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Speaker 1: With Kate Ki podcast. I've got involved. Guys. If your

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Speaker 1: parenting style is to lie to your children to get

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Speaker 2: That a style or is that just being a parent? O.

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Speaker 1: Look, I don't think every parent does it.

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Speaker 2: Some people don't lie. I've heard about those families with

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Speaker 1: So when a child asks anything, regardless of what it is,

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Speaker 2: Head, there's a few things throughout the year, let.

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Speaker 1: Just be very honest about it. Well, I don't agree

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Speaker 1: with neither do I. I actually don't agree with that,

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Speaker 1: But I don't mind this story. I think you may

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Speaker 1: have done it in your house. We don't know about you, Fitzy,

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Speaker 1: but get involved if you've done something like it. It

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Speaker 1: comes from the UK. There's a guy that plays for

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Speaker 1: Carlile United. He and his wife Lovely Abbey. They have

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Speaker 1: a lot. I would imagine traveling with the team and

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Speaker 1: so as far as their birthdays go, they have decided

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Speaker 1: going to celebrate the kid's birthdays on the day that

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Speaker 1: no one is that. The kids are none the wiser,

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Speaker 1: But it does mean that the family can be together

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Speaker 3: So does it change every year they pick it early?

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Speaker 1: Well, it changes. I'm guessing the football schedule changes when

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Speaker 3: But if they want to, if they want the kids

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Speaker 3: to play footy, this is the thing. What under are

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Speaker 3: they in? What what's your actual birthday?

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Speaker 1: Well that's exactly right. There is going to be a moment,

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Speaker 1: like with any lie, that it comes undone and people

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Speaker 1: star what's your star sign? I mean, you can't go

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Speaker 2: But a little bit awkward too when you organize a

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Speaker 2: the next year you do it in September.

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Speaker 1: Exactly, and you have a pool party one year and

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Speaker 1: the next year you're off to the birthday in February.

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Speaker 3: What's the lie that you've been telling your kids, Jess.

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Speaker 4: I was telling my daughter that when she lies, her

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Speaker 4: nose close red, so I should cover her notes be

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Speaker 4: like my nose throwing red and if she was ready to.

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Speaker 1: Sally, very cute. I hope you write those things down.

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Speaker 3: Not bad. That is not bad, because then they can't

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Speaker 1: See some young people though, do or even adults do

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Speaker 1: when they lie, they go in red. Do you know

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Speaker 1: those people that get that rational?

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Speaker 5: That's I love.

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Speaker 2: Thank you covering my nose.

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Speaker 1: I like my jumper. Adam, Good morning.

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Speaker 5: Adam, Good morning, Kate, and how are you very well.

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Speaker 5: I'm a little embarrassed to be telling you this, but

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Speaker 1: You can't do that these days, like with social media

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Speaker 2: The countdown to the morning, like the news is running

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Speaker 3: Five years of their life that have no idea after that.

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Speaker 3: You're probably struggling.

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Speaker 1: That's okay, Adam. I'm sure you did lots of other

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Speaker 2: Then probably not.

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Speaker 5: Forgive me for father.

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Speaker 3: There with Cagie podcast to the most loyal people in

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Speaker 3: the world, your mum, And it was a magnificent day yesterday.

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Speaker 3: A bit of controversy in the Fitzgerald house. I had

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Speaker 1: What do you mean they don't know? Isn't there always

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Speaker 3: Is hard, Kate to know when you know you're kicking

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Speaker 3: the footy with your mates, they're little things that you

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Speaker 3: Distraction. So anyway, this is leading up to Mother's Day.

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Speaker 3: Lenny's decided to get his partner a beautiful bracelet. Kate,

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Speaker 3: her and Bija and I said, this is a great idea.

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Speaker 3: She's going to love this anyway. A couple of weeks

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Speaker 3: they will stick together. He said, that's just I can't

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Speaker 3: There's no time where we're alone together.

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Speaker 1: So they don't see each other outside of school then,

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Speaker 3: Said, so what are you going to do with the bracelet?

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Speaker 3: And he said, I can't give it to her perfect

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Speaker 3: Why don't you give it to mummy for Mother's Day?

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Speaker 1: It sounds like someone said cheapscape.

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Speaker 2: So hang on, he's is it one of those like

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Speaker 2: half hearts that come together, so you wear one half and.

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Speaker 3: The and there's half a carrot in.

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Speaker 2: There, profess.

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Speaker 3: No, it's qubic xiconia on only the last two weeks

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Speaker 3: His eyes lit up, Kate when he was like, you

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Speaker 3: know what, Dad, I think it would suit mummy a

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Speaker 3: lot better this's bracelet than my girlfriend.

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Speaker 1: Well, it took the pressure off for him too. He

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Speaker 3: You know, like some of the beautiful he gave, you know,

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Speaker 3: BJ two cards. This is lind Dog who's been really

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Speaker 2: But you know it's her name.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, two cards. One was with her name and the

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Speaker 3: b Belinda, So Belinda, a bouquet of reasons why I

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Speaker 3: love you? Mom, Belinda being awesome, E for extra fun,

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Speaker 3: L for lovely and helpful, I for intelligent, N for

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Speaker 3: never gives up, D for does love photos.

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Speaker 2: And the other card was her credit card back.

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Speaker 3: And A for amazing in general and general. And then

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Speaker 3: he's written in the other card, you are the perfect mum,

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Speaker 3: even if you do make mistakes. I'm not perfect, and

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Speaker 3: he's finished. He's finished with a Whitney Houston line.

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Speaker 2: I will always with a Hey Richie podcast, we are

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Speaker 2: asking the question where were you accidentally nude when you

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Speaker 2: didn't realize you were on show? These things can happen.

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Speaker 2: What's your story?

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Speaker 6: I was a romantic getaway with my ex husband and

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Speaker 6: we decided to have a little campering, so we went

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Speaker 6: a message. So I opted for the towel, my ex

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Speaker 5: I want to share my towel.

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Speaker 4: No.

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Speaker 1: I mean, that's probably why the marriage ended. But I

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you reckon.

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Speaker 7: It was.

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Speaker 1: It was one of the first red flags.

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Speaker 6: I think it was a sudden flag.

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Speaker 3: Let's go to Michelle. You accidentally flashed your boss. What happened, Michelle?

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Speaker 7: I worked in a Catholic primary school and I was

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Speaker 2: Anything afterwards, Michelle, or just pretend neither of you realized.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, we didn't talk for a while. We didn't make

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Speaker 3: But you've inapted the pie rise, that's for sure.

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Speaker 7: I didn't work what we had to do to get

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Speaker 3: Wow, Jackie, we're talking about accidental nerdity.

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Speaker 4: So we had this very particular VIP that kind of

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Speaker 4: night flight you get for Gentlemens. You get tucked into

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Speaker 2: The power still working over time, poor guy, still getting

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Speaker 2: the job done. The old still not. You're a little

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Speaker 2: bit sorry about that. Jacket was a great light. I

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