1 00:00:02,240 --> 00:00:05,000 Speaker 1: With Kate Rickie podcast. 2 00:00:05,640 --> 00:00:08,000 Speaker 2: Welcome to the podcast, How's a Girl? I'm just on 3 00:00:08,039 --> 00:00:09,080 Speaker 2: me bern A phone? 4 00:00:09,400 --> 00:00:11,000 Speaker 1: Why are you talking like that? It did it give 5 00:00:11,000 --> 00:00:11,719 Speaker 1: you a sore throat? 6 00:00:11,840 --> 00:00:13,120 Speaker 3: It did it burn your throat? 7 00:00:13,520 --> 00:00:13,880 Speaker 2: It did? 8 00:00:14,960 --> 00:00:16,920 Speaker 4: I think I did so much yelling for my wife 9 00:00:16,920 --> 00:00:18,799 Speaker 4: to come back when she found my Berner phone, I 10 00:00:18,800 --> 00:00:19,159 Speaker 4: didn't know. 11 00:00:19,160 --> 00:00:19,599 Speaker 2: What to do. 12 00:00:20,040 --> 00:00:23,759 Speaker 3: It's full on today in the podcast, a made of 13 00:00:23,800 --> 00:00:27,360 Speaker 3: a mate in the friendship group has been done with 14 00:00:27,400 --> 00:00:31,320 Speaker 3: a Berna phone. Tried to say it's for work. Unfortunately though, 15 00:00:31,400 --> 00:00:35,239 Speaker 3: he has got a lot of female employees that he 16 00:00:35,320 --> 00:00:38,760 Speaker 3: must work with and is very close with. Because it 17 00:00:38,800 --> 00:00:41,920 Speaker 3: has blown up. The Berner phone has not just burned, 18 00:00:41,920 --> 00:00:45,040 Speaker 3: it's blown up in his face. So that's going to 19 00:00:45,080 --> 00:00:48,239 Speaker 3: be in the podcast. This is the Fitzian Whipper with 20 00:00:48,400 --> 00:00:51,000 Speaker 3: Cape Ritchie podcast. I tell you what. There's a fair 21 00:00:51,040 --> 00:00:53,920 Speaker 3: bit going on in the block at the moment because 22 00:00:55,200 --> 00:00:58,480 Speaker 3: Ricky Racard. Now Ricky's a pretty good looking bloke. He's 23 00:00:58,480 --> 00:01:01,000 Speaker 3: on there with the best mate of his and those boys. 24 00:01:01,040 --> 00:01:03,040 Speaker 3: I mean, they've got trade backgrounds, so they're going to 25 00:01:03,080 --> 00:01:05,560 Speaker 3: do really well on the show. But this is the thing, 26 00:01:05,920 --> 00:01:09,120 Speaker 3: oh no, because filming's already done we always speak to 27 00:01:09,160 --> 00:01:11,640 Speaker 3: Scottie Cam. They filmed this earlier and we're just watching 28 00:01:12,000 --> 00:01:14,560 Speaker 3: the end product now after it's all been edited up. 29 00:01:15,000 --> 00:01:18,080 Speaker 3: But I didn't know this before he's gone onto the block. 30 00:01:18,760 --> 00:01:20,720 Speaker 3: He has said to his girlfriend, this is going to 31 00:01:20,720 --> 00:01:23,280 Speaker 3: be tough, but I will be on there for I'll 32 00:01:23,280 --> 00:01:27,040 Speaker 3: be on there for three hours, three months, so you're 33 00:01:27,040 --> 00:01:28,960 Speaker 3: just going to have to wait for me. She said, Look, 34 00:01:29,000 --> 00:01:30,520 Speaker 3: this is going to be really hard for me. We're 35 00:01:30,520 --> 00:01:34,839 Speaker 3: going to have to do a long distance relationship. He said, well, 36 00:01:34,920 --> 00:01:37,400 Speaker 3: why don't I book us into Mexico when we get 37 00:01:37,440 --> 00:01:39,880 Speaker 3: out right, we can have a trip away you and I. 38 00:01:39,880 --> 00:01:42,480 Speaker 3: I'm going to be working so hard. I need to relax. 39 00:01:42,520 --> 00:01:44,880 Speaker 3: Hopefully we've won some money on the block and we 40 00:01:44,920 --> 00:01:45,840 Speaker 3: can go to Mexico. 41 00:01:46,000 --> 00:01:46,480 Speaker 2: Nice idea. 42 00:01:46,840 --> 00:01:49,920 Speaker 3: She goes, great, how about our Houseit your house, I 43 00:01:50,000 --> 00:01:52,960 Speaker 3: look after your dog. And he's got to trade himself, 44 00:01:53,000 --> 00:01:54,800 Speaker 3: and she said, you know what, I'll even help out 45 00:01:54,840 --> 00:01:57,280 Speaker 3: with your small business and I'll do a bit of 46 00:01:57,320 --> 00:02:00,080 Speaker 3: paperwork and help out with your trades that work on 47 00:02:00,160 --> 00:02:00,720 Speaker 3: your business. 48 00:02:00,760 --> 00:02:03,480 Speaker 1: He's very serious. How long do you know how long 49 00:02:03,520 --> 00:02:07,720 Speaker 1: they've been together before this, like before the training and 50 00:02:07,760 --> 00:02:10,360 Speaker 1: the going away for three months, like is it a 51 00:02:10,480 --> 00:02:13,120 Speaker 1: five year relationship or is it twelve months? 52 00:02:13,160 --> 00:02:16,919 Speaker 3: Or it doesn't say? I mean, she was in love 53 00:02:16,960 --> 00:02:20,280 Speaker 3: obviously with him. The thing is when he gets off 54 00:02:20,280 --> 00:02:23,600 Speaker 3: the block, she's like, well done, roth to Mexico. How 55 00:02:23,600 --> 00:02:28,680 Speaker 3: did you go? Unfortunately he's hooked up with the makeup 56 00:02:28,760 --> 00:02:29,840 Speaker 3: artist at Channel. 57 00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:36,639 Speaker 1: Well, how do we know this? Is that proven? 58 00:02:36,960 --> 00:02:41,800 Speaker 3: Because his girlfriend has done and you know that she's 59 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:44,400 Speaker 3: really going to a good sourceer. But she's gone to 60 00:02:44,440 --> 00:02:47,440 Speaker 3: the Mailey Dale to do an interview saying I was 61 00:02:47,480 --> 00:02:51,040 Speaker 3: absolutely blindsided. I spent three months looking after his dog 62 00:02:51,080 --> 00:02:54,320 Speaker 3: and his house. Yeah, helped out with his business, and 63 00:02:54,360 --> 00:02:57,360 Speaker 3: then I get out Soco And the worst thing about 64 00:02:57,360 --> 00:03:00,920 Speaker 3: it he is now he is like one hundred committed. 65 00:03:01,040 --> 00:03:04,119 Speaker 3: Now he's now putting up photos of his new girl 66 00:03:04,160 --> 00:03:05,120 Speaker 3: friend in the makeup. 67 00:03:05,680 --> 00:03:07,560 Speaker 1: They did he take her to Mexico? 68 00:03:07,960 --> 00:03:08,040 Speaker 5: No? 69 00:03:08,280 --> 00:03:10,360 Speaker 2: His faces never looked better. I mean. 70 00:03:10,400 --> 00:03:14,880 Speaker 3: The thing is that the makeup artist was married as well. 71 00:03:15,000 --> 00:03:15,800 Speaker 2: Oh my god. 72 00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:20,280 Speaker 3: But the ex husband, the estranged husband, Lucas Day, has 73 00:03:20,320 --> 00:03:24,200 Speaker 3: come out and said, look, our marriage had ended, right, 74 00:03:24,200 --> 00:03:28,480 Speaker 3: so I can confirm our marriage had ended, but only recently, 75 00:03:28,919 --> 00:03:30,600 Speaker 3: and so she can do what she wants. 76 00:03:31,160 --> 00:03:32,280 Speaker 2: She's what I'm trying to work out. 77 00:03:32,280 --> 00:03:34,320 Speaker 4: And Kate, you've sat in makeup chairs for a long time, 78 00:03:34,360 --> 00:03:35,960 Speaker 4: fixing up all of God's mistakes. 79 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:40,400 Speaker 3: But I'd love to know, rude, How do so rude? 80 00:03:40,840 --> 00:03:43,040 Speaker 2: How do we go from I'll put a little bit 81 00:03:43,040 --> 00:03:43,680 Speaker 2: of blush here. 82 00:03:43,760 --> 00:03:47,000 Speaker 4: Let's put some moisturizer on your face to shut up 83 00:03:47,040 --> 00:03:47,520 Speaker 4: and kiss me. 84 00:03:47,720 --> 00:03:47,880 Speaker 3: Well. 85 00:03:47,920 --> 00:03:52,560 Speaker 1: The thing is like your hairdresser, or your doctor, or 86 00:03:52,760 --> 00:03:56,240 Speaker 1: maybe your massuits in your average everyday life, a makeup 87 00:03:56,320 --> 00:04:00,400 Speaker 1: artist and the person in it they end up forming 88 00:04:00,480 --> 00:04:05,040 Speaker 1: quite an intimate relationship. A makeup artist can sometimes become 89 00:04:05,080 --> 00:04:07,920 Speaker 1: your therapist. They are the first person you see at 90 00:04:07,960 --> 00:04:11,440 Speaker 1: the beginning of the day. They make you feel cared for. 91 00:04:12,240 --> 00:04:16,599 Speaker 1: They attend to all day. During the day, they're faffing about, 92 00:04:16,960 --> 00:04:21,320 Speaker 1: and I mean that in a very nice way. You 93 00:04:21,320 --> 00:04:25,000 Speaker 1: know that they are there on hand to make you 94 00:04:25,120 --> 00:04:27,640 Speaker 1: look good and feel good. I mean, a makeup artist 95 00:04:27,720 --> 00:04:32,400 Speaker 1: is practically well, it's like your dancing partner on dancing 96 00:04:32,400 --> 00:04:33,040 Speaker 1: with the stuff. 97 00:04:33,080 --> 00:04:35,440 Speaker 3: So how many affairs have you had with Lili? That's 98 00:04:35,480 --> 00:04:40,360 Speaker 3: the question. No, But it's like a hairdress For some reason, 99 00:04:40,400 --> 00:04:42,839 Speaker 3: you feel you need to open up with the problems 100 00:04:42,839 --> 00:04:45,800 Speaker 3: that you have in your life, Kate, Well, maybe you know. 101 00:04:45,960 --> 00:04:47,560 Speaker 1: I mean, I know there were probably a lot of 102 00:04:47,920 --> 00:04:50,480 Speaker 1: I don't know how much makeup one of the tradees 103 00:04:50,600 --> 00:04:55,599 Speaker 1: gets on the block, but there is that intimate space, 104 00:04:56,400 --> 00:05:00,360 Speaker 1: you know, in a very masculine kind of environment. Maybe 105 00:05:00,400 --> 00:05:02,880 Speaker 1: I don't know who the makeup artist is, but maybe 106 00:05:02,920 --> 00:05:06,640 Speaker 1: that feminine was something that he was missing. I'm not 107 00:05:06,720 --> 00:05:07,839 Speaker 1: excusing the behavior. 108 00:05:08,440 --> 00:05:11,839 Speaker 3: He's probably sitting in the chair blown up about killer 109 00:05:11,920 --> 00:05:15,120 Speaker 3: Keith and Dan. Dan's come over and said, I'm bloody 110 00:05:15,120 --> 00:05:19,120 Speaker 3: out by five millimeters of this area here, and she's gone, 111 00:05:19,120 --> 00:05:21,400 Speaker 3: we'll sit down and I'll get rid of your wrinkles. 112 00:05:21,560 --> 00:05:22,200 Speaker 3: Next thing, you. 113 00:05:22,160 --> 00:05:28,960 Speaker 1: Know, maybe given her given him a little head massage 114 00:05:29,040 --> 00:05:29,800 Speaker 1: or a pan at all. 115 00:05:30,080 --> 00:05:32,839 Speaker 4: I'm excited to see Scotty Cam and Keith walk through 116 00:05:32,880 --> 00:05:36,320 Speaker 4: the final product that they've built. When they find a 117 00:05:36,400 --> 00:05:39,479 Speaker 4: small staircase it leads to a basement, he goes. 118 00:05:39,320 --> 00:05:43,400 Speaker 2: What's that for. I didn't expect that it's the makeup artist. 119 00:05:43,080 --> 00:05:48,720 Speaker 4: And I you'll see a mattress that's completely worn out. 120 00:05:48,760 --> 00:05:51,000 Speaker 1: It's a real pick in the guts, though, isn't it. 121 00:05:52,480 --> 00:05:55,279 Speaker 1: And I know lobe to comment on it, but I 122 00:05:55,320 --> 00:05:57,320 Speaker 1: do think that if you've been at home holding up 123 00:05:57,320 --> 00:05:59,640 Speaker 1: the ford and it happens to people all of the time. 124 00:06:00,160 --> 00:06:02,760 Speaker 1: I don't want to generalize, but women at home looking 125 00:06:02,760 --> 00:06:05,719 Speaker 1: after the children, allowing their man to go off and 126 00:06:05,800 --> 00:06:09,040 Speaker 1: go off and build their career and travel with work, 127 00:06:09,080 --> 00:06:11,039 Speaker 1: and then all of a sudden, whoops of daisies, he's 128 00:06:11,080 --> 00:06:12,599 Speaker 1: fallen over into Yeah. 129 00:06:13,600 --> 00:06:16,200 Speaker 2: He's dripped on the doorway pants. 130 00:06:17,200 --> 00:06:19,000 Speaker 1: Do you know what I mean? It's like, that's the 131 00:06:19,080 --> 00:06:19,840 Speaker 1: thanks you get. 132 00:06:20,240 --> 00:06:23,719 Speaker 3: Yes, this is just Ricky Ricard. That makes me think, Now, 133 00:06:23,800 --> 00:06:26,800 Speaker 3: I mean, Scotty Cam's been doing the show for how long? 134 00:06:27,160 --> 00:06:29,440 Speaker 3: God Killer Keith's been on there for a long time, 135 00:06:29,920 --> 00:06:37,480 Speaker 3: how many affairs of these guys saying sorry, Scotty, I 136 00:06:37,520 --> 00:06:43,239 Speaker 3: would not throw that out there at all, going going 137 00:06:43,360 --> 00:06:43,840 Speaker 3: gone in. 138 00:06:44,240 --> 00:06:46,000 Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, we need to move on. We're going 139 00:06:46,040 --> 00:06:47,080 Speaker 1: to be done for defamation. 140 00:06:47,279 --> 00:06:50,760 Speaker 2: This is the Fits and with Kate Richie podcast. 141 00:06:50,480 --> 00:06:53,159 Speaker 3: We've been talking about this quite a bit lately about 142 00:06:54,520 --> 00:06:57,360 Speaker 3: when you know someone in your friendship group who might 143 00:06:57,400 --> 00:07:01,400 Speaker 3: be quite promiscuous and doing the wrong thing. Well, you 144 00:07:01,440 --> 00:07:04,120 Speaker 3: know the conversation that we've been having that if it's 145 00:07:04,240 --> 00:07:09,400 Speaker 3: your friend, you usually are on their side, and you'll 146 00:07:09,520 --> 00:07:12,400 Speaker 3: say to them, look, we know what's going on, stop 147 00:07:12,520 --> 00:07:14,000 Speaker 3: doing it, or else we're going to have to tell 148 00:07:14,040 --> 00:07:17,040 Speaker 3: your partner. Or if it's the other way right, if 149 00:07:17,080 --> 00:07:19,400 Speaker 3: you know that their partner is doing it, you go 150 00:07:19,480 --> 00:07:21,920 Speaker 3: straight to your friend and you tell them straight up. 151 00:07:21,840 --> 00:07:23,760 Speaker 1: Well, if you want to get involved, not everyone does 152 00:07:23,840 --> 00:07:24,080 Speaker 1: do that. 153 00:07:24,240 --> 00:07:24,480 Speaker 6: Do that? 154 00:07:25,320 --> 00:07:29,080 Speaker 3: So okay, so this is this has happened within our friendship. 155 00:07:29,120 --> 00:07:29,360 Speaker 7: Grop. 156 00:07:31,120 --> 00:07:33,280 Speaker 3: Well, it's got to do with Berner phones. 157 00:07:35,200 --> 00:07:36,440 Speaker 2: So it was James. 158 00:07:37,680 --> 00:07:38,880 Speaker 3: So burner phone. 159 00:07:38,960 --> 00:07:41,400 Speaker 1: The definition of what a Berna phone is it's the 160 00:07:41,440 --> 00:07:46,480 Speaker 1: second it's your other phone, can just burn one day? 161 00:07:46,880 --> 00:07:50,200 Speaker 3: Is so pretty. This is a made of a mate 162 00:07:50,360 --> 00:07:55,120 Speaker 3: he has been. His wife has found an extra phone 163 00:07:55,200 --> 00:07:55,840 Speaker 3: in the house. 164 00:07:56,480 --> 00:07:57,760 Speaker 2: Where did BJ find it? 165 00:07:58,480 --> 00:08:03,920 Speaker 3: So he's like, She's like, okay, what's this phone got 166 00:08:03,960 --> 00:08:06,840 Speaker 3: to do with anything? He's freaked out instantly said it's 167 00:08:06,880 --> 00:08:10,200 Speaker 3: my work phone, because he does travel quite a bit 168 00:08:10,240 --> 00:08:15,040 Speaker 3: for work. She said, okay, well, before I presented this 169 00:08:15,120 --> 00:08:18,000 Speaker 3: burna phone to you, I've gone through this phone and 170 00:08:18,040 --> 00:08:20,280 Speaker 3: the only conversations that you're having in there are with 171 00:08:20,360 --> 00:08:24,680 Speaker 3: different women. I've also trapped where you've been for work 172 00:08:24,800 --> 00:08:28,120 Speaker 3: over the last month, and it seems to me that 173 00:08:28,280 --> 00:08:31,440 Speaker 3: you have a different woman in every place that you 174 00:08:31,640 --> 00:08:35,680 Speaker 3: visit for work. How are you getting out of this one? 175 00:08:36,480 --> 00:08:39,400 Speaker 3: Now it's getting to the point where he's like freaking out, 176 00:08:39,480 --> 00:08:41,960 Speaker 3: she said, I want to I want out? Oh done. 177 00:08:42,800 --> 00:08:46,080 Speaker 3: The friendship group have sort of known about this for 178 00:08:46,120 --> 00:08:48,120 Speaker 3: a while, and this is why I brought it up before. 179 00:08:48,240 --> 00:08:50,960 Speaker 3: Is that, like, what side do you take? Everyone knows 180 00:08:51,000 --> 00:08:54,319 Speaker 3: that he's been doing this for a while, and she's 181 00:08:54,400 --> 00:08:58,360 Speaker 3: the last to unfortunately find out. He's now gone. Well, 182 00:08:58,400 --> 00:09:01,120 Speaker 3: I've been booted out of the home. Can I come 183 00:09:01,160 --> 00:09:04,520 Speaker 3: and stay with you? Guys and now friends are going No, mate, Sorry, 184 00:09:04,520 --> 00:09:07,079 Speaker 3: we're going to have to side with your wife. Do 185 00:09:07,120 --> 00:09:07,560 Speaker 3: you know what? 186 00:09:07,679 --> 00:09:12,440 Speaker 4: I think the most important thing in this situation is 187 00:09:12,520 --> 00:09:14,800 Speaker 4: to know that something obviously led to that. 188 00:09:15,280 --> 00:09:18,080 Speaker 2: There's obviously a clear breakdown. So if it was made 189 00:09:18,080 --> 00:09:18,800 Speaker 2: of mind. 190 00:09:18,640 --> 00:09:22,080 Speaker 1: Hang on a second pound Yeah, so hang on. So 191 00:09:22,200 --> 00:09:23,280 Speaker 1: you're saying. 192 00:09:23,200 --> 00:09:24,559 Speaker 2: Something wrong with a relationship. 193 00:09:25,120 --> 00:09:27,680 Speaker 1: So there's a reason, there's a reason why he's done 194 00:09:29,480 --> 00:09:31,040 Speaker 1: for an extended period of time. 195 00:09:31,200 --> 00:09:35,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, if that was my mate, I would think to myself, Okay, 196 00:09:35,520 --> 00:09:36,920 Speaker 4: there's something's gone wrong. 197 00:09:37,000 --> 00:09:39,000 Speaker 1: It might be a reason, but it might be But 198 00:09:39,040 --> 00:09:42,000 Speaker 1: it might also just be a pattern of behavior. Possible, 199 00:09:42,000 --> 00:09:44,560 Speaker 1: it might be a bit characteristic of that person of 200 00:09:44,600 --> 00:09:45,400 Speaker 1: the individual. 201 00:09:45,520 --> 00:09:47,720 Speaker 4: So I would say, mate, you can stay at my place. 202 00:09:48,000 --> 00:09:49,880 Speaker 4: Let's have a chat about what's happened to here, because 203 00:09:49,920 --> 00:09:52,920 Speaker 4: there's something's gone wrong because you were completely in love 204 00:09:52,960 --> 00:09:54,520 Speaker 4: with your wife and she was in love with you, 205 00:09:54,800 --> 00:09:56,360 Speaker 4: So how have you led to this behavior? 206 00:09:59,080 --> 00:10:01,199 Speaker 1: I actually think that's for considerate of you, but I 207 00:10:02,200 --> 00:10:04,000 Speaker 1: also think that it can. 208 00:10:04,160 --> 00:10:05,920 Speaker 2: It's not all a dog's case. 209 00:10:06,000 --> 00:10:08,320 Speaker 1: I'm not saying that, but what I am saying is 210 00:10:08,360 --> 00:10:11,480 Speaker 1: that this conversation could be airring on the side of 211 00:10:12,600 --> 00:10:15,839 Speaker 1: trying to find a reason to blame her for his behavior. 212 00:10:16,280 --> 00:10:20,840 Speaker 3: There's no cheating, and you can't say that there's been 213 00:10:20,880 --> 00:10:24,520 Speaker 3: a relationship problem for you to go and cheat. But 214 00:10:24,600 --> 00:10:25,640 Speaker 3: there's never an exclusion. 215 00:10:25,640 --> 00:10:26,439 Speaker 1: There might be a reason. 216 00:10:26,440 --> 00:10:27,640 Speaker 2: It might be a reason. 217 00:10:29,080 --> 00:10:32,679 Speaker 3: Right for why he was doing it. Which does that 218 00:10:32,880 --> 00:10:34,160 Speaker 3: help with the. 219 00:10:34,280 --> 00:10:36,000 Speaker 1: No, it doesn't help me out. 220 00:10:36,160 --> 00:10:39,079 Speaker 4: It doesn't, But at least it might be a conversation 221 00:10:39,200 --> 00:10:41,760 Speaker 4: worth having with your mate instead of you can't stay here. 222 00:10:42,000 --> 00:10:46,560 Speaker 1: Oh No. A human side to this, absolutely, he is 223 00:10:46,600 --> 00:10:48,920 Speaker 1: also a person going through something. 224 00:10:48,760 --> 00:10:51,480 Speaker 4: And you know what, you might sit down with him 225 00:10:51,840 --> 00:10:54,600 Speaker 4: and say what's going on here, buddy? And he says, well, 226 00:10:54,960 --> 00:10:56,880 Speaker 4: I found out she was seeing a guy three years 227 00:10:56,920 --> 00:10:58,240 Speaker 4: ago and I haven't been able to let it go. 228 00:10:58,400 --> 00:10:59,800 Speaker 2: So it was her fault. 229 00:11:00,760 --> 00:11:03,920 Speaker 3: I've always, I've always. You've got to be wary of 230 00:11:04,000 --> 00:11:08,120 Speaker 3: someone with an extra phone thirteen twenty four, ten Burner phones, 231 00:11:08,280 --> 00:11:11,679 Speaker 3: people who walk around with extra phones. Look, I don't 232 00:11:11,720 --> 00:11:15,040 Speaker 3: care technology these days. You don't need two phones. I can't. 233 00:11:16,040 --> 00:11:18,160 Speaker 3: You don't need a work phone and you don't need 234 00:11:18,200 --> 00:11:23,479 Speaker 3: a personal phone. Oh, some people Do's got one legitimate 235 00:11:23,559 --> 00:11:25,679 Speaker 3: reason someone might have a second phone. 236 00:11:25,720 --> 00:11:28,240 Speaker 1: I know a tray. I know someone works has a trade. 237 00:11:28,480 --> 00:11:31,320 Speaker 1: Is work since is a trade, and they have a 238 00:11:31,360 --> 00:11:34,199 Speaker 1: second phone, and so on the weekend, they just don't 239 00:11:34,200 --> 00:11:36,320 Speaker 1: have that phone on it all, so that when they're 240 00:11:36,360 --> 00:11:38,240 Speaker 1: out and about on a weekend, it's just their personal 241 00:11:38,280 --> 00:11:41,720 Speaker 1: phone and they're not not bothered by work calls. 242 00:11:42,480 --> 00:11:45,560 Speaker 3: When Whipper's right, there's technology now that you can on 243 00:11:45,600 --> 00:11:48,360 Speaker 3: the weekend you can silence certain things if you want. 244 00:11:48,480 --> 00:11:51,080 Speaker 3: If you don't want to answer your phone, just put 245 00:11:51,080 --> 00:11:52,000 Speaker 3: it on silent. 246 00:11:52,160 --> 00:11:54,160 Speaker 1: No, but you're always thinking about. 247 00:11:53,840 --> 00:11:56,199 Speaker 2: It, Chard Wilkins, Why do you have three blackberries? 248 00:11:57,600 --> 00:12:00,439 Speaker 3: Do He used to have fucking which was quite funny 249 00:12:00,480 --> 00:12:03,600 Speaker 3: as well because Dicky had a BlackBerry and they have 250 00:12:03,800 --> 00:12:07,560 Speaker 3: the smallest keypad in the world, and he had a 251 00:12:07,640 --> 00:12:10,960 Speaker 3: sight problem. So to watch Dickie trying to do a 252 00:12:11,040 --> 00:12:13,480 Speaker 3: text sassage to someone, it was take eight minutes. 253 00:12:13,520 --> 00:12:16,960 Speaker 1: And yeah, also the biggest fingers in the bush, like a. 254 00:12:17,000 --> 00:12:20,000 Speaker 4: Bripewor five of them stuck on an end of a stump, 255 00:12:20,840 --> 00:12:21,600 Speaker 4: huge stringers. 256 00:12:22,080 --> 00:12:25,040 Speaker 3: It must be a horrible feeling though, when you are 257 00:12:25,080 --> 00:12:28,160 Speaker 3: in a relationship with someone and you find an extra phone, 258 00:12:29,679 --> 00:12:32,719 Speaker 3: because then your first thought is do I go through it? 259 00:12:33,040 --> 00:12:35,760 Speaker 3: Do I confront them? Do I what do I do? 260 00:12:36,120 --> 00:12:37,880 Speaker 1: How do I open this can of worms? 261 00:12:38,000 --> 00:12:42,640 Speaker 3: Amy and Campbelltown, you dated someone they had an extra phone, Amy, 262 00:12:42,640 --> 00:12:43,520 Speaker 3: How did you find it? 263 00:12:45,679 --> 00:12:49,680 Speaker 8: He was sleeping one night and I kept hearing this 264 00:12:49,800 --> 00:12:53,240 Speaker 8: vibrating and then I like searched around and found it. 265 00:12:53,320 --> 00:12:56,120 Speaker 8: And that's how I found out everything on the other phone. 266 00:12:57,520 --> 00:13:00,760 Speaker 3: Like to what point, Amy? Like, can I ask how 267 00:13:00,760 --> 00:13:04,000 Speaker 3: many girls he had on the side or a lot? 268 00:13:04,200 --> 00:13:07,319 Speaker 8: But he was actually married, so he'd been married for over. 269 00:13:07,200 --> 00:13:10,800 Speaker 3: Ten years and you didn't know this, Amy, No, the. 270 00:13:10,760 --> 00:13:13,960 Speaker 9: Other lady had no idea she didn't know you existed. 271 00:13:14,000 --> 00:13:15,760 Speaker 2: You didn't know she existed. 272 00:13:15,840 --> 00:13:19,880 Speaker 3: That's right, Oh my god, that's wild. How did you 273 00:13:20,000 --> 00:13:23,240 Speaker 3: confront him? Amy? There's no way you could have laid 274 00:13:23,360 --> 00:13:26,719 Speaker 3: next to him again after finding that, Like, how did 275 00:13:26,760 --> 00:13:28,160 Speaker 3: you confront him with it? 276 00:13:29,240 --> 00:13:34,280 Speaker 8: Actually? I didn't. I went around to his I knew 277 00:13:34,280 --> 00:13:37,240 Speaker 8: where he lived, so me and a couple of friends 278 00:13:37,400 --> 00:13:40,240 Speaker 8: went there late at night and went to the mailbox 279 00:13:40,480 --> 00:13:45,120 Speaker 8: and we found his wife's name onto mail. Yeah, and 280 00:13:45,160 --> 00:13:47,480 Speaker 8: then yeah, I got in contact with her, and then 281 00:13:47,480 --> 00:13:49,080 Speaker 8: I actually didn't hear from him again. 282 00:13:49,559 --> 00:13:51,920 Speaker 4: Amy, talk us through the moment. You did you ring her? 283 00:13:52,080 --> 00:13:53,480 Speaker 4: Or how did you get in contact with her? 284 00:13:54,440 --> 00:13:57,359 Speaker 8: I did? I rang her? And she was in disbelief, 285 00:13:58,000 --> 00:13:59,240 Speaker 8: And how did. 286 00:13:59,080 --> 00:14:00,760 Speaker 2: You open the call? What did you say? 287 00:14:03,000 --> 00:14:05,079 Speaker 8: I let her know who I was and what had 288 00:14:05,080 --> 00:14:07,800 Speaker 8: been happening, and she was, just as I said, in 289 00:14:07,920 --> 00:14:11,000 Speaker 8: total disbelief for a while. She's ended up sending me 290 00:14:11,080 --> 00:14:14,480 Speaker 8: a text I think later on that week and let 291 00:14:14,480 --> 00:14:17,160 Speaker 8: me know that she'd found other girls as well. 292 00:14:22,520 --> 00:14:23,680 Speaker 2: He didn't murn it early enough. 293 00:14:26,720 --> 00:14:30,760 Speaker 3: Friend Penrith Mail knows a lot about a burner phone. 294 00:14:30,840 --> 00:14:34,320 Speaker 3: Tell us about it, melod. 295 00:14:33,000 --> 00:14:34,960 Speaker 6: Morning, guys. 296 00:14:35,480 --> 00:14:39,720 Speaker 7: Yeah, I found out that my partner of seven years 297 00:14:39,880 --> 00:14:42,720 Speaker 7: was using his work phone as a burner phone, and 298 00:14:43,480 --> 00:14:46,360 Speaker 7: you know, typical trade calls a lot of builders. But 299 00:14:46,440 --> 00:14:49,280 Speaker 7: I thought, oh, you're calling this Bilburn and awful lot. 300 00:14:49,360 --> 00:14:52,760 Speaker 7: It just didn't seem right. So went on his Google 301 00:14:52,880 --> 00:14:56,440 Speaker 7: timeline and could see every single time that he was 302 00:14:56,480 --> 00:14:59,600 Speaker 7: at a certain address, and I knew whose address it was. 303 00:15:00,720 --> 00:15:03,280 Speaker 7: I didn't really know her, but I knew of her. 304 00:15:03,840 --> 00:15:08,880 Speaker 7: So for the last two years of our seven year relationship, 305 00:15:09,640 --> 00:15:13,280 Speaker 7: he was leaving work early, you know, not picking up 306 00:15:13,280 --> 00:15:19,200 Speaker 7: our son on time from daycare. And then proceeded to 307 00:15:19,280 --> 00:15:23,400 Speaker 7: tell me that, oh, it was nothing physical. And I'm thinking, buddy, 308 00:15:23,440 --> 00:15:25,800 Speaker 7: you don't go to someone's house at three am for 309 00:15:25,920 --> 00:15:26,400 Speaker 7: a chat. 310 00:15:26,920 --> 00:15:29,359 Speaker 10: Oh no, you quite. 311 00:15:29,320 --> 00:15:32,520 Speaker 2: Right what happened? Mel? 312 00:15:33,000 --> 00:15:36,240 Speaker 7: So I was like, you know, loved him that much, 313 00:15:36,240 --> 00:15:37,680 Speaker 7: but I was like, you know, we can fix this, 314 00:15:37,840 --> 00:15:41,320 Speaker 7: let's go to counseling. And he's like, nup, can't do it. 315 00:15:41,560 --> 00:15:43,960 Speaker 7: And that was it. Seven years of my life down 316 00:15:44,000 --> 00:15:44,360 Speaker 7: the drain. 317 00:15:44,720 --> 00:15:46,200 Speaker 1: And how old is your son? Mel? 318 00:15:47,080 --> 00:15:48,480 Speaker 8: He is six years old? 319 00:15:49,880 --> 00:15:52,920 Speaker 7: Ever since he was you know able? 320 00:15:53,520 --> 00:15:56,120 Speaker 2: And then Mel, what is is he with the other girl? 321 00:15:56,120 --> 00:15:56,320 Speaker 11: Now? 322 00:15:57,560 --> 00:15:59,520 Speaker 7: I have no idea, like I don't speak to him 323 00:15:59,560 --> 00:16:01,920 Speaker 7: at all. I think for women out there as a 324 00:16:02,040 --> 00:16:04,880 Speaker 7: mental health thing, if you think that someone is toxic 325 00:16:04,960 --> 00:16:06,480 Speaker 7: for you, just don't do it. 326 00:16:06,680 --> 00:16:07,200 Speaker 9: Don't do it. 327 00:16:08,600 --> 00:16:11,040 Speaker 1: Thank you for sharing great words of advice. Mel You 328 00:16:11,120 --> 00:16:13,400 Speaker 1: look after yourself and your beautiful son. 329 00:16:14,080 --> 00:16:19,560 Speaker 3: Fee Enrichmond used to supply people with Berna Fine's fee. 330 00:16:20,040 --> 00:16:20,960 Speaker 8: Yeah. 331 00:16:21,080 --> 00:16:25,280 Speaker 6: I worked at a dating agency where, you know, you'd 332 00:16:25,280 --> 00:16:29,280 Speaker 6: have all types of people kind of pull through and 333 00:16:29,440 --> 00:16:33,280 Speaker 6: some of them were in relationships, and those who that 334 00:16:33,680 --> 00:16:37,880 Speaker 6: were in relationships, we would supply additional SIM card so 335 00:16:37,920 --> 00:16:41,920 Speaker 6: that they would only use that SIM card for meeting 336 00:16:42,000 --> 00:16:43,360 Speaker 6: up with specific people. 337 00:16:43,600 --> 00:16:49,480 Speaker 3: Or how did you feel about doing that personally? 338 00:16:49,560 --> 00:16:53,760 Speaker 6: I personally did more of the admin side of things, 339 00:16:53,800 --> 00:16:57,440 Speaker 6: where I would pre screen them and if they were 340 00:16:57,480 --> 00:17:00,960 Speaker 6: with like if they were in a relationship, personally passed 341 00:17:01,000 --> 00:17:05,760 Speaker 6: them on to another colleague of mine because morally I 342 00:17:05,800 --> 00:17:10,840 Speaker 6: couldn't handle that. But my colleagues she loved it. She 343 00:17:11,920 --> 00:17:15,440 Speaker 6: thought it was fantastic. Would kind of, you know, use 344 00:17:15,800 --> 00:17:19,520 Speaker 6: use her looks and personality to also benefit from it 345 00:17:19,560 --> 00:17:19,960 Speaker 6: as well? 346 00:17:20,040 --> 00:17:23,720 Speaker 1: Okay, I was just wondering, how many people do you 347 00:17:23,760 --> 00:17:27,399 Speaker 1: think out there who use these dating you know, like 348 00:17:27,440 --> 00:17:31,320 Speaker 1: the facilities that you were providing. How many people are 349 00:17:31,359 --> 00:17:34,639 Speaker 1: in a relationship, like, is it quite a high percentage? 350 00:17:34,920 --> 00:17:37,720 Speaker 6: Yeah? I would probably say about seventy percent of them, 351 00:17:38,320 --> 00:17:39,040 Speaker 6: of course. True. 352 00:17:39,400 --> 00:17:42,040 Speaker 2: See any women, the women have burner phones. 353 00:17:42,040 --> 00:17:43,520 Speaker 1: We've got calls from one percent. 354 00:17:44,600 --> 00:17:47,919 Speaker 6: We had women call up and say, look, I'll be 355 00:17:48,000 --> 00:17:51,119 Speaker 6: in this certain area at this certain time if you 356 00:17:51,119 --> 00:17:55,720 Speaker 6: can give me as many numbers of possible, you know, 357 00:17:55,760 --> 00:17:58,840 Speaker 6: and they would hire the most expensive room and our 358 00:17:58,960 --> 00:18:01,200 Speaker 6: behalf the room fee from from the men. 359 00:18:02,280 --> 00:18:07,080 Speaker 3: Well, so you did it. By the sounds of it, 360 00:18:07,080 --> 00:18:09,640 Speaker 3: it challenged you morally, Like you said, did it get 361 00:18:09,640 --> 00:18:13,160 Speaker 3: to a point where you couldn't do it anymore? 362 00:18:14,560 --> 00:18:17,080 Speaker 6: You know? I knew, you know, leads to bad karma 363 00:18:17,200 --> 00:18:19,560 Speaker 6: and things like that, and I just felt like it 364 00:18:19,600 --> 00:18:21,440 Speaker 6: was just a very dodgy industry. 365 00:18:21,880 --> 00:18:24,520 Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, Okay, we'll keep your calls coming. Tommy's 366 00:18:24,520 --> 00:18:27,080 Speaker 4: got an ex girlfriend, Charlotte from West pennint. 367 00:18:26,880 --> 00:18:32,240 Speaker 3: Hills, Tommy Tommy. Idea just popped into my head. What 368 00:18:33,520 --> 00:18:38,800 Speaker 3: Dantian ripper with Kate Richie bernafide their own merchandise branded. 369 00:18:39,080 --> 00:18:40,840 Speaker 1: I'm not I don't want my name on that. You 370 00:18:40,840 --> 00:18:42,600 Speaker 1: don't have my name on any of the other merch 371 00:18:42,680 --> 00:18:44,359 Speaker 1: don't start putting it on the Berner. 372 00:18:44,160 --> 00:18:46,120 Speaker 2: Fine the budget smugglers. 373 00:18:46,200 --> 00:18:49,679 Speaker 3: You could use us as the excuse. No, this is 374 00:18:49,800 --> 00:18:51,240 Speaker 3: just a it's a prom. 375 00:18:52,840 --> 00:18:54,560 Speaker 1: I can only call thirteen twenty four. 376 00:18:54,480 --> 00:18:58,879 Speaker 3: Ten Sarah in Mona Val who was bustard with the bernafhone. 377 00:18:58,960 --> 00:19:05,080 Speaker 12: Sir guys, I actually have a story from my husband's family. 378 00:19:06,200 --> 00:19:09,560 Speaker 12: My father in law bought him his first phone about 379 00:19:09,560 --> 00:19:13,560 Speaker 12: fifteen years old, and every now and then he wanted 380 00:19:13,600 --> 00:19:16,600 Speaker 12: to use it. And then my husband a couple of 381 00:19:16,680 --> 00:19:19,719 Speaker 12: years went by and he worked out that he was 382 00:19:19,760 --> 00:19:23,160 Speaker 12: regularly using his phone to talk to other women. Dad 383 00:19:23,240 --> 00:19:26,679 Speaker 12: and my parent, my father in Lauren was married for 384 00:19:26,720 --> 00:19:30,720 Speaker 12: twenty years at a time and it did come to 385 00:19:30,760 --> 00:19:32,960 Speaker 12: her head when one of the women were a long 386 00:19:33,040 --> 00:19:36,280 Speaker 12: term relationship. It was multiple women, but the last one 387 00:19:36,320 --> 00:19:38,800 Speaker 12: was a long term She had a burner phone because 388 00:19:38,840 --> 00:19:41,720 Speaker 12: she was married, and it all. 389 00:19:41,560 --> 00:19:44,040 Speaker 8: Just came to a head getting burned. 390 00:19:44,560 --> 00:19:46,760 Speaker 12: Yeah, the husband from the from the. 391 00:19:47,040 --> 00:19:48,800 Speaker 1: On the other side, he came forward. 392 00:19:49,280 --> 00:19:52,399 Speaker 4: So they were a better way than carrying another phone. 393 00:19:53,000 --> 00:19:54,040 Speaker 2: Well made a pager. 394 00:19:55,200 --> 00:19:56,840 Speaker 1: So is that what you're taking out of this? How 395 00:19:56,840 --> 00:19:59,960 Speaker 1: can we make this better? Can we achieve our God 396 00:20:00,760 --> 00:20:03,679 Speaker 1: in some extreamline simple? 397 00:20:04,160 --> 00:20:07,720 Speaker 3: What about though, and how would you feel if you 398 00:20:08,320 --> 00:20:11,880 Speaker 3: gave someone a phone as a president? You found out 399 00:20:12,000 --> 00:20:20,119 Speaker 3: later though using it to check dad this mate brand 400 00:20:20,160 --> 00:20:22,480 Speaker 3: new phone technology. You get a bit of data on 401 00:20:22,520 --> 00:20:25,840 Speaker 3: their joy. You can speak to mom, text her all 402 00:20:25,880 --> 00:20:28,960 Speaker 3: the time. He's straight on there talking to other women. 403 00:20:29,280 --> 00:20:30,200 Speaker 3: What is going on? 404 00:20:30,560 --> 00:20:33,159 Speaker 4: Let's talk to Charlotte in West Pennant Hills. Here's the 405 00:20:33,200 --> 00:20:35,040 Speaker 4: story we've been waiting for Charlotte. 406 00:20:35,080 --> 00:20:37,240 Speaker 2: What happened good morning? 407 00:20:38,960 --> 00:20:41,439 Speaker 9: I had dropped my phone, or broke my phone or 408 00:20:41,440 --> 00:20:44,760 Speaker 9: lost my phone, and I asked my family who had 409 00:20:44,800 --> 00:20:48,160 Speaker 9: a spare phone. My sister in law had said, oh, 410 00:20:48,200 --> 00:20:50,520 Speaker 9: I've got a spare phone on that you have this phone. 411 00:20:50,720 --> 00:20:55,439 Speaker 9: So she gave me the phone willingly. And so the 412 00:20:55,480 --> 00:20:58,119 Speaker 9: next day I popped my SIM card in or opened 413 00:20:58,160 --> 00:21:00,920 Speaker 9: up the phone, and the first message, you know those 414 00:21:01,000 --> 00:21:03,240 Speaker 9: old phones, that it came up with a message. At 415 00:21:03,280 --> 00:21:09,280 Speaker 9: first mine said good morning, hers said I love Cox 416 00:21:10,280 --> 00:21:14,240 Speaker 9: And that was the first wow moment. And then I 417 00:21:14,320 --> 00:21:16,800 Speaker 9: kept looking through this phone because it was still messages. 418 00:21:17,200 --> 00:21:19,600 Speaker 9: So I had to look through and there were messages 419 00:21:19,600 --> 00:21:23,400 Speaker 9: in there from maybe up to five different men. So 420 00:21:23,640 --> 00:21:26,840 Speaker 9: having a look through there, reading all the messages, thinking, 421 00:21:26,920 --> 00:21:29,560 Speaker 9: oh my gosh, this woman is married to my brother. 422 00:21:31,240 --> 00:21:33,720 Speaker 1: What when I got. 423 00:21:33,680 --> 00:21:37,359 Speaker 5: Down to yeah, it gets worse. When I got down 424 00:21:37,400 --> 00:21:41,240 Speaker 5: to another message. I kept reading it, looked at the 425 00:21:41,280 --> 00:21:44,560 Speaker 5: phone number. It was my current partner, so. 426 00:21:46,600 --> 00:21:50,720 Speaker 2: What I know? And it gets and your husband. 427 00:21:52,760 --> 00:21:55,119 Speaker 9: It wasn't my husband, It was my partner, so we 428 00:21:55,119 --> 00:21:59,120 Speaker 9: weren't married. But the time in which she was talking 429 00:21:59,160 --> 00:22:02,560 Speaker 9: to him, and this was all happening my brother, her 430 00:22:02,680 --> 00:22:06,200 Speaker 9: husband was in hospital with cancer. 431 00:22:06,720 --> 00:22:08,359 Speaker 10: So oh just. 432 00:22:09,960 --> 00:22:12,720 Speaker 9: And so yeah, needless to say, she's now my ex 433 00:22:12,920 --> 00:22:13,680 Speaker 9: sister in law. 434 00:22:14,280 --> 00:22:16,800 Speaker 3: Charlotte, Charlotte. The other thing I have to ask is, well, 435 00:22:16,880 --> 00:22:19,040 Speaker 3: usually when you're hearing over a phone to somebody else, 436 00:22:19,080 --> 00:22:21,520 Speaker 3: she changed the sims, so she probably thought she's not 437 00:22:21,560 --> 00:22:24,320 Speaker 3: going to see any messages. But there's also was there 438 00:22:24,320 --> 00:22:27,760 Speaker 3: any photo Charlotte or was there anything in her photos? 439 00:22:27,800 --> 00:22:31,439 Speaker 9: And they were horrific, but it was. This was a 440 00:22:31,480 --> 00:22:34,400 Speaker 9: good fifteen twenty years ago now, so this is where 441 00:22:34,720 --> 00:22:36,680 Speaker 9: things stayed on the phone as well. 442 00:22:37,000 --> 00:22:39,440 Speaker 3: Yes, yes, my god, I would have thought. 443 00:22:39,280 --> 00:22:43,280 Speaker 9: That she would have deleted things, but everything was there. 444 00:22:43,560 --> 00:22:44,520 Speaker 9: It was horrific. 445 00:22:44,720 --> 00:22:46,679 Speaker 2: That is extraordinary. 446 00:22:46,680 --> 00:22:50,240 Speaker 9: What did you do. I, well, I have three people 447 00:22:50,320 --> 00:22:52,760 Speaker 9: to talk to, my sister in law, my brother, and 448 00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:57,080 Speaker 9: my partner. I started with my brother yep, and said, look, 449 00:22:57,520 --> 00:22:59,240 Speaker 9: this is what it is. And he's like, no, no, no, 450 00:22:59,320 --> 00:23:01,560 Speaker 9: that's not her. Fust I've never seen this phone before, 451 00:23:01,720 --> 00:23:04,399 Speaker 9: and I had to explain that she gave me the phone. 452 00:23:04,440 --> 00:23:06,560 Speaker 9: You saw her give me the phone. 453 00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:08,119 Speaker 6: Phone she gave me. 454 00:23:08,440 --> 00:23:10,399 Speaker 9: There's no way I could have made that up because 455 00:23:10,400 --> 00:23:13,879 Speaker 9: it's it's in part in the past, so it's not 456 00:23:13,960 --> 00:23:17,399 Speaker 9: like I could mess each other people. Yeah, it was 457 00:23:17,560 --> 00:23:22,639 Speaker 9: she more, but this is true. 458 00:23:22,720 --> 00:23:24,440 Speaker 1: Who did you speak to you next? When? Then? Then 459 00:23:24,480 --> 00:23:26,600 Speaker 1: you and your brother? Who did you go to the 460 00:23:26,680 --> 00:23:27,960 Speaker 1: why part? 461 00:23:28,600 --> 00:23:30,600 Speaker 9: I went to my partner first because I was like, 462 00:23:30,920 --> 00:23:34,200 Speaker 9: you're not You're not getting away from this, You're not escaping. 463 00:23:34,280 --> 00:23:37,440 Speaker 9: This is no way, so needless to stay the next 464 00:23:37,480 --> 00:23:39,879 Speaker 9: partner as well, So that's great, And then it was 465 00:23:39,960 --> 00:23:41,560 Speaker 9: the sister in law. But I made sure I did 466 00:23:41,600 --> 00:23:45,440 Speaker 9: that in front of the whole family, while my partner 467 00:23:45,800 --> 00:23:49,280 Speaker 9: and my brother's wife were there and my whole family, 468 00:23:49,400 --> 00:23:56,240 Speaker 9: just so everyone understood the situation. Yeah. Absolutely, Yeah, was 469 00:23:56,240 --> 00:23:56,680 Speaker 9: it dinner? 470 00:23:56,800 --> 00:23:57,879 Speaker 1: I want to know all of this? 471 00:23:59,000 --> 00:24:02,040 Speaker 9: Well, they didn't they actually did not understand how this 472 00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:06,840 Speaker 9: was possible. It was just it was you couldn't even 473 00:24:06,880 --> 00:24:07,760 Speaker 9: write that script. 474 00:24:08,040 --> 00:24:12,359 Speaker 3: There's a television show in it, without a doubt. But absolutely, 475 00:24:12,760 --> 00:24:16,040 Speaker 3: I just can't believe that someone could be that dumb 476 00:24:16,119 --> 00:24:20,800 Speaker 3: Charlotte to pass over a phone knowing what she's done 477 00:24:20,840 --> 00:24:23,040 Speaker 3: with that. But she she just probably would have thought 478 00:24:23,080 --> 00:24:25,520 Speaker 3: fifteen years ago, she would have thought, oh she would 479 00:24:25,560 --> 00:24:28,480 Speaker 3: just put her sim in there, and it's completely wipe 480 00:24:28,520 --> 00:24:29,639 Speaker 3: the memory of mine. 481 00:24:29,760 --> 00:24:34,959 Speaker 4: But did your brother and your partner know that they 482 00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:36,639 Speaker 4: were both seeing the same person? 483 00:24:38,080 --> 00:24:41,879 Speaker 9: Yes, so my partner did. Yeah, yeah, yeah, but they 484 00:24:41,920 --> 00:24:46,240 Speaker 9: were together, my brother and yeah, his wife was My 485 00:24:46,280 --> 00:24:48,399 Speaker 9: brother and his wife were together before my partner and 486 00:24:48,480 --> 00:24:49,159 Speaker 9: I got together. 487 00:24:50,359 --> 00:24:54,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, so it was known. Was there any children? Did 488 00:24:54,160 --> 00:24:54,960 Speaker 1: they have children? 489 00:24:55,240 --> 00:25:00,520 Speaker 2: No, thank goodness, that was because your brother Okay, oh. 490 00:25:00,400 --> 00:25:03,240 Speaker 9: Yeah he's fine, now fine, he is remarried and he 491 00:25:03,280 --> 00:25:08,119 Speaker 9: has a lovely, beautiful child. And yeah he's married to. 492 00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:10,720 Speaker 4: One of the and the other option that that dinner 493 00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:11,919 Speaker 4: would have been everyone jumps in. 494 00:25:11,960 --> 00:25:13,159 Speaker 2: You know what I mean, why. 495 00:25:13,040 --> 00:25:13,960 Speaker 1: Do you have to do that? 496 00:25:14,600 --> 00:25:16,399 Speaker 2: What do you have to do half the party? 497 00:25:16,520 --> 00:25:17,520 Speaker 1: Why do you have to do that? 498 00:25:17,600 --> 00:25:20,359 Speaker 3: You have to classify that as a third degree burner. 499 00:25:20,880 --> 00:25:21,080 Speaker 5: You know. 500 00:25:22,840 --> 00:25:26,760 Speaker 3: That's the harshest of burns. Oh my goodness, wild. 501 00:25:27,000 --> 00:25:28,320 Speaker 1: We're going to need to digest that. 502 00:25:28,560 --> 00:25:33,600 Speaker 3: This is the fitz Wiper with Cape Ritchie podcast Cape Richie. 503 00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:35,600 Speaker 7: Seen Queen. 504 00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:40,760 Speaker 1: Now, I was joking when I said it was a 505 00:25:40,760 --> 00:25:41,639 Speaker 1: bit tricky today. 506 00:25:41,920 --> 00:25:44,959 Speaker 2: But easy? Is it easy for me? It's always been 507 00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:45,480 Speaker 2: easy for me? 508 00:25:45,520 --> 00:25:47,840 Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, Well let's see how you go because I 509 00:25:47,840 --> 00:25:51,240 Speaker 1: think it's particularly tricky. Welcome to Brown twenty seven of 510 00:25:51,280 --> 00:25:56,040 Speaker 1: Theme Queen. I am your host, David Walliam's favorite team member. 511 00:25:56,640 --> 00:26:00,679 Speaker 1: Ain't that the truth and the moral compass of this show? Richie? 512 00:26:00,760 --> 00:26:03,960 Speaker 1: So the game is very simple. Three rounds. Each round, 513 00:26:04,280 --> 00:26:08,600 Speaker 1: there are the big dumpass each round, there are three songs. 514 00:26:08,640 --> 00:26:11,000 Speaker 1: Now we know that these three songs are connected by 515 00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:12,320 Speaker 1: a theme. You just got to work that out. 516 00:26:12,359 --> 00:26:13,640 Speaker 2: Guys, before we get into it. 517 00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:17,359 Speaker 4: Have you had any contact with David Williams since the 518 00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:21,840 Speaker 4: interview yesterday? Yes, thoughts A, I've never seen so much 519 00:26:21,920 --> 00:26:23,840 Speaker 4: public flirting my life. 520 00:26:24,040 --> 00:26:27,600 Speaker 3: That's why we were asking about your dating history before. 521 00:26:28,240 --> 00:26:29,600 Speaker 2: Just assumed you've been. 522 00:26:29,520 --> 00:26:32,879 Speaker 4: Out last night on a date with David Williams. 523 00:26:33,040 --> 00:26:35,040 Speaker 1: I cooked meat balls Okay. 524 00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:37,120 Speaker 2: What are you doing Friday night for him? 525 00:26:37,320 --> 00:26:37,600 Speaker 3: What? 526 00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:37,879 Speaker 7: No? 527 00:26:38,600 --> 00:26:42,680 Speaker 1: Over my daughter? No where. I'm actually going to the show. 528 00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:44,760 Speaker 2: To David Williams show, but I'm going. 529 00:26:44,560 --> 00:26:48,120 Speaker 1: With you guys, the Big the Ball. 530 00:26:47,960 --> 00:26:53,240 Speaker 3: And I think there will be a conversation afterwards where 531 00:26:53,280 --> 00:26:55,480 Speaker 3: it will be like a well, great to see you guys. 532 00:26:55,480 --> 00:26:57,720 Speaker 3: We'll see at work on Monday. Where are you going? Kate? 533 00:26:58,480 --> 00:27:00,320 Speaker 1: Turns out I'm going to London for Christmas? 534 00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:02,639 Speaker 2: Are all right? 535 00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:03,680 Speaker 8: All right? 536 00:27:03,680 --> 00:27:08,200 Speaker 1: Here we go. Round number one, Song number one. 537 00:27:08,800 --> 00:27:10,399 Speaker 3: This song who is it? 538 00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:14,720 Speaker 4: David Walliams, Elton John, friend of David Williams. 539 00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:24,840 Speaker 10: Song number two and me, what was the personal song? 540 00:27:25,000 --> 00:27:27,800 Speaker 1: Elton John? I am still standing you still trying to 541 00:27:27,840 --> 00:27:28,680 Speaker 1: do your gags? 542 00:27:28,760 --> 00:27:29,720 Speaker 10: You hear the songs? 543 00:27:30,680 --> 00:27:37,280 Speaker 1: Song number three? Yeah, okay, do you recognize. 544 00:27:36,720 --> 00:27:37,960 Speaker 2: I know exactly what it is. 545 00:27:38,080 --> 00:27:41,080 Speaker 4: Okay, they're all key words for games played on this show. 546 00:27:42,080 --> 00:27:45,080 Speaker 1: Yes, Sarah, Wow, going to show. 547 00:27:46,359 --> 00:27:49,439 Speaker 3: It's that photo of Queen Elizabeth in your song that 548 00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:50,800 Speaker 3: I thought that was. 549 00:27:50,760 --> 00:27:55,520 Speaker 1: The that's not it? Well well done, one point away. 550 00:27:55,560 --> 00:27:58,760 Speaker 1: Round number two, Song number one. 551 00:28:00,000 --> 00:28:02,320 Speaker 2: Okay what Kate likes in the guy? 552 00:28:02,400 --> 00:28:09,480 Speaker 1: No, I don't like money. That's been proven. Song number two. 553 00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:13,480 Speaker 1: What a great song? 554 00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:19,240 Speaker 2: Who's that a terrible name? 555 00:28:20,320 --> 00:28:22,560 Speaker 3: Is it Swedish? 556 00:28:22,640 --> 00:28:22,680 Speaker 6: Be? 557 00:28:23,359 --> 00:28:25,960 Speaker 1: I don't know? Song number three airplane? 558 00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:27,840 Speaker 2: Can we put in that plane? 559 00:28:28,840 --> 00:28:29,040 Speaker 3: Yeah? 560 00:28:29,400 --> 00:28:35,320 Speaker 2: I love this song using stroke stroke? 561 00:28:36,000 --> 00:28:38,520 Speaker 1: This has been tricky of this one. Who's so it's 562 00:28:38,600 --> 00:28:41,760 Speaker 1: abba and aha? And then who sees airplanes? I can 563 00:28:41,880 --> 00:28:43,400 Speaker 1: really use a stroke. 564 00:28:44,720 --> 00:28:44,880 Speaker 9: Now? 565 00:28:45,040 --> 00:28:48,880 Speaker 3: And who was the rappers in the who s O 566 00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:50,360 Speaker 3: B B O B? 567 00:28:50,600 --> 00:28:50,800 Speaker 1: Yeah? 568 00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:51,960 Speaker 3: Remember Jesse j. 569 00:28:54,520 --> 00:28:55,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, Hayley Williams. 570 00:28:55,520 --> 00:28:58,160 Speaker 2: I know what it is. Okay, I don't know how 571 00:28:58,160 --> 00:28:58,600 Speaker 2: to say it. 572 00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:01,200 Speaker 4: But the letters in the name of a band start 573 00:29:01,320 --> 00:29:03,120 Speaker 4: men with the same with the others. 574 00:29:02,800 --> 00:29:03,320 Speaker 2: In the middle. 575 00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:06,680 Speaker 1: Are you saying? Are they palindrome? 576 00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:11,200 Speaker 2: Palindromes? All right? Really? 577 00:29:11,360 --> 00:29:14,000 Speaker 3: Palendroo eld Oh? 578 00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:16,680 Speaker 1: That is one, isn't it? It's a great one. Okay, 579 00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:18,800 Speaker 1: you're gonna have to get serious for round number three 580 00:29:18,960 --> 00:29:22,880 Speaker 1: because I think it's tricky. Just take it away round three. 581 00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:23,720 Speaker 1: Song number one. 582 00:29:27,720 --> 00:29:28,680 Speaker 2: Tommy's wedding song. 583 00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:29,880 Speaker 3: Who's that? 584 00:29:35,080 --> 00:29:39,440 Speaker 1: It's so quick? Scull is a big. 585 00:29:42,040 --> 00:29:42,360 Speaker 9: All right? 586 00:29:42,480 --> 00:29:43,880 Speaker 1: Hotel? Song number two? 587 00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:50,720 Speaker 3: Is that Kesher. 588 00:29:51,960 --> 00:29:52,680 Speaker 2: Kelly Clarks? 589 00:29:52,720 --> 00:29:58,680 Speaker 1: And it's a love storm? What a great what a 590 00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:05,360 Speaker 1: great song about a love story with other No, we 591 00:30:05,480 --> 00:30:07,200 Speaker 1: might need to talk through this. So let's go to 592 00:30:07,280 --> 00:30:09,320 Speaker 1: song number three and keep thinking. 593 00:30:13,400 --> 00:30:22,920 Speaker 2: Magic Papa on the preach. That's the most in tune 594 00:30:22,920 --> 00:30:23,520 Speaker 2: you've ever said. 595 00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:28,120 Speaker 3: I'm trying to think what people Tata Swift and Madonna 596 00:30:28,200 --> 00:30:28,840 Speaker 3: have in common? 597 00:30:29,280 --> 00:30:31,840 Speaker 11: Well, what are the main like, the main words in 598 00:30:31,920 --> 00:30:43,040 Speaker 11: all of those Hotel, hotel, getting married in Vegas, and 599 00:30:43,160 --> 00:30:46,080 Speaker 11: then Madonna sings about her Papa. 600 00:30:47,440 --> 00:30:51,920 Speaker 3: Papa hotel and love story. 601 00:30:52,080 --> 00:30:54,000 Speaker 1: We might actually have to go to Tamara in the 602 00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:54,680 Speaker 1: Blue Mountain. 603 00:30:54,800 --> 00:30:56,400 Speaker 3: Come on to give it to us. 604 00:30:56,600 --> 00:30:58,640 Speaker 1: It is a tricky one tomorrow. Do you think you've 605 00:30:58,960 --> 00:31:01,400 Speaker 1: thought of the theme for around number three this morning? 606 00:31:02,280 --> 00:31:04,400 Speaker 8: Yeap, guys, I think I've got it. So my dad's 607 00:31:04,400 --> 00:31:06,600 Speaker 8: a pilot and I recognize all these songs have a 608 00:31:06,680 --> 00:31:09,760 Speaker 8: connection with the phonetic alphabet Hotel, Romeo, Papa. 609 00:31:11,640 --> 00:31:14,200 Speaker 1: I'm glad you got it because it was tricking for 610 00:31:14,320 --> 00:31:17,320 Speaker 1: me to give an IDEO and I still don't get it. 611 00:31:20,200 --> 00:31:23,200 Speaker 1: You know, when when you're well, I'm not a pilot, 612 00:31:23,240 --> 00:31:25,680 Speaker 1: but when you're a pilot and you want to say letters, 613 00:31:25,720 --> 00:31:29,600 Speaker 1: and you need to be very clear that yeah, it's phonetic. 614 00:31:30,480 --> 00:31:33,160 Speaker 1: So go through a would be Apple. 615 00:31:32,880 --> 00:31:34,200 Speaker 3: Alpha alpha Ala. 616 00:31:35,000 --> 00:31:36,960 Speaker 2: What I'm saying hotel. 617 00:31:36,960 --> 00:31:40,920 Speaker 1: Hotel is the phonetic is part of the phonetic alphabet 618 00:31:41,000 --> 00:31:46,360 Speaker 1: for people like pilots, no R for Romeo. What's G. 619 00:31:47,560 --> 00:31:50,880 Speaker 3: That's not the name of the song, but that's okay. 620 00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:53,320 Speaker 1: They all have words in the song and a very 621 00:31:53,440 --> 00:31:55,280 Speaker 1: clear theme word. 622 00:31:55,440 --> 00:32:01,080 Speaker 2: But without question. Degree of dickulty is eleven out of ten. 623 00:32:01,880 --> 00:32:03,680 Speaker 1: Well, that's why you didn't get really hard. That's why 624 00:32:03,760 --> 00:32:05,680 Speaker 1: we had to go to Tamoraw in the Blue Mountains. 625 00:32:06,040 --> 00:32:08,320 Speaker 3: And tomorrow's a pilot as she had her daddy is. 626 00:32:08,360 --> 00:32:11,080 Speaker 1: Don't be discouraged, guys. Mean Queen will be back next week. 627 00:32:11,240 --> 00:32:14,080 Speaker 1: This is the Fitsy and with Her with Kate Richie podcast. 628 00:32:14,360 --> 00:32:16,000 Speaker 1: We do a lot of chat around dating on this 629 00:32:16,080 --> 00:32:20,160 Speaker 1: show because for a lot of the population we might 630 00:32:20,240 --> 00:32:23,880 Speaker 1: be looking for somebody to love or somebody to love us, 631 00:32:24,320 --> 00:32:26,760 Speaker 1: and there are a lot of apps and that feels 632 00:32:26,760 --> 00:32:28,320 Speaker 1: as though it's been the way of the world. That's 633 00:32:28,360 --> 00:32:30,080 Speaker 1: how you meet people. I mean, when was the last 634 00:32:30,120 --> 00:32:32,960 Speaker 1: time you heard a love story where someone sets someone 635 00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:34,440 Speaker 1: up on a date with a friend. 636 00:32:35,040 --> 00:32:37,720 Speaker 3: You know, how's your dating life? 637 00:32:39,080 --> 00:32:42,440 Speaker 4: It's a really good question, fits, I said, closer to 638 00:32:42,560 --> 00:32:43,920 Speaker 4: Kate than you, so I don't ask. 639 00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:49,080 Speaker 3: Well, come on, what do you tell us? What's the 640 00:32:49,240 --> 00:32:51,240 Speaker 3: last date that I don't. 641 00:32:51,080 --> 00:32:51,760 Speaker 1: Go on dates? 642 00:32:52,120 --> 00:32:53,800 Speaker 2: What do you do well? 643 00:32:54,720 --> 00:32:55,160 Speaker 3: I don't know. 644 00:32:55,320 --> 00:32:58,080 Speaker 1: I'm so busy. I'm a single mom with a ten 645 00:32:58,160 --> 00:33:01,920 Speaker 1: year old child and a full time job. Until recently, 646 00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:03,080 Speaker 1: I've had two jobs. 647 00:33:03,200 --> 00:33:05,160 Speaker 3: And you're a hoarder, so you're always harder. 648 00:33:05,360 --> 00:33:06,280 Speaker 2: They said, you're a holder. 649 00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:10,840 Speaker 1: Oh sorry, you're. 650 00:33:09,160 --> 00:33:11,720 Speaker 2: Always unpacking things and packing repacking. 651 00:33:13,240 --> 00:33:15,400 Speaker 1: Do you know what interests me? I just showed you 652 00:33:15,640 --> 00:33:17,880 Speaker 1: tea towels and I just showed you you guys during 653 00:33:17,960 --> 00:33:23,200 Speaker 1: the song, some photos of herring bone paving. I'm having done. 654 00:33:25,680 --> 00:33:25,840 Speaker 2: Well. 655 00:33:25,920 --> 00:33:28,840 Speaker 3: If you're into tea towels, we've got seventy eight year 656 00:33:28,840 --> 00:33:30,720 Speaker 3: old Gordon on the line for a date. 657 00:33:31,280 --> 00:33:31,320 Speaker 6: No. 658 00:33:31,880 --> 00:33:33,880 Speaker 1: Do you know what if someone contacted me and said 659 00:33:33,880 --> 00:33:38,000 Speaker 1: they had a mad, wicked, wild collection of testols, I 660 00:33:38,040 --> 00:33:41,520 Speaker 1: would go to their house. Really, I probably wouldn't be 661 00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:44,280 Speaker 1: allowed to leave, but I would go to their house anyway. 662 00:33:44,320 --> 00:33:49,320 Speaker 1: This woman speaking of herringbone paving. This woman, and I 663 00:33:49,400 --> 00:33:51,640 Speaker 1: don't think this is a new concept, but she's thrown 664 00:33:51,680 --> 00:33:53,920 Speaker 1: out the apps and she she's in the US. So 665 00:33:54,040 --> 00:33:57,000 Speaker 1: she's talking about a store called screwfix, which I think 666 00:33:57,360 --> 00:33:59,720 Speaker 1: would be like our Bunnings or Mighty ten or. 667 00:34:01,160 --> 00:34:04,600 Speaker 2: I would have called it Scrucifix, but that's not a 668 00:34:04,640 --> 00:34:04,960 Speaker 2: good one. 669 00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:07,480 Speaker 1: There's one dawn in Mittagong at the moment. That's quite 670 00:34:07,520 --> 00:34:10,520 Speaker 1: a I actually thought of you guys when I drove 671 00:34:10,640 --> 00:34:14,000 Speaker 1: past it the other day. There's a breadth's in you. No, no, 672 00:34:14,080 --> 00:34:15,680 Speaker 1: there's not a hot trading out the front, but there 673 00:34:15,800 --> 00:34:20,400 Speaker 1: is a hardware store and it's cold. Nearly pulled up 674 00:34:20,760 --> 00:34:23,720 Speaker 1: to take her photo because I thought I made myself 675 00:34:23,840 --> 00:34:27,360 Speaker 1: loll in the car. It's called Total. 676 00:34:27,160 --> 00:34:33,920 Speaker 13: Tools Tools, and I was like, oh, that's that's the boys, 677 00:34:34,160 --> 00:34:37,719 Speaker 13: which is also there's the subject for your day history. 678 00:34:41,840 --> 00:34:43,320 Speaker 2: Tools here total Toys. 679 00:34:44,719 --> 00:34:46,960 Speaker 1: Oh, for goodness sake, I don't even know what I'm 680 00:34:47,000 --> 00:34:49,759 Speaker 1: talking about. Anyway, She's saying, rather than dressing yourself up, 681 00:34:49,880 --> 00:34:52,759 Speaker 1: ladies and heading out to the clubs on a Saturday night, 682 00:34:53,120 --> 00:34:56,880 Speaker 1: you should head to a Total Tools or a like 683 00:34:57,000 --> 00:34:59,920 Speaker 1: a Bunny or a screw fix because who's with me, 684 00:35:00,320 --> 00:35:03,440 Speaker 1: who's joining the screw fix club? We all need screws, 685 00:35:03,840 --> 00:35:08,400 Speaker 1: that kind of thing. Men at these places can't do 686 00:35:08,560 --> 00:35:11,080 Speaker 1: enough for you. If they're there on a Saturday night. 687 00:35:11,160 --> 00:35:15,040 Speaker 1: It means they aren't out drinking a thousand schooners. They 688 00:35:15,120 --> 00:35:18,360 Speaker 1: are like getting ready for a Sunday, you know, a 689 00:35:18,440 --> 00:35:21,399 Speaker 1: sunday on the on the tools, maybe painting the deck 690 00:35:21,520 --> 00:35:24,040 Speaker 1: or you know, hanging up your hose reel. I said 691 00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:26,000 Speaker 1: to one, I was in the Bunnings yesterday trying to 692 00:35:26,040 --> 00:35:26,560 Speaker 1: buy a host. 693 00:35:26,640 --> 00:35:27,560 Speaker 3: Gee, that's a huge one. 694 00:35:27,800 --> 00:35:30,240 Speaker 1: You go with the well, I needed one that doesn't 695 00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:33,200 Speaker 1: that doesn't I don't like. I don't like my host 696 00:35:33,440 --> 00:35:38,160 Speaker 1: kinks in it. Yeah, con don't like a hose with 697 00:35:41,320 --> 00:35:42,520 Speaker 1: and one that won't freeze. 698 00:35:43,080 --> 00:35:45,400 Speaker 2: Who can you tell me? Because one in the. 699 00:35:45,480 --> 00:35:49,200 Speaker 1: Cold weather the yeah, they do that. Have you ever 700 00:35:49,280 --> 00:35:51,120 Speaker 1: had a hose in the Southern Highlands? 701 00:35:51,680 --> 00:35:53,680 Speaker 3: No, no, I haven't had a freeze. 702 00:35:54,120 --> 00:35:57,600 Speaker 1: They do freeze when the water is in them, they do. 703 00:35:58,480 --> 00:35:59,080 Speaker 2: Can you tell me? 704 00:35:59,160 --> 00:36:01,000 Speaker 4: A while ago you said the most attractive thing in 705 00:36:01,080 --> 00:36:03,560 Speaker 4: a man or what you love to see, is say, 706 00:36:03,640 --> 00:36:05,080 Speaker 4: a dad being. 707 00:36:04,920 --> 00:36:06,160 Speaker 2: A dad with the kids. 708 00:36:06,440 --> 00:36:08,920 Speaker 1: No, no, don't say that, because that would imply that 709 00:36:09,120 --> 00:36:12,880 Speaker 1: I am attracted to other people's husbands, and that's not 710 00:36:13,000 --> 00:36:15,319 Speaker 1: the truth. What I said was the most attractive thing 711 00:36:15,400 --> 00:36:18,880 Speaker 1: the man can do is to be elbowed deep in 712 00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:25,399 Speaker 1: the SuDS. No, just stick with me. What is more 713 00:36:25,480 --> 00:36:28,960 Speaker 1: attractive than a man in the kitchen, elbow deep in 714 00:36:29,440 --> 00:36:31,759 Speaker 1: the sink, in the SuDS washing up. 715 00:36:32,560 --> 00:36:34,920 Speaker 2: Does that be a trade painting offense? 716 00:36:35,360 --> 00:36:36,040 Speaker 1: Oh, I'd love that. 717 00:36:36,239 --> 00:36:37,759 Speaker 2: See okay, well, truth is one of them. 718 00:36:37,800 --> 00:36:40,440 Speaker 1: I'd love all of that. Anyone that can do any job. 719 00:36:40,600 --> 00:36:42,520 Speaker 2: She's sounding fussy again this morning. 720 00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:50,400 Speaker 1: Anyone that you know and he's kind to you. Kindness 721 00:36:50,520 --> 00:36:53,600 Speaker 1: is key. This was a story about Lynn Kavanagh, a 722 00:36:53,680 --> 00:36:54,520 Speaker 1: forty five year old. 723 00:36:55,840 --> 00:36:59,399 Speaker 3: We don't need a name, We're going to meet. 724 00:36:59,440 --> 00:37:00,480 Speaker 1: This is going to again. 725 00:37:00,680 --> 00:37:03,279 Speaker 4: Morning Sits in Whipper with Kate Ritchie is a Nova 726 00:37:03,360 --> 00:37:07,080 Speaker 4: podcast walk great shows like this. Download the Nova Player 727 00:37:07,360 --> 00:37:10,200 Speaker 4: via the app Store or Google Playing the Nova Player