Speaker 1: Matt, you are looking absolutely glowing today. What's your secret?
Speaker 2: Well, Anna, I've been using this new hydrating tanning myss
Speaker 2: called Goldie b. We're two e's.
Speaker 3: I have to check it out. I've never heard of it.
Speaker 2: Go to their instagram.
Speaker 3: I want the fairy Tale, I want the Prince Charming.
Speaker 2: She how do I put this? Isn't a fan of
Speaker 2: my kissing style.
Speaker 3: Boyfriend and girlfriend for about twelve hours. He's in a
Speaker 3: trash bin. He's non recyclable. Catching her mu.
Speaker 2: I loved being love. I love love. I just got
Speaker 2: to keep my hands off Tammy. So we didn't get
Speaker 2: to finish it. And it wasn't had nothing to do
Speaker 2: with the movie, Like the movie didn't get us in
Speaker 2: the mood. We just.
Speaker 3: Where's Your Head At?
Speaker 1: Is a podcast that talks all things relationships, breakups, reality TV,
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Speaker 3: Hello everyone, Hi Nah.
Speaker 2: Hello Anna, and welcome to another episode of Wear's Your
Speaker 2: Head At? Everyone. We had Tammy in last week, my
Speaker 2: beautiful fiance. What an episode. I think we really touched
Speaker 2: on a lot. If you haven't already listened to that
Speaker 2: Go back. It is a very good episode.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was cute. You guys are very cute. Coffees
Speaker 3: in hand. Twenty twenty four's happening.
Speaker 1: Now.
Speaker 3: I feel like holidays are.
Speaker 1: Like now done right, Yeah, I mean I'm still in
Speaker 1: holiday mode. I mean, my all whites today, you.
Speaker 2: Are too, I should see that. What's the go with that?
Speaker 2: What's the vibe?
Speaker 3: I mean?
Speaker 1: I had like white linen hands and a white tank
Speaker 1: top on, and then I walked outside and I was like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, it's freezing and the only thing I
Speaker 1: could pare with it was like a white linen shirt.
Speaker 1: So now I'm just like, look like Jesus, you do you.
Speaker 2: Look like you're about to go on let's say a
Speaker 2: cruise or.
Speaker 3: Something hippie retreat maybe.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, no ship buying. You've got no got shoes
Speaker 2: on all you got your berks on. My hippie vibes
Speaker 2: very hippie.
Speaker 1: Well, when I go on holiday, like I do get
Speaker 1: a little hippie like. I just love like sinking into
Speaker 1: like the beach lifestyle. Just relaxing, just relaxing, you know,
Speaker 1: it's fun.
Speaker 3: We've got our cruise.
Speaker 1: Speaking of cruises, next month. Can you believe that that's
Speaker 1: come up so quickly?
Speaker 2: That has snuck up? I was saying to you before,
Speaker 2: when we'll get in lunch, maybe we should watch some
Speaker 2: some movies around cruises to get us in the mood,
Speaker 2: like the Titanic, Speed to.
Speaker 3: The ones go down.
Speaker 2: Literally, they're all cruise crashes.
Speaker 3: You don't want to no, no, no, no, no no, no,
Speaker 3: like absolutely not. I can't. I won't watch anything.
Speaker 2: But are you scared of the ocean?
Speaker 1: I don't know why, but my TikTok at the moment
Speaker 1: is like, yeah, it's like, what's that music? It's Liken's
Speaker 1: probably like shut up like that really scary music.
Speaker 3: Yes, of the ocean.
Speaker 1: And I don't know why it's all of a sudden
Speaker 1: my algorithm, but I think because I am going on
Speaker 1: a cruise. I've watched one of these videos for like
Speaker 1: a second too long, and now I'm getting heats of them.
Speaker 1: So I'm like literally like holding my TikTok being like
Speaker 1: not interested. Really I was, I'm so scared of the
Speaker 1: ocean now because of this.
Speaker 2: I'm not really I've watched him. I like him. I
Speaker 2: saw one where a cruise ship crashed into the back
Speaker 2: of another cruise shook out the whole thing.
Speaker 3: I saw that.
Speaker 2: Imagine just relaxing in your bed on the back end
Speaker 2: of the ship and in the front of the other
Speaker 2: one just takes out what's going on.
Speaker 3: Yeah no, but that's not gonna happen.
Speaker 1: Now, let's start talking positively, positive vibes about the cruise.
Speaker 2: A relaxing A couple of days on the ocean.
Speaker 3: Really stressing me out.
Speaker 2: Turn On of the week, turn on of the week
Speaker 2: is looks like you've forgotten every fucking week.
Speaker 3: Every you just see to write them in your notes.
Speaker 3: That's what I've started doing.
Speaker 1: As soon as I get a turn on of the
Speaker 1: week or any of the week, I just put them
Speaker 1: in my notes.
Speaker 2: I put actual ideas for the podcast in my notes,
Speaker 2: but never the turn on or turn off the week.
Speaker 3: Do you know my turn on? You go, well, you
Speaker 3: can think of it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, So my turn on of the week is actually,
Speaker 1: and I never thought I would say this, genuinely catching
Speaker 1: the train. So I where so where I live, I'm
Speaker 1: on a train line. It's like a really like really
Speaker 1: nice train line goes along the beach like it's beautiful
Speaker 1: and like where I live, it's just so accessible to
Speaker 1: everything now.
Speaker 3: I was going out.
Speaker 1: For drinks with Michael and his work friends on Friday
Speaker 1: night and I had the option to get an uber
Speaker 1: or catch the train.
Speaker 2: And I how much was a uber?
Speaker 1: I think it was like forty dollars? And then a
Speaker 1: train is like fair invasion?
Speaker 2: What fair invage? So you don't pay?
Speaker 3: What does that mean?
Speaker 2: Surprise?
Speaker 3: No, I paid.
Speaker 1: I had my Michy tapped on it. I think it
Speaker 1: costs like eight dollars there and back, Like it's so cheap.
Speaker 1: I think I think that's right. But anyway, like I
Speaker 1: don't know if you know this about me, but I
Speaker 1: don't know. I had some like traumatic things happen in
Speaker 1: the past to the point where like I was kind
Speaker 1: of scared of being alone with men that I didn't know.
Speaker 3: And when I went to.
Speaker 1: Therapy, I actually went to therapy and got hypnotized to
Speaker 1: be able to take an uber by myself because I
Speaker 1: was so scared being like in that close proximity with
Speaker 1: a male.
Speaker 3: Like that's how scary it was.
Speaker 1: Like I would literally go into fight or flight, would
Speaker 1: start like sweating, shaking, like I thought like they were
Speaker 1: going to kill me, and like that things were going
Speaker 1: to happen a pin. Yeah, but like even that wasn't enough.
Speaker 1: Like I just think, I don't know, it's just like
Speaker 1: past traumas, but yeah, I was hypnotized to be able
Speaker 1: to just catch an uber by myself, and I don't
Speaker 1: know recently that I feel like the hypnosis is wearing
Speaker 1: off or something, but I'm getting that like really like anxious,
Speaker 1: stressed out feeling. Anyway, I didn't mean for this to
Speaker 1: like go dark, but like I caught the train instead
Speaker 1: of catching an uber by myself, which is like a
Speaker 1: really anxious place for me to be caught the train.
Speaker 3: There was lots of people around.
Speaker 1: It was a really nice view of the beach on
Speaker 1: the way to the city, and I loved it.
Speaker 2: My last yeah, my last two houses that I was
Speaker 2: in before right next to the train line, so down
Speaker 2: and we'd hop straight on the train and go into
Speaker 2: the city or whatever we were doing. Maybe did a
Speaker 2: handful of times I'd mostly catch an uber, but like
Speaker 2: the times that we had time, we'd walk down and
Speaker 2: hop on the trains and it was really efficient.
Speaker 3: Yeah, really efficient. Saves money.
Speaker 1: Like you can literally get anywhere anywhere that I would
Speaker 1: need to personally go in Melbourne, I can get there
Speaker 1: via the train. So I'm like on board with trains,
Speaker 1: and I never thought i'd say that, but I'm so
Speaker 1: on board with them.
Speaker 3: I'm loving them at the moment. So that's my turn
Speaker 3: on of the week.
Speaker 2: When I used to go to at Uni, I used
Speaker 2: to catch an hour train every morning and every night.
Speaker 2: Hated it because it was full, it was like peak time.
Speaker 2: So I have a bad experience with them.
Speaker 1: But yeah, that's like a I mean, that's a good
Speaker 1: amount of time. But then again, like if you are
Speaker 1: on the train as well, instead of like driving, you
Speaker 1: can do work on the train like I do Goldie
Speaker 1: be stuff whilst on the train, like instead of driving.
Speaker 3: Then I'm two hands on the wheel. I can't do any.
Speaker 2: Anything depends if you get a seat or not.
Speaker 1: I've not not got a seat yet, so that would
Speaker 1: be a different that would be a new.
Speaker 2: Hurdle at the start of the train line. I'm close
Speaker 2: to I don't have a turn on this week, Anna, you.
Speaker 1: Can think of anything in that time. How are you
Speaker 1: getting around these days?
Speaker 3: Just cars?
Speaker 2: Car?
Speaker 3: Yeah, no bicycles or trains.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 3: Some new form of transport, no, I don't know.
Speaker 2: I could I don't know. I could. I have no
Speaker 2: turn off you guys. Sorry, I had a mental blank.
Speaker 2: But I watched I adventured and watched Saltburn last night.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, we have to toalk about Saltburn.
Speaker 2: Wow. I didn't get to finish it. I did say
Speaker 2: to Tammy, I have to watch this because I want
Speaker 2: to talk about it on the podcast with Anna. And
Speaker 2: we didn't finish it. And I said, well, what do
Speaker 2: I say? And she says, well, tell the truth and
Speaker 2: I was like, okay, I just couldn't keep my hands
Speaker 2: off Tammy. So we didn't get to finish it. And
Speaker 2: it wasn't had nothing to do with the movie, Like
Speaker 2: the movie didn't get us in the mood. We just yeah,
Speaker 2: we're in bed, and it got to that point. So
Speaker 2: so how.
Speaker 3: Far along did you actually get to it?
Speaker 2: During the intercourse, I did hear the scene between Tammy
Speaker 2: and I.
Speaker 3: So you're basically playing Sultburn as background?
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was just white noise. I did hear the
Speaker 2: scene when he goes down on the girl with the period.
Speaker 2: She said something about that time of month.
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm going to tell you about Sulburn.
Speaker 2: Any spoilers really a spoiler free for everyone or no,
Speaker 2: I feel like everyone's watched it now, Okay, don't tell
Speaker 2: me the ending, okay, because I'll finish it. But I did.
Speaker 3: I think the beginn to just started from the beginning.
Speaker 3: It sounds like, I don't know if you can finish it.
Speaker 2: I did see the bathwater.
Speaker 1: Scene where he like drinks the cum from the water, yeah,
Speaker 1: which is just like so twisted and so like.
Speaker 2: You wouldn't drink Michael's bathwater.
Speaker 1: Absolutely not really with come in it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like just his bathwater in general. Nah, I'd get
Speaker 2: a straw.
Speaker 3: No, you wouldn't. That is ridiculous. When would you do that?
Speaker 3: Come on? Would you? Actually?
Speaker 2: Yeah? I don't.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but there was come in it. It wasn't just
Speaker 3: bast water.
Speaker 2: I don't drink's bathwater. Nothing wrong with that.
Speaker 4: You don't even know what the thing is like now
Speaker 4: that's literally trying to have a conversation or something that
Speaker 4: he knows nothing about.
Speaker 1: I'm going to say this, this is what I will
Speaker 1: say about salt. Then it's so fucked up, it's so twisted.
Speaker 1: I said on my socials, whoever produced this is really
Speaker 1: twisted in the mind. And then literally everyone came back
Speaker 1: to him was like it's Margot Robbie who produced it,
Speaker 1: and I.
Speaker 2: Was like, what what happens in the space of the
Speaker 2: forty minutes that I haven't seen? Then?
Speaker 3: I mean, the whole thing is just very twisted.
Speaker 2: I didn't find it that there was nothing.
Speaker 3: I'll do a one spoiler alert.
Speaker 1: Okay, someone the guy dies, the main guy, Jacob Belori
Speaker 1: or whatever his name is, and then the guy like
Speaker 1: humps his grave, like he puts his dick into the
Speaker 1: dirt and starts like trying to have sex with the grave.
Speaker 1: And it's like so dark but so twisted. The whole
Speaker 1: thing was dark and twisted. But that's just weird and like,
Speaker 1: I don't know, I just have so much to say
Speaker 1: on this, and I'm just annoyed that I can't.
Speaker 2: Well why we tried to finish it and then we
Speaker 2: got to that how to shower and like Vampire Diaries,
Speaker 2: We're like, yep, I just chucked it.
Speaker 3: You guys are big on the Vampire Diaries at the moment.
Speaker 2: I mean, so turn on Vampire to be fair.
Speaker 1: The one thing I will say about Saltburn is that
Speaker 1: it's brought back the song.
Speaker 3: There's mud on the dance. Oh, there's murder on the
Speaker 3: dance floor.
Speaker 2: He's dancing naked out of the house, dancing naked around
Speaker 2: the house.
Speaker 3: Did you see did you see that scene TikTok or something?
Speaker 1: The final scene, he's like literally got his willy out
Speaker 1: and it's just like shwinging left and swing.
Speaker 2: He has a huge one, doesn't he. I remember the
Speaker 2: scene when he walks through the.
Speaker 3: Field and it's kind of long. It looks long because
Speaker 3: it's like swinging.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because they're like, good on you when you got
Speaker 2: naked in the field. I remember that scene.
Speaker 1: I don't know, but anyway, you do see you do
Speaker 1: see the dick at the end. I feel like it's
Speaker 1: just anyway, I need.
Speaker 2: To finish it. You need to finish it so I
Speaker 2: can talk about it.
Speaker 3: But yeah's let's start.
Speaker 1: The conversation up on our Facebook page because I would
Speaker 1: love to talk about Saltburn with everyone, and hopefully by
Speaker 1: then Matt's watched it and.
Speaker 3: You can chime in.
Speaker 2: Of the this week is okay?
Speaker 1: Mine is that I've never had my wisdom teeth out ever,
Speaker 1: and I think on my bottom right hand side, I'm starting.
Speaker 3: To get wisdom teeth come through.
Speaker 2: Now.
Speaker 1: I know that there's three like in my mouth, but
Speaker 1: they've just not come up or they've caused me no issues.
Speaker 1: But I'm starting to like I'm teething like a child,
Speaker 1: like I feel like my wisdom teeth are coming through now.
Speaker 2: I never had that problem with wisdom teeth come through.
Speaker 2: Mine just came through. I think I got a little
Speaker 2: bit of pain. But they w went to the dentist
Speaker 2: and he said, you've got more than enough room in
Speaker 2: that jaw for them to say that I have. And
Speaker 2: I never really heard about it again.
Speaker 3: Well, and they just came through.
Speaker 2: I'm assuming so I.
Speaker 3: Didn't check it out your mouth keep close.
Speaker 2: I just I just never heard anything that it. Never
Speaker 2: felt anything about it again. They just came through.
Speaker 3: You would have felt them if they came through.
Speaker 2: But yeah, I don't remember it being pain. Just said
Speaker 2: like they're going to come through, and they did.
Speaker 3: What minds is painful?
Speaker 2: Like thirty years old, you're getting you with.
Speaker 3: Tenty one thirty one.
Speaker 1: I didn't think that, like I thought once you hit
Speaker 1: like twenty nine, like you were kind of good. I
Speaker 1: was like, clearly they've got enough wisdom, you know, these teeth.
Speaker 3: Don't need to come through.
Speaker 2: I honestly thought that all your teeth come through in
Speaker 2: your teenage years.
Speaker 1: No, but wisdom teeth come through later. I think that's
Speaker 1: why they call them wisdom teeth, because you're like, well, maybe.
Speaker 2: I haven't got mine yet.
Speaker 3: Then I don't think you've got them through, because yeah,
Speaker 3: I mean, how old are you? Twenty eight?
Speaker 2: Yes?
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I think you might. I mean I feel
Speaker 3: like you would know.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: But anyway, my wisdom teeth are coming through, so I
Speaker 1: need to see the dentist asap and get them checked
Speaker 1: up on because like wisdom teeth number one, very painful,
Speaker 1: but also too they can completely disrupt your whole smile.
Speaker 3: So like, you know, we definitely don't want Matt for
Speaker 3: my wedding. I want to have like teeth going all
Speaker 3: over the shop.
Speaker 2: They probably move your other teeth as well, wouldn't they
Speaker 2: if they come here.
Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: They could move my teeth. And I'm like, you know,
Speaker 1: I had a great smile for like.
Speaker 2: Do you still wear your retainer?
Speaker 1: I do, but I have noticed my teeth move. It's annoying.
Speaker 1: But anyway, what's your ech of the week.
Speaker 2: My ech of the week is fortunate enough, I got
Speaker 2: to go to the Australian Open twice already, but I
Speaker 2: want to go to more. I love the tennis when
Speaker 2: it's on, you know, I don't I don't really invest
Speaker 2: in the tennis when it's not in Australia, like you know, I'm.
Speaker 1: Not, Yeah, the same, I'm like, only I'm all about
Speaker 1: the Australian Open and I follow.
Speaker 2: All of it well. I love the pageantry and I
Speaker 2: love like the audience stuff of when you're actually at events,
Speaker 2: like I love that sort of atmosphere, the vibe of
Speaker 2: it all. So when I'm there, I love it and
Speaker 2: I want to go more. But obviously we're really busy.
Speaker 2: So I think I've got another ticket for Wednesday, this
Speaker 2: following Wednesday, so I'll go again. And then I'm back
Speaker 2: up on the goal so I'll be able to go again.
Speaker 1: So so what you're of the week is you haven't
Speaker 1: seen enough tennis, but you still have one more to
Speaker 1: go to.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I'm grateful for the amount I'm going to
Speaker 2: write this. Sorry, guys, I'm actually sorry. I'm going to
Speaker 2: write these cks down from now on and turn on
Speaker 2: when they come to me. I'm not going to think
Speaker 2: that my ADHD brain's going to remember it because you
Speaker 2: know what, I forget it straight away.
Speaker 3: We do love the Australian Open though.
Speaker 1: Like all I've literally, like every single night, I'm awake
Speaker 1: until like twelve one o'clock watching those late night games,
Speaker 1: like I can't turn them off.
Speaker 3: I'm so good.
Speaker 2: My sister and her partner were up pretty late last
Speaker 2: time watch and they don't get nine in their bedroom,
Speaker 2: so they're in like the lounge room watching it. I
Speaker 2: don't know the antenna, the channels, but not in her bedroom.
Speaker 2: And I was pretty funny. I walked past. I'm like
Speaker 2: watching in bed, but come on, and they're just like
Speaker 2: staring at me.
Speaker 3: Okay, so bad. And I were just talking before about
Speaker 3: this fight that we had.
Speaker 2: Hilarious. You reminded me about this.
Speaker 3: It's so funny.
Speaker 1: So in the close to where we do this podcast,
Speaker 1: there's this pub and I had this fight on the
Speaker 1: way there, and I honestly, do you remember what it
Speaker 1: was about?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Sort of, I don't.
Speaker 3: I don't remember at all. Like literally have no record.
Speaker 2: We're not going to we're not gonna air our launch
Speaker 2: tree on here, but I have it. Yeah, I have
Speaker 2: a I know what it was about.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, anyway, we had this fight. It's like on
Speaker 1: the way to this pub shall we call it? And
Speaker 1: I ordered like food and then sat down and so
Speaker 1: salty he literally like there's like the tables and there
Speaker 1: are massive right, like like a long table, and normally
Speaker 1: like we'd sit like beside each other on this huge table,
Speaker 1: and like that was so salty with me that he
Speaker 1: literally I was like sat at one side and he
Speaker 1: literally chose the furthest seat possible away from me on
Speaker 1: the same table.
Speaker 3: You like sat down in half with your arms folded.
Speaker 2: Am I the asshole?
Speaker 3: And are you then asshole? Well? And then I literally
Speaker 3: started laughing.
Speaker 2: No.
Speaker 1: We were in silence actually for like thirty seconds, maybe
Speaker 1: it was like five minutes.
Speaker 3: We didn't talk in five minutes, and then I just
Speaker 3: started laughing.
Speaker 4: He was like, what it's like, did you want to
Speaker 4: get a seat further away from me?
Speaker 3: And then you started laughing? You broke the eyes and
Speaker 3: we moved on with life.
Speaker 1: We get over our fights pretty quickly, I mean, to
Speaker 1: be fair, we haven't had to fight a long time.
Speaker 2: Well, what do we always say? What did we say
Speaker 2: on this podcast? It's not about arguing, It's about the
Speaker 2: everyone has about the recovery about the recovery. It's about
Speaker 2: how you recover from it and how you move on.
Speaker 2: I feel because no one's going to get along with stuff,
Speaker 2: and I'm all disagreements in life, like two people are
Speaker 2: the same, So it's about how you recover from it.
Speaker 2: You're in different opinions on stuff.
Speaker 1: Never let a fight go for more than an hour
Speaker 1: hours long. For me, an hour is too long. Yeah,
Speaker 1: sometimes I need like cooling down period. But like I think,
Speaker 1: after like thirty minutes, I'm like, okay, let's wrap this side.
Speaker 2: I could not want out and that's not sound good.
Speaker 2: I could just figure the argument out and I reckon
Speaker 2: a minute, just say your peace and move on.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's my recovery is key.
Speaker 1: Your recovery is definitely like But that also means that
Speaker 1: sometimes you have to swallow your pride and be like, Okay.
Speaker 2: I'm willing to swallow my pride.
Speaker 1: I feel I am sometimes depending on the arcupant.
Speaker 2: Would you rather be right or would you rather be happy?
Speaker 3: But would you rather be right or rather be happy?
Speaker 2: Happy?
Speaker 1: Michael would say happy to happy wife, happy life. Michael's
Speaker 1: in Sydney this week, which I'm a bit devil about.
Speaker 1: I get so scared sleeping by myself at any house.
Speaker 1: I mean I did live by myself for a while
Speaker 1: and I got really used to it. But I just
Speaker 1: think since I've not done it for a while, and
Speaker 1: because of our house that we have now, it's a
Speaker 1: little bit older, so it's a bit creaky, so it
Speaker 1: just like freaks me out.
Speaker 2: You'll be fine, I mean I don't. Yeah, what's the like,
Speaker 2: You've got two doors, someone's going to get in through
Speaker 2: the first door, and then if they do.
Speaker 1: I'm genuinely thinking about sleeping over at Michael's parents house.
Speaker 1: I was with her yesterday and I was like, I'm
Speaker 1: really scared, and they're like, you can stay it out.
Speaker 3: I was like, actually might.
Speaker 2: Want in wute a friend over.
Speaker 3: Maybe I will, but it's yeah, it's for a few nights.
Speaker 2: Your couch is quite comfortable.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Anyway, that's a that's a later me problem, Okay.
Speaker 2: And so this thing came up in my new seat
Speaker 2: the other day and I sent it into the group chat.
Speaker 2: It was I think the dude or dudet with the
Speaker 2: holding the signs up you know in New York. Oh yeah,
Speaker 2: and she said it's time. It's now time to unfollow
Speaker 2: that person you met drunk in the bathroom four years ago.
Speaker 2: And I was like, this reads sates with me so
Speaker 2: much because I have done an absolute cull on my Instagram.
Speaker 2: On my Facebook. Facebook was a lot harder than I thought.
Speaker 2: I have like four thousand friends on Facebook and.
Speaker 1: I was just one of those people that was just
Speaker 1: like adding adding people.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it must have been I must have been back
Speaker 2: in the day or like I've come across these people,
Speaker 2: because I've seen people and I was like who is this?
Speaker 2: And then like I do a bit, I was like,
Speaker 2: oh I fuck, no unfriends, like I don't need you,
Speaker 2: Like I don't need this stuff. I remember a couple
Speaker 2: of last year, maybe this time last year, I culed out,
Speaker 2: remember how you'd like random Facebook groups? It was like
Speaker 2: like this followed all of them, and I thought it
Speaker 2: was pretty relevant to my life. And I was gonna
Speaker 2: ask you, have you un followed anyone recently? Like what's
Speaker 2: your story?
Speaker 1: Do you feel like you're like, do you feel like
Speaker 1: a weight's lifted? It's like, yeah, ring clean of people.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because I have years ago, someone told me, put
Speaker 2: in your news feed what you want to see, right,
Speaker 2: put in your news feed where you think your life's going,
Speaker 2: like so put in front of you, like if you
Speaker 2: want to you know, like, for instance, we want to
Speaker 2: be on radio, So I follow a lot of radio
Speaker 2: things because I want to see that in that's what
Speaker 2: at my vision It's like a vision board essentially, so
Speaker 2: that like I'll unfollow like things that I don't need
Speaker 2: to see anymore, Like you.
Speaker 1: Know what I mean, anything negative, I'm unfollowing for sure.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: And I follow a lot of business pages now that
Speaker 1: I've started Goldie b like lots of business and like
Speaker 1: motivation and you know, female founders and things like that.
Speaker 3: Like I follow a lot of people like that.
Speaker 1: But I do feel like I like I don't want
Speaker 1: to unfollow people because I feel bad about it, but
Speaker 1: I really would love to just start again, Like I
Speaker 1: reckon on Instagram, I follow like two thousand people and
Speaker 1: I think it's that's a lot. It's a lot, but
Speaker 1: I just feel bad to unfollow people's now. It's just
Speaker 1: like this number and it's hard. Like you meet people
Speaker 1: one time, like at an event or something, and you
Speaker 1: like really like don't know them or anything, and then
Speaker 1: they follow you. So I'm like, Okay, well I'm going
Speaker 1: to follow them back to be nice, and then I'm
Speaker 1: like stuck.
Speaker 2: Yeah I did. There's a couple of people on there
Speaker 2: that I was like, what do you unfollow them? Or
Speaker 2: do you just keep following you? Because like I'll probably
Speaker 2: never talk to you again or never.
Speaker 3: It's not about never talk to you again, like in
Speaker 3: a mean way.
Speaker 1: It's about like I see it when you wouldn't see them, like, yeah,
Speaker 1: it's hard.
Speaker 2: It's a hard one. And then like I was, I
Speaker 2: was some people, I was like, well they are they
Speaker 2: following me? Like if they've unfollowed me, what's the point
Speaker 2: of following them? Like so I check and where? And
Speaker 2: I was like, I still following I'm an a And
Speaker 2: I was like, well maybe I do. Do you mute anyone?
Speaker 3: Oh yeah yeah, if someone annoys me, I'll meet them mute.
Speaker 2: Them straight away.
Speaker 3: Yeah. I think we had a fight once I muted
Speaker 3: you for twenty four hours.
Speaker 2: I remember.
Speaker 1: But also like I have friends who don't look at
Speaker 1: my stories, and I'm like, have you muted me?
Speaker 2: Really?
Speaker 1: Like people who follow me where I'd be like, you know,
Speaker 1: they used to like look at all my stories?
Speaker 3: And then all of a sudden, Yeah.
Speaker 2: I wonder if you can tell who's muted you, Well, I.
Speaker 1: Think you can probably gauge it because like all of
Speaker 1: my friends are at the top of my story, so
Speaker 1: if they're not there, I'm like, well I must have
Speaker 1: been muted.
Speaker 2: Well, yeah they are. But then next time I check,
Speaker 2: it's a different lot.
Speaker 3: Yeah it's a different order. Me too. But in the
Speaker 3: first time I look, it's always like my top friends
Speaker 3: or people who I follow.
Speaker 2: Interesting.
Speaker 1: I mean, social media is just such an interesting place
Speaker 1: because it just like adds so many different layers of
Speaker 1: dynamics to everything. But yeah, like obviously I would love
Speaker 1: to do what you've done and have a clear out,
Speaker 1: but I also don't want to offend people.
Speaker 2: I don't think it's offending people. Because I spoke to
Speaker 2: my mate about this, I reckon it is. Well. I
Speaker 2: spoke to him and I said, like, I'm not going
Speaker 2: to follow. What's the point of following girls? Now?
Speaker 1: Like this girl who I know unfollowed me. Oh sorry,
Speaker 1: what were we gonna say?
Speaker 2: I was saying, like, there's no point following, like and
Speaker 2: not in a way of like you know that I've
Speaker 2: done anything with them or anything like that, Like there
Speaker 2: was completely platonic. But girls like you meet at events
Speaker 2: and that there's no point following him.
Speaker 3: Now because you're gay.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I don't need that. In my new speed,
Speaker 2: I don't need to see that stuff. Like if they
Speaker 2: completely patronic follow I still I don't need that, you
Speaker 2: know what I mean.
Speaker 1: I think that's a bit different. Like I would do
Speaker 1: pissed off if Michael was following all these miscellaneous women,
Speaker 1: even if they'd met, Like I just think, like it's
Speaker 1: really not necessary.
Speaker 3: I think that comes down to respect as well.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I've unfollowed a bunch of them. I was like,
Speaker 2: there's people from like school, and I was like and like, look,
Speaker 2: I mean this in the most nicest way. I was like,
Speaker 2: I don't talk to you, Like I don't I'm not
Speaker 2: going to speak to you again. Like I was like,
Speaker 2: I really don't.
Speaker 1: See whereas I have a problem with unfollowing people, like
Speaker 1: I just feel like just to follow the people still,
Speaker 1: I'm just like it's not that I'll even talk to them,
Speaker 1: it's just more like this is like with like maybe
Speaker 1: even like people I've seen in the past, Like I
Speaker 1: just feel like it's respectful to keep following them. But
Speaker 1: I remember I was in the car with you and
Speaker 1: Michael once and something came up about.
Speaker 3: This guy who I used to see, and then.
Speaker 1: Nat was turned around and was like, why are you
Speaker 1: still following that guy at it?
Speaker 3: And I was I was like okay, mad, And then
Speaker 3: Matt and Michael both came up.
Speaker 1: I mean, they're like, unfollow him right now, and I
Speaker 1: was like, okay, so I'm.
Speaker 3: Followed him, but you know, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I just like, don't go out of my way to
Speaker 1: like unfollow people who have seen in the past.
Speaker 2: Okay, So when you get into a new relationship, then
Speaker 2: do you reckon the expectation is to unfollow anyone that
Speaker 2: you've been on a date with, anyone that you've chatted
Speaker 2: to in that way, or anyone that you've you've seen
Speaker 2: in that way that's not platonic. Do you think that
Speaker 2: is an expectation from both parties?
Speaker 3: Maybe from for them to me.
Speaker 2: I think it's both. I think it respectfully both should
Speaker 2: do that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, respect But like what happens if like so, for instance,
Speaker 1: there was a guy who I used to see who
Speaker 1: now we are like friends, but like we would never
Speaker 1: like nothing would ever happen. Michael, if like, if I
Speaker 1: was to like message him about something like he used
Speaker 1: to have a business, so sometimes I would ask him
Speaker 1: about like business related things. I'll be like to Michael, hey,
Speaker 1: do you mind if I message him about this to
Speaker 1: do with business? Right?
Speaker 2: Fair enough?
Speaker 3: And then Michael's like completely fine with that. I just
Speaker 3: think it's about.
Speaker 1: Having an open dialogue. It always comes back to an
Speaker 1: open dialogue. Like if you're having in a relationship and
Speaker 1: you have a chat with someone else, like who like someone,
Speaker 1: even if it's someone who you've seen, as long as
Speaker 1: you're open about that and you're like, hey, by the way,
Speaker 1: do you mind if I do this?
Speaker 2: I completely agree. But even if it's just like there
Speaker 2: shouldn't even be a dialogue. I think if you've been
Speaker 2: on like two days with them, or you've chatted to
Speaker 2: him in a non platonic way and there's no friendship.
Speaker 3: There, then yeah, you can definitely unfollow definitely.
Speaker 2: Thinkow I don't think there's you don't there's no way
Speaker 2: to justify it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree, I do.
Speaker 2: I do think that sometimes when you do that that
Speaker 2: I don't want the other person that you've unfollowed thinking
Speaker 2: that like that they're an issue or something like do
Speaker 2: you know what I mean? Yeah, that's where I'm sort
Speaker 2: of like, oh, I don't want this person thinking that, like.
Speaker 3: There's a bad lotter.
Speaker 2: No, not that like that. My partner has told me
Speaker 2: to unfollow you, do you know what I mean? I
Speaker 2: don't want to give them that credit because I'm not
Speaker 2: unfollowing for that reason. I'm unfollowing them because it's a
Speaker 2: it's amazing. I'm just not interested in that, like in
Speaker 2: the most respectful way possible, Like I just don't need
Speaker 2: to see you in my news feed anymore.
Speaker 3: Absolutely.
Speaker 1: Okay, Matt, let's play trash or keep. So we're both
Speaker 1: gonna say three to one trash or keep, So it's unfit.
Speaker 2: This is people that if we unfollow or not.
Speaker 1: Yes, so okay trash or keep someone who you used
Speaker 1: to date three to one trush, depending on the situation.
Speaker 3: Like we just discussed, I.
Speaker 2: Unfollowed an X that I'm friends with because another X
Speaker 2: told me to.
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, that's fair enough that but who's requested it?
Speaker 3: Then? Yeah?
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, I just don't think if it makes you
Speaker 2: part and feel uncomfortable.
Speaker 1: Unfollowing, trash or keep someone who added you through a
Speaker 1: dating platform but then nothing eventuated.
Speaker 3: Three to one trash trash an old work colleague you've
Speaker 3: lost touch with three to one trash.
Speaker 2: Well it how close were you with them and your
Speaker 2: thinking the opposites? Are you thinking opposite sex?
Speaker 3: Yeah, trash, I.
Speaker 2: Think same sex. Opposite sex? No real point.
Speaker 1: Okay, an old school friend you haven't spoken with since
Speaker 1: year twelve, three to one trash.
Speaker 2: That's well, that was where it.
Speaker 3: I know what they're up to.
Speaker 2: I'm not interested. I don't know. I'm not into. That's
Speaker 2: that's where it came a bit like I feel bad,
Speaker 2: but I'm not really interested.
Speaker 3: I had something kind of interested.
Speaker 2: I had somebody from high school message me, tell me
Speaker 2: like how well I'm doing, and asked if an old
Speaker 2: friend is getting an invite to the wedding. Shut up,
Speaker 2: I haven't seen him since like year twelve.
Speaker 3: Every man and his dogs come out of the woodworks
Speaker 3: for that wedding.
Speaker 2: Literally literally, it's a final list.
Speaker 1: Guys, Okay, work people who give you the ick three
Speaker 1: to one trash before I.
Speaker 2: Work with them, You're not gonna un following they give
Speaker 2: you the ick like mutant. Maybe you're working with them
Speaker 2: in the office.
Speaker 3: You maybe mute them.
Speaker 1: Someone who posts a lot and you don't like their
Speaker 1: content slash it annoys you. Three to one trash if
Speaker 1: you don't like the content them, will mute them if
Speaker 1: you feel.
Speaker 2: Like you can't unfollow them.
Speaker 3: Someone you met in a bathroom while I was drunk.
Speaker 3: Three to one trash.
Speaker 2: You probably have some great charts and your best friends.
Speaker 2: You've got three business adventures, but like adventures ventures, there
Speaker 2: would be an adventure in the bathroom adventure.
Speaker 3: Okay. Two more family members who don't.
Speaker 1: Actually see that much because I was sorry, I did
Speaker 1: I said that wrong.
Speaker 3: Family members who you don't actually see that much.
Speaker 2: I was actually on one of these ones.
Speaker 1: Three to one family family I like second cousin.
Speaker 2: I was and hovering around that follower button.
Speaker 3: That would actually be no, it was it was.
Speaker 2: It was actually a cousin from you, Like I don't.
Speaker 1: See I have aunties who like don't post, and I
Speaker 1: think they just have like a grid, like there's there's
Speaker 1: no photos, so I'm like, why am I following you?
Speaker 2: But then I'm like, it's not make the edit, but
Speaker 2: someone that passed away, so they're not going to post anymore.
Speaker 3: Three two well trash. That's so bad.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't need to like.
Speaker 3: If I die, surely you're going to keep this afraid
Speaker 3: or you aren't following me.
Speaker 2: I just did a cap.
Speaker 3: That's so toxic, that's so obviously i'd.
Speaker 2: Keep following you.
Speaker 3: You would.
Speaker 4: Over for a little bit and be like, damn it,
Speaker 4: I should keep her. She was the co host to
Speaker 4: my podcast.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that'd be proud upon.
Speaker 1: Okay, guys, that's all we have time for. We are
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