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Speaker 1: Coming up on Relatables. I met my younger self for

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Speaker 1: coffee today.

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Speaker 2: She said she took the bus because she doesn't have

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Speaker 2: her license yet.

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Speaker 1: I said, girl, same, She said, ho, when are you

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Speaker 1: gonna get it?

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Speaker 2: Someone want to say, girl, your boy best friend can

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Speaker 2: fuck off? Oh yeah, your boy best friend is not

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Speaker 2: your best friend. He's not your friend at or your

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Speaker 2: boy best friend can absolutely fuck right off.

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Speaker 1: I told Oddie, I'm not going.

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Speaker 2: To say fucking this episode, but I really have said

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Speaker 2: it a lot, but it had to be said at

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Speaker 2: the end.

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Speaker 1: Here he can literally go and eat a dip. Relatable.

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Speaker 1: The Relatables podcast is hosted by myself, Audie Clark aka Mummy,

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Speaker 1: and my partner in crime is the Jake Craig aka Daddy.

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Speaker 1: How does it feel to say that just to me

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Speaker 1: and no one else? It feels a maze so much better. Yes,

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Speaker 1: it's almost like a relief. I want to start. I

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Speaker 1: just wanted to quickly say thanks to everyone that that

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Speaker 1: watched or listened to the episodes with the girls, bathroom

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Speaker 1: mentioneds and gigs big moments for us. That was awesome.

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Speaker 2: And if anybody's just stuck around and came over.

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Speaker 1: To welcome welcome, Welcome, everybody. We just want to have

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Speaker 1: a warm welcome to where the baddies unite. That is

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Speaker 1: male and female of course.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, all men and women all welcome. They're all baddies,

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Speaker 2: bade everyone's Yeah. I just wanted to say, yeah, it's

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Speaker 2: pretty cool.

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Speaker 1: Imagine just just thinking about it, right, I'm just thinking, like,

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Speaker 1: because I was thinking if I was to see maybe

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Speaker 1: a favorite podcaster of mine have a guest, yeah, or

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Speaker 1: like they guessed it on a podcast, and so I

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Speaker 1: went and listened to it, and I was like I

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Speaker 1: might listen to them without them, and then the next

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Speaker 1: episode they were just like, if you're from that episode, welcome.

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Speaker 1: I would have been like, oh I feel special. Yeah, everything,

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Speaker 1: I want everyone to feel special. And thinking about it too,

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Speaker 1: even if we got like one new listener, that's one

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Speaker 1: whole kiddish human. It's a soul. Yeah, it's a soul.

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Speaker 1: It's a soul. It's a full soul with a living, breathing,

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Speaker 1: beating heart. All right, literally, yeah, it's so easy to

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Speaker 1: get disconnected from that that everyone is a soul. I

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Speaker 1: like how you mentioned soul man, that's I like you.

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Speaker 3: It's a come on, don't go like making me look

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Speaker 3: bad in front of all the bad You're just not

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Speaker 3: very like what's a holistic?

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Speaker 1: Holistic? Yeah, okay, I can't argue with that, but you

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Speaker 1: know what I can argue with you, you mate, that

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Speaker 1: was a great transition almost, I almost almost. What do

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Speaker 1: you I think I caught you off? Guy, that's why

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Speaker 1: you laugh. I'm ready to argue now.

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Speaker 2: But okay, So, as all the all the o G

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Speaker 2: baddies know, we've been doing an argument at the start

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Speaker 2: of each episode, so we don't be so agreeable the

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Speaker 1: You know what I've been noticing, Actually we don't agree

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Speaker 1: that I agree that much anymore. Yeah, so we we've

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Speaker 1: been doing the argument, right, but I think it's more

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Speaker 1: on Patreon. I think I've noticed it. But we've been

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Speaker 1: have been we've been fighting. So maybe this is working.

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Speaker 1: Maybe maybe it is, like, so we'll keep doing it. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: what are we arguing about today?

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Speaker 2: So it's whether or not you should move out of

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Speaker 1: Which is relatable for us at the moment, because we

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Speaker 1: are if you are on Patreon plug, we are discussing

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Speaker 1: potentially moving to a new state next year. Yeah, which

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Speaker 1: is very exciting, daunting, scary. Yeah, no, it's very exciting.

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Speaker 1: And I'm actually I'm moving in about ten days, not

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Speaker 1: even wall Sydney. Where to take the limelight away from us?

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Speaker 1: Fucking selfish? Yeah, we live in the moment, and we start,

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Speaker 1: we start thinking about one step ahead instead of twenty. Okay,

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Speaker 1: which which which point do you want? I'm going to

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Speaker 1: Do you want me to start? Yeah, you start? I

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Speaker 1: I thoroughly believe that I am going to be better

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Speaker 1: experience so much more growth, find my independence, find my place,

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Speaker 1: My freedom? So you're chasing a bit of freedom. What's

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Speaker 1: with and love, your parents included. Because I chose this place.

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Speaker 1: This place is for Oddie Clark, the new place. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: not everyone around me. I'm not sacrificing what I want

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Speaker 1: plan wise, obviously you want to leave, go somewhere, and

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Speaker 1: then what about you and Cassie? You go move right,

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Speaker 1: you guys, go do your little thing, your little Oh

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Speaker 1: look at us, we want to leave, you know, we

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Speaker 1: Doesn't and then make me feel good? And then this

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Speaker 4: And then and then you think, okay, well look at us.

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Speaker 4: and think how well they didn't. You have a couple

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Speaker 1: You know everyone else? Yes? But I think there comes

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Speaker 2: Or any two people raise you, Odie. They gave away

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Speaker 1: To see them. And they did a good job, But

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Speaker 1: Now they can go they want to see their grandkids.

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Speaker 1: You don't know that if they're actually for a factor,

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Speaker 1: They're my kids. Selfish. Yeah, you're going to be selfish

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Speaker 1: I loved you unconditionally when you were a little shit,

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Speaker 1: they probably only they only want to read the benefits

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Speaker 1: All right? Yeah, you're gonna be like, well, now you

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Speaker 1: and then you didn't even can see your grandkids. Stop

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Speaker 1: thinking about your deathbed on it, mate. We are spiraling

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Speaker 1: I haven't thought that far ahead. I need to find

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Speaker 1: They're not leaving anywhere that I can always come back.

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Speaker 1: So you plan on coming back? Is that's what I'm hearing. No,

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Speaker 1: I can. It's always there for me. It's not going anywhere.

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Speaker 1: It's not like the moon mate. I can't not go there.

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Speaker 1: So you're treating this place like a You're like a

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Speaker 1: toxic boyfriend in a bad relationship. How so I can

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Speaker 1: always came back. She'll always be This place will not

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Speaker 1: always be waiting for you want it. There's going to

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Speaker 1: be not there's not always going to be houses to

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Speaker 1: buy it. I'm always going to be placed to live.

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Speaker 1: I'm not taking this place for granted. I know how

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Speaker 1: beautiful it is. You are taking it for granted because

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Speaker 1: you're leaving. No, I'm not. You're taking it for granted

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Speaker 1: I want, Yes, yes, yes, taking it for granted. Your

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Speaker 1: analogy doesn't work for a place. You're comparing people to

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Speaker 1: a place. This doesn't work or it's not about the place,

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Speaker 1: it's about the people, and the people are your parents

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Speaker 1: that you're leaving, and your friends and you're family. I'm

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Speaker 1: just going to do it. That was a good one.

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Speaker 1: That's good. You had some great arguments. Realize how much

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Speaker 1: you cared about I don't give a I'm leaving. I'm

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Speaker 1: full leaving. That was a good hill. My parents left me, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I know. I was like, you know what, maybe there

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Speaker 1: That's what I was thinking. Leave you left me off

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Speaker 1: for myself. You don't value our connection, our bond. Wow.

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Speaker 1: That was crazy. That was crazy. Wow. No, that was

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Speaker 1: a good one. That really got us loomed up. Pause

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Speaker 1: Sometimes, so maybe I could get a new host. No way,

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Speaker 1: something something like that. And there's only ten cases active

429
00:20:58,000 --> 00:21:00,560
Speaker 1: in America right now. But it's a hard thing to tests,

430
00:21:00,560 --> 00:21:04,720
Speaker 1: so they actually don't know. But so twins, for example, right, yeah,

431
00:21:04,840 --> 00:21:06,800
Speaker 1: you would think one hundred percent they have the exact

432
00:21:06,840 --> 00:21:10,560
Speaker 1: same DNA, same mum and dad. There's cases out there.

433
00:21:10,600 --> 00:21:14,280
Speaker 1: This blew my mind where obviously same mum has to

434
00:21:14,280 --> 00:21:19,640
Speaker 1: give birth to them separate dads because a girl has

435
00:21:19,640 --> 00:21:22,920
Speaker 1: had sex with more than one person, like within two

436
00:21:22,960 --> 00:21:26,280
Speaker 1: days or something. Yeah, if they're hyperovulating and they have

437
00:21:26,359 --> 00:21:28,360
Speaker 1: sex with more than one person, I think the timeframe

438
00:21:28,359 --> 00:21:29,840
Speaker 1: can get up to three days, but it can be

439
00:21:29,880 --> 00:21:31,560
Speaker 1: the same day if they really want to. Wait a second,

440
00:21:31,720 --> 00:21:34,679
Speaker 1: you can have twins that have different dads born at

441
00:21:34,680 --> 00:21:36,919
Speaker 1: the same time. Yeah, well, just like slightly after each other,

442
00:21:36,920 --> 00:21:38,840
Speaker 1: but they're still twins like the normal, just like a couple.

443
00:21:38,840 --> 00:21:40,639
Speaker 1: Of hours after each other. Yeah, And one of the

444
00:21:40,640 --> 00:21:43,240
Speaker 1: people with the callers on the podcast was one of

445
00:21:43,240 --> 00:21:45,520
Speaker 1: these people, and they found out because they're like the

446
00:21:45,880 --> 00:21:47,880
Speaker 1: whole life, they've been completely different. Are you were twin

447
00:21:47,960 --> 00:21:50,840
Speaker 1: then yeah, because you're still the same mum. Yeah, but

448
00:21:50,880 --> 00:21:52,359
Speaker 1: you and you and you and eton have the same mum.

449
00:21:52,400 --> 00:21:54,040
Speaker 1: You're not twins, yeah, but they still the same. They're

450
00:21:54,040 --> 00:21:55,800
Speaker 1: born at the same time. That's what a twin is.

451
00:21:55,880 --> 00:21:57,359
Speaker 1: I don't know if that's the technicality of it, but

452
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Speaker 1: the fire was mind blown. I was like, what the

453
00:22:00,280 --> 00:22:02,080
Speaker 1: hell that is crazy. I didn't think that was possible.

454
00:22:02,320 --> 00:22:04,560
Speaker 2: So does that mean that she was with someone and

455
00:22:04,640 --> 00:22:05,720
Speaker 2: cheated on the other guy?

456
00:22:05,880 --> 00:22:07,080
Speaker 1: No, I don't think she was married at all.

457
00:22:07,160 --> 00:22:08,560
Speaker 2: Or she just like just had a couple of one

458
00:22:08,600 --> 00:22:10,840
Speaker 2: night stands. Yeah, just like got lucky two nights in

459
00:22:10,880 --> 00:22:13,639
Speaker 2: a row. Yeah, as you do. Yeah, and then fucking

460
00:22:13,680 --> 00:22:14,560
Speaker 2: had two kids.

461
00:22:14,600 --> 00:22:17,600
Speaker 1: They were speculating whether or not there was threesomes involved,

462
00:22:17,600 --> 00:22:19,040
Speaker 1: like the kid was She's like, I just don't want

463
00:22:19,040 --> 00:22:20,760
Speaker 1: to know, but like it was three. Oh wait, that's

464
00:22:20,800 --> 00:22:22,320
Speaker 1: such a good point. The mum definitely just had a

465
00:22:22,320 --> 00:22:23,840
Speaker 1: threesome with two guy. But it can be. It can

466
00:22:23,840 --> 00:22:25,920
Speaker 1: be up to three days pretty much. And I was like, wow,

467
00:22:25,920 --> 00:22:28,720
Speaker 1: I did not know that crazy the human talking about

468
00:22:28,760 --> 00:22:30,720
Speaker 1: like the Big Bang theory and like human bodies are

469
00:22:30,760 --> 00:22:37,080
Speaker 1: just crazy what they can do. Wow. Yeah, Wow, damn,

470
00:22:37,240 --> 00:22:38,080
Speaker 1: that's crazy.

471
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Speaker 4: I find that.

472
00:22:39,040 --> 00:22:42,320
Speaker 1: Look, actually, anything, I think anything's possible, so do I.

473
00:22:42,320 --> 00:22:43,840
Speaker 1: I can be surprised by something. But I'm not going

474
00:22:43,880 --> 00:22:45,720
Speaker 1: to say that's not real. I Lowky, you think it's

475
00:22:45,720 --> 00:22:46,120
Speaker 1: cool too?

476
00:22:46,359 --> 00:22:49,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I think that's crazy. But oh no, I

477
00:22:49,800 --> 00:22:51,280
Speaker 2: was going to say, no, they're the same mum, So

478
00:22:51,280 --> 00:22:53,240
Speaker 2: they still. So that means that these twins are only

479
00:22:53,280 --> 00:22:53,880
Speaker 2: half siblings.

480
00:22:53,920 --> 00:22:57,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's it, and they are twins. Crazy a The

481
00:22:57,359 --> 00:23:00,480
Speaker 1: more you think about it, you're like, what the fuck? Yeah? Nah,

482
00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:08,720
Speaker 1: that's like, ah, so crazy. All right, Jake, I'm a

483
00:23:08,720 --> 00:23:11,120
Speaker 1: bit stressed. I've been trying to book a romantic getaway

484
00:23:11,160 --> 00:23:13,520
Speaker 1: for myself and my girlfriend for a birthday. Mate. You

485
00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:18,440
Speaker 1: are a green flag, and I'm feeling so much pressure

486
00:23:18,520 --> 00:23:21,920
Speaker 1: right now. What we both want is a couple of things. Actually,

487
00:23:22,040 --> 00:23:23,479
Speaker 1: it has to have a pool because we're there over

488
00:23:23,480 --> 00:23:25,879
Speaker 1: the weekend, and it's meant to be sunny dog friendly

489
00:23:25,920 --> 00:23:29,200
Speaker 1: for Cassie's dog. This one's a bit rogue, a big kitchen,

490
00:23:29,920 --> 00:23:33,080
Speaker 1: a good location near nice restaurants, and obviously, Matte, it's

491
00:23:33,119 --> 00:23:36,400
Speaker 1: got to be romantic for us too. First off, why

492
00:23:36,400 --> 00:23:39,840
Speaker 1: do you need a big kitchen? Second off, what are

493
00:23:39,880 --> 00:23:41,360
Speaker 1: you worried about? Mate?

494
00:23:41,560 --> 00:23:45,480
Speaker 2: I've got three words for you. That's Airbnb guest favorites.

495
00:23:45,520 --> 00:23:47,040
Speaker 1: I'll get to the kitchen bit. But what are you

496
00:23:47,080 --> 00:23:49,360
Speaker 1: talking about? Listen up. I went through the same thing

497
00:23:49,400 --> 00:23:51,600
Speaker 1: a little while ago when me and my girlfriend were

498
00:23:51,640 --> 00:23:55,480
Speaker 1: planning our anniversary, and that's when I came across guest favorites.

499
00:23:55,800 --> 00:23:57,000
Speaker 1: Once we'd agree on our.

500
00:23:56,920 --> 00:24:00,080
Speaker 2: Non negotiables, I use the little guest favorites tab and

501
00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:02,639
Speaker 2: it showed us all the homes that other guests have loved,

502
00:24:02,800 --> 00:24:03,960
Speaker 2: so then we knew we would too.

503
00:24:04,320 --> 00:24:06,680
Speaker 1: Honestly, that sounds like a bit of a game changer.

504
00:24:06,880 --> 00:24:08,640
Speaker 1: But I want to run you through what I've got

505
00:24:08,680 --> 00:24:10,760
Speaker 1: plan and tell me what you think. So we rock

506
00:24:10,840 --> 00:24:13,199
Speaker 1: up Friday, drop our stuff off, and then I've got

507
00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:17,600
Speaker 1: a sunset picnic plant, mate, sounds pretty good. Then Saturday,

508
00:24:17,840 --> 00:24:20,040
Speaker 1: just want to chill by the pool all day, get

509
00:24:20,040 --> 00:24:23,080
Speaker 1: our zen time in, and by the afternoon we want

510
00:24:23,119 --> 00:24:25,480
Speaker 1: to attempt Here's where the kitchen comes in mate to

511
00:24:25,560 --> 00:24:29,119
Speaker 1: bake her birthday cake. Ah, I see, I see. I

512
00:24:29,119 --> 00:24:31,280
Speaker 1: don't know how well it will go. But to finish

513
00:24:31,359 --> 00:24:33,800
Speaker 1: the night, obviously we're going to have a romantic dinner,

514
00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:36,240
Speaker 1: but it does have to be close by because I

515
00:24:36,280 --> 00:24:38,479
Speaker 1: want to come back to our airbnb and give her

516
00:24:38,480 --> 00:24:43,080
Speaker 1: her presents. Mate, it sounds like a pretty good plan. Oh,

517
00:24:43,160 --> 00:24:45,439
Speaker 1: you may have outdone me, but I don't know about that.

518
00:24:45,560 --> 00:24:48,919
Speaker 1: But yeah, hey, stop stressing. Airbnb has got you covered.

519
00:24:49,560 --> 00:24:52,359
Speaker 2: Hopefully neither of the girls are listening to this episode

520
00:24:52,480 --> 00:24:58,080
Speaker 2: Fingers crossed. Okay, Odie, I have once again come across

521
00:24:58,119 --> 00:25:02,760
Speaker 2: my new favorite TikTok friend. Yeah, and the first video

522
00:25:02,800 --> 00:25:05,280
Speaker 2: I saw of it actually was your girlfriend's and then

523
00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:06,680
Speaker 2: I went and looked it up and I saw a

524
00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:09,879
Speaker 2: bunch more. And it's that trend where it's supposed to

525
00:25:09,880 --> 00:25:13,399
Speaker 2: be like mad wholesome, and it's people saying like I

526
00:25:13,480 --> 00:25:15,959
Speaker 2: went and met my younger self for coffee today, and

527
00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:19,359
Speaker 2: then they say something like, oh, she wore this, I

528
00:25:19,400 --> 00:25:23,120
Speaker 2: wore this, like maybe she was depressed. I let her

529
00:25:23,160 --> 00:25:25,960
Speaker 2: know that it's going to be over soon, like you'll

530
00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:26,600
Speaker 2: be better soon.

531
00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:28,720
Speaker 1: It's all like super wholesome coming from a good place,

532
00:25:28,720 --> 00:25:33,680
Speaker 1: coming from a great place, right, Yeah, and then obviously

533
00:25:33,720 --> 00:25:38,320
Speaker 1: I don't like those ones as much. Yeah, so wholesome,

534
00:25:38,480 --> 00:25:41,199
Speaker 1: boring the ones that I found, the people that were

535
00:25:41,280 --> 00:25:43,320
Speaker 1: kind of giving themselves shit. Okah.

536
00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:48,119
Speaker 2: So I met my younger self for coffee today. She

537
00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:51,199
Speaker 2: paid using dad's credit card, and I paid using the

538
00:25:51,280 --> 00:25:52,200
Speaker 2: exact same card.

539
00:25:54,640 --> 00:25:58,159
Speaker 1: We don't evolve. We haven't grown. If it's not broken,

540
00:25:58,320 --> 00:26:01,120
Speaker 1: don't fix it. Yeah, we haven't grown. No, not at all.

541
00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:04,120
Speaker 2: I met myself for young I met my younger self

542
00:26:04,160 --> 00:26:08,280
Speaker 2: for coffee today. She was exactly thirty minutes early. I

543
00:26:08,320 --> 00:26:12,080
Speaker 2: didn't show up. She's annoying as fuck. She texted me

544
00:26:12,240 --> 00:26:13,800
Speaker 2: asking where I was, so I.

545
00:26:13,680 --> 00:26:19,840
Speaker 1: Blocked her relatable. I was thinking the same thing.

546
00:26:19,880 --> 00:26:21,240
Speaker 4: When I read that, I was like, you know what,

547
00:26:21,400 --> 00:26:23,040
Speaker 4: my younger self can fuck off?

548
00:26:23,160 --> 00:26:27,359
Speaker 1: Literally, eh, the things we used to do, oh man,

549
00:26:27,760 --> 00:26:32,679
Speaker 1: just like so much, so much annoying stuff, the things

550
00:26:32,720 --> 00:26:35,520
Speaker 1: we would have done too. Everyone's done something that we

551
00:26:35,560 --> 00:26:38,240
Speaker 1: don't regret them, but we're like, that wasn't the best idea,

552
00:26:38,400 --> 00:26:39,800
Speaker 1: was it? Yeah?

553
00:26:39,840 --> 00:26:43,680
Speaker 2: Even just like thinking about how annoying you used to be. Yeah, okay,

554
00:26:44,040 --> 00:26:47,320
Speaker 2: I met my younger self for coffee today. She said,

555
00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:49,959
Speaker 2: she took the bus because she doesn't have her license yet.

556
00:26:50,200 --> 00:26:52,240
Speaker 2: I said, girl, same, she.

557
00:26:52,240 --> 00:27:00,480
Speaker 1: Said, ho, when are you gonna get it? Oh? Yeah,

558
00:27:00,640 --> 00:27:04,159
Speaker 1: that's a fucking there's a good movie on Amazon. I

559
00:27:04,200 --> 00:27:07,640
Speaker 1: can't remember what it's called. And it's got good reviews.

560
00:27:08,040 --> 00:27:11,159
Speaker 1: And she does a mushroom trip. Oh and in the

561
00:27:11,240 --> 00:27:13,920
Speaker 1: trip she meets her older self, which is the same.

562
00:27:14,000 --> 00:27:16,679
Speaker 1: That's cool, and she's like chipped a tooth and they

563
00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:18,720
Speaker 1: talk about like how she chipped a tooth and like

564
00:27:18,760 --> 00:27:21,160
Speaker 1: her parents and how she turned out. And she's like, oh,

565
00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:22,679
Speaker 1: she's like forty now. She's like, oh, I'm still kind

566
00:27:22,680 --> 00:27:29,520
Speaker 1: of hot. Let's go fucking. I'm thinking what would I

567
00:27:29,600 --> 00:27:31,760
Speaker 1: do with that power if I met my older self.

568
00:27:31,800 --> 00:27:33,440
Speaker 1: I don't want to meet my If you could ask

569
00:27:33,480 --> 00:27:36,440
Speaker 1: one question, what would it be, did it all work out?

570
00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:39,360
Speaker 1: Fuck that that's so cliche, because but I don't want

571
00:27:39,359 --> 00:27:41,360
Speaker 1: to know specific things or if it won't happen. Did

572
00:27:41,359 --> 00:27:45,159
Speaker 1: it all work out? I would be like, give me

573
00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:47,440
Speaker 1: some lotto numbers that won in like twenty forty two.

574
00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:50,320
Speaker 2: Okay, No, genuinely, if I met my older self, depending

575
00:27:50,320 --> 00:27:52,840
Speaker 2: on what he looks, like, Oh, hey, what if.

576
00:27:52,760 --> 00:27:53,480
Speaker 1: Your guy's bored.

577
00:27:53,520 --> 00:27:55,240
Speaker 2: I was just gonna say, I was gonna say, did

578
00:27:55,240 --> 00:27:57,160
Speaker 2: we lose our hair? Because if he has hair, it's

579
00:27:57,200 --> 00:27:59,160
Speaker 2: like he may have he may have a hair transplant. True,

580
00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:01,600
Speaker 2: so I want to be like, how does the hair go?

581
00:28:02,080 --> 00:28:07,520
Speaker 1: Would you go to Turkey? Like honestly, mid mid thirties,

582
00:28:07,920 --> 00:28:09,879
Speaker 1: just like, yeah, Dan not now. I would do it

583
00:28:09,880 --> 00:28:11,639
Speaker 1: in my mid thirties one hundred percent. Really, yeah, I

584
00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:14,200
Speaker 1: don't give a fuck's pread of the lord, mate.

585
00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:16,760
Speaker 2: I would even probably to be complete, honest, I'd probably

586
00:28:16,760 --> 00:28:18,800
Speaker 2: do it now really like I kind of want to

587
00:28:18,800 --> 00:28:19,480
Speaker 2: have a shaved head.

588
00:28:19,480 --> 00:28:22,879
Speaker 1: Give us a look. No, why fuck off? No I

589
00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:24,959
Speaker 1: met my younger self for coffee today, or no, we

590
00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:27,920
Speaker 1: relate to this one again. I met my younger self

591
00:28:27,920 --> 00:28:30,919
Speaker 1: for coffee today. He was wearing skinny jeans, so I

592
00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:36,080
Speaker 1: smacked the fuck out of him that one. Let's go

593
00:28:37,640 --> 00:28:41,920
Speaker 1: oh shit, oh shit. I feel like that's the equivalent

594
00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:45,000
Speaker 1: of getting like Snapchat memories come up and there's some

595
00:28:45,040 --> 00:28:48,040
Speaker 1: pictures of you and you're like, what were you wearing? Autie?

596
00:28:49,160 --> 00:28:54,160
Speaker 1: You like, oh, I wish my mum's still dressed. I

597
00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:56,960
Speaker 1: can't believe it's like, yeah, you go through this. I

598
00:28:57,000 --> 00:29:00,240
Speaker 1: always think right, So how I dress right now?

599
00:29:00,480 --> 00:29:02,080
Speaker 2: Like in ten years from now, am I going to

600
00:29:02,120 --> 00:29:04,160
Speaker 2: look back at me now and be like what am

601
00:29:04,200 --> 00:29:05,000
Speaker 2: I wearing?

602
00:29:05,200 --> 00:29:07,800
Speaker 1: I've always thought, at what stage do you stop like

603
00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:12,440
Speaker 1: keeping up with the fashion trends? Good question because like

604
00:29:12,480 --> 00:29:17,160
Speaker 1: our parents have obviously given up. Oh yeah, fucking that

605
00:29:17,280 --> 00:29:19,360
Speaker 1: is where what's comfortable? But at what age do I

606
00:29:19,360 --> 00:29:21,600
Speaker 1: stop buying fashionable clothes? I'm like, oh, I'm happy with

607
00:29:21,640 --> 00:29:22,120
Speaker 1: what I've got.

608
00:29:23,600 --> 00:29:25,600
Speaker 2: It's okay, No, you know what it is. Something has

609
00:29:25,680 --> 00:29:30,440
Speaker 2: happened in society, and I'm pretty sure I know what

610
00:29:30,520 --> 00:29:32,480
Speaker 2: it is, right, So the big.

611
00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:36,719
Speaker 1: Bang theory, I think it's it happened.

612
00:29:37,120 --> 00:29:40,320
Speaker 2: I think that it's got something to do with social

613
00:29:40,360 --> 00:29:42,680
Speaker 2: media and being able to see what everyone else looks.

614
00:29:42,520 --> 00:29:44,840
Speaker 1: Like like all the time, and.

615
00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:49,040
Speaker 2: Then it's like the constant comparison of us with them,

616
00:29:49,680 --> 00:29:54,320
Speaker 2: and so also probably advertising as well, like when you're

617
00:29:54,360 --> 00:29:56,840
Speaker 2: online being advertisings and you buy it online because.

618
00:29:56,680 --> 00:29:58,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, you see all the new things. More.

619
00:29:59,360 --> 00:30:02,800
Speaker 2: I think that we won't. I think we will always

620
00:30:02,880 --> 00:30:05,680
Speaker 2: change with the times, just because of when social media

621
00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:09,000
Speaker 2: was brought in into our lives we were early teens. Yeah,

622
00:30:09,040 --> 00:30:11,240
Speaker 2: so I think you and I and everyone around us

623
00:30:11,320 --> 00:30:12,240
Speaker 2: will always change.

624
00:30:12,280 --> 00:30:13,360
Speaker 1: We will always keep.

625
00:30:13,240 --> 00:30:15,600
Speaker 2: That makes sense, or like, at least we will always

626
00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:16,960
Speaker 2: keep up with our generation.

627
00:30:17,400 --> 00:30:21,080
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, we won't ever just like be stuck.

628
00:30:21,120 --> 00:30:22,800
Speaker 2: But at the same time, I'm thinking, like, like, what

629
00:30:22,840 --> 00:30:25,720
Speaker 2: you and I wear in right now, in my opinion,

630
00:30:25,760 --> 00:30:29,960
Speaker 2: would be considered like timeless. But in ten years we

631
00:30:30,040 --> 00:30:31,760
Speaker 2: might look back and think the fucking.

632
00:30:31,640 --> 00:30:33,240
Speaker 1: We look back at the addy of their haircuts and

633
00:30:33,280 --> 00:30:34,240
Speaker 1: you're like, well, they think.

634
00:30:34,440 --> 00:30:36,880
Speaker 2: Actually true, I'm going to look back at this, this

635
00:30:36,960 --> 00:30:40,520
Speaker 2: fucking mustache, and I'm going to think, what were you two?

636
00:30:41,080 --> 00:30:44,640
Speaker 1: Give it a couple of days, mate, I still I've

637
00:30:44,640 --> 00:30:47,920
Speaker 1: got I've gotten a couple in my message requests. I

638
00:30:47,960 --> 00:30:50,440
Speaker 1: have a couple that I haven't like opened, but I

639
00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:52,720
Speaker 1: can read it. It's a couple of people saying keep

640
00:30:52,720 --> 00:30:55,120
Speaker 1: the mustache. It's all I need. Yeah, all I need

641
00:30:55,160 --> 00:30:56,520
Speaker 1: is a couple of people to say keep it. And

642
00:30:56,560 --> 00:30:58,440
Speaker 1: I'm one person. I'm in there.

643
00:30:59,600 --> 00:31:02,520
Speaker 2: I met my younger self for coffee today. He asked

644
00:31:02,800 --> 00:31:05,960
Speaker 2: if I if I have ever used sin cause and

645
00:31:06,040 --> 00:31:08,719
Speaker 2: tan I said, no, not once.

646
00:31:09,520 --> 00:31:14,040
Speaker 1: Ah, that is the biggest lie we have ever been

647
00:31:14,080 --> 00:31:16,480
Speaker 1: told in school. You're going to need this one. You're older.

648
00:31:16,520 --> 00:31:19,480
Speaker 1: What that is that Pythagos there? I think sin cosant team,

649
00:31:19,840 --> 00:31:21,960
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't even remember a square plus

650
00:31:22,000 --> 00:31:25,120
Speaker 1: B squad squared is with every math teacher tells you

651
00:31:25,160 --> 00:31:26,239
Speaker 1: that you were going to use this for the rest

652
00:31:26,280 --> 00:31:28,120
Speaker 1: of your life, is that to make themselves feel better

653
00:31:28,120 --> 00:31:32,680
Speaker 1: about their job. To be fair, all they're doing is

654
00:31:32,680 --> 00:31:35,320
Speaker 1: doing their job and just going off the curriculum. Yeah, yeah,

655
00:31:35,360 --> 00:31:38,560
Speaker 1: they will be if they don't reckon the curriculum says

656
00:31:38,920 --> 00:31:40,120
Speaker 1: you're going to use this for the rest of your

657
00:31:40,120 --> 00:31:40,480
Speaker 1: life in it.

658
00:31:40,520 --> 00:31:43,280
Speaker 2: But to be fair, I think about this, right, if

659
00:31:43,280 --> 00:31:45,960
Speaker 2: you're just doing your job as a teacher, right, because

660
00:31:46,000 --> 00:31:48,479
Speaker 2: we have found out that people who become teachers are

661
00:31:48,520 --> 00:31:51,840
Speaker 2: just everybody like you and me, and it's a noble job.

662
00:31:52,520 --> 00:31:56,440
Speaker 2: You're raised in the next generation, I see it much appreciated.

663
00:31:57,200 --> 00:32:00,080
Speaker 1: But knowing what you and I like, right, if we

664
00:32:00,160 --> 00:32:02,800
Speaker 1: went into teaching, we were teaching maths for a year

665
00:32:02,880 --> 00:32:07,560
Speaker 1: seven and we start doing Sincos, tan, Pythagoras whatever, yeah, okay,

666
00:32:08,960 --> 00:32:12,120
Speaker 1: and all these little annoying, fucking thirteen year olds are like, bro,

667
00:32:12,440 --> 00:32:14,880
Speaker 1: mister Clark, when are we going to use this in

668
00:32:14,920 --> 00:32:17,360
Speaker 1: our life? And all you want to do is get

669
00:32:17,400 --> 00:32:19,720
Speaker 1: this next half an hour, forty five minutes over and

670
00:32:19,760 --> 00:32:21,480
Speaker 1: done with. You're gonna say, you know what, you little fuck,

671
00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:23,479
Speaker 1: You're gonna use it every fucking day when you're out

672
00:32:23,480 --> 00:32:25,560
Speaker 1: of school, right, So get it done. That's what I'd say.

673
00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:31,160
Speaker 1: All I heard was mister Clark, I can't like that. No,

674
00:32:31,480 --> 00:32:33,720
Speaker 1: very true. Yeah.

675
00:32:33,800 --> 00:32:36,360
Speaker 2: I met my younger self for coffee today and she

676
00:32:36,600 --> 00:32:38,959
Speaker 2: was a bitch. That was your that was your girlfriend's one.

677
00:32:39,200 --> 00:32:44,720
Speaker 1: Oh better at it? Pretty funny. Yeah, share that, Cassie.

678
00:32:45,840 --> 00:32:48,640
Speaker 1: I met my younger self for coffee today. She said

679
00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:51,320
Speaker 1: she hopes to be smarter with money one day. I

680
00:32:51,360 --> 00:32:53,560
Speaker 1: told her it's only going to get worse, and I

681
00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:58,000
Speaker 1: asked her to pay for my dream. I feel like

682
00:32:58,040 --> 00:33:00,000
Speaker 1: the more money you get, the harder it is to matter.

683
00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:00,600
Speaker 6: Yeah.

684
00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:03,520
Speaker 2: Actually, our manager was talking about it. She said, everyone

685
00:33:03,600 --> 00:33:05,960
Speaker 2: kind of just lives within their means. So if you

686
00:33:06,040 --> 00:33:10,120
Speaker 2: make minimum wage, you buy all the cheap stuff and

687
00:33:10,160 --> 00:33:13,520
Speaker 2: you just go about your life that way. But if

688
00:33:13,560 --> 00:33:15,800
Speaker 2: you make a fuck ton of money, because you have

689
00:33:15,840 --> 00:33:19,959
Speaker 2: a fuck ton of money, you spend it. Yeah, you

690
00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:21,840
Speaker 2: buy all the name brand stuff, you buy new clothes

691
00:33:21,880 --> 00:33:24,000
Speaker 2: because you can, and you always just have the same

692
00:33:24,040 --> 00:33:34,440
Speaker 2: amount in your savings because you live within your means. Okay, guys, dilemmas.

693
00:33:34,880 --> 00:33:36,040
Speaker 2: Do you know I have a dilemma each? If you

694
00:33:36,040 --> 00:33:38,880
Speaker 2: would like to submit a dilemma, it will be in

695
00:33:38,920 --> 00:33:41,360
Speaker 2: the description of this video or in the link in

696
00:33:41,360 --> 00:33:42,240
Speaker 2: our Instagram bio.

697
00:33:42,600 --> 00:33:43,200
Speaker 1: You can go in.

698
00:33:43,320 --> 00:33:45,200
Speaker 2: It's a Google Docs. It's all anonymous. You can tell

699
00:33:45,280 --> 00:33:47,960
Speaker 2: us whatever you want. You can confess something or we

700
00:33:48,080 --> 00:33:49,280
Speaker 2: obviously like to answer dilemmas.

701
00:33:49,280 --> 00:33:51,000
Speaker 1: But even if you just want to say yes or

702
00:33:51,000 --> 00:33:55,400
Speaker 1: no Jake's mustache, go ahead, I say it more same, yeah.

703
00:33:55,480 --> 00:33:58,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, But if there's any nose, if there's any nose

704
00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:01,320
Speaker 2: in there, there will be no more dilemmas because I

705
00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:02,480
Speaker 2: literally won't go in and check.

706
00:34:03,400 --> 00:34:04,960
Speaker 1: I will go in or do you have to choose

707
00:34:05,000 --> 00:34:07,480
Speaker 1: my dilemmas for me? And then there'll be a less

708
00:34:07,520 --> 00:34:10,400
Speaker 1: genuine podcast. I don't okay this when it comes with

709
00:34:10,440 --> 00:34:14,480
Speaker 1: the title Okay, I cheated on my boyfriend with my

710
00:34:14,600 --> 00:34:18,959
Speaker 1: girl best friend. Oh, I would like to preface before

711
00:34:18,960 --> 00:34:21,640
Speaker 1: I start reading. After listening to this.

712
00:34:21,600 --> 00:34:26,399
Speaker 2: Audio, you're being a greens with me. No one can

713
00:34:26,440 --> 00:34:28,480
Speaker 2: have a best friend of any gender anymore. You and

714
00:34:28,480 --> 00:34:30,200
Speaker 2: I were not best friends anymore. You and I are

715
00:34:30,239 --> 00:34:31,000
Speaker 2: just good friends.

716
00:34:31,040 --> 00:34:34,080
Speaker 1: Okay, don't take you the heart. You're going to see why.

717
00:34:34,400 --> 00:34:36,200
Speaker 1: I see what you're saying. Okay, you and I and

718
00:34:36,200 --> 00:34:38,680
Speaker 1: now are just good friends. Because we have girlfriends, We

719
00:34:38,719 --> 00:34:41,919
Speaker 1: are now just good friends. Okay, don't get any ideas, mate.

720
00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:44,200
Speaker 1: Whatever happened in here isn't gonna happen with us.

721
00:34:46,000 --> 00:34:48,440
Speaker 2: I am a twenty three year old female and I

722
00:34:48,520 --> 00:34:51,480
Speaker 2: have been dating my boyfriend for about four months. We

723
00:34:51,600 --> 00:34:55,239
Speaker 2: dated two years ago for one but he eventually broke

724
00:34:55,320 --> 00:34:58,840
Speaker 2: up with me. There were obviously problems, but no bad blood.

725
00:34:59,040 --> 00:35:02,560
Speaker 2: We were both young and and he worked hard to

726
00:35:02,560 --> 00:35:05,800
Speaker 2: get me back. He even went through a panel interview

727
00:35:05,880 --> 00:35:08,880
Speaker 2: with my best friends and roommates while they batted him

728
00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:12,080
Speaker 2: with questions about his intentions, what went wrong last time,

729
00:35:12,280 --> 00:35:13,480
Speaker 2: and what will change, etc.

730
00:35:13,880 --> 00:35:14,160
Speaker 1: Weird?

731
00:35:14,280 --> 00:35:18,399
Speaker 2: Okay, anyway, we are back together and better than ever.

732
00:35:19,000 --> 00:35:21,319
Speaker 2: We are planning to move to a new city and

733
00:35:21,440 --> 00:35:24,000
Speaker 2: move in together in the fall. This is where it

734
00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:29,000
Speaker 2: gets weird. I have always questioned my sexuality a little bit,

735
00:35:29,920 --> 00:35:33,680
Speaker 2: but have never explored that side of myself and have

736
00:35:33,800 --> 00:35:37,759
Speaker 2: even been embarrassed to admit it, given I come from

737
00:35:37,800 --> 00:35:41,319
Speaker 2: a very religious family. Well, it turns out my best friend,

738
00:35:41,360 --> 00:35:44,160
Speaker 2: who I grew up with, also a woman, and who

739
00:35:44,239 --> 00:35:47,080
Speaker 2: also has a boyfriend, has always felt the same way.

740
00:35:47,719 --> 00:35:50,000
Speaker 2: We were chatting about it one night and we decided

741
00:35:50,000 --> 00:35:53,440
Speaker 2: to experiment on each other. We just wanted to know

742
00:35:53,480 --> 00:35:55,799
Speaker 2: what it was like. We gave each other head and

743
00:35:55,920 --> 00:36:00,560
Speaker 2: both finished. It really didn't feel like a sexual experience,

744
00:36:00,640 --> 00:36:02,960
Speaker 2: even though it was. It just felt like two best

745
00:36:03,000 --> 00:36:05,600
Speaker 2: friends who trusted each other with this big secret and

746
00:36:05,640 --> 00:36:09,320
Speaker 2: needed answers about their sexuality. I understand that it was

747
00:36:09,360 --> 00:36:12,600
Speaker 2: wrong and that I cheated, but something about it just

748
00:36:12,640 --> 00:36:14,439
Speaker 2: didn't feel like it was that big of a deal.

749
00:36:15,760 --> 00:36:16,040
Speaker 1: Well.

750
00:36:16,960 --> 00:36:19,719
Speaker 2: I told my boyfriend about a week later, and at

751
00:36:19,719 --> 00:36:22,719
Speaker 2: first he was just turned on by it, typical boy,

752
00:36:23,360 --> 00:36:25,399
Speaker 2: but as the week went on he started to feel

753
00:36:25,400 --> 00:36:28,839
Speaker 2: more and more betrayed. I have explained the situation and

754
00:36:28,880 --> 00:36:32,160
Speaker 2: he is so kind and understanding, but still hurt. He

755
00:36:32,200 --> 00:36:34,520
Speaker 2: told me that if I asked him for permission before

756
00:36:34,560 --> 00:36:37,760
Speaker 2: I did it, he would have said yes, but instead

757
00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:40,920
Speaker 2: I betrayed his trust, which makes me feel terrible. I

758
00:36:40,960 --> 00:36:43,839
Speaker 2: have apologized a million times and just don't know how

759
00:36:43,880 --> 00:36:46,239
Speaker 2: to get past this. Other than the cliche of give

760
00:36:46,280 --> 00:36:49,440
Speaker 2: it time. The weird thing about this situation is that

761
00:36:49,480 --> 00:36:52,040
Speaker 2: I am so incredibly embarrassed and could never tell another

762
00:36:52,120 --> 00:36:55,520
Speaker 2: soul what happened. Not because I cheated, but because it

763
00:36:55,560 --> 00:36:59,239
Speaker 2: was a girl and my childhood best friend. I don't

764
00:36:59,280 --> 00:37:01,640
Speaker 2: want him to tell anyone about it, but he obviously

765
00:37:01,640 --> 00:37:04,080
Speaker 2: needs to talk about it. I mean, I need to

766
00:37:04,120 --> 00:37:07,640
Speaker 2: talk about it, but I can't because of the Because

767
00:37:07,640 --> 00:37:10,239
Speaker 2: the friend I experienced with this with is dealing with

768
00:37:10,280 --> 00:37:13,000
Speaker 2: the same thing with her boyfriend and almost made me

769
00:37:13,040 --> 00:37:16,440
Speaker 2: feel bad about what happened. I just don't know how

770
00:37:16,440 --> 00:37:19,520
Speaker 2: to get past this and not let it define our relationship.

771
00:37:20,440 --> 00:37:22,520
Speaker 2: He has been so hot and cold lately, and it's

772
00:37:22,560 --> 00:37:25,279
Speaker 2: eating me alive that I hurt him, and I'm just

773
00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:28,720
Speaker 2: sure he is thinking him he is thinking himself to death.

774
00:37:28,880 --> 00:37:31,239
Speaker 2: I would be too. Am I an asshole? Should I

775
00:37:31,280 --> 00:37:33,680
Speaker 2: keep apologizing to him? Would you break up with me

776
00:37:33,680 --> 00:37:35,680
Speaker 2: if it were you? Can I still be friends with

777
00:37:35,719 --> 00:37:37,640
Speaker 2: the girl? How do we move past this? I love

778
00:37:37,719 --> 00:37:39,839
Speaker 2: him so so much and I didn't mean to hurt him.

779
00:37:39,880 --> 00:37:40,440
Speaker 1: I just need.

780
00:37:40,320 --> 00:37:43,560
Speaker 2: Answers, and yes, I would be upset if the roles

781
00:37:43,560 --> 00:37:47,440
Speaker 2: were reversed, but I feel like it's different with two girls.

782
00:37:47,680 --> 00:37:52,560
Speaker 1: How do we move on the complexities. Jake, this is

783
00:37:52,560 --> 00:37:57,120
Speaker 1: a hard one. This is very complex. Let's strip it

784
00:37:57,200 --> 00:38:02,759
Speaker 1: back and firstly say I respect of sex, sleeping with

785
00:38:02,800 --> 00:38:05,759
Speaker 1: someone else while you were in a relationship is one

786
00:38:05,840 --> 00:38:11,320
Speaker 1: hundred percent cheating. Yeah, and fair enough. You wanted to

787
00:38:11,320 --> 00:38:14,160
Speaker 1: find out your sexuality, but the right thing to do

788
00:38:14,320 --> 00:38:17,720
Speaker 1: was your boyfriend said, would have been talked to him first,

789
00:38:17,760 --> 00:38:19,160
Speaker 1: not just go out and do it.

790
00:38:19,760 --> 00:38:22,480
Speaker 2: I can't like say it if she had gone and

791
00:38:22,520 --> 00:38:25,360
Speaker 2: slept with another dude, right and it was all heterosexual,

792
00:38:25,440 --> 00:38:28,200
Speaker 2: we could be like, oh, well, well, I semi relate

793
00:38:28,280 --> 00:38:30,920
Speaker 2: to this because it's like, oh, we have girlfriends, but

794
00:38:30,920 --> 00:38:32,600
Speaker 2: obviously you find other people attractive, and I'm not just

795
00:38:32,600 --> 00:38:34,120
Speaker 2: going to sleep with them to see what it sounds like,

796
00:38:34,719 --> 00:38:37,480
Speaker 2: so to see what it feels like. But because it

797
00:38:37,560 --> 00:38:41,480
Speaker 2: was like comes down to sexuality, it's really hard to

798
00:38:42,200 --> 00:38:45,680
Speaker 2: because like, I just feel bad that she is so

799
00:38:45,840 --> 00:38:46,719
Speaker 2: embarrassed by it.

800
00:38:46,920 --> 00:38:48,080
Speaker 1: Oh, you shouldn't be embarrassed.

801
00:38:48,160 --> 00:38:50,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel terrible that she's embarrassed by it because

802
00:38:50,200 --> 00:38:52,400
Speaker 2: of like how the way she grew up and stuff.

803
00:38:52,800 --> 00:38:55,920
Speaker 1: The way I'm thinking. I'm trying to think of a

804
00:38:55,960 --> 00:38:59,240
Speaker 1: way to take sex out of it, because you shouldn't

805
00:38:59,239 --> 00:39:01,160
Speaker 1: be embarrassed. If you girls or you wanted to experience

806
00:39:01,160 --> 00:39:03,720
Speaker 1: something else, that's completely fine. But the way you personally

807
00:39:03,800 --> 00:39:06,720
Speaker 1: approached it is what's wrong. Yeah. True.

808
00:39:06,800 --> 00:39:10,080
Speaker 2: Maybe the mindset of feeling like it's not that bad

809
00:39:10,200 --> 00:39:12,960
Speaker 2: because it was that like because you did it.

810
00:39:12,920 --> 00:39:16,160
Speaker 1: With another girl is the wrong mindset. I think. Also,

811
00:39:16,239 --> 00:39:18,080
Speaker 1: you should be able to talk about it, like I

812
00:39:18,120 --> 00:39:20,400
Speaker 1: know you're in a family that's raised up in a

813
00:39:20,480 --> 00:39:24,520
Speaker 1: very religious background, like, but you and your boyfriend should

814
00:39:24,560 --> 00:39:27,080
Speaker 1: be able to talk about it to other people as well,

815
00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:29,880
Speaker 1: because that's completely If you were single and slept with

816
00:39:29,920 --> 00:39:32,920
Speaker 1: another girl, completely fine. Yeah, and you've put him in

817
00:39:32,920 --> 00:39:35,640
Speaker 1: this tricky situation where he doesn't know how to feel

818
00:39:35,640 --> 00:39:38,200
Speaker 1: because it's got a different gender involved. He does need

819
00:39:38,239 --> 00:39:40,520
Speaker 1: to talk to someone else outside your two relationship. It's

820
00:39:40,520 --> 00:39:41,440
Speaker 1: too complex not to.

821
00:39:42,080 --> 00:39:45,719
Speaker 2: Eight, I do agree, I think so. So the hard

822
00:39:45,760 --> 00:39:48,440
Speaker 2: thing with it where my mind goes right is she

823
00:39:48,440 --> 00:39:50,880
Speaker 2: doesn't want anyone to know her secret, or maybe she

824
00:39:51,040 --> 00:39:52,920
Speaker 2: is okay with someone knowing her secret just to try

825
00:39:52,920 --> 00:39:55,360
Speaker 2: and talk about it, right, But she can't speak for

826
00:39:55,400 --> 00:39:57,520
Speaker 2: the other person, so she would have to talk to

827
00:39:57,560 --> 00:39:59,399
Speaker 2: someone about it and just not let anyone know who

828
00:39:59,400 --> 00:40:01,520
Speaker 2: it is, because she's probably feeling as though, Oh well,

829
00:40:01,560 --> 00:40:04,160
Speaker 2: I can't spill my best friend's secret of also questioning

830
00:40:04,160 --> 00:40:06,520
Speaker 2: her sexuality because what if she doesn't want it out there.

831
00:40:06,719 --> 00:40:08,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, don't tell who you slept with, Like, don't kiss

832
00:40:08,880 --> 00:40:11,239
Speaker 1: and tell anyway, just say I slept with another woman. Yeah,

833
00:40:11,360 --> 00:40:12,920
Speaker 1: just be like I was questioning my sexuality as to

834
00:40:12,960 --> 00:40:15,520
Speaker 1: the woman you need, it's got to be someone you trust. Yeah,

835
00:40:15,640 --> 00:40:18,320
Speaker 1: it's this one's one hundred percent out of our realm

836
00:40:18,360 --> 00:40:23,160
Speaker 1: of expertise. Yeah, just because we've also never experienced like

837
00:40:23,200 --> 00:40:25,680
Speaker 1: wanting to explore the other gender, So it adds another

838
00:40:25,760 --> 00:40:28,399
Speaker 1: layer into it. It's so complex. I do feel bad.

839
00:40:28,480 --> 00:40:31,600
Speaker 1: I'm sorry girl for your boyfriend. Yeah, no, I do too.

840
00:40:31,680 --> 00:40:32,560
Speaker 1: I feel bad for him.

841
00:40:32,600 --> 00:40:35,399
Speaker 2: I feel bad for her as well, Like, even though

842
00:40:35,400 --> 00:40:37,239
Speaker 2: she did the wrong thing, I'm happy I can admit that.

843
00:40:37,719 --> 00:40:39,640
Speaker 1: But it's yeah, I know, I feel bad for both

844
00:40:39,640 --> 00:40:42,279
Speaker 1: of them. Yeah, it's sort of like and the other

845
00:40:42,320 --> 00:40:43,800
Speaker 1: boyfriend of the other and I feel bad for the

846
00:40:43,840 --> 00:40:47,000
Speaker 1: other girl the best friend. I'm trying to think how

847
00:40:47,080 --> 00:40:49,200
Speaker 1: the only piece of advice we can give properly. We

848
00:40:49,239 --> 00:40:51,680
Speaker 1: can't really talk on the sexuality types of things like

849
00:40:51,719 --> 00:40:53,480
Speaker 1: we don't have an experience in that aspect. If we

850
00:40:53,520 --> 00:40:56,560
Speaker 1: do have experience in how that a boyfriend would feel

851
00:40:56,800 --> 00:41:00,760
Speaker 1: if this happened to us, yes, that's where our best

852
00:41:00,800 --> 00:41:03,319
Speaker 1: expertise can come into consideration.

853
00:41:04,320 --> 00:41:06,759
Speaker 2: So here's okay, I don't know how it would feel

854
00:41:06,800 --> 00:41:08,520
Speaker 2: if it happened, because it hasn't happened, But I can

855
00:41:08,560 --> 00:41:10,120
Speaker 2: say how I think I would feel if it happened.

856
00:41:10,760 --> 00:41:12,239
Speaker 2: And so I think that if this was to have

857
00:41:12,280 --> 00:41:19,520
Speaker 2: happened to me, I would be initially like, I would

858
00:41:19,520 --> 00:41:21,759
Speaker 2: probably feel the same, just because of like societal norms.

859
00:41:21,800 --> 00:41:23,960
Speaker 2: I'd probably be just kind of like, ah, that hurts,

860
00:41:24,040 --> 00:41:27,000
Speaker 2: like but again, I would probably get in my head

861
00:41:27,000 --> 00:41:29,720
Speaker 2: of like, yeah, but it was with another a woman,

862
00:41:29,800 --> 00:41:31,640
Speaker 2: so it's not as bad. And then I think, after

863
00:41:31,680 --> 00:41:33,960
Speaker 2: a while of that, that's like the denial phase, right,

864
00:41:34,360 --> 00:41:35,759
Speaker 2: And I think I would get to a point where

865
00:41:35,800 --> 00:41:37,400
Speaker 2: I think, yeah, but you're right. If you strip it back,

866
00:41:37,440 --> 00:41:38,600
Speaker 2: you just straight up cheated on me.

867
00:41:39,040 --> 00:41:41,680
Speaker 1: Yeah. I think the trust factor is the biggest thing

868
00:41:41,719 --> 00:41:45,200
Speaker 1: for me. Like, she made the conscious decision to have

869
00:41:45,280 --> 00:41:47,200
Speaker 1: some fun. I know it was for probably a good

870
00:41:47,200 --> 00:41:49,520
Speaker 1: reason to figure out something about your sexuality, but you

871
00:41:49,600 --> 00:41:52,799
Speaker 1: still made the conscious decision to have some fun at

872
00:41:52,840 --> 00:41:55,160
Speaker 1: the expense of your boyfriend, which you've made a commitment

873
00:41:55,200 --> 00:41:56,360
Speaker 1: to to be loyal to.

874
00:41:56,960 --> 00:41:58,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, look, okay, if you strip it back to humanity,

875
00:41:58,920 --> 00:42:01,759
Speaker 2: we always say, if you're the cheat on someone, it's

876
00:42:01,800 --> 00:42:03,759
Speaker 2: still terrible to do, but break up with them, and

877
00:42:03,800 --> 00:42:06,480
Speaker 2: so technically you haven't cheated, like you need to break

878
00:42:06,520 --> 00:42:08,719
Speaker 2: up with them, so you haven't like cheated on them.

879
00:42:08,760 --> 00:42:10,880
Speaker 2: And it's like, that is the absolute least you can do.

880
00:42:10,960 --> 00:42:12,480
Speaker 2: The absolute best you can do is break up with

881
00:42:12,480 --> 00:42:13,839
Speaker 2: them and then wait a few weeks and then sleep

882
00:42:13,840 --> 00:42:15,279
Speaker 2: with this person you really want to sleep with. Right,

883
00:42:15,520 --> 00:42:16,719
Speaker 2: So if you bring it down to just like a

884
00:42:16,719 --> 00:42:20,600
Speaker 2: black and white humanity thing, you just should have broken

885
00:42:20,640 --> 00:42:24,120
Speaker 2: up with your boyfriend and then tested your sexuality.

886
00:42:24,560 --> 00:42:26,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, and that is that. I don't know is that

887
00:42:26,200 --> 00:42:27,480
Speaker 1: right to say? I feel it? Is that the right

888
00:42:27,560 --> 00:42:30,800
Speaker 1: or wrong thing? No? I think maybe it is. I

889
00:42:30,840 --> 00:42:33,160
Speaker 1: think also like the way she went about it is

890
00:42:33,160 --> 00:42:35,280
Speaker 1: like she probably doesn't have any answers to her sexuality

891
00:42:35,320 --> 00:42:38,799
Speaker 1: because of the complexities around after what happened. And yeah,

892
00:42:38,840 --> 00:42:41,360
Speaker 1: and now she's apologizing because she's just thinking about a boyfriend.

893
00:42:41,400 --> 00:42:45,279
Speaker 1: She didn't figure anything out. See that sucks. Yeah, so

894
00:42:45,400 --> 00:42:47,480
Speaker 1: like I don't know, maybe you are, Yeah, maybe you

895
00:42:47,480 --> 00:42:49,080
Speaker 1: need time to be alone. Yeah, that's what I was

896
00:42:49,120 --> 00:42:53,000
Speaker 1: thinking thinking, just like figure out yourself. Like a relationship

897
00:42:53,080 --> 00:42:55,000
Speaker 1: is two people, and you needed to do this for

898
00:42:55,040 --> 00:42:57,799
Speaker 1: yourself fair enough, but like you could kind of owe

899
00:42:57,800 --> 00:43:01,239
Speaker 1: it to him to figure this stuff out before being

900
00:43:01,280 --> 00:43:04,280
Speaker 1: in a relationship or say, hey, I need time for myself.

901
00:43:04,320 --> 00:43:07,000
Speaker 1: I don't know how I'm feeling. I don't know what I.

902
00:43:06,960 --> 00:43:09,799
Speaker 2: Like, because you can really always at the same time,

903
00:43:09,840 --> 00:43:12,960
Speaker 2: you can only be you can only be sorry for

904
00:43:13,000 --> 00:43:17,560
Speaker 2: so long, right, It's like how long are you going

905
00:43:17,600 --> 00:43:19,440
Speaker 2: to be sorry for? That's why I have always like

906
00:43:20,239 --> 00:43:23,000
Speaker 2: if someone's cheated on someone else in a couple, you know,

907
00:43:23,280 --> 00:43:26,399
Speaker 2: sexuality out of it. I don't want to I would

908
00:43:26,400 --> 00:43:28,120
Speaker 2: never judge someone for staying with someone if they got

909
00:43:28,160 --> 00:43:30,439
Speaker 2: cheated on either. But again, it's like I just would

910
00:43:30,480 --> 00:43:33,279
Speaker 2: always be thinking how long does this needed person need

911
00:43:33,320 --> 00:43:35,239
Speaker 2: to be sorry for? Or even the person that's done

912
00:43:35,280 --> 00:43:39,600
Speaker 2: the cheating is like I fucked up. I understand it

913
00:43:39,640 --> 00:43:41,680
Speaker 2: that they're upset and probably going to have trust issues

914
00:43:41,719 --> 00:43:44,719
Speaker 2: for a long long time now if we worked, if

915
00:43:44,760 --> 00:43:45,960
Speaker 2: we can work through it together, But.

916
00:43:45,920 --> 00:43:47,359
Speaker 1: Again, It's like you would just get sick.

917
00:43:47,480 --> 00:43:49,360
Speaker 2: You would be fed up with being sorry for so

918
00:43:49,480 --> 00:43:51,960
Speaker 2: long and feeling that guilt for so long.

919
00:43:52,000 --> 00:43:52,440
Speaker 1: Would you not?

920
00:43:53,000 --> 00:43:54,800
Speaker 2: Like that's why it's probably that's why it's cheating and

921
00:43:54,840 --> 00:43:56,160
Speaker 2: it always breaks up relationships.

922
00:43:56,360 --> 00:43:58,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think it also comes back down to, like,

923
00:43:58,640 --> 00:44:01,239
Speaker 1: you didn't communicate very well your boyfriend of how you're

924
00:44:01,239 --> 00:44:04,279
Speaker 1: feeling about your sexuality. You should be in a safe

925
00:44:04,320 --> 00:44:07,080
Speaker 1: environment where she should say like, hey, like, I don't

926
00:44:07,120 --> 00:44:09,640
Speaker 1: know how I'm feeling. I've always been interested in women,

927
00:44:09,640 --> 00:44:11,560
Speaker 1: but like, can I try? Like he said, he would

928
00:44:11,560 --> 00:44:13,360
Speaker 1: have been fine with it if you asked, like, this

929
00:44:13,440 --> 00:44:14,200
Speaker 1: is what I'm feeling.

930
00:44:14,520 --> 00:44:16,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know about him saying I would have

931
00:44:16,640 --> 00:44:18,000
Speaker 2: been okay with it if you just asked me if

932
00:44:18,040 --> 00:44:19,560
Speaker 2: you could go sleep with your best friend. It's like,

933
00:44:19,560 --> 00:44:21,720
Speaker 2: how can you How can you know, like past tense,

934
00:44:21,840 --> 00:44:23,280
Speaker 2: what you were going to say in that situation.

935
00:44:23,440 --> 00:44:24,839
Speaker 1: I don't think he would have known. I think it's

936
00:44:24,880 --> 00:44:27,520
Speaker 1: just the right thing to do to tell or to

937
00:44:27,520 --> 00:44:30,319
Speaker 1: tell him. Yeah, it's the right thing to do to ask,

938
00:44:30,560 --> 00:44:32,640
Speaker 1: not after an approval, because she can do whatever she wants,

939
00:44:32,680 --> 00:44:35,200
Speaker 1: but like tell him how she's feeling and then he

940
00:44:35,280 --> 00:44:39,000
Speaker 1: has all the maths equations before she does it. Look

941
00:44:39,440 --> 00:44:40,680
Speaker 1: he's not just thrown it in the deep end and

942
00:44:40,719 --> 00:44:42,600
Speaker 1: you're just like, oh, well this is I've got to

943
00:44:42,600 --> 00:44:44,040
Speaker 1: deal with this now. Yeah. True.

944
00:44:44,120 --> 00:44:45,800
Speaker 2: Like, yeah, when you started dating him, you made a

945
00:44:45,920 --> 00:44:49,200
Speaker 2: choice to have someone else's feelings in your hands. So

946
00:44:49,719 --> 00:44:51,320
Speaker 2: I understand that you would have been super scared to

947
00:44:51,320 --> 00:44:53,799
Speaker 2: talk about your sexuality and changing it and sorry like

948
00:44:54,160 --> 00:44:56,360
Speaker 2: questioning it. I think at the same time you should

949
00:44:56,360 --> 00:44:57,200
Speaker 2: have said something doing.

950
00:44:57,440 --> 00:45:01,320
Speaker 1: I think you can work through it. Very individualized to

951
00:45:01,360 --> 00:45:05,560
Speaker 1: your relationship, very tough on the boyfriend, so I feel

952
00:45:05,560 --> 00:45:07,200
Speaker 1: a little bit bad for him, but I think there

953
00:45:07,280 --> 00:45:09,439
Speaker 1: is a light at the end of the tunnel. So yeah,

954
00:45:09,520 --> 00:45:11,640
Speaker 1: I would say I think she needs to be alone.

955
00:45:11,840 --> 00:45:14,360
Speaker 1: I was going to say, you need to ask yourself

956
00:45:14,560 --> 00:45:16,960
Speaker 1: the question of do you want to be alone or

957
00:45:16,960 --> 00:45:17,840
Speaker 1: do you want your boyfriend?

958
00:45:18,000 --> 00:45:20,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, I would say whatever your gut's saying in this situation,

959
00:45:20,480 --> 00:45:22,120
Speaker 2: just because you feel guilty, don't feel like you need

960
00:45:22,200 --> 00:45:22,880
Speaker 2: to stay with him.

961
00:45:22,760 --> 00:45:24,880
Speaker 1: And also accept the fact that he has every right

962
00:45:24,920 --> 00:45:26,440
Speaker 1: and not to continue the relationship.

963
00:45:27,000 --> 00:45:28,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think, yeah, going with your gut on this

964
00:45:28,600 --> 00:45:30,840
Speaker 2: one is one hundred percent the right move Yep, sucks, but.

965
00:45:31,480 --> 00:45:37,000
Speaker 1: Al right, next dilemma, this is juice. Now. First one

966
00:45:37,040 --> 00:45:40,560
Speaker 1: was juice. It's a long story. I'm sorry. Me and

967
00:45:40,600 --> 00:45:44,520
Speaker 1: my now ex boyfriend had been together for three years.

968
00:45:44,840 --> 00:45:48,000
Speaker 1: He's twenty six and I'm twenty four. We moved in

969
00:45:48,120 --> 00:45:51,880
Speaker 1: after four months together and we have been inseparable ever since.

970
00:45:52,400 --> 00:45:56,120
Speaker 1: We are the definition of black cat golden retriever aerngie

971
00:45:56,280 --> 00:45:59,959
Speaker 1: and he was honestly amazing. He has set the stand

972
00:46:00,040 --> 00:46:02,239
Speaker 1: It's so high for me, and I've never truly loved

973
00:46:02,280 --> 00:46:05,040
Speaker 1: someone like this. My intuition is very strong, and I

974
00:46:05,040 --> 00:46:06,960
Speaker 1: always knew he was going to be the person I

975
00:46:07,080 --> 00:46:10,839
Speaker 1: marry and have children with. For reference, I believe I

976
00:46:10,960 --> 00:46:13,319
Speaker 1: was also a very good girlfriend, and we had such

977
00:46:13,320 --> 00:46:16,120
Speaker 1: a good three years together. In general, we didn't have

978
00:46:16,160 --> 00:46:19,800
Speaker 1: many issues in our relationship except when we drank together.

979
00:46:20,800 --> 00:46:24,040
Speaker 1: I trust him with my life, but he gets very

980
00:46:24,239 --> 00:46:27,520
Speaker 1: drunk and stays out all night, and when he's drunk,

981
00:46:27,719 --> 00:46:31,440
Speaker 1: he is very insecure and wants a lot of reassurance.

982
00:46:31,840 --> 00:46:35,560
Speaker 1: I did find it quite difficult because everything else was perfect,

983
00:46:35,800 --> 00:46:39,680
Speaker 1: but I generally couldn't cope with this and constantly needed

984
00:46:39,719 --> 00:46:43,560
Speaker 1: to reassure him. Recently, we had more issues than usual,

985
00:46:43,840 --> 00:46:46,680
Speaker 1: and I started to feel really insecure about my body again.

986
00:46:46,760 --> 00:46:49,600
Speaker 1: I have previous body image issues, and we weren't having

987
00:46:49,640 --> 00:46:52,600
Speaker 1: sex very much. We had also spoken about moving to

988
00:46:52,640 --> 00:46:55,839
Speaker 1: Australia this year in brackets. We're from the UK since

989
00:46:55,880 --> 00:46:58,439
Speaker 1: the beginning of our relationship and it has always been

990
00:46:58,520 --> 00:47:01,399
Speaker 1: my dream. It hasn't really been his dream, but he

991
00:47:01,520 --> 00:47:03,680
Speaker 1: was prepared to come with me. We said we would

992
00:47:03,680 --> 00:47:06,280
Speaker 1: just figure it out when we were there, but recently

993
00:47:06,320 --> 00:47:08,040
Speaker 1: he told me he doesn't think he can afford to

994
00:47:08,080 --> 00:47:10,640
Speaker 1: come slash. He didn't really want to do it, which

995
00:47:10,640 --> 00:47:14,560
Speaker 1: made me feel extremely abandoned. The week before we broke up,

996
00:47:14,680 --> 00:47:17,200
Speaker 1: we started sleeping in separate beds every night. And this

997
00:47:17,239 --> 00:47:19,640
Speaker 1: next bit doesn't really make sense sense. He kept trying

998
00:47:19,680 --> 00:47:22,279
Speaker 1: to come through, but I just felt so sad, like

999
00:47:22,400 --> 00:47:25,400
Speaker 1: come through the other bedroom. Maybe maybe Yeah. Neither of

1000
00:47:25,480 --> 00:47:28,600
Speaker 1: us communicated well, and I think we were both in denial.

1001
00:47:28,719 --> 00:47:31,120
Speaker 1: In hindsight, we should have definitely just had a conversation

1002
00:47:31,480 --> 00:47:33,479
Speaker 1: about things, because at the end of the day, neither

1003
00:47:33,480 --> 00:47:36,440
Speaker 1: of us really wanted to lose one another for at

1004
00:47:36,480 --> 00:47:38,440
Speaker 1: a lengthy part, I went out last weekend with my

1005
00:47:38,480 --> 00:47:41,359
Speaker 1: best friends boys and girls he didn't come because we

1006
00:47:41,360 --> 00:47:43,880
Speaker 1: weren't in a good place and tend to argue when drunk.

1007
00:47:44,239 --> 00:47:46,200
Speaker 1: On the night, he went out with his friends instead

1008
00:47:46,640 --> 00:47:49,400
Speaker 1: and we started chatting drunk. Neither of us are very

1009
00:47:49,400 --> 00:47:51,960
Speaker 1: happy about the past week, but at the end of

1010
00:47:52,000 --> 00:47:54,480
Speaker 1: the night I was extremely drunk. My friend took me

1011
00:47:54,560 --> 00:47:57,480
Speaker 1: upstairs and we got ready for bed together. After this,

1012
00:47:57,600 --> 00:47:59,959
Speaker 1: I was crying in my girl best friend's spare room,

1013
00:48:00,640 --> 00:48:03,960
Speaker 1: and my boy best friend, who my boyfriend had previously

1014
00:48:04,080 --> 00:48:07,120
Speaker 1: concerns about had previous concerns about, came up to check

1015
00:48:07,120 --> 00:48:10,320
Speaker 1: on me, as he usually does. We ended up sleeping

1016
00:48:10,360 --> 00:48:15,319
Speaker 1: together and within one minute I stopped it and I

1017
00:48:15,400 --> 00:48:20,440
Speaker 1: broke up with my boyfriend properly. Ah. I knew it

1018
00:48:20,480 --> 00:48:22,960
Speaker 1: was wrong, and I left the house at four am

1019
00:48:23,040 --> 00:48:25,239
Speaker 1: and told my boyfriend the next day. I am not

1020
00:48:25,280 --> 00:48:28,480
Speaker 1: defending myself, but I am quite sensitive, caring, full of love,

1021
00:48:28,560 --> 00:48:31,080
Speaker 1: kindness type of girl, and tend to put everyone around

1022
00:48:31,080 --> 00:48:33,920
Speaker 1: me above myself. I was absolutely distraught the next day

1023
00:48:34,000 --> 00:48:36,000
Speaker 1: and cried more than I've ever cried of how I

1024
00:48:36,080 --> 00:48:38,400
Speaker 1: hurt my boyfriend and also how out of character it

1025
00:48:38,480 --> 00:48:41,239
Speaker 1: was for me, not an excuse I know at the time.

1026
00:48:41,280 --> 00:48:45,360
Speaker 1: My boyfriend went crazy. Now we are living Ami Clepe.

1027
00:48:45,560 --> 00:48:48,000
Speaker 1: We are living Amiiclebee, how do to say it amicably?

1028
00:48:48,120 --> 00:48:51,560
Speaker 1: Amicalle and he's about to move out. The issue we

1029
00:48:51,640 --> 00:48:53,600
Speaker 1: have now is he wants to forgive me, but he

1030
00:48:53,680 --> 00:48:56,840
Speaker 1: is fighting against it as he has too much self respect. Me,

1031
00:48:57,080 --> 00:48:59,239
Speaker 1: my friends, and my whole family think this can be

1032
00:48:59,280 --> 00:49:01,680
Speaker 1: fixed due to how how good we were previously and

1033
00:49:01,719 --> 00:49:03,799
Speaker 1: how out of character this was for me, and I

1034
00:49:03,840 --> 00:49:06,719
Speaker 1: was extremely vulnerable at the time. Although we were in

1035
00:49:06,719 --> 00:49:09,399
Speaker 1: a really bad place previously and probably on the verge

1036
00:49:09,400 --> 00:49:11,399
Speaker 1: of breaking up. I think if we broke up because

1037
00:49:11,400 --> 00:49:13,640
Speaker 1: of the Australia thing, we would have ended up back together.

1038
00:49:13,680 --> 00:49:17,160
Speaker 1: He is generally my person. I've already done a lot

1039
00:49:17,200 --> 00:49:19,280
Speaker 1: of work to sort out myself, like going to therapy,

1040
00:49:19,320 --> 00:49:21,720
Speaker 1: et cetera. I do believe there is hope in the future,

1041
00:49:21,880 --> 00:49:23,600
Speaker 1: but I just don't know how to act from here

1042
00:49:23,680 --> 00:49:26,919
Speaker 1: on out. If I text him or try to initiate thing,

1043
00:49:27,400 --> 00:49:29,040
Speaker 1: I just don't want him to think that he hates me,

1044
00:49:29,080 --> 00:49:32,080
Speaker 1: and I also don't want to bombard him.

1045
00:49:32,280 --> 00:49:40,520
Speaker 2: Okay, that was fucking long, all right, juicy In the end, there, Wow,

1046
00:49:41,000 --> 00:49:44,279
Speaker 2: a lot happened. Okay, Oh, before all you say, yeah,

1047
00:49:44,280 --> 00:49:45,319
Speaker 2: there's photos for this.

1048
00:49:45,280 --> 00:49:47,320
Speaker 1: I have photos. Oh that's cool phone case, thank you

1049
00:49:47,400 --> 00:49:51,920
Speaker 1: very much. Just that wolverine. Yeah, brother, fuck, that's sexy photos. Photos. Okay,

1050
00:49:51,920 --> 00:49:54,399
Speaker 1: there's photos. We're obviously not allowed to show. These two.

1051
00:49:55,520 --> 00:50:00,839
Speaker 1: That's him. Huh. Cute couple, very cute. No, I wish

1052
00:50:00,920 --> 00:50:03,400
Speaker 1: I didn't see photos far. Very cute couple. Oh, you're

1053
00:50:03,400 --> 00:50:07,960
Speaker 1: therefore hot. A hot couple. He's attractive and she is too. Yeah, good,

1054
00:50:08,000 --> 00:50:11,719
Speaker 1: look at wait they're like a little power couple. I'd

1055
00:50:11,760 --> 00:50:14,240
Speaker 1: say that were This is tricky.

1056
00:50:16,280 --> 00:50:19,920
Speaker 2: I think I could keep my answer short of what

1057
00:50:20,000 --> 00:50:21,200
Speaker 2: I think should happen.

1058
00:50:22,120 --> 00:50:25,360
Speaker 1: Funnily enough, because of that last dilamma, I think you

1059
00:50:25,400 --> 00:50:26,799
Speaker 1: both need a bit of a loane time.

1060
00:50:27,560 --> 00:50:31,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that look takes two to break up

1061
00:50:31,880 --> 00:50:34,480
Speaker 2: a relationship, right. I'm not saying that this is.

1062
00:50:34,400 --> 00:50:37,160
Speaker 1: All your fault. Obviously it takes two to break up.

1063
00:50:37,920 --> 00:50:44,560
Speaker 2: But the way I see it is that obviously you've

1064
00:50:44,560 --> 00:50:47,120
Speaker 2: accepted what's happened. But I think like you just need

1065
00:50:47,160 --> 00:50:51,600
Speaker 2: to fully, fully, one hundred percent accept what has happened. Yeah,

1066
00:50:52,239 --> 00:50:56,680
Speaker 2: and it's it sucks, and I feel for you, baddie,

1067
00:50:57,000 --> 00:51:00,279
Speaker 2: all right. I don't think you're a bad person. No,

1068
00:51:00,880 --> 00:51:01,720
Speaker 2: you made a mistake.

1069
00:51:02,160 --> 00:51:02,960
Speaker 1: Everyone makes mistakes.

1070
00:51:02,960 --> 00:51:05,120
Speaker 2: Everyone makes mistakes. You're allowed to make mistakes. But the

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00:51:05,200 --> 00:51:07,759
Speaker 2: thing that has the mistake you made was a big one.

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00:51:08,160 --> 00:51:11,960
Speaker 2: And so I think that I don't want you to

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00:51:12,080 --> 00:51:15,560
Speaker 2: like really think bad about yourself for your mistake.

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00:51:15,800 --> 00:51:16,560
Speaker 1: Like you said, you've.

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00:51:16,440 --> 00:51:18,920
Speaker 2: Already been working through it, but I think it's just

1076
00:51:19,680 --> 00:51:23,120
Speaker 2: fully accepting that a mistake was made. That mistake has

1077
00:51:23,880 --> 00:51:27,439
Speaker 2: pretty high percentage of having ruined the relationship and any

1078
00:51:27,480 --> 00:51:32,840
Speaker 2: future relationship. I think that's the absolute best way for you.

1079
00:51:32,920 --> 00:51:35,040
Speaker 2: Like I don't want you to try and go through

1080
00:51:35,040 --> 00:51:38,319
Speaker 2: this thinking about your ex boyfriend. I think that he

1081
00:51:38,360 --> 00:51:41,200
Speaker 2: should go through his motions of thinking about how he

1082
00:51:41,239 --> 00:51:41,880
Speaker 2: can get better.

1083
00:51:42,440 --> 00:51:42,920
Speaker 1: You should go.

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00:51:42,920 --> 00:51:45,680
Speaker 2: Through your motions are thinking about how you can get better.

1085
00:51:45,880 --> 00:51:47,719
Speaker 2: What's going to happen with him is he's going to

1086
00:51:47,760 --> 00:51:50,200
Speaker 2: feel like shit because you did cheat on him. And

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00:51:50,239 --> 00:51:52,440
Speaker 2: that's what's going to happen. You're going to go through

1088
00:51:52,480 --> 00:51:55,040
Speaker 2: it feeling like shit because you're guilty, and that's okay.

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00:51:55,880 --> 00:51:58,520
Speaker 1: You made a mistake. You just you're going to learn

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00:51:58,520 --> 00:52:00,560
Speaker 1: from it. I think you did everything right, like first

1091
00:52:00,640 --> 00:52:02,000
Speaker 1: up to it. The next day, like we said, we

1092
00:52:02,040 --> 00:52:05,840
Speaker 1: all make mistakes and he just has to deal with

1093
00:52:05,880 --> 00:52:08,560
Speaker 1: it in his own time, and I think there's no

1094
00:52:08,880 --> 00:52:13,239
Speaker 1: point enforcing something before it's properly Here.

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00:52:13,440 --> 00:52:16,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that that's the absolute best advice I

1096
00:52:16,080 --> 00:52:19,799
Speaker 2: could give from everything I've heard. So I just want

1097
00:52:19,840 --> 00:52:23,360
Speaker 2: to know yeap love, you appreciate your thank you for

1098
00:52:23,400 --> 00:52:26,600
Speaker 2: telling us. Now what I want to say someone I

1099
00:52:26,640 --> 00:52:29,640
Speaker 2: want to say, Oh shit, girl, your boy best friend.

1100
00:52:29,520 --> 00:52:32,480
Speaker 1: Can fuck off. Oh yeah, your boy best friend is

1101
00:52:32,560 --> 00:52:34,640
Speaker 1: not your best friend. He's not your friend at or

1102
00:52:34,680 --> 00:52:38,040
Speaker 1: your boy best friend can absolutely fuck right off. I

1103
00:52:38,120 --> 00:52:39,920
Speaker 1: told ODDI I'm not going to say fucking this episode,

1104
00:52:39,920 --> 00:52:42,120
Speaker 1: but I really have said it a lot, but it

1105
00:52:42,239 --> 00:52:43,960
Speaker 1: had to be said at the end. Here he can

1106
00:52:44,040 --> 00:52:47,960
Speaker 1: literally go and eat a dick that went over my

1107
00:52:48,000 --> 00:52:50,879
Speaker 1: head because I was thinking about her. But your boy

1108
00:52:50,920 --> 00:52:54,080
Speaker 1: best friend can fuck off? That is everything. And every

1109
00:52:54,160 --> 00:52:57,800
Speaker 1: hill we die on is every guy best friend waits

1110
00:52:57,880 --> 00:53:01,279
Speaker 1: for this exact moment where you and a state of vulnerability,

1111
00:53:01,320 --> 00:53:04,040
Speaker 1: where you were having trouble thinking about how you were

1112
00:53:04,040 --> 00:53:06,640
Speaker 1: feeling in your relationship, and he pounced on the occasion,

1113
00:53:06,800 --> 00:53:10,000
Speaker 1: which is what every guy best friend does. Like, yeah,

1114
00:53:10,040 --> 00:53:15,600
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that, Like like it takes two to tango. Yeah, okay,

1115
00:53:15,920 --> 00:53:17,960
Speaker 1: Like he's not the reason you and your boyfriend broke up,

1116
00:53:18,000 --> 00:53:21,600
Speaker 1: But I just I really want to hammer into you

1117
00:53:21,680 --> 00:53:25,160
Speaker 1: right now that he is not your friend and he

1118
00:53:25,200 --> 00:53:29,080
Speaker 1: can fuck right off. He fucking pounced at the situation.

1119
00:53:29,440 --> 00:53:31,680
Speaker 1: He knew what would happen. He knew you guys hadn't

1120
00:53:31,680 --> 00:53:34,319
Speaker 1: broken up yet, all right, and he was fine with it.

1121
00:53:34,560 --> 00:53:36,640
Speaker 1: If he was your friend and he loved you as

1122
00:53:36,719 --> 00:53:40,120
Speaker 1: a friend and he was your best friend quotes, he

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00:53:40,160 --> 00:53:41,560
Speaker 1: would have wanted you to He would want you to

1124
00:53:41,600 --> 00:53:43,040
Speaker 1: be happy with your boyfriend. He would see that you're

1125
00:53:43,080 --> 00:53:44,160
Speaker 1: in pain from that. He would have come up and

1126
00:53:44,160 --> 00:53:45,560
Speaker 1: he would have checked in you, and he would have left,

1127
00:53:45,920 --> 00:53:48,440
Speaker 1: tucked you into bed, maybe a kiss in the forehead,

1128
00:53:48,480 --> 00:53:50,600
Speaker 1: and said have a good night. Yeap. He can fuck

1129
00:53:50,800 --> 00:53:54,120
Speaker 1: right off. If it's in my opinion, yeah, I think

1130
00:53:54,160 --> 00:53:57,720
Speaker 1: that really dials in what we say about guy best friends.

1131
00:53:58,600 --> 00:54:01,600
Speaker 1: They always have an ulterior automotive. I can't talk right

1132
00:54:01,800 --> 00:54:05,400
Speaker 1: ninety nine times out of ten. Wait, automotive, What did

1133
00:54:05,480 --> 00:54:10,240
Speaker 1: I say, No, ultimate automotive is that right? Ulterior motive?

1134
00:54:10,320 --> 00:54:12,880
Speaker 1: What did I say? Ultimately ultimotive is that it's not

1135
00:54:12,920 --> 00:54:14,840
Speaker 1: a word. I think you're mixing up like ulterior motive

1136
00:54:14,840 --> 00:54:20,520
Speaker 1: with automotive. Automotive automotive, ulterior motive. He had an ulterior motive. Yeah,

1137
00:54:20,680 --> 00:54:24,480
Speaker 1: but that's ninety nine times out of one hundred.

1138
00:54:24,800 --> 00:54:28,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, I'm happy to accept it one time out

1139
00:54:28,320 --> 00:54:31,280
Speaker 2: of one hundred that guy and girl best friend.

1140
00:54:31,160 --> 00:54:34,200
Speaker 1: Can work out. I'll swallow my fucking words, all right,

1141
00:54:34,280 --> 00:54:36,240
Speaker 1: button ninety nine times out of a fucking one hundred,

1142
00:54:36,400 --> 00:54:38,279
Speaker 1: and when it could happen, it doesn't work, look out

1143
00:54:38,280 --> 00:54:41,000
Speaker 1: bad again? What happened? Just a friend? Oh, this is

1144
00:54:41,040 --> 00:54:43,319
Speaker 1: making me so mad. It's your blood, boy, I am

1145
00:54:43,440 --> 00:54:53,080
Speaker 1: so so mad at this. You know what time? It is?

1146
00:54:53,160 --> 00:54:56,120
Speaker 1: Time to call one of you baddies. If you want

1147
00:54:56,160 --> 00:54:58,600
Speaker 1: to sign off one of our episodes, link will be

1148
00:54:58,640 --> 00:55:01,000
Speaker 1: in the bottom of the episode in the description, and

1149
00:55:01,080 --> 00:55:03,720
Speaker 1: also I'm going to put it in the Lincoln description

1150
00:55:03,800 --> 00:55:06,000
Speaker 1: in Instagram as well. Okay, beautiful, I'm going to do that.

1151
00:55:06,000 --> 00:55:08,000
Speaker 1: You've said that it has to be done. Yeah, I'll

1152
00:55:08,080 --> 00:55:11,399
Speaker 1: edit it and be like, I'll go do something. Ready,

1153
00:55:11,400 --> 00:55:17,840
Speaker 1: we are calling Bethany. I love it, like hello Bethany

1154
00:55:17,840 --> 00:55:22,319
Speaker 1: speaking Hello. Hello? Is this Bethany, Yes, Bethany, it's Jake

1155
00:55:22,320 --> 00:55:23,680
Speaker 1: and not from the relatables. How are you?

1156
00:55:25,200 --> 00:55:32,560
Speaker 6: No way, yes, no king, Oh my god, thank god,

1157
00:55:32,600 --> 00:55:33,560
Speaker 6: I pick up the phone.

1158
00:55:33,560 --> 00:55:34,880
Speaker 4: I'm at work at the moment.

1159
00:55:36,080 --> 00:55:37,040
Speaker 1: No ideas well.

1160
00:55:37,080 --> 00:55:40,680
Speaker 5: I was like yeah, I was like, I was like, oh,

1161
00:55:40,840 --> 00:55:44,759
Speaker 5: maybe this is like I don't know someone, but no way, thinking.

1162
00:55:46,200 --> 00:55:47,280
Speaker 1: How how's working.

1163
00:55:48,800 --> 00:55:49,319
Speaker 6: It's good.

1164
00:55:49,360 --> 00:55:50,319
Speaker 5: I'm a GP nurse.

1165
00:55:51,920 --> 00:55:52,560
Speaker 1: That's pretty cool.

1166
00:55:52,760 --> 00:55:55,160
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's always it's toys. You never know what you're

1167
00:55:55,160 --> 00:55:55,560
Speaker 5: going to get.

1168
00:55:55,760 --> 00:55:59,400
Speaker 1: Respect, respect. Okay, we want you to sign on today's episode.

1169
00:56:00,360 --> 00:56:04,719
Speaker 5: I never thought this, like I'd be chosen like I've

1170
00:56:04,760 --> 00:56:09,920
Speaker 5: never thought I'm honored. It's so funny because I listen

1171
00:56:09,960 --> 00:56:12,200
Speaker 5: to you guys every Wednesday morning because I have another

1172
00:56:12,320 --> 00:56:15,759
Speaker 5: job at Cole's and I put the sale tickets on

1173
00:56:15,840 --> 00:56:17,879
Speaker 5: on a Wednesday morning at four am, and you guys

1174
00:56:17,920 --> 00:56:24,759
Speaker 5: are in my ear. I want everyone to know that

1175
00:56:24,880 --> 00:56:25,880
Speaker 5: you have to find a good.

1176
00:56:25,760 --> 00:56:28,360
Speaker 4: GP because.

1177
00:56:29,680 --> 00:56:33,840
Speaker 6: Because your gps, like they when they get to know you,

1178
00:56:34,360 --> 00:56:36,320
Speaker 6: they can like help out with some things that you

1179
00:56:36,480 --> 00:56:38,719
Speaker 6: may not even know you need help with. So you've

1180
00:56:38,760 --> 00:56:40,719
Speaker 6: got to have a good relationship with your GP, and

1181
00:56:40,800 --> 00:56:43,640
Speaker 6: you've got to build that rapporal so then you feel

1182
00:56:43,680 --> 00:56:47,160
Speaker 6: comfortable going to the GP and you can get things sorted.

1183
00:56:46,880 --> 00:56:48,279
Speaker 5: Out that you may need sort it out. And I've

1184
00:56:48,320 --> 00:56:50,279
Speaker 5: only learned this since working at a GP.

1185
00:56:50,600 --> 00:56:54,200
Speaker 1: I love it. This advice is that was great, Healthyle,

1186
00:56:54,239 --> 00:56:56,760
Speaker 1: Just give people to say advice instead of signing beany

1187
00:56:56,880 --> 00:57:00,759
Speaker 1: thank you so much a day you too? O. My god,

1188
00:57:03,120 --> 00:57:08,239
Speaker 1: ah that was great. What a wonderful Everyone be like Beth. Yeah,

1189
00:57:08,960 --> 00:57:14,040
Speaker 1: go get a relationship with your GP. O. Thanks, stay bad, yeah,

1190
00:57:14,080 --> 00:57:29,360
Speaker 1: stay bad? See yah. Wait a minute, you're still here? Ohdi,

1191
00:57:29,440 --> 00:57:31,440
Speaker 1: I think they're still here. Why are you still here?

1192
00:57:31,600 --> 00:57:33,840
Speaker 1: What are you doing here? Well, let's give you a

1193
00:57:33,920 --> 00:57:37,760
Speaker 1: little Easter egg because you're a real fan. So this

1194
00:57:37,880 --> 00:57:41,440
Speaker 1: is what happened last week on Patreon enjoy the fuck

1195
00:57:42,200 --> 00:57:44,800
Speaker 1: is going on? So I actually thought about this when

1196
00:57:44,840 --> 00:57:46,320
Speaker 1: I saw the story, and I was like, this guy

1197
00:57:46,440 --> 00:57:50,680
Speaker 1: keeps having spider encounters. Yes, it's calm up, bitch, Why

1198
00:57:51,000 --> 00:57:53,800
Speaker 1: because you every single month you're the only person I

1199
00:57:53,920 --> 00:57:56,560
Speaker 1: know who does it? Gets this random guy with his

1200
00:57:56,680 --> 00:58:02,840
Speaker 1: little chemical thing? Whoam the only guy sing? You're the

1201
00:58:03,000 --> 00:58:05,840
Speaker 1: only guy in Australia. Correct yourself. At least it's every

1202
00:58:06,000 --> 00:58:09,840
Speaker 1: six months. I swear he's here every month. I know

1203
00:58:09,960 --> 00:58:11,960
Speaker 1: that guy on a first name basis man, because I

1204
00:58:12,040 --> 00:58:12,760
Speaker 1: said it in front of you.

1205
00:58:12,840 --> 00:58:14,400
Speaker 2: I'm the one that knows what a first name basics

1206
00:58:14,400 --> 00:58:15,480
Speaker 2: because he comes here every month.

1207
00:58:15,680 --> 00:58:21,080
Speaker 1: Name. I've seen him my name? No, I've seen him

1208
00:58:21,080 --> 00:58:22,160
Speaker 1: like three times this year.

1209
00:58:22,240 --> 00:58:25,960
Speaker 2: I swear the lemma, what if I have severe IBS

1210
00:58:26,320 --> 00:58:29,440
Speaker 2: and scared to stay over at a guy's house like

1211
00:58:29,560 --> 00:58:32,160
Speaker 2: after dinner date full of foods that will hurt my tummy?

1212
00:58:32,360 --> 00:58:34,680
Speaker 2: But I still want to do I use the toilet?

1213
00:58:34,800 --> 00:58:36,640
Speaker 2: Do I go home after sexy time? Do I tell

1214
00:58:36,680 --> 00:58:37,280
Speaker 2: him in advance?

1215
00:58:37,440 --> 00:58:40,560
Speaker 1: Do you care? I didn't think about this problem. That's

1216
00:58:40,600 --> 00:58:41,200
Speaker 1: mad relatable.

1217
00:58:41,400 --> 00:58:46,360
Speaker 2: I say from my perspective as a guy, I kind

1218
00:58:46,400 --> 00:58:48,760
Speaker 2: of think like, let's get it over and done with

1219
00:58:48,800 --> 00:58:50,320
Speaker 2: it as soon as post so I'm not holding shits

1220
00:58:50,320 --> 00:58:51,479
Speaker 2: in for fucking six months.

1221
00:58:52,280 --> 00:58:59,840
Speaker 1: How does ibs change the smell? I bet you it's stinkier.

1222
00:59:00,200 --> 00:59:02,240
Speaker 1: Is it stinkier if you eat the wrong thing?

1223
00:59:02,280 --> 00:59:04,680
Speaker 2: Because like irritable brown syndrome just means like there's a

1224
00:59:04,720 --> 00:59:06,480
Speaker 2: bunch of stuff that just makes it irritated.

1225
00:59:06,640 --> 00:59:08,400
Speaker 1: And this is one of the hardest things I think

1226
00:59:08,440 --> 00:59:12,040
Speaker 1: anybody has to accept, and it's really relatable, is accepting

1227
00:59:12,760 --> 00:59:18,040
Speaker 1: and figuring out your brain and your skin and accepting

1228
00:59:18,480 --> 00:59:20,680
Speaker 1: what you're good at. But the hard thing to do

1229
00:59:20,960 --> 00:59:23,440
Speaker 1: is accepting what you're not good at.