1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:03,160 Speaker 1: This is the Fits In and Whip with Kate Richie podcast. 2 00:00:03,680 --> 00:00:07,160 Speaker 2: Parenting has changed, Mate, it's changed over the years. And look, 3 00:00:07,200 --> 00:00:09,520 Speaker 2: I don't mind it now because it's all about being 4 00:00:09,560 --> 00:00:13,320 Speaker 2: positive and I understand that it's all about complimenting your children. 5 00:00:13,400 --> 00:00:17,360 Speaker 2: And you know, coaching is exactly the same, and you 6 00:00:17,400 --> 00:00:19,880 Speaker 2: know back in the old days it was completely different. 7 00:00:20,000 --> 00:00:23,800 Speaker 2: So for an example, at the moment, and I've been 8 00:00:23,920 --> 00:00:26,800 Speaker 2: really enjoying this, but I watched Huey play football and 9 00:00:26,840 --> 00:00:29,280 Speaker 2: I take so he said, can you take my stats? 10 00:00:29,280 --> 00:00:31,720 Speaker 2: I'd like to know what my stats are in the game, Kate. 11 00:00:31,800 --> 00:00:32,400 Speaker 3: So what I do? 12 00:00:32,479 --> 00:00:36,040 Speaker 2: I take his stats and then I'll write a little 13 00:00:36,080 --> 00:00:38,479 Speaker 2: review of the game. And it's all compliments what he 14 00:00:38,520 --> 00:00:41,239 Speaker 2: did right, and you know, all the good stuff that 15 00:00:41,280 --> 00:00:42,080 Speaker 2: he's done in there. 16 00:00:42,240 --> 00:00:43,959 Speaker 1: So you write that down and then you yell out 17 00:00:43,960 --> 00:00:45,320 Speaker 1: the bad stuff during the game. 18 00:00:45,560 --> 00:00:49,120 Speaker 2: You do that my game, Yes, absolutely slay the umpires 19 00:00:49,159 --> 00:00:52,200 Speaker 2: and then I get stuck into the coach for playing 20 00:00:52,280 --> 00:00:53,040 Speaker 2: him in that position. 21 00:00:53,159 --> 00:00:55,480 Speaker 3: No, but it's all about compliments these days. 22 00:00:55,520 --> 00:00:58,440 Speaker 2: And you know, you don't want to wrap them in 23 00:00:58,440 --> 00:01:01,400 Speaker 2: too much cotton wall, because you know, every kid or 24 00:01:01,440 --> 00:01:04,120 Speaker 2: fail us at a certain stage. But I remember back 25 00:01:04,160 --> 00:01:07,880 Speaker 2: in my old man God, just my ear would be 26 00:01:08,000 --> 00:01:09,760 Speaker 2: chewed off in the car on the way home from 27 00:01:09,800 --> 00:01:12,840 Speaker 2: a footy game. So I feel like you're complimenting your 28 00:01:12,920 --> 00:01:15,040 Speaker 2: children all the time now, which is a great thing. 29 00:01:16,480 --> 00:01:18,360 Speaker 3: I just want it reciprocated. 30 00:01:18,600 --> 00:01:21,520 Speaker 2: You don't get it, say, I haven't told you this, 31 00:01:21,640 --> 00:01:23,880 Speaker 2: But the other night I was lucky enough to be 32 00:01:23,959 --> 00:01:28,920 Speaker 2: inducted into the Australian Little Athletics Hall of Fame at 33 00:01:28,959 --> 00:01:33,160 Speaker 2: the age of forty five forty seven four. What did 34 00:01:33,240 --> 00:01:37,559 Speaker 2: you do? Just you know, from when I did Little 35 00:01:37,600 --> 00:01:39,840 Speaker 2: Athletics up until under twelve's code. 36 00:01:40,000 --> 00:01:40,880 Speaker 3: I don't know if you know. 37 00:01:40,920 --> 00:01:44,400 Speaker 2: This, but there's still a couple of records floating around 38 00:01:44,440 --> 00:01:47,680 Speaker 2: that no child has got near. And if they do, 39 00:01:47,840 --> 00:01:50,840 Speaker 2: I will be down to the athletics track and I 40 00:01:50,880 --> 00:01:53,880 Speaker 2: will be giving them a corky because I'm very proud 41 00:01:53,960 --> 00:01:55,880 Speaker 2: of my high jump and my long jump records that 42 00:01:55,960 --> 00:01:59,080 Speaker 2: I still have. And you know the commitment that we 43 00:01:59,120 --> 00:02:01,640 Speaker 2: made to Little Athletic when we were younger as a family, 44 00:02:01,720 --> 00:02:05,320 Speaker 2: and I got up and they interviewed me and it 45 00:02:05,400 --> 00:02:07,600 Speaker 2: was it was a really big occasion for me because 46 00:02:07,600 --> 00:02:09,880 Speaker 2: I said it was huge for our family because I 47 00:02:09,880 --> 00:02:12,280 Speaker 2: do remember Mum and Dad used to take me down 48 00:02:12,320 --> 00:02:14,600 Speaker 2: to the Green and White the nor Longer Little athletics, 49 00:02:14,639 --> 00:02:18,639 Speaker 2: and then afterwards we would go back to someone's house 50 00:02:18,639 --> 00:02:21,040 Speaker 2: and mom and Dad would get completely blind and have 51 00:02:21,080 --> 00:02:21,760 Speaker 2: a few drinks. 52 00:02:21,760 --> 00:02:23,959 Speaker 3: And every Saturday, that was our routine. 53 00:02:24,639 --> 00:02:25,399 Speaker 1: And to walk home. 54 00:02:25,560 --> 00:02:27,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I had to walk home or sleep under 55 00:02:27,760 --> 00:02:29,320 Speaker 2: someone's kitchen table. 56 00:02:29,360 --> 00:02:34,040 Speaker 3: Okay, oh, so good old days. So Kate, I bestowed 57 00:02:34,040 --> 00:02:34,840 Speaker 3: this huge honor. 58 00:02:34,960 --> 00:02:37,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, this and this is wonderful. And I feel a 59 00:02:37,200 --> 00:02:39,200 Speaker 4: little sad that you didn't bring it to the table 60 00:02:39,240 --> 00:02:41,240 Speaker 4: so we could celebrate it for you, because I know 61 00:02:41,800 --> 00:02:45,079 Speaker 4: something like this, What do you mean, just a few 62 00:02:45,120 --> 00:02:48,600 Speaker 4: words of support, maybe a little plark for the office, 63 00:02:48,639 --> 00:02:50,399 Speaker 4: like this stuff is important too. 64 00:02:50,560 --> 00:02:52,520 Speaker 1: We tried to plant someone to break the record on 65 00:02:52,560 --> 00:02:53,359 Speaker 1: the show not long ago. 66 00:02:53,360 --> 00:02:56,399 Speaker 5: Okay, we couldn't find anyone under nine years that could 67 00:02:56,440 --> 00:02:57,320 Speaker 5: jump as far as HITZI. 68 00:02:57,400 --> 00:02:59,000 Speaker 1: We thought it's time to smash it. They couldn't. 69 00:02:59,760 --> 00:03:02,000 Speaker 2: Was this is the thing, you know, like, I don't 70 00:03:02,040 --> 00:03:05,040 Speaker 2: need I don't need satisfaction from you guys. 71 00:03:05,080 --> 00:03:06,400 Speaker 3: I need it from my family. 72 00:03:06,680 --> 00:03:09,160 Speaker 2: And you know what, that's when I decided to take 73 00:03:09,200 --> 00:03:11,040 Speaker 2: my two boys along to the. 74 00:03:10,960 --> 00:03:13,080 Speaker 3: Australian Little Athletics Hall of Fame. 75 00:03:13,240 --> 00:03:14,000 Speaker 1: I would have loved it. 76 00:03:15,400 --> 00:03:19,320 Speaker 2: They didn't give us stuff and I got quite emotional 77 00:03:19,320 --> 00:03:19,840 Speaker 2: about this. 78 00:03:20,040 --> 00:03:22,320 Speaker 3: Where you know, we rocked up at six thirty. I 79 00:03:22,400 --> 00:03:24,200 Speaker 3: was early Kate. I even dressed up. 80 00:03:24,480 --> 00:03:28,160 Speaker 2: You put on a little suit, suit on a shirt 81 00:03:28,200 --> 00:03:30,920 Speaker 2: and you know, for me that's quite large. It's going 82 00:03:30,960 --> 00:03:32,519 Speaker 2: to be a pretty big event for me to put 83 00:03:32,560 --> 00:03:34,600 Speaker 2: on a bag of thro itat that's royal. So I'm 84 00:03:34,600 --> 00:03:36,560 Speaker 2: going to show you some videos of here of my 85 00:03:36,880 --> 00:03:40,760 Speaker 2: two boys while we're at this official event, the Australian 86 00:03:40,920 --> 00:03:45,440 Speaker 2: Little Athletics Hall of Fame. So the first one is 87 00:03:46,720 --> 00:03:49,960 Speaker 2: it's just the boys as we're having a few drinks 88 00:03:50,040 --> 00:03:51,200 Speaker 2: and we see people there. 89 00:03:51,280 --> 00:03:54,000 Speaker 3: The boys are sliding down the. 90 00:03:53,880 --> 00:03:57,920 Speaker 2: Stairwell while people are coming up the stairs. 91 00:03:58,040 --> 00:04:00,320 Speaker 1: Sure, that looks like a good slide though down there. 92 00:04:00,040 --> 00:04:02,520 Speaker 2: So I've had to yell at them there right, this 93 00:04:02,640 --> 00:04:05,200 Speaker 2: is okay. So we're waiting. We had to wait forty 94 00:04:05,200 --> 00:04:08,880 Speaker 2: five minutes before proceedings kicked off. The next next video, 95 00:04:09,680 --> 00:04:13,040 Speaker 2: this is Huey's body language here he's given up while 96 00:04:13,040 --> 00:04:16,839 Speaker 2: everyone's looking at him. Cap He's got his head in 97 00:04:16,920 --> 00:04:19,719 Speaker 2: his hands going this is so boring. 98 00:04:20,040 --> 00:04:21,800 Speaker 1: I also like that you've gone the suit and they've 99 00:04:21,800 --> 00:04:22,599 Speaker 1: gone the flannels. 100 00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:25,960 Speaker 2: They've gone the flannel shirts or that. Let me tell 101 00:04:25,960 --> 00:04:27,320 Speaker 2: you this, that's dressed. 102 00:04:27,080 --> 00:04:28,520 Speaker 1: Up for my boys, right okay? 103 00:04:28,920 --> 00:04:31,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, And then I took my mum and dad along 104 00:04:31,240 --> 00:04:33,240 Speaker 2: as well. And this was the one photo that we 105 00:04:33,279 --> 00:04:34,280 Speaker 2: got from the night cap. 106 00:04:34,440 --> 00:04:38,400 Speaker 3: Oh, no, the d Will you look happy? 107 00:04:38,279 --> 00:04:38,960 Speaker 1: I was drunk. 108 00:04:39,440 --> 00:04:43,239 Speaker 4: No, she looks lovely and Dad looks lovely. 109 00:04:43,320 --> 00:04:43,520 Speaker 2: Dad. 110 00:04:43,560 --> 00:04:47,040 Speaker 4: But the boys are completely disinterested and fingers in their eyes? 111 00:04:47,520 --> 00:04:48,960 Speaker 4: Did you give them a can of coke? 112 00:04:49,360 --> 00:04:52,039 Speaker 3: Like a half hour before? It was on a Friday night. 113 00:04:52,160 --> 00:04:55,400 Speaker 2: Huey spat the dummy because I promised him that he 114 00:04:55,440 --> 00:04:57,200 Speaker 2: was going to have pasted her before his footy game 115 00:04:57,240 --> 00:04:57,760 Speaker 2: on Saturday. 116 00:04:57,880 --> 00:05:00,760 Speaker 3: We didn't get past. Oh we got was little sausage rolls. 117 00:05:00,520 --> 00:05:03,360 Speaker 1: And Lenny's rubbing his eyes. He's had a gutful Lenny. 118 00:05:03,520 --> 00:05:06,200 Speaker 2: Lenny's got this problem that when he's bored, he cannot 119 00:05:06,240 --> 00:05:10,159 Speaker 2: sit still. I grabbed his leg, I said, mate, you 120 00:05:10,240 --> 00:05:14,080 Speaker 2: have to stay still, and he couldn't physically stay still. 121 00:05:14,200 --> 00:05:16,400 Speaker 5: Yeah, and look how proud you are with a big smile, 122 00:05:16,520 --> 00:05:19,000 Speaker 5: just hoping someone cares. And as we look around the 123 00:05:19,080 --> 00:05:21,400 Speaker 5: room and down the line, and the photo turns out 124 00:05:21,440 --> 00:05:23,960 Speaker 5: no one does, mate, but you're smiling. Even the guy 125 00:05:24,000 --> 00:05:26,839 Speaker 5: in the background whose photo bombed, he doesn't care. 126 00:05:26,920 --> 00:05:28,080 Speaker 4: He's sparling. 127 00:05:28,839 --> 00:05:33,440 Speaker 2: He's looking up to day when I got awarded it 128 00:05:33,480 --> 00:05:35,880 Speaker 2: as well. It was it was nine o'clock and the 129 00:05:35,920 --> 00:05:36,640 Speaker 2: boys had footy. 130 00:05:36,680 --> 00:05:38,839 Speaker 3: The next day. I to go up with the president 131 00:05:38,880 --> 00:05:39,679 Speaker 3: and just go, mate. 132 00:05:40,480 --> 00:05:43,080 Speaker 2: I know there's some great recipients that are coming up, 133 00:05:43,080 --> 00:05:44,559 Speaker 2: but we've got to get going. 134 00:05:45,160 --> 00:05:46,799 Speaker 3: Sorry, we didn't even stick around. 135 00:05:46,880 --> 00:05:48,920 Speaker 5: You're kind of telling him that you didn't care as well, 136 00:05:48,960 --> 00:05:50,960 Speaker 5: and he thought someone cared, which was you, And now 137 00:05:51,000 --> 00:05:51,560 Speaker 5: you've told him. 138 00:05:52,560 --> 00:05:56,360 Speaker 3: Thank you very much. And for anyone I love athletics. 139 00:05:56,839 --> 00:05:59,200 Speaker 2: It is a great way for your child to start 140 00:05:59,240 --> 00:06:02,640 Speaker 2: their sporting on a Saturday. And like you said, like 141 00:06:02,760 --> 00:06:04,520 Speaker 2: I said, your mom and dad can go back to 142 00:06:04,560 --> 00:06:05,800 Speaker 2: somebody's house and get blinde. 143 00:06:05,920 --> 00:06:06,520 Speaker 5: That's great. 144 00:06:06,600 --> 00:06:09,520 Speaker 1: It's a great Saturday. Sits in Whipper with Kate Ritchie 145 00:06:09,760 --> 00:06:12,320 Speaker 1: is a Nova podcast to walk great shows like this. 146 00:06:12,640 --> 00:06:16,080 Speaker 1: Download the Nova Player via the App Store or Google Play. 147 00:06:16,120 --> 00:06:17,200 Speaker 4: In the Nova Player