:04:33,960 Speaker 3: anymore with Juliet and the bloody Montacus and the Capulets 98 00:04:33,960 --> 00:04:34,360 Speaker 3: are in the. 99 00:04:34,279 --> 00:04:38,960 Speaker 2: Background and having a crack killed Juliet. No, I know, 100 00:04:39,040 --> 00:04:41,880 Speaker 2: he no, he did, didn't he know. They both took 101 00:04:42,279 --> 00:04:43,320 Speaker 2: they both took the pill. 102 00:04:43,400 --> 00:04:48,599 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, but then she woke up, yeah, and she 103 00:04:48,640 --> 00:04:50,839 Speaker 3: went anyway, that's. 104 00:04:50,680 --> 00:04:51,680 Speaker 2: Right, and he. 105 00:04:53,720 --> 00:04:56,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's It's a huge mistake that one, isn't it. 106 00:04:57,120 --> 00:04:59,880 Speaker 1: Wake up your turkey not to ruin the end of 107 00:05:00,080 --> 00:05:02,440 Speaker 1: of Romeo and Juliet For anyone who has this is 108 00:05:02,480 --> 00:05:05,120 Speaker 1: what it sounds like when doves cry. Absolutely sits in 109 00:05:05,120 --> 00:05:08,080 Speaker 1: Whipper with Kate Ritchie is a Nova podcast to walk 110 00:05:08,080 --> 00:05:11,320 Speaker 1: great shows like this. 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