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Speaker 1: With Kate Richie Podcast.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to the podcast. Today we talk about fitness and

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Speaker 2: the run up to summer.

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Speaker 1: Kate Richie, you've left it a bit late. Not really, Oh,

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Speaker 1: I guess it's it's only yes.

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Speaker 3: I can hit Christmas Day looking show harp?

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Speaker 2: Do you know what I mean?

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Speaker 3: Or where the girls are going? Hey? How do I

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Speaker 3: get more of that? Dad board?

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Speaker 2: What does the exit make you nervous?

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Speaker 1: I don't know what you're doing top off all of it,

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Speaker 1: all of all of the above. But I think it's

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Speaker 1: great and I think like today is the day you start.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't matter if that was yesterday, tomorrow, or maybe

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Speaker 1: it's going to be next week.

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Speaker 2: You know that silent pub Kate that says free beer

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Speaker 2: tomorrow tomorrow never comes? Do it today? All right, I'm

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Speaker 2: going to hit you up on this podcast guys with

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Speaker 2: a bit of an update on how I'm going with

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Speaker 2: my fitness.

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Speaker 4: This is the Fits and with Her with Kate Richie Podcast.

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Speaker 3: How's your shower going?

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Speaker 2: You were too a day? I mean it's getting hot.

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Speaker 2: Last night was hot and sweaty.

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Speaker 1: Are you asking me or the listeners?

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Speaker 2: I'm asking you for thirteen twenty four to ten if

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Speaker 2: you want to share your shower routine.

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Speaker 1: Definitely too interesting.

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Speaker 3: You're a bit of a bath goer as well.

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Speaker 1: I'm not a bath goer. I have a small child,

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Speaker 1: so we like to have a bath. I really have

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Speaker 1: a bath on my own, right, okay with I have

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Speaker 1: it with my mate, with my door, with my I

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Speaker 1: asked Pete, the next door neighbor, the pop up a

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Speaker 1: bath if.

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Speaker 3: You're ready, ready, if it works now?

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Speaker 1: Bath time? No? But you know what what I do.

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Speaker 1: It's it's a classic, and I know everyone's with me.

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Speaker 1: You run the bath, you get in the bath, it's

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Speaker 1: too hot, you get stressed, you get out of the bath,

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Speaker 1: and it's a very big waste of water.

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Speaker 2: Every on your phone in the bath? Do you do

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Speaker 2: that one?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Just lying there? How good is that?

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Speaker 3: I remember Dad used to get the raid ocks. Remember

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Speaker 3: a rad ox?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Is that a still a thing. Yes, he'd go for

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Speaker 2: a run, he'd come home. I don't know what he

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Speaker 2: was doing in there be forty five minutes of radox bath.

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Speaker 1: It's an excuse, is what it is. Yeah, it was

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Speaker 1: hiding away. Yeah. I deserve this bath because I've done

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Speaker 1: a bit of exercise.

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Speaker 2: Update on the routine guys, I had no idea about this.

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Speaker 2: They have created a brand new style of washing for you,

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Speaker 2: for your for the human body. But it's called a

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Speaker 2: human washing machine. So it's going to clean and dry

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Speaker 2: you in fifteen minutes.

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Speaker 1: So hide and dry.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it drives you.

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Speaker 1: What if you're a lady with long hand?

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Speaker 2: What kind of dry dried? Everything will be dried? I mean,

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Speaker 2: this is smart tech. This is a smart tech human

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Speaker 2: washing option that they've created. And they like egg shaped

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Speaker 2: pods that you hop into, if you could imagine, and

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Speaker 2: you sit down in your pod, and then all of

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Speaker 2: a sudden, it starts to fill with water, and it

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Speaker 2: senses your body temperature. It starts to massage it as well.

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Speaker 2: Sprays are coming on to your back and also onto

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Speaker 1: Can you control the temture? I'm guessing you.

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Speaker 2: Can control the temperature, though it probably knows you because

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Speaker 2: it's got AI technology in it, Kate, But he knows

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Speaker 2: the temperature that you like more than yourself. And then

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Speaker 2: from there things scrub you and.

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Speaker 1: Rube do you get one and how much of that?

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Speaker 3: Things scrub you and rub you, and then all of

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Speaker 2: Water drains from your giant egg that you sit in,

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Speaker 2: and then the fans come on and dry you down

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Speaker 2: turns of home and away, actual fans that blow nice

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Speaker 2: warm air that will dry your hair.

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Speaker 1: It's like a dog wash.

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Speaker 3: It's like a dogwathh Do.

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Speaker 1: You think that if you are going to be washed appropriately,

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Speaker 1: is being seated the best position? Or don't you think

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Speaker 3: Do you think you need your legs open?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like legs a kimbo and arms up?

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Speaker 3: Are you suggesting we have a lack of bum attention?

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Speaker 1: Well, don't you think how can the water get in

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Speaker 1: But depending on if you're a big unit, the bigger body,

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Speaker 1: there might be more creases.

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Speaker 2: So true, I mean this is Japanese technology. Now, if

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Speaker 2: you've ever used a toilet from Japan, or you've used

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Speaker 2: you'll know that the little arm can come out and

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Speaker 2: their accuracy of the water that is sprayed.

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Speaker 1: I don't like it when you do that.

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Speaker 2: Exceptional exceptional and for a woman front or back, you

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Speaker 2: can select where you want that water to clean.

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Speaker 1: Why is it only for women?

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Speaker 3: But I'm saying it's so accurate.

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Speaker 2: You have the difference in distance between front and back,

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Speaker 2: that's how accurate it is.

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Speaker 1: I've never used one of those Japanese toils. I've been

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Speaker 1: do that, and they're lovely and warm bottom, But I've

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Speaker 1: never done the spraying thing. I mean I can barely

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Speaker 1: turn the TV on it. It would be a disaster.

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Speaker 1: Mean you sort of those doing so?

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Speaker 2: The whole idea, I would suggest code is that the

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Speaker 2: Japanese bum spray comes into play too this design. Alex

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Speaker 2: and Camden, how often are you showing.

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Speaker 1: Twice day mate?

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Speaker 3: Morning, night, morning and night as you're a trader? Alex?

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Speaker 2: That's right, mate, chuck us a BRICKMK? And are you

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Speaker 2: are you by yourself in the shower? Is this a

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Speaker 2: team family effort or the girlfriend.

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Speaker 6: Or most of the time on my own? But I

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Speaker 7: So yeah, on your birthday, I'll tell you what, Alex,

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Speaker 7: I'm going to be Kate's address because she likes to

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Speaker 7: have a bath with with randoms.

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Speaker 1: Alex is in the car with people.

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Speaker 3: Sorry, Alex is here with his wife.

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Speaker 2: Thanks for your call, mate, stick to your self showering

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Speaker 2: and be your best friend.

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Speaker 3: I will figure you in Tommy.

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Speaker 2: Can we go to the parkay right, and record Kate

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Speaker 2: using a Japanese to order for the first time.

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Speaker 1: Imagine that?

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Speaker 2: Do you mean film or just audio to bath?

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Speaker 3: Okay, let's see what we can get. Last leave go here.

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Speaker 1: I didn't think we're that show.

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Speaker 3: We can try it.

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Speaker 1: We're not that show.

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Speaker 3: Well until we become that show.

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Speaker 4: This is the Fits In with Kate Richie podcast.

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Speaker 2: You know what, many might say that I left my

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Speaker 2: run a little bit too late, but I don't know

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Speaker 2: if you've noticed, Kate, but with summon sort of just here,

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Speaker 2: I was going to say, around the corner, I've just

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Speaker 2: been sharpening up the rig a little bit. Oh hot

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Speaker 2: but hot bod dad bod sharpened, you know, almost polished.

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Speaker 3: So I launched my sort of.

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Speaker 2: Fitness activity by getting down to the Iceberg's pool.

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Speaker 1: Last week, laughing. I didn't think you were going to go.

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Speaker 1: I have to be honest. We were in the office.

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Speaker 1: I said, what are you going to do today?

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Speaker 2: I'm working out bud?

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Speaker 1: He said I'm going I'm going to go for a swim.

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Speaker 1: And then the next day I did say you didn't

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Speaker 2: I did. Here's the thing, and we were talking about

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Speaker 2: So I got down there and I went into the

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Speaker 2: Chaine rooms. I don't particularly like public change rooms.

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Speaker 1: Why like pools.

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Speaker 2: That's cute because like it's wet on the floor and everything,

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Speaker 2: and there's you know, everything's on show, and all the

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Speaker 3: Are your lads, how's it going?

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Speaker 1: You don't have to talk?

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Speaker 2: Put it away?

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Speaker 1: I think you just don't do it.

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Speaker 2: People are drying themselves while getting their towel and pulling

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Speaker 1: They are not is that what men do?

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Speaker 2: Don't do that.

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Speaker 3: Don't do that.

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Speaker 2: Just use your towel and dry yourself off normally, like

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Speaker 3: Like, scratch you back with it too, you know?

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Speaker 2: So the thing was that I got the budget smugglers

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Speaker 2: elastic had gone in them, so I thought, I can't

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Speaker 3: I felt like an idiot to start with.

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Speaker 2: I'm going into a very public space in speedos and

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Speaker 2: I haven't done that for years.

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Speaker 2: Those, got rid of those bathers, and I went to

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Speaker 2: So I got into the swimmers and they said, yeah,

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Speaker 2: there's sixty five dollars a pair. I've gone to so

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Speaker 2: much effort. I went, all right, give me those. I

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Speaker 1: Sixty five dollars for speedos were the actual speedo brain.

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Speaker 2: I have no idea. They were just the shape I'm

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Speaker 2: trying to paint a picture. So I get in the pool,

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Speaker 2: I start swimming. Goggles are hopeless. I go back in

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Speaker 2: there can get any goggles as well. So I haven't

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Speaker 2: got my cards and I have just jumped out of

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Speaker 2: the pool. I'll pind the way out and yeah, got goggles.

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Speaker 3: Take these happing tod these forty five dollars.

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Speaker 2: It's really adding up here. So I buy new goggles,

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Speaker 2: not to mention that I'd spend ten dollars on the

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Speaker 2: on a locker, which I then lost the key thing for.

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Speaker 2: So I'd spend like tracks as well. No, not until

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Speaker 2: the end of it, had snacks on the way out.

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Speaker 2: So I'd spent sort of over one hundred and twenty dollars, gotten.

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Speaker 1: Pooled, lost interest, got my pool.

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Speaker 2: I had to look around. There was one lady was

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Speaker 2: I found after two laps I was getting dizzy, so

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Speaker 2: I was concerned about how I looked at my speed.

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Speaker 2: I was sitting on the edge of the pool. What

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Speaker 2: You've got to be careful of two in a pool

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Speaker 2: you can get knocked by the waves that crash against

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Speaker 2: Weird doctor ring with the blood results. I said, don't

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Speaker 3: It's on the way out. Even the lady who had

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Speaker 1: Point stop pointing at me. No, she did it. Are

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Speaker 4: This is the Fits In with Her with Kate Richie podcast.

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Speaker 1: What have you given up.

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Speaker 8: To say?

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Speaker 1: In order to save cash?

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Speaker 3: Seventeen dollars for an assaye? It depends where.

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Speaker 3: I did a bit of time.

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Speaker 2: You Oh did you not?

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Speaker 8: Well?

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Speaker 1: Thirteen twenty four ten? What have you given up because

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Speaker 1: some scientists from the Physicians Committee for Responsible Medicine, and

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Speaker 1: So if you're just doing chicken, well that's meat. No

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Speaker 3: Okay, we'll just give up mate. So you want me

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 3: So you want me to be a vegan a loafers

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Speaker 1: According to calculation, is changing to a low fat vegan

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Speaker 2: Quite I would prefer to busk on the street to

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Speaker 1: No, you wouldn't.

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Speaker 2: I'd prefer to get my guitar out and sing a

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Speaker 1: You only could have one cut of meat, what would.

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Speaker 3: It not expecting people from me?

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Speaker 2: If I'm there with my guitar case open, I'm not

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Speaker 1: A vegan diet won't just save you money. It could

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Speaker 1: save lives by helping to avoid or improve conditions like,

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Speaker 1: there's a lot going for it if you when they

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Speaker 3: You're selling.

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Speaker 2: You're selling it to me, like you're going to prepare it,

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Speaker 2: Not our place.

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Speaker 1: No, it doesn't happen.

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Speaker 2: Do you know what we need to get back to,

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Speaker 2: which I think is a cost saver and do it locally.

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Speaker 2: It's not a lood for cagbangers.

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Speaker 3: Ricky Lee's called the show from Malaba.

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Speaker 1: Hello, Hi, how you going? Hi, Ricky Lee? What are

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Speaker 6: To be honest, we're doing a few things. And one

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Speaker 3: To get on the Deadly treadly.

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Speaker 1: That's a great pride.

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Speaker 6: But yeah, I do the school drop off for the

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Speaker 2: So how much you think you're saving a week cutting

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Speaker 6: We well, I mean, look, coffee is these days are

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Speaker 6: seventy bucks a week.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's amazing.

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Speaker 1: It's a lot of moneymuch. I've had a coffee because

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Speaker 1: and I think I've paid.

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Speaker 3: Like twenty five dollars.

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Speaker 1: Six dollars seventy or something.

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Speaker 2: Cus Gabby's in Campbelltown. Gabby, Welcome to the home of Campbelltown. Love.

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Speaker 3: What have you given up?

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Speaker 8: I've given up getting my nails done?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, COVID time.

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Speaker 1: I did speak to a girlfriend the other day and

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Speaker 2: Gabby, your Campbelltown friend in here has black nail polished,

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Speaker 3: Which is good.

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Speaker 3: Can you ask Gabby where she's from in Campbellton?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Yes, which which suburb are you from? Gabby?

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Speaker 8: I'm from Ambervale?

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Speaker 1: I know Ambervail. Did you go to Embavel High?

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Speaker 8: When Tom was read all, Oh.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I used to get my hand done around the corner.

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Speaker 1: Then Gabby, you call Gabby Chrissy's and Cam.

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Speaker 2: Then what are you doing?

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Speaker 10: Chrissy, I've embraced the gray and stopped dyeing my hair.

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Speaker 1: Are you quite silver? Is it is the regrowth hard

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Chrissy.

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Speaker 2: A couple of product suggestions from Tom. Tommy, you have

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Speaker 11: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: You just wanted to marry.

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Speaker 12: Yeah, you balance out so it's not too brassy with

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Speaker 12: the gray, would be my advice. Dismiss It's quite good.

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Speaker 3: Frizz, she said, Frizz.

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Speaker 12: Dismiss friz dismith or the curling cream good liquid rollers.

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Speaker 2: Chrissy, you're in the running to go and see Taylor

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Speaker 2: Swift live in Vancouver. Her last show as is Ricky,

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Speaker 1: Let's take one more Kate Richie, Louise and Paramatta. Good morning, Louise.

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Speaker 1: What what are you doing? You get a sneaky little

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Speaker 5: Yes, so it might sound really bad, but I sign

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so he's going to pick it up, put snot

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Speaker 2: And there's the thirty dollars you spent, good, good old

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Speaker 1: Yeah, having a sale. I completely agree. So you're actually

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and then you can blow it all the following

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Speaker 2: Thursday night when you go out with the girls the city.

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Speaker 4: In with a with Kate Richie.

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Speaker 2: Podcast, I want to welcome a very special man of

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Speaker 2: the studio who's the Assistant Police Commissioner.

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Speaker 3: Peta McKenna. Thanks for coming in beer, Thank you very much.

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Speaker 2: Well, pet we're going to talk about the sixteen Days

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Speaker 2: of Activism campaign which is kicking off. But we also

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Speaker 2: wanted to touch on the scenes and stories coming out

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Speaker 2: of Friday Night and Hills. What can you tell us

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Speaker 2: because I mean, we've seen the footage of a man

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Speaker 11: Yeah, obviously an ongoing investigation, so not a lot of

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Speaker 11: obviously targeted. There'll be some background behind why that occurred.

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Speaker 11: We will get to the bottom of that. Our State

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Speaker 11: Crime Command Homicide Squad of leading that investigation, and you

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Speaker 11: know they leave no stone unturned.

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Speaker 2: You seemed like a young blood too, Do we know how?

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Speaker 11: I don't have any of those details me, but suffice

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Speaker 11: to say, you know, mister and missus Smith walking down

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Speaker 11: the street don't get targeted like that, No, they don't.

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Speaker 1: So the average person doesn't have anything to worry about,

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Speaker 1: and that's what we were concerned with.

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Speaker 11: The concern obviously is always that people try and do

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Speaker 11: But in this occasion that's not the case. And if

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Speaker 11: you've got no concerns.

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Speaker 2: It's a clear message there. Let's talk about the sixteen

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Speaker 2: Days of Activiation campaign. This is really important because one

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Speaker 2: of the topics that is extremely jarring to hear about,

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Speaker 2: but one that needs the focus and deserves the attention

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Speaker 2: is domestic violence. So the statistics are confronting. So the

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Speaker 2: four hundred and fifteen domestic and family violence calls come

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Speaker 11: Yeah, that's right. It's one of our biggest issues that

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Speaker 11: we have to confront each and every day. It's something

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Speaker 11: we put at the top of our priority list because

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Speaker 11: we know that, you know, when we don't get this right,

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Speaker 3: The number is still the same, Pete.

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Speaker 2: Do you know that there's a loss of life once

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Speaker 2: a week here in Australia.

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Speaker 11: Last year there was about thirty seven victims of domestic

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Speaker 11: violence that lost their lives in New South Wales. This

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Speaker 11: year we've had fourteen so far. It is concerning, but

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Speaker 11: it is something that we can't just police our way

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Speaker 11: out of. It's a societal issue. It's going to need

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Speaker 11: everyone to get involved in this space, and that's why

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Speaker 11: we're promoting the sixteen Days of Activism. It's about people

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Speaker 11: becoming aware and speaking up when they know about things

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Speaker 11: that just aren't quite right. Once upon a time, police

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Speaker 11: would go into homes looking for black eyes and bloody lips.

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Speaker 11: Now we're actually looking for indicators and behaviors of people.

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Speaker 11: We've got that new coercive control legislation and.

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Speaker 1: That's very interesting and also tricky to understand.

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Speaker 11: Yeah, well, it's probably something we just haven't realized. Over

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Speaker 11: the years. We've had individual offenses of intimidation, of harassment,

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Speaker 11: those sort of things. But when you start talking about

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Speaker 11: people now controlling your money, controlling what you wear, who

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Speaker 11: your friends are, your social media accounts, these are all

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Speaker 11: indicators of that coercive control, and that's something that we

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Speaker 11: can do something about. So the police are very much

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Speaker 11: on the lookout for that now.

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Speaker 1: I would imagine though, that if you do find yourself

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Speaker 1: in that kind of relationship and you do think that

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Speaker 1: somebody has coercive control over you, there's a lot of ay,

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Speaker 1: there's a gray area, and sometimes when you find yourself

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Speaker 1: in that situation, you don't actually trust yourself or perhaps

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Speaker 1: your decision making and knowledge of what's actually going on

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Speaker 1: for you is depleted sometimes but because of the relationship

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Speaker 1: that you find yourself in. So who is it that

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Speaker 1: you should be talking to at that point? Even just

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Speaker 1: to kind of I mean as simple as saying, am

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Speaker 1: I going Am I going crazy? Or is this what's happening?

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Speaker 1: Can you point me in that? Can you point me

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Speaker 1: in the right direction? Am I alone here?

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Speaker 11: Well that's a.

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Speaker 1: Very complicated question. But do you know what you know?

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm trying to say. I'm sure you have

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Speaker 1: lots of conversations with people like this.

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Speaker 11: Quite often, family and friends are watching from the outside

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Speaker 11: and noticing these sort of behaviors and thinking something's wrong,

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Speaker 11: but they don't want to get involved. I want to

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Speaker 11: tell people how to live their lives. You know, we're

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Speaker 11: trying to highlight to people now that if you are

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Speaker 11: seeing that, you do need to step in and say something. Certainly,

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Speaker 11: if you call the police, we are trained now to

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Speaker 11: look for those sort of behaviors. We can come in

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Speaker 11: and very delicately if need be, either refer to other

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Speaker 11: services who might be able to assist, or look at

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Speaker 11: ourselves from a law enforcement point of view, but the

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Speaker 11: messages we are there to help and if we don't

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Speaker 11: know about it, there's nothing we can do about it.

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Speaker 1: No, but I do think for some people asking for help, though,

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Speaker 1: the fear can often be If I ask for help,

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Speaker 1: this then sets off a chain reaction of events, as

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Speaker 1: it should. Perhaps you'll end up with the help that

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Speaker 1: you need, but we'll be asking for help make things

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Speaker 1: worse for now. So if you know, I'm sure there's

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Speaker 1: lots of people listening this morning, we only have to

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Speaker 1: look at the stats to know that there would be

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Speaker 1: people in their car right now that need to ask

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Speaker 1: for help but are absolutely terrified to do it. I mean,

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Speaker 1: what could you How do you speak to those people

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Speaker 1: around trusting you guys, you know, the men and women

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Speaker 1: in the police that have I'm sure how to put it. Sorry,

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Speaker 1: it's a tough one to talk about.

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Speaker 11: Fundamentally, people join the police force because we care and

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Speaker 11: we want to help people. That's our whole role when

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Speaker 11: you cut the fat off it, that's what we're there for.

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Speaker 11: We're also human beings who also live in the world

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Speaker 11: and have relationships and go through many of the same

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Speaker 11: sort of things that the rest of society go through.

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Speaker 11: So there's an understanding there, there's a caring nature there

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Speaker 11: to start with, and now we've got the extra training,

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Speaker 11: so we are really looking for them. Of the over

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Speaker 11: one hundred coercive control investigations that we've kicked off since

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Speaker 11: July this year, since the legislation came into play, most

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Speaker 11: of those investigations have been kicked off by the police

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Speaker 11: themselves identifying the indicators when speaking to victims. So there

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Speaker 11: are still obvious offenses when people come forward and talk about,

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Speaker 11: you know, how they've been treated or assaulted or whatever,

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Speaker 11: that will take the appropriate action. But we're also now

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Speaker 11: unraveling and looking at the other layers and seeing is

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Speaker 11: there more to this. The sixteen days of activism this year,

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Speaker 11: we're looking it up with animal cruelty offenses just as

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Speaker 11: another theme to get people talking, because what we've actually

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Speaker 11: found is there is a correlation between animal cruelty and

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Speaker 11: domestic violence. Again, it's about people these days. You know,

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Speaker 11: have pets and companion animals. They treat them like their

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Speaker 11: own children. They love and care for them, and if

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Speaker 11: someone can you know, wield that control over that pet

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Speaker 11: or animal, that might stop someone leaving just a threat

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Speaker 11: of violence towards saying let alone. Gosh, we have people

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Speaker 11: that don't want to leave because what's going to happen

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Speaker 11: to my pet?

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Speaker 2: To my animal?

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Speaker 11: Can I take it with me? Can I not?

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Speaker 3: Where?

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Speaker 11: Can I go? And if someone does actually harm or

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Speaker 11: is cruel to a pet an animal, you know, it's

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Speaker 11: not that much of a step for them to be

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Speaker 11: cruel or to harm the partner there with.

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Speaker 2: We can see that the obvious length.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, in relation to the campaign, is there a particular

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Speaker 1: reason why it kicks off today for the next sixteen days.

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Speaker 1: Is this time of year particularly difficult for some people?

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Speaker 1: So it is the spikes in things, No.

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Speaker 11: Not really, it's this is a they do the same

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Speaker 11: time year every year. Sixteen Days of Activism starts on

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Speaker 11: the twenty fifth of November, finishes on the tenth of

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Speaker 11: December internationally, and it's about United Nations Days of trying

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Speaker 11: to stop gender violence against women and girls in particular.

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Speaker 11: So it's a worldwide thing that we take part in.

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Speaker 11: There's a number of walks, there's barbecues, there's other social

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Speaker 11: events that are happening, and it's again just about that

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Speaker 11: awareness that activism people if they see something to speak up,

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Speaker 11: call the police. Yes, we do one hundred and fifty

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Speaker 11: five thousand calls last year for domestic violence. But you

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Speaker 11: know what, we will attend every one of them. And

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Speaker 11: if we get more this year and it's helping more people,

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Speaker 11: helping more victims, then we will be attending them.

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Speaker 2: I'm so impressed with the training that the police have

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Speaker 2: now regarding how to handle a phone call that might

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Speaker 2: come through to the station.

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Speaker 8: Yeah.

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Speaker 11: Like I said, it's very much a focus of ours now.

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Speaker 11: Some would say it's about sixty percent of our work

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Speaker 11: is domestic and family violence. But we take it very

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Speaker 11: very seriously, and it's something like we said, we're there

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Speaker 11: because we care.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I would imagine if you're getting one hundred and

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Speaker 1: fifty five thousand calls, there are a lot of people

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Speaker 1: who aren't calling as well.

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Speaker 11: It's still underreported by all measures domestic and family violence.

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Speaker 11: So you know, we do want to tell those people

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Speaker 11: out there. If you are suffering, or you just need

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Speaker 11: some advice, even at this point in time, please reach out.

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Speaker 11: Let us know. If we can't help directly, we will

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Speaker 11: certainly put you in touch with the support services who can.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and you're not alone, there's no there is no

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Speaker 1: there's no shame in it. Nobody has asked for to

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Speaker 1: be treated in those ways. And you should. Yeah, you

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Speaker 1: should get on the phone or if you're a family,

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Speaker 1: family member, please reach out for the people that you love.

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Speaker 3: So true Pete on a liner note.

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Speaker 2: There was a police officer called Steve Richie. He used

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Speaker 2: to work at the Campbelltown area. I don't know if

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Speaker 2: you're familiar with him. Kate's dad was in the force

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Speaker 2: for quite a while. I think he's more of a

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Speaker 2: dodgy cop.

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Speaker 1: No, we're not sure.

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Speaker 3: He's great at the barbecue.

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Speaker 1: Growing up in a fire rough house in Campbelltown if

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Speaker 1: he'd been that way.

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Speaker 2: But the force runs true in her family.

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Speaker 11: I've only heard good things.

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Speaker 1: Ah, that is that is very good. In actual fact,

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Speaker 1: I wanted to wanted to grow up and join the

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Speaker 1: police force.

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Speaker 2: There you go. So he's only crimes on the barbecue.

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Speaker 11: We're always recruiting. So more than happy to have you.

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Speaker 1: It's not too late.

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Speaker 2: Kat Richie, very important one the sixteen Days of Activism campaign.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, Peter McKenna, Assistant Police Commissioner. Appreciate the time, mate,

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00:27:29,359 --> 00:27:30,080
Speaker 2: Thanks for having me.

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Speaker 1: This is the Fitz and Whibber with Cape Ritchie Podcast.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to read some quotes to you and I

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Speaker 1: just want a bit of an idea of what you

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Speaker 1: might think about them, and get involved if you if

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Speaker 1: you're listening, the difference between privacy and secrecy and whether

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Speaker 1: it's okay to tell white lies or maybe keep things

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Speaker 1: from your partner. Has it caused you big problems in

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Speaker 1: the past.

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Speaker 3: My general rule is a white lie day or for

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Speaker 3: a week.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's right. Yeah, how's that going for you?

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Speaker 3: Pretty good? I haven't been caught on quite often because

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Speaker 3: a woman.

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Speaker 1: I read this article about a woman and she was

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Speaker 1: sharing her thoughts on this. She describes herself as not

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Speaker 1: secretive but self contained.

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Speaker 2: That's nice.

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Speaker 3: It's almost like you've got all your little secrets in

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Speaker 3: a jar.

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Speaker 1: But then maybe they're not secrets. Maybe they are boundaries,

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Speaker 1: she said. I think of it not so much as

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Speaker 1: being secretive, but as keeping some things private. She's been

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Speaker 1: in a relationship three years. She does keep some things

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Speaker 1: private from her or secret from her. I don't know

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00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:37,399
Speaker 1: which word to you, because they do imply very different things,

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Speaker 1: don't they. I look I okay, So.

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Speaker 2: Kate, Richie, you're married and you win lotto. You've won

641
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Speaker 2: two million dollars. Congratulations. I'd just like to privately hold

642
00:28:49,400 --> 00:28:51,880
Speaker 2: on to that. Is it a secret or is that

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00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:54,280
Speaker 2: just private information you don't feel like sharing with your partner.

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00:28:54,360 --> 00:28:57,440
Speaker 1: Well, that's a secret. That's a massive secret, and we

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Speaker 1: all know that they would.

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Speaker 2: Be sorry, Kate, now just to meet the privacy private

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Speaker 2: because I don't want anything to change.

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Speaker 1: I think it is important to have some things that

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Speaker 1: are private. And I do think early in relationships you

650
00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:15,520
Speaker 1: tend to overshare a bit and that can backfire. So

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Speaker 1: you sometimes then wish you hadn't said things because certain

652
00:29:20,320 --> 00:29:23,200
Speaker 1: things that may have been said, they just never go

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Speaker 1: away and it's not important information. But then when you

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Speaker 1: speak to other people who think that you should you

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Speaker 1: should share everything, and I find no, no, no, you

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Speaker 1: as in anyone that when you're in a relationship, a

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Speaker 1: relationship means that you tell each other everything. And I

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Speaker 1: don't think that's necessari it should should be the case.

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Speaker 1: There's another woman who said secrecy has implications of deceit,

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Speaker 1: so talking about privacy and secrecy meaning very different things.

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Speaker 1: So she said privacy is about choices about what you

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Speaker 1: might share. Yep, and that's okay.

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Speaker 2: You're just changing the wording. Do you know what, Kate, Richie,

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Speaker 2: there's a beach in Victoria on the morning to Peninsula

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Speaker 2: is a romance? No, but it's it's called safety Beach.

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Speaker 2: It used to be called Shark Bay. Didn't stop the

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Speaker 2: sharks coming. So if you want to take a line,

668
00:30:16,760 --> 00:30:18,720
Speaker 2: you want to give it another word or secrecy, and

669
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Speaker 2: you just want to call it personal information, it doesn't

670
00:30:21,960 --> 00:30:22,840
Speaker 2: stop the sharks.

671
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Speaker 1: Oh, I'm picking up what you're putting down. I didn't

672
00:30:29,880 --> 00:30:31,320
Speaker 1: realize you were going to go so hard on that

673
00:30:31,440 --> 00:30:33,320
Speaker 1: you should tell your partner everything. No, but I just

674
00:30:33,320 --> 00:30:36,400
Speaker 1: don't see you have little secret, little private thing.

675
00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:40,800
Speaker 3: Not one, not one. I haven't lied in I don't know.

676
00:30:41,960 --> 00:30:44,200
Speaker 1: But what do you call it? What do I call

677
00:30:44,240 --> 00:30:47,400
Speaker 1: a lie? Yeah? I just maybe you haven't lied, maybe

678
00:30:47,400 --> 00:30:49,680
Speaker 1: you've done something else. Let's ask Kathy and Saint John's Park.

679
00:30:49,720 --> 00:30:53,080
Speaker 1: Good morning, Kathy, Good morning guys. How are you too bad?

680
00:30:53,120 --> 00:30:53,760
Speaker 8: Do you keep?

681
00:30:54,000 --> 00:30:55,400
Speaker 1: Okay? No, you go, Kathy.

682
00:30:55,440 --> 00:30:57,160
Speaker 2: I just when Kate said, well, what do you call

683
00:30:57,160 --> 00:31:00,840
Speaker 2: a lie? It's not a it's not private information. It's

684
00:31:01,000 --> 00:31:04,080
Speaker 2: just sometimes people don't need to know everything.

685
00:31:04,520 --> 00:31:05,080
Speaker 3: Do you know what I mean?

686
00:31:05,120 --> 00:31:05,479
Speaker 8: Exactly?

687
00:31:05,880 --> 00:31:08,760
Speaker 9: I agree? Although I'm feeling really bad now listening to

688
00:31:08,800 --> 00:31:11,680
Speaker 9: what you were just saying. But mine's just a tiny

689
00:31:11,680 --> 00:31:14,120
Speaker 9: white lion. It's to do with music and concerts, so

690
00:31:14,200 --> 00:31:18,800
Speaker 9: I think it's relevant and okay. But a few years ago,

691
00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:22,080
Speaker 9: when Madonna came out, I'm a huge fan and I

692
00:31:22,120 --> 00:31:25,840
Speaker 9: wanted to see her front row so and my husband said, no,

693
00:31:26,200 --> 00:31:28,600
Speaker 9: you know, that price is ridiculous. So anyway, I told

694
00:31:28,680 --> 00:31:30,120
Speaker 9: him I was going with a group of friends and

695
00:31:30,120 --> 00:31:31,880
Speaker 9: that I was buying the tickets, you know, so we

696
00:31:31,920 --> 00:31:34,840
Speaker 9: could all sit together. But I spent almost one thousand

697
00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:37,480
Speaker 9: dollars on one ticket and it was just for me.

698
00:31:38,600 --> 00:31:41,200
Speaker 9: Oh wow, So I met with friends.

699
00:31:41,200 --> 00:31:44,320
Speaker 2: Interesting one thousand dollars for one ticket. That's not about

700
00:31:44,360 --> 00:31:46,400
Speaker 2: It depends. I mean if the family wasn't able to

701
00:31:46,440 --> 00:31:48,760
Speaker 2: eat a week later. That's one thing.

702
00:31:49,280 --> 00:31:51,520
Speaker 1: I do think people do a lot of secret spending out.

703
00:31:51,520 --> 00:31:52,400
Speaker 3: Oh my god, do that?

704
00:31:52,600 --> 00:31:55,440
Speaker 1: What about the people who buy clothes and things and

705
00:31:55,520 --> 00:31:58,240
Speaker 1: having delivered to work and then just start wearing a

706
00:31:58,280 --> 00:32:00,360
Speaker 1: brand new shirt and say they've had it?

707
00:32:00,320 --> 00:32:00,360
Speaker 10: It?

708
00:32:00,800 --> 00:32:00,960
Speaker 9: Is that?

709
00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:01,320
Speaker 2: What you do?

710
00:32:01,400 --> 00:32:01,840
Speaker 3: What have you got?

711
00:32:01,880 --> 00:32:02,200
Speaker 2: Tommy?

712
00:32:02,200 --> 00:32:03,600
Speaker 3: Does your wife do that on you?

713
00:32:03,640 --> 00:32:03,760
Speaker 2: No?

714
00:32:03,840 --> 00:32:04,760
Speaker 12: Brand new shirts?

715
00:32:06,000 --> 00:32:06,200
Speaker 9: Yeah?

716
00:32:06,200 --> 00:32:08,400
Speaker 12: But I think all people have like secret after pay

717
00:32:08,440 --> 00:32:10,760
Speaker 12: accounts and things like that, where they don't you know,

718
00:32:10,880 --> 00:32:12,280
Speaker 12: it's it's not as obvious.

719
00:32:12,320 --> 00:32:14,840
Speaker 1: Perhaps I don't think. No, I don't think. I mean,

720
00:32:14,960 --> 00:32:16,760
Speaker 1: I think it's okay to kind of have some just

721
00:32:16,800 --> 00:32:18,600
Speaker 1: some of your own. Like I said, I think it's

722
00:32:18,600 --> 00:32:21,680
Speaker 1: more about it's more about boundaries, and if you're in

723
00:32:21,720 --> 00:32:27,080
Speaker 1: a healthy relationship, a lot of information is okay, I

724
00:32:27,400 --> 00:32:32,480
Speaker 1: whereas sometimes unhealthy relationships, the more information people have about you,

725
00:32:32,480 --> 00:32:34,640
Speaker 1: you know, they can kind of they can use it

726
00:32:34,680 --> 00:32:37,960
Speaker 1: against you as well. I think that's the fear. Yeah, absolutely,

727
00:32:38,440 --> 00:32:43,600
Speaker 1: let's go to Francois in North Bridge. What are you doing?

728
00:32:43,720 --> 00:32:46,480
Speaker 1: What are you doing? That's sneaky Francois?

729
00:32:47,000 --> 00:32:51,120
Speaker 10: Well, so you know how it is possible to go

730
00:32:51,160 --> 00:32:54,040
Speaker 10: to Taylors Sift in Vancouver if you are willing to

731
00:32:54,120 --> 00:33:00,880
Speaker 10: spend the money and correct. I decided that it's something

732
00:33:00,920 --> 00:33:03,640
Speaker 10: I really wanted to do, and in Vancouver you can

733
00:33:04,120 --> 00:33:08,400
Speaker 10: buy the tickets on a retail site like stub hub. Anyway,

734
00:33:08,760 --> 00:33:12,320
Speaker 10: I've spent over ten thousand dollars to go.

735
00:33:12,800 --> 00:33:15,320
Speaker 1: To You're going to Vancouver? Does your partner not know?

736
00:33:16,600 --> 00:33:19,040
Speaker 10: He knows, he just doesn't know how much I've spell on.

737
00:33:19,080 --> 00:33:22,640
Speaker 1: Ticket, so you don't have joint accounts and things like that.

738
00:33:24,240 --> 00:33:26,400
Speaker 10: We do, but I can put it on a like

739
00:33:26,480 --> 00:33:26,920
Speaker 10: a work.

740
00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:29,640
Speaker 8: You know, you just have to see it.

741
00:33:29,800 --> 00:33:31,960
Speaker 2: So what was the price of Is that for two

742
00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:33,520
Speaker 2: tickets or ten k peers?

743
00:33:33,640 --> 00:33:36,720
Speaker 10: That's well, actually that's for four tickets that they're now

744
00:33:36,960 --> 00:33:38,760
Speaker 10: if you were to buy a ticket, they're at least

745
00:33:39,080 --> 00:33:41,800
Speaker 10: like minimum three and a half grand and those blues

746
00:33:42,320 --> 00:33:46,840
Speaker 10: per ticket. Ever wins this Taylor Swift Vancouver deal is

747
00:33:46,960 --> 00:33:49,120
Speaker 10: like just winning the outfit watering.

748
00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:51,080
Speaker 1: Well, it could be you and then maybe you could

749
00:33:51,120 --> 00:33:54,480
Speaker 1: sell your tickets for the thing is that's what you're trying.

750
00:33:54,920 --> 00:33:56,960
Speaker 1: So I know that's okay. I know you're just trying

751
00:33:56,960 --> 00:33:58,160
Speaker 1: to keep your relationship together.

752
00:33:58,520 --> 00:34:00,400
Speaker 3: But that's why you would also say this is a

753
00:34:00,440 --> 00:34:00,880
Speaker 3: once in a.

754
00:34:00,960 --> 00:34:05,680
Speaker 10: Lifetime exactly, I'm taking my teenage daughter and oh my god,

755
00:34:06,000 --> 00:34:08,720
Speaker 10: I won't even tell you how much the accommodation is over.

756
00:34:08,600 --> 00:34:11,000
Speaker 2: There as well, it doesn't matter, do you know what

757
00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:13,439
Speaker 2: you're paying for. You're investing in memories that you will

758
00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:14,600
Speaker 2: have forever.

759
00:34:14,680 --> 00:34:15,640
Speaker 8: You don't have to tell me.

760
00:34:16,560 --> 00:34:19,839
Speaker 2: Tomorrow is guaranteed to know one Kate Richie. So we

761
00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:22,160
Speaker 2: take what we can when we can. That is the

762
00:34:22,200 --> 00:34:25,560
Speaker 2: best money you will ever spend. Oh my god, I.

763
00:34:25,560 --> 00:34:27,799
Speaker 1: Don't feel bad about it, or do feel bad about it.

764
00:34:27,840 --> 00:34:29,480
Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm saying out of it. I don't

765
00:34:29,520 --> 00:34:30,600
Speaker 1: know whose side I'm on now.

766
00:34:30,719 --> 00:34:32,480
Speaker 2: If he leaves you, it gets a bit true.

767
00:34:33,400 --> 00:34:36,359
Speaker 4: The Fitsy and with A with Kate Richie podcast.

768
00:34:36,920 --> 00:34:40,359
Speaker 2: This is an interesting Tom Hanks. You might know him?

769
00:34:40,840 --> 00:34:41,799
Speaker 2: Why would you know him?

770
00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:45,000
Speaker 3: Oh? That's right. His wife bought COVID here back.

771
00:34:44,800 --> 00:34:48,960
Speaker 2: In sort of late twenty nineteen, is it, Prida Wilson. Yeah,

772
00:34:49,000 --> 00:34:50,759
Speaker 2: which was good of her. That was the celebrity strain

773
00:34:50,840 --> 00:34:53,200
Speaker 2: that a lot of people tried to get and then

774
00:34:53,640 --> 00:34:55,319
Speaker 2: sort of pete it out and we got a lot

775
00:34:55,320 --> 00:34:56,680
Speaker 2: of the common stuff, which was annoying.

776
00:34:56,719 --> 00:34:58,279
Speaker 1: Yeah. I guess if you're going to get COVID, you

777
00:34:58,320 --> 00:34:59,840
Speaker 1: want the special variety.

778
00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:03,600
Speaker 2: Yes, because I think the beautiful celebrity link was from

779
00:35:03,680 --> 00:35:07,479
Speaker 2: his wife Freda to Richard Wilkins and then to every

780
00:35:07,520 --> 00:35:11,040
Speaker 2: female in Sydney. So I think that's naturally sort of

781
00:35:11,080 --> 00:35:11,919
Speaker 2: how it got out.

782
00:35:12,040 --> 00:35:14,400
Speaker 1: Do I think Richard likes you talking about him like that?

783
00:35:14,719 --> 00:35:16,520
Speaker 2: I love him. I love that man, My god, I

784
00:35:16,560 --> 00:35:19,040
Speaker 2: love that man. Tom Hanks has come out and he's

785
00:35:19,040 --> 00:35:23,040
Speaker 2: spoken about the most challenging age to be in your

786
00:35:23,080 --> 00:35:24,880
Speaker 2: life because he's a little bit older now. I think

787
00:35:24,920 --> 00:35:27,799
Speaker 2: he's sixty seven or something like that, and he was

788
00:35:27,880 --> 00:35:31,560
Speaker 2: talking about the age that is the trickiest, where your

789
00:35:31,560 --> 00:35:34,520
Speaker 2: body changes, you change, your hands are full. There's a

790
00:35:34,560 --> 00:35:36,680
Speaker 2: lot going on in your life. Have a listen to this.

791
00:35:37,320 --> 00:35:39,880
Speaker 3: Look, I'm sixty eight years old.

792
00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:43,720
Speaker 13: The hardest for us was when we were playing thirty five.

793
00:35:43,920 --> 00:35:48,160
Speaker 13: That time where your metabolism stops, gravity starts tearing you down,

794
00:35:48,239 --> 00:35:51,319
Speaker 13: your bone starts wearing off, You stand differently. I think

795
00:35:51,360 --> 00:35:53,759
Speaker 13: I'm in better shape now because my kids are grown up.

796
00:35:53,760 --> 00:35:56,239
Speaker 13: I'm getting decent exercise and I can eat right. You

797
00:35:56,239 --> 00:35:58,719
Speaker 13: can't do that when you're thirty five. Life is such

798
00:35:58,800 --> 00:35:59,320
Speaker 13: a burden.

799
00:36:00,440 --> 00:36:02,799
Speaker 2: When I'm listening to I was eleven years ago for

800
00:36:02,840 --> 00:36:05,320
Speaker 2: your Careagie, you're.

801
00:36:05,200 --> 00:36:07,319
Speaker 3: Eleven years past it.

802
00:36:07,400 --> 00:36:09,680
Speaker 1: Oh, thirty five, I thought you were saying I was

803
00:36:09,719 --> 00:36:12,680
Speaker 1: in my sixties. All I was imagining when I was

804
00:36:12,719 --> 00:36:17,279
Speaker 1: listening to that that clip was Woody. It was like

805
00:36:17,360 --> 00:36:21,000
Speaker 1: Woody was yelling at me. What a recognizable voice. I mean,

806
00:36:21,040 --> 00:36:24,400
Speaker 1: I get it. Thirty five probably is quite a tough

807
00:36:24,520 --> 00:36:26,399
Speaker 1: old age. He can be more selfish now.

808
00:36:26,640 --> 00:36:28,839
Speaker 2: I reckon if anybody's listening and they've got kids at

809
00:36:28,840 --> 00:36:31,680
Speaker 2: home and they've got a job, and they're trying to

810
00:36:31,680 --> 00:36:34,600
Speaker 2: put a meal on the table, like anybody, they think

811
00:36:34,680 --> 00:36:37,640
Speaker 2: about the day when they've got time on their hands,

812
00:36:37,680 --> 00:36:40,400
Speaker 2: like they're dreaming about the time when they go. You know,

813
00:36:41,360 --> 00:36:43,120
Speaker 2: I'm going to wake up when I want to wake up,

814
00:36:43,560 --> 00:36:46,400
Speaker 2: And the responsibility of doing something for the children that

815
00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:49,600
Speaker 2: morning doesn't exist because they're eighteen now, as much as

816
00:36:49,680 --> 00:36:52,440
Speaker 2: I love them when they were younger. There's something nice

817
00:36:52,440 --> 00:36:54,640
Speaker 2: to say. I can focus on myself.

818
00:36:54,719 --> 00:36:55,719
Speaker 3: Do you know what I'm going to do.

819
00:36:55,840 --> 00:36:56,680
Speaker 1: Maybe it doesn't end.

820
00:36:56,719 --> 00:36:59,560
Speaker 3: I'm going to do something crazy, Kate, I'm going to

821
00:36:59,600 --> 00:37:01,360
Speaker 3: do something for myself.

822
00:37:02,520 --> 00:37:04,759
Speaker 1: But then you talk to people with adult children and

823
00:37:05,080 --> 00:37:07,719
Speaker 1: it doesn't They don't grow up and leave home. Well,

824
00:37:07,719 --> 00:37:09,800
Speaker 1: they need to leave home still packing their lunch.

825
00:37:09,840 --> 00:37:12,760
Speaker 2: When I started talking about that and painting that picture

826
00:37:12,800 --> 00:37:14,839
Speaker 2: of when you can wake up by yourself and do

827
00:37:14,960 --> 00:37:18,200
Speaker 2: something for yourself, Tommy smiled. He started to dream. He

828
00:37:18,320 --> 00:37:21,120
Speaker 2: was off in a world that he doesn't believe will

829
00:37:21,160 --> 00:37:22,080
Speaker 2: ever exist for it.

830
00:37:22,280 --> 00:37:26,520
Speaker 12: On the weekend, I nearly read a page of a book. Yeah,

831
00:37:27,040 --> 00:37:29,560
Speaker 12: I got really close. I nearly read one, nearly read one,

832
00:37:29,600 --> 00:37:33,320
Speaker 12: and then interrupted by the kids again, So I knew.

833
00:37:33,520 --> 00:37:36,880
Speaker 2: I nearly sat down for five minutes on a couch

834
00:37:37,480 --> 00:37:39,799
Speaker 2: on the weekend, and when I sat down it was

835
00:37:39,800 --> 00:37:41,279
Speaker 2: about four minutes thirty two.

836
00:37:41,840 --> 00:37:44,040
Speaker 3: I nearly shut my eyes with the.

837
00:37:44,120 --> 00:37:47,560
Speaker 2: Dream of possibly drifting off before I was reminded that

838
00:37:47,840 --> 00:37:51,360
Speaker 2: I needed to do something, or play handball, or clean

839
00:37:51,440 --> 00:37:53,360
Speaker 2: up something, or move something from A to B.

840
00:37:53,880 --> 00:37:55,320
Speaker 3: I nearly had that moment.

841
00:37:55,520 --> 00:37:58,920
Speaker 1: One day, They're going to stop asking you to play handful.

842
00:37:59,280 --> 00:38:01,080
Speaker 1: I have thought that too, when you're sitting on the

843
00:38:01,080 --> 00:38:08,520
Speaker 1: ground playing with barbies, thinking, but it's not going to

844
00:38:08,600 --> 00:38:09,279
Speaker 1: last for ever.

845
00:38:09,480 --> 00:38:11,440
Speaker 2: To the point now that when we play family, you know,

846
00:38:11,560 --> 00:38:13,440
Speaker 2: I'm trying to help them win because I don't want

847
00:38:13,440 --> 00:38:16,040
Speaker 2: to play anymore because there's bed Tom guys, and I

848
00:38:16,160 --> 00:38:19,799
Speaker 2: just want hello, Hello, Beck, Hi Beck.

849
00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:22,600
Speaker 3: What is the worst age to be?

850
00:38:23,000 --> 00:38:25,480
Speaker 10: Got to be seventeen when your friends are all eighteen

851
00:38:25,560 --> 00:38:26,520
Speaker 10: finishing high school?

852
00:38:27,719 --> 00:38:28,640
Speaker 5: Oh joined them?

853
00:38:29,520 --> 00:38:30,839
Speaker 3: So you were the younger one in the year.

854
00:38:31,640 --> 00:38:34,160
Speaker 10: Yeah, going to school is and you weren't able to

855
00:38:34,360 --> 00:38:35,520
Speaker 10: go to all the same places.

856
00:38:36,840 --> 00:38:40,400
Speaker 1: Life's ahead of you at that age. What's your thirty seven?

857
00:38:40,480 --> 00:38:44,440
Speaker 1: That's apparently the age that Tom Hanks thinks is the worst.

858
00:38:44,560 --> 00:38:48,480
Speaker 1: Where where do you think it's sitting for you? Look

859
00:38:48,840 --> 00:38:49,360
Speaker 1: before he is?

860
00:38:49,360 --> 00:38:53,200
Speaker 10: Are approaching fast, so it's eye opening.

861
00:38:53,800 --> 00:38:55,359
Speaker 3: How's gravity going for you? Beck?

862
00:38:56,560 --> 00:38:57,279
Speaker 9: It's holding on.

863
00:38:57,960 --> 00:38:59,839
Speaker 1: It's just nice.

864
00:39:00,160 --> 00:39:02,440
Speaker 2: It's ripping the hell out of you, Christie, isn't it?

865
00:39:02,680 --> 00:39:04,880
Speaker 2: Part of gravity is just I've.

866
00:39:04,680 --> 00:39:06,440
Speaker 3: Never seen weight like it in my life.

867
00:39:06,480 --> 00:39:07,840
Speaker 2: It's pulling, it's.

868
00:39:07,640 --> 00:39:10,080
Speaker 3: Pulling Art and my right sisters.

869
00:39:10,840 --> 00:39:11,880
Speaker 2: Hey, we're in this together.

870
00:39:12,080 --> 00:39:15,200
Speaker 1: I actually think when you speak about gravity, you're only

871
00:39:15,200 --> 00:39:18,319
Speaker 1: allowed to speak about your own levels gravity. It's best

872
00:39:18,400 --> 00:39:19,719
Speaker 1: not how would you describe it?

873
00:39:19,760 --> 00:39:19,920
Speaker 9: Then?

874
00:39:20,080 --> 00:39:26,319
Speaker 1: My gravity? I'm fine. I'm so cool with all of it.

875
00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:31,839
Speaker 2: Fixing Whippa with Kate Ritchie is a Nova podcast walk

876
00:39:31,880 --> 00:39:32,879
Speaker 2: great shows like this.

877
00:39:33,200 --> 00:39:36,320
Speaker 1: Download the Nova player, fight the app store, or Google

878
00:39:36,360 --> 00:39:36,840
Speaker 1: Playing the