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Speaker 1: Get ready to hear moments that will help you to
Speaker 1: see the world differently and inspire you to become the happiest,
Speaker 1: healthiest and kindest version of you. Hello, and welcome back
Speaker 1: to Things you Can't and here. Thank you for being here,
Speaker 1: my friend. Now, the word manifestation comes up a lot,
Speaker 1: and I am a true believer in the fact that
Speaker 1: we have more creative control in our lives than we think.
Speaker 1: Whether we want to call it manifestation or not, it
Speaker 1: is the desire to bring something in that we truly
Speaker 1: care about. And it made me think of a story
Speaker 1: that I shared with a friend the other day that
Speaker 1: I now want to share with you guys, because I
Speaker 1: realized a while ago that I was a far better
Speaker 1: manifesto than I thought I was a few years into
Speaker 1: creating this podcast, I had found a journal i'd written
Speaker 1: several years prior, so three years before the show was
Speaker 1: even launched, and I had written the same affirmation in
Speaker 1: this journal over thirty days. I wish I could find
Speaker 1: it now. I've literally searched high and low to try
Speaker 1: and find it, but I can't find it. And I'd
Speaker 1: love to read the whole thing with a word, But
Speaker 1: I clearly remember part of what I had written, and
Speaker 1: what i'd written was I have a show that reaches
Speaker 1: millions and millions of people around the world, one that
Speaker 1: helps to inspire, transform, and guide people to make changes
Speaker 1: in their lives for the better. The show will be
Speaker 1: launched on the nineteenth of a month, so that I
Speaker 1: know that this is the one. That's what I had
Speaker 1: written in this journal. And when I found this and
Speaker 1: read it all those years later, I thought, wow, I
Speaker 1: wonder if the Things you Can't On Here podcast is
Speaker 1: the show? In my heart, I thought it must be,
Speaker 1: but I was not yet reaching millions and millions of people.
Speaker 1: But I had a deep sense that this was it.
Speaker 1: So half I scrambled to see when the first episode
Speaker 1: of Things You Can't and Here was launched. And I
Speaker 1: looked at the date and it said the twentieth of
Speaker 1: March twenty nineteen. So close, but for me, it just
Speaker 1: wasn't close enough to know for sure. I actually felt
Speaker 1: a bit deflated because I was like, I really wanted
Speaker 1: that validation and to know that this was it. This
Speaker 1: was the show that I should just keep pushing and
Speaker 1: trying hard enough and I will make that impact that
Speaker 1: I want to make by creating this show back when
Speaker 1: I did it all those years ago. Then I thought, wait,
Speaker 1: when did I actually create the show and upload the
Speaker 1: first episode? And I went back to my emails and
Speaker 1: scrolled through them all, and I am sure enough, there
Speaker 1: it was. I built the back end of the show,
Speaker 1: uploaded and scheduled the first episode on the nineteenth of
Speaker 1: March twenty nineteen. There it was in black and white,
Speaker 1: two nineteen's there, just in case I missed the first one,
Speaker 1: and man, it felt good, amazing. It was the nod
Speaker 1: I needed to keep creating and putting in the time
Speaker 1: and effort into the work to produce the show. And
Speaker 1: I knew I was already transforming people. But it made
Speaker 1: me realize it would continue to grow and become what
Speaker 1: I dreamed up all those years ago. And that's exactly
Speaker 1: what has continued to happen. And I share this story
Speaker 1: with you today because I truly believe, like I said,
Speaker 1: we have more creative control of what happens in our
Speaker 1: lives than we think. We can steer things to happen
Speaker 1: in our favor, and our goals and dreams can be
Speaker 1: placed right in front of us if we're open to
Speaker 1: believing them. I learned, though, very recently, that things will
Speaker 1: come to us much faster with something that might be
Speaker 1: the missing link when so many people tried to consciously
Speaker 1: create something new in their lives, and that is knowing
Speaker 1: that you deserve it, feeling and believing that you deserve it.
Speaker 1: If you're trying to manifest a brand, new, beautiful home,
Speaker 1: but don't feel worthy of living in it, maybe because
Speaker 1: other people deserve it more than you. And guess what,
Speaker 1: it probably won't come. And if you're trying to create
Speaker 1: a partner of your dreams but you don't love yourself
Speaker 1: enough first, it's going to make it very hard for
Speaker 1: you to have that in your life. It's all about
Speaker 1: the energy that surrounds your intention. You can't just say
Speaker 1: or write the words, you need to feel and believe them.
Speaker 1: The words matter, but the feeling behind the matters even more.
Speaker 1: And energy responds to who we are being, not just
Speaker 1: what we are saying. When our thoughts and our emotions
Speaker 1: are aligned, something powerful happens. We begin noticing opportunities we
Speaker 1: would otherwise have missed. We make different decisions, we show
Speaker 1: up differently. We become a match for things we say
Speaker 1: we want. And this doesn't mean we sit back and wait.
Speaker 1: Manifestation or creation isn't about wishing it to be out
Speaker 1: partnering with possibility. It's about setting an intention, believing it's
Speaker 1: available to you, and then taking the steps that move
Speaker 1: you towards it. There's a powerful exercise that I learned
Speaker 1: through Joe Dispenser's work that has now worked for me
Speaker 1: twice when it came to finding a home for my
Speaker 1: family and finding the house we wanted to live in.
Speaker 1: So what you do and try this out see if
Speaker 1: it works for you. What you do is write your
Speaker 1: keyword of what you're trying to bring in in the
Speaker 1: middle of a page. For example, I wrote home or house,
Speaker 1: and then you draw some zig zaggy lines around the
Speaker 1: word and two rows of it. Don't ask me why.
Speaker 1: I believe it's like frequency lines, but I assume it's
Speaker 1: there to help the energy come in more freely. Then
Speaker 1: on the right of your keyword, which is in the
Speaker 1: middle of the page, write a list of all the
Speaker 1: physical things you would like from that house, so the location,
Speaker 1: the color, have many bedrooms, have many living spaces, if
Speaker 1: it has a big back yard or a beautiful view.
Speaker 1: And get into the nitty gritty. Add the doggy door
Speaker 1: for your pet, at a space where you can hang
Speaker 1: your washing indoors. If you like sunlight, requests that too.
Speaker 1: Put it all in there and be specific whatever you desire.
Speaker 1: Then on the left of the keyword, add all of
Speaker 1: the feelings you want to feel in that home. Safety, love, laughter, happiness, freedom, joy, cozy, healthy, etc. Etc.
Speaker 1: And feel it as you write it, but also know
Speaker 1: you deserve it too. Then sign it with your initials
Speaker 1: and keep it somewhere where you can see it and
Speaker 1: be reminded of it frequently, especially for the first thirty days.
Speaker 1: Then move it somewhere, maybe on a bookshelf, where you
Speaker 1: can perhaps add a picture of a home that you
Speaker 1: love near it, even like a nice open home brochure,
Speaker 1: so your vibe is clear, and then let the rest unfold.
Speaker 1: For me, doing this exercise twice didn't just help us
Speaker 1: find a home, helped us get crystal clear on what
Speaker 1: we actually wanted from a home, so when the right
Speaker 1: house appeared, we recognized it immediately. And a few weeks
Speaker 1: ago I found one of my old lists and I
Speaker 1: laughed because I'd written that I wanted a sauna and
Speaker 1: an ice bath because my husband loves doing them. And
Speaker 1: when we moved into our current home, I remember thinking, well,
Speaker 1: that one didn't happen, But then I realized it had.
Speaker 1: It just hadn't arrived in the way that I had
Speaker 1: imagined it would. In my head, I had imagined a
Speaker 1: luxury wellness retreat in the backyard, but what we actually
Speaker 1: had was a converted chess freezer turned ice bath and
Speaker 1: a foldable sauna tucked into the corner of the garage. Yes,
Speaker 1: we need to be more siffic next time, but it
Speaker 1: was there, It existed, and I could literally mark that
Speaker 1: off the list, just like every other item I had written.
Speaker 1: And I think that's important to note that, because sometimes
Speaker 1: we become so attached to the form that we missed
Speaker 1: the miracle. And you know, you can do this exercise
Speaker 1: with relatlationships, with friendships, with your career opportunities, with your
Speaker 1: health goals, with creative projects, with anything. You can be specific.
Speaker 1: You can focus on how you want it to feel,
Speaker 1: and most importantly, believe that you deserve it. I think
Speaker 1: the biggest thing I've learned isn't that manifestation works. It's
Speaker 1: that life has a funny way of meeting us at
Speaker 1: the level of our self worth. The dreams we keep
Speaker 1: writing down, speaking about, and taking action towards are so
Speaker 1: often waiting on the other side of one question, do
Speaker 1: I truly believe this is available to me? So today
Speaker 1: I want to leave you with this, What if the
Speaker 1: thing you have been asking for is already making its
Speaker 1: way towards you? What if the opportunity, the relationship, the business,
Speaker 1: the home. The next chapter you've been dreaming of isn't
Speaker 1: being held back by timing, luck, or coincidence, but your
Speaker 1: willingness to believe you are worthy of receiving it. Maybe
Speaker 1: your job isn't to force it. Maybe your job is
Speaker 1: to simply become the person who knows, without a doubt
Speaker 1: that it belongs in your life. Write it down, feel it,
Speaker 1: believe it. Then keep showing up because the future you
Speaker 1: are hoping for may already be responding to the energy
Speaker 1: you're creating today, and who knows, a few years from now,
Speaker 1: you might stumble across an old journal, read the words
Speaker 1: you once wrote, and smile to yourself and realize you
Speaker 1: are creating your future all along. Thanks for listening to
Speaker 1: the show. What did you think and what did you feel?
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