WEBVTT - The Missing Link to Manifesting & the Dr Joe Dispenza Technique That Worked For Me Twice, To Get The Home I Desired // Maritza Barone

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<v Speaker 1>Get ready to hear moments that will help you to

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<v Speaker 1>see the world differently and inspire you to become the happiest,

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<v Speaker 1>healthiest and kindest version of you. Hello, and welcome back

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<v Speaker 1>to Things you Can't and here. Thank you for being here,

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<v Speaker 1>my friend. Now, the word manifestation comes up a lot,

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<v Speaker 1>and I am a true believer in the fact that

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<v Speaker 1>we have more creative control in our lives than we think.

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<v Speaker 1>Whether we want to call it manifestation or not, it

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<v Speaker 1>is the desire to bring something in that we truly

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<v Speaker 1>care about. And it made me think of a story

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<v Speaker 1>that I shared with a friend the other day that

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<v Speaker 1>I now want to share with you guys, because I

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<v Speaker 1>realized a while ago that I was a far better

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<v Speaker 1>manifesto than I thought I was a few years into

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<v Speaker 1>creating this podcast, I had found a journal i'd written

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<v Speaker 1>several years prior, so three years before the show was

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<v Speaker 1>even launched, and I had written the same affirmation in

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<v Speaker 1>this journal over thirty days. I wish I could find

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<v Speaker 1>it now. I've literally searched high and low to try

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<v Speaker 1>and find it, but I can't find it. And I'd

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<v Speaker 1>love to read the whole thing with a word, But

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<v Speaker 1>I clearly remember part of what I had written, and

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<v Speaker 1>what i'd written was I have a show that reaches

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<v Speaker 1>millions and millions of people around the world, one that

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<v Speaker 1>helps to inspire, transform, and guide people to make changes

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<v Speaker 1>in their lives for the better. The show will be

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<v Speaker 1>launched on the nineteenth of a month, so that I

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<v Speaker 1>know that this is the one. That's what I had

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<v Speaker 1>written in this journal. And when I found this and

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<v Speaker 1>read it all those years later, I thought, wow, I

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<v Speaker 1>wonder if the Things you Can't On Here podcast is

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<v Speaker 1>the show? In my heart, I thought it must be,

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<v Speaker 1>but I was not yet reaching millions and millions of people.

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<v Speaker 1>But I had a deep sense that this was it.

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<v Speaker 1>So half I scrambled to see when the first episode

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<v Speaker 1>of Things You Can't and Here was launched. And I

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<v Speaker 1>looked at the date and it said the twentieth of

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<v Speaker 1>March twenty nineteen. So close, but for me, it just

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't close enough to know for sure. I actually felt

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<v Speaker 1>a bit deflated because I was like, I really wanted

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<v Speaker 1>that validation and to know that this was it. This

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<v Speaker 1>was the show that I should just keep pushing and

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<v Speaker 1>trying hard enough and I will make that impact that

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<v Speaker 1>I want to make by creating this show back when

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<v Speaker 1>I did it all those years ago. Then I thought, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>when did I actually create the show and upload the

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<v Speaker 1>first episode? And I went back to my emails and

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<v Speaker 1>scrolled through them all, and I am sure enough, there

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<v Speaker 1>it was. I built the back end of the show,

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<v Speaker 1>uploaded and scheduled the first episode on the nineteenth of

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<v Speaker 1>March twenty nineteen. There it was in black and white,

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<v Speaker 1>two nineteen's there, just in case I missed the first one,

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<v Speaker 1>and man, it felt good, amazing. It was the nod

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<v Speaker 1>I needed to keep creating and putting in the time

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<v Speaker 1>and effort into the work to produce the show. And

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<v Speaker 1>I knew I was already transforming people. But it made

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<v Speaker 1>me realize it would continue to grow and become what

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<v Speaker 1>I dreamed up all those years ago. And that's exactly

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<v Speaker 1>what has continued to happen. And I share this story

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<v Speaker 1>with you today because I truly believe, like I said,

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<v Speaker 1>we have more creative control of what happens in our

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<v Speaker 1>lives than we think. We can steer things to happen

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<v Speaker 1>in our favor, and our goals and dreams can be

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<v Speaker 1>placed right in front of us if we're open to

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<v Speaker 1>believing them. I learned, though, very recently, that things will

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<v Speaker 1>come to us much faster with something that might be

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<v Speaker 1>the missing link when so many people tried to consciously

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<v Speaker 1>create something new in their lives, and that is knowing

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<v Speaker 1>that you deserve it, feeling and believing that you deserve it.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're trying to manifest a brand, new, beautiful home,

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<v Speaker 1>but don't feel worthy of living in it, maybe because

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<v Speaker 1>other people deserve it more than you. And guess what,

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<v Speaker 1>it probably won't come. And if you're trying to create

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<v Speaker 1>a partner of your dreams but you don't love yourself

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<v Speaker 1>enough first, it's going to make it very hard for

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<v Speaker 1>you to have that in your life. It's all about

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<v Speaker 1>the energy that surrounds your intention. You can't just say

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<v Speaker 1>or write the words, you need to feel and believe them.

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<v Speaker 1>The words matter, but the feeling behind the matters even more.

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<v Speaker 1>And energy responds to who we are being, not just

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<v Speaker 1>what we are saying. When our thoughts and our emotions

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<v Speaker 1>are aligned, something powerful happens. We begin noticing opportunities we

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<v Speaker 1>would otherwise have missed. We make different decisions, we show

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<v Speaker 1>up differently. We become a match for things we say

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<v Speaker 1>we want. And this doesn't mean we sit back and wait.

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<v Speaker 1>Manifestation or creation isn't about wishing it to be out

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<v Speaker 1>partnering with possibility. It's about setting an intention, believing it's

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<v Speaker 1>available to you, and then taking the steps that move

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<v Speaker 1>you towards it. There's a powerful exercise that I learned

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<v Speaker 1>through Joe Dispenser's work that has now worked for me

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<v Speaker 1>twice when it came to finding a home for my

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<v Speaker 1>family and finding the house we wanted to live in.

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<v Speaker 1>So what you do and try this out see if

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<v Speaker 1>it works for you. What you do is write your

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<v Speaker 1>keyword of what you're trying to bring in in the

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<v Speaker 1>middle of a page. For example, I wrote home or house,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you draw some zig zaggy lines around the

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<v Speaker 1>word and two rows of it. Don't ask me why.

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<v Speaker 1>I believe it's like frequency lines, but I assume it's

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<v Speaker 1>there to help the energy come in more freely. Then

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<v Speaker 1>on the right of your keyword, which is in the

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<v Speaker 1>middle of the page, write a list of all the

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<v Speaker 1>physical things you would like from that house, so the location,

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<v Speaker 1>the color, have many bedrooms, have many living spaces, if

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<v Speaker 1>it has a big back yard or a beautiful view.

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<v Speaker 1>And get into the nitty gritty. Add the doggy door

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<v Speaker 1>for your pet, at a space where you can hang

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<v Speaker 1>your washing indoors. If you like sunlight, requests that too.

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<v Speaker 1>Put it all in there and be specific whatever you desire.

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<v Speaker 1>Then on the left of the keyword, add all of

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<v Speaker 1>the feelings you want to feel in that home. Safety, love, laughter, happiness, freedom, joy, cozy, healthy, etc. Etc.

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<v Speaker 1>And feel it as you write it, but also know

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<v Speaker 1>you deserve it too. Then sign it with your initials

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<v Speaker 1>and keep it somewhere where you can see it and

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<v Speaker 1>be reminded of it frequently, especially for the first thirty days.

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<v Speaker 1>Then move it somewhere, maybe on a bookshelf, where you

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<v Speaker 1>can perhaps add a picture of a home that you

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<v Speaker 1>love near it, even like a nice open home brochure,

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<v Speaker 1>so your vibe is clear, and then let the rest unfold.

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<v Speaker 1>For me, doing this exercise twice didn't just help us

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<v Speaker 1>find a home, helped us get crystal clear on what

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<v Speaker 1>we actually wanted from a home, so when the right

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<v Speaker 1>house appeared, we recognized it immediately. And a few weeks

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<v Speaker 1>ago I found one of my old lists and I

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<v Speaker 1>laughed because I'd written that I wanted a sauna and

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<v Speaker 1>an ice bath because my husband loves doing them. And

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<v Speaker 1>when we moved into our current home, I remember thinking, well,

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<v Speaker 1>that one didn't happen, But then I realized it had.

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<v Speaker 1>It just hadn't arrived in the way that I had

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<v Speaker 1>imagined it would. In my head, I had imagined a

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<v Speaker 1>luxury wellness retreat in the backyard, but what we actually

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<v Speaker 1>had was a converted chess freezer turned ice bath and

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<v Speaker 1>a foldable sauna tucked into the corner of the garage. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>we need to be more siffic next time, but it

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<v Speaker 1>was there, It existed, and I could literally mark that

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<v Speaker 1>off the list, just like every other item I had written.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think that's important to note that, because sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>we become so attached to the form that we missed

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<v Speaker 1>the miracle. And you know, you can do this exercise

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<v Speaker 1>with relatlationships, with friendships, with your career opportunities, with your

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<v Speaker 1>health goals, with creative projects, with anything. You can be specific.

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<v Speaker 1>You can focus on how you want it to feel,

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<v Speaker 1>and most importantly, believe that you deserve it. I think

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<v Speaker 1>the biggest thing I've learned isn't that manifestation works. It's

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<v Speaker 1>that life has a funny way of meeting us at

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<v Speaker 1>the level of our self worth. The dreams we keep

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<v Speaker 1>writing down, speaking about, and taking action towards are so

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<v Speaker 1>often waiting on the other side of one question, do

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<v Speaker 1>I truly believe this is available to me? So today

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<v Speaker 1>I want to leave you with this, What if the

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<v Speaker 1>thing you have been asking for is already making its

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<v Speaker 1>way towards you? What if the opportunity, the relationship, the business,

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<v Speaker 1>the home. The next chapter you've been dreaming of isn't

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<v Speaker 1>being held back by timing, luck, or coincidence, but your

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<v Speaker 1>willingness to believe you are worthy of receiving it. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>your job isn't to force it. Maybe your job is

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<v Speaker 1>to simply become the person who knows, without a doubt

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<v Speaker 1>that it belongs in your life. Write it down, feel it,

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<v Speaker 1>believe it. Then keep showing up because the future you

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<v Speaker 1>are hoping for may already be responding to the energy

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<v Speaker 1>you're creating today, and who knows, a few years from now,

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<v Speaker 1>you might stumble across an old journal, read the words

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<v Speaker 1>you once wrote, and smile to yourself and realize you

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<v Speaker 1>are creating your future all along. Thanks for listening to

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<v Speaker 1>the show. What did you think and what did you feel?

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