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Speaker 1: Hi, guys, welcome back to hear Me Out. I'm your

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Speaker 1: host is the Armitage, and I need to learn to

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Speaker 1: speak more feminine on a podcast. I listened to my

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Speaker 1: podcast the other day and it's like it's like a foghorn,

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Speaker 1: do you think. Yeah, it's like I talk at it hectically,

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Speaker 1: louder volume than I would if there wasn't a microphone

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Speaker 1: sitting in front of me, which I find is not necessary.

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Speaker 2: Obviously, I'm trying to remember what was the episode last week?

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Speaker 2: Tessa and Riley.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that I feel like married out the gate. It's

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Speaker 1: like I'm screaming.

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Speaker 2: Well, it's like and not in a bad way, but

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Speaker 2: I think with three people you're kind of competing and

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Speaker 2: like you and Riley already have your back and forth dynamic.

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Speaker 2: And then there's Tessa added as well that.

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Speaker 1: I feel like sometimes I listen to it and I go, fuck,

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Speaker 1: do I let sound like that? In person? I probably do.

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Speaker 2: I think between us you're quite soft spoken, thank you,

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Speaker 2: but in a group setting, yeah, the volumes spoken.

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Speaker 1: Never have I ever been referred to as self spoken,

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Speaker 1: So thank you, Blake. But I'm just gonna jump right

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Speaker 1: out the gate with you. Hear Me Out. And him out.

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Speaker 1: Everyone is the worst version of themselves. In an airport,

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Speaker 1: I am like, move, move, get out of the way.

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Speaker 1: Why are you taking it along?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 1: Is all this checking along like there is no All

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Speaker 1: the patients leaves my body the moment I step into

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Speaker 1: those the airport doors.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I would say mostly for like the security part

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Speaker 2: and the checking it and that's where I am checking.

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Speaker 1: Check in and bag drop kill me. That's i'd say

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Speaker 1: the worst. And then when people are leaving the plane,

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Speaker 1: I'm actually not too much of a hater of those

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Speaker 1: people that jump up and get their bags immediately. I

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Speaker 1: surprisingly am not because now that I have do the

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Speaker 1: Sydney trip like more often, it's like you'll have one

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Speaker 1: of those overhead luggage, so it's like I more jump

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Speaker 1: up so I can get my bag before all the

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Speaker 1: rows fill up. And it's like then you're like, oh fuck,

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Speaker 1: I have to walk like five meters backwards to go

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Speaker 1: get my overhead do you know what I mean? So

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Speaker 1: I don't judge the people jumping up. You want to

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Speaker 1: get your shit and get sorted, fine by me. I

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Speaker 1: judge the people that run off when it's not their turn.

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Speaker 1: Wait for your road to leave. People that move forward

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Speaker 1: or do things first, I'm like, you fucking wait.

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Speaker 2: Fair, Yes, but I feel like there's no rules on

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Speaker 2: a plane, not in an airport, so like everyone will

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Speaker 2: just put their worst foot forward and no one's saying anything.

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Speaker 1: But also, when you're in a rush a lot in

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Speaker 1: the airport, you know you want to get things done

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Speaker 1: in a timely matter. And I've always said I hate

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Speaker 1: people that walk really slowly. So people that walk slowly

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Speaker 1: when I have a schedule to stick to or I

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Speaker 1: will miss my flight unless you want to buy me

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Speaker 1: another flight, get the fuck out of the way, you know,

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Speaker 1: be left, no bear left. No one knows where to walk.

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Speaker 1: Everyone's dilly dulling, they're on their phones, they're sounding in

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Speaker 1: the paths. I don't like that anywhere, and an airport

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Speaker 1: it makes me fucking angry.

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Speaker 2: I don't get people who dawdle around an airport, like,

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Speaker 2: for example, I don't feel too strongly about this, but

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Speaker 2: shopping at an airport, do we need to be doing that?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? No, I completely.

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Speaker 2: I feel like that causes a lot of the dawdling

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Speaker 2: as well and the commotion.

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Speaker 1: Judy Free, I hate it some people or doing quickly

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Speaker 1: buy something at Judy Free. No, because it takes an

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Speaker 1: hour longer than it would for me to check out

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Speaker 1: a normal show. Yeah, they have to check my passport.

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Speaker 1: I have to rumming around in my bags. I don't

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Speaker 1: know why, but Judy Free, like to me, is a hell.

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Speaker 1: I put my blinds on and I just walked straight

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Speaker 1: through it. It just everything is slower in an airport

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Speaker 1: and everyone's tirer like I had to pay. I went

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Speaker 1: to Sydney for work the other day and my flight

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Speaker 1: was at seven thirty and I ended up actually getting

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Speaker 1: to the airport at like three thirty. And I'm like,

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Speaker 1: if I get on my flight at seven thirty, I'm

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Speaker 1: not gonna get home till like ten thirty eleven, and

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Speaker 1: like I need to make dinner, I want to do

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Speaker 1: all this stuff. So I was like, fuck it, I'll

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Speaker 1: just book an earlier flight. You know, it's a flight

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Speaker 1: to Sydney. Like how I've had so many people say, oh,

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Speaker 1: you can just like check into like move on to

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Speaker 1: an earlier flight when you're that early. It's very easy

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Speaker 1: to Virgin and I go, hey, I want to move

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Speaker 1: on an earlier flight. They go oh, we've actually closed

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Speaker 1: the Virgin help desk. You're gonna have to call. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: I'm in Sydney Airport right now and there is no

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Speaker 1: help desk. What the fuck do you mean? Like Sydney

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Speaker 1: is not is it not meant to be the biggest

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Speaker 2: Thirty it's not like it was eight thirty at nine.

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Speaker 1: No, I'm like, where's the help desk? They don't have

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Speaker 1: one anymore. So I had to call, spent an hour

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Speaker 1: on the phone to this woman, spent eight hundred dollars

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Speaker 1: to move my flight forward two hours, and by that

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Speaker 1: point I was so angry that I had to do it,

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Speaker 1: because I was like, I'm in too bad a mood

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Speaker 1: to be in this airport any longer than I need to,

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Speaker 1: So fine, whatever, I'll pay for it. I sound really

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Speaker 1: negative for like airports, like I just told you, really

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Speaker 1: bring out the worst in me. And finally the lady's

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Speaker 1: about to book the flight and she goes, Okay, it's

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Speaker 1: going to be eight hundred dollars to get on this flight.

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Speaker 1: I go, yep, great. She goes, wait, so you don't

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Speaker 1: want to do that? I said, no, no, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: I said, I do, I do? She goes, you do

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Speaker 1: want to stay on your current flight? No? No, no, no,

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Speaker 1: no no no no. I'm like, please don't hang over

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Speaker 1: for me, Please don't hang up for me. I need

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Speaker 1: to get on that earlier flight. Every and it just

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Speaker 1: I was just in the foulest mood ever. And when

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Speaker 1: the food's not good, nothing hits I just I can't

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Speaker 1: the loungers. No, you can't come in here. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: why not?

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Speaker 2: Have you tried to drinking on a plane?

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Speaker 1: Yes, one, I'm not a big I'm not a big drinker.

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Speaker 1: Why first life, I am not a big solo drinker,

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Speaker 1: and I won't drink unless i have somewhere to go.

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Speaker 1: So I'm not like a drinker at family dinners, you know,

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Speaker 1: Like I'll only drink if I'm with my friends and

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Speaker 1: I'm going out. Yeah, okay, So I drank on the

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Speaker 1: plane to Bali with Logan because we were landing at

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Speaker 1: four and then going getting ready to go out. But

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Speaker 1: if I'm I'm not going to drink in a flight

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Speaker 1: So no, I actually I am not someone that drinks

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Speaker 2: I'm not saying it makes it better, but like this

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Speaker 2: is scientifically proven, whatever you want to say. But apparently

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Speaker 2: you get more drunk in the air and every time,

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Speaker 2: like I just have to have one drink on a

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Speaker 2: plane I am like flying. Yeah, see it definitely helps.

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Speaker 1: Logan and I fucking had I reckon seven wines on

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Speaker 2: Wow, you would have like, I'm.

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Speaker 1: Actually surprisingly a heavier weight than I would you would

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Speaker 1: think I would be. My tolerance is built up over

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Speaker 1: the years, sadly, but yeah, maybe I should because I'm like,

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Speaker 1: I hate being here so fucking much, so I might

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Speaker 1: as well get drunk while I'm doing it. But then

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Speaker 1: when I get off the plane, I'm wasted and I

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Speaker 1: can't figure out how to get home.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, because you could drive. What's my leopold that

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Speaker 2: I think it's because I'm with my boyfriend or.

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Speaker 1: Something designated driver? Yea, I myself one of those. Can

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Speaker 1: someone volunteer be my designated driver? But yeah, that was

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Speaker 1: my hear me out. I'm just I'm a cunt in

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Speaker 1: an airport. So if you see me early in the

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Speaker 1: morning at an airport, No, I haven't slept, I haven't

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Speaker 1: eaten yet, and everyone around is pissing me the fuck off.

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Speaker 1: So just give me a bit of grace.

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Speaker 2: Just walk up to it with cautions or walk.

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Speaker 1: Fast around me, please, so I have my own Yeah,

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Speaker 1: go go.

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Speaker 2: I don't know how. I've never thought of this, but

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Speaker 2: hear me out. If you cross past my car at

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Speaker 2: a pedestrian crossing, do not wave and thank me.

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Speaker 1: I do it.

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Speaker 2: Why I don't want to let you go? It's because

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Speaker 2: I have to.

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Speaker 1: No, I know. I think it's acknowledgement of like I

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Speaker 1: appreciate it. I know you're not happy doing it, but

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Speaker 1: you need it. Two thanks. I know, I don't. I know,

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Speaker 1: like we're literally on opposing sides. It is. I do

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Speaker 1: it out of it seems bitchy for me to just

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Speaker 2: See, I think it's rubbing it in your face, like

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Speaker 2: thank you. It's like I didn't want to effing stop,

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Speaker 2: but now I am okay.

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Speaker 1: So now it's like it's arrogance to do it. But

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I feel like it's entitled to not like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you needed to stop, thanks.

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Speaker 2: See, because I have it's so in my head right

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Speaker 2: when I am crossing that car doesn't exist. I'm just

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Speaker 2: like tunnel vision. Always to the end of the crossing.

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Speaker 2: I'm the most over apologetic you are over a nice person.

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Speaker 2: That is the one thing I'm like, I'm not thanking you.

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Speaker 1: I'll always look at them, at least with the acknowledgment

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Speaker 1: like that they've stopped. Yeah, no, I wave. I'm sorry,

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Speaker 1: I do. Maybe maybe I stop. Does it feel like

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Speaker 1: they're rubbing it in when someone waves at you when

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Speaker 1: they're crossing a pedestrian cross and you've stopped for them, Like,

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Speaker 1: let me know, because I don't want to be rubbing

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Speaker 1: it in. I do it because I think it's polite.

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Speaker 2: I'm trying to think of the example I use because

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Speaker 2: I was. This happened while I was driving with Noah,

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Speaker 2: and I actually said, I'm going to mention this on

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Speaker 2: the next for my next hear me out, and I

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Speaker 2: use an example. It's to me, if you wave to me,

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Speaker 2: it's to the extent of like, no, you just feel

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Speaker 2: so redundant to me.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, in a sense, what I really hate when I'm

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Speaker 1: driving up to a pedestrian cross and I see it

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Speaker 1: there and I know I'm going to stop. Like I've

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Speaker 1: recently learned, I'm quite hard on the brakes like I

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Speaker 1: break quite late. I have always done that. I always stop.

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Speaker 1: Don't you worry it might just be a little rough,

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Speaker 1: and then you'd like, bear in mind my car. I've

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Speaker 1: never crushed my car. I'm a good driver. I'm just

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Speaker 1: laid on the brakes. The pedestrians do not love that.

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Speaker 1: I hate the angry stare, like ough, I've stopped, have

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Speaker 1: I not? Just because it wasn't as calmly as you

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Speaker 1: would have liked it to be. I stopped. I am

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Speaker 1: in park waiting for you to cross the fucking road.

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Speaker 1: Don't glare at me in anger while you cross. Because

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Speaker 1: I didn't stop at the speed you would have liked

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Speaker 1: me to. I saw it come in one hundred meters away.

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Speaker 1: I just braked later than you would have liked me too.

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Speaker 2: You know, it's like bikes as well. I was turning

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Speaker 1: Don't smock my car.

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Speaker 1: The thing is, it's different if I was yes close

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but this was when they'd just come out, so

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Speaker 2: It's like, see that's where I'm heading a style. I

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Speaker 1: There's no low key all I might accidentally film me.

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Speaker 1: If someone sees me wearing wayfarers, they're going to know

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Speaker 1: like you to ride in how you can leave your

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Speaker 1: I've never ever heard of anyone doing it like I

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Speaker 2: And what did you find out?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because I remember when I found that out. I'm

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Speaker 1: to my point, I never return gifts ever. I don't

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Speaker 1: sure momum'm got her money back because they were somewhat expensive,

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Speaker 1: because you want me in another color? No, thank you.

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Speaker 1: I don't think I ended up getting a gift that year.

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Speaker 2: I just said keep it the money.

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Speaker 1: That's all good. Next year we'll think of something better together.

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Speaker 1: How about we talked about it before we go buying wayfarers.

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Speaker 2: I do have a surprise for you, Okay, we have

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Speaker 2: our first ever male submission right in submission?

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Speaker 1: Yes? Have we have we ever had one? For? Have we? No?

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Speaker 2: I thought we have one potentially, Like maybe this is

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Speaker 1: Thank all you males out there again. The girlies, no,

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Speaker 1: they're loved, so we're fine. But sometimes the boys need

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Speaker 2: But I cannot wait, so our male writer says, not

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Speaker 2: going to lie. Your podcast has been a game changer.

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Speaker 2: I know it was called just for girls, and I'm

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Speaker 2: behind closed doors to hear me out because honestly, it's

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Speaker 2: been a perfect playbook for how guys should move, what

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Speaker 1: Thank you, that's what I aspire to do.

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Speaker 2: It's honestly helped me tighten up a bit and how

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Speaker 1: Hey, that's good, but you took off all those shirtless

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Speaker 2: Fingers crossed. But I've got a question for you, one

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Speaker 2: just gonna rip the band aid off. What actually catches

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Speaker 2: often physical. No sugarcoating here is he? Is it the snuz,

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Speaker 2: the jawline, he ears the chumpers? What stands out for

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Speaker 1: Fair enough.

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Speaker 2: For instance, it gets me thinking, fuck, do I need

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Speaker 2: to lock in a Rhino plus C trip to Turkey asap?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 2: My god, No, Rocky, And yes, most guys feel this way.

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Speaker 1: So sweet. Firstly, quickly, boys do not need to have

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Speaker 1: like that, so please don't think about getting You don't

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Speaker 1: But if I'm being completely honest, the first thing that

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Speaker 1: I'm really serious. It's like, I will lay it out

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Speaker 1: plainly if people like, don't know, a plain white T

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Speaker 1: the friends are like, that's fine, you can fix that,

434
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Speaker 1: you know. But for me to someone catches my eye,

435
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Speaker 1: I'd say a lot of the time, it's what they're wearing.

436
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Speaker 1: Because if someone might be really physically attractive but I

437
00:19:06,840 --> 00:19:10,920
Speaker 1: don't like what they're wearing, I probably won't. I know

438
00:19:11,080 --> 00:19:13,200
Speaker 1: that's so fucked up, but I'm you told me not

439
00:19:13,280 --> 00:19:17,640
Speaker 1: to sugarcoat it. Yeah, I probably wouldn't. Then continue kind

440
00:19:17,680 --> 00:19:19,600
Speaker 1: of giving them attention throughout the night, like I wouldn't

441
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Speaker 1: like keep looking over and be like, I hope they

442
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Speaker 1: talk to me because I'm like, we have really different

443
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Speaker 1: styles and therefore probably really different vibes. Yeah, you know

444
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Speaker 1: what I mean.

445
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Speaker 2: I like his question, and I feel like you've had

446
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Speaker 2: different results with each option he gave. But when you

447
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Speaker 2: call things off, does it go mostly towards vibe or

448
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Speaker 2: attraction or a lack of let's say.

449
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Speaker 1: Say on a night out and someone will come up

450
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Speaker 1: to me at a bar and I will say like, oh,

451
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Speaker 1: by your drink, and I'll probably be like, oh, no,

452
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Speaker 1: thank you. I'd say on that basis purely it's probably

453
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Speaker 1: attraction because you know so little about the person, you

454
00:19:56,359 --> 00:19:59,840
Speaker 1: know what I mean. But I'd say getting a girl

455
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Speaker 1: bar when they're buying a drink is probably not. I

456
00:20:03,400 --> 00:20:05,080
Speaker 1: would almost rather a guy kind of come up to

457
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Speaker 1: me while I'm sitting with my friends and like maybe

458
00:20:06,880 --> 00:20:08,560
Speaker 1: a couple of their friends and they like sit down

459
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Speaker 1: and start chatting, and then you kind of can chat

460
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Speaker 1: to them and you're all kind of in a conversation together.

461
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Speaker 1: Then you kind of get to know their personality a

462
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Speaker 1: bit more. I think purely offering to buy someone a drink,

463
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Speaker 1: you know so little about them and who they are

464
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Speaker 1: and their energy and vibe that it is going to

465
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Speaker 1: be probably a no for a lot of people purely

466
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Speaker 1: out of fear as well. The girls also like, h scared, no,

467
00:20:29,720 --> 00:20:31,440
Speaker 1: don't worry, like you know what I mean. Like that's

468
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Speaker 1: intimidating for us as well. So I feel like approaching

469
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Speaker 1: it maybe more casually than kind of oh you see

470
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Speaker 1: a girl go to a bar by herself, Like, she's

471
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Speaker 1: probably gonna want to rejoin her friends soon anyway, so

472
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Speaker 1: it will probably end up shutting down pretty quickly. I'd

473
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Speaker 1: say your better bet is to kind of catch her

474
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Speaker 1: when she's sitting or doing something with friends somewhere where

475
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Speaker 1: it's a bit more casual, and maybe you can sit

476
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Speaker 1: down and kind of chat to her for a little

477
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Speaker 1: bit verse like, hey, can I buy you a drink?

478
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Speaker 1: Because all of her friends are sitting ten feet away

479
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Speaker 1: and she can't really come sit with you for half

480
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Speaker 1: an hour, do you know what I mean? So I

481
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Speaker 1: feel like it in a more casual setting, maybe even

482
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Speaker 1: if it's with a few mates and you kind of

483
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Speaker 1: like join a couple of girls and like sit down

484
00:21:06,160 --> 00:21:07,880
Speaker 1: on the same table as them and maybe start asking

485
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Speaker 1: them some questions Like that is a bit more casual.

486
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Speaker 1: Therefore you get to know the person a bit more.

487
00:21:12,880 --> 00:21:14,880
Speaker 1: Then it goes more to vibe than looks and attraction,

488
00:21:15,000 --> 00:21:16,760
Speaker 1: because someone might just be really funny and you might

489
00:21:16,800 --> 00:21:19,040
Speaker 1: be finding yourself like looking over at them more, you

490
00:21:19,119 --> 00:21:23,080
Speaker 1: know what I mean, So and just eye contact across

491
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Speaker 1: the fucking room. If I think someone's good looking, I

492
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Speaker 1: end up staring at them a lot, and you don't

493
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Speaker 1: even realize you're doing it. You kind of just look

494
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Speaker 1: over at them to see if.

495
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Speaker 2: They're looking at you.

496
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Speaker 1: So if you end up catching the same eyes with

497
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Speaker 1: the same person again and again again, then I feel

498
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Speaker 1: like that's you're in to Yeah, go and speak to

499
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Speaker 1: them because they're not looking at you for no reason. No,

500
00:21:42,480 --> 00:21:44,000
Speaker 1: And if there's a boy that kept staring at me

501
00:21:44,080 --> 00:21:45,960
Speaker 1: that I wasn't interested in it, I would stop looking

502
00:21:46,040 --> 00:21:48,960
Speaker 1: that way, you know, like I just we would stop

503
00:21:49,000 --> 00:21:50,880
Speaker 1: catching eyes because I would make sure I wasn't looking

504
00:21:50,920 --> 00:21:52,560
Speaker 1: at him. So it's like, if you do find that

505
00:21:52,640 --> 00:21:55,920
Speaker 1: you're catching eyes with a girl a couple times, it's

506
00:21:56,080 --> 00:21:59,840
Speaker 1: because she's also interested scoping you out. Yeah, So it's

507
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Speaker 1: like then that just makes it a little bit easier

508
00:22:01,680 --> 00:22:04,240
Speaker 1: and maybe a little bit less intimidating for you to

509
00:22:04,359 --> 00:22:07,560
Speaker 1: approach because she's probably expecting it or wanting it. But

510
00:22:08,280 --> 00:22:12,560
Speaker 1: outfit start there always. I know that's very shallow, but

511
00:22:12,680 --> 00:22:14,600
Speaker 1: it really does make a difference, and I'm sure boys

512
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Speaker 1: would agree, Like they might see girls in an outfit.

513
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Speaker 2: And be like, whow, I'm going to give random advice

514
00:22:20,160 --> 00:22:22,800
Speaker 2: that's not that relatable. I think I said it to you.

515
00:22:22,920 --> 00:22:25,160
Speaker 2: Last week when I was in I was driving home,

516
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Speaker 2: I saw a guy walking on the footpath. I was like,

517
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Speaker 2: he is sexy. Then I like looked at his face.

518
00:22:30,520 --> 00:22:33,880
Speaker 2: I'm like, wait, not really, I look down he's holding

519
00:22:33,960 --> 00:22:37,640
Speaker 2: a book. Yeah, just like anything to show interest.

520
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Speaker 1: And yeah, like I don't know, if you're going to

521
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Speaker 1: get lunch at a cafe, like bring a book, make

522
00:22:43,440 --> 00:22:47,360
Speaker 1: sure you know something about it. But on a night out, yeah,

523
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Speaker 1: having a boy come up to me at a bar

524
00:22:49,359 --> 00:22:51,919
Speaker 1: when I'm like buy myself buying a drink, it usually

525
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Speaker 1: probably I reckon intimidating me more because I'm like I've

526
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Speaker 1: kind of got to go rejoin my friends. Like I'll

527
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Speaker 1: just be like, thank you, that's so nice, and then

528
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Speaker 1: I'll go. It's not really a way to have a

529
00:23:02,359 --> 00:23:05,080
Speaker 1: continued conversation, no, And like.

530
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Speaker 2: That's setting what do you want to be remembered for.

531
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Speaker 2: I feel like there needs to be an entry point

532
00:23:10,080 --> 00:23:12,359
Speaker 2: before a drink, because if you're coming straight up to someone,

533
00:23:12,440 --> 00:23:14,719
Speaker 2: hey can I buy you a drink, I'm just going

534
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Speaker 2: to remember the drink.

535
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Speaker 1: That I had. Also, when boys coming on what I'm wearing,

536
00:23:17,840 --> 00:23:20,760
Speaker 1: I think it's really nice. Like sometimes i'd be like

537
00:23:20,800 --> 00:23:22,639
Speaker 1: that's a really cool like I've had my I remember

538
00:23:22,680 --> 00:23:24,840
Speaker 1: when I wore a F one this year. I wore

539
00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:27,800
Speaker 1: this like gray sort of shortened jacket set and like

540
00:23:28,000 --> 00:23:29,840
Speaker 1: or even all just my boy like mates were like,

541
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Speaker 1: that's the coolest outfit we've ever seen, and I'm like,

542
00:23:32,720 --> 00:23:34,680
Speaker 1: thank you so much. But I remember, like sometimes I'll

543
00:23:34,680 --> 00:23:36,560
Speaker 1: be walking past someone and be like, you look so good.

544
00:23:36,440 --> 00:23:38,480
Speaker 2: Like I love what you're wearing, and they can just

545
00:23:38,560 --> 00:23:43,560
Speaker 2: appreciate it, but it's like you're so well, yeah, I

546
00:23:43,640 --> 00:23:43,879
Speaker 2: love that.

547
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Speaker 1: I love it too. I'm a little I like it all.

548
00:23:45,760 --> 00:23:47,520
Speaker 1: I really don't whistle at me from a car and

549
00:23:47,560 --> 00:23:50,720
Speaker 1: we're pretty well good. But like someone barked at me

550
00:23:50,800 --> 00:23:52,159
Speaker 1: from a part the other day. Did I tell you that?

551
00:23:53,240 --> 00:23:55,960
Speaker 1: I'm like, what, WHOA? Roll down that window? I'm jumping

552
00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:59,399
Speaker 1: in fuck me right now? Do not bark me?

553
00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:00,800
Speaker 2: What type of bar?

554
00:24:00,960 --> 00:24:03,840
Speaker 1: Because it like, yeah, what he's going?

555
00:24:04,520 --> 00:24:04,720
Speaker 2: Yeah?

556
00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:08,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, But I'm like, what's the goal there besides making

557
00:24:08,640 --> 00:24:11,720
Speaker 1: me feel uncomfortable? Yeah, because there isn't. You're not you're

558
00:24:11,760 --> 00:24:14,439
Speaker 1: not trying to make yourself good. No, I don't get

559
00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:17,200
Speaker 1: why guys do that. It was in Richmond, Richmond's Scary

560
00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:21,560
Speaker 1: there's fucking people everywhere. But also just confidence is hot,

561
00:24:22,320 --> 00:24:24,359
Speaker 1: you know so, and confidence in.

562
00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:26,840
Speaker 2: You, like you don't have to be blindly confident in something,

563
00:24:26,960 --> 00:24:29,960
Speaker 2: just knowing who you are, what you're about, being able

564
00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:31,320
Speaker 2: to rattle everything off.

565
00:24:31,720 --> 00:24:33,840
Speaker 1: Yeah. I like people that are smart, have interested in

566
00:24:34,040 --> 00:24:35,840
Speaker 1: their own things, passionate about something.

567
00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:37,680
Speaker 2: Do you like a little bit of mystery left to

568
00:24:37,760 --> 00:24:39,080
Speaker 2: someone that just lays it out?

569
00:24:39,680 --> 00:24:41,159
Speaker 1: M I don't know.

570
00:24:41,520 --> 00:24:42,800
Speaker 2: I like to keep wanting more.

571
00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:44,560
Speaker 1: I'm not even really sure what I want right now

572
00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:46,240
Speaker 1: because it's like I've been single for so long and

573
00:24:46,320 --> 00:24:47,960
Speaker 1: it's like the last two guys that date it aren't

574
00:24:48,200 --> 00:24:50,639
Speaker 1: the type that I want to go for in future. Therefore,

575
00:24:50,720 --> 00:24:54,520
Speaker 1: I'm not really sure. Yeah, you know, I'm open to whatever.

576
00:24:54,920 --> 00:24:57,159
Speaker 2: Really, we'll report backward from.

577
00:24:59,280 --> 00:25:02,159
Speaker 1: I think night is so important, and I think looks

578
00:25:02,280 --> 00:25:05,080
Speaker 1: is really not everything. Like there's so many guys that

579
00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:06,800
Speaker 1: it's like, oh my god, people will be like, oh

580
00:25:06,880 --> 00:25:08,879
Speaker 1: he's not that good looking, but like his fucking personality

581
00:25:08,960 --> 00:25:12,320
Speaker 1: is incredible. So it's like personality is so much. Yeah,

582
00:25:12,440 --> 00:25:17,080
Speaker 1: Christmas rare, Yeah, witty smart banter. Banter is great. It's

583
00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:19,360
Speaker 1: not easy, though, It's not easy to just make up banter.

584
00:25:19,440 --> 00:25:20,800
Speaker 1: You either have it with someone or you don't. And

585
00:25:20,840 --> 00:25:22,040
Speaker 1: there's a lot of people I might have it with

586
00:25:22,119 --> 00:25:23,960
Speaker 1: and a lot of people I just don't. Yeah, it

587
00:25:24,080 --> 00:25:26,320
Speaker 1: depends in the person. So you kind of need to

588
00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:28,480
Speaker 1: go to conversation going not just offered to buy a

589
00:25:28,560 --> 00:25:30,960
Speaker 1: drink is kind of where I'm going. But that's really

590
00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:32,640
Speaker 1: the advice I can give you. I hope I somewhat

591
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Speaker 1: covered what you're looking for.

592
00:25:33,920 --> 00:25:34,879
Speaker 2: And please write back in.

593
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Speaker 1: Please write back in, and boys, please feel welcome to

594
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Speaker 1: write in. We love for hearing your questions.

595
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Speaker 2: Slave Gorge.

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Speaker 1: Okay, guys, on this week's episode, we are sticking true

597
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Speaker 1: to the name of the podcast, and we've gotten you,

598
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Speaker 1: guys to send us in a bunch of your hear

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Speaker 1: me out, so your controversial opinions hot takes in case

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Speaker 1: anyone's not sure what to hear me out is. That's

601
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Speaker 1: what hear me out is. It's just kind of like,

602
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Speaker 1: hear me out, this is my controversial opinion, and Likeke's

603
00:26:01,640 --> 00:26:03,879
Speaker 1: gonna read some of yours and we're going to react.

604
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Speaker 2: All right. These are quick fire ones. Yeah, hear me out.

605
00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:10,240
Speaker 2: A guy texting with auto capitalization off is the biggest

606
00:26:10,280 --> 00:26:14,680
Speaker 2: turn off or elongating their words, like that's so true,

607
00:26:15,080 --> 00:26:18,000
Speaker 2: that's the girls only. Yeah, yeah, I don't like.

608
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Speaker 1: I remember back in the day, I had a friend

609
00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:21,040
Speaker 1: that turned her capslock off, and I was like, why

610
00:26:21,080 --> 00:26:23,080
Speaker 1: have you done that? Like, I just think to know

611
00:26:23,160 --> 00:26:25,600
Speaker 1: that a boy's consciously gone into their settings and turned

612
00:26:25,640 --> 00:26:27,240
Speaker 1: their capslock off to me is odd.

613
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Speaker 2: I didn't even know that was a setting.

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Speaker 1: It is because it just makes it look like you're

615
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Speaker 1: texting like a kid. And I do understand sometimes having

616
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Speaker 1: a heading on a story or something with no capitals

617
00:26:35,760 --> 00:26:37,800
Speaker 1: in it, I get it. Yeah, don't text me with

618
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Speaker 1: no capitals unless you want me to think you're twelve.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's childish. I'm like, what are you

620
00:26:42,359 --> 00:26:42,959
Speaker 2: texting off?

621
00:26:43,080 --> 00:26:44,639
Speaker 1: Yeah? And then what if you're writing a working on

622
00:26:44,760 --> 00:26:47,600
Speaker 1: your phone and that's all lowercase? I just think it's weird.

623
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Speaker 1: So yeah, I do think it's an eck absolutely, And

624
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Speaker 1: about the elongation of the words. I don't like the

625
00:26:52,760 --> 00:26:55,520
Speaker 1: haze with lots of wires. I get that. But like

626
00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:59,000
Speaker 1: you're so excited to see me, that's fine, that'll do.

627
00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:03,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, I do. I don't even know what my problem is,

628
00:27:03,200 --> 00:27:06,639
Speaker 2: Like it so feels weird to me. It was so funny.

629
00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:10,160
Speaker 2: I'm like, what is like the example like crazezy. Yeah

630
00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:11,680
Speaker 2: this summer, I'm like chill.

631
00:27:11,800 --> 00:27:14,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's crazy and I'm needing to be crazy.

632
00:27:14,440 --> 00:27:16,000
Speaker 2: When we're speaking about this. I was trying to think

633
00:27:16,040 --> 00:27:20,080
Speaker 2: of words, and the first one was slay, like I need.

634
00:27:20,080 --> 00:27:23,320
Speaker 1: To slow needs. I need to have someone lobotomize me

635
00:27:23,800 --> 00:27:25,800
Speaker 1: and rip the memory of that word out of my

636
00:27:25,920 --> 00:27:29,760
Speaker 1: brain since it actually started. I reckon honestly when I

637
00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:33,480
Speaker 1: was at Coachella, and now I say it daily twenty

638
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Speaker 1: times at least.

639
00:27:34,320 --> 00:27:35,960
Speaker 2: Really picked up, didn't that it?

640
00:27:36,200 --> 00:27:39,320
Speaker 1: Really it's picked up and it's never stopped. I need

641
00:27:39,400 --> 00:27:41,800
Speaker 1: it fucking gone. How does one remove a word from

642
00:27:41,800 --> 00:27:42,600
Speaker 1: their vocabulary.

643
00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:45,040
Speaker 2: I think he's going to replace it with a mother.

644
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Speaker 1: Give me a word to replace lay with? Gus? Yeah?

645
00:27:50,080 --> 00:27:55,399
Speaker 2: Please sound some all right? Yeah, hear me out. Girls

646
00:27:55,520 --> 00:27:59,000
Speaker 2: always look better with their natural hair color. Guests dying

647
00:27:59,080 --> 00:28:01,399
Speaker 2: it can still look amazing, but at the end of

648
00:28:01,440 --> 00:28:03,800
Speaker 2: the day, your natural hair color is best suited. In

649
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Speaker 2: my opinion, hard disagree.

650
00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:09,479
Speaker 1: I understand what you're saying, but my hair colors are

651
00:28:09,640 --> 00:28:14,000
Speaker 1: really mousy, grayish brown, like it's got no warmth or

652
00:28:14,119 --> 00:28:17,040
Speaker 1: richness to it. And it looks like I'm dying. So

653
00:28:17,359 --> 00:28:20,160
Speaker 1: I like, I do think, like there are blonde people

654
00:28:20,160 --> 00:28:21,840
Speaker 1: and then they get a couple of highlights and frames

655
00:28:21,840 --> 00:28:23,639
Speaker 1: around their face, and then they're blonde is just brighter.

656
00:28:23,800 --> 00:28:26,879
Speaker 1: I totally I get what you're saying. Like I have

657
00:28:27,320 --> 00:28:29,560
Speaker 1: friends like leg that have that gorgeous dark hair that's

658
00:28:29,600 --> 00:28:31,639
Speaker 1: like similar to my color, probably a bit lighter now,

659
00:28:31,720 --> 00:28:34,000
Speaker 1: but it's like if they added highlights in it. People

660
00:28:34,080 --> 00:28:37,359
Speaker 1: that have really really dark, thick brown hair, I don't

661
00:28:37,400 --> 00:28:39,760
Speaker 1: think suit highlights. I think when your hair is that dark,

662
00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:43,040
Speaker 1: highlights make your hair, highlights look yellow. You can only

663
00:28:43,080 --> 00:28:45,120
Speaker 1: really get highlights if you've got a lighter color hair

664
00:28:45,200 --> 00:28:49,280
Speaker 1: to start with, or like you've bleached it. Anyway, I disagree.

665
00:28:49,560 --> 00:28:51,720
Speaker 1: I think demension and hair is nice, and I think

666
00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:55,320
Speaker 1: I like experimenting with hair colors. But best believe those

667
00:28:55,360 --> 00:28:57,880
Speaker 1: people with natural hair thicker and nice art and shinier

668
00:28:57,920 --> 00:28:59,479
Speaker 1: hair than those of us who die regularly.

669
00:28:59,720 --> 00:29:04,040
Speaker 2: Yeah. I get preferring someone's original hair if you're looking

670
00:29:04,080 --> 00:29:06,760
Speaker 2: at at it against like an extreme like a bleach

671
00:29:06,880 --> 00:29:09,080
Speaker 2: blonde or like a bright red or like.

672
00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:11,920
Speaker 1: You know, a blonde that has like ten centimeter roots

673
00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:15,000
Speaker 1: like Yeah, yeah, I'd probably prefer my Yeah, but my

674
00:29:15,120 --> 00:29:16,920
Speaker 1: hair now looks better than it would have had one

675
00:29:16,960 --> 00:29:17,440
Speaker 1: hundred percent.

676
00:29:17,480 --> 00:29:19,560
Speaker 2: And I actually can't think of an example where there's

677
00:29:19,600 --> 00:29:21,440
Speaker 2: like a celebrity and I'm like, not, you need to

678
00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:23,880
Speaker 2: dye your hair back, like it's never been that bad.

679
00:29:24,040 --> 00:29:27,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like, isn't Blake Lively naturally blonde? I mean not

680
00:29:28,280 --> 00:29:28,800
Speaker 1: black Lively?

681
00:29:28,880 --> 00:29:29,120
Speaker 2: Sorry?

682
00:29:29,200 --> 00:29:35,760
Speaker 1: Ooh I hate her still light and mister Blair weld Off,

683
00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:37,640
Speaker 1: I think she grew up blonde.

684
00:29:37,840 --> 00:29:40,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, her natural hair color is light brown. Yeah, but

685
00:29:40,960 --> 00:29:42,280
Speaker 2: it's a dark brown one hundred percent.

686
00:29:42,360 --> 00:29:45,320
Speaker 1: That's so hurt. No, I think I do. I hard

687
00:29:45,360 --> 00:29:47,440
Speaker 1: disagree on that. Yeah, that's my stance.

688
00:29:47,960 --> 00:29:50,720
Speaker 2: All right, this is a lengthier one. Hear me out.

689
00:29:51,120 --> 00:29:55,960
Speaker 2: Going through your situation's recently deleted photos and recovering things

690
00:29:56,080 --> 00:29:58,320
Speaker 2: that they don't want you to see, and then asking

691
00:29:58,480 --> 00:30:01,080
Speaker 2: to look at something I'll send next to you, and

692
00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:04,000
Speaker 2: then saying what's this is and staging it right in

693
00:30:04,080 --> 00:30:07,120
Speaker 2: front of them is healthy to see what their reaction is.

694
00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:11,680
Speaker 2: My example, I went through my situation's phone when we

695
00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:14,280
Speaker 2: were getting the situationships. Yeah that's what you mean. Yeah, Yeah,

696
00:30:14,440 --> 00:30:17,040
Speaker 2: I went through my situation ship's phone when we were

697
00:30:17,120 --> 00:30:20,160
Speaker 2: getting serious and recovered photos of him kissing girls on

698
00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:22,959
Speaker 2: the cheek and being flirty with other girls. And then

699
00:30:23,000 --> 00:30:25,200
Speaker 2: when he woke up, I asked if we could look

700
00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:27,040
Speaker 2: at the pics we took on the weekend, and then

701
00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:30,040
Speaker 2: he accidentally scrolled to the photo I recovered and he

702
00:30:30,160 --> 00:30:32,840
Speaker 2: was then in shambles and basically made him bow down

703
00:30:32,960 --> 00:30:33,160
Speaker 2: to me.

704
00:30:34,880 --> 00:30:38,880
Speaker 1: Healthy. No, if I'm going to be completely honest with you, Yeah,

705
00:30:38,920 --> 00:30:43,960
Speaker 1: it's questionable, it's very savvy, it's clever, it's clever. I

706
00:30:44,120 --> 00:30:48,160
Speaker 1: don't think it's healthy, yeah, or smart, And I wouldn't recommend.

707
00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:51,880
Speaker 1: I think you're setting yourself up for an issue and

708
00:30:52,000 --> 00:30:54,720
Speaker 1: a heartbreak. I don't think you need to see them.

709
00:30:55,160 --> 00:30:58,720
Speaker 2: I get if you want clarity if you're maybe entering something.

710
00:30:58,480 --> 00:30:59,959
Speaker 1: And let's say he was like cheating on you, then

711
00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:02,280
Speaker 1: find dump his ass. But like to set it up

712
00:31:02,440 --> 00:31:05,320
Speaker 1: to be like a catch out, like fuck me, if

713
00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:07,160
Speaker 1: I see a photo of someone kissing someone, I'm just

714
00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:10,200
Speaker 1: gonna show him. Yeah, but verse like setting up a scenario,

715
00:31:10,480 --> 00:31:12,440
Speaker 1: you know what, and like the fact.

716
00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:16,760
Speaker 2: That this is solely situationships. It's like, what can be

717
00:31:17,560 --> 00:31:19,280
Speaker 2: like that good that you're actually like, oh, Yeah, I

718
00:31:19,280 --> 00:31:21,280
Speaker 2: s so happy to stay with you. Like, inevitably you're

719
00:31:21,320 --> 00:31:24,240
Speaker 2: gonna find something that's going to alter your connection.

720
00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:27,000
Speaker 1: You're kind of looking for a fight then, yeah, which,

721
00:31:27,120 --> 00:31:29,080
Speaker 1: if you want one, go for it.

722
00:31:29,240 --> 00:31:31,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, by all means, make it his wallpaper.

723
00:31:31,480 --> 00:31:34,000
Speaker 1: Don't make it his wallpaper. But I think if you're

724
00:31:34,160 --> 00:31:36,239
Speaker 1: looking for something, you may as well just confront him

725
00:31:36,360 --> 00:31:39,760
Speaker 1: about what you've found. In Like, I went through Italy

726
00:31:39,800 --> 00:31:40,680
Speaker 1: deleted and I found this.

727
00:31:41,040 --> 00:31:42,600
Speaker 2: Yeah is this verse?

728
00:31:42,760 --> 00:31:45,760
Speaker 1: Like hey, in the hopes that they scroll and find it,

729
00:31:45,880 --> 00:31:50,000
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. But no judgment, love the creativity. Yeah,

730
00:31:50,160 --> 00:31:51,560
Speaker 1: if I need it, I'll use it.

731
00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:56,080
Speaker 2: Think next one hear me out. Ninety percent of am

732
00:31:56,120 --> 00:31:59,240
Speaker 2: I the assholes stories? No, they're not the assholes and

733
00:31:59,320 --> 00:32:02,480
Speaker 2: they just looking to be validation. Yeah, that's really good.

734
00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:05,680
Speaker 1: I do get it. But I like also, yeah, I

735
00:32:05,720 --> 00:32:07,800
Speaker 1: think they maybe had one or two where I've been like,

736
00:32:08,200 --> 00:32:10,600
Speaker 1: you kind of are the asshole. But it's very much

737
00:32:10,720 --> 00:32:12,480
Speaker 1: not common, And I think people that are the asshole

738
00:32:12,520 --> 00:32:14,360
Speaker 1: don't send those stories in because they know that they're

739
00:32:14,400 --> 00:32:14,800
Speaker 1: in the wrong.

740
00:32:15,040 --> 00:32:17,840
Speaker 2: Yeah. Although the ones I engage with in like Reddit

741
00:32:18,240 --> 00:32:23,040
Speaker 2: or in like communities, I have seen the complete other extreme.

742
00:32:22,560 --> 00:32:24,240
Speaker 1: Of it, and the reddit was crazy.

743
00:32:24,360 --> 00:32:26,840
Speaker 2: But some people that are so unaware that they're an

744
00:32:26,880 --> 00:32:29,560
Speaker 2: asshole and have done something remotely wrong.

745
00:32:29,720 --> 00:32:32,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, I like us to unlock like this huge audience

746
00:32:32,800 --> 00:32:35,680
Speaker 1: where like we're getting like Reddit level fucking nuts. And

747
00:32:35,800 --> 00:32:38,600
Speaker 1: I know a lot of the time people send in

748
00:32:38,680 --> 00:32:41,880
Speaker 1: stories like that purely for validation. I don't mind. I'll

749
00:32:41,920 --> 00:32:44,000
Speaker 1: give it to you. I'll do the same to be honest,

750
00:32:44,280 --> 00:32:46,360
Speaker 1: And sometimes I like hearing about the other crazy person

751
00:32:46,400 --> 00:32:46,840
Speaker 1: that they're telling.

752
00:32:46,920 --> 00:32:54,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, I don't mind. It's a literal situation, the drama. Okay,

753
00:32:54,720 --> 00:32:58,160
Speaker 2: hear me out. You'll love this. Wearing shoes inside your

754
00:32:58,240 --> 00:33:01,920
Speaker 2: home in Brackets as a clean freak is disgusting. Think

755
00:33:01,960 --> 00:33:04,920
Speaker 2: about everything that could be on a road or footpath

756
00:33:05,240 --> 00:33:09,560
Speaker 2: in Brackets again, dog piers, garm being walked through your

757
00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:10,360
Speaker 2: house this foul.

758
00:33:10,640 --> 00:33:14,200
Speaker 1: Especially carpets that mop a carpet like. So, I got

759
00:33:14,240 --> 00:33:15,920
Speaker 1: home from the airport the other day, I'm like, oh,

760
00:33:16,360 --> 00:33:20,240
Speaker 1: everything on my body needs to be gone and burnt,

761
00:33:20,480 --> 00:33:23,600
Speaker 1: quite frankly, And I was unpacking my suitcase and I

762
00:33:23,680 --> 00:33:26,320
Speaker 1: was still wearing what I wore on the plane run.

763
00:33:26,720 --> 00:33:30,000
Speaker 1: More so, I was wearing runners. I can't do productive

764
00:33:30,040 --> 00:33:32,520
Speaker 1: tasks around my house. Wearing runners, I'm not comfortable. I

765
00:33:32,560 --> 00:33:35,560
Speaker 1: feel like my legs are harder to move because it's

766
00:33:35,560 --> 00:33:37,080
Speaker 1: a big chunky thing in the bottom of my foot.

767
00:33:37,120 --> 00:33:39,440
Speaker 1: It needs to go extra wait to catchuck my runners off,

768
00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:41,520
Speaker 1: put my ugods on, and now things can get done

769
00:33:41,640 --> 00:33:44,040
Speaker 1: smoother and easier. Runners are just not an indoor shoe.

770
00:33:44,480 --> 00:33:45,960
Speaker 1: People that sit in the couch with the runners on.

771
00:33:46,080 --> 00:33:46,360
Speaker 2: Foul.

772
00:33:46,760 --> 00:33:50,120
Speaker 1: People that oh, my friends told me her partner got

773
00:33:50,160 --> 00:33:51,880
Speaker 1: home from the airport the other day and jumps in

774
00:33:52,000 --> 00:33:54,960
Speaker 1: her bed to wake up and say good morning. I

775
00:33:55,040 --> 00:33:56,520
Speaker 1: don't want to good morning if you're going to be

776
00:33:56,560 --> 00:33:57,480
Speaker 1: wearing airport clothes.

777
00:33:57,680 --> 00:34:00,440
Speaker 2: Shower, I'm on its leg rude. I want a clean

778
00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:03,320
Speaker 2: freak side, but I have a few leeways. Like I'm

779
00:34:03,360 --> 00:34:05,080
Speaker 2: also an unbothered queen.

780
00:34:05,480 --> 00:34:06,720
Speaker 1: I'm a messy, clean freak.

781
00:34:06,840 --> 00:34:09,239
Speaker 2: Yeah. Is the one environment that I'm like, I need

782
00:34:09,360 --> 00:34:12,239
Speaker 2: to shed myself. Yeah, Like, there's not many environments you like,

783
00:34:12,360 --> 00:34:13,040
Speaker 2: get this off me.

784
00:34:13,200 --> 00:34:17,320
Speaker 1: I'm a hygiene freak, not a thing. I sing a

785
00:34:17,400 --> 00:34:19,279
Speaker 1: video of Kylie Jenna saying that, like, my house is

786
00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:22,160
Speaker 1: organized chaos. I know where everything is. It may look

787
00:34:22,239 --> 00:34:25,400
Speaker 1: unorganized to you, but it's like, I know that that

788
00:34:25,480 --> 00:34:27,800
Speaker 1: lip mom is like in that drawer under that fucking

789
00:34:28,239 --> 00:34:30,120
Speaker 1: notebook I use when I was twelve? Do you know

790
00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:32,320
Speaker 1: what I mean to me? But like if someone cleaned

791
00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:33,880
Speaker 1: it all, yeah, it would be lovely, but it's not

792
00:34:33,920 --> 00:34:37,520
Speaker 1: going to stay like that. Yeah, but everything is hygienic.

793
00:34:37,920 --> 00:34:38,879
Speaker 2: Does the job, yep.

794
00:34:39,280 --> 00:34:41,440
Speaker 1: Don't touch my bed with the outdoor shit. Yeah, I

795
00:34:41,640 --> 00:34:42,680
Speaker 1: know that they're just sit in the floor.

796
00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:45,160
Speaker 2: I think I overall agree with the hear me out,

797
00:34:45,239 --> 00:34:47,920
Speaker 2: but sometimes because you don't have total control of your

798
00:34:47,960 --> 00:34:50,800
Speaker 2: living situation, other people can be walking through with shoes.

799
00:34:52,880 --> 00:34:55,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, don't walk from my bedroom with shoes.

800
00:34:55,640 --> 00:34:58,000
Speaker 2: But then sometimes it's like a defense mechanism that I

801
00:34:58,080 --> 00:35:01,560
Speaker 2: wear shoes because I don't want to pick up other people's.

802
00:35:01,360 --> 00:35:03,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll never wear like I had runners at my

803
00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:05,640
Speaker 1: friend's house the other day and I was wearing socks,

804
00:35:05,680 --> 00:35:06,840
Speaker 1: but every time I got off from the couch, I

805
00:35:06,920 --> 00:35:08,279
Speaker 1: like put my runners back on, and she's like, why

806
00:35:08,280 --> 00:35:10,359
Speaker 1: do you keep doing that? And I'm like, well, usually

807
00:35:10,360 --> 00:35:12,279
Speaker 1: I have my ug boots, but like, I don't want

808
00:35:12,320 --> 00:35:14,040
Speaker 1: to walk around someone else's kitchen in socks.

809
00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:16,000
Speaker 2: Oh my god, Remember when I came to your house

810
00:35:16,040 --> 00:35:19,680
Speaker 2: and I stepped in your cat, shir that was so embarrassing.

811
00:35:20,560 --> 00:35:25,320
Speaker 1: Oh my god, through a fucking serious about of like

812
00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:28,000
Speaker 1: she couldn't control her bowels. I don't know what you'd

813
00:35:28,040 --> 00:35:29,839
Speaker 1: call it, but she's shit everywhere, and it's like these

814
00:35:29,880 --> 00:35:32,920
Speaker 1: tiny little pellets of shit. She's done. Now, she's better,

815
00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:35,680
Speaker 1: in case anyone cared, she's fine. But she'd do it

816
00:35:35,680 --> 00:35:37,520
Speaker 1: all the time, and I'd usually spot it instantly and

817
00:35:37,560 --> 00:35:39,520
Speaker 1: I clean it up. But Blake was coming over and

818
00:35:39,880 --> 00:35:42,520
Speaker 1: obviously she'd just done it, and he walked straight into it,

819
00:35:42,560 --> 00:35:44,560
Speaker 1: and I woke up. She's like, what's that fucking smell?

820
00:35:44,680 --> 00:35:46,640
Speaker 1: It was so embarrassed, And it was the first time

821
00:35:46,760 --> 00:35:47,080
Speaker 1: there too.

822
00:35:47,200 --> 00:35:48,200
Speaker 2: I'm already going red.

823
00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:50,520
Speaker 1: Ah, it was so it was so sad. I didn't care,

824
00:35:50,560 --> 00:35:53,759
Speaker 1: though I felt bad that you stepped in. Catchit inside

825
00:35:53,880 --> 00:35:55,160
Speaker 1: my house instantly.

826
00:35:55,719 --> 00:35:58,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, next one, hear me out. People need a sub

827
00:35:59,320 --> 00:36:02,480
Speaker 2: saying they going no contact with their acts when they've

828
00:36:02,520 --> 00:36:04,600
Speaker 2: been broken up for like months. You are not no

829
00:36:04,760 --> 00:36:08,359
Speaker 2: contact your single babe. Please go outside and stop thinking

830
00:36:08,400 --> 00:36:09,240
Speaker 2: about your ax.

831
00:36:09,719 --> 00:36:12,839
Speaker 1: I actually, yeah, I've never thought about it. Yeah, you're

832
00:36:12,840 --> 00:36:14,760
Speaker 1: not no contact anymore, you're not dating.

833
00:36:15,120 --> 00:36:18,040
Speaker 2: I think that's a productive take. But I will give

834
00:36:18,400 --> 00:36:20,640
Speaker 2: everyone so much grace that you're allowed to be. It's

835
00:36:20,719 --> 00:36:23,360
Speaker 2: affected by as long as I was a.

836
00:36:23,560 --> 00:36:28,719
Speaker 1: Very long grieper. I can't be judgmental. I am sick

837
00:36:28,760 --> 00:36:31,759
Speaker 1: of hearing people's I hate that whole period of oh yeah,

838
00:36:31,760 --> 00:36:33,479
Speaker 1: I've got him blocked, and then I see his number

839
00:36:33,520 --> 00:36:35,319
Speaker 1: pop up and I'm like, you said you had him blocked,

840
00:36:35,320 --> 00:36:38,120
Speaker 1: and they just lie. Yeah, I'm like, don't lie. I'd

841
00:36:38,200 --> 00:36:39,600
Speaker 1: rather you just tell me you're talking to him still?

842
00:36:40,000 --> 00:36:43,719
Speaker 1: Do you know what I mean? And don't I blocked him? No,

843
00:36:43,800 --> 00:36:45,800
Speaker 1: he blocked me. Wait, wait, why have you messaged you?

844
00:36:45,840 --> 00:36:48,800
Speaker 1: Oh no, wait I unlocked him. No, shut up. You

845
00:36:48,880 --> 00:36:50,120
Speaker 1: might as well just get back together this point.

846
00:36:50,160 --> 00:36:52,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't even care. I went to sound super relatable,

847
00:36:52,920 --> 00:36:55,480
Speaker 2: but I think we're different people in this sense, Like

848
00:36:55,560 --> 00:36:57,800
Speaker 2: how angry do you even get when a girlfriend is

849
00:36:57,960 --> 00:37:02,040
Speaker 2: like I haven't blocked or I'm still talking to it. Yeah,

850
00:37:02,040 --> 00:37:07,879
Speaker 2: I'm the same because I'm like, it's your ax, like're.

851
00:37:05,840 --> 00:37:08,799
Speaker 1: Fine as long as it fuck you over. Yeah, there's

852
00:37:08,880 --> 00:37:11,279
Speaker 1: that's a big if he fucked you over. Look. There

853
00:37:11,320 --> 00:37:13,080
Speaker 1: also comes a period where I'm like, if we're going

854
00:37:13,160 --> 00:37:14,520
Speaker 1: back and forth, for a couple of months. How I'm

855
00:37:14,560 --> 00:37:16,719
Speaker 1: over it and you need to start moving on, and

856
00:37:16,800 --> 00:37:19,200
Speaker 1: I'm going to make sure you do, you know. But

857
00:37:19,360 --> 00:37:22,000
Speaker 1: it's that back and forth when you know that the

858
00:37:22,640 --> 00:37:24,560
Speaker 1: X isn't the right person for them that sometimes you're

859
00:37:24,600 --> 00:37:26,160
Speaker 1: just like I want more for you. I want better

860
00:37:26,239 --> 00:37:28,359
Speaker 1: for you, Like, let's actually fucking cut this man off now.

861
00:37:28,560 --> 00:37:32,680
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, hear me out. Over seventy five you should

862
00:37:32,760 --> 00:37:35,960
Speaker 2: have to redo your driver's tak Nothing enrages me more

863
00:37:36,080 --> 00:37:38,440
Speaker 2: than going forty in a sixty zone or fifty eight

864
00:37:38,520 --> 00:37:42,000
Speaker 2: and an eighty zone legitimately makes the roads more dangerous.

865
00:37:42,120 --> 00:37:44,200
Speaker 1: No, No, I completely agree. I was saying that was

866
00:37:44,280 --> 00:37:45,719
Speaker 1: with my grandma. I was like, we need to cut

867
00:37:45,760 --> 00:37:46,400
Speaker 1: a license up.

868
00:37:46,480 --> 00:37:49,520
Speaker 2: I think this is one of your og it is when.

869
00:37:49,360 --> 00:37:51,719
Speaker 1: I like, Dad needs to cut my grandma's license up.

870
00:37:51,719 --> 00:37:54,160
Speaker 1: She shouldn't be operating a vehicle anymore. But it's like,

871
00:37:54,760 --> 00:37:57,000
Speaker 1: are we driving like sixty k's down a sixty k

872
00:37:57,200 --> 00:37:58,600
Speaker 1: road and all of a sudden, someone backs out in

873
00:37:58,600 --> 00:38:01,080
Speaker 1: front of me and I have to stats stationary behind

874
00:38:01,120 --> 00:38:03,680
Speaker 1: them for forty five seconds until they reverse, Like yeah,

875
00:38:04,200 --> 00:38:08,239
Speaker 1: move it, you know, move it. I've told you cars

876
00:38:08,280 --> 00:38:10,840
Speaker 1: and airports make me a bad person, but fucking I

877
00:38:11,080 --> 00:38:13,600
Speaker 1: completely agree. Yeah, I completely agree.

878
00:38:13,800 --> 00:38:16,439
Speaker 2: It's pretty much most car accents I've almost got into.

879
00:38:16,680 --> 00:38:19,440
Speaker 2: Unfortunately an old, beautiful person's at the wheel.

880
00:38:19,520 --> 00:38:21,759
Speaker 1: It makes me so sad. I don't want them to

881
00:38:21,800 --> 00:38:24,759
Speaker 1: feel that stress, and I don't want to kill your accident. Yeah,

882
00:38:25,080 --> 00:38:27,680
Speaker 1: if you can't go the speed limit, you know, safely,

883
00:38:28,200 --> 00:38:30,640
Speaker 1: then you shouldn't be driving anymore. And at least we

884
00:38:30,680 --> 00:38:32,399
Speaker 1: have ubers these days, whereas like back, I was thinking

885
00:38:32,480 --> 00:38:34,640
Speaker 1: what the fuck did I do with my life before ubers?

886
00:38:35,440 --> 00:38:37,280
Speaker 1: Like I think they came in in like twenty thirteen.

887
00:38:37,320 --> 00:38:39,040
Speaker 1: If I can remember correctly.

888
00:38:39,040 --> 00:38:41,959
Speaker 2: I feel it started uber eats first and then led

889
00:38:42,080 --> 00:38:48,200
Speaker 2: into nah definitely not Yeah, wrong, I've gone for like

890
00:38:49,040 --> 00:38:52,919
Speaker 2: the reiteration of a name. There's like uber tends to twelve.

891
00:38:53,800 --> 00:38:55,320
Speaker 1: So I'm like, I was lucky that that would have

892
00:38:55,320 --> 00:38:56,759
Speaker 1: been when I was in year six, So it's like

893
00:38:56,760 --> 00:38:58,600
Speaker 1: by the time I was year seven, eight or anywhere

894
00:38:58,600 --> 00:39:00,959
Speaker 1: that I was going anywhere by myself, I was lucky

895
00:39:01,000 --> 00:39:03,320
Speaker 1: that I had ubers, but people that were older than me,

896
00:39:03,440 --> 00:39:07,799
Speaker 1: I'm like, it was public transport central back then or taxis, yeah,

897
00:39:07,800 --> 00:39:09,600
Speaker 1: which a taxis to me and just date. I just

898
00:39:09,960 --> 00:39:11,920
Speaker 1: view them as slightly more dangerous than it was, which

899
00:39:11,960 --> 00:39:14,799
Speaker 1: I know isn't the case. The thing that fucking sucks

900
00:39:14,800 --> 00:39:17,680
Speaker 1: about taxis is I lost my acne leather jacket and

901
00:39:17,719 --> 00:39:19,680
Speaker 1: the taxi on the way home from Travis Scott, and

902
00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:22,319
Speaker 1: I was so drunk I didn't remember the taxi company.

903
00:39:22,120 --> 00:39:24,759
Speaker 2: And no record of it on my phone and a

904
00:39:24,880 --> 00:39:25,520
Speaker 2: tackne so.

905
00:39:27,400 --> 00:39:30,040
Speaker 1: I really wanted back. So I like the Uber at

906
00:39:30,120 --> 00:39:32,040
Speaker 1: least you can like track it. But I had to

907
00:39:32,120 --> 00:39:34,120
Speaker 1: pay a fucking uber two hundred bucks in cash to

908
00:39:34,200 --> 00:39:35,239
Speaker 1: drop my phone off the other day.

909
00:39:35,320 --> 00:39:35,520
Speaker 2: Yeah.

910
00:39:36,520 --> 00:39:39,000
Speaker 1: Did you even know this that you're extorting money out

911
00:39:39,040 --> 00:39:39,200
Speaker 1: of me?

912
00:39:40,080 --> 00:39:41,719
Speaker 2: I think it used to be it was like a

913
00:39:41,840 --> 00:39:44,279
Speaker 2: set fee of twenty five to fifty dollars, yeah, for

914
00:39:44,360 --> 00:39:46,680
Speaker 2: anything return. Now they're like hey and fair of.

915
00:39:46,760 --> 00:39:48,720
Speaker 1: They've like gone a long way away. But I realized

916
00:39:48,800 --> 00:39:51,080
Speaker 1: almost instantly and just called this guy back and he

917
00:39:51,200 --> 00:39:52,520
Speaker 1: was like, how bad do you want it? I'm like, well,

918
00:39:52,560 --> 00:39:54,480
Speaker 1: it is my whole fucking life. Pretty bad.

919
00:39:54,680 --> 00:39:55,360
Speaker 2: What's your price?

920
00:39:55,560 --> 00:39:55,759
Speaker 1: Yeah?

921
00:39:55,920 --> 00:39:59,200
Speaker 2: Okay? Next hear me out. Watching porn in a relationship

922
00:39:59,320 --> 00:40:03,440
Speaker 2: in brackets without them knowing is cheating unpopular opinion. I know,

923
00:40:03,600 --> 00:40:06,040
Speaker 2: but hear me out. The definition of cheating is a

924
00:40:06,120 --> 00:40:10,680
Speaker 2: violation of a couple's emotional or sexual exclusivity through intimate

925
00:40:10,760 --> 00:40:15,200
Speaker 2: behaviors with someone outside their relationship without the partner's knowledge

926
00:40:15,280 --> 00:40:17,840
Speaker 2: or concern. So if your man is watching another person

927
00:40:18,000 --> 00:40:20,840
Speaker 2: having sex and is getting off because he's attracted to

928
00:40:20,960 --> 00:40:24,520
Speaker 2: her without you knowing, is not just a sackable offense.

929
00:40:24,800 --> 00:40:26,800
Speaker 2: It's cheating, point blank period.

930
00:40:28,080 --> 00:40:30,439
Speaker 1: I like that you've got the definite definition of cheating.

931
00:40:30,600 --> 00:40:31,920
Speaker 2: I know I felt a bit attacked them.

932
00:40:32,360 --> 00:40:35,600
Speaker 1: I don't agree. Yeah, I don't think it's cheating. I

933
00:40:35,880 --> 00:40:38,640
Speaker 1: think it's worse if they're looking at girls only fans

934
00:40:38,680 --> 00:40:39,760
Speaker 1: and it's girls they follow.

935
00:40:39,960 --> 00:40:40,919
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a whole time.

936
00:40:41,680 --> 00:40:44,680
Speaker 1: But porn on porn, Like, no, it's not cheating, but

937
00:40:44,840 --> 00:40:47,680
Speaker 1: like it's dodgy and like you shouldn't need to hide it.

938
00:40:48,880 --> 00:40:51,160
Speaker 1: Does it really matter? Like if they're doing it while

939
00:40:51,160 --> 00:40:53,440
Speaker 1: you're in the next room, that fucking sucks. But it's

940
00:40:53,480 --> 00:40:55,640
Speaker 1: like if you're away for fucking two weeks and they're

941
00:40:55,640 --> 00:40:57,680
Speaker 1: watching porn, Like, who gives a shit. I just think

942
00:40:57,719 --> 00:41:01,200
Speaker 1: it's a variable. It's very well. It's also dependent on

943
00:41:01,360 --> 00:41:03,640
Speaker 1: your history. Maybe they have a fucking important problem, and

944
00:41:03,680 --> 00:41:06,080
Speaker 1: it's been an issue relationship. I don't know, but no,

945
00:41:06,239 --> 00:41:09,360
Speaker 1: I don't find it cheating. I just think it's dodgy,

946
00:41:09,480 --> 00:41:11,440
Speaker 1: and I just think, why can that not be if

947
00:41:11,440 --> 00:41:13,440
Speaker 1: you're not doing anything wrong, why can't you tell me

948
00:41:13,520 --> 00:41:14,799
Speaker 1: that you're watching porn? Who care?

949
00:41:15,719 --> 00:41:18,399
Speaker 2: As you said, so many variables. But then I look

950
00:41:18,400 --> 00:41:20,239
Speaker 2: at like the opposite end of this, and it's like,

951
00:41:20,360 --> 00:41:23,520
Speaker 2: how forth coming would I want my boyfriend to be

952
00:41:23,640 --> 00:41:26,239
Speaker 2: about that? And how forthcoming would I want to be

953
00:41:26,360 --> 00:41:26,879
Speaker 2: with my boys?

954
00:41:26,960 --> 00:41:29,400
Speaker 1: Ideally, my boyfriend doesn't need to watch porn. That's my

955
00:41:29,600 --> 00:41:34,719
Speaker 1: thought process, that's my ideal situation. I don't want them

956
00:41:34,800 --> 00:41:36,719
Speaker 1: to even fucking have the only fans up. If I'm

957
00:41:36,719 --> 00:41:38,640
Speaker 1: being completely transparent here.

958
00:41:38,960 --> 00:41:41,520
Speaker 2: I don't think many taken men do. But again I'm

959
00:41:41,520 --> 00:41:42,360
Speaker 2: probably yeah.

960
00:41:42,239 --> 00:41:44,160
Speaker 1: I don't think that's a real I think that is

961
00:41:44,160 --> 00:41:46,880
Speaker 1: a much bigger boundary crossing, especially if you're saying messaging,

962
00:41:46,880 --> 00:41:48,880
Speaker 1: because these are like people that you follow on Instagram,

963
00:41:48,960 --> 00:41:51,719
Speaker 1: on people that you know. There's very like normal people

964
00:41:51,800 --> 00:41:53,320
Speaker 1: that you might meet on a fucking night out that

965
00:41:53,400 --> 00:41:56,319
Speaker 1: my only fans. That's different to like some unattainable fucking

966
00:41:56,760 --> 00:41:59,840
Speaker 1: American porn star. You know what I mean, it's different,

967
00:42:00,160 --> 00:42:00,400
Speaker 1: it is.

968
00:42:00,680 --> 00:42:02,880
Speaker 2: I do find it funny because a lot of the

969
00:42:03,000 --> 00:42:06,360
Speaker 2: times where a couple has broken up because the boundaries

970
00:42:06,360 --> 00:42:08,560
Speaker 2: cross online, whether it's poor or not only fans, it's

971
00:42:08,560 --> 00:42:11,960
Speaker 2: always a messaging on only fans. I completely agree, it's

972
00:42:12,000 --> 00:42:12,879
Speaker 2: just crossing a line.

973
00:42:12,960 --> 00:42:14,160
Speaker 1: That's you texting another girl.

974
00:42:14,239 --> 00:42:16,400
Speaker 2: I just find it that's so funny every time I

975
00:42:16,520 --> 00:42:18,799
Speaker 2: hear about it, because I'm like, ninety percent chance you're

976
00:42:18,800 --> 00:42:21,360
Speaker 2: paying a bot in thailands, Like I think that's what

977
00:42:21,480 --> 00:42:22,480
Speaker 2: most girls people.

978
00:42:22,960 --> 00:42:26,000
Speaker 1: Only they're not answering those messages. All I've got an

979
00:42:26,000 --> 00:42:28,399
Speaker 1: assistant doing that. You're not talking to the person who

980
00:42:28,440 --> 00:42:28,919
Speaker 1: think you are.

981
00:42:28,880 --> 00:42:30,719
Speaker 2: Mate copying and pasting most likely.

982
00:42:30,840 --> 00:42:33,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I don't write it. I don't write cheat

983
00:42:33,560 --> 00:42:36,360
Speaker 1: is full stop. But I do not think that is

984
00:42:36,600 --> 00:42:38,160
Speaker 1: cheating at its base level.

985
00:42:38,239 --> 00:42:42,560
Speaker 2: No, Okay, I've got a new hemiout slash unpopular opinion.

986
00:42:43,560 --> 00:42:46,560
Speaker 2: I think star signs are a load of crap. There

987
00:42:46,640 --> 00:42:48,920
Speaker 2: is no way that everyone born in our period of

988
00:42:49,040 --> 00:42:52,080
Speaker 2: time and every year is the same. I think people

989
00:42:52,400 --> 00:42:54,600
Speaker 2: just use them as an excuse or an escape, which

990
00:42:54,640 --> 00:42:57,440
Speaker 2: is totally fine, but just be real with yourself eventually

991
00:42:58,120 --> 00:43:00,640
Speaker 2: this feels like a personality you would staring me as

992
00:43:00,640 --> 00:43:01,080
Speaker 2: I finished.

993
00:43:01,400 --> 00:43:04,120
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah. A lot of the times, like if I'm

994
00:43:04,160 --> 00:43:06,520
Speaker 1: reading my fucking horoscope, I'm like, oh, this really relates

995
00:43:06,520 --> 00:43:09,200
Speaker 1: to me. And then sometimes I go, well, does this

996
00:43:09,320 --> 00:43:11,680
Speaker 1: also relate to the fucking a twelfth of the population

997
00:43:11,800 --> 00:43:13,799
Speaker 1: that's also a Leo? I hate that, man, it doesn't

998
00:43:13,840 --> 00:43:17,920
Speaker 1: feel as real. I think star signs can weigh heavily

999
00:43:18,000 --> 00:43:20,759
Speaker 1: on certain traits that people have, absolutely, and I think,

1000
00:43:21,360 --> 00:43:22,640
Speaker 1: but I think if you're looking at it at a

1001
00:43:22,680 --> 00:43:24,879
Speaker 1: deeper level, you'd also need to look at the birth

1002
00:43:25,000 --> 00:43:26,680
Speaker 1: chart and where you're born and when you're born and

1003
00:43:26,760 --> 00:43:28,239
Speaker 1: timing wise. And I do think you can get a

1004
00:43:28,360 --> 00:43:33,040
Speaker 1: somewhat accurate description of someone's like personality based on zodiac

1005
00:43:33,120 --> 00:43:35,760
Speaker 1: and all that kind of jazz on like Leo rising

1006
00:43:35,960 --> 00:43:40,080
Speaker 1: and tourist moon. And no, your sun's sign isn't going

1007
00:43:40,160 --> 00:43:41,680
Speaker 1: to give you everything you need to know about a person.

1008
00:43:41,760 --> 00:43:43,880
Speaker 1: I definitely think there's people that aren't anything like their

1009
00:43:43,920 --> 00:43:46,480
Speaker 1: star signs, But I do think it can give you

1010
00:43:46,600 --> 00:43:49,800
Speaker 1: a base level of traits, like I'm a Leo. I

1011
00:43:49,880 --> 00:43:53,000
Speaker 1: think a lot a lot of people go that, no shit, yeah,

1012
00:43:53,080 --> 00:43:54,440
Speaker 1: that makes a lot of sense, and it does. But

1013
00:43:54,480 --> 00:43:56,080
Speaker 1: then there's leos I meet and I'm like, you're nothing

1014
00:43:56,200 --> 00:43:59,000
Speaker 1: like me. It's yeah, it take it if you want it.

1015
00:43:59,400 --> 00:44:02,239
Speaker 1: Who's harm do you know what I mean? I don't

1016
00:44:02,239 --> 00:44:03,799
Speaker 1: think it's harming ever anyone if they want to read

1017
00:44:03,800 --> 00:44:06,000
Speaker 1: their zodiac everyone, I mean their horoscope every morning and

1018
00:44:06,080 --> 00:44:06,879
Speaker 1: it makes them feel good.

1019
00:44:07,080 --> 00:44:09,480
Speaker 2: I'm not like that into it. I know what stars

1020
00:44:09,640 --> 00:44:11,360
Speaker 2: and I am. But I also have on like the

1021
00:44:11,440 --> 00:44:14,200
Speaker 2: other hand, friends that are so into it, Like they explain,

1022
00:44:14,280 --> 00:44:15,920
Speaker 2: I'm like, no, that does seem like like.

1023
00:44:15,960 --> 00:44:18,560
Speaker 1: I don't read my horoscope because like I said, I'm

1024
00:44:18,840 --> 00:44:21,560
Speaker 1: knowing how many people are reading this exact same horoscope.

1025
00:44:22,040 --> 00:44:24,359
Speaker 1: It can't then to me feel relative, and I don't.

1026
00:44:24,480 --> 00:44:27,080
Speaker 1: It doesn't, but I do believe that, like I have

1027
00:44:27,200 --> 00:44:29,840
Speaker 1: a lot of traits of a leo, and like you know,

1028
00:44:30,120 --> 00:44:32,640
Speaker 1: I think it does make up certain aspects of my personality.

1029
00:44:32,880 --> 00:44:33,800
Speaker 2: It's great direction.

1030
00:44:35,800 --> 00:44:39,399
Speaker 1: Yeah, like a lot of my pause, like, let's read

1031
00:44:39,480 --> 00:44:42,080
Speaker 1: my negative attributes to a leon and I feel like

1032
00:44:42,160 --> 00:44:47,359
Speaker 1: you'll agree confident, see yeah, creative, No generous you are

1033
00:44:47,840 --> 00:44:53,000
Speaker 1: I'm not creative, generous, loyal, natural, leader, passionate. I feel like, yeah,

1034
00:44:53,120 --> 00:45:00,640
Speaker 1: some of those things in me negative traits arrogant, attention seeking, stubborn, yes,

1035
00:45:01,440 --> 00:45:06,279
Speaker 1: self centered, and struggles with criticism. Some may say those

1036
00:45:06,320 --> 00:45:10,520
Speaker 1: are traits of me. I'm gonna say they're not. Like,

1037
00:45:10,640 --> 00:45:14,080
Speaker 1: take what you want literally, who's hurting? Yes, I do

1038
00:45:14,200 --> 00:45:16,040
Speaker 1: have some of those negative traits, but let's just leave

1039
00:45:16,040 --> 00:45:16,239
Speaker 1: it there.

1040
00:45:16,320 --> 00:45:19,840
Speaker 2: Let's ignore that this one was the most chaotic, and

1041
00:45:19,880 --> 00:45:23,040
Speaker 2: I've literally acknowledged it. Ya hear me out. Okay, maybe

1042
00:45:23,200 --> 00:45:25,719
Speaker 2: this is a little chaotic. Okay, but a three way

1043
00:45:25,880 --> 00:45:29,800
Speaker 2: with two xes, the chemistry and tension is wild in

1044
00:45:29,880 --> 00:45:33,719
Speaker 2: the best least toxic way. Honestly, every girl deserves at

1045
00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:37,160
Speaker 2: least one beautifully unhinged three way in her life.

1046
00:45:38,480 --> 00:45:42,000
Speaker 1: I have two x'es, and I so that my mind

1047
00:45:42,080 --> 00:45:47,000
Speaker 1: goes straight to that to me is not beautifully unhinged.

1048
00:45:47,080 --> 00:45:50,520
Speaker 1: It is problem central, Like, there is what two x's

1049
00:45:50,560 --> 00:45:53,120
Speaker 1: are vying for you? No, I just the whole thing.

1050
00:45:53,880 --> 00:45:56,880
Speaker 1: Maybe for some people that might be lovely, I think.

1051
00:45:56,840 --> 00:46:00,640
Speaker 2: It would say, I don't know, I don't even think.

1052
00:46:01,280 --> 00:46:03,640
Speaker 1: No, for some people, I'm sure it would be amazing

1053
00:46:03,680 --> 00:46:06,040
Speaker 1: and like maybe the chemistry, yes, would be incredible, but like,

1054
00:46:06,600 --> 00:46:08,880
Speaker 1: do you want to deal with the aftermath of an

1055
00:46:08,920 --> 00:46:11,040
Speaker 1: experience like that. No, I don't.

1056
00:46:11,360 --> 00:46:14,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, I really lack opinions because I'm just overwhelmed.

1057
00:46:14,400 --> 00:46:17,320
Speaker 1: Yes, beautifully unh his three way, Yeah, go for it

1058
00:46:17,520 --> 00:46:19,520
Speaker 1: with your two ex's. I don't think either of them

1059
00:46:19,560 --> 00:46:20,439
Speaker 1: are down for that either.

1060
00:46:20,800 --> 00:46:23,799
Speaker 2: No, except traditionally probably meant to hate each other. Yeah,

1061
00:46:24,160 --> 00:46:25,920
Speaker 2: as well, and it's like, okay, why are they teaming

1062
00:46:26,000 --> 00:46:30,000
Speaker 2: up that? Yeah, hear me out Bush shaved only because

1063
00:46:30,040 --> 00:46:31,320
Speaker 2: of the Skim stuff recently.

1064
00:46:32,040 --> 00:46:34,960
Speaker 1: Oh, the skims, the underwear underwear. I don't know if

1065
00:46:35,000 --> 00:46:37,520
Speaker 1: that was real or a scam because Skims recently came

1066
00:46:37,520 --> 00:46:39,799
Speaker 1: out with a G string that has like like fur,

1067
00:46:40,040 --> 00:46:43,319
Speaker 1: like fake pubes on it. Yeah, and whenever anyone went

1068
00:46:43,360 --> 00:46:44,880
Speaker 1: to look at them, it was all already sold out.

1069
00:46:44,960 --> 00:46:48,320
Speaker 1: So I'm like, was it actually ever for sale or

1070
00:46:48,360 --> 00:46:49,360
Speaker 1: did they kind of just put it up in the

1071
00:46:49,400 --> 00:46:51,560
Speaker 1: website for like drama and yeah, and all just stay

1072
00:46:51,600 --> 00:46:51,960
Speaker 1: sold out.

1073
00:46:52,120 --> 00:46:54,680
Speaker 2: You addressed in an interview and said, yes, it was released,

1074
00:46:54,840 --> 00:46:56,440
Speaker 2: but I didn't know.

1075
00:46:57,160 --> 00:46:59,880
Speaker 1: I have mixed opinions on it because of how the

1076
00:47:00,120 --> 00:47:04,160
Speaker 1: times Change is my only thing currently in present time. Yeah, absolutely,

1077
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Speaker 1: that's most people's preference. But ten years ago it wasn't

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Speaker 1: so like when people get like full fucking laser. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: what happens in ten years when a beare fucking smooth?

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Speaker 1: Yeah bush is as unattractive as say a full bush

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Speaker 1: would be today. What happens then? You know it's a

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Speaker 1: personal preference and it's your partent's preference.

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Speaker 2: True, And I think it's a pendulum, like the bush

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Speaker 2: will be out at one point then that hasn't been

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Speaker 2: back for so long, it's.

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Speaker 1: Going to come back. Yeah, it's absolutely going to come

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Speaker 1: back here. Whatever, And you know what for us girlies,

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Speaker 1: that makes life easier when it does.

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Speaker 2: So whatever and our final one hear me out, being

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Speaker 2: your authentic self is now weaponized to allow shitty behavior

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Speaker 2: and to let people be an asshole without consequences.

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Speaker 1: Mmmm. Yeah, but I feel like you see people, I'm like, hm,

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Speaker 1: I'm being my authentic self. I'm like, you're not, though,

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Speaker 1: I think yeah. I just think people that feel they

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Speaker 1: need to preach it their their authentic selves and they're

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Speaker 1: honest again and again. It's like when fucking lazy on

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Speaker 1: the violent was going again and again. I'm just honest.

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Speaker 1: I'm just honest. I'm just honest. I'm like you're the

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Speaker 1: least honest person in here or the only one talking

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Speaker 1: about it. People that preach stuff are usually the ones

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Speaker 1: that are the least likely people doing it. So yeah,

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Speaker 1: people that continuously will say online I am my authentic self.

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Speaker 1: I don't think I've ever said I'm my authentic self

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Speaker 1: on my podcast or on my TikTok. Yeah, I don't

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Speaker 1: need to because I feel like I am being that.

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Speaker 1: Maybe I'm just down that, maybe I've drinks myself. But

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Speaker 1: I'm like people that preach that they're doing all of it. No,

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Speaker 1: they're usually not anyway. So I find like anyone that's

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Speaker 1: saying that shit walk the other direction honestly.

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Speaker 2: And I don't think it's the saying itself is being weaponized.

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Speaker 2: I think when it gets in there, like I was

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Speaker 2: just being my real self, I'm like you were. It's

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Speaker 2: just when the wrong person grue to a catchphrase or something.

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Speaker 1: No, I agree, Yeah, I stand by it. I loved

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Speaker 1: this episode. This is great. I loved all your opinions.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much. That's all for today, squad, and

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Speaker 1: we will see you next week. Next week, we are

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Speaker 1: doing a bit more of a health fitness vibe. I

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Speaker 1: know a lot of you guys actually have a bit

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Speaker 1: of my d MS about it. I'm bringing my personal

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Speaker 1: trainer on Easy. She's an old friend of mine to

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Speaker 1: kind of talk like party girl exercise, How does that

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Speaker 1: all fit in together? Is it mutually exclusive? How to

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Speaker 1: be a reformed party girl? How she got there? The

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Speaker 1: importance of fitness, all that stuff, and just entry point, fitness,

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Speaker 1: entry point, you know, entering the new year, New year

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Speaker 1: knew me. I just thought it might be nice to

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Speaker 1: have someone on kind of talking about things that we

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Speaker 1: can do to be healthier, because I know where I

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Speaker 1: would like to be.

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Speaker 2: And you know what, we'll post a question box asking

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Speaker 2: for your gym slush workout. Hear me outs, Yeah, and

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Speaker 2: we can throw them to easy and just see.

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Speaker 1: Where where she lands. Busy is my pity. Yeah, we're

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Speaker 1: gonna we're gonna have Easy Squad.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's gonna be complicated, gonna be fun.

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Speaker 1: See how it goes, all right, guys, see you next week.