1 00:00:01,240 --> 00:00:03,400 Speaker 1: Thanks for listening to the show. This is better than yesterday. 2 00:00:03,480 --> 00:00:06,760 Speaker 1: I'm watching Ginsburg. It's Monday. It's a Q and A episode, 3 00:00:06,920 --> 00:00:12,480 Speaker 1: and today your questions will be asked by me. That's 4 00:00:12,480 --> 00:00:16,959 Speaker 1: the sound of a special guest person. Any clues guests 5 00:00:17,040 --> 00:00:17,960 Speaker 1: person as to who you. 6 00:00:17,920 --> 00:00:22,800 Speaker 2: Are, just the only person available in the house that can. 7 00:00:22,720 --> 00:00:28,319 Speaker 1: Read this pretty goodities there, We're going to play some 8 00:00:28,360 --> 00:00:30,840 Speaker 1: ads back in a second with your answers. Well, my 9 00:00:30,960 --> 00:00:40,240 Speaker 1: answer is our answers to your questions back in a second. Sure, Okay, 10 00:00:40,360 --> 00:00:42,000 Speaker 1: welcome to the show. This is better than yesterday, making 11 00:00:42,000 --> 00:00:44,600 Speaker 1: it better every episode since two thousand and thirteen. My 12 00:00:44,680 --> 00:00:48,240 Speaker 1: name is Josha Ginsburg. I am a podcaster. I'm a dad, 13 00:00:48,440 --> 00:00:52,000 Speaker 1: I'm a husband, I'm a step dad. I'm a bicycle 14 00:00:52,400 --> 00:01:00,400 Speaker 1: lane rider in a I'm a office messer up, and 15 00:01:02,040 --> 00:01:04,920 Speaker 1: I'm grateful that you'll hear. Monday is when I'm answering 16 00:01:05,000 --> 00:01:08,040 Speaker 1: questions from you. Your questions come in through the newsletter, 17 00:01:08,080 --> 00:01:09,800 Speaker 1: which you can find in the show notes. They can 18 00:01:09,840 --> 00:01:14,360 Speaker 1: also coming through Instagram, and today your questions will be 19 00:01:14,440 --> 00:01:19,200 Speaker 1: asked and possibly answered in tandem by my wonderful, delightful, 20 00:01:19,400 --> 00:01:23,800 Speaker 1: beautiful wife are honey, you've been pottering today. 21 00:01:24,280 --> 00:01:26,080 Speaker 2: I've had the most wonderful day pottering. 22 00:01:26,440 --> 00:01:29,160 Speaker 1: You've been flat. Chat's something that mistake you even work, 23 00:01:29,200 --> 00:01:32,920 Speaker 1: it's super hard in like multiple television networks putting together 24 00:01:32,959 --> 00:01:34,080 Speaker 1: a fifth birthday party. 25 00:01:34,600 --> 00:01:39,319 Speaker 2: Oh that was enormous. I think weddings are easy at all. 26 00:01:40,720 --> 00:01:45,360 Speaker 1: Today. You know you didn't have any geeks booked. One 27 00:01:45,360 --> 00:01:48,240 Speaker 1: of the kids that looks after Wolfgang took them out 28 00:01:48,240 --> 00:01:51,360 Speaker 1: of their house and to some stuff with them. And 29 00:01:51,760 --> 00:01:52,320 Speaker 1: what did you do? 30 00:01:53,080 --> 00:01:56,760 Speaker 2: I finally put plants in then that needed to go 31 00:01:56,880 --> 00:02:01,960 Speaker 2: in there before they died, so I can buy more plants. 32 00:02:01,320 --> 00:02:07,720 Speaker 3: But so, yeah, it's been someone's I've been wanting to 33 00:02:07,720 --> 00:02:11,560 Speaker 3: do so and haven't had the opportunity because groceries and 34 00:02:11,600 --> 00:02:14,480 Speaker 3: stopped me buying, and work needs to happen. 35 00:02:14,560 --> 00:02:19,320 Speaker 1: And television presenter people need great hair. The need their 36 00:02:19,360 --> 00:02:20,440 Speaker 1: logis looks. 37 00:02:20,720 --> 00:02:25,840 Speaker 2: Yes, yes, all of these important things. Yea, food and hair. 38 00:02:26,520 --> 00:02:26,760 Speaker 1: Yeah. 39 00:02:26,880 --> 00:02:29,519 Speaker 2: People ask questions, right, well, would you like me to 40 00:02:29,560 --> 00:02:30,040 Speaker 2: read the first? 41 00:02:30,080 --> 00:02:31,720 Speaker 1: Well, I think we should wear what's the first question? 42 00:02:31,760 --> 00:02:32,000 Speaker 1: Who is? 43 00:02:32,040 --> 00:02:37,160 Speaker 2: It's married by Luke and he has asked what other 44 00:02:37,240 --> 00:02:39,480 Speaker 2: things in your life that teach you how to love 45 00:02:40,120 --> 00:02:41,760 Speaker 2: and be open to receiving love. 46 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:44,880 Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, good that that's just solid opening of 47 00:02:44,919 --> 00:02:50,120 Speaker 1: the batting mayor yes, I truly don't think that. I 48 00:02:50,120 --> 00:02:54,040 Speaker 1: I mean, I knew what it was to be infatuated. 49 00:02:54,200 --> 00:02:57,120 Speaker 1: I knew what it was to be and aspect of 50 00:02:57,160 --> 00:02:59,160 Speaker 1: what it was to be in life before I met you. 51 00:03:00,120 --> 00:03:04,080 Speaker 1: But when I met you, I also met Georgia, and 52 00:03:04,480 --> 00:03:08,320 Speaker 1: I was also sober, and I never met anybody in 53 00:03:08,360 --> 00:03:13,760 Speaker 1: that conditional set of conditions. And the way I fell 54 00:03:13,800 --> 00:03:18,000 Speaker 1: in love with you is different to anything I've ever had. 55 00:03:18,480 --> 00:03:21,240 Speaker 1: So how they came to be the things that I 56 00:03:21,280 --> 00:03:25,240 Speaker 1: needed with was I kind of needed to know my 57 00:03:25,280 --> 00:03:28,440 Speaker 1: own worth a bit, which came from getting sober, or 58 00:03:28,440 --> 00:03:31,200 Speaker 1: at least coming to understand it and still daily practiced. 59 00:03:32,120 --> 00:03:35,960 Speaker 1: I know what, I know what value I had, because 60 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:39,320 Speaker 1: that then meant I wasn't asking for that value too 61 00:03:39,400 --> 00:03:42,200 Speaker 1: much from somebody else. You may disagree with this. What 62 00:03:42,200 --> 00:03:45,720 Speaker 1: do you mean that I can't get by without your reassurance? 63 00:03:46,240 --> 00:03:48,600 Speaker 2: I don't think that's the case. I don't think you 64 00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:49,360 Speaker 2: can't get by. 65 00:03:49,840 --> 00:03:51,160 Speaker 1: But there was a time in my life when I 66 00:03:51,160 --> 00:03:54,240 Speaker 1: had relationships where it was I had handed the keys 67 00:03:54,240 --> 00:03:58,640 Speaker 1: of that over to another person. I haven't known about it. 68 00:03:58,640 --> 00:04:00,960 Speaker 2: Right, Well, I don't. I don't think that's the case 69 00:04:01,000 --> 00:04:01,200 Speaker 2: with you. 70 00:04:01,240 --> 00:04:04,800 Speaker 1: And also there's a big factory of this look is 71 00:04:04,800 --> 00:04:10,200 Speaker 1: that I also needed you ordering to kind of go wait, 72 00:04:10,960 --> 00:04:14,440 Speaker 1: m hm, to the fuck down, Let this happen. It's okay, 73 00:04:14,560 --> 00:04:15,280 Speaker 1: it'll be all right. 74 00:04:15,400 --> 00:04:18,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, but we talk turns doing that. This is like, 75 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:20,680 Speaker 2: you know, when one does. 76 00:04:20,520 --> 00:04:21,520 Speaker 1: Use the post tense. 77 00:04:22,760 --> 00:04:28,599 Speaker 2: We talked to, we take to I'm just talking about 78 00:04:28,640 --> 00:04:33,280 Speaker 2: in the past when we first Oh yeah, yeah, for sure, 79 00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:38,920 Speaker 2: we don't take as many turns anymore. No, no, two, 80 00:04:38,960 --> 00:04:41,800 Speaker 2: we Why you giving me that look? That's not I'm 81 00:04:41,800 --> 00:04:45,200 Speaker 2: just something that's my thinking look. Oh right, okay, so 82 00:04:45,279 --> 00:04:50,880 Speaker 2: my thinking face. Okay, yeah, yeah. And So to answer 83 00:04:50,960 --> 00:04:56,680 Speaker 2: Luke's question, what has helped you be open to receiving love? 84 00:04:57,360 --> 00:04:59,400 Speaker 2: I mean, apart from me sitting you down and saying 85 00:04:59,440 --> 00:05:01,240 Speaker 2: what that the. 86 00:05:01,240 --> 00:05:04,080 Speaker 1: Idea that I might not have the best ideas and 87 00:05:04,080 --> 00:05:06,200 Speaker 1: that I might need to listen to someone else, and 88 00:05:07,160 --> 00:05:10,480 Speaker 1: also listening to people like my sponsor and my doctors 89 00:05:10,520 --> 00:05:12,800 Speaker 1: and stuff. You're like, well, she sounds pretty good. She 90 00:05:13,080 --> 00:05:16,240 Speaker 1: doesn't sound like she's trying to nepulate you. You should probably 91 00:05:16,320 --> 00:05:19,159 Speaker 1: just sit down and like accept the nice stuff that's 92 00:05:19,200 --> 00:05:19,760 Speaker 1: coming your way. 93 00:05:20,160 --> 00:05:22,520 Speaker 2: Try it, See what happens, and how did it make 94 00:05:22,560 --> 00:05:23,000 Speaker 2: you feel? 95 00:05:23,360 --> 00:05:26,080 Speaker 1: The first Oh my god, I could barely do it. 96 00:05:26,560 --> 00:05:28,560 Speaker 2: Had to sit in the worst. 97 00:05:28,760 --> 00:05:34,279 Speaker 1: It's terrible, it's awful and never Yeah, it's odd to 98 00:05:34,360 --> 00:05:36,760 Speaker 1: have something so wonderful feel so uncomfortable. 99 00:05:37,160 --> 00:05:40,279 Speaker 2: Well, safety can make ye. 100 00:05:40,839 --> 00:05:43,760 Speaker 1: Try to let you near me. Then it might be her. 101 00:05:43,920 --> 00:05:44,839 Speaker 2: Yes, can't get. 102 00:05:44,720 --> 00:05:48,880 Speaker 1: Her classics all by yourself. It's a hotel California. The 103 00:05:48,920 --> 00:05:50,440 Speaker 1: case relationships. 104 00:05:51,520 --> 00:05:54,920 Speaker 2: Okay, if you write I'm trying to sing the lyrics 105 00:05:54,960 --> 00:05:57,000 Speaker 2: in my head. But okay, I'll just take you classics. 106 00:05:57,200 --> 00:05:59,320 Speaker 1: That's okay. Well what about it? What about you? Like 107 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:02,760 Speaker 1: things that teach you how to love? 108 00:06:05,000 --> 00:06:07,120 Speaker 2: That's a hard one. I mean, I don't know if 109 00:06:07,200 --> 00:06:10,320 Speaker 2: Luke really wants to know my perspective on it, but 110 00:06:10,560 --> 00:06:10,800 Speaker 2: I do. 111 00:06:11,400 --> 00:06:15,600 Speaker 1: Okay, it's my show. I think, excuse you, no rude, 112 00:06:15,640 --> 00:06:18,360 Speaker 1: and he's awesome. Yes, but also at this point I'm 113 00:06:18,360 --> 00:06:21,040 Speaker 1: interested in he's had his answer, and I'd love my answer. Please. 114 00:06:21,120 --> 00:06:24,599 Speaker 2: Oh okay, Well, my apologies to look for my husband's rude, 115 00:06:24,920 --> 00:06:28,400 Speaker 2: froude rued road woods. Well, you also taught me to 116 00:06:29,320 --> 00:06:32,760 Speaker 2: like I've always loved. I think I feel like I'm 117 00:06:32,760 --> 00:06:36,719 Speaker 2: a pretty loving person, but to receive love is a 118 00:06:36,839 --> 00:06:41,760 Speaker 2: very different thing, and to sit in that can be 119 00:06:41,839 --> 00:06:46,440 Speaker 2: quite scary and well, actually it's terrifying, especially if it's 120 00:06:46,640 --> 00:06:50,480 Speaker 2: because I feel like it's easier to give it than 121 00:06:50,520 --> 00:06:55,880 Speaker 2: it is to receive, and even from you know, your parents, 122 00:06:55,960 --> 00:07:01,920 Speaker 2: your kids, your friends, and I feel like I did 123 00:07:02,000 --> 00:07:05,120 Speaker 2: do a lot of work once you and I got together, 124 00:07:05,400 --> 00:07:11,200 Speaker 2: and I could tell that all this is I'm trying 125 00:07:11,200 --> 00:07:13,080 Speaker 2: to run away here? What do you keep? 126 00:07:13,120 --> 00:07:14,320 Speaker 1: What do you keep? Trying to break up with me? 127 00:07:15,280 --> 00:07:16,960 Speaker 1: Were asking you, the Christians what do you keep? 128 00:07:17,280 --> 00:07:19,120 Speaker 2: Like it's been thirteen times in the last few weeks, 129 00:07:19,200 --> 00:07:19,920 Speaker 2: like what's going on? 130 00:07:20,040 --> 00:07:20,200 Speaker 1: Yeah? 131 00:07:20,280 --> 00:07:23,840 Speaker 2: Well, because I was scared anyway, So you sat me 132 00:07:23,920 --> 00:07:26,320 Speaker 2: down and said I think you need to go and 133 00:07:26,320 --> 00:07:28,440 Speaker 2: sort this out and figure out why you're doing that, 134 00:07:28,760 --> 00:07:31,560 Speaker 2: and I'm like, yes, yes, you're right, and off I went, 135 00:07:32,160 --> 00:07:36,320 Speaker 2: and many many therapy sessions later, it got a bit 136 00:07:36,400 --> 00:07:42,120 Speaker 2: easier to accept and see what you really giving me. 137 00:07:42,480 --> 00:07:45,840 Speaker 1: So yeah, and I could easily say the same in 138 00:07:45,920 --> 00:07:51,160 Speaker 1: the other way, but I needed to pay for the 139 00:07:51,240 --> 00:07:53,720 Speaker 1: beautiful and expensive ski holidays of the children and my 140 00:07:53,800 --> 00:08:00,240 Speaker 1: therapists for a while. Kind of well, let those But 141 00:08:00,320 --> 00:08:02,680 Speaker 1: you know, if you haven't seen it, you don't know 142 00:08:03,040 --> 00:08:06,040 Speaker 1: how to do it. And what you don't choose. The 143 00:08:06,080 --> 00:08:09,360 Speaker 1: relationships that we model, what relationships look like off with 144 00:08:09,440 --> 00:08:11,720 Speaker 1: my kids, that's just what we see around us, you know, 145 00:08:12,240 --> 00:08:13,880 Speaker 1: and what you know, we might see all of it. 146 00:08:13,920 --> 00:08:16,520 Speaker 1: That's the other thing. We might of it to get 147 00:08:16,520 --> 00:08:20,240 Speaker 1: a bit of it. But there's a wrong answer, really 148 00:08:20,320 --> 00:08:21,800 Speaker 1: long second a break. 149 00:08:21,560 --> 00:08:24,200 Speaker 2: Now, Yeah, I think that's a good idea. 150 00:08:24,440 --> 00:08:29,680 Speaker 1: There's an interesting one about Donald Duck and his trousers choices, okay, 151 00:08:29,840 --> 00:08:33,360 Speaker 1: and something about farm animals from banchor. We'll try to 152 00:08:33,360 --> 00:08:35,400 Speaker 1: get to both those on the other side of this. Okay, 153 00:08:35,480 --> 00:08:42,319 Speaker 1: be right back. Thanks for listening the show. It's Monday. 154 00:08:42,400 --> 00:08:46,640 Speaker 1: It's the QA episode on a Monday with my wife 155 00:08:46,640 --> 00:08:49,480 Speaker 1: and Rodrick Griffin. We just spent a long time answering 156 00:08:49,520 --> 00:08:51,240 Speaker 1: the first question about love. Maybe this won will be 157 00:08:51,280 --> 00:08:51,960 Speaker 1: a bit better. 158 00:08:52,000 --> 00:08:56,280 Speaker 2: All right, let's keep it snappy. Okay. This is from 159 00:08:56,360 --> 00:08:59,520 Speaker 2: Queen the anchor. My son is wondering, would you rather 160 00:08:59,559 --> 00:09:04,439 Speaker 2: be or a sheep? What's the thin brackets make the sound 161 00:09:04,440 --> 00:09:12,200 Speaker 2: of the animal as the answer, yes, even though they 162 00:09:12,240 --> 00:09:14,000 Speaker 2: don't sweat, which is odd. 163 00:09:15,080 --> 00:09:19,680 Speaker 1: Dogs doat sweat. Cows don't sweat. Okay, well you sweat 164 00:09:19,679 --> 00:09:24,760 Speaker 1: a lot. I don't know. I'd say cow. Why Queen Bianco, Well, 165 00:09:24,800 --> 00:09:30,120 Speaker 1: this is mostly based on Queens Bianker son Prince Bianca. 166 00:09:30,640 --> 00:09:35,520 Speaker 1: I have not had the same experience I have had 167 00:09:35,559 --> 00:09:40,320 Speaker 1: with sheep with cattle, but I have more than once 168 00:09:40,840 --> 00:09:45,640 Speaker 1: gotten quite a close and personal with cattle when they're 169 00:09:45,640 --> 00:09:49,120 Speaker 1: by themselves, not in the herd, just by themselves. They 170 00:09:49,160 --> 00:09:56,479 Speaker 1: are six hundred kio. Labradors get so delightful and beautiful personalities, 171 00:09:56,800 --> 00:10:00,199 Speaker 1: and some people find them quite tasty. I I think 172 00:10:00,200 --> 00:10:03,040 Speaker 1: they're really quite lovely. And you know, I've got one 173 00:10:03,080 --> 00:10:05,200 Speaker 1: stomach I could do with three more. That could be 174 00:10:05,200 --> 00:10:10,480 Speaker 1: pretty fun. I would be a bull, would you, Yeah, 175 00:10:10,760 --> 00:10:13,959 Speaker 1: I would be a steer. I guess I. 176 00:10:13,880 --> 00:10:15,640 Speaker 2: Don't think it can be a steer. 177 00:10:15,760 --> 00:10:19,319 Speaker 1: You still have balls, all right, So that's right. I'd 178 00:10:19,360 --> 00:10:22,160 Speaker 1: be a bull. Yes, yes, I'd be a man cow, 179 00:10:22,720 --> 00:10:26,000 Speaker 1: which are also still lovely. They get a bit cranky, yeah, 180 00:10:26,240 --> 00:10:26,680 Speaker 1: so can you? 181 00:10:27,080 --> 00:10:31,199 Speaker 2: Yeah? Okay, answer, yeah. 182 00:10:31,280 --> 00:10:33,439 Speaker 1: I would though I'd be like me now, I'd be 183 00:10:33,480 --> 00:10:35,480 Speaker 1: a picky eater. I'd ask them that I appreciate this, 184 00:10:35,640 --> 00:10:39,320 Speaker 1: you know, farmer, what are your namers? But can I 185 00:10:39,320 --> 00:10:42,400 Speaker 1: get some of that seaweed business that you popping? This? 186 00:10:42,800 --> 00:10:45,280 Speaker 1: So my fat sen's about my me fan burgs. Oh, 187 00:10:45,600 --> 00:10:49,520 Speaker 1: maybe I should be feeding in more seaweed, coke, kombu, 188 00:10:49,840 --> 00:10:52,679 Speaker 1: the chap green stuff, ice to make it, the chet 189 00:10:52,679 --> 00:10:54,760 Speaker 1: peach and the check in, the pressure cook tax, the 190 00:10:54,840 --> 00:10:58,920 Speaker 1: end zime out of there, the farty insign. Okay, what 191 00:10:58,960 --> 00:11:02,720 Speaker 1: about your ship or cow things with the sheep? Well, cow, 192 00:11:03,040 --> 00:11:06,280 Speaker 1: your utility to humans. You've got to die for it? 193 00:11:06,360 --> 00:11:10,280 Speaker 1: Why because you can't make your leather jacket as a 194 00:11:10,320 --> 00:11:11,640 Speaker 1: cow and still have a life. 195 00:11:11,720 --> 00:11:14,360 Speaker 2: Well, imagine sheep can just like I can just make 196 00:11:14,440 --> 00:11:17,839 Speaker 2: jumpers grass and have a brit Hapoli would be a 197 00:11:17,960 --> 00:11:22,800 Speaker 2: sheep because if you close my eyes, I go to 198 00:11:22,840 --> 00:11:28,720 Speaker 2: sleep and I love sleeping, and if you turn me 199 00:11:28,760 --> 00:11:30,840 Speaker 2: over sleep. 200 00:11:31,200 --> 00:11:36,000 Speaker 1: Did you ever heard sheep no cattle? Cattle cattle because 201 00:11:36,040 --> 00:11:37,520 Speaker 1: you chat trained as a chill root. 202 00:11:37,559 --> 00:11:41,080 Speaker 2: Now I didn't. It was a dabbled. It was a dabble. 203 00:11:41,240 --> 00:11:45,319 Speaker 1: Well you can. You've done more herding of beasts than 204 00:11:45,360 --> 00:11:46,520 Speaker 1: I have on horseback. 205 00:11:46,760 --> 00:11:49,320 Speaker 2: Yes, there have been a lot of children's parties in 206 00:11:49,360 --> 00:11:49,760 Speaker 2: my life. 207 00:11:50,040 --> 00:11:52,719 Speaker 1: You've headed more animals on horseback than I will have 208 00:11:52,800 --> 00:11:54,800 Speaker 1: a dream of. You dabbled in being a jewel root. 209 00:11:55,559 --> 00:12:02,880 Speaker 1: What is the parallel between herding animals and people? When 210 00:12:02,920 --> 00:12:04,320 Speaker 1: you want to dig, do what you want to do. 211 00:12:04,840 --> 00:12:12,439 Speaker 2: Okay, if you give them limited options, then their choices 212 00:12:12,559 --> 00:12:16,960 Speaker 2: are limited and they will tend to take the easiest route. 213 00:12:18,280 --> 00:12:19,960 Speaker 1: So you get eat to come this way and have 214 00:12:20,040 --> 00:12:22,000 Speaker 1: me and the horse, or you can go that way, 215 00:12:22,000 --> 00:12:27,640 Speaker 1: which is an open game. Yes, yeah, you could stop 216 00:12:27,640 --> 00:12:31,080 Speaker 1: playing now with this thing that I actually just stop 217 00:12:31,080 --> 00:12:35,120 Speaker 1: playing five minutes ago. Or I can pack it up 218 00:12:35,200 --> 00:12:37,000 Speaker 1: and pick you up and we can walk to the bath, 219 00:12:37,320 --> 00:12:43,240 Speaker 1: which you might not work very much. What do you want? Yeah? Yeah? Wow? 220 00:12:44,360 --> 00:12:49,120 Speaker 2: Can you use these techniques on me? You are extremely disobedient. 221 00:12:49,520 --> 00:12:53,040 Speaker 2: You will always choose the horse and person on top 222 00:12:53,400 --> 00:12:56,920 Speaker 2: because it's engaging. I don't know if it's stimulus anyway. 223 00:12:57,040 --> 00:13:04,520 Speaker 2: Australian Austronadian asks, if Donald Duck doesn't wear pants, how 224 00:13:04,559 --> 00:13:06,720 Speaker 2: come he wraps a towel around him when he gets 225 00:13:06,760 --> 00:13:10,000 Speaker 2: out of the shower. For it's the big stuff. 226 00:13:10,800 --> 00:13:13,520 Speaker 1: If you were a younger person, there was a cartooner 227 00:13:13,559 --> 00:13:18,120 Speaker 1: character called Donald Duck from part of the Disney universe, 228 00:13:19,559 --> 00:13:25,440 Speaker 1: the Disney Comic universe pre picks her very marble that's 229 00:13:25,480 --> 00:13:27,640 Speaker 1: across our I want I want some of other Disney 230 00:13:27,720 --> 00:13:31,120 Speaker 1: characters showing up at Avengers, like Donald Duck showing up 231 00:13:31,240 --> 00:13:32,720 Speaker 1: always part of the same stable. 232 00:13:32,800 --> 00:13:35,599 Speaker 2: Now, yeah, that would be hilarious. 233 00:13:35,640 --> 00:13:37,480 Speaker 1: I recall he did once to get out of the shower, 234 00:13:37,640 --> 00:13:39,440 Speaker 1: and he did wrap himself in a towel, and he 235 00:13:39,760 --> 00:13:43,120 Speaker 1: was he had some modesty because there are other people around. 236 00:13:43,800 --> 00:13:47,080 Speaker 1: But then when he pulls on the little sailor suit 237 00:13:47,080 --> 00:13:52,000 Speaker 1: and the hat, just tackle out. Is it kind of 238 00:13:52,000 --> 00:13:53,839 Speaker 1: a thing like that? In prison he clothes like, oh 239 00:13:53,880 --> 00:13:57,400 Speaker 1: he comes, Donald just don't say anything. If he often 240 00:13:57,440 --> 00:14:00,839 Speaker 1: forgets to wear pants, I had to stop talking to 241 00:14:00,880 --> 00:14:01,439 Speaker 1: him about. 242 00:14:01,280 --> 00:14:03,800 Speaker 2: It, to be honest. I understand why it doesn't wear pants. 243 00:14:03,840 --> 00:14:10,880 Speaker 2: Pants are positively evil. They are leg prisoners, and I 244 00:14:11,040 --> 00:14:13,559 Speaker 2: really don't like pants. I wear them. 245 00:14:13,480 --> 00:14:17,520 Speaker 1: Because I have to. And Donald Duck have the same thing. Yeah, 246 00:14:18,440 --> 00:14:20,200 Speaker 1: would you if you could go through the life just 247 00:14:21,160 --> 00:14:24,520 Speaker 1: Donald Duck style. It's wearing the cravat, the sailor top, 248 00:14:25,040 --> 00:14:28,520 Speaker 1: sailor hat, no pants, what'd you do it? 249 00:14:30,480 --> 00:14:32,960 Speaker 2: No? I think that might be a bit much. 250 00:14:33,720 --> 00:14:36,040 Speaker 1: If there was enough feathering that covered? 251 00:14:36,720 --> 00:14:43,400 Speaker 2: Who says there isn't. Next question, Yeah, okay, what's your 252 00:14:43,400 --> 00:14:44,200 Speaker 2: skincare ritin? 253 00:14:44,920 --> 00:14:45,200 Speaker 4: This is. 254 00:14:46,680 --> 00:14:51,280 Speaker 1: Crush Mel said, I want my skincare rety. I wash 255 00:14:51,360 --> 00:14:56,400 Speaker 1: my face with the squidgy bottle, then that Audrey has 256 00:14:56,440 --> 00:15:00,320 Speaker 1: put in the shower, and then I put that this 257 00:15:00,720 --> 00:15:06,480 Speaker 1: prescribed amount of the possibly prohibitally expensive skin care. 258 00:15:06,400 --> 00:15:09,520 Speaker 2: Being it's not that bad, and that's it. 259 00:15:09,760 --> 00:15:10,600 Speaker 1: I do one pint. 260 00:15:11,160 --> 00:15:17,760 Speaker 2: Yes, well too. How many times have other teams been 261 00:15:18,840 --> 00:15:20,480 Speaker 2: attempted to be introduced to your. 262 00:15:20,840 --> 00:15:23,240 Speaker 1: Camp, like they're complicated. 263 00:15:22,680 --> 00:15:24,680 Speaker 2: By various people in your life? 264 00:15:25,200 --> 00:15:28,880 Speaker 1: Well, the complicated ones, I can't do it because as 265 00:15:28,920 --> 00:15:30,960 Speaker 1: the's like the fights. There was one that had bottles 266 00:15:30,960 --> 00:15:33,360 Speaker 1: with numbers on it. Do this first, that second, to 267 00:15:33,440 --> 00:15:36,080 Speaker 1: this that by the time what put the cap back 268 00:15:36,120 --> 00:15:36,920 Speaker 1: on the first one? 269 00:15:37,320 --> 00:15:40,880 Speaker 2: It was so much, It was so complicated. That started 270 00:15:41,800 --> 00:15:46,440 Speaker 2: at number one, Yeah, and then the next thing that 271 00:15:46,480 --> 00:15:48,480 Speaker 2: you had to do was number two, too much, and 272 00:15:48,520 --> 00:15:51,160 Speaker 2: then it was number three. I guess it would have 273 00:15:51,200 --> 00:15:53,480 Speaker 2: been very difficult to follow in medical order. 274 00:15:53,960 --> 00:15:54,960 Speaker 1: Too many steps to take. 275 00:15:55,560 --> 00:15:58,320 Speaker 2: Way to me take for me, I think it's lucky 276 00:15:58,360 --> 00:16:02,920 Speaker 2: that you are vegan and sober and you don't smoke, 277 00:16:03,280 --> 00:16:07,640 Speaker 2: and you don't do drugs. You only do coffee and homis, 278 00:16:09,600 --> 00:16:12,200 Speaker 2: otherwise things would be dire. 279 00:16:13,360 --> 00:16:16,920 Speaker 1: I know, yeah, that's it. You have tried me many times, 280 00:16:17,280 --> 00:16:20,280 Speaker 1: and my former makeup artist Karla tried many many time 281 00:16:20,600 --> 00:16:23,600 Speaker 1: to get me to do stuff. I just say a 282 00:16:23,680 --> 00:16:24,400 Speaker 1: chicknop appared. 283 00:16:25,200 --> 00:16:28,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's so hard to you know, you go up 284 00:16:28,960 --> 00:16:32,240 Speaker 2: doing it. It doesn't matter a lot you gross up 285 00:16:32,280 --> 00:16:32,480 Speaker 2: doing it. 286 00:16:33,680 --> 00:16:34,880 Speaker 1: Where was the first time you can make up? 287 00:16:35,360 --> 00:16:38,720 Speaker 2: I don't know, teenager, Well, my auntie used to paint 288 00:16:38,760 --> 00:16:39,760 Speaker 2: my case when I was a kid. 289 00:16:40,720 --> 00:16:42,680 Speaker 1: So you've been taking a makeup off and doing stuff 290 00:16:42,680 --> 00:16:43,440 Speaker 1: with moisturizing. 291 00:16:45,280 --> 00:16:50,520 Speaker 2: You know, if you come on, well you be fair. 292 00:16:50,880 --> 00:16:55,040 Speaker 2: It's part of your job to look good. And as 293 00:16:55,080 --> 00:16:59,040 Speaker 2: your wife slash makeup artists slash you know, bossy boots. 294 00:17:00,360 --> 00:17:03,080 Speaker 2: I have attempted to heilp you with that. 295 00:17:04,000 --> 00:17:06,760 Speaker 1: Here's my idea. Okay, here's my idea. I want to 296 00:17:06,800 --> 00:17:08,080 Speaker 1: watch your skincare. 297 00:17:07,680 --> 00:17:10,600 Speaker 2: Brand for men. 298 00:17:11,160 --> 00:17:15,640 Speaker 1: Yes, that is like an all in one get up. 299 00:17:15,680 --> 00:17:17,040 Speaker 1: I used to have this ball in one get up 300 00:17:17,040 --> 00:17:21,119 Speaker 1: in the morning. It was twenty years ago, a spring 301 00:17:21,160 --> 00:17:24,600 Speaker 1: loaded thing and it was a moisturizer sun block thing 302 00:17:25,520 --> 00:17:28,280 Speaker 1: and so oh yeah, and the abba door it was 303 00:17:28,320 --> 00:17:32,560 Speaker 1: amazing one handful, and then at night it was just 304 00:17:32,920 --> 00:17:34,480 Speaker 1: wash your face with water or whatever and. 305 00:17:34,800 --> 00:17:37,040 Speaker 2: Can you eat if you're wearing sunscreen? 306 00:17:38,400 --> 00:17:41,520 Speaker 1: And so the thing product you want to create, it's 307 00:17:41,560 --> 00:17:46,159 Speaker 1: called some of this because I mean, you're not my 308 00:17:46,200 --> 00:17:53,200 Speaker 1: first into my partner. Really, what more than one has 309 00:17:53,400 --> 00:17:55,679 Speaker 1: said the sentence to me, just you some of this. 310 00:17:56,520 --> 00:18:01,800 Speaker 1: So if you made a shampoo, conditioner, wipe kind of 311 00:18:01,840 --> 00:18:07,520 Speaker 1: face washing creamer, read and a moisturizer or anything, yes. 312 00:18:07,320 --> 00:18:09,680 Speaker 2: But you need more than that. Sometimes you need serums, 313 00:18:09,680 --> 00:18:13,399 Speaker 2: and you need other things that are more concentrated, et cetera. 314 00:18:13,600 --> 00:18:15,800 Speaker 1: Anyway, that's when you go with Mary Fowler and you 315 00:18:15,920 --> 00:18:17,000 Speaker 1: end up with really good skin. 316 00:18:17,960 --> 00:18:20,400 Speaker 2: Oh Mary Fowler, Yeah, how good is his skin? 317 00:18:21,240 --> 00:18:22,640 Speaker 1: When he came on the screen. And now we're talking 318 00:18:22,640 --> 00:18:26,520 Speaker 1: about Nathan Cleary is the half back for Penroath, and 319 00:18:26,680 --> 00:18:28,240 Speaker 1: he came out to kick a goal the other day 320 00:18:28,920 --> 00:18:31,800 Speaker 1: and we look at it and order, when there's a 321 00:18:31,800 --> 00:18:33,200 Speaker 1: man with a girlfriend. 322 00:18:34,400 --> 00:18:36,479 Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, he's got a girlfriend. 323 00:18:36,560 --> 00:18:39,960 Speaker 1: Now yeah, and you can tell because there's a girlfriend thing, 324 00:18:40,000 --> 00:18:43,080 Speaker 1: there's a diff there's a you can tell. I've heard 325 00:18:43,080 --> 00:18:45,719 Speaker 1: this theory that you can tell. We spoke about love 326 00:18:45,760 --> 00:18:47,840 Speaker 1: at the start of this. You can tell how in 327 00:18:47,920 --> 00:18:52,000 Speaker 1: love the woman in your life is, or the partner 328 00:18:52,080 --> 00:18:55,800 Speaker 1: in your life is with you from how long by 329 00:18:55,840 --> 00:18:59,080 Speaker 1: time you're using a stopwatch between when you say I 330 00:18:59,119 --> 00:19:02,399 Speaker 1: love you and how long they break, how long it 331 00:19:02,400 --> 00:19:07,520 Speaker 1: takes in the break high contact and start doing a routine 332 00:19:08,119 --> 00:19:14,840 Speaker 1: quadrant scan of your face looking for black heads. Yeah, 333 00:19:15,320 --> 00:19:19,040 Speaker 1: it's sometimes pretty quick. If it's like less than thirty seconds, 334 00:19:19,040 --> 00:19:21,800 Speaker 1: you're like, man, I'm in like less than five seconds. 335 00:19:22,280 --> 00:19:24,880 Speaker 1: They go, we'll love you, honey, Oh hang on, listen 336 00:19:24,920 --> 00:19:28,080 Speaker 1: to get my things like, don't move, don't touch it, 337 00:19:28,760 --> 00:19:31,520 Speaker 1: save it for you. 338 00:19:31,640 --> 00:19:33,200 Speaker 2: Don't have blackheads though. 339 00:19:33,960 --> 00:19:34,520 Speaker 1: Because I have. 340 00:19:34,760 --> 00:19:38,840 Speaker 2: I used to have apes all the time when pre 341 00:19:39,280 --> 00:19:41,040 Speaker 2: or post drinking. 342 00:19:40,840 --> 00:19:45,680 Speaker 1: Pro drinking drinking. The makeup artist we both know, Michelle 343 00:19:45,840 --> 00:19:50,840 Speaker 1: used to go sh you got a worsty voice, rusty accent. 344 00:19:50,840 --> 00:19:52,240 Speaker 2: It's like, I don't touch anything. 345 00:19:52,359 --> 00:19:55,080 Speaker 1: She grab two t shues and go point point, go 346 00:19:55,200 --> 00:19:55,520 Speaker 1: for it. 347 00:19:56,400 --> 00:19:57,480 Speaker 2: I squaw that that one. 348 00:19:59,200 --> 00:19:59,719 Speaker 1: She loved it. 349 00:20:00,200 --> 00:20:03,879 Speaker 2: Oh, you know, we all get John RUFFI used to. 350 00:20:03,880 --> 00:20:07,119 Speaker 1: Do it, and Ruff had a few. You'd luck to 351 00:20:07,160 --> 00:20:07,600 Speaker 1: attack him. 352 00:20:07,800 --> 00:20:11,359 Speaker 2: Okay, I feel like maybe I've missed out on. 353 00:20:11,520 --> 00:20:16,560 Speaker 1: My mum was an anthetist and when people were under 354 00:20:18,000 --> 00:20:22,960 Speaker 1: they're doing like yeah bypass or something they are it's 355 00:20:23,000 --> 00:20:24,720 Speaker 1: like six hours getting there. 356 00:20:25,000 --> 00:20:26,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, she's got the head between the knees. 357 00:20:26,600 --> 00:20:29,480 Speaker 1: She's bringing hers like im as your scating on that. 358 00:20:29,560 --> 00:20:32,480 Speaker 1: I mean it's terile, you know, true. Just asked for 359 00:20:32,480 --> 00:20:33,640 Speaker 1: a swamp's quite it up? 360 00:20:34,400 --> 00:20:36,200 Speaker 5: How's a hard trains plant? I don't know what it 361 00:20:36,240 --> 00:20:42,480 Speaker 5: was my far it really hurts. Yeah, she was fun. 362 00:20:43,160 --> 00:20:46,320 Speaker 5: Thanks for that something to do with you. Appreciate it 363 00:20:47,760 --> 00:20:51,360 Speaker 5: asking me and thank you for asking your questions. If 364 00:20:51,359 --> 00:20:53,680 Speaker 5: you want to ask more questions, just jump on the newsletter. 365 00:20:53,840 --> 00:20:58,240 Speaker 1: There's comments right below the article that says any questions 366 00:20:58,440 --> 00:21:01,040 Speaker 1: used to ask there and we'll get them and see 367 00:21:01,040 --> 00:21:01,679 Speaker 1: you next Monday. 368 00:21:02,359 --> 00:21:04,600 Speaker 2: To do you may as well. 369 00:21:04,560 --> 00:21:09,440 Speaker 1: Come if I'll call you. Well, I'm sorry, I'm not 370 00:21:09,480 --> 00:21:14,320 Speaker 1: getting paid to No, I'm literally doing this just cover 371 00:21:14,359 --> 00:21:17,360 Speaker 1: of production cost. 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