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Hotline, 0:00:32.840 --> 0:00:35.360 our weekly show where we catch up with each other 0:00:35.520 --> 0:00:38.360 and connect with you all on our hotline voicemail. 0:00:38.479 --> 0:00:40.319 We want to hear from you, guys, so please send 0:00:40.400 --> 0:00:43.639 your stories, questions, advice or tea to Where's Your Head 0:00:43.640 --> 0:00:46.320 at pod at gmail dot com to be featured on 0:00:46.320 --> 0:00:47.239 one of our episodes. 0:00:47.360 --> 0:00:55.160 I'm Anna and I'm Matt. Let's jump in. Good morning, 0:00:55.200 --> 0:00:57.000 Good morning, Good morning Anna. 0:00:57.080 --> 0:00:58.080 Welcome to the studio. 0:00:58.400 --> 0:01:02.440 It maid another pub past. Do you know what it 0:01:02.600 --> 0:01:04.560 is so dark at the moment when you wake up, 0:01:04.720 --> 0:01:08.240 Like I was up at six o'clock, it was dark, 0:01:08.520 --> 0:01:10.240 seven o'clock, it was dark. I was leaving the house 0:01:10.280 --> 0:01:12.920 at eight o'clock and it was still dark. I don't 0:01:12.959 --> 0:01:15.280 know if it was just because it was floggy this morning, 0:01:15.720 --> 0:01:18.560 but it's just gross. I'm over it, Like, get me 0:01:18.600 --> 0:01:19.120 out of here. 0:01:19.200 --> 0:01:21.000 It's a gloomy day as well with the rain, so 0:01:21.040 --> 0:01:22.560 it makes it look a lot darker. I thought the 0:01:22.600 --> 0:01:24.880 exact same thing. I was up at our six thirty seven. 0:01:25.000 --> 0:01:27.760 I was like, fuck, it's still dark. Yeah, I'm not 0:01:27.800 --> 0:01:31.319 going to lie. I've stopped training in the mornings. Yeah, yeah, 0:01:31.360 --> 0:01:33.880 just because I was setting my alarm for like five 0:01:34.040 --> 0:01:38.839 forty five, snoozing it. Yeah, snoozing it. It's too cold, 0:01:39.160 --> 0:01:41.200 it's raining, And I was like, why do that when 0:01:41.200 --> 0:01:43.040 I could get an extra half a sleep? 0:01:43.200 --> 0:01:45.200 I know? Do you know? What the thing is is like, 0:01:45.680 --> 0:01:48.280 I'm we both are trying to live like very mindful, 0:01:48.400 --> 0:01:51.080 healthy lives, right, ye. On one side of the spectrum 0:01:51.080 --> 0:01:53.280 they say get nine hours of sleep, eight to nine 0:01:53.280 --> 0:01:55.840 hours of sleep, And on the other side of the spectrum, 0:01:55.880 --> 0:01:58.440 they're like, start your day with the morning walk, right, 0:01:58.720 --> 0:02:00.520 And I'm like, which one is more important? 0:02:00.720 --> 0:02:02.520 Well, you look at someone like yeah, you look at 0:02:02.520 --> 0:02:04.960 someone like the rock who gets up at four am. 0:02:05.240 --> 0:02:08.320 It's bed at like ten, how's he even functioning? 0:02:08.760 --> 0:02:10.240 Yeah, it's a lot. 0:02:10.400 --> 0:02:12.200 Yeah, I don't know. I couldn't do it. Like and 0:02:12.240 --> 0:02:14.200 then it's like you need your hours sleep to sleep 0:02:14.240 --> 0:02:16.160 to stay healthy. But then you like got a train 0:02:16.240 --> 0:02:18.320 and I reckon the first one up is the one 0:02:18.320 --> 0:02:22.799 that gets the worm. We're just so well, I've made 0:02:22.840 --> 0:02:25.960 an executive decision. I'm not even setting an alarm because. 0:02:26.520 --> 0:02:28.519 Oh wow, that's it's not worth it. 0:02:28.560 --> 0:02:31.239 I could get an extra half an hour solid sleep. 0:02:31.200 --> 0:02:34.160 It's okay. So you're choosing sleep every morning? Walk? Yeah, 0:02:34.200 --> 0:02:36.040 your so might at the moment. But I'm ready to 0:02:36.080 --> 0:02:39.040 like break that pattern. Obviously. I'm going to Greece very 0:02:39.120 --> 0:02:42.160 very soon, and I'm so excited. And you know, when 0:02:42.200 --> 0:02:45.160 it's summer, you just want to get up earlier, right 0:02:45.280 --> 0:02:47.840 like at six o'clock, and you're like, let's seize the day. 0:02:48.000 --> 0:02:51.080 Birds are chirping, the sun's out, suns out. Don't want 0:02:51.080 --> 0:02:53.520 to burn daylight. So you're like, let's go, let's do it. 0:02:53.840 --> 0:02:57.360 That's it. Are you planning any holidays recently? Because you 0:02:57.400 --> 0:03:00.480 have been talking about it. You spoke about you, I say, 0:03:00.560 --> 0:03:03.000 then you kind of bin that idea. Where's your header? 0:03:03.520 --> 0:03:06.079 Oh jeez, I don't. I don't have anything right now 0:03:06.120 --> 0:03:09.359 in the works, obviously Europe for your wedding next year. 0:03:09.400 --> 0:03:12.040 And then I was thinking about doing like, I know, 0:03:12.560 --> 0:03:15.160 a Kentiki or something like that. There's no shame in 0:03:15.400 --> 0:03:17.760 I know, but my thought pattern is I am not 0:03:17.800 --> 0:03:20.960 the sort of person that's going to organize the bus 0:03:21.120 --> 0:03:23.280 organized flight round. Like I'm not going to do that. 0:03:23.320 --> 0:03:24.960 It's easier for me just to get someone else to 0:03:25.000 --> 0:03:26.360 do it, pay for it, and then you're done. 0:03:26.639 --> 0:03:28.800 I hate to say, but isn't the Kentucky like the 0:03:28.880 --> 0:03:31.120 younger one. Shouldn't you be on bus about? I think 0:03:31.120 --> 0:03:32.799 you've upgrades to bus about. 0:03:35.800 --> 0:03:38.320 Surely I can't be like old couples on a bus. 0:03:38.080 --> 0:03:41.000 About bus about. It's not old couples. Bus About's just 0:03:41.040 --> 0:03:44.240 like when you're like late twenties into thirties. 0:03:44.600 --> 0:03:50.280 So like maybe people have an people might want to 0:03:50.280 --> 0:03:53.960 have an early night one night like you. Now it'll 0:03:53.960 --> 0:03:55.320 film quite well. 0:03:55.200 --> 0:03:57.560 Okay, maybe I'll look into that. Then I just assume KENTI. 0:03:58.840 --> 0:04:01.000 I mean, it probably is, but I'm pretty sure like 0:04:01.280 --> 0:04:03.960 Kentucky is more for like the eighteen to like twenty 0:04:04.040 --> 0:04:04.640 five year olds. 0:04:04.760 --> 0:04:06.480 Imagine if I booked a Kentucky and I was with 0:04:06.520 --> 0:04:08.520 all the eighteen twenty five year olds. 0:04:09.920 --> 0:04:12.520 Who are you thinking of doing a Kentiki or maybe 0:04:12.560 --> 0:04:14.480 bus about? Now that I've explained to. 0:04:14.480 --> 0:04:18.960 You the age age limits aka pass is like a teenager? 0:04:19.080 --> 0:04:22.839 Sure you not a changing a twenty one year old? Nah? 0:04:26.000 --> 0:04:29.320 Well, maybe get that moisturized of anti aging. 0:04:30.160 --> 0:04:31.680 I was going to do it with our producer Amber, 0:04:31.800 --> 0:04:34.200 so I spoke to her. She hasn't done. She hasn't 0:04:34.240 --> 0:04:37.080 done Europe the same as I have either. I've only 0:04:37.120 --> 0:04:39.880 gone over there to work, so I've never done like 0:04:40.000 --> 0:04:41.479 the whole traveling bit of it. So I want to 0:04:41.480 --> 0:04:42.120 do that this time. 0:04:42.200 --> 0:04:43.240 So where's your hit list? 0:04:43.400 --> 0:04:43.440 Like? 0:04:43.480 --> 0:04:45.480 Where do you need to see to feel like you've 0:04:45.520 --> 0:04:47.680 kind of conquered the europe triop attack? 0:04:47.839 --> 0:04:49.640 Well, it's easy to hit where I have done. So 0:04:49.720 --> 0:04:52.839 I obviously lived in Milan and I did. I got 0:04:53.000 --> 0:04:55.040 flown down for a fashion show in Florence, So I've 0:04:55.040 --> 0:05:00.200 done Florence. Beautiful, done Lake Homer done Venice. Me and 0:05:00.240 --> 0:05:02.599 Lacko got driven by these two Italian girls to Venice. 0:05:02.600 --> 0:05:03.360 That was a good day. 0:05:03.240 --> 0:05:08.040 Out, living young and free. 0:05:08.240 --> 0:05:12.320 Yeah, well else was there? I did Rome? So my 0:05:12.360 --> 0:05:15.479 sister was doing a Kentucky and then my landlords of 0:05:15.520 --> 0:05:18.120 the apartment I was staying in, had a house in Rome, 0:05:18.480 --> 0:05:20.680 so I flew down to Rome with them, Yeah, and 0:05:20.760 --> 0:05:24.159 just went on Lara's Crash. Lara's Kentucky was she like, 0:05:25.000 --> 0:05:26.680 she loved it. I did the color scene with him. 0:05:26.680 --> 0:05:29.479 The head of the Kentucky was more like piss off 0:05:29.560 --> 0:05:31.640 like because I was like everywhere, like on the bustard. 0:05:31.279 --> 0:05:35.960 Man, like you've not paid, what are you doing here 0:05:36.000 --> 0:05:36.920 and there? Like? 0:05:38.520 --> 0:05:41.359 And then I've done obviously all of you, all of England. 0:05:41.760 --> 0:05:43.880 So I want to do I want to go to Ireland. 0:05:43.839 --> 0:05:46.440 Paris, Paris, Paris, sane. 0:05:47.640 --> 0:05:49.360 I want to do it all. Yeah. Yeah, I also 0:05:49.400 --> 0:05:50.760 want to do like, I want to go back. I 0:05:50.760 --> 0:05:53.160 want to go to Poland. I'm obviously got Polish heritage 0:05:53.160 --> 0:05:54.960 in me, so I want to go there and do 0:05:55.120 --> 0:05:59.360 I don't know how to pronounce it out switch out 0:05:59.360 --> 0:06:01.440 switch yea. I want I'd love to do that. Yeah. 0:06:01.440 --> 0:06:03.040 I heard that's very very. 0:06:02.880 --> 0:06:04.280 Good, it's very sad. 0:06:05.600 --> 0:06:07.920 Yeah, I want to do that. Yeah. I just want 0:06:07.920 --> 0:06:09.560 to do all the I want to have a German 0:06:09.560 --> 0:06:16.440 beer in a German Uh, what's it called Snitchel in Germany. 0:06:16.560 --> 0:06:18.080 So I want to hit a lot of places and 0:06:18.080 --> 0:06:19.000 get them done. 0:06:19.160 --> 0:06:21.919 I'd love to do october Fest. That's definitely been on 0:06:21.960 --> 0:06:23.039 my bucket list for a while. 0:06:23.120 --> 0:06:25.359 But like, is there one in Melbourne? 0:06:25.600 --> 0:06:27.760 Yeah, exactly the same, but maybe we should do that 0:06:27.839 --> 0:06:28.279 this year. 0:06:28.440 --> 0:06:29.000 It'd be fine. 0:06:29.279 --> 0:06:30.200 That would be fun. 0:06:30.279 --> 0:06:31.000 That would be fun. 0:06:31.120 --> 0:06:32.039 That would be very fun. 0:06:32.120 --> 0:06:35.840 Drinking the Leader pints or I think they're more than that. 0:06:36.000 --> 0:06:37.599 Actually not could for. 0:06:37.680 --> 0:06:42.440 Your no drinking. Well, speaking of Europe, I have just 0:06:42.760 --> 0:06:47.000 booked all of my internal flights because as up until 0:06:47.040 --> 0:06:50.080 like a couple of weeks ago, I just got like 0:06:50.200 --> 0:06:53.440 a flight into Athens and a flight out from Athens, 0:06:53.520 --> 0:06:56.200 and nothing was kind of booked in between, like we 0:06:56.279 --> 0:06:57.919 kind of knew where we were going. 0:06:58.080 --> 0:07:00.320 That's what I couldn't do. I couldn't. I just don't. 0:07:00.760 --> 0:07:03.159 That gives me anxiety booking all that sort of stuff. 0:07:03.560 --> 0:07:04.680 Like is it pretty easy? 0:07:04.760 --> 0:07:08.200 It's very easy. Yeah. So we ended up kind of 0:07:08.240 --> 0:07:11.000 like mapping out our trip. So we're going to start 0:07:11.520 --> 0:07:13.720 with Athens because we'll fly in there, then we'll go 0:07:13.800 --> 0:07:18.360 to Corfu spend six days at our wedding venue. So 0:07:18.400 --> 0:07:21.360 we're actually sleeping there that's cool. How cool is that? 0:07:21.560 --> 0:07:23.480 Really? Six days is long? Though? What are you doing 0:07:23.560 --> 0:07:24.720 like fully sussing it out? 0:07:25.120 --> 0:07:27.120 Yeah, so we're doing like a full sus Like we're 0:07:27.120 --> 0:07:30.120 going to do like testing of the menus, so like 0:07:30.200 --> 0:07:32.440 all of the stuff that people do like cake testing, 0:07:32.520 --> 0:07:35.000 food testing, and might do a makeup trial. 0:07:35.520 --> 0:07:37.000 Makeup artists from. 0:07:36.920 --> 0:07:39.480 I don't know. Yeah, that's a whole different like fucking 0:07:39.520 --> 0:07:41.920 kettle because I'm very concerned. 0:07:41.600 --> 0:07:44.640 About a wedding in Hamilton Island and they can't bring 0:07:44.640 --> 0:07:46.320 anyone else then who's on the island. 0:07:46.480 --> 0:07:49.360 This is gens nikki. Yeah, that's true. 0:07:50.000 --> 0:07:51.640 Yeah, very strict. 0:07:51.800 --> 0:07:55.200 Yeah, so we're going to meet all the vendors and like, yeah, 0:07:55.360 --> 0:07:57.920 like really suss the wedding. So we've kind of in 0:07:58.000 --> 0:08:00.600 the lead up to going away, we've kind of been 0:08:01.040 --> 0:08:04.440 obviously talking to the lady who owns the estate which 0:08:04.440 --> 0:08:07.360 we're getting married in, and we've been setting up meetings 0:08:07.360 --> 0:08:09.960 with all the vendors. So it's kind of like I'm 0:08:10.000 --> 0:08:11.800 not going to say working trip because it's definitely not 0:08:11.880 --> 0:08:14.880 a working trip, but like we will be like doing 0:08:15.280 --> 0:08:17.200 wedding stuff essentially. 0:08:16.840 --> 0:08:19.120 What would you call that organizing? 0:08:19.640 --> 0:08:25.600 Organizing with a cocktail and hand in Greece pleasure. 0:08:25.880 --> 0:08:28.960 Yes, yeah, you could ask for worse things. I actually, 0:08:29.040 --> 0:08:31.440 some girl likes my photo and I just clicked on 0:08:31.480 --> 0:08:34.000 her name and I saw her highlights and one of 0:08:34.000 --> 0:08:36.240 her most recent highlights was in core flu. 0:08:36.200 --> 0:08:39.720 Of course flu. I don't want to get the flu there. 0:08:39.800 --> 0:08:41.280 Yeah, I don't want to get that there. But I 0:08:41.280 --> 0:08:43.640 clicked on it and I went through it and it 0:08:43.640 --> 0:08:45.800 looks amazing, Yeah, incredibly. 0:08:46.200 --> 0:08:48.920 Yeah, it's all Venetian like, it's very Italian. 0:08:49.120 --> 0:08:51.160 It did look Italian, yeah, yeah, So. 0:08:51.200 --> 0:08:53.800 It's got a lot of Italian like inspo, and it's 0:08:53.840 --> 0:08:57.920 just gorgeous, beautiful beaches. Actually, I don't know if I've 0:08:57.920 --> 0:08:59.559 spoke about this on the podcast, I could have said 0:08:59.600 --> 0:09:01.280 it before. I'm going to resay it just in case 0:09:01.280 --> 0:09:03.400 I haven't. Actually, I don't think I have. There's this 0:09:03.480 --> 0:09:06.320 like cove in Corfu, and they say that if you 0:09:06.400 --> 0:09:10.560 swim there with someone and kiss in this like beach cove, 0:09:10.840 --> 0:09:12.720 that you'll be together forever. So be careful. 0:09:12.720 --> 0:09:15.960 Who in Corfu I did see. I did see a 0:09:15.960 --> 0:09:17.760 really nice cove. It was is it under the oat 0:09:17.840 --> 0:09:20.080 like you swim under it? That was in the highlight. 0:09:20.120 --> 0:09:22.840 I don't know. There's like sea caves and yeah, it. 0:09:22.840 --> 0:09:25.680 Looks really cool. Yeah, it's like geez, I'm getting excited now. 0:09:26.080 --> 0:09:27.880 Yeah. No, it's going to be incredible. Like I think 0:09:27.880 --> 0:09:29.840 it's just going to be so fun. I just the 0:09:29.880 --> 0:09:31.320 thing about the wedding is I just don't want to 0:09:31.320 --> 0:09:33.360 put too much pressure on myself for it to be 0:09:33.440 --> 0:09:35.520 like perfect. Like I think everyone's going to be there, 0:09:35.559 --> 0:09:37.760 We're all going to have a great time. The one 0:09:37.800 --> 0:09:39.800 thing that I really do want, which is extra, is 0:09:39.840 --> 0:09:42.480 I want fireworks at my wedding, which I don't think 0:09:42.600 --> 0:09:45.720 is like it's extra, but it's not like that extra. 0:09:45.960 --> 0:09:47.760 Have you said this to your wedding planner? 0:09:48.360 --> 0:09:50.480 Yes? I told her. She said that we can't have 0:09:50.520 --> 0:09:52.880 fireworks on the estate, but they can set them off 0:09:52.960 --> 0:09:56.280 from the beach the beach, which is which is yeah, 0:09:56.400 --> 0:10:01.600 that's cool. So I'm like so excited, excit, very excited. 0:10:01.880 --> 0:10:02.760 How was your weekend? 0:10:02.960 --> 0:10:05.920 It was good. I went to the footy obviously I'm 0:10:05.960 --> 0:10:07.960 not a big footy girl and I was born in 0:10:08.000 --> 0:10:12.920 the UK as you know, and no one I always 0:10:12.960 --> 0:10:15.000 just say like whoever you go for, like to anyone 0:10:15.040 --> 0:10:17.400 who I'm with, But yeah, no, I don't really barrack 0:10:17.440 --> 0:10:21.199 for anyone, but my friend Laura works for Channel seven 0:10:21.240 --> 0:10:23.960 and she got us free tickets, so we all went. 0:10:24.520 --> 0:10:25.839 Sounds like a cute date, No. 0:10:25.960 --> 0:10:30.760 It was. It was nice. And he's saying that. 0:10:30.760 --> 0:10:33.480 Because sounds familiar. 0:10:34.640 --> 0:10:40.200 Matt has come with all of us before anyway, from 0:10:40.240 --> 0:10:43.200 the past double dates. Yeah, that was a great That 0:10:43.280 --> 0:10:46.360 was a very fun, very fun day. But yeah, we 0:10:46.440 --> 0:10:52.160 went with her and something interesting caught my attention. I overheard. 0:10:52.600 --> 0:10:55.240 Now I'm conscious of saying this because I do feel 0:10:55.240 --> 0:10:58.360 like the girls who were sitting behind me did recognize me. 0:10:58.800 --> 0:11:01.120 So I'm kind of like a little concerned that they 0:11:01.160 --> 0:11:03.760 listened to this podcast, and if they do, this isn't 0:11:03.800 --> 0:11:06.920 like an attack on them. I just overheard something and 0:11:06.960 --> 0:11:08.880 I wanted to bring it to the table, to the podcast. 0:11:08.920 --> 0:11:12.080 So there was these young girls sitting behind me, probably 0:11:12.120 --> 0:11:15.200 like eighteen, nineteen twenty ish. Yeah, that was kind of 0:11:15.200 --> 0:11:17.200 like the age bracket that I was like feeling like 0:11:17.240 --> 0:11:20.480 they looked like and obviously they were all up and about, 0:11:20.559 --> 0:11:22.719 they were having fun, they were drinking, They're at the 0:11:22.720 --> 0:11:23.480 footy right. 0:11:23.720 --> 0:11:24.680 It's my favorite thing to do. 0:11:25.440 --> 0:11:28.280 The thing that caught my attention in not the most 0:11:28.280 --> 0:11:31.960 positive light, was the fact that they were obviously talking 0:11:31.960 --> 0:11:34.760 about the footy players obviously how hot they were, which 0:11:34.760 --> 0:11:37.199 is fine, but then one of the girls would be like, oh, 0:11:37.240 --> 0:11:41.000 but he's got a wife, and then the girl was like, oh, 0:11:41.040 --> 0:11:43.559 that's okay, Like who cares about the wife? Me and 0:11:43.679 --> 0:11:46.160 him snapchat all the time about one of the footy players, 0:11:47.000 --> 0:11:49.679 and this kind of went on about multiple football players 0:11:49.679 --> 0:11:52.720 on the field. Obviously I'm not like all over the football, 0:11:52.760 --> 0:11:54.640 so like they're saying these names and it's just going 0:11:54.679 --> 0:11:55.839 in one ear and out the other. I don't know 0:11:55.840 --> 0:11:59.240 who these people are, but as a young person, it's 0:11:59.320 --> 0:12:02.760 so easy to go they're married, but I don't care, 0:12:03.080 --> 0:12:06.360 and like I snapchat him all the time. But as 0:12:06.400 --> 0:12:09.240 like a thirty one year old, I'm just like, do better, 0:12:09.600 --> 0:12:11.000 Like you don't. 0:12:10.800 --> 0:12:12.400 Need to stading to this. Do you want to go? 0:12:13.320 --> 0:12:13.880 It's chat? 0:12:14.120 --> 0:12:16.080 I mean, as far as you want to go. How 0:12:16.160 --> 0:12:16.920 what do you mean? 0:12:17.360 --> 0:12:19.960 Yeah, a lot of I know, I think told from 0:12:19.960 --> 0:12:21.960 a lot of people growing up that a lot of 0:12:22.360 --> 0:12:25.240 footy players like, yeah, snapchat and like talk to other 0:12:25.240 --> 0:12:26.360 people when they have partners. 0:12:26.640 --> 0:12:30.040 Yeah, Like I'm not surprised, very common, but like they 0:12:30.080 --> 0:12:32.000 need to do better. But also like, if you know 0:12:32.120 --> 0:12:34.400 someone has a partner, I don't know why on earth 0:12:34.440 --> 0:12:37.000 you would be snapchatting them. I think it it falls 0:12:37.360 --> 0:12:40.679 mostly on the person with a partner, don't get me wrong, 0:12:41.320 --> 0:12:43.840 but the whole like mentality of like, oh he has 0:12:43.880 --> 0:12:44.920 a wife, but who gives. 0:12:44.760 --> 0:12:45.640 A far I hate that. 0:12:45.720 --> 0:12:46.320 I hate that. 0:12:46.559 --> 0:12:47.079 I hate that. 0:12:47.160 --> 0:12:50.400 And for me, like, obviously these girls are like very young, 0:12:50.640 --> 0:12:53.160 very impressionable, like they're trying to figure out who they are, 0:12:53.280 --> 0:12:56.439 and I totally get that and see that. But if 0:12:56.440 --> 0:12:59.240 you're listening to this and you've done that before, this 0:12:59.280 --> 0:13:01.480 is not me having a go with you. It's just saying, like, 0:13:02.400 --> 0:13:06.880 have some respect for yourself and like also for other people, 0:13:06.960 --> 0:13:09.880 because one day you could be in the situation of 0:13:09.880 --> 0:13:12.520 that wife and it's just not a good place to be. 0:13:12.679 --> 0:13:15.840 And like, I fucking hate cheating. I fucking hate cheating, 0:13:16.480 --> 0:13:20.440 And to hear someone just be so blase about that, 0:13:20.559 --> 0:13:22.600 it was just like it just gave me like a 0:13:22.600 --> 0:13:23.600 pit in my stomach. 0:13:23.880 --> 0:13:26.000 It's yeah, I think that, Like it's the guy is 0:13:26.040 --> 0:13:28.160 to blame as well, and he shouldn't be doing that. 0:13:28.200 --> 0:13:30.720 Even if you're on in that sort of arm. 0:13:30.720 --> 0:13:33.640 It's anyone. It doesn't Yeah, what you. 0:13:33.600 --> 0:13:35.920 Do, you shouldn't be doing that, and then like people talk. 0:13:36.000 --> 0:13:38.320 I guess people could. The girls also could be just 0:13:38.880 --> 0:13:41.320 trying to sound cool. They think it's cool, and maybe 0:13:41.320 --> 0:13:43.800 they've snapchatted once before he got a part. I don't know. 0:13:43.880 --> 0:13:47.079 You never know, but if it is true, yeah, I agree. 0:13:47.160 --> 0:13:50.000 Maybe Like this isn't me calling out footy players or 0:13:50.000 --> 0:13:53.040 these girls or anything. It's just like almost like I 0:13:53.040 --> 0:13:54.760 want to bring it to the table to be like, 0:13:55.480 --> 0:13:58.320 think about what you're doing before you do it. Set 0:13:58.400 --> 0:14:01.439 up boundaries, like you know, to be a good person, 0:14:01.640 --> 0:14:04.240 like you need to set up boundaries for yourself. And 0:14:04.320 --> 0:14:06.800 if someone is married, I feel like a boundary, a 0:14:06.880 --> 0:14:10.319 basic boundary should be I'm not gonna snatch ot this person, 0:14:10.360 --> 0:14:13.240 even if he is snapchatting everyone else. Don't be the 0:14:13.280 --> 0:14:15.720 person who's there doing it and being like I don't 0:14:15.720 --> 0:14:18.120 give a fuck about this Camarma as well coma and 0:14:18.160 --> 0:14:21.560 it's such a bad look you will it to be 0:14:21.640 --> 0:14:24.760 flippant about it, to be openly talking about it. It 0:14:24.760 --> 0:14:28.560 doesn't sound good. And I think you know, when you 0:14:28.640 --> 0:14:32.200 hit thirty or whenever it is, there will be a 0:14:32.240 --> 0:14:35.080 day where you'll look back and go I really regret 0:14:35.160 --> 0:14:38.040 doing that. That's so fucked up, because like, these people 0:14:38.080 --> 0:14:42.680 have kids and families and it's just gross. Anyway, these 0:14:42.760 --> 0:14:45.320 girls do listen to the podcast, Like I think that's 0:14:45.320 --> 0:14:47.400 why I'm kind of treading carefully because I don't want 0:14:47.400 --> 0:14:50.880 to make them feel like I'm having a go. But like, also, 0:14:51.760 --> 0:14:52.440 I know. 0:14:52.400 --> 0:14:53.960 A lot of girls. I know a lot of girls 0:14:54.000 --> 0:14:57.080 who would get snapped and message by footy players who 0:14:57.160 --> 0:15:03.040 have partners. Yeah, I've heard about Yeah, Well, on the 0:15:03.040 --> 0:15:06.320 weekend I went, I tracked out, are you like? 0:15:06.400 --> 0:15:08.400 Thanks for asking me about my weekend? 0:15:09.160 --> 0:15:12.720 My weekend I tracked out to the other side of 0:15:13.520 --> 0:15:17.280 Melbourne to wear it tracked. I tracked out to the 0:15:17.280 --> 0:15:20.680 other side of Melbourne where it be so Fair Drive. 0:15:21.000 --> 0:15:24.720 I have had this fifty dollars voucher for were it 0:15:24.800 --> 0:15:30.040 be Pacific for probably three years. It's the shopping center. 0:15:31.480 --> 0:15:33.000 I haven't it's just been sitting in my car. 0:15:33.360 --> 0:15:34.920 I forgot that. 0:15:34.920 --> 0:15:37.240 That's I'm so glad you asked because that is a 0:15:37.280 --> 0:15:42.160 story in itself. So this is funny. So I was, 0:15:42.440 --> 0:15:45.200 I actually was. It was years ago, twenty twenty. I 0:15:45.240 --> 0:15:47.480 reckoncided for my twenty and I was judging a catwalk 0:15:47.560 --> 0:15:51.360 there for these models. Yeah, some years he was doing 0:15:51.840 --> 0:15:55.720 and I was judging the girls walking down and I 0:15:55.760 --> 0:15:58.400 had a dressing room and you had. 0:15:58.200 --> 0:16:03.240 A dressing This is already so wild. 0:16:04.480 --> 0:16:07.080 And the girl I was seeing at the time I 0:16:07.200 --> 0:16:08.520 was having an argument with. 0:16:09.240 --> 0:16:12.040 But the fact that you're judging, you know what. 0:16:12.080 --> 0:16:14.400 God knows what she was fucking arguing with me about 0:16:15.320 --> 0:16:18.240 at that time, or you're arguing with her about, God 0:16:18.360 --> 0:16:21.120 knows what we were arguing about. But I bought her 0:16:21.160 --> 0:16:24.640 flowers to go back to her house and apologize. 0:16:25.520 --> 0:16:26.000 Good for you. 0:16:26.680 --> 0:16:28.560 We have a little bit of an understanding about how 0:16:28.600 --> 0:16:32.600 my brain works. I don't remember everything I do say. 0:16:32.760 --> 0:16:35.600 I've just I'm very scattered. Things are all over the place. 0:16:36.400 --> 0:16:40.880 So in the heat of everything, I've lost the flowers. 0:16:41.320 --> 0:16:44.320 I've lost the flowers I've bought for her. I've gone. 0:16:44.320 --> 0:16:46.200 I've left them right here in my Chaine room, on 0:16:46.240 --> 0:16:48.640 the fucking couch. Where are they? They were right here. 0:16:48.720 --> 0:16:51.360 There's a security guard as you walk back and forth 0:16:51.400 --> 0:16:53.760 like you could, who was manning the door? I was like, 0:16:53.760 --> 0:16:55.920 did you see anyone leave with flowers? I spoke to 0:16:55.960 --> 0:16:58.160 the organizer. I was like, like, I don't know where 0:16:58.200 --> 0:17:00.600 my flowers have gone. Someone's taken them. Can you check 0:17:00.600 --> 0:17:01.120 the cameras. 0:17:01.400 --> 0:17:04.480 It's like, I'm not getting had enough to lose these flowers. 0:17:04.520 --> 0:17:06.719 Like this is what's more about. I need to give 0:17:06.760 --> 0:17:08.600 this girl flowers to like mend this bridge, so my 0:17:08.600 --> 0:17:13.360 life's a lot more cruisier. So I then that's a lot. 0:17:13.640 --> 0:17:15.520 You just said a lot. Well yeah, you know, just 0:17:15.560 --> 0:17:17.320 so we can mend this bridge that my life can 0:17:17.359 --> 0:17:17.880 be cruizy. 0:17:18.160 --> 0:17:20.080 So I can just you know, get over this argument. 0:17:20.480 --> 0:17:23.320 I then go and buy another I'm like, look, where 0:17:23.359 --> 0:17:24.840 have they gone? I'm just going to go get another 0:17:24.920 --> 0:17:28.520 another bunch of flowers, buy another bouquet of flowers, put 0:17:28.560 --> 0:17:30.479 it back in the chaining rooms, everything ending. I end 0:17:30.480 --> 0:17:33.159 the day. I have them in my passenger seat. I 0:17:33.240 --> 0:17:36.120 rock up to the girl's house. I opened, I get 0:17:36.119 --> 0:17:38.000 the flowers, open my boot to grab my bag, and 0:17:38.080 --> 0:17:40.760 you never guess sitting in my boot the flowers the 0:17:40.800 --> 0:17:43.720 first bi bouquet of flowers. 0:17:43.240 --> 0:17:45.440 After everyone was stealing them. 0:17:46.440 --> 0:17:50.000 So I'm like, shit, I've got some apologies tomorrow. 0:17:51.240 --> 0:17:52.600 What do you mean about it? 0:17:52.680 --> 0:17:54.600 I wasn't mean, but I was like, where have they gone? 0:17:54.680 --> 0:17:57.520 Like I was like, I need like where have my flowers. 0:17:57.520 --> 0:17:58.440 I'll go buy a new one, you. 0:17:58.359 --> 0:18:01.280 Know, like how the fun security guards probably like this 0:18:01.320 --> 0:18:03.920 guy is out of his mind. He did not arrive 0:18:03.960 --> 0:18:04.520 with flowers. 0:18:04.680 --> 0:18:06.320 Who's who's left with flowers? And he goes, I don't 0:18:06.320 --> 0:18:09.560 remember anyone leaving with flowers, he said, even you, So 0:18:09.960 --> 0:18:12.439