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Speaker 1: Coming up on relatables. You like him even if he

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Speaker 1: doesn't like you. You need to know because being friends

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Speaker 1: with him while you like him is not possible.

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Speaker 2: It's not healthy. No, not at all.

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Speaker 1: You know it's not. It's just it's stupid. Been there though,

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Speaker 1: Like you want to stay friends with someone that you

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Speaker 1: like because you like him so much that you think

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Speaker 1: eventually they'll change their mind. I've been young, I've done

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Speaker 1: it tried. Doesn't work, all right, doesn't work.

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Speaker 2: The Relatives podcast is hosted by it myself Oddie Clark

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Speaker 2: aka Mummy and my partner in crime, Jake Craig aka Daddy.

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Speaker 1: I gonna call myself Daddy.

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Speaker 2: That's by the fans, guys. You guys are the baddies.

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Speaker 2: But Jake, if you can tell my voice, I'm excited

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Speaker 2: for this first segment.

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Speaker 1: Me too.

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Speaker 2: We have a newfound skill, we both do. I'm going

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Speaker 2: that far. Yeah. Behind the scenes, Jake and I have

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Speaker 2: been writing some lyrics for I'm just gonna say, guys,

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Speaker 2: we've become artists.

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Speaker 1: We have become artists, self proclaimed but pretty good.

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Speaker 2: That's where you've got to start, exactly true.

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Speaker 1: Everyone starts somewhere. You've got to have some you've got

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Speaker 1: to have that undeniable belief that you are just born

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Speaker 1: for this. Yeah, So basically, let's go back it's a

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Speaker 2: Yes, this is actually a long time in the works.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so Oddie. It was Oddy's idea, and he said,

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Speaker 1: let's both We did our segment sound yeah, with a

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Speaker 1: guy named Toby Wells who we've become friends with, but

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Speaker 1: he also just produces music. So he said, let's do

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Speaker 1: an archetype a segment on the podcast where we both

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Speaker 1: we both write a song. We go, we make a

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Speaker 2: So this is going to be my song episode. Next

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Speaker 2: both songs are being released on Spotify. Yes, and whoever

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Speaker 2: to do a music video.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, a music video or I feel like a music

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's funny. I think whoever losers will be in

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Speaker 2: But it was quite the fun process, so we started

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Speaker 2: Okay, So I'll tell you a little bit about mine.

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Speaker 2: The song title is Caught in My Thoughts. Okay, shit,

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Speaker 2: I have a feeling.

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Speaker 2: My thoughts by Addie Clark through this place a lie.

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Speaker 3: I put trust in time, the only thing that he

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Speaker 3: My thoughts say good in time search inferences I can find.

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Speaker 3: My mind caught him. My thoughts lost in my mind.

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Speaker 2: It's giving major illuminaus. It's one of my favorite dollars.

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Speaker 2: Oh man, it's damn got my thoughts tangled in time

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Speaker 2: Will you give the name or anything about it? Give

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Speaker 1: The interesting thing with mine is the name isn't in

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Speaker 2: And right now, yeah, who do you think is going

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Speaker 1: I think skill into it, like because you and I

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Speaker 1: I'm saying to Toby I'm like, I bet you already

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Speaker 2: You gotta come back next week to hear Jake's translucent.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I decided to release it.

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Speaker 1: I am so excited to tell you what Wine's about,

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Speaker 1: rest of the episode. But before we do that, let's

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Speaker 1: keep the lights on Spotify five stars. Hit us up

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Speaker 1: YouTube subscribe. That's like Patreon just told you about it.

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Speaker 1: I don't know why you wouldn't go over there. Now,

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Speaker 1: why aren't you over on Patreon? Now go hit up

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Speaker 1: the vlogs. We'll obviously do. Yeah, and all right, let's

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Speaker 4: Let's jump into it, all right, Next up, we got

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Speaker 4: boy logic.

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Speaker 2: This is the new one, isn't it. We haven't done

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Speaker 2: Girl's perspective, from a girl's perspective. Okay, all right, is

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Speaker 2: this throwing fire at us a little bit?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, a little bit, as always so boy logic. If

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Speaker 1: I can't see it, it isn't messy.

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Speaker 1: See, like your skin's good, yeah, but if you stop

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Speaker 2: It feels like it's happening again. Yeah, she thinks about

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Speaker 1: SAME's my logic in my brain goes is like why yeah,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that makes a lot of sense. Actually, I don't

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Speaker 1: It's good to know boy logic. I said, oh yeah,

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Speaker 2: Did a fucking TikTok. It's like things you can say

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Speaker 1: You know what I've gotten so so good at is

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Speaker 2: It's funny. I don't know if I can tell because

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Speaker 2: I don't know, funny, it's just funny.

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Speaker 1: Oh man, boy logic. I bought her flowers for her

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Speaker 2: Not us, no, not us, not us no.

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Speaker 2: I'm hoping one takeaway for any guys listening or seeing

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no reason at all. The reason is because you

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 2: The equivalent. There isn't any equivalent. It's just any type

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Speaker 2: I bet you would have been pleased if you got

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, photo of it. Do you like to

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Speaker 2: and that's where we submitted. It's completely anonymous. Okay, let's

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Speaker 1: Go.

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Speaker 2: I am desperate for some advice from you, guys. I

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Speaker 2: one Go one, Guy one. Oh shit, we are both

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Speaker 2: to find out whether he likes me or not so.

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Speaker 2: Here are some of the hints. Number one, not so

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Speaker 2: I was talking to Guy one about Guy two and

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Speaker 2: Then guy on set, I am going to be as

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: It means he likes you.

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Speaker 2: Number two. This is where it got me. We snap

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Speaker 2: Some of my friends have told me that he likes

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Speaker 2: Guy one has also helped me reject other guys when

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Speaker 2: is he into me? What should I do? I'm scared

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Speaker 2: to tell him how I feel. Do you think that

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Speaker 5: friend zone, but he thinks he's in the friend zone,

440
00:20:18,640 --> 00:20:21,240
Speaker 5: and he has been playing the long game.

441
00:20:22,080 --> 00:20:23,480
Speaker 1: Holy shit.

442
00:20:23,560 --> 00:20:25,480
Speaker 2: And I thought this one was so cute because it's

443
00:20:25,520 --> 00:20:28,240
Speaker 2: young love. Ten years, you've known this guy. You've got

444
00:20:28,280 --> 00:20:30,879
Speaker 2: no idea about anything. You're like snapchats like he said this,

445
00:20:30,960 --> 00:20:33,880
Speaker 2: he's done this, he's sending text to deter other boys

446
00:20:34,000 --> 00:20:37,240
Speaker 2: like he's in love one hundred percent. And if you

447
00:20:37,280 --> 00:20:38,320
Speaker 2: love him back, are.

448
00:20:38,280 --> 00:20:40,119
Speaker 1: You one hundred snapchats?

449
00:20:41,400 --> 00:20:44,480
Speaker 2: If you like him back? Though, like find out.

450
00:20:45,119 --> 00:20:49,840
Speaker 1: You like him even if he doesn't like you. You

451
00:20:50,000 --> 00:20:53,040
Speaker 1: need to know because being friends with him while you

452
00:20:53,160 --> 00:20:55,680
Speaker 1: like him is not possible.

453
00:20:55,720 --> 00:20:57,440
Speaker 2: It's not healthy. No, not at all.

454
00:20:57,600 --> 00:21:01,200
Speaker 1: You know, it's not. It's just it's stupid. Been there though,

455
00:21:01,240 --> 00:21:02,639
Speaker 1: Like you want to stay friends with someone that you

456
00:21:02,720 --> 00:21:04,320
Speaker 1: like because you like him so much that you think

457
00:21:04,320 --> 00:21:06,280
Speaker 1: eventually it will change their mind. I've been young, I've

458
00:21:06,280 --> 00:21:09,680
Speaker 1: done it tried. Doesn't work, all right, doesn't work.

459
00:21:09,680 --> 00:21:11,359
Speaker 2: This is also, like I bet you so this is

460
00:21:11,400 --> 00:21:12,959
Speaker 2: her star the story. This is a little game of

461
00:21:13,000 --> 00:21:16,360
Speaker 2: like fucking oz tag tit for tat. So he's doing

462
00:21:16,359 --> 00:21:18,159
Speaker 2: all these things. I wonder if if he's sending a

463
00:21:18,160 --> 00:21:20,160
Speaker 2: di lemme in what she's doing back. Yeah, and they're

464
00:21:20,200 --> 00:21:22,400
Speaker 2: both he's not reading the signals. Yeah, go just tell

465
00:21:22,440 --> 00:21:24,360
Speaker 2: him and you like him? Literally, I bet you'll kiss

466
00:21:24,400 --> 00:21:24,960
Speaker 2: you straight away.

467
00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:27,040
Speaker 1: The best thing you can do in your life right

468
00:21:27,080 --> 00:21:30,480
Speaker 1: now is swallow your pride. Yeah, tell him you like him. Yeah,

469
00:21:30,600 --> 00:21:32,840
Speaker 1: tell him you've liked him for a while, ten years

470
00:21:32,880 --> 00:21:36,960
Speaker 1: and he is since the day we met, And tell

471
00:21:37,040 --> 00:21:40,560
Speaker 1: him that. Yeah, just just just say, I just need

472
00:21:40,600 --> 00:21:43,480
Speaker 1: you to know that I really like you. And that's

473
00:21:43,480 --> 00:21:45,560
Speaker 1: all you need to know. That information.

474
00:21:45,600 --> 00:21:46,960
Speaker 2: How many minutes are in a day?

475
00:21:47,240 --> 00:21:48,280
Speaker 1: How many minutes are in a day?

476
00:21:48,359 --> 00:21:50,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, to send what's sixty times twenty four?

477
00:21:51,480 --> 00:21:54,320
Speaker 1: He's sending once you like, he said to me, there

478
00:21:54,560 --> 00:21:56,800
Speaker 1: you could send one snapchat every minute for about an

479
00:21:56,840 --> 00:21:58,840
Speaker 1: hour and you'd be over two hundred minutes.

480
00:21:58,840 --> 00:22:00,840
Speaker 2: But like, oh no, sixty minutes for a.

481
00:22:00,800 --> 00:22:02,560
Speaker 1: Couple of hours. You just said to minute.

482
00:22:02,600 --> 00:22:04,800
Speaker 2: That's at least yeah, he said him like, same old day.

483
00:22:04,840 --> 00:22:06,920
Speaker 2: It's like for every fifteen minutes, he's saying, you're.

484
00:22:06,840 --> 00:22:11,640
Speaker 1: On his mind for twenty four hours of the day.

485
00:22:11,760 --> 00:22:14,520
Speaker 2: He dreams about him, wakes up and thinks about you.

486
00:22:14,680 --> 00:22:15,520
Speaker 1: Fuck me.

487
00:22:15,920 --> 00:22:17,840
Speaker 2: Find out girl, tell him you like him? Yeah, fall

488
00:22:17,880 --> 00:22:18,240
Speaker 2: in love.

489
00:22:18,400 --> 00:22:21,879
Speaker 1: Okay, this is a delusional girl's dilemma on a timeline,

490
00:22:22,520 --> 00:22:25,160
Speaker 1: So she's she's on a timeline here. Yeah, Hey Jke Noddy,

491
00:22:25,280 --> 00:22:26,920
Speaker 1: I hope you're super well on having the best day

492
00:22:27,080 --> 00:22:30,239
Speaker 1: in very short, she says, very short, it's long. I

493
00:22:30,280 --> 00:22:32,280
Speaker 1: really like a boy from work who was leaving in

494
00:22:32,320 --> 00:22:34,600
Speaker 1: a month since I don't believe in love at first sight,

495
00:22:35,040 --> 00:22:37,359
Speaker 1: but I may have been ever since I spoke to

496
00:22:37,440 --> 00:22:41,480
Speaker 1: him on my first day six months back. I started

497
00:22:41,480 --> 00:22:44,080
Speaker 1: this corporate job after graduation and a couple of shitty

498
00:22:44,119 --> 00:22:47,880
Speaker 1: casual roles later, he has trained me from ground up.

499
00:22:48,280 --> 00:22:50,879
Speaker 1: A lot of learning was self done, as that is

500
00:22:50,920 --> 00:22:54,640
Speaker 1: what this role is. We basically talk the whole day

501
00:22:55,000 --> 00:22:59,520
Speaker 1: and work closely, sharing responsibilities. I knew I cannot think

502
00:22:59,560 --> 00:23:02,439
Speaker 1: about too much because of how important my job is

503
00:23:02,440 --> 00:23:05,160
Speaker 1: to me. Plot twist. He is in Sydney and I'm

504
00:23:05,160 --> 00:23:08,199
Speaker 1: in Melbourne working remotely. Even if we are part of

505
00:23:08,240 --> 00:23:11,600
Speaker 1: the same team, it could never work, I know. Plus

506
00:23:11,640 --> 00:23:14,040
Speaker 1: the whole aspect of don't shit where you eat. Otti

507
00:23:14,119 --> 00:23:17,560
Speaker 1: loves that he's leaving for a promotion within the company,

508
00:23:17,680 --> 00:23:19,600
Speaker 1: but to a role that is not directly related to

509
00:23:19,640 --> 00:23:22,840
Speaker 1: my team. We may speak here and there or nothing

510
00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:26,040
Speaker 1: at all. Talking every day. We just start building a

511
00:23:26,080 --> 00:23:30,000
Speaker 1: friendship over inside jokes, music, ice, learning Spanish and stuff

512
00:23:30,040 --> 00:23:33,119
Speaker 1: like that. I know we get along pretty well. This

513
00:23:33,280 --> 00:23:36,119
Speaker 1: was initiated from him, obviously, to be nice and for

514
00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:39,800
Speaker 1: work very simple. I want to at least connect beyond LinkedIn.

515
00:23:40,480 --> 00:23:42,719
Speaker 1: I don't want to be left thinking what if and

516
00:23:42,800 --> 00:23:46,160
Speaker 1: believe in at least giving it a shot. I don't

517
00:23:46,200 --> 00:23:48,399
Speaker 1: know how to make this happen. I know it's not

518
00:23:48,440 --> 00:23:50,760
Speaker 1: the wisest, but I'm coming from the place of a

519
00:23:50,920 --> 00:23:56,440
Speaker 1: very shitty year, terrible year with dating, lost a parent,

520
00:23:56,880 --> 00:23:59,040
Speaker 1: but coping with it in the right ways and wanting

521
00:23:59,080 --> 00:24:02,240
Speaker 1: to make things happen organically. Don't people meet at work

522
00:24:02,280 --> 00:24:06,160
Speaker 1: all the time and end up together. Would love your advice,

523
00:24:06,359 --> 00:24:08,760
Speaker 1: and I'm good with this not going my way, your

524
00:24:08,800 --> 00:24:11,760
Speaker 1: advice and me shooting my shot. Thanks for making me

525
00:24:11,760 --> 00:24:14,720
Speaker 1: smile through the trenches. I love you, guys and always

526
00:24:14,760 --> 00:24:19,400
Speaker 1: will support you as a baddie. Love from Melbourne, Mumbai,

527
00:24:20,000 --> 00:24:22,119
Speaker 1: wherever else I go. Fuck she goes to Mumbai.

528
00:24:22,280 --> 00:24:24,439
Speaker 2: Okay, can you just recap? So she's working with this

529
00:24:24,480 --> 00:24:25,800
Speaker 2: guy sort of.

530
00:24:26,520 --> 00:24:28,600
Speaker 1: So she works. She works with this guy, all right,

531
00:24:28,880 --> 00:24:31,200
Speaker 1: he trained her from the ground up. She thinks that

532
00:24:31,280 --> 00:24:32,879
Speaker 1: she's now starting to think she's been in love with

533
00:24:32,960 --> 00:24:35,600
Speaker 1: him for six months since the day they met. All right.

534
00:24:35,960 --> 00:24:38,760
Speaker 1: They get along at work, they talk about stuff, they

535
00:24:38,760 --> 00:24:42,160
Speaker 1: have inside jokes, blah blah blah. Yep, Okay, he's getting

536
00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:44,720
Speaker 1: a promotion. He's leaving in a month, still at the

537
00:24:44,720 --> 00:24:48,160
Speaker 1: same company, but not in her in her area at all.

538
00:24:48,440 --> 00:24:50,640
Speaker 1: They're in said Sydney and Melbourne. He's in Sydney, she's

539
00:24:50,640 --> 00:24:53,160
Speaker 1: in Melbourne. Okay, So there's going to be a chance

540
00:24:53,160 --> 00:24:55,439
Speaker 1: they may talk when he leaves and goes up in promotion,

541
00:24:55,640 --> 00:24:58,400
Speaker 1: or they might not talk at all. She has had

542
00:24:58,400 --> 00:25:00,399
Speaker 1: a bad year with dating. She lost a parent in

543
00:25:00,440 --> 00:25:02,919
Speaker 1: the last year, but she really wants to make this

544
00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:03,879
Speaker 1: work beyond LinkedIn.

545
00:25:04,040 --> 00:25:12,480
Speaker 2: Okay, I don't know, man, Okay, it's not a big deal.

546
00:25:12,760 --> 00:25:16,040
Speaker 2: I don't like the fact that he trained her. That's

547
00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:20,720
Speaker 2: kind of sus like, I don't know that. It doesn't

548
00:25:20,960 --> 00:25:22,320
Speaker 2: run my stomach a little bit here.

549
00:25:23,760 --> 00:25:27,680
Speaker 1: I want you to think about this. Would you want

550
00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:30,119
Speaker 1: to be friends with him outside of work?

551
00:25:31,720 --> 00:25:32,320
Speaker 2: Look for her?

552
00:25:33,040 --> 00:25:36,440
Speaker 1: Yeah? Like, do you hang outside hang out outside of work?

553
00:25:36,480 --> 00:25:38,480
Speaker 1: And would you want to hang out outside of it? Obviously?

554
00:25:38,520 --> 00:25:41,280
Speaker 2: Would you reckon Yeah? Okay, I don't reckon eat Wood.

555
00:25:41,480 --> 00:25:43,359
Speaker 2: Oh you don't reckon eat would I don't notice the

556
00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:46,040
Speaker 2: dynamic shift, just me being a guy if I had

557
00:25:46,040 --> 00:25:48,679
Speaker 2: to train just say I was training a girl I

558
00:25:48,720 --> 00:25:50,960
Speaker 2: was attracted to. Let's give her the benefitlt that he's

559
00:25:50,960 --> 00:25:53,720
Speaker 2: attracted to her. As soon as I'm in this management

560
00:25:53,760 --> 00:25:57,640
Speaker 2: position and I'm training someone underneath me, no way, I'm

561
00:25:57,720 --> 00:25:59,960
Speaker 2: thinking of them in a remember a romantic way.

562
00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:01,640
Speaker 1: No, And you want to build rapport with the people

563
00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:04,000
Speaker 1: underneath you as well because you want them to respect you. Yeah,

564
00:26:04,119 --> 00:26:06,080
Speaker 1: to be a dickhead, especially if you're talking to him

565
00:26:06,080 --> 00:26:09,040
Speaker 1: all day every day. Yeah, he's just being nice. And

566
00:26:09,119 --> 00:26:12,680
Speaker 1: also you need to think about this, is it okay?

567
00:26:13,280 --> 00:26:16,680
Speaker 1: There's just there is massive risk in obviously one going

568
00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:19,400
Speaker 1: for someone in the company. And then also he lives

569
00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:22,640
Speaker 1: in Sydney and you live in Melbourne. If and it's

570
00:26:22,680 --> 00:26:26,560
Speaker 1: also because it's not like you're gonna if he agrees

571
00:26:26,600 --> 00:26:28,240
Speaker 1: with you and he says, oh I really like you too,

572
00:26:29,560 --> 00:26:31,000
Speaker 1: You're not just gonna up and move your whole life

573
00:26:31,040 --> 00:26:34,320
Speaker 1: to he just got promoted, there's no way he's choosing

574
00:26:34,359 --> 00:26:36,119
Speaker 1: you over promotion. I'm sorry, but there's no way he's

575
00:26:36,160 --> 00:26:37,760
Speaker 1: doing it. So basically, if you want to be with

576
00:26:37,880 --> 00:26:39,879
Speaker 1: him and not do long distance, you're gonna have to

577
00:26:39,920 --> 00:26:40,880
Speaker 1: go to him.

578
00:26:41,119 --> 00:26:44,200
Speaker 2: So yeah, the chances are I don't know. I don't

579
00:26:44,200 --> 00:26:45,760
Speaker 2: want to say that he doesn't because I don't not

580
00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:49,480
Speaker 2: inside his head. But you could do long distance for

581
00:26:49,520 --> 00:26:51,879
Speaker 2: a year. But what well, here's a good test. Should

582
00:26:51,880 --> 00:26:53,080
Speaker 2: she shoot her shot?

583
00:26:53,680 --> 00:26:55,880
Speaker 1: Not yet? Oh yeah, this is here's a good testy

584
00:26:56,320 --> 00:26:58,560
Speaker 1: Wait for him to be promoted, wait for him to leave,

585
00:26:59,080 --> 00:27:02,400
Speaker 1: and see he key keeps on messaging you on LinkedIn?

586
00:27:02,680 --> 00:27:03,359
Speaker 2: What is LinkedIn?

587
00:27:03,640 --> 00:27:05,359
Speaker 1: Tipt In is just like a thing for people in

588
00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:07,280
Speaker 1: jobs It's where you put your you can have your

589
00:27:07,280 --> 00:27:08,960
Speaker 1: resume on there, you can find jobs on there, you

590
00:27:08,960 --> 00:27:10,680
Speaker 1: can do It's like social media for business.

591
00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:11,800
Speaker 2: And that's the only place they talk.

592
00:27:11,880 --> 00:27:13,600
Speaker 1: Never had a LinkedIn? Is that the only place they talk.

593
00:27:13,600 --> 00:27:15,080
Speaker 1: That's the only place they've be chatting so far, because

594
00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:16,960
Speaker 1: that's how they know each other. Is No, I don't know.

595
00:27:17,280 --> 00:27:20,720
Speaker 1: I would say nah, after he moves, see what he does.

596
00:27:20,760 --> 00:27:24,119
Speaker 1: If he keeps on messaging you, then you want to

597
00:27:24,920 --> 00:27:26,520
Speaker 1: try and move it to like, oh here, can you

598
00:27:26,560 --> 00:27:28,800
Speaker 1: just like text me I'm sick of messaging on LinkedIn? Okay?

599
00:27:28,960 --> 00:27:31,679
Speaker 1: And that's when you see because if he moves and

600
00:27:31,680 --> 00:27:33,080
Speaker 1: he doesn't talk to you once ever, then you know

601
00:27:33,119 --> 00:27:34,359
Speaker 1: that he doesn't like you, because if he likes you,

602
00:27:34,359 --> 00:27:36,480
Speaker 1: he'll keep talking to you. I know if a guy

603
00:27:36,480 --> 00:27:38,200
Speaker 1: I know from a fact from personally, if a guy

604
00:27:38,320 --> 00:27:39,639
Speaker 1: likes you, he's gonna try and talk to you.

605
00:27:40,040 --> 00:27:41,920
Speaker 2: Too complicated for me. I'm tapping out.

606
00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:45,440
Speaker 1: I'm tapping out too. I'm saying I don't.

607
00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:47,040
Speaker 2: Even reckon you do that. I'm tapping out completely.

608
00:27:47,119 --> 00:27:49,080
Speaker 1: Or you're saying just like it's not gonna happen.

609
00:27:49,160 --> 00:27:50,120
Speaker 2: I don't think it's gonna happen.

610
00:27:50,160 --> 00:27:51,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, true, I.

611
00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:53,000
Speaker 2: Suppose it's if it was going to happen, it probably

612
00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:53,760
Speaker 2: would have happen by now.

613
00:27:53,840 --> 00:27:54,639
Speaker 1: Yeah, six six.

614
00:27:54,560 --> 00:27:57,120
Speaker 2: Months if he liked you and thought you were attractive,

615
00:27:57,160 --> 00:27:59,080
Speaker 2: like why not do it? Why not shoot your shot?

616
00:27:59,119 --> 00:27:59,919
Speaker 1: And can't argue with that?

617
00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:04,400
Speaker 2: Sorry sorry girl, but sorry. Yeah, I don't know. There's

618
00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:07,400
Speaker 2: something about I think I'm guilty of it, like the factor,

619
00:28:07,560 --> 00:28:10,840
Speaker 2: all these factors, like he's on a job above me,

620
00:28:10,920 --> 00:28:12,920
Speaker 2: like he lives over here. It's exciting. Yeah, it's like,

621
00:28:12,920 --> 00:28:14,200
Speaker 2: how can we make this work? Yeah?

622
00:28:14,600 --> 00:28:15,199
Speaker 1: This is exciting.

623
00:28:15,280 --> 00:28:17,119
Speaker 2: You play all these factors in your head. You're just like,

624
00:28:17,160 --> 00:28:19,439
Speaker 2: I'm going to fly to Sydney every weekend. Yeah, like

625
00:28:19,480 --> 00:28:21,480
Speaker 2: you do this. I'm like, oh yeah, we can FaceTime

626
00:28:21,480 --> 00:28:21,920
Speaker 2: every night.

627
00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:23,120
Speaker 1: I'll get transferred for work.

628
00:28:23,200 --> 00:28:23,600
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah.

629
00:28:23,680 --> 00:28:23,840
Speaker 1: Yeah.

630
00:28:23,880 --> 00:28:26,000
Speaker 2: You think of all these scenarios in your head and

631
00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:29,160
Speaker 2: then in reality it's not there.

632
00:28:29,400 --> 00:28:34,160
Speaker 1: Yeah you know what's crazy? Is that such a good point?

633
00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:36,800
Speaker 2: And yeah, and then also I'm just going to stand

634
00:28:36,800 --> 00:28:40,040
Speaker 2: by it. Don't ship where we yeah, especially the only

635
00:28:40,080 --> 00:28:42,880
Speaker 2: place I would go back on my word is if

636
00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:45,840
Speaker 2: you're in the same position, don't go someone higher than you.

637
00:28:45,880 --> 00:28:49,240
Speaker 2: All lower it, all lower than yeah, okay, I think okay,

638
00:28:49,480 --> 00:28:51,480
Speaker 2: just because there's some hierarchy. Magine, you don't want to

639
00:28:51,480 --> 00:28:53,480
Speaker 2: sleep with someone who's got power over you or who's

640
00:28:53,880 --> 00:28:55,040
Speaker 2: you've got power over and you.

641
00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:57,120
Speaker 1: Also, it's like starting to be with someone while you're

642
00:28:57,120 --> 00:28:59,560
Speaker 1: in the same company. It's just like it's just crazy.

643
00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:02,680
Speaker 1: And also so it's what if they're higher than you,

644
00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:04,320
Speaker 1: and then they're going to be more biased to you

645
00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:06,080
Speaker 1: for different things. And then people are going to complain

646
00:29:06,120 --> 00:29:08,120
Speaker 1: because they're dating. And I'm not saying that it's the

647
00:29:08,120 --> 00:29:09,680
Speaker 1: wrong thing and that you're not in love and you're

648
00:29:09,720 --> 00:29:11,640
Speaker 1: not worth like and like you're not good enough for

649
00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:13,280
Speaker 1: the certain position, but just like, stuff like this can

650
00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:15,440
Speaker 1: happen and it just makes it complicated, and then you're

651
00:29:15,440 --> 00:29:17,560
Speaker 1: in a tough position. He's in a tough position. The

652
00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:20,200
Speaker 1: only time it's going to work to date someone outside

653
00:29:20,200 --> 00:29:23,200
Speaker 1: of work is if let's say he gets promoted and

654
00:29:23,200 --> 00:29:25,120
Speaker 1: then you leave this job, you go find a better

655
00:29:25,160 --> 00:29:28,560
Speaker 1: job at a different company. Right then you guys connect

656
00:29:28,560 --> 00:29:31,000
Speaker 1: because your new job is in Sydney or so then

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Speaker 1: you connect like, hey, I'm working for this people, I'm

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Speaker 1: in Sydney, But you want to be out for a coffee,

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Speaker 1: like it's been a while, that's when it would probably work.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I'm going to lead it on this. If

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Speaker 2: he wanted to, he would have. And if you wanted

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Speaker 2: to make it work in the sixth month, you would

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Speaker 2: have already.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I love it. Sorry, gow, Sorry, I love you though,

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Speaker 1: Thanks for listening, guys. On tomorrow's Patroon episode, we talk

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Speaker 1: about Boddie's worst my life, the worst day of his year,

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Speaker 1: maybe his life, who knows, it was bad, And then

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Speaker 1: we did things that shouldn't be just for kids.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's actually really funny. It made me reminisce a

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Speaker 2: little bit.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, some good reminiscing.

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Speaker 2: Then we had four on Patreon. You get four juicy.

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Speaker 1: Dilemmas, four very juicy dilemmas. And then lastly we finished

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Speaker 1: it up on a Reddit segment that we got and

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Speaker 1: it was things men do that they didn't think would

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Speaker 1: turn women on, but they actually do turn women on.

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Speaker 2: Looks like this guy's turned a few women on he

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Speaker 2: didn't know.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we came pretty surprised.

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Speaker 2: So head on over to Patreon if you want that.

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Speaker 2: It was actually a juicy episode and we love it

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Speaker 2: over there because we can't get canceled.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and then we always do the big motivors. We're

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Speaker 1: doing the motivation at the end.

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Speaker 2: The motivation is good. We just go ham the best.

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Speaker 2: You're thinking about breaking up someone, I'm not going to

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Speaker 2: fish it yet. If you think about breaking up with someone,

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Speaker 2: go to that Patreon episode True. Yeah, that give you

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Speaker 2: in a situation ship. Yeah, do you think you need

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Speaker 2: to end it? Go listen to Patreon exactly so

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Speaker 3: In