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Speaker 1: Hello, guys. It's just a little.

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Speaker 2: Old me this week. Easy if you can tell. But

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Speaker 2: Samy is living it up in Bali.

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Speaker 1: She's actually home tomorrow. But I thought, can't let you

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Speaker 1: go without a girl's guide for the week.

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Speaker 2: So we're just gonna do a little chatty chat with

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Speaker 2: easy ask me questions.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 2: So I've got blake obviously, because I don't like talking

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Speaker 2: to my sol. Hey girl, Hey girl, Hey, and we've

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Speaker 2: asked you guys to ask me some little questions just

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Speaker 2: because why the fuck's.

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Speaker 3: Not exactly and I'm going through them right now. I'm

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Speaker 3: kind of overwhelmed.

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Speaker 1: I looked through them some of them.

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Speaker 3: Okay, and I just was like, oh, thanks.

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Speaker 1: Guys for sending to any questions. Some of the girls

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Speaker 1: are really lovely, but some of them, some of them

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Speaker 1: are funny.

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Speaker 2: So just let's just quick fire some questions and I'll

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Speaker 2: see if I can give you guys.

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Speaker 1: Some good answers.

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Speaker 3: Coolies. Okay, so I'm good. Let's go something a bit

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Speaker 3: more happening in your life right now. Do brunettes have

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Speaker 3: more fun?

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Speaker 1: Okay?

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Speaker 2: I feel sexier as a brune Yeah, I feel a

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Speaker 2: lot hotter as a brunet. I think it's because I

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Speaker 2: have the fake boobs. Now I do have filler on

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Speaker 2: my lips, and then I have fake blonde hair. So

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Speaker 2: I felt like I just kind of looked really fake.

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Speaker 1: And going back to brunettes kind of like back to

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Speaker 1: my roads.

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Speaker 2: I feel like I look better, but the colors that

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Speaker 2: normally suit me don't suit me anymore. Like I don't

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Speaker 2: think black cooks as good as on Brunette's some blondes.

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Speaker 3: Okay, this is actually a girl's guide. Have you done

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Speaker 3: the AI color no color palette? So yeah, you sound

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Speaker 3: like three different photos of yourself and AI will come

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Speaker 3: back to you saying what colors you should wear based

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Speaker 3: off your skin tone, your hair color. How do you

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Speaker 3: find that it's just on? Like chatch ebt. I think we'll.

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Speaker 2: See Black's my favorite color, and I'm learning to get

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Speaker 2: into white.

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Speaker 1: But brunettes have more fun.

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Speaker 2: I've been in a bit of a shell, in a

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Speaker 2: really good, nice shell for the past like two weeks.

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Speaker 2: Since I've been brunette, I've been kind of getting into

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Speaker 2: Pete reading my books. I haven't been probably having as

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Speaker 2: much fun as I did Pryor today. Okay, in saying

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Speaker 1: We'll see.

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Speaker 3: Okay, all right, we got this question a few times.

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Speaker 3: I feel like we've covered it, but it'll be good

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Speaker 3: to like hear straightly from you. Really well, firstly, they

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Speaker 3: want boy tea. We'll see if we want to go there.

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Speaker 3: And how to get over a breakup when you really

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Speaker 2: But I think, if I'm being completely honest, I don't

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Speaker 2: do you know what I mean? Like, I think your

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Speaker 2: life changes and moves, and I now know that I'm

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Speaker 2: way better off now and I'm very content with my life,

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Speaker 2: and I would not want to be with that person anymore.

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Speaker 2: But you're always going to have like that love and

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Speaker 2: I think it's just take every day as it comes,

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Speaker 2: and surround yourself with things that make you happy. You know,

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Speaker 2: eating past watching game of her own. So I allowed

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Speaker 2: myself to do those things. And it's very much a

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Speaker 2: always say over and over is you've got to go

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Speaker 3: It's game over. I have never lived by that rule,

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Speaker 3: although I like, I've been through a breakup in so long. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: The only way cool.

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Speaker 2: You love them, you want to be friends with them,

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Speaker 2: Yet no, not going to happen, not for a couple

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Speaker 2: to terms with. You actually have to cut this person

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Speaker 3: This is super timely because we've been getting so many

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Speaker 3: have you been seeing them or the graduation emails? Have

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Speaker 3: I have I have so sweet. Someone has just said

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Speaker 3: tips on how to enjoy year twelve when the people

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Speaker 2: I fucking hated yourself same like I absolutely fucking hated it.

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Speaker 1: I the way I got through the year.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe my advice might not be the best, but

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Speaker 2: I would literally just like sit in the library during lunch.

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Speaker 1: I've got to get through it.

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Speaker 2: People aren't that fucking special to make me feel like

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Speaker 1: Girls are mean, boys mean too.

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Speaker 2: So I just would sometimes sit in the library, I'd

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Speaker 2: And I think a lot of schools do have that

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Speaker 2: I love that, you know, like, fucks being stuck around

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Speaker 3: And I think, obviously this person is in year twelve

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Speaker 2: But maybe you're almost done that and it does go

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Speaker 2: I'm what six years out of school, so is Blake,

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Speaker 2: And it's like, I think, I don't ever.

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Speaker 2: Like the people that were in my level at school,

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Speaker 3: I don't need to. Six years. That's crazy.

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Speaker 2: Where we're adults, I don't consider myself at all.

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Speaker 1: I don't think my friends will loads developed yet.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so we're not there yet. One more year, one

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Speaker 2: I actually also wanted to mention to you guys, because

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Speaker 2: I did see a couple of the questions were about books, yah.

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Speaker 1: Book recommendations.

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Speaker 2: I'm listening to this audiobiok right now, and it's called Credence,

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Speaker 2: And if any of you know what that book is,

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Speaker 2: let me get an audiobook. So I've started Credence, which

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Speaker 1: So it's his chick.

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Speaker 3: How are you keeping up?

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm listening to this in the car and it's

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Speaker 2: Like sometimes you're like this is romantic, this is lovely,

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Speaker 2: oh I love these romance storylines. No, this is like dirty,

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Speaker 3: Well, that's the thing. I kind of I don't want

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm like driving in my car and people are

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Speaker 1: Cheek isn't fucked anyway. I actually would recommend that.

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Speaker 2: Like I've listened to eleven of the fifth sixteen hours

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Speaker 2: I know, and it's like it kind of has taken

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Speaker 2: When I'm cooking, I'll just like play the audiobook. But

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Speaker 2: it's interesting if like sort of that taboo, weird sort.

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Speaker 1: Of sexual bullshit is something that you into. I wouldn't

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Speaker 3: Well, that's the thing, because I have gotten like to

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Speaker 2: No, I don't know if I would go down it again. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: By three guys and I'm like, actually on that. Someone

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Speaker 3: has asked best advice getting into books? How did you start?

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Speaker 2: How did I start getting into books? Because I used

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Speaker 2: stopped reading for years and years and I've only gotten

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Speaker 2: into it quite recently.

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Speaker 1: I read all the Colin Hoover books.

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Speaker 2: But I think the way I got into the reading

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Speaker 2: more like when I read the Colin Hoover books, I'd

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Speaker 2: and you're asking me about both my exes and if

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Speaker 2: I still like them and if they're good people. I

444
00:18:23,960 --> 00:18:26,879
Speaker 2: don't fucking know, why are you asking me about this?

445
00:18:26,960 --> 00:18:30,280
Speaker 2: But it wasn't bad. Once again, it was fine. I

446
00:18:30,320 --> 00:18:32,320
Speaker 2: just wouldn't see him again because I didn't find myself

447
00:18:32,400 --> 00:18:35,280
Speaker 2: enjoying and I wasn't kind of laughing, which I just

448
00:18:35,320 --> 00:18:36,040
Speaker 2: I want to be laughing.

449
00:18:36,080 --> 00:18:37,080
Speaker 1: I want to be having fun.

450
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Speaker 2: And I kind of found more that I was like,

451
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Speaker 2: how long do I have to say you so fast?

452
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Speaker 1: You know what I mean? But once again, he was

453
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Speaker 1: a nice guy.

454
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Speaker 2: But kind of what I think I took away from

455
00:18:46,359 --> 00:18:48,480
Speaker 2: that is they were two very very different people, and

456
00:18:48,560 --> 00:18:51,040
Speaker 2: yet I still like was able to, you know, hold

457
00:18:51,040 --> 00:18:53,760
Speaker 2: a conversation, get along fine with both of them. So

458
00:18:53,880 --> 00:18:56,320
Speaker 2: all that those nerves I always had before a date

459
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Speaker 2: of like, am I going to have things to talk about?

460
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Speaker 2: Am I going to run out of conversation? Like you

461
00:19:01,000 --> 00:19:01,800
Speaker 2: never really do?

462
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Speaker 3: You should actually like note everything you're proud of after

463
00:19:05,160 --> 00:19:07,640
Speaker 3: a date because just because you know you haven't ended

464
00:19:07,720 --> 00:19:09,040
Speaker 3: up with them or you don't see.

465
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Speaker 2: Yeah you got through it. You literally had proisation the

466
00:19:12,240 --> 00:19:15,000
Speaker 2: whole time. Yeah, that's all you need. And then that's

467
00:19:15,040 --> 00:19:16,680
Speaker 2: always the thing I'm scared about, what if I don't

468
00:19:16,680 --> 00:19:18,800
Speaker 2: know what to talk about. But it's like I've never

469
00:19:19,040 --> 00:19:21,520
Speaker 2: run into that on a date, regardless of whether I

470
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Speaker 2: think the guy and I are getting along or not.

471
00:19:23,080 --> 00:19:25,679
Speaker 2: You always kind of maybe it's fight or flight, figure

472
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Speaker 2: out a way to continue this conversation, you know. So

473
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Speaker 2: it's kind of chipped away at that fear that I

474
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Speaker 2: have of dates, even just going on those two. Yes,

475
00:19:34,119 --> 00:19:36,560
Speaker 2: I won't see the guys again, but like, like I

476
00:19:36,640 --> 00:19:38,840
Speaker 2: always say, it's practiced for the right guy, and like

477
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Speaker 2: hopefully I'm not as nervous going into.

478
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Speaker 3: The next one. And before we go, how many dates

479
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Speaker 3: do you think you go on? Like how frequently? Would

480
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Speaker 3: that was?

481
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Speaker 2: Actually those are actually the first dates I've been on

482
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Speaker 2: in like I reckon like six months, like quite a

483
00:19:52,280 --> 00:19:56,199
Speaker 2: well really, except I went on a date with I

484
00:19:56,200 --> 00:19:57,600
Speaker 2: wouldn't even really call it a date.

485
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Speaker 1: But I don't know if you guys, you old listeners woul.

486
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Speaker 2: Remember I was talking about a guy that I was seeing,

487
00:20:02,680 --> 00:20:05,600
Speaker 2: like way ages ago that had a Sam sung and

488
00:20:05,680 --> 00:20:08,520
Speaker 2: I liked it quite a couple of times. He moved

489
00:20:08,560 --> 00:20:10,960
Speaker 2: overseas and he got back, so we caught up and

490
00:20:11,040 --> 00:20:13,119
Speaker 2: it was fine, We get along great. But that wouldn't

491
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Speaker 2: really classify that as a date. But beyond those two,

492
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Speaker 2: I went on the other week. That was the only

493
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Speaker 2: other one I've kind of been on in the last

494
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Speaker 2: six months.

495
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Speaker 3: Well to go back to, like, you don't know what

496
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Speaker 3: you're looking for, Yeah, I feel like I kind of

497
00:20:24,680 --> 00:20:26,439
Speaker 3: figured it out through dating.

498
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Speaker 1: Yeah exactly.

499
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Speaker 3: Oh my god. There was so many flops, Like I

500
00:20:29,760 --> 00:20:33,159
Speaker 3: could actually tell some horror stories. There's some you go

501
00:20:33,200 --> 00:20:35,840
Speaker 3: through your experiences. But then I found for the next

502
00:20:36,080 --> 00:20:37,960
Speaker 3: I was like, well, I'm never going through that again.

503
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Speaker 1: Yeah.

504
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Speaker 2: You learn what you like or like, and sometimes you

505
00:20:40,880 --> 00:20:43,040
Speaker 2: have so much fun and even if it's someone you're

506
00:20:43,040 --> 00:20:44,439
Speaker 2: not going to see again, you know, the date can

507
00:20:44,480 --> 00:20:47,280
Speaker 2: still be so fun. You learn things about yourself, like

508
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Speaker 2: I kind of was hoping even just going on those

509
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Speaker 2: two dates, which was a coincidence it ended up coinciding

510
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Speaker 2: on the same week, But I'm like, that was fun

511
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Speaker 2: and I want to go on more dates, and now

512
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Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, like I want to go on a

513
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Speaker 2: date this week, Like I want to put myself out

514
00:21:02,359 --> 00:21:04,000
Speaker 2: there more because yeah, I want to find a guy.

515
00:21:04,160 --> 00:21:07,040
Speaker 2: I fucking don't respond to anyone's textbusters, so I'm like,

516
00:21:07,960 --> 00:21:10,080
Speaker 2: push yourself and that's what I'm trying to do. So

517
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Speaker 2: don't fret when I say, oh, I went on two

518
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Speaker 2: dates so I can people like I'm not going on

519
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Speaker 2: there that many dates.

520
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Speaker 1: I'm not either, but I want to start.

521
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Speaker 3: So it comes and goes and waves.

522
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Speaker 1: Yeah. Completely, I would.

523
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Speaker 3: Say stay open and this is so annoying to hear,

524
00:21:23,560 --> 00:21:26,359
Speaker 3: but when you have that right date, you're one hundred percent.

525
00:21:26,440 --> 00:21:30,240
Speaker 3: Though for the rest of the day, I know we'll

526
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Speaker 3: be laughing about this.

527
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Speaker 2: Yeah, something I've just done differently since they did go

528
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Speaker 2: on the two dates that actually will like respond to people.

529
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Speaker 2: You can do something because I'm like, you never know exactly,

530
00:21:42,000 --> 00:21:44,040
Speaker 2: never know, so put yourself out there.

531
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Speaker 1: Not easy. Still something I'm really struggling to learn and

532
00:21:47,720 --> 00:21:48,199
Speaker 1: something that I.

533
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Speaker 2: Think I see my friends like so putting themselves out there,

534
00:21:51,280 --> 00:21:53,399
Speaker 2: and I'm like, what the fuck.

535
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Speaker 1: I do that?

536
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Speaker 2: But you know, everyone does things at different times, and

537
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Speaker 2: I think it's just you do have to push yourself

538
00:22:00,040 --> 00:22:01,719
Speaker 2: out of your comfort zone if you do want to,

539
00:22:02,400 --> 00:22:04,640
Speaker 2: I think achieve a lot of things, whether it's a boyfriend,

540
00:22:04,640 --> 00:22:07,160
Speaker 2: whether it's a job. Like you're not going to get

541
00:22:07,200 --> 00:22:10,719
Speaker 2: that from staying in your little bubble, So push yourself.

542
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Speaker 3: Kids, exactly right. This was so much fun.

543
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Speaker 1: I loved it.

544
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Speaker 3: Thanks for chatting with me.

545
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Speaker 1: Tell me guys, we love you so much.

546
00:22:20,680 --> 00:22:24,080
Speaker 2: I appreciate you. Hopefully you didn't miss them too much.

547
00:22:24,160 --> 00:22:26,720
Speaker 2: I know I am. But she's home tomorrow and things

548
00:22:26,760 --> 00:22:29,560
Speaker 2: will be back at usual on Tuesday.

549
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Speaker 3: Some exciting episodes coming on Monday.

550
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Speaker 1: I can't wait. All right, guys, we love you so much.

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Speaker 1: Bye bye,