1 00:00:02,120 --> 00:00:04,960 Speaker 1: And Her with Kate Leni podcast. 2 00:00:05,840 --> 00:00:06,480 Speaker 2: It is the. 3 00:00:06,440 --> 00:00:08,320 Speaker 1: Fitzy Whipper Kate Richie podcast. 4 00:00:08,400 --> 00:00:11,119 Speaker 3: We've kicked Whipper out of the studio Fits because we've 5 00:00:11,119 --> 00:00:13,120 Speaker 3: got someone on the pod today that is really going 6 00:00:13,200 --> 00:00:15,960 Speaker 3: to unpack some pros and cons about him. Do you 7 00:00:16,000 --> 00:00:17,239 Speaker 3: want to tell everyone who it might be? 8 00:00:18,160 --> 00:00:20,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, we have tracked down. I don't know how we 9 00:00:20,239 --> 00:00:22,960 Speaker 4: got this person. Unbelievable. I've been trying for years. But 10 00:00:23,040 --> 00:00:25,840 Speaker 4: there is a woman that lives in the house with him. 11 00:00:25,960 --> 00:00:29,160 Speaker 4: Her name is is it Lena? Lina? 12 00:00:29,720 --> 00:00:34,080 Speaker 3: Lina, Lina, Lena, I don't know whips whipping the word Lena. 13 00:00:33,880 --> 00:00:39,040 Speaker 4: Go, No, it's Lisa's. Well. She's coming in and she's 14 00:00:39,040 --> 00:00:41,760 Speaker 4: going to dissect the relationship that she's having at the 15 00:00:41,760 --> 00:00:43,960 Speaker 4: moment with some guy. I think it's been for around 16 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:48,200 Speaker 4: about fourteen fifteen years, pros cons, what she likes about 17 00:00:48,240 --> 00:00:51,560 Speaker 4: that guy, what she dislikes. Then we make the decision, Jess, 18 00:00:51,680 --> 00:00:53,800 Speaker 4: do you stay with him or do you get rid 19 00:00:53,800 --> 00:00:54,240 Speaker 4: of the pig? 20 00:00:54,800 --> 00:00:57,520 Speaker 3: I mean, surely we don't let them, We don't split 21 00:00:57,560 --> 00:00:57,800 Speaker 3: them up. 22 00:00:57,800 --> 00:00:58,040 Speaker 4: Fits. 23 00:00:58,040 --> 00:01:00,720 Speaker 3: Can you imagine how MOPI he would be if every 24 00:01:00,800 --> 00:01:03,000 Speaker 3: day he came into work and everything wasn't done for him. 25 00:01:03,480 --> 00:01:05,119 Speaker 3: We're better off if she sticks around. 26 00:01:05,560 --> 00:01:09,160 Speaker 4: Well he actually it's funny because he actually hired someone 27 00:01:09,200 --> 00:01:11,160 Speaker 4: to actually do the break for us, for pros and 28 00:01:11,200 --> 00:01:14,240 Speaker 4: cons as well, so you will hear that in the podcast. 29 00:01:14,640 --> 00:01:17,720 Speaker 5: This is the Fits and Whipper with Cape Ritchie podcast. 30 00:01:18,280 --> 00:01:20,679 Speaker 6: Let's talk about this new routine that I've read about Fitz. 31 00:01:20,800 --> 00:01:23,840 Speaker 7: I think there's something in this, like if you need 32 00:01:23,920 --> 00:01:25,760 Speaker 7: bonding time with your loved one and you're trying to 33 00:01:25,800 --> 00:01:29,240 Speaker 7: work out how to structure your evening, it's called the 34 00:01:29,280 --> 00:01:30,280 Speaker 7: three hour night. 35 00:01:31,160 --> 00:01:32,280 Speaker 6: So this is what you should do. 36 00:01:33,040 --> 00:01:35,800 Speaker 7: So you break it into three hours, so you and 37 00:01:35,880 --> 00:01:40,280 Speaker 7: BJ hour one you have productive time. So that's when 38 00:01:40,360 --> 00:01:42,400 Speaker 7: as a couple, you tied up, tidy up everything in 39 00:01:42,440 --> 00:01:42,759 Speaker 7: the house. 40 00:01:42,800 --> 00:01:45,040 Speaker 4: You do all the. 41 00:01:46,400 --> 00:01:50,120 Speaker 6: Tidy, not what he does, leave the cable ties alone. 42 00:01:50,560 --> 00:01:53,080 Speaker 6: You tidy up the house and you do your chores. 43 00:01:53,320 --> 00:01:56,160 Speaker 7: Okay, So like last night, the kids had pulled a 44 00:01:56,200 --> 00:01:59,840 Speaker 7: curtain rod off the curtain in the lounge room and 45 00:02:00,040 --> 00:02:03,160 Speaker 7: on the landrum wall, so I spent my time fixing that. 46 00:02:03,440 --> 00:02:06,320 Speaker 4: Then I'm o CD, so I've got to go check 47 00:02:06,400 --> 00:02:08,440 Speaker 4: every door and window before we go to bed. 48 00:02:08,520 --> 00:02:11,000 Speaker 7: So that's your first hour out of three hour routine. 49 00:02:11,440 --> 00:02:16,160 Speaker 7: The second hour is a phone free slot, so it's 50 00:02:16,240 --> 00:02:19,520 Speaker 7: solely dedicated to each other. So you and BJ might 51 00:02:19,560 --> 00:02:22,040 Speaker 7: play games. You might share a shower. 52 00:02:22,400 --> 00:02:26,040 Speaker 4: Play games for a bit of hopscotch. 53 00:02:26,760 --> 00:02:28,760 Speaker 6: I've just got the chalk out and done something on. 54 00:02:28,760 --> 00:02:32,480 Speaker 4: The football tonight. It's spin the bottom landed on me. 55 00:02:33,680 --> 00:02:35,720 Speaker 6: I'm gonna have to do it again. Sorry, honey. 56 00:02:35,840 --> 00:02:38,120 Speaker 7: Grab a seat in the corner of the room, so 57 00:02:38,320 --> 00:02:42,160 Speaker 7: you know, you might talk and connect fits. You might 58 00:02:42,240 --> 00:02:48,520 Speaker 7: do as they suggest here in your couples hour, you 59 00:02:48,639 --> 00:02:52,080 Speaker 7: might do some slow dancing. Come on, and then the 60 00:02:52,120 --> 00:02:54,320 Speaker 7: third hour, this is the hour I'm looking forward to. 61 00:02:54,800 --> 00:02:58,360 Speaker 7: It's purely for yourself. Do what you want in that 62 00:02:58,480 --> 00:02:59,120 Speaker 7: next hour. 63 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:03,760 Speaker 4: Elf, What that for three hours? That's a lot of 64 00:03:03,960 --> 00:03:07,320 Speaker 4: or what about where is the television time? Where's your 65 00:03:07,320 --> 00:03:08,120 Speaker 4: scrolling time? 66 00:03:08,600 --> 00:03:09,600 Speaker 6: We don't even turn it on. 67 00:03:10,680 --> 00:03:14,200 Speaker 4: Do you remember when Hugh Jackman and Deborah Leefaness said 68 00:03:14,240 --> 00:03:16,639 Speaker 4: that they used to read to each other. That was cute, 69 00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:22,080 Speaker 4: wasn't it? And then, like you, when I heard that, 70 00:03:22,160 --> 00:03:24,920 Speaker 4: I went, that is the ultimate couple. These guys are 71 00:03:24,960 --> 00:03:26,000 Speaker 4: so in love with each other. 72 00:03:26,040 --> 00:03:28,400 Speaker 7: And then all of a sudden things just went if 73 00:03:28,440 --> 00:03:30,079 Speaker 7: you're lying in bed and you're on your phone and 74 00:03:30,120 --> 00:03:33,440 Speaker 7: your partner's trying to read to you. 75 00:03:33,480 --> 00:03:35,520 Speaker 6: Shut off. I love you, darling. 76 00:03:35,600 --> 00:03:43,080 Speaker 4: Shut Imagine we're trying to read once Is that a pond? 77 00:03:45,640 --> 00:03:48,200 Speaker 4: Once upon a tim once that. 78 00:03:47,880 --> 00:03:49,000 Speaker 6: That doesn't make any sense. 79 00:03:50,160 --> 00:03:53,640 Speaker 7: Oh my god, I'm trying to think of a kid's storybook. 80 00:03:54,000 --> 00:03:57,480 Speaker 7: Ten little fingers and ten little toes. One was in 81 00:03:57,560 --> 00:03:59,120 Speaker 7: an eider down. 82 00:03:59,720 --> 00:04:03,440 Speaker 4: Come here, honey and listen to the very hungry Little cad. 83 00:04:04,960 --> 00:04:05,720 Speaker 6: He's out again. 84 00:04:06,200 --> 00:04:09,280 Speaker 5: This is the Fits and Whipper with Cape Richie podcast. 85 00:04:09,600 --> 00:04:12,480 Speaker 7: Now very special guest in the studio. So do with 86 00:04:12,560 --> 00:04:15,960 Speaker 7: Ronald McDonald House Charities Gift to Night It's Cordon. From 87 00:04:16,000 --> 00:04:19,400 Speaker 7: now until twelve pm this Friday, every dollar donated to 88 00:04:19,480 --> 00:04:20,640 Speaker 7: Ronal McDonald House at. 89 00:04:20,640 --> 00:04:22,000 Speaker 6: Randrick will be doubled. 90 00:04:22,560 --> 00:04:27,560 Speaker 7: So jump online Gift Night dot org dot au representing 91 00:04:27,760 --> 00:04:29,120 Speaker 7: Ronald McDonald House Charities. 92 00:04:29,200 --> 00:04:31,480 Speaker 6: It's the one and only we got around Lisa Whippley. 93 00:04:32,000 --> 00:04:33,839 Speaker 8: Yeah, that's that's my wife. 94 00:04:34,360 --> 00:04:35,359 Speaker 6: That's my wife. 95 00:04:35,839 --> 00:04:37,719 Speaker 8: It's been ages since I've been here. 96 00:04:37,720 --> 00:04:39,880 Speaker 7: Well, we haven't been doing many pranks on the show, 97 00:04:40,040 --> 00:04:43,880 Speaker 7: that's true. So normally we do something really wacky, wouldn't 98 00:04:43,920 --> 00:04:44,680 Speaker 7: we Fits like. 99 00:04:45,279 --> 00:04:50,479 Speaker 4: Yeah, Rank, But when's the last time you saw Michael? 100 00:04:50,720 --> 00:04:52,880 Speaker 4: Is it? Is this the only time you get to 101 00:04:52,880 --> 00:04:54,239 Speaker 4: see him? Is it at work? Click? 102 00:04:54,520 --> 00:04:56,320 Speaker 6: Or what's we see you in the morning, isn't it? 103 00:04:56,360 --> 00:04:57,440 Speaker 6: I'm never there in the morning. 104 00:04:57,560 --> 00:04:59,360 Speaker 8: True, Yeah, I never see it this time of day. 105 00:04:59,440 --> 00:05:01,040 Speaker 2: Usually it's just when you come home and you're really 106 00:05:01,080 --> 00:05:03,120 Speaker 2: groggy and tired and then fall asleep on the couch. 107 00:05:03,160 --> 00:05:06,960 Speaker 4: Groggy sounds like a gross how's he sleeping mask going? 108 00:05:07,040 --> 00:05:10,840 Speaker 4: Just quickly before how's the sleeping mask going? 109 00:05:11,000 --> 00:05:11,200 Speaker 7: Yeah? 110 00:05:11,240 --> 00:05:13,200 Speaker 8: All I can say is there is no way I 111 00:05:13,200 --> 00:05:14,039 Speaker 8: could sleep next to you. 112 00:05:14,080 --> 00:05:15,919 Speaker 2: Any woman that sleeps next to a man with a 113 00:05:15,920 --> 00:05:20,440 Speaker 2: sleep apnear mask on, are they deserve? 114 00:05:20,560 --> 00:05:21,240 Speaker 4: So fixing? 115 00:05:21,720 --> 00:05:23,640 Speaker 7: Just down the hallway on the left right, if I 116 00:05:23,720 --> 00:05:27,359 Speaker 7: go down there, her face is taped up like she's 117 00:05:27,400 --> 00:05:30,560 Speaker 7: been Mummified's. 118 00:05:29,160 --> 00:05:31,840 Speaker 2: Actually a competition to see who looks more attractive before 119 00:05:31,880 --> 00:05:32,680 Speaker 2: they go to bed. 120 00:05:33,720 --> 00:05:35,520 Speaker 7: It looks like your head is wearing a wet suit 121 00:05:35,720 --> 00:05:36,839 Speaker 7: and you've got mouth tape on. 122 00:05:37,040 --> 00:05:39,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, because sometimes I wear the mouth tape and sometimes 123 00:05:39,680 --> 00:05:42,760 Speaker 2: I wear this lifting thing that velcrows up at the 124 00:05:42,760 --> 00:05:43,560 Speaker 2: top of my head. 125 00:05:43,760 --> 00:05:45,960 Speaker 6: Cute, it's really really cute. 126 00:05:46,040 --> 00:05:47,080 Speaker 8: Yeah, that's not pretty. 127 00:05:47,560 --> 00:05:49,520 Speaker 7: This is a great idea in thirteen twenty four to ten. 128 00:05:49,600 --> 00:05:52,640 Speaker 7: If anybody's listening right now, any corporates or any individuals 129 00:05:52,640 --> 00:05:54,839 Speaker 7: that want to call the show right now, thirteen twenty 130 00:05:54,839 --> 00:05:56,239 Speaker 7: four ten and make a donation. 131 00:05:56,680 --> 00:05:59,080 Speaker 6: It's great that they're doubling from now on. 132 00:05:59,560 --> 00:06:00,760 Speaker 8: Yeah, right now. 133 00:06:00,880 --> 00:06:03,400 Speaker 2: This is super exciting because they only do this once 134 00:06:03,400 --> 00:06:06,400 Speaker 2: a year and Ronald McDonald House Randwick does this special 135 00:06:06,400 --> 00:06:07,279 Speaker 2: thing right now. 136 00:06:07,520 --> 00:06:09,440 Speaker 8: It's the Gift a Night Appeals. 137 00:06:09,480 --> 00:06:12,159 Speaker 2: So anything that you donate, any money you donate, the 138 00:06:12,200 --> 00:06:15,800 Speaker 2: amount is doubled. So if you've been thinking about donating, 139 00:06:15,960 --> 00:06:16,960 Speaker 2: now is the time. 140 00:06:17,279 --> 00:06:20,360 Speaker 4: So this is also so this fund's nights for sick 141 00:06:20,440 --> 00:06:22,680 Speaker 4: kids and their families in Ronald McDonald House. 142 00:06:22,720 --> 00:06:24,200 Speaker 8: Is that correct line, Yeah, exactly. 143 00:06:24,279 --> 00:06:26,839 Speaker 2: So it's for families that live one hundred kilometers away 144 00:06:27,000 --> 00:06:30,400 Speaker 2: or more. They I mean, you can't even fathom that 145 00:06:30,480 --> 00:06:33,080 Speaker 2: if you live far away and then your child is 146 00:06:33,120 --> 00:06:38,040 Speaker 2: diagnosed with a life threatening illness, you have basically got 147 00:06:38,120 --> 00:06:42,000 Speaker 2: to up and leave and come to Sydney Children's Hospital. 148 00:06:42,400 --> 00:06:45,440 Speaker 2: And Ronal McDonald House Randwick allows you a place to 149 00:06:45,520 --> 00:06:48,440 Speaker 2: stay rent free so you can just focus on your 150 00:06:48,520 --> 00:06:51,280 Speaker 2: child getting better. And I mean if they didn't have 151 00:06:51,360 --> 00:06:55,320 Speaker 2: Ronald McDonald House, Randwick, some families would be living out 152 00:06:55,360 --> 00:06:57,360 Speaker 2: of their car because they can't afford. 153 00:06:57,080 --> 00:06:57,920 Speaker 8: The rent in Sydney. 154 00:06:58,120 --> 00:06:58,880 Speaker 6: How much is it night? 155 00:07:00,320 --> 00:07:02,760 Speaker 2: About one hundred and sixty dollars a night to house 156 00:07:02,760 --> 00:07:05,320 Speaker 2: a family and the rooms are beautiful. 157 00:07:05,560 --> 00:07:07,080 Speaker 8: The community there is so special. 158 00:07:07,120 --> 00:07:09,760 Speaker 2: I mean all of these families that are living there 159 00:07:10,080 --> 00:07:12,720 Speaker 2: and all dealing with going through the hardest time in 160 00:07:12,760 --> 00:07:15,040 Speaker 2: their life, they come together and they support each other. 161 00:07:15,600 --> 00:07:18,760 Speaker 8: Yeah, it's just it really is a beautiful place. 162 00:07:18,880 --> 00:07:22,240 Speaker 2: If you can donate, Even if you think twenty dollars 163 00:07:22,320 --> 00:07:24,680 Speaker 2: is not much money, now is the time, because that 164 00:07:24,680 --> 00:07:27,520 Speaker 2: twenty dollars becomes forty dollars in every cent county. 165 00:07:27,640 --> 00:07:30,160 Speaker 7: It's snowballs habit is this. We're already getting some calls through. 166 00:07:30,520 --> 00:07:32,480 Speaker 7: I've got a call here from Gavin Rubinstein from the 167 00:07:32,520 --> 00:07:33,280 Speaker 7: Rubenstein Group. 168 00:07:33,320 --> 00:07:35,480 Speaker 9: Good I Gav, are you doing team? What's going on? 169 00:07:35,680 --> 00:07:36,680 Speaker 6: Thanks for calling through? 170 00:07:36,760 --> 00:07:39,920 Speaker 7: Mate. We're taking donations for ron McDonald House Charities Randwick. 171 00:07:40,280 --> 00:07:40,720 Speaker 10: I love it. 172 00:07:40,760 --> 00:07:42,000 Speaker 9: I'm moways up for good cause. 173 00:07:42,040 --> 00:07:44,119 Speaker 6: You know that you're a good man. Are you happy 174 00:07:44,120 --> 00:07:45,440 Speaker 6: to make a donation this morning? 175 00:07:45,840 --> 00:07:46,040 Speaker 8: Yeah? 176 00:07:46,080 --> 00:07:46,440 Speaker 10: For sure? 177 00:07:46,480 --> 00:07:48,480 Speaker 9: Why don't we put it down at three thousand. How 178 00:07:48,480 --> 00:07:49,840 Speaker 9: does that sound three wow? 179 00:07:49,920 --> 00:07:50,800 Speaker 6: Thousand dollars. 180 00:07:51,000 --> 00:07:52,920 Speaker 8: Avin, thank you so much. 181 00:07:53,560 --> 00:07:57,400 Speaker 7: That is so generous and of course that gets double gave, 182 00:07:57,520 --> 00:07:59,200 Speaker 7: so that's six thousand dollars. 183 00:07:59,280 --> 00:08:00,000 Speaker 6: That is awesome. 184 00:08:00,360 --> 00:08:02,960 Speaker 11: I know, that's amazing, amazing course to a contribute to 185 00:08:03,080 --> 00:08:04,360 Speaker 11: so thank you for the opportunity. 186 00:08:04,760 --> 00:08:09,080 Speaker 2: You are super generous and also the best dressed agent 187 00:08:09,280 --> 00:08:10,120 Speaker 2: in Australia. 188 00:08:10,120 --> 00:08:11,239 Speaker 8: I'm going to say there. 189 00:08:11,040 --> 00:08:12,040 Speaker 9: It is appreciating. 190 00:08:13,040 --> 00:08:13,800 Speaker 12: Appreciate you. 191 00:08:13,880 --> 00:08:16,200 Speaker 8: We appreciate you. Gavin, Thank you so much. 192 00:08:16,400 --> 00:08:17,440 Speaker 11: All the best, good luck with it. 193 00:08:17,520 --> 00:08:21,840 Speaker 6: Har Jason from j Corp Constructions, Hello, Joe, Hello mate, 194 00:08:21,840 --> 00:08:22,520 Speaker 6: how are you may? 195 00:08:22,600 --> 00:08:24,120 Speaker 7: I know you're a big fan of the show. Thank 196 00:08:24,120 --> 00:08:25,800 Speaker 7: you for calling through for Ronald McDonald. 197 00:08:26,400 --> 00:08:28,800 Speaker 6: Is there a problem? Is there a donation you could 198 00:08:28,880 --> 00:08:29,760 Speaker 6: make this morning? 199 00:08:30,160 --> 00:08:33,320 Speaker 5: There is, there's five thousand dollars coming from Jay Corp Constructions. 200 00:08:34,640 --> 00:08:38,599 Speaker 2: Oh my god, Jason, thank you so so much, not 201 00:08:38,720 --> 00:08:42,319 Speaker 2: a problem. You're an amazing builder in the Eastern Suburbs 202 00:08:42,360 --> 00:08:45,000 Speaker 2: and we are so so grateful for your generosity. 203 00:08:45,320 --> 00:08:46,000 Speaker 12: Happy to help. 204 00:08:46,200 --> 00:08:48,240 Speaker 10: The people are Ronal McDonald and you guys, thanks so 205 00:08:48,320 --> 00:08:49,079 Speaker 10: much for doing. 206 00:08:48,920 --> 00:08:49,640 Speaker 11: It for everybody. 207 00:08:50,000 --> 00:08:53,280 Speaker 4: I know everyone would appreciate it well, Jason, you do 208 00:08:53,440 --> 00:08:56,840 Speaker 4: understand that five thousand will now be doubled to ten thousand, 209 00:08:56,920 --> 00:08:57,959 Speaker 4: so you're a jet mate. 210 00:08:57,960 --> 00:08:58,400 Speaker 10: Thank you. 211 00:08:58,840 --> 00:09:01,000 Speaker 12: Not a problem guys all. 212 00:09:01,200 --> 00:09:03,080 Speaker 7: Do you spend any times on the tools or you're 213 00:09:03,120 --> 00:09:04,920 Speaker 7: just sort of pushing people around on site these. 214 00:09:04,840 --> 00:09:08,680 Speaker 9: Days Friday afternoons wet, we're at Double Bay on the 215 00:09:08,679 --> 00:09:09,920 Speaker 9: tools on the rose. 216 00:09:14,360 --> 00:09:17,440 Speaker 10: The people around the areas now off the tools at the. 217 00:09:17,440 --> 00:09:19,160 Speaker 6: Moment specializes in long lunches. 218 00:09:19,240 --> 00:09:22,000 Speaker 8: Good on you, Jake, Jason, your a legend. Thank you 219 00:09:22,080 --> 00:09:22,680 Speaker 8: so much. 220 00:09:23,080 --> 00:09:26,480 Speaker 9: Thank you for pleasure that calls. 221 00:09:26,520 --> 00:09:29,360 Speaker 6: The donations are razy. If anybody else is. 222 00:09:29,280 --> 00:09:31,480 Speaker 7: Listening right now, thirteen twenty four to ten, if you'd 223 00:09:31,480 --> 00:09:33,320 Speaker 7: like to make a donation, that is so good. 224 00:09:33,480 --> 00:09:36,400 Speaker 4: So both of those will be doubled right now, Lisa, 225 00:09:36,440 --> 00:09:37,880 Speaker 4: is that what you're saying, They're doubled? 226 00:09:37,920 --> 00:09:38,240 Speaker 10: Great? 227 00:09:38,480 --> 00:09:41,040 Speaker 4: Exactly for anyone else. If you want to jump online 228 00:09:41,080 --> 00:09:44,200 Speaker 4: and get involved, gift to Night dot org dot au. 229 00:09:44,320 --> 00:09:46,240 Speaker 4: Like we said, you are looking after see kids in 230 00:09:46,280 --> 00:09:48,280 Speaker 4: their families. They get to stay and ron on McDonald 231 00:09:48,320 --> 00:09:50,640 Speaker 4: house as they're getting treatments. So get on board and 232 00:09:50,640 --> 00:09:54,200 Speaker 4: do that. Hey, Lise, would you mind sticking around? I 233 00:09:54,200 --> 00:09:56,080 Speaker 4: don't know. Have you just got to go? We do, 234 00:09:56,280 --> 00:09:59,760 Speaker 4: She's got to help. It's a second we do. It's 235 00:09:59,800 --> 00:10:04,200 Speaker 4: called pros and cons. If you've found If you've found 236 00:10:04,200 --> 00:10:06,160 Speaker 4: someone in your life, we just want you to write 237 00:10:06,200 --> 00:10:08,560 Speaker 4: down the pros and cons of that relationship and we 238 00:10:08,679 --> 00:10:11,320 Speaker 4: decide whether you stick with them. 239 00:10:11,520 --> 00:10:13,280 Speaker 6: Thanks for coming in. Just the pros. 240 00:10:13,800 --> 00:10:16,160 Speaker 2: I would love to stick around because I have my 241 00:10:16,280 --> 00:10:17,200 Speaker 2: list ready to go. 242 00:10:17,360 --> 00:10:18,559 Speaker 8: How many cons? 243 00:10:18,600 --> 00:10:28,800 Speaker 6: What a great idea? None? Cross them off? Sorry? 244 00:10:31,320 --> 00:10:33,119 Speaker 4: List of pros and cons? 245 00:10:35,320 --> 00:10:37,960 Speaker 7: I mean the idea of pros and cons is trying 246 00:10:37,960 --> 00:10:40,160 Speaker 7: to work out whether to stay in the relationship or leave. 247 00:10:40,320 --> 00:10:43,600 Speaker 6: Obviously, it's a no brainer. You're going anywhere. 248 00:10:43,679 --> 00:10:45,000 Speaker 8: Let's let the team decide. 249 00:10:45,080 --> 00:10:47,320 Speaker 6: Maybe this is interested who bought her? 250 00:10:47,880 --> 00:10:51,200 Speaker 4: Hey, we've got Lisa on the line. Lisa, who's the guy? 251 00:10:51,240 --> 00:10:52,600 Speaker 4: And how long have you been with him for? 252 00:10:56,679 --> 00:10:57,880 Speaker 6: Just for yourself Darly? 253 00:10:58,520 --> 00:11:02,959 Speaker 2: Sorry, Hi, Hi, I am Lisa and I'm married to Whipper. 254 00:11:03,520 --> 00:11:04,760 Speaker 8: How long have we been together? 255 00:11:05,360 --> 00:11:05,640 Speaker 6: Tommy? 256 00:11:06,600 --> 00:11:06,840 Speaker 10: Years? 257 00:11:06,960 --> 00:11:07,080 Speaker 7: Is? 258 00:11:07,440 --> 00:11:11,920 Speaker 6: Actually you might be fourteen, you're thirteen. 259 00:11:13,440 --> 00:11:16,439 Speaker 2: It's nearly our anniversary is then in September. 260 00:11:16,040 --> 00:11:19,839 Speaker 7: September, end of September, and I think it's just Tommy twenty. 261 00:11:21,120 --> 00:11:25,239 Speaker 6: Twelfth, and it is that's my birthday. Sure, yeah, it's fourteenth. 262 00:11:25,320 --> 00:11:28,959 Speaker 7: It's fourteen fourteenth, and this year it's not Diamond or 263 00:11:29,000 --> 00:11:31,520 Speaker 7: teen it's power tools, which is a weird twist. 264 00:11:31,760 --> 00:11:34,240 Speaker 4: Let's get into it, pros. What do you love about Mark? 265 00:11:36,920 --> 00:11:37,559 Speaker 6: It's Michael? 266 00:11:38,559 --> 00:11:39,800 Speaker 4: Sorry, it's this family? 267 00:11:39,920 --> 00:11:40,160 Speaker 11: Sorry? 268 00:11:41,520 --> 00:11:43,000 Speaker 4: So what do you like about Michael? 269 00:11:44,600 --> 00:11:45,960 Speaker 6: What are you well about mine? 270 00:11:46,480 --> 00:11:48,720 Speaker 8: This is really sweet, actually genuinely sweet. 271 00:11:48,800 --> 00:11:53,120 Speaker 2: He makes me a cammulti every night, so after, you know, 272 00:11:53,160 --> 00:11:55,280 Speaker 2: it takes a little while to get Francesca to sleep, 273 00:11:55,400 --> 00:11:58,920 Speaker 2: and then I come downstairs and there's a hot cammulti 274 00:11:59,120 --> 00:12:00,760 Speaker 2: waiting for me with a hot guy. 275 00:12:01,160 --> 00:12:02,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, with a beef Wellington. 276 00:12:02,880 --> 00:12:03,240 Speaker 6: Wow. 277 00:12:05,040 --> 00:12:06,440 Speaker 8: Sweet, that's quite sweet. 278 00:12:06,480 --> 00:12:07,160 Speaker 6: It's beautiful. 279 00:12:07,240 --> 00:12:09,280 Speaker 8: Yeah, that's really careful. It means a lot. 280 00:12:11,600 --> 00:12:14,439 Speaker 4: It's how hard? Is Its not the point? 281 00:12:14,480 --> 00:12:14,760 Speaker 6: Mate? 282 00:12:15,000 --> 00:12:18,600 Speaker 7: It's I bet you don't do it for BJJ on 283 00:12:18,679 --> 00:12:19,120 Speaker 7: next week? 284 00:12:19,960 --> 00:12:22,520 Speaker 6: Couple with a very long list of powers. 285 00:12:22,559 --> 00:12:22,880 Speaker 8: Okay. 286 00:12:23,040 --> 00:12:26,280 Speaker 2: The other thing is soccer for the kids is at 287 00:12:26,320 --> 00:12:28,880 Speaker 2: like eight o'clock in the morning on a Saturday, and 288 00:12:29,000 --> 00:12:32,440 Speaker 2: it's at this horrible pitch that is always cold and windy, 289 00:12:32,880 --> 00:12:35,400 Speaker 2: and even though Mike has woken up at four am, 290 00:12:35,440 --> 00:12:36,640 Speaker 2: every day of the weekend. 291 00:12:36,679 --> 00:12:38,280 Speaker 8: It still takes the kids to. 292 00:12:38,280 --> 00:12:41,400 Speaker 2: Soccer because he knows how I'm not too resilient to. 293 00:12:42,160 --> 00:12:47,319 Speaker 6: Cold and coffee break you mentioned earlier. 294 00:12:47,880 --> 00:12:48,959 Speaker 8: No, that's not on the list. 295 00:12:49,080 --> 00:12:54,040 Speaker 2: But the last one is. He is so calm when 296 00:12:54,480 --> 00:12:57,360 Speaker 2: times can be a little stressful, Like if we're running 297 00:12:57,360 --> 00:12:59,520 Speaker 2: out the door and I'm like, come on, kids, we're running, like. 298 00:12:59,559 --> 00:13:01,760 Speaker 8: Let's go, it's got and he's like, it's fine, we'll 299 00:13:01,800 --> 00:13:02,120 Speaker 8: get there. 300 00:13:02,280 --> 00:13:03,640 Speaker 6: Like a bridge over trouble water. 301 00:13:04,040 --> 00:13:06,960 Speaker 8: Yeah, I don't think I've ever seen you frazzle. 302 00:13:06,640 --> 00:13:07,920 Speaker 4: Womon or Garfunks Simon. 303 00:13:08,679 --> 00:13:12,760 Speaker 7: I don't get frazzled because I'm just spend life kicking goals. 304 00:13:13,440 --> 00:13:15,320 Speaker 6: So you would have to serve Rock. 305 00:13:15,480 --> 00:13:17,559 Speaker 7: You would have to search deep into my history to 306 00:13:17,640 --> 00:13:20,480 Speaker 7: find me failing everything. You would have to go through 307 00:13:20,480 --> 00:13:22,520 Speaker 7: a big list to find any slip ups. 308 00:13:22,720 --> 00:13:25,240 Speaker 6: Oh I won't Okay, you won't find them all right. 309 00:13:26,559 --> 00:13:29,000 Speaker 4: Good cup of tea drops them off at sucker. And 310 00:13:29,000 --> 00:13:35,760 Speaker 4: he's got big calves, so he remains calm. Let's okay, 311 00:13:36,120 --> 00:13:38,240 Speaker 4: do you struggle with with this Michael guy? 312 00:13:38,360 --> 00:13:42,440 Speaker 2: Okay, so you know that he wears a sleep apnea mask. 313 00:13:42,559 --> 00:13:46,360 Speaker 2: We have these beautiful wall sconsors beside our main bed 314 00:13:47,040 --> 00:13:51,280 Speaker 2: and he hangs his sleep apt me a mask off 315 00:13:51,760 --> 00:13:54,160 Speaker 2: the wall sconce. So I walk in and it's like 316 00:13:54,320 --> 00:13:58,240 Speaker 2: this horrendous dat Vader mask just hanging off a beautiful 317 00:13:58,280 --> 00:13:59,439 Speaker 2: wall sconce. 318 00:13:59,200 --> 00:14:09,360 Speaker 8: Yeah, isn't that wist? That's sorry, pity. You probably don't 319 00:14:09,400 --> 00:14:10,280 Speaker 8: know what a sconce is. 320 00:14:10,640 --> 00:14:12,120 Speaker 6: It's like to you, it's a lamp. 321 00:14:12,400 --> 00:14:13,959 Speaker 8: Yeah, but it like hangs to the wall. 322 00:14:14,200 --> 00:14:15,360 Speaker 4: It's on the lamp. 323 00:14:15,559 --> 00:14:15,760 Speaker 6: Yeah. 324 00:14:18,720 --> 00:14:20,920 Speaker 7: What you don't sit me do is the mask gets 325 00:14:21,080 --> 00:14:23,560 Speaker 7: like water and moisture build up in it, and I 326 00:14:23,880 --> 00:14:25,760 Speaker 7: cleaned it out with the edge of the douner cover. 327 00:14:26,480 --> 00:14:26,680 Speaker 9: Yeah. 328 00:14:30,760 --> 00:14:33,360 Speaker 4: So there's one con. What other cons do you hate 329 00:14:33,360 --> 00:14:33,960 Speaker 4: about this guy? 330 00:14:34,120 --> 00:14:36,520 Speaker 2: Okay, so he's also I don't know if you guys 331 00:14:36,600 --> 00:14:38,880 Speaker 2: know this, but he's also actually a hoarder. So in 332 00:14:39,000 --> 00:14:43,960 Speaker 2: his study after like three months, I take a deep 333 00:14:44,000 --> 00:14:45,800 Speaker 2: breath for three months, and then at about the three 334 00:14:45,840 --> 00:14:49,240 Speaker 2: month mark, I explode because he accumulates all these random 335 00:14:49,320 --> 00:14:53,080 Speaker 2: bags of crap, just miscellaneous. 336 00:14:52,440 --> 00:14:54,840 Speaker 6: Things, and I know I don't understand what they are. 337 00:14:54,960 --> 00:14:58,400 Speaker 2: He brings stuff home and I say, can we just 338 00:14:58,480 --> 00:15:01,680 Speaker 2: go through this stuff? Because I almost can't see the floor, 339 00:15:02,440 --> 00:15:06,120 Speaker 2: there was fish food, an empty tupperware container. 340 00:15:05,840 --> 00:15:07,120 Speaker 8: And some espress. 341 00:15:10,000 --> 00:15:12,600 Speaker 2: Until we found they had copper poisoning. Yeah, and now 342 00:15:12,680 --> 00:15:13,280 Speaker 2: they're thriving. 343 00:15:14,560 --> 00:15:15,480 Speaker 8: But two did die. 344 00:15:15,680 --> 00:15:17,200 Speaker 6: That's okay, that's it. 345 00:15:17,560 --> 00:15:21,120 Speaker 2: The last one is he cannot put certain things in 346 00:15:21,440 --> 00:15:25,200 Speaker 2: the bin, so after he flosses his teeth in the morning, 347 00:15:25,880 --> 00:15:28,200 Speaker 2: he leaves the floss just sitting. 348 00:15:28,000 --> 00:15:30,040 Speaker 8: By the sink. Yeah, how gross is that? 349 00:15:30,640 --> 00:15:33,960 Speaker 2: Don't and then he'll finish his razor using his razor 350 00:15:34,000 --> 00:15:37,040 Speaker 2: for his face and then just leave the razor just 351 00:15:37,120 --> 00:15:38,160 Speaker 2: sitting by the sink. 352 00:15:38,360 --> 00:15:39,680 Speaker 8: And I'm like, just put them in the bin. 353 00:15:40,320 --> 00:15:42,360 Speaker 2: Well, for one, it's a safety hazard for the kids 354 00:15:42,440 --> 00:15:44,800 Speaker 2: to have a razor out, but also that's offensive. 355 00:15:45,720 --> 00:15:48,920 Speaker 4: I've deliberated this one and we feel like this Mark 356 00:15:49,040 --> 00:15:49,520 Speaker 4: guy that you. 357 00:15:49,600 --> 00:15:58,080 Speaker 6: With Tommy for next week. Absolutely, thanks so much for 358 00:15:58,160 --> 00:15:58,600 Speaker 6: coming into. 359 00:15:58,920 --> 00:16:01,080 Speaker 8: Thanks for having me. Don't we get to donate. The 360 00:16:01,440 --> 00:16:03,800 Speaker 8: website is a gift Tonight dot org dot au. 361 00:16:04,080 --> 00:16:05,360 Speaker 6: Thanks Darting, thanks for coming in. 362 00:16:05,600 --> 00:16:06,280 Speaker 8: Thanks for having me. 363 00:16:06,400 --> 00:16:06,640 Speaker 10: Guys. 364 00:16:07,080 --> 00:16:10,080 Speaker 5: This is the Fitz and Wibber with Cape Ritchie podcast. 365 00:16:11,080 --> 00:16:13,920 Speaker 4: What was the huge move that you made to go 366 00:16:14,120 --> 00:16:16,440 Speaker 4: out with someone? And I'd like to target when you 367 00:16:16,600 --> 00:16:19,440 Speaker 4: were younger as well, because there's a young man. Okay, 368 00:16:19,560 --> 00:16:22,680 Speaker 4: so you know the ring you know the ring cameras 369 00:16:22,720 --> 00:16:25,880 Speaker 4: which are quite big here, so you you know, any 370 00:16:26,040 --> 00:16:28,920 Speaker 4: movement or you ring the bell and it starts recording 371 00:16:29,000 --> 00:16:33,280 Speaker 4: straight away. So a mum over in the States, she's 372 00:16:34,120 --> 00:16:37,240 Speaker 4: the doorbell's gone off, and then the ring camera starts 373 00:16:37,320 --> 00:16:40,560 Speaker 4: to record and it's a young man looking for her daughter. 374 00:16:41,440 --> 00:16:44,720 Speaker 4: I want you you need to listen really closely here, 375 00:16:44,840 --> 00:16:47,640 Speaker 4: but I tell you what the courage for this kid 376 00:16:47,720 --> 00:16:48,440 Speaker 4: to do this? Ever? 377 00:16:48,560 --> 00:16:53,800 Speaker 6: Listener, Hello, I was gonna as. 378 00:16:55,320 --> 00:16:58,080 Speaker 11: She is at cheer, so she won't be home until 379 00:16:58,080 --> 00:16:58,720 Speaker 11: I eight thirty. 380 00:16:59,560 --> 00:16:59,840 Speaker 6: That's on. 381 00:17:06,920 --> 00:17:07,479 Speaker 3: You like her? 382 00:17:07,720 --> 00:17:11,800 Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, she's doesn't she? 383 00:17:12,880 --> 00:17:16,800 Speaker 4: Daddy's good on him for the kid to really like 384 00:17:17,160 --> 00:17:19,600 Speaker 4: So he's obviously trying to pick up the daughter. And 385 00:17:19,840 --> 00:17:23,239 Speaker 4: for him to go to the mum and tell her 386 00:17:23,320 --> 00:17:26,120 Speaker 4: the secret, that is a that is a huge move 387 00:17:26,200 --> 00:17:27,439 Speaker 4: for a young Well you know what. 388 00:17:27,680 --> 00:17:28,880 Speaker 6: When the mum win the daughter. 389 00:17:30,920 --> 00:17:34,080 Speaker 4: That sounded a bit wrong, but I remember there was 390 00:17:34,119 --> 00:17:37,240 Speaker 4: a girl called Natalie, and Natalie went to a private school, 391 00:17:37,400 --> 00:17:41,080 Speaker 4: so she she was in a private school uniform and 392 00:17:41,400 --> 00:17:44,639 Speaker 4: I would only fleetingly see her every day when we 393 00:17:44,800 --> 00:17:47,200 Speaker 4: would swap buses, so when I would come home, I 394 00:17:47,280 --> 00:17:49,960 Speaker 4: would have to catch two buses to get home, and 395 00:17:50,080 --> 00:17:52,560 Speaker 4: I would only see her. I reckon for five minutes 396 00:17:52,640 --> 00:17:54,920 Speaker 4: every day whip so she was waiting for another bus, 397 00:17:54,960 --> 00:17:57,639 Speaker 4: I was waiting for another bus. And I remember I 398 00:17:57,800 --> 00:17:59,720 Speaker 4: was in love with Natalie. I just used to stare 399 00:17:59,720 --> 00:18:02,800 Speaker 4: at her the whole time. I was God, how old 400 00:18:02,920 --> 00:18:04,840 Speaker 4: was I at the time, Probably twenty three or twenty 401 00:18:04,840 --> 00:18:08,080 Speaker 4: four in a year twelve and I and I remember 402 00:18:08,440 --> 00:18:10,679 Speaker 4: there was a girl that used to from her school 403 00:18:10,840 --> 00:18:13,159 Speaker 4: that used to catch my bus home, and I got 404 00:18:13,200 --> 00:18:16,159 Speaker 4: the courage one day to ask her, do you know 405 00:18:16,240 --> 00:18:18,640 Speaker 4: who that girl is? And she said, oh, that's Natalie. 406 00:18:18,920 --> 00:18:21,639 Speaker 4: I'm actually friends with her. And I said, would you, 407 00:18:22,600 --> 00:18:24,120 Speaker 4: I mean, is there any way that you can talk 408 00:18:24,160 --> 00:18:26,399 Speaker 4: to us? The next day, this girl came back and 409 00:18:26,480 --> 00:18:30,280 Speaker 4: she gave me Natalie's home number. And back then no 410 00:18:30,480 --> 00:18:35,919 Speaker 4: mobiles obviously, so I've had I'm at home. I remember 411 00:18:36,320 --> 00:18:38,640 Speaker 4: I was sweating, sweating. 412 00:18:38,720 --> 00:18:40,119 Speaker 7: Did your mom and dad have a phone in their 413 00:18:40,160 --> 00:18:42,480 Speaker 7: bedroom which was like the only private phone you got 414 00:18:42,480 --> 00:18:42,800 Speaker 7: to use? 415 00:18:43,080 --> 00:18:44,879 Speaker 4: It was in the kitchen on one phone. It was 416 00:18:44,960 --> 00:18:47,600 Speaker 4: in the kitchen, so everyone in the house could hear you? 417 00:18:48,760 --> 00:18:51,240 Speaker 4: Six times? I hung up on the on the dad 418 00:18:51,359 --> 00:18:53,840 Speaker 4: because I couldn't talk, So then I had to wait 419 00:18:53,920 --> 00:18:57,040 Speaker 4: an extra week whip to go. I can't be the 420 00:18:57,119 --> 00:18:59,800 Speaker 4: creep that's ringing all the time. And I waited a 421 00:19:00,040 --> 00:19:03,119 Speaker 4: week until I just went. I started talking to the 422 00:19:03,240 --> 00:19:05,520 Speaker 4: dad and I said hello, my name is Ryan. I 423 00:19:05,800 --> 00:19:08,480 Speaker 4: catched the bus every day and I just wanted to 424 00:19:08,560 --> 00:19:11,160 Speaker 4: know if Natalie was home. I wanted to speak to Natalie, 425 00:19:11,520 --> 00:19:13,880 Speaker 4: and he just started grilling me straight away. 426 00:19:13,920 --> 00:19:14,280 Speaker 6: Who are you? 427 00:19:14,720 --> 00:19:15,760 Speaker 4: What school do you go to? 428 00:19:17,600 --> 00:19:19,240 Speaker 6: Yeah, I don't know if I would have gone with us. 429 00:19:19,480 --> 00:19:20,480 Speaker 4: Just seen her on the bus. 430 00:19:21,880 --> 00:19:23,720 Speaker 6: You know how your do it against public transport? On 431 00:19:23,760 --> 00:19:26,960 Speaker 6: the way that same transport and I want to talk 432 00:19:27,040 --> 00:19:27,240 Speaker 6: to her. 433 00:19:27,720 --> 00:19:31,919 Speaker 4: Well, guess what she She was checking me out as 434 00:19:31,960 --> 00:19:34,080 Speaker 4: well when we went out with each other for six months. 435 00:19:34,200 --> 00:19:36,960 Speaker 6: Oh mate, you didn't held her hand. You didn't have 436 00:19:37,040 --> 00:19:38,560 Speaker 6: herpes at the time because. 437 00:19:40,480 --> 00:19:43,000 Speaker 4: I wasn't run down at the time. So no cole saws. 438 00:19:43,040 --> 00:19:48,160 Speaker 4: I was in good neck break up just just long distance. 439 00:19:48,240 --> 00:19:52,359 Speaker 4: It was just too hard. She was from two suburbs 440 00:19:52,440 --> 00:19:53,920 Speaker 4: over from me, and it was too far to go 441 00:19:54,080 --> 00:19:54,720 Speaker 4: on the old. 442 00:19:55,280 --> 00:19:58,600 Speaker 6: Footbax two Suburbs five minutes on the bus. 443 00:19:58,720 --> 00:20:01,119 Speaker 4: I would love to know if twenty fourteen, if you 444 00:20:01,240 --> 00:20:03,720 Speaker 4: did make a huge move to go out with someone 445 00:20:03,760 --> 00:20:06,200 Speaker 4: when you were younger, did you target the parents first? 446 00:20:06,280 --> 00:20:09,080 Speaker 4: How did you get to those people? I mean asking 447 00:20:09,240 --> 00:20:12,520 Speaker 4: through friends was always yeah, I mean that was mandatory, 448 00:20:12,680 --> 00:20:12,920 Speaker 4: wasn't it. 449 00:20:13,000 --> 00:20:15,480 Speaker 7: But I wrote a letter it was Valentine's Day, but 450 00:20:15,560 --> 00:20:18,719 Speaker 7: I wrote just one thing. You meant to keep it secretive? 451 00:20:18,920 --> 00:20:20,480 Speaker 6: Is that correct? On Valentine's Day? 452 00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:22,119 Speaker 4: Yes, Anonymous? 453 00:20:22,240 --> 00:20:25,800 Speaker 7: Yeah, I wrote just in letters and symbols and numbers. 454 00:20:26,560 --> 00:20:30,639 Speaker 7: I love like a harsh shorthand yeah, I love you 455 00:20:31,920 --> 00:20:34,520 Speaker 7: for you are a QT. 456 00:20:37,160 --> 00:20:38,840 Speaker 4: And then what did your teacher say? 457 00:20:40,080 --> 00:20:43,479 Speaker 1: This is the fitting and with her with Kate Richie podcast. 458 00:20:43,320 --> 00:20:45,359 Speaker 4: Bennie and Cronulla. What lengths did you go to to 459 00:20:45,440 --> 00:20:46,200 Speaker 4: ask a girl out? 460 00:20:46,280 --> 00:20:47,440 Speaker 10: Ben Well? 461 00:20:47,560 --> 00:20:49,920 Speaker 9: I did massaitudoring for a whole year in year twelve, 462 00:20:50,080 --> 00:20:51,959 Speaker 9: just to ask the Massa Tudors daughter to my year 463 00:20:52,000 --> 00:20:52,600 Speaker 9: twelve formal. 464 00:20:52,760 --> 00:20:55,600 Speaker 6: Wow, Well how'd you go? Benny? Did you turn up 465 00:20:55,600 --> 00:20:56,320 Speaker 6: to the former with you? 466 00:20:57,080 --> 00:21:00,399 Speaker 9: She did? And she yeah, she was the life of 467 00:21:00,480 --> 00:21:00,840 Speaker 9: the party. 468 00:21:00,920 --> 00:21:04,160 Speaker 4: Actually rip in what sense? 469 00:21:04,320 --> 00:21:05,480 Speaker 10: Ben Well? 470 00:21:05,600 --> 00:21:07,720 Speaker 9: We caught a bus from the Hilton Hotel down to 471 00:21:07,800 --> 00:21:11,080 Speaker 9: the Harpside Rasbery and we're all standing in the middle 472 00:21:11,119 --> 00:21:13,360 Speaker 9: and she had a tumble and everyone got to see 473 00:21:13,400 --> 00:21:18,560 Speaker 9: a garter built and garda stoppings whatever they are called. Yeah, 474 00:21:21,240 --> 00:21:22,120 Speaker 9: it worked just for a day. 475 00:21:22,160 --> 00:21:22,360 Speaker 10: Though. 476 00:21:22,880 --> 00:21:24,800 Speaker 4: Can I say, how did you go in mats that year? 477 00:21:24,840 --> 00:21:25,800 Speaker 10: Benny? Did you do all right? 478 00:21:26,400 --> 00:21:28,760 Speaker 9: It was the first time I passed the mass examine. 479 00:21:28,560 --> 00:21:31,520 Speaker 6: In high schooling. Hey, Benny, was there a kiss at 480 00:21:31,520 --> 00:21:32,160 Speaker 6: the end of the night? 481 00:21:33,480 --> 00:21:35,720 Speaker 9: Maybe there hasn't. It was very very good, a pointing actually, 482 00:21:36,520 --> 00:21:38,119 Speaker 9: but I got to go on a rugby tour to 483 00:21:38,160 --> 00:21:40,880 Speaker 9: America and England the next day, so I'll get this guest. 484 00:21:40,920 --> 00:21:43,480 Speaker 9: There was a consolations. 485 00:21:43,520 --> 00:21:47,960 Speaker 4: Great did mass tutoring for a whole year just to 486 00:21:48,040 --> 00:21:49,119 Speaker 4: go out with the tutors? 487 00:21:49,760 --> 00:21:53,800 Speaker 7: That is an amazing Stephen Barger, you were talking about 488 00:21:54,520 --> 00:21:55,320 Speaker 7: making movies. 489 00:21:55,800 --> 00:22:03,080 Speaker 6: Oh my god, step trying to read We're live? 490 00:22:03,160 --> 00:22:03,399 Speaker 2: Are we? 491 00:22:03,880 --> 00:22:04,199 Speaker 6: We are? 492 00:22:04,280 --> 00:22:04,480 Speaker 10: Are we? 493 00:22:04,640 --> 00:22:05,399 Speaker 4: It's still life? 494 00:22:05,800 --> 00:22:08,080 Speaker 7: Can't editor, Steph going to go from the top here, 495 00:22:08,640 --> 00:22:11,480 Speaker 7: Stephen Bargo, we're talking about making moves. 496 00:22:15,359 --> 00:22:20,160 Speaker 6: Step yeps your story mate. 497 00:22:21,119 --> 00:22:24,960 Speaker 12: So what happened was I had turned eighteen, I had 498 00:22:25,400 --> 00:22:31,440 Speaker 12: just finished high school, started dating my boyfriend, and a 499 00:22:31,560 --> 00:22:34,720 Speaker 12: month into us dating, he said to me that he 500 00:22:34,960 --> 00:22:38,520 Speaker 12: was moving to England to play professional soccer. 501 00:22:38,920 --> 00:22:41,120 Speaker 4: Yeh, and he left. 502 00:22:41,200 --> 00:22:44,560 Speaker 11: He moved over and a month after that I moved 503 00:22:44,600 --> 00:22:45,280 Speaker 11: over with him. 504 00:22:45,880 --> 00:22:48,399 Speaker 4: Oh that is how old were you, Steff? 505 00:22:49,200 --> 00:22:50,000 Speaker 12: I was eighteen? 506 00:22:50,480 --> 00:22:51,480 Speaker 4: Oh God, that. 507 00:22:51,560 --> 00:22:52,480 Speaker 6: You're facing love. 508 00:22:52,960 --> 00:22:58,040 Speaker 4: Your parents would have been freaking out were they they were. 509 00:22:58,320 --> 00:23:00,720 Speaker 11: My mom rang him when I I was on the 510 00:23:00,800 --> 00:23:04,440 Speaker 11: plane and she said to him, don't break her heart 511 00:23:04,680 --> 00:23:06,000 Speaker 11: or I will kill you. 512 00:23:06,400 --> 00:23:08,120 Speaker 6: Wow. How long did you last? 513 00:23:08,160 --> 00:23:08,240 Speaker 2: Her? 514 00:23:08,359 --> 00:23:09,000 Speaker 6: Is still together? 515 00:23:10,520 --> 00:23:13,520 Speaker 11: Sadly he passed away last year. But we were together 516 00:23:14,040 --> 00:23:17,200 Speaker 11: for twenty one years and married for seventeen years. 517 00:23:17,320 --> 00:23:20,800 Speaker 6: Well, it's a beautiful story story. Sorry I lost him. 518 00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:23,760 Speaker 11: Oh thank you. No, he was a beautiful man. 519 00:23:24,320 --> 00:23:24,960 Speaker 6: Oh man. 520 00:23:25,040 --> 00:23:28,200 Speaker 4: That is as an eighteen year old girl to go 521 00:23:28,359 --> 00:23:31,800 Speaker 4: all the way over there with a professional football player fits. 522 00:23:31,840 --> 00:23:33,800 Speaker 6: I stuffed up the intro. But really there is a 523 00:23:33,880 --> 00:23:37,040 Speaker 6: movie to be made out of that love story. That's beautiful, Steff. 524 00:23:37,119 --> 00:23:37,960 Speaker 6: Thank you for sharing. 525 00:23:38,800 --> 00:23:41,359 Speaker 11: That's okay, You're very welcome. Thanks guy to you. 526 00:23:41,440 --> 00:23:44,320 Speaker 7: What would be a very boring movie to watch is 527 00:23:44,400 --> 00:23:46,720 Speaker 7: the story Ash has got about how she was once 528 00:23:46,840 --> 00:23:50,560 Speaker 7: tripped down by a man No, you wasn't hit on 529 00:23:50,680 --> 00:23:51,679 Speaker 7: by a lot of guys. 530 00:23:51,760 --> 00:23:55,200 Speaker 4: Ash. No, that made the move Ash, Or did someone 531 00:23:55,320 --> 00:23:56,080 Speaker 4: make a move on you? 532 00:23:56,600 --> 00:23:56,639 Speaker 12: No? 533 00:23:56,800 --> 00:23:58,560 Speaker 8: It was back when I was at UNI. 534 00:24:00,320 --> 00:24:03,760 Speaker 13: That I was studying journalism with looked me up in 535 00:24:03,960 --> 00:24:07,119 Speaker 13: the white pages to send ab okay of flowers to 536 00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:09,440 Speaker 13: my place, but because there were so many gardeners in 537 00:24:09,520 --> 00:24:11,800 Speaker 13: my area, he had to take a punt and assumed 538 00:24:11,880 --> 00:24:14,400 Speaker 13: that I was the gardener that lived closest to the pub. 539 00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:15,680 Speaker 4: I frequented a lot of it. 540 00:24:15,800 --> 00:24:18,040 Speaker 7: Oh, your last name is gardener. Sorry, I just pitched 541 00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:19,440 Speaker 7: all the trucks and the whipper snippers. 542 00:24:19,760 --> 00:24:21,479 Speaker 13: It was awkward though, because I had a boyfriend at 543 00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:24,280 Speaker 13: the time, and I assumed the flowers were from him, 544 00:24:24,840 --> 00:24:27,040 Speaker 13: and then realized they weren't pretty quickly. 545 00:24:27,920 --> 00:24:29,800 Speaker 12: Oh so that so what? 546 00:24:30,880 --> 00:24:33,600 Speaker 4: You would have broken his heart? Ash? What was his response? 547 00:24:35,920 --> 00:24:40,040 Speaker 8: As in the guy from UNI? And I don't know. 548 00:24:40,080 --> 00:24:42,440 Speaker 13: I think he was just he knew I had a boyfriend, 549 00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:45,400 Speaker 13: but just thought he'd yeah, have a crack anyway. 550 00:24:45,080 --> 00:24:46,200 Speaker 6: Footy club did he played for? 551 00:24:48,400 --> 00:24:51,000 Speaker 4: I was studying journalism with him. What was it? Was 552 00:24:51,040 --> 00:24:53,200 Speaker 4: it a bit creepy that he got he went to 553 00:24:53,320 --> 00:24:56,280 Speaker 4: all that effort to track you down ash. 554 00:24:58,400 --> 00:25:01,120 Speaker 13: Not so much creepy. I just think he was, yeah, 555 00:25:01,160 --> 00:25:03,480 Speaker 13: shooting a shot, but yeah, unfortunately I. 556 00:25:03,640 --> 00:25:04,720 Speaker 10: Was taking it. 557 00:25:05,119 --> 00:25:06,879 Speaker 4: Who made the first move with you? On Christian? 558 00:25:09,000 --> 00:25:12,600 Speaker 13: We met on Tinder and he super liked me, So 559 00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:13,320 Speaker 13: I'm going to say. 560 00:25:13,200 --> 00:25:18,240 Speaker 6: He's super like you? Yeah, he mover? 561 00:25:18,920 --> 00:25:21,159 Speaker 4: Is that an extra strong swipe or how do you 562 00:25:21,280 --> 00:25:21,560 Speaker 4: do that? 563 00:25:21,880 --> 00:25:22,200 Speaker 10: I don't know. 564 00:25:22,240 --> 00:25:23,680 Speaker 4: I think you had to pay extra for that? 565 00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:24,280 Speaker 10: Not sure? 566 00:25:24,440 --> 00:25:26,920 Speaker 6: And you can only you can only super like so many? 567 00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:27,560 Speaker 10: Is that right? 568 00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:29,080 Speaker 6: You've got like three super likes? 569 00:25:29,200 --> 00:25:29,680 Speaker 13: I think so? 570 00:25:29,880 --> 00:25:30,080 Speaker 12: Yeah. 571 00:25:30,080 --> 00:25:31,800 Speaker 13: I think it's a limited God, can you. 572 00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:34,480 Speaker 6: Triple more than double? Or you know what I mean? 573 00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:36,520 Speaker 6: Can you do more than one super like? 574 00:25:37,040 --> 00:25:38,280 Speaker 8: I don't know. I don't think. 575 00:25:38,320 --> 00:25:42,119 Speaker 6: So fascinating, that's great. And then who made the first 576 00:25:42,160 --> 00:25:43,520 Speaker 6: move for the kiss ass movie? 577 00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:44,880 Speaker 4: Yeah? Who made the first move? 578 00:25:47,480 --> 00:25:47,600 Speaker 14: Was it? 579 00:25:47,760 --> 00:25:47,800 Speaker 10: You? 580 00:25:48,080 --> 00:25:49,480 Speaker 6: Did you go in for the kiss first? 581 00:25:52,160 --> 00:25:53,720 Speaker 8: Lady never kisses in jels? You know? 582 00:25:56,359 --> 00:25:59,720 Speaker 1: This is the fits and with Kate Richie podcast. 583 00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:02,560 Speaker 4: How Good Is This? Magnificently kicked off last night Sean 584 00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:05,400 Speaker 4: mccarliff's Eve of Destruction and you can catch it every 585 00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:09,080 Speaker 4: Wednesday eight thirty on ABC TV. It's basically you got 586 00:26:09,160 --> 00:26:12,720 Speaker 4: two guests and they are bringing in well, they're bringing 587 00:26:12,760 --> 00:26:14,960 Speaker 4: in the two things that they would take with them 588 00:26:15,520 --> 00:26:19,280 Speaker 4: before the house was getting destroyed. It's a great idea. 589 00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:21,040 Speaker 4: Absolutely love it. Shawn mccarliff. 590 00:26:21,080 --> 00:26:23,960 Speaker 10: Welker Sean, hello, buddy, So thank you very And that's 591 00:26:24,119 --> 00:26:26,679 Speaker 10: that's all I was going to say. That's I mean, 592 00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:28,920 Speaker 10: I mean, it's it's great coming on to a show 593 00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:31,280 Speaker 10: and advertising a show that was on the previous notes. 594 00:26:31,560 --> 00:26:34,840 Speaker 10: I'm happy to do that. Although if you did miss it, Weather, 595 00:26:34,920 --> 00:26:37,760 Speaker 10: if you did miss it, guys, you can watch it 596 00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:40,639 Speaker 10: on I View. It's a it's a fat you have 597 00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:42,120 Speaker 10: a look at it there. It was a great show 598 00:26:42,480 --> 00:26:43,440 Speaker 10: and I'm sorry you missed it. 599 00:26:43,760 --> 00:26:46,159 Speaker 6: Arion Tipmas. Of course, I assume she turned up with 600 00:26:46,240 --> 00:26:46,719 Speaker 6: some medals. 601 00:26:47,320 --> 00:26:50,880 Speaker 10: She turned up with a medal, the most important metal, 602 00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:53,760 Speaker 10: because you bring two items. If she brought two gold medals, 603 00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:56,000 Speaker 10: that would be boring, Yeah, would first one would be 604 00:26:56,000 --> 00:26:57,760 Speaker 10: interesting and then you'd sort of drift off a little 605 00:26:57,760 --> 00:27:00,159 Speaker 10: bit while she was talking about the second one. So 606 00:27:01,400 --> 00:27:03,639 Speaker 10: she bought that lovely dress in that she's going to 607 00:27:03,760 --> 00:27:06,640 Speaker 10: give her daughters once she wore when she was three. 608 00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:09,320 Speaker 10: But Frank Woodley, Frank Woodley is one of the is 609 00:27:09,440 --> 00:27:13,160 Speaker 10: the funniest. I think he's the funniest product of comedy 610 00:27:13,600 --> 00:27:15,520 Speaker 10: that this country's ever extruded. 611 00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:21,000 Speaker 4: Is he our greatest physical artist? I think as slapstick 612 00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:23,960 Speaker 4: and he is just one of the funniest men going around. 613 00:27:24,040 --> 00:27:26,040 Speaker 10: Sean, I agree with you. I think he is. He 614 00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:31,680 Speaker 10: is the apotheosis, the integer, the absolute highest mountain you 615 00:27:31,760 --> 00:27:34,400 Speaker 10: could climb in terms of physical comedy. I mean he's 616 00:27:34,400 --> 00:27:36,840 Speaker 10: all right to chat to, more funny physically, I mean 617 00:27:36,840 --> 00:27:37,880 Speaker 10: I found him a bit tedious. 618 00:27:38,040 --> 00:27:42,119 Speaker 7: Sure, just do your act and then shut up kind 619 00:27:42,119 --> 00:27:44,840 Speaker 7: of what you want to say. Can we just jumping 620 00:27:44,880 --> 00:27:47,560 Speaker 7: off that show? Can we go back to the finale 621 00:27:47,760 --> 00:27:51,200 Speaker 7: of Dancing with the Stars? Congratulations on number two and 622 00:27:51,280 --> 00:27:53,200 Speaker 7: it was well said, I think by one of the 623 00:27:53,280 --> 00:27:56,960 Speaker 7: judges we need to see more of Sean mcarloff on TV. 624 00:27:57,359 --> 00:28:01,760 Speaker 6: And you suggested the past thirty years of the painful enough. 625 00:28:02,040 --> 00:28:04,800 Speaker 10: I would have thought so. I was hopeful that would 626 00:28:04,920 --> 00:28:07,960 Speaker 10: end it my performance. I want you to do Dancing 627 00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:08,440 Speaker 10: with a start. 628 00:28:08,600 --> 00:28:09,000 Speaker 6: That's it. 629 00:28:09,280 --> 00:28:12,200 Speaker 10: There's nothing more you can offer. Surely that's the last 630 00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:14,040 Speaker 10: crag of talent. 631 00:28:14,520 --> 00:28:18,400 Speaker 7: I want you to answer a question, yes that has 632 00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:21,520 Speaker 7: been on the lips part of the pun of so 633 00:28:21,880 --> 00:28:23,200 Speaker 7: many women here in Sydney. 634 00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:26,120 Speaker 6: What's it like to kiss doctor Chris. 635 00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:29,320 Speaker 10: Brown The word heavenly doesn't begin to describe it. 636 00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:31,280 Speaker 6: Soft lips. 637 00:28:32,040 --> 00:28:34,720 Speaker 10: Here's got soft lips. He hadn't shaved, but then nine 638 00:28:34,760 --> 00:28:36,520 Speaker 10: had eyes, so it's hard to tell who was bristling 639 00:28:36,640 --> 00:28:39,080 Speaker 10: the other. Yeah, he did lean in like I lent 640 00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:41,040 Speaker 10: in I reckon, I lent in half a foot and 641 00:28:41,120 --> 00:28:42,920 Speaker 10: then he lent in the other two inches. 642 00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:47,000 Speaker 4: Yes, so it was a roma, Sean, what was he 643 00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:53,760 Speaker 4: a roma like blue stratos? Wow? 644 00:28:54,200 --> 00:28:56,800 Speaker 6: I had no idea. All secrets revealed. 645 00:28:57,000 --> 00:28:58,520 Speaker 4: Well, he's a bondo boy, isn't he. 646 00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:01,240 Speaker 7: I suppose when we watch our p's and q's on 647 00:29:01,320 --> 00:29:03,400 Speaker 7: this show because there's kids in the car and Tommy. 648 00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:05,000 Speaker 6: I don't like to say it. Yeah, you're very a 649 00:29:05,040 --> 00:29:07,760 Speaker 6: little bit um. It was a bit pissed off. 650 00:29:08,920 --> 00:29:12,160 Speaker 7: We spent a week together in Switzerland, yes, and not 651 00:29:12,280 --> 00:29:13,360 Speaker 7: even a kiss between us. 652 00:29:13,480 --> 00:29:15,920 Speaker 6: No, we had a good time, but our lips never 653 00:29:16,040 --> 00:29:16,880 Speaker 6: looked like touching. 654 00:29:17,280 --> 00:29:20,560 Speaker 7: You go on some dance program and Brownie gets the 655 00:29:20,680 --> 00:29:22,800 Speaker 7: kiss and either was a feeling jealousy. 656 00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:25,520 Speaker 10: But that was nine weeks, Like that show was nine 657 00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:28,200 Speaker 10: weeks we courted, we got to know each other well. 658 00:29:28,320 --> 00:29:30,280 Speaker 10: It would have been to rush to a kiss with 659 00:29:30,440 --> 00:29:33,400 Speaker 10: you or even a dance, yeah, within only a week 660 00:29:33,400 --> 00:29:36,960 Speaker 10: would have been ridiculous, as romantic as Zurich is. And 661 00:29:37,120 --> 00:29:39,480 Speaker 10: also all that cheese we ate. That was probably another 662 00:29:39,520 --> 00:29:41,320 Speaker 10: reason why we weren't in the mood. 663 00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:42,440 Speaker 6: With that repelling eye. 664 00:29:42,880 --> 00:29:44,960 Speaker 4: Or just the toughest would have been the plane ride 665 00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:47,480 Speaker 4: over to Europe with Michael Whitfley, wouldn't it, Sean Or 666 00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:48,120 Speaker 4: was that tough? 667 00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:50,040 Speaker 10: I don't know whether he asked for this, but you 668 00:29:50,120 --> 00:29:51,800 Speaker 10: were in the from memory, you were in the other 669 00:29:51,960 --> 00:29:53,240 Speaker 10: row and I was on the other side of the 670 00:29:53,280 --> 00:29:55,680 Speaker 10: plane and there was about three a bank of three 671 00:29:55,760 --> 00:29:57,720 Speaker 10: between us, so I didn't see it. And we're also 672 00:29:57,760 --> 00:30:00,680 Speaker 10: in those little booths, you know, because we obviously very 673 00:30:00,720 --> 00:30:05,440 Speaker 10: exclusive flying what's beyond first class at some big executive level, 674 00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:08,040 Speaker 10: executive level. In fact, I was at one point flying 675 00:30:08,080 --> 00:30:11,520 Speaker 10: the plane. I was really up the pointing end. 676 00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:13,960 Speaker 6: Even the weird twist was on the flight over. 677 00:30:14,120 --> 00:30:16,440 Speaker 7: Donna Hay was sitting in front of us, and I 678 00:30:16,760 --> 00:30:19,240 Speaker 7: was just hoping she'd turn around with a chop chip cookie. 679 00:30:19,360 --> 00:30:21,640 Speaker 10: You didn't even wait for that possibility you were tapping 680 00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:23,840 Speaker 10: her on the head and trying to give her that 681 00:30:23,960 --> 00:30:25,280 Speaker 10: bloody pornographic book. 682 00:30:28,400 --> 00:30:31,640 Speaker 4: Future guests on Eve of Destruction? Who can we expect 683 00:30:31,720 --> 00:30:32,560 Speaker 4: coming up on the show? 684 00:30:32,680 --> 00:30:36,080 Speaker 10: Show well? Next week Lisa McEwen is on and she 685 00:30:36,680 --> 00:30:39,200 Speaker 10: and I both performed Shakespeare, so you know you wouldn't 686 00:30:39,200 --> 00:30:43,920 Speaker 10: get And the other guest is Josh Cavarlo, who was 687 00:30:43,960 --> 00:30:46,560 Speaker 10: a wonderful young soccer player. You know, Joshi played for 688 00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:50,040 Speaker 10: of course Adelaide United. He's now playing for an international team. 689 00:30:50,080 --> 00:30:51,600 Speaker 10: But we'll find out more about that next week. 690 00:30:51,680 --> 00:30:52,000 Speaker 4: Correct. 691 00:30:52,040 --> 00:30:53,960 Speaker 7: You know it brought up a great question because if 692 00:30:54,000 --> 00:30:55,800 Speaker 7: you asked yourself, what is the two things that you 693 00:30:55,840 --> 00:30:58,640 Speaker 7: would say from your house if it was to be destroyed? 694 00:30:58,720 --> 00:31:00,640 Speaker 6: My mom, and this was a great moment. 695 00:31:01,360 --> 00:31:03,480 Speaker 7: Our house was under threat from a bush fire and 696 00:31:03,720 --> 00:31:05,680 Speaker 7: Mom had to grab one thing to put into the car. 697 00:31:06,440 --> 00:31:09,520 Speaker 7: Out of everything she could have grabbed from the house, 698 00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:14,440 Speaker 7: she chose to grab a wooden boat that I'd made 699 00:31:14,600 --> 00:31:17,440 Speaker 7: for her at school that was called the Lady Christine, 700 00:31:17,480 --> 00:31:18,280 Speaker 7: which is her name. 701 00:31:18,600 --> 00:31:21,600 Speaker 10: How beautiful? What we should get your mother on next week? 702 00:31:23,160 --> 00:31:25,200 Speaker 7: I've sort of got it away now, but the thing 703 00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:29,080 Speaker 7: was very clearly spelt out who was the favorite child 704 00:31:29,200 --> 00:31:32,400 Speaker 7: in the family. You know, in a moment of an emergency, 705 00:31:33,000 --> 00:31:35,440 Speaker 7: she thought, what do I love my son over. 706 00:31:35,400 --> 00:31:36,320 Speaker 6: My two daughters? 707 00:31:37,560 --> 00:31:39,800 Speaker 10: It might be who was the most needy, who would 708 00:31:39,840 --> 00:31:42,960 Speaker 10: react badly if they didn't have their thing rescue. This 709 00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:46,200 Speaker 10: might be more about not so much a flattering assessment 710 00:31:46,280 --> 00:31:48,360 Speaker 10: of your weapon, but it might be that you were 711 00:31:48,520 --> 00:31:52,440 Speaker 10: so vulnerable, needy and pathetic. The more assament question, though, 712 00:31:52,520 --> 00:31:54,360 Speaker 10: is why weaper? Did you burn down the house? 713 00:31:54,480 --> 00:31:58,040 Speaker 7: I will love it done that, but you know, the 714 00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:01,960 Speaker 7: rates were getting high, insurance policy was in and the 715 00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:03,520 Speaker 7: wooden boat needed to be saved. 716 00:32:05,520 --> 00:32:07,440 Speaker 4: Brand around to play brand Man if you don't mind 717 00:32:07,520 --> 00:32:08,520 Speaker 4: Sean brown Man? 718 00:32:08,600 --> 00:32:11,880 Speaker 10: Okay, well, can I swat up on that? Who did it? 719 00:32:12,000 --> 00:32:12,360 Speaker 10: Last time? 720 00:32:12,560 --> 00:32:18,040 Speaker 6: Ali Langdon came innurr. Do you understand what brand Man is, Sean? 721 00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:19,400 Speaker 6: Or is this the first you've heard of her? 722 00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:22,320 Speaker 10: No idea. I'd give Ali you ring, I'll ask you 723 00:32:23,160 --> 00:32:23,960 Speaker 10: you do. 724 00:32:24,040 --> 00:32:28,280 Speaker 4: You eat all brand? I thought that's what the game 725 00:32:28,440 --> 00:32:28,800 Speaker 4: was it. 726 00:32:28,840 --> 00:32:31,720 Speaker 10: Was I thought it was brown Man. We've got to 727 00:32:31,800 --> 00:32:32,360 Speaker 10: sort this out. 728 00:32:32,520 --> 00:32:35,320 Speaker 1: This is the Fitting In with Kate Richie podcast. 729 00:32:35,680 --> 00:32:37,160 Speaker 6: We've got a special guest in the studio. 730 00:32:37,240 --> 00:32:40,600 Speaker 7: It's been talking about Eve of Destruction with Sean mccarlo. 731 00:32:40,800 --> 00:32:42,600 Speaker 6: Great to have you here for Brand. 732 00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:45,360 Speaker 10: Man, mate, I'm looking forward to Brown Man. Let's play it. 733 00:32:54,160 --> 00:32:59,800 Speaker 4: Maybe an explanation of the rules of the game would 734 00:32:59,840 --> 00:33:00,680 Speaker 4: be for sure, it's. 735 00:33:00,560 --> 00:33:02,240 Speaker 6: Going to help. We just had a bit of clarity 736 00:33:02,960 --> 00:33:04,200 Speaker 6: for Brand Man. 737 00:33:05,080 --> 00:33:06,080 Speaker 10: Brand. 738 00:33:06,440 --> 00:33:09,600 Speaker 7: Yes, we think we turn our consumer side of our 739 00:33:09,640 --> 00:33:12,080 Speaker 7: brain on and we think about all the brands in 740 00:33:12,200 --> 00:33:15,040 Speaker 7: the world and then ask a question relating to a brand. 741 00:33:15,040 --> 00:33:16,480 Speaker 6: You're gonna tell me what the brand is. 742 00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:19,120 Speaker 10: Oh, that's see, I'm going to disadvantage because only by 743 00:33:19,240 --> 00:33:20,320 Speaker 10: black and gold products. 744 00:33:23,040 --> 00:33:23,760 Speaker 4: Is that on the list? 745 00:33:24,840 --> 00:33:28,680 Speaker 6: It is today? I don't think it is today? Shoot, okay, 746 00:33:31,040 --> 00:33:34,719 Speaker 6: here we go, all right? What shape is the Pepsi logo? 747 00:33:36,520 --> 00:33:39,720 Speaker 10: Pepsi Low. That's a color, isn't it? I reckon it's 748 00:33:39,760 --> 00:33:42,360 Speaker 10: probably an ellipse? Is it an ellipse? Looks like an 749 00:33:42,680 --> 00:33:46,520 Speaker 10: like a global Yeah? No, No, an ellipse, a bit 750 00:33:46,640 --> 00:33:48,600 Speaker 10: like the way the moon orbits the Earth. 751 00:33:48,840 --> 00:33:51,280 Speaker 6: It's a circle. Sean McCaul If you've got the first one, 752 00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:52,160 Speaker 6: it's so good. 753 00:33:52,320 --> 00:33:56,360 Speaker 7: What answer which car company is currently using Russell Coit 754 00:33:56,800 --> 00:33:57,480 Speaker 7: in their ads? 755 00:33:57,960 --> 00:33:58,120 Speaker 12: Oh? 756 00:33:58,240 --> 00:33:59,960 Speaker 10: That's a that's going great time, isn't it. 757 00:34:00,440 --> 00:34:04,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, three diamonds, that's mis Yes it is, Ryan James. 758 00:34:04,760 --> 00:34:06,320 Speaker 10: This is a contest. I thought you were just asking 759 00:34:06,400 --> 00:34:09,480 Speaker 10: me questions. I didn't realize I had to come in quickly. 760 00:34:09,680 --> 00:34:12,040 Speaker 10: All right, Sorry, sorry, it's a competition. It's a it's 761 00:34:12,080 --> 00:34:13,400 Speaker 10: a little fun radio. 762 00:34:13,200 --> 00:34:14,560 Speaker 6: Game that macaula. 763 00:34:14,920 --> 00:34:16,759 Speaker 10: Okay, no, well now that I know what we're doing, 764 00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:17,479 Speaker 10: all right, fine? 765 00:34:18,040 --> 00:34:19,279 Speaker 6: Two warm up questions were great? 766 00:34:19,640 --> 00:34:22,680 Speaker 7: Which company used this song in the twenty twenty one? 767 00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:26,440 Speaker 7: Normally you hear the song first. 768 00:34:26,680 --> 00:34:28,520 Speaker 10: No, no, I'm ahead of you. I want to get 769 00:34:28,520 --> 00:34:30,640 Speaker 10: in early and win this one. What is it is? 770 00:34:30,719 --> 00:34:30,759 Speaker 12: It? 771 00:34:31,400 --> 00:34:35,520 Speaker 10: Is it doors? That sort of thing that Kate blanche 772 00:34:35,560 --> 00:34:37,120 Speaker 10: ad advertising, that's smelling stuff. 773 00:34:37,120 --> 00:34:40,320 Speaker 6: If you hear the clue, we can give you the 774 00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:42,960 Speaker 6: clue in song, and then you might have a better 775 00:34:45,120 --> 00:34:45,760 Speaker 6: fly away. 776 00:34:47,800 --> 00:34:51,120 Speaker 4: It's got to be the flying Kangaroo. Is that quantest? 777 00:34:51,280 --> 00:34:54,520 Speaker 6: Yes, it is. So the clue can help sean competition. 778 00:34:54,800 --> 00:34:56,000 Speaker 10: Who was that singing? Who was that? 779 00:34:56,280 --> 00:34:56,640 Speaker 4: That was? 780 00:34:56,800 --> 00:34:57,560 Speaker 6: Tones and Eyes? 781 00:34:57,960 --> 00:34:58,239 Speaker 2: What's this? 782 00:34:58,440 --> 00:34:59,920 Speaker 10: What's this got to do with brown Man? 783 00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:00,120 Speaker 2: No? 784 00:35:00,200 --> 00:35:05,800 Speaker 6: No, brand a nd just to write it down in 785 00:35:05,840 --> 00:35:06,160 Speaker 6: front of it. 786 00:35:06,320 --> 00:35:09,880 Speaker 7: I know what we're doing now, Okay, which animal is 787 00:35:10,120 --> 00:35:11,960 Speaker 7: also sean? 788 00:35:14,160 --> 00:35:16,880 Speaker 10: It's the Jackaranda hopping mouse. 789 00:35:17,560 --> 00:35:22,160 Speaker 7: Look it's not what yes your face no, no, no, 790 00:35:22,640 --> 00:35:27,520 Speaker 7: you missed sort of you missed the clue again. Wait yeah, yeah, okay, 791 00:35:27,800 --> 00:35:30,000 Speaker 7: so I understand, Tommy. Maybe hold your hand up so 792 00:35:30,080 --> 00:35:32,200 Speaker 7: sure consent and when you drop it, that's when you 793 00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:36,520 Speaker 7: can jump in. Which animal is also mattress brand? And 794 00:35:36,640 --> 00:35:39,359 Speaker 7: I don't think the hopping mouse is a mattress brand. 795 00:35:39,400 --> 00:35:41,480 Speaker 10: I know less. I know less with the clue. When 796 00:35:41,520 --> 00:35:43,560 Speaker 10: the clue makes me more confused. 797 00:35:43,520 --> 00:35:47,560 Speaker 6: I'm gonna say, kWh fits once again? What to nick on? 798 00:35:47,719 --> 00:35:54,480 Speaker 10: Make me me that they make cameras? Yes, well, thank you. 799 00:35:54,640 --> 00:35:56,640 Speaker 10: I knew that. I actually knew that. I don't have one. 800 00:35:56,880 --> 00:35:59,719 Speaker 10: I don't have the phone. You know phone, yes, fifty 801 00:35:59,840 --> 00:36:01,719 Speaker 10: Did you know that phones have cameras in them? Now? 802 00:36:01,880 --> 00:36:04,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, I know it's unbelow. The technology has got better 803 00:36:04,560 --> 00:36:04,960 Speaker 4: every year. 804 00:36:05,080 --> 00:36:07,520 Speaker 7: So it's taken short halfway through the quiz to understand 805 00:36:07,960 --> 00:36:11,120 Speaker 7: the quiz. Which beer shares its name? 806 00:36:11,320 --> 00:36:14,000 Speaker 10: I know, I know you don't drink I know, but 807 00:36:14,080 --> 00:36:15,799 Speaker 10: I know that beer is brown and that's the name 808 00:36:15,840 --> 00:36:17,680 Speaker 10: of the segment, so I know that that will be right. 809 00:36:18,760 --> 00:36:21,440 Speaker 6: Tommy put your hand up. Sorry. As an indicator, I 810 00:36:21,560 --> 00:36:23,319 Speaker 6: threw you off there. We'll go from the top. 811 00:36:23,719 --> 00:36:26,879 Speaker 7: Which bee shares its name with a virus that's shut 812 00:36:27,000 --> 00:36:28,640 Speaker 7: down the world in twenty twenty? 813 00:36:29,080 --> 00:36:29,360 Speaker 2: Got it? 814 00:36:29,520 --> 00:36:29,759 Speaker 12: Know it? 815 00:36:30,080 --> 00:36:30,440 Speaker 10: Southern? 816 00:36:33,080 --> 00:36:36,480 Speaker 6: Did you? Were you vaccinated the virus? 817 00:36:36,680 --> 00:36:40,240 Speaker 10: Yeah? I got that and it's fine. I'm from South Australia, 818 00:36:40,719 --> 00:36:44,840 Speaker 10: South Australia and bitter. Yes, something better. And that is 819 00:36:44,880 --> 00:36:46,960 Speaker 10: the cause of the blue green algae. The problem they've 820 00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:48,360 Speaker 10: got that, that's not the issue. 821 00:36:48,400 --> 00:36:53,080 Speaker 6: It was corona we were looking for. It takes quite 822 00:36:53,160 --> 00:36:53,520 Speaker 6: a lead. 823 00:36:54,640 --> 00:36:58,880 Speaker 7: Flavor you can see is the tagline of what popular snack? 824 00:36:59,239 --> 00:37:00,880 Speaker 10: Got it? Barbecue shapes? 825 00:37:01,200 --> 00:37:06,920 Speaker 6: Yes, can pants and can eat snacks. 826 00:37:07,080 --> 00:37:09,880 Speaker 10: Mind you, I've noticed that they're not in the shape 827 00:37:09,920 --> 00:37:16,000 Speaker 10: of barbecues, So why they call barbecue Shapes's interesting. 828 00:37:15,640 --> 00:37:22,000 Speaker 7: To eat around the bovee monkey flavoring cool name a commercial. 829 00:37:21,680 --> 00:37:22,960 Speaker 10: Ad you all right, I've got it? 830 00:37:25,239 --> 00:37:25,520 Speaker 4: Name it? 831 00:37:25,640 --> 00:37:29,719 Speaker 10: That's all, okay, dior I mentioned earlier. Still, that is 832 00:37:29,760 --> 00:37:30,880 Speaker 10: the correct amount. 833 00:37:31,800 --> 00:37:34,359 Speaker 7: I can't give one to Sean there for the sake 834 00:37:34,440 --> 00:37:36,760 Speaker 7: of having him in and supporting the guests. 835 00:37:37,560 --> 00:37:42,319 Speaker 6: And it is your final question. What color is associated? 836 00:37:42,960 --> 00:37:43,279 Speaker 2: What is it? 837 00:37:43,920 --> 00:37:50,680 Speaker 6: Browny? I don't know why we got him in. 838 00:37:51,600 --> 00:37:59,359 Speaker 4: It makes no sense to him. He is absolutely dominated. 839 00:38:00,480 --> 00:38:01,120 Speaker 10: Confused. 840 00:38:01,600 --> 00:38:04,400 Speaker 4: One of our main games on the show Sean mccalif 841 00:38:04,480 --> 00:38:07,239 Speaker 4: the winner of brand Man. And also you can catch 842 00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:10,480 Speaker 4: him every Wednesday night, Eve of Destruction on ABC TV 843 00:38:10,560 --> 00:38:12,279 Speaker 4: and you can catch up if you missed last night's 844 00:38:12,320 --> 00:38:15,320 Speaker 4: episode go to ABC ivy love you, Sean macalof. 845 00:38:15,400 --> 00:38:21,120 Speaker 6: Thanks for k Shane, Thank you boys, see your so 846 00:38:21,280 --> 00:38:21,600 Speaker 6: you love. 847 00:38:22,000 --> 00:38:25,040 Speaker 5: This is the Fits and Whipper with Cape Ritchie podcast. 848 00:38:25,360 --> 00:38:27,480 Speaker 4: Look at this story here, Fits. 849 00:38:27,520 --> 00:38:28,400 Speaker 6: This is alarming. 850 00:38:28,760 --> 00:38:31,000 Speaker 7: We talk about phones, We talk about social media and 851 00:38:31,080 --> 00:38:33,400 Speaker 7: screen time a lot on the show, and of course 852 00:38:33,520 --> 00:38:35,880 Speaker 7: we're very aware as parents. 853 00:38:36,000 --> 00:38:37,840 Speaker 6: When you see your kid just sitting on the phone. 854 00:38:38,360 --> 00:38:40,600 Speaker 7: You know, according to Maggie Dent, there's only one good 855 00:38:40,680 --> 00:38:44,040 Speaker 7: place for iPads, and that's on aeroplanes with kids. Outside 856 00:38:44,080 --> 00:38:46,200 Speaker 7: of that, just try and keep them clear because they're 857 00:38:46,320 --> 00:38:50,680 Speaker 7: so addictive. Turns out, though, Fits, people that are most 858 00:38:50,680 --> 00:38:56,080 Speaker 7: addicted to their phones are blokes age between eighteen and forty. 859 00:38:57,360 --> 00:39:01,759 Speaker 7: Boy slide just past that bracket. But suspect that we 860 00:39:01,920 --> 00:39:03,040 Speaker 7: have a bit of an issue as well. 861 00:39:03,080 --> 00:39:03,759 Speaker 6: And that's the thing. 862 00:39:04,040 --> 00:39:05,680 Speaker 7: You look at your kids and then you really need 863 00:39:05,719 --> 00:39:08,239 Speaker 7: to look in the mirror sometimes as you go, oh god, 864 00:39:08,800 --> 00:39:09,840 Speaker 7: that's what I'm doing. 865 00:39:09,920 --> 00:39:11,799 Speaker 6: That's what I do. When you walk into a room 866 00:39:11,840 --> 00:39:12,719 Speaker 6: in your head is down. 867 00:39:13,880 --> 00:39:16,680 Speaker 4: It's a good feeling? Is it's not a good feeling 868 00:39:16,719 --> 00:39:17,000 Speaker 4: at all? 869 00:39:17,280 --> 00:39:18,479 Speaker 6: What do you reckon? 870 00:39:18,520 --> 00:39:21,560 Speaker 7: The average is that someone aged between eight and forty 871 00:39:21,760 --> 00:39:24,000 Speaker 7: are stuck on their phone on their screen. 872 00:39:24,239 --> 00:39:29,400 Speaker 4: Four hours a day, four hours up, five six six. 873 00:39:29,440 --> 00:39:32,399 Speaker 6: Banks, six hours time. 874 00:39:33,000 --> 00:39:34,640 Speaker 4: My gosh, Like if. 875 00:39:34,520 --> 00:39:36,640 Speaker 7: You're doing your nine to five, you standard eight hour 876 00:39:37,480 --> 00:39:39,400 Speaker 7: and s like, let's say that's you know, you know 877 00:39:39,440 --> 00:39:40,759 Speaker 7: how long a workday can take. 878 00:39:41,440 --> 00:39:43,720 Speaker 6: I think that you can do six of those hours 879 00:39:44,360 --> 00:39:46,279 Speaker 6: and only for whatever you're looking at it. 880 00:39:46,280 --> 00:39:48,560 Speaker 7: You know, I don't know, fust it's completely up to 881 00:39:48,640 --> 00:39:53,120 Speaker 7: you worth going round the room to check what the 882 00:39:53,200 --> 00:39:54,120 Speaker 7: team is doing. 883 00:39:54,040 --> 00:39:56,640 Speaker 6: And who's really expeending Ollie in here as well? 884 00:39:56,920 --> 00:39:57,920 Speaker 4: Do we want to do this? 885 00:39:58,719 --> 00:40:01,920 Speaker 6: Because Ollie is a been for social media like we 886 00:40:02,120 --> 00:40:02,840 Speaker 6: live it. 887 00:40:03,640 --> 00:40:06,960 Speaker 4: We you know obviously we use work as a bit 888 00:40:06,960 --> 00:40:09,160 Speaker 4: of an excuse as well. You can't really do that, 889 00:40:09,320 --> 00:40:09,680 Speaker 4: can you be? 890 00:40:10,000 --> 00:40:10,160 Speaker 10: Well? 891 00:40:10,840 --> 00:40:11,840 Speaker 6: Okay, so what you got to do? 892 00:40:12,040 --> 00:40:13,880 Speaker 7: You've got to go into settings and you can then 893 00:40:14,080 --> 00:40:17,880 Speaker 7: search or scroll down to screen time god Ollie in 894 00:40:17,920 --> 00:40:20,080 Speaker 7: the studio because he's younger than the rest of us. 895 00:40:20,800 --> 00:40:22,600 Speaker 6: And what do you spend most of your time on? 896 00:40:22,760 --> 00:40:22,800 Speaker 9: Like? 897 00:40:22,880 --> 00:40:24,120 Speaker 6: What app would you be on the most? 898 00:40:24,160 --> 00:40:26,200 Speaker 4: Oh, probably Instagram or TikTok. 899 00:40:26,360 --> 00:40:31,200 Speaker 6: Yeah on the top it's research doom scrolling. Tell me 900 00:40:31,200 --> 00:40:32,080 Speaker 6: why don't we start with you? 901 00:40:32,480 --> 00:40:32,600 Speaker 12: Oh? 902 00:40:32,719 --> 00:40:35,879 Speaker 10: Sure? Yeah, Okay, I am not too bad. I'm three 903 00:40:36,000 --> 00:40:38,240 Speaker 10: hours and twenty six minutes. 904 00:40:38,440 --> 00:40:41,839 Speaker 6: Three hours twenty six Tommy, that's pretty good. 905 00:40:42,680 --> 00:40:44,640 Speaker 7: Yours would be up, especially in the last twenty four 906 00:40:44,680 --> 00:40:45,520 Speaker 7: hours due to the time. 907 00:40:46,040 --> 00:40:48,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm at four hours and forty nine minutes, but 908 00:40:48,200 --> 00:40:50,279 Speaker 3: that's down thirty percent from last week. 909 00:40:51,280 --> 00:40:53,600 Speaker 10: Thank you guys, Honor to be seen and Jesse. 910 00:40:53,440 --> 00:40:55,840 Speaker 7: If you can then click on your daily average or 911 00:40:56,360 --> 00:40:59,960 Speaker 7: where it says see all app and website activity. 912 00:41:00,520 --> 00:41:01,800 Speaker 6: What are you spending most time on? 913 00:41:03,120 --> 00:41:05,840 Speaker 3: That's TikTok for the week five hours and fifteen minutes. 914 00:41:05,880 --> 00:41:07,880 Speaker 3: But important to note ways, which is you know I 915 00:41:08,000 --> 00:41:09,919 Speaker 3: use that to get home? Yeah, still don't know where 916 00:41:09,920 --> 00:41:11,839 Speaker 3: I live. That's given me an hour. And then also 917 00:41:11,880 --> 00:41:13,759 Speaker 3: the baby monitor is adding when you leave that on 918 00:41:13,880 --> 00:41:14,320 Speaker 3: our mites. 919 00:41:14,360 --> 00:41:15,600 Speaker 6: Ok, maybe not as. 920 00:41:15,560 --> 00:41:16,279 Speaker 5: Bad as you boys. 921 00:41:16,719 --> 00:41:19,880 Speaker 6: Fitzy, where are you at mate, I'm four hours. 922 00:41:19,680 --> 00:41:23,520 Speaker 4: And three minutes. Last week's average Instagram was quite a 923 00:41:23,600 --> 00:41:28,239 Speaker 4: bit nine hours. Ways was the same jest. I think 924 00:41:28,239 --> 00:41:30,560 Speaker 4: we're trying to avoid what do you mean ways? 925 00:41:31,120 --> 00:41:31,480 Speaker 6: Ways? 926 00:41:32,400 --> 00:41:35,440 Speaker 4: Ways is? Remember Pete Klay got us onto it here 927 00:41:35,520 --> 00:41:38,320 Speaker 4: at work. He does it to avoid all the speed cameras. 928 00:41:38,680 --> 00:41:40,520 Speaker 4: So that's what you put in your car. You put 929 00:41:40,600 --> 00:41:42,320 Speaker 4: up on your car, and when you go to your destination, 930 00:41:42,480 --> 00:41:44,719 Speaker 4: it will tell you if there's a red light camera 931 00:41:44,840 --> 00:41:47,520 Speaker 4: coming up, or if there's a cop in the area, 932 00:41:48,200 --> 00:41:50,360 Speaker 4: or you know, if I've had about eight drinks. 933 00:41:51,880 --> 00:41:54,840 Speaker 7: Makes sense. Thank you Pete Clay for your tip on ways. 934 00:41:54,960 --> 00:41:56,560 Speaker 7: I've Tommy, I think I've beatn new arm at three 935 00:41:56,640 --> 00:41:57,200 Speaker 7: twenty seven. 936 00:41:57,360 --> 00:41:57,799 Speaker 10: Well done. 937 00:41:58,360 --> 00:41:59,440 Speaker 6: Can we get a drum roll for. 938 00:41:59,440 --> 00:42:01,120 Speaker 7: The youngest men in the room, because I reckon he's 939 00:42:01,120 --> 00:42:03,200 Speaker 7: going to top all of us lives on this gear. 940 00:42:03,760 --> 00:42:04,799 Speaker 4: Seven hours. 941 00:42:09,760 --> 00:42:10,960 Speaker 6: And what are you spending at all? 942 00:42:11,200 --> 00:42:15,600 Speaker 14: Thirteen hours on Instagram, four hours of messages, four hours 943 00:42:15,640 --> 00:42:19,920 Speaker 14: on TikTok outlook, three hours and seven company man photos, 944 00:42:19,960 --> 00:42:21,480 Speaker 14: an hour, combank an hour. 945 00:42:21,760 --> 00:42:25,360 Speaker 4: Wow, Okay, I don't know if your bank account crying. 946 00:42:25,400 --> 00:42:27,759 Speaker 6: There's still nothing in there, Still nothing in there? Still 947 00:42:27,800 --> 00:42:29,640 Speaker 6: nothing in there. My God, you went on. 948 00:42:29,800 --> 00:42:32,640 Speaker 7: Seeing Whipper with Kate Ritchie is a Nova podcast to 949 00:42:32,719 --> 00:42:36,040 Speaker 7: walk great shows like this. Download the Nova player, Fire 950 00:42:36,080 --> 00:42:38,760 Speaker 7: the app store, or Google playing the Nova player