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Speaker 1: Baddies, we have got a very exciting announcement for you.

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Speaker 2: I am so excited.

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Speaker 3: As you know, we've been loving reading and experiencing The

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Speaker 3: Housemaid by Freedom McFadden with you guys, and a little

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Speaker 3: while ago one of you baddies suggested, what about we

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Speaker 3: all go watch the movie together.

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Speaker 1: When it comes out.

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Speaker 2: Amazing idea and we thought, hmmmm, we said we're on it.

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Speaker 2: It was a shot in the dark.

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Speaker 3: It was a massive, blindfolded dart throw at nothing, but

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Speaker 3: for some reason it landed right in the bullseye. We

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Speaker 3: have the privilege of inviting you baddies to a special

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Speaker 3: advanced screening of The Housemaid.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god. We are going to be there and

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Speaker 2: we're going to enjoy the movie together for the first time.

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Speaker 3: We all we want to experience it with the baddies.

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Speaker 3: So couple of things. We don't have all the fine

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Speaker 3: details yet, but what we do have is it's on

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Speaker 3: the nineteenth of December, yep, in Sydney afternoon. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 3: this is a Sydney only event, so apologies if anyone

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Speaker 3: is anywhere else.

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Speaker 1: We did our best, yes, but hey, we take what

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Speaker 1: we get.

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Speaker 2: We're very excited and a few lucky baddies get to

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Speaker 2: see the movie early yep. But otherwise, the movie The

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Speaker 2: Housemaid is being released on Boxing Day. Yes, so if

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Speaker 2: you miss out Boxing Day, the Housemaid by FREEDA. McFadden

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Speaker 2: and the movie that stars some wonderful stars will be

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Speaker 2: in theaters on Boxing Day. Yeah, and Jake, how do

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Speaker 2: the baddies potentially get their hands on this occasion?

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Speaker 1: You know us and you know we.

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Speaker 3: Love everyone equally, but we show some priority to our

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Speaker 3: special batties over on Patreons. So on Thursday, the eleventh

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Speaker 3: of December, you guys will be finding out how to

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Speaker 3: secure your spot to come to the advanced screening of

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Speaker 3: the house made with us.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm so excited, Jake. The link to Patreon will

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Speaker 2: be in the description. If you want to head over

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Speaker 2: there early, that's how you do it. But the rest

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Speaker 2: of the details are coming.

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Speaker 4: Can I please get a medium almond flat white with

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Speaker 4: two sugars?

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Speaker 2: Okay, have a small.

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Speaker 3: Coke zero and one small coke zero please? That's everything?

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Speaker 2: Are you all right? All right?

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Speaker 3: I'm goody Hi, thank you having me a happy day.

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Speaker 2: I couldn't look at us.

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Speaker 5: Kind of right.

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Speaker 2: I hate that baddie the relatable podcast is hosted by

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Speaker 2: myself What You Like aka Mommy, and my partner in

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Speaker 2: crime is the Jake Craig ak Daddy, and you guys

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Speaker 2: are the baddies. And Jake is Daddy because he is

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Speaker 2: driving his.

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Speaker 3: New car, and what he's mummy because he is Look.

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Speaker 6: I don't want to say any stereotypes, but sitting in

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Speaker 6: the passenger seat, I'm a passenger princess.

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Speaker 2: That's right, he's living the dream. But Jake, give us

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Speaker 2: a rundown? How'd you get it? What is it? All right?

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Speaker 7: Guys daddies?

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Speaker 3: I selected the smart route.

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Speaker 7: Everyone commented, we said, should we go fun?

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Speaker 2: Should we go cool? Should we go what was the other?

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Speaker 2: What is it?

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Speaker 3: Not?

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Speaker 1: Smart?

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Speaker 2: Like sensible? Smart? Sensible?

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Speaker 7: And everyone based just commented, how about you just get.

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Speaker 1: A new car?

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Speaker 4: And I was thinking kind of valid, So I've gone

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Speaker 4: with a twenty sixteen Suzuki Vitara is a manual, nice

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Speaker 4: and sensible, get two point five leaders to the every

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Speaker 4: one hundred kilometers, so she's fucking got on fuel mate

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Speaker 4: and thirteen five thirteen five hundred, very sensible. I know

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Speaker 4: I got the It was up for fourteen thy nine.

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Speaker 2: Hundred and as the passing the Princess. I think it's sick.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, I got Apple car Play, I got cruise control,

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Speaker 3: I got what else do.

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Speaker 7: I have that I didn't have?

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Speaker 3: Let's let's just go with the big one safety, safety, don't.

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Speaker 2: Go see you before we're talking about it. It's like

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Speaker 2: I just feel something safer driving. And before prior to that,

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Speaker 2: I'm like you said that anyways, Like, yeah, I'm just

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Speaker 3: I was.

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Speaker 4: I was gaslating myself into saying the GETS was good,

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Speaker 4: so I didn't have to get a new car.

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Speaker 7: But you got to get that bad boy cleaned up.

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Speaker 2: That's what everyone wants to know. What are you doing

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Speaker 2: with the gets? Are we wrapping out? You're selling out?

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Speaker 2: What do you want to do?

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Speaker 7: I'm going to sell it.

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Speaker 3: I'm going to try if anyone buys it, gets is

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Speaker 2: I'm still saying, comment, wrap that car, wrap that car?

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Speaker 2: What are we going to do with it? Tax right up?

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Speaker 2: That's right.

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Speaker 3: I guess technically Relatables already owns it. Yeah, so we

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Speaker 6: But not like I'm going to utilize that and drive

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Speaker 6: that instead of this and like claim the money on

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Speaker 6: and collect us pretty much. But all right, most important

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Speaker 6: thing when getting a new cardie is the name. Now

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Speaker 6: I have a name, but I would like to just

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Speaker 6: I think you'll like it, and I think the baddies

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Speaker 6: will like it. Yeah, okay, But before I tell you,

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Speaker 6: I want to know what you If.

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Speaker 2: You have a suggestion, do you have a specific route

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Speaker 2: you wanted to go through?

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Speaker 3: You can go whatever you want. And as soon as

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Speaker 3: I tell you what I've chosen then and look, also,

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Speaker 3: i'll say what I want to name it.

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Speaker 6: You say what you want to name it, and I

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Speaker 6: will let the bowties vote. But if I don't win,

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Speaker 6: I will actually donate my left night.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, okay, I am going with and I feel

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Speaker 2: like the color is an important detail. It's white. Yep, yep.

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Speaker 2: I'm still locking in what we had for the Jymney. Okay, Fran, Fran, Yeah, Fran,

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Speaker 2: I'll give you. I'll even let you give the reason

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Speaker 7: Yeah, because that's how how confident I am mine will win.

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Speaker 2: Okay. So Fran was a past gardening client of mine

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Speaker 2: of a I don't know, sort of like a grandma

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Speaker 2: once a week for like three years, went through her house,

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Speaker 2: you to and front places safely. Okay, that's pretty good.

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Speaker 2: That was pretty good. Well your comfort. I'm very over that.

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Speaker 2: I actually am. And you're gonna see you're gonna see why.

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Speaker 6: Okay, So we got Suzuki Vitara. Okay, initials s VA

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Speaker 6: if you swap them, the initials are vs. We've just

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Speaker 6: started reading Fourth Wing and the main protagonist is our girl,

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Speaker 6: Violet Soaring Gale.

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Speaker 5: Oh, you're gonna call it Violet. I want to name

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Speaker 5: it Violet Soaring Gale. Pretty good, it's pretty good. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: Violet doesn't have a ring to it.

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Speaker 2: I'm telling you vice.

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Speaker 3: Suzuki violence is a Violet Soring Gale.

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Speaker 2: But I don't know, it's a little bit teching this

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Speaker 2: Gail but interesting, so are you saying? Comment below? Which

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Speaker 7: Guys can choose either Violet sorro and girl or friend

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Speaker 3: Sure for Francis Francis, I kind of think of Francis

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Speaker 2: I feel like it's both. It's my dad'smond on that too,

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Speaker 2: Michael Francis Clark, What I not know that? Yeah, it's

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Speaker 2: Michael Clark, the famous cricket art's right, Yeah, that's you guys.

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Speaker 7: We've just been ounted, got so out of even living.

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Speaker 2: On daddy's money for time. That's crazy. That's crazy. But

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Speaker 2: I guess we'll leave it up. Congratulations man, thank you

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Speaker 7: Yes, very exciting.

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Speaker 3: And apologies to the McDonald's worker that we just got

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Speaker 2: And I couldn't even look him in the eyes when

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Speaker 3: Oh, I would like to welcome everybody back to the

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Speaker 3: Baddest Baddie. Let's go fireworks. Okay, now the Badest Baddie.

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Speaker 3: Last couple of weeks, I've had a couple of little

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Speaker 1: The wider public.

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Speaker 2: And I think what's happened has been We've talked to

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Speaker 2: some amazing, wonderful baddies who have been absolutely inspiring.

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Speaker 1: To say the least. Yeah, according to the comments, at.

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Speaker 2: Least everyone here, everyone who's been on has been doing

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Speaker 1: Yes, Sarah, Sarah and Chelsea.

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Speaker 2: Let's call them and get into the Baddest Baddie. Hello, Hello, Sarah,

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Speaker 2: how is it going good?

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Speaker 8: Thanks? How are you both?

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Speaker 2: We are both going great. Welcome back to the Baddest Baddie.

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Speaker 2: How are you feeling? How's your day being? What's going on?

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Speaker 8: Day's been good, honestly, just been cleaning, mostly doing too much,

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Speaker 2: Well, firstly, we want to touch on thank you for

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Speaker 2: sharing your story about two weeks ago. It's been super inspiring,

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Speaker 2: not only for yourself, but a lot of other baddies

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Speaker 8: Oh, thank you. I'm glad to hear it was inspiring.

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Speaker 8: Oh, I was buzzing like I had training straight off

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Speaker 8: And so it was really good to Actually it's surprise

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Speaker 2: Which it's great, that's awesome. Let's go so good. It

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Speaker 2: was a very feel good episode, thanks to you. But

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Speaker 2: today we are here to crown the baddest baddie. Yes,

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Speaker 2: so we have a question for you, Sarah. Are you ready?

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Speaker 8: I'm ready.

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Speaker 2: So you have now been hired as an ambassador for

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Speaker 2: all baddies. Tell us in your own words, what it

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Speaker 2: means to you to be a baddie.

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Speaker 8: For me, i'd say being a bady kind of changes

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Speaker 8: day to day. So I previously kind of thought being

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Speaker 8: full time or working full time, it's been on top

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Speaker 8: of exceeding everyone else's expectations. But my metal health journey,

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Speaker 8: I've kind of realized that I've had to change what

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Speaker 2: That was really really good.

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Speaker 2: That's crazy. That made me want to be more of

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Speaker 8: That's all right, My heart stounded racing.

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Speaker 2: Now where we go from here is we Jake and I,

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Speaker 10: Amazing.

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Speaker 8: Sarah, fantastic, Thank you, and I hope to hear from

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Speaker 2: Call you if you don't win. To here. But we

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Speaker 2: Always wanted to say this. We'll be in touch. Bye, Hello, Hello, Chelsea.

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Speaker 1: How's it going?

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Speaker 11: I was feeling good. I didn't think I get through,

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Speaker 2: We are today. We want to tell you that you

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Speaker 2: So we have a question for you. Are you ready

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Speaker 11: To me, being a body means showing up as the youngest,

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Speaker 1: Thank you very much.

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Speaker 11: Thanks, Thank you, guys, thank you, thank.

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Speaker 2: You for waking up early. And we're excited to get

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Speaker 11: Yes, thank you for much for ordering. You actually ordered

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Speaker 1: No way, let's go that's all right.

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Speaker 11: When ordered, I was like, are or is it for

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Speaker 2: I think I might have got Jake like a medium

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Speaker 1: Do not do not encourage him.

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Speaker 2: But we're looking forward to that and we'll talk to

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Speaker 11: Okay, thank you, bye bye Medium.

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Speaker 2: Chelsea laughed at me, But baddies we'll leave the baddest

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Speaker 2: It's an easy one word thing. Chelsea or Sarah, Sarah

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Speaker 2: or Chelsea. All Right, batties, welcome back to Week six

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Speaker 2: of Things that Aren't Just for Boys.

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Speaker 9: Week six.

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Speaker 1: Okay, let's hear it.

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Speaker 2: Let me start, Jake and I want to start off

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Speaker 3: The designated navigator. Well, I gotta be completely honest with you, Audie.

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Speaker 1: I'm not a very trusted navigator at the moment. At

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Speaker 2: What are you doing?

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Speaker 3: So set the scene, Beth, myself, Rose Bay Beach, Sydney,

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Speaker 1: Well, look now we have a story to tell.

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Speaker 2: I think I got it? Energy drinks perfect?

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Speaker 1: You read my mind? Dude, couldn't be more true. Energy

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's pretty wild a. That's why Marissa created perfect

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Speaker 3: No, she did not, And they actually slap Did you

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Speaker 1: Mate?

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Speaker 2: Oddie?

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Speaker 1: You know I'm a Coles guy.

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Speaker 2: I'm a Cols guy.

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Speaker 9: Too.

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Speaker 2: Bad? Is it is time for ig Question of the week?

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Speaker 2: But Jake, I'm putting on the spot before we move on,

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Speaker 2: what should the baddies stop, pause the episode and go and.

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Speaker 9: Do they should go to the very closest url weber

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Speaker 2: Or just go to the link in description and it

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Speaker 3: They get the book Club episode five days early on

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Speaker 3: the Wednesday, and then on Thursday they get an extra full,

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Speaker 3: entire episode of the podcast.

445
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Speaker 1: Wow, and how much for five dollars a month?

446
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Speaker 2: Well that's good, that's so good. Crazy crazy, But back

447
00:23:31,800 --> 00:23:34,080
Speaker 2: to ig question of the week. And after last week,

448
00:23:34,200 --> 00:23:36,680
Speaker 2: the conversations were really good and Jake came up with

449
00:23:36,720 --> 00:23:40,000
Speaker 2: this question and it's a really good conversation startup.

450
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Speaker 3: Yeah, and it's like, I don't know, I think there

451
00:23:44,640 --> 00:23:47,520
Speaker 3: would have been a time where a little while ago

452
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Speaker 3: we wouldn't have done this question.

453
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Speaker 2: You reckon. I don't know, maybe all of the answers

454
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Speaker 2: are kind of like duh or like.

455
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Speaker 1: True, Yeah, that's a good point.

456
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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah. So the question is, what's a double standard

457
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Speaker 2: you see all the time between men and women? Can

458
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Speaker 2: I kick things off. Yes, body counts. Duh, dude.

459
00:24:07,000 --> 00:24:10,760
Speaker 3: There was a lot of answers and that were body

460
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Speaker 3: count Yeah.

461
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Speaker 2: And I think, well, it's that stereotype that men who

462
00:24:15,960 --> 00:24:19,119
Speaker 2: sleep with a lot of girls are considered king's idols

463
00:24:19,440 --> 00:24:24,600
Speaker 2: the best, whereas if legends, legends, legends. Yeah, as soon

464
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Speaker 2: as women do it or want to do it, they're

465
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Speaker 2: using the words I saw in it, considered sluts. Yeah,

466
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Speaker 2: why can't they be legends.

467
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Speaker 3: I have one that says men sleep around and it's fine,

468
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Speaker 3: but when a woman does it, she's a slut.

469
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Speaker 1: Harsh word.

470
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Speaker 2: It is such a harsh word, and it's being thrown

471
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Speaker 2: around like that, which is kind of annoying.

472
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Speaker 3: It's kind of like, I think that I don't even

473
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Speaker 3: really know what to say about it, apart from the

474
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Speaker 3: fact that it's just so obviously so dumb.

475
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't even know what to think because in

476
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Speaker 2: a sense, it's just the individual's preference. But I've always said,

477
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Speaker 2: if you want to sleep with people, sleep with people,

478
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Speaker 2: and if you don't, don't, who cares.

479
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Speaker 3: I don't know, Yeah, I think I I personally don't care,

480
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Speaker 3: so I like, don't This one doesn't affect me. But

481
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Speaker 3: I just couldn't imagine, you know, thinking, there's this guy

482
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Speaker 3: that I've been seeing and he's quite nice. Like because girls,

483
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Speaker 3: at least in my experience, I can't speak for all

484
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Speaker 3: of them, but in my experience, like women don't care

485
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Speaker 3: as much about if a guy has a high bodyccount.

486
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Speaker 2: Yeah, they don't. They're less judgmental, and you know, well,

487
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Speaker 2: it comes back to here's a question back to women.

488
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Speaker 2: How sorry, it comes back to men. How they think

489
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Speaker 2: women are less valuable because they've slept with more people.

490
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Speaker 2: They should be precious, they should be pure. It's stupid.

491
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Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, that's fucking gross.

492
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Speaker 3: My question, right, is because I do that definitely, men

493
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Speaker 3: are the ones that would mostly be giving this double

494
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Speaker 3: standard more often than not. But is it also like

495
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Speaker 3: women that are other women? So it is it other

496
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Speaker 3: women also saying that a woman that sleeps with a

497
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Speaker 3: lot of people is a slut?

498
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Speaker 1: Is that is that a thing?

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Speaker 2: I would say it's a contributing factor, but like predominantly

500
00:26:23,560 --> 00:26:26,920
Speaker 2: it's a men. Yeah, coming back to this value thing. Yeah,

501
00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:29,520
Speaker 2: there's a scene in Love Island which pissed me off.

502
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Speaker 2: Someone asked Jotham, what's your body count?

503
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Speaker 1: He's like, what he goes like this, he goes, it's

504
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Speaker 1: up there.

505
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Speaker 2: Yeah, like he's a fucking legend for sleeping. Yeah. Yeah,

506
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Speaker 2: I hate that after one thing that I'm proud about

507
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Speaker 2: in my relationship, I don't know proud of the right

508
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Speaker 2: word is I don't know Cassi's BodyCount. I don't care.

509
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Speaker 2: She's never asked me. I've never asked her. No, I've

510
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Speaker 2: never and the fact that it's never come out, come out,

511
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Speaker 2: and never had the I don't know urge to ask

512
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Speaker 2: or know. Yeah, I think really makes me feel like

513
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Speaker 2: it's a healthy relationship.

514
00:27:00,400 --> 00:27:04,919
Speaker 1: Yeah, a good point because I have zero zero.

515
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Speaker 2: You've always heard girls and guys on a night out.

516
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Speaker 2: Maybe it is both, but I think it's generally men

517
00:27:08,480 --> 00:27:09,760
Speaker 2: say like, what's your body girl?

518
00:27:10,119 --> 00:27:13,479
Speaker 1: My have a relation, my relationship before the one i'm

519
00:27:13,520 --> 00:27:15,679
Speaker 1: in now. Yeah, it's my last relationship.

520
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Speaker 3: We spoke about body count. We're both pretty young, Like,

521
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Speaker 3: I don't know, But to me, it was like just

522
00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:24,720
Speaker 3: a thing you ask. But then I remember in hindsight

523
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Speaker 3: being like you, even if you say you aren't doing it,

524
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Speaker 3: you kind of compare yours to theirs, or you compare

525
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Speaker 3: theirs to yours.

526
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I had the stereotype though, because the person in

527
00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:38,280
Speaker 2: front of you, who you love or you're enjoying on

528
00:27:38,320 --> 00:27:41,280
Speaker 2: the date or you think is an amazing person, has

529
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Speaker 2: slept with a lot of people to get to where

530
00:27:43,280 --> 00:27:45,200
Speaker 2: they are, to find these things out about themselves, Yeah,

531
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Speaker 2: and to build their confidence and to grow as a person.

532
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Speaker 2: And because that's over ten, you think they're a slut.

533
00:27:50,320 --> 00:27:53,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, But like, does anybody say over ten is bad?

534
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Speaker 2: Well, I think I was just an example.

535
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Speaker 3: See, like I'm thinking to me, I think the reason

536
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Speaker 3: I think it's so such like an outlandish double standard

537
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Speaker 3: is because I'm assuming the numbers at like a thousand,

538
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Speaker 3: Not that that means that anyone is a slight if

539
00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:11,120
Speaker 3: they've slept with a thousand people, But I'm just assuming

540
00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:13,520
Speaker 3: that's that's the number. Like it's so bad because I

541
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Speaker 3: think like fifty, Right, you have to think about it

542
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Speaker 3: this way. Let's say you have a body count of

543
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Speaker 3: one hundred. All right, that sounds like a lot, yes,

544
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Speaker 3: But let's say you're thirty years old and you've been

545
00:28:27,920 --> 00:28:31,480
Speaker 3: sleeping with people since you were twenty. That is ten

546
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Speaker 3: per year. That's not even one per month, because there's

547
00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:36,800
Speaker 3: twelve months in a year. That's ten people per year.

548
00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:39,680
Speaker 3: Quick math doesn't sound like that much. Now does it

549
00:28:39,720 --> 00:28:41,880
Speaker 3: just so happens that they did ten like ten people,

550
00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:43,400
Speaker 3: It doesn't sund like that much.

551
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Speaker 2: I think that double standard is like more than ten

552
00:28:45,800 --> 00:28:48,920
Speaker 2: or fifteen, and then you're considered boom boom. I'm pretty

553
00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:52,440
Speaker 2: sure that's what's considered like bad, even though it's not

554
00:28:52,480 --> 00:28:53,280
Speaker 2: like you said.

555
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Speaker 1: For think about it in that span of time, like the.

556
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Speaker 2: Reason of logic and also the reason of finding yourself,

557
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Speaker 2: and also sex is fun. Doesn't want to orgasm.

558
00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:02,200
Speaker 1: It's a good point.

559
00:29:02,280 --> 00:29:05,080
Speaker 2: Let's be you should be if instead of calm and

560
00:29:05,120 --> 00:29:06,520
Speaker 2: slightly you'd be like you like to have a good time.

561
00:29:06,560 --> 00:29:07,959
Speaker 2: Maybe that's not as good as I thought it would be.

562
00:29:08,920 --> 00:29:10,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, Like you're talking about bodycatches like my

563
00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:13,120
Speaker 3: You're like, oh, so you're.

564
00:29:12,960 --> 00:29:13,880
Speaker 1: Like having a good time.

565
00:29:16,040 --> 00:29:17,000
Speaker 2: I'm trying at least.

566
00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:20,760
Speaker 1: No, no, no, yeah.

567
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Speaker 3: I don't personally think it needs to be spoken about,

568
00:29:24,040 --> 00:29:24,400
Speaker 3: not all.

569
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Speaker 1: But again I don't think I would.

570
00:29:27,800 --> 00:29:29,760
Speaker 3: I wouldn't judge someone that wanted to know their partner's

571
00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:32,200
Speaker 3: body count, as long as there was zero judgment from

572
00:29:32,240 --> 00:29:34,840
Speaker 3: them towards their partner. But if you're asking the question,

573
00:29:35,080 --> 00:29:37,400
Speaker 3: that means you're expecting a certain number and you have

574
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Speaker 3: a number in your head that's too high for you,

575
00:29:40,080 --> 00:29:43,120
Speaker 3: which is ridiculous. That's I think if you're asking what's

576
00:29:43,160 --> 00:29:45,320
Speaker 3: your BodyCount, you have a number that it is too

577
00:29:45,360 --> 00:29:45,920
Speaker 3: high on your agreed.

578
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Speaker 2: I think if you're asking the question, then you're ready

579
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Speaker 2: to be in a relationship.

580
00:29:49,480 --> 00:29:51,360
Speaker 1: Ye if I have a feeling.

581
00:29:52,280 --> 00:29:56,240
Speaker 3: O imagine someone that like really gives a shit about BodyCount, right,

582
00:29:56,800 --> 00:29:58,280
Speaker 3: and they go, so what's your body count?

583
00:29:58,680 --> 00:29:58,800
Speaker 2: Then?

584
00:29:59,040 --> 00:30:01,760
Speaker 1: And then they're like, don't ask questions you don't want

585
00:30:01,760 --> 00:30:04,000
Speaker 1: to know. Yeah, you're not ready, You're not ready.

586
00:30:04,920 --> 00:30:07,479
Speaker 2: I also think, like right now we're twenty five, When

587
00:30:07,520 --> 00:30:10,160
Speaker 2: we're thirty five, going off what you said, we're gonna

588
00:30:10,160 --> 00:30:12,120
Speaker 2: look back and be like we're dumb. Or people who

589
00:30:12,120 --> 00:30:13,200
Speaker 2: care about body count?

590
00:30:13,360 --> 00:30:16,440
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, Like it's probably the thirty five year old

591
00:30:16,520 --> 00:30:20,160
Speaker 1: single men that care. Yeah, exactly. Let's be real, the

592
00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:20,680
Speaker 1: bald ones.

593
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Speaker 3: All right, what's a double standard? You see all the

594
00:30:23,840 --> 00:30:29,640
Speaker 3: time between men and women. It takes very little to

595
00:30:29,760 --> 00:30:33,520
Speaker 3: be considered a good father, and it also takes very

596
00:30:33,560 --> 00:30:36,120
Speaker 3: little to be considered a bad mother.

597
00:30:37,520 --> 00:30:39,000
Speaker 2: What is a double Standarday?

598
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Speaker 1: I saw a few like that.

599
00:30:41,000 --> 00:30:43,640
Speaker 2: Now, one kind of like fucking frustrates me. Hey, how

600
00:30:43,680 --> 00:30:45,440
Speaker 2: the bar is so low for men but so high

601
00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:49,520
Speaker 2: for women when it comes to children. Yeah, we expect

602
00:30:49,560 --> 00:30:52,720
Speaker 2: so much from women in a sense of not only

603
00:30:52,720 --> 00:30:55,400
Speaker 2: do they birth the child, but the standard we hold

604
00:30:55,520 --> 00:31:00,280
Speaker 2: them too is insane. Yeah, and I'm saying site in

605
00:31:00,440 --> 00:31:04,360
Speaker 2: like our people, I guess people around us, but the

606
00:31:04,400 --> 00:31:08,960
Speaker 2: fucking stereotype's terrible. Yeah, I hate that provided mindset, just

607
00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:09,520
Speaker 2: like the men.

608
00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:11,600
Speaker 9: Go and work your head.

609
00:31:11,640 --> 00:31:21,640
Speaker 3: Fuck, it's like, yeah, I'm trying to think, so I

610
00:31:21,640 --> 00:31:26,320
Speaker 3: I think what annoys me is I don't I don't

611
00:31:26,400 --> 00:31:29,760
Speaker 3: mind if someone has like the mindset of wanting to

612
00:31:29,800 --> 00:31:34,720
Speaker 3: be a provider, right, and if it's spoken spoken about

613
00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:38,400
Speaker 3: within the relationship, you know, and the mother wants to

614
00:31:38,440 --> 00:31:40,000
Speaker 3: be a stay home mother and that's something you want

615
00:31:40,040 --> 00:31:42,360
Speaker 3: as well. Like, I don't mind if someone has this

616
00:31:42,400 --> 00:31:44,960
Speaker 3: provider mentality of I'm in the provider, but I don't

617
00:31:45,040 --> 00:31:47,440
Speaker 3: like it when they use it as an excuse to

618
00:31:47,680 --> 00:31:53,080
Speaker 3: be a less involved parent and expect the other parent

619
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Speaker 3: to be the more involved parent, which is the mother.

620
00:31:55,560 --> 00:31:56,080
Speaker 2: Of course.

621
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Speaker 3: I think that that's like ridiculous because if you've spoken

622
00:32:00,360 --> 00:32:04,280
Speaker 3: about it, right, that means that like.

623
00:32:05,520 --> 00:32:08,800
Speaker 1: You're you're aware, like you're well aware of what you're doing.

624
00:32:09,480 --> 00:32:12,720
Speaker 2: I think there's a toxic mindset shift in a sense

625
00:32:12,760 --> 00:32:15,400
Speaker 2: of there's probably plenty of provider men who have a

626
00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:18,480
Speaker 2: healthy mindset and how they view their partner and being

627
00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:22,800
Speaker 2: a father, but majority of men have that instinctual thing

628
00:32:22,840 --> 00:32:24,400
Speaker 2: where they don't have to do anythinghen their home because

629
00:32:24,400 --> 00:32:25,320
Speaker 2: they provide.

630
00:32:26,040 --> 00:32:30,680
Speaker 3: Exactly, they've been out all that, they've been out of

631
00:32:30,720 --> 00:32:31,720
Speaker 3: providing all day.

632
00:32:32,440 --> 00:32:35,160
Speaker 2: They need to come home and relax.

633
00:32:35,680 --> 00:32:42,320
Speaker 12: Yeah, honestly, I I saw this thing right, I believe

634
00:32:42,320 --> 00:32:48,400
Speaker 12: it was on the radio, and so excuse me burping

635
00:32:48,440 --> 00:32:50,360
Speaker 12: apologies that shit over.

636
00:32:51,080 --> 00:32:53,080
Speaker 1: You've been farting all day, haven't you?

637
00:32:53,840 --> 00:32:53,920
Speaker 8: You?

638
00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:55,720
Speaker 3: Literally, are you gonna lie to the baddies right now

639
00:32:55,720 --> 00:32:58,680
Speaker 3: we have a you're gonna look in the camera way,

640
00:32:58,760 --> 00:33:02,920
Speaker 3: look into your camera straight up, swear on your mother's

641
00:33:02,960 --> 00:33:05,080
Speaker 3: grave that or no, Barry's grave.

642
00:33:05,120 --> 00:33:07,960
Speaker 1: You haven't been farting all day. Berry's dead exactly, his grave.

643
00:33:08,040 --> 00:33:09,720
Speaker 2: Well, nothing's gonna happen because he's dead.

644
00:33:09,800 --> 00:33:13,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, the disrespect to his grave, though, do it?

645
00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:15,400
Speaker 3: Look at the camera's graves in my backyard, but look

646
00:33:15,480 --> 00:33:17,360
Speaker 3: at the camera and tell the baddies that you haven't

647
00:33:17,360 --> 00:33:19,880
Speaker 3: been fighting all day Brown Henry, sorry, not Henry's Barry's.

648
00:33:20,120 --> 00:33:23,400
Speaker 2: We go down after and power Respects play a song.

649
00:33:23,560 --> 00:33:25,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you're not going to get forgiven for lying.

650
00:33:25,640 --> 00:33:29,840
Speaker 2: But if you want to do that after the episode,

651
00:33:29,880 --> 00:33:30,320
Speaker 2: I will go.

652
00:33:30,320 --> 00:33:32,520
Speaker 1: Pay my respects to Barry. I have not paid my

653
00:33:32,520 --> 00:33:33,040
Speaker 1: respects yet.

654
00:33:33,080 --> 00:33:35,120
Speaker 2: Actually, where he's buried, you can put it actually his backyard.

655
00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:38,640
Speaker 3: Ye's actually, yeah, you plan it like a plant or something.

656
00:33:39,680 --> 00:33:41,520
Speaker 2: I don't know. Maybe now I put a flat on

657
00:33:41,560 --> 00:33:46,040
Speaker 2: when he passed. Anyways, don't remember. I didn't plan it.

658
00:33:46,400 --> 00:33:48,560
Speaker 2: I didn't want to look at him go on the ground.

659
00:33:48,880 --> 00:33:51,320
Speaker 2: The dirt was gone, I mean in the ground.

660
00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:55,840
Speaker 1: Wait, okay, no, here's the thing I saw. So I

661
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Speaker 1: can't remember if.

662
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Speaker 3: It was a man or a woman that made the video,

663
00:33:59,360 --> 00:34:02,680
Speaker 3: But in the deo it's said the husband of a

664
00:34:02,720 --> 00:34:08,279
Speaker 3: state at home mother, right, should pay the mother's superannuation. Yeah.

665
00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:10,919
Speaker 3: I think that makes sense, yeah, because it's like, why

666
00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:13,359
Speaker 3: is he getting a career in a superannuation and she's

667
00:34:13,400 --> 00:34:15,799
Speaker 3: staying home looking after the kids that's considered not a career,

668
00:34:15,840 --> 00:34:17,479
Speaker 3: even though it kind of is in its own sense,

669
00:34:17,640 --> 00:34:20,920
Speaker 3: and she's not earning any sort of super where So

670
00:34:21,040 --> 00:34:22,399
Speaker 3: when she retires, she's getting nothing.

671
00:34:22,800 --> 00:34:25,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's men are dumb, and a sense of that

672
00:34:25,480 --> 00:34:27,719
Speaker 2: person staying on his podcast where it's like, I just

673
00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:29,760
Speaker 2: want my wife to stay at home and collect post

674
00:34:29,760 --> 00:34:34,520
Speaker 2: cards and be happy. Oh yeah, that's crazy, And I

675
00:34:34,560 --> 00:34:37,920
Speaker 2: guess they don't compute or they don't that is selfish

676
00:34:37,920 --> 00:34:40,839
Speaker 2: in a sense of as long as they're providing, they

677
00:34:40,840 --> 00:34:43,359
Speaker 2: don't see the future of their partner, because he's your

678
00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:44,200
Speaker 2: career is going up.

679
00:34:44,239 --> 00:34:47,040
Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, your future, Yeah, your career is solid,

680
00:34:47,480 --> 00:34:50,520
Speaker 1: you know, so you know, yeah, it's like a selfish

681
00:34:50,560 --> 00:34:51,680
Speaker 1: thing to think about this.

682
00:34:51,840 --> 00:34:54,000
Speaker 2: I think the sacrifice a woman makes to be a

683
00:34:54,080 --> 00:34:56,880
Speaker 2: mother is the most honorable thing anyone can do. Not

684
00:34:56,920 --> 00:34:59,040
Speaker 2: only is it twenty four hours a day, but also

685
00:34:59,360 --> 00:35:01,600
Speaker 2: like you don't have to give up your career, but

686
00:35:01,640 --> 00:35:03,480
Speaker 2: there's a time where you have to be a mother

687
00:35:03,520 --> 00:35:04,879
Speaker 2: for a little bit and you can't really do both

688
00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:06,239
Speaker 2: at the same time for a little period of time.

689
00:35:06,560 --> 00:35:09,560
Speaker 2: It's so honorable and it's crazy like people who say like, oh, yeah,

690
00:35:09,560 --> 00:35:11,240
Speaker 2: I'll just pay for fucking that. Are you paying fucking

691
00:35:11,320 --> 00:35:15,000
Speaker 2: super mortgage? You're paying for like half of her mortgage

692
00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:17,640
Speaker 2: and then everything else work has gone yeah.

693
00:35:17,520 --> 00:35:18,040
Speaker 1: I just saw say.

694
00:35:18,040 --> 00:35:19,880
Speaker 3: I think there was like mad blob in the comments

695
00:35:19,880 --> 00:35:21,920
Speaker 3: about the more like paying the super of a stay

696
00:35:21,960 --> 00:35:25,160
Speaker 3: at home mum thing, but I kind of was thinking,

697
00:35:26,000 --> 00:35:26,840
Speaker 3: kind of valid.

698
00:35:27,320 --> 00:35:29,840
Speaker 2: I never noticed as a kid, but my dad paid

699
00:35:30,080 --> 00:35:31,680
Speaker 2: because my mum was a stay at home mum. Her

700
00:35:31,719 --> 00:35:33,799
Speaker 2: super did it and you see it. Yeah, yeah, that's there,

701
00:35:33,800 --> 00:35:36,680
Speaker 2: you go. He just did it like green flag. You

702
00:35:36,680 --> 00:35:37,719
Speaker 2: can see it now they're old.

703
00:35:38,160 --> 00:35:38,920
Speaker 1: How do you do it?

704
00:35:39,200 --> 00:35:41,400
Speaker 2: That's why you can make contributions up to twenty thousand

705
00:35:41,400 --> 00:35:41,839
Speaker 2: dollars a year.

706
00:35:42,320 --> 00:35:44,799
Speaker 1: So oh that's kind of sick.

707
00:35:44,880 --> 00:35:47,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, because you're about It depends how much you contribute

708
00:35:47,160 --> 00:35:47,640
Speaker 2: to your super.

709
00:35:47,640 --> 00:35:49,880
Speaker 1: But there's a cap make it some sort of like

710
00:35:50,000 --> 00:35:51,280
Speaker 1: tax right off as well.

711
00:35:51,200 --> 00:35:51,759
Speaker 2: I think it is.

712
00:35:51,960 --> 00:35:54,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, you guys are gonna get You're gonna pay less tax.

713
00:35:54,600 --> 00:35:55,200
Speaker 1: You fucking it.

714
00:35:55,440 --> 00:35:58,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, be sick. What's a double standard you see all

715
00:35:58,719 --> 00:36:03,960
Speaker 2: the time between men and women. Men are allowed to age?

716
00:36:04,360 --> 00:36:06,279
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I never thought about that.

717
00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:10,040
Speaker 2: I know that is a massive double standard. And I

718
00:36:10,160 --> 00:36:14,200
Speaker 2: have an email from one of the baddies. Oh really yeah,

719
00:36:14,400 --> 00:36:17,520
Speaker 2: very insightful, a little bit sad, but I guess shows

720
00:36:17,520 --> 00:36:19,960
Speaker 2: what it's like out there. Amanda Hall said, so, my

721
00:36:20,080 --> 00:36:24,399
Speaker 2: question slash discussion point is four generations women have been

722
00:36:24,480 --> 00:36:27,520
Speaker 2: told their youth and beauty are metrics of their value,

723
00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:31,280
Speaker 2: and they have until approximately the age of twenty five

724
00:36:31,400 --> 00:36:35,640
Speaker 2: to catch a man and make babies, because after they

725
00:36:35,680 --> 00:36:37,719
Speaker 2: lose their value and men don't want them so much.

726
00:36:39,280 --> 00:36:42,920
Speaker 2: As they age, they become invisible and raised to believe

727
00:36:43,040 --> 00:36:46,799
Speaker 2: age is the worst thing, when in reality it's a privilege.

728
00:36:47,400 --> 00:36:49,440
Speaker 2: I remember when an X of mine, we will call

729
00:36:49,560 --> 00:36:52,920
Speaker 2: him bran Flake, mentioned his friends splitting with his girlfriend

730
00:36:53,080 --> 00:36:55,440
Speaker 2: and how worried they were for her. Now, when I

731
00:36:55,480 --> 00:36:57,880
Speaker 2: asked about their concern for her, he said it was

732
00:36:57,920 --> 00:37:00,279
Speaker 2: because she was thirty one and the likelihood of her

733
00:37:00,320 --> 00:37:03,839
Speaker 2: getting a decent man is reducing fast, as men don't

734
00:37:03,840 --> 00:37:06,560
Speaker 2: want a middle aged woman or a woman over the

735
00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:09,960
Speaker 2: age of thirty. In Brackett's question, mark exclamation mark, exclamation mark,

736
00:37:10,000 --> 00:37:16,320
Speaker 2: exclamation mark. So after I'd done some, she said yogic breathing,

737
00:37:17,000 --> 00:37:19,120
Speaker 2: and somehow not smacked him over the head with a

738
00:37:19,160 --> 00:37:23,400
Speaker 2: flip flop. I suggested their comments to be misogynistic and ridiculous,

739
00:37:23,680 --> 00:37:27,000
Speaker 2: and also, what about all those hot cougar's young men

740
00:37:27,120 --> 00:37:31,520
Speaker 2: lust for anyways, he glitched and got bluffed, got irritated

741
00:37:31,560 --> 00:37:34,520
Speaker 2: and had no answer. Thankfully, I'm not with him anymore.

742
00:37:34,600 --> 00:37:37,640
Speaker 2: He flaked after my mother died, my favorite person who

743
00:37:38,000 --> 00:37:40,239
Speaker 2: I would have loved to have seen get older and

744
00:37:40,320 --> 00:37:42,960
Speaker 2: have many more memories with. Back to my point, that

745
00:37:43,040 --> 00:37:45,680
Speaker 2: comment was insane for me. Even in twenty twenty five,

746
00:37:45,840 --> 00:37:48,040
Speaker 2: we ad just that the early days of truly loving

747
00:37:48,040 --> 00:37:51,160
Speaker 2: a woman and the generations of programming is still haunting

748
00:37:51,200 --> 00:37:53,640
Speaker 2: our younger people. As a thirty eight year old woman,

749
00:37:53,719 --> 00:37:56,320
Speaker 2: I feel great, look great, open to a relationship with

750
00:37:56,360 --> 00:37:59,959
Speaker 2: a good man slashing brackets an average woman louffy faith

751
00:38:01,160 --> 00:38:04,400
Speaker 2: who isn't wearing these old misogynistic goggles. With peace and

752
00:38:04,480 --> 00:38:08,480
Speaker 2: love and pineapples. From Amanda, north East England.

753
00:38:08,920 --> 00:38:13,040
Speaker 3: Damn, okay, let me think about this now. I see

754
00:38:13,080 --> 00:38:15,839
Speaker 3: what you're doing here, Amanda, all right, very serious topic.

755
00:38:15,920 --> 00:38:17,600
Speaker 1: Yes, but I.

756
00:38:17,560 --> 00:38:20,880
Speaker 3: Will not think about being with anyone but Bethany Okay,

757
00:38:20,920 --> 00:38:21,640
Speaker 3: I see what you're doing.

758
00:38:22,320 --> 00:38:23,439
Speaker 2: See that went over my head.

759
00:38:24,400 --> 00:38:32,440
Speaker 3: No, I very like, I very I find very often

760
00:38:34,520 --> 00:38:38,200
Speaker 3: I think, yeah, women, older women are very attractive, like

761
00:38:38,239 --> 00:38:40,680
Speaker 3: they can be. Is that are we talking attractiveness or like?

762
00:38:40,719 --> 00:38:41,239
Speaker 3: What are we talking?

763
00:38:41,280 --> 00:38:44,759
Speaker 2: No? No, no, it's value. So have you ever asked your grandma,

764
00:38:45,160 --> 00:38:47,040
Speaker 2: like how old she is and she's ashamed to tell

765
00:38:47,040 --> 00:38:49,080
Speaker 2: you how old she is because oh, yeah, this is huge.

766
00:38:49,320 --> 00:38:51,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't ask a woman what her age.

767
00:38:51,960 --> 00:38:56,040
Speaker 2: I've never understood that. It's because everyone's been told, or

768
00:38:56,680 --> 00:38:59,200
Speaker 2: women are their value is seen by age. The older

769
00:38:59,200 --> 00:39:00,759
Speaker 2: they get, the less value they get. So they're a

770
00:39:00,800 --> 00:39:03,520
Speaker 2: shamed to be seventy eighty ninety when it's beautiful in

771
00:39:03,520 --> 00:39:06,799
Speaker 2: a sense. So the problem is these men have put

772
00:39:06,840 --> 00:39:09,319
Speaker 2: these predispositions of how we view women to do with

773
00:39:09,400 --> 00:39:13,000
Speaker 2: age when it has no contributing factor at all. Yeah. Fuck,

774
00:39:13,800 --> 00:39:15,840
Speaker 2: it's not a beauty thing because everyone's beautiful in their

775
00:39:15,880 --> 00:39:16,200
Speaker 2: own way.

776
00:39:16,320 --> 00:39:19,680
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.

777
00:39:19,719 --> 00:39:22,640
Speaker 2: And it's going back to her example. It's like you

778
00:39:22,719 --> 00:39:24,759
Speaker 2: and best break up in five years, a lot of

779
00:39:24,760 --> 00:39:26,640
Speaker 2: people will be like, you're fine, you're successful, you're thirty

780
00:39:26,680 --> 00:39:28,279
Speaker 2: year old man. And then people view bet as you're

781
00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:29,440
Speaker 2: thirty and you don't have a boyfriend.

782
00:39:30,760 --> 00:39:34,440
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, that's that's actually does still happen exactly, And

783
00:39:34,520 --> 00:39:36,680
Speaker 3: I guess it comes from a generational thing, and we

784
00:39:36,719 --> 00:39:39,480
Speaker 3: can be the changing factor, I guess, and change it

785
00:39:39,480 --> 00:39:42,919
Speaker 3: for generations to come and even Cassie, I know she's

786
00:39:43,000 --> 00:39:43,760
Speaker 3: afraid of aging.

787
00:39:43,800 --> 00:39:45,520
Speaker 2: And I think it's also like a lot of women

788
00:39:45,520 --> 00:39:47,560
Speaker 2: don't think about it. It's just an instinctual thing because

789
00:39:47,640 --> 00:39:50,640
Speaker 2: that's how they've been told to act.

790
00:39:51,760 --> 00:39:58,080
Speaker 3: Fuck, we are all just products of our fucking environment.

791
00:39:58,280 --> 00:40:00,799
Speaker 2: Well yeah, yeah, I don't know. Age has always been

792
00:40:00,800 --> 00:40:03,279
Speaker 2: a constant to man, Like you always have the debates

793
00:40:03,280 --> 00:40:06,360
Speaker 2: when you're dating too. Obviously there is suss age brackets,

794
00:40:06,719 --> 00:40:09,359
Speaker 2: but also like someone's thirty five, someone's thirty, No one

795
00:40:09,360 --> 00:40:13,120
Speaker 2: cares no what Yeah, And there's always like this predisposition

796
00:40:13,160 --> 00:40:15,400
Speaker 2: of like what you should be able to go up

797
00:40:15,440 --> 00:40:17,879
Speaker 2: above and beyond, when in reality everyone's on their own journey.

798
00:40:17,920 --> 00:40:18,439
Speaker 2: It doesn't matter.

799
00:40:19,000 --> 00:40:21,680
Speaker 3: What's a double standard you see all the time between

800
00:40:21,840 --> 00:40:25,480
Speaker 3: men and women. Now this one is from a woman.

801
00:40:25,680 --> 00:40:29,440
Speaker 3: All of these are from women. This one I found interesting.

802
00:40:30,600 --> 00:40:35,040
Speaker 3: Women want men to put in all the effort, but

803
00:40:35,800 --> 00:40:38,640
Speaker 3: then they don't put any effort in return.

804
00:40:39,400 --> 00:40:41,280
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, they want everything, but they won't give anything.

805
00:40:43,120 --> 00:40:47,520
Speaker 3: No. I think that what she's saying is women want

806
00:40:47,600 --> 00:40:50,320
Speaker 3: men to put in all the effort, but then women

807
00:40:50,360 --> 00:40:51,720
Speaker 3: don't put any effort in return.

808
00:40:51,880 --> 00:40:53,080
Speaker 1: That's the way she's worded it.

809
00:40:53,719 --> 00:40:56,560
Speaker 3: Oh, and I was like, I was thinking, like I

810
00:40:56,600 --> 00:40:58,520
Speaker 3: didn't think that was a thing.

811
00:41:00,560 --> 00:41:02,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, I get it always. I always put that down

812
00:41:02,719 --> 00:41:05,200
Speaker 2: to it too, like you can always want something, but you.

813
00:41:05,160 --> 00:41:05,960
Speaker 1: Attract what you are.

814
00:41:06,680 --> 00:41:07,120
Speaker 8: Yeah.

815
00:41:07,160 --> 00:41:10,080
Speaker 2: So like say you're a woman who doesn't put any

816
00:41:10,080 --> 00:41:11,719
Speaker 2: effort in or you're a man who doesn't put anyfident in,

817
00:41:11,719 --> 00:41:12,200
Speaker 2: and you're.

818
00:41:12,040 --> 00:41:14,520
Speaker 1: Like, and you're saying you want someone that puts effort in.

819
00:41:14,719 --> 00:41:17,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, the actions speak louder than words, even though you're

820
00:41:17,680 --> 00:41:21,440
Speaker 2: saying that, it never works like that, Okay, And like

821
00:41:21,800 --> 00:41:24,439
Speaker 2: I think I think, I don't know, maybe this woman

822
00:41:24,480 --> 00:41:26,479
Speaker 2: has experienced that in her life. Yeah, I think I'd

823
00:41:26,480 --> 00:41:28,480
Speaker 2: say maybe that one's more fifty fifty to sixty forty men.

824
00:41:29,120 --> 00:41:29,520
Speaker 9: Yeah.

825
00:41:30,040 --> 00:41:34,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, I was like kind of thinking, I didn't really

826
00:41:35,239 --> 00:41:38,600
Speaker 3: because it is way more common that men are the ones.

827
00:41:38,520 --> 00:41:39,360
Speaker 1: That don't put the effort in.

828
00:41:39,760 --> 00:41:42,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, it is way more common. Well, we like to,

829
00:41:42,239 --> 00:41:45,239
Speaker 2: I don't know, bash men on this podcast, and do

830
00:41:45,360 --> 00:41:48,200
Speaker 2: believe that there's a big gender inequality between men and women,

831
00:41:48,239 --> 00:41:51,080
Speaker 2: but also there are women out there who don't.

832
00:41:51,120 --> 00:41:53,719
Speaker 3: You can still be a bad person, Yeah, of course,

833
00:41:53,719 --> 00:41:54,920
Speaker 3: you can just be a bad person.

834
00:41:55,080 --> 00:41:58,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, but yeah, she was kind of cooling women out there.

835
00:41:58,360 --> 00:41:59,840
Speaker 1: I get a bit, I guess.

836
00:41:59,640 --> 00:42:02,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, okay, what's a double standard you see all

837
00:42:02,719 --> 00:42:06,000
Speaker 2: the time between men and women body hair? No one

838
00:42:06,080 --> 00:42:08,239
Speaker 2: cares or no one has ever cared when men has

839
00:42:08,239 --> 00:42:10,640
Speaker 2: hairy legs or hairy inputs pits.

840
00:42:12,040 --> 00:42:17,120
Speaker 1: Yeah that. We had a dilemma from a mum about this.

841
00:42:17,600 --> 00:42:18,919
Speaker 2: It was tricky. It was like.

842
00:42:20,440 --> 00:42:23,760
Speaker 3: He was like, why am I always shaving my armpits

843
00:42:23,760 --> 00:42:26,520
Speaker 3: and legs. She's like, I don't really want my daughter

844
00:42:26,560 --> 00:42:28,319
Speaker 3: to ask me why I'm doing that. And then I

845
00:42:28,400 --> 00:42:30,320
Speaker 3: tell her I do it because I think I'm supposed

846
00:42:30,360 --> 00:42:32,799
Speaker 3: to do it for everyone else when I didn't really

847
00:42:32,920 --> 00:42:35,560
Speaker 3: enjoy doing it. And then she was kind of saying, like,

848
00:42:35,760 --> 00:42:39,160
Speaker 3: how would you guys feel about a woman with hairy

849
00:42:39,200 --> 00:42:40,479
Speaker 3: pits hairy legs, like.

850
00:42:40,440 --> 00:42:41,960
Speaker 1: You know all that?

851
00:42:42,640 --> 00:42:45,600
Speaker 3: And I was I felt felt really bad the fact

852
00:42:45,640 --> 00:42:50,120
Speaker 3: that this dilemma exists, but actually was I was like

853
00:42:50,200 --> 00:42:53,040
Speaker 3: really trying to think about it. And once you get

854
00:42:53,080 --> 00:42:57,120
Speaker 3: comfortable in a relationship, you let things go. Like at

855
00:42:57,120 --> 00:42:58,759
Speaker 3: the start of my relationship with Beth, I would like

856
00:42:59,280 --> 00:43:02,320
Speaker 3: man scape way more frequently, Like I always wanted to

857
00:43:02,400 --> 00:43:04,560
Speaker 3: like Man's cape for her, not that I like just

858
00:43:04,600 --> 00:43:06,799
Speaker 3: like kind of made me feel a little better or whatever.

859
00:43:06,880 --> 00:43:09,000
Speaker 1: But admittedly I let it fucking go.

860
00:43:09,160 --> 00:43:12,839
Speaker 3: Now she also lets her legs like grow out all

861
00:43:12,840 --> 00:43:16,600
Speaker 3: the time. Not one bit of me is like, girl,

862
00:43:17,480 --> 00:43:18,320
Speaker 3: shave those legs.

863
00:43:18,320 --> 00:43:20,759
Speaker 2: But also the mindset should be not I'm letting it go.

864
00:43:20,880 --> 00:43:22,480
Speaker 2: That's just that's how I am.

865
00:43:22,520 --> 00:43:22,800
Speaker 9: True.

866
00:43:22,920 --> 00:43:26,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, Yeah, it's almost like I was doing extra. Yeah,

867
00:43:26,760 --> 00:43:28,239
Speaker 2: that's what you're the mindset. No, I'm letting it go.

868
00:43:28,320 --> 00:43:29,840
Speaker 2: I was like I was doing more than I had to.

869
00:43:30,760 --> 00:43:33,120
Speaker 1: True, Yeah, that should be the mindset.

870
00:43:33,600 --> 00:43:36,680
Speaker 2: I can admit. Also, it comes back to because you

871
00:43:36,719 --> 00:43:38,279
Speaker 2: can do it for yourself, because I admit too when

872
00:43:38,320 --> 00:43:40,680
Speaker 2: I shave down there make me feel sexy.

873
00:43:40,800 --> 00:43:43,160
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, you kind of think like I'm getting sexy

874
00:43:43,239 --> 00:43:44,160
Speaker 3: for my girlfriend.

875
00:43:44,280 --> 00:43:46,920
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah. And it's more like going above and beyond

876
00:43:47,400 --> 00:43:49,760
Speaker 2: rather than doing the bare minimum.

877
00:43:49,840 --> 00:43:53,879
Speaker 3: Yeah, and or doing the expectation. We're taught like men

878
00:43:53,960 --> 00:43:56,759
Speaker 3: are taught from a young age. Also women obviously that

879
00:43:56,960 --> 00:43:59,640
Speaker 3: hair is gross on women, your.

880
00:43:59,440 --> 00:44:00,160
Speaker 1: Hair on men.

881
00:44:00,320 --> 00:44:03,040
Speaker 2: I remember in high school too, like there's moments where

882
00:44:03,280 --> 00:44:05,720
Speaker 2: I remember I think it was both genders, but girls

883
00:44:05,719 --> 00:44:07,760
Speaker 2: giving other girls shit for having harry legs and stuff.

884
00:44:08,440 --> 00:44:12,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, school like a toxic get spoken about. Yeah, and

885
00:44:12,680 --> 00:44:16,120
Speaker 3: kids will notice that shit. Kids will like actually notice

886
00:44:16,160 --> 00:44:19,919
Speaker 3: that shit, because when you're at school, your whole thing

887
00:44:20,239 --> 00:44:28,719
Speaker 3: is like, what's it called the pyramid of, like not society,

888
00:44:28,800 --> 00:44:32,879
Speaker 3: the pyramid of like the fucking group, the hierarchy of so, the.

889
00:44:32,880 --> 00:44:34,439
Speaker 1: Hierarchy of like the year.

890
00:44:34,640 --> 00:44:37,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, so it's like you will notice anything that could

891
00:44:37,800 --> 00:44:39,600
Speaker 3: get someone knocked down a peg or two for a

892
00:44:39,600 --> 00:44:41,879
Speaker 3: little while, so you can be on top, like if

893
00:44:41,880 --> 00:44:43,279
Speaker 3: you're the one that notices it.

894
00:44:43,440 --> 00:44:46,080
Speaker 2: I remember it was a thing in school where used

895
00:44:46,120 --> 00:44:49,480
Speaker 2: to like obviously consensually they wanted it, but both girls

896
00:44:49,520 --> 00:44:51,200
Speaker 2: and guys would go around feel like the girls legs

897
00:44:51,280 --> 00:44:54,399
Speaker 2: had the smoothest I remember that, and you'd be like, wow,

898
00:44:54,480 --> 00:44:56,120
Speaker 2: that's smooth, Like it's a compliment.

899
00:44:56,280 --> 00:44:57,640
Speaker 1: I know, I remember. Yeah.

900
00:44:57,960 --> 00:45:02,000
Speaker 3: It was like a thing where a friend of yours

901
00:45:02,000 --> 00:45:04,360
Speaker 3: that was a girl would maybe come up to you

902
00:45:04,400 --> 00:45:07,359
Speaker 3: and be like, feel my legs, Feel how smooth they are.

903
00:45:08,480 --> 00:45:10,040
Speaker 2: You can also flip it on its head too, because

904
00:45:10,080 --> 00:45:12,760
Speaker 2: I used to. It's not anywhere near the same magnitude

905
00:45:12,800 --> 00:45:15,839
Speaker 2: of a problem, or it's uncomparable. I used to shave

906
00:45:15,840 --> 00:45:19,320
Speaker 2: my legs for soccer yeah, and I got cold gay.

907
00:45:19,640 --> 00:45:21,239
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah everyone, yeah people.

908
00:45:21,280 --> 00:45:24,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, if a guy shaves his leg at school, don't

909
00:45:24,200 --> 00:45:25,000
Speaker 3: you fucking dare?

910
00:45:25,160 --> 00:45:28,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was like the thing. Yeah exactly, I haven't

911
00:45:28,040 --> 00:45:29,120
Speaker 1: done it before. What's it like?

912
00:45:29,480 --> 00:45:32,000
Speaker 3: It's actually really feels because it initially so right now

913
00:45:32,000 --> 00:45:34,520
Speaker 3: because I like pretty hairy legs, right, you feel super clean.

914
00:45:34,719 --> 00:45:35,440
Speaker 1: If I was to.

915
00:45:35,400 --> 00:45:38,600
Speaker 3: Shave these and just like walk in the air, it

916
00:45:38,640 --> 00:45:40,360
Speaker 3: would have would I feel naked.

917
00:45:40,600 --> 00:45:43,120
Speaker 2: Air initially for that the first thirty seconds or a minute.

918
00:45:43,120 --> 00:45:44,319
Speaker 2: But where you feel it is when you get into

919
00:45:44,360 --> 00:45:48,319
Speaker 2: your sheets. You feel clean, real like super clean.

920
00:45:48,360 --> 00:45:50,959
Speaker 1: It's weird. I feel like I felt cleanliness before.

921
00:45:50,960 --> 00:45:53,799
Speaker 2: But also your legs and your definition starts to pop.

922
00:45:53,840 --> 00:45:57,320
Speaker 1: It's good. Well yeah, the hair definitely, yeah, it looks.

923
00:45:57,120 --> 00:45:58,640
Speaker 2: But more so it just feels actually like clean. And

924
00:45:59,120 --> 00:46:01,000
Speaker 2: because her hair grows back a little bit quicker, yeah,

925
00:46:01,080 --> 00:46:03,359
Speaker 2: it's a little bit like when it gets like a rushier. Yeah,

926
00:46:03,360 --> 00:46:05,160
Speaker 2: it gets a little annoying because it rubs on ship and.

927
00:46:05,120 --> 00:46:06,000
Speaker 1: Like itchy and stuff.

928
00:46:06,040 --> 00:46:07,440
Speaker 2: But you just got to keep on top of it.

929
00:46:07,560 --> 00:46:10,200
Speaker 2: But it was great for soccer because, like I can't

930
00:46:10,200 --> 00:46:12,360
Speaker 2: remember what was the justification. I think I did it

931
00:46:12,400 --> 00:46:14,359
Speaker 2: because everyone did it as a soccer player, but there

932
00:46:14,400 --> 00:46:16,600
Speaker 2: was some reason like you don't get like cuts as

933
00:46:16,680 --> 00:46:17,560
Speaker 2: much or something.

934
00:46:17,920 --> 00:46:20,800
Speaker 3: Actually thinking about it, why is this soccer player shaving

935
00:46:20,880 --> 00:46:21,279
Speaker 3: his legs.

936
00:46:21,280 --> 00:46:21,960
Speaker 2: There was something to do.

937
00:46:22,680 --> 00:46:25,839
Speaker 3: I can understand. The thing I can understand is like

938
00:46:25,920 --> 00:46:26,640
Speaker 3: a swimmer.

939
00:46:27,160 --> 00:46:28,160
Speaker 2: It wasn't aerodynamic.

940
00:46:28,320 --> 00:46:30,279
Speaker 3: I was gonna say, because with a swimmer, you know,

941
00:46:30,520 --> 00:46:33,720
Speaker 3: like milliseconds count, so if you can somehow mill a second,

942
00:46:34,040 --> 00:46:36,640
Speaker 3: it was like a like to me, let's be real.

943
00:46:36,800 --> 00:46:37,480
Speaker 1: It was a group thing.

944
00:46:37,920 --> 00:46:38,759
Speaker 2: It was a soccer thing.

945
00:46:38,880 --> 00:46:40,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was like a soccer thing. It was like everything.

946
00:46:40,239 --> 00:46:41,120
Speaker 1: It's like I'm doing it.

947
00:46:41,239 --> 00:46:43,600
Speaker 2: Your legs are like a cheese greater when you're like one.

948
00:46:43,400 --> 00:46:48,320
Speaker 1: More thing is in sports like that, rugby, soccer, whatever.

949
00:46:48,880 --> 00:46:50,480
Speaker 3: I don't know if this ever happenue, but if you

950
00:46:50,600 --> 00:46:52,600
Speaker 3: have an injury and you have to tape something, no

951
00:46:52,719 --> 00:46:53,400
Speaker 3: hair would be a lot.

952
00:46:53,520 --> 00:46:55,480
Speaker 2: Remember that's what I used to say, like, oh yeah,

953
00:46:55,560 --> 00:46:57,919
Speaker 2: I was, I gotta tape my knee, I gotta tape

954
00:46:57,960 --> 00:46:59,719
Speaker 2: my ankle. I used to get sprained ankles and I

955
00:46:59,719 --> 00:47:01,320
Speaker 2: was like to shave it anyway, to shave.

956
00:47:01,160 --> 00:47:02,319
Speaker 1: My like yeah, it looks weird.

957
00:47:04,680 --> 00:47:05,640
Speaker 2: I had to justify it.

958
00:47:06,520 --> 00:47:09,239
Speaker 3: All right, what's a double standard? You see all the

959
00:47:09,280 --> 00:47:12,960
Speaker 3: time between men and women. Men take their shirt off

960
00:47:12,960 --> 00:47:15,840
Speaker 3: at the beach, but if a girl wears a small

961
00:47:15,880 --> 00:47:18,600
Speaker 3: bikini top it's skanky.

962
00:47:19,120 --> 00:47:21,319
Speaker 2: That double standard is crazy too, and you always hear

963
00:47:21,320 --> 00:47:23,279
Speaker 2: it from the elder. I think that's an elderly thing too,

964
00:47:23,320 --> 00:47:26,440
Speaker 2: where like girls leave the house especially and like what

965
00:47:26,480 --> 00:47:29,560
Speaker 2: are you wearing? Like its fucked you don't need to

966
00:47:29,560 --> 00:47:32,200
Speaker 2: show the world, Like, bro, yeah.

967
00:47:31,760 --> 00:47:33,600
Speaker 1: I have, Like I think that's it.

968
00:47:33,920 --> 00:47:37,560
Speaker 3: I've had multiple conversations with Beth where we're leaving the

969
00:47:37,600 --> 00:47:41,120
Speaker 3: house and we're going somewhere that's just like family or whatever,

970
00:47:41,520 --> 00:47:46,800
Speaker 3: and she'd be like, is this too revealing? And and

971
00:47:47,480 --> 00:47:50,400
Speaker 3: I mean admittedly sometimes I'm like, oh maybe, Like I

972
00:47:50,600 --> 00:47:53,560
Speaker 3: don't know. I kind of think she obviously isn't feeling

973
00:47:53,560 --> 00:47:57,160
Speaker 3: fully comfortable wearing this there. So it's like I want

974
00:47:57,160 --> 00:48:00,400
Speaker 3: to let her know, like you can change if you

975
00:48:00,400 --> 00:48:02,600
Speaker 3: you're not silly if you change. But at the same time,

976
00:48:02,640 --> 00:48:04,799
Speaker 3: it's like, sucks that you even have to think that

977
00:48:04,800 --> 00:48:08,359
Speaker 3: because you're obviously confident in this thing with friends, why

978
00:48:08,400 --> 00:48:10,160
Speaker 3: can't you be confident in this thing with family?

979
00:48:10,560 --> 00:48:14,480
Speaker 2: It's funny and Cassie sent me a radio station the

980
00:48:14,520 --> 00:48:19,520
Speaker 2: other day and it was the first time someone had

981
00:48:19,560 --> 00:48:21,960
Speaker 2: been in a healthy relationship. And one of the points

982
00:48:22,160 --> 00:48:24,920
Speaker 2: was she was wearing something what she felt comfortable in,

983
00:48:25,239 --> 00:48:27,239
Speaker 2: and the dude's comment was She's like, oh, do you

984
00:48:27,280 --> 00:48:29,279
Speaker 2: mind if I wear this? Or what do you think?

985
00:48:29,520 --> 00:48:31,000
Speaker 2: And he's like, yeah, you look good, go out there.

986
00:48:31,000 --> 00:48:32,919
Speaker 2: But a lot of men will be like, no, you're

987
00:48:32,920 --> 00:48:36,040
Speaker 2: showing too much leg. No, you're showing too much cleavage.

988
00:48:36,160 --> 00:48:38,719
Speaker 2: And like a lot of people have never experienced that

989
00:48:38,800 --> 00:48:42,480
Speaker 2: because men have this thing where it's like a protection thing.

990
00:48:42,480 --> 00:48:44,920
Speaker 2: Oh that's mine, it's a property thing about thing, and

991
00:48:44,920 --> 00:48:46,360
Speaker 2: they go, no, you can't wear that. You have to

992
00:48:46,440 --> 00:48:50,000
Speaker 2: wear less revealing stuff. Alrighty, next one, what's a double standard?

993
00:48:50,080 --> 00:48:53,560
Speaker 2: You see all the time between men and women When

994
00:48:53,640 --> 00:48:56,280
Speaker 2: men and women argue, a man is making a point,

995
00:48:56,600 --> 00:49:02,320
Speaker 2: when a woman is arguing, it's seen as bitchy, valid dude,

996
00:49:04,080 --> 00:49:05,640
Speaker 2: or over the top too much.

997
00:49:07,360 --> 00:49:09,560
Speaker 1: Fuck that's fucked.

998
00:49:09,800 --> 00:49:13,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like, fuck, you almost can't do anything, can't

999
00:49:13,520 --> 00:49:14,719
Speaker 2: leave the house, you can't make a point.

1000
00:49:15,000 --> 00:49:15,239
Speaker 8: Yeah.

1001
00:49:15,400 --> 00:49:16,200
Speaker 1: She trying to think like.

1002
00:49:16,760 --> 00:49:19,080
Speaker 3: Is that in a relationship type thing or is that

1003
00:49:19,120 --> 00:49:21,719
Speaker 3: also that that would just happen in the world, in

1004
00:49:21,800 --> 00:49:22,840
Speaker 3: workplaces or whatever.

1005
00:49:23,040 --> 00:49:25,360
Speaker 2: I was thinking workplace for that one, but obviously it

1006
00:49:25,360 --> 00:49:28,520
Speaker 2: happens everywhere. I think, Yeah, I don't know. If you're

1007
00:49:28,520 --> 00:49:30,640
Speaker 2: in a meeting and you stand on business, Yeah, he's

1008
00:49:30,640 --> 00:49:32,160
Speaker 2: making a point because that's what he's believing. If she

1009
00:49:32,200 --> 00:49:35,400
Speaker 2: said she's been like argumentative, yeah, it's like she's bitchy,

1010
00:49:35,480 --> 00:49:37,799
Speaker 2: She's why are you arguing with me? You doing this?

1011
00:49:37,880 --> 00:49:39,440
Speaker 2: He's like, no, I'm doing the exact same thing. But

1012
00:49:39,440 --> 00:49:39,960
Speaker 2: I'm a woman.

1013
00:49:40,080 --> 00:49:44,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like, I'm just saying my point. Yeah, and it's

1014
00:49:44,239 --> 00:49:46,440
Speaker 3: clearly valid enough for you to not have anything to

1015
00:49:46,440 --> 00:49:48,200
Speaker 3: say back and then call me a bitch.

1016
00:49:48,280 --> 00:49:50,279
Speaker 2: I feel like men think it's to get our jail

1017
00:49:50,320 --> 00:49:52,600
Speaker 2: free card when they don't have anything to say, like,

1018
00:49:52,760 --> 00:49:54,759
Speaker 2: rather than say, oh, that's valid, you put me on

1019
00:49:54,800 --> 00:49:56,560
Speaker 2: my place, like like she's a bitch.

1020
00:49:57,360 --> 00:50:00,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like, well, you probably make him feel better

1021
00:50:00,320 --> 00:50:02,960
Speaker 3: about yeah, a little bit better, I think, so. I

1022
00:50:03,080 --> 00:50:07,440
Speaker 3: guess my last one. What's a double standard you see

1023
00:50:07,440 --> 00:50:11,839
Speaker 3: all the time between men and women. A man can

1024
00:50:11,880 --> 00:50:15,600
Speaker 3: scratch his balls in public and it's normal, But I

1025
00:50:15,640 --> 00:50:19,919
Speaker 3: can't scratch my badge question mark, question mark, question mark, girl,

1026
00:50:20,040 --> 00:50:21,520
Speaker 3: you can scratch your badge.

1027
00:50:21,520 --> 00:50:25,840
Speaker 1: If you want to, hey, spread those legs, scratch that badge.

1028
00:50:25,960 --> 00:50:33,319
Speaker 1: Pause if you if you want to, let's break the norm.

1029
00:50:33,400 --> 00:50:39,440
Speaker 2: Scratch that ain't anything. Also, I shouldn't play Devil's advocate,

1030
00:50:39,440 --> 00:50:40,840
Speaker 2: but if you were scratching your nuts in public, I

1031
00:50:40,840 --> 00:50:43,960
Speaker 2: would also think that's a slightly little bit weird. Yeah.

1032
00:50:44,120 --> 00:50:48,360
Speaker 3: True, but it's just it is way more I guess

1033
00:50:48,960 --> 00:50:51,360
Speaker 3: it is more normal. He's just being a guy walking

1034
00:50:51,360 --> 00:50:54,080
Speaker 3: around your hands down your pants.

1035
00:50:54,600 --> 00:50:55,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a better example.

1036
00:50:56,760 --> 00:50:59,239
Speaker 1: A home, I do it like I Admittedly at home,

1037
00:50:59,280 --> 00:50:59,839
Speaker 1: I do it, but I.

1038
00:50:59,760 --> 00:51:01,480
Speaker 2: Don't think I want to break the norm. I like that.

1039
00:51:01,480 --> 00:51:03,320
Speaker 2: We should make sure it scratch that badge.

1040
00:51:03,719 --> 00:51:07,960
Speaker 3: That would be the funniest thing to take off, Like

1041
00:51:08,840 --> 00:51:12,760
Speaker 3: this whole movement called scratch that bad on the news

1042
00:51:13,280 --> 00:51:15,839
Speaker 3: everything scratch that badge.

1043
00:51:15,560 --> 00:51:17,680
Speaker 2: And you know where it starts in the comments.

1044
00:51:18,360 --> 00:51:21,640
Speaker 1: That badge right now, scratch that hashtag. Scratch that badge.

1045
00:51:21,640 --> 00:51:27,000
Speaker 1: Everybody videos, No, no, not to us social media.

1046
00:51:27,200 --> 00:51:28,879
Speaker 2: We don't want videos and scratch their badge.

1047
00:51:29,080 --> 00:51:29,600
Speaker 9: We want video.

1048
00:51:29,640 --> 00:51:33,080
Speaker 3: We want videos on social media with hashtag scratch that badge.

1049
00:51:33,600 --> 00:51:36,600
Speaker 2: You should have made that centence sentence more streamline. You're like,

1050
00:51:36,680 --> 00:51:41,840
Speaker 2: we want videos, all right, Baddies, Jake and I have

1051
00:51:42,000 --> 00:51:43,719
Speaker 2: a lot more. So what we're going to do, like

1052
00:51:43,760 --> 00:51:46,000
Speaker 2: we did last week is put the rest on Patreon

1053
00:51:46,080 --> 00:51:48,520
Speaker 2: because the combos are so good, so head on over

1054
00:51:48,560 --> 00:51:58,320
Speaker 2: there and enjoy them. That is, it's time for comments.

1055
00:51:58,320 --> 00:52:00,360
Speaker 2: If you want to get your comment read, please this

1056
00:52:00,400 --> 00:52:03,239
Speaker 2: comment below on whatever episode you're listening to today, we're

1057
00:52:03,239 --> 00:52:06,040
Speaker 2: doing something a little bit different and reading the Dilemma's comment.

1058
00:52:06,120 --> 00:52:09,759
Speaker 2: The episode was called I did something I regret. I've

1059
00:52:09,760 --> 00:52:12,800
Speaker 2: got Steph Price. Can you boys come out with a

1060
00:52:12,880 --> 00:52:16,480
Speaker 2: cassticker that says, in quotes, I'm not schizophrenic. I'm just

1061
00:52:16,560 --> 00:52:19,560
Speaker 2: listening to the relatables because I look like an idiot

1062
00:52:19,640 --> 00:52:21,719
Speaker 2: laughing out loud in my car my way to work.

1063
00:52:23,080 --> 00:52:24,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean that's that's a possibility.

1064
00:52:24,719 --> 00:52:25,359
Speaker 2: Will we say that?

1065
00:52:26,000 --> 00:52:29,400
Speaker 1: What I just said? It's good friend. Yeah, I don't know.

1066
00:52:29,440 --> 00:52:31,520
Speaker 3: It was a comment from Baddie. Yeah, it is what

1067
00:52:31,600 --> 00:52:34,040
Speaker 3: it is like, we didn't think of it. It's let

1068
00:52:34,080 --> 00:52:35,759
Speaker 3: us know whether or not we can do that, and

1069
00:52:35,840 --> 00:52:40,120
Speaker 3: we'll think about it. I got one from jay Z,

1070
00:52:41,280 --> 00:52:46,920
Speaker 3: but it's a woman profile picture. Money doesn't buy happiness, Dash,

1071
00:52:47,600 --> 00:52:50,239
Speaker 3: But have you ever seen someone sad on a jet ski.

1072
00:52:50,400 --> 00:52:52,920
Speaker 2: Now you haven't a just.

1073
00:52:52,880 --> 00:52:53,919
Speaker 1: Say one thing, right.

1074
00:52:54,680 --> 00:52:57,440
Speaker 3: Money doesn't buy happiness, but have you ever seen anyone

1075
00:52:57,520 --> 00:53:00,719
Speaker 3: sad ripping down the freeway in their Lamborghini?

1076
00:53:00,840 --> 00:53:02,040
Speaker 1: Yeah? I know you haven't.

1077
00:53:02,560 --> 00:53:04,480
Speaker 3: Money doesn't buy happiness, but have you ever seen someone

1078
00:53:04,640 --> 00:53:06,920
Speaker 3: sad and they're on sweitet Jacuzzi?

1079
00:53:07,440 --> 00:53:09,919
Speaker 1: Fucking doubt it? All right. Let's be real here.

1080
00:53:10,040 --> 00:53:12,320
Speaker 3: Money doesn't buy happiness, but you have you ever seen

1081
00:53:12,680 --> 00:53:15,920
Speaker 3: a sad scene in a movie where someone is swimming

1082
00:53:16,160 --> 00:53:17,080
Speaker 3: in money on a bed?

1083
00:53:17,360 --> 00:53:19,399
Speaker 2: I doubt it, all right?

1084
00:53:20,040 --> 00:53:22,080
Speaker 1: So money can buy happiness?

1085
00:53:22,680 --> 00:53:27,040
Speaker 2: Alrighty, last one, Jessica, we need a compilation of all

1086
00:53:27,160 --> 00:53:31,200
Speaker 2: Jake's Watts reactions like the one at thirteen dot ten

1087
00:53:31,239 --> 00:53:33,600
Speaker 2: in the episode Love Them? Could we get one for them?

1088
00:53:33,800 --> 00:53:34,759
Speaker 1: Is this when I'm like?

1089
00:53:35,440 --> 00:53:35,720
Speaker 9: What?

1090
00:53:36,080 --> 00:53:36,319
Speaker 8: Yeah?

1091
00:53:39,960 --> 00:53:42,239
Speaker 2: Alright, baddies, it's time for the baddie sign off. If

1092
00:53:42,239 --> 00:53:43,680
Speaker 2: you want to get called by us, there will be

1093
00:53:43,680 --> 00:53:46,960
Speaker 2: a link in the description. Today we are calling Vicky.

1094
00:53:50,360 --> 00:53:51,600
Speaker 1: Hello. Is this Vicky?

1095
00:53:52,880 --> 00:53:55,600
Speaker 3: Yes, Vicky, It's Jake and Oddie from the Relatables. How

1096
00:53:55,600 --> 00:53:56,200
Speaker 3: are you going?

1097
00:53:57,320 --> 00:54:00,000
Speaker 10: Oh my god, I'm so good. How are you?

1098
00:54:00,360 --> 00:54:01,279
Speaker 2: Very very good?

1099
00:54:01,520 --> 00:54:01,839
Speaker 7: Very good?

1100
00:54:01,880 --> 00:54:05,080
Speaker 2: I've got Audie with me Jake. Jake ficks up the

1101
00:54:05,080 --> 00:54:10,080
Speaker 2: phone like so elusive. Hello, Sorry, you're some shit.

1102
00:54:11,920 --> 00:54:15,800
Speaker 10: I was just so confused because it's actually eleven thirty pm.

1103
00:54:16,239 --> 00:54:17,440
Speaker 10: I'm in Canada.

1104
00:54:17,600 --> 00:54:20,960
Speaker 1: Oh that's sick that it went through.

1105
00:54:21,280 --> 00:54:23,560
Speaker 10: Yeah, I actually didn't think it would either.

1106
00:54:24,280 --> 00:54:26,719
Speaker 1: Well, apologies if we're running up that phone, but we'll

1107
00:54:26,760 --> 00:54:28,120
Speaker 1: keep it quick. We just wanted you to sign off

1108
00:54:28,120 --> 00:54:29,840
Speaker 1: today's episode for us? Is can you do that?

1109
00:54:30,840 --> 00:54:31,879
Speaker 10: Oh my god, I can.

1110
00:54:32,480 --> 00:54:32,800
Speaker 9: Yes?

1111
00:54:33,200 --> 00:54:35,000
Speaker 1: What have you got for us? You've got advice or

1112
00:54:35,040 --> 00:54:36,400
Speaker 1: quote anything?

1113
00:54:36,960 --> 00:54:37,399
Speaker 2: A joke?

1114
00:54:39,080 --> 00:54:42,600
Speaker 10: I think just everything happens for reasons, Like I'm here

1115
00:54:42,719 --> 00:54:46,280
Speaker 10: because I just wanted to leave and I made it happen.

1116
00:54:46,760 --> 00:54:47,480
Speaker 1: Damn, that's it.

1117
00:54:47,520 --> 00:54:49,279
Speaker 2: I love living by that. How you do things that

1118
00:54:50,000 --> 00:54:51,239
Speaker 2: your younger self wish you could have.

1119
00:54:51,640 --> 00:54:53,560
Speaker 10: Yeah, yeah, absolutely.

1120
00:54:54,000 --> 00:54:54,920
Speaker 1: How long are you in Canada for?

1121
00:54:57,120 --> 00:54:59,239
Speaker 10: I don't know. Actually I'm probably going to be here

1122
00:54:59,320 --> 00:55:00,520
Speaker 10: until next year.

1123
00:55:00,800 --> 00:55:01,200
Speaker 1: Let's go.

1124
00:55:01,920 --> 00:55:03,239
Speaker 2: He's in Canada. Let's go.

1125
00:55:03,960 --> 00:55:05,759
Speaker 1: Your time to keep for picking up.

1126
00:55:06,440 --> 00:55:08,239
Speaker 10: Yeah, thank you so much for calling.

1127
00:55:08,280 --> 00:55:12,080
Speaker 2: Bye bye bye ah.

1128
00:55:12,120 --> 00:55:15,040
Speaker 1: She was definitely like tired and what that was meant

1129
00:55:15,080 --> 00:55:15,239
Speaker 1: to be?

1130
00:55:16,000 --> 00:55:16,880
Speaker 2: Went to Canada?

1131
00:55:17,000 --> 00:55:20,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's crazy that it went you to Canada, damn well,

1132
00:55:21,239 --> 00:55:22,200
Speaker 3: thank you all for listening.

1133
00:55:22,360 --> 00:55:22,840
Speaker 1: We love you.

1134
00:55:23,040 --> 00:55:23,600
Speaker 2: Stay bad.