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Speaker 1: or a sign. We're waiting for a sign, you know.

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Speaker 1: But honestly, if you need a sign, here's a sign.

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Speaker 1: I don't think by the way the universe or God

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Speaker 1: has sent me. I just think maybe it is a sign,

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Speaker 1: or maybe you can make it a sign, like building

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Speaker 1: our best life, creating our best relationships, building our best

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Speaker 1: mental and emotional and physical health states. It's not We

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Speaker 1: don't need a knock at the door. We don't need

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Speaker 1: an invitation. We don't need some cosmic sign. We don't

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Speaker 1: need some ethereal, spiritual, mystical, bloody revelation.

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Speaker 2: We don't need it. We just need to act.

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Speaker 1: Knowledge that we are wasting time, that we are wasting days,

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Speaker 1: we are wasting opportunities, We are waiting for opportunities to

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Speaker 1: present themselves rather than creating opportunities ourselves. Every day is

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Speaker 1: truly a gift, but sadly most of us don't think

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Speaker 1: like that. Can you walk, then that's a gift. Can

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Speaker 1: you walk to a tap and have hot and cold water,

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Speaker 1: that's a gift. Do you have money to go and

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Speaker 1: buy a coffee? Well, that makes you rich. In some

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Speaker 1: countries and some environments, can you open a fridge and

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Speaker 1: there's food, or a pantry and there's food. We live

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Speaker 1: most of you and I, most of us listening to

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Speaker 1: this anyway, Maybe not everyone, but most of us Compared

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Speaker 1: to many people in the world. Most of us live

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Speaker 1: in relative luxury and privilege. And every day you and

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Speaker 1: I get the opportunity. You and I have the gift

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Speaker 1: of doing better, making decisions, changing the direction of our life,

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Speaker 1: being grateful, choosing our attitude, choosing our words, opening the

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Speaker 1: self awareness doore, opening the other people awareness door, choosing

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Speaker 1: to operate in love, choosing to live a life aligned

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Speaker 1: with our values. And every day we get the opportunity

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Speaker 1: to be grateful for the day that we have