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Speaker 1: We can't wait to hear them all. Hello, Hello, how
Speaker 1: are you Anna?
Speaker 2: I'm doing well? How's your life going?
Speaker 3: Good?
Speaker 4: Good?
Speaker 1: So I just had a night away with my girlfriend Jen.
Speaker 2: Nice.
Speaker 1: How was that? It was good? Actually really relaxing. We've
Speaker 1: stayed at Crown Lovely, had to swim this morning, so
Speaker 1: I'm still smelling a bit like chlorine.
Speaker 2: I did smell a bit of chlorine whifting over. That's
Speaker 2: what that is.
Speaker 1: That was nice and relaxing. You know, it was good
Speaker 1: to get away with Jen, Like it's been a year
Speaker 1: we've been together for now. Ye just like you know,
Speaker 1: like it'd be lying to say everything runs smoothly, you know,
Speaker 1: life doesn't run smooth.
Speaker 2: No, absolutely not.
Speaker 1: So like we've caught ourselves in a bit where like,
Speaker 1: obviously life right now is picking up. It's busy work,
Speaker 1: This is busy, life gets in the way.
Speaker 2: Christmas is incoming.
Speaker 1: Yeah, events are coming up every weekend, literally dinners every
Speaker 1: random night with another friend. And we just got to
Speaker 1: the point where we're like, you know what, let's have
Speaker 1: some time for ourselves and let's let's go work on
Speaker 1: this and work on each other. And we had a
Speaker 1: very good night.
Speaker 2: Do you feel like it's kind of helped you guys
Speaker 2: to reconnect.
Speaker 1: Yeah, So we both agreed let's just let's like, let's
Speaker 1: start taking it a day at a time, like, let's
Speaker 1: just do each day and we just you know, have
Speaker 1: a good day each day and focus on one thing
Speaker 1: that's positive about that day and continue to grow. So, yeah,
Speaker 1: I think last night we had a really good time.
Speaker 1: I know I did, and I know one hundredercent she did.
Speaker 1: So we'll just see where we go from here.
Speaker 2: So have you guys been on the rocks a little bit?
Speaker 1: Would you say? Wouldn't say rocks? It's just like more.
Speaker 2: Like little bits of arguments.
Speaker 1: Yeah, arguments and just I don't yeah, I don't want to. Like, look,
Speaker 1: I feel like we have this podcast and we have
Speaker 1: a duty to, like, you know, tell the truth about
Speaker 1: how we are and all that sort of stuff. We're
Speaker 1: not like, so we've just not it's just been how
Speaker 1: do I put it, Like I've been saying, Aye, yeah,
Speaker 1: Like it's just some stuff like this is what I
Speaker 1: say to her. We're two different people, we were raised different,
Speaker 1: we've had different life experiences, and we see things differently.
Speaker 1: We're not going to agree. But I get two people
Speaker 1: that are too stubborn in their opinions that they just
Speaker 1: don't you know what I mean. And it's hard and
Speaker 1: like living on top of each other as well, and
Speaker 1: we're just yeah, so we wouldn't say rocks, but yeah,
Speaker 1: definitely in and out of just you know, trying to
Speaker 1: find that happy place.
Speaker 2: Now, how has been living together?
Speaker 1: So?
Speaker 2: How long have you guys been living together?
Speaker 1: For?
Speaker 2: Now?
Speaker 1: Six months?
Speaker 2: Probably six months? And how is that going?
Speaker 1: For the better part? Good? Like, I love nothing more
Speaker 1: than going to heaven and cuddling her. Yeah, I love that,
Speaker 1: going to bed with her every night. It's the best
Speaker 1: thing ever. But it's like sort of like I love
Speaker 1: my own space as well, And I don't think you
Speaker 1: realize that till you're actually moved in with someone and
Speaker 1: you're living with them. I don't know, how do you go?
Speaker 2: Well, it's interesting that you're saying this.
Speaker 3: I don't know if it's like this time of year,
Speaker 3: but you know, me and Michael obviously recently got engaged.
Speaker 3: We were on like the biggest high ever, and then
Speaker 3: obviously realities keep in. We both like, I was away
Speaker 3: for eight days, so I'm kind of like backlogged. I'm
Speaker 3: trying to catch up on work and like obviously doing
Speaker 3: a lot more hours and I guess I would normally
Speaker 3: be doing. And last week we both found it really
Speaker 3: challenging because we both had massive weeks at work. We
Speaker 3: both had like big things happening in work as well,
Speaker 3: so we're both like a little bit stressed. And it
Speaker 3: got to Friday and I said to Michael, I was like,
Speaker 3: I feel disconnected from you, and that to Michael, like
Speaker 3: he takes that to heart. But I'm so open and
Speaker 3: honest with like if I even feel like a slight change,
Speaker 3: I'm like the first person to tell him. I'm like,
Speaker 3: I need to like let you know.
Speaker 2: How I'm feeling.
Speaker 3: So yeah, So I kind of said that to him,
Speaker 3: and he's like, what do you mean we're disconnected? Like
Speaker 3: we've been so busy, Like life happens, and I was like,
Speaker 3: you know what, I know, life happens, but like we
Speaker 3: also need to make each other a priority, and like,
Speaker 3: you know, whether that's like making a night where we
Speaker 3: have a date night, because we don't really have a
Speaker 3: date night. I know in other relationships, I would have
Speaker 3: like a Friday night date night, and like my friend
Speaker 3: wouldn't even ask me to do anything on a Friday
Speaker 3: night because they'd be like Amazon date night.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: So yeah, I think we just after the weekend, we
Speaker 3: spent a lot more quality time together and everything's like,
Speaker 3: you know, back to normal and being obsessed with each other.
Speaker 3: But yeah, I think we do need to prioritize like
Speaker 3: spending like putting a time aside each quality time to
Speaker 3: spend quality time, because you know, sometimes after work, you know,
Speaker 3: you might sit on the couch together for an hour,
Speaker 3: but it's not really quality time because you're not like
Speaker 3: talking and connecting, and you.
Speaker 1: Know, well that's it. Like so I was talking to
Speaker 1: Jen about it, and I was like, look, when we
Speaker 1: were so busy with work and all that sort of
Speaker 1: stuff during the week that like when we get home,
Speaker 1: it's not like we're so like we'll go on a
Speaker 1: walk sometimes together all hang out, but like who do
Speaker 1: you vent to, like your partner, So we're just venting
Speaker 1: to each other about work, and it's not really like
Speaker 1: a good quality time. So like we'll vent, we'll have dinner,
Speaker 1: I'll go gym, whatever we'll do. Then we'll just lay
Speaker 1: in bed and watch a movie. And there was no
Speaker 1: real intimate like do you know what I mean, like
Speaker 1: actual good time.
Speaker 2: Together, intimate moments.
Speaker 1: And then you get to the weekend and then there's
Speaker 1: event like at the Corefield carp there's everything, so there's
Speaker 1: not really a time where you're just in each other's
Speaker 1: like space and you holding space for each other and
Speaker 1: having a good time. So that's why we went away
Speaker 1: on the weekend. And it doesn't help Quliday time. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and it doesn't help that I leave the UK next
Speaker 1: week for three weeks, so that saga continues. The ticket
Speaker 1: finally figured out, so I'm going to the UK.
Speaker 3: Next week, So very exciting, but also sad that you'll
Speaker 3: be not seeing Jen for three weeks.
Speaker 1: But it could it could work in our favor though
Speaker 1: we could. You know, distance makes the heart grow fond us,
Speaker 1: so hope that should hopefully work in that way.
Speaker 3: We've been seeing a lot on social media, actually, Hayley
Speaker 3: and Sam who have been guests on our podcast. Yeah,
Speaker 3: they like and I know Instagram is not always reality,
Speaker 3: but fuck me, they're like Instagram. They seem to just
Speaker 3: have the most connected relationship ever. They're just having hot,
Speaker 3: steamy sex, like she literally on her Instagram stories runs
Speaker 3: you through like everything they've been getting up to play. Yeah,
Speaker 3: so so me and that we're like discussing this and
Speaker 3: what are they They're like sexual coaches, confidence coaches.
Speaker 2: I don't know regardless.
Speaker 3: So they actually posted on Instagram saying that they had
Speaker 3: like twenty four hours of four play throughout the weekend,
Speaker 3: and I was telling Michael this and I was like,
Speaker 3: they have having better sex than us, babe, and he's like, fuck,
Speaker 3: who has.
Speaker 2: Twenty four hours? Who has time to do twenty four
Speaker 2: hours four play? Well?
Speaker 1: When I read twenty four hours of four play, I
Speaker 1: was like, well, what's that?
Speaker 3: That's like, that's a I think she just means like
Speaker 3: twenty four hours of like really connect Well.
Speaker 1: Yeah, she went on and said what they did, and
Speaker 1: I was like, that makes more sense than what I
Speaker 1: think four play is. I know that I'm not the
Speaker 1: best at four play.
Speaker 2: What do you mean You're not the best at all?
Speaker 1: I'm not the best at Like yeah, going through those
Speaker 1: motions of four play, it's straight to you know.
Speaker 2: You're just down for the ded straight away. Well you
Speaker 2: know what, like it is something that.
Speaker 3: Can really connect you. And like their fore play wasn't
Speaker 3: just like going down on each other. Their full play
Speaker 3: was like, you know, going in the bath together and
Speaker 3: drinking champagne. Apparently he kissed her body for two hours
Speaker 3: straight like all of this stuff. I'm like oh my god,
Speaker 3: like they sound like they're having a fucking great time.
Speaker 1: One was reading poems.
Speaker 3: I was like, that is really you know I have
Speaker 3: a poem book? Did I tell you that that Michael
Speaker 3: has for me? It's really sweet, So like any like
Speaker 3: milestone we have in our relationship, he'll like, because he's
Speaker 3: an amazing writer, yeah, he'll like write a poem about it,
Speaker 3: and it's actually really beautiful. Literally, every time he reads
Speaker 3: me a new poem that he's written, I will literally cry,
Speaker 3: like I well laugh, it's so nicely.
Speaker 1: I've never heard that that you got a poem book.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't mind reading that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, like it's like any like he's actually like
Speaker 3: writing one at the moment about our engagement because that's
Speaker 3: like kind of like the next milestone in our relationship
Speaker 3: that I don't have a poem for yet. Maybe I'll
Speaker 3: bring it in and.
Speaker 1: And read it when I think if poems are I
Speaker 1: can't have to laugh, like if roses are red violence.
Speaker 3: But then you're like a really emotional guy, So I
Speaker 3: feel like I don't know how good you are with
Speaker 3: your words, but like it could be a real like
Speaker 3: outlet for you.
Speaker 1: I'm actually really good. Jen loves my letters that I
Speaker 1: write for on special occasions, like I'm really good at
Speaker 1: writing my cards.
Speaker 3: Maybe that's something that you can do to try and
Speaker 3: bring up the intimacy. Maybe you should write Jenna poem.
Speaker 3: Maybe that's something you can agree to do for the
Speaker 3: pod and maybe you can come and share it with
Speaker 3: us later.
Speaker 1: I just don't know how I go with an actual poem,
Speaker 1: like I can't. I think a poem is like Shakespeare
Speaker 1: and they're like just a bit bit.
Speaker 2: Of a couple of writing words here and there.
Speaker 1: Okay, so what is your weekly recommendation for our audience center?
Speaker 3: Okay, So obviously I said to you. I was telling
Speaker 3: Michael that I was feeling a little bit disconnected. But
Speaker 3: something we have been reconnecting on a show that we've
Speaker 3: been loving at the moment is Married at First Sight UK.
Speaker 3: It's on nine now. Michael and I have become obsessed
Speaker 3: with it. And the reason why I even got onto
Speaker 3: this is because for some reason, my TikTok algorithm has
Speaker 3: like been on Maths UK and some of the scenes
Speaker 3: I've seen on TikTok are wild. I'm not gonna say anymore,
Speaker 3: but after seeing some of those clips, I was like,
Speaker 3: I need to get myself onto this season because this
Speaker 3: is crazy.
Speaker 2: So we started watching it.
Speaker 3: I think there's like twelve or thirteen or fourteen episodes
Speaker 3: out now.
Speaker 1: Oh, they're coming out weekly.
Speaker 3: They're coming out still, so you know, it's very much
Speaker 3: a now show.
Speaker 2: It's happening in the present.
Speaker 3: And also like you can have a bit of a
Speaker 3: binge as well if you start it on like a
Speaker 3: weeknight or weekend and it's a really good one and
Speaker 3: you won't be disappointed.
Speaker 2: There's lots going on.
Speaker 1: It's funny you say that the other night. Jane and
Speaker 1: myself we love Naked and Afraid, right, Yeah, you guys
Speaker 1: do have love it, so we like always we always
Speaker 1: watch it. We're always like, oh, do you reckon these
Speaker 1: people hooking up? Like do you reckon? They're you know,
Speaker 1: because they're cuddling together at night, like surely surely they are. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we're like laying in bed, we're trying to find something new.
Speaker 1: We're on the foxtail app. You'll never get that's what
Speaker 1: I found Naked and Afraid and in love. So they
Speaker 1: put two naked people, is what I And then they
Speaker 1: put two naked people and the same sort of thing
Speaker 1: and they're trying to date.
Speaker 3: How do you date someone when you're fucking naked, Like
Speaker 3: you just be like looking at their bits.
Speaker 1: Well, the first guy walks over and then the girl's
Speaker 1: like he was rock hard.
Speaker 2: Stop it.
Speaker 3: There's no way to hide, is there, Like I mean
Speaker 3: unless you're like putting a branch.
Speaker 1: Well what they put their hesham sack over it, so
Speaker 1: they cover it like that, but the girl obviously will
Speaker 1: have like one hit out right. Yeah. Well my recommendation is,
Speaker 1: like obviously I said before, it's a busy time of
Speaker 1: the year. There's heaps going on and you need to
Speaker 1: schedule it all. So I've actually got you onto this,
Speaker 1: and I tell I'm gonna tell a funny story about it.
Speaker 1: Is the app TimeTree.
Speaker 2: Oh I love a time tree.
Speaker 3: You know what I have to say before you, like
Speaker 3: tell this story. I was very reluctant to try this, Matt. Yeah,
Speaker 3: and I'm so glad I did.
Speaker 1: You're welcome. It's actually life changing. It's literally life change.
Speaker 1: So Jenn and I found maybe probably under a year ago,
Speaker 1: ten months ago, like there's so much going on, right,
Speaker 1: so like I'll say, oh, let's do this on this stage.
Speaker 1: She's like, no, I'm doing this, and I'll be like, well,
Speaker 1: have you told me this? And she's like, yeah, I've
Speaker 1: told you multiple times, and I'm like you forgot yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 1: So then we heard about this app called time Tree.
Speaker 1: So I put my stuff in blue, she puts her
Speaker 1: stuff in in red, and then in green is stuff
Speaker 1: we're both doing. Yeah, so it's all in there. It's
Speaker 1: literally in there for months ahead. It's a lifesaver relationship change.
Speaker 1: It's the best.
Speaker 3: It's the best because you can see each other's calendars.
Speaker 3: And then Matt got me onto it, so.
Speaker 1: This is what I'm going to say. You're on it, right,
Speaker 1: So we made a joint one where we were going
Speaker 1: to do stuff so we knew what we were doing
Speaker 1: for the podcast, right. Yeah, I never put anything in
Speaker 1: that one. You've taken that one over. So it's in
Speaker 1: my own way as it's your full calendar. So I
Speaker 1: get updated every day with Anna's what she's doing. I
Speaker 1: can't remember the other day I was having someone asked
Speaker 1: me something about you, and I was like, oh, actually,
Speaker 1: see what she's doing then, and I looked at I
Speaker 1: looked at Time Tree and I'm like, oh, she's here. Literally,
Speaker 1: someone was like where's Anna? And I was like, I
Speaker 1: actually know because I have her fucking calendar.
Speaker 2: That's so funny. I didn't know that.
Speaker 1: And you know when it notifies you in the morning,
Speaker 1: so I get mine and Jen's calendar and then I
Speaker 1: get your, so you've got on for the day every day.
Speaker 2: This is so funny.
Speaker 3: You know the thing about time tree, So obviously you're
Speaker 3: like sharing calendars with people who you're close to, but
Speaker 3: sometimes Matt will like update my calendar and like add
Speaker 3: things in and I'm like, in a second, I don't
Speaker 3: remember adding this, but Matt's added it in for me.
Speaker 1: That's right. The other day I added all our podcast
Speaker 1: things for you. So I'll just do it, put it
Speaker 1: straight in there.
Speaker 2: It was really helpful though, so thank you.
Speaker 1: That's all right.
Speaker 3: Yeah, time Tree is great, and it's great like when
Speaker 3: you do want to be sharing calendars with people, everyone's
Speaker 3: color coded so you don't get mixed up, and you know,
Speaker 3: it's a great way.
Speaker 1: Yeah. So that's my recommendation.
Speaker 2: I'm going to try and get Michael onto it. That's
Speaker 2: my gu.
Speaker 1: In the same one. So I'm going to say, what
Speaker 1: you and Michael are doing?
Speaker 3: No, can I add him in his own one and
Speaker 3: then we'll share.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, definitely do that, but then you'll have to
Speaker 1: add them to two unless you take over that one.
Speaker 2: Look, it's an ever growing process. Hello, you've reached Anna
Speaker 2: and Matt.
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Speaker 2: Please leave us a message on our hotline after the beep.
Speaker 2: Okay Matt.
Speaker 3: Earlier this week on our Instagram and Facebook page, we
Speaker 3: asked our audience to send us their crazy ex stories.
Speaker 3: Thank you so much to everyone who wrote in. We
Speaker 3: got some insane stories right.
Speaker 1: Mm hmm, I haven't heard any of them. Buddy, our
Speaker 1: producer Alex, who goes through and told us there's some
Speaker 1: fucking wild ones in there and to get ready buckle up. Okay,
Speaker 1: so this first one we've got comes from Steph.
Speaker 3: Okay, this is the first time we're hearing this guy.
Speaker 3: This is our honest reaction.
Speaker 5: So I was saying this guy for about a year,
Speaker 5: and within three months he moved in with me. Fast
Speaker 5: forward eight months. He was talking about marriage, kids, making
Speaker 5: a life together. So we decided to buy the house
Speaker 5: that we're living in. We went to the account and
Speaker 5: got all the people work, sorted all the finances in order,
Speaker 5: and I was just really unhappy and I put it
Speaker 5: down to work. So he was like, why didn't you
Speaker 5: quit your job? I will support you. You go study,
Speaker 5: make a career. So I ended up quitting my job
Speaker 5: of eight years and enrolled in a nursing course that
Speaker 5: I had wanted to do for a long time. On
Speaker 5: my first week of studying, he went to work one
Speaker 5: day as if everything was normal and just never returned.
Speaker 5: So he left me financially screwed. I had just started
Speaker 5: a new course. If it wasn't for my family, I
Speaker 5: don't know where i'd be today. Still two years on
Speaker 5: and I haven't heard a single word from him, No closure,
Speaker 5: no explanation of what happened. Nothing Like took ghosting to
Speaker 5: a whole new level.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, did did he die?
Speaker 2: That's wild?
Speaker 3: I mean when I first started hearing that story, I
Speaker 3: was thinking, this is like me and that to a t,
Speaker 3: Like things are moving quick.
Speaker 2: He's moving into.
Speaker 3: Three months, like they're looking at finances eight months in
Speaker 3: to buy the house. But why go to that much
Speaker 3: effort and then ghost like that?
Speaker 1: I was, Yeah, I was like, this guy's moving quickly.
Speaker 1: He sounds like he's caene Like this scene isn't being Yeah,
Speaker 1: this is cute, Like this sounds This doesn't sound like
Speaker 1: a horror story. This sounds like a really nice story.
Speaker 1: I just where is he? What's he doing? How is
Speaker 1: she not heard from him? For two?
Speaker 3: We need to get a private detective on this guy,
Speaker 3: Like you know what, Like this sounds crazy, but I
Speaker 3: actually looked out how much private detective costs recently for
Speaker 3: a friend's boyfriend, and.
Speaker 2: Look, they're not that expensive. It's about sixteen hundred dollars
Speaker 2: for a little search out.
Speaker 3: Maybe we can maybe put like a little kiddy together.
Speaker 3: We need to go fund me to find this guy.
Speaker 3: He must have like a family or a girlfriend, like
Speaker 3: a secret like wife or something.
Speaker 1: Well, when you're eight months, you're eight months into knowing someone,
Speaker 1: you've fully met their friends or family. Let's be realistic.
Speaker 2: Sure, yeah, like.
Speaker 1: Him on Facebook, social media?
Speaker 2: Like maybe he's just gone like ghosts on all of it.
Speaker 3: Maybe he didn't have a lot of friends and family,
Speaker 3: Like maybe he didn't. Maybe he was like from interstate,
Speaker 3: Like who knows.
Speaker 1: Okay, let's let's look at it again. What's he getting
Speaker 1: out of that?
Speaker 3: I Mean what I'm thinking is like maybe he was
Speaker 3: in a long distance relationship, he's moved overseas, he meets
Speaker 3: this girl, he's obsessed with her. Everything's like rose colored glasses,
Speaker 3: and he still has his long distance girlfriend in the background.
Speaker 3: And then he's like, fuck, I need to go back
Speaker 3: to her and just ghosts. I mean, unless he died,
Speaker 3: he's guilty. He's either dead or he's guilty, and I'm
Speaker 3: gonna go with guilty.
Speaker 1: Fuck I hope for our sake he's not dead.
Speaker 2: How do you get over that level of mental trauma?
Speaker 6: Though?
Speaker 3: Like I just when I think of like all of yeah,
Speaker 3: like when I think of all of my trust issues,
Speaker 3: and like I've been through a lot with guys, like
Speaker 3: I really have. But I mean we've been together with
Speaker 3: our partners for you just hit a year. I'm just
Speaker 3: a little bit over. I can't imagine Michael just like
Speaker 3: running and like imagine Jen just never hearing from Like
Speaker 3: I'm laughing because it's so shocking. I'm not laughing funny,
Speaker 3: just like just pack up.
Speaker 1: Look, that's wild. I feel sorry for Steff. That's someone
Speaker 1: like that. It's not everyone does that. That seems like
Speaker 1: a real sort of funck up.
Speaker 3: That's someone with like a lot of like mental health
Speaker 3: issues that needs a lot of help or like has
Speaker 3: extreme narcissism and just like you know, should.
Speaker 2: Probably be locked away some concerns.
Speaker 3: But it's such a blessing in disguise that this happened
Speaker 3: now and not in like five years, ten years.
Speaker 1: Gets out of it, Like, where's he getting off? All right?
Speaker 2: Sorry to hear that, ste Yeah, Steph, We're so sorry.
Speaker 1: Okay, So this one comes in from Louise and let's
Speaker 1: hear about her crazy X story.
Speaker 4: Hey a mat Nana, Madame Louise, and this is my
Speaker 4: crazy X story. So it's not my ex, it's actually
Speaker 4: the guy I was with. It was his ex, So
Speaker 4: it was this night, went over to his house, mind drew.
Speaker 4: His house is literally in the middle of nowhere in
Speaker 4: country Victoria. So we went over, hung out, had a
Speaker 4: few drinks. While this was happening, his ex was constantly
Speaker 4: ringing his phone, like blowing up his phone non stop.
Speaker 4: He picked up like the first time, told her to
Speaker 4: stop ringing, but she literally would not stop calling, texting
Speaker 4: the entire time, to the point where he actually had
Speaker 4: to turn his phone off so he stopped receiving like
Speaker 4: the phone calls. Anyway. We then moved into the bedroom
Speaker 4: where things got a little bit hot and heavy, as
Speaker 4: they do, and then we sort of went to sleep.
Speaker 4: Two thirty in the morning, I heard the backsliding door
Speaker 4: in the house open and I immediately knew it was her,
Speaker 4: so I like shook him awake, and as I did,
Speaker 4: she stormed into the bedroom. She was yelling and screaming,
Speaker 4: carrying on, like calling me a slut, just absolutely losing
Speaker 4: her mind anyway. So he's like trying to get her
Speaker 4: out of the bedroom. Mind you were completely butt naked
Speaker 4: in the bed, so he's like.
Speaker 2: She got physical with him.
Speaker 4: As he was like trying to get out the door
Speaker 4: and into the lound room, and then like all I
Speaker 4: could hear was screaming outside like calling me all these names,
Speaker 4: trying to figure out who I was.
Speaker 1: He was trying to get her to leave.
Speaker 4: She literally refused to leave, and this like went on
Speaker 4: like half an hour. I'm just laying there naked in
Speaker 4: bed anyway. So after about half an hour so he
Speaker 4: came back in and then told me I was actually
Speaker 4: the one that had to do So after all of this,
Speaker 4: it's about three point thirty in the morning, I had
Speaker 4: to pack up my shit get out of there. And
Speaker 4: drive home, which was so much fun. So yeah, that
Speaker 4: is my crazy X story.
Speaker 1: Imagine the walk of shame past and though.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I actually my heart is breaking for Luise.
Speaker 2: That is awful.
Speaker 1: I'm going to say it now, and I'm going to
Speaker 1: say it from the start. I don't think it was
Speaker 1: his X.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't think it was his ex. That was
Speaker 3: my first thought. It sounded like they were still very
Speaker 3: much together or seeing each other or break here.
Speaker 1: Yeah, something like that.
Speaker 2: Wow, why would he like men like that? Is just
Speaker 2: so annoying? Like number one, if this girl's blowing.
Speaker 3: Up his phone to that level, surely they're like still
Speaker 3: very much talking often, right.
Speaker 1: Yeah, So I one hundred percent think they're either broken up, yes,
Speaker 1: but they're still hanging out, they're still sleeping together, They're
Speaker 1: still he's still giving her the right to feel like
Speaker 1: she can do that, do you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Like he's still seeing her, he's still sleeping with her.
Speaker 1: Because if you're clean broken up and he's not feeding
Speaker 1: her stuff saying that we're gonna get back together or
Speaker 1: blah blah blah, she would not feel like she could
Speaker 1: rock up to his house like she's fucking Michael Miles, Like, what's.
Speaker 2: Just so stressful?
Speaker 3: Like imagine being Louise and literally like they've just had sex,
Speaker 3: like you know, they've gotten hot and heavy, great sex,
Speaker 3: go to sleep, and then this girl comes storming in.
Speaker 1: Like what would you do if you were Louise in
Speaker 1: bed and O girl came storming in?
Speaker 3: I mean I feel like when he's outside talking to
Speaker 3: her for thirty minutes, like I feel like that's all
Speaker 3: too much. It's either like get the fuck out or
Speaker 3: I'm going to call the police. And if you're not
Speaker 3: leaving immediately. But if I was Louise, I would just
Speaker 3: leave myself because I'd be like, if you're willing to
Speaker 3: chat to her for that long and even just like
Speaker 3: he's engaging with her for that long, like I feel
Speaker 3: like that's a red flag and I'd be like I'm out.
Speaker 1: Of there then asking Louise to leave.
Speaker 3: I mean, I was seeing a guy once and you
Speaker 3: were like he's still seeing his exuna, and you were right,
Speaker 3: So I feel like, unfortunately, I think that you are right. Again,
Speaker 3: I think it's not his ex but then again like
Speaker 3: from experience, well yeah, typical, maybe I know that. Think
Speaker 3: Also like I feel like like the other girl in
Speaker 3: that situation, she needs to, Like, I feel like the
Speaker 3: slut shaming thing is just it's not it Like, if
Speaker 3: you have a problem with him, he's the one in
Speaker 3: the wrong. Like Louise a single, she can do what
Speaker 3: she wants. If he's playing both of you, like, you
Speaker 3: need to direct that anger.
Speaker 1: I was about to say they should probably team up
Speaker 1: against him. He's the one who's playing or leading you
Speaker 1: both on and sleeping with you both if what we
Speaker 1: think is true, So they should probably talk to each other.
Speaker 2: Look, I'm just gonna put it out there.
Speaker 3: If someone's not answering my calls, no matter how much
Speaker 3: I'm blowing up their phone, I'm not rocking up to
Speaker 3: their house.
Speaker 2: I'm not rocking up to their house unless it's like
Speaker 2: a boyfriend. And I'm like, I'm gonna catch you cheating.
Speaker 1: You wouldn't rock up unless it was your boyfriend.
Speaker 2: Well, wow, it's just that story is just cooked. I'm
Speaker 2: stressed out.
Speaker 1: Well, when we put out a feeler saying crazy X stories,
Speaker 1: what do we think we're going to get?
Speaker 2: All?
Speaker 6: Right?
Speaker 1: So this one comes from Carly.
Speaker 6: Hi, Matt, and Anna. It's Carlie here, and this is
Speaker 6: my crazy X story. So I broke up with my ex,
Speaker 6: I started seeing somebody else. My ex found out about it.
Speaker 6: He rocked up to my house when I wasn't there,
Speaker 6: Thank goodness for that. He broke in, went onto my MacBook,
Speaker 6: took photos of private text messages between me and the
Speaker 6: new person that I was seeing.
Speaker 2: He said them to.
Speaker 6: My dad, my brother, his parents, ends, He showed all
Speaker 6: of his friends and some of our mutual friends as well.
Speaker 6: And when I got home, my MacBook was completely smashed,
Speaker 6: my TV was smashed, mirrors were smashed, and my bedroom
Speaker 6: door just was not even a door anymore.
Speaker 2: It was just completely shredded.
Speaker 6: So yeah, and then about a week later, the person
Speaker 6: that I was seeing was driving his car and his
Speaker 6: wheels fell off. So someone had actually cracked his nuts,
Speaker 6: like wheel nuts on his car. And it was just
Speaker 6: a little bit of a coincidence that all of that
Speaker 6: just kind of happened all at once. Him and his
Speaker 6: friends were also trying to add the person I was
Speaker 6: seeing on social media as well. So anyway, fun times.
Speaker 3: Wow, that's like that's where that's at a level where
Speaker 3: it's like that's like abuse.
Speaker 1: Well, he's broken the law, he's broken into your house. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's like E vandalized your stuff. That's a criminal offense.
Speaker 1: I don't get breaking mirrors. That's seven years bad luck
Speaker 1: on his behalf.
Speaker 2: I hope he gets every every year of that bad luck.
Speaker 2: He deserves it.
Speaker 3: I'm so glad that she's broken up with this guy,
Speaker 3: because he sounds like the most toxic piece of trash
Speaker 3: there is to go to that level. It's so it's
Speaker 3: such an intrusion of your personal space and for her
Speaker 3: feel like her own bedroom isn't a safe haven for her.
Speaker 3: And he's willing to go to such length to be
Speaker 3: sending like private messages. It's so toxic and narcissistic.
Speaker 1: I've had my heart broken by girls in the past, right, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I would never want to send people messages with their
Speaker 1: new partner, like private messages. Why would you want to
Speaker 1: read that? Why would you want to put he's trying
Speaker 1: to make her look bad. It's toxic at its highest, Like,
Speaker 1: I just can't run my head around why would you
Speaker 1: want to see messages with their new partner?
Speaker 3: Like it sounds to me like he has a complex
Speaker 3: where he believes that she is his property. So he's
Speaker 3: kind of like you are mine and I'm going to
Speaker 3: show everyone what you're like with this guy. And I
Speaker 3: think that he genuinely thinks that he is above her,
Speaker 3: And I think it's just such a to Like, just
Speaker 3: hearing it just gives me the chills because it's so
Speaker 3: like scary and toxic and thank god she's not with
Speaker 3: this guy and please never get back with him. And
Speaker 3: if anyone's experienced seeing someone who acts like that, like
Speaker 3: run because no one should emotionally abuse you, physically abuse you,
Speaker 3: make you feel like your space isn't a safe place.
Speaker 2: That's scary to be Clearly.
Speaker 1: He has anger issues and needs to get them figured out.
Speaker 1: Breaking a door? What about the directon was a coincidence
Speaker 1: that her new partner's wheels fell off?
Speaker 3: It's imagine if he died, that's manslaughter. Hyt, that's like serious,
Speaker 3: And I really hope she's put in a police report
Speaker 3: about that guy because it's not well behavior.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like there's a toxic X story.
Speaker 3: But then I feel like that's to a point where
Speaker 3: it's dangerous.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you need to file the police report or get
Speaker 1: the police involved. Well, you said breaking and entering and
Speaker 1: vandalizing property like that's just not on. Yeah, you've never
Speaker 1: been like that to do that.
Speaker 3: Like, I've done some crazy things before, like when I
Speaker 3: was missing my ex, Like I've driven past his house,
Speaker 3: but that's as far as it went. I wouldn't even
Speaker 3: look like even getting out of the car, Like I
Speaker 3: wouldn't even stop the car.
Speaker 2: It's just like little drive pass.
Speaker 1: We've all been there here. Yeah, but it's just fucked
Speaker 1: breaking into the house that scares me.
Speaker 3: And I feel like I just really hope that that
Speaker 3: behavior is given a serious root awakening, but hopefully the
Speaker 3: police being involved in that situation.
Speaker 2: Nah, far out hot one, but so hot and spicy.
Speaker 3: I didn't expect it to go that way, Yeah, neither
Speaker 3: did I.
Speaker 5: Look.
Speaker 1: I thought they were going to be a little bit
Speaker 1: more tame, a little bit more fun. But like I said,
Speaker 1: what happens when you put out a crazy X story,
Speaker 1: we should expect them to be crazy. Yeah, we thought
Speaker 1: we had crazy X as well. We just got showed
Speaker 1: up by our three listeners.
Speaker 3: But that's how we're doing this episode and this segment,
Speaker 3: and we want to make this a regular segment. So
Speaker 3: if you guys are liking this, please let us know,
Speaker 3: and hopefully this is a continuing episode because you guys
Speaker 3: send us so many issues and crazy stories that are
Speaker 3: going on in your life, and you know we love
Speaker 3: reacting to them, we love hearing them.
Speaker 1: We try to get to as many as we can,
Speaker 1: but obviously we can't, so we want to do it
Speaker 1: on here. So if our producer Alex reaches out to
Speaker 1: you and wants you to send a voice message, please
Speaker 1: be open to doing it. We can't wait to hear it,
Speaker 1: and I know everyone else will want to listen to
Speaker 1: it as well.
Speaker 3: Yeah, just a reminder to email your voice note to
Speaker 3: Where's your Head at pod at gmail dot com.
Speaker 2: Okay, Matt, I think that's all we have time for.
Speaker 1: Until next time.
Speaker 2: Bye bye.
Speaker 3: Considering the stories we've heard today, If you or someone
Speaker 3: you know it needs help in a domestic situation, check
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