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Speaker 1: Coming up on relatables? What should his new girl know?

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Speaker 1: That thing he does with his fingers. You're welcome. Oh

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Speaker 1: somebody stirred up y has cooked here, she's her apron.

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Speaker 1: You did a service, girl, Yeah, you did a good thing.

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Speaker 2: Yo.

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Speaker 3: Well yes, that's crazy relatable, relatable.

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Speaker 1: The Relatables podcast is hosted by myself, Jake Craig aka Daddy,

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Speaker 1: and my partner in life Live Are we live? Partners

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Speaker 1: in Octway Clark a ka Mama Mia, my Bright or die?

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Speaker 1: It's like a bird in the Scot's more, what is

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Speaker 1: the actual term? It's not amora? Is it is? It

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Speaker 1: am like a bird in the sky, that's more. We

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Speaker 1: looked it up. We did look it up once and

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Speaker 1: it was like, amore means something funny.

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Speaker 4: You started like that, so I wanted the top end

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Speaker 4: of the episode.

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Speaker 1: Apologies, apologies, No no, no, no no no no, I'll let

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Speaker 1: it leap.

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Speaker 4: I'm telling you, I'll let It's like your life partner.

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Speaker 1: Please please, I shouldn't say this on camera, but guys,

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Speaker 1: he reprimands me for things off camera? Please, what do

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Speaker 1: you mean? What do I do? I'm nothing, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: What do I recommend you for? Just making mistakes. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I wear the fucking pants in this relationship. Yeah, okay, but.

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Speaker 4: You're singing that song, what does that remind you of?

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Speaker 1: Food wise? Yeah, on the weekend, I had a date

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Speaker 1: night at a beautiful Italian restaurant. That's why it was

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Speaker 1: stuck in my head. But stupid posts a more. All

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Speaker 1: you do is think about me? Hey, what you talk

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Speaker 1: about life partners? Seeing my posts? Thinking about me, I'm

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Speaker 1: reprimanding hole.

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Speaker 4: Yeah mate, Well I need your help myself too big

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Speaker 4: of a hole, Daddy.

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Speaker 1: I needed daddy's help for this situation. Were you go?

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Speaker 1: You're currently Daddy's about to take away privileges. Let me

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Speaker 1: fucking spit this out right.

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Speaker 4: I had a social situation and we both know we

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Speaker 4: hate them in real life. And I want to know

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Speaker 4: if what I did was right, Slash, what you would do?

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Speaker 1: Slash? I need help.

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Speaker 4: So the social situation starts date night with my girlfriend.

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Speaker 4: Everything is going swimmingly. I'm happy. Italian restaurant. We walk in.

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Speaker 1: I have to tell you to lay out because that's important.

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Speaker 4: Walk in. Middle is the door. There's four rows of

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Speaker 4: dining tables of two's on the left hand side, then

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Speaker 4: then far right is the toilet, and immediately you walk

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Speaker 4: is where you pay. That's important. Date's going great. End

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Speaker 4: of the day in one raw Okay, that's not going

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Speaker 4: to help anyone else, but that's right.

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Speaker 1: I know which one it was, Yeah, near soul, Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: So date's going great.

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Speaker 4: About I don't know, ten minutes left of the date.

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Speaker 4: I don't know what I'm timing it, but about ten

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Speaker 1: It sounds like you're on a first date with a girlfriend. Cassie.

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Speaker 4: Cassie sees someone she knows and she goes over and

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Speaker 4: to go and pay, and Cassie's still with me, and

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Speaker 4: I don't know who the fuck that these people are,

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Speaker 4: And then I was holding I had some leftover pizza

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Speaker 1: But what would you do in that situation, I reckon

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't have said anything, really, I just gave a

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Speaker 4: So I thought to go to the toilet too, but

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Speaker 1: you could have definitely said I'll say it, I'll go Well,

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Speaker 4: By the time she finished in the toilet, I probably

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Speaker 1: Should have gone and interrupted this couple's meal and said

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Speaker 1: like that? That's my worst nightmare? No, So when Yeah,

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Speaker 1: then also vice versa. But in that situation, I think

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Speaker 1: that you did more than I would have done. Really,

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Speaker 1: each other. Yeah, that's just like, yeah you know it

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Speaker 1: can me feel good? No, no, you fucking did the

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Speaker 1: you what. Some words need to be spoken with Cassie.

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Speaker 1: Where's decorum? Yeah, where she doesn't get so anxiety.

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Speaker 4: She's one of those people who like thrives and get

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Speaker 4: And I'm out here like just being like I don't

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Speaker 1: No, no, I'm with you on that hundred like I

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Speaker 1: don't know, I just natural extroverts. They scare me, Yeah,

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Speaker 4: The misconception is because we put ourselves online, we're like

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Speaker 1: And I have a challenge for us. You know where

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Speaker 1: I'm going with this? No, I don't. I don't want

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Speaker 1: to know. Next, challenging ourselves. Next Thursday, we have an event.

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Speaker 1: it's people that are just like us. I think. I

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Speaker 1: think at this event, you and I, No, we rock

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Speaker 1: know we go no, no, we need each other. I

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Speaker 1: want to go separate ways, separate ways. Where have these

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Speaker 1: balls come from? Yeah, I know daddy's feeling comfortable. No, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: I can't do that. Yeah, okay, well, baby steps, I go.

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Speaker 1: We're like, oh, what are you here for? And I go, oh,

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Speaker 1: here we go. Then let's get high and do it. No,

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Speaker 1: three new people. I'm saying one and then three. Who

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Speaker 1: no one else again. You know what, I would even

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Speaker 1: be proud of us if we went up to Jordan

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Speaker 1: and said, hey, Jordan, like, do you mind introducing us

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Speaker 1: to the head of Spotify, one of the head of Spotify, yeah,

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Speaker 1: podcasting department of Spotify in Australia. Okay, all right, I'll

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Speaker 1: like the chance. Leave it with us. Yeah, yeah, we'll

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Speaker 1: get back to everyone listening. I would even be happy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah if we just said to like, if we won't

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Speaker 1: joyus to heg Ordon, can you please introduce us to

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Speaker 1: that person over there, we'd love to just like I.

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Speaker 4: Really like just sitting and letting people come to us. Okay,

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Speaker 4: we'll sit down, sit down.

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Speaker 1: Hey, Jordan's whispering, like, you get those guys, you bring

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Speaker 1: then we have the power as we are sitting down.

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Speaker 4: Well, I guess that's the power of alcohol, because all

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Speaker 4: I think that's such a nice gesture if you're coming

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Speaker 4: That's fifty percent more than me. You've got one, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't.

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Speaker 4: Think I think it's definitely healthy to have the chat.

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Speaker 4: like them. That chat is implied. And also dating is

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so people say that, I mean guilty of it.

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Speaker 1: say someone was to if you were single and someone

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Speaker 1: came up and said to you, oh, so, audio are

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Speaker 1: you dating, and you could say, yeah, I am dating,

431
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Speaker 1: And that could literally mean that you go on one

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Speaker 1: to two dates with a different girl every now and then. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's what dating means, Like I do. Date used to

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Speaker 1: mean that. But what happened, I don't know what happened.

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Speaker 4: Cassie says, I'm her partner. Yes, I think that's the right,

436
00:22:31,320 --> 00:22:33,760
Speaker 4: which I feel very sophisticated.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: When she says, I'm like, oh, I feel like we've

439
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Speaker 4: been quite serious.

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Speaker 1: Are you going to get down? She is my partner?

441
00:22:43,080 --> 00:22:46,359
Speaker 1: I was like I am that, but I don't know

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Speaker 1: where we went wrong. It's definitely a gen Z generational thing.

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Speaker 1: I hate to think, what what is it called Jen Alpha?

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Speaker 1: Is that the one on Jen Alpha's next? Yeah, that's

445
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Speaker 1: a pistake. I think I got some one of my

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Speaker 1: siblings m opions.

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Speaker 4: I think they're cursed their whole I don't even know.

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00:23:00,800 --> 00:23:02,720
Speaker 4: Dating will just be like I don't know, like going

449
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Speaker 4: on FaceTime and then you're dating.

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Speaker 1: That's it. Who knows. But to be fair, even when

451
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Speaker 1: we were younger, FaceTime was a thing, and.

452
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Speaker 4: We were lucky enough that it only just really came

453
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Speaker 4: out when we were finishing high school. Our generation was

454
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Speaker 4: good because our childhood we've still semi got to experience

455
00:23:20,400 --> 00:23:24,800
Speaker 4: calling up your friend's family house and being like, hello, mister,

456
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Speaker 4: can I please talk to Jake? And you used to

457
00:23:27,040 --> 00:23:30,760
Speaker 4: memorize your mate's numbers, which I think taught us a

458
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Speaker 4: lot of valuable skills, personable skills. Even though we talk

459
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Speaker 4: about not talking to people, I think it taught you

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Speaker 4: some valuable skills. And we're like, I hate to think

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Speaker 4: what the generation under us will do, Like they just

462
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Speaker 4: messaged their friend like that and they're fucking at their doorstep.

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Speaker 1: It's right by like, to be fair, you're right. But

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Speaker 1: even when we were younger, I do remember when we

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Speaker 1: caught it tuning. It was to Facebook messagers. How many

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Speaker 1: girls are you tune? Back in the day, I like

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Speaker 1: the oh yeah, how many girls? I think how many girls?

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Speaker 1: Too many to cow No, I'm trying. I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 1: I think. I think. I think, well, you dated that

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Speaker 1: one for a long time. I think how long was

471
00:24:13,680 --> 00:24:16,879
Speaker 1: your first relationship nearly two years? I thought it was

472
00:24:16,880 --> 00:24:20,080
Speaker 1: way longer than that. I thought it was broke up twice.

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Speaker 1: I thought it was like, Oh, to be fair, I

474
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Speaker 1: was gonna say, you know, we broke up once, got

475
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Speaker 1: back together, and then broke up again. Yeah, I'm pretty sure. Yeah,

476
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Speaker 1: a bit toxic. Tuning.

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Speaker 4: Fuck, that term is funny. I think I tuned maybe.

478
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Speaker 4: I think two people, maybe three.

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Speaker 1: I never ever, it was the thing everyone spoke about.

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Speaker 4: But actually, also, you didn't even know when you were tuning.

481
00:24:37,840 --> 00:24:39,399
Speaker 4: You thought you did, but you kind of know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I think our generation is the generation that invented talking.

483
00:24:43,680 --> 00:24:47,199
Speaker 1: Yeah or me and such and such a talking? What

484
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Speaker 1: are you talking about? You're just being humans in a

485
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Speaker 1: room together. Oh, that's fucking hectic, Like, good on you.

486
00:24:51,560 --> 00:24:54,000
Speaker 1: Now we're talking. Yeah, you know we're talking to Okay, cool,

487
00:24:54,040 --> 00:24:57,640
Speaker 1: so you're just like talking extra No, we're like we're

488
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Speaker 1: like exclusive a thing. I can say that. It's crazy

489
00:25:03,119 --> 00:25:09,359
Speaker 1: what technology has brought up tune. Yeah, I can tune

490
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Speaker 1: a fucking guitar. Where did that word? Names? I remember

491
00:25:16,840 --> 00:25:19,960
Speaker 1: one that didn't work out and then the other one

492
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Speaker 1: I dated. Oh see the one I tuned I dated.

493
00:25:24,040 --> 00:25:26,840
Speaker 1: We should bring tuning back, like obviously we can't, but

494
00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:30,639
Speaker 1: everyone listening like yeah we can't, instead of like saying

495
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Speaker 1: I'm in a situation ship like I'm tuning. I remember

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00:25:33,880 --> 00:25:36,040
Speaker 1: a friend one time, to.

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Speaker 4: Be fair, we could tune our girlfriends like saying like

498
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Speaker 4: the term of the word is just like chatting them up.

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Speaker 1: For real, it is. I think tune is just like

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Speaker 1: chatting them up because I remember a friend ah just

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Speaker 1: saying to me once like I guess you must have

502
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Speaker 1: just been saying, is there anyone that you want to tune?

503
00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:58,640
Speaker 1: And I was like, oh, I mean I crush on someone,

504
00:25:58,640 --> 00:26:01,119
Speaker 1: blah blah blah. I was like, how do you do that?

505
00:26:01,160 --> 00:26:04,359
Speaker 1: But and this motherfucker said to me his advice to

506
00:26:04,400 --> 00:26:07,399
Speaker 1: me was message them and just say you want to

507
00:26:07,400 --> 00:26:12,280
Speaker 1: get on the tune like you're getting on a train together.

508
00:26:14,119 --> 00:26:18,560
Speaker 1: Remember thinking what that's crazy? Tell me if this is good?

509
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Speaker 1: He was an attractive bloke, I bet.

510
00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:22,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, when you're attractive in like year ten to twelve,

511
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Speaker 4: you don't need any game. All you need is good

512
00:26:25,320 --> 00:26:27,600
Speaker 4: looks like and a little bit of muscle because a

513
00:26:27,640 --> 00:26:28,960
Speaker 4: lot of the boys haven't developed yet.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, if you wanted the lucky lucky ones to

515
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Speaker 1: develop over one summer and you come back or deep

516
00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:40,040
Speaker 1: voice yeah, and the other boys to skin. Yeah, tell

517
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Speaker 1: me if this is good.

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Speaker 4: Tuning okay, Okay, So I spoke about my date already.

519
00:26:43,800 --> 00:26:45,359
Speaker 4: We haven't been on a date in a while because

520
00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:47,760
Speaker 4: cuss he's been dieting, just all like an actual date

521
00:26:47,760 --> 00:26:49,960
Speaker 4: where we go to a restaurant because you can't track calories.

522
00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:52,719
Speaker 4: So I was quite excited for it. Yeah, and I

523
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Speaker 4: did this just on the whim, and I think it's

524
00:26:54,600 --> 00:26:57,800
Speaker 4: great game. But tuning okay. So she got in the

525
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Speaker 4: car and have you noticed that the DJ on Spotify

526
00:27:01,680 --> 00:27:03,040
Speaker 4: now you can talk to it?

527
00:27:03,160 --> 00:27:04,159
Speaker 1: Yeah, give it request.

528
00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:06,960
Speaker 4: So as she got in the car, I said, I

529
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Speaker 4: DJ play a first date playlist.

530
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Speaker 1: First Date from no, no, No, let me learn, let me land.

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00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:17,160
Speaker 1: So she laughed and she's she said the same things.

532
00:27:17,400 --> 00:27:19,639
Speaker 1: We've been doing it for two years, and I'm like,

533
00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:21,760
Speaker 1: I'm setting the mood. Played a bit of Ed Sheeran

534
00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:22,320
Speaker 1: and stuff.

535
00:27:23,000 --> 00:27:28,359
Speaker 4: Anyway, date finished, we got in the car and I said,

536
00:27:28,960 --> 00:27:31,359
Speaker 4: play mer playlist that makes you want to have your

537
00:27:31,359 --> 00:27:31,960
Speaker 4: first kids.

538
00:27:34,240 --> 00:27:37,359
Speaker 1: Start playing some love songs, you know. I was like,

539
00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:40,840
Speaker 1: I'm doing good here, I'm doing good. And then we

540
00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:47,679
Speaker 1: went back to Mine made love and I was on

541
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Speaker 1: my phone.

542
00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:50,960
Speaker 4: I was like, oh, here's a great chance to finish

543
00:27:51,000 --> 00:27:52,560
Speaker 4: off this tuning.

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00:27:52,760 --> 00:27:56,760
Speaker 1: Yeah. So I said, hey, DJ, play me a post

545
00:27:56,760 --> 00:28:01,280
Speaker 1: sex playlist. You're the worst, and I didn't play anything.

546
00:28:01,280 --> 00:28:03,960
Speaker 1: He said I can't take that request. I said it again.

547
00:28:04,640 --> 00:28:08,159
Speaker 1: I said, hey, DJ, play me your post sex playlist

548
00:28:08,640 --> 00:28:10,879
Speaker 1: and said I can't play that request. And then it

549
00:28:10,960 --> 00:28:16,520
Speaker 1: started playing Pepper Pink. We'll both sit in there and naked,

550
00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:26,119
Speaker 1: going what the fuck? That is so funny? That's what

551
00:28:26,160 --> 00:28:29,639
Speaker 1: you call good tune. I gotta say, you're the worst.

552
00:28:31,119 --> 00:28:34,720
Speaker 1: How does she let you get away with it? They

553
00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:38,840
Speaker 1: call me smooth Operado, What give it a go? They

554
00:28:38,920 --> 00:28:44,600
Speaker 1: call me smooth Offerder, Smoothader.

555
00:28:43,880 --> 00:28:46,840
Speaker 4: What I'll finish on Jake. What I saw on the

556
00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:51,320
Speaker 4: radio was how good relatables Patreon.

557
00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:57,840
Speaker 1: Is, some may say the most valuable thing you can purchase.

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Speaker 4: Literally, it's only five dollars a u D a month

559
00:29:03,280 --> 00:29:05,760
Speaker 4: and what you get is an extra episode and next

560
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Speaker 4: to one of these every single Thursday. And also the

561
00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:11,440
Speaker 4: book club. The new edition is going swimmingly, but you

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00:29:11,480 --> 00:29:14,200
Speaker 4: get that five days early. And the community on there

563
00:29:14,280 --> 00:29:16,239
Speaker 4: is growing, everyone supporting each other, All the batteries are

564
00:29:16,200 --> 00:29:16,840
Speaker 4: supporting each other.

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00:29:16,960 --> 00:29:18,240
Speaker 1: Yes, if you're going to sign up to Patreon, if

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Speaker 1: you're thinking about it, we would love you to. By

567
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Speaker 1: the way, if we get a thousand paid members by

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Speaker 1: the end of this year, we are going to do

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Speaker 1: a live show. But if you're going to sign up,

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00:29:24,160 --> 00:29:35,760
Speaker 1: go sign up on the patroon website. Addie, yeah, mummy, Guys, girls,

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Speaker 1: Dilemmas time. If you want to sign up, I'll not

572
00:29:39,680 --> 00:29:41,640
Speaker 1: sign up. If you want us to read your dilemma

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Speaker 1: and help your current situation out. How do they do it?

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Speaker 4: Link is in the top of the description and also

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Speaker 4: linking bio on Instagram.

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Speaker 1: Scroll the bottom. There's a picture of Jake's face and

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00:29:52,320 --> 00:29:54,600
Speaker 1: then just click it and it is completely anonymous because

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00:29:54,600 --> 00:29:56,320
Speaker 1: we fucked up and we can never know who sent

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Speaker 1: them in. Yes, honestly, probably better that way. Yeah, thank

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Speaker 1: you very much everybody that sends him in. We are

581
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Speaker 1: doing our best to get through them. I have a

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Speaker 1: juicy one today. Hey, Mommy and Daddy, long time listening

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00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:09,200
Speaker 1: here from the UK, and I really hope to get

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Speaker 1: the I really hope you get the chance to cover

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Speaker 1: my dilemma. Before I start, I just wanted to say

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Speaker 1: I adore your potty and you and the girls bathroom

587
00:30:16,680 --> 00:30:18,760
Speaker 1: are the only two I listened to when you did

588
00:30:18,800 --> 00:30:23,400
Speaker 1: a collab. When you did a collab, I cried. Sorry,

589
00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:25,720
Speaker 1: I could have cried. I should have just left it again,

590
00:30:27,600 --> 00:30:30,240
Speaker 1: what's the take it? Thank you for making me laugh

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00:30:30,280 --> 00:30:32,960
Speaker 1: every week. So let's get into it. To set the scene,

592
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Speaker 1: last May, I moved into my first home with my

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Speaker 1: then boyfriend and my little boy. In late July, I

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Speaker 1: started a new job and in the same week that

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Speaker 1: boyfriend left me. To be honest, I had mentally checked

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Speaker 1: out of that relationship during my pregnancy because he was

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Speaker 1: incredibly unsupportive, so I was kind of ready for the breakup.

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Speaker 1: But still it was a lot, new house, new job,

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00:31:00,840 --> 00:31:04,760
Speaker 1: sudden single mum life. It hit hard. Fast forward to

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Speaker 1: my second week at my new job and I meet

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Speaker 1: one of the other managers for the first time, and

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00:31:11,560 --> 00:31:16,560
Speaker 1: oh my god, he was so good looking. I actually

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00:31:16,760 --> 00:31:21,240
Speaker 1: got nervous speaking to him. We started flirting almost instantly,

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Speaker 1: and since he was also fresh out of a tough relationship,

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00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:30,360
Speaker 1: we totally trauma bonded. For context, I am a twenty

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00:31:30,360 --> 00:31:32,520
Speaker 1: one year old More sorry, I am a twenty one

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00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:34,600
Speaker 1: year old with a mortgage. You were about to say,

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00:31:34,600 --> 00:31:38,120
Speaker 1: a twenty one year old model with a mortgage, a

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Speaker 1: great sales job, and a toddler. He is thirty one

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Speaker 1: and has been living with his best mate for the

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Speaker 1: past five years. Come September, one slightly tipsy night, he

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00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:51,640
Speaker 1: shows up at my place and we end up having

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Speaker 1: the best sex I've ever had. That night kicked off

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Speaker 1: something really special where we are now. Fast forward and

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00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:04,000
Speaker 1: we have a really solid relationship. He's amazing with my

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Speaker 1: little boy. Honestly, he's become such a great father figure.

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00:32:07,800 --> 00:32:11,840
Speaker 1: He supports me in every way, emotionally and practically. He

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00:32:11,960 --> 00:32:15,040
Speaker 1: even took me to Paris and made my Disney dreams

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Speaker 1: come true. Will we like like full on fairytale moment.

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00:32:21,920 --> 00:32:25,280
Speaker 1: It's such a beautiful ride so far, or it's been

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Speaker 1: such a beautiful ride so far. Now for the dilemma.

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00:32:28,760 --> 00:32:33,080
Speaker 1: His flat lease is up for renewal in September, which

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Speaker 1: also marks a year since our relationship started. Early on,

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00:32:37,400 --> 00:32:40,440
Speaker 1: he talked a lot about wanting to move in together

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00:32:40,920 --> 00:32:44,480
Speaker 1: and how he'd never felt this way about anyone, so naturally,

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00:32:44,800 --> 00:32:47,840
Speaker 1: I brought it up again this week, but instead of

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Speaker 1: the exciting, romantic conversation I was expecting, he said things like,

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00:32:52,800 --> 00:32:55,920
Speaker 1: I'm scared it's too soon. What if it doesn't work?

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Speaker 1: I told him I totally get the fear, but I

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Speaker 1: also believe you really get to know someone by living together.

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Speaker 1: And if he doesn't move in this September, it's likely

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Speaker 1: another whole year, which feels like a long time to

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00:33:09,560 --> 00:33:13,120
Speaker 1: keep things in limbo, especially when we're already building a

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00:33:13,160 --> 00:33:17,560
Speaker 1: life together. The main reason for holding back, oh sorry,

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00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:19,560
Speaker 1: his men reason for holding back. He doesn't want to

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Speaker 1: leave his friend in the lurch, which I do understand.

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00:33:23,200 --> 00:33:27,240
Speaker 1: He's thirty wide, which I do understand. His friends like family,

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00:33:27,280 --> 00:33:29,400
Speaker 1: and he's helped him through a lot. But it's June

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00:33:29,840 --> 00:33:33,640
Speaker 1: that gives his flatmate three whole months to find another flatmate,

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00:33:34,280 --> 00:33:37,040
Speaker 1: and while I know it might sound selfish, I feel

641
00:33:37,040 --> 00:33:41,720
Speaker 1: like I should be his priority now facts just some context.

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00:33:41,880 --> 00:33:44,720
Speaker 1: I live paycheck to paycheck, and he already helps by

643
00:33:44,720 --> 00:33:47,240
Speaker 1: buying the food shop. He's a huge part of my

644
00:33:47,240 --> 00:33:49,719
Speaker 1: son's life, and I don't want him sorry, and I

645
00:33:49,760 --> 00:33:51,760
Speaker 1: want him to be even more present. I want my

646
00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:55,280
Speaker 1: little boy to grow up never remembering a time without him.

647
00:33:55,760 --> 00:33:58,960
Speaker 1: We literally just got a cat together last month who

648
00:33:59,040 --> 00:34:02,400
Speaker 1: lives at mine. He doesn't drive and currently lives close

649
00:34:02,440 --> 00:34:04,640
Speaker 1: to work, so moving would make it harder for him

650
00:34:04,640 --> 00:34:07,760
Speaker 1: to commute to work. When we had the conversation, it

651
00:34:07,880 --> 00:34:11,680
Speaker 1: ended in tears on both sides. It wasn't nice, and

652
00:34:11,719 --> 00:34:14,960
Speaker 1: now I just don't know where I stand. He constantly

653
00:34:15,000 --> 00:34:17,080
Speaker 1: tells me how much he loves me, how he wants

654
00:34:17,120 --> 00:34:19,319
Speaker 1: to marry me and spend the rest of his life

655
00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:21,880
Speaker 1: with me. But now I'm left wondering if he really

656
00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:24,000
Speaker 1: feels that way, why doesn't he want to live with me?

657
00:34:24,360 --> 00:34:27,440
Speaker 1: Or am I just being unreasonable by wanting this next step.

658
00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:31,640
Speaker 1: Would love to hear some thoughts. Pictures attached. Yes, yeah, buddy,

659
00:34:31,680 --> 00:34:37,719
Speaker 1: I got them on my phone. Pictures attached. So I

660
00:34:37,760 --> 00:34:41,520
Speaker 1: did have a look at him, and I gotta say so.

661
00:34:41,680 --> 00:34:44,880
Speaker 4: Normally I would say I don't like the age gap,

662
00:34:45,760 --> 00:34:48,080
Speaker 4: but the fact that he's thirty one I think gives

663
00:34:48,160 --> 00:34:50,080
Speaker 4: him the maturity to be a good father figure.

664
00:34:50,320 --> 00:34:54,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, and it sounds like it's annoying. This is workable.

665
00:34:54,200 --> 00:34:58,320
Speaker 1: This is workable. Here you go, don't show the camera. Okay, okay, Oh,

666
00:34:58,360 --> 00:35:01,319
Speaker 1: he actually is pretty handsome. That's a nice coming, bro,

667
00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:04,200
Speaker 1: look at it. They look like a happy family. Yeah.

668
00:35:04,200 --> 00:35:08,319
Speaker 1: That baby's cute as fuck. Oh, I look at him.

669
00:35:08,360 --> 00:35:11,840
Speaker 1: Both good looking people, Okay, okay, okay.

670
00:35:11,960 --> 00:35:14,439
Speaker 4: I like having a face to beautiful. Sometimes I don't

671
00:35:14,480 --> 00:35:17,360
Speaker 4: like having a face because it's the harsh. He doesn't

672
00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:20,399
Speaker 4: look like the person I was picturing. He's hot, he's

673
00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:21,000
Speaker 4: actually tracked it.

674
00:35:21,160 --> 00:35:23,719
Speaker 1: Good jewel line, good airlines. Who looks at him in

675
00:35:23,760 --> 00:35:27,760
Speaker 1: a turkey? You would beard too? But everything. The cat's

676
00:35:27,800 --> 00:35:29,879
Speaker 1: kind of cute. Do you see the cop? Yeah? Ship

677
00:35:30,120 --> 00:35:35,839
Speaker 1: the baby? Okay, okay, this is workable. Yeah, he's fixable. Yeah.

678
00:35:35,880 --> 00:35:37,560
Speaker 1: I don't why he's so scared.

679
00:35:37,800 --> 00:35:42,600
Speaker 4: I think I think there's a reason why he's thirty

680
00:35:42,600 --> 00:35:46,399
Speaker 4: one and he hasn't made the commitment yet to anyone else.

681
00:35:47,160 --> 00:35:50,400
Speaker 4: I think he is a really good man, but something

682
00:35:51,200 --> 00:35:54,480
Speaker 4: within him is scared, Like as soon as like he's

683
00:35:54,560 --> 00:35:56,480
Speaker 4: said to you all the right things, and he probably

684
00:35:56,520 --> 00:35:59,160
Speaker 4: does feel that way, but as soon as that line

685
00:35:59,200 --> 00:36:02,359
Speaker 4: to cross of being like one entity comes, I dare

686
00:36:02,360 --> 00:36:05,880
Speaker 4: say it's happened to him before he's run away. So

687
00:36:05,960 --> 00:36:08,480
Speaker 4: I guess not that you have to tread lightly, but

688
00:36:08,520 --> 00:36:12,759
Speaker 4: how does she tread to be nurturing and be there

689
00:36:12,800 --> 00:36:14,759
Speaker 4: for him? Even though he's thirty one, it's still his

690
00:36:14,800 --> 00:36:16,440
Speaker 4: first time going through life and he seems like a

691
00:36:16,480 --> 00:36:17,080
Speaker 4: genuine man.

692
00:36:17,239 --> 00:36:19,239
Speaker 1: True, I guess everyone's going through life for the first time.

693
00:36:20,120 --> 00:36:23,399
Speaker 4: How can we help him because I don't know. It's

694
00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:25,839
Speaker 4: just I guess it's scary because it is a year.

695
00:36:26,440 --> 00:36:29,000
Speaker 4: In my personal opinion, a year is a good time.

696
00:36:29,000 --> 00:36:31,400
Speaker 4: But also in my relationship, we've made the conscious decision

697
00:36:31,480 --> 00:36:34,520
Speaker 4: to wait just to maintain our independence. But I feel

698
00:36:34,520 --> 00:36:36,320
Speaker 4: like they've crossed that line by getting a cat together.

699
00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:42,839
Speaker 1: Definitely no percent. But also he's spoken about wanting it.

700
00:36:43,040 --> 00:36:45,839
Speaker 4: Yeah, wanting to marriage. I think he really wants it.

701
00:36:45,840 --> 00:36:48,480
Speaker 4: He's just scared of that final stage. How do we

702
00:36:48,480 --> 00:36:50,120
Speaker 4: get him to cross the line other than him being

703
00:36:50,160 --> 00:36:53,440
Speaker 4: thirty one?

704
00:36:56,040 --> 00:37:00,920
Speaker 1: I actually am trying to think here, bro, the work together,

705
00:37:00,960 --> 00:37:03,760
Speaker 1: both managers, both have a good job, work together.

706
00:37:03,920 --> 00:37:08,279
Speaker 4: You're also already you've basically so what happened is you've

707
00:37:08,320 --> 00:37:11,799
Speaker 4: crossed the line without actually saying it together of being

708
00:37:11,800 --> 00:37:15,640
Speaker 4: an entity by getting a cat and him contributing with

709
00:37:15,680 --> 00:37:17,880
Speaker 4: the groceries and working together as a team, which is

710
00:37:17,880 --> 00:37:21,800
Speaker 4: really good and healthy and nice to see. But he

711
00:37:21,840 --> 00:37:23,840
Speaker 4: hasn't seen that yet, So I guess you've got to

712
00:37:23,880 --> 00:37:26,040
Speaker 4: realize that, dude, you're already doing it. There's nothing to

713
00:37:26,080 --> 00:37:26,520
Speaker 4: be scared of.

714
00:37:26,680 --> 00:37:28,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, you're right.

715
00:37:29,160 --> 00:37:31,560
Speaker 4: Just moving in is just this one line where in

716
00:37:31,600 --> 00:37:34,120
Speaker 4: every relationship like, oh shit, man, that's too much.

717
00:37:34,320 --> 00:37:37,719
Speaker 1: It's looked at as this humongous thing. Yeah, and it's

718
00:37:37,719 --> 00:37:39,760
Speaker 1: not that it's not a big thing, but also people

719
00:37:39,840 --> 00:37:43,440
Speaker 1: kind of it's like the same thing of how some

720
00:37:43,600 --> 00:37:48,920
Speaker 1: people will be in a situationship because they aren't ready

721
00:37:48,920 --> 00:37:52,320
Speaker 1: to commit, but they're like already getting such an intense

722
00:37:52,360 --> 00:37:55,280
Speaker 1: situationship that they literally committed and it like it would

723
00:37:55,280 --> 00:37:57,480
Speaker 1: literally be considered like cheating if one of them with

724
00:37:57,480 --> 00:38:00,120
Speaker 1: another person. But I find for some reason feelers so

725
00:38:00,200 --> 00:38:03,560
Speaker 1: they can't get into a relationship and actually label it

726
00:38:03,600 --> 00:38:05,520
Speaker 1: as boyfriend and girlfriend, because then they think they can't

727
00:38:05,520 --> 00:38:07,719
Speaker 1: break up with them. But it's like, you're actually allowed

728
00:38:07,719 --> 00:38:09,960
Speaker 1: to break up with someone whenever you feel like it, exactly,

729
00:38:10,040 --> 00:38:12,080
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. And at the same time,

730
00:38:12,160 --> 00:38:13,759
Speaker 1: it's like, if you guys move in together and hate it,

731
00:38:13,800 --> 00:38:16,040
Speaker 1: you're actually allowed to move out and think, oh, we're

732
00:38:16,080 --> 00:38:17,960
Speaker 1: not ready to move in together and not break up.

733
00:38:18,000 --> 00:38:21,560
Speaker 4: Maybe that's the answer. So he's scared that. I don't know,

734
00:38:21,560 --> 00:38:24,480
Speaker 4: he's going to be too deep. But although it's a

735
00:38:24,480 --> 00:38:27,319
Speaker 4: tricky conversation and I think he is a really nice

736
00:38:27,360 --> 00:38:30,920
Speaker 4: good man, say to him, Look, moving in doesn't change anything.

737
00:38:31,400 --> 00:38:35,040
Speaker 4: If for some reason this doesn't work together, you are

738
00:38:35,080 --> 00:38:39,120
Speaker 4: completely in your right to break up with me and

739
00:38:39,239 --> 00:38:41,440
Speaker 4: move out and we can figure this out together.

740
00:38:41,840 --> 00:38:44,719
Speaker 1: Yeah. And if we move in together and you hate it, like,

741
00:38:45,000 --> 00:38:48,239
Speaker 1: voice that, yeah, just voice it. Yeah, we need to

742
00:38:48,440 --> 00:38:50,360
Speaker 1: everything needs to be like put out on the table

743
00:38:50,400 --> 00:38:53,440
Speaker 1: so we can it's not you, and it's it's not

744
00:38:53,480 --> 00:38:55,520
Speaker 1: you and him against each other. Yeah, you need to

745
00:38:55,520 --> 00:38:58,560
Speaker 1: think of the problem, right, So the problem is is

746
00:38:58,600 --> 00:39:00,640
Speaker 1: he going to move in. He's problem is he's gonna

747
00:39:00,640 --> 00:39:03,960
Speaker 1: hate it. So here's what I remember actually doing a

748
00:39:04,000 --> 00:39:05,799
Speaker 1: little bit. But there's an episode we have about how

749
00:39:05,840 --> 00:39:08,319
Speaker 1: to argue, remember, I think so so I'm pretty sure

750
00:39:08,360 --> 00:39:11,600
Speaker 1: there's like a tactic where you each get to get

751
00:39:11,640 --> 00:39:16,719
Speaker 1: a few minutes to talk where it's like, okay, you

752
00:39:16,880 --> 00:39:20,759
Speaker 1: tay you. You would say why you want him to

753
00:39:20,760 --> 00:39:24,200
Speaker 1: move in, and you would say all your reasons and

754
00:39:24,239 --> 00:39:26,799
Speaker 1: it's not in a way of again not arguing. And

755
00:39:26,840 --> 00:39:29,680
Speaker 1: then he would say all of his reasons as to

756
00:39:29,719 --> 00:39:33,160
Speaker 1: why he doesn't want to move in, and then well

757
00:39:33,160 --> 00:39:34,239
Speaker 1: he kind of already said him.

758
00:39:34,400 --> 00:39:38,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, the friend one not valid thirty one and also

759
00:39:38,920 --> 00:39:40,799
Speaker 4: three months to find a new roomy his friend can

760
00:39:40,800 --> 00:39:41,120
Speaker 4: gra up.

761
00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:42,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's his own life.

762
00:39:42,360 --> 00:39:45,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think that's just like a get out jail

763
00:39:45,160 --> 00:39:46,680
Speaker 4: freekly trying to use Yeah, and what.

764
00:39:46,719 --> 00:39:48,239
Speaker 1: Was his other reason? Look, I don't know why that

765
00:39:48,280 --> 00:39:51,560
Speaker 1: friend is his responsibility. It's not regardless of how much

766
00:39:51,600 --> 00:39:52,919
Speaker 1: that friend has helped him through life?

767
00:39:53,040 --> 00:39:55,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, why is that his Responsibilityways? The other reason that's

768
00:39:55,239 --> 00:39:59,680
Speaker 4: not valid at all? Is it too on the scheme

769
00:39:59,719 --> 00:40:00,920
Speaker 4: of what soon?

770
00:40:01,040 --> 00:40:03,080
Speaker 1: What if it doesn't work? Like, what if it doesn't work?

771
00:40:03,120 --> 00:40:04,560
Speaker 1: What if it does work and we're together for the

772
00:40:04,600 --> 00:40:06,400
Speaker 1: rest of our lives? You can't go through life just

773
00:40:06,440 --> 00:40:09,640
Speaker 1: saying what if, what if? Whatef? Never gonna do anything ever? Yeah, exactly,

774
00:40:09,880 --> 00:40:12,560
Speaker 1: So I'm pretty sure. Yeah, you both need to say

775
00:40:12,560 --> 00:40:15,279
Speaker 1: your piece, as in, like you say why you want it,

776
00:40:15,560 --> 00:40:17,279
Speaker 1: and like you go into you say to him like,

777
00:40:17,320 --> 00:40:18,480
Speaker 1: this is how I want to figure this out, this

778
00:40:18,520 --> 00:40:20,640
Speaker 1: is I just want to try something again. But there's

779
00:40:20,680 --> 00:40:23,000
Speaker 1: no we're literally we're not fighting here. Yeah, we are

780
00:40:23,480 --> 00:40:25,520
Speaker 1: both saying our reason as to why we want the thing.

781
00:40:26,120 --> 00:40:28,160
Speaker 1: And then because you both still love each other, yeah yeah, yeah,

782
00:40:28,160 --> 00:40:29,879
Speaker 1: you're trying to get to a conclusion together. And then

783
00:40:30,840 --> 00:40:34,920
Speaker 1: after that, either a conclusion will just present itself and

784
00:40:34,960 --> 00:40:36,960
Speaker 1: one of you is either is going to sound super dumb,

785
00:40:37,280 --> 00:40:41,040
Speaker 1: probably him, And then but if he's like hell bent

786
00:40:41,160 --> 00:40:45,040
Speaker 1: on this and he just has absolute stupid reasons, it's

787
00:40:45,040 --> 00:40:48,479
Speaker 1: one of those classic situations of well, he's a great guy,

788
00:40:48,800 --> 00:40:50,640
Speaker 1: he does everything, he helps me out, he took me

789
00:40:50,680 --> 00:40:52,760
Speaker 1: to Disney, he pays for the groceries, he loves my child,

790
00:40:52,920 --> 00:40:56,799
Speaker 1: we got a cat together. But still he can't fight.

791
00:40:57,080 --> 00:40:58,560
Speaker 1: You can't really have a bunch of good things and

792
00:40:58,600 --> 00:40:59,080
Speaker 1: then a butt.

793
00:40:59,360 --> 00:41:03,319
Speaker 4: Yeah, and I think what will happen is men are very,

794
00:41:03,400 --> 00:41:06,200
Speaker 4: very thick and once you say your two cents and

795
00:41:06,280 --> 00:41:10,920
Speaker 4: explain that you already are an entity together because of

796
00:41:10,960 --> 00:41:12,719
Speaker 4: all these things we do together and I love that

797
00:41:12,800 --> 00:41:16,600
Speaker 4: about you, Yeah, honey, and hopefully something will click it

798
00:41:16,600 --> 00:41:19,680
Speaker 4: be oh yeah, whatit a second, it's just another thing.

799
00:41:19,719 --> 00:41:23,360
Speaker 4: We're living together, and I basically stay over five nights anyway. Yeah, Like, honestly,

800
00:41:23,360 --> 00:41:25,920
Speaker 4: I'm already doing it. Yeah, and hopefully something clicks and

801
00:41:25,960 --> 00:41:27,600
Speaker 4: he goes down the avenue of being like, oh shit,

802
00:41:27,600 --> 00:41:30,400
Speaker 4: it's not that scary. He's just a scared thirty one

803
00:41:30,480 --> 00:41:33,120
Speaker 4: year old man. Honestly, I'm sure that is exactly It

804
00:41:33,120 --> 00:41:35,759
Speaker 4: shouldn't need the conversation, but I'm sure that's what it is.

805
00:41:35,840 --> 00:41:38,640
Speaker 1: I think it will work itself out. And I'm trying

806
00:41:38,640 --> 00:41:40,960
Speaker 1: to think here, I don't know if this is fair,

807
00:41:41,000 --> 00:41:44,040
Speaker 1: but I'm going to say it. So let's say he

808
00:41:44,400 --> 00:41:47,759
Speaker 1: is like, just straight up no, I just don't want

809
00:41:47,760 --> 00:41:50,560
Speaker 1: to move in yet, right, which I guess it's like

810
00:41:50,600 --> 00:41:52,919
Speaker 1: he's entitled to say that to me, fair and even

811
00:41:52,920 --> 00:41:54,880
Speaker 1: though he did say earlier on in the relationship that

812
00:41:54,880 --> 00:41:56,960
Speaker 1: he wants to move in, but now he's changing his mind,

813
00:41:56,960 --> 00:42:00,680
Speaker 1: which is not nice. Everyone's entitled to how they feel

814
00:42:01,760 --> 00:42:06,480
Speaker 1: and basically in that situation, like if you think, look,

815
00:42:06,520 --> 00:42:09,000
Speaker 1: it's not bad enough to break up over, like everything

816
00:42:09,000 --> 00:42:10,799
Speaker 1: else is great, except you just doesn't want to move

817
00:42:10,800 --> 00:42:13,640
Speaker 1: in yet, but you would, then the compromise would then

818
00:42:13,719 --> 00:42:18,440
Speaker 1: be well, okay, cool. If not, now, it's only fair

819
00:42:19,000 --> 00:42:21,319
Speaker 1: that you tell me when. Yeah, yeah, the.

820
00:42:21,239 --> 00:42:23,279
Speaker 4: Six months, another year, and then you can make the

821
00:42:23,280 --> 00:42:26,040
Speaker 4: conscious decision if it's worth keeping up with it.

822
00:42:26,160 --> 00:42:29,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, yeah, Because like if you guys end up

823
00:42:29,760 --> 00:42:31,920
Speaker 1: getting to a conclusion where you're both happy that you

824
00:42:32,000 --> 00:42:35,560
Speaker 1: are going to just wait one more year, and then

825
00:42:35,600 --> 00:42:36,080
Speaker 1: it gets.

826
00:42:35,880 --> 00:42:38,000
Speaker 4: What it happened, he'll say, He'll probably say this, He'll

827
00:42:38,000 --> 00:42:39,640
Speaker 4: probably say, all right, I want to weigh another year.

828
00:42:39,640 --> 00:42:42,320
Speaker 4: Six months down the track, he'll say he's ready. Yeah, maybe, okay,

829
00:42:42,360 --> 00:42:43,080
Speaker 4: that's what's gonna happen.

830
00:42:43,200 --> 00:42:47,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, fingers crossed. But if he does the whole

831
00:42:47,000 --> 00:42:48,960
Speaker 1: thing we wants to wait another year and then and

832
00:42:49,000 --> 00:42:53,799
Speaker 1: then doesn't again, he's like, throw that you're thirty one,

833
00:42:53,800 --> 00:42:57,640
Speaker 1: you're thirty two at this point, mate, it's honestly embarrassing. Yeah,

834
00:42:57,920 --> 00:43:00,359
Speaker 1: I think this one will work out. Yeah, I hope, yes,

835
00:43:00,440 --> 00:43:01,000
Speaker 1: I hope.

836
00:43:01,160 --> 00:43:07,400
Speaker 4: All right, next dilemma sharp curveball my military love. I

837
00:43:07,440 --> 00:43:09,960
Speaker 4: have a boyfriend who is in the military. He sent

838
00:43:10,000 --> 00:43:12,600
Speaker 4: me a video and voice messages and keeps saying he

839
00:43:12,640 --> 00:43:15,440
Speaker 4: will be home soon so we can actually meet in person.

840
00:43:15,920 --> 00:43:18,920
Speaker 4: I have sent him money for internet connection so we

841
00:43:18,920 --> 00:43:22,040
Speaker 4: can talk on Snap and he promises once he's home

842
00:43:22,080 --> 00:43:24,560
Speaker 4: he will pay me back in double because he said

843
00:43:24,560 --> 00:43:28,880
Speaker 4: the military freezes their bank accounts while on deployment. My

844
00:43:29,040 --> 00:43:31,520
Speaker 4: family found out about him and thinks he is a

845
00:43:31,560 --> 00:43:33,960
Speaker 4: scam and they want me to break up with him.

846
00:43:34,840 --> 00:43:37,400
Speaker 4: He knows that my family doesn't approve of him, and

847
00:43:37,440 --> 00:43:40,440
Speaker 4: we have argued a little about the whole money issue.

848
00:43:40,840 --> 00:43:42,520
Speaker 4: I explained to him we should be able to have

849
00:43:42,560 --> 00:43:46,000
Speaker 4: a relationship without money being involved, and sometimes I feel

850
00:43:46,040 --> 00:43:48,799
Speaker 4: like he understands, but other times he doesn't because he

851
00:43:48,840 --> 00:43:51,520
Speaker 4: will still ask me for money and I lie and

852
00:43:51,560 --> 00:43:52,520
Speaker 4: say I don't have it.

853
00:43:52,880 --> 00:43:54,360
Speaker 1: I don't have it at this time.

854
00:43:55,239 --> 00:43:57,640
Speaker 4: My dilemma is what should I do because I have

855
00:43:57,680 --> 00:44:01,040
Speaker 4: feelings for him and I do love him, but feeling

856
00:44:01,120 --> 00:44:03,600
Speaker 4: like I'm being forced to pick size between my family

857
00:44:03,640 --> 00:44:06,360
Speaker 4: and him, and I know they're just looking out for me,

858
00:44:06,520 --> 00:44:08,680
Speaker 4: but not sure what to do. Sorry for this one

859
00:44:08,719 --> 00:44:13,960
Speaker 4: being long would love your input. What so I think

860
00:44:14,120 --> 00:44:17,480
Speaker 4: like all jokes aside. I think she's I would put

861
00:44:17,480 --> 00:44:19,040
Speaker 4: two and two together that she's getting scammed.

862
00:44:19,360 --> 00:44:21,839
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, obviously. Yeah.

863
00:44:22,040 --> 00:44:22,239
Speaker 2: Yeah.

864
00:44:22,719 --> 00:44:23,880
Speaker 1: I thought you were gonna say, like she's from a

865
00:44:23,880 --> 00:44:25,839
Speaker 1: different country or something. No, yeah, no, I think she's

866
00:44:25,880 --> 00:44:28,359
Speaker 1: completely getting scammed. Yeah, this is like the oldest trick

867
00:44:28,440 --> 00:44:33,160
Speaker 1: in the book to get scammed. Wow. People really do

868
00:44:33,239 --> 00:44:37,920
Speaker 1: get blind, yeah, blinded by love. People really do get blind.

869
00:44:38,160 --> 00:44:41,319
Speaker 4: So I think the solution is, although you probably don't

870
00:44:41,360 --> 00:44:45,799
Speaker 4: want to hear it unless you can get solid proof,

871
00:44:45,840 --> 00:44:48,480
Speaker 4: which I don't think you could ever get. I really

872
00:44:48,520 --> 00:44:52,160
Speaker 4: believe you need to break this off asap instantly.

873
00:44:52,320 --> 00:44:52,960
Speaker 2: Yeah.

874
00:44:53,239 --> 00:44:56,200
Speaker 4: No relationship should ever be on the foundation of sending

875
00:44:56,200 --> 00:45:01,000
Speaker 4: the money to communicate he's obviously from third world country

876
00:45:01,040 --> 00:45:02,160
Speaker 4: or something. Any scamming you?

877
00:45:03,440 --> 00:45:05,520
Speaker 1: Is she Australian? I don't know. I'm just going to

878
00:45:05,600 --> 00:45:09,760
Speaker 1: look two things up, ready from multiple countries. Ready, does

879
00:45:10,239 --> 00:45:14,239
Speaker 1: the Australian There's no way they freeze your banking Army

880
00:45:15,000 --> 00:45:22,680
Speaker 1: freeze their troops bank accounts. No they don't, there's no way. No,

881
00:45:22,719 --> 00:45:25,080
Speaker 1: the Australian Army does not freeze the bank accounts of

882
00:45:25,080 --> 00:45:28,799
Speaker 1: its personnel when they are deployed. Does the let's try American?

883
00:45:29,719 --> 00:45:33,200
Speaker 1: See she could be American? You know, does the doesn't

884
00:45:33,239 --> 00:45:36,000
Speaker 1: make any sense? Any country would No? The American nun

885
00:45:36,080 --> 00:45:39,200
Speaker 1: does not? Girl? Do your research? Come on, does the

886
00:45:39,680 --> 00:45:42,640
Speaker 1: does any country? Does any country? I'm sure there is

887
00:45:43,239 --> 00:45:50,759
Speaker 1: does any I don't reckon a country? No? Okay, so

888
00:45:51,440 --> 00:45:56,319
Speaker 1: question answered. Apologies that that's where we had to do it.

889
00:45:56,960 --> 00:45:59,640
Speaker 1: We think that you're great, and we think that you're

890
00:45:59,640 --> 00:46:01,960
Speaker 1: going to get through this, but we know that you're

891
00:46:01,960 --> 00:46:06,439
Speaker 1: getting scammed. Yeah, all learning, all learning, love. You need

892
00:46:06,440 --> 00:46:09,360
Speaker 1: to be at one point one on one in person.

893
00:46:09,680 --> 00:46:17,200
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah. And don't send money overseas? Yeah yeah. How

894
00:46:17,239 --> 00:46:18,720
Speaker 1: do you make you do it through a wise account

895
00:46:18,680 --> 00:46:23,000
Speaker 1: of paper like pay id? Yeah? Probably not idea. Sorry,

896
00:46:23,160 --> 00:46:31,160
Speaker 1: excuse your family. Yeah, up next, Jake.

897
00:46:31,239 --> 00:46:34,160
Speaker 4: We can say this now because Stimulated has been terminated.

898
00:46:35,080 --> 00:46:40,320
Speaker 1: Next up on the menu. Hey, this is almost dessert.

899
00:46:40,360 --> 00:46:44,600
Speaker 4: We've switched up the roster. Ladies, what do you think

900
00:46:44,640 --> 00:46:47,520
Speaker 4: his new girl should know? The Patreon is worth it?

901
00:46:49,200 --> 00:46:52,000
Speaker 1: I'm kidding? All right, This is ig Question of the week.

902
00:46:52,080 --> 00:46:55,600
Speaker 1: It's back and I'm coming with some heat.

903
00:46:57,000 --> 00:46:59,239
Speaker 4: It's a little bit harsh, a little bit sad to

904
00:46:59,280 --> 00:47:03,960
Speaker 4: hear but also funny. So I'm gonna kick things off, Ladies,

905
00:47:04,040 --> 00:47:06,600
Speaker 4: What do you think his new girl should know his

906
00:47:06,840 --> 00:47:11,040
Speaker 4: dick sticks and will never taste better no matter how

907
00:47:11,080 --> 00:47:12,320
Speaker 4: hard you change his diet?

908
00:47:14,400 --> 00:47:20,440
Speaker 1: Bro, his dick stick? Bro, what does it smell like?

909
00:47:22,719 --> 00:47:31,160
Speaker 1: I don't. I didn't know that a winner penis could

910
00:47:31,239 --> 00:47:34,000
Speaker 1: smell bad. Did. The only thing I think I knew

911
00:47:34,040 --> 00:47:36,319
Speaker 1: was that guys with a foreskin get some cheese in there.

912
00:47:36,920 --> 00:47:38,480
Speaker 1: Cheese got to discharge.

913
00:47:38,000 --> 00:47:42,000
Speaker 4: Nearly unless you don't clan it for like months and months,

914
00:47:42,040 --> 00:47:42,800
Speaker 4: it doesn't smell.

915
00:47:43,000 --> 00:47:47,120
Speaker 1: I know why you've never smelled a penis? True? Ever

916
00:47:47,200 --> 00:47:51,640
Speaker 1: been closer? Girls do probably know what he've been close.

917
00:47:52,160 --> 00:47:55,920
Speaker 4: This girl's like giving her boyfriend head next day, she's.

918
00:47:55,760 --> 00:47:58,960
Speaker 1: Like, babe, you really need to get on this diet. Yeah,

919
00:47:59,080 --> 00:48:01,560
Speaker 1: like just looking after your Yeah yeah yeah yeah NUMBERKFC.

920
00:48:01,840 --> 00:48:06,480
Speaker 1: Yeah no, Mam McDonald's, you know that he's really stinks.

921
00:48:07,239 --> 00:48:08,120
Speaker 1: I could understand that.

922
00:48:08,360 --> 00:48:10,440
Speaker 4: I was going to say, because come, I can understand

923
00:48:10,480 --> 00:48:12,400
Speaker 4: it tastes funny, but that wouldn't stink.

924
00:48:12,880 --> 00:48:17,080
Speaker 1: But yeah, I think after it's definitely a cleanliness thing. Yeah,

925
00:48:17,080 --> 00:48:19,160
Speaker 1: I don't know how to watch himself, like come after

926
00:48:19,239 --> 00:48:21,359
Speaker 1: a wild smells bad. Yeah, but that's like anything because

927
00:48:21,360 --> 00:48:27,040
Speaker 1: it's like an organic matter going off organic matter. It's

928
00:48:27,120 --> 00:48:33,800
Speaker 1: like fucking compost. I wonder what weird question to ask

929
00:48:34,719 --> 00:48:38,160
Speaker 1: safe space? Yeah, no judgment, these four wars man, no judgment.

930
00:48:38,200 --> 00:48:42,080
Speaker 1: These are our wolves. One. What would human sperm do

931
00:48:42,760 --> 00:48:44,920
Speaker 1: to a plant?

932
00:48:46,600 --> 00:48:48,800
Speaker 4: I don't think anything. Do you burn a hole or

933
00:48:48,800 --> 00:48:50,400
Speaker 4: something that we're thinking, Oh, I just need like it,

934
00:48:50,560 --> 00:48:51,960
Speaker 4: I mean quicker growth.

935
00:48:54,200 --> 00:48:57,399
Speaker 1: Because it's like an organic substance. Yeah, give it a go, man.

936
00:49:01,360 --> 00:49:05,160
Speaker 5: Okay, we've done Like what was the ig question?

937
00:49:06,000 --> 00:49:09,880
Speaker 1: It was like, like not that one thing that like

938
00:49:09,960 --> 00:49:12,400
Speaker 1: girls get the like way harder off than boys. Like

939
00:49:12,440 --> 00:49:15,360
Speaker 1: there's obviously a lot of things, but like them giving

940
00:49:15,400 --> 00:49:17,080
Speaker 1: head slash, they obviously don't have to do it.

941
00:49:17,120 --> 00:49:20,160
Speaker 4: Swallowing come that must be the worst thing. It can't

942
00:49:20,200 --> 00:49:22,440
Speaker 4: be nice, It can't be enjoyable. Like thinking on the

943
00:49:22,440 --> 00:49:25,080
Speaker 4: scheme of like sex, what both parties do? That's really

944
00:49:25,080 --> 00:49:25,359
Speaker 4: the short.

945
00:49:25,440 --> 00:49:32,640
Speaker 1: Yeah I couldn't. I couldn't have that type of viscosity

946
00:49:33,080 --> 00:49:34,360
Speaker 1: in the back of my throat.

947
00:49:34,600 --> 00:49:40,520
Speaker 4: That wordsco viscoffity. Yeah, that's not even my vocabulary viscoffity.

948
00:49:42,600 --> 00:49:49,839
Speaker 1: Nice, try buddy off, Come on a plan, ladies, what

949
00:49:50,120 --> 00:49:54,960
Speaker 1: should his new girl know that thing he does with

950
00:49:55,000 --> 00:50:04,440
Speaker 1: his fingers? You're welcome. Oh somebody stirred up? Ye cooked

951
00:50:04,640 --> 00:50:09,880
Speaker 1: here she's on her apron. You did a service, girl,

952
00:50:10,520 --> 00:50:14,319
Speaker 1: you did a good thing. Yo. Well yeah, that's crazy.

953
00:50:14,400 --> 00:50:15,640
Speaker 1: That's girl to a core.

954
00:50:16,760 --> 00:50:19,359
Speaker 4: All right, I'm going to say this one. I think

955
00:50:19,360 --> 00:50:22,920
Speaker 4: how she would say. I'm trying. Yeah, all right, ladies,

956
00:50:23,000 --> 00:50:26,719
Speaker 4: what do you think his new girl should know he's

957
00:50:26,760 --> 00:50:29,799
Speaker 4: a pathological liar and will crush your sense of self.

958
00:50:32,040 --> 00:50:35,200
Speaker 1: You're trying to say that really fast? What's funny? What

959
00:50:35,239 --> 00:50:36,000
Speaker 1: I said? That? Good?

960
00:50:37,280 --> 00:50:39,680
Speaker 4: He's a pathological liar. I will crush your sense of self?

961
00:50:39,719 --> 00:50:41,680
Speaker 4: That was I said it good the first time. First

962
00:50:42,320 --> 00:50:45,440
Speaker 4: you understood me, understood you put me on the back.

963
00:50:45,480 --> 00:50:46,400
Speaker 4: I speak, oddie.

964
00:50:46,640 --> 00:50:53,359
Speaker 1: That's why you'd hope. So, ladies, what should his new

965
00:50:53,680 --> 00:50:59,560
Speaker 1: girl know that he still sleeps with his axe? Ooh

966
00:51:00,120 --> 00:51:02,719
Speaker 1: ooh the fact that you know that's kind of bad too.

967
00:51:04,760 --> 00:51:09,759
Speaker 1: They're still sleeping together. Oh, and I went straight over

968
00:51:09,840 --> 00:51:12,719
Speaker 1: your head. Why why would she snitch on herself? That's

969
00:51:12,719 --> 00:51:15,960
Speaker 1: why I went over my head. No, you wouldn't say that. Well,

970
00:51:17,280 --> 00:51:19,480
Speaker 1: what it's just what she should know. But it's what

971
00:51:19,560 --> 00:51:24,200
Speaker 1: she isn't going to know. Oh okay, okay, okay, okay, fair, fair, fair.

972
00:51:24,239 --> 00:51:29,320
Speaker 1: That one's too takey for me. Man. Yeah, I'm it's slow. Yeah, okay,

973
00:51:29,480 --> 00:51:31,719
Speaker 1: give you some something to fuel that brainy or.

974
00:51:33,400 --> 00:51:35,839
Speaker 4: What do you think his new girl should know that

975
00:51:35,880 --> 00:51:41,440
Speaker 4: we overlapped? Oh, that's juicy, that's a nightmare.

976
00:51:42,239 --> 00:51:47,719
Speaker 1: That is a nightmare. But couldn't know that? Mmm, you

977
00:51:47,800 --> 00:51:48,480
Speaker 1: have overlapped?

978
00:51:48,880 --> 00:51:48,920
Speaker 2: No?

979
00:51:49,400 --> 00:51:53,160
Speaker 1: Neither, I don't actually know. No, I mean like you

980
00:51:53,239 --> 00:51:57,640
Speaker 1: with you're the one overlapping as in I'm the new one,

981
00:51:58,600 --> 00:52:01,160
Speaker 1: or I'm the old one in or have I ever

982
00:52:01,200 --> 00:52:03,960
Speaker 1: overlapped as in like I have a girlfriend, h not

983
00:52:04,000 --> 00:52:08,080
Speaker 1: a girlfriend as a girl and the new one I

984
00:52:08,080 --> 00:52:09,359
Speaker 1: started seeing before I ended it.

985
00:52:09,280 --> 00:52:15,399
Speaker 4: With your No, I like, my feelings will get hurt

986
00:52:17,960 --> 00:52:19,480
Speaker 4: too much empathy.

987
00:52:20,640 --> 00:52:23,160
Speaker 1: I couldn't have sex knowing I'm still talking to someone else.

988
00:52:23,239 --> 00:52:25,800
Speaker 1: Yeah that No, that would be in my head and

989
00:52:25,800 --> 00:52:30,240
Speaker 1: I wouldn't be able to get hard. I'd feel terrible. Yeah,

990
00:52:30,440 --> 00:52:36,240
Speaker 1: I actually think I might agree with it. Yeah, all right, ladies,

991
00:52:37,120 --> 00:52:42,000
Speaker 1: what should his new girl know? Sign up as a nanny.

992
00:52:42,600 --> 00:52:46,960
Speaker 1: Then at least you'll get paid for babysitter. I think

993
00:52:46,960 --> 00:52:51,000
Speaker 1: he should know that. Well, she should know that. Sorry, Yeah,

994
00:52:51,120 --> 00:52:54,480
Speaker 1: well yeah, some of these girls out here deserves and

995
00:52:54,520 --> 00:52:57,399
Speaker 1: pay for the charity work they're doing. Yeah, far out.

996
00:52:58,360 --> 00:53:00,919
Speaker 4: What do you think his new girl should No, the

997
00:53:00,920 --> 00:53:02,120
Speaker 4: therapy is expensive.

998
00:53:02,960 --> 00:53:03,240
Speaker 2: Wow?

999
00:53:04,280 --> 00:53:06,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a good warning. It is.

1000
00:53:06,680 --> 00:53:06,880
Speaker 3: It is.

1001
00:53:07,480 --> 00:53:10,920
Speaker 1: Therapy is expensive. But you should get ahead, start now, pay.

1002
00:53:10,760 --> 00:53:20,840
Speaker 5: For private healthcare, sign up for private recommend ladies.

1003
00:53:21,120 --> 00:53:27,200
Speaker 1: What should his new girl know that he will never

1004
00:53:27,760 --> 00:53:35,319
Speaker 1: finish last Oh yeah, yeah, she would have figured that

1005
00:53:35,360 --> 00:53:39,120
Speaker 1: out after the first time. Yeah, I think no, not

1006
00:53:39,360 --> 00:53:45,359
Speaker 1: not necessarily. Some guys have some guys, not speaking from

1007
00:53:45,400 --> 00:53:47,840
Speaker 1: experience or anything, some guys get a little excited the

1008
00:53:47,880 --> 00:53:48,319
Speaker 1: first time.

1009
00:53:48,360 --> 00:53:52,560
Speaker 6: It's called pre ejaculation, a little bit of uh, what's

1010
00:53:52,600 --> 00:53:58,759
Speaker 6: it called boobies, a little bit of.

1011
00:54:00,280 --> 00:54:07,720
Speaker 1: On set ejaculeishly on set ejaculich. But you know, maybe

1012
00:54:07,760 --> 00:54:10,560
Speaker 1: you should do your early on set jaculations on a

1013
00:54:10,600 --> 00:54:16,719
Speaker 1: plant and then go down it pounds down experience right now,

1014
00:54:16,920 --> 00:54:20,319
Speaker 1: it'd be whatever, all right?

1015
00:54:21,239 --> 00:54:25,680
Speaker 4: This one if like relatables had a code or like

1016
00:54:26,680 --> 00:54:29,160
Speaker 4: what's the DNA strand called what's that?

1017
00:54:29,320 --> 00:54:31,680
Speaker 1: Like? You know, you know that thing? Code? Yeah, you

1018
00:54:31,719 --> 00:54:33,160
Speaker 1: know how this like goes in and out of each

1019
00:54:33,200 --> 00:54:36,640
Speaker 1: other DNA. Yeah, yeah, yeah, this would be our related DNA.

1020
00:54:36,760 --> 00:54:39,959
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, ladies, what do you think his new girl

1021
00:54:39,960 --> 00:54:43,640
Speaker 4: should know? He's gonna say his girl best friend isn't

1022
00:54:43,640 --> 00:54:46,560
Speaker 4: a problem and neither is liking bikini picks.

1023
00:54:48,160 --> 00:54:52,759
Speaker 1: You can see that DNA strand that is deep within

1024
00:54:52,880 --> 00:54:59,360
Speaker 1: relatable's DNA. Yeah. Always, it's always the issue. It is

1025
00:54:59,400 --> 00:55:02,600
Speaker 1: always the issue. It's always an issue. She's just a friend.

1026
00:55:02,800 --> 00:55:05,880
Speaker 1: To those of you out there that have a significant

1027
00:55:05,920 --> 00:55:13,520
Speaker 1: other with a best friend of the opposite sexual orientation

1028
00:55:14,800 --> 00:55:16,680
Speaker 1: and you're okay with it and it all works out.

1029
00:55:16,840 --> 00:55:21,680
Speaker 1: I salute you, good on you, but I don't believe you.

1030
00:55:21,680 --> 00:55:24,400
Speaker 4: Your best friends to you trip and fall into their vagina.

1031
00:55:24,640 --> 00:55:29,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, boy, yeah, best friends into you and you and

1032
00:55:29,400 --> 00:55:32,880
Speaker 1: him get in a fight and he needs someone's shoulder

1033
00:55:32,920 --> 00:55:36,800
Speaker 1: to cry. It's the perfect heart. That best friend's shoulder

1034
00:55:36,840 --> 00:55:44,560
Speaker 1: is tough, tough. What, ladies, what should his new girl no?

1035
00:55:46,640 --> 00:55:50,520
Speaker 1: And he says with an American addict accent, that he's

1036
00:55:50,520 --> 00:55:53,920
Speaker 1: a cheater with a small wiener, that he's a cheater.

1037
00:55:54,080 --> 00:55:57,240
Speaker 1: How do you do an American accent? He's a cheating

1038
00:55:59,040 --> 00:56:03,239
Speaker 1: because they call him wingers sages. Yeah, snags a bit

1039
00:56:03,280 --> 00:56:07,480
Speaker 1: of a bit of what I was listening to actually

1040
00:56:07,480 --> 00:56:11,040
Speaker 1: the basement today they call him dogs, dogs and feet.

1041
00:56:11,760 --> 00:56:15,040
Speaker 1: See I would say, yeah, my dogs, feet, my dogs,

1042
00:56:15,920 --> 00:56:21,359
Speaker 1: but they say that like sometimes if I said you,

1043
00:56:21,400 --> 00:56:27,880
Speaker 1: what is a hot dog? Would you say that red sausage? Oh? Oh,

1044
00:56:27,880 --> 00:56:30,680
Speaker 1: I would say a hot dog is like the full

1045
00:56:30,760 --> 00:56:34,759
Speaker 1: on the sausage, the bun. That's a hot dog. So

1046
00:56:34,800 --> 00:56:37,640
Speaker 1: you would guys find just like the actual sausages. Okay,

1047
00:56:37,800 --> 00:56:48,239
Speaker 1: don't worry. It's literally three against one. Jake's listening to

1048
00:56:49,040 --> 00:56:52,040
Speaker 1: you guys. You guys are sucking dumb ladies.

1049
00:56:52,080 --> 00:56:54,080
Speaker 4: What do you think his new girl should know that

1050
00:56:54,160 --> 00:56:56,120
Speaker 4: he props thinks it's an open relationship.

1051
00:56:57,480 --> 00:57:01,719
Speaker 1: That's fucking crazy. Hell yeah, that's crazy. There's almost like

1052
00:57:01,760 --> 00:57:04,000
Speaker 1: a fine line of when you should tell someone something.

1053
00:57:04,000 --> 00:57:07,319
Speaker 4: But yeah, I ogaon, like we should bring back the

1054
00:57:07,400 --> 00:57:12,080
Speaker 4: days of like because like when you send a message,

1055
00:57:12,120 --> 00:57:15,520
Speaker 4: there's like digital evidence of your name, but like a

1056
00:57:15,600 --> 00:57:18,560
Speaker 4: letter that could come from anywhere. Drop a letter in

1057
00:57:18,880 --> 00:57:23,600
Speaker 4: saying he thinks it's an open relationship, you're sincerely a

1058
00:57:23,680 --> 00:57:25,200
Speaker 4: baddie form out of there.

1059
00:57:25,320 --> 00:57:28,600
Speaker 1: Or if you're like so, there's a lot of trash

1060
00:57:28,680 --> 00:57:30,800
Speaker 1: dudes out there. Right, they'll go on a night out,

1061
00:57:30,840 --> 00:57:31,920
Speaker 1: they'll take a girl home and they have a one

1062
00:57:32,000 --> 00:57:33,720
Speaker 1: night stand. They'll leave and then the girl finds out

1063
00:57:33,720 --> 00:57:35,760
Speaker 1: that he actually has a girlfriend. Yeah, all right, And

1064
00:57:36,200 --> 00:57:38,680
Speaker 1: we actually get some dilemmas where there is a moral

1065
00:57:38,720 --> 00:57:42,280
Speaker 1: dilemma going on of should I tell his girlfriend? Yeah,

1066
00:57:42,320 --> 00:57:47,280
Speaker 1: And if you're having that moral dilemma, oz, post is

1067
00:57:47,320 --> 00:57:51,520
Speaker 1: the answer. Fucking just anonymously post a letter. It's hard

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00:57:51,560 --> 00:57:56,160
Speaker 1: to get their address, but girls can get that easy. Yeah,

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00:57:56,200 --> 00:58:02,040
Speaker 1: He's easy somewhere, absolutely easy. Or my next solution to

1070
00:58:02,080 --> 00:58:08,480
Speaker 1: that problem would be if it really wouldn't be that

1071
00:58:08,640 --> 00:58:14,680
Speaker 1: hard to you know, spread a little rumor, I like this,

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00:58:14,720 --> 00:58:17,360
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, you know, spread it, spread

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00:58:17,360 --> 00:58:20,200
Speaker 1: a little room, a down the grape vine in her direction.

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00:58:20,360 --> 00:58:23,480
Speaker 1: He's got a small wiener in that no, that he

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00:58:23,600 --> 00:58:29,320
Speaker 1: cheated on. Yeah, it wasn't that big either, So get

1076
00:58:29,360 --> 00:58:31,400
Speaker 1: a little get a little roomor going down the grape vine,

1077
00:58:31,840 --> 00:58:34,320
Speaker 1: you know, with your name attached, not that you started

1078
00:58:34,320 --> 00:58:36,120
Speaker 1: the rumor, but like your name attached to the rumor

1079
00:58:36,160 --> 00:58:38,240
Speaker 1: as if, like as if you're the one that he's cheating.

1080
00:58:39,000 --> 00:58:41,600
Speaker 1: And then what's going to happen is the girlfriend's going

1081
00:58:41,640 --> 00:58:43,640
Speaker 1: to find out and she's actually going to message you,

1082
00:58:44,040 --> 00:58:47,040
Speaker 1: and then you're gonna say, oh girl, I'm so sorry.

1083
00:58:47,120 --> 00:58:49,000
Speaker 1: Actually yes, and I didn't know he had a girlfriend,

1084
00:58:49,000 --> 00:58:50,680
Speaker 1: So you know what I'm saying. Yeah, it's getting a

1085
00:58:50,760 --> 00:58:52,800
Speaker 1: little bit techy, but I don't know way to do it.

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00:58:52,800 --> 00:58:54,840
Speaker 1: I say it, I say it. That's an a little

1087
00:58:54,840 --> 00:59:01,200
Speaker 1: bit techy ladies. What should his new girl no? He

1088
00:59:01,320 --> 00:59:02,480
Speaker 1: lasts five minutes?

1089
00:59:05,080 --> 00:59:07,960
Speaker 4: Congratulations? Yeah, you got yourself a good one.

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00:59:08,320 --> 00:59:10,200
Speaker 1: Yeah. What are you trying to say here? Yeah, you're

1091
00:59:10,200 --> 00:59:12,560
Speaker 1: trying to say you're welcome. Yeah, that's like a high

1092
00:59:12,640 --> 00:59:15,400
Speaker 1: five after sex. Typ shit. Yeah that was good. I

1093
00:59:15,440 --> 00:59:18,000
Speaker 1: mean it sounded like it was coming off as an insult.

1094
00:59:18,040 --> 00:59:20,480
Speaker 1: It's like the grass is always greener five minutes, but

1095
00:59:20,840 --> 00:59:24,760
Speaker 1: come on, like, take what you can get exactly better

1096
00:59:24,760 --> 00:59:28,200
Speaker 1: than twenty three seconds. Yeah, all right, ladies, what do

1097
00:59:28,280 --> 00:59:30,720
Speaker 1: you think his new girl should know he wants a mother,

1098
00:59:30,880 --> 00:59:37,280
Speaker 1: not a partner? Oh my god, bro, that is relatable.

1099
00:59:38,400 --> 00:59:46,360
Speaker 1: I'm sure I wouldn't know, but I'm sure it's very relatable. Wow, agreed, ladies,

1100
00:59:46,360 --> 00:59:49,959
Speaker 1: Wat should his new girl no that I'll be back,

1101
00:59:52,520 --> 01:00:01,040
Speaker 1: I'll be back good insert arnold me.

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01:00:03,960 --> 01:00:07,560
Speaker 4: My last one, Ladies, what do you think his new

1103
01:00:07,560 --> 01:00:11,160
Speaker 4: girl should know? You're not his new girl, just another

1104
01:00:11,280 --> 01:00:11,920
Speaker 4: on his roster.

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01:00:12,920 --> 01:00:16,080
Speaker 1: That's mean. It's the harsh reality of a Jake. I

1106
01:00:16,080 --> 01:00:19,160
Speaker 1: don't live in the you know, ignorance is bliss moment

1107
01:00:19,200 --> 01:00:19,680
Speaker 1: for a while.

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01:00:19,680 --> 01:00:21,680
Speaker 4: It's the harsh reality, though, Jake is We've got to

1109
01:00:21,680 --> 01:00:24,880
Speaker 4: be real. Sometimes it's hard out there. It is with

1110
01:00:24,920 --> 01:00:29,600
Speaker 4: these pathological Mamma's boys, small waned men.

1111
01:00:31,760 --> 01:00:33,880
Speaker 1: That's how you would describe men these days who were single,

1112
01:00:34,240 --> 01:00:38,680
Speaker 1: fair of them. I'm not arguing with that. All right, ladies,

1113
01:00:38,880 --> 01:00:41,440
Speaker 1: what should his new girl know? It's my last one?

1114
01:00:42,120 --> 01:00:46,080
Speaker 1: His balls and his bum hole are harry, fact, Jake,

1115
01:00:46,120 --> 01:00:48,040
Speaker 1: what are these what are these ones? You're picking? You

1116
01:00:48,080 --> 01:00:50,080
Speaker 1: picked that I was, I know, I'm picking this as in,

1117
01:00:50,160 --> 01:00:52,560
Speaker 1: like we need to send a message out there. Yeah,

1118
01:00:52,680 --> 01:00:56,920
Speaker 1: they all are. All men's bum holes and all men's

1119
01:00:56,960 --> 01:01:00,720
Speaker 1: balls acts are harry and like he's a bad blog

1120
01:01:00,760 --> 01:01:02,480
Speaker 1: that he's making you go down there when it's hairy,

1121
01:01:03,520 --> 01:01:05,120
Speaker 1: Like what why are you and his bummer?

1122
01:01:05,200 --> 01:01:07,479
Speaker 4: I don't think my girlfriend ever seen my bumhole wide open.

1123
01:01:08,240 --> 01:01:10,960
Speaker 4: And obviously some men shave their bull sex, but it's

1124
01:01:10,960 --> 01:01:12,560
Speaker 4: a very technical shave.

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01:01:13,160 --> 01:01:14,400
Speaker 1: It's a scary.

1126
01:01:14,520 --> 01:01:17,000
Speaker 4: It's a technical thing. I've cut it once and I'm scarred.

1127
01:01:17,720 --> 01:01:19,520
Speaker 4: He's electric, got to go like the normal.

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01:01:19,720 --> 01:01:24,880
Speaker 1: I actually like you see, I'll use electric. Man, that's scary.

1129
01:01:24,880 --> 01:01:28,919
Speaker 1: That's nopping that ship. I agree, but I hover. Yeah,

1130
01:01:29,120 --> 01:01:31,720
Speaker 1: I don't touch the skin. It's a delicate technical, man,

1131
01:01:31,760 --> 01:01:33,000
Speaker 1: it's a delicate, very technical.

1132
01:01:33,040 --> 01:01:37,080
Speaker 4: I like soft as possible, warm water to soften the

1133
01:01:37,120 --> 01:01:40,720
Speaker 4: skin and slows and I don't do like a full

1134
01:01:40,760 --> 01:01:41,080
Speaker 4: good job.

1135
01:01:41,160 --> 01:01:43,640
Speaker 1: No, no, no no, it's quick yecause it's like one

1136
01:01:43,720 --> 01:01:45,840
Speaker 1: pass over the whole thing. If you miss something, that's

1137
01:01:46,160 --> 01:01:55,479
Speaker 1: that's next most problem. Okay, guys, time to We're gonna

1138
01:01:55,480 --> 01:01:56,720
Speaker 1: read some comments from the last app.

1139
01:01:56,880 --> 01:01:59,520
Speaker 4: Drop some comments below, and we'll get to the next episode.

1140
01:01:59,600 --> 01:02:05,360
Speaker 1: Yeah. First one from me from YouTube toebos eight nine nine.

1141
01:02:06,200 --> 01:02:09,400
Speaker 1: DHD blockers only cause reduced libido in about one to

1142
01:02:09,520 --> 01:02:13,400
Speaker 1: fifty users. I've been on fi N for five years.

1143
01:02:13,480 --> 01:02:16,520
Speaker 1: Best decision I ever made. I don't remember what we

1144
01:02:16,520 --> 01:02:19,160
Speaker 1: talked about. Also, something that DHD blockers came up, which

1145
01:02:19,200 --> 01:02:22,320
Speaker 1: is that in Patreon No no oh, I think it

1146
01:02:22,400 --> 01:02:24,120
Speaker 1: was on one of like that. What would your actually

1147
01:02:24,160 --> 01:02:28,520
Speaker 1: search a stupid Yeah? So basically that means I should

1148
01:02:28,520 --> 01:02:32,520
Speaker 1: take them. Yeah, okay, only one in fifty people experienced lolibido.

1149
01:02:32,720 --> 01:02:37,120
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, thanks, that's your hairline? Yeah, because the DHD

1150
01:02:37,160 --> 01:02:39,280
Speaker 1: blocker d it's a protein that makes you lose your hair.

1151
01:02:39,360 --> 01:02:43,920
Speaker 4: I do remember, Yeah Me at Dough one of my

1152
01:02:44,040 --> 01:02:48,080
Speaker 4: favorite episodes by far. I loved hearing your perspectives on

1153
01:02:48,200 --> 01:02:51,840
Speaker 4: first relationships and reality of Aussies put down culture.

1154
01:02:53,760 --> 01:02:56,520
Speaker 1: Thank you very much. Yeah, Me at Dow We did

1155
01:02:56,520 --> 01:03:02,120
Speaker 1: talk about that, didn't we. Okay, Nicole mc six' five to.

1156
01:03:02,160 --> 01:03:05,000
Speaker 1: FOUR i feel like your feeling of maybe wanting to

1157
01:03:05,000 --> 01:03:07,880
Speaker 1: do something before locking it down is. Relatable my only

1158
01:03:07,920 --> 01:03:09,960
Speaker 1: advice is someone who was thirty, one so a bit

1159
01:03:09,960 --> 01:03:12,640
Speaker 1: older than, YOU i would sit down with yourself and,

1160
01:03:12,760 --> 01:03:14,919
Speaker 1: think is there ANYTHING i really want to do by

1161
01:03:15,000 --> 01:03:18,320
Speaker 1: yourself or with your. Partner that may not mean. Traveling

1162
01:03:18,800 --> 01:03:20,320
Speaker 1: it could be small things that you've always had the

1163
01:03:20,440 --> 01:03:22,640
Speaker 1: urge to. Do one of the small THINGS i did

1164
01:03:22,680 --> 01:03:24,840
Speaker 1: BEFORE i bought my, HOUSE i took A saturday to

1165
01:03:24,880 --> 01:03:26,760
Speaker 1: go swimming in my favorite. Spot THEN i had a

1166
01:03:26,800 --> 01:03:29,120
Speaker 1: picnic at my favorite hiking. PLACE i bought a house

1167
01:03:29,160 --> 01:03:31,480
Speaker 1: a little bit away from those. PLACES i knew that

1168
01:03:31,560 --> 01:03:34,200
Speaker 1: because of, that my relationship with those places would feel.

1169
01:03:34,200 --> 01:03:36,440
Speaker 1: Different and that's. Okay sorry for the long, comment but

1170
01:03:36,560 --> 01:03:39,240
Speaker 1: remember feeling that, way and now looking, Back i'm GLAD

1171
01:03:39,240 --> 01:03:41,800
Speaker 1: i did those little things for. Myself. Wow have you

1172
01:03:41,880 --> 01:03:44,240
Speaker 1: had any relevations about that? Yet as you were reading?

1173
01:03:44,280 --> 01:03:46,160
Speaker 1: IT i THINK i need to go To Airly? Beach,

1174
01:03:46,720 --> 01:03:49,560
Speaker 1: okay there you, go see how you? Feel, YEAH i

1175
01:03:49,600 --> 01:03:52,640
Speaker 1: see HOW i. Feel. Hey gravity, Fitness, yeah gravity. FITNESS

1176
01:03:52,800 --> 01:03:54,040
Speaker 1: i THINK i need to go. THERE i love.

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01:03:54,040 --> 01:03:58,160
Speaker 4: It there the, bushwalks the great Bayer, reed the, gym that,

1178
01:03:58,240 --> 01:03:59,400
Speaker 4: pool the two pools they got?

1179
01:03:59,400 --> 01:04:03,120
Speaker 1: There which takes? Me take me there right?

1180
01:04:03,160 --> 01:04:08,800
Speaker 4: Now my last, One Laura, Saddler, okay no word of a.

1181
01:04:08,880 --> 01:04:12,000
Speaker 4: Lie my ex actually did google how.

1182
01:04:11,840 --> 01:04:17,000
Speaker 1: Young is too? Young? Fuck sorry to hear. That you

1183
01:04:17,040 --> 01:04:20,080
Speaker 1: should was an, Ex so good pass that on to the.

1184
01:04:20,120 --> 01:04:26,000
Speaker 1: Police this. ONE i can't just all, numbers, guys not

1185
01:04:26,040 --> 01:04:29,480
Speaker 1: to burst your. Bubble it's your frontal lobe. Developing oh

1186
01:04:29,560 --> 01:04:31,600
Speaker 1: who said what we must have? Said what's happening to? Us?

1187
01:04:31,680 --> 01:04:35,000
Speaker 4: WELL i think it was maybe in relation to me

1188
01:04:35,120 --> 01:04:37,040
Speaker 4: settling down or probably Us.

1189
01:04:37,080 --> 01:04:37,960
Speaker 1: NO i know what it.

1190
01:04:38,000 --> 01:04:39,960
Speaker 4: Was it was us the put down, culture how we

1191
01:04:40,040 --> 01:04:41,080
Speaker 4: used to do. It to our friends and.

1192
01:04:41,840 --> 01:04:44,480
Speaker 1: Yeah and we're like realizing it. Now, yeah definitely that,

1193
01:04:45,040 --> 01:04:47,800
Speaker 1: alrighty but it is time for the Bad is to sign.

1194
01:04:47,880 --> 01:04:50,080
Speaker 1: Off if you want to get a phone call from,

1195
01:04:50,200 --> 01:04:53,480
Speaker 1: us it is also linked in the. Description today we

1196
01:04:53,560 --> 01:04:54,200
Speaker 1: are Calling.

1197
01:04:54,840 --> 01:05:01,080
Speaker 2: Emily your call has been forward into. Smail the person

1198
01:05:01,120 --> 01:05:03,560
Speaker 2: you're trying to reach is not available at the. Time

1199
01:05:03,720 --> 01:05:06,800
Speaker 2: please record your. Message when you have finished, recording you

1200
01:05:06,880 --> 01:05:07,520
Speaker 2: may hang Up.

1201
01:05:08,000 --> 01:05:13,680
Speaker 1: Emily, please It's Jacob noddy from the. Relatables please, wait

1202
01:05:13,720 --> 01:05:20,400
Speaker 1: you talk about your. Electricity you get those. Calls, Gosh

1203
01:05:20,560 --> 01:05:22,200
Speaker 1: emily is gonna have to. Work oh we didn't ask

1204
01:05:22,200 --> 01:05:24,200
Speaker 1: her to pick up next. Week that's that's our next

1205
01:05:24,240 --> 01:05:35,480
Speaker 1: mission is to Get. Emily, yes stay Bad. Bye