WEBVTT - Rufus Rice - #242 0:00:01.840 --> 0:00:04.880 Welcome to Pears number one podcast. You're listening to the 0:00:05.000 --> 0:00:06.280 Jamo and Dylan Show. 0:00:07.160 --> 0:00:09.479 You're on the way that dance Bra little Man Trip 0:00:09.600 --> 0:00:12.280 with before is celebrat Gooday, guys, and welcome back to 0:00:12.280 --> 0:00:14.840 the Jamo and Dylan Show. Today is Oh it's Jammo. 0:00:15.040 --> 0:00:18.079 It is Jamo. Have you been saying for years? Yeah, 0:00:18.120 --> 0:00:19.919 he gets that all. Yeah, it's James. 0:00:19.960 --> 0:00:20.680 Isn't that your name? 0:00:20.760 --> 0:00:24.880 No, it's not Jamison, yeah, but Jamison. But it's Jameson 0:00:24.960 --> 0:00:28.120 to me and to my parents as well, obviously, because 0:00:28.160 --> 0:00:29.720 I guess Jamison is the whisky with an E. 0:00:29.920 --> 0:00:33.640 Right, Yeah, he's got the yeah. But that's also pronounced Jamison. 0:00:33.680 --> 0:00:37.080 As far as I know, all the Jamisons I've ever 0:00:37.159 --> 0:00:39.800 encountered have been Jamison's. I've never met. Maybe it's an 0:00:39.840 --> 0:00:43.519 Australian thing. There's Actually it's like those American parents who 0:00:43.600 --> 0:00:46.720 want to give their daughters a unique name, so they 0:00:46.760 --> 0:00:51.360 call them like, you know, Sarah, but they spell it 0:00:51.360 --> 0:00:53.760 with like a there's like a y in it, yeah stuff, 0:00:53.960 --> 0:00:54.800 or like Jimmy. 0:00:55.600 --> 0:00:57.520 I feel like it is Jameson in Australia. I don't 0:00:57.520 --> 0:00:58.640 know if I've met a Jamison. 0:00:58.720 --> 0:01:01.680 Yeah, it's actually a unique. You're not the only jameson now. 0:01:01.640 --> 0:01:05.319 There's some others, but like, it's not the most common name. No, 0:01:05.400 --> 0:01:07.760 I've actually met a girl called Jamison as well. 0:01:07.959 --> 0:01:10.959 Really, yeah, at least you can go by Jamie. I guess, 0:01:11.400 --> 0:01:13.720 pretty rough name for a girl. Yeah, it's interesting. 0:01:13.840 --> 0:01:16.640 Like for me, my nickname's Jamo, and I got that 0:01:16.640 --> 0:01:17.600 through playing sport. 0:01:18.800 --> 0:01:19.640 It's very Australian. 0:01:19.800 --> 0:01:22.200 But when I grew up, my mum and dad called 0:01:22.200 --> 0:01:24.319 me Jammy and I didn't really like him. 0:01:24.440 --> 0:01:25.720 Yeah, it doesn't hit the same. 0:01:26.520 --> 0:01:29.720 Well, my parents used to call me Rufie. There you go? 0:01:29.840 --> 0:01:32.160 Did they when I was a kid? 0:01:32.440 --> 0:01:34.600 I guess so, but I didn't get it at the time. 0:01:34.640 --> 0:01:37.640 I wasn't in on it. And then the first person 0:01:37.640 --> 0:01:41.200 who wasn't my parents to call me that was my 0:01:42.000 --> 0:01:46.480 year seven music teacher. I think he thought it was hilarious. 0:01:47.319 --> 0:01:50.640 None of us still, none of us got it. But yeah, 0:01:50.640 --> 0:01:53.600 he was Australian actually, and he would just call me Rufie. 0:01:53.640 --> 0:01:56.800 Good blow. Yeah, I guess so. I mean I wasn't 0:01:56.800 --> 0:01:58.520 really hanging out with him on a sort of fraternal 0:01:58.560 --> 0:02:00.760 basis yea, yeah, yeah, but it's probably good on a 0:02:00.880 --> 0:02:01.280 night out. 0:02:01.520 --> 0:02:04.760 Yeah, yeah, Actually tell us about your your schooling, my 0:02:04.840 --> 0:02:08.440 schooling school like in the UK, tell us about high school. 0:02:09.000 --> 0:02:10.640 Okay, so I didn't go to high school in the UK. 0:02:10.919 --> 0:02:12.760 Oh really, I was in Singapore then it was only 0:02:13.040 --> 0:02:16.480 sort of kiddie school prep school. Yeah, yeah, yeah, was 0:02:16.600 --> 0:02:20.400 in the UK, which the school I went to was. 0:02:20.440 --> 0:02:24.919 Actually when they were scouting locations to film Harry Potter, 0:02:25.639 --> 0:02:29.600 they asked to film it at our school because it 0:02:29.880 --> 0:02:33.240 does look like that, and they said no because it 0:02:33.320 --> 0:02:36.519 was religious. This was the nineties and they were still 0:02:36.560 --> 0:02:40.400 worried about witchcraft, so we don't want any of that 0:02:40.440 --> 0:02:44.799 sort of necromancing around here. So they said no, it's crazy. 0:02:44.800 --> 0:02:47.840 It was only thirty years ago and witchcraft was still well, 0:02:47.880 --> 0:02:50.040 I mean in a lot of countries now it's still 0:02:50.120 --> 0:02:51.040 is believed to be real. 0:02:51.400 --> 0:02:53.440 The bishop looks like a fossil. He's got some old 0:02:53.440 --> 0:02:58.040 fashioned beliefs, that guy. And it then twenty years before that, 0:02:58.480 --> 0:03:00.640 in the seventies or maybe the eighties, there was a 0:03:00.639 --> 0:03:03.320 bit of sort of kidy fiddling, okay that happened there 0:03:03.480 --> 0:03:05.880 at the school. At the school, yeah yeah, yeah, But 0:03:05.960 --> 0:03:08.200 I'm not aware there's been any sense none reporting. 0:03:08.240 --> 0:03:10.560 We've had a bit of that at our high school. 0:03:10.680 --> 0:03:13.720 Actually, so pe teachers at yes. 0:03:13.760 --> 0:03:17.840 A pe teacher, a math teacher, and the priest. 0:03:17.960 --> 0:03:21.320 But that was alleged that the priest ended up killing 0:03:21.400 --> 0:03:23.160 himself when the alligations came out. 0:03:23.360 --> 0:03:26.559 I reckon that's a strong sort of sign that involved. 0:03:26.600 --> 0:03:28.400 He could have gotten away with it if he didn't 0:03:28.480 --> 0:03:30.600 do that, if he didn't kill himself. 0:03:30.639 --> 0:03:34.120 But yeah, and then the pe teacher, he just had 0:03:34.160 --> 0:03:38.160 a very unfortunate set of events in his life. You know, 0:03:38.240 --> 0:03:39.880 we got to school in year seven and he's the 0:03:40.280 --> 0:03:44.800 he's the p he this is what happens, right, So 0:03:44.920 --> 0:03:47.160 this guy, you get to year seven and he's your 0:03:47.160 --> 0:03:50.000 pee teacher. You know, he's your stereotypical he's he's ripped. 0:03:50.080 --> 0:03:54.960 He's very intense, like pe teacher. Okay, as time goes on, 0:03:55.240 --> 0:03:57.080 he got in a he got hit by a car 0:03:57.160 --> 0:03:59.360 while riding a bike, right, sucked his back. 0:03:59.440 --> 0:03:59.880 It's funny. 0:04:00.000 --> 0:04:02.120 As I went to the same school as Dylan, Yeah, 0:04:02.120 --> 0:04:03.160 and I didn't have much to do. 0:04:03.240 --> 0:04:05.400 I had him for like three times, right, so I 0:04:05.640 --> 0:04:08.080 never saw him in the same light he got then. 0:04:08.280 --> 0:04:10.160 I just know him as put on a lot of weight, right, 0:04:10.400 --> 0:04:13.440 put on heaps of weight. Then he's I don't know 0:04:13.480 --> 0:04:15.480 if this is but this room I've heard and I 0:04:15.560 --> 0:04:18.480 feel like it's true. His wife left him, right, so 0:04:18.800 --> 0:04:20.359 in this time his wife left him, he's put on. 0:04:20.360 --> 0:04:22.440 All this you got to fill the void with something exactly, 0:04:22.480 --> 0:04:22.800 and then. 0:04:22.720 --> 0:04:26.560 He filled the void with a Year twelve was the 0:04:26.760 --> 0:04:29.360 any meta parents and everything. That's what the news articles saying. 0:04:29.440 --> 0:04:32.200 Year twelve. See that in this country that would be legal. 0:04:33.720 --> 0:04:37.880 Obviously you can't. It's not legal to sort of nonce 0:04:37.920 --> 0:04:40.880 on kids at your school, yes, because that's a duty 0:04:40.920 --> 0:04:43.000 of care thing. But if it was someone outside of 0:04:43.040 --> 0:04:45.960 the school age sixteen, that would be legally okay. I mean, 0:04:46.839 --> 0:04:49.120 in the court of public opinion, you're still a stinky 0:04:49.200 --> 0:04:51.360 nonce and nobody's going to associate with you over again. 0:04:51.360 --> 0:04:53.680 But in the eyes of the Lord, that's actually okay. Yeah. 0:04:53.680 --> 0:04:58.480 It's interesting because in Australia, year twelve you're seventeen turning eighteen, 0:04:58.640 --> 0:05:01.120 so some people will be eighteen, but I'm pretty sure 0:05:01.200 --> 0:05:01.600 you're twelfth. 0:05:01.600 --> 0:05:04.960 The final year. Yeah yeh, yeah, okay, year thirteen. Year. 0:05:05.240 --> 0:05:06.440 How old are you in your thirteen? 0:05:06.839 --> 0:05:08.000 Yeah? School? 0:05:08.200 --> 0:05:11.120 Oh but it's just an yeah okay, yeah, Well this 0:05:11.839 --> 0:05:13.440 school one to seven one to six. 0:05:14.720 --> 0:05:18.880 Yeah, it gets a bit disjointed whether you went to 0:05:19.040 --> 0:05:21.239 a private school or a public or a state school, 0:05:22.640 --> 0:05:27.080 because state school only has primary then secondary education, and 0:05:27.120 --> 0:05:30.800 some people go to college which is like an alternative 0:05:30.880 --> 0:05:33.320 to the final two years of school for slightly sort 0:05:33.360 --> 0:05:38.440 of stupider kids to do more vocational stuff like tafe, 0:05:41.480 --> 0:05:44.240 Whereas I went to prep school, which is where you 0:05:44.320 --> 0:05:47.360 have the prep school, the pre prep which is for 0:05:47.480 --> 0:05:49.120 you really young kids, the prep school, and then the 0:05:49.200 --> 0:05:55.400 senior school. And I don't know, the school I went 0:05:55.440 --> 0:05:58.640 to was up to thirteen years old, and then there 0:05:58.720 --> 0:06:01.200 was the senior school up to eighteen. Yeah that makes sense. 0:06:01.279 --> 0:06:05.200 Yeah, similar, similar, Yeah, back onto the Nazi teacher. He 0:06:06.320 --> 0:06:07.960 was in a relationship with this girl. 0:06:07.920 --> 0:06:09.920 Yes, proper one. Yeah, parents and all. 0:06:10.200 --> 0:06:13.080 I think they went out for like over a year. Yeah, 0:06:13.560 --> 0:06:16.600 with the student, if anything, I'm less concerned now you 0:06:16.680 --> 0:06:19.320 think it's more of like I feel like a genuine 0:06:19.360 --> 0:06:21.640 connection has been developed here is he's not for just 0:06:21.760 --> 0:06:26.000 fulfilling sort of pedophilic desires. He's just genuinely cracked on 0:06:26.120 --> 0:06:28.440 with someone, you know, he sees a future with. There's 0:06:28.640 --> 0:06:30.560 there's something, there's something weirdly wholesome about it. 0:06:30.520 --> 0:06:32.440 If they're still together, Yeah, I wonder that. 0:06:32.839 --> 0:06:35.280 Yeah, we had the other teacher, the math who did 0:06:35.360 --> 0:06:36.919 get convicted. 0:06:37.279 --> 0:06:41.400 Yeah, that was he's However, now the pe teacher who 0:06:41.440 --> 0:06:46.200 were just talking about there was also strong allegations that 0:06:46.360 --> 0:06:50.280 he was they were doing rock climbing. Yeah, so I 0:06:50.440 --> 0:06:52.320 believe this girl was on year nine at the time. 0:06:52.400 --> 0:06:53.800 So this is remember taking about you. 0:06:53.800 --> 0:06:56.560 Gotta worry about rock climbers because there's ample opportunities to 0:06:56.720 --> 0:06:58.839 kind of like, I'm just helping you, helping you up 0:06:58.880 --> 0:07:01.680 the wall. So it helped up the wall and then 0:07:01.720 --> 0:07:04.600 also tried to look up wasn't heard that you know? 0:07:04.760 --> 0:07:07.320 Yeah, yep, yes, an interesting place. 0:07:08.200 --> 0:07:11.400 You can't get unfortunately caught in awkward positions doing that. 0:07:12.000 --> 0:07:14.760 But yes, yes, not trying to defend him. I still 0:07:14.800 --> 0:07:17.600 think he's a pedo. Yeah. On the on the low 0:07:18.040 --> 0:07:20.800 pedo tier list, you've got people like sort of Jimmy 0:07:20.840 --> 0:07:23.800 Saville who did it sort of professionally, actually set up 0:07:23.840 --> 0:07:26.440 a charity to mask a children's charity to mask his 0:07:26.520 --> 0:07:29.280 own behavior and then did it serially and professionally and 0:07:29.600 --> 0:07:32.920 remained undiscovered for forty years. That sort of s t 0:07:32.920 --> 0:07:36.840 here pedo action. And then you got pared down in 0:07:36.920 --> 0:07:39.160 sort of this is amateur behavior. Yeah, I mean, this 0:07:39.360 --> 0:07:41.920 is honestly it's the guy you said, I'm impressive. 0:07:41.960 --> 0:07:43.920 Yeah, the guy who said the super villain mat that's 0:07:44.040 --> 0:07:44.920 that's unbelievable. 0:07:44.960 --> 0:07:46.520 No one found out until after he died. One of 0:07:46.520 --> 0:07:48.680 the biggest celebrities in the UK. Really, do you guys 0:07:48.840 --> 0:07:49.679 know about Jimmy Savil. 0:07:49.840 --> 0:07:51.920 I've heard of him, but like I don't know the fools. 0:07:52.040 --> 0:07:54.800 He was a children's TV presenter in a time where 0:07:54.800 --> 0:07:58.280 there was like one channel on TV, so everyone watched 0:07:58.320 --> 0:08:00.400 his show. Who's one of the biggest celebrities. He was, 0:08:00.520 --> 0:08:04.440 you know, knighted for services to charity after after you know, 0:08:04.840 --> 0:08:07.360 doing so much for underprivileged and ill children and you 0:08:07.400 --> 0:08:10.280 said it was a children's charity too. Yeah yeah, yeah, 0:08:10.280 --> 0:08:14.200 So he would literally like he'd set up charities, hospitals 0:08:14.240 --> 0:08:16.440 for sick kids and he'd been touching up the kids 0:08:16.480 --> 0:08:17.160 on the ward. 0:08:16.960 --> 0:08:18.320 And it came out after he died. 0:08:18.600 --> 0:08:18.800 Yeah. 0:08:18.960 --> 0:08:20.400 And did he die like an old man? 0:08:20.840 --> 0:08:24.640 Yeah? Twenty ten. Yeah, that's crazy. He died an old man. 0:08:24.760 --> 0:08:27.040 And if you look if you look back at documentaries 0:08:27.120 --> 0:08:29.600 that are made about his his life and et cetera. 0:08:30.360 --> 0:08:34.720 Sorry it's already interrupted, rufus, but Dylan's almost broke the chair. 0:08:34.800 --> 0:08:34.959 Now. 0:08:35.080 --> 0:08:37.280 Yeah, when we finished this story, we'll talk about the 0:08:37.320 --> 0:08:41.040 airbnb because it's been absolutely fucked. So yeah, Jimmy Savil 0:08:41.160 --> 0:08:42.200 pedophile dead now. 0:08:42.320 --> 0:08:44.520 Yeah, it was a big cover up a lot of 0:08:44.600 --> 0:08:47.079 top executives at the BBCNU and it was a scandal. 0:08:47.160 --> 0:08:51.520 Yeah that's insane, not good anyway to be our fucked airbnby. 0:08:52.160 --> 0:08:54.280 So we've had some issues here, haven't we deal. We 0:08:54.400 --> 0:08:56.560 arrived a couple of days ago. What is it Sunday? 0:08:56.600 --> 0:09:01.360 We arrived on Friday afternoon. Now we a nice area, 0:09:01.840 --> 0:09:04.840 beautiful area. Els Court's been lovely walking through this neighborhood. 0:09:04.840 --> 0:09:05.800 I've felt very safe. 0:09:06.040 --> 0:09:07.800 You know. There hasn't been any issue. Oh yeah, it's 0:09:07.800 --> 0:09:11.480 not a dodgy clamps on wheels? What is that like? 0:09:11.640 --> 0:09:15.640 Car wheels? Are they hair? Yeah? I haven't noticed. 0:09:15.679 --> 0:09:18.240 It's strange we walked down the road before this morning 0:09:18.559 --> 0:09:20.200 and there was maybe let's say, there's ten. 0:09:20.720 --> 0:09:24.079 Unpaid tickets and stuff. Yeah right, I mean if you're 0:09:24.120 --> 0:09:26.280 just trying to launder money, it's not really a problem. No, 0:09:26.480 --> 0:09:26.640 like that. 0:09:26.720 --> 0:09:29.679 It was steering the steering wheel, Yeah, it's like it 0:09:29.720 --> 0:09:31.280 seems like it's a protection thing. 0:09:31.400 --> 0:09:35.000 For the clamps their steering wheel. So no, get I 0:09:35.000 --> 0:09:37.679 don't know what does it look like? It's yellow yellow? 0:09:37.880 --> 0:09:39.720 One of them's like sort of maybe goes. 0:09:39.720 --> 0:09:42.320 The straight yellow thing. Yeah, yeah, it's that clamp. Well 0:09:42.720 --> 0:09:44.400 what else could it be? I don't know. 0:09:44.520 --> 0:09:46.839 I've never seen this before. I have to have a 0:09:46.880 --> 0:09:48.760 look later this afternoon and take a photo. 0:09:48.920 --> 0:09:51.280 Yeah, yeah, scouted out. 0:09:51.440 --> 0:09:54.920 Anyway, this airbnb has been horrible. It's to be fair, 0:09:54.960 --> 0:09:57.199 it's not too bad. Like you said as you walked in, 0:09:57.240 --> 0:09:57.800 it's a bunko. 0:09:58.160 --> 0:10:01.160 Yeah, I'm tricked into a base. See, we don't get 0:10:01.240 --> 0:10:03.680 this in Australia. You guys don't do basement we don't 0:10:03.720 --> 0:10:05.160 do below ground housing. 0:10:05.280 --> 0:10:06.720 So this was a bit of a shock. 0:10:07.280 --> 0:10:07.480 Yeah. 0:10:07.520 --> 0:10:10.520 And obviously, like when you arrived Rufus, you walked to 0:10:10.600 --> 0:10:12.480 the black door that said thirty on it and it 0:10:12.520 --> 0:10:13.960 looked quite nice, and. 0:10:14.000 --> 0:10:15.040 That's where we were standing there. 0:10:15.040 --> 0:10:17.160 It's a useful row of terrifs houses. 0:10:17.000 --> 0:10:19.160 Yes, and then we're just a bit below it. 0:10:19.320 --> 0:10:19.520 Yeah. 0:10:19.600 --> 0:10:22.839 So Dylan arrived first. So deal's been traveling Europe and 0:10:23.480 --> 0:10:25.199 I only arrived a couple of days ago. So he 0:10:25.280 --> 0:10:28.560 got here first, and then he messaged me and said, oh, 0:10:28.600 --> 0:10:30.920 it's like really nice, bro. But he was just saying 0:10:31.000 --> 0:10:32.840 that because what was the reason. 0:10:32.600 --> 0:10:35.000 I didn't want to Because you'd just flown twenty twenty 0:10:35.040 --> 0:10:37.000 five hours, right, so obviously I didn't want to tell 0:10:37.040 --> 0:10:38.920 you about all the little faults that you were about 0:10:38.960 --> 0:10:41.199 to encounter before you got here. Yeah, I want it 0:10:41.240 --> 0:10:43.839 to be nice, you know what was I to find out? 0:10:44.040 --> 0:10:45.840 So the first negative was we walked in the house. 0:10:45.960 --> 0:10:47.960 Deal tried to set up his phone with the internet, 0:10:48.040 --> 0:10:49.199 and the internet's not working. 0:10:49.520 --> 0:10:52.760 Shout out Virgin, shout out reachhard bransaid. And there's dirty 0:10:52.960 --> 0:10:56.040 money grubbing cans. It's how he can afford to build rockets. 0:10:56.160 --> 0:10:59.000 See like, it just looks flimsy, and I guess it is, yes, 0:10:59.440 --> 0:11:00.880 and apparently getting fixed tomorrow. 0:11:01.520 --> 0:11:04.080 Well I'm yet to believe it because nothing has been 0:11:04.160 --> 0:11:04.760 done to fix it. 0:11:04.960 --> 0:11:06.520 Furniture is a bit hit and miss. 0:11:07.360 --> 0:11:07.560 Well. 0:11:07.600 --> 0:11:09.480 I actually fell through the bed the other night. There 0:11:09.480 --> 0:11:12.960 were no nefarious activities happening. I literally just sat down and. 0:11:13.040 --> 0:11:14.440 A jestic wang. Yeah. 0:11:14.600 --> 0:11:18.160 Well yeah, no involving there his bathrooms A little bit 0:11:18.240 --> 0:11:19.480 of a home job as well. 0:11:19.800 --> 0:11:20.599 Yes, yes, it is. 0:11:20.720 --> 0:11:24.160 And also the master bathroom, which is supposed to be 0:11:24.280 --> 0:11:26.760 you know, the best way. Yeah, it has some like 0:11:26.920 --> 0:11:30.280 chipped tiles and a small bit of tile lodged into 0:11:30.320 --> 0:11:32.360 the bottom of my foot on my fast was like a. 0:11:32.360 --> 0:11:35.599 Garage or something that was renovated. But they did it 0:11:35.679 --> 0:11:37.360 themselves and it's decent. 0:11:37.640 --> 0:11:40.400 But and like when you're looking at it here in 0:11:40.559 --> 0:11:43.199 the camera, it looks fine, like it seems like we're 0:11:43.240 --> 0:11:45.400 just being pricks. But yeah, I sat down on the 0:11:45.480 --> 0:11:48.120 couch and it cracked underneath me and like I'm not 0:11:48.200 --> 0:11:49.000 like the biggest guy. 0:11:49.000 --> 0:11:52.800 And it was reminiscent of my first year bed at UNI. Yes, 0:11:53.000 --> 0:11:56.559 at least which week three of the year. I was 0:11:57.160 --> 0:11:59.680 involved in some physical activities, yes, and. 0:11:59.760 --> 0:12:01.880 Then with the shades on or not as we was 0:12:03.200 --> 0:12:04.920 there and after thing I. 0:12:04.960 --> 0:12:08.079 Put I put sunglasses on. After sex, yeah, I was 0:12:08.160 --> 0:12:10.480 involved in a bit of rough and tumble in the 0:12:10.559 --> 0:12:14.360 sheets with you know, a girl I never saw again, 0:12:14.400 --> 0:12:19.360 and that's the way of the beast. But afterwards it 0:12:19.520 --> 0:12:21.160 was just a big sort of in the middle of 0:12:21.200 --> 0:12:25.200 a particularly sort of vivacious thrust, there was a big 0:12:25.400 --> 0:12:31.839 just praying and I'm basically lying in that bed for 0:12:31.880 --> 0:12:33.000 the rest of the year. I just felt like a 0:12:33.080 --> 0:12:35.760 hot dog wrapped on it. It just bent in the 0:12:35.840 --> 0:12:39.160 middle like that. And for some reason, I never bothered 0:12:39.200 --> 0:12:40.040 to get it fixed. 0:12:40.559 --> 0:12:41.920 That was just you were set for the year. 0:12:41.960 --> 0:12:43.199 It was just it was just like that for the 0:12:43.280 --> 0:12:47.240 rest of the year. And then the shades on after 0:12:47.320 --> 0:12:50.040 you have sex. This is something you do regularly. 0:12:51.280 --> 0:12:54.240 Do you remember the first time you popped the shades on. 0:12:54.880 --> 0:12:59.040 I think it was a gradual thing, you know, like 0:12:59.280 --> 0:13:02.640 if you were to have a bit of heroin. Yeah, 0:13:02.760 --> 0:13:04.600 And I didn't really know what it feels like because 0:13:05.200 --> 0:13:08.800 I haven't not already done any much heroin. But if 0:13:08.840 --> 0:13:10.280 you just yeah, I feel like it would be a 0:13:10.320 --> 0:13:13.079 bit Moorish, you know what I mean. So, like, I 0:13:13.240 --> 0:13:16.000 discovered sort of sunglasses after years of not wearing them 0:13:16.240 --> 0:13:18.160 once and I was like wow. But originally I was 0:13:18.240 --> 0:13:22.439 just using them for intended use in the sun, and 0:13:22.480 --> 0:13:24.559 then I realized, wow, there's really nothing against so you 0:13:24.559 --> 0:13:26.960 can wear sunglasses anywhere. And I decided to wear them 0:13:27.000 --> 0:13:29.520 indoors and that's just a gateway drug to wearing them 0:13:29.520 --> 0:13:33.600 at all times, which I don't know. Yeah, people assume 0:13:33.880 --> 0:13:35.679 you're a cock if you do that, but there's just 0:13:35.760 --> 0:13:39.880 something about it. There's something about feel mysterious. Well I 0:13:40.000 --> 0:13:42.920 feel that right now? Yeah, sense it? Right? Yeah? And 0:13:43.200 --> 0:13:47.040 that just progressed into basically, at all times when it 0:13:47.080 --> 0:13:49.439 wouldn't be inconvenient to wear them, I want to have 0:13:49.559 --> 0:13:53.079 them on. So and there's nothing like the one two 0:13:53.200 --> 0:13:59.200 punch of you know, a big climax and then sort 0:13:59.240 --> 0:14:01.959 of off the back of that whacking on the shades, 0:14:02.240 --> 0:14:05.840 feeling like, you know, the number one badest motherfucker number one. 0:14:06.440 --> 0:14:09.199 Is it received well generally or no? 0:14:09.600 --> 0:14:15.920 Mixed opinions? Well, I don't know why girls think that's weird. 0:14:17.320 --> 0:14:19.200 Do you guys have any insight on that, because. 0:14:18.880 --> 0:14:20.160 To me, well, I've never done it. 0:14:20.680 --> 0:14:25.440 Yeah. Let's say you guys have girlfriends, right yeah, yeah, yeah, 0:14:25.480 --> 0:14:29.680 Let's say just finished a sort of sweaty session with 0:14:29.760 --> 0:14:32.560 the misses and then she whacks those on. How are 0:14:32.600 --> 0:14:38.800 you feeling inferior? But I would be like, oh, yeah, 0:14:38.840 --> 0:14:39.520 hell what I feel? 0:14:39.600 --> 0:14:41.200 Actually now I kind of want to do it. 0:14:42.000 --> 0:14:44.680 Yeah, maybe I'll give it a go. We'll try it later, yeah, 0:14:44.680 --> 0:14:46.160 and let you know, yeah. 0:14:46.600 --> 0:14:48.320 Have you ever had a girl do it? Has she 0:14:48.440 --> 0:14:49.720 ever matched the energy and gone? 0:14:49.840 --> 0:14:54.520 Fuck? Yeah? Yeah? So a bit of a fling with 0:14:54.600 --> 0:14:59.520 a foreigner. Once what nation? Actually, what continent? Are you 0:14:59.600 --> 0:15:02.360 going to get? All the countries and the well, I 0:15:02.520 --> 0:15:06.200 just want to know what continent Europe? She was European? Okay, okay, 0:15:06.240 --> 0:15:09.960 it doesn't help theomen. We can guess all of them 0:15:10.000 --> 0:15:14.440 if you want. Was she Spanish? Norwegian? 0:15:15.080 --> 0:15:15.120 No? 0:15:15.400 --> 0:15:19.600 Italian? Is this the right areas and more obscure? You've 0:15:19.640 --> 0:15:26.760 guessed all over Europe? She's Scandinavian? Yes, yes, yeah, and 0:15:28.040 --> 0:15:29.840 yeah I would, I would whack them on after that. 0:15:29.920 --> 0:15:31.840 And she was the first girl I've sort of ever 0:15:31.920 --> 0:15:34.560 found who was okay with that, and it sort of 0:15:34.600 --> 0:15:36.520 opened my eyes. Wow, there are really girls for me 0:15:36.640 --> 0:15:37.680 out there, you know. 0:15:38.240 --> 0:15:40.280 And he's still seeing this girl in any way. 0:15:40.520 --> 0:15:43.040 No, no, she absoletely broke my heart and got away 0:15:43.080 --> 0:15:45.760 from How did the break up up? And if you 0:15:45.760 --> 0:15:48.480 don't mind us asking, it wasn't a proper breakup. It 0:15:48.600 --> 0:15:50.640 was more of a realization on my part that I 0:15:50.720 --> 0:15:52.640 wasn't going to get what I wanted out of the relationship, 0:15:52.680 --> 0:15:56.320 if we're being truthfully, really really honest. So you know, 0:15:56.400 --> 0:16:00.160 it was ended via sort of phone call. She is 0:16:00.200 --> 0:16:02.440 not as invested in it as I was. You know, 0:16:02.520 --> 0:16:06.000 I fell deeply in love. I had a history of 0:16:07.200 --> 0:16:11.200 majorly falling in love between first and second dates. I 0:16:11.280 --> 0:16:12.720 don't know if I was just you know, I was 0:16:12.800 --> 0:16:15.160 just young and you know, sort of carefree. 0:16:14.800 --> 0:16:16.000 And you always thought they were the one. 0:16:16.600 --> 0:16:18.600 Yeah. I had definitely had that feeling like three or 0:16:18.600 --> 0:16:20.880 four times before I grew up and faced the real 0:16:20.920 --> 0:16:24.640 world for the first time. And this was one of 0:16:24.720 --> 0:16:27.200 those occasions. I realized, you know, I was absolutely love 0:16:27.280 --> 0:16:30.400 with her, realized she wasn't quite as invested as I 0:16:30.600 --> 0:16:34.600 was anyway, and then, you know, I was absolutely miserable 0:16:34.600 --> 0:16:36.720 for a few days. And then my dad said let's 0:16:36.760 --> 0:16:38.680 go to the pub, and then after that I felt 0:16:38.720 --> 0:16:41.320 a whole lot better all of a sudden. Yeah, maybe 0:16:41.400 --> 0:16:43.800 I felt like maybe I didn't care as much as 0:16:43.840 --> 0:16:46.120 I thought I did, because we honestly, we went the pub. 0:16:46.160 --> 0:16:48.720 We had a couple of pints, pack of peanuts, and 0:16:49.840 --> 0:16:52.240 I know, he just chatted some sense. And then I 0:16:52.280 --> 0:16:53.600 saw my mates and I was like, you know what, 0:16:53.720 --> 0:16:56.640 There's there's more to life than this. It was honestly 0:16:56.680 --> 0:16:57.400 a beautiful story. 0:16:57.480 --> 0:16:59.280 You'll follow this year in any way. Do you know 0:16:59.320 --> 0:16:59.920 what she's doing with it? 0:17:00.080 --> 0:17:02.200 A life? What's going on. I'm not the sort of 0:17:02.240 --> 0:17:06.440 person who would ever text their X again. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, 0:17:06.840 --> 0:17:08.359 I know there are people, you know, some people have 0:17:08.480 --> 0:17:10.720 only again off again relationships and getting out. There's no 0:17:11.000 --> 0:17:13.080 way I could ever do that because then I'm just 0:17:13.119 --> 0:17:14.120 admissing that I was wrong. 0:17:15.280 --> 0:17:18.240 That's the worst Thinglet cartlet that you're going again. 0:17:18.640 --> 0:17:20.840 It's That's the thing I don't believe in, is getting 0:17:20.880 --> 0:17:23.840 back with your ex. It's like right person, wrong time. 0:17:23.880 --> 0:17:25.600 I don't believe in that either, because I think if 0:17:25.600 --> 0:17:27.440 they're really the right person, there isn't a wrong time 0:17:28.000 --> 0:17:30.159 and they're just fundamentally whereas some people like you know, 0:17:30.280 --> 0:17:32.720 I just wasn't really you know, I wasn't in that place, 0:17:32.840 --> 0:17:34.679 you know, like I'm not in the well if they 0:17:34.720 --> 0:17:36.600 were the right person, you would be in the fucking place. Yes. 0:17:36.960 --> 0:17:39.320 So yeah, one of those one of those things. But 0:17:39.440 --> 0:17:43.560 now I'm I'm, you know, slightly more realistic when it 0:17:43.640 --> 0:17:46.680 comes to dating and I try not to fall massively 0:17:46.760 --> 0:17:47.040 in love. 0:17:47.119 --> 0:17:50.080 And as you're telling us, you have a list, yeah 0:17:50.200 --> 0:17:51.919 of dos and don'ts or is it just. 0:17:52.000 --> 0:17:56.920 Don't it's a criteria list. Yeah, basically some pointers that 0:17:57.000 --> 0:17:58.960 sort of outline the sort of girl, I'm looking for 0:17:59.560 --> 0:18:02.720 to remind me as well. These are some things that 0:18:03.080 --> 0:18:06.560 you know are pretty much required I think for us 0:18:06.680 --> 0:18:08.440 to you know, get along for the rest of my life. 0:18:08.520 --> 0:18:10.600 Are these actually in your notes? Yeah? Here it is. 0:18:11.160 --> 0:18:12.640 Oh bro, that's a long list. 0:18:12.920 --> 0:18:15.320 There's a few things on it. Yeah. Well, anytime I 0:18:15.359 --> 0:18:17.879 think of something, you gets added, so it just builds 0:18:17.920 --> 0:18:19.119 up over time from the beginning. 0:18:19.160 --> 0:18:21.359 Man, And how would you describe the list if it 0:18:21.520 --> 0:18:23.199 was like if you had a title for the. 0:18:23.240 --> 0:18:29.040 List requirements for a girlfriend by rufus Rice. I love it. Yeah, cool, 0:18:29.760 --> 0:18:32.200