WEBVTT - Beth Reveals The Truth About Teejay... And The Groom She Preferred (Full Interview) 0:00:00.280 --> 0:00:02.440 Hello, and welcome back to the math Swenny podcast and 0:00:02.480 --> 0:00:05.360 the second episode of after Maths, where I sit down 0:00:05.400 --> 0:00:07.240 and catch up with this year's cast members to find 0:00:07.240 --> 0:00:10.239 out everything they couldn't say until now, see what they've 0:00:10.320 --> 0:00:12.799 learned since the show wrapped, and find out what's next 0:00:12.800 --> 0:00:15.200 for them. And for this episode, I sat down with 0:00:15.240 --> 0:00:19.079 my fellow britt, the Lovely Beth, and I apologize in 0:00:19.120 --> 0:00:21.919 advance because sitting together made both of our accents ten 0:00:21.960 --> 0:00:25.240 times stronger than usual, So if it is hard to understand, 0:00:25.239 --> 0:00:29.840 they'd suggestion slowing the audio down. During the chat, Beth 0:00:29.880 --> 0:00:32.640 tells me where she stands with TJ now, what happened 0:00:32.640 --> 0:00:35.480 between them after filming, which groom she would have rather 0:00:35.560 --> 0:00:38.640 have been matched with, and yeah, just a load of 0:00:38.640 --> 0:00:41.519 other stuff that, to be honest, don't remember because I 0:00:41.560 --> 0:00:44.840 was slightly drunk when I did the chat last week. Enjoy. 0:00:47.440 --> 0:00:48.839 Hello the British you are? 0:00:49.120 --> 0:00:50.920 Yeah, I think what we kind of do some titles 0:00:50.960 --> 0:00:52.080 of a podcast. 0:00:52.240 --> 0:00:53.920 Right, so I've got to speak really clearly then? 0:00:54.240 --> 0:00:55.959 Yeah, but I think we're going to bounce off each 0:00:55.960 --> 0:00:57.440 other and yeah, quiet. 0:00:57.520 --> 0:00:58.120 Can I swear? 0:00:58.960 --> 0:00:59.880 So what you want? Fuck? 0:01:00.240 --> 0:01:03.720 I feel like swearing sounds way worse with a British accent. Yes, 0:01:03.880 --> 0:01:06.520 and that's why Ryan called me classless. That's probably why. 0:01:07.040 --> 0:01:09.480 I think from so for the listeners where but from 0:01:09.560 --> 0:01:13.399 northern England. Yeah, our towns are like forty five minutes away. Yeah, 0:01:13.520 --> 0:01:15.000 very different accents. 0:01:14.840 --> 0:01:15.520 Very different. 0:01:15.720 --> 0:01:17.960 Yeah, i'd say yours is stronger. 0:01:18.840 --> 0:01:20.080 Yeah, I think mine stronger than you. 0:01:20.360 --> 0:01:21.760 Because you've been double the amount of time. 0:01:21.880 --> 0:01:23.840 I know. Do you think you've got somebody who slang 0:01:23.920 --> 0:01:24.080 in you? 0:01:24.880 --> 0:01:26.679 I think every now and again I go, yeah, I 0:01:26.760 --> 0:01:29.479 kind of the end of words where they like turn. 0:01:29.400 --> 0:01:30.840 Them up at the end of the sentence, don't they. 0:01:32.440 --> 0:01:36.040 Okay, should we talk about your failed marriage? Yeah? 0:01:36.080 --> 0:01:43.000 Why not? I mean, yeah, it definitely wasn't what I 0:01:43.080 --> 0:01:45.560 wanted it to be. Obviously. I was hoping i'd walk 0:01:45.600 --> 0:01:48.080 away with a partner, not walking back into my single era. 0:01:49.040 --> 0:01:49.240 You know. 0:01:49.960 --> 0:01:52.160 But it is what it is, isn't it. You can't 0:01:52.560 --> 0:01:56.720 force things. I do wish looking back i'd have left earlier, 0:01:57.200 --> 0:02:00.320 because looking back, I was clinging onto nothing. I was 0:02:00.360 --> 0:02:02.160 waiting for a man that didn't want me. 0:02:04.440 --> 0:02:06.000 Yeah, that's me every week and. 0:02:07.800 --> 0:02:09.520 Oh my god, you know what, I've learned a lot though, 0:02:09.600 --> 0:02:11.639 so I will never do it again. If someone doesn't 0:02:11.639 --> 0:02:12.640 want me to can fuck off. 0:02:13.200 --> 0:02:16.320 That's great, great advice. But I don't think you should 0:02:16.560 --> 0:02:18.400 think you should have left Elie because you were like 0:02:18.520 --> 0:02:22.160 in that bubble of the experiment. I imagine you've got producers 0:02:22.160 --> 0:02:25.560 experts like suggesting that, you know, just keep going the mic. Yeah, 0:02:25.639 --> 0:02:27.720 he might change his mind. Yeah, But then we watched 0:02:27.760 --> 0:02:29.080 the shower and it's like he's not going. 0:02:29.000 --> 0:02:30.919 To change his n no, not all. And I think 0:02:30.919 --> 0:02:32.840 it was hard to watch. It was really hard watching 0:02:32.840 --> 0:02:35.639 it back because it obviously brings up emotions about how 0:02:35.639 --> 0:02:38.760 I was feeling there and then but watching it back, 0:02:38.919 --> 0:02:40.960 I think it was pretty clear he wasn't into me, 0:02:41.480 --> 0:02:43.880 so I can. I just felt embarrassed, so my Beth, 0:02:44.040 --> 0:02:46.480 I wanted to break through the screen and slap myself 0:02:46.840 --> 0:02:49.160 and be like, bitch, get out of there now, but 0:02:49.440 --> 0:02:50.440 you obviously can't do that. 0:02:50.520 --> 0:02:53.519 So my perception on TJ is he was just kind 0:02:53.560 --> 0:02:55.840 of too nice to say at the start, you're not 0:02:55.880 --> 0:02:58.720 my type. You're lovely, but you're not for me. And 0:02:58.760 --> 0:03:00.520 then I suppose at the start everyone wants to give it, 0:03:00.520 --> 0:03:02.120 you know, give it at least a week to see, 0:03:02.639 --> 0:03:04.760 but it felt like it was clear that wasn't going 0:03:04.840 --> 0:03:06.920 to develop for him, and then he just didn't know 0:03:06.960 --> 0:03:08.639 how to back out. 0:03:08.960 --> 0:03:13.520 Yeah. Yeah, I mean it's hard because, like looking back, Yeah, 0:03:13.720 --> 0:03:16.040 I don't really know if he was ever into me. 0:03:16.720 --> 0:03:18.440 I don't know if I just I kind of knew it, 0:03:18.480 --> 0:03:20.280 but I didn't want to admit it to myself, so 0:03:20.280 --> 0:03:21.720 I kind of just swept it under the rug. 0:03:21.919 --> 0:03:22.119 Yep. 0:03:23.240 --> 0:03:27.680 But then there were times where we'd have we'd have 0:03:27.720 --> 0:03:30.600 such a great time together and then he'd say things 0:03:30.600 --> 0:03:33.000 that did make me think he was interested, and it 0:03:33.040 --> 0:03:34.720 was kind of like bread crumbs a little bit, and 0:03:34.760 --> 0:03:36.640 it kind of fucked with my mind a bit. I 0:03:36.640 --> 0:03:37.040 think I. 0:03:36.920 --> 0:03:41.040 Recently learned what that means bread crumbing. Whereas I love bomb. 0:03:41.680 --> 0:03:44.600 You're a love bomber bomber, don't you do? 0:03:44.800 --> 0:03:46.560 You need to do it on purpose. I just get 0:03:46.600 --> 0:03:48.600 attached easily and then think they're going to be in 0:03:48.600 --> 0:03:49.280 my life, and then I. 0:03:49.360 --> 0:03:54.040 Could get attached easily. I'm a very anxious attachment style. Mate. 0:03:54.080 --> 0:03:57.120 Yes, watched it's really bad. 0:03:57.280 --> 0:03:58.800 I don't know how you will learn that, but I 0:03:58.880 --> 0:03:59.960 need to quick smart. 0:04:00.360 --> 0:04:02.440 But then I think TJ should not have carried on 0:04:02.560 --> 0:04:04.320 having sex with you if he was not into you, 0:04:04.360 --> 0:04:07.520 because that is just leading you on, right. Yeah, And 0:04:07.560 --> 0:04:09.080 then I have to ask, so we've all seen the 0:04:09.080 --> 0:04:11.800 clip of him on Big Brother Mister Shack two hundred Women. 0:04:12.640 --> 0:04:16.160 Did you find that out on the show or afterwards? 0:04:16.440 --> 0:04:20.400 I so I found that out day one, on the 0:04:20.400 --> 0:04:23.240 wedding day. So this is my thing, right, I've always 0:04:23.240 --> 0:04:26.440 had my walls up because men are a bit shy 0:04:26.760 --> 0:04:28.919 and it's hard to let him in, right. So I 0:04:29.000 --> 0:04:30.520 went in there being like, Beth, we're going to do 0:04:30.560 --> 0:04:32.920 things differently this time. Bring your walls down, you know, 0:04:33.520 --> 0:04:35.479 really do it differently and give it your all. And 0:04:35.520 --> 0:04:37.960 then the day of the wedding, I obviously found out 0:04:38.000 --> 0:04:42.680 he slept with Jamie. Yeah, first stop, First up, I'm thinking, right, 0:04:42.839 --> 0:04:45.640 am I going to be that storyline where my husband 0:04:46.080 --> 0:04:47.880 cheats on me with another woman because we've all seen 0:04:47.920 --> 0:04:49.680 that happen on mass before. So I'm sat there at 0:04:49.680 --> 0:04:51.720 the wedding thinking, fuck, this is what it's going to be. 0:04:52.120 --> 0:04:54.560 Then after the wedding, when we go back to the 0:04:54.600 --> 0:04:58.200 apartment and we're filming stuff, my phone is bombarded with 0:04:58.240 --> 0:05:01.200 clips of TD and my brother and I get told 0:05:01.200 --> 0:05:03.599 he's admitted to sleep with other two hundred women, which 0:05:03.920 --> 0:05:05.800 was two years before we filmed Maths. So at that 0:05:05.839 --> 0:05:07.440 point I'm thinking, oh, what is it now? 0:05:08.480 --> 0:05:09.280 Three hundred now? 0:05:09.920 --> 0:05:12.479 Yeah, so I was like, okay, shit. So it was 0:05:12.600 --> 0:05:15.440 just a lot of information to find out about someone, 0:05:15.720 --> 0:05:17.880 you know, And I've got nothing against people going on TV, 0:05:18.080 --> 0:05:20.360 like I now I've done it. I know how funny it's. 0:05:20.360 --> 0:05:20.800 Do you know what I mean? 0:05:20.880 --> 0:05:22.000 Yeah, it's an experience, it is. 0:05:22.000 --> 0:05:24.279 It's amazing, Like I'd be open for another show, but 0:05:24.600 --> 0:05:26.719 I think finding out he'd been on another TV show, 0:05:26.720 --> 0:05:28.400 he'd admitted to sleep with that many women and he 0:05:28.480 --> 0:05:30.440 slept me one of the bride day one, that's a 0:05:30.440 --> 0:05:31.560 lot of information. 0:05:31.640 --> 0:05:32.520 To find out up. 0:05:32.800 --> 0:05:34.840 Yeah, So instantly my walls did go up a bit 0:05:34.839 --> 0:05:37.160 more because I'm like, who is this guy? 0:05:37.320 --> 0:05:39.760 You know? And then it must have been quite shocking 0:05:39.800 --> 0:05:43.160 because he's been with two hundred and you're like kind 0:05:43.200 --> 0:05:45.320 of the opposite, like sex is more of a thing 0:05:45.360 --> 0:05:48.279 for you. Yeah, you're not just checking anyone, which no 0:05:48.320 --> 0:05:49.799 shame because I stuallygged lots of people. 0:05:49.880 --> 0:05:51.280 Yeah, I mean, do what you want if you want 0:05:51.279 --> 0:05:52.719 to shock around, do. 0:05:52.320 --> 0:05:55.360 You two couldn't have been polar opposites in complete opposites. 0:05:55.480 --> 0:05:57.159 Yeah, and like on our honeymoon, we actually got that 0:05:57.160 --> 0:06:01.400 honesty box and we got the question rate sex on 0:06:01.440 --> 0:06:03.800 a scale of one to ten, and we both said 0:06:03.800 --> 0:06:09.960 a six. Yeah, yeah, we both we both said a six. 0:06:10.320 --> 0:06:12.600 So sex is important. But to me, if it does 0:06:12.640 --> 0:06:15.520 feel better when I'm not going to say sole interwinement 0:06:15.640 --> 0:06:18.840 because I don't need a soul into tirement, but obviously 0:06:18.880 --> 0:06:20.640 sex does feel better when you know what each other 0:06:20.800 --> 0:06:22.520 like and you've got that little bit of connection, you 0:06:22.560 --> 0:06:22.960 know what I mean. 0:06:23.160 --> 0:06:26.919 Yes, but unless you gay, unless you. 0:06:27.000 --> 0:06:29.480 Get unless you get poket in every hill. 0:06:29.880 --> 0:06:32.000 Yeah, so you're not speaking to him anymore. 0:06:33.200 --> 0:06:37.120 M So he has been texting me a lot since 0:06:37.120 --> 0:06:42.800 we finished filming, and the week from that dinner party 0:06:42.800 --> 0:06:45.080 where everything blew up after Homestays, he texted me a 0:06:45.120 --> 0:06:47.680 couple of times and I just didn't reply because it 0:06:47.800 --> 0:06:54.600 brought back so many emotions and so much anger because yeah, 0:06:54.640 --> 0:06:56.640 watching it back, it was just it was really difficult. 0:06:56.680 --> 0:06:58.600 So I ignored him. And then he reached out to me 0:06:58.640 --> 0:07:02.880 again the week after and we had a conversation because 0:07:02.960 --> 0:07:04.680 I just felt like I needed to get things off 0:07:04.720 --> 0:07:07.400 my chest to close that chapter because being angry at someone. 0:07:07.440 --> 0:07:09.400 It's a heavy emotion to carry, so. 0:07:09.440 --> 0:07:11.360 We had just reliving it because you would have kind 0:07:11.360 --> 0:07:13.280 of moved on and as on TV and your back 0:07:13.720 --> 0:07:14.160 there again. 0:07:14.360 --> 0:07:17.120 Yeah, And it was just I think watching him and 0:07:17.160 --> 0:07:21.000 how he spoke to me really pissed me off because 0:07:21.000 --> 0:07:22.520 I think in the moment, I was blinded by how 0:07:22.520 --> 0:07:24.400 I felt. I was so hurt and I was so embarrassed, 0:07:24.440 --> 0:07:26.440 and I really wanted it to work, and watching it back, 0:07:26.480 --> 0:07:29.160 I was like, fuck you a little bit, shine. 0:07:29.560 --> 0:07:31.560 Yeah, so you're acking you've learnt your worth for a 0:07:31.600 --> 0:07:32.080 bit more now? 0:07:32.120 --> 0:07:36.480 Oh my god. Absolutely, I have absolutely learned my worth. Yeah, 0:07:36.640 --> 0:07:38.520 I absolutely have. I'm not going to chase a guy 0:07:38.520 --> 0:07:40.960 in the future. If you don't want me, it's your loss, 0:07:41.000 --> 0:07:44.800 bro of it's your loss, not mine. Yeah, it's just 0:07:44.840 --> 0:07:47.720 not And I think can I ramble a bit or 0:07:47.720 --> 0:07:49.480 do you have to it? So I think one of 0:07:49.520 --> 0:07:51.880 the things that did annoy me with watching that dinner 0:07:51.880 --> 0:07:57.080 party back after Homestays was that question that my dad asked, 0:07:57.560 --> 0:07:58.760 are you going to break best heart? 0:07:58.920 --> 0:07:59.120 Yep? 0:07:59.360 --> 0:08:01.320 That was a question, was it? 0:08:01.400 --> 0:08:02.800 Yes? Great question? Right? 0:08:03.200 --> 0:08:07.080 They told my dad to ask that, and I told 0:08:07.160 --> 0:08:08.960 TJ after that dinner, I said just so you know, 0:08:09.920 --> 0:08:12.440 that wasn't a genuine question. Production told my dad to 0:08:12.480 --> 0:08:15.320 ask it and TJ went, yeah, I figured that. So 0:08:15.360 --> 0:08:17.800 then when he went back to that dinner party and 0:08:18.000 --> 0:08:21.120 used that in front of everyone, I thought, fuck you. 0:08:21.120 --> 0:08:23.880 You know that wasn't genuine. So that's what annoyed me. 0:08:23.960 --> 0:08:26.520 And that's why it felt like it was almost an 0:08:26.600 --> 0:08:28.720 excuse or just something to pick out. Instead of you 0:08:28.840 --> 0:08:31.240 just saying, Beth, I'm not into you. It felt like 0:08:31.280 --> 0:08:33.920 he had to grab as many excuses as he could 0:08:34.280 --> 0:08:36.280 and use it as his amma. And that's what really 0:08:36.320 --> 0:08:38.080 pissed me off watching that back, because he knew that 0:08:38.120 --> 0:08:41.640 wasn't a real question. Yeah, it really annoyed me. 0:08:43.720 --> 0:08:46.520 Yeah, he really didn't have a good run, did you. 0:08:46.520 --> 0:08:47.480 No, I didn't. 0:08:47.559 --> 0:08:49.360 I have to ask, though, how come we've never had 0:08:49.360 --> 0:08:51.120 a boyfriend? Like I find that shocking? 0:08:51.400 --> 0:08:53.520 No, everyone says, I actually know what I've Actually people 0:08:53.520 --> 0:08:56.439 come up to me in the stream like you're joking. Actually, 0:08:56.480 --> 0:08:58.160 someone come on to me last night and said, Beth, 0:08:58.400 --> 0:08:59.600 that was a lie, wasn't it that you never had 0:08:59.640 --> 0:09:01.959 a boyfriend. I'm like, no, like it's actually true. 0:09:02.160 --> 0:09:03.959 We've seen people Yeah. 0:09:03.800 --> 0:09:07.680 Yeah, yeah, like I've dated quite a few few men, 0:09:08.200 --> 0:09:10.360 but it'll maybe last like three months, six months, and 0:09:10.400 --> 0:09:10.960 maybe then. 0:09:11.520 --> 0:09:13.640 Six months that's a boyfriend. 0:09:13.960 --> 0:09:16.400 Maybe Yeah, No, I don't know. You just kind of 0:09:16.440 --> 0:09:18.480 like test the waters and then maybe red flags come 0:09:18.520 --> 0:09:19.920 up and I'm like, Okay, you're maybe not the one 0:09:19.920 --> 0:09:21.600 for me, I'm not the one for them, and then 0:09:21.600 --> 0:09:23.360 you just go your separate ways. Like that's just been 0:09:23.440 --> 0:09:27.200 my experience. And I think because I am someone that 0:09:27.280 --> 0:09:29.840 gets a bit anxiously attached to people, like when it 0:09:29.880 --> 0:09:32.559 doesn't work and then like, oh my feelings are hurt, 0:09:32.640 --> 0:09:34.559 I feel depressed, and then I give myself a few 0:09:34.559 --> 0:09:36.120 months and then I'm back on the trend, do you 0:09:36.160 --> 0:09:38.120 know what I mean? So I think I've just never 0:09:38.160 --> 0:09:40.800 really really thrown myself into dating because it is shit. 0:09:41.040 --> 0:09:45.640 It's shit, is so shit. Yes, so yeah, I just 0:09:45.640 --> 0:09:47.080 can't be asked with it, to be honest, And that's 0:09:47.080 --> 0:09:48.960 why then when they reached out and we're like, do 0:09:49.000 --> 0:09:50.040 you want to do the show? I was like, I've 0:09:50.080 --> 0:09:52.520 got literally nothing to lose at this point, I may 0:09:52.559 --> 0:09:54.320 as well I need some fucking professional help. 0:09:54.360 --> 0:09:54.560 Love. 0:09:55.400 --> 0:10:01.160 I clearly can't find my mad by myself. Yeah, yeah, 0:10:01.160 --> 0:10:01.880 it didn't really work. 0:10:01.920 --> 0:10:04.320 Out. But you know what was nice in the reunion though, 0:10:04.600 --> 0:10:07.160 seeing how all the girls came together and like Jamie 0:10:07.280 --> 0:10:09.920 was like, you know, we didn't find our men, but 0:10:10.120 --> 0:10:12.040 we found each other. And then there's a great line 0:10:12.040 --> 0:10:15.000 from you. It was something like these men need to 0:10:15.040 --> 0:10:18.200 realize that what they've got and what they're losing hair. Yeah, 0:10:18.240 --> 0:10:19.560 And I was like, you go, girl. 0:10:19.440 --> 0:10:21.880 Yeah, it's facts. And this is the thing with dating. 0:10:21.960 --> 0:10:25.439 I feel like everyone has these certain checklists in the 0:10:25.520 --> 0:10:28.960 head and you could find someone that's so amazing, but 0:10:29.080 --> 0:10:30.760 maybe they don't tick two of the boxes and they're 0:10:30.800 --> 0:10:33.920 like not next. Everyone's just treated like they're so disposable. 0:10:34.080 --> 0:10:38.760 I'll be honest, that's me. I'm trying to change it 0:10:38.880 --> 0:10:40.959 too better. But then I found someone who ticked on 0:10:41.040 --> 0:10:44.920 my boxes. And then over time I just realized it 0:10:45.000 --> 0:10:48.760 wasn't like the chemistry wasn't what I may be wanted. 0:10:49.240 --> 0:10:51.280 I mean, it's hard to find that person. I mean, 0:10:51.280 --> 0:10:53.680 obviously I've never found them, but yeah, I don't know. 0:10:53.760 --> 0:10:56.560 I think dating now is just like you treat everyone 0:10:56.600 --> 0:11:01.640 like they're so disposable. But honestly, these men had great wives, 0:11:01.880 --> 0:11:05.199 so good luck to you. Honestly, you lost amazing women. 0:11:05.520 --> 0:11:08.040 I've seen some comment yesterday of people saying you and 0:11:08.160 --> 0:11:09.520 Elliott could have been a good match. 0:11:09.679 --> 0:11:16.000 Yeah, I saw that. No, Elliott, I just don't know. 0:11:17.960 --> 0:11:21.160 I've mean, Elliott's awesome, Like I really get along with Elliot. 0:11:21.200 --> 0:11:24.480 I think he's great. But I couldn't see us being together. No, 0:11:25.520 --> 0:11:27.520 I just don't. I just wouldn't have. I can't see that. 0:11:27.600 --> 0:11:29.040 If you could have picked one of a groom from 0:11:29.080 --> 0:11:30.280 the cast to it, it had been. 0:11:32.480 --> 0:11:39.520 Who would have been? Maybe maybe Billy because we're both 0:11:39.559 --> 0:11:41.960 from the UK and we instantly had that banter like 0:11:41.960 --> 0:11:44.640 from my wedding. I was calling him Geezer and it 0:11:44.720 --> 0:11:47.480 was like, yeah, we just really bounced off each other. 0:11:47.520 --> 0:11:49.880 So I think if there was anybody else other than 0:11:49.960 --> 0:11:52.240 t J that would have been good. I reckon it 0:11:52.240 --> 0:11:54.640 would have been Billy, Billy Bobs. 0:11:55.840 --> 0:11:59.280 Billy Bob's Billy Bubs. Speaking of Billy, last night, we 0:11:59.320 --> 0:12:02.319 bonded over some thing from the UK, which confused Jamie 0:12:02.320 --> 0:12:03.199 and the rest of the cast. 0:12:03.520 --> 0:12:07.160 Yeah, Billy bar Billy bear me. Are you Brits listening? 0:12:07.200 --> 0:12:09.960 Do you know what it is? It's like ham with 0:12:10.160 --> 0:12:11.920 a Burr's face on it, like it's cut out in 0:12:11.920 --> 0:12:14.040 the shape of a burr. It looks a bit creepy 0:12:14.080 --> 0:12:14.839 to be honest. 0:12:14.640 --> 0:12:17.160 Yeah, but I do miss it's nostalgic. It's gorgeous and 0:12:17.559 --> 0:12:19.199 every British listeners right now are going to be. 0:12:19.120 --> 0:12:24.760 Like Billy Burmey as the result encounter. Could you get it? Sainsbury's. 0:12:25.160 --> 0:12:27.880 My family didn't shop did you know? Did you? Oh? 0:12:27.920 --> 0:12:30.720 Yeah, we shopped at birth as Don Sainsbury's. 0:12:30.880 --> 0:12:32.920 In the UK, it's a bit more different with supermarket. 0:12:32.920 --> 0:12:35.240 It's very niche chat here but like h in Australia, 0:12:35.280 --> 0:12:37.560 you just go to any but in the UK where 0:12:37.559 --> 0:12:39.760 you shop in the supermarket really determines if you're going 0:12:39.800 --> 0:12:44.280 to get bullied in school. Right, you're like income so 0:12:44.320 --> 0:12:46.640 I wasn't as the family, right, so we're kind of 0:12:46.679 --> 0:12:49.520 low income working class, right, but you're two steps up. 0:12:49.559 --> 0:12:51.199 You've bypassed Usco to Sainsbury's. 0:12:51.520 --> 0:12:52.600 Saintsbury's fancy? 0:12:52.760 --> 0:12:57.079 Yeah is it? You want step away from Mikes and Spencer's. 0:12:56.040 --> 0:13:00.720 Marks and Spencer's Lot. We love it? Yeah, test girls 0:13:00.720 --> 0:13:03.600 can kind of fuck off for me, say reason as 0:13:03.760 --> 0:13:04.200 I wish I. 0:13:04.160 --> 0:13:05.960 Could afford to tell to funk off. 0:13:06.360 --> 0:13:08.360 Yeah, it's a bit it's not It's. 0:13:08.240 --> 0:13:11.600 Right, what else missed about the UK chocolate chocolate. 0:13:11.760 --> 0:13:12.600 That's it. 0:13:12.880 --> 0:13:15.679 We are all the same, don't we know? We got 0:13:15.720 --> 0:13:17.240 a galaxy here, galaxy. 0:13:18.160 --> 0:13:21.320 That's an orgasm in my mouth, that it is? It 0:13:21.400 --> 0:13:26.040 really is? Yeah, I am, but yeah, I know dairy milk. 0:13:26.080 --> 0:13:28.160 It's not the same here, it's shy. They put something 0:13:28.160 --> 0:13:30.520 in it to stop it from melting. Apparently, Yeah, it's 0:13:30.520 --> 0:13:30.920 not the same. 0:13:31.160 --> 0:13:32.720 Did you know you can't melt a flake? 0:13:33.840 --> 0:13:34.680 I don't believe you. 0:13:34.679 --> 0:13:37.800 No, seriously, you can't melt like someone said this one. 0:13:37.880 --> 0:13:40.400 So I then put it in the microwave. Doesn't melt. 0:13:40.559 --> 0:13:42.280 How the lights under it didn't melt? Put it in 0:13:42.280 --> 0:13:43.240 a pan, didn't melt. 0:13:43.760 --> 0:13:44.679 I'm actually going to try. 0:13:45.160 --> 0:13:48.400 Honestly, you can't melt that. You'll be determined to make 0:13:48.440 --> 0:13:49.840 it melt, but it will not happen. 0:13:49.920 --> 0:13:50.920 What do you mean you can't melt? 0:13:51.440 --> 0:13:56.160 You can't melt like it's chocolate produce. If you got 0:13:56.200 --> 0:13:59.000 your phone, could you google they put something in it? 0:13:59.800 --> 0:14:02.120 No, I don't believe you. I'm going to try this myself. 0:14:02.120 --> 0:14:03.520 I'm actually going to do it. After this, I'm going 0:14:03.559 --> 0:14:05.679 to go and buy a flake from the corner sharp. 0:14:07.440 --> 0:14:09.439 Does it say? Why? Umm? 0:14:11.840 --> 0:14:13.360 No, but I do have evidence if you want to 0:14:13.360 --> 0:14:13.679 see it. 0:14:14.000 --> 0:14:18.200 Yep, got a TikTok of a flake in a pan. 0:14:19.760 --> 0:14:23.600 That's me. I made this video. That's my kitchen, that's 0:14:23.680 --> 0:14:27.080 my hand. I told you I made a whole series 0:14:27.080 --> 0:14:27.480 out of this. 0:14:28.080 --> 0:14:29.320 What is this sorcery? 0:14:29.680 --> 0:14:30.600 Exactly? Cabri? 0:14:30.720 --> 0:14:31.920 What have you done to the flake? 0:14:32.160 --> 0:14:33.800 I was very bored that week. 0:14:36.080 --> 0:14:39.840 I said, like, such a dude, do you reckon? It's 0:14:39.880 --> 0:14:40.600 either this or this? 0:14:41.160 --> 0:14:41.360 Yeah? 0:14:41.560 --> 0:14:44.480 I think I think the legs better in the airing 0:14:44.480 --> 0:14:45.360 out me, Fanny. 0:14:45.120 --> 0:14:47.440 People listening to you very much. Spread your legs as 0:14:47.440 --> 0:14:48.160 white as possible. 0:14:48.240 --> 0:14:50.640 Yeah, probably shouldn't sit like that, be a lady. 0:14:50.920 --> 0:14:53.600 Oh my mum in the UK is really rooting for you. 0:14:53.680 --> 0:14:56.720 She's the UK correspondent and every week she's like out 0:14:56.920 --> 0:14:59.280 on the on the bus asking people in the cafes, 0:14:59.320 --> 0:15:01.760 the pubs, and everyone's like, oh, we love Beth or 0:15:01.800 --> 0:15:02.760 we're getting beyond Beth. 0:15:03.000 --> 0:15:04.160 Oh what's her name? 0:15:04.360 --> 0:15:04.880 Christine? 0:15:05.080 --> 0:15:06.520 Hi, Christine, love your lots. 0:15:06.680 --> 0:15:07.680 She'll appreciate that. 0:15:07.880 --> 0:15:09.000 She's amazing. She's a queen. 0:15:09.120 --> 0:15:10.800 She doesn't quite know how it works out yet, so 0:15:10.840 --> 0:15:12.080 she's still in the hopeful stage. 0:15:13.480 --> 0:15:15.400 That's sad, babe, oh. 0:15:15.240 --> 0:15:17.920 You said recently, TJ still doesn't realize how much he's 0:15:18.000 --> 0:15:18.360 hurt you. 0:15:19.320 --> 0:15:23.440 Is that true he does now after that conversation. Really yeah, 0:15:23.160 --> 0:15:25.600 I just had to because at the end of the day, 0:15:27.240 --> 0:15:30.520 we never had a conversation about the way he made 0:15:30.520 --> 0:15:32.400 me feel about anything. To be honest, I was kind 0:15:32.400 --> 0:15:34.160 of just too nice and was like, oh, it's okay, 0:15:34.280 --> 0:15:36.720 like you know, keep the friendship going. But then I 0:15:36.760 --> 0:15:38.120 was like, no, why am I doing that? 0:15:38.440 --> 0:15:41.120 But what was it about him that you liked or 0:15:41.160 --> 0:15:42.200 you saw potential in? 0:15:42.960 --> 0:15:46.080 I think how comfortable I felt so early on? 0:15:47.640 --> 0:15:48.960 Is that him though? What was that? Just a nice 0:15:49.000 --> 0:15:50.320 apartment and everything? 0:15:51.000 --> 0:15:52.920 Maybe it was a mix everything, to be honest, yeah, 0:15:53.240 --> 0:15:55.600 I don't know. I think I just felt really comfortable 0:15:55.640 --> 0:15:59.360 around him. Our banter was amazing. We were always joking around. 0:15:59.360 --> 0:16:01.360 So that's you don't have that with everyone. 0:16:01.680 --> 0:16:02.200 That's a big thing. 0:16:02.640 --> 0:16:05.640 Yeah, it is. So that instantly was like, oh I 0:16:05.720 --> 0:16:08.120 had a spark with him. Obviously I was attracted to him, 0:16:08.400 --> 0:16:11.040 and yeah, I just think I think as well. To 0:16:11.080 --> 0:16:14.120 be honest, I just wanted it to work because I've 0:16:14.160 --> 0:16:15.400 never had a relationship, do you know what I mean? 0:16:15.440 --> 0:16:17.080 So I feel like, no matter who I was given 0:16:17.360 --> 0:16:20.400 I would have fallen from because again I'm actuously attached 0:16:20.480 --> 0:16:25.120 and oh you can fuck off. He's a peasant, he's 0:16:25.160 --> 0:16:27.960 a wanker. No, not's him. Do you know what, Actually, 0:16:28.040 --> 0:16:30.160 take that back. I wouldn't have fallen for anyone. Tail 0:16:30.160 --> 0:16:32.720 that back, eat my words. Take him back. Yeah, no, 0:16:32.840 --> 0:16:34.320 I just I don't know. I think it was just 0:16:34.520 --> 0:16:37.760 how comfortable was the banner? Yeah, I was obviously attracted 0:16:37.760 --> 0:16:38.080 to him. 0:16:38.120 --> 0:16:42.240 So and lastly, what's next is you might be moving 0:16:42.280 --> 0:16:42.880 to Sydney. 0:16:43.040 --> 0:16:44.120 Yeah, I want to move to Sydney. 0:16:44.200 --> 0:16:44.920 That's exciting. 0:16:45.160 --> 0:16:47.480 Yeah, Brisbane is there. 0:16:48.080 --> 0:16:48.400 Yeah. 0:16:48.560 --> 0:16:50.120 I just feel like, no matter what state you're in, 0:16:50.120 --> 0:16:51.240 the men are always kind of shy. 0:16:51.680 --> 0:16:52.640 Would you like cus Man? 0:16:53.880 --> 0:16:56.480