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Speaker 1: Coming up on Relatables. I like the butterflies, even though

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Speaker 1: it's really really scary, but like when you initially start

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Speaker 1: kissing someone who sees someone naked for the first time,

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Speaker 1: and your butterflies like what I do? It's crazy, and

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Speaker 1: then like you get into it and they sort of

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Speaker 1: go away, and then you get all excited and then

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Speaker 1: like it's real fun and you start just fucking you

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Speaker 1: get more confident, like relatable the Relatable was podcast. It

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Speaker 1: is hosted by myself Jake aka just Jake, not Jake,

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Speaker 1: creg Daddy oh yeah, and my partner of Crime Crime

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Speaker 1: Budie aka Mommy. Every single time we've done first last night,

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Speaker 1: may you were just like Jake, you put me off.

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Speaker 1: You know what it is. I've come back a different

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Speaker 1: person from where from my cleanse? Oh maybe that segue

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Speaker 1: was so good it went over my head. We are cleanse.

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Speaker 1: We're thinking, where'd you go on the weekend? Did you

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Speaker 1: do some retreat or something for clean No, mate, But

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Speaker 1: we left the listeners on a bit of a cliffhanger,

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Speaker 1: didn't we We did. We certainly did act maybe not

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Speaker 1: the biggest cliffhanger ever, but we said this weekend that

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Speaker 1: just passed. We were gonna get rid of the smartphones

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Speaker 1: and we're gonna whip out the flip phones that I bought. Yes,

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Speaker 1: so a couple updates first before we get into our

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Speaker 1: cleanse Yes, I fucked up and the cool flip phones,

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Speaker 1: although very cool, they were, still give me that they

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Speaker 1: don't work in Australia. So we had to go to

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Speaker 1: JB High Five at a local JB High Five and

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Speaker 1: pick up some they're called Do you call them JB

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Speaker 1: high five? You know it's Jami high five, Tomato Tomato

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Speaker 1: mate changed their name high five. I don't think it's

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Speaker 1: soon comes off the tongue better. Surely that isn't that

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Speaker 1: a kid's TV show? Five? Yeah? I think they would

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Speaker 1: get suited. If Jelling added a V in a knee,

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Speaker 1: they'd get sued. High five is still a thing? Yeah

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Speaker 1: it is? Yeah? Really well yeah they still too. They

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Speaker 1: still do everything. Really, we should go to a show

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Speaker 1: or something. Apparently, when I was my mum said, when

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Speaker 1: they were just kind of starting. Yeah, I remember it

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Speaker 1: as kids. I didn't think they were still around.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she said, that I would it would be on

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Speaker 2: the TV, and I would just run around and not

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Speaker 2: watch the TV for most of them. And then there

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Speaker 2: was this one girl because like they held out their

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Speaker 2: own different little segments. Yeah, there was a girl that

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Speaker 2: apparently I had a bit of a crush on. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 2: the High five girl, and I would sit down and

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Speaker 2: watch hers, and then when it swapped out to one

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Speaker 1: At least we were loyal from the start. Fair there

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Speaker 2: And I also how apparently we went to the Wiggles

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Speaker 2: they were just touring.

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Speaker 1: Like in every country they were a different Wiggle.

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, I think the Wiggles are on the Australian,

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Speaker 2: so if people watch them overseas, they're watching the Australian.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, yeah, but it's funny. I've seen the Purple

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Speaker 1: Wiggle has a TikTok account. Do you know where he's from?

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Speaker 1: He like, where's he from? Okay?

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Speaker 2: The Purple Wiggle was in that boy band group, that's

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Speaker 1: Ah damn. And they have a banger of a song

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Speaker 1: out too. Was it Justice Crew? Yes? Yeah, he was

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Speaker 1: in Justice Crew. Row that's Australia culture right there. The

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Speaker 1: dro Do they still make money? No, no, they don't

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Speaker 1: He's probably making money? Yeah, I reckon he makes bad

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Speaker 1: like ages. Maybe like fourteen to eighteen, I thought The

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Speaker 1: Wiggles wasn't the coolest thing. Now I think I would

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Speaker 1: be a Wiggle gets sick, just like rapping. They have

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Speaker 2: He fully one of the other guys that was in

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Speaker 1: The kids makes for giving people job. Imagine people are like,

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Speaker 1: I'm the Purple Wiggle. Nah, you can't beat the og.

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Speaker 2: Yes, the red one, but the blue one is the

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, he didn't give up. He didn't give up

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Speaker 1: f I have a purple version of that. We're slightly

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Speaker 1: and tens. I don't know if it's the two ten

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Speaker 1: have a cleanse for Saturday and Sunday. We started Saturday

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Speaker 1: morning when we woke up and I started Friday alvo.

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Speaker 1: Oh really, That's when I texted you and said, KNOCKI

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Speaker 1: your time. I thought you were just reminding me. Oh no,

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Speaker 1: I feel started. Well, you had to change your sim

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Speaker 1: it was kind of annoying because it here's my phone.

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Speaker 1: Who wants to work? This is me typing any word

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Speaker 1: and I was just like, I can't figure out. This

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Speaker 2: said KNOCKI your time and you said kay. And I

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Speaker 1: I laughed. I chuckled me like seven more. It was

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Speaker 1: like I didn't know. I was like, this guy's on

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Speaker 1: this phone. Like when I click on Jake as a

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Speaker 1: text message not from your contact to find our thread, okay.

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Speaker 1: And it took me to a new one. Yeah, it

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Speaker 1: took me a while to figure that out. And me,

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Speaker 1: To be fair, I kept quite busy, so there was

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Speaker 1: Did you feel like you had more time? Yeah? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: the complete opposite. I had nothing to do really well,

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Speaker 1: my editing was done. How did you find it by?

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Speaker 1: Actually just in overall? Where how did you go overall?

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Speaker 1: are certain moments in life where you're like, fuck, I

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Speaker 1: wish I had an iPhone. Yeah, I thought that I did.

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Speaker 1: And Saturday I had a really bad No, Sunday, sorry,

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Speaker 2: So I was quite busy Saturday, and then Saturday I

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Speaker 1: So it was just Beth, myself and Henry at the house.

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Speaker 2: Yes, and I kind of had cleaned up some dinner,

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Speaker 1: funny you're getting to golf. I'm getting into F one. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: the highlights.

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Speaker 2: You know, it's crazy, but you know what is changing

433
00:19:30,640 --> 00:19:32,520
Speaker 2: about us? And I do see some frontal load development

434
00:19:32,520 --> 00:19:33,960
Speaker 2: and you, you know how you were saying, oh, maybe.

435
00:19:33,760 --> 00:19:35,440
Speaker 1: I'm not getting it. I think you are getting that

436
00:19:35,560 --> 00:19:39,040
Speaker 1: where because everyone's a rich man sport. That's frontal load

437
00:19:39,080 --> 00:19:42,480
Speaker 1: development there. I'll take that. I might not be able

438
00:19:42,520 --> 00:19:44,560
Speaker 1: to get off my phone, but watching some cars go

439
00:19:44,640 --> 00:19:48,520
Speaker 1: around the track, would you ever want to go to

440
00:19:48,560 --> 00:19:50,920
Speaker 1: a race? It's actually worrying. Do you think I think

441
00:19:50,920 --> 00:19:53,679
Speaker 1: it's fun to watch the highlights. How many hours as

442
00:19:53,680 --> 00:19:55,879
Speaker 1: the race go? For fuck, I don't even know. I

443
00:19:55,960 --> 00:19:58,960
Speaker 1: just like the Netflix documentary okay, and then the highlights yeah,

444
00:19:59,000 --> 00:20:00,000
Speaker 1: because they're like ten minutes.

445
00:20:00,280 --> 00:20:03,800
Speaker 2: That's fair because I to be fair, like I was,

446
00:20:03,880 --> 00:20:06,280
Speaker 2: I was watching. I watched about five hours of golf,

447
00:20:06,920 --> 00:20:09,240
Speaker 2: but I just had it on my phone and was

448
00:20:09,400 --> 00:20:10,399
Speaker 2: editing and doing so well.

449
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Speaker 1: The thing I like about F one is that could

450
00:20:12,640 --> 00:20:15,640
Speaker 1: never be me. Yeah, like same as the golf. You're

451
00:20:15,680 --> 00:20:17,600
Speaker 1: playing golf. See, I can actually I can go play golf.

452
00:20:17,600 --> 00:20:19,040
Speaker 1: You can never go driving anything. I could never go

453
00:20:19,160 --> 00:20:21,120
Speaker 1: driving F one. I'm not thinking like it is gonna

454
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Speaker 1: be bige. I just think it's just so out of

455
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Speaker 1: my world that it's exciting.

456
00:20:26,960 --> 00:20:30,399
Speaker 2: It's so weird that so men in this in this

457
00:20:30,560 --> 00:20:32,800
Speaker 2: nonfiction book that I started reading again, I kind of

458
00:20:32,800 --> 00:20:33,359
Speaker 2: forgot everything.

459
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Speaker 1: So it's good.

460
00:20:34,160 --> 00:20:37,000
Speaker 2: It's like all very science based. They go in to

461
00:20:37,080 --> 00:20:39,560
Speaker 2: talk about in detail as to why men will get

462
00:20:39,600 --> 00:20:44,280
Speaker 2: like so emotional over sports and TV and shit, and

463
00:20:44,320 --> 00:20:46,080
Speaker 2: it's just I don't know, it's just to do with

464
00:20:46,200 --> 00:20:49,680
Speaker 2: like we can something about back in the day because

465
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Speaker 2: it was hunter gatherer type situations, right, and our brains

466
00:20:53,320 --> 00:20:55,439
Speaker 2: over the last fifty thousand years have barely changed.

467
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Speaker 1: They've changed a little bit, but barely so.

468
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Speaker 2: We're still our brains are like instinctively in that something

469
00:21:00,720 --> 00:21:03,960
Speaker 2: to do with being able to just like imagine being

470
00:21:04,040 --> 00:21:07,240
Speaker 2: in the seat is like it's embarrassing to say.

471
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Speaker 1: But I think men genuinely like feel like they're racing. Bro.

472
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Speaker 1: I'm glad. When I was a kid, I used to

473
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Speaker 1: get like so enveloped by when I was playing sport

474
00:21:16,680 --> 00:21:18,800
Speaker 1: and lost the grand final or something. Yes, But now

475
00:21:18,960 --> 00:21:22,359
Speaker 1: like I can't connect like to any sport like that

476
00:21:22,440 --> 00:21:23,919
Speaker 1: at all. Like I see some of our friends with

477
00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:27,200
Speaker 1: like footy and like grand finals and like go Paramatta

478
00:21:27,320 --> 00:21:29,600
Speaker 1: or something, and then like they lose, yeah, and they're

479
00:21:29,640 --> 00:21:31,800
Speaker 1: like really sad and angry and like full rules that day.

480
00:21:31,840 --> 00:21:33,600
Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't care. Maybe you should. Do you

481
00:21:33,600 --> 00:21:36,040
Speaker 1: get emotional at or watching the F one because is

482
00:21:36,080 --> 00:21:38,320
Speaker 1: really good at building stuff up because they made the

483
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Speaker 1: F one version for golf called full Swing and they

484
00:21:41,920 --> 00:21:44,640
Speaker 1: make it emotional as fuck. No, I'm not that like attached,

485
00:21:44,680 --> 00:21:46,639
Speaker 1: but do you do you relate to me crying over

486
00:21:46,720 --> 00:21:48,600
Speaker 1: Rory Macroy at all? Like seeing a favorite team winn

487
00:21:48,600 --> 00:21:53,119
Speaker 1: a grand final? Ornything? Really not really, not to that extent.

488
00:21:53,440 --> 00:21:57,639
Speaker 1: I cry, like, fuck, bro, maybe I'm a softie. Maybe

489
00:21:57,720 --> 00:21:59,760
Speaker 1: it's not a bad thing. Man, it's not a bad society.

490
00:22:00,080 --> 00:22:01,479
Speaker 1: You think it's a bad thing. I'm proud of it.

491
00:22:01,640 --> 00:22:04,600
Speaker 1: I want to lean into it. But talking about men

492
00:22:04,840 --> 00:22:08,720
Speaker 1: and how we haven't changed in what fifty million, hundred

493
00:22:08,800 --> 00:22:10,840
Speaker 1: billion years, I don't know. Do we ever? Yeah? Do

494
00:22:10,960 --> 00:22:13,920
Speaker 1: we ever? Today's IG question of the Week, Jake Yes,

495
00:22:15,600 --> 00:22:19,040
Speaker 1: is where do men find the audacity? Too? Oh? Yeah, too,

496
00:22:19,200 --> 00:22:23,120
Speaker 1: yeah too? And we asked, obviously, the IG question, and

497
00:22:23,200 --> 00:22:25,240
Speaker 1: everyone came in with some heat. Yeah no, I got

498
00:22:25,240 --> 00:22:29,960
Speaker 1: some funny ones. I think I've got like fourteen bite

499
00:22:30,080 --> 00:22:32,040
Speaker 1: and I think like a lot of the answers would

500
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Speaker 1: be like, our brains haven't developed in like fifty million

501
00:22:34,560 --> 00:22:37,159
Speaker 1: billion years. Fact that honest, That's what I was going on,

502
00:22:37,280 --> 00:22:40,119
Speaker 1: all right, So where do men find the audacity to

503
00:22:41,320 --> 00:22:47,760
Speaker 1: think we need them? Oh? Shit? Yeah? Honestly fair, honestly fair.

504
00:22:48,480 --> 00:22:51,240
Speaker 1: I don't know why men think that? If Where did

505
00:22:51,280 --> 00:22:53,800
Speaker 1: I see this recently? I think it was our manager

506
00:22:53,840 --> 00:22:56,840
Speaker 1: has a podcast, Mad's World Shout Out. Mad is the legend?

507
00:22:56,960 --> 00:22:59,879
Speaker 2: Didn't she talk about something about if men vanished off

508
00:22:59,880 --> 00:23:02,440
Speaker 2: the basically the earth women would do better than if

509
00:23:02,840 --> 00:23:06,320
Speaker 2: then men would do if women vanish, it's kind of facts.

510
00:23:06,840 --> 00:23:12,200
Speaker 1: I agree. Yeah. Also, if women vanish off the face

511
00:23:12,200 --> 00:23:14,600
Speaker 1: of the earth, purely for the fact of that they

512
00:23:14,600 --> 00:23:18,240
Speaker 1: are the people that literally magically bring life into this world,

513
00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:21,600
Speaker 1: they would be able to do artificial insemination because fuck

514
00:23:21,640 --> 00:23:23,600
Speaker 1: the men. Like, without us, they'd be sweet because they

515
00:23:23,600 --> 00:23:25,280
Speaker 1: can still bring people into the world, but without them

516
00:23:25,520 --> 00:23:28,840
Speaker 1: we'd be fucked. Only rebuttal is like, oh, we're strength

517
00:23:28,880 --> 00:23:31,040
Speaker 1: and size and like we could move shit. They'll figure

518
00:23:31,080 --> 00:23:32,760
Speaker 1: it out. Are you kidding? They'll just build small stuff?

519
00:23:33,680 --> 00:23:37,560
Speaker 1: Like why they just figure it out? Fucking hell? Okay,

520
00:23:37,920 --> 00:23:42,520
Speaker 1: where do men find the audacity to be ugly and

521
00:23:42,600 --> 00:23:48,760
Speaker 1: say they only want to hook up? Is that a

522
00:23:49,800 --> 00:23:52,639
Speaker 1: Is that a win for you though, you're hooking up

523
00:23:52,640 --> 00:23:54,159
Speaker 1: with an ugly man, But that means you're not in

524
00:23:54,160 --> 00:23:57,160
Speaker 1: it for the long run with him? No? Maybe maybe

525
00:23:57,640 --> 00:24:00,240
Speaker 1: it's before they've even hooked up, he's just so Maybe

526
00:24:00,240 --> 00:24:01,800
Speaker 1: if he's in it for the long run, she's willing

527
00:24:01,800 --> 00:24:03,280
Speaker 1: to be like, Okay, maybe he's a nice guy, maybe

528
00:24:03,280 --> 00:24:04,920
Speaker 1: he's got personality, he's personality.

529
00:24:05,080 --> 00:24:06,680
Speaker 2: But if he's ugly and says I'm not looking to date.

530
00:24:06,720 --> 00:24:08,920
Speaker 2: She's probably thinking, where do you get the audacity?

531
00:24:09,480 --> 00:24:10,920
Speaker 1: She's thinking like, why the fun would I want to

532
00:24:10,920 --> 00:24:17,200
Speaker 1: hook up for you? Yeah? Exactly. Imagine a guy thinks

533
00:24:17,200 --> 00:24:19,640
Speaker 1: he's got game, right, He's just like yeah, like I'm

534
00:24:19,640 --> 00:24:21,760
Speaker 1: just looking at like hook up babe, and she's thinking

535
00:24:22,040 --> 00:24:24,080
Speaker 1: he's thinking in his head like I can't wait to smash.

536
00:24:25,000 --> 00:24:32,639
Speaker 1: She's thinking like this guy's hideous, this guy's so ugly.

537
00:24:33,160 --> 00:24:36,440
Speaker 1: All right, this one's calling you out. Where do men

538
00:24:36,640 --> 00:24:39,720
Speaker 1: find the audacity to send you two minute long voice

539
00:24:39,760 --> 00:24:43,360
Speaker 1: messages and have a hundred arms and pauses in there

540
00:24:43,400 --> 00:24:49,120
Speaker 1: with no information? That is me. Quite often I start

541
00:24:49,119 --> 00:24:52,640
Speaker 1: a voice message and I know what I'm going to say, right, yeah,

542
00:24:53,280 --> 00:24:57,160
Speaker 1: And then as I'm saying it, I'm thinking, oh wait,

543
00:24:57,359 --> 00:25:00,800
Speaker 1: like that like oh wait, no, it's different now, So

544
00:25:00,840 --> 00:25:03,800
Speaker 1: then I think wait, and then I keep going and

545
00:25:03,840 --> 00:25:05,560
Speaker 1: I like, correct what I was going to say. Don't

546
00:25:05,600 --> 00:25:07,880
Speaker 1: you think to delete the voice message? And then go again.

547
00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:11,880
Speaker 1: I'm halfway through. I always get voice messages from you

548
00:25:12,200 --> 00:25:17,639
Speaker 1: and like I can see your brain thinking as you're like,

549
00:25:17,920 --> 00:25:20,040
Speaker 1: we'll I go back and forth to ideas, and then

550
00:25:20,400 --> 00:25:22,520
Speaker 1: these ideas are coming out of you the moment you

551
00:25:22,520 --> 00:25:25,760
Speaker 1: were sending this voice message, I've got a two minute

552
00:25:25,800 --> 00:25:29,919
Speaker 1: voice message like, yeah, so I think next week we

553
00:25:29,920 --> 00:25:32,320
Speaker 1: should know. Actually doubt And I've thought about it after

554
00:25:32,320 --> 00:25:34,760
Speaker 1: I've said it out loud, and I'm like, fuck, you

555
00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:38,639
Speaker 1: just wasted two minutes of my life. Yeah, two minutes

556
00:25:38,680 --> 00:25:41,480
Speaker 1: and nothing. Get off your phone. Two minutes is nothing, mate,

557
00:25:41,520 --> 00:25:44,800
Speaker 1: Two minutes is a long time. Two minutes is very long. Yeah,

558
00:25:44,960 --> 00:25:47,680
Speaker 1: take that back, you know? Who are?

559
00:25:48,880 --> 00:25:51,080
Speaker 2: I find it crazy if I if one of us

560
00:25:51,119 --> 00:25:53,400
Speaker 2: sends a one to two minute voice message in our

561
00:25:53,400 --> 00:25:57,280
Speaker 2: group chat with Maddie and I've sent it ten seconds

562
00:25:57,280 --> 00:25:59,600
Speaker 2: ago and she's already replying.

563
00:25:59,720 --> 00:26:02,359
Speaker 1: So she replying as she's listening to the voice message

564
00:26:02,480 --> 00:26:05,959
Speaker 1: and thinking how were you assuming the information? And then

565
00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:08,760
Speaker 1: also typing. I'll tell you one of our clips got

566
00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:10,800
Speaker 1: a lot of rebuttal, but I'm putting my foot down

567
00:26:10,840 --> 00:26:13,280
Speaker 1: on this one. We said, like the primetime for sex

568
00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:16,440
Speaker 1: is like seven to ten minutes. Yeah, what are they saying?

569
00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:19,320
Speaker 1: They want like forty to fifty minute sessions? Are you insane?

570
00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:21,840
Speaker 1: That's what I thought you? Actually, who's saying that? Like

571
00:26:21,920 --> 00:26:24,760
Speaker 1: all the comments? Women? Yeah? Women? I talk to my

572
00:26:24,760 --> 00:26:28,040
Speaker 1: girlfriend about it. And she's just like no, Like I

573
00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:29,879
Speaker 1: was like, maybe for a one off, if it's like

574
00:26:29,920 --> 00:26:31,240
Speaker 1: a one night stand, you want to get a bang

575
00:26:31,280 --> 00:26:32,920
Speaker 1: for your buck, you know what. But like, if you're

576
00:26:32,920 --> 00:26:36,639
Speaker 1: in a loving relationship, forty five minutes, like we're not

577
00:26:37,000 --> 00:26:39,400
Speaker 1: like four play, you can add up to like twenty third.

578
00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:44,200
Speaker 1: We're talking dick in the video insertion, Yeah, proper coitus,

579
00:26:44,240 --> 00:26:48,840
Speaker 1: Like I'll go fifteen max absolute maxim. Yeah, that's insane.

580
00:26:48,920 --> 00:26:53,040
Speaker 1: Forty forty minutes, Like it's not fun anymore. I'm not

581
00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:55,359
Speaker 1: here to get a work out. It's supposed to be enjoyable. Yeah,

582
00:26:55,400 --> 00:26:59,080
Speaker 1: and we are including both parties finish. Yeah, like that's

583
00:26:59,160 --> 00:27:02,360
Speaker 1: when job's done exactly. But I was like forty minutes,

584
00:27:03,400 --> 00:27:04,840
Speaker 1: and there was a lot of comments. I don't know

585
00:27:04,880 --> 00:27:06,720
Speaker 1: if I've ever gone for forty minutes. I was like,

586
00:27:06,800 --> 00:27:08,520
Speaker 1: I was like, I was like, maybe when I was

587
00:27:08,560 --> 00:27:11,280
Speaker 1: drunk and I couldn't come, maybe, yeah, you can just

588
00:27:11,359 --> 00:27:14,320
Speaker 1: keep going. Yeah, I don't think it's not fine at

589
00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:15,719
Speaker 1: the end of you like, I don't know what's going on.

590
00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:19,200
Speaker 1: That's a great point. Yeah, that's a very good point.

591
00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:20,320
Speaker 1: Forty minutes.

592
00:27:20,560 --> 00:27:22,320
Speaker 2: I reckon all those people that commented that just haven't

593
00:27:22,320 --> 00:27:24,800
Speaker 2: had sex, and it's just like, remember how one of

594
00:27:24,800 --> 00:27:27,000
Speaker 2: the ones we had was like, what was your misconception

595
00:27:27,080 --> 00:27:28,919
Speaker 2: of sex? And someone said I thought it was supposed

596
00:27:28,920 --> 00:27:29,480
Speaker 2: to last an hour?

597
00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:33,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, all those people common misconception of sex. All right,

598
00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:36,359
Speaker 1: if someone's doing it properly, you're gonna come within fifteen minutes.

599
00:27:36,720 --> 00:27:38,840
Speaker 1: And I'm not saying that in a cocky way. True.

600
00:27:38,880 --> 00:27:41,360
Speaker 1: If you're in love, both parties, you guys figure each

601
00:27:41,359 --> 00:27:43,320
Speaker 1: other out. We're about everyone winning.

602
00:27:43,320 --> 00:27:45,440
Speaker 2: And if your boyfriend doesn't do it within fifteen minutes,

603
00:27:45,800 --> 00:27:46,919
Speaker 2: start talking about it.

604
00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:49,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, you can get him there, trust me. Yeah, toys,

605
00:27:49,760 --> 00:27:51,960
Speaker 1: Yeah you can get him there somehow. Love honey free

606
00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:54,120
Speaker 1: shout out.

607
00:27:55,240 --> 00:27:58,639
Speaker 2: Where do men find the audacity to tell me to

608
00:27:58,720 --> 00:27:59,880
Speaker 2: drink more water when I have ahead?

609
00:28:01,160 --> 00:28:06,400
Speaker 1: I don't know either Science Science Bill the science guy exactly?

610
00:28:06,400 --> 00:28:07,920
Speaker 1: Has Bill and I ever done an episode on that?

611
00:28:08,440 --> 00:28:10,840
Speaker 1: Probably I saw a science bro.

612
00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:12,720
Speaker 2: I can Jim Science bread the other day make a

613
00:28:12,800 --> 00:28:15,960
Speaker 2: video saying stop taking panatole when you have a headache.

614
00:28:15,960 --> 00:28:18,760
Speaker 2: It's probably you're probably just dehydrated, So do this instead.

615
00:28:19,280 --> 00:28:26,280
Speaker 1: Fair mate, Jim Science pros biggest red flags when you

616
00:28:26,320 --> 00:28:30,040
Speaker 1: see like an absolute sorry stereotype jack guy. And he's

617
00:28:30,080 --> 00:28:32,640
Speaker 1: got like a white like trench coat on or whatever

618
00:28:32,840 --> 00:28:35,800
Speaker 1: whatever their scientific coats are, and he's just spitting facts.

619
00:28:35,880 --> 00:28:37,639
Speaker 1: Like I can't take an this information. I can't. I

620
00:28:37,680 --> 00:28:39,560
Speaker 1: can't take this. You've got this information from the back

621
00:28:39,560 --> 00:28:45,920
Speaker 1: of a protein. Where do men find the audacity to

622
00:28:46,280 --> 00:28:49,440
Speaker 1: spit randomly on the ground? Fair?

623
00:28:49,760 --> 00:28:56,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I want to say, sometimes just build up, just

624
00:28:56,640 --> 00:28:57,120
Speaker 2: build up.

625
00:28:57,240 --> 00:29:00,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, And it's it's a bit grossed. After a while,

626
00:29:00,320 --> 00:29:01,560
Speaker 1: you get so much spin in your mouth it's a

627
00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:06,160
Speaker 1: bit gross to swallow it. Oh yeah, if it's a golly,

628
00:29:06,720 --> 00:29:08,880
Speaker 1: you can't swallow that ship Yeah, Like if you're sick

629
00:29:08,920 --> 00:29:10,040
Speaker 1: and you've got a gully and you want to spit

630
00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:12,200
Speaker 1: it out like fair. But like if some guy's just

631
00:29:12,240 --> 00:29:14,760
Speaker 1: like spitting, that's a bit weird. If this poor bloke

632
00:29:14,760 --> 00:29:17,200
Speaker 1: has a chest infection, I didn't so if girls obviously

633
00:29:17,200 --> 00:29:19,960
Speaker 1: get gollies, like I don't know, a flam build up

634
00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:21,400
Speaker 1: in the back of their throat, they have to, it's

635
00:29:21,400 --> 00:29:23,920
Speaker 1: like from a chest infection. Must they must? Just I

636
00:29:23,960 --> 00:29:26,520
Speaker 1: thought they speed on the ground too. Maybe they do

637
00:29:26,560 --> 00:29:30,400
Speaker 1: it in private, they're like do it in like a

638
00:29:30,400 --> 00:29:35,400
Speaker 1: T shirt shirt tissue or something hanky. Maybe hold of that.

639
00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:40,200
Speaker 1: It's a good point. My dad carries an dade that

640
00:29:40,320 --> 00:29:44,080
Speaker 1: speaks volumes age. When do you reckon, we'll get a hanky.

641
00:29:44,160 --> 00:29:45,960
Speaker 1: I'm never holding a hanky ever in my life. Are

642
00:29:46,000 --> 00:29:47,600
Speaker 1: you kidding? I bet you. You said you're never going

643
00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:49,720
Speaker 1: to play golf. I bet you no. I've never once

644
00:29:49,760 --> 00:29:52,200
Speaker 1: said that. You said you never never get a cry

645
00:29:52,240 --> 00:29:54,280
Speaker 1: to a golf game. Look at you now, never going

646
00:29:54,280 --> 00:29:56,320
Speaker 1: to read two books at once. I would have said that,

647
00:29:56,400 --> 00:29:58,320
Speaker 1: give it six months. I would have said that I

648
00:29:58,400 --> 00:30:04,360
Speaker 1: have four and six months, so Jack can be walking around.

649
00:30:04,400 --> 00:30:06,080
Speaker 1: You've seen the golfies an achey in case you go,

650
00:30:06,160 --> 00:30:07,720
Speaker 1: I'll be.

651
00:30:07,680 --> 00:30:11,720
Speaker 2: Walking around wearing like a master's shirt, a golf master's shirt,

652
00:30:11,800 --> 00:30:14,040
Speaker 2: and I have four different books in my hand. Everywhere

653
00:30:14,040 --> 00:30:15,880
Speaker 2: I go, and every respec second I have a'll open

654
00:30:15,920 --> 00:30:16,920
Speaker 2: it and be like, oh, you guys need me.

655
00:30:17,480 --> 00:30:23,000
Speaker 1: It's busy, Okay, I'm yours. Where do men find the

656
00:30:23,040 --> 00:30:27,160
Speaker 1: audacity to not be hungry when their girlfriend is asking

657
00:30:27,200 --> 00:30:30,640
Speaker 1: should we get a snack? I don't know. Learn yeah,

658
00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:32,680
Speaker 1: one hundred percent. Always hungry when you're around your girl.

659
00:30:32,800 --> 00:30:34,520
Speaker 1: Have to be, especially if sweetwet, you don't love her

660
00:30:34,520 --> 00:30:38,600
Speaker 1: if you don't. Where do men find the audacity to

661
00:30:39,160 --> 00:30:41,720
Speaker 1: buzz cut their hair after a breakup and say they won?

662
00:30:42,160 --> 00:30:46,440
Speaker 1: Oi fact? Because I had one that said where do

663
00:30:46,480 --> 00:30:49,160
Speaker 1: men find the audacity to shave their heads? And I

664
00:30:49,200 --> 00:30:53,200
Speaker 1: wanted to talk about why. Even if a man's single

665
00:30:53,480 --> 00:30:55,400
Speaker 1: or in a relationship, quite often it is when they

666
00:30:55,440 --> 00:30:57,920
Speaker 1: break up. Why do why do they shave their heads?

667
00:30:58,200 --> 00:31:00,680
Speaker 1: It's like the hot boy era thing. This really hot.

668
00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:04,040
Speaker 1: Some girls do like it, like Chang Tatum, he can

669
00:31:04,120 --> 00:31:07,560
Speaker 1: rock it hot, but like guy bad people with a

670
00:31:07,560 --> 00:31:10,000
Speaker 1: shaved head hot. He's got a good hairline, because I

671
00:31:10,040 --> 00:31:12,640
Speaker 1: see if I had the strongest fuck hairline, I actually

672
00:31:12,640 --> 00:31:16,040
Speaker 1: would because it's annoying. Yeah, it's actually like very like

673
00:31:16,120 --> 00:31:18,800
Speaker 1: to be fair to guys if they wanted to do it.

674
00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:21,960
Speaker 1: It's quite practical, really good to work out here. You go, Yeah,

675
00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:23,640
Speaker 1: you don't have to really like wash it or gone

676
00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:26,400
Speaker 1: into summer. Yeah, sweat. It's really nice. But after a

677
00:31:26,400 --> 00:31:27,760
Speaker 1: while you're like, I don't know, it's a bit it's

678
00:31:27,760 --> 00:31:29,280
Speaker 1: a bit weird to just to like rub a fairy

679
00:31:29,280 --> 00:31:31,000
Speaker 1: tennis ball every once, and also you.

680
00:31:30,960 --> 00:31:34,000
Speaker 2: Either have to keep shaving it back to that length

681
00:31:34,040 --> 00:31:36,040
Speaker 2: because it really does if you can pull it off.

682
00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:38,640
Speaker 2: It only looks good when it's very short, yeah, or

683
00:31:39,280 --> 00:31:41,240
Speaker 2: the other. The only other option is to just really

684
00:31:41,240 --> 00:31:43,800
Speaker 2: go through this ugly, awkward phase where it starts to grow.

685
00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:45,840
Speaker 1: It's really ugly and awkward and just you need it

686
00:31:45,880 --> 00:31:48,520
Speaker 1: to and it takes a while to Geeah. I did

687
00:31:48,520 --> 00:31:50,200
Speaker 1: it after bleurch in my hair, and there's like a full,

688
00:31:50,240 --> 00:31:52,280
Speaker 1: like three to six months period where you can't like

689
00:31:52,400 --> 00:31:54,360
Speaker 1: you don't have any flow, but also like you can't

690
00:31:54,560 --> 00:31:56,520
Speaker 1: do anything with you have no control over style. No,

691
00:31:56,560 --> 00:31:59,960
Speaker 1: it's just you are under the Yeah, you're under its control. Yeah,

692
00:32:00,160 --> 00:32:04,680
Speaker 1: lest she does what it wants. Okay, I'll go, I'll go.

693
00:32:05,960 --> 00:32:09,360
Speaker 1: Where do men find the audacity to want to take

694
00:32:09,360 --> 00:32:11,440
Speaker 1: a shower with you and then complain that the water

695
00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:16,280
Speaker 1: is too hot? I feel like the iggiest thing a

696
00:32:16,280 --> 00:32:18,360
Speaker 1: guy can do is like when your girl says I'm

697
00:32:18,360 --> 00:32:21,240
Speaker 1: having a share, He's like, oh, where's mine, where's my

698
00:32:21,680 --> 00:32:26,160
Speaker 1: It's fine, come in and it's too hot. I like,

699
00:32:26,240 --> 00:32:28,920
Speaker 1: choose not to shower my girlfriend it's too hot? Yeah, same,

700
00:32:29,040 --> 00:32:31,560
Speaker 1: especially after like a good seven to eight minute session.

701
00:32:31,720 --> 00:32:35,760
Speaker 1: But I need to cool down and she's got it

702
00:32:35,800 --> 00:32:37,760
Speaker 1: on full pelt. Yeah, even like in the middle of

703
00:32:37,800 --> 00:32:40,960
Speaker 1: the summer, my girlfriend will sleep with doing a blanket

704
00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:43,200
Speaker 1: and I'm here with a sheet and I'm like, do

705
00:32:43,200 --> 00:32:44,960
Speaker 1: you not feel the heat? No? I get too hot.

706
00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:46,800
Speaker 1: That must be so nice. I get so hot, Like

707
00:32:46,840 --> 00:32:49,360
Speaker 1: I'm envious. Same. I actually kind of wish I ran

708
00:32:49,400 --> 00:32:51,440
Speaker 1: cold the same. Then I would be able to just

709
00:32:51,680 --> 00:32:55,520
Speaker 1: all year round use a blanket. But Beth, I don't

710
00:32:55,560 --> 00:32:58,200
Speaker 1: like sharing with her, I can I Usually she does

711
00:32:58,240 --> 00:32:59,520
Speaker 1: hotter than me, and I'll just turn it down. She

712
00:32:59,560 --> 00:33:03,320
Speaker 1: cops it, but she's a fucking hog in the shower. Bro,

713
00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:06,080
Speaker 1: I just down there. The icky thing ever right, here's

714
00:33:06,120 --> 00:33:08,600
Speaker 1: the inky thing ever? Right? Is bet? I give him

715
00:33:08,600 --> 00:33:09,240
Speaker 1: the shower with Beth.

716
00:33:09,280 --> 00:33:10,760
Speaker 3: I asked her to have a shower with her, right,

717
00:33:11,080 --> 00:33:13,240
Speaker 3: I turn it down because it's too hot, and then

718
00:33:13,560 --> 00:33:14,600
Speaker 3: she's hogging all the water.

719
00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:15,520
Speaker 1: And I'm just sitting there here like.

720
00:33:15,520 --> 00:33:18,520
Speaker 3: A fucking dweed, just like a little quef boy, fucking

721
00:33:18,680 --> 00:33:21,040
Speaker 3: just looking all naked with like a shriveled dick because

722
00:33:21,040 --> 00:33:24,600
Speaker 3: it's cold in the bathroom and I'm not wet, just

723
00:33:24,640 --> 00:33:27,400
Speaker 3: like some cut in the corner.

724
00:33:29,240 --> 00:33:30,960
Speaker 1: I think I used the word quef boy. I meant

725
00:33:31,000 --> 00:33:38,280
Speaker 1: to say was looking for the word a fard point. Yeah,

726
00:33:38,480 --> 00:33:42,240
Speaker 1: I was. That's so embarrassed, Like the detailed description of it,

727
00:33:42,400 --> 00:33:45,920
Speaker 1: I could really picture and for some reason, I'm picturing

728
00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:51,560
Speaker 1: the showers really long. Just it's just like a shower,

729
00:33:51,960 --> 00:33:55,000
Speaker 1: like no man plant. The good thing about like my

730
00:33:55,080 --> 00:33:57,240
Speaker 1: show is there's like no room too, Like you're both

731
00:33:57,600 --> 00:33:59,240
Speaker 1: under the water no matter what. Looks like a creep.

732
00:34:03,320 --> 00:34:06,640
Speaker 1: What did she say? She just doesn't care. She's like,

733
00:34:06,680 --> 00:34:09,239
Speaker 1: I need to wash my face. You'n't even looking at me.

734
00:34:09,400 --> 00:34:12,279
Speaker 1: She's just like, you just turn around, Well you should

735
00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:24,560
Speaker 1: turn around and just start like stretching full spread. She's

736
00:34:24,600 --> 00:34:29,760
Speaker 1: like just using my time. Wisely, babe, you're in the water.

737
00:34:32,280 --> 00:34:40,000
Speaker 1: Fucking holy ship. Where do men find the audacity to

738
00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:48,600
Speaker 1: act like a dick when they're ugly? Fox? Bro? Men

739
00:34:48,760 --> 00:34:49,200
Speaker 1: fully do?

740
00:34:49,400 --> 00:34:50,840
Speaker 2: That's like last week how we had the one that

741
00:34:50,880 --> 00:34:53,680
Speaker 2: said why do men that are five's actually nine point five?

742
00:34:53,960 --> 00:34:56,799
Speaker 1: Oh? Man? I feel I feel I feel like to

743
00:34:56,880 --> 00:35:02,560
Speaker 1: be honest though, like jenneral wise, all the hot guys

744
00:35:02,640 --> 00:35:04,799
Speaker 1: used to get all the girls when we're going through school. Yeah,

745
00:35:04,920 --> 00:35:07,279
Speaker 1: but like the six sevens, not really the eights that

746
00:35:07,280 --> 00:35:10,200
Speaker 1: don't really exist now with more personality and substance started

747
00:35:10,200 --> 00:35:12,080
Speaker 1: to get all the nice, really good looking girls too.

748
00:35:12,120 --> 00:35:15,080
Speaker 2: They did, and then they and also I find all

749
00:35:15,120 --> 00:35:16,839
Speaker 2: the guys that were like the quote unquote like old guys.

750
00:35:16,880 --> 00:35:19,839
Speaker 1: They kind of hit puberty slightly earlier. The pheromones came

751
00:35:19,840 --> 00:35:22,440
Speaker 1: out earlier. So even though they're ugly, they just had

752
00:35:22,440 --> 00:35:24,400
Speaker 1: more pheromones and that's what girls like. And now they

753
00:35:24,400 --> 00:35:28,360
Speaker 1: have no hair because I learned fair I have heaps.

754
00:35:29,560 --> 00:35:31,800
Speaker 1: I learned in my in my new book, I'm reading

755
00:35:32,320 --> 00:35:35,239
Speaker 1: that within like three.

756
00:35:35,080 --> 00:35:40,239
Speaker 2: Seconds, a woman, if she is ovulating, maybe even not

757
00:35:40,280 --> 00:35:44,120
Speaker 2: ovulating through like a man's pheromones, she will be attracted

758
00:35:44,120 --> 00:35:47,400
Speaker 2: to a guy even if he's like quote unquote ugly,

759
00:35:48,040 --> 00:35:51,000
Speaker 2: because her brain will be able to figure out if

760
00:35:51,040 --> 00:35:53,200
Speaker 2: his immune system is strong through his pheromones. Really, so

761
00:35:53,239 --> 00:35:54,279
Speaker 2: it's like, oh, I want to have a kid with

762
00:35:54,360 --> 00:35:56,160
Speaker 2: him because my kids will have a strong immune system.

763
00:35:56,200 --> 00:36:00,680
Speaker 1: So he's like unconscious of SUBCONTI brain. SUBCONTI brain. It does.

764
00:36:00,719 --> 00:36:04,680
Speaker 2: But then and so if you guys attractive, yeah, like yeah,

765
00:36:04,880 --> 00:36:07,000
Speaker 2: and has a shit immune system, and she can somehow

766
00:36:07,080 --> 00:36:08,960
Speaker 2: figure it out that guy's ugly.

767
00:36:09,120 --> 00:36:11,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, what that one over there makes some much sense.

768
00:36:12,440 --> 00:36:15,000
Speaker 1: The best thing happened to me the other day. I

769
00:36:15,040 --> 00:36:17,040
Speaker 1: was having like an intimate kissing session with my girlfriend.

770
00:36:17,320 --> 00:36:21,160
Speaker 1: I got some new just basic re zoneer deodorant O.

771
00:36:21,200 --> 00:36:27,759
Speaker 1: Because she's like, you smell so good. She's oculating, She's like,

772
00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:29,719
Speaker 1: did you put on clone? It's just fucking rezone and

773
00:36:29,760 --> 00:36:37,640
Speaker 1: the odorantsious, it's just my natural sk.

774
00:36:36,160 --> 00:36:40,239
Speaker 2: Oh god, Okay, where do men find the audacity to

775
00:36:40,360 --> 00:36:45,120
Speaker 2: think three in one shampoo users deserve soulmates?

776
00:36:46,600 --> 00:36:52,720
Speaker 1: That's mean to be fair. If you can get away

777
00:36:52,760 --> 00:36:55,600
Speaker 1: with it and your skin and your hair still looks healthy,

778
00:36:55,920 --> 00:36:58,279
Speaker 1: like you're saving money exactly. Yeah, he's saving money for you.

779
00:36:58,320 --> 00:37:02,719
Speaker 1: And the long line, yeah, Like, Unluckily for me, I

780
00:37:02,760 --> 00:37:04,000
Speaker 1: had bad skin, so I had to go to the

781
00:37:04,000 --> 00:37:07,480
Speaker 1: actual root of finding like good products, do the right things.

782
00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:09,239
Speaker 1: But if I had blessed skin you used to do

783
00:37:09,800 --> 00:37:11,600
Speaker 1: used to use train run, I still would. If I

784
00:37:11,640 --> 00:37:14,400
Speaker 1: didn't have a girlfriend, would you would use like twenty

785
00:37:14,440 --> 00:37:18,000
Speaker 1: and one? I would use yeah, five in one. I

786
00:37:18,040 --> 00:37:22,719
Speaker 1: don't even know what five different things, But I would

787
00:37:22,800 --> 00:37:26,239
Speaker 1: wash my face with a barus soap. Really, I don't

788
00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:28,239
Speaker 1: wash my face, so if I did it, we'd be

789
00:37:28,239 --> 00:37:30,080
Speaker 1: better than nothing. I can't believe you don't wash your

790
00:37:30,120 --> 00:37:32,040
Speaker 1: face a I don't watch fast. I saw a video

791
00:37:32,360 --> 00:37:34,520
Speaker 1: of these two people, I think they were roommates, and

792
00:37:34,560 --> 00:37:36,080
Speaker 1: she's like, oh, show me how you wash your face,

793
00:37:36,080 --> 00:37:38,160
Speaker 1: and he used hand soap. Yeah, that's what I do,

794
00:37:38,239 --> 00:37:39,799
Speaker 1: and then just put on his face and she was like,

795
00:37:39,840 --> 00:37:42,239
Speaker 1: what the fuck you would it's all soap. She's like,

796
00:37:42,239 --> 00:37:45,000
Speaker 1: that's your hands, Like it's still your skin. Boy, you

797
00:37:45,040 --> 00:37:50,120
Speaker 1: might relate to this. I the other day the dish soap,

798
00:37:50,560 --> 00:37:52,839
Speaker 1: the one that like gets grease off of stuff. If

799
00:37:52,920 --> 00:37:55,160
Speaker 1: I'm if I filled the dish washer and I need

800
00:37:55,200 --> 00:37:57,640
Speaker 1: to do some dishes, the dish slape like fox my hands. Yeah,

801
00:37:57,920 --> 00:37:59,440
Speaker 1: they make some like real dry so I said to

802
00:37:59,480 --> 00:38:01,120
Speaker 1: Beth the other day, Oh, do you have any hand cream?

803
00:38:01,280 --> 00:38:03,600
Speaker 1: I just my hands are all fucked up. And then

804
00:38:04,120 --> 00:38:07,400
Speaker 1: a little while it was that night maybe she said.

805
00:38:08,080 --> 00:38:09,600
Speaker 1: I don't know how we got onto the topic, but

806
00:38:09,680 --> 00:38:11,600
Speaker 1: she goes, oh, which cream did you use for your hands?

807
00:38:11,600 --> 00:38:12,680
Speaker 1: And I was like, all that one in the orange

808
00:38:12,680 --> 00:38:15,399
Speaker 1: bottle and it was a face cream. She fucking lost here.

809
00:38:15,440 --> 00:38:18,080
Speaker 1: She was like, you can't use your face it's expensive.

810
00:38:18,440 --> 00:38:20,120
Speaker 1: All your hands need is like a two dollar cream.

811
00:38:20,640 --> 00:38:22,880
Speaker 1: And I was like that's the same thing. What if

812
00:38:22,880 --> 00:38:24,200
Speaker 1: I just put it on my face? There you go,

813
00:38:25,120 --> 00:38:27,000
Speaker 1: use on my hands in my face? How do you

814
00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:30,000
Speaker 1: know I didn't do that exactly? How do you know

815
00:38:30,000 --> 00:38:36,080
Speaker 1: I didn't do that? Bitch? Where do men find the

816
00:38:36,080 --> 00:38:40,799
Speaker 1: audacity to tell you to calm down? Oh? I hate

817
00:38:40,800 --> 00:38:43,920
Speaker 1: that A when they don't like realize the magnitude or

818
00:38:43,960 --> 00:38:46,719
Speaker 1: the problem or invalidate your feelings. Well, this is a

819
00:38:46,760 --> 00:38:49,640
Speaker 1: serious one too. Where do men find the audacity to

820
00:38:49,760 --> 00:38:54,680
Speaker 1: whistle to women in the street facts? Yeah? I hate yeah? Where? Yeah?

821
00:38:54,800 --> 00:38:56,799
Speaker 1: What do you mean calling people out for that? Yeah? Yes,

822
00:38:56,920 --> 00:38:59,439
Speaker 1: Like I don't know, just boils my blood. A it's

823
00:38:59,480 --> 00:39:02,080
Speaker 1: piercing down and outside. Yeah, we might need a pause,

824
00:39:02,120 --> 00:39:05,640
Speaker 1: wait for it to stop. Alrighty. Where do men find

825
00:39:05,680 --> 00:39:10,760
Speaker 1: the audacity to ignore leg day because it fucking sucks?

826
00:39:10,760 --> 00:39:12,120
Speaker 1: I don't think it's worth it. I don't think it's

827
00:39:12,120 --> 00:39:14,439
Speaker 1: worth it either. I think I've hurt my knee because

828
00:39:14,440 --> 00:39:16,359
Speaker 1: of my double leg day in one week. Really, yeah,

829
00:39:16,400 --> 00:39:17,680
Speaker 1: I think that's what it's from. That's where you find

830
00:39:17,680 --> 00:39:21,000
Speaker 1: the audacity. Yeah, it's not audacity, it's proof. Yeah, it's proof.

831
00:39:21,000 --> 00:39:23,440
Speaker 1: I always defend scientific proof. I will defend this to

832
00:39:23,480 --> 00:39:27,080
Speaker 1: the day we might trench coat. Yeah, where do men

833
00:39:27,160 --> 00:39:30,359
Speaker 1: find the audacity to be a fuck boy when they

834
00:39:30,400 --> 00:39:37,919
Speaker 1: can't fuck properly? Yeah? Learn if you're doing it so often? Man?

835
00:39:38,040 --> 00:39:40,600
Speaker 2: You see what I want to know and get the

836
00:39:40,640 --> 00:39:46,919
Speaker 2: girlipops to comment, is if a guy was let's say,

837
00:39:48,520 --> 00:39:51,080
Speaker 2: I don't know, you slept with a guy right, you

838
00:39:51,120 --> 00:39:52,520
Speaker 2: didn't know it was a fuck boy yet, but then

839
00:39:52,560 --> 00:39:55,799
Speaker 2: he ends up he's fucked you over if the if

840
00:39:55,840 --> 00:39:59,600
Speaker 2: the sex was kind of average, is it worse than

841
00:39:59,640 --> 00:40:03,279
Speaker 2: if the X was great. I'm not giving anyone an

842
00:40:03,320 --> 00:40:05,000
Speaker 2: excuse to be a fuck boy, but if you're going

843
00:40:05,040 --> 00:40:06,760
Speaker 2: to be a fuck boy, like you may as well

844
00:40:07,160 --> 00:40:09,359
Speaker 2: give the people you're gonna suck around with a good time,

845
00:40:09,520 --> 00:40:12,520
Speaker 2: you might as well fuck. Yeah, So I wonder is

846
00:40:12,520 --> 00:40:15,799
Speaker 2: it like, has anyone ever been but properly fucked? It

847
00:40:15,880 --> 00:40:17,600
Speaker 2: was great and the guy was a fuck boy, and

848
00:40:17,600 --> 00:40:19,400
Speaker 2: you thought, you know what good experience?

849
00:40:19,640 --> 00:40:23,040
Speaker 1: I saw another podcast describe they're like question ID, Question

850
00:40:23,080 --> 00:40:24,880
Speaker 1: of the Week or whatever they do. Similar was like,

851
00:40:25,280 --> 00:40:28,560
Speaker 1: what does a bad dig feel like? What were the answers?

852
00:40:28,800 --> 00:40:31,560
Speaker 1: And it was just like it's in there, but like

853
00:40:32,320 --> 00:40:36,080
Speaker 1: it doesn't really feel very nice. Yeah, like this doesn't

854
00:40:36,120 --> 00:40:38,960
Speaker 1: hit any spots at all, and the frequency and like

855
00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:41,160
Speaker 1: the movements just like not vibing you.

856
00:40:42,280 --> 00:40:44,879
Speaker 2: Oh that doesn't feel nice at all and I've never

857
00:40:44,920 --> 00:40:45,440
Speaker 2: felt it.

858
00:40:48,360 --> 00:40:50,399
Speaker 1: I wonder if you know, like the moment it goes in?

859
00:40:52,120 --> 00:40:55,279
Speaker 1: Good question. Yeah, it's gonna be a good sash. That's

860
00:40:55,320 --> 00:41:00,799
Speaker 1: a great question. Answer comment. Do you know what's going

861
00:41:00,880 --> 00:41:02,399
Speaker 1: to be good as soon as it goes in? Yeah,

862
00:41:02,480 --> 00:41:05,839
Speaker 1: that's a great question. My last one, where do men

863
00:41:05,960 --> 00:41:09,400
Speaker 1: find the audacity to not want to spend time with me?

864
00:41:10,800 --> 00:41:16,920
Speaker 1: Maybe you're annoying. I'm kidding. I'm sure you're not annoying

865
00:41:17,040 --> 00:41:21,959
Speaker 1: because you're a baddie. That's too quick.

866
00:41:26,080 --> 00:41:29,040
Speaker 2: My mom went, Okay, I got my last one. Where

867
00:41:29,040 --> 00:41:33,640
Speaker 2: do men find the audacity to say we are pregnant?

868
00:41:33,800 --> 00:41:40,239
Speaker 1: Ah, I'm thinking like in a loving relationship. Yeah, I'm

869
00:41:40,239 --> 00:41:43,719
Speaker 1: trying to think of like if Beth gets I know,

870
00:41:43,760 --> 00:41:45,680
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think if Beth and I trying for

871
00:41:45,680 --> 00:41:47,880
Speaker 1: a kid and then we get successful, right, and then

872
00:41:47,880 --> 00:41:49,920
Speaker 1: we go have dinner with my parents whatever. Yeah, I

873
00:41:49,920 --> 00:41:51,160
Speaker 1: feel like what I'm going to say is, oh, we

874
00:41:51,200 --> 00:41:54,000
Speaker 1: need to tell you something. Beth is pregnant, not we

875
00:41:54,040 --> 00:41:59,600
Speaker 1: are pregnant, and Beth is pregnant definitely contextually like what matters. Yeah,

876
00:41:59,680 --> 00:42:02,200
Speaker 1: but so like if you if that did happen, then

877
00:42:02,440 --> 00:42:04,800
Speaker 1: you said to your parents, we are pregnant. But I

878
00:42:04,840 --> 00:42:06,680
Speaker 1: don't know, I didn't think that was like yeah, you

879
00:42:06,719 --> 00:42:09,040
Speaker 1: know what fure it. You can't say we, It's got

880
00:42:09,040 --> 00:42:11,319
Speaker 1: to be Vets pregnant or Cassie pregnant or you. Yeah,

881
00:42:11,360 --> 00:42:15,719
Speaker 1: you can't say we your girlfriend if you or your wife, yes,

882
00:42:15,800 --> 00:42:17,560
Speaker 1: that's what if she wants to say we are pregnant,

883
00:42:17,560 --> 00:42:20,719
Speaker 1: by all means, that's what it doesn't give you say yes, yes,

884
00:42:21,000 --> 00:42:23,719
Speaker 1: You still have to say yes. They should say there

885
00:42:23,719 --> 00:42:33,440
Speaker 1: you go, and you say them yes. Welcome to Relatable

886
00:42:33,600 --> 00:42:37,960
Speaker 1: book Club, where we will fuck on a journey reading

887
00:42:38,000 --> 00:42:39,960
Speaker 1: some of the finest pieces of literature.

888
00:42:40,040 --> 00:42:43,400
Speaker 2: If you've ever laid eyes by is if that's your

889
00:42:43,400 --> 00:42:46,360
Speaker 2: preferred way to consume a book, A Court.

890
00:42:46,200 --> 00:42:53,000
Speaker 1: Of Thorns and Roses, I love it, Let's go love it.

891
00:42:53,120 --> 00:42:54,920
Speaker 1: I do need to I do need to remember to

892
00:42:54,920 --> 00:42:57,360
Speaker 1: put relatables baddies book Club. And then at the end

893
00:42:57,440 --> 00:42:59,640
Speaker 1: of it, I think we'll leave it at that and

894
00:42:59,640 --> 00:43:01,120
Speaker 1: at the because each time we read a new book,

895
00:43:01,120 --> 00:43:04,359
Speaker 1: we'll just say yeah, I like I kind of liked it,

896
00:43:04,440 --> 00:43:06,839
Speaker 1: like it's not like properly produced. Okay, sweet, I kind

897
00:43:06,880 --> 00:43:09,800
Speaker 1: of like it. It's got Jake's person to catch it. Yeah, yeah, beginner,

898
00:43:09,880 --> 00:43:15,040
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah. Relatables Baddies book Club is back in session.

899
00:43:16,520 --> 00:43:18,160
Speaker 1: As you guys know, I need to add the confession

900
00:43:18,160 --> 00:43:20,399
Speaker 1: to have gone one chapter too far. Yeah, your dog.

901
00:43:20,600 --> 00:43:21,960
Speaker 2: So I don't actually know what I can say, and

902
00:43:21,960 --> 00:43:23,880
Speaker 2: I don't know how much information was in that last chapter.

903
00:43:26,160 --> 00:43:28,319
Speaker 1: You cheated on me? I did? I did. We're up

904
00:43:28,320 --> 00:43:33,160
Speaker 1: to chapter thirteen, and for everyone reading along with us,

905
00:43:33,719 --> 00:43:37,839
Speaker 1: we welcome you to this session. So what are our

906
00:43:37,840 --> 00:43:41,160
Speaker 1: new thoughts and feelings on the book so far? I'm obsessed, bro,

907
00:43:41,400 --> 00:43:46,880
Speaker 1: really fucking obsessed. Oh I this book. Okay.

908
00:43:47,160 --> 00:43:50,560
Speaker 2: You know when you're watching a Netflix series and it's

909
00:43:50,600 --> 00:43:54,120
Speaker 2: getting late and the end of the episode has a cliffhanger,

910
00:43:54,160 --> 00:43:57,279
Speaker 2: and you're pissed because you have to watch another one

911
00:43:57,320 --> 00:43:58,920
Speaker 2: because you have to find out what happens right now,

912
00:43:58,920 --> 00:43:59,839
Speaker 2: you can't wait, you want to sleep.

913
00:44:00,200 --> 00:44:04,520
Speaker 1: Wise, this book loves the cliffhanger. This book, it's the

914
00:44:04,560 --> 00:44:06,560
Speaker 1: equivalent feeling I ever thought I feel this way about

915
00:44:06,560 --> 00:44:10,040
Speaker 1: a book. Yeah, of excitement to read the next chapter,

916
00:44:10,320 --> 00:44:13,879
Speaker 1: because of the cliffhanger in the last Okay, okay, Jake,

917
00:44:14,200 --> 00:44:16,919
Speaker 1: I'm going to disagree with you here. Really, this book's long.

918
00:44:17,640 --> 00:44:21,440
Speaker 1: That ten chapters. Nothing happened, stop's happening, nothing happened. Oh

919
00:44:21,480 --> 00:44:24,440
Speaker 1: I'm loving it. It was so slow like that, the

920
00:44:24,440 --> 00:44:28,000
Speaker 1: first seven of them. Slow slow, slow slow slow burn

921
00:44:28,040 --> 00:44:30,520
Speaker 1: slow burn. Yeah, yeah, very slow. I love a slow burn,

922
00:44:30,640 --> 00:44:33,480
Speaker 1: really love? Are you loving it so much because of

923
00:44:33,560 --> 00:44:35,719
Speaker 1: what like we've created with the baut His book club

924
00:44:35,800 --> 00:44:39,080
Speaker 1: or actually like the book? See here's the thing. It

925
00:44:39,080 --> 00:44:41,319
Speaker 1: doesn't matter. It doesn't matter. No, no, no, no, no,

926
00:44:41,840 --> 00:44:45,359
Speaker 1: fair fair fair, fair fair. I still I'm still enjoying it. Yeah, okay, good,

927
00:44:45,440 --> 00:44:48,160
Speaker 1: but definitely dissecting the book. It's long. Okay, no, it's

928
00:44:48,200 --> 00:44:52,920
Speaker 1: long book. It's very slow. I could have read twenty chapters.

929
00:44:53,280 --> 00:44:57,000
Speaker 1: Freyer is now in Fabra is now in Prithian. Yeah,

930
00:44:57,040 --> 00:45:00,239
Speaker 1: so where we left off our predictions wrong. You were

931
00:45:00,320 --> 00:45:02,399
Speaker 1: right about how she killed a fairy. She did kill

932
00:45:02,400 --> 00:45:03,640
Speaker 1: a fairy. Yeah so.

933
00:45:03,880 --> 00:45:06,080
Speaker 2: And it's also I was pronouncing it fairy last week.

934
00:45:06,080 --> 00:45:09,120
Speaker 2: It's fairy like actual fairy like, it's fairy. She killed

935
00:45:09,120 --> 00:45:09,520
Speaker 2: the fairy.

936
00:45:09,880 --> 00:45:13,480
Speaker 1: Andreas, Yes, that was Dreas his name, and he was

937
00:45:13,520 --> 00:45:17,759
Speaker 1: actually a high Faye. Yeah damn. And now she's in

938
00:45:17,880 --> 00:45:24,239
Speaker 1: Prithian and like the first like seven chapters, is her

939
00:45:24,320 --> 00:45:26,560
Speaker 1: just trying to like figure out ways to like escape

940
00:45:26,560 --> 00:45:30,200
Speaker 1: this pres Well, okay, so she place is sick with

941
00:45:30,320 --> 00:45:33,440
Speaker 1: the whole. Yeah. Fact, so with the whole.

942
00:45:35,040 --> 00:45:37,800
Speaker 2: Prithian and the mortal lands in the wall. With the treaty,

943
00:45:37,840 --> 00:45:42,160
Speaker 2: there's a law that if a mortal kills a high

944
00:45:42,200 --> 00:45:46,759
Speaker 2: pay maybe even a fairy, yeah, kills one, then they

945
00:45:46,840 --> 00:45:50,040
Speaker 2: have to give a life. Yeah, and the life you

946
00:45:50,080 --> 00:45:52,279
Speaker 2: can give. She could have given her dad or one

947
00:45:52,280 --> 00:45:54,360
Speaker 2: of her sisters, but she obviously chose to go herself

948
00:45:54,400 --> 00:45:57,200
Speaker 2: to save them. And so when we ended when you

949
00:45:57,239 --> 00:45:58,560
Speaker 2: know how we were talking about the cliffhanger at the

950
00:45:58,680 --> 00:46:00,800
Speaker 2: end of chapter three, how it was like massive beast

951
00:46:00,800 --> 00:46:04,320
Speaker 2: and so it ends up being another high Fae and he's.

952
00:46:04,160 --> 00:46:08,759
Speaker 1: A fucking weapon by the way. Tamlin Tamlin, Yeah, oh

953
00:46:08,800 --> 00:46:13,320
Speaker 1: my god. Well Tamlin actually wanted her because she killed

954
00:46:13,360 --> 00:46:15,919
Speaker 1: the fair She want she did want He did want her,

955
00:46:16,480 --> 00:46:18,839
Speaker 1: but then he could she could have sent someone else, Yeah,

956
00:46:19,000 --> 00:46:21,600
Speaker 1: but she goes, no, take me, and then yeah, she

957
00:46:21,640 --> 00:46:24,239
Speaker 1: wakes up and she's thinking she keeps on going. I

958
00:46:24,239 --> 00:46:27,440
Speaker 1: don't know what I was thinking, but yeah, she's in this.

959
00:46:27,640 --> 00:46:30,520
Speaker 1: It sounds beautiful, it sounds amazing, Like, what are you picturing?

960
00:46:30,719 --> 00:46:34,480
Speaker 2: I'm picturing so because of what my mind is thinking.

961
00:46:36,840 --> 00:46:39,880
Speaker 2: So I'm picturing not so you know in Lord of

962
00:46:39,920 --> 00:46:42,200
Speaker 2: the Rings when oh no, it's in the Hobbit.

963
00:46:42,239 --> 00:46:43,640
Speaker 1: I was thinking the Hobbit. So, you know in the

964
00:46:43,640 --> 00:46:47,640
Speaker 1: Hobbit when they go to that Elvish city and it's beautiful.

965
00:46:48,160 --> 00:46:52,319
Speaker 1: So I'm thinking it's as beautiful as that, but it's

966
00:46:52,440 --> 00:46:54,879
Speaker 1: not like a big castle type thing like that. It's

967
00:46:54,880 --> 00:46:57,520
Speaker 1: more of a manner. I'm thinking more grass, yeah, lots,

968
00:46:57,719 --> 00:46:57,960
Speaker 1: I just.

969
00:46:58,120 --> 00:47:02,120
Speaker 2: It's more flat. But I'm on equivalent as beautiful. That's

970
00:47:02,120 --> 00:47:02,760
Speaker 2: what I'm thinking.

971
00:47:02,920 --> 00:47:07,719
Speaker 1: Yeah. And then interestingly the fairies. Tamlin and we got

972
00:47:07,719 --> 00:47:10,400
Speaker 1: introduced to Lucian. Lucian. Do you say Lucian in your

973
00:47:10,400 --> 00:47:12,480
Speaker 1: head or Lucien? I said Lucian, Yeah, I say Lucien

974
00:47:12,520 --> 00:47:17,120
Speaker 1: to yeah, Lucian, Yeah, are looking after Preyra. Now, well,

975
00:47:17,239 --> 00:47:20,120
Speaker 1: Lucian originally goes, I would want to gut this bitch. Yeah,

976
00:47:20,280 --> 00:47:22,560
Speaker 1: He's like, I want to fucking gut you kill not allowed.

977
00:47:22,560 --> 00:47:25,160
Speaker 1: Tamlin's not letting me. Yeah, but Tamlin said in this

978
00:47:25,200 --> 00:47:29,800
Speaker 1: is where it ended, she just overheard their conversation and

979
00:47:29,960 --> 00:47:34,880
Speaker 1: Tamlin's dad killed heaps of mortals before, yes, and he

980
00:47:34,880 --> 00:47:37,319
Speaker 1: doesn't want to be like his dad. He's the thing though,

981
00:47:37,360 --> 00:47:38,960
Speaker 1: I think he did want to be like his dad

982
00:47:39,000 --> 00:47:42,120
Speaker 1: until he met Favor. Because Lucian's going, why are you

983
00:47:42,200 --> 00:47:44,880
Speaker 1: veering off our path? And he goes, that was my

984
00:47:45,000 --> 00:47:45,600
Speaker 1: dad's path.

985
00:47:45,760 --> 00:47:48,200
Speaker 2: I will not be like him, and I think it's

986
00:47:48,200 --> 00:47:50,879
Speaker 2: because of Favra. He keeps on saying stuff like you're

987
00:47:50,880 --> 00:47:52,239
Speaker 2: not what I would have thought as a human.

988
00:47:52,600 --> 00:47:54,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, And he keeps like complimenting, like how do you

989
00:47:54,680 --> 00:47:56,719
Speaker 1: learn to hunt and chair? You can't even fucking rite,

990
00:47:56,760 --> 00:47:59,680
Speaker 1: And he always is sounding like very impressed. He goes,

991
00:48:00,320 --> 00:48:02,600
Speaker 1: so you just taught yourself to hunt?

992
00:48:02,719 --> 00:48:06,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, and she's like, yeah, I needed to survive, don't

993
00:48:06,400 --> 00:48:07,200
Speaker 2: you know what that's like?

994
00:48:07,440 --> 00:48:14,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, privilege. It sort of sounded like, yeah, here's the

995
00:48:14,120 --> 00:48:15,600
Speaker 1: thing that's pissing me off of Favor, right.

996
00:48:15,840 --> 00:48:17,920
Speaker 2: She keeps on talking about she's preferring to be friends

997
00:48:17,920 --> 00:48:20,839
Speaker 2: with Lucian, Yeah, but she only wants to be friends

998
00:48:20,880 --> 00:48:23,160
Speaker 2: with Lucian to get to Tamlin because she wants to

999
00:48:23,200 --> 00:48:24,799
Speaker 2: try and get someone to convince Hamlin to let her

1000
00:48:24,840 --> 00:48:26,279
Speaker 2: go home, and he's like, no, there's a.

1001
00:48:26,280 --> 00:48:27,680
Speaker 1: Why does she want to go home? By they're looking

1002
00:48:27,719 --> 00:48:29,480
Speaker 1: after her family, saying I keep on thinking that. But

1003
00:48:29,480 --> 00:48:31,160
Speaker 1: then at the same time, I'm thinking if I got taken,

1004
00:48:31,200 --> 00:48:32,520
Speaker 1: even if it was a nice place, it's like, oh

1005
00:48:32,560 --> 00:48:35,920
Speaker 1: my family that they were fucked anyway, they were annoying.

1006
00:48:36,200 --> 00:48:39,480
Speaker 2: She also he got her good with manipulation, because she

1007
00:48:39,719 --> 00:48:43,319
Speaker 2: ends up talking about how she feels as though she's

1008
00:48:43,320 --> 00:48:44,880
Speaker 2: not fulilling her mother's promise anymore.

1009
00:48:45,239 --> 00:48:46,920
Speaker 1: He goes, but you are, Yeah, that was good by

1010
00:48:46,920 --> 00:48:47,279
Speaker 1: being here.

1011
00:48:47,320 --> 00:48:49,239
Speaker 2: You are because your family is alive. Because of that,

1012
00:48:49,280 --> 00:48:52,040
Speaker 2: they're providable and I am taking care of them. And

1013
00:48:52,160 --> 00:48:55,319
Speaker 2: also fairies can't lie, so they must be being taken

1014
00:48:55,360 --> 00:48:56,839
Speaker 2: care of. I want her to go try and find him,

1015
00:48:56,840 --> 00:48:59,560
Speaker 2: though I'm keen ass Yeah, I all right?

1016
00:48:59,719 --> 00:49:02,279
Speaker 1: So what do you want the next predictions? Or we

1017
00:49:02,320 --> 00:49:05,480
Speaker 1: actually have a few new like what would they be

1018
00:49:05,520 --> 00:49:06,880
Speaker 1: called the bog and the Pookah.

1019
00:49:07,120 --> 00:49:10,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, so the Pooka tried to Actually, here's one thing

1020
00:49:10,520 --> 00:49:12,600
Speaker 2: actually I just want to say about Favor and Tamlin

1021
00:49:13,760 --> 00:49:16,640
Speaker 2: is I just want Federer to come out and admit

1022
00:49:16,960 --> 00:49:18,760
Speaker 2: that she wants to be railed by Tamlin.

1023
00:49:18,840 --> 00:49:20,719
Speaker 1: Do you reckon that's what's gonna happen. Yes, For some

1024
00:49:20,760 --> 00:49:24,080
Speaker 1: reason in my head, like I'm picturing she's so small

1025
00:49:24,120 --> 00:49:25,400
Speaker 1: and these two are like giants.

1026
00:49:25,520 --> 00:49:28,799
Speaker 2: See I was picturing that too, But I think it's

1027
00:49:28,880 --> 00:49:32,000
Speaker 2: more I've really tried to shift. They actually when he

1028
00:49:32,040 --> 00:49:34,279
Speaker 2: because Tamlin's the only one that can shape shift. But

1029
00:49:34,320 --> 00:49:36,960
Speaker 2: then he could also like he could turn Lucian into

1030
00:49:37,000 --> 00:49:39,880
Speaker 2: a wolf or a fox or something if he wanted to.

1031
00:49:40,200 --> 00:49:42,840
Speaker 2: And the reason Andres was a wolf is because Tamlin

1032
00:49:42,880 --> 00:49:45,200
Speaker 2: turned into a wolf. Yeah, so Tamlin has he's like

1033
00:49:45,239 --> 00:49:48,520
Speaker 2: powerful as fuck and so but I think but it's

1034
00:49:48,560 --> 00:49:51,640
Speaker 2: purely because Tamlin is the main character and he's the

1035
00:49:51,640 --> 00:49:54,000
Speaker 2: one that's kind of trying to get connected with Farr,

1036
00:49:54,160 --> 00:49:55,200
Speaker 2: but she's like, go away.

1037
00:49:55,480 --> 00:49:57,040
Speaker 1: But then every time she goes. He turned around and

1038
00:49:57,040 --> 00:49:59,360
Speaker 1: the muscles shown in his shirt. I was like, just

1039
00:49:59,360 --> 00:50:04,040
Speaker 1: just say, you want to to rail you? What do

1040
00:50:04,080 --> 00:50:07,919
Speaker 1: you think is gonna happen? I don't know, hard to tell.

1041
00:50:08,239 --> 00:50:11,239
Speaker 1: I don't think they're gonna fuck I do I think that.

1042
00:50:11,520 --> 00:50:15,080
Speaker 1: I think Fayrah and Tamlin. I think that it's going

1043
00:50:15,160 --> 00:50:17,399
Speaker 1: to be a thing that I feel like they become

1044
00:50:17,440 --> 00:50:20,239
Speaker 1: a couple, but mortals and fairies, it.

1045
00:50:20,239 --> 00:50:22,720
Speaker 2: Will be frowned upon, but they will become a couple.

1046
00:50:22,719 --> 00:50:27,759
Speaker 2: But also there's a point in the book where in

1047
00:50:27,800 --> 00:50:33,080
Speaker 2: these chapters where what does Lucian talk about. He's talking

1048
00:50:33,080 --> 00:50:35,680
Speaker 2: to Feirah and it's it's when they run into the Bogue,

1049
00:50:35,760 --> 00:50:38,319
Speaker 2: which we'll touch on, but he starts talking to her

1050
00:50:38,360 --> 00:50:42,040
Speaker 2: in the bog. The bogue's probably whatever you yeah.

1051
00:50:42,200 --> 00:50:46,840
Speaker 1: I'll say bog I he says something, he's talking and

1052
00:50:46,880 --> 00:50:50,120
Speaker 1: then he goes, he gets all likes mysterious and goes,

1053
00:50:50,719 --> 00:50:52,840
Speaker 1: I can't say that she'll I can't have her know

1054
00:50:52,920 --> 00:50:54,080
Speaker 1: I'm telling you this or something.

1055
00:50:54,320 --> 00:50:56,279
Speaker 2: So I think there might be someone even higher up

1056
00:50:56,280 --> 00:51:00,200
Speaker 2: than Tamlin, and it's a it's a woman of and

1057
00:51:00,280 --> 00:51:04,279
Speaker 2: there's in Prithian Feyra said that she knows there is

1058
00:51:04,360 --> 00:51:07,200
Speaker 2: seven high lords and Tamlin's just a high faye.

1059
00:51:07,960 --> 00:51:11,240
Speaker 1: Okay, high fairy. I don't know. Interesting, I think, Okay,

1060
00:51:11,239 --> 00:51:16,680
Speaker 1: he's my prediction. I think Tamlin and Freira will not

1061
00:51:16,840 --> 00:51:21,920
Speaker 1: get together, but Tamlin will pick her over Lucien and

1062
00:51:22,040 --> 00:51:25,600
Speaker 1: Lucian will go in his separate ways. Oh okay, Lucian's

1063
00:51:25,640 --> 00:51:29,319
Speaker 1: just gonna get pissed. Yeah, okay, I don't know. And

1064
00:51:29,360 --> 00:51:32,120
Speaker 1: then like way way way down the track, they'll fuck,

1065
00:51:32,160 --> 00:51:34,040
Speaker 1: but they're not going to fuck for ages. I think

1066
00:51:34,080 --> 00:51:36,160
Speaker 1: they're just gonna be like bff who can't admit their

1067
00:51:36,200 --> 00:51:39,480
Speaker 1: feelings for each other. Okay, that's my pred interesting I

1068
00:51:39,480 --> 00:51:42,600
Speaker 1: dis agree. Really, you reckon there's gonna be a sexy scene.

1069
00:51:43,160 --> 00:51:43,760
Speaker 1: I reckon.

1070
00:51:45,400 --> 00:51:49,600
Speaker 2: I think there won't be a sexy scene for about

1071
00:51:49,600 --> 00:51:53,919
Speaker 2: twenty chapters. But I do think that we're gonna start

1072
00:51:53,960 --> 00:51:57,680
Speaker 2: seeing Fayra admit that she just wants to get digged

1073
00:51:57,680 --> 00:51:58,360
Speaker 2: down by Tamlin.

1074
00:51:59,280 --> 00:52:01,480
Speaker 1: She's gonna keep talking about his muscles, She's gonna keep

1075
00:52:01,520 --> 00:52:03,840
Speaker 1: talking about that golden hair and that piercing eye. Yeah,

1076
00:52:03,880 --> 00:52:06,120
Speaker 1: and she's gonna I hope she stops thinking of all

1077
00:52:06,120 --> 00:52:08,840
Speaker 1: these ideas to like run away and kill someone. I'm like,

1078
00:52:08,880 --> 00:52:09,800
Speaker 1: you're not killing anyone.

1079
00:52:10,200 --> 00:52:12,719
Speaker 2: Think that I think she will, But I do think

1080
00:52:12,760 --> 00:52:14,600
Speaker 2: that she's going to go and try.

1081
00:52:14,360 --> 00:52:20,160
Speaker 1: To find someone. There's different. So there's the Bogue and

1082
00:52:20,200 --> 00:52:22,040
Speaker 1: the Pookah. We'll talk about them quickly, but there was

1083
00:52:22,040 --> 00:52:24,879
Speaker 1: one more there's one more big person, which is kind

1084
00:52:24,920 --> 00:52:28,439
Speaker 1: of like a really old person or a really old

1085
00:52:28,520 --> 00:52:31,520
Speaker 1: fairy that has a lot of knowledge about the sickness

1086
00:52:31,560 --> 00:52:33,920
Speaker 1: that's on Prithian. Oh, yeah, there's a sickness on Prithian.

1087
00:52:33,960 --> 00:52:36,320
Speaker 1: We've got to say that that might bitch up to fourteen. Okay,

1088
00:52:36,640 --> 00:52:39,400
Speaker 1: I haven't read that. No, you did, you have? Yeah,

1089
00:52:40,200 --> 00:52:42,120
Speaker 1: they just alluded to there's heaps of weird things going

1090
00:52:42,120 --> 00:52:43,320
Speaker 1: on on his like manner.

1091
00:52:43,480 --> 00:52:46,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, that they talked about that, you must have.

1092
00:52:46,760 --> 00:52:48,279
Speaker 2: You must have just missed it, because they definitely talked

1093
00:52:48,280 --> 00:52:51,400
Speaker 2: about that before chapter thirteen. Okay, But there's like a

1094
00:52:51,440 --> 00:52:55,239
Speaker 2: thing called like the blight or something on Prithian and

1095
00:52:55,480 --> 00:52:59,080
Speaker 2: it the reason that their masks or the or the

1096
00:52:59,160 --> 00:53:00,960
Speaker 2: high Fhae and the fairy have masks when they're in

1097
00:53:01,000 --> 00:53:04,759
Speaker 2: human forms stuck to their face is because back in

1098
00:53:04,800 --> 00:53:07,840
Speaker 2: the day they had a party. Because they're all immortal,

1099
00:53:07,880 --> 00:53:10,080
Speaker 2: they don't die. Yeah, just back in the day they

1100
00:53:10,120 --> 00:53:13,560
Speaker 2: had a party and the party was a masquerade party.

1101
00:53:14,040 --> 00:53:17,680
Speaker 2: And then that's when the sickness fell on Printhian. And

1102
00:53:17,719 --> 00:53:19,520
Speaker 2: one of the things that the sickness did was made

1103
00:53:19,560 --> 00:53:21,120
Speaker 2: it so these masks don't come off their face.

1104
00:53:21,600 --> 00:53:24,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's kind of cool. This would be a sick movie,

1105
00:53:24,760 --> 00:53:29,200
Speaker 1: is it. It's new, it's relatively relatively new. This becomes

1106
00:53:29,200 --> 00:53:31,279
Speaker 1: a show, bro, I have no idea it should be. Well,

1107
00:53:31,280 --> 00:53:33,680
Speaker 1: it's so successful. I'm in that if it's a show.

1108
00:53:33,840 --> 00:53:35,200
Speaker 1: I was thinking when I was reading it, this would

1109
00:53:35,239 --> 00:53:37,839
Speaker 1: be so much better as a TV series. I would

1110
00:53:37,840 --> 00:53:40,319
Speaker 1: love to watch it sick. It's so intricate. Yeah, but

1111
00:53:40,360 --> 00:53:44,080
Speaker 1: who's the bog? The bogue is you can't look at them,

1112
00:53:44,160 --> 00:53:46,520
Speaker 1: they get in your head. And Tamlin's just kill one

1113
00:53:46,520 --> 00:53:50,360
Speaker 1: and hurt his hand. Yeah. So yeah, when they're out hunting,

1114
00:53:50,480 --> 00:53:53,279
Speaker 1: Lucian and Fayr goes for a hunt with Lucian because

1115
00:53:53,280 --> 00:53:57,080
Speaker 1: it was actually Andres Andreas's shift, but she killed Andreas

1116
00:53:57,600 --> 00:54:02,399
Speaker 1: and so she's out hunting and then Lucian just goes

1117
00:54:02,600 --> 00:54:05,879
Speaker 1: stop like just look ahead and don't move your eyes,

1118
00:54:06,200 --> 00:54:08,040
Speaker 1: and then she starts hearing these voices and this cold

1119
00:54:08,040 --> 00:54:10,800
Speaker 1: air around her and these voices, and then it finally

1120
00:54:10,840 --> 00:54:12,040
Speaker 1: goes away and she goes, what was that And he

1121
00:54:12,040 --> 00:54:14,040
Speaker 1: said it was a bogue. If you were to have

1122
00:54:14,080 --> 00:54:16,319
Speaker 1: made eye contact or look, that's when it can turn

1123
00:54:16,360 --> 00:54:18,480
Speaker 1: into an actual being and kill you and then he

1124
00:54:18,520 --> 00:54:20,439
Speaker 1: goes to dinner and says to Tamila, I'm like, oh,

1125
00:54:20,520 --> 00:54:22,719
Speaker 1: in the westwards there was a bogue and Tamilin gets

1126
00:54:22,719 --> 00:54:24,799
Speaker 1: all pissed and just goes and chases after it. And

1127
00:54:24,880 --> 00:54:27,600
Speaker 1: because Lucian says to Farah earlier that they're unkillable, and

1128
00:54:27,640 --> 00:54:29,480
Speaker 1: then she goes to Lucian, well, where's Tamalin going. And

1129
00:54:29,520 --> 00:54:30,920
Speaker 1: then he goes, he's going to kill the boat and

1130
00:54:31,000 --> 00:54:33,600
Speaker 1: she was like, oh my god, well swhere she had

1131
00:54:33,600 --> 00:54:37,600
Speaker 1: Fanny Flatters, the strongest being she's ever seen. Yeah, yeah,

1132
00:54:37,640 --> 00:54:40,200
Speaker 1: she said that after he kills the boat. Yeah. And

1133
00:54:40,239 --> 00:54:44,120
Speaker 1: then the pooka came out at night and they trap

1134
00:54:44,160 --> 00:54:45,919
Speaker 1: you in your own desire. She starts seeing her dad,

1135
00:54:46,800 --> 00:54:48,960
Speaker 1: and then she saw like her sisters and then they

1136
00:54:49,000 --> 00:54:51,000
Speaker 1: just turned back into just like a bow and then

1137
00:54:51,040 --> 00:54:52,920
Speaker 1: it was nothing. And then now that's when Tamlin goes,

1138
00:54:52,960 --> 00:54:56,279
Speaker 1: what are you doing? Use your brain? Use your brain?

1139
00:54:56,320 --> 00:54:58,759
Speaker 1: You didiot? Obviously they're not here, and she's like, what

1140
00:54:58,800 --> 00:55:00,839
Speaker 1: do you expect me to do? It was my dad

1141
00:55:00,880 --> 00:55:03,200
Speaker 1: and my sisters that you stole me from. The Dad

1142
00:55:03,200 --> 00:55:07,160
Speaker 1: doesn't have a need fuck me already, Jesus, all right,

1143
00:55:07,280 --> 00:55:13,200
Speaker 1: all right, And ranking for that chapter. I was invested.

1144
00:55:13,280 --> 00:55:15,680
Speaker 1: I'm saying that range of chapters is a seven.

1145
00:55:16,440 --> 00:55:18,080
Speaker 2: Seven, I was gonna say six and a halfs Okay,

1146
00:55:18,120 --> 00:55:20,080
Speaker 2: there you go. Yeah, because I'm just expecting better. That's

1147
00:55:20,080 --> 00:55:20,719
Speaker 2: why I say seven.

1148
00:55:20,760 --> 00:55:22,880
Speaker 1: I'm expecting a lot more to happen. Yeah, because of

1149
00:55:22,880 --> 00:55:24,320
Speaker 1: all the comments on our videos and I was like,

1150
00:55:24,400 --> 00:55:26,279
Speaker 1: this is so good. People keep saying you just wait

1151
00:55:26,320 --> 00:55:28,920
Speaker 1: book two. So I'm like, maybe my expectations are so

1152
00:55:29,040 --> 00:55:30,799
Speaker 1: high now because everyone's like this is going to be

1153
00:55:30,800 --> 00:55:32,359
Speaker 1: so good. Someone said book two is going to change

1154
00:55:32,360 --> 00:55:34,719
Speaker 1: our lives. Yeah, and I'm just like, when's it going

1155
00:55:34,800 --> 00:55:37,840
Speaker 1: to happen? So I don't know. I'm into it. What

1156
00:55:38,040 --> 00:55:44,520
Speaker 1: chapter are we reading next? Can we finish it? Do

1157
00:55:44,520 --> 00:55:49,680
Speaker 1: you want to do ten again or more fifteen? What

1158
00:55:49,719 --> 00:55:51,919
Speaker 1: if we do fifteen too many? We can go it's

1159
00:55:52,040 --> 00:55:54,240
Speaker 1: wrap the chapter thirteen. What if we go to actually

1160
00:55:54,320 --> 00:55:57,120
Speaker 1: up to fourteen? If we go to thirty, okay, yeah

1161
00:55:57,160 --> 00:56:00,840
Speaker 1: that's seventeen, yeah chapter thirty, Yeah, yes, thirty. So so

1162
00:56:00,880 --> 00:56:02,320
Speaker 1: you know what you need to do is actually definitely

1163
00:56:02,320 --> 00:56:05,200
Speaker 1: do the no phone on the weekend and then just

1164
00:56:05,239 --> 00:56:11,000
Speaker 1: read the Yeah, okay, everybody heard that chapter thirty. Chapter thirty.

1165
00:56:11,120 --> 00:56:20,800
Speaker 1: You know what to do. Guys, It's time for dilemmas.

1166
00:56:20,880 --> 00:56:23,560
Speaker 1: We've got a long episode for you today. We're feeling generous.

1167
00:56:23,680 --> 00:56:26,080
Speaker 1: You're welcome. We're feeling generous. We're feeling good. All right,

1168
00:56:26,120 --> 00:56:28,600
Speaker 1: we have two really good dilemmas to do. We're on overtime,

1169
00:56:29,040 --> 00:56:33,400
Speaker 1: on over time, baby. If you want to submit a dilemma,

1170
00:56:33,760 --> 00:56:36,160
Speaker 1: it is in the description of this episode, or it

1171
00:56:36,239 --> 00:56:39,760
Speaker 1: is also in the Instagram bio on our Instagram. Which

1172
00:56:40,000 --> 00:56:42,480
Speaker 1: is I think I noticed we have never said is

1173
00:56:42,640 --> 00:56:44,440
Speaker 1: at Relatables podcast? If you want to go find it?

1174
00:56:44,520 --> 00:56:46,239
Speaker 1: Oh no, honestly, gram it's just at Relatables.

1175
00:56:46,280 --> 00:56:48,439
Speaker 2: We got relatables. I feel like people would figure it out.

1176
00:56:48,520 --> 00:56:50,120
Speaker 2: It's a good point. But you can, Yeah, you can

1177
00:56:50,120 --> 00:56:53,280
Speaker 2: submit a dilemma. They're all anonymous, all right, yeah, yeah, okay.

1178
00:56:55,280 --> 00:56:57,840
Speaker 2: Me and my boyfriend have been together for three years.

1179
00:56:58,080 --> 00:57:00,360
Speaker 2: We both live at home and see each other almost

1180
00:57:00,400 --> 00:57:03,200
Speaker 2: every day. I'm the youngest in my family of three.

1181
00:57:03,400 --> 00:57:06,960
Speaker 2: My boyfriend is the oldest of three. Sometimes we house

1182
00:57:06,960 --> 00:57:09,719
Speaker 2: sit for friends and family and get the opportunity to

1183
00:57:09,840 --> 00:57:11,799
Speaker 2: experience living with each other.

1184
00:57:12,400 --> 00:57:13,080
Speaker 1: I have learnt a.

1185
00:57:13,000 --> 00:57:17,160
Speaker 2: Lot of life skills growing up and following my sisters. However,

1186
00:57:17,560 --> 00:57:21,600
Speaker 2: my boyfriend didn't have the same opportunity. Because I'm the youngest,

1187
00:57:21,840 --> 00:57:25,120
Speaker 2: I have learned to cook, clean, and all the other

1188
00:57:25,200 --> 00:57:30,240
Speaker 2: domestic tasks required to run a household. However, my boyfriend

1189
00:57:30,240 --> 00:57:32,480
Speaker 2: didn't grow up having the same opportunity, so when we

1190
00:57:32,560 --> 00:57:35,880
Speaker 2: house sit together, I'm the one having to show him

1191
00:57:36,120 --> 00:57:39,200
Speaker 2: how to do certain things. I do find it frustrating

1192
00:57:39,480 --> 00:57:42,360
Speaker 2: that he doesn't initiate any jobs to do around the house,

1193
00:57:42,480 --> 00:57:46,160
Speaker 2: and I'm always the one asking him for help. I

1194
00:57:46,200 --> 00:57:48,360
Speaker 2: have spoken to him about this and what I need

1195
00:57:48,400 --> 00:57:51,040
Speaker 2: from him, and he listens to me and does help

1196
00:57:51,080 --> 00:57:53,480
Speaker 2: when I need it. And I know I can sometimes

1197
00:57:53,520 --> 00:57:56,320
Speaker 2: be too hard on him. He has improved so much

1198
00:57:56,320 --> 00:57:59,400
Speaker 2: since we first started dating. But I'm just mindful that

1199
00:57:59,440 --> 00:58:01,680
Speaker 2: when we do it eventually live together, he won't take

1200
00:58:01,720 --> 00:58:03,560
Speaker 2: the initiative to two jobs around the house.

1201
00:58:03,800 --> 00:58:10,240
Speaker 1: I would love some advice that word initiative. Some guys

1202
00:58:10,280 --> 00:58:13,960
Speaker 1: don't have it, especially with like household chores and things

1203
00:58:14,000 --> 00:58:17,760
Speaker 1: to do. This could I would say it's like textbook

1204
00:58:17,800 --> 00:58:22,680
Speaker 1: fucking weaponizing competence. It's not that hard to do stuff.

1205
00:58:24,200 --> 00:58:25,360
Speaker 2: If you had to clean dishes, you know how to

1206
00:58:25,360 --> 00:58:26,520
Speaker 2: pick up a plate. You know how to put stuff

1207
00:58:26,520 --> 00:58:27,200
Speaker 2: in the dirty launcher?

1208
00:58:27,240 --> 00:58:28,840
Speaker 1: You just you just put it in the launch You

1209
00:58:28,840 --> 00:58:31,480
Speaker 1: put the liquid in and then press maximum two buttons. Yeah,

1210
00:58:31,480 --> 00:58:33,000
Speaker 1: but I think what's happening here is he's a good

1211
00:58:33,080 --> 00:58:36,640
Speaker 1: guy and he can't see what he has to do,

1212
00:58:36,720 --> 00:58:38,800
Speaker 1: Like he's not weaponizing his inconpetence and being like I

1213
00:58:38,840 --> 00:58:40,600
Speaker 1: don't know what to do, babe, Like I don't care.

1214
00:58:40,680 --> 00:58:43,000
Speaker 1: Like he's not saying I need to be taught. No, no, no,

1215
00:58:43,040 --> 00:58:46,160
Speaker 1: he literally just doesn't know what to do, Like he's not.

1216
00:58:46,440 --> 00:58:49,480
Speaker 1: Still that's insane. Yeah, it's definitely bad, and like what

1217
00:58:49,640 --> 00:58:51,440
Speaker 1: we have to give her some tips to like help

1218
00:58:51,800 --> 00:58:53,360
Speaker 1: like push him in the right direction. But I don't

1219
00:58:53,360 --> 00:58:55,520
Speaker 1: think he's weaponizing his incompetence and being like you just

1220
00:58:55,520 --> 00:58:58,400
Speaker 1: do it, you know what to do. Yeah. No, But

1221
00:58:58,440 --> 00:59:01,480
Speaker 1: I don't think that's what weaponizing competence is. I think

1222
00:59:01,520 --> 00:59:05,760
Speaker 1: weaponizing confidence is, like she is giving him, like this

1223
00:59:05,800 --> 00:59:07,800
Speaker 1: girl quite patient. You got to think about it in

1224
00:59:07,800 --> 00:59:08,040
Speaker 1: a way.

1225
00:59:08,120 --> 00:59:10,200
Speaker 2: She's really patient because she's saying that she grew up

1226
00:59:10,680 --> 00:59:13,240
Speaker 2: the youngest, so she's been shown a lot, and he

1227
00:59:13,280 --> 00:59:15,600
Speaker 2: grew up the oldest, so he hasn't been shown as much.

1228
00:59:16,200 --> 00:59:18,280
Speaker 1: But I don't know. I just think, why does that

1229
00:59:18,320 --> 00:59:23,680
Speaker 1: mean anything? It does and doesn't to a certain extent.

1230
00:59:23,840 --> 00:59:27,680
Speaker 1: I guess, well, he's obviously been in a householder. Everything's

1231
00:59:27,680 --> 00:59:30,360
Speaker 1: been done for him, yeah, which is a lot of people.

1232
00:59:31,120 --> 00:59:33,720
Speaker 1: And she has been in a household where she had

1233
00:59:33,720 --> 00:59:35,800
Speaker 1: to grow up early. She probably just did a lot

1234
00:59:35,840 --> 00:59:38,320
Speaker 1: of stuff on her own. Noah, Yeah, I think how

1235
00:59:38,360 --> 00:59:42,520
Speaker 1: can you make him realize like he should take the

1236
00:59:42,560 --> 00:59:46,400
Speaker 1: initiative himself about her saying anything? It's the answer to me.

1237
00:59:46,400 --> 00:59:49,080
Speaker 2: I mean it sounds like she's definitely spoken to him

1238
00:59:49,080 --> 00:59:52,640
Speaker 2: about it, but now he's only like doing shit when

1239
00:59:52,680 --> 00:59:55,560
Speaker 2: like she's like, oh, come help me. Well that okay,

1240
00:59:55,720 --> 00:59:58,360
Speaker 2: here we go. It is really bad if she has

1241
00:59:58,400 --> 01:00:00,720
Speaker 2: asked him and he's not doing it. Yeah, seriously, just

1242
01:00:00,800 --> 01:00:03,120
Speaker 2: fucking just you know.

1243
01:00:03,320 --> 01:00:05,320
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think though, like how would we help her.

1244
01:00:05,360 --> 01:00:08,880
Speaker 1: We have friends though, who like are completely incompetent, Yeah,

1245
01:00:08,920 --> 01:00:13,280
Speaker 1: and like I don't know how to help them, Like

1246
01:00:13,320 --> 01:00:16,439
Speaker 1: they're around the house, they don't know how to do it. Stubbornness. Yeah,

1247
01:00:16,440 --> 01:00:18,240
Speaker 1: maybe it's stubborn. Yeah, but I don't think.

1248
01:00:18,280 --> 01:00:21,960
Speaker 2: Anyone's incompetent when it comes to cleaning, because like, I

1249
01:00:21,960 --> 01:00:22,240
Speaker 2: don't know.

1250
01:00:22,320 --> 01:00:24,080
Speaker 1: Let's say, what does your boyfriend enjoy it? Does he

1251
01:00:24,200 --> 01:00:24,560
Speaker 1: like cars?

1252
01:00:24,560 --> 01:00:26,280
Speaker 2: If your boyfriend knows how to clean a car, he

1253
01:00:26,320 --> 01:00:28,480
Speaker 2: sees it's dirty, he cleans the car, all right.

1254
01:00:28,560 --> 01:00:30,560
Speaker 1: True, a car is a dish on a bigger scale.

1255
01:00:30,560 --> 01:00:32,680
Speaker 1: It's easier to clean a dish. It's easier to fucking

1256
01:00:32,760 --> 01:00:35,200
Speaker 1: mop a floor. Like, I don't know. I just think

1257
01:00:35,720 --> 01:00:37,800
Speaker 1: it's more of just like it just kind of it's

1258
01:00:37,840 --> 01:00:41,840
Speaker 1: like lack of caring. Yeah, I think that's what it is. Yeah,

1259
01:00:41,960 --> 01:00:45,640
Speaker 1: it doesn't care enough to do it or realize that

1260
01:00:45,880 --> 01:00:48,400
Speaker 1: it matters to you, so he should do it. Yeah,

1261
01:00:48,440 --> 01:00:50,400
Speaker 1: that's what the problem. I think that problem is, Yeah,

1262
01:00:50,400 --> 01:00:52,960
Speaker 1: that it matters to you. And you've asked him, yeah once,

1263
01:00:53,080 --> 01:00:54,160
Speaker 1: maybe multiple times.

1264
01:00:54,240 --> 01:00:56,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, And you're saying that you're too hard on him

1265
01:00:57,080 --> 01:00:59,440
Speaker 2: when you've probably asked him to do something and he

1266
01:00:59,480 --> 01:01:01,400
Speaker 2: doesn't do it, so you ask him again and get

1267
01:01:01,440 --> 01:01:03,400
Speaker 2: mad and then you think you're being too hard on him,

1268
01:01:03,520 --> 01:01:04,880
Speaker 2: which is not right.

1269
01:01:05,280 --> 01:01:06,920
Speaker 1: No, I don't think you're being too hard on him

1270
01:01:06,920 --> 01:01:09,600
Speaker 1: at all. Like, yeah, it's tough because it's your relationship.

1271
01:01:09,680 --> 01:01:11,640
Speaker 1: I've had a similar experience with friends, and with a

1272
01:01:11,640 --> 01:01:14,000
Speaker 1: friend i'd just be like, fuck, you're like tough to

1273
01:01:14,040 --> 01:01:15,760
Speaker 1: live with, Like fuck, you just don't know how to

1274
01:01:15,760 --> 01:01:17,360
Speaker 1: look after yourself, Like I have a little dig at them,

1275
01:01:17,400 --> 01:01:19,920
Speaker 1: which you obviously can't say to a part, but like,

1276
01:01:20,320 --> 01:01:22,680
Speaker 1: oh maybe you could. Maybe you need to be honest.

1277
01:01:22,800 --> 01:01:24,840
Speaker 1: But how do you Maybe he hasn't grown up. I

1278
01:01:24,880 --> 01:01:26,360
Speaker 1: have a question how do you make him grow up?

1279
01:01:27,920 --> 01:01:32,120
Speaker 1: So what she said to us was but I'm just

1280
01:01:32,240 --> 01:01:34,640
Speaker 1: mindful that when we do eventually live together, he won't

1281
01:01:34,640 --> 01:01:36,880
Speaker 1: take initiative to do jobs around the house. Just yeah,

1282
01:01:36,920 --> 01:01:39,520
Speaker 1: you need to just say that to him, true, just

1283
01:01:39,560 --> 01:01:41,640
Speaker 1: say like I loved you, We've been together forever, I

1284
01:01:41,680 --> 01:01:45,080
Speaker 1: love you. You're the best. But we've spoken about it before.

1285
01:01:45,160 --> 01:01:46,880
Speaker 2: The No, you're not doing jobs and stuff right, It's

1286
01:01:46,880 --> 01:01:48,240
Speaker 2: obviously I'm not going to get you to do anything

1287
01:01:48,240 --> 01:01:50,000
Speaker 2: at your own house because that's your house, and at

1288
01:01:50,000 --> 01:01:52,480
Speaker 2: my house you're I hope he's respectful when I clean

1289
01:01:52,480 --> 01:01:53,400
Speaker 2: it when I think it needs to be.

1290
01:01:53,400 --> 01:01:57,520
Speaker 1: Clean when we're together. I've noticed whenever were house sitting that,

1291
01:01:57,800 --> 01:01:59,200
Speaker 1: especially when it's someone else's house.

1292
01:01:59,280 --> 01:02:02,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I've noticed that you just don't initiate to

1293
01:02:02,080 --> 01:02:04,000
Speaker 2: do anything when it needs to be done, and I'm

1294
01:02:04,040 --> 01:02:06,080
Speaker 2: the one asking you to help all the time. So

1295
01:02:07,080 --> 01:02:09,560
Speaker 2: I'm sorry but this might sound harsh. I just don't

1296
01:02:09,560 --> 01:02:11,200
Speaker 2: see myself ever wanting to live with you if that's

1297
01:02:11,200 --> 01:02:12,080
Speaker 2: what it's going to be like.

1298
01:02:12,320 --> 01:02:14,080
Speaker 1: And he needs that wake up call, I think he

1299
01:02:14,120 --> 01:02:16,400
Speaker 1: needs to hear that. Yeah. Is this also a case

1300
01:02:16,400 --> 01:02:19,920
Speaker 1: where like you're incompatible? I mean, yeah, this is his

1301
01:02:20,360 --> 01:02:24,200
Speaker 1: response to this, And if he does respond in a

1302
01:02:24,200 --> 01:02:27,040
Speaker 1: good way but then doesn't change, is maybe you aren't. Yeah,

1303
01:02:27,120 --> 01:02:28,920
Speaker 1: And if he responds in a good way and does change,

1304
01:02:28,920 --> 01:02:31,040
Speaker 1: then you are compatible because he wants to put effort

1305
01:02:31,080 --> 01:02:33,000
Speaker 1: in to stay with you. Yeah, it's just like he's

1306
01:02:33,040 --> 01:02:36,520
Speaker 1: obviously been babied his whole which is a lot of dudes.

1307
01:02:36,600 --> 01:02:39,320
Speaker 1: It's we Usually the eldest doesn't get babied. It's usually

1308
01:02:39,320 --> 01:02:42,120
Speaker 1: the youngest. Yeah, maybe he's one. Did they say he's

1309
01:02:42,160 --> 01:02:45,000
Speaker 1: one of them? No, Yeah, he's the oldest of three. Nah,

1310
01:02:45,000 --> 01:02:46,720
Speaker 1: to be fair, because if there's a bit of an

1311
01:02:46,760 --> 01:02:48,560
Speaker 1: age gap, they're like, it's a golden child and he

1312
01:02:48,600 --> 01:02:50,800
Speaker 1: gets babied. They do love the oldest one. Yeah, it's

1313
01:02:50,800 --> 01:02:52,600
Speaker 1: like the first one. It's so exciting. Let's do everything

1314
01:02:52,640 --> 01:02:55,040
Speaker 1: for him, Like, did you get more like maybe babied

1315
01:02:55,840 --> 01:02:56,800
Speaker 1: got way more baby than money.

1316
01:02:56,920 --> 01:03:00,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, my youngest siblings because Joanna and I quite close

1317
01:03:00,440 --> 01:03:03,280
Speaker 2: about two years apart, and then my parents got divorced

1318
01:03:03,320 --> 01:03:07,000
Speaker 2: in like seven years. My mum has two kids, but

1319
01:03:07,080 --> 01:03:08,800
Speaker 2: the oldest one of those who is seven years younger

1320
01:03:08,840 --> 01:03:11,080
Speaker 2: than me, and then same as my dad and my stepmom,

1321
01:03:11,480 --> 01:03:14,800
Speaker 2: and so those two sets of kids have both been baby.

1322
01:03:15,440 --> 01:03:15,680
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1323
01:03:15,960 --> 01:03:18,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, even like my stepmom even admitted to being like

1324
01:03:18,680 --> 01:03:20,600
Speaker 2: a mad helicopter parent because I said, I think I'm

1325
01:03:20,600 --> 01:03:21,160
Speaker 2: going to be one.

1326
01:03:21,760 --> 01:03:23,439
Speaker 1: Well, I think we can talk about this. What about

1327
01:03:24,000 --> 01:03:26,440
Speaker 1: in your house, Like, if your roommate would do something

1328
01:03:26,440 --> 01:03:28,360
Speaker 1: that you would consider I don't know, tough word, but

1329
01:03:28,400 --> 01:03:30,720
Speaker 1: incompetent or doesn't initiate things, Hew, would you bring it

1330
01:03:30,760 --> 01:03:34,120
Speaker 1: up with them? We have a group chat called it's

1331
01:03:34,160 --> 01:03:38,400
Speaker 1: called Henry's House. Yeah, and if like we will call

1332
01:03:38,440 --> 01:03:40,880
Speaker 1: her out on things, or like Beth will call me out,

1333
01:03:41,040 --> 01:03:43,840
Speaker 1: Like it's kind of a whole thing of if I

1334
01:03:43,960 --> 01:03:46,160
Speaker 1: do something that Beth doesn't like in a common area,

1335
01:03:46,200 --> 01:03:47,560
Speaker 1: if it's in our bedroom, she would have talked to

1336
01:03:47,600 --> 01:03:48,040
Speaker 1: me about it.

1337
01:03:48,400 --> 01:03:50,280
Speaker 2: But if it's in a common area, like Beth will

1338
01:03:50,280 --> 01:03:52,760
Speaker 2: call it out. So then Maddie sees that she's calling

1339
01:03:52,760 --> 01:03:54,240
Speaker 2: me out. So then Maddie also feels like she can

1340
01:03:54,240 --> 01:03:56,120
Speaker 2: call me out. And I've called Mattie out on things,

1341
01:03:56,320 --> 01:03:57,640
Speaker 2: and then she's called us out on things.

1342
01:03:57,720 --> 01:03:58,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, so it's just like it now.

1343
01:03:58,880 --> 01:04:01,360
Speaker 2: It's like a thing where we're all just like quite clean,

1344
01:04:01,840 --> 01:04:04,640
Speaker 2: and if someone's lacking in something, you're bitterly where life's

1345
01:04:04,640 --> 01:04:06,560
Speaker 2: like a I don't know, a little bit of food

1346
01:04:06,560 --> 01:04:07,960
Speaker 2: in the sink or something like that. It's except people

1347
01:04:08,000 --> 01:04:09,080
Speaker 2: get busy and they forget.

1348
01:04:09,160 --> 01:04:11,840
Speaker 1: But if it's like a common common occurrence that something's happening,

1349
01:04:11,840 --> 01:04:13,480
Speaker 1: we will say something in the group chat. Well, it's

1350
01:04:13,480 --> 01:04:16,360
Speaker 1: building that safe environment where you can pull you or

1351
01:04:16,360 --> 01:04:20,160
Speaker 1: pull someone up, where like I guess this girl just

1352
01:04:20,160 --> 01:04:22,480
Speaker 1: has to build that safe environment if you're willing to

1353
01:04:22,520 --> 01:04:24,120
Speaker 1: put in the work. I know it's annoying, but to

1354
01:04:24,200 --> 01:04:26,600
Speaker 1: continually bring on this stuff, bring up this stuff with

1355
01:04:26,720 --> 01:04:30,720
Speaker 1: your boyfriend, yeah, and just be like dude plates he's

1356
01:04:30,800 --> 01:04:33,120
Speaker 1: like dude bins, Dude, you can't leave your shoes. There

1357
01:04:33,240 --> 01:04:35,240
Speaker 1: must be so annoying. Yeah, but if you love him,

1358
01:04:35,240 --> 01:04:35,880
Speaker 1: like that's what you do.

1359
01:04:36,000 --> 01:04:38,960
Speaker 2: I don't know, though, is it I find that it's

1360
01:04:39,120 --> 01:04:45,400
Speaker 2: I mean, maybe you do, or maybe maybe sometimes.

1361
01:04:44,640 --> 01:04:46,400
Speaker 1: Actually I've literally not got no idea.

1362
01:04:46,440 --> 01:04:47,680
Speaker 2: I think the best thing to do is just to

1363
01:04:47,680 --> 01:04:49,160
Speaker 2: tell them, hey, feeling, I don't know if I ever

1364
01:04:49,200 --> 01:04:50,560
Speaker 2: want to live with you because of this, and see

1365
01:04:50,600 --> 01:04:51,040
Speaker 2: what he says.

1366
01:04:51,320 --> 01:04:54,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, and then it's really up to him. How old

1367
01:04:54,320 --> 01:04:58,000
Speaker 1: she said she was nineteen? She said no age, she

1368
01:04:58,040 --> 01:04:59,440
Speaker 1: just said that we've been together for three years. We

1369
01:04:59,520 --> 01:05:02,400
Speaker 1: both live. I'm assuming they're still pretty young. Maybe she's

1370
01:05:02,720 --> 01:05:04,560
Speaker 1: she Yeah, she could be twenty or twenty three, and

1371
01:05:04,880 --> 01:05:07,240
Speaker 1: hopefully it's like he's just young and hasn't had that

1372
01:05:07,280 --> 01:05:10,840
Speaker 1: frontal low development. Yeah it is. Yeah, it's weird. It's good.

1373
01:05:10,880 --> 01:05:13,360
Speaker 1: I d say. You might be right about the babying thing. Yeah,

1374
01:05:13,400 --> 01:05:15,440
Speaker 1: he has been. He doesn't know. Like I'm not giving

1375
01:05:15,440 --> 01:05:17,880
Speaker 1: that as an excuse, but he literally, his brain cognitively

1376
01:05:17,920 --> 01:05:20,080
Speaker 1: has never had to look at things that way because

1377
01:05:20,120 --> 01:05:22,200
Speaker 1: his mum's always done it for him. That's saying mothers,

1378
01:05:22,240 --> 01:05:24,560
Speaker 1: and his mum's done everything for him his whole life. Heavy.

1379
01:05:24,760 --> 01:05:27,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, right now, you've got to fucking now you don't

1380
01:05:27,360 --> 01:05:29,000
Speaker 2: be his mum, by the way, because he's probably a

1381
01:05:29,040 --> 01:05:31,560
Speaker 2: really nice guy, don't see.

1382
01:05:31,600 --> 01:05:33,400
Speaker 1: Here's the thing. As well. Though It's like I also

1383
01:05:33,440 --> 01:05:37,160
Speaker 1: see that argument that is he could be the best bloke, right,

1384
01:05:38,600 --> 01:05:42,320
Speaker 1: but it's like there's still a butt you know what

1385
01:05:42,320 --> 01:05:45,160
Speaker 1: I mean. It's like, if you're such a good fucking bloke,

1386
01:05:45,880 --> 01:05:49,360
Speaker 1: then being asked to do something once, just realize that

1387
01:05:49,440 --> 01:05:51,960
Speaker 1: you maybe haven't been taught and just actively thinkable to

1388
01:05:52,000 --> 01:05:52,200
Speaker 1: do it.

1389
01:05:52,240 --> 01:05:54,000
Speaker 2: If you're just kind of like, oh yeah, I'm so sorry,

1390
01:05:54,040 --> 01:05:57,160
Speaker 2: Like you know, I've never been taught this. It's like, okay, fair,

1391
01:05:57,760 --> 01:05:59,840
Speaker 2: maybe you haven't maybe each you fucking once.

1392
01:06:00,040 --> 01:06:02,240
Speaker 1: Maybe he hasn't had that realization that he's never been taught.

1393
01:06:02,600 --> 01:06:04,120
Speaker 1: Maybe I don't know. It's weird. You just need to

1394
01:06:04,280 --> 01:06:06,800
Speaker 1: come to terms with the fact that maybe you are

1395
01:06:06,880 --> 01:06:11,800
Speaker 1: not fucking perfect. Oh yeah, and just admit that you

1396
01:06:11,880 --> 01:06:15,720
Speaker 1: need to. I don't know, honestly, weird analogy. But he's

1397
01:06:15,720 --> 01:06:17,840
Speaker 1: like a dog. It's like a little puppy. He's got

1398
01:06:17,960 --> 01:06:20,480
Speaker 1: to train him up because he hasn't been trained properly. Embarrassing,

1399
01:06:22,720 --> 01:06:25,240
Speaker 1: so good luck. Yeah, yeah, there's a few good takeaway

1400
01:06:25,400 --> 01:06:29,000
Speaker 1: I think he can make it work, all right. Next dilemma. Hi,

1401
01:06:29,160 --> 01:06:31,640
Speaker 1: thanks for the great podcast. You both are so fun

1402
01:06:31,720 --> 01:06:35,400
Speaker 1: and amazing guys. Now to my dilemma. I sometimes feel

1403
01:06:35,440 --> 01:06:38,680
Speaker 1: insecure or a little bit afraid to ask what I

1404
01:06:38,760 --> 01:06:42,000
Speaker 1: want when I'm in bed with guys. Instead, I focus

1405
01:06:42,080 --> 01:06:45,840
Speaker 1: on him making sure he is satisfied. I'm afraid that

1406
01:06:45,880 --> 01:06:48,640
Speaker 1: he will be upset to get feedback, and I don't

1407
01:06:48,680 --> 01:06:51,520
Speaker 1: want to hurt his feelings. So I guess my question

1408
01:06:51,760 --> 01:06:54,880
Speaker 1: is Number one, do men find it sexy when a

1409
01:06:54,880 --> 01:06:58,080
Speaker 1: woman tells them what she likes in bed or specifically

1410
01:06:58,360 --> 01:07:02,400
Speaker 1: helps navigate them when it's down there? Number two? Do

1411
01:07:02,600 --> 01:07:05,200
Speaker 1: men get upset if a woman does not come every

1412
01:07:05,200 --> 01:07:08,880
Speaker 1: time doing sex? And number three what matters the most

1413
01:07:08,920 --> 01:07:12,120
Speaker 1: during sex for you? Super curious to hear a male's perspective.

1414
01:07:12,200 --> 01:07:15,000
Speaker 1: Thanks for your advice. Shit, Okay, what was the first question?

1415
01:07:15,600 --> 01:07:17,960
Speaker 1: Do men find it sexy when a woman tells them

1416
01:07:18,000 --> 01:07:20,760
Speaker 1: what they like in bed or specifically how to navigate

1417
01:07:20,920 --> 01:07:24,920
Speaker 1: down there? Me? Personally, yes, yeah, I like it. Me personally,

1418
01:07:24,960 --> 01:07:27,360
Speaker 1: I love it. I can't answer for everyone. I know

1419
01:07:27,440 --> 01:07:30,520
Speaker 1: a lot of girls like the guy to be the dom. Yeah,

1420
01:07:30,600 --> 01:07:32,120
Speaker 1: so sometimes they don't like to bring it up because

1421
01:07:32,120 --> 01:07:33,320
Speaker 1: it's not as sexy and they don't get it turned

1422
01:07:33,360 --> 01:07:36,040
Speaker 1: on as much. But I think it's better to be

1423
01:07:36,200 --> 01:07:39,840
Speaker 1: comfortable and at the initial sexy time in the start,

1424
01:07:39,880 --> 01:07:41,320
Speaker 1: tell him what you like so we know he's down

1425
01:07:41,360 --> 01:07:43,600
Speaker 1: the track. Agreed, and it's better for you to be

1426
01:07:43,600 --> 01:07:45,360
Speaker 1: comfortable and tell him, even if, like I don't know,

1427
01:07:45,360 --> 01:07:47,320
Speaker 1: it might hurt his feelings a little bit. I don't

1428
01:07:47,320 --> 01:07:50,720
Speaker 1: know though, because it's not is it. He was just

1429
01:07:50,800 --> 01:07:52,800
Speaker 1: kind of doing his best. It's also and now he's

1430
01:07:52,840 --> 01:07:55,440
Speaker 1: being taught. Everyone's bodies are different and everyone likes different things,

1431
01:07:55,480 --> 01:08:01,080
Speaker 1: different positions. Again, some it's fair enough to think so personally,

1432
01:08:01,160 --> 01:08:03,840
Speaker 1: if I was told I'm doing this thing wrong, I'm

1433
01:08:03,840 --> 01:08:05,240
Speaker 1: not the type to get upset about it, on the

1434
01:08:05,240 --> 01:08:08,560
Speaker 1: type to say, oh, I'm sorry it yeah. Yeah. But

1435
01:08:08,680 --> 01:08:10,800
Speaker 1: maybe there's guys that do get upset, like no one

1436
01:08:10,880 --> 01:08:13,160
Speaker 1: fucking not. Yeah, I know what I'm doing exactly. Some

1437
01:08:13,200 --> 01:08:15,439
Speaker 1: guys just have too much pride. I think it comes

1438
01:08:15,480 --> 01:08:17,880
Speaker 1: back to it's better to know that you're comfortable and

1439
01:08:17,960 --> 01:08:18,960
Speaker 1: enjoying yourself to tell.

1440
01:08:18,920 --> 01:08:20,560
Speaker 2: Him yeah, and if he gets all angry about it,

1441
01:08:20,640 --> 01:08:22,000
Speaker 2: just well fuck off that I'm not gonna have sex

1442
01:08:22,040 --> 01:08:23,479
Speaker 2: with you if you're just not gonna try and improve

1443
01:08:23,479 --> 01:08:24,800
Speaker 2: it for me, Yeah, your way.

1444
01:08:25,840 --> 01:08:28,920
Speaker 1: Question two, do men get upset if a woman doesn't

1445
01:08:28,960 --> 01:08:32,360
Speaker 1: come Every time doing sex, I get up set with myself. Yeah,

1446
01:08:32,400 --> 01:08:35,360
Speaker 1: I don't get upset with her. Yeah no, no, no,

1447
01:08:35,400 --> 01:08:38,240
Speaker 1: I got upset with myself. Yeah. It sort of like

1448
01:08:39,080 --> 01:08:40,960
Speaker 1: makes you doubt your ability. Well, you're just kind of like.

1449
01:08:41,800 --> 01:08:44,640
Speaker 1: But also what I do is just like or what

1450
01:08:44,640 --> 01:08:46,519
Speaker 1: could have I done next time? Yeah? You gotta talk

1451
01:08:46,520 --> 01:08:48,960
Speaker 1: about it, like yeah, like have a conversation afterwards, whether

1452
01:08:49,080 --> 01:08:50,600
Speaker 1: you're going to get there and in the end or

1453
01:08:50,720 --> 01:08:52,920
Speaker 1: brings it up, and like sometimes the girl might be like,

1454
01:08:52,960 --> 01:08:54,840
Speaker 1: oh no, like it wasn't having it, didn't feel like

1455
01:08:54,840 --> 01:08:56,760
Speaker 1: it all, or that she'll be like next time, do

1456
01:08:56,840 --> 01:08:59,400
Speaker 1: this or go do that next time? So I think

1457
01:08:59,760 --> 01:09:02,280
Speaker 1: it doesn't like it's worth a conversation. It doesn't hurt

1458
01:09:02,280 --> 01:09:05,559
Speaker 1: my ego that much. It's definitely worth conversation. And what

1459
01:09:05,720 --> 01:09:09,240
Speaker 1: matters the most doing sex from a male's perspective, ship

1460
01:09:09,360 --> 01:09:15,479
Speaker 1: For me, it's that pound. I'm kidding, I'm kidding. No,

1461
01:09:15,720 --> 01:09:19,240
Speaker 1: for me, I the thing I really like about sex

1462
01:09:19,360 --> 01:09:22,000
Speaker 1: is because I would I prefer like a love making.

1463
01:09:22,439 --> 01:09:25,880
Speaker 1: I'm not like a fuck. I don't mean you know that.

1464
01:09:25,920 --> 01:09:27,320
Speaker 1: Have you seen that meme going around where it's like

1465
01:09:27,400 --> 01:09:30,920
Speaker 1: I don't make love. I fuck, it's not me. I

1466
01:09:31,040 --> 01:09:34,879
Speaker 1: make love. What matters most to me is actually connection.

1467
01:09:35,160 --> 01:09:39,160
Speaker 1: I really think that, like there's no other sensation in

1468
01:09:39,200 --> 01:09:41,960
Speaker 1: the world, Like they might not even be like penetration

1469
01:09:42,080 --> 01:09:45,840
Speaker 1: yet where you're just like kissing and completely wrapped around

1470
01:09:45,880 --> 01:09:48,559
Speaker 1: each other and like you know it's about Yeah, you're

1471
01:09:48,560 --> 01:09:51,040
Speaker 1: following each other like it's intimate kissing. You're not like

1472
01:09:51,120 --> 01:09:55,160
Speaker 1: gone like ham and full hook up like it's sex. Yeah. Yeah,

1473
01:09:55,200 --> 01:09:57,160
Speaker 1: it's as sexy as it gets. And then like you

1474
01:09:57,240 --> 01:09:59,720
Speaker 1: just feel this bond with this person like you've never

1475
01:09:59,760 --> 01:10:02,519
Speaker 1: fel before. That's what really matters to me, because you

1476
01:10:02,560 --> 01:10:06,200
Speaker 1: don't feel that experience anywhere else with anyone, agreed. And

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01:10:06,240 --> 01:10:09,840
Speaker 1: then the sex and orgasmine is just like a benefit. Yeah,

1478
01:10:09,880 --> 01:10:12,360
Speaker 1: but I really enjoy that. Maybe the initial like penetration,

1479
01:10:12,439 --> 01:10:14,320
Speaker 1: the first like minute or two where you're just like

1480
01:10:14,439 --> 01:10:16,840
Speaker 1: not really doing any movement, you're still kissing. Yeah, that's

1481
01:10:16,880 --> 01:10:18,840
Speaker 1: like what really matters to me. The best thing is.

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01:10:18,800 --> 01:10:23,720
Speaker 2: When because when it's different, when you I find like

1483
01:10:23,880 --> 01:10:27,720
Speaker 2: when you love her and she loves you like you

1484
01:10:27,800 --> 01:10:30,800
Speaker 2: just you have boyfriend dex so it feels massive. So

1485
01:10:31,400 --> 01:10:33,560
Speaker 2: I'm just assuming this right, Yeah, and the best. The

1486
01:10:33,640 --> 01:10:35,280
Speaker 2: best thing ever is when you put it in there

1487
01:10:35,320 --> 01:10:39,640
Speaker 2: and they're like and they're like loving it, yeah, and

1488
01:10:39,680 --> 01:10:42,840
Speaker 2: you're just like, yeah, I'm that guy.

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01:10:43,200 --> 01:10:46,160
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. There definitely is a big

1490
01:10:46,200 --> 01:10:48,800
Speaker 1: ego boost when you have that boyfriend dick. Yeah, but

1491
01:10:48,840 --> 01:10:51,920
Speaker 1: I think it's definitely down to that connection. What about

1492
01:10:52,400 --> 01:10:54,760
Speaker 1: if you're not in a relationship as a guy, that's

1493
01:10:54,760 --> 01:10:57,280
Speaker 1: probably a very helpful tip. What matters for you was

1494
01:10:57,360 --> 01:10:59,160
Speaker 1: a sex because that's like you don't really do that,

1495
01:10:59,800 --> 01:11:02,240
Speaker 1: you're really doing it for the connection, Like if you're

1496
01:11:02,240 --> 01:11:07,679
Speaker 1: just like getting off interesting. I think when you're single

1497
01:11:08,240 --> 01:11:11,320
Speaker 1: and you know it's just going to be sex, could

1498
01:11:11,360 --> 01:11:12,760
Speaker 1: be you could know it's only going to have a

1499
01:11:12,800 --> 01:11:14,080
Speaker 1: one time or you could know that you're going to

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01:11:14,120 --> 01:11:16,240
Speaker 1: do it a couple times with this person. I don't know. Yeah,

1501
01:11:16,320 --> 01:11:19,280
Speaker 1: I think it's kind of just fun. I was gonna

1502
01:11:19,280 --> 01:11:21,599
Speaker 1: say it's good. I think it's like literally for a guy,

1503
01:11:21,920 --> 01:11:25,519
Speaker 1: like like therapy, having sex is what is the win

1504
01:11:26,040 --> 01:11:28,639
Speaker 1: for a guy? Like it's fun, it feels great. Yeah,

1505
01:11:28,680 --> 01:11:30,120
Speaker 1: like I get to have sex, you get to finish,

1506
01:11:30,200 --> 01:11:33,280
Speaker 1: you get to kind of have you know, seven to

1507
01:11:33,360 --> 01:11:37,960
Speaker 1: fifteen max minutes. Yeah, seven to fifteen minutes max. Of

1508
01:11:38,040 --> 01:11:40,400
Speaker 1: like I guess it is connection.

1509
01:11:40,600 --> 01:11:42,799
Speaker 2: You do get to have that sort of like nearly

1510
01:11:43,439 --> 01:11:45,800
Speaker 2: relationship connection with someone and then.

1511
01:11:45,800 --> 01:11:49,519
Speaker 1: The benefit of also not having it having sex to

1512
01:11:49,560 --> 01:11:52,840
Speaker 1: someone news Like I like the butterflies, even though it's

1513
01:11:52,920 --> 01:11:56,320
Speaker 1: really really scary, but like when you initially start kissing

1514
01:11:56,320 --> 01:11:59,000
Speaker 1: someone who sees someone naked for the first time, and

1515
01:11:59,040 --> 01:12:03,120
Speaker 1: you're like, what the fuck I do? It's crazy, and

1516
01:12:03,160 --> 01:12:04,840
Speaker 1: then like you get into it and they sort of

1517
01:12:04,880 --> 01:12:07,160
Speaker 1: go away, and then you get all excited and it

1518
01:12:07,240 --> 01:12:09,560
Speaker 1: like it's real fun and you start just fucking you

1519
01:12:09,600 --> 01:12:12,439
Speaker 1: get more confident, Like, ah, that's what I like. That's

1520
01:12:12,439 --> 01:12:14,680
Speaker 1: why I like When I was younger, I used to

1521
01:12:14,720 --> 01:12:16,559
Speaker 1: be really really nervous about sex. It's like I don't

1522
01:12:16,560 --> 01:12:17,680
Speaker 1: know what to do, Like I'm going to make a

1523
01:12:17,680 --> 01:12:19,559
Speaker 1: fool of myself, like I'm too skinny, like my dick's

1524
01:12:19,600 --> 01:12:21,519
Speaker 1: not big enough. But like the older I've gotten, the

1525
01:12:21,560 --> 01:12:23,759
Speaker 1: more confident I got to myself is like that feeling

1526
01:12:23,800 --> 01:12:26,240
Speaker 1: of nerves going into I get to have this weird

1527
01:12:26,240 --> 01:12:29,240
Speaker 1: little dance with this girl for the next seven to

1528
01:12:29,240 --> 01:12:33,400
Speaker 1: fifteen minutes. It's so much fun. Yeah, Like you can't

1529
01:12:33,400 --> 01:12:35,559
Speaker 1: really make a fool of yourself, like when you're both

1530
01:12:35,560 --> 01:12:37,519
Speaker 1: in it together and you're both just enjoying that time

1531
01:12:37,560 --> 01:12:39,720
Speaker 1: and it's just fun. For it's really just fun. And

1532
01:12:39,800 --> 01:12:42,000
Speaker 1: I yeah, no, I would say tell people what you want.

1533
01:12:42,040 --> 01:12:44,840
Speaker 1: It's sexy ast fuck yeah, and like own it just

1534
01:12:45,000 --> 01:12:47,040
Speaker 1: like like even just like, do you mind if I

1535
01:12:47,040 --> 01:12:48,360
Speaker 1: grab your head and then just put it where you

1536
01:12:48,439 --> 01:12:51,439
Speaker 1: want it? Jack obviously consented, but like that's hot to me, Yeah,

1537
01:12:51,520 --> 01:12:54,120
Speaker 1: if I because sometimes I'm like, I'm guessing down there.

1538
01:12:55,000 --> 01:12:58,639
Speaker 1: I've never not been guessing. I've never not been guessing. Yeah, exactly.

1539
01:12:59,000 --> 01:13:01,360
Speaker 1: And it's the same thing for if you're getting if

1540
01:13:01,360 --> 01:13:03,240
Speaker 1: I was getting joked off and she was doing it

1541
01:13:03,280 --> 01:13:05,599
Speaker 1: really quickly, I've told him, I'm like, just sluck out, yeah,

1542
01:13:05,880 --> 01:13:09,680
Speaker 1: will yeah, like weather the turtle, Yeah, I know, the

1543
01:13:09,680 --> 01:13:12,080
Speaker 1: whare the taughtoise, not the hair. Yeah, just slow down,

1544
01:13:12,400 --> 01:13:14,519
Speaker 1: like definitely been comfortable and make it enjoyable for you.

1545
01:13:21,439 --> 01:13:24,280
Speaker 2: Okay, guys, you know what time it is. It is

1546
01:13:24,400 --> 01:13:26,840
Speaker 2: time to get one of your baddies to sign off

1547
01:13:27,040 --> 01:13:29,520
Speaker 2: the episode. And if you want to sign off your episode,

1548
01:13:30,040 --> 01:13:31,519
Speaker 2: you know what to do in the link of the

1549
01:13:31,560 --> 01:13:34,240
Speaker 2: description of this video or in the link of the

1550
01:13:34,240 --> 01:13:37,120
Speaker 2: description of our Instagram and now buy our bay Instagram. Sorry,

1551
01:13:37,320 --> 01:13:39,479
Speaker 2: you can go sign up and sign off episode.

1552
01:13:39,560 --> 01:13:41,760
Speaker 1: I actually love this. Yeah, it's fun, so fun there.

1553
01:13:42,040 --> 01:13:50,679
Speaker 1: Today we are calling Jennifer. Hello, Hello, Jennifer, is that you? Yes,

1554
01:13:50,840 --> 01:13:53,320
Speaker 1: this is Jake and ODDI from the Relatables. How are you?

1555
01:13:54,160 --> 01:13:57,200
Speaker 1: I'm good? How are you doing? Really really good?

1556
01:13:58,120 --> 01:14:00,880
Speaker 2: We were calling to ask if you can sign off

1557
01:14:01,040 --> 01:14:02,360
Speaker 2: an episode for us.

1558
01:14:03,360 --> 01:14:08,800
Speaker 3: Okay, sorry read the doctors.

1559
01:14:08,800 --> 01:14:11,960
Speaker 1: Well what do you You can give some advice. You

1560
01:14:11,960 --> 01:14:13,920
Speaker 1: can do whatever you say, stay bad if you want

1561
01:14:13,960 --> 01:14:18,640
Speaker 1: to be quick, yeah, whatever feels right. Don't be the

1562
01:14:18,640 --> 01:14:22,519
Speaker 1: bigger person. There's no benefit to it. Crack out, do

1563
01:14:22,680 --> 01:14:27,160
Speaker 1: what you want to do. Thank you so much, Jennifer.

1564
01:14:27,400 --> 01:14:29,439
Speaker 1: Good luck at the doctors. Thank you.

1565
01:14:29,640 --> 01:14:31,439
Speaker 3: I just want to say, you know your number isn't

1566
01:14:31,439 --> 01:14:31,920
Speaker 3: on private.

1567
01:14:33,479 --> 01:14:38,840
Speaker 1: We've got a studio phone now, okay, because I was like, oh,

1568
01:14:38,920 --> 01:14:43,160
Speaker 1: I don't know if they know that. Good. Thank you Zoe.

1569
01:14:44,439 --> 01:14:47,439
Speaker 1: What a legend. Guys, you heard heard it here first.

1570
01:14:47,680 --> 01:14:50,400
Speaker 1: Don't be the bigger person, be toxic, she said, Crash

1571
01:14:50,400 --> 01:15:02,240
Speaker 1: out if you need to stay mad.