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Speaker 2: Look, it can be very tricky for everybody in a

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Speaker 3: Do you guys have a Barnie as a family Do

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Speaker 2: No, we all get on like a house on fire. Look,

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Speaker 4: Especially when you're all in a house together away like

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Speaker 5: Mum and Dad will have a go at each other Mama,

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Speaker 2: A lot of these arguments, though they've been going on

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Speaker 2: But when it's the in laws or people that in

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Speaker 2: and that's exactly what this story is about. If you've

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Speaker 3: Now that the dad and the rest of the family

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Speaker 2: Maybe he was an only son. My son should be

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Speaker 2: Well. But it's not about May's. But that's what this

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Speaker 2: People aren't going to be nervous about it. Mum and

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Speaker 3: But some I had made an similar situation of this Kate,

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Speaker 4: Beautifor woman.

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Speaker 5: Grandfather on the line, Now, how much was it? Grace

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Speaker 6: Oh, my dad was kind of just like, well, what

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Speaker 2: You've had twelve years to bring this up.

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Speaker 6: Well, that's right.

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Speaker 4: What's your relationship now with him?

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Speaker 6: Well, since then, my husband and I have had a

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Speaker 4: Exactly right.

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Speaker 3: Well, thank you so much, made and possibly the best

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Speaker 2: But that all sounds sane.

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Speaker 4: I've spoken Justin and Mount Drew. What happened with the

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Speaker 8: So me and well wife, I've been married for a

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Speaker 4: Sorry, sorry you were what? Sorry?

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Speaker 3: Justin?

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Speaker 8: Me and the wife was polyamor.

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Speaker 3: Polyamorous, So that means that we.

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Speaker 8: Have another girlfriend.

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Speaker 8: Uh yeah, well we all live together. Meet the wife

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Speaker 8: and a girlfriend, we all live together. In laws about it, right?

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Speaker 8: Well, because my wife's family of Stullar hearing Christians, they

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Speaker 8: The in laws were like, we're not happy with this.

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Speaker 3: God, they can be boring, can't They want to have

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Speaker 5: A girlfriend, Justin, where's it all at at the moment.

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Speaker 5: What's happening at the moment? Are you all still together?

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Speaker 9: Oh?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, we're all together, fine and happy. The wife kind

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Speaker 3: Yeah, hey, Justin, can I ask the sleeping arrangements? Three

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Speaker 3: And when you decided to welcome someone else into the relationship,

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Speaker 8: It was actually the wife's idea.

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Speaker 4: Is it one of her friends, Justin? Or you met

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Speaker 8: No, it's actually our girlfriend. Is our mutual friend that

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Speaker 2: This is a much oh wow? And did she have

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Speaker 8: No?

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Speaker 4: Or do you want to have kids?

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Speaker 8: So me, the wife have children. The girlfriend doesn't want

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Speaker 2: How can I get a question in? And because I've

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Speaker 4: How well do you work out the setup? I know you?

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Speaker 2: Are you ever bet here?

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Speaker 4: He is prick?

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Speaker 2: And how old are the children?

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Speaker 8: So our daughter is four and six?

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Speaker 2: Okay? And did they know the setup? Have you sat

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Speaker 8: Yeah? They're completely they are certain days they call her

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Speaker 8: mom or call her by her nickname, which is cheeseburger.

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Speaker 3: Big Mac. Was taken?

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Speaker 10: Was it?

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Speaker 9: No?

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Speaker 8: It's a different story. Back when we were younger and

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Speaker 4: I love Australia.

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Speaker 2: Can I ask you? And I don't know if you

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Speaker 3: Who do you like?

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Speaker 2: Who do you love more? Do you think? Or who

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Speaker 11: The war?

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Speaker 2: And why? Why is that?

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Speaker 8: From a mail's point of view, any woman that could say,

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Speaker 3: But can I ask Justin? I say that, Justin? Can

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Speaker 3: I'm trying to establish. If you want someone else purely

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Speaker 8: Yeah, it's more of the happy guy, Like you can

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Speaker 8: Actually no, they're literally not.

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Speaker 3: So if you GoF to the bedroom with the girlfriend,

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Speaker 8: One go as far as n CIF So yeah, pretty

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Speaker 5: Wow, you can understand where a family is coming from here.

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Speaker 4: You came in this situation.

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Speaker 2: Yeah you do, Tom, I think it's tricky.

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Speaker 3: Are we're not going to ask for more polyamorous relationships?

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Speaker 4: You can?

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Speaker 3: Do you have any questions left?

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Speaker 2: I do because his mind he looks bogle.

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Speaker 3: Happened? Did the candyman have on the gold?

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Speaker 4: But they weren't serious?

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Speaker 3: The more physical?

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Speaker 4: This is the thing? How long is it going to

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Speaker 2: It would have to the candy man or Justin? Actually,

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Speaker 2: I would like to ask Justin that Justin, how long

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Speaker 8: Are going on three years?

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Speaker 2: Three years? So it is long. It's long long term.

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Speaker 3: Do you want to introduce another one? Justin? Or is

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Speaker 3: that it like a headache?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Too much?

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Speaker 4: Do you split the do you split the bill three ways? Justin?

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Speaker 4: Like bills at home?

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Speaker 8: So me and the wife's work. The girlfriend looks after

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Speaker 3: Right, you don't have to pay them any Oh?

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Speaker 2: Really, I mean there's a cost of living.

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Speaker 3: It's not bad, is it?

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Speaker 2: Did this happen because cod? No, you weren't those those

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Speaker 3: You could have one friend over or something.

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Speaker 2: You can move a friend and then then before you

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Speaker 2: know it, you're all.

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Speaker 3: You're all.

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Speaker 5: Love's in the running for Taylor Swift in Tokyo, Live

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Speaker 5: in Tokyo things. You can only take one mine, just

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Speaker 5: so you've got a huge decision if you win that

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Speaker 5: one and another girl, Yeah, well we or the girls

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Speaker 4: This is the Fit with Cape Ritchie podcast.

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Speaker 5: You know what, It's just a good feeling in your

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Speaker 5: there's a surprise within the team and one of the

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Speaker 2: A big surprise fits He didn't mention what a big

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Speaker 2: surprise it is for Whipper and I know it's not

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Speaker 2: your birthday and I mean Christmas. We've just had Christmas surprise.

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Speaker 3: This is something with fireworks in New Year's Eve.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, oh, it could be repayment for that. Actually

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Speaker 2: we got together and realized that you do talk a

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Speaker 2: bit of a big game. And I don't know if

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Speaker 2: for twenty twenty four you're going to be off to

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Speaker 2: centennially Tuesday at four.

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Speaker 4: O'clock to Aaron Kahan massive game.

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Speaker 2: You might need to mix it up, but that is

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Speaker 2: the key for exercise. It's the key for staying fit.

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Speaker 3: That's the trick.

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Speaker 2: And I'm not going to tell you now.

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Speaker 3: Am I on the rower?

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Speaker 5: There was a huge event in Sydney, right and we

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Speaker 4: And when we say huge, we mean enormous.

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Speaker 2: No, we don't mean enormous, we mean massive. So coming

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Speaker 2: we coming or not that massive or bigger than actually bigger,

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Speaker 2: bigger than the Commonwealth Games. We're going to put a

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Speaker 2: blindfold on you. We're going to take you down to

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Speaker 2: level four and all will be revealed. Nervous, You've got

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Speaker 3: Everything, all right, Tommy, everything, Am I safe? Here we go.

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Speaker 3: I can tell by Tom's face he's excited, because, Kay,

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Speaker 3: you've got something going on that I do not know

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Speaker 3: anything about.

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Speaker 2: Well, I didn't do it on my own. We just

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Speaker 2: wanted to organize a big surprise for you. You're a very

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Speaker 3: My birthdays in September, I know.

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Speaker 2: But you know what, none of us could wait until September.

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Speaker 2: And this had a little bit to do with timing

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Speaker 4: So if you could just.

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Speaker 3: How big is it? Big surprise?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Oh bigger than you. I only just wouldn't you say?

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Speaker 3: If you pop that on, Troyavn, we have.

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Speaker 2: To go down much bigger than Troy Savann.

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Speaker 3: Okay, put that on.

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Speaker 2: We'll go down to four. Do I need to hold

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Speaker 2: your hand or you find it your way? Come on

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Speaker 2: out into the right and down to the lift. Tom

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Speaker 2: you get over that side. Just stand here, face that way,

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Speaker 2: Sam Smith, because the surprise is out here.

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Speaker 10: You done.

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Speaker 2: I didn't know this meaning if you've done, it's not

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Speaker 2: Troy Savan. We wanted to wanted to get you a

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Speaker 2: big surprise. You're talking about this on air last week,

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Speaker 2: and I didn't think you were completely respectful, So we

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Speaker 2: Face that way.

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Speaker 3: Can you believe it?

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Speaker 2: Right here right in front of you now, two of

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Speaker 2: the best sumo wrestlers the world has to offer.

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Speaker 3: Michael, how are you? I was just saying last week

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Speaker 3: how great you guys are and how much I love

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Speaker 3: the sport, and you know you guys are right. You

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Speaker 3: guys are doing more more than just big guys pushing

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Speaker 3: each other is what I was saying.

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Speaker 4: So it was good.

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Speaker 3: Good to chat about the sport.

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Speaker 4: You want to I okay, clear the rules?

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Speaker 2: You correct me if I'm wrong, because I figure you

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Speaker 2: have done this a lot more. I don't know one minute.

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Speaker 2: Oh no rules, rus I'm just should I step out?

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Speaker 2: I'll let you guys. Okay, Yeah, and I've got the

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Speaker 2: I have a big horn that I'm going to do

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Speaker 2: the tiny Okay, Whipper has chosen his opponent, the squatting

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Speaker 2: hands to the ground the outside. Oh Jesus are they

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Speaker 2: allowed to have the bands like that?

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Speaker 1: Whipper looks small squats?

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Speaker 4: Oh, well, well done. You gotta absolutely smash by ours.

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Speaker 5: The video is going up right now on our Instagram account.

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Speaker 4: Guys, jump back.

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Speaker 5: Into the studio and can you bring the sumos up here?

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Speaker 5: I need to know how much these guys eat in

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Speaker 5: the day.

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Speaker 3: Back in the studio, slowly putting the pieces together after

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Speaker 3: we had a bit of a surprise on.

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Speaker 2: The and you close back, slowly putting your gear.

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Speaker 3: Back, didn't we Where are they now?

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Speaker 4: Well, they're actually made this studio.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, well you've met your match when it comes to

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Speaker 3: Really, I've never felt thinner.

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Speaker 2: I'm actually going to I'm going to throw that out there.

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Speaker 3: He was sweaty and we were rubbing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, bring the guys in.

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Speaker 3: Okay, where are we gonna?

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Speaker 4: Here's the term? Alright, no chair?

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Speaker 3: What a battle that was, My god? Anyone could have won?

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Speaker 3: Can I ask? What's your background? Where are you from?

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Speaker 3: Your origin?

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Speaker 7: My name is Roman because I'm the most success wristler.

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Speaker 7: So handsome guy was currently hair, his brown eye Wow,

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Speaker 12: All.

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Speaker 4: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, any fat guy can make food. I'm from Egypt originally,

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Speaker 7: so if I can feed myself, I can feed anyway.

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Speaker 3: So this is true.

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Speaker 4: Can the other sumo wrestler? Can you introduce yourself to

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Speaker 4: to Sydney as well? Thanks sir. My name is Mindy.

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Speaker 4: I'm from Mongolia.

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Speaker 3: From Mongolia? Are there many Mongolians who sumo wrestle?

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Speaker 8: Oh?

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 1: This Japanese top Japanese for some professionals, almost topkase you guys.

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Speaker 4: This Mongolia?

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Speaker 3: Wow?

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Speaker 7: And he's single too.

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Speaker 3: He's single as well.

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Speaker 2: And can you cook?

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Speaker 3: Yes? Okate? Single looking looking for man?

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Speaker 4: Can you dan be very good?

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Speaker 2: Out of ten? Out of ten? How do you think

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Speaker 2: the performance went? From whipper?

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Speaker 7: You know? I just live literally because you have family.

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Speaker 3: Thank you for sparing me for my family. Can I

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Speaker 3: can we go back to some of the basics. How

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Speaker 3: long have you guys been doing sumo wrestling for?

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Speaker 7: Since he was eighty years old?

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Speaker 3: And what about yourself?

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Speaker 7: I do sport almost like thirteen years.

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Speaker 3: Thirteen years okay? And how old are you? Terry said

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Speaker 3: thirty seven? And how much do you weigh between me

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Speaker 3: and you?

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Speaker 7: Two hundred for zero? Quelu grub so I try to

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Speaker 7: get more weight.

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Speaker 4: You know what is thefit that you wear? It's called

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Speaker 4: a mawashie. Is it a mawashe?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, it's the belt. It's made from cotton fabric. It's

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Speaker 5: Ok Can I ask has the mawashee ever fallen off

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Speaker 4: Because it doesn't look like it's holding on too well

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Speaker 2: It doesn't have a fixture, does it. It's all kind

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Speaker 13: You know.

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Speaker 7: No, No, it's really strong.

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Speaker 3: And I know this is the eve answer this question

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Speaker 3: many times. What do you eat in your day?

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Speaker 7: I take between seven thousand and nine.

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Speaker 4: I am on date.

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Speaker 7: So yeah, I tried to watch.

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Speaker 3: Calories a day. Yeah, can I ask a question? And

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Speaker 3: I don't want this to seem insulting in anyway. It's

455
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Speaker 3: quite hard to use a toilet on an aeroplane.

456
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Speaker 7: No whip when we stand up, or we've got to

457
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Speaker 7: open area like back tree or anything.

458
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Speaker 3: Right, just put on an aeroplane.

459
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Speaker 7: Oh, this isn't the most worst one.

460
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Speaker 3: Yeah.

461
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Speaker 7: I sit next to a window too, so I can

462
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Speaker 7: do it. I opened the window pane so when you

463
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Speaker 7: when you get something in your front your car, this.

464
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Speaker 2: Is it's funny.

465
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Speaker 4: Robbie Mendy, thank you so much for coming.

466
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Speaker 5: And if you want to follow with the updates of

467
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Speaker 5: the Sumo wrestlers, they're on Instagram at Sumo International.

468
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Speaker 4: They've had an amazing time here in Australia.

469
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Speaker 5: If you want to see we get thrown around the

470
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Speaker 5: Sumo stage, you can go and check it out on

471
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Speaker 5: our Instagram account.

472
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Speaker 4: Right now.

473
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Speaker 5: We know how busy you are, boys, so thank you

474
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Speaker 5: very much for coming in.

475
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Speaker 4: Thank you, thank you, thank.

476
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Speaker 2: You so much.

477
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Speaker 8: And with Kate Whichie podcast The.

478
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Speaker 4: Absolute Worst Stories of Cheating.

479
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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm really keen to hear.

480
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Speaker 5: So I've got I've got permission off a mate to

481
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Speaker 5: talk about this, but I've had to change names. So

482
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Speaker 5: let's say his name is Garrett from Garrett from Eastern Creek, Oka.

483
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Speaker 2: Is his name Garrett?

484
00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:28,879
Speaker 4: No, it's not.

485
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Speaker 5: But he's given me permission to talk about this. Married

486
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Speaker 5: two kids, garrettys. GARRETTYS rings me the other night emotional.

487
00:24:39,119 --> 00:24:43,480
Speaker 5: I've split with my wife when on a family holiday

488
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Speaker 5: to the mal Dives together. Not cheap, congratulations, very expensive?

489
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Speaker 2: When did that go?

490
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Speaker 4: This was at the end of last year.

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Speaker 2: You want me to stop asking questions?

492
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Speaker 5: Yeah, I do, Okay, I can't believe this. His wife

493
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Speaker 5: is a scuba diver, all right, love scuba dive. That's

494
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Speaker 5: one of the main reasons they went to the Maudives.

495
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Speaker 5: On the first day, she said, she's booked herself into

496
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Speaker 5: scuba dive. She goes out for the whole day. He

497
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Speaker 5: looks after the kids, and she comes home and she goes, Oh,

498
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Speaker 5: my god, an amazing experience. The water is so clear.

499
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Speaker 5: I saw so many, so much sea life down there.

500
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Speaker 5: It's unbelievable. Convinces her husband. Can I then book in

501
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Speaker 5: another two sessions on this week one week holiday because

502
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Speaker 5: I loved it so much? And he said, you know what, honey,

503
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Speaker 5: you love this. I'll look after the kids. You go

504
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Speaker 5: for another two days.

505
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Speaker 3: It's a lot of school are on one week.

506
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Speaker 5: On the final this is the final day before they left,

507
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Speaker 5: she's out scuba diving, and he decides to go to

508
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Speaker 5: the diving off office at the resort to see what

509
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Speaker 5: time she's coming back, so he gets there early.

510
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Speaker 4: He walks into the.

511
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Speaker 5: Office and he walks in on her with the diving instructor.

512
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Speaker 3: What movie is that? There's a movie where that happens.

513
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Speaker 4: While he's looking after He's two kids.

514
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Speaker 2: And he's been considerate to go and find out what

515
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Speaker 2: time she's back because possibly he's booking their final night

516
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Speaker 2: dinner by the pool.

517
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Speaker 5: She breaks down, cries her eyes out, runs back, runs

518
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Speaker 5: after him back to the room. He said, we are

519
00:26:17,640 --> 00:26:20,760
Speaker 5: going on whether they're going home the next day? He said,

520
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Speaker 5: I'm going home. Don't talk to me. I can't do this.

521
00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:27,600
Speaker 5: She then breaks down and says to him, after knowing

522
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Speaker 5: this guy for three days, I think I love this guy?

523
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Speaker 4: What after three days?

524
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Speaker 2: Is this a real life story? This happened at the

525
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Speaker 2: end of last year.

526
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Speaker 4: This is a real life story? Did she he mean?

527
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Speaker 4: Has to? He said, I then had to on the plane.

528
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Speaker 4: I had to sit with her with the kids, knowing

529
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Speaker 4: that I'm going to be packing up and I'm going

530
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Speaker 4: to stay somewhere else when I get home. It's all kids.

531
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Speaker 4: Oh god, there they'd be like six and four.

532
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Speaker 2: Okay, so they're little, they're unaware relatively, and.

533
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Speaker 4: I just thought, is that not what is going through

534
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Speaker 4: your mind?

535
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Speaker 3: You know, it would have been hard to understand too,

536
00:27:12,560 --> 00:27:16,159
Speaker 3: because I assume it went something like I'm leaving you,

537
00:27:16,280 --> 00:27:22,040
Speaker 3: I'm in love with another God snork. Your tears would

538
00:27:22,040 --> 00:27:23,680
Speaker 3: have been filling up the mask at the time.

539
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Speaker 5: And so she's gone diving on the first day, maybe

540
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Speaker 5: the second day, but the third day they didn't even

541
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Speaker 5: go diving.

542
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Speaker 4: Indeed, he's walked into the.

543
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Speaker 5: Diving office early to find out when they're coming back,

544
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Speaker 5: and she was in there with him all day.

545
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Speaker 2: Okay, so this, okay, how does it happen? How does

546
00:27:44,119 --> 00:27:46,479
Speaker 2: that happen? How do you fall head over heels in

547
00:27:46,520 --> 00:27:49,960
Speaker 2: love with someone within a very short period of time

548
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Speaker 2: on a family holiday, a holiday that everybody's been looking

549
00:27:55,359 --> 00:27:57,400
Speaker 2: forward to, when you know that your partner and your

550
00:27:57,400 --> 00:27:59,359
Speaker 2: two children are just up the walkway.

551
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Speaker 3: My scare me. These moments scare me because they threaten

552
00:28:03,560 --> 00:28:07,440
Speaker 3: what you know as a normal relationship. Because Kate, Richie,

553
00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:10,080
Speaker 3: the question is go on. It's hard to say she

554
00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:14,440
Speaker 3: doesn't like diving, but she may take up scubat. I'm

555
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Speaker 3: not sure at this stage, but that she.

556
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Speaker 2: Kate, she can learn to love anything he loves.

557
00:28:22,720 --> 00:28:26,720
Speaker 3: Well, that's true, depending on how they want. Kate, here's

558
00:28:26,760 --> 00:28:31,879
Speaker 3: the thing. Do you suggest that this relationship is in

559
00:28:31,920 --> 00:28:34,480
Speaker 3: trouble already? Of course it is, so there's a breakdown

560
00:28:34,560 --> 00:28:37,520
Speaker 3: in the relationship and then you just needed that trigger

561
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Speaker 3: to drag her away from it, which became the scuba instructor.

562
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Speaker 3: Do you think this is a happy marriage but the

563
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Speaker 3: power that this guy had over her is something that

564
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Speaker 3: could happen to anybody.

565
00:28:47,760 --> 00:28:51,360
Speaker 2: No, I don't think anything about it is And I mean,

566
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Speaker 2: this is very hard for me to comment on if

567
00:28:53,280 --> 00:28:55,800
Speaker 2: it's because this is a friend of yours. So and

568
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Speaker 2: I don't know this bloke, and I'm sure his heart broken,

569
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Speaker 2: but I would have. And if you go on holidays

570
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Speaker 2: and within three days you're saying you're completely in love

571
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Speaker 2: with someone else, and you've spent a day in the

572
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Speaker 2: office with him while your family's up the road there,

573
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Speaker 2: it's not all is well, No, you're already out of

574
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Speaker 2: the relationship in your head and you're really looking for something.

575
00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:19,520
Speaker 5: Surely we've got a call from Annie in Hirstviielle. We're

576
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Speaker 5: talking about the worst stories of cheating. What do you

577
00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:22,680
Speaker 5: got for us?

578
00:29:22,720 --> 00:29:23,200
Speaker 4: Annie?

579
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Speaker 9: Hey, good morning. Yeah. So while I was married, we

580
00:29:29,040 --> 00:29:33,520
Speaker 9: were living in bank Kam. I now his husband used

581
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Speaker 9: to go to the Philippines on business and use your

582
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Speaker 9: thing or few wents on a business trip. And then

583
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Speaker 9: I get a pocket doll and I'm thinking, oh, it's

584
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Speaker 9: six him in the morning, you know what's going on.

585
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Speaker 9: And he's in a taxi with one of his mates

586
00:29:47,880 --> 00:29:50,920
Speaker 9: and he says, hey, mates, shall we get more VIAGRAA

587
00:29:51,200 --> 00:29:58,880
Speaker 9: oh my, I said hello, and he way, oh oh,

588
00:29:58,920 --> 00:30:01,880
Speaker 9: and then the phone went there. So that's pretty much confirmed.

589
00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:04,000
Speaker 9: But I always knew, but it was there, you know.

590
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Speaker 9: And then you try to deny it emphatically, deny that

591
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Speaker 9: the central schedule number.

592
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Speaker 3: What was the excuse though, when I mean you must

593
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Speaker 3: have said I heard you talking about viagra.

594
00:30:16,920 --> 00:30:18,840
Speaker 9: Yeah no, no, he says, no, that wasn't me. I said,

595
00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:19,800
Speaker 9: but how can there not be you?

596
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Speaker 4: It's your number, it's your number. You're ringing me did

597
00:30:22,840 --> 00:30:23,800
Speaker 4: he read you've.

598
00:30:23,680 --> 00:30:26,240
Speaker 9: Pockets old me? So it's almost like the universe saying,

599
00:30:26,760 --> 00:30:28,840
Speaker 9: all right, goody girl, time to get a move on.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you need this information. Did he resort to telling

601
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Speaker 2: you that he was, in fact having a hot love

602
00:30:34,480 --> 00:30:36,520
Speaker 2: affair with his friends, that he was in.

603
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Speaker 9: The back of the uber with no there was a

604
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Speaker 9: guary f ring, you know?

605
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Speaker 5: So did you find out any any Did you find

606
00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:45,920
Speaker 5: out yes?

607
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Speaker 9: I do, eventually admitted it because then everything else started

608
00:30:48,840 --> 00:30:51,160
Speaker 9: coming out as well. You know when you're standing up

609
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Speaker 9: against a picture and you start stepping back, you suddenly

610
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Speaker 9: see the picture for what it is. Yeah, So yeah,

611
00:30:56,520 --> 00:31:01,120
Speaker 9: that was just one of multiple, multiple indiscretions. And like

612
00:31:01,120 --> 00:31:03,880
Speaker 9: I said, universe said, Harry, I'm going to put this

613
00:31:04,120 --> 00:31:05,800
Speaker 9: right up against your note so that you can now

614
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Speaker 9: wake up.

615
00:31:07,280 --> 00:31:09,600
Speaker 4: All right, Fatin, He's given us a call from Bankstown.

616
00:31:09,640 --> 00:31:11,040
Speaker 4: What happened to you? For Turny?

617
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Speaker 11: Basically, I was seven months pregnant on my second child

618
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Speaker 11: and he used to work overseas holiday Pacific Islands, the

619
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Speaker 11: project manager, and came back and I was cleaning, getting

620
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Speaker 11: ready to wash his clothes. Found a long piece of

621
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Speaker 11: hair which wasn't mine. Did some digging opening up his

622
00:31:31,480 --> 00:31:41,720
Speaker 11: wallet photo of another girl in his wallet in his wallet.

623
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Speaker 3: Took the photo did you and said, what's all this about?

624
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Speaker 3: Or how did it play?

625
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Speaker 10: Ye?

626
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Speaker 8: Yeah?

627
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Speaker 6: Yeah.

628
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Speaker 11: I was living at my parents' house waiting for a

629
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Speaker 11: property to be built, and basically said, what's this? He

630
00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:53,360
Speaker 11: was having an affair? I said, do you love He goes,

631
00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:55,960
Speaker 11: and I said, well do you love me? And he goes,

632
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Speaker 11: I love you, but I'm not in.

633
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Speaker 9: Love with you.

634
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Speaker 3: That's cop out yea.

635
00:32:00,160 --> 00:32:03,400
Speaker 11: And then basically he said, oh, I don't know what

636
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Speaker 11: to do. Whether I should stay with you with the

637
00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:07,640
Speaker 11: kids are like sixteen and eighteen and then leave you

638
00:32:07,800 --> 00:32:08,240
Speaker 11: or you know.

639
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Speaker 2: Oh yeahnts so cold?

640
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Speaker 4: So what you just booted him straight away?

641
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Speaker 11: Fateen, Well yeah, well basically I said, well can you

642
00:32:20,520 --> 00:32:22,480
Speaker 11: leave because you live in care She would have leaved

643
00:32:22,480 --> 00:32:25,000
Speaker 11: the house. He basically made me move into and your

644
00:32:25,040 --> 00:32:28,120
Speaker 11: apartment and he left. I had my son was two

645
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Speaker 11: and my daughter was, Oh my god, I'm old.

646
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Speaker 3: Oh man, I hate to say it. He's a shocker.

647
00:32:34,920 --> 00:32:36,040
Speaker 4: He yeah.

648
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Speaker 11: Ended up marrying the other the other thirteen year younger

649
00:32:39,320 --> 00:32:42,360
Speaker 11: than him, younger than him.

650
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Speaker 4: Are they still together? No?

651
00:32:44,240 --> 00:32:46,320
Speaker 11: They had three kids. She did the dirty on him

652
00:32:46,320 --> 00:32:48,400
Speaker 11: and he ended up raising the other three kids. Never

653
00:32:49,400 --> 00:32:50,840
Speaker 11: never saw his first kids.

654
00:32:50,960 --> 00:32:53,880
Speaker 4: Maybe that stuff.

655
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Speaker 3: What about your love life? Have you got someone special

656
00:32:56,080 --> 00:32:57,760
Speaker 3: now on?

657
00:32:57,960 --> 00:33:01,560
Speaker 11: And I've been been a bit hard, I'd read the kids.

658
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Speaker 3: Yeah, of course, yea is a different traffic dating Tommy.

659
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Speaker 5: You're a very strong woman, Fateina. Let's go to Caroline

660
00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:11,760
Speaker 5: now from Seven Hills. Tell us about your boyfriend.

661
00:33:12,240 --> 00:33:13,480
Speaker 13: Oh hi, how are you?

662
00:33:14,720 --> 00:33:14,920
Speaker 5: Yeah?

663
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Speaker 13: I was with my last boyfriend for about seven months,

664
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Speaker 13: which I thought was my boyfriend. We spent the Saturday

665
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Speaker 13: night together. The Monday morning, he ghosted me. I got

666
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Speaker 13: I've got him his Facebook and there he was introducing

667
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Speaker 13: him the love of his life and his new family

668
00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:33,760
Speaker 13: to the world. And I commented saying, but you're with

669
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Speaker 13: me on Saturday night, And the next minute a number

670
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Speaker 13: seventh femails popped up saying that, yeah, he's been sleeping

671
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Speaker 13: with them for the last seven months as well.

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Speaker 12: He's a busy boy, Cara's busy boy, he was, And

673
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Speaker 12: I was like, yeah, the more we get talked him,

674
00:33:48,320 --> 00:33:52,520
Speaker 12: the more we found out and he him just on

675
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Speaker 12: a dating site.

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Speaker 5: May So, how many did you find out all together?

677
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Speaker 5: Did he have on the side Carli eight got a stinker.

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Speaker 14: This is the whole thing about these meaning they're just

679
00:34:05,920 --> 00:34:10,279
Speaker 14: so and like blase about It's like if you are

680
00:34:10,400 --> 00:34:12,480
Speaker 14: out there and you've got all these people that you're

681
00:34:12,520 --> 00:34:15,239
Speaker 14: hawking up with who actually think you're in a relationship

682
00:34:15,560 --> 00:34:18,440
Speaker 14: and then you're just willing nilly posting about your family

683
00:34:18,520 --> 00:34:19,640
Speaker 14: that you're in love with as well.

684
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Speaker 2: It's so entitled.

685
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Speaker 3: And what did he say when you confronted him?

686
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Speaker 13: Curently, Well, when I finally got to confront him and

687
00:34:27,640 --> 00:34:31,080
Speaker 13: told me that, yeah, I deserve someone who actually loves me,

688
00:34:31,640 --> 00:34:33,560
Speaker 13: and that's what he said to everybody else.

689
00:34:33,640 --> 00:34:36,840
Speaker 2: And such a good guy. It's really thoughtful.

690
00:34:37,000 --> 00:34:37,680
Speaker 4: He's a good man.

691
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Speaker 3: Like that sounds like it was just physical.

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Speaker 4: A Lacey in Paramount, I tell about your tell us

693
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Speaker 4: about your mum's friend.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, hey, so mom has this friend, let's call her Annie. Right.

695
00:34:48,160 --> 00:34:53,240
Speaker 10: So Annie is happily married or was has three pretty

696
00:34:53,280 --> 00:34:57,680
Speaker 10: much adult kids. Right, Annie walked home one day to

697
00:34:57,880 --> 00:35:03,520
Speaker 10: find her husband with her mother. What what the hell

698
00:35:03,960 --> 00:35:06,279
Speaker 10: mom has been going on so close to three years?

699
00:35:06,360 --> 00:35:07,960
Speaker 10: Annie's mom with Annie's husband?

700
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Speaker 4: What was mum's excuse?

701
00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:10,640
Speaker 3: A Lise?

702
00:35:10,800 --> 00:35:12,320
Speaker 4: What did mom say about they.

703
00:35:12,200 --> 00:35:16,040
Speaker 10: Were in love, they loved each other and had Annie

704
00:35:16,080 --> 00:35:19,120
Speaker 10: had to file for bankruptcy, like the whole thing kind

705
00:35:19,160 --> 00:35:21,120
Speaker 10: of everything just started to unravel.

706
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Speaker 3: That will never happen with Lisa and her mum. Lisa,

707
00:35:25,840 --> 00:35:27,040
Speaker 3: that would never happen.

708
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Speaker 2: It would be Lisa and your mom or your dad.

709
00:35:29,200 --> 00:35:31,200
Speaker 4: It's you hooking up with deb That's right.

710
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Speaker 3: I'm just saying now for the record, that would never happen.

711
00:35:33,360 --> 00:35:35,120
Speaker 3: Lisa will never come home and find Debrah and I

712
00:35:35,560 --> 00:35:38,279
Speaker 3: involved in some sort of hot mood rumble.

713
00:35:38,040 --> 00:35:40,040
Speaker 4: What about the other way? Could could there be a

714
00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:41,839
Speaker 4: chance that John and Lisa.

715
00:35:42,080 --> 00:35:44,600
Speaker 3: Highly unlikely the age of seventy five? I'm what sure

716
00:35:44,719 --> 00:35:45,080
Speaker 3: is up for it?

717
00:35:45,719 --> 00:35:47,800
Speaker 2: Could you have would you have a little vomit?

718
00:35:49,960 --> 00:35:50,000
Speaker 8: Like?

719
00:35:50,400 --> 00:35:54,000
Speaker 2: What reaction do you have when you walk? You put

720
00:35:54,040 --> 00:35:56,239
Speaker 2: the key in the door, and you walk down the

721
00:35:56,280 --> 00:35:58,759
Speaker 2: hallway and then you're in the lounge room and on

722
00:35:58,880 --> 00:36:02,120
Speaker 2: the couch is your parent and your partner?

723
00:36:02,560 --> 00:36:03,640
Speaker 3: Are you who?

724
00:36:03,680 --> 00:36:06,439
Speaker 4: Are you more disappointed with Mum?

725
00:36:07,080 --> 00:36:07,640
Speaker 2: Your parent?

726
00:36:08,800 --> 00:36:10,279
Speaker 3: What would you say to Heather?

727
00:36:12,719 --> 00:36:16,000
Speaker 4: Heather, you walk in and there in the kitchen, Okay.

728
00:36:17,000 --> 00:36:20,120
Speaker 2: Can you stop? Because I know Mum's in the car

729
00:36:20,360 --> 00:36:23,360
Speaker 2: right now and most likely with my daughter it's not what.

730
00:36:23,440 --> 00:36:23,960
Speaker 3: It looks like.

731
00:36:24,239 --> 00:36:26,320
Speaker 4: That's the first thing you would say to Heather.

732
00:36:26,680 --> 00:36:29,040
Speaker 2: I'd say, should I put the kettle on?

733
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Speaker 9: You know?

734
00:36:31,440 --> 00:36:33,840
Speaker 3: Can I tell you something? A maid of mine, a

735
00:36:33,960 --> 00:36:37,200
Speaker 3: maide of mine, not long ago, he was at home

736
00:36:37,440 --> 00:36:42,759
Speaker 3: and the cleaner was there, and they started talking about intimacy.

737
00:36:44,080 --> 00:36:46,640
Speaker 3: The cleaner says, it's been a while for me. I

738
00:36:46,760 --> 00:36:50,279
Speaker 3: really miss it. He says, it's been a while for

739
00:36:50,400 --> 00:36:53,680
Speaker 3: me as well. The next thing, you know, right there

740
00:36:53,719 --> 00:36:56,759
Speaker 3: in the kitchen, it is on for young and old?

741
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Speaker 8: Is this?

742
00:36:58,120 --> 00:36:59,319
Speaker 4: Was he a relationship?

743
00:37:00,440 --> 00:37:04,040
Speaker 3: No, he is in a relationship. He's got about four

744
00:37:04,120 --> 00:37:05,680
Speaker 3: girls on the go. He's a bit of a shocker.

745
00:37:06,440 --> 00:37:08,400
Speaker 2: This is friend yours.

746
00:37:09,400 --> 00:37:15,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, And I just I'm always fascinated how these moments,

747
00:37:15,600 --> 00:37:19,040
Speaker 3: which seem random, like a mother involved or a cleaning lady,

748
00:37:20,160 --> 00:37:23,480
Speaker 3: how it actually gets to that point of going. I

749
00:37:23,600 --> 00:37:25,759
Speaker 3: woke up this morning and this was a regular day,

750
00:37:26,400 --> 00:37:30,320
Speaker 3: my wheetbeaks for breakfast, I read the paper, I checked

751
00:37:30,360 --> 00:37:32,840
Speaker 3: my email, and the next thing you know, I'm on

752
00:37:33,000 --> 00:37:36,520
Speaker 3: the lino in the kitchen getting it on with the clean.

753
00:37:38,320 --> 00:37:45,000
Speaker 2: Like interesting life, but that stuff isn't happening. There's some

754
00:37:45,640 --> 00:37:48,640
Speaker 2: there's stuff going on out there, wold and crazy.

755
00:37:48,480 --> 00:37:52,360
Speaker 4: Put down the mister sheet and there isn't there even that.

756
00:37:52,560 --> 00:37:54,640
Speaker 2: I think it's people looking for connection.

757
00:37:55,320 --> 00:37:57,160
Speaker 3: I don't think it is they're just bored.

758
00:37:57,360 --> 00:38:02,400
Speaker 2: No, I think people desperate for connection and deeply, deeply,

759
00:38:02,640 --> 00:38:07,320
Speaker 2: deeply unhappy in their own lives. And before you know it,

760
00:38:07,880 --> 00:38:11,959
Speaker 2: you can't fake chemistry if you're standing. How many people

761
00:38:12,000 --> 00:38:14,640
Speaker 2: have got cleaners and they never fancy them at all?

762
00:38:15,160 --> 00:38:15,200
Speaker 9: No?

763
00:38:15,680 --> 00:38:17,680
Speaker 3: No, I mean bum Bum's done a bit of work

764
00:38:17,680 --> 00:38:20,640
Speaker 3: at our place. It was a cleaner. Her name's bum

765
00:38:20,719 --> 00:38:22,360
Speaker 3: Bum and I've never.

766
00:38:22,239 --> 00:38:24,200
Speaker 4: Ever looked at her in thought, well, you've never touched

767
00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:24,640
Speaker 4: bum Bum?

768
00:38:25,640 --> 00:38:27,239
Speaker 3: No, no, I haven't, Tom.

769
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Speaker 2: What does bum Bum do in your house?

770
00:38:30,400 --> 00:38:30,920
Speaker 4: Upstairs?

771
00:38:31,000 --> 00:38:31,560
Speaker 3: Downstairs?

772
00:38:31,680 --> 00:38:32,560
Speaker 4: Where is she from?

773
00:38:33,520 --> 00:38:36,279
Speaker 3: She is from Malaysia?

774
00:38:37,440 --> 00:38:38,320
Speaker 4: Did you okay?

775
00:38:39,120 --> 00:38:42,320
Speaker 2: Boom boom? And you just say.

776
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Speaker 3: This is the fits and with her with Kate Richie podcast.

777
00:38:50,480 --> 00:38:53,160
Speaker 3: Guys lucky enough to get an invite to the Old

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Speaker 3: Australian Open Rocket rod later wait to see medredv Medvedez And.

779
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Speaker 5: You're a massive tennis fan, so this would just would

780
00:39:02,800 --> 00:39:04,239
Speaker 5: have been an absolute treat for you.

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00:39:04,520 --> 00:39:07,319
Speaker 3: Great people watching yesterday's Send a court at rodle Over there.

782
00:39:08,480 --> 00:39:10,120
Speaker 3: I mean, the tennis is one thing, and good on

783
00:39:10,200 --> 00:39:14,239
Speaker 3: your fellows, great display of physical activity. Get that ball

784
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Speaker 3: back over the net, mate. I was in the year

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Speaker 3: seven eight. It's had a prince precision. I was a

786
00:39:19,840 --> 00:39:21,080
Speaker 3: great tennis player.

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Speaker 5: In the day, Tommy, can you please photo of whipper

788
00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:31,879
Speaker 5: a little white shirt Indoras.

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00:39:30,840 --> 00:39:34,200
Speaker 3: And he's a little white That was my favorite hard

790
00:39:34,320 --> 00:39:37,239
Speaker 3: Rock Cafe T shirt. So don't pick on me. But

791
00:39:37,360 --> 00:39:40,000
Speaker 3: I was a weapon on the court. I was a

792
00:39:40,080 --> 00:39:42,640
Speaker 3: great server and Kate, you know what the coach used

793
00:39:42,640 --> 00:39:45,120
Speaker 3: to say to mum. He's not bad, but I would

794
00:39:45,160 --> 00:39:49,800
Speaker 3: describe him as heavy footed, which equals fat and slow.

795
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Speaker 3: That's all right, we move on. It's not my sport.

796
00:39:53,640 --> 00:39:56,040
Speaker 3: Great to see some of the stars there there yesterday.

797
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Speaker 3: If I can drop a couple of names, Shane Jacobson

798
00:39:59,400 --> 00:40:02,760
Speaker 3: in the crowd, Ah love Shine, very funny.

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Speaker 2: Was he sitting in front of in front of you

800
00:40:07,080 --> 00:40:07,680
Speaker 2: or behind you?

801
00:40:08,160 --> 00:40:11,520
Speaker 3: Was much well? And you're talking about social ranking at

802
00:40:11,520 --> 00:40:15,080
Speaker 3: the tennis Yes, I think he was. Row five was

803
00:40:15,200 --> 00:40:19,680
Speaker 3: Row four. Row one though, was made up of Kate Sobrano. Yes,

804
00:40:19,880 --> 00:40:27,080
Speaker 3: young boys, those bedroom eyes. John Stevens was there as well. Yes,

805
00:40:27,360 --> 00:40:30,279
Speaker 3: from noise noise works. I did have work with in

806
00:40:30,400 --> 00:40:32,160
Speaker 3: excess as well. He was front row.

807
00:40:33,200 --> 00:40:35,520
Speaker 2: There's going to be bigger anyone in their twenties.

808
00:40:37,560 --> 00:40:38,759
Speaker 3: Troy Sevann was there.

809
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Speaker 4: No, he wasn't.

810
00:40:40,760 --> 00:40:43,200
Speaker 3: He wasn't. I'm just feeling that one in What was

811
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Speaker 3: exciting though to look over and I would have hated

812
00:40:45,760 --> 00:40:48,239
Speaker 3: to have been sitting behind him. But great to see

813
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Speaker 3: Red Food turning up for the tennis.

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Speaker 4: Well, he's a huge tennis fan and can play tennis himself.

815
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Speaker 4: For a food can play.

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Speaker 2: We're joking before when you mentioned Red Food. Red Food

817
00:40:58,080 --> 00:41:02,200
Speaker 2: was at the tennis Yeah, with a.

818
00:41:05,400 --> 00:41:05,879
Speaker 9: For us.

819
00:41:07,080 --> 00:41:10,160
Speaker 3: But he's pretty handy on the racket. But what was

820
00:41:10,280 --> 00:41:13,080
Speaker 3: interesting was how many years has it been since we

821
00:41:13,200 --> 00:41:17,400
Speaker 3: were shuffling? How many years since we were doing shut

822
00:41:17,520 --> 00:41:19,200
Speaker 3: shut shut, shut shut shut.

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00:41:19,400 --> 00:41:23,359
Speaker 5: Did you ask him no, if LMFA were getting back

824
00:41:23,360 --> 00:41:25,320
Speaker 5: together or no, I didn't.

825
00:41:26,760 --> 00:41:27,160
Speaker 8: I just.

826
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Speaker 3: Pain in the bum. If you're sitting behind him, you

827
00:41:30,520 --> 00:41:33,040
Speaker 3: can't see a thing because he still has the hair. Now,

828
00:41:33,160 --> 00:41:36,640
Speaker 3: if you've moved on from LMFAO, why are you still

829
00:41:36,680 --> 00:41:40,280
Speaker 3: wearing the white square glasses while you're sitting there without

830
00:41:40,280 --> 00:41:42,480
Speaker 3: a lens in them at the tennis Well.

831
00:41:42,400 --> 00:41:47,719
Speaker 2: Maybe, but maybe that look existed before the band thing

832
00:41:47,880 --> 00:41:51,160
Speaker 2: or before that. I think artistry it was something.

833
00:41:51,000 --> 00:41:54,440
Speaker 3: I don't think. The flairy shirt was also part of

834
00:41:54,480 --> 00:41:56,759
Speaker 3: the look before LMFAOL as well, so he's kind of

835
00:41:56,800 --> 00:42:00,160
Speaker 3: still hanging on to it. But you know what, the

836
00:42:00,360 --> 00:42:04,719
Speaker 3: kids mine were big fans of LMFAO. Now, I don't

837
00:42:04,760 --> 00:42:08,080
Speaker 3: know what was going on yesterday with Red Food, but

838
00:42:08,200 --> 00:42:10,319
Speaker 3: every time I tried to film him, he just kept

839
00:42:10,360 --> 00:42:11,160
Speaker 3: picking his nose.

840
00:42:11,760 --> 00:42:14,120
Speaker 4: Oh you're kidding me, So you couldn't post that he

841
00:42:14,280 --> 00:42:16,200
Speaker 4: was having a shot at his nose. Shut shut.

842
00:42:16,239 --> 00:42:18,279
Speaker 2: Well, the kids would have loved that.

843
00:42:19,640 --> 00:42:21,799
Speaker 3: I've just got a series of photos on my phone

844
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Speaker 3: of Red Food sort of knuckle deep on his nostril. Now,

845
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Speaker 3: I'm just I don't know what was going on on

846
00:42:27,200 --> 00:42:30,360
Speaker 3: the day, but I just thought what a rollercoaster of

847
00:42:30,920 --> 00:42:33,959
Speaker 3: emotions he's had in Australia since the glassing at the pub.

848
00:42:34,560 --> 00:42:37,520
Speaker 3: Somebody had him in the head with a schooner. That

849
00:42:37,680 --> 00:42:40,480
Speaker 3: was a quiet one, but good to see him back

850
00:42:40,560 --> 00:42:42,719
Speaker 3: in the country. For the love of tennis. I just

851
00:42:43,360 --> 00:42:46,080
Speaker 3: thought he might have left the LMFAO. I mean, you

852
00:42:46,120 --> 00:42:48,400
Speaker 3: don't turn up to the tennis dressed as Sally in

853
00:42:48,440 --> 00:42:50,839
Speaker 3: a school uniform. Do you do You know what I mean,

854
00:42:51,120 --> 00:42:52,640
Speaker 3: because you're not doing that gear anymore.

855
00:42:52,680 --> 00:42:54,560
Speaker 2: I know, no matter how much you ask me.

856
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