WEBVTT - Winded Doing The Worm 🪱 0:00:00.360 --> 0:00:02.719 High Scrollers is produced on gadigul Land. 0:00:02.920 --> 0:00:05.280 We pay our respects to the traditional custodians of this 0:00:05.320 --> 0:00:07.320 country and Elder's past and present. 0:00:07.360 --> 0:00:14.440 Always was, always will be Aboriginal Land. I'm Britney Solndon. 0:00:14.160 --> 0:00:15.800 And I'm all right hey, and this is High Scrollers, 0:00:15.800 --> 0:00:17.680 the podcast version of your favorite group chat. 0:00:17.720 --> 0:00:20.400 We've been sharing our lives online for over ten years, 0:00:20.400 --> 0:00:22.440 so who better to catch you up on everything that's 0:00:22.480 --> 0:00:23.080 going viral? 0:00:23.160 --> 0:00:25.959 Can we talk a lot about ourselves as well? And 0:00:26.000 --> 0:00:28.520 today we are talking about. 0:00:29.760 --> 0:00:34.360 Syria. What did you want me to say? 0:00:34.560 --> 0:00:35.960 I don't know because I actually. 0:00:35.720 --> 0:00:38.040 Can't remember what we're talking. Oh, we've spoken about getting drunk. 0:00:38.360 --> 0:00:40.840 We've spoken about looking forward to later in life. 0:00:41.040 --> 0:00:42.240 Yeah, we've spoken. 0:00:42.000 --> 0:00:45.360 About Star Lone Star, the entertainment book. 0:00:45.280 --> 0:00:49.120 Rolller Coasters and harassment in the workplace. 0:00:51.080 --> 0:00:54.640 So it is an absolute. 0:00:54.400 --> 0:00:58.360 Melting pot of different stories for you today, Scrollers. 0:00:58.400 --> 0:00:59.640 Please enjoy deal mean. 0:00:59.520 --> 0:01:05.480 Dot's good morning, Matthew. 0:01:06.640 --> 0:01:07.520 How is everyone? 0:01:08.319 --> 0:01:09.280 I'm awesome? 0:01:09.840 --> 0:01:13.120 That's quite awesome. Yeah that's a big statement. Why are 0:01:13.160 --> 0:01:13.680 you awesome? 0:01:14.160 --> 0:01:15.240 I just love life? 0:01:15.400 --> 0:01:19.160 Okay, nuts for some nights for some shout out to 0:01:19.160 --> 0:01:21.520 everyone doing it tough at the moment, I'm on struggle street. 0:01:23.319 --> 0:01:25.479 No, I'm trying to practice gratitude. 0:01:25.520 --> 0:01:27.880 Oh yes, stoicism. Stoicism, yeah, like just. 0:01:27.800 --> 0:01:29.880 Wake up and say, I fucking love life, even if 0:01:29.920 --> 0:01:33.080 you're stressed, you know whatever, Just. 0:01:33.120 --> 0:01:34.840 I love life, all right. 0:01:34.959 --> 0:01:36.559 Actually, I got one thing that I want to quickly 0:01:36.560 --> 0:01:37.240 say for everyone. 0:01:37.280 --> 0:01:41.479 That's a good little mindfulness activity, okay, which I should 0:01:41.520 --> 0:01:43.440 have said like a week or two ago when I 0:01:43.480 --> 0:01:45.920 mentioned that it was my NaN's eighty seventh birthday. 0:01:46.280 --> 0:01:46.840 We went out for. 0:01:46.920 --> 0:01:49.800 Lunch, just to the pub, me and all the oldies, okay, 0:01:49.880 --> 0:01:55.760 and they're all old, like eighties, seventies, and so I 0:01:55.800 --> 0:01:59.720 asked around the table, what was your favorite age, Like, 0:01:59.800 --> 0:02:02.200 if you could go back to a period of your life, 0:02:02.640 --> 0:02:04.840 what would it be. And I was curious, and I 0:02:04.880 --> 0:02:07.840 was thinking, surely they're going to be like thirties, maybe. 0:02:07.600 --> 0:02:10.560 Forties, eighteen twenties, yeah, full of life. 0:02:10.840 --> 0:02:14.200 They all said fifties and sixties. 0:02:14.360 --> 0:02:14.760 Wow. 0:02:14.840 --> 0:02:17.519 And if that doesn't put it into perspective for you 0:02:17.680 --> 0:02:19.800 that your best years are yet to come, then I 0:02:19.840 --> 0:02:22.240 don't know what does. Because I think we live in 0:02:22.280 --> 0:02:26.639 this world where you know, everything's like anti aging, and 0:02:26.680 --> 0:02:28.280 like there's so much pressure for all of us to 0:02:28.360 --> 0:02:31.120 like look as young as we can forever and botoks 0:02:31.120 --> 0:02:33.640 and this and that and just youth. But then to 0:02:33.760 --> 0:02:36.320 ask my eighty seven year old nan, like, what was 0:02:36.360 --> 0:02:38.760 your best ear she goes, I loved my late fifties. 0:02:39.200 --> 0:02:42.680 Did she say, why? No, It's interesting that they all 0:02:42.720 --> 0:02:44.120 said late fifties. 0:02:44.240 --> 0:02:46.760 Yes, they all went around They're like, yeah, fifties really good. 0:02:46.840 --> 0:02:50.880 I wonder why when did they I know, the retirement 0:02:50.880 --> 0:02:53.640 age now is like sixty five, right, probably even like 0:02:53.680 --> 0:02:55.520 when they were retiring earlier. 0:02:55.120 --> 0:02:57.600 Back then, Yeah, potentially maybe. 0:02:57.440 --> 0:03:00.360 They'd finally retired and they were like God and do 0:03:01.240 --> 0:03:01.600 just a. 0:03:01.520 --> 0:03:02.600 Really good perspective. 0:03:02.880 --> 0:03:06.840 Because another thing to add to this, I think when 0:03:06.880 --> 0:03:10.040 we're younger, we always think that older people are older 0:03:10.040 --> 0:03:12.280 than they are. So I was with my auntie the 0:03:12.280 --> 0:03:15.040 other day and we were talking about her house when 0:03:15.080 --> 0:03:16.400 I used to go and visit it when I was 0:03:16.440 --> 0:03:19.800 like under ten, and she had like this cool big 0:03:19.840 --> 0:03:22.880 staircase that i'd slide down because it was carpet, so 0:03:22.919 --> 0:03:25.360 we'd like put cardboard, and then she had a spa 0:03:25.520 --> 0:03:27.400 out the back and we'd always swim in her spa 0:03:27.520 --> 0:03:28.040 on the deck. 0:03:28.480 --> 0:03:29.760 And I had the realization the. 0:03:29.800 --> 0:03:31.840 Other day that when I would go to her house, 0:03:31.880 --> 0:03:34.400 to my annie and uncle's house and play and swim 0:03:34.440 --> 0:03:35.280 in the spa, they. 0:03:35.240 --> 0:03:36.160 Were in their thirties. 0:03:36.320 --> 0:03:41.720 Yeah, And I'm like, so you were mine at Ajay's 0:03:41.760 --> 0:03:44.280 age when I was coming at your house, but back 0:03:44.320 --> 0:03:46.120 then to me, she was fifty something. 0:03:46.680 --> 0:03:47.080 Yeah. 0:03:47.160 --> 0:03:49.440 Do you know how like everyone always seems older, but 0:03:49.480 --> 0:03:52.080 then you actually look at like a fifty year old 0:03:52.120 --> 0:03:55.280 and then not old. So anyway, my lesson of the 0:03:55.360 --> 0:03:57.760 day everyone is your best years are yet to come, 0:03:58.280 --> 0:04:00.760 even though as we like get into our thirties, I know, 0:04:00.840 --> 0:04:02.840 like it's like, oh, I'm starting to get older, you know, 0:04:02.880 --> 0:04:05.520 because you're not your twenties anymore. No best years are 0:04:05.600 --> 0:04:09.640 yet to happen. People get excited everybody. If you're in 0:04:09.640 --> 0:04:11.040 the car right now, let's. 0:04:10.800 --> 0:04:14.240 Do a whoo one, two, three, whoo? 0:04:15.440 --> 0:04:16.120 Do you reckon anyone? 0:04:16.160 --> 0:04:20.080 Did it? I hope not? Anyway, But it's hard for me. 0:04:20.839 --> 0:04:23.039 We're playing foot seas, are we, Yeah, it's hard for 0:04:23.200 --> 0:04:28.960 me to feel inclined to agree with you because I 0:04:29.120 --> 0:04:32.200 have never felt rougher. I mean, clearly is in the 0:04:32.320 --> 0:04:35.400 fifties and sixties, maybe they weren't having big nights out 0:04:35.760 --> 0:04:40.480 and doing you know, who knows what, lots of bloody 0:04:40.600 --> 0:04:44.120 alcohol and big nights, like maybe they would just maybe 0:04:44.120 --> 0:04:48.239 that's why they enjoyed their fifties and sixties, is because 0:04:48.279 --> 0:04:50.920 they just relaxed and took a step back. 0:04:51.360 --> 0:04:53.520 Maybe, But I'm not even I'm not looking forward to 0:04:53.560 --> 0:04:54.719 relaxing in my fifties. 0:04:54.760 --> 0:04:56.799 I just think it's a good party in your fifties. 0:04:56.880 --> 0:05:04.560 Fucking oath, you're gonna be working in your fifties, no manifesting, 0:05:04.600 --> 0:05:04.960 do you reckon? 0:05:05.000 --> 0:05:06.120 You're going to work in your fifties? 0:05:06.560 --> 0:05:09.320 Yeah, look at the economy, darling. 0:05:09.960 --> 0:05:11.880 Aim to not work in my fifties, but you know, 0:05:12.040 --> 0:05:14.120 never know how it's going to go. But I just 0:05:14.120 --> 0:05:16.080 think it's a good thing to think you're best easy 0:05:16.160 --> 0:05:16.680 yet to come. 0:05:16.839 --> 0:05:18.560 And I don't know if they are because let me 0:05:18.600 --> 0:05:19.400 tell your story. 0:05:19.760 --> 0:05:24.040 On the weekend, I went to a wedding and it 0:05:24.160 --> 0:05:27.960 was a fabulous, beautiful wedding and it was amazing, and 0:05:29.720 --> 0:05:31.480 at the reception, they did this thing that I've never 0:05:31.520 --> 0:05:34.080 seen before. But I'm sure it's like very common or like, 0:05:34.160 --> 0:05:36.480 I'm sure lots of people do something similar to this. 0:05:36.680 --> 0:05:41.119 Each table was given a captain chosen by the bride 0:05:41.160 --> 0:05:43.040 and grooms. At the start of the reception, after they 0:05:43.160 --> 0:05:48.039 walked in and did their entrance, the MC was like, oh, 0:05:48.839 --> 0:05:51.000 they've chosen captains of the table, and you had to 0:05:51.000 --> 0:05:53.960 wear a sailor's hat. And the captain's job of the 0:05:54.000 --> 0:05:55.920 table was to make sure that the vibes were high, 0:05:56.040 --> 0:05:59.080 the drinks were full, and when the dance floor was open, 0:05:59.160 --> 0:06:00.880 the whole table got on the dance for and like, 0:06:00.960 --> 0:06:04.800 basically I was the I was chosen as captain obviously too. 0:06:04.960 --> 0:06:07.000 As soon as they said, oh, we've chosen someone, I 0:06:07.040 --> 0:06:09.000 looked around the table and went, well, obviously it's. 0:06:08.800 --> 0:06:09.719 Gonna be mad hello. 0:06:10.200 --> 0:06:14.200 And then and I forget there are a few other 0:06:14.279 --> 0:06:15.719 jobs that I had to do. But look, it was 0:06:15.760 --> 0:06:17.480 a rough night. When when you have to make sure 0:06:17.480 --> 0:06:20.040 everyone else's drinks is full, that means your drink has 0:06:20.080 --> 0:06:22.360 to be full as well, because you have to lead 0:06:22.360 --> 0:06:24.920 by example. So I had a big night. And there 0:06:24.960 --> 0:06:27.760 was a part where the MC was like, oh, all 0:06:27.760 --> 0:06:29.360 the captains need to come to the dance floor and 0:06:29.400 --> 0:06:31.280 show us your best dance move, like ready to get 0:06:31.279 --> 0:06:33.640 the dance floor going, and so you know, like everyone's 0:06:33.640 --> 0:06:36.720 a little bit awkward, and you know, I just felt 0:06:36.800 --> 0:06:39.279 like the vibes, like no one was giving one hundred 0:06:39.279 --> 0:06:41.400 percent with their dance moves. And I was like, these 0:06:41.560 --> 0:06:45.480 two only get married once fingers crossed, you know, so 0:06:46.360 --> 0:06:49.360 well what, yeah, I'm sure that out last forever, but 0:06:49.560 --> 0:06:50.839 so many marriages I don't. 0:06:50.680 --> 0:06:52.400 Remind you of something I want to talk about after this. 0:06:52.520 --> 0:06:53.560 Okay, that leads into that. 0:06:53.800 --> 0:06:55.920 And so I'm looking at some of the dance moves 0:06:55.960 --> 0:06:57.760 that some of these are the captains on the tableside 0:06:57.760 --> 0:07:00.000 and I was table eight, so I was eight to dance. 0:07:00.240 --> 0:07:01.800 Oh wait, did you have to dance one by one? 0:07:01.839 --> 0:07:03.799 Yeah, one by one, big dance off in the middle 0:07:03.800 --> 0:07:05.560 of the dance floor while everyone else was sitting down. 0:07:06.000 --> 0:07:08.520 So then everyone's doing their moods and they're doing like 0:07:08.560 --> 0:07:11.040 the sprinkler, or they're just doing like a light twerk, 0:07:11.160 --> 0:07:13.720 or they're just you know, moving like Donald Trump to 0:07:13.760 --> 0:07:17.200 the YMCA. It was just so I was like, I'm 0:07:17.240 --> 0:07:18.880 gonna have to bring the party here. So what do 0:07:18.960 --> 0:07:22.080 I do the worm? I get on the dance floor, 0:07:22.280 --> 0:07:24.360 I do the worm. Now let me paint the picture 0:07:24.400 --> 0:07:27.280 for you. I have done the worm plenty in my life, 0:07:27.320 --> 0:07:30.720 Like in high school, it was like, oh, God, Matt's 0:07:30.720 --> 0:07:32.480 still on the worm. Here we go, all right, the 0:07:32.480 --> 0:07:35.120 party's done. Matt still them. When I was doing drag, 0:07:35.280 --> 0:07:38.000 my signature move was the worm. Sometimes I pull the 0:07:38.000 --> 0:07:40.480 worm out as a drag queen and that was hilarious. 0:07:40.560 --> 0:07:43.320 And anyway, I was like, I'll do the worm. 0:07:43.360 --> 0:07:45.679 And because this is my friend Christina who got married, 0:07:45.720 --> 0:07:48.720 who I was, I was housemates. 0:07:48.240 --> 0:07:50.760 With for a violations Christine. 0:07:50.600 --> 0:07:55.800 Relations Christina and she so she was around like I. 0:07:55.760 --> 0:07:56.240 Did the worm. 0:07:56.280 --> 0:07:58.400 I literally pointed at her and was like, I hope 0:07:58.440 --> 0:08:00.280 you know exactly what's about to happen. And I did 0:08:00.280 --> 0:08:02.360 the worm because like she was around when I was 0:08:02.400 --> 0:08:05.360 doing all the drag and everything like that. Anyway, I've 0:08:05.400 --> 0:08:07.800 done the worm. I've gone. You know how you start 0:08:07.800 --> 0:08:10.760 the worm, You kind of put your hands down and 0:08:10.760 --> 0:08:12.960 then you roll down to the ground. Right when I 0:08:12.960 --> 0:08:17.560 put my hands down, my arms give out, my chest 0:08:17.680 --> 0:08:18.440 hits the ground. 0:08:18.880 --> 0:08:22.120 I am winded. I've broken masternum. 0:08:22.200 --> 0:08:26.120 I'm convinced something's fractured in my chest and my arm 0:08:26.200 --> 0:08:29.080 muscles have clearly been strained and ripped because I've got 0:08:29.120 --> 0:08:31.800 no upper body strength. But I'm in the middle of 0:08:31.800 --> 0:08:33.960 a dance or with one hundred eyes on me, and 0:08:34.000 --> 0:08:35.720 I went, I gotta do the worm. 0:08:36.080 --> 0:08:37.640 So I did my best attempt. 0:08:37.720 --> 0:08:40.480 Wait so you know, like went splat, So I didn't. 0:08:40.880 --> 0:08:43.120 I was still graceful, but my chest hit the ground 0:08:43.200 --> 0:08:45.600 so hard I've gone off crack something in there. 0:08:45.840 --> 0:08:47.080 I can't breathe. I'm winded. 0:08:47.120 --> 0:08:48.760 Do you remember when you're in primary school you're on 0:08:48.800 --> 0:08:50.199 the monkey bars and you fall off, you. 0:08:50.200 --> 0:08:53.079 Hit the ground and you win, and I've never seen. 0:08:54.920 --> 0:08:59.160 Oh my god, craz I remember. 0:08:58.920 --> 0:09:00.720 When kids would win themselves. Was at school and it 0:09:00.800 --> 0:09:02.439 was like a big deal and you're like you thought 0:09:02.480 --> 0:09:03.240 that I'm gonna die. 0:09:03.360 --> 0:09:08.000 Yes, So I can't breathe, but chest is like even 0:09:08.040 --> 0:09:11.600 still today. Oh like that, Oh like that's tender, Like 0:09:11.640 --> 0:09:15.520 that's real, real tender. I honestly think something's broken in there. 0:09:15.520 --> 0:09:18.760 I've broken a rib or something. And anyway, I couldn't breathe. 0:09:18.800 --> 0:09:20.000 But I was like, I go do the worm. So 0:09:20.000 --> 0:09:22.280 I did another four little you know what do you call? 0:09:22.320 --> 0:09:24.640 That were movements another born and I was like, oh 0:09:24.679 --> 0:09:26.880 my god, if I don't stop, I'm actually going to die. 0:09:27.400 --> 0:09:28.280 So I had to stop. 0:09:28.400 --> 0:09:33.080 And yeah, anyway, that was the thing, but my my, 0:09:33.080 --> 0:09:35.120 my reminder of the day that I want to say 0:09:36.000 --> 0:09:41.680 is like, I think we need to start showing up 0:09:41.880 --> 0:09:45.800 and not being as lazy when it comes to celebrating 0:09:45.840 --> 0:09:46.480 other people. 0:09:47.040 --> 0:09:48.280 Right, Like I was at this. 0:09:48.240 --> 0:09:50.680 Wedding, and fair enough, everyone's got a different kind of 0:09:50.679 --> 0:09:52.960 confidence level. But there was a bit before like the 0:09:53.000 --> 0:09:55.680 bride and groom came in and the MC was like, 0:09:55.720 --> 0:09:58.000 all right, we're gonna do some like, you know, because 0:09:58.000 --> 0:10:01.240 when they do their film, you know, the photography, the 0:10:01.320 --> 0:10:03.120 videographers will do their movie at the end, they're like, 0:10:03.200 --> 0:10:05.280 we're just gonna get some like, you know, shots of 0:10:05.520 --> 0:10:07.760 tables cheering and things like that, so we can edit 0:10:07.800 --> 0:10:10.240 that in and like make it look really fabulous. And 0:10:10.280 --> 0:10:12.240 again we're table lights. So they started with table one 0:10:12.320 --> 0:10:16.800 and everyone's going whoo. I'm like, these two just got married. 0:10:17.400 --> 0:10:19.960 Can we put a bit of energy in the room? 0:10:20.160 --> 0:10:21.960 I said to my table, because I didn't know I 0:10:22.000 --> 0:10:23.560 was the captain by this point, but I was already 0:10:23.600 --> 0:10:24.640 acting like it obviously. 0:10:24.800 --> 0:10:27.640 I said, everyone, get your napkins. We're all gonna stand up. 0:10:27.760 --> 0:10:29.800 We're gonna fling our napkins. 0:10:29.360 --> 0:10:32.000 Round, and we did, and our table was a vibe 0:10:32.040 --> 0:10:34.000 and then the MC was like, oh, I love that. Actually, 0:10:34.080 --> 0:10:36.080 I'm gonna make every table do that. So then everyone 0:10:36.080 --> 0:10:37.280 I had to get up with their napkins. 0:10:37.559 --> 0:10:39.400 I think it's just like the way that the world 0:10:39.480 --> 0:10:44.120 is now, Like going back to the conversation about concerts 0:10:44.120 --> 0:10:46.160 and how like Aeron looks like a stum mullet in 0:10:46.200 --> 0:10:48.440 the crowd, Like are we all becoming a little bit 0:10:48.800 --> 0:10:49.200 like that? 0:10:49.360 --> 0:10:51.079 Well, the thing that shocked me was so many people 0:10:51.120 --> 0:10:53.839 came up to me during the night and we're like, wow, 0:10:54.240 --> 0:10:57.320 just just love how much you love this couple. 0:10:57.559 --> 0:11:00.000 And I said to them, especially after a few drinks, 0:11:00.080 --> 0:11:02.400 I said, they only get married once. We need to 0:11:02.440 --> 0:11:06.360 show up for them and and and give them all 0:11:06.400 --> 0:11:09.400 of our love today. Like I doesn't I don't understand 0:11:09.400 --> 0:11:12.280 why people just like sit there, MOPI and like, don't 0:11:12.280 --> 0:11:15.960 get involved. I'm like, we got six hours at this reception. 0:11:17.360 --> 0:11:18.680 Let's spend fucking eighty. 0:11:20.320 --> 0:11:23.440 Let's fucking bring it for them, you know what I mean? Yes, 0:11:23.480 --> 0:11:25.000 I'm anyway. 0:11:25.400 --> 0:11:27.440 I I think I did bring the vibe, and by 0:11:27.679 --> 0:11:29.920 you know, only an hour or two into the night, 0:11:29.960 --> 0:11:31.040 everyone was on my level. 0:11:31.720 --> 0:11:33.880 So love it and that's what that's what you need 0:11:33.920 --> 0:11:34.080 to do. 0:11:34.120 --> 0:11:37.240 So scrollers, where your lesson of the day is look 0:11:37.280 --> 0:11:40.760 for your best years yet to come, and also bring 0:11:40.760 --> 0:11:43.679 the vibe to a wedding because everyone else will eventually 0:11:43.760 --> 0:11:45.600 join you. Everyone's just a bit nervous to be the 0:11:45.640 --> 0:11:47.160 first one to be a bit crazy. 0:11:47.360 --> 0:11:58.599 Not me, well, speaking about our weddings and stuff. I 0:11:58.679 --> 0:12:01.240 kind of was having a realize the other day that 0:12:01.920 --> 0:12:05.840 I'm in that era now where weddings are over. Like 0:12:06.240 --> 0:12:08.080 you know how when you go through your twenties and 0:12:08.120 --> 0:12:11.080 your late twenties, you go through the wedding season where 0:12:11.120 --> 0:12:13.880 all your friends are getting married and you've got a wedding, 0:12:14.000 --> 0:12:16.040 like four weddings a year or whatever it may be. 0:12:16.960 --> 0:12:20.600 I think, like, I'm thirty three and AJ's thirty seven, 0:12:20.800 --> 0:12:23.880 so like all of our friends are already married and 0:12:23.960 --> 0:12:27.920 have a couple of kids. Like you're probably like, yeah, 0:12:28.040 --> 0:12:30.600 you're you're my friend that's gonna get married. 0:12:30.920 --> 0:12:33.640 But it's kind of like the end of the wedding 0:12:33.679 --> 0:12:36.160 season for us, which is kind of sad. But then 0:12:36.200 --> 0:12:40.520 I was thinking second weddings, Yeah. 0:12:40.960 --> 0:12:43.960 Why you just wanted an excuse to have a bis up? 0:12:44.080 --> 0:12:47.959 Really exactly. I was like, second weddings, how long after? 0:12:48.520 --> 0:12:53.240 No, like we might like you got yeah, you mean 0:12:53.280 --> 0:12:57.200 they'll get a divorced But how about forty four forty 0:12:57.240 --> 0:12:59.160 five a second run of Wedding seven? 0:12:59.440 --> 0:13:02.760 So I'm here going I'm so sad wedding season is over, 0:13:02.840 --> 0:13:05.600 like all our friends are old now everyone's already married. 0:13:05.920 --> 0:13:09.240 Hang on, people can get divorced and people can have 0:13:09.280 --> 0:13:10.760 the wedding season all over again. 0:13:10.840 --> 0:13:12.480 So I've got that to look forward to. 0:13:12.960 --> 0:13:13.920 Do you reckon though? 0:13:15.280 --> 0:13:18.080 You spend all your money on your first wedding, as 0:13:18.200 --> 0:13:20.160 if you're even bothering with the second one. 0:13:20.520 --> 0:13:22.760 Well, my uncle has been married three times. 0:13:25.480 --> 0:13:27.000 Has he had big weddings each time? 0:13:27.200 --> 0:13:27.680 Nah? 0:13:28.000 --> 0:13:29.640 Little? Okay? 0:13:29.800 --> 0:13:32.720 Yeah I wouldn't either. And do you want to know 0:13:32.720 --> 0:13:34.240 what something else that's really funny? 0:13:34.800 --> 0:13:35.520 Yeah? Please? 0:13:35.640 --> 0:13:36.960 And I think it's actually. 0:13:37.040 --> 0:13:40.480 Because have you heard people say that getting being a 0:13:40.559 --> 0:13:45.400 divorced woman is quite chic? Like that's chic to be 0:13:45.480 --> 0:13:49.120 like I'm divorced, Like that's a status. I think what 0:13:49.240 --> 0:13:53.240 adds another level to it being chic is not changing 0:13:53.280 --> 0:13:54.320 your last name back. 0:13:55.880 --> 0:13:57.280 Not changing your last name back. 0:13:57.520 --> 0:14:01.400 So my dad married my mom and they broke up 0:14:01.400 --> 0:14:04.760 when I was really little. She still has his last name. 0:14:05.240 --> 0:14:08.520 He remarried my step mom. They broke up when I 0:14:08.559 --> 0:14:09.360 was about fourteen. 0:14:09.840 --> 0:14:12.600 She still has his last name and. 0:14:13.280 --> 0:14:15.240 He's just distributing the Saunders name. 0:14:15.679 --> 0:14:17.840 So they were out there with his surname from like 0:14:17.920 --> 0:14:20.960 twenty years ago. I think it's quite she if I'm 0:14:20.960 --> 0:14:21.880 being honest. 0:14:21.840 --> 0:14:26.240 To have the last name. Yeah, you know what, he's 0:14:26.240 --> 0:14:27.480 still got your name. Yeah suck. 0:14:27.880 --> 0:14:31.040 Yeah, Like how funny that my step mom is still 0:14:31.400 --> 0:14:36.400 Jackie Saunders. Yeah, but they broke up like seventeen years ago. 0:14:37.040 --> 0:14:40.800 It is such a process to change your head bothered. 0:14:41.000 --> 0:14:42.440 Yeah, you got to do your medicare. 0:14:42.560 --> 0:14:44.640 I think once you do it, once you realize like 0:14:44.840 --> 0:14:49.240 how much you actually have to change every Like there's 0:14:49.320 --> 0:14:52.720 so much that you need to actually change that if 0:14:52.760 --> 0:14:54.920 you then got divorced, you'd go, I'm not going through 0:14:54.960 --> 0:14:55.320 that again. 0:14:55.360 --> 0:14:57.160 If I married a J, I wouldn't bother change in 0:14:57.160 --> 0:14:59.600 my last name. Yeah, And that's like I'm not even 0:14:59.640 --> 0:15:01.600 proud of my last name, you know what I mean. Like, 0:15:01.680 --> 0:15:03.880 so maybe someone like me would be like, yeah, I'd 0:15:03.880 --> 0:15:06.160 love to change it because like I have no pride 0:15:06.240 --> 0:15:09.640 in my last name anyway, no offense to the Saunders family. 0:15:10.640 --> 0:15:12.800 But I still think I just like wouldn't be bothered 0:15:13.080 --> 0:15:15.920 because just like so much effort, Like it's even effort 0:15:16.000 --> 0:15:17.840 to change it on Facebook. 0:15:17.680 --> 0:15:18.160 Get alone. 0:15:18.320 --> 0:15:19.640 Do you have to change it on you? You don't have 0:15:19.640 --> 0:15:20.840 to change on your birth certificate. 0:15:21.600 --> 0:15:27.520 No, but like medicare, bank bills, like everything else. 0:15:28.800 --> 0:15:33.960 Yess, passport and you know a lot of people get 0:15:34.280 --> 0:15:37.480 screwed because they change their name and then when they 0:15:37.920 --> 0:15:41.120 get on their honeymoon their names different. 0:15:40.800 --> 0:15:45.520 To what their name is because they've either booked with 0:15:45.560 --> 0:15:48.680 the married name or they've booked with the old name. 0:15:48.800 --> 0:15:49.200 I don't know. 0:15:49.240 --> 0:15:51.800 I've heard lots of stories about that people. Anyway, I 0:15:51.840 --> 0:15:54.800 don't want to stray too far away from the whole 0:15:54.960 --> 0:15:58.280 getting drunk and having a big weekend, because we do 0:15:58.360 --> 0:16:01.400 have someone who I need to interview on this podcast. 0:16:01.440 --> 0:16:04.760 Ye. We don't often have guests on this we don't, 0:16:04.800 --> 0:16:07.680 but when it's called for, we allow. 0:16:08.120 --> 0:16:11.640 Please welcome to the stage. Gay Jay, Oh god too? 0:16:12.360 --> 0:16:16.200 Is still hungover today from Saturday night? 0:16:16.320 --> 0:16:17.240 Is that correct? Probably? 0:16:17.280 --> 0:16:18.680 Hear it in my voice to be you're going to 0:16:18.720 --> 0:16:19.360 get in trouble. 0:16:20.160 --> 0:16:23.240 No, because I'm sober now, Oh okay, not drinking on 0:16:23.320 --> 0:16:23.680 the job. 0:16:24.680 --> 0:16:29.320 I am, yes, soay day talk us through? 0:16:29.480 --> 0:16:30.120 Can you just. 0:16:30.120 --> 0:16:32.200 Tell because I've got I've got a question for you, 0:16:32.200 --> 0:16:33.840 but I'm hoping you bring it up first. Can you 0:16:33.880 --> 0:16:35.080 tell us about your Saturday night? 0:16:35.160 --> 0:16:39.200 Okay, Well, we had a fabulous Saturday. We did a 0:16:39.200 --> 0:16:40.040 fridge to fridge. 0:16:40.120 --> 0:16:42.640 Oh, he brought it up. That's exactly what I wanted 0:16:42.680 --> 0:16:44.920 to bring up. Fridge to fridge. 0:16:45.080 --> 0:16:46.040 I've never heard of that. 0:16:47.320 --> 0:16:50.600 You got out of You left high school early, didn't you. Yes, 0:16:50.680 --> 0:16:55.280 it's notoriously like a year twelve fridge to fridge, So. 0:16:55.280 --> 0:16:56.160 You go to people's houses. 0:16:56.320 --> 0:16:57.600 Yes, you go from fridge to fridge. 0:16:57.680 --> 0:17:00.360 So if it's if it's us three, let's say the whole, 0:17:00.400 --> 0:17:03.120 but usually get like ten to twenty people involved. Yeah, 0:17:03.160 --> 0:17:06.439 and everyone's fridge has to be stocked with alcohol, so 0:17:06.520 --> 0:17:09.520 you just buy the alcohol to fill your fridge. And 0:17:09.560 --> 0:17:11.159 then we start at your house and we drink all 0:17:11.200 --> 0:17:12.920 your alcohol. Then we go to my house and we 0:17:13.000 --> 0:17:15.120 drink all that alcohol. Then we got to Xander's house, 0:17:15.119 --> 0:17:17.520 we gay Jay's house, and we drink all that alcohol. 0:17:17.920 --> 0:17:19.200 And in high school, you. 0:17:19.240 --> 0:17:23.560 Used to they used to bike ride from house to house, 0:17:23.800 --> 0:17:25.520 which is highly illegal and we don't recommend. 0:17:25.520 --> 0:17:28.000 How did you get from house to house fridge? We walked? 0:17:28.200 --> 0:17:30.240 Okay, Yeah, and then we also got an uber from 0:17:30.240 --> 0:17:33.280 one of them, because I mean, that's a story in itself, 0:17:33.320 --> 0:17:34.560 but we had to get an uber, and they're like. 0:17:34.600 --> 0:17:35.040 You cheated. 0:17:35.080 --> 0:17:36.760 You can't take an uber to the next house. 0:17:37.320 --> 0:17:38.840 So it's basically like a scavenger hunt. 0:17:39.600 --> 0:17:42.040 Not at all, but really if that's what it takes 0:17:42.040 --> 0:17:46.119 to understand it the ego. But I never got to 0:17:46.160 --> 0:17:49.040 do fridge to fridge because I didn't have enough friends 0:17:49.080 --> 0:17:52.280 that it would make sense, like this is my first one, 0:17:52.359 --> 0:17:54.320 oh first ever, and your how old? 0:17:54.600 --> 0:17:55.240