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Speaker 1: I'm so excited.
Speaker 3: I'm so excited We've got Shane on the podcast today.
Speaker 3: And I don't know what it was, but when I
Speaker 3: first found you on social media. Yes, I came across
Speaker 3: your page and I was like, I'm just obsessed with
Speaker 3: this girl. I click yeah, and then I bought your
Speaker 3: fem flow course and then I also did the lines
Speaker 3: Gate portal as well, and I was just like, I
Speaker 3: really want to get you on the podcast and I
Speaker 3: want everyone to hear the different things that you have
Speaker 3: to share and talk about. So yeah, I'm so happy
Speaker 3: to have you here today and learn from you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, learn from you.
Speaker 5: We've touched on it here and there, and I think
Speaker 5: maybe a couple other guests have, but today we're talking
Speaker 5: all things manifestation.
Speaker 3: Now.
Speaker 5: I'm really excited to like really learn about this because
Speaker 5: I think it's something I kind of tuppy in and
Speaker 5: out and I haven't been consistent with sod be call
Speaker 5: to get a really deeper understanding and hear it from you.
Speaker 5: But before we do, every Monday episode, we have a
Speaker 5: share of the week, so we'd love for you to
Speaker 5: share something that you've been loving lately. A recommendation could
Speaker 5: be a restaurant, a product, anything. Yeah.
Speaker 6: Okay, So something that I have been really loving at
Speaker 6: the moment is getting back into my daily breath work routine.
Speaker 6: And I feel like at different stages when we're about
Speaker 6: to up level or manifest something requires different parts of
Speaker 6: ourselves to, you know, unlock the new door because old
Speaker 6: keys don't unlock new doors.
Speaker 1: Right.
Speaker 6: Since then, I've just added back in the routine and
Speaker 6: it's been so.
Speaker 5: Beautiful, like a five minute one or like a longer one.
Speaker 6: Yeah, So once a week I try and do like
Speaker 6: a longer, more of like a ritual one, but then
Speaker 6: just throughout the day, I'll sort of.
Speaker 1: Do ten minutes in the morning.
Speaker 6: If I'm feeling a bit overwhelmed during the day, I'll
Speaker 6: do a couple in between, and then yeah.
Speaker 4: So beautiful. It really does make a difference.
Speaker 5: And even on YouTube, like you can literally type in
Speaker 5: five minute breath work for anxiety, five minute breath work for.
Speaker 4: Energy, and like it doesn't take much but it can
Speaker 4: have big impact.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, absolutely, I'm love that.
Speaker 5: All right, let's get into it. So manifestation in your
Speaker 5: own words, like for someone that's never heard of it,
Speaker 5: or maybe they've heard of it, but they're still like,
Speaker 5: I don't really know what I'm doing. What is manifestation?
Speaker 5: Why do you do it?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 6: So manifestation, I feel we are always manifesting, whether you
Speaker 6: are conscious of it or not. We're always in that realm.
Speaker 6: And I always say, like, your words are your magic ones,
Speaker 6: you know, and what you really speak into existence is
Speaker 6: what is reflected back to you. And I remember even
Speaker 6: a few years ago when I was, you know, sort
Speaker 6: of deep into that part of the journey.
Speaker 1: But I started being really really.
Speaker 6: Conscious when I got into business of what I was
Speaker 6: speaking because I was literally like starting from scratch, and
Speaker 6: I really was conscious on what I was speaking into existence.
Speaker 6: And even though I was starting with no clients, no nothing,
Speaker 6: I kind of just spirit was like, you need to
Speaker 6: quit your ninety five, just go all in.
Speaker 1: And then I felt myself kind of.
Speaker 6: Going down that negative talk spiral, you know, and there's
Speaker 6: always so much doubt right as a manifestation is about
Speaker 6: to land in your world. And I started actually just
Speaker 6: saying to myself and out loud, I was like, I'm
Speaker 6: fully booked.
Speaker 1: I'm fully booked.
Speaker 6: I used to write as if my clients were already
Speaker 6: booked in, and within two months I was fully booked.
Speaker 4: Wow. Yeah.
Speaker 5: So you know when people say like fake it to
Speaker 5: your make it, what's your take on manifesting Compared to that.
Speaker 6: Faking can kind of feel a little bit like disconnected.
Speaker 6: It can feel a little bit like icky. You're like, ooh,
Speaker 6: like a authentic Yeah, yeah, absolutely. But what I kind
Speaker 6: of really teach my clients and this is a huge
Speaker 6: part of manifesting your next level self is becoming the
Speaker 6: woman or the person that is a match to your desire. Right,
Speaker 6: So it's like really stepping into that next level, how
Speaker 6: does she speak, how does she move? What are her
Speaker 6: habits and things like that, and when you kind of
Speaker 6: even like dress to suggest of that next level self
Speaker 6: is a huge thing as well. It's just amazing that
Speaker 6: just intuitively what sort of starts shifting within you and
Speaker 6: then it shows up in your physical Yeah.
Speaker 3: Also, I love you to share a bit more in
Speaker 3: your story of like the things you've manifesting. I heard
Speaker 3: you talk on socials about the place that you're living
Speaker 3: at the moment, So maybe if you want to share
Speaker 3: a couple of like cool stories of things that you've made.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 6: Absolutely so living in my dream beach apartment in like
Speaker 6: very beautiful suburb in the Gold Coast. And basically how
Speaker 6: that sort of come about was being I'm from Perth originally,
Speaker 6: and I had gone over traveling overseas. I came back
Speaker 6: and I was like, I either want to move back
Speaker 6: permanently to the UK or somewhere else. I just knew
Speaker 6: the time and Perth had served its purpose again and
Speaker 6: I started all of a sudden getting all of these
Speaker 6: clients randomly booked from Brisbane and I was like okay,
Speaker 6: I was like I was feeling some energy and then
Speaker 6: I started seeing signs and you know, the Gold Coast
Speaker 6: just started flooding like my TikTok, and I was like, okay.
Speaker 1: There's something calling me there.
Speaker 6: And so I went over just for a week, and
Speaker 6: I was like, yeah, this is my place. This is
Speaker 6: exactly where I'm meant to be. And so I did
Speaker 6: I like listened to Spirit. I was like, okay, I'm
Speaker 6: going to go. I knew the first place that I
Speaker 6: moved into was only going to be temporary. I walked
Speaker 6: in and I was like I was living with someone
Speaker 6: just at the time, and I was like, I'm gonna
Speaker 6: be here a couple months. Like I just had that
Speaker 6: annoying and I knew it was like the stepping stone.
Speaker 6: And basically what happened was I had up leveled a
Speaker 6: lot quicker than what I thought, and when that tends
Speaker 6: to happen. Basically, Spirit was already calling in the energy
Speaker 6: of my next home and I could feel her and
Speaker 6: she was coming through, Like the name of it came
Speaker 6: through was like the soul pad like it was very
Speaker 6: much like love. It was like my divine feminine energy
Speaker 6: in my fullness. And basically what happened was I had
Speaker 6: come back from a trip from Sydney and my housemate
Speaker 6: was like, oh, the owners are moving back. We've got
Speaker 6: less than a month ago, and I remember feeling that
Speaker 6: fear come up. But I was like no, like I
Speaker 6: asked for this. I literally said I was ready for
Speaker 6: my next place. And then the universe was like, oh,
Speaker 6: here you go. You've got no choice. Now you've got
Speaker 6: to do it. And I remember I felt so much
Speaker 6: fear come up, which always happens. I feel like the
Speaker 6: bigger the manifestation, the bigger the fear.
Speaker 1: And that's it's really.
Speaker 4: Cool to hear.
Speaker 5: That makes me feel really good because it brings like
Speaker 5: a sense of just calmness, like I know something better
Speaker 5: is coming. When it's stuck in that fear, it can
Speaker 5: carry on. But if you're like, Okay, I know something's
Speaker 5: about to break through, it kind of makes it more exciting.
Speaker 1: Yeah, for me, it was actually a commitment piece.
Speaker 6: It was being like, oh, I'm signing a lease and
Speaker 6: like committing to being in one spot for a long time.
Speaker 1: That's actually what it was.
Speaker 6: But I knew that the growth was actually going to
Speaker 6: be me putting roots down somewhere because I'd been such
Speaker 6: a little gypsy. So anyway, what sort of happened was
Speaker 6: I moved out and I just was staying with a
Speaker 6: friend for a couple of weeks because it was a
Speaker 6: very quick turn around, and Spirit actually asked me to
Speaker 6: go even bigger. So in my mental state where I
Speaker 6: was at my energetic capacity, I had capped myself and
Speaker 6: I was, you know, looking for a place that was
Speaker 6: maybe an extra two three hundred dollars a week. I
Speaker 6: was like, yep, that's all led I can afford. That's
Speaker 6: what my ego was kind of telling me. And then
Speaker 6: Spirit was like, no, you're ready for that next level,
Speaker 6: which gave me a lot of anxiety because that was
Speaker 6: more than double what I was paying. And I was like,
Speaker 6: I was feeling like the terror, but equally I felt
Speaker 6: so lit up and expanded by that bigger leap. And
Speaker 6: what happened was over those couple of weeks in transition,
Speaker 6: I had a very specific suburb.
Speaker 1: I really wanted to move to Mermaid Beach. I don't
Speaker 1: know why.
Speaker 6: I was just like feeling that vibe and that energy,
Speaker 6: and I was like, that's where I'm moving to. And
Speaker 6: I remember I toured a place and it was fully
Speaker 6: furnished and all of the things and I was like, Yep, yep,
Speaker 6: this is the one, this is it, this is where
Speaker 6: I'm moving to. Then nothing, nothing came through, and I
Speaker 6: was like, oh, okay. I remember feeling really upset and disappointed.
Speaker 6: And then this is a key part of manifesting, is
Speaker 6: the deep surrender and the deep letting go on the
Speaker 6: resistance because I was anxiously attached to moving in like
Speaker 6: it had to be certain time, because it was creeping
Speaker 6: up to Christmas as well, so it was like you.
Speaker 4: Want to be settled in your own yes, absolutely.
Speaker 6: And I was like, really don't want to have to
Speaker 6: put my stuff in storage and like all of those
Speaker 6: logistical pieces. But I was like, okay, I reached this
Speaker 6: deep point of acceptance. I was like, all right, if
Speaker 6: it's going to be next year, it's going to be
Speaker 6: next year, and I'll let that go.
Speaker 1: As soon as I let that go. It was just
Speaker 1: so crazy.
Speaker 6: I had actually signed to go and like view a place,
Speaker 6: but I had so let go of this manifestation that
Speaker 6: I didn't even show up to the viewing of the place.
Speaker 6: And I get a call from a real estate being like, oh,
Speaker 6: are you coming for the inspection? And I was like,
Speaker 6: oh no, sorry, like I'm busy, and they were like, oh, no,
Speaker 6: I think you should come, Like can you come any
Speaker 6: time today? And I was like, oh, like the only
Speaker 6: time I can come is like eleven o'clock and they
Speaker 6: were like, yeah, come and I was like, that's really weird.
Speaker 6: Why are they calling me? Like it's meant to be
Speaker 6: so busy and so hard to like get that. But
Speaker 6: I had also unsubscribed to that belief that like it's hard,
Speaker 6: rental crisis, all of those sorts of things. I was like, no,
Speaker 6: I'm the exception to every rule, which is like one
Speaker 6: of my number one core beliefs. And so anyway, they
Speaker 6: called me and they were like, yeah, come in. We
Speaker 6: can do any time whenever you're free, and I like
Speaker 6: walked in and I felt her energy of like even
Speaker 6: the lady and I walked in. I was like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 6: this is mine, this is easy, this is done. And
Speaker 6: it was done within twenty four hours. I moved in
Speaker 6: Christmas Eve.
Speaker 4: That's and it.
Speaker 6: Wasn't in the suburb that I necessarily wanted, but it
Speaker 6: turned out so much better than I could have expected,
Speaker 6: and it was ten times better than the other place
Speaker 6: that I wanted as well. And I was like, oh,
Speaker 6: I just had to level up to become a vibrational
Speaker 6: match to the woman who lived in this type of place.
Speaker 6: I actually thought, you know, a couple of weeks prior or,
Speaker 6: that would be too good for me. I couldn't afford
Speaker 6: it all of those things. So what I actually to do.
Speaker 6: I had to do the inner work on myself to
Speaker 6: hold that vibration and attract it in. And then when
Speaker 6: it happened, it was so effortless.
Speaker 5: Aware of that limited belief, and you're like, hang on, no, no,
Speaker 5: we're not there.
Speaker 4: Yeah, this is who I want to be.
Speaker 6: Yeah, absolutely, And it was just the most like divinely led.
Speaker 6: Even when they were like sending me all the details,
Speaker 6: it was like centered eleven eleven, and like, you know,
Speaker 6: just did all of that, and you're just like, oh,
Speaker 6: and all I wanted. I remember two weeks prior, I
Speaker 6: did a new moon ceremony and I was like, I
Speaker 6: just really want to be in my house, in my
Speaker 6: new place on Christmas.
Speaker 1: And I woke up Christmas morning my new place was beautiful. Yeah,
Speaker 1: oh I love that.
Speaker 5: I love that now, Like I feel like anyone listening
Speaker 5: to that, maybe he goes in and out of manifescing
Speaker 5: like having that evidence that just propels you for because
Speaker 5: you know that it's possible.
Speaker 4: You've got the evidence of that now.
Speaker 6: And I think as well, trusting that like spirit, universe, God,
Speaker 6: whoever you subscribe to, is always ten steps ahead. So
Speaker 6: I was so like, yes, this is what I wanted,
Speaker 6: but they're like, notione, just hold out. In two weeks
Speaker 6: you'll be in a place that's ten times.
Speaker 1: Better and patient.
Speaker 6: Yes, absolutely, and just you can be like so much
Speaker 6: more rewarded because I didn't give up. I let go
Speaker 6: of the timing of when it was gonna unfold. And
Speaker 6: that's also a key thing. A lot of people when manifesting,
Speaker 6: they go into anxious attachment where they try and control
Speaker 6: the timing of it, and I'm like, that's literally cop
Speaker 6: blocking your manifestation.
Speaker 5: Yeah, so just knowing when things don't work out that
Speaker 5: you have actively consciously manifested it's because something better is coming.
Speaker 4: Surrender, drop in trust.
Speaker 6: And they know things that you don't know, and now
Speaker 6: I'm like, oh my gosh, I'm in the best location.
Speaker 6: Like every single piece, I'm like, oh, because it's better
Speaker 6: than I could have even comprehended. So yeah, that was
Speaker 6: just a beautiful, like physical, big manifestation, and then since
Speaker 6: I moved in there, it's like that's what opened the
Speaker 6: floodgates for everything else this year.
Speaker 3: So yeah, you've been unstoppable, Like watching all the things
Speaker 3: that they're doing, I'm like, wow, But how as well
Speaker 3: did you first get started with manifesting? Like is it
Speaker 3: something you've grown up, like your mum was into, or
Speaker 3: you've like seen people do, or does something happen in
Speaker 3: life You're like, oh, hang on a second, what's that?
Speaker 5: Like?
Speaker 3: Love to hear how you initially got into it.
Speaker 6: Yeah, So I remember like years and years ago, I
Speaker 6: was probably like I don't know, ten eleven twelve, when
Speaker 6: like The Secret came out and my parents bought the
Speaker 6: DVD of it and we all watched it as a family,
Speaker 6: which was like super random, especially for back in like
Speaker 6: two thousand and six, like a long time ago, and
Speaker 6: I remember being like, yeah, like it just felt right
Speaker 6: at the time, And so my parents and stuff, they
Speaker 6: definitely did adopt little things from that takeaway, which was
Speaker 6: really cool. And my mum would get me to visualize
Speaker 6: my dance routines and like meditate sort of as I
Speaker 6: was going to bed. I'd imagine landing all my tricks
Speaker 6: and like winning and getting up on the stage and
Speaker 6: receiving my.
Speaker 5: Wards, go far going farm like yeah, moms in that
Speaker 5: generation would have that likeness knowledge like no.
Speaker 6: But what was really interesting was I lost it along
Speaker 6: the way. So I definitely, I think had those abilities
Speaker 6: and had those powers sort of like throughout late primary
Speaker 6: school and high school. But then when I sort of
Speaker 6: went out into the world, I completely disconnected from my intuition.
Speaker 6: I completely just you know, got sucked into the three
Speaker 6: D I guess. So, yeah, I did none of that
Speaker 6: stuff for a really really long time. It wasn't until
Speaker 6: i'd been living in Sydney for five years. I was
Speaker 6: trying to like quote unquote make it as an actor.
Speaker 6: I was acting over there, and then I was working
Speaker 6: in corporate as well, and I actually got really, really
Speaker 6: sick whilst I was there. I was misdiagnosed, which obviously
Speaker 6: didn't know at the time, but I was misdiagnosed with
Speaker 6: Graves disease. So I ended up taking the wrong medication
Speaker 6: for a year.
Speaker 1: Oh wow, and I.
Speaker 6: Just got sicker and sicker and sicker, and yeah, yeah,
Speaker 6: so what did you actually have? So I actually have
Speaker 6: well that's kind of like a part of the story.
Speaker 6: So Dad came over. He hadn't seen me in four months,
Speaker 6: and he got a shock. He was like, you need
Speaker 6: to come home. You need to come back to Perth.
Speaker 6: You need to come and like ground yourself and get better.
Speaker 6: Like he was just you know. And then that's what
Speaker 6: led me to my nature path. And I walked in
Speaker 6: and I told her, oh, yeah, I've got graves and
Speaker 6: instantly she just looked at me. She's like, no, you
Speaker 6: don't have that. I can tell literally just by looking
Speaker 6: at you. That's not what you've got. She's like, I
Speaker 6: think you have hashimotos. I think you have some sort
Speaker 6: of like a PCOS or something like that and severe
Speaker 6: like a dreinal fatigue.
Speaker 1: And she was right.
Speaker 6: I got all the proper testing and confirmed by doctors
Speaker 6: and all of that, and I remember in that session
Speaker 6: she said to me, she was like, are you ready
Speaker 6: to take the power back in your life?
Speaker 1: Wow?
Speaker 4: Powerful?
Speaker 1: And I just remember really receiving that.
Speaker 6: I was only twenty three at the time, and I
Speaker 6: was like, yes, because it was so funny, something intuitively
Speaker 6: in me, even when I was like subscribed to the
Speaker 6: medication from the doctors I was like, I refuse to
Speaker 6: believe at twenty two twenty three, I'm going to be
Speaker 6: on medication for the rest of my life, which.
Speaker 1: Is that's what they were telling me.
Speaker 6: Oh, And I was like, but that, see my intuition
Speaker 6: was so buried deep within, but I remember feeling that
Speaker 6: little bit of light. I was like, no, that just
Speaker 6: doesn't feel true. And then started going down the natural
Speaker 6: healing therapies, which was amazing and I definitely improved significantly.
Speaker 6: I was probably about a year into that and I started, yeah,
Speaker 6: just like watching YouTube videos about manifestation and documentaries and
Speaker 6: I started doing all these courses. I started meditating and
Speaker 6: really getting into that. But it wasn't until I guess, yeah,
Speaker 6: about that year point that she said to me, Shane,
Speaker 6: you're eating everything correctly, you're taking all your vitamins, you're meditating,
Speaker 6: You're literally doing everything. She's like, what I actually feel
Speaker 6: is it's actually deep trauma work that you need to
Speaker 6: do now. It's like it's soul work that you're ready for.
Speaker 6: She's like, I think that's the missing piece of the puzzle.
Speaker 6: So she recommended an energy healer for me, and I
Speaker 6: remember going in for my first session with her, and
Speaker 6: I was like, oh my gosh, Like one session with
Speaker 6: her felt like.
Speaker 1: Three years of therapy wasn't.
Speaker 6: It was just a combination of it was her own
Speaker 6: sort of style of things, and I remember, I think
Speaker 6: it was my second set and we did a healing
Speaker 6: around like my ex boyfriend from three years prior, which
Speaker 6: definitely caused a lot of my trauma.
Speaker 1: And I lost three kilos in a week what I'd
Speaker 1: been just carrying on.
Speaker 6: And it was just like, and I remember from that moment,
Speaker 6: I was like, Oh, this is what I needed to do,
Speaker 6: Like this is like the real work, and that's kind
Speaker 6: of what unlocked everything. My spiritual gifts came through as
Speaker 6: a byproduct of me just releasing and clearing heeling myself.
Speaker 1: And then one day I woke up and I was
Speaker 1: kind of psychic.
Speaker 4: So I've always been there, just there was just stuff
Speaker 4: clouding it. Yeah, clear that you're like, okay.
Speaker 6: And that's you know, so much of all of us.
Speaker 6: It's just like we carry things for so long that
Speaker 6: you know, aren't our own, and that's actually what blocks
Speaker 6: our channel and our connection. And as soon as we
Speaker 6: like let go and we shift and we transmute it,
Speaker 6: we receive space for the magic to come through, and
Speaker 6: then your intuition comes on and it's firing and it's
Speaker 6: ready to go, and then you're like, how did I
Speaker 6: live life other way?
Speaker 1: Like how did I do that? So cool?
Speaker 5: We always talk about that just even being like unconscious
Speaker 5: conscious it's like you're sleeping versus not sleeping. Once you're
Speaker 5: conscious and aware of things, you just can't go back
Speaker 5: to sleeping. No, I can't just like sweet things anymore.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 3: So, on the topic of a manifestation, do you have
Speaker 3: any like tips or tricks for people getting started or
Speaker 3: feel like they're like lying to themselves, or like any
Speaker 3: little things that you feel like you've tried along the
Speaker 3: way that's really like helped boost.
Speaker 4: It just get started.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, absolutely.
Speaker 6: I think a lot of people talk about like, you know,
Speaker 6: goals and things like that, and it's like quote unquote
Speaker 6: what's the next logical step? And for me, when I'm manifesting,
Speaker 6: I always tune into like my heart space and like
Speaker 6: what lights me up, what really feels expansive and exciting
Speaker 6: and all of that. And you want to make sure
Speaker 6: that you're attaching to the emotion of what the manifestation,
Speaker 6: what the desire is going to bring to you, and
Speaker 6: the more you can actually plug into that frequency. So
Speaker 6: you know, if you're trying to manifest money, maybe it's
Speaker 6: freedom is actually what you want, right, You want the freedom,
Speaker 6: you want the feeling that money brings you. So then
Speaker 6: I go, okay, beautiful, how can I bring more of
Speaker 6: that abundant freedom feeling into my everyday reality? Because manifesting
Speaker 6: it's ninety percent all unconscious. It's ninety percent what we're
Speaker 6: doing the actual manifestation. The physical evidence is only that
Speaker 6: last little ten percent. It's just that last physical thing.
Speaker 6: And so even for myself, I remember like it was
Speaker 6: like that freedom thing. And you know, when I was
Speaker 6: first starting my business and something that felt really abundant
Speaker 6: to me was actually going out every day and at
Speaker 6: the time when I was drinking coffee, buying my coffee,
Speaker 6: my arm and lass a and that felt really abundant.
Speaker 6: I could just make it at home for you know,
Speaker 6: a quarter of the price, but I was like, no,
Speaker 6: it was actually the feeling.
Speaker 1: I felt like, oh, you.
Speaker 6: Know, and I go for my walk and then that
Speaker 6: would set my day up and I would feel abundant
Speaker 6: and magnetic. And I remember, even at a stage probably
Speaker 6: depriving myself of that, you know, you go into like
Speaker 6: those lower kind of frequencies and things.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's freaking cool.
Speaker 6: Yeah, So focus on what the thing is going to
Speaker 6: bring to So, if it's a partner, it's like okay, love,
Speaker 6: it's safety maybe, So how can you make yourself on
Speaker 6: the daily connect into that frequency? How can you make
Speaker 6: yourself feel so loved, seeing safe, etc.
Speaker 5: So look at your rituals, your habits, your routines, because
Speaker 5: that's really going to impact it. Over the years, just
Speaker 5: had different girlfriends do this. I've been with my part
Speaker 5: of for sixteen years and say with you, But friends
Speaker 5: that have gone through breakups and then they've manifested they're
Speaker 5: doing partner. But to do that, they've actually written out
Speaker 5: a list of exactly who they want. And it's crazy
Speaker 5: how many times that it's come true. If something pops up,
Speaker 5: they'll be like, it's crazy because I didn't put that
Speaker 5: on my list.
Speaker 4: It'd be like.
Speaker 5: One thing they forgot to put on there, or they
Speaker 5: just didn't realize they valued as much. But do you
Speaker 5: believe in doing that for like all areas? Would you
Speaker 5: actually physically write a list or do you just more
Speaker 5: get in like that feeling in your body.
Speaker 6: Yeah, well it's good to know if you actually tap
Speaker 6: into your human design, which she can do for free
Speaker 6: online and figure out if you're a specific or a
Speaker 6: non specific manifesto. So a specific manifesto I always think
Speaker 6: of like Monica Galla from Friends, like she would be
Speaker 6: a specific because she likes all the details and things
Speaker 6: like that. One of my friends, her and I are
Speaker 6: the same human design type, so we're both manifestos, but
Speaker 6: I'm non specific.
Speaker 1: She's specific. Now.
Speaker 6: The difference is she can like manifest her house. She'll
Speaker 6: see exactly what it looks like, she knows it to
Speaker 6: a t, whereas I just know the feeling of what
Speaker 6: it's going to bring for me. So it's really good
Speaker 6: to differentiate which energy type you actually are because then
Speaker 6: you can go a little bit deeper into what is
Speaker 6: going to be utilized best for you.
Speaker 1: So that yeah, really cool.
Speaker 3: So with each human design type, is there different types?
Speaker 3: Like I know I'm a projector, Yeah, could it goes
Speaker 3: still either way?
Speaker 1: Yes? Yes, yeah, I didn't know about that.
Speaker 4: I'm a projector as well. I don't know too much
Speaker 4: about it. We're actually getting someone.
Speaker 5: On to talk about it about it much about it,
Speaker 5: but we're both done the test and we're both projectors.
Speaker 6: Yeah yeah, yeah, so yeah, it'll tell you on your
Speaker 6: chart if you are yeah specific or non specific. And
Speaker 6: I think I used to manifest very specifically in terms
Speaker 6: of like the lists and the writing down and I
Speaker 6: loved it at that time, at that season, but then
Speaker 6: it felt like it became a bit of.
Speaker 1: Like a chore.
Speaker 6: It felt like, oh, I should do this because I
Speaker 6: want to unlock that thing. And that is when you
Speaker 6: know you need to throw that part of your routine
Speaker 6: and getting attached to it. It's like just a checklist,
Speaker 6: Oh I've done the thing, Yeah, good job, pat on
Speaker 6: the back kind of thing, and it's like no, like
Speaker 6: you want to be doing things in your daily life
Speaker 6: that are going to expand you, that are going to
Speaker 6: light you up and take you to that next frequency
Speaker 6: of things. But yeah, then when I found out that
Speaker 6: I was nonspecific, I was like, oh my gosh, I
Speaker 6: felt so free and I was like, oh, now I
Speaker 6: can just like be a lot more open with it.
Speaker 5: I think maybe I am that because I got it
Speaker 5: like a manifestation journal, and I was like, this is
Speaker 5: going to keep me consistent and each day, I was
Speaker 5: writing the things down and like actively like ticking the box,
Speaker 5: but I just there is something in me that doesn't
Speaker 5: quite feel flowy with that. Then I stopped it and
Speaker 5: then now I'm out of it. I think that makes
Speaker 5: more sense to me. Maybe I'm more nonspecific. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 5: that's really cool to learn.
Speaker 6: We go.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like too, Like for me, it's learning
Speaker 3: to tune and listen to your gut intuition more hay
Speaker 3: with everything, like feeling like you said, if you didn't
Speaker 3: go for that house and going when they called you
Speaker 3: and you're like obviously a little part of your gut
Speaker 3: was like no, you should go, Like if they can
Speaker 3: do it in the right timing, then I should go.
Speaker 3: And I feel like sometimes we can get so caught
Speaker 3: up in our day to day that we actually let
Speaker 3: the opportunities like slide.
Speaker 4: Yeah, getting out of your head.
Speaker 5: And that's what we've been a journey we're being going
Speaker 5: on too, is just getting more in our feminine and
Speaker 5: like dropping in and trusting and surrending rathering being so
Speaker 5: like focus on getting shit done and goal orientated and
Speaker 5: like logistics. But I think it's hard to manifest when
Speaker 5: you are always in that energy.
Speaker 6: Yeah, well, our role as like the divine feminine is
Speaker 6: literally to receive, so like a very visual representation is
Speaker 6: like you know with manifesting, thinking of like the masculine is,
Speaker 6: the universe is, God is the provider, is the creator
Speaker 6: is the masculine energy, so it just wants to give.
Speaker 6: So our role as the divine feminine is literally to
Speaker 6: receive and to be open and to be abundant. And
Speaker 6: if you think about it literally in terms of like
Speaker 6: birth and things like that, it's like the sperm chases
Speaker 6: the egg, sperm comes.
Speaker 1: To the egg is receiving, right like that.
Speaker 6: And it's like I remember when I heard that, and
Speaker 6: I was like, oh my god, I've been doing it
Speaker 6: all wrong. I was definitely for a long time. And
Speaker 6: I think most people are like this. They start the
Speaker 6: mindset journey and then they shift into manifestation, but they
Speaker 6: do it from their masculine energy. And then where the
Speaker 6: real magic happens is actually when you learn how to
Speaker 6: tap into it from your feminine and that's when the
Speaker 6: flood gates open and manifestation becomes so easy, it becomes effortless,
Speaker 6: and everything just magnetizes to you because all you're doing
Speaker 6: is focusing on yourself, your energy being open, being a channel,
Speaker 6: and you move through the world like that, and it's
Speaker 6: just wild. Like this year in particular is when I
Speaker 6: really switched up and started working from that way, and
Speaker 6: it's just been the most successful year I've had in
Speaker 6: all areas of life.
Speaker 1: I love that and easy too.
Speaker 4: Yeah, flowy yeah.
Speaker 5: I don't like to generalize, but I do feel like
Speaker 5: our society is quite a hustle culture, and there's this
Speaker 5: like being this big movement of like boss babe and
Speaker 5: like you know, Ceo woo, and like I've been through it.
Speaker 5: I just closed down a multimillion dollar business, Like I
Speaker 5: get it. I've been in my hustle ear for fifteen
Speaker 5: years and I'm fucking exhausted, Like I'm done. I'm wanting
Speaker 5: to like slow down. But I think it's so hard
Speaker 5: as so many people to be able to drop into
Speaker 5: the femine because they're so stuck in that and it's
Speaker 5: so celebrated, like when you're doing all the things and
Speaker 5: you're making all the money and you've got all these achievements,
Speaker 5: like it's so celebrated. So then like to get out
Speaker 5: of that, it's quite uncomfortable. For a lot of women,
Speaker 5: but then we can't get to that place unless we
Speaker 5: do drop in.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 6: Absolutely, and I think as well, it's something we actually
Speaker 6: actively have to learn how to do, is learn how
Speaker 6: to receive, because we are so conditioned in our bodies,
Speaker 6: in our mindsets, in every single fire of our being
Speaker 6: to be in that masculine energy. And it was really interesting.
Speaker 6: There was something that happened to me earlier this year
Speaker 6: was a soul connection came into my experience and all
Speaker 6: he wanted to do was just give to me, give
Speaker 6: me unconditional love, just show up, just do all the things.
Speaker 6: Whereas I had been very much used to being in
Speaker 6: my masculine energy of like helping and fixing it, you know,
Speaker 6: especially being a heelot as well, like, and I was like,
Speaker 6: it caught me so off guard. I was like, whoa, okay,
Speaker 6: Like you just want to like love me and make
Speaker 6: my life better. And it was really interesting feeling that resistance.
Speaker 6: But I remember my mentor she said to me, she
Speaker 6: was like, I actually feel like in this season, you're
Speaker 6: not meant to focus on work in business, like you're
Speaker 6: meant to just receive and go deeper into this experience.
Speaker 6: And I remember feeling that surrender and I was like, Okay,
Speaker 6: all right, I'm just gonna let go and I'm actually
Speaker 6: gonna let myself go into this fully and wholeheartedly. And
Speaker 6: that same month, I did not promote anything and I
Speaker 6: made the most I've ever made my business.
Speaker 4: That's crazy.
Speaker 3: After I did that Linesgate portal with you, I kept manifesting,
Speaker 3: money just kept landing. I held back so much on
Speaker 3: my work and I was saying, I was like, I'm trying,
Speaker 3: and you know, it's been such a battle to be honest,
Speaker 3: Like you will start to do it, then things will
Speaker 3: pop up in life and you start to feel unsafe again,
Speaker 3: and then you go.
Speaker 1: Back into your masculine again.
Speaker 3: And it's such a dance of like trying to pull
Speaker 3: yourself to just stay in that left field and not
Speaker 3: keep going over onto your masculine side. But after I
Speaker 3: finish it, I just had like random amounts, like we
Speaker 3: got a refund from something. It was like just a
Speaker 3: random refund of like five K from the tax we
Speaker 3: overpaid something, and I was like, oh my gosh. Then
Speaker 3: I got another big amount and I was like, this
Speaker 3: is wild. And then life happened, and I have felt
Speaker 3: myself the last few weeks kind of shifting out of
Speaker 3: that way.
Speaker 1: But I saw Sana yesterday. Now I'm going back there,
Speaker 1: and I.
Speaker 4: Think too, like just to have compassion for yourself too.
Speaker 5: I think a lot of young women haven't grown up
Speaker 5: with like healthy masculines to be able to hold them.
Speaker 5: And I know that's the work I'm doing with my
Speaker 5: coach at the moment, is that like, I've been living
Speaker 5: my masculine since I was I can't even remember, because
Speaker 5: he could never hold me. He was abusive, he was
Speaker 5: this and that. So I had to have the shield
Speaker 5: up and be masculine. And I love to help people
Speaker 5: as well, and that met a need of mine. So
Speaker 5: now to like undo thirty five years of doing that,
Speaker 5: it's fucking hard to actually like allow and trust and
Speaker 5: be open and receive and not make up anything else
Speaker 5: as to what it is, and to just fully drop
Speaker 5: in there. It's really hard. So it's cool you've got
Speaker 5: the awareness and me too. You drop in and out
Speaker 5: of it, and hopefully it just gets easier and easier
Speaker 5: the more you practice it, and you're catching yourself fast.
Speaker 5: You're like, oh, I can feel myself going back there
Speaker 5: because I feel unsafe.
Speaker 4: But I've got you.
Speaker 3: But you start to tell yourself stories, don't you be like,
Speaker 3: I will catch myself fully make up, be like no, no, no,
Speaker 3: this is why here because you need to do this,
Speaker 3: you need to work hard, like that's the way to
Speaker 3: make it grow.
Speaker 1: Blah blah blah. And then I'm like, you feel it,
Speaker 1: You're like, I don't feel like me. I don't feel
Speaker 1: like the me I want to be.
Speaker 3: I feel like the me that makes me feel safe,
Speaker 3: but it's not who I actually am.
Speaker 1: It's one of those things. It's like it's hard to do.
Speaker 3: But to really get in that zone, you have to
Speaker 3: be more connected to yourself, you have to be more trusting, You.
Speaker 1: Have to let go.
Speaker 5: You actually have to slow the fuck down. Otherwise you're
Speaker 5: just sew up in here and so busy. If you
Speaker 5: actually have to just stop so that you can receive
Speaker 5: and hear what you need and if you want.
Speaker 3: To get Like, if you're busy and thinking all the time,
Speaker 3: you're not noticing the signs around you. They're there, but
Speaker 3: you're not like realizing what they are.
Speaker 1: You know, you're just like, oh, what was that? Why
Speaker 1: did I feel that?
Speaker 4: There?
Speaker 1: N't actually check in with yourself.
Speaker 5: I love how you said about like the universe, because
Speaker 5: I didn't say spirit, but I say universe has my
Speaker 5: back up use universe a lot. But that being the
Speaker 5: masculine really landed for me.
Speaker 1: So cool.
Speaker 6: Yeah, and it was something that I really have developed
Speaker 6: like that relationship for you know, many years, but it
Speaker 6: wasn't probably until the last year where it came into
Speaker 6: my awareness of like, but the universe literally just wants
Speaker 6: to provide to you.
Speaker 1: It wants to give to you. It wants to serve you.
Speaker 6: If you think about it, even in terms of like money,
Speaker 6: what does money do?
Speaker 1: It creates safety.
Speaker 6: So it's masculine, right, It is the provider. That's what
Speaker 6: it wants to do. It literally wants to give to
Speaker 6: you to make your life easier. And the more you
Speaker 6: can actually like develop that relationship and think of it
Speaker 6: as like you know, dating literally with the universe. It's like,
Speaker 6: you know, when you then go into oh, but why
Speaker 6: hasn't it happened to da da da da, It's like, well,
Speaker 6: that's giving anxious energy, and what does like someone when
Speaker 6: you're dating, if you're going into anxious, they're usually going
Speaker 6: to avoid it.
Speaker 1: So they're like, oh, you can do it.
Speaker 6: Yourself and I don't absolutely and I feel like the
Speaker 6: universe it's that same thing. It's like, no, we just
Speaker 6: want to get you there. So where we want to
Speaker 6: kind of like get you and where I help my
Speaker 6: clients is like getting you into that beautiful secure attachment
Speaker 6: and learning how to open yourself. The more you can
Speaker 6: actually open yourself up to receiving and expand that capacity,
Speaker 6: the easier it is. And how I like to even
Speaker 6: like develop that relationship. I started off just by trying
Speaker 6: to manifest small things, just little things, and what the
Speaker 6: little things did. Then they started sending me bigger things.
Speaker 6: Because I had built that rapport with the universe, I
Speaker 6: was like, oh, I can you know manifest. At the time,
Speaker 6: I think it was like years and years ago, I
Speaker 6: was working at Mecca and I was like, oh, I
Speaker 6: can manifest extra shifts, you know, on a Sunday rate,
Speaker 6: you know, and like those sorts of things. And then
Speaker 6: it was like just other opportunities and free things and
Speaker 6: upgrades and bits and pieces. So it starts off small
Speaker 6: and then you're like, oh, I've got this, and then
Speaker 6: you start building that rapport and that trust, and then
Speaker 6: when they start asking you for bigger things or to
Speaker 6: let go of bigger things. Because you've built those foundations,
Speaker 6: it's actually easier to trust and let go. So by
Speaker 6: the time I got to spirit being like shne you
Speaker 6: need to quit your nine to five, no backup plan,
Speaker 6: just start your business like no physical evidence, everything in
Speaker 6: my being was like, Okay, I was scared shitless.
Speaker 1: Obviously I was terrified.
Speaker 6: But my connection was my number one thing. And I
Speaker 6: knew that I was so tapped in and I knew
Speaker 6: I was so held and they would not ask me
Speaker 6: to leap if I wasn't ready to leap, And that's
Speaker 6: why I was able to do it.
Speaker 5: That's incredible, so inspiring to hear your stories and just
Speaker 5: hear your taking. It's so much landed for me and
Speaker 5: I'm sure everyone else listening as well. If anyone wants
Speaker 5: to work with you, do you do one on one coaching?
Speaker 5: You obviously do courses because and OKRs on a couple
Speaker 5: of them. Go I tell us where everyone can find you.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Absolutely.
Speaker 6: I have a membership coming out next month which is
Speaker 6: kind of like gym for your soul basically, so it's
Speaker 6: going to be your daily plug into your highest timeline,
Speaker 6: which is really cool. Lots of like energy activations, guided
Speaker 6: meditations daily like podcast drops and yeah, it's super juicy.
Speaker 6: So just finishing off the behind the scenes because I
Speaker 6: find like, you know, people will like invest or, they'll
Speaker 6: you know, go and work with someone or whatever. But
Speaker 6: then it's like you'll get a clearing and you'll feel great,
Speaker 6: and then you'll walk away and be like oh my god.
Speaker 6: And so that's the thing that I've created, and I
Speaker 6: feel like there's a gap to be like, no, we
Speaker 6: want to keep you plugged into that, but they stay
Speaker 6: in absolutely, and there's going to be like a live
Speaker 6: coaching call once a month as well inside of that.
Speaker 1: So that's kind of the main place.
Speaker 6: And then yeah, I do like courses and master classes
Speaker 6: and things like that.
Speaker 5: Too, just like dada stories and stuff, so they can
Speaker 5: find you on Instagram.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, absolutely.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and you've got your divine feminine one as well.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 6: I have Phoenix Rising, so Phoenix Fire. It's like a
Speaker 6: divine feminine activation. It's like a small intimate group contained.
Speaker 1: I want to join. I yes, sir, and I was like,
Speaker 1: I want to do it. Yeah.
Speaker 6: It's like a lot of like woom healing, heart opening,
Speaker 6: it's like learning how to receive. Like it's like very
Speaker 6: very deep soul work. It's yeah, probably like the deepest
Speaker 6: group container I'm ever going to hold.
Speaker 1: Wow, definitely doing it.
Speaker 3: So beautiful actually about it all the way up and
Speaker 3: I was like, so beautiful.
Speaker 4: Thank you so much for being here.
Speaker 5: Really appreciate your time, your knowledge and your vulnerability and
Speaker 5: sharing your stories.
Speaker 4: It's so inspiring.
Speaker 1: Thank you so much. Happy, and we'll have a back
Speaker 1: for another episode.
Speaker 3: So if you love this, tune innay the next one
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Speaker 4: Yeah, not one, but thanks guys. We'll see you Wednesday.
Speaker 1: By bye,